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HE'S A RED FLAG BUT..... · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables.
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  Speaker 2: My last one, he's a red flag butt that tongue.
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  Speaker 1: Oh really, what tongue can do that?
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  Speaker 3: I reckon it could look at Colin love other Yeah, yeah, God.
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  Speaker 1: All right, baddies, welcome back to week number two of
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  Speaker 1: The Baddest Baddie, where we are highlighting the real engines
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  Speaker 1: behind business, the women doing amazing things. We are trying
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  Speaker 1: to use our platform to showcase the baddies. You guys,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna see your wins, your progress, and your growth
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  Speaker 1: to inspire others and let them and their stories shine
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  Speaker 1: because we don't want the achievements to go unseen.
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  Speaker 2: And Jake, I'm excited, very very excited for this week.
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  Speaker 2: Let's quickly give a recap what happened two weeks ago
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  Speaker 2: previously on Relatables Badest Baddie.
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  Speaker 4: Mister Chelsea, how.
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  Speaker 2: Are you going? Welcome to the Baddest Baddie, Hey, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: Business has been tough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like we're just pressing the same floor
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  Speaker 1: button every day.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's time we hit a new level.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but what's something actually innovative? Well, now that you talk.
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  Speaker 4: About it, guys, innovative business montagne.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously, we then heard from contestant number two.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, speaking Taylor, It's Jake and Oddie from the Relatables.
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  Speaker 1: How are you good?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you?
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  Speaker 1: How are you so good? Welcome to the Baddest Baddy, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: Business has been tough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like we're just pressing the same floor
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  Speaker 1: button every day.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's time we hit a new level.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but something actually innovative.
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  Speaker 5: If you don't mind, may I intercept?
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  Speaker 1: Of course?
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  Speaker 4: Of course, I believe.
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  Speaker 5: You're on the right path here. I believe people would strive.
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  Speaker 5: We should always say yes to any opportunity we're given.
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  Speaker 5: And as you said, it is tough and it can
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  Speaker 5: be uncomfortable personally. At twenty I moved to a population
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  Speaker 5: of eight hundred community and I knew nothing. I have
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  Speaker 5: no experience. I learned everything as I went, and the
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  Speaker 5: nearest city was twelve hours away. I've just said, yes,
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  Speaker 5: that's all I did, and learn and adapt And sometimes
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  Speaker 5: learning and adapting give you the skills. Honestly, no plan could.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Jack, now we are all caught up. Before
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  Speaker 2: we jump into our first caller, let's just quickly give
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  Speaker 2: a little bit of a description of what she's been to.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Her name is Grace and she is the ambassador for
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  Speaker 2: New South Wales our Packer Youth, our Packers, our Packers,
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  Speaker 2: which is cool. I'm intrigued to hear more.
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  Speaker 1: Our packers. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Her hustle story is to raise awareness and provide hands
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  Speaker 2: on experiences for our packers through workshops, camps, big guest speakers,
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  Speaker 2: all whilst building a community for the youth to thrive.
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  Speaker 2: And her Baddest Baddie moment was being part of the
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  Speaker 2: youth program forming connections and lifelong friends, which then progressed
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  Speaker 2: into becoming a mentor for the next generation to pass
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  Speaker 2: on the skills she has learnt in the program. Grace,
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  Speaker 2: You're a real baddie. I'm intrigued to hear her story,
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  Speaker 2: so have I. Let's get some more information from her
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  Speaker 2: and give her a ring.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, go speaking.
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  Speaker 2: Hello Grace, It's jaking Ody from the Relatables podcast. How's
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  Speaker 2: it going?
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  Speaker 4: Oh good? Thanks? How are you guys going really good?
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Baddest.
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  Speaker 4: Battie Oh thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Are you excited to be here?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: I am so excited. I love talking about our packers
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  Speaker 4: all the time.
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  Speaker 2: But do you want to give a brief rundown in
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  Speaker 2: your own words of basically everything the vibe, because it
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  Speaker 2: seems like, yeah, pack is at the base for a
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  Speaker 2: beautiful community. Is that right?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: It is it is.
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  Speaker 4: I literally we are sharing out on a mob here.
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  Speaker 4: But I have my best our paka bestie here that
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  Speaker 4: I met through the US Group. It's such a great
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  Speaker 4: so many people that we all make friends with, and
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  Speaker 4: it's great especially for like real people, because you don't
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  Speaker 4: make a lot of friends out where there's quite a
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  Speaker 4: bit far from town. So it's a good way to
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  Speaker 4: bring people in and just get off the farce. But
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  Speaker 4: so the US Group, we don't just this for everyone.
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  Speaker 4: So I started in Sydney and I grew up in
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  Speaker 4: there and from there I've made a career. But it's
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  Speaker 4: basically there's a committee of us and we run shows,
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  Speaker 4: we want workshops, and our big thing coming up is
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  Speaker 4: that we run an annual camp every year. So at
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  Speaker 4: our camp, we have people even coming from wa and
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  Speaker 4: Victoria to come. We've got special speechers, some really leaders
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  Speaker 4: in the industry coming and we just have a lot
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  Speaker 4: of fun things planned. But yeah, it's a great way
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  Speaker 4: to teach people about our packers because Our packers are
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  Speaker 4: just so much fun. Honestly, they're very unique, so we
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  Speaker 4: just we're very passionate about it. So we just want
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  Speaker 4: everyone to be as passionate as we are.
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  Speaker 2: And what did you to our packers? Initially like coming
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  Speaker 2: from a backdoor farming.
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  Speaker 4: No, so I grew up in the stopln Shi actually,
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  Speaker 4: but my high school had some our packers and they
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  Speaker 4: came from a place that they were be involved with
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  Speaker 4: the U. So I started coming to competitions with a
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  Speaker 4: lot of us started from schools. But you don't have
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  Speaker 4: to come from a school. You can just be an
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  Speaker 4: independent person come in to compete, and then they just
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  Speaker 4: kind of hook everyone in and you people join the communities.
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  Speaker 4: They run shows, and it's really great because you get
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  Speaker 4: to see a full circle moment because I was a
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  Speaker 4: little kids doing all this. Now I'm running it, and
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  Speaker 4: I see little kids that barely can touch in our factors.
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  Speaker 4: They're so scared, and now they're running competitions with me.
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  Speaker 4: They're doing big workshops and running all this stuff. So
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  Speaker 4: it's really great to make a community, get your confidence
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  Speaker 4: and stuff and have a special spot like it makes
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  Speaker 4: you kind of important. So it's yeah, it's a really
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  Speaker 4: great thing. I love it so much.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to say that sounds so sick.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, circol And what does your day to day look
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  Speaker 2: like or maybe even a week of the activities you
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  Speaker 2: do within the whole founding?
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  Speaker 4: So through the youth group, we do monthly meetings to
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  Speaker 4: kind of plan things and then depending well you can
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  Speaker 4: you can just be there to have your contribute, or
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  Speaker 4: you can just come to competitions or come to camp,
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  Speaker 4: or you can get more involved. But I actually work
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  Speaker 4: on an our pack of farms, so my day to
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  Speaker 4: day is I look after all male packers. We're got
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  Speaker 4: four days of shearing right now, so it's very very busy.
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  Speaker 4: I'm literally running around the shed. But yeah, it's honestly
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  Speaker 4: so much fun. I recommend anyone we've got social I
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  Speaker 4: run all the social media, so we have a TikTok
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  Speaker 4: and a Facebook and an Instagram page, so we put
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  Speaker 4: up all the information about that for camp, for any
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  Speaker 4: competitions coming up. We run lots Sydney base so they
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  Speaker 4: won't be too far for a lot of people to
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  Speaker 4: travel to. But I'm up in Golden I'm running Golden One.
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  Speaker 2: We have some hunter so you're busy.
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  Speaker 4: It keeps me entertained.
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  Speaker 2: And what are all the social channels if people want
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  Speaker 2: to check them out?
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  Speaker 4: So they're mostly all called just our pack of youth,
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  Speaker 4: our packer underscore Youth. The TikTok is just my little
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  Speaker 4: fun project. Just hit four hundred followers. Pretty let's go,
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  Speaker 4: oh gosh, that would be wild. But if you really
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  Speaker 4: the TikTok is just for shoot our packer pitches. I
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  Speaker 4: have this beautiful little career and I just keep posting
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  Speaker 4: ther so so sick.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's it?
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  Speaker 2: I want to know? What's a baby outpacker like? Is
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  Speaker 2: it like the cutest thing ever? It is like a
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  Speaker 2: puppy on Oh, it's so cute.
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  Speaker 4: And they get these little zoomies and they bounced around
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  Speaker 4: and would run around and oh and they have perfect
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  Speaker 4: little cuddle slide. You can just pick them up and
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  Speaker 4: snuggle them. They're amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Well okay, great, Well after all that, how are you
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  Speaker 2: feeling and are you ready to compete in the Baddest
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  Speaker 2: Baddy Challenge?
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  Speaker 4: I am so ready. I want to promote the use group,
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  Speaker 4: so I'm all in. I'm all in.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So today's challenge, as I already told you, is
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  Speaker 2: to respond to a common workplace problem via email. So
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  Speaker 2: when this call ends, Jake and I will email you
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  Speaker 2: from our email, the one you supplied, and you've got
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  Speaker 2: fifteen minutes to reply to the best of your ability
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  Speaker 2: and with it. It's very broad spectrum, so you can
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  Speaker 2: add in pretend it's like working in an I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: an outpack of company. Yeah, but it's a very broad spectrum,
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  Speaker 2: so just do your best.
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  Speaker 4: Oh sounds good. I've got fifteen minutes before we start
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  Speaker 4: sharing good farming boys.
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  Speaker 2: Perfect, perfect, So we are going to hang up right
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  Speaker 2: now and send this email through and then at the
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  Speaker 2: end we're going to read your response to all the
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  Speaker 2: baddies and the baddies will vote who is going through
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  Speaker 2: to the next round.
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  Speaker 4: Oh sounds great. I hope the baddies all have a
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  Speaker 4: great day to day as well. Smile everyone, It is
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  Speaker 4: important to smile.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you zero.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Baddie number two four today is Sarah Matthews. She's
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  Speaker 1: the actual she's an author and author. We have a
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  Speaker 1: baddie that is an author and author.
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  Speaker 2: That's a cool title.
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  Speaker 1: Her book is called My Mental Health Toolkit, a Recovery Guide.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So before we jump into the Core with Sarah.
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  Speaker 1: We have her hustle story and her Baudest Baddie moment,
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  Speaker 1: and we just wanted to say her story is very
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  Speaker 1: it's quite inspiring, and so we'll touch on it briefly,
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  Speaker 1: but it's going to come on the on the core
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  Speaker 1: with her. It'll sound very good come from her, we
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  Speaker 1: think so her hustle story. I used to be extremely
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  Speaker 1: unwell with my mental health and handmade a book during
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  Speaker 1: that time I could refer to when I was struggling
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  Speaker 1: with a lot of basic mental health skills to help
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  Speaker 1: on my road to recovery. Once I was doing a
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  Speaker 1: lot better, I started working with a mental health organization
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  Speaker 1: and with Dame Sue Bagshaw, mental health legend in New Zealand.
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  Speaker 1: Her and a few others saw my handmade book at
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  Speaker 1: the presentations and suggested I publish it. So long story short,
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  Speaker 1: I self published this book and sold out my first
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  Speaker 1: print run of one hundred and fifty in two months.
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  Speaker 1: Do another print run of one hundred and fifty and
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  Speaker 1: sold that in three months. Now I have a print
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  Speaker 1: run of two thousand, and I've sold about a thousand
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  Speaker 1: of them in the past year or two. Where author
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  Speaker 1: Whow bad is Badie moment being asked back to my
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  Speaker 1: old school to speak on mental health, where I attended
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  Speaker 1: as a student six years before. Schools and health services
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  Speaker 1: have been buying my book my Mental Health Toolkit, A
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  Speaker 1: Recovery Guard, as a tool to use with those struggling.
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  Speaker 1: Beyond that, I've started studying counseling and training with the
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  Speaker 1: New Zealand Beach and Indoor Handball Team PS. The Girl's
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  Speaker 1: last podcast were so incredible and fully feel I need
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  Speaker 1: to up my game after hearing them.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know about that, Sarah, Come on, author,
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  Speaker 2: that's such a cool title. That's up like doctors author author. Alright,
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  Speaker 2: let's give her a ring.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, you're speaking Sarah. It's Jake and Oddie from Latables.
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  Speaker 1: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 6: I am good, but freece?
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  Speaker 1: How are you? Guys?
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  Speaker 2: Very very good?
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  Speaker 1: You say you're freaked.
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  Speaker 6: I said, I'm good, but scres.
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  Speaker 2: Oh stress stress fair enough? Fair enough? Why are you stressed?
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  Speaker 6: Because I listened to the podcast, of course, but the
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  Speaker 6: Girl from not the today's episode but last week.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks?
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  Speaker 6: What incredible?
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  Speaker 1: You're incredible?
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  Speaker 2: Incredible?
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: We just read your hustle story in.
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  Speaker 1: Your baddest Baddy moment and wanted to say huge, congratulations, very.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: So how has it been you said that you now
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  Speaker 1: you've sold one thousand of the two thousand print run
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  Speaker 1: for your book. Yeah, how's that going?
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  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's going good. I think it just amazes
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  Speaker 6: me every time that I like get a message or
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  Speaker 6: someone ordering it. I'm still in the process of sitting
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  Speaker 6: up a website, so I'm doing it through an organization
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  Speaker 6: that I work with, And every time I get a
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  Speaker 6: message being like, hey, we'd love to buy your book,
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  Speaker 6: or I speaking at Evingt and I go, this book
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  Speaker 6: is amazing. Can I get one? I'm just it blows
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  Speaker 6: my mind. That's something that I made to help my
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  Speaker 6: own mental health is now helping a whole lot of others.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, that is so so cool. So when you
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  Speaker 1: get the website made, is it going to be your
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  Speaker 1: own website or can we send such people to is
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  Speaker 1: it the organization's website?
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  Speaker 6: So it'd be I've send people at the moment just
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  Speaker 6: to the organization that I work with, Collaborative Trust. It's
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  Speaker 6: I run presentations through then on mental health topics. But
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  Speaker 6: I've got a little less singe off my book on
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  Speaker 6: there that you can order it. Otherwise, hopefully in the
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  Speaker 6: next few weeks I'll get a website up and running.
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  Speaker 1: So right now, best way to order the book is
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  Speaker 1: through that website you just said. And it is called
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  Speaker 1: My Mental Health Toolkit, a Recovery Guide. Correct.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, that is correct.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, very very nice. I wanted to ask too, actually,
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  Speaker 2: when you were going through our hard time and writing
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  Speaker 2: this book, what inspired you to take the steps? I
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  Speaker 2: guess not getting too much into what was going on,
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  Speaker 2: but what inspired you to take the first initial steps
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  Speaker 2: to write this book and have some tips to help yourself,
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  Speaker 2: which in a result has helped other people.
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  Speaker 6: So actually, at that point, I was at a residential
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  Speaker 6: program like a living program up in Auckland Stylum and
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  Speaker 6: christ Church for Us in New Zealand for us up
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  Speaker 6: in Auckland, and we were doing all of these skills
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  Speaker 6: and learning all these things that could help and I
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  Speaker 6: need him in one place, and part of programs that
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  Speaker 6: they actually encourage people to make like a little book.
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  Speaker 6: Not too many people actually did it, but I was like,
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to do it because I think I've just
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  Speaker 6: been going into such a circle of my mental health.
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  Speaker 6: Is there going through the hospital system getting worse and
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  Speaker 6: then going I need to get better and that thing's
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  Speaker 6: not really working out. So I was like, what can
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  Speaker 6: I do that? Really I can keep referring to yeah, which.
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  Speaker 2: I guess was that which is really really good? And
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  Speaker 2: what do you see the trajectory or what are your
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  Speaker 2: goals for the future. Is it to release more books,
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  Speaker 2: or to inspire more people or just be a supportive outlet.
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  Speaker 6: I guess I just love to keep being able to
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  Speaker 6: speak hope and to others that are struggling. There is
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  Speaker 6: one of the key things. To get my book out there,
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  Speaker 6: of course is great, but it's just to provide that
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  Speaker 6: as a resource to others. I think eventually I'd love
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  Speaker 6: to make more books. I'd love to like fire a
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  Speaker 6: big goal, but work in with some today Emori and
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  Speaker 6: their culture and link up with a Mulori host health
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  Speaker 6: model which is fast and I think I'm missed up
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  Speaker 6: the pronunciation a bit there, but really linked man with
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  Speaker 6: like the culture of but also looking at making the
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  Speaker 6: book for once more for people with ADHD or streaming
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  Speaker 6: and like zooming in on like anxiety or depression key
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  Speaker 6: thing since at the moment it is quite a wide
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  Speaker 6: angle for anyone that's just struggling.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I think it's really good.
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  Speaker 1: And the study of goals, Yeah, that's got to have
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  Speaker 1: big goals. It's a great goal. And you're studying counseling
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  Speaker 1: right now.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, I am nice.
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  Speaker 1: And do you do you enjoy that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: I'm really loving it. I originally was studying psychology at
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  Speaker 6: UC but just found the big organization style wasn't worth
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  Speaker 6: really working for me and with my mental health, took
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  Speaker 6: for meisstra off and then actually started studying at a
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  Speaker 6: smaller college and I've been loving it.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's amazing, which is great, So you'll hand it
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  Speaker 1: over to you. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So we are now onto the Baddest Baddy Challenge. How
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  Speaker 2: are you feeling in regards to competing?
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  Speaker 6: I yeah, good, I think Yeah, I'm locked in.
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  Speaker 7: I'm really email okay, So what's going to happen is
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  Speaker 7: you're actually competing against a New South Wales ourpacker youth worker.
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  Speaker 2: So it is a very very different world to what
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  Speaker 2: you're in. So for the challenge and the email, we've
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  Speaker 2: had to go super broad spectrum. But what's going to
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  Speaker 2: happen from here is we're going to hang up the call,
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  Speaker 2: send you an email and you will have fifteen minutes
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  Speaker 2: to respond. From there, Jake and I will read the
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  Speaker 2: responses and we'll pose it to the baddies to vote
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  Speaker 2: who had a better email response and have a bit
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  Speaker 2: of fun with it. It's very lighthearted and do your.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, thank you guys.
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  Speaker 2: No worries at all. Check that inbox. We'll be emailing
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  Speaker 2: you shortly. Thank you bye. Okay, baddies. You might be
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  Speaker 2: wondering what we just email the two competitors, so here
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  Speaker 2: it is. They had to respond to this email. The
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  Speaker 2: subject draft a friendly reminder email about the lunch thief. Hi, baddie,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: hope you are doing great today. I have a quick
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: task that i'd like your help with. Could you draft
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: a short company wide email that reminds everyone about not
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: stealing anyone's lunches. We've noticed a bit of a reoccurring
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: lunch thief situation in the staff lounge and we'd like
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: to address it with a friendly tone. Feel free to
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: add a touch of humor if you think it will
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: land well, but the main goal is this too, just
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: a polite nudge so everyone is a little bit more mindful.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Thanks a ton for handling this, handling this best relatables.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: So fingers Crossed can delegate well and get some good responses.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: Because that is not something that we could word.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: We would get chatchabety to do it and hopefully the
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: parties don't get chat. So stay tuned to the end
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: of the episode because we will be reading the email responses.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Then and you guys can vote. Yep, Welcome in to
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: the episode. Badies couldn't we couldn't resist. We had We
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: had started off with a bang.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: A big bang, but we're back normal episode as follows.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Yes, so last week we talked about oh no, I
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: showed on your video of my car.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: There was a lot of comments saying, Jay, get a
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: new car. Really, yeah, it's a it's a it's a need,
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: not a one. That's what I have been I have
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: been saying, it's become a need not a one, because
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: of all, you always kind of want a new car.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: You do me today, How was it fine? Okay, yeah,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: that was fine. It was also fine when I did
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: drive last week. It just was that thirty seconds of
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: crazy noise.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: You were playing laughter all that right now? Yeah, yeah,
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: no work, you gotta get it.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: So we said we would both go find some vehicles
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: and then bring them. But I want to tell you
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: guys a quick story about what Oddie and I did
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: last week. So straight away, like as soon as I like,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: it's like we said, it's a need, not a one,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: so the the decision has been made that I need
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: and to get a new car, so I'm actively looking.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Straight away, we go and we start looking, and then
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure, like day of recording that episode, Oudie
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: and I find some just stick ones. We find like
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: couple cars were sending into each other and shit, and
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god. I was like, what about
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: the segment we kind of just started. I'm gonna go
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: get a new cover for it even starts holy crap,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: and then we were like fucking who cares whatever whatever.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: So Wednesday, no, we're.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Going to be like, if you get one, we'll surprise
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: about it exactly.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, So Monday we recall that episode. Wednesday, its
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: two days later. Oddie and I throughout the last the
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: two days are sending each other cars back and forth.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Oddie sends me an insane one Okay, Suzuki Jimney Sierra
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: twenty thirteen manual Petrol one hundred and thirty seven thousand
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: k's on the advertisement, right, nice and low sinking bargain. Okay,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: we call the bloke legend. I'm gonna give him shout at.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: His name's Peter. He's actually very nice guy. Yeah, all right.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: I talked to Peter on the phone.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I'm like, he it does not even photos of it
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: on car sales yet. He just has like a random
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: photo op and he just got the stats of the
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: car up. And I call him and he goes, yeah,
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: like I haven't even had a chance to get it cleaned,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: you know. So we're talking back and forth and he says, look,
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: I'm getting it detailed tomorrow. I'm cleaning up the wheels,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: and I'm getting it ozoned, which is smell. Now, he said,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: the only there's only been one previous owner, and it
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: was an elderly woman. And so I'm thinking ticking boxes
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: left and right.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Every single box is being ticked.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Every single box has been ticked.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Ks one female owner who's old.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: The dream because these cars are full drives, and they're
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: predominantly kind of really treated badly.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: They get treated poorly because people take them out on
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: the beach. They're taking full drive and they rough them up, ye,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: because that's what you're supposed to do with it. But
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: when you buy one, you don't want that to have happened.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: So you want to buy one that has been drivened
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: by an elderly woman, all the services are in check
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: and everything like that. And so I call him on
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: that phone. Goal he goes, okay, let me. He goes,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I got about ten people would just absolutly kill my
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: head about this thing, you know, having him got a
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: fully up on the cartels yet, And so I said, yeah, yeah, yeah, fair.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: He goes, he's like, okay, let me think. Let me
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: give you a price. He's like, I'll give you thirteen
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: and five. You had it up for fourteen five then,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: probably just trying to make him sound like he's always
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: going to take thirty and five. So but he says
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: thirty and five. I say, mate, done. He goes, if
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: you put a two hundred dollar a posit on it today,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I'll take I'll say it's sold, and I'll tell everyone
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: to bugger off.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: And I say it's about two thousand dollars under market value,
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: maybe fifteen hundred, one hundred percent market value, So.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: It's a barget, right, and I'm like, fuck it, sorry, baddies,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: you're getting a new car reveal next week. Okay. So
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I put the two hundred dollars deposit down. He messages
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: me the next day. He's like teasing me with like
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: saying it looks like beautiful. He's not sending me photos,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: and I was like, mane, you've got to send me photos.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: He sends me a few beautiful. He goes nine, am Woolengong,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: see you there or something like that. He's like, he says,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I'm in Woongong Saturday. She's ready for you to take
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: and so I said, sweet, that's an hour and a
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: half from where Beth and I live. So Saturday comes,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: we take the journey down. We get there. To be fair,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: she looks beautiful. I meet Peter, nice guy, all right,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: and he's like yeah, yeah, he's showing me things. Smells great.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: It smells like a new car, been clean and stuff,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: and then gives me the keys. You guys, all right,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: do you take it for a test drive? Best doesn't
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: come with me because she has dogs, so she's just
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: chilling out the dealership with the dogs. So I take
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: it for a chest drive on my own. I'm driving
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: first thing I noticed is when it goes into second gear,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: it's a bit rattally, right. All the other gears were sweet,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: but when you go into second gear and pull off
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: the clutch and then like rev for those who know
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: how to drive manual, like obviously you know what I mean,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: It's like it kind of felt like the whole car
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: just like shook a little bit. And I was like,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: that's obviously not right, but it could be fine. Yeah,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I was like willing to look past that. I was like,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I used to drive an old car like that kind
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: of happened. And then I'm driving and I see that
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: on the odometer it says two hundred thousand kilometers and
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I was like what the fuck? I was like, did
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: this guy? My head straight away goes, did this guy
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: put it up for one thirty seven? Because he was
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: gonna like put a drill on the fucking odometer and
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: reel it back to one thirty seven. He's just forgotten
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: to do it, or has he just done something wrong?
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Like has he done it on purpose? And he's trying
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: to get people to get here and just not give
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: a shit about it. And so I'm driving, I check
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: the I like check the the ad and I checked
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: the contract I signed, and so like, I signed this contract.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: He says, you test drive it, you don't like it,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: you get your money back. And I was like sweet.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: So I checked the contract. It says it has one
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: hundred and thirty seven on that. It's like, what, take
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: it back. Talk to me about the little noise. And
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: then I said, mate, And then there's the case situation.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: You just got t tow hundred thousand klometers and he goes, yeah,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: that's what's got and that's like on the contract I
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: sign has had one hundred and thirty seven thousand. This
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: motherfucker's fucking George dropped. Yes, George on his face was
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: he was. I get back from test driving. He comes out,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: he shakes the hand, he's happy ass. And then I
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: tell him that and he's somber. Oh yeah, it was
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: writing too. It was in full writing sign contracts and everything.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: And then he goes, come me, coming me. He takes
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: me into his office. Okay, he takes me into his
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: back office and he's like, and I sit down and
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: he's going on and he's looking and he goes, he's
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: just looking. Were silent for a second. Then he goes
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: fuck it does say one thirty seven. I like, so
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: I was thinking, damn. I said, okay, look he goes.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: He goes, right, he's about to call someone. They don't answer,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: and then he goes he goes, all right, the best
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I can do is or keep in mind, this came.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: This comes with three years warranty. So he goes, best
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I can do is thirteen grand, five years warranty. And
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I was kind of like, oh okay. I was like,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I was like, what is a warranty cover? He's like engine, clutch, gearbox, driving,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: steering things, whatever, everything basically, And I was like, I
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: just don't know how much I trust that though, Like
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: they've got to have ways of wehazling out of actually
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: paying for it, so it sounds too good. So and
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: then I was like, look, can I I said, sixty
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: three thousand kilometers is a lot of extra kilometers? Can
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I tell you just I don't want to waste any
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: time genuinely what I will pay for it? And he
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: goes yeah, and I said nine. He goes nah, nah nah,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: And I was like that's fine. I was like, well,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: I'm out of here then, and so I leave it
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: like on good. Like he doesn't. He's not mad at me.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I'm not mad at him. I was like, I appreciate time.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: He used to be mad at him.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Is that exactly the only two fair? You kind of
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: waste my time. And because he goes, no, I got
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: like six buyers that really want it, like I can't
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: do it for nine and I was like that's fine,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: and so we leave and then he sends me a text.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I think I sent him my bank details and I
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: said thanks again for today, like, appreciate you. Let me
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: take it for a test drive. He's my details for
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: that deposit back and then he goes, yes, cool, I
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: saught that on Monday. He goes, just just one more
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: for you, I can do twelve five five years warranty
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm sorry, mate, I won't I'm
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: not going past ten. And then he text me and
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: he goes, ah, yeah cool, cool, cool cool, and I
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: go yeah, all good and then I nothing happens for one.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: Then he texted me one more time and he goes.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Eleven five five years warranty and I and so yes,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: I messaged him and I said, Peter, appreciate the offer,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: but I'm going to pass.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: And too fair it's only worth like with that many
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: k's ten ten to five. Yeah, like it's a lot
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: of keys to your new fair I have.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: I've bought a car that had like three hundred and.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: That was a total. Yeah, the engines are right now
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: is this is just a little chimney. Yeah.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: So now Oddie and I have now actually gone to
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: car sales and I've brought two cars I want to
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: get and I have any of you brought one one? Yeah, okay, baddies,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: we are going to show what route did you go?
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: All right, now I've completely changed. All right, this is
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: actually what you want, This is actually what I want want.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: I'm hell bent on a Jeep Wrangler. Really, you trying
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: to steer me away, but I'm hell bent on a
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Jeep Wrangler two door. I want the short wheelbase one.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: To preface, I had a Jeep Wrangler and it was
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: it was sick. Was also a lot better than anything
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: you set me.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: All Right, I went, wait, no way, I'll show you
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: my Okay, I'll show you mine first, and we'll show them.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: So this one two thousand and nine Jep Wrangler Sport
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: four by four m Y zero and nine. Don't know
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: what that means fourteen thousand dollars one hundred and thirty
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: eight thousand k's diesel, Oh, diesel manual cool right check.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: This's in Mona Vail, by the way, which is in Sydney.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: And yeah, he's got some I don't mind that.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: Let me see.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he likes to say that he has. He wrote
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: in here or she wrote in here that they haven't
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: been on the beach.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: Well, my reasoning for not saying Jake getting a jeep
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: is a good idea. I feel like I'm fucking the
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: responsible place.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Also, deep it's a cool bro is because.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Of the fuel economy. When they're petrol, they chug few fuel.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Ready, let's just pretend it's diesel, you're alright, let's just pretend.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Let's just I don't care about fuel economy though. Let's
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: just pretend I don't give a fuck about that, all right? Yeah,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: any other reason to why as why not to get one?
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: They're expensive to r like like repair repair, all right, again,
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: one more thing, any other reasons other than that? I
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: like that so many the other one I don't mind.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: That's better than the other.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, jeeing, it's actually good a That's why I haven't
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: sent them to you. That's why. Here I'll show you
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: this one. This one's actually pretty sick well blow market price,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: but it needs something fixed. Twenty eighteen Jeep Wrangler Unlimited
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: twenty eighteen manual, one hundred and twenty four thousand K's
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: SUV petrol alright, twelve thousand dollars. Now the guy is
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: saying he needs a quick sale due to that's yeh see,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: it is a little sus but it does say the
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: radiator needs replacing, and it says, but I've chosen upgrade
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: to a seven set car. Need a quick sale radiator
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: eight hundred bucks.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, twelve k for twenty eighteen plus installation at wey
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: twelve hundred. I did my radio before, radiator before I
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: sold it. Twenty eighteen is fucking new twenty eighteen. That's
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: really susp Yeah, that's the same as mine. H three
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: point six liter petrol's huge powerful though. Yeah, eleven point
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: eight liters per one hundred kilometers. That's fucking shit. Interesting.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: I like the other one better. It's like it better
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: because I like Sure, I think that's too sus to me.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: Something's wrong with that. I that's like at the end,
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: we like the other one. Oh, the other one, I
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: can diesel way better. Well, my my, we'll go on
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: to mine and then we can leave it up to
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: the batty. Because the other thing is you could go
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: really wise. I didn't bring anything boring.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, good because you could have want boring.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: But you could go like a fucking Vatarazuki Vitara Corolla,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: like twelve thousand dollars, like one hundred thousand k's no issue,
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: servicing is half the price. Or let me text you this.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: About yeah ship, Okay, I'm excited.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: This is halfway between. You're going to appreciate it. But
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: the baddies might think it's giving redneck, But okay, I.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Reckon you will appreciate it.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: I've texted it too.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Best was barely on board with the Iszuki that I
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: testedro barely really yeah, purely for the fact where she's like,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: you're gonna go spend all this money on it, like
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars on a car and it's barely bigger
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: than the one you have.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Now, well, this one's not bigger, but it's cool.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Oh my days, you're insane.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: Four by four Brother goes on the Beach and nineteen
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: eighty eight Suzuki Brumny, no super rub Brumby super Brumby. Sorry,
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: it's got Suzuki stuck in my head.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty four thousand kilometers.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: This is just an example of the car. You might
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: have to look a bit better.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: All right, let's let it's in the pass range. Let's
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: go and have a look. All right, so we've got.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: See it's halfway between super cool but also super redneck.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I've always wanted a Brumby.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: I reckon I'll get one eventually as a novelty car.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: But how cool is it?
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Dogs in the back?
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: Oh it's clean too, dude.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: I think what we do here is leave it up
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: to the baddies. Oh not you.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I reckon, we go? Should Jake go sensible? Wait a second?
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Wait a second, wait a second? What I buy? I
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: will be driving on the freeway a bit only for
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: a little while. Is that BRUMBI gonna be good? And
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: also then I have to drive it to Queens.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that's fine.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I can tell you I think Beth would say. I
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: think Beth would give me a fucking ultimatum front one
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: of that.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: But where I was going with that is that was
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: just an example, it's a novelty car. Yeah, the Jeeps
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: novelty car. The Suzuki is a novelty car in a sense.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: They're not quite not novelty, Jeep sexy honestly, But where
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Going with it is, I reckon we leave it up
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: to the batties right now. And they comment, they commented,
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: last episode, should Jake go sensible and we look at
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: some newer cars, Yeah, a little bit or novelty. And
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: in that novelty is anything like.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Like cool, cool sexy. Beth's dad gave me the best
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: advice yesterday before. I can't remember what date it was,
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: but he goes, we're on the phone to him, we're
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: talking about the debacle with the Suzuki testrove, and then
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: we will looking and and and he goes, honestly, like, Jake,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: my best advice for you is just buy something you
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: think looks hectic. He said, you want to you want
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: to be proud in the car. It's like, you know what, Ben,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: You're right.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: He's been looking at your he and I gets and
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: thinking his daughter's boyfriend's a fucking loser, So you know what.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: You're right, You're right, Ben, Thank you for the advice.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: I over a Jeep at a Jymney, would go Jymney
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: every day of the week for your price point, for
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: your price point. If you had twenty twenty five thousand dollars,
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: I'd say a Jeep. But I think of value like
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: value for money. I okon Suzuki is more reliable and
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: cheaper run. So it's up to you, man, But let's
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: leave it to the baddies, and we'll come back next
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: week with your actual game plan and where you're going
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: to be looking, and then we can show them what
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: you buy. Yeah, okay, And obviously they don't have fun say,
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: but I want their input.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I want their input too. Please, baddies, please vote for
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the one I want, you know, the one I want
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: the short Weell wear silver jep.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: It's sensible, cool comment that. Yeah, alright, baddies, I want
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: to say welcome back too. Things that aren't just for boys?
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Week four?
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Alrighty, I want to kick things off with a bang.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Things that aren't just for boys. Bossing a parallel park
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: O facts.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Can I confess something? Yeah, I confess Beth. I'm gonna
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: say it's because she has a very modern vehicle. But
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: is I'm gonna Let let's just say I'm a five
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: out of ten on like the parallel park scale best,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: like a solid nine eight. Really, Beth, Beth would prefer
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: to parallel park. I'm not even kidding. Then to go
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: in forwards when you can, I'm actually not even It's insane.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: She got taught by a driving instructor, like this crazy
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: way to be fair using cameras, but still like this
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: fucking crazy technique and this far every time, not a
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: scratch on the rims, speechless. We'll be in my car
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: the guests, Yeah, and we'll I passed one and I
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: will say no, no, no, too small, too small. She gives
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: me ship.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Bro to be fair. I remember when I got my
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: p's parking frontwards, was really hard to grasp the space,
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: the wide Yeah, why I come inside?
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: What?
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, take it while I come Inie.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I never heard that, but I'll leave that with you. Okay,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go number two four things that I'm just
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: for boys m and you guess what I'm thinking mental
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: mental to mental unagi.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: I should be able to get this and he drinks
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: correct Bro.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Those things they're so weird with the advertising. It's also
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: like dark and Marcho and all the ingredients on the back.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even be able to tell you what any
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: of them are. Yeah, it's pretty wild e. That's why
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Marissa created perfect ted Healthy Energy. She didn't even have
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: us in mind when making them. And side note the slap,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah they do slap. Did you know that they're actually
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: made with marcher and all natural ingredients? This apple raspberry hits.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Really I'm more of a juicy peach man myself. But
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: where do you get yours from? Odie?
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: You know Mcole's guy. So am I baddies? Time for
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: ig question? This week's question is he's a red flag.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: But we asked you to finish this sentence and you
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: certainly did. Now we got a little bit of something
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: juicy foru. This coming Thursday, we are going to be
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: having on Patreon he's a green flag. But all right,
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: we have.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: The best energy over there.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: We have some pretty gonnas, so we thought we'd be
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: a little cheeky give you the green flag one over there.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: But what else are they going to Patreon on?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: As you mentioned, you get the extra episode every single week.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: You actually get the book club early as well, and
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: now with the added extension of dilemmas on there. Yes,
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: oh my god. And the community we're building is insane
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: for only five dollars per month, So get.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: In before we put the prices up, all right, we ever,
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: everyone's shouting at us. Everybody's saying, prices up, prices up.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Go www Dot relatable sixty nine or something.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: What was it again?
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I think we add forward up like that Www Dot forwards, Patreon,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: apt relatable sixty nine or something least in a description. Okay, thanks,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Baddi's love you. Okay, he's a red flag, but daddy,
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: I love him. Daddy, I love him. You can't give
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: it up.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: That is hard, true.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, once you fall in love with
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: someone and then you realize a red flag, you can't.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: I was even going to say, when he becomes that
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: daddy category, it's hard not to love him anymore when
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: you put him in there. Okay, well he's a red flag,
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: but I finish every single time.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, look, I don't blame you.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: I don't blame you at all, and that's rare.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we've been told I do not blame you.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: He's a red flag, but his his biceps are too big.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: I can't see the flag.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: That must be nice. Biceps back, I'm thinking about it
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: forearm veins. How big is big enough.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: For like biceps?
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah? And what a girls like? Do I like the
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: lean look or because if you're holding a bit of
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: fat and it's around the stomach, you don't see it.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: A shirt on the biceps look way bigger than they are.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: It's pretty juicy. Yeah, they do less definition though, I
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: feel like, think about the definition.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Well, they say the dadbod even though it's not a
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: dad bod, and they just prefer to be.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Able to wrap an arm around. But then they're they're
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: like hand feels small. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Also, what's the
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: verdict on tight shirts? Like do they want to see
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: a sleeve tight or do they want to see a
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: sleeve with a bit of slack? Well, I think if
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: you're big enough you can wear you can wear a
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: blue shirt and you can see the tight biceps. But
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: is that what is that something they would like?
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: God, I reckon I'd be a bicep man if I
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: was a girl.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I would be a bicep girl too.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I can appreciate him now, I can certainly appreciate a
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: good bicep.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're hard to grow. Yeah, okay, he's a red flag,
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: but he was my first.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that must be hard.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: I feel like we were both set me in that situation.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, one hundred. Wow. Relatable. He's a red flag,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: but I can fix him.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: Oh no, you can't go. You can't fix him.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: I have another good one like that. He's a red flag,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: but I'm colorblind, so it looks green to me.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Bro I'm realizing on Love Island they're all colorblind day.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: There isn't I suppose no. I would even say there's
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: not one oven Connor, Yeah, there's not one full green flag.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: Connor is the only green flag. Yeah, the only honest,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: earnest and genuine. Well is a bell. But just the men,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Connor Mick the other day. We'll talk about later.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Actually the girls are out of the men's league. Okay, yeah,
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: this one must be relatable. He's a red flag, but
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: he's hiding eight inches.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: The word hiding, so fitting have to be hiding it.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: He's a growing show.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Oh is that what that means?
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: He's a grow to show it. Also, hiding him could
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: just be in his pants.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. It's like if you
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: have an eight inch penis, you have to hide it.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: But hiding it could mean like it's small when it's soft,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: but when it's big. Yeah, he's hiding eight inches. Eight
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: inches is actually two big? That's not real, can't be
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah no, she means thick as this can she means five?
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's thinking eight centimeters. Yeah, girl, I'll get your
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: metric systems confusing, will give you that he's a red flag.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: But I'm at the gym and ovulating.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Gym crushes do go Harday, there's something about like for
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: some reason, like I remember when I was single, seeing
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: the same person over and over again, you start to
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: build in your head.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Like are you meant to be together?
• 42:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: What's for the same sketch?
• 42:46
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: You get there on a day where you go in
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: twelve hours like you usually go like let's say ten
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: am or something. One day you just got five pm.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: They're there. Yeah, we have the same schedule. What else
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: do we have in copy? Yeah?
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, this one he's a red flag but he doesn't
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: live with his mom. Wow.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: The bar is low, Oh my god, the bar low. Wow,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: you're lucky you're not a red flag.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, maybe you are. I don't know. Maybe
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: in Cassie's colored line, if you have a good relationship
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: with your mum and it's not smothering, it's not.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Ah, he's a he's a red flag, but he's the
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: most powerful high lord in Printhian's history.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: I had one he's a red flag, but he's fictional,
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: so who cares.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: He's a red flag, but he has a large wingspan.
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like the wingspan is the equivalent of
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: having eight inches.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: That's what it is.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and really that's how they measure and asuals.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Wingspan is pretty large, apparent.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: Lou, I know, I'd like to see he's a red flag,
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: but his pecks make me forget it.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Oh, not much chat about girls being a peck like
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: peck girl, it's always biceps. The girls like a peck
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: they must.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: But also is it like competition?
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I could be.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: I wish I was in competition. I got bad genetics.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I remember when I was a kid and I discovered
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: like what I think. I was watching the Journey to
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: the Center of the Earth. Good movie, but it was
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: the second one. Oh, so it was just called like
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Journey to the Something Island. Maybe with The Rock.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: So The Rock is now dating what's his name? He
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: plays Peter Malark in Hunger Games. Josh Hutchison. Oh yeah,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: he's He's playing Josh Hutchinson's stepdad. And for some reason
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: they have to go to this journey on a rental
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: random Aislem, Magical Island or whatever, and there's a girl
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: there that they're trapped with, and Josh Hutchinson obviously has
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: a big crush on her, and the Rocks like, you
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: know how I go, your mum did the peckl Yeah,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: I remember the peck flex and he's like doing these
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: like peck flexes, and I was like, holy shit, Like
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: what is he doing? That looks sick. Bro. He's like,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: throw a blue Beard at it, Go throw a berry
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: at it. He throws one, pops it off his peck
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: right back at Josh Hutcheson's face. Bro, And I was like,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I was like, I remember so vividly being a kid
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: taking off my shirt in the mirror and just full
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: concentration trying to like flex my pecks.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Nothing happened. I could do one, but it's also like
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: the top of my shoulder and I can't do the other.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: I can't do it still is it?
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: But I also don't think it has that effect at all.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: Steroids. Yeah, okay, this is my last one. He's a
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: red flag, but lucky. Red is my favorite color.
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: I feel like it is at certain point, at certain
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: points in different people's lives, red is what they need.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: I think red is what they want.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Red is what they.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: Maybe need, is good they desire because you need to
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: go through a couple of reds to realize the greens
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: are green because the grass is always green, and eight
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: inches only last too long, like so long, and also
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: the novelty of eight inches must wear off pretty quick. Yeah, yea, yeah,
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: we'll keep real. Yeah, like, come on, my last one,
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: he's a red flag. But that tongue, really a tongue
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: can do that. I reckon it could look at Kyle
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: and love other Yeah.
• 46:32
  Speaker 8: Yeah, God, oh god, I've been I've come up with
• 46:43
  Speaker 8: a new insult for Beth.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Insult, and there could just be an insult for anyone.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: I suppose anyone does anything. Maybe they do something. Lately
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I've been saying to Beth, I'm like, that's giving Kai.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: A stab in the heartday and yeah it hurts, Yeah,
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: it does.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: All right about his sign for some dilemmas. If you
• 47:11
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• 47:16
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• 47:21
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• 47:25
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• 47:28
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• 47:33
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• 47:39
  Speaker 1: let me let me go. I am twenty four and
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: about to be involved in another ex's wedding. For more information.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: Two years ago, I was a bride'smaid in my ex
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: of three years wedding. He ended up marrying what he
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: ended up marrying my best friend. This year, my other
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: ex got engaged. We have been broken up for two years,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: but are in no way on talking terms. I am, however,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: good friends with his fiance, who I introduced him to
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: while we were still dating. She recently asked me to
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: help make food for their wedding. I am now sorry.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: I am at a point where I just have no
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: feelings towards the situation, even though I know it sucks.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I guess my dilemma is should I go forward? With
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: helping with the wedding, even though I have had a
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: lot of feelings of bitterness. For context, we all go
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: to the same church in the Midwest, which means all
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: of them got married at twenty one or twenty two.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: I would also not consider either of them the one
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: that got away. I did break up with them for
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: a reason. It still hurts, though.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: That's good that you're the one who broke up with them.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: Tricky situation.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: Girl, fucking' know. Oh wow, both of those exes shot
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: you in the art?
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what the hell's with that? So you broke up
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: with them, and then they're like, oh, what's the closest
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: thing I can go stick my will again?
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Fuck? But yeah, i'd say, and they're to blame. That's
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: not your friends too.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, your friends because they respect that that's your ex.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: That's when you know they're a shit friends. I wouldn't go, Yeah,
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: fuck that dude.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: They give love a bad name, bad juju.
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the fact that they're getting with your ex at all.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: Is there an acceptable amount of time where you can
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: get with your friends X? I say no, always off limits?
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I always I think I say off limits too.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: And also, you should be talking shit about your ex
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: to your friends of why you broke up with them?
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: Why would they want that?
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: It's fucking insane that your first one you went to,
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: right where'd you go?
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: Is like.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: You're a very understanding person, Like your best friend ends
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: up with your ex boyfriend and then she still says,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: can you be a bride'smaid?
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah? The nerve on that girl a I would have ruined.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: They're weady.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: Also, yeah, do you have enough friends to not talk
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: to them anymore?
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, what's this situation? What's what's all this about? Like?
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: How small is your community?
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: She said, the in the Midwest? What does that mean?
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: The Midwest is a pretty broad area, Like the Midwest
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: is obviously America, because I love to talk about like Midwest,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: so our South like that. We don't really we just
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: say states here. Yeah, I say, be the bigger person
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: and go or don't go?
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: Is that being the bigger person if you put yourself
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: first and don't rs VP and don't.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Go at all, it's been the biggest person for yourself.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Just insane to me that they're even asking the light
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: I mean to be okay, I don't know.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: I guess it's like maybe they think you don't care.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Maybe they think you don't care, and for all we know,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: she's given blessings.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: And also it's kind of like, haha, you know he's
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: a shipman and they're marrying.
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: Like tough thing about this. So let me think about this.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: If you just so happened to strike something up with
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: one of my exes, wait, no it's not. Actually no
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: one of them was was her best friend. So like,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: here's the thing, is like I.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: Couldn't look you in the eye.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: No, I know, I know, I know. Let's just say
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: you could.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: All right, guys who.
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: So let's just say you could. Like I actually don't
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: think I would want to not go to your wedding
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: because of that, because I am over the ex in question,
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: even though let's say didn't end great.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: I think it's crazy. Is it different for girls? Because
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: like say, for some reason your ex hit your ex
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: hit me up, and I went on a couple of
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: dates and we were about to get down and nearly
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: just died. Yeah, we were about to get down and dirty.
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: I would think of you. Yeah, I would be like
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: fuck Jake spy here, and I feel like I don't.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Want to do this.
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: All there's like there's like, there's one cent that I
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: need to say to you to get you out of
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: that relationship. When you when you come clean and tell
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: me like, this is how fucking bad men are, right,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: it's our stupid Menna. You give my ex you come,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: you work up the coach to tell me and you
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: I just want to let you know, like, I just
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: want to be honest and stuff. I really like x
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: y ZB and I go, ah, so you like sloppy seconds.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: That's the only thing I have to say for it
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: to be ruined.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: It would be ruined, and I would I'm the tup
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: of person already protested that. Yeah, that wouldn't be looking
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: for that.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: We said, don't go fuck that. Okay.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: My dilemma how to get over someone you thought was
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: your end game? Hey, Jake and Oddie. Two weeks ago,
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: my relationship of three point five years ended. I got
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: broken up with and had no idea it was coming.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: There were no warning signs. He was still telling me
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: how much he loved me every single day until he
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: called me in brackets. We were doing long distance when
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: he did it and said he doesn't see a future
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: with me and doesn't see himself having.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: Kids with me. So he's done.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: Fuck, that's cut throat out.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: It's fucking heavy.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, now that my quote, rose colored glasses are off.
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: I know it wasn't the best relationship ever, and I
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: did deserve to be treated better. But I'm twenty one
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: and he was my first everything. Oh and I don't
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: even know what to do. We talked about our future
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: together all the time, and now I'm just alone. To
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: make matters worse. We're family friends, so I'll still see
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: his family a lot. Any tips or tricks on how
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: to get over someone and heal from this, Thanks so much,
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: love you boys.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: At This is going to make me feel amazing saying this,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: but I've never actually been able to say this about
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: any situation. But girl, you just had the rug completely
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: pulled out from underneath you.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: You have.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, sorry to make myself feel good about your
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: bad situation, but you've given me the I got to
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: say a saying.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: Is it called a phrase drug pulled? Is that the
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: saying you got?
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: You've been rug pulled? But like rug pulling is like
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: a crypto turn.
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, don't take that.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: The famous people will go here's my crypto. Buy it.
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: People buy it, and they sell all of theirs just
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: get profits and then the coin plummets and it's illegal.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: And they rug pulled because no one saw it coming,
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: which is exactly rug pulled.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: Rug pulled crypto boys. Oh should be.
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: Creaty my check my crypto. No, no, let's help this, baddie.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, break up. So no, genuinely though, you've
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: had like this plan that you've seen for your life
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: with someone and it has been just taken, taken without
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: any you, You have no say, and so you are
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: probably spiraling fair very difficult.
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: Wow, I think, Yeah, what you're going through is really
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: really hard, and it's so hard when all you've ever
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: known for the past three and a half years is
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: talking to this guy. Now he's just not there, and
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: like it's all your brain consumes, and when it's gone
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: your brain it's kind of like an addiction in a sense.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: It's all your brain can think about all day, every day.
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: When you're a free second, you're like, oh, oh, or
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: and I guess we've talked about it, but before it's cliche.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: But time does heal all And it's very very cliche,
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: and you'll probably like shut up, I know, yeah, but
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: one day it will all just click, and those thoughts
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: that you're always having about him, You'll last twelve hours,
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: You'll last a day without thinking about it, you'll last
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: two days about thinking about it. It'll get to a
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: week and you're like, fuck, I don't think about him
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: for a whole week. Yeah, and then it slowly snowballs
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: into a month and then two months and you're like wow,
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: and it's your healing journey and everyone's different and you
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: can distract yourself, you can get under other people, you
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: can start going to the gym, you can concentrate on things,
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: and everyone's healing journey is different. But I think it's cliche,
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: but it works. Time heals all. You're not going to
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: get over a three and night. Jake said it before
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: half the time you're with him is how long it
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: will take to get over them.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good little rule of thumb that I
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: just have seen it once and then being like actually
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: thinking back, like it did take me. I had a
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: three year relationship that ended in a way where I
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: was like broken hearted, and it took me a fucking
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: year and a half to be one hundred percent sweet.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: And you probably don't hear that because it sounds like
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: a long time, which it is a year and a
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: half's long time for you. It might be a year
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: and a half, could be a year, could be fucking
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: six months. You don't know. Everyone is different. A good
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: rule of thumb is about a year and a half.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: But I would say I'm trying to think, like from
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: past experience, I would say the best thing you can
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: do is start to try new things so you can
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: still do the things you like to do. But a
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: lot of the time, the things you enjoy doing are
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: going to remind you of said person.
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: I remember when I broke up with my ex. Her car.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: Whenever I saw it, I was like, fuck you yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: her exact cars. She had a whole an Astra. Yeah.
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: I was like, fuck you, dude.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Same for me, same exact thing. You see that type
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: of car and you're like, fuck off, fuck off. But
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: so yeah, I would say, like, try new things you enjoys,
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: not to trial some stuff. And usually once you can
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: try something that takes your mind off the thing, that's
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: when you start to have those moments where it's like,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: been ten minutes, we haven't thought about them, and then
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: you and then and then you're like, oh wow, it's
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: been ten minutes and then you think about them, you're like,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: fuck off, but still that ten minutes and.
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: We like step.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: It is a step.
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: We always like to have a glass full perspective. And
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: I guess although it's very hard, it's an opportunity for
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: you to find out more about yourself. You're twenty one,
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: you're a badie. You got so much gun for you,
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: and you've got so much free time and brain power
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: that isn't going into this relationship now to focus on
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: yourself and focus on your goals and just do whatever
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: the fuck you want without anyone in your back, in
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: the back of your mind.
• 57:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah I did.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: I was just like thinking back, like, fuck, you feel
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: so helpless. Yeah, you do. I fully forgot how helpless
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: you feel because thinking like right now, obviously I'm I
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: mean a like a healthy relationship and I'm nowhere like
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: I was heartbroken many years ago now, but I'm just
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: remembering how helpless you feel.
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: I feel like repetitions and routine helped me. Yeah.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: One thing I was just gonna say was for me,
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: some I like broke down. What a heartbreak is like.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: It's like you're grieving someone and you're grieving someone that's
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: still alive, and this person is like chosen not to
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: be with you anymore. So it like kind of sucks.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: We're not kind of sucks. It sucks.
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: Ah.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: And I just remember like sleep was the biggest thing.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: Getting to sleep was pretty shit, but then once you
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: got to sleep, you were asleep. The worst fucking thing
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: in the world was waking up. And because sleep is
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: the escape, so when you wake up straight away, you're
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: thinking about him again and you're anxious as and so
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: I remember the first time I slept from like I
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: don't know, whenever I went to bed all the way
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: through the morning, I was like, oh my god, progress
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: because I would wake up at like too and piss,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: but then be awake until like four because I was
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: just you just feel so helpless, Like what the fuck
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: am I dueling? So girl, fuck I feel you.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: I think the only advice that you actually want to.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: Hear is you've got this.
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: You've got this.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah if this dude, oh you know, like the way
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: he'd said where he broke up with you sounds like
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: obviously very harsh.
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: I feel like you don't need to say that. I
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: don't see I don't know.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: At the same time, it's like, like, what else do
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: you say like that? I feel like that was just
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: kind of mean.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you just say I don't see
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: a future with you anymore.
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: Was that too mean to I don't know. At the
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: same time, it's you know, you want people to be honest.
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like the baby's thing. You can
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: just be left out, ignorance is blissed.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, true, it's kind of it does seem harsh. But
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: what's a good way to break up with someone?
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: I think just I've been thinking I don't see a
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: future with you. I think covers everything. It does, Yeah,
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: rather than putting it on yourself and saying I need
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: time to focus on myself.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: But boom, and he's and he's also like, you could
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: say I I just don't see a future with you anymore,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: and then you're right like that that full stop everything
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: is said with that one sentence, because what he's done
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: is I don't see the future with you. And then
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: he goes, yeah, I don't see marriage with you, I
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: don't see.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: Kids with you.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: It's like he's rubbed it in. It's like, okay, come on, yeah,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: I know what future me.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bleeding out and you just fucking stabbed me
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: a couple of times. Yeah, shank, twist, twist again. Jeezus
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: bad is to finish the episode. As we mentioned, we
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: have their email responses to reiterate. I will read the
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: email we sent them and we'll get to Grace in
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: Sarah's responses. I got a little bit of a brief
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: before and they did good.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: The subject was draft a friendly reminder email about the
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: lunch thief. We said, Hi, Baddie, hope you're doing great today.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: I have a quick task that I would like your
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: help with. Could you draft a short company wilde email
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: that reminds everyone about not stealing anyone's lunches. We've noticed
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: a bit of a reoccurring lunch thief situation in the
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: staff lounge and we'd like to address it with a
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: friendly tone. Feel free to add a touch of humor
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: if you think it will land well, but the main
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: goal is just a polite node so everyone is a
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: bit more mindful. Thanks a ton for handling this, and
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: I have Grace who was working with the our packers. Yes, hey,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: or I would just like to address the rumor of
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: the lunch thief at our youth shows. I don't want
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: to be sharing my greasy dagwood dog with you, and
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: you wouldn't want to share it with me. Let alone
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: cootie sharing a cold lemonade at a hot summer's show.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: If you keep stealing food, I will be putting food
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: covered in our packer spit in the lunch room. Smiley face,
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: vomit emoji. Kind regards. Grace, Vice President, New South Wales Youth,
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: our packer youth.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: Let's go, I like that.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: That's intimidating. I don't know what dagwood is dagwood dog.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: I'm sure some sort of like cot dog or something.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Go Grace, Okay, God, Sarah, Okay, all right,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: we all remember Sarah, I assure. She says, Hey, team,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: I'd love to bring to everyone's attention the recent problem
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: plaguing this workplace. Some would call the sandwich stealer. Sorry.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: Some would call them the sandwich steeler, others the lunch
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: box bandit. However, I will be naming them the downright
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: disgraceful lunchtime destroyer, as someone who spends each morning holding
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: out for their midnight for their mid day snack. The
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: fact we have been having thefts of our workplace lunches
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: is disappointing. Please can we stop with the lunch thefts.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: I'm happy to provide some easy meat, I prep suggestions
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: to those who may be lacking on time, but I
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: will not continue to unwillingly provide my lunch on behalf
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: of the other staff also losing their lunches. We would
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: greatly appreciate this behavior. To spot this behavior to stop.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: Despite the jokes, it really isn't funny to lose a lunch.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: Kind regards Sarah Matthews, a lost lunch victim. Oh at
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: the end.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: Day, Oh, I don't know how I feel about it.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Baddies, it's up to you. Okay, So baddies,
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: you know what to do. Comment Grace or Sarah below
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: to see who's moving on to the finale, and baddies,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: there's no comments or baddies sign off today because this
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: episode's been a little bit different. Let us know if
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: you loved it, please, but we love you.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: Stay bad