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A Hard Day's Scrub · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya Radd, an iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two-time People's Choice Award-winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, everybody!
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  Speaker 3: We are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 1: Happy Thursday.
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  Speaker 3: Happy Thursday. I was thinking about how... Remember how we.
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  Speaker 4: Were talking about the Taylor Swift decoding thing and then
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  Speaker 4: it ended up being my.
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  Speaker 3: Debut album or something?
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  Speaker 5: But then.
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  Speaker 4: That whole jargon of words that people had scrambled up.
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  Speaker 3: Was about Patient Zero and Dakota Johnson and everything?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was North and South.
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  Speaker 3: So all of that.
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  Speaker 4: Just spelled out that sentence about her first album or
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  Speaker 4: whatever for nothing?
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that is kind of random. So it spelled out
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  Speaker 5: my first records we recorded on November 10th. Now, we
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  Speaker 5: don't know if that still could be the case.
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  Speaker 4: But how strange if that just coincidentally.
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  Speaker 3: Spells that out.
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  Speaker 5: Unless she's just really messing with people.
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  Speaker 1: No, but there's so many things. Like, I watched a
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  Speaker 1: whole thing about her coming out for Dakota's thing and
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  Speaker 1: how she, like, hit Dakota's back at exactly, like, 319.
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  Speaker 2: 3 plus 9.
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  Speaker 1: Plus 1 is... 13 or something. And then Dakota's monologue
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  Speaker 1: was exactly certain amount, like minutes. And then you add
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  Speaker 1: those numbers up and it's 13.
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  Speaker 4: That to me is different than these words, spelling something out.
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  Speaker 3: That's very specific.
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  Speaker 5: Well, it's not a coincidence. So either maybe a writer
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  Speaker 5: at the Emmys, I'm sorry, was it the Emmys? Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Put that in there to mess with people. Like who knows?
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  Speaker 5: There's probably an explanation somewhere, but I don't think it's
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  Speaker 5: just a coincidence.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we'll just have to wait till November 10th.
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  Speaker 5: It's all we can do.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Crazy. Um, How are you doing on this fine day?
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  Speaker 1: Doing great, you know, just enjoying the heat wave, just
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  Speaker 1: riding it out.
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  Speaker 4: We're almost done. We're almost done. Just stay the course.
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  Speaker 4: Have you done your solo date yet?
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  Speaker 1: She's so funny, that Beccatilly, you know, she's such a
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  Speaker 1: little giggle puss.
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  Speaker 2: A giggle puss.
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  Speaker 1: No, I haven't yet, but I will do two by
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  Speaker 1: the end of this week.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, great.
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  Speaker 1: Have you done your solo?
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  Speaker 2: Of course not. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We should do our solos at the same time, but
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  Speaker 1: just do them separately.
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  Speaker 3: It's not feeling very solo.
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  Speaker 1: No, not the same place.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's just so that we can hold each other accountable.
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  Speaker 1: I think holding each other accountable is like a huge thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I remember when you tried to hold me accountable, like
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  Speaker 4: about exercising and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: That was the wrong role for me. Let me tell you.
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  Speaker 3: No, you're really good at holding people accountable. I am,
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  Speaker 3: but you don't receive it. I'm just not being good
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  Speaker 3: at being held accountable.
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  Speaker 1: Becca does not receive it well. She either goes to
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  Speaker 1: you or she just.
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  Speaker 3: Why that happened? Like, I don't know what my.
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  Speaker 4: Because I've always been such a people pleaser and wanting
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  Speaker 4: to do the right thing and do things the right way.
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  Speaker 4: So I don't know where there was a switch in
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  Speaker 4: my brain of being like, nah.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, somebody messaged me after our date last
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  Speaker 1: weekend and they were like, I don't know why this
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  Speaker 1: makes me so emotional, but like you, you recently said
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast, how you feel like there's distance between
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  Speaker 1: you and Becca. And then she, you guys go out
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  Speaker 1: on a date and she does this like dedication reel
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  Speaker 1: to you. She's a real one. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: she is.
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  Speaker 3: And don't forget about it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't take it for granted.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's just, you know what it is, is
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  Speaker 4: that even though I don't like being held accountable and
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  Speaker 4: I don't like being told what to do, I really
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  Speaker 4: have a, I've realized how significant my friends are in
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  Speaker 4: my life and how I have so much, especially my friends.
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  Speaker 4: Cause everyone's like in a different, everyone's busy. Like everyone
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  Speaker 4: has like partners and kids and schedules and jobs. And
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  Speaker 4: it's like, I have, first of all, the freedom in
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  Speaker 4: my job, I have freedom with time. I have freedom with,
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  Speaker 4: you know, like my existence in life and not having kids.
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  Speaker 4: And I have the, the like capacity to do things
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  Speaker 4: and show up in spaces.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm always like, if I don't do that, then
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  Speaker 3: what's the point?
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  Speaker 4: You know, like if I don't use my time towards
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  Speaker 4: something that, that gives back to me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to give you credit for that because I like,
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  Speaker 1: there was a stretch of like, I had a stretch
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  Speaker 1: of like four days where I had like nothing to do.
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  Speaker 1: Like it was very stressful. not normal. Like I just
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  Speaker 1: had like four days of nothing and no plans and
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  Speaker 1: I could not motivate myself to even like go on
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  Speaker 1: a walk on those days. So because you have that
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  Speaker 1: freedom to your schedule, like I think because I'm so
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  Speaker 1: strict on like a schedule with work and picking up
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  Speaker 1: kids and dah, dah, dah, I have to stay like
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  Speaker 1: motivated and kind of like go, go, go. But when
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  Speaker 1: you remove all that, it's very hard to get yourself.
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  Speaker 1: So the fact that you are getting yourself to this
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  Speaker 1: point is an accomplishment.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I was thinking, like, when Haley was in Europe,
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  Speaker 3: I went over.
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  Speaker 4: And I saw Allie and, like, went with them and
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  Speaker 4: helped with Remy and, like, got to spend time with them.
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  Speaker 4: And then Tuesday I asked Brittany what she was doing
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  Speaker 4: and I went over to her house and helped with
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  Speaker 4: the kids because her husband Michael was out of town.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, you just got to, you know,
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  Speaker 3: if you want to see your friends in this season,
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  Speaker 3: you've got to go.
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  Speaker 5: You've got to show up. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Make it happen.
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  Speaker 4: Had to rearrange your date night to get time outside
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  Speaker 4: of the podcast with you.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out to the Valium.
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  Speaker 3: Not taking it.
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  Speaker 1: I was proud of myself, actually.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you have.
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  Speaker 4: A weirdly high pain tolerance, but sometimes not. If you're
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  Speaker 4: in your head about pain, it's not high.
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  Speaker 1: It's not. It's, I agree. I think I have like
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  Speaker 1: a weirdly high threshold for pain. However, I think that
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  Speaker 1: I have a lot of anxiety and Valium is for
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  Speaker 1: your anxiety, not for pain.
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  Speaker 3: Have you always had anxiety or is it new?
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  Speaker 1: I think it's new. Because like all this stuff that's
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  Speaker 1: going on, do you know what I mean? Like it's
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  Speaker 1: very anxiety inducing. So you don't know what's happening. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know. You know what I mean? Like I'm doing
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  Speaker 1: all these things for the first time. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But I've always associated you with like the need of
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  Speaker 4: being in control, like how you need to be in control.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: With everything.
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  Speaker 4: And if it's not so much anxiety as it is like,
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  Speaker 4: I guess anxiety over.
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  Speaker 3: Not having control.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It's something you don't have control over.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what's so interesting? So I posted on
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  Speaker 1: Instagram that I was like getting this procedure done and
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  Speaker 1: debating whether to take the volume or not. And the,
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  Speaker 1: difference of messages I got from some people being like,
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  Speaker 1: I've gotten that procedure done before. It was the worst
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  Speaker 1: pain of my entire life. Like you have to take
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  Speaker 1: the pill. And then other people being like, it was
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  Speaker 1: totally easy breezy. I was fine. Like you don't need
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  Speaker 1: the pill. And I'm like, it just goes to show
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  Speaker 1: you that everybody's experience and everything is so different. Like
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  Speaker 1: you can't like go online and read reviews because you
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  Speaker 1: have no idea how you're going to react to it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Like it was fine
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  Speaker 1: for me. It but some people say it's like the
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  Speaker 1: worst thing that they've ever experienced. Like even my, the
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  Speaker 1: nurse that was helping me says like, she's, she has
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  Speaker 1: people like scream in the room and stuff. Like you
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  Speaker 1: just have no idea.
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  Speaker 3: Did she tell you that before or after?
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  Speaker 5: No, after.
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  Speaker 3: Whoa, that's intense.
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  Speaker 1: No, definitely after. But it made me realize like everybody's
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  Speaker 1: experience with everything is so different, you know? And same
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  Speaker 1: with like childbirth. Some people have like easy breezy childbirth
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  Speaker 1: and some people have like the most traumatic experiences ever.
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  Speaker 1: So it's just like, You never know what you're going
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  Speaker 1: to get.
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  Speaker 3: It's so true.
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  Speaker 1: So you just got to ride it out. Ride the wave.
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  Speaker 3: Ride the wave and do what's best for you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I remember someone said that lip filler was not painful
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  Speaker 3: at all. I think it's so painful. It hurts me
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  Speaker 3: so bad. I did it once.
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  Speaker 1: I'll never do it again.
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  Speaker 4: Never.
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  Speaker 1: No pain is worth that. Like nothing.
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  Speaker 5: Not me.
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  Speaker 3: I keep going back.
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  Speaker 2: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's momentary.
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  Speaker 4: But I always think the people who say it's not painful,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, you're a beast.
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  Speaker 5: Beast.
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  Speaker 3: Congrats.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So, yeah. Okay, shall we do a Dear Banya?
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  Speaker 5: We do have one.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: One.
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  Speaker 1: It's getting bleak out there, guys.
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  Speaker 5: Well, there were some issues with emails being routed to
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  Speaker 5: the right places. We think Easton has solved the situation. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Anyway, this is an anonymous scrub sister who said, Hello, Tanya, Becca, Mark,
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  Speaker 5: and Easton. One of my best friends, who's also a scrubber,
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  Speaker 5: is starting the egg retrieval and transfer process this month
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  Speaker 5: with IVF, sending her all the baby dust and prayers
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  Speaker 5: that her long fertility journey ends with a very happy
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  Speaker 5: ending soon. I know so many scrubbers, including our strong
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  Speaker 5: and resilient Tanya, are in their TTC era, and I
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  Speaker 5: thought it would be fitting to send all of our
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  Speaker 5: fellow scrubbers the most positive thoughts, prayers, and baby dust,
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  Speaker 5: no matter what their journey has looked like. Tanya... Sharing
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  Speaker 5: her journey has made both of us, I'm also TTC,
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  Speaker 5: feel so seen and can relate, sending so much love
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  Speaker 5: and hope to you all. And that being said, how
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  Speaker 5: can friends best support someone in this TTC journey?
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  Speaker 1: Oof.
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  Speaker 5: Made me emotional.
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  Speaker 1: I think the thing that I've realized is, like, unless
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  Speaker 1: you've experienced it, like, you really, really, really, like, can't understand. Even, like, men,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think, can really understand, like, Robbie's in the
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  Speaker 1: best partner. Like I literally couldn't ask for like anything
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  Speaker 1: better from him. But I really feel like it's like
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  Speaker 1: this feeling that like you can only really relate to
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  Speaker 1: if you've experienced it. And I feel like sometimes people
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  Speaker 1: say things to like try to be there for you.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like a comment that like just stings even more.
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  Speaker 1: So I've just realized like there are a few people
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  Speaker 1: in my life that I can talk to about it
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  Speaker 1: that like just really like listen and like don't really.
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  Speaker 1: It's not even about giving opinions. It's just like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know. Like just, I'm trying to think
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  Speaker 1: of like a comment that I'm just like, can't you
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  Speaker 1: just get drunk and have sex? You know I mean
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  Speaker 1: like even that like is just like yes I know
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  Speaker 1: that works for some people but like I've been killing
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  Speaker 1: myself for a year you know I mean like of
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  Speaker 1: course I wish I could just get drunk and have
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  Speaker 1: sex like I think that a lot of people try
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  Speaker 1: to like say things to make you feel better and
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  Speaker 1: it just like makes you feel so much worse so
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  Speaker 1: I feel like if you have a friend that's going
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  Speaker 1: through it really just like listen to them and like
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  Speaker 1: check in and like be there but like don't offer
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  Speaker 1: an opinion don't offer advice unless they ask you your
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  Speaker 1: opinion and like ask you for advice and I feel
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  Speaker 1: like that's why you've been like one of the people
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  Speaker 1: that I'm like really only sharing with because you just
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  Speaker 1: you don't I don't know it's like I don't know
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  Speaker 1: it's tough.
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  Speaker 4: Well I think I I I think I even said
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  Speaker 4: something on a podcast about, oh, yeah, you can just,
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  Speaker 4: you know, relax and.
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  Speaker 3: You know, have sex.
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  Speaker 4: And it's like, I think I didn't realize, I think
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  Speaker 4: someone posted on like the Facebook group of me coming
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  Speaker 4: across like dismissive or like insensitive. And I think it
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  Speaker 4: put things into perspective that it's something that I think,
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  Speaker 4: and I've shared with you, like, I'm like, if I
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  Speaker 4: ever say anything that comes across insensitive or dismissive, like,
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  Speaker 4: please tell me because... I feel so far removed from
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  Speaker 4: what you're going through. And you were like, yeah, it's
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  Speaker 4: not something you can get unless you're going through it.
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  Speaker 4: But I also want to be able to be a
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  Speaker 4: good friend and not say things that make it worse
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  Speaker 4: or make it feel heavier.
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  Speaker 1: No, but I remember that because I remember seeing all
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  Speaker 1: that stuff on the Facebook group. And so I was like,
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  Speaker 1: what was it in that podcast? And I think that
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  Speaker 1: it was like, I think I was saying something about
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  Speaker 1: I don't remember exactly, but I got my period or something.
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  Speaker 1: It was like, I was having like a down day
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  Speaker 1: and it was like one of those days or it
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  Speaker 1: was when you came back from seeing Jojo, her baby
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  Speaker 1: and like talking about Brady's first birth. It was like
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  Speaker 1: a lot of baby talk from you. And I think
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  Speaker 1: that people were just like, how could she like, that
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  Speaker 1: was like a really weird, like dynamic. But I'm also like,
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  Speaker 1: that's a season of life that I'm in too. Like
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  Speaker 1: I can't go on social media without somebody in my life,
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  Speaker 1: literally making a pregnancy announcement. Like it's crazy. So it's like,
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  Speaker 1: it's not on you. You have no idea. That's like,
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  Speaker 1: this is your life and that's, it's my life too.
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  Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Like we're just sharing our lives. I don't, and I
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  Speaker 1: never took it as like insensitive or like anything from
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  Speaker 1: you because you, you, there's no way you would be
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  Speaker 1: able to understand. Do you know what I mean? So
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  Speaker 1: it was like, I never took it as you being
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  Speaker 1: dismissive or anything because I just think you're just being yourself.
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  Speaker 1: And I think it's really hard. Yeah. Well, I also,
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  Speaker 1: and that's why I was so hesitant to just like
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  Speaker 1: talk about it because I also feel like it is
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  Speaker 1: so sensitive people listening. Like they might not want, they
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  Speaker 1: might just want a podcast to just like laugh and
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  Speaker 1: like escape from it. Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Like that's how it is for me too. Like I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to sit here and talk about all the
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  Speaker 1: shit I'm going through for an hour.
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  Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Cause I want to like escape. And so it's just
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  Speaker 1: like tough, like finding that middle ground.
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  Speaker 4: I was talking to Haley about it and I was like, I'm,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm having, I have a hard time
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  Speaker 4: sometimes knowing if I'm being a good friend to you
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  Speaker 4: or saying the right thing. And She's like, but you
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  Speaker 4: know how to be a good friend to Tanya. Like,
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  Speaker 4: what are the things that make Tanya happy? And so
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  Speaker 4: that's why I was like, oh my gosh, like I
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  Speaker 4: do know what makes Tanya happy. Like, so we should
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  Speaker 4: go get dinner together or I answer her FaceTime calls
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  Speaker 4: and talk to her. You know, it's like, even though
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  Speaker 4: I might not, I don't know if there is a
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  Speaker 4: right thing to say other than just being there and listening.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's like showing up for your friends in
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  Speaker 4: ways that without it needing to be about what you're
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  Speaker 4: going through, but just like showing up how you would
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  Speaker 4: always show up.
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  Speaker 3: And I also think that I was going to.
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  Speaker 4: Ask you too, because, well, specifically for the answering this question,
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  Speaker 4: but you were like saying like, check in on them.
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  Speaker 4: But it's like, if you're having a break from not
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  Speaker 4: thinking about it, I never want to check in and
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  Speaker 4: then put your mind on it again.
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  Speaker 1: So like, I know, I know. It's like, yeah, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: it's tough because you're just like, You're dealing with something
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  Speaker 1: and then you get asked about it and then you
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  Speaker 1: have to relive it. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: So it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy. It's so crazy.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But I would say the way you can show up
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  Speaker 4: for your friend is by being their friend in every
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  Speaker 4: other season of life that you know how to be
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  Speaker 4: their friend. And just being more of a listener and
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  Speaker 4: not giving advice unless you're asked to give an opinion.
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  Speaker 1: But I do ask you for your advice because I
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  Speaker 1: do value your opinion because I do feel like you're so...
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  Speaker 1: neutral about things, um, where I feel like everybody has
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  Speaker 1: like such a strong opinion, like either way. Um, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's tough.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I love you. You're doing great. Highs and lows.
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: Oh man.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: I will say for all intensive purposes, um, I'm not
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: like always sad. I'm not like, I haven't been sad
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: all year. I have moments where I get like sad
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: and emotional, but I think also my baseline is like
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: so grateful for my life and what I have. And,
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: and I do have a lot of joy in my life.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: So I'm not just like depressed.
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: I've seen you and talked to you multiple times last week.
• 15:10
  Speaker 4: And this is the first time I've seen you cry.
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: So it's not like every time.
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Like every time I talk about it, I'm not crying.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: Like I, I think I'm like on a pretty, um,
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty okay. But I do think that I'm also
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: rare in that sense. I do think that a lot
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: of people that are on this journey can feel very
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: like defeated and deflated. And like, I've just gone down
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: so many rabbit holes of like reading things and like
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: people that have to quit their jobs because they want
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: to focus all their energy on trying to conceive. And like,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: it's crazy. So yeah, it's crazy. But it's just a blip.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: It's a blip and it's also, you.
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: Know, everyone is on their own journey and navigating it
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: in a way that works for them.
• 16:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: So that was a really nice email, anonymous scrub sister.
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: And we're sending you all the baby dust prayers and
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: positive thoughts.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Definitely.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: All right, we're going to get into some games.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Mark, can we do, before Family Feud, can we do
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: the 10 thing?
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you got it.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: Okay, and we'll be right back.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: We're back. We're back.
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: I have 10 things here, 10 categories.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: If there's anything that's going to snap me out of
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: my crying is games.
• 16:53
  Speaker 5: You only did four last week before you said the
• 16:56
  Speaker 5: same thing.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: That's so sad.
• 16:57
  Speaker 5: The goal is to not say the same thing. Does
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: everyone make sure you don't have it in front of you?
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: I don't.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: I'm just going to throw it.
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah, good.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: Sorry.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: I just have my Dear Banya email.
• 17:05
  Speaker 5: Here we go. I'll say the category. I'll give you
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: three seconds. You blurt out the same thing. You have
• 17:10
  Speaker 5: to blurt something out. By the way, if you don't
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: blurt anything out, game's over.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: Here we go. Do not say the same thing. A
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: room in the house. Three, two, one.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Dining.
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: Soda. Three, two, one.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Mountain Dew.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Oh, that was close.
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: Sitcom. Three, two, one.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Seinfeld.
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: I've never watched Seinfeld in my life. But dangerous choices there.
• 17:35
  Speaker 5: Reality show. Three, two, one.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Bachelor.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: Board game. Three, two, one.
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: Twinopoly.
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: Oh, I had the same one twice. Sorry. I'll fix that.
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: Breakfast food. Three, two, one.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: Bacon.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Sausage.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: That was really close. They're all too aligned.
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: Fast food. Three, two, one.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: Burger King.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Is that fast food?
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: That's so.
• 18:03
  Speaker 5: Cracker Barrel is really not fast food. I'm not sure
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: what the rules say about that necessarily.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: That can be a debate.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: Well, I didn't know.
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: Well, you could have picked one that you know is
• 18:12
  Speaker 5: fast food. In and out.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Audible. Moving on.
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: Hair color. Three, two, one.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: Brunette.
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: Season. Three, two, one. Summer. And finally, side of a coin. Three, two, one.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Tails. Tails. Wow.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: We had 50-50 on that last one.
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: Well, that's why I put it last.
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: But you know what?
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: What?
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: I think the scrubbers are going to fight that Cracker Barrel.
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: I think so. I think Cracker Barrel cost you.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: It might be. It might be.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: How would I know what Cracker Barrel is? I've never
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: been to one.
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: Don't say that. But Becca was.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: Talking about it the other day.
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: I remember it. It was three days ago. I remember
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: it clearly.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: Well, can you come up with 10 more?
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: We'll play again later.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: Later?
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: No.
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: Next week.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: The pitch, the tone is so high.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: If Charlie Puth were here, he could tell us exactly
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: what that note is.
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: We almost did it. I think Chipotle, we could have
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: gotten away with fast food.
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll give you that one.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: I think Cracker Barrel's a full sit-down restaurant.
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: Full service restaurant. I'll give you counter service.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: Well, give us one more.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Come on.
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry. It's a failure. I'm sorry. We're going
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: to do it again next week.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: But like, Almost so impressive.
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: I mean, really good. Yeah.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: Cracker Barrel's crazy, though. It was on top of my mind.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: That's what I go with, what's on the top of
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: my mind.
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: Well, that's a good strategy.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: I blame you, Mark.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: When all else fails, blame Mark.
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: All right, you want to play the feud?
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Yes!
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: All right, here we go. Playing the feud. All right,
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: so everyone knows how this game is played. Everybody has
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: a question. Becca and Tanya buzz in and try to
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: name the most popular answer. Then they get control of
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: the board. They get three strikes. For this first one,
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: I pulled from Ranker. I like to do one that's
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: specific to you guys, not just a generic family food question.
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: So I pulled this off of Ranker, and I gave
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: you the top 12. So there's a lot here. And
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: you can use that as part of your strategy if
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: you'd like. Here we go. Our first question, top 12
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: answers on the board. Here we go. What is, the
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: Ranker people were asked, what is the greatest romantic comedy
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: of all time?
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Tanya.
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: Tanya.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: That is number eight. Seven will beat it. Becca?
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: I'm going to say When Harry Met Sally.
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: When Harry Met Sally is number nine.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Oh, dang.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: I've never even seen that. I just thought maybe it'd
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: be up there.
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: That's a good answer. Tanya controls the board. What do
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: you think, Tanya? Play or pass?
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I'm going to play.
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: How many do I have to get? You have to
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: get ten more.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: You can do it.
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: It's a lot.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: Come on. You can do this.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: The Notebook.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: The Notebook? Oh, boy. Not on there.
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: Sorry.
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: It's not a rom-com. Yeah, it's not really a comedy.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: At all.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: Say it again. It's a drama.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: Romantic comedy. Romantic comedy of all time.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh. Well, that would have been nice to
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: have been made clear.
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: It was. It was very clear. Again, it's my fault.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: The Wedding Planner.
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: The Wedding Planner. I'm sorry. That's your second strike. Sorry.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: No.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: That's crazy. That is criminal.
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: Take it up with Rancor.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Monster-in-law?
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: Oh, my God. That's a real Hail Mary. No, that's
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: not on the list. All right, so, Becca, that's your
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: three strikes. You have ten to choose from here, and
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: you get the first question if you get any of
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: these ten.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: Pretty Woman?
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: Pretty Woman's number seven. Very nice. There you go. And
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: Becca takes the first question. So, to review, here they are,
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: because you're going to have some issues with some of these,
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: and that's fine.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: But, you know, the goal is to get as many
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: as you could. Number one, ten things I hate about you.
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: That's fine. Wait, what?
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Oh, she won that? Yeah.
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: Because I just had to guess one higher than the
• 21:57
  Speaker 4: one you guessed.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: Number two is The Princess Bride, which I don't know.
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: I question that being included. But number three, Clueless, which again,
• 22:05
  Speaker 5: I don't think of that as a romantic comedy necessarily.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: The Notebook didn't make it?
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: Well, that's not a comedy. There's no two different genres.
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: Number four, Legally Blonde.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: These are not a rom.
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: How about The Proposal?
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Yes. Great romantic comedy.
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: Princess Diaries?
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: No.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: No.
• 22:25
  Speaker 5: How about While You Were Sleeping? That's a good one.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: I've never seen it.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you should watch that.
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: Sandra Bullock, you'd like that one. You've Got Mail, that's
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: a classic.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Classic.
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: And Sleepless in Seattle. And really the reason I went
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: to 12 is because I felt some of those top
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: ones were not going to be guests, so I gave
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: you a couple that I thought might be. Anyway, that's
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: a point for Becca.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: I was going to do Sleepless in Seattle.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I wasn't going to do any of those.
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: Well, Wedding Planner should be on the list for sure.
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: Question number two. Top eight answers on the board. Here's
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: the question. Name an occasion for which you might wear
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: your lucky underwear.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Becca.
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: Becca.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: First date.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: First date is the number one answer. You may play
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: or pass. Pass. Interesting strategy. Tanya, we go to you.
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: There are seven up here. An occasion for which you
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: might wear your lucky underwear.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Game day.
• 23:14
  Speaker 5: A sporting event is up there.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: Very nice. That's number four.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Buying a lottery ticket.
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: I'm going to give you gambling. Gambling is up there
• 23:25
  Speaker 5: at number three. So that's a little bit of a stretch,
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: but I'll take it.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I'm going to wear my lucky underwear to the gyno.
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: It's not up there. I'm sorry.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I'm going to wear my lucky underwear to my wedding.
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: Wedding night is up there. Very nice. Good job. Okay.
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: You're on a roll here. You have four of the eight.
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: You're halfway home. Four more. One strike, you got two
• 23:52
  Speaker 5: to burn.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I'm going to wear my lucky underwear to a concert.
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, no. That's the second strike. One more strike.
• 24:00
  Speaker 5: By the way, I think all of these are legitimate answers,
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: as opposed to the last question. I think you'll agree.
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: Where are you going to wear your lucky underwear? The
• 24:07
  Speaker 5: number two answer is still up there, as well as six, seven,
• 24:09
  Speaker 5: and eight.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: I'm going to wear my lucky underwear to a job audition,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: job interview.
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: Job interview is the number two answer. Very nice. Here
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: we go. Three more.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: I'm going to wear my lucky underwear to my.
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: Three seconds.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: To my in-laws.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Oh, in-laws.
• 24:38
  Speaker 5: Okay. No, that is not up there. All right, Becca,
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: you can steal, but it's the bottom three. So it's
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: a tough guess here. You got three up there. What
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: do you think? For a commanding lead in this game.
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: Okay, so if I'm wearing my lucky underwear, I would
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: say like on a flight, on a plane.
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, no. Tanya takes that one. Here are the
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: final three. Your anniversary.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: Valentine's Day. Oh, duh. And an exam, like a final
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: exam in school. Never. Never would do that?
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Never would do that.
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: That's for luck. Lucky underwear. All right. No, that was
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: not rancor.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: Question number three. This is anyone's game. Here we go.
• 25:21
  Speaker 5: Buzz in with your name. Top six answers on the board.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: Here's the question. For the months of October. Name something
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: that might make you suspect your new house is haunted.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Becca.
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: Becca Tilly.
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: I would say weird sounds.
• 25:39
  Speaker 5: Noises and voices is the number one answer. Very nice.
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: But keep that in mind. Noises and voices are taken.
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: Don't guess voices. Would you like to play or pass, Becca?
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: I'm going to pass.
• 25:47
  Speaker 5: I'm going to pass that one over to Tanya. You
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: got five answers up there. Three strikes. What do you think, Tanya?
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: What would make you think your house is haunted? Ghosts.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: Ghosts is the number five answer. Very nice.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: That's all I got.
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: Keep it going. You can do this. Shadows. Shadows is
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: not up there. Nope. That's one strike.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Cold air.
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: Cold air is a very good guess. It is not
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: on there. No. Two strikes.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Cold air is a very good guess.
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: It is.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: Thank you, Mark.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: Um, flickering lights.
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: Flickering lights is number three. Very good. That is up there.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: If I were the weekend, I would say flashing lights.
• 26:23
  Speaker 5: Uh-huh. Sure. Isn't that Kanye? Yeah.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Uh, okay. Um, what would make me think my house
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: is haunted? Um, Tombstone's in my backyard.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry. That's not it. And that is your
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: third strike. We go over to Becca. You may steal
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: number two, number four, number six are up there. All
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: you need is one of them. Oh, I have one.
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: Mm-mm-mm-mm-mm-mm. See, the idea is you're supposed to be ready
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: for this, because while Tanya was guessing, you had yours ready.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Mine was flickering.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: Lights, and she guessed it. I'm sorry. Here we go.
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: Three seconds. I need an answer.
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: I'm going to say electricity going in and out.
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry. No, Tanya takes that one. Is Black Cat
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: one of them? No, that's not up there. Objects moving
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: by themselves.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Well, okay.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Is that not noises and voices?
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: No, it's neither of those things.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: That's objects moving by themselves.
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: Doors opening and closing.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: And weird odors.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: That could be a cold breeze.
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: No, it's not. But hey, Tanya's got two. Becca's got one. Tanya,
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: you can win the whole thing.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: That's what it sounds like.
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: If you get this one. Question number four. Name something
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: that grows faster than you want it to. Tanya. Tanya.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Ear hair.
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: Hair is the number one answer.
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: Pure hair.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: But also keep in mind that this encompasses all body hair.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's crazy because I was about to go to nipple.
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: I was about to go all over the body.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: You're going niche. Yeah.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: Toe.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Nope.
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: Hair is taken. Damn.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: How many are there?
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: Six answers. Five more to go.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Repeat the question one more time.
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: Name something that grows faster than you want it to. Tanya,
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: you can play or pass here.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: I'm going to play. Okay.
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: Weeds.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: Weeds is the number two answer. Very good.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: Lawn.
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: Weeds.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Repeat the question one more time.
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: Name something that grows faster than you want it to.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Nails.
• 28:16
  Speaker 5: Your nails are the number five answer. Very nice. Four more.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: One more time.
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: Name something that grows faster than you want it to. Children.
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: Children is number three. Look at you go. You're on
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: a roll. You have all three strikes left.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: I can feel it. I can taste it.
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: Two more answers up there. Three strikes.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: It's helping me when you repeat it.
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: One more time. Name something that grows faster than you
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: want it to.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Dogs?
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: Sorry, no. Not up there.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I would say eyebrows, but that's hair.
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: That was body hair, yes. In fact, they specifically had
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: unibrow as hair slash unibrow.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Grows faster than you want it to.
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: Here, let's try this. Name something that grows faster than
• 29:04
  Speaker 5: you want it to.
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: Moss.
• 29:10
  Speaker 5: Oh, I'm sorry. No, that's two strikes. You got to
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: get this one or Becca has a chance to steal.
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: So be ready over there.
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: No, I know, but I got nothing.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Faster than you. El Nino?
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: No, it's not any kind of a weather event.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: Here we go, Becca. For the steal and to stay
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: in this game. If you do not get one of
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: these final answers, Tanya is your winner.
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: Of Family Feud. You might be.
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: A winner today. Here we go.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Mold?
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: No, let me give it.
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: To you again. Name something that grows faster than you
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: want it to.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Mold.
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: Your answer is mold. If mold is up there, we
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: play a fifth and deciding question. If mold is not
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: up there, Tanya is your champion.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Show me mold! Tanya wins!
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: I'd like to thank myself and myself.
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: I have to say the last two are tough.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: What are they?
• 30:03
  Speaker 5: Your waistline.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: I was going to say your body.
• 30:05
  Speaker 5: That would have worked, huh? That would have worked. Debt
• 30:08
  Speaker 5: or expenses? I'm shocked Moss wasn't on there. Those aren't
• 30:13
  Speaker 5: bad answers, but it's thinking outside the box a bit.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: Good job, Tanya.
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: Good job, Tanya. You are the champion.
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: Weekend feeling absolutely on top.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Unbreakable.
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: Unbreakable. Unstoppable. Yeah.
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 30:26
  Speaker 5: Do you want to go for 200 points and $ 20, 000? Yeah,
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: we have to.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: We did so bad last time.
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: Who needs to leave? I guess Tanya leaves the room.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: No, I think I have to leave.
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: Okay, then you leave the room because Tanya's the champion.
• 30:36
  Speaker 5: She'll go first.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: I did so bad last time.
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: Also, don't forget, we have to talk about the Grey's
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: Anatomy pilot in this episode of Scrubbing In. All right.
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: Waiting for that big old soundproof door to shut. Here
• 30:50
  Speaker 5: we go. Tanya, you have 20 seconds on the clock.
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: I don't have Easton here, so I'm going to use
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: my handy dandy iPhone timer.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 30:57
  Speaker 5: Here we go. Let's go. Going for 20 seconds on
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: the clock, please. Thank you. That's minutes. That would not
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: be good.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: Ding.
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: 20 seconds starting now.
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 31:08
  Speaker 5: When I finish the first question. Name something you find
• 31:10
  Speaker 5: in a breakfast buffet. Eggs. Name a common candy bar component. Chocolate.
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: Name a type of insurance.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: House.
• 31:21
  Speaker 5: Other than letters, something people get in the mail.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Invites. Invitations.
• 31:26
  Speaker 5: Name something that has to be licked.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Envelope.
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: All right. Thank you. Plenty of time left on the clock.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Woo-hoo! That felt good.
• 31:33
  Speaker 5: There it is right there.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: That felt strong.
• 31:35
  Speaker 5: All right, let's see how you did here. Before you
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: go get her, don't go get her yet.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, sorry.
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: We asked, name something you find in a breakfast buffet.
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: You said eggs. Eggs was the number one answer.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: 25.
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: 25 points for eggs. Name a common candy bar component
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: or ingredient. You said chocolate. That is the number one answer.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: 36.
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: Name a type of insurance. You said homeowner's insurance. That
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: gives you 10 points. Other than letters, name something you
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: get in the mail. You said invitations, and that gets
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: you nothing.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: What?
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: Name something that has to be licked. You said an envelope.
• 32:12
  Speaker 5: That gets you nine points for a grand total of 1934.
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: That is 70 points.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Out of 200?
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: Oh, yeah. You want to try to get half. You
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: came up a little short on that. We're going to
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: try to get 200 with Becca. Let's see how she does.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
• 32:27
  Speaker 5: I am shook. Come on back in.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I'm actually shook.
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: I thought I'd... She did okay. She got 70. 70
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: is not terrible, not great.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: No, but I did amazing. I got two of the
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: number one answers.
• 32:40
  Speaker 5: Well, let's see how Becker does. She needs to get
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: 130 points.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Yes, which I'm shook by.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: I know, and that's happened to me, and I'm nervous.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: My brain's not firing off today.
• 32:49
  Speaker 5: Here we go. I'll put 25 seconds on the clock
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: this time.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: Let's see how we do. I'll ask you the same
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: question to ask Tanya. You may not duplicate your answer.
• 32:57
  Speaker 5: If you do hear this, I'll say try again. You
• 32:58
  Speaker 5: find me another answer, okay? Here we go. Name something
• 33:01
  Speaker 5: you find in a breakfast buffet.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: Fruit.
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: Name a common candy bar ingredient.
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: Peanuts.
• 33:11
  Speaker 5: Name a type of insurance.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: Car.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Excellent.
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: Other than letters, name something people get in the mail.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: Bills.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Excellent.
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: Name something that has to be licked.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: Sucker.
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: Lollipop. All right. There we go. Plenty of time. There's
• 33:28
  Speaker 5: the time right there. All right, here we go.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: I feel strong about these.
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: Name something you find at a breakfast buffet. You said fruit.
• 33:36
  Speaker 5: Our survey said two. Yeah, fruit was crazy. Eggs was
• 33:41
  Speaker 5: the number one answer. Which I got. Actually, number two
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: is melon, but I'm giving you fruit on that one.
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: Name a common candy bar component. You said peanuts. Our
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: survey said 22. Okay, not bad. We're over, no, we're
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: at 96. Name a type of insurance. You said car.
• 33:59
  Speaker 5: Our survey said number one answer, 28 points. We're at 124.
• 34:06
  Speaker 5: Other than letters, something people get in the mail. You
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: said bills. And our survey said 17. That puts you
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: at 141. Junk mail was the number one answer.
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: Oh, my.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: People are so negative.
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: Junk mail. Name something that has to be licked. You
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: said lollipop or sucker. That was the number one answer.
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: But you need 59 points for $ 20, 000. Our survey said 33.
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry. We come up short again.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: $ 174.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Wait, what did you get zero on?
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: She said invitations you get in the mail. Yeah, it
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: wasn't on there. That was it. That was her only zero. Yeah.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: That's okay. We got closer than last week.
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: And then I said house insurance, which was low on there.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: And then I said lick an envelope.
• 34:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: I was going to say envelope.
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: It's low.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
• 34:59
  Speaker 5: Number one.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: All right. Good times, Tony.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: We'll try again next time.
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: Congrats on the win.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Thanks.
• 35:04
  Speaker 5: Your recap of the Grey's Pilot.
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: When we come back?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Next, yes.
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: We're back.
• 35:26
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was beautiful.
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: Okay, so we are re-watching Grey's Anatomy from the beginning.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Are we going to do this every week, you think?
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: It's hard to say.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Do we want to? Let's start there.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: We'll get the reviews if people like it or not. Oh, okay.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: Fair.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: Facts. They might be like, we don't care, which is fine.
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: What were your initial thoughts?
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: Because you said you got an opinion that you had
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: never gotten before.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Yes. So I watched it with Robbie because I'm like
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: trying to get him sucked in. He was not excited
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: about it. But whatever. Besides the point. I was watching
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: the episode and I found myself having PTSD from my surgery.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Like I was watching it feeling way more anxious during
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: like the surgery scenes. Then I've never felt anything like
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: that watching Grey's Anatomy. And I was like.
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: Felt more sensitive.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Very sensitive about it.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: Might not be good to do this.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: My surgery was nothing compared to like the girl with
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: the brain surgery. And then the guy had like a heart.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, these were like very intense surgeries. Mine was
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: like very not that. But I found myself getting very
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: anxious during those scenes.
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: Well, pay attention to that feeling because this is not
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: something we have to do. We don't need to. It
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: wasn't like.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: I watched the whole thing. Yeah, but it gets way.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: More intense as the show goes on.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Does it, though? Yeah.
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: It does?
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: But I will say I forgot how they jump so
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: right into the surgical storylines and everything.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: Because in my mind, I always thought.
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: They were just setting up who the interns were and
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: them getting there and Meredith being... you know, medical royalty
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: and them talking about her mom being Ellis and how
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: that reveal is at the end.
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: But I forgot that.
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: It opens up with Derek and Meredith waking up after
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: having a one night stand.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: And he pursued her from day one. As soon as
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: he saw her, he was like, I want, I want
• 37:23
  Speaker 4: to you.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: Do you know what part made me sad though?
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: What?
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: You know how like Christina and Meredith say, Meredith says, hey,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: do you want to team up to work on this
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: case together? If we get it, the surgery is all yours.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: I don't want it. Right. And then when Derek gives
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: her the scrub in and she just takes it, I
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: wish she would have said, no, we made an agreement.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Christina would like she I wish she would have like
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: said something there.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's a very I think we see
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: that because.
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: We're not in that environment, but I think in a
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: surgical environment with the, your head boss, basically saying like,
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: I'm choosing you for you to be like, actually, no,
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: I made a pact with my new best friend that
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to take the surgery is not realistic.
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: She said like that was Christina's whole intensive purposes to,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: to partner with Meredith. She said, I, if we get it,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: I get.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: To scrub in.
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: I know, but I don't think Meredith had the authority
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: to make that decision, to make that promise.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: But she didn't even try.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: That's where she lost me.
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what? They worked through it, as
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: we know.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: Barely.
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: No, no, no.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: That little scene where she's like, this is where we say.
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: No, but they become best... I'm saying eventually they become
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: best friends.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: But I think it was just kind of a hard
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: lesson of being like, the loyalty is nigh in these
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: cutthroat days of being an intern.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: And I also, when George.
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: I get so much anxiety from George because he's just
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: anxious and not.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: Great at the beginning. Like I'd be so nervous if
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: he walked in to do my surgery.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: That's another thing I was thinking about. Like I was like,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, if George O'Malley was one of the
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: surgeons that was working on me, I would have not
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: been okay.
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: I just, it made me miss it so much. It
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: made me just miss what Grey's was. And I understand
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: that after however many, 22 seasons, you can't keep the
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: magic of something. But I was like, gosh, this show, every,
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: like Meredith going to work and seeing Derek after they
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: had just slept together and realizing he's her superior and
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: then the whole time they're talking about Ellis Gray and
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: Meredith being like having the advantage and all these things
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: happening that certainly make it look like she has an
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: advantage and then at the end seeing that her mom
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: is in a home so good it was so good
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: but yeah I I'm down to keep watching it I
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: I I love it. And I can see Haley said
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: she actually used to watch it on the early season.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: So I don't think it'll be. I got to get
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: her off the reality TV train.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: It's tough to get off the reality TV train. Let
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: me tell you, there's two seasons of Traders back to back.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: There's USA going and there's a UK version that's about
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: to hit the US of A.
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: It's so much.
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: So, yeah, we can continue to do that if we want.
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: But what do you think the special forces is? Are
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: you watching it?
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I think so. Ruby, well, a bunch.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: Of people went home. Spoiler alert. So many people went home,
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: and that one football player who didn't want to poop
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: in front of everybody, I'm like, come on.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Literally, same. I was like, this man doesn't want to
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: poop in front of people, so he leaves. Yeah. He's
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: a football player.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: And even if that was just the excuse, what a
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: horrible excuse.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Somebody wrote in our Facebook group, though, to give us
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: like a little bit of like intel on the show.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: And apparently they give you the money up front to
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: be on the show. So you get the same amount
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: if you last two hours or 21 days.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: Oh, so it's totally based off of your celebrity, though.
• 40:59
  Speaker 5: No, it's.
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because it ranges from $ 100, 000 to $ 500, 000.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: But you get what you get just for being on
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: the show. So it's a true character.
• 41:07
  Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: Because you're going to get... Hello? You can just go
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: collect your paycheck and then leave after two hours and
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: be like, goodbye or you can have that like character
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: and like want to see it through you.
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: Know yeah the grit of completing it the grit i
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: know i'd.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Be out after i think i could last five hours.
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: I think you undersell yourself so much in this situation
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: i think you could i think you can make it
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: to the end robbie.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Agreed with me because of the uti situation He was like,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: you would need to be changing your pants every hour
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: on that show.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: Do you think I could do it?
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, 100%.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: Haley thinks the sleep thing would.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sleeping in a room with all those people and
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: like they're snoring and noises. But don't you like to
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: fall asleep to sound? Don't you put like a noise
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: machine on?
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: Not someone rattling and snoring.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: I think you'd get used to it.
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'd do it. I'd do it just
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: to see for, like, the challenge, but.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Please, somebody from Special Forces, cast Becca Tilly on the
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: next season, because I do think you would make it
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: to the end. Out of sheer tenacity.
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I imagine that takes over, but I also
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: think when your body's pushed to, like, a physical limit,
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: there is... If you're not mentally strong and don't have
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: that mentality of, like, I'm going to get through this,
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: I think the physical part will make you just go,
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: I can't.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: Like Oliver Hudson was just standing there like projectile vomiting
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: because they said don't bend over.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: I was like, that's so scary.
• 42:42
  Speaker 5: So scary.
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: And I also feel like I'd get the giggles trying
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: to be serious in front of the staff and it would.
• 42:46
  Speaker 5: Just be bad.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: I don't think you would get the giggles.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I think you would like lock in.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: I don't know. But anyways, stay tuned for that if
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: it ever happens.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: I would do it with you if they let me
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: change my underwear.
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: You just have to do it. Like as soon as
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: you get back, go into your little Toilet.
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: Toilet.
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: But anyways, that's all for now.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: Don't worry, though.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: We'll be back next week.
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: We'll be back, as.
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: Always, on Monday with a new episode or two. And
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: we hope you have the best weekend. And we love
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: you so much.
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: Love you.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: Bye. Bye.
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: Love you, Crystal.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: Bye.