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Patience Endurance & Consistency (S5) S9:E3 · Inspirations for Your Life

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  Hey, guys.
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  Good evening.
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  It's John C.
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  Morley here, serial entrepreneur.
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  It's great to be with you.
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  All right, everyone?
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  Great.
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  So, you're here watching or listening to Inspirations
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  to Your Life, and this whole week, we're
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  talking about owning your path, clarity, courage, and
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  boundaries for peak living, and I think that
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  can be a challenge for a lot of
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  people, but it's important to embrace and understand
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  that, okay?
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  So, welcome, as I said, to Inspirations to
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  Your Life.
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  I am your host, John C.
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  Morley, serial entrepreneur, engineer, marketing specialist, video producer,
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  podcast host, coach.
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  That's right.
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  Also, a graduate student and a passionate lifelong
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  learner, and pretty soon, I'm going to be,
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  yes, guys, a published author.
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  I'm really excited about that.
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  It's important to understand, you know, why we
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  want to improve, and today, I want to
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  talk to you about patience and endurance.
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  This is series five, show nine, and we
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  are on episode number three.
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  It's patience, endurance, and we can't forget about
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  consistency.
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  Mastering deliberate action, a steady effort, and persistent
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  habits to build lasting success, focus, and personal
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  power, which I think sometimes that can escape
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  many, many people, all right?
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  So, that's an important thing to, you know,
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  to understand, all right?
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  So, um, what I want to tell you
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  about is patience first.
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  Patience allows growth to unfold naturally.
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  Don't rush your progress.
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  That's important to know.
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  I know a lot of people want to
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  rush their progress.
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  They want success in 20 minutes, and it's
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  not as much fun when you can enjoy
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  the process of getting there.
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  Number two, endurance turns effort into results over
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  time.
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  Making perseverance your superpower, and I think that's
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  hard for a lot of people to understand,
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  and so I want to share this with
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  you, and that is number three, consistency.
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  Consistency compounds small actions into major wins, daily
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  habits, because they all stack up.
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  I think that's a very, very important thing
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  to understand for people to understand, okay?
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  Let's jump into number four, and that's avoiding
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  forbidden shortcuts.
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  Lasting impacts come from steady work, not the
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  quick fixes that, you know, we want to
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  just, you know, flock to because we think
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  that's what we need at the moment.
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  Number five, patience transforms frustration into clarity, helping
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  you see solutions more clearly than, well, you
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  thought actually possible, okay?
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  That's important, guys.
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  So, number six, endurance strengthens resilience against challenges
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  that try to derail your path, and believe
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  me, they might.
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  Number seven, consistency builds trust in yourself and
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  others.
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  Reliability speaks louder than any words, and I
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  think that's hard for a lot of people
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  to understand, is reliability is the key.
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  Number eight, small, steady steps generate momentum, each
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  step moving you closer to your goals.
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  Avoid distractions, guys.
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  Number nine, that steel progress focuses your greatest
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  asset, okay?
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  Number ten, patience improves decision making, under pressure,
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  keeping you calm, and of course, very strategic.
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  But you can't get strategic if you're going
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  to constantly be like, how do I do
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  this?
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  Like, where am I going?
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  And I think that can be hard for
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  some people, okay?
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  But it's something that everyone has the power
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  to do, all right?
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  I think that's a very important thing for
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  a lot of people, you know, to recognize,
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  you know, what that's about.
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  And yeah, I think that's a really important
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  thing to definitely understand for everyone.
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  I hope that you appreciate that.
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  Number 11, endurance builds confidence in long-term
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  strategy.
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  Trust the process over time.
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  Number 12, consistency creates momentum, accelerates results, and
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  keeps you moving forward.
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  I think that's one that a lot of
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  people miss.
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  Consistency creates a momentum, a fuel that accelerates
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  our results, and keeps us not only moving
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  forward, but wanting to move forward.
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  And that desire really has power in all
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  of us, okay?
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  I think that's important to understand.
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  So, let's move on to the next point,
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  shall we?
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  All right.
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  Resist forbidden impulses that compromise your integrity.
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  Number 13, discipline safeguards your path.
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  Respect it, and own it.
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  And when you do, your life is going
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  to change.
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  Your life is going to change, all right?
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  Number 14, patience turns waiting into a strategic
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  advantage.
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  Timing matters as much as the effort that
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  you put forth.
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  Timing really does matter.
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  Number 15, endurance converts repetitive effort into mastery,
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  shaping skill through practice.
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  I think that's a real important thing for
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  a lot of people to understand.
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  Number 16, consistency stabilizes focus and energy.
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  Habits keep your day on track effortlessly.
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  Now, not the ones that are autopilot, like
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  getting you to be mindless.
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  It's important to understand.
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  I think that's a very important thing to,
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  you know, definitely to understand, all right?
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  Number 17, guys, always, always, always avoid forbidden
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  actions that waste time.
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  Protect your focus at all costs.
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  Even though I know sometimes it might seem
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  hard, you can do this, guys.
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  You absolutely can do this, all right?
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  Very, very important to understand.
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  And I think that's important thing to understand,
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  all right?
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  Is that you have that potential, all right?
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  Number 18, patience allows learning before acting.
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  Helping you make smarter choices, that's important, too.
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  Number 19, endurance keeps you grounded under pressure
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  even when chaos surrounds you.
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  Number 20, consistency shapes identity and character.
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  Who you are is revealed in, well, what
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  you repeat.
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  What you repeat is the character that you
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  build.
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  And I think that's a very important thing,
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  what we repeat, right?
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  I think that's an important thing.
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  But it scares a lot of people.
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  Yeah, it scares a lot of people.
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  Number 21, small, patient steps lead to long
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  -term victories, even tiny efforts count.
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  You might say, John, I'm only doing a
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  tiny bit.
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  And, you know, that's okay if we only
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  do a little bit, as long as we
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  keep doing that, okay?
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  That's important to understand.
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  The tiny effort, you know, whether it's so
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  minuscule you can barely see it, or maybe
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  even need an electron microscope to see it,
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  it doesn't matter as long as you keep
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  doing something consistently and positively towards your goal,
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  you will get there, all right?
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  Number 22, guys, endurance fuels confidence during uncertainty.
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  Perseverance is the antidote to fear.
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  It's the antidote to fear.
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  It's the antidote to fear.
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  Number 23, guys, consistency shapes reputation quietly, but
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  powerfully.
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  People notice reliable action.
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  They don't notice the people that are loud
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  and bragging, although that can catch people's attention,
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  like if somebody yelled fire, et cetera, it
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  would get their attention, but it wouldn't necessarily
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  be the attention that you want, all right?
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  That's a very important one to understand.
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  Number 24, avoid forbidden shortcuts that compromise results.
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  See, integrity is your guide.
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  I know you might think, well, gee, I
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  could do something else and get out of
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  something, okay?
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  But if you have integrity, you can move
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  forward, okay?
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  That's important to definitely understand, and I know
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  a lot of you are saying, you know,
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  this is hard for some people, right?
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  I know this is hard for some people
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  to get, but it's the truth, okay?
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  It's the truth.
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  I think truth is sometimes hard for us
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  to realize, okay?
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  But truth can set us free.
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  I think truth gets us confused, because maybe
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  we don't understand where we're going or why
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  we're going a certain way, but I want
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  to tell you that it's important to understand
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  and to ask questions.
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  Ask the questions, you'll get great answers, okay?
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  And when you do that, it's like your
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  life is going to change.
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  I don't want to say it's going to
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  change overnight, but you will be aware of
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  how it's changing, okay?
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  And that's an important thing to know, okay?
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  That question comes up a lot, and the
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  question might ask you things like, why am
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  I doing this right now?
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  Why am I involved?
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  Okay?
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  That's important to understand.
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  Very important.
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  And that question might throw you a certain
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  way, because it might not be what you're
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  expecting at the given moment, okay?
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  It might not be, but I want to
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  tell you that it has potential.
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  It has strong, strong, strong, strong, strong potential.
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  Potential that can, well, basically get you to
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  see new perspectives.
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  Open new doors.
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  Allow you to explore what you didn't know.
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  Allow you to realize that you have more
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  potential than you ever thought was possible.
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  Does that make sense?
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  It's the truth.
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  And if we understood truth for what it
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  is and not what other people have, then
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  maybe we would embrace it more, right?
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  And maybe that's about who you think it's
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  for.
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  Or maybe you get lost because of something
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  that is, I don't know, let's say out
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  of your realm for the moment, okay?
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  And I think that's a question that a
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  lot of us ask.
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  A question that we can ask anytime.
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  And I think sometimes when we ask the
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  question, we don't always know the answer.
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  We don't always know the answer.
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  But we can ask.
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  And the question sometimes will be different depending
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  on when we ask it.
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  That's something interesting.
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  Does that make sense?
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  And if we could understand that one question,
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  we could probably go to some amazing places.
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  And those places might lead us to ask
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  more questions and maybe give us answers or
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  even more questions.
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  But what it's going to do is not
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  let us quit.
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  It's going to allow us to basically see
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  where we are, what we're doing, and why
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  we are doing it.
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  I think that's an appropriate thing.
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  Asking questions is good.
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  The questions might be something like,
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  I don't know if I can do this.
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  But I'm here to tell you, you can
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  do it.
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  You absolutely can do this.
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  Sometimes we just get confused.
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  Sometimes.
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  Not all the time, but sometimes.
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  And when that happens, it's like our body
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  shuts down.
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  Again, not because it wants to, but sometimes
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  because it's fearful of what's next.
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  And that could be something that might scare
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  some people.
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  Right?
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  I'm just saying.
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  We can ask these questions again, again, again.
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  But my whole thing is, how do we
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  get ourselves to believe these things?
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  I think that becomes hard for a lot
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  of people.
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  Again, not because they want it to be
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  hard, but because of maybe their position in
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  life, where they are, what they're trying to
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  do.
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  Right?
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  Maybe that's the real choice.
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  Maybe the choice is that we have more
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  choices than we thought we had.
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  Does that make sense?
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  Or maybe not.
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  Maybe it's a question we ask ourselves, but
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  we don't get the answer we want.
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  We keep going back and re-asking.
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  Not because it's wrong.
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  Okay?
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  But because of who we are.
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  Because of our perspective in life.
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  Because of our perspective.
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  Our perspective allows us to understand why we're
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  a certain way or why we're not a
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  certain way.
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  And that could sometimes be very daunting for
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  a lot of people because they don't necessarily
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  know why they're asking a question or where
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  they are.
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  And that why happens for one reason.
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  You know what that is?
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  It's because people get scared.
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  I think that happens because people have fell
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  before.
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  And one person told me, John, it doesn't
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  matter how many times you fall.
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  What matters is how many times you get
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  back up.
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  How many times you get back up.
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  Doesn't matter how many times you fall, but
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  how many times you get back up.
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  And if we understand that, then we're 99
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  % there.
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  That can be hard for some people to
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  realize.
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  Number 25, guys, patience develops resilience against setbacks.
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  Being stronger with challenge and the other challenges
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  that might show up in your life.
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  And that's not to scare you.
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  That's to say that you've got to have
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  belief.
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  I think that's important.
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  And if we can separate these things, then
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  maybe we can actually start to move forward.
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  Maybe we can stop being the roadblock that
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  we're causing ourselves, not somebody else.
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  Number 26, guys.
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  Endurance builds discipline beyond the motivation level.
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  The effort carries you when inspiration fades.
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  Endurance builds discipline beyond the motivation and carries
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  you when inspiration fades.
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  Endurance is that strong feeling that makes you
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  want to keep going back and doing it.
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  Even when every part of you says, oh,
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  I'm tired.
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  You know, maybe you're working out and you're
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  like, oh, I don't want to do these
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  workouts today.
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  But it's the endurance factor.
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  Keep doing.
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  Your body's like, I got to do this.
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  It feels good.
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  Feels good after a workout.
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  Number 27, guys.
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  Consistency prevents regret from missed opportunities.
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  Keep showing up daily.
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  A wise mentor once told me, John, you
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  know, more than 80, 85% of success
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  in life is showing up.
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  Now, you may not be successful the first
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  time.
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  But if you keep showing up, if you
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  keep persisting, you will grab that opportunity.
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  That's not magic.
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  That's your belief.
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  That's your energy.
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  That's you communicating with people.
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  That's pretty cool.
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  So cool that I would tell you
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  your potential, as gentlemen, is unlimited.
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  And when I say unlimited, I mean that
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  the sky is the limit, which the sky
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  can go on forever and ever and ever.
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  Number 28, guys.
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  Avoid forbidden indulgences that drain progress.
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  Energy is your most valuable currency.
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  You know, this can happen with good friends.
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  It can happen with lots of people.
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  But the key is to recognize the pattern
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  and address it.
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  Does that make sense?
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  I think that's something that a lot of
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  people just don't get for some reason.
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  And it's because people don't understand.
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  They don't understand this one thing.
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  And the one thing they don't get is
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  that you can be whatever you want to
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  be.
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  You can be whatever you want to be.
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  That's an important thing, guys.
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  Your belief is key.
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  But it has to be consistent.
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  It has to be consistent again and again
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  and again.
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  If it's not, well, you're going to find
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  yourself disappointed.
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  You're going to find yourself disappointed, unfortunately.
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  But it's not something you can eat.
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  It's not something hard can't change.
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  That's important, guys.
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  And number 30, endurance and consistency make excellence
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  inevitable.
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  Your long-term results are unstoppable.
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  Ladies and gentlemen, I'm John C.
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  Morley, serial entrepreneur.
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  I appreciate you tuning in this evening.
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  Please do check out BelieveMeAchieve.com for more
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  of my amazing, inspiring creations.
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  I'll catch you real soon.
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  Remember, guys, patience and endurance is a big
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  set of keys you need for success.
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  If you're not doing them now, you better
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  start.
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  Take care, everyone.