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How to Come Out of Hermit Mode and Share Your Gifts · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  If you stumbled upon this video, then I'm going to guess that
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  you've been in a bit of a hermit mode lately.
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  You've been not socializing as much, not going out as much,
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  mostly been at home. Silence and stillness has been
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  important to you. You felt less focused on your
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  career and this is something that every gifted person goes
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  through. But now it's time to come out of
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  your hiding. Today I'm going to share why you
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  went into hiding, why you went into the hermit mode to begin
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  with, and why it's time for you now to come out and share your
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  gifts with the world. The reason why you went into
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  hiding is because you've outgrown your environment.
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  Gifted people often hide when their internal growth outpaces
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  their external environment. You started seeing more,
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  thinking differently, and questioning more deeply.
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  So you pulled back because expressing your new depth inside
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  old rooms created friction. Just like how many spiritual
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  people turn to minimalism on their spiritual path, this is a
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  bit similar. You reduced your exposure, your
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  energy leaks, people who had access to you.
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  Basically it was a reset, a detox.
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  Your soul, Your system needed it.
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  And before you get out there again, I want you to do an
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  exercise to help you so you don't fall back into the hermit
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  mode. Ask yourself which environments
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  expand me and which environments shrink me?
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  Which conversations energize you and which conversations drains
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  you? And then I urge you to make one
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  environmental shift this week. For example, maybe you will stop
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  attending something, something that drains you.
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  For example, going to the pub, going to parties, clubbing.
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  This can be a very negative environment, whatever that is
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  for you. Like when you go there
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  afterwards, you feel drained. It can also be a person, a
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  friend that sucks your energy out.
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  And this can happen when you're an empath.
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  People want to lean on your light.
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  And if you have several environments and friends who do
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  this, no wonder that you needed to go into hiding.
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  Affirm in the comments I prioritize my well-being.
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  The second reason why you went into hiding as a gifted one,
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  we've already touched upon a little bit, and that is that
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  your gift was overextended. Gifted people often become the
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  emotional container for everyone else.
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  You're the listener, the therapist, the stabilizer.
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  The wise one here is the cold truth.
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  If it drains you, it's not worth it.
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  So if your job drains you, a friend drains you, an
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  environment drains you, it's not worth it and you need to cut
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  down on it. And the reason why it drains you
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  is because it's not aligned with your soul.
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  When your gift circulates in the wrong direction, exhaustion
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  follows. So think about who you give your
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  energy to. I used to give my energy to
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  everyone, including strangers. If I was just sitting in the
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  sauna, strangers on the street, if somebody said hello, I would
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  give myself fully to them, which not only created friction in my
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  relationship with my partner but also within me because
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  everywhere I went socially, I would get drained.
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  And I was doing this because of people facing tendencies.
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  I wanted everyone to love me. But then I became more selective
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  of who I gave my energy to. My family, my partner, my
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  closest friends and the rest of people don't get as much energy
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  from me. And that way I was able to
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  socialize again, go to events because I was more selective
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  with my energy. So write down who are the people
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  who will get all of your energy, full access to yourself.
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  So usually that's your family, your partner, your pets, your
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  BFF's. And then ask yourself who gets
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  partial access to me? So they get a lot of your
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  energy, but not all of it. So this could be your friends,
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  colleagues, it's going to be different for everybody.
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  And then you have who gets limited access to you.
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  For example, if you're in a relationship like me, I'm giving
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  limited energy. And this could be people who
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  drain your battery like annoying colleagues or haters.
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  For example, if you have a channel like a YouTube channel
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  and, and what many people do in the beginning is that they will
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  respond to every hater comment, but eventually you just stop
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  carrying you stop giving your energy and preserve your energy
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  that way. The third thing that you need to
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  know if you're a gifted person who went into hiding is that you
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  need to avoid this trap that I'm gonna tell you about.
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  So when gifted people come out after being in hermit mode for a
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  time, they often come out completely scattered, like they
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  have so many ideas of what to do that they burnout quickly again.
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  So if you are already sharing your gifts online or you want to
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  share your gifts online, which I recommend because you have too
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  much wisdom not to share with the world, then I recommend
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  focusing on long form content because then that truly becomes
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  passive income. You can create a video like this
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  one and it can be seen for years to come.
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  So you get years of passive income from that video rather
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  than Instagram and TikTok where the lifespan is only 48 hours
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  usually. So my exercise for you is to
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  choose one main platform to post on that you hang out at the
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  most. For me, that's YouTube.
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  But if that is, let's say Instagram for you, then pick
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  Instagram. You know that platform best, the
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  algorithm, how it works, you enjoy, you can, you can follow
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  trends more easily. And when you've chosen that long
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  form platform, start posting consistently without obsessing
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  over numbers, how many views you got, how many subscribers you
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  got. Just post consistently and
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  celebrate that. And if you don't know what to
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  post and you want more clarity about your life purpose, your
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  business, your niche, then you can book a free Business Clarity
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  call with a coach from our team. We have a few more slots this
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  week, so check out the link in the description.
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  So gifted one. Know that this hermit face
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  wasn't a waste. You recalibrated your
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  environment, you reclaimed your energy.
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  You outgrew your container, and now you're building a new one.
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  Expansion requires space, boundaries, and structure, so if
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  you're ready to translate your gifts into something
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  sustainable, then watch my next video, Best Business Models for
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  Spiritual People. Let me know your aha moments
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  from this episode. Love you so much and see you in
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  the next one.