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- 1:48Chodlave redy hedy God. Now, okay, this is HBr News number four
- 2:12fifty six. NCFM continues to fight NFL picker triggers the Internet and it's good
- 2:19get it because it's like a football reference where we talk about the news of
- 2:22the week and give it the battery treatment. All right, hello everybody,
- 2:27and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. If you guys are doing well this week
- 2:30and you're laughing and all of the absurdity, so that you're not consumed by
- 2:32it, I'm your host, Brian Martinez, and I am joined by Hannah
- 2:37Wallen, doctor Ryder mccam is visiting with family, and Mike Jay is still
- 2:40unavailable, but we will endeavor to try to make this entertaining for you guys.
- 2:45As you can hear, my voice is almost at one hundred percent.
- 2:50I'm almost back. I will know I'm back when I can sing Louis Armstrong,
- 2:54which I will not do to you guys, but on my own time,
- 2:58I'll do it to Lindsay. So anyway, get ready for today's show.
- 3:05This week we're going to be talking about the latest filings by NCFM,
- 3:08which I'm currently displaying on the screen here. Regarding selective service, some predictable
- 3:15self deletion statistics that you probably should know about, and you probably already expect
- 3:21the speech that shook the world, especially women and more so, stick around.
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- 5:58Shout out to the Rumble gang really quick. I see you. And
- 6:02with all that said, let's get into today's story. So first, we
- 6:08got this from NCFM, So the National Coalition for Men n CFM. These
- 6:14guys, if you don't know, these guys are like you know ogs.
- 6:17They've been doing this longer than we have. They are marking the one hundred
- 6:23and seventh anniversary of the Selective Service System by filing a lawsuit in California challenging
- 6:29the requirement that only men must register for the military draft. They argue this
- 6:33policy violates equal Protection Clause of the Fifth Amendment, constituting unlawful sex discrimination.
- 6:40Joined by five individual plaintiffs, NCFM contends that mandatory male only registration is based
- 6:46on outdated stereotypes and that a gender neutral draft would promote fairness and national security.
- 6:53Previously, their two twenty thirteen lawsuit reached the Supreme Court which deferred to
- 6:58Congress. Despite legislative efforts to include women in the draft, opposition remains.
- 7:03NZFM seeks to end sex space discrimination in draft registration to ensure equal responsibilities and
- 7:10opportunities for all. And I will also add that the late great Mark Angeloucci
- 7:15rip Mark s in the chat he was in. He was fighting this battle
- 7:21and I think he was winning before his unfortunate well, essentially he was murdered,
- 7:29assassinated by what we are led to believe was essentially a rival. I
- 7:33have my doubts about that, but it is what it is. So the
- 7:39NZFM is not letting this get in the way. I think they are continuing
- 7:43to pursue Mark's original vision and I say they should keep plugging away at it.
- 7:47So, Hannah, do you have any thoughts on this story? Oh?
- 7:49Yeah, yeah, I have a lot of things. Because we've been
- 7:53talking about the evolution of suffrage in HBr talk for the last month or so.
- 8:00And yes, I noticed that even the revolutionary Revolutionary War, right,
- 8:03yeah, yeah, we're in the Revolutionary War now, but we went all
- 8:07the way back to medieval times when when the sort of proto concept of suffrage
- 8:13evolved out of the proto concept of a parliamentary system, which evolved out of
- 8:18the landlord system that the British took from the Romans. So we're talking.
- 8:24This has always been about a gentleman's agreement, basically between leadership and the people
- 8:33who were most expected to support leadership, which was men. And so the
- 8:39history of suffrage is written in men's blood. Women have always been along for
- 8:43the ride, and women have always had up until now, women have always
- 8:48had some level of obligation in their communities that went along with yes, you
- 8:54have voting rights. Yes, you have to be an upstaining citizen. You
- 8:58have to have the same level of taxation as men who get to vote.
- 9:03You have to have the same land ownership as men who get to vote.
- 9:05You have to have the same upstanding reputation, you know, and so on.
- 9:11And you have to vote in public. And for the longest time,
- 9:15voting was done not by secret ballot, but right out in public, in
- 9:20front of everybody, often using a method that let everybody see exactly how you
- 9:26voted. So if you went against the community and you voted for something unpopular,
- 9:33you know, you you did have people presure yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 9:39So it took courage to vote. It wasn't just something that you did
- 9:41because it was your right, It was a responsibility, and it was something
- 9:46that you weighed heavily and you did it. And it was always always with
- 9:52men associated with something that that could be interpreted as a form of conscription,
- 10:01even going back to like in fact, conscription pre dates voting under the English
- 10:09common law system, so for women to be exempt from that it's completely unnecessary.
- 10:16And there's a couple of things that we talked about in a HBr talk
- 10:20that demonstrate that historically women have been much stronger physically than today's women, and
- 10:28so there were in history when it was more likely for you to have to
- 10:35use physical strength to do work. Men and women cooperated in a lot of
- 10:41tribes on things like hunting and gathering. It wasn't women gathered and men hunted
- 10:48like we always believed. There is evidence that men handled the short range part
- 10:56of hunting of the battle and women used projectile from a distance as part of
- 11:01the the hunt. And so obviously there are things women can do that women
- 11:11haven't been obligated to do for a long time. And then you look back
- 11:13at the Revolutionary War, women went with the men to the military camps,
- 11:20and they weren't the ones carrying the guns. They mostly weren't the ones doing
- 11:24any of the combat, but they were in it. They weren't, you
- 11:30know, clear back at home praying for their husband to come home. They
- 11:35were right there carrying buckets of water from the river to the cannon that he
- 11:39was manning, or right there working in the hospital tents, taking care of
- 11:46the men who were injured, and you know, and it doesn't really indicate
- 11:54that men and women are going to do the same things in the draft,
- 11:58but it does indicate that there are things that there are jobs that women can
- 12:03be obligated to do. There are services in the military that are limited that
- 12:09could be expanded, for soldiers to receive care, for soldiers to receive assistance.
- 12:16There are many things that women can do that maybe aren't being done enough
- 12:22because there are only so many men to go around, and there should be
- 12:28obligation for women. And then there's other things too. During the twentieth century
- 12:35wars, the early twentieth century wars, when men were drafted to go over
- 12:41seas and fight, there was a big push to get women into workplaces that
- 12:46women don't usually go into and women discovered that they could actually do those jobs.
- 12:52So this is yet another thing that again, women can do dirty jobs,
- 12:58women can do tough jobs, women can do difficult jobs. Women are
- 13:01being lazy, and there is no excuse for women to not face the same
- 13:07legal obligation that men face in regard to having their voting rights. Even if
- 13:16we look at aptitude and skill and strength and agility and say, all right,
- 13:22well, the things we want women to do, we're going to use
- 13:26women's capabilities, women's talents, women's you know, more normal things that they
- 13:33can do and have women's obligations focus on those, and men's obligations will focus
- 13:41on what men can do. Like, there still should be something. There
- 13:45is absolutely no excuse. Back during the Revolutionary War, there were a handful
- 13:52of women that stepped up and did things like when the men that they were
- 13:56serving water to fell, they manned the cannons. I don't think that that
- 14:01would be the norm for women, and I don't think that most women could
- 14:05do that. But when a woman can do that, I don't think she
- 14:09should be exempt from it. If you prove that you can do something that
- 14:15men are obligated to do, then you join them in that obligation, even
- 14:18if it's one in one thousand women, you know, And at the same
- 14:24time, you know, people talking about this like the documentation of history is
- 14:30suddenly false. Because men and women are different. Every world has exceptions,
- 14:35right. My grandmother on my dad's side of the family was six feet tall.
- 14:41She worked at a factory where there was a machine that they called Big
- 14:45Bertha, and the machine was almost always run by men. When they had
- 14:52no men to run the machine on a given day because they were all on
- 14:56other machines that were more important to have the men run, thed my grandmother
- 15:01run it, and she ran it like the men, And she even asked,
- 15:05you know, am I doing this good enough? Am I doing the
- 15:07same thing that the men do on this machine? And she was told yes,
- 15:11other women could not do that, and it would be silly to say,
- 15:16well, you know, they should all get the same opportunity on that
- 15:18machine and they should all have the same rights. But because she could do
- 15:22it, she wasn't exempt in the workplace. They didn't try to make the
- 15:26other women do it, but they did have her do it because she could,
- 15:33because in their eyes, she was built like a man, and she
- 15:37was pretty strong. Too. So it's that you don't deal with situations the
- 15:43way you think ideally they should be. If you want women to all be
- 15:50delicate and fragile and protected and stuff like that, you deal with the way
- 15:54things are and you don't treat women like children. You treat women like adults
- 16:00who can take responsibility and it doesn't matter if the responsibilities get divided, you
- 16:08know, so that you make proper use of the skills that people have,
- 16:15so that you don't have somebody who was a great tinker doing the shoveling and
- 16:21somebody who has you know, bulging muscles trying to do the tinkering and failing.
- 16:26You put people where they can best serve their cause, and women shouldn't
- 16:33be exempt from that. There is no excuse. I can't remember. There's
- 16:40World War One or World War two, but they actually considered drafting women during
- 16:45the twentieth century for nursing duty and during one of the two world wars.
- 16:52So you know, this is this is there's no well, there were I
- 16:56think there were female Yeah, I think there were women in like sort of
- 17:03like you know, medic roles in on like in triages and like the camps.
- 17:07You know, during the Korean War, Vietnam. They just have to
- 17:12draft them because right enough women enlisted at the time. That's the only reason.
- 17:18Yeah, they had it was there was a discussion about it and a
- 17:21plan for it in in Congress. Yeah. Well uh yeah, so again
- 17:30kudos too, and shout outs to National Coalition for Men, Harry Krous,
- 17:34even Samota the Gang for continuing to represent and uh, don't let don't let
- 17:41this conversation go away that Mark Angelucci put so much into. So I got
- 17:49a super child. Men can scrub toilets. They should be able to do
- 17:53that kind of thing if they If they don't want to be in nursing,
- 17:56they could be in latrine duty. Okay, I got notes. Okay,
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- 18:14guess last night, like at one in the morning from for five dollars from
- 18:19Louise Perry and Cassie j on Walls of Protection for Society and they write attack
- 18:26on Titan reference the wall has fallen wall. Maria has been breached. Scared
- 18:30face, I'm guessing is like an emoji, like one of those really elaborate
- 18:34emojis. You know. Thank you for the superchows and your kind support.
- 18:42We are going to move on to the next story. This might be a
- 18:45short show. I don't know, maybe maybe not all right, so let
- 18:49us look at the next thing. So we got a new study. This
- 18:55is from not the Bee. New study shows increased suicide risk for post surgery
- 19:00teens. This might shock you, but a new study has launched with financial
- 19:06support from both the University of Texas and the National Institute of Health, which
- 19:11reveals a disturbing pattern amongst post surgery trends sexual individuals. The study, which
- 19:17looked at data from over ninety million US patients, shows that individuals will undergo
- 19:22so called gender affirming surgery have an increased risk of suicide attempts. Their risk
- 19:26of attempt at suicide jumps to over twelve times higher than that of the average
- 19:30person. Quote. Individuals who underwent gender affirming surgery had a twelve point twelve
- 19:37fold higher suicide attempt risk than those who did not. End quote and I
- 19:42want to add to that. The next story which is also about suicide,
- 19:47and I'm just going to use the word suicide. I hope you guys are
- 19:48okay with that. So, because I don't like what people say things like
- 19:52minecraft and self delete, because it just feels like we're tiptoeing around something that
- 19:59is really serious, because we don't want to trigger people with words. So
- 20:03and I can't. I can't. I don't have the I don't have the
- 20:07discipline to keep making up new ways of saying suicide. So I'm just gonna
- 20:11say suicide. I just want to say that I warned against this years ago,
- 20:15that us or not us, like I'm blaming anyone here, but like
- 20:21our society leaning into this transition like sort of you know, transtrender phenomenon,
- 20:33which is essentially in a way, it's just the evolution of EMO, but
- 20:40like it's taken to an extreme. I said this was going to result in
- 20:42a lot of suicides, like there were going to be serious problems if we
- 20:47don't take it seriously and we don't seriously question the things that young people are
- 20:52claiming because there are pressures on them to essentially change their gender. And I
- 20:59also said that it was going to be mostly men too, Now this study
- 21:03doesn't go into the gender, but the next story that we have does and
- 21:07this kind of like and I'm not happy about this, but it confirms my
- 21:11suspicion is that you know where we were using or people were using social media
- 21:17to groom children into thinking that there's something that they're not. And then there
- 21:21were parents that, for whatever reason, were totally supportive, and they were
- 21:25convinced by the media and academia and the entertainment industry and all these other things
- 21:29social media into believing that if they transition, they're going to be okay.
- 21:34This is this is what happens to not just the young trans people who think
- 21:41that they're trands or whatever, but it's also happening to in cells who transition
- 21:45and try to transmax and like live as women. It's it's it's a problem
- 21:51because it came from Missonry. It emerged from Missonry, and it basically convinced
- 21:57young boys that being a boy is the worst thing ever and they should change.
- 22:00And it convinced young girls that being a girl is terrible because boys oppress
- 22:04you, so that you should change. And now people are are We're gonna
- 22:08start seeing the consequences and it's gonna get a lot worse. But anyway,
- 22:12that's all I wanted to say about that. Not surprising, Hannah, Do
- 22:15you have any thoughts well, One of the things I will point out with
- 22:19with regard to both of these issues is, and this is something that I've
- 22:25been noticing in the workplace for a long time as well and in other aspects
- 22:32of life. But I'm not going to get into that gen X. When
- 22:36we when we raised our kids, there seems to be a pattern, like
- 22:42the baby Boomers tried not to do the harshest forms of discipline that their parents
- 22:48did, which, like we would have been horrified by, like a lot
- 22:53of the things that that the baby Boomers grew up with as normal forms of
- 22:57punishment, and then looked at some of the ways that baby Boomers disciplined in
- 23:07what was normal forms of punishment for Boomers and decided that, you know,
- 23:12maybe some of those were wrong as well, and we had better ways of
- 23:17doing things. And different people went different directions with that, and some of
- 23:25them raised their kids instead of finding different ways to train them to make wise
- 23:32choices. They didn't discipline, they didn't use any kind of drawing the child's
- 23:40attention, to natural consequences, making the child think about, you know,
- 23:45this is what happened when I did this? What could I do to get
- 23:48a better result? Instead, I know none of that. How does this
- 23:52person feel about what I did? None of that? And so they didn't
- 23:56get that lesson, and then when they raised their kids, it was somebody
- 24:03else has to fix all of my problems. And then combined with that,
- 24:07you know, there's been over the last four generations this pattern of things getting
- 24:14easier and more automated and less cerebral when you do them. For instance,
- 24:22my grandparents taught my parents how to drive in manual transmission vehicles because that's what
- 24:30they had, and in fact, both of my parents I remember them telling
- 24:34me when I was growing up they learned to drive without power steering, and
- 24:40so driving without power steering for most Gen xers is completely alien. We had
- 24:45manual and automatic transmission vehicles equally available. You could get either one, and
- 24:53people enjoy one or the other more and so on. But as you get
- 25:00to the younger generations, more and more of them don't know how to use
- 25:06something like a manual transmission vehicle or any other device that has gone from a
- 25:12more manual usage, a more involved usage to a more automatic button pushing,
- 25:21speak into it and it does what you want kind of usage. And so
- 25:25you have this decreased set of ways to learn how to make things happen the
- 25:33way you want them to happen, how your actions affect the outcome. If
- 25:38you do it wrong, your engine gets messed up. If you do it
- 25:44wrong, the machine doesn't give you what you want. And as that's been
- 25:48happening, at the same time, gen X developed this really stupid idea around
- 25:55sports where everyone gets a trophy, so you can't even learn to deal with
- 26:00Well, we didn't perform up to standard and the other team did, so
- 26:04they won and we lost. We're gonna go get good good game, right,
- 26:10So grandpa's in the audience that are my age. Here's what needs to
- 26:15happen. If you want to save your grandkids from suicide. Get them into
- 26:22games with you and get them into video games. Get them into offline book
- 26:33and paper tabletop games, role playing games, get them into board games with
- 26:38rules. Get them understanding how to because they're not going to get opportunities in
- 26:45the world to do things like you know, if you don't have a stick,
- 26:49they're not going to learn to drive a stick right. So for the
- 26:56younger set, that's manual transmission that you've never been expec those to more likely
- 27:00than not. But yeah, get them into those, Get them into activities
- 27:07that you can impart problem solving skills and situational assessment skills and coping with failure
- 27:19and using it as a springboard for self improvement skills because they haven't been taught
- 27:27those, and they're not being taught those. They're being taught that they should
- 27:33never fail and they should never experience a sense of not having everything be just
- 27:38right, so they don't know how to deal with it, and it makes
- 27:44them vulnerable to those teachers that are manipulating them into thinking that their problems will
- 27:49be solved, that they change sex, and that they have to be different
- 27:52and special or nobody's going to care about them. It's if you want them
- 27:59to not be vulnerable to that, that's what you gotta do. Play games
- 28:06with them where the story has a tragic character and talk or the character has
- 28:11a tragic story and talk about the story, talk about the character overcoming that
- 28:15hardship and that that challenge and that pain and suffering and becoming great through that
- 28:23process. You know, that's what these kids need and they're not getting it
- 28:29from mom and dad. And it might be because mom and dad didn't didn't
- 28:33get it and they didn't have to deal with it from from from you guys,
- 28:41right. And yeah, participation trophies. Somebody was saying participation trophies started
- 28:45with baby boomers. That's true. It didn't start with kids my age when
- 28:49I was a kid. It started with kids that were like younger than my
- 28:53younger brother, the tail end of Gen X started getting those stupid participation trophies.
- 28:59We got we got prizes when we won something, or we got if
- 29:06you complete something that that is similar to a course of study or seminar or
- 29:11something like that, you might get a certificate that says I went and learned
- 29:15how to do this thing. But participation trophies were ah, a younger thing
- 29:22than me, and I think those have been very damaging to the mentality of
- 29:27the kids that have received them. But yeah, that's that's my take.
- 29:33They ply need grandma's are not. I'm not don't mean to leave you guys
- 29:37out. They're not. You're not as likely to do this, but you
- 29:42know, teach your kids how to take care of themselves, because I'm also
- 29:47running into a shitload of zoomers who don't know things like if you put dishes
- 29:52in the dishwasher and the water comes from a post that stands up in the
- 29:57middle, they need to face the middle and not face away from the middle,
- 30:00or the water won't hit them, and you need to put in the
- 30:04soap, or the dishes will stink when you get them out. Like they
- 30:08don't know that stuff. They don't know that you need to put detergent in
- 30:12with the laundry or the laundry doesn't get clean. They were eating the detergent
- 30:15when they were little, So you know, these are things that yeah,
- 30:22these are things Pod challenge. Yeah all right, I can teach how to
- 30:26use a recipe book. I know people that don't know how to use a
- 30:30recipe book and have been upset to find out that I understood that five CC's
- 30:37is a tea spin. Yeah, huh, all right, I got a
- 30:45super chat uh and we're gonna go out. The next story is related,
- 30:48so I don't want to add to much of this one. Albert data Retro
- 30:52gave is five dollars Canadian and says, just read the nurse Draft was world
- 30:56War two and came within one vote. Germany surrendered before or it was necessary.
- 31:02All Right, this is not without precedent. This could be done and
- 31:07there is no excuse not to. All right, Okay, so we're gonna
- 31:12move on to next story. Let us know what you guys think about this
- 31:15one in the comments. This is also similar. Oh for some reason this
- 31:19thing like okay, so maybe you didn't know this, but like, obviously,
- 31:26historically there has always been cases of suicide, but statistically it is usually
- 31:32in middle aged men were the leaders in suicide. Well, that has changed,
- 31:38so when discussing age and suicide, it has become near gospel to note
- 31:44that suicide rates are highest amongst the middle aged. Suicide rates highest amongst middle
- 31:49aged men. Read the headline of a twenty seventeen NBC News article. The
- 31:53website for the advocacy group Samaritan says middle aged men are more likely to die
- 31:59by suicide than any other age group. In reference to the increasing suicide rate
- 32:02for young people men, psychologists Chris Ferguson and Patrick Marky countered that suicides are
- 32:09actually higher. Are countered that suicides are higher amongst middle aged adults, not
- 32:15anymore in twenty twenty and twenty twenty one, the suicide rate amongst Americans in
- 32:21their twenties or thirties was higher than the suicide rate amongst those in their forties
- 32:24or fifties. So this is the first time in a very long time that
- 32:29the suicide rate has gone up in zoomers and millennials in particular men. And
- 32:34I have here a chart that shows the colored lines of the age groups,
- 32:44and as you see that it was high in for most of the time.
- 32:49It was like people between fifty and sixty was like always like leading in that
- 32:54and the young people were down at the bottom in two thousand and seven,
- 32:58two thousand and eight. But as you can see, this has gradually been
- 33:00going up, and it's spiked quite a bit, to the point now in
- 33:06twenty twenty one, the ages twenty to twenty nine, So that's like essentially,
- 33:12you know, zoomers and millennials, like late millennials and zoomers, but
- 33:16it doesn't matter. Ages twenty to twenty nine are now the leaders. There's
- 33:22there's some things going on there though. If you look at that chart that
- 33:29you can see a very sharp drop starting with the middle aged men, starting
- 33:37in what twenty nineteen, twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen. Huh, And obviously
- 33:43some of that may have been due to there there was an economic upturn in
- 33:50the middle of the Trump presidency, and economic issues are a big part of
- 33:54why. Yeah, men commit suicide in their middle age. They get to
- 34:00a point where and then COVID, right, they have a lot of debt,
- 34:04And then it continued during COVID like it, it bottomed out during twenty
- 34:09twenty, which is COVID hit in I want to say late twenty nineteen and
- 34:15early twenty Yeah, it was. It was late twenty nineteen. It was
- 34:19literally called COVID nineteen right, Well, but I don't remember that it was
- 34:22because it hit that year. I'm thinking there was something else going on about
- 34:27that, but I was like, right at the end of that year,
- 34:29but go ahead, yeah. Yeah. So the other thing that I would
- 34:35point out here is that that's part of it. Fortunately, the younger set
- 34:40hasn't gone above where the worst numbers were for the older set, but you
- 34:49can see that as the older set sort of had that peak and then dive,
- 34:57the younger set went all of a sudden had spike during that same point
- 35:01in time, and I don't know if you remember what happened when Trump won.
- 35:09The news media and the establishment school systems and everything talked about it like
- 35:17it was the apocalypse. It was the end of the world. It was
- 35:21the worst thing to ever happened. We were all going to die, Everything
- 35:24was going to go to hell. And then during twenty twenty we had the
- 35:30lockdowns and the Summer of Love. So well and like the Chazz Chop that
- 35:36was all twenty twenty two, but the lockdowns and the kids not being able
- 35:42to go to school, the kids not being able to do their usual social
- 35:46activities, the kids not being able to get jobs and start their their careers.
- 35:53You know, all of that factors into a person's mental health, and
- 35:59particular boys, when you make them feel useless and purposeless, that is death
- 36:07to a boy. Men and boys relate to their friends and their neighbors part
- 36:15of a group by having a proactive role in the group. Women and girls,
- 36:20they're given support for finding their place in the group by bonding socially with
- 36:28that necessarily having to have a proactive role in the group. But we teach
- 36:31boys like that that like we should. And then then twenty twenty took away
- 36:38the one way that boys could feel accepted and belonging in society. So I'm
- 36:49not really surprised that these numbers went up significantly, But I will take that
- 36:52right back to, you know, gamify your kids development because a lot of
- 37:00things that were I'm not saying that your kids can't learn or your grandkids can't
- 37:06learn woodworking and you know, mowing the lawn and all of the different things
- 37:12that we learned growing up as kids to be purposeful, contributing parts of their
- 37:21group and their community and everything. But the problem solving aspects, there's a
- 37:27lot of things lacking in their environment that gamifying problem solving techniques by by playing
- 37:36games with them is going to help with. And I honestly think that getting
- 37:42kids involved in games that are that are really cerebral will help to lower that
- 37:50suicide rate bring it back down to where it was before. I want to
- 37:54go in a little bit more detail on these studies. So this first one
- 37:59was just a this other one they kind of relate here. I'm going to
- 38:02read some of this, okay, so we can see this because I think
- 38:06that the trans thing is part of it. To all of the stuff to
- 38:08play on in schools et cetera. So between twenty nineteen and twenty twenty one,
- 38:14suicide fell amongst middle age adults and continue to rise amongst younger adults.
- 38:17The end result was the reversal of the long accepted statistic that more middle aged
- 38:22Americans take their own lives in younger adults. But it is still true that
- 38:25the highest suicide suicide rate is among middle aged men. That's what the headlines
- 38:30have often noted. It is not the highest suicide rate now is amongst younger
- 38:36men, so not even I mean women. It's it's still below men a
- 38:40lot, but I think that in younger women it's going up a little bit.
- 38:44Suicide rates for middle aged men fell precipitously after twenty eighteen, while those
- 38:49for younger men rose until men reached seventy five or older, when suicide raised
- 38:53rise due to terminal illnesses. The highest suicide rates are now amongst men in
- 38:59their twenties, not the middle aged. There's also a striking pattern amongst women.
- 39:02The suicide rate amongst middle aged women fell after twenty nineteen, while the
- 39:07rate for younger women can Jesus rise. Middle Aged women are still more likely
- 39:10to take their own lives than younger women. But the gap has narrowed considerably,
- 39:15but still it's way below men. It's still way below men. COVID
- 39:19might have also killed off a lot of older people that there. There's also
- 39:23that issue of people who might have been in that suicide set, might have
- 39:31might have died from COVID or COVID related illnesses. Well, would they have
- 39:38been counted as a got with COVID wasn't COVID and it would have been counted
- 39:42as COVID deaths, Yeah, but not been not a suicide? Right,
- 39:46They would have been counted as not a suicide, so the rate of suicide
- 39:50would go down, right, Yeah. But I don't think they're I think
- 39:54these these are not counting COVID deaths. I think they're just counting suicides.
- 39:58That's the point. That's the point of my statement. I think that a
- 40:00lot of a lot of the it's possible that a lot of the reduction in
- 40:07suicide in the older Oh you mean, yes, they're not dying from suicide
- 40:12that I of COVID, right, because a lot of I think a lot
- 40:15of suicide happens when somebody is faced with a terminal illness or a degenerative illness,
- 40:23illnesses that are not terminal like my mom's chronic pain. One of my
- 40:30one of my best friends from elementary school that we stayed close all the way
- 40:34up to high school, and then we took different courses of study in high
- 40:37school and we didn't get to see each other anymore much at all, and
- 40:40uh so we kind of went our separate ways, but we maintained at least
- 40:45a connection, you know, for years and years until I moved away.
- 40:49And the last time I went to to to check and see how she was
- 40:53doing, this has been years ago. She had committed suicide because she had
- 41:00degenerative disk disease like my mom, and all of her pain care treatment was
- 41:05taken away. And that's something else, by the way, that has been
- 41:09happening over the last ten years or so. In the eighties, insurance companies
- 41:16were allowed to get people with chronic pain disorders addicted to a lot of narcotic
- 41:23pain medicines instead of paying for therapies that could reduce the rate of degeneration that
- 41:34those illnesses caused and the rate of increase of pain and lack of mobility.
- 41:42And then, after years and years of degeneration, when it was too late
- 41:47for therapy to work. The law came along and said, well, you
- 41:51can't have those pain medicines anymore, you have to try these other therapies when
- 41:53it was too late, and so a lot of people in Gen X and
- 41:58the baby boomer generation did things that may not have been counted as suicides.
- 42:05Hers was because it was an obvious suicide. My mom probably wasn't intentionally trying
- 42:14to commit suicide when she decided to schedule her surgery before the COVID crisis was
- 42:21over instead of trying to wait it out for a year, but it led
- 42:27to her death directly. She was infected with COVID by the hospital. The
- 42:34only reason that I haven't sued is because there's no way to prove that other
- 42:37than the fact that nobody around her exposed her prior to her going into the
- 42:45hospital, so she didn't have and nobody that had been around her came down
- 42:51with it until after being exposed to her after she got it. But that's
- 42:57not going to be enough for a court case. The hospital gets away with
- 43:00killing my mom, and like that kind of thing happened to people all over
- 43:06the country, So we're looking at I want to understand the crisis that's happening
- 43:15to young boys. But I don't want to hold my breath and say things
- 43:20are okay for middle aged men until we know how much of that reduction is
- 43:25accounted for by excess that's that basically ended up as a substitute or ended up
- 43:35as a They died before they became suicidal, before things hit them that would
- 43:40have made them suicidal. Middle Aged men may still need support that they're not
- 43:46getting. It's just that it's pretty obvious that now so do a lot of
- 43:52twenty and thirty year old you know, like the twenties and thirties years old
- 43:58men need support that they're not getting. Yeah, I mean, we're not
- 44:04doing what we should be doing for men. No, obviously, And that's
- 44:07kind of what I'm getting at. I mean, the I think that the
- 44:13more important takeaway for me is not what's going on with middle aged men,
- 44:16because what they're they're not necessarily dropping way down. There was a little bit
- 44:22of a dip, but we talked about that. But what is troubling is
- 44:25the sudden spike in younger men. And I think that it does have to
- 44:29do with a number of factors, But I don't think that all of the
- 44:34rampant miss injury is not irre is not like I don't think that that's irrelevant.
- 44:38I look at what has like how much our attitude towards men has changed
- 44:45in just the last decade, and it's only gotten worse, and I think
- 44:51there would be some effects. And then there's also things that have been put
- 44:54in motion before we were born that are now having an effect on men,
- 44:59you know, like young guys in their thirties, and I think that's the
- 45:02troubling thing. And even this article, and again there's links to all these
- 45:07stuff in the description if you want to look at it. It's on our
- 45:09Patreon page. It says it is imperative to recognize that not all of this
- 45:14news is good. These statistics increase the urgency of determining what has gone wrong
- 45:19for gen Z and younger millennials. They are not only depressed, but they
- 45:23are taking their own lives at high rates. Despite the statements of critics,
- 45:28focusing on the mental health of teens and young adults is not moral panic.
- 45:32It is now a mandate, and I think that that is one hundred percent
- 45:37right. You know, the mental health and therapy industry is not really focused
- 45:44on the needs of men are. The Internet isn't really a place where men
- 45:51can gather. There is just very very unhealthy and toxic, and we have
- 45:55to start like having honest conversations and helping in earnest because this stuff is only
- 46:02going to get worse. And I'm you know, I'm really worried for the
- 46:07young guys. I'm really worried for the millennials and the Zoomers, so hopefully
- 46:12they won't be able to pull through. But I think that is a big
- 46:15problem. All right, I got a super chow I should read from regarding
- 46:22Zoomers and millennials just not knowing things gives us five dollars, thank you,
- 46:27and says modern adults, particularly younger adults, seem to have a fascination and
- 46:30adoration towards products that just work. They seem to be duped by Hollywood sci
- 46:36fi and types of people like Steve Jobs that have sold products and tools as
- 46:39a magic item rather than a tool that has an underlying logic to it.
- 46:45They just want a button to do the magic. As Louis Rossman often says,
- 46:50if you can't repair it, you don't own it. Lewis Rossman is
- 46:52one of those He has a great channel. He's like a right to repair
- 46:58advocate, and I watched his videos from time to time. He helped me
- 47:02out with some things, because yeah, you're right, I mean, especially
- 47:07with Apple, they are notorious for this where they like with a PC you
- 47:12can like you know, mess around with the parts and like a lot of
- 47:15people that get really into that stuff and you know, building their own machine.
- 47:21But like Max, they they're i mean, I'm sure you can go
- 47:23inside and mess with them, but it like voids your warranty. They're they're
- 47:28very, very particular about their products and it is like you don't own it.
- 47:31That's why I'm not I'm anti Mac by the way, not a fan
- 47:36of Apple, but that's just the thing that killed my dad's enthusiasm for him.
- 47:40Like he my dad is one of the was one of the first educators
- 47:45in the country to be directly trained on a computer. And you know when
- 47:51the first computer he used was a wall wide in its size and you had
- 47:59to punch holes in a card and feed the card into it to program it,
- 48:02and then it would it would print out what you programmed it to print
- 48:07out. And uh. The the building was the only building on campus at
- 48:12high air conditioning because the computer didn't have its own cooling system. Right,
- 48:15That's how far back when I when I say I'm a multi generational nerd,
- 48:22I'm not kidding. You know, my my grandfather was an engineer on Dad's
- 48:27side of the family. And uh so this this is the way, you
- 48:30know, and and this is a man brain thing too. I was talking
- 48:37to Vernon Miggs about this just yesterday, that our society is built on the
- 48:45way it's it's built on top of it's our The underlying scaffolding, the foundation,
- 48:51the workings, the mechanics of the way our society is all came out
- 48:55of men's brains. Men did that, oh yeah, attributed that for years,
- 49:00and that meritocracy that men live in always gave men a pathway to meet
- 49:08the standards society had set for them to be valued and loved and cared about
- 49:14and taken care of. And all of a sudden today, you know,
- 49:17it's hitting me that in this conversation, like all of a sudden today,
- 49:22in modern times, that pathway is being and has been largely erased, that's
- 49:29been taken away from men, and they're still naturally going to have the tendency
- 49:37to use their brains that way, but they don't have anything to use them
- 49:39on right. And then at the same time, when you program somebody socially,
- 49:46you teach them, you raise them, you reward and punish and everything
- 49:52around. You only have value if society has a use for you. And
- 49:58then you take away all the ways that society can have a use for that
- 50:01person, you make that person feel worthless and meaningless, and those are things
- 50:07that lead to suicide. So we have this perfect storm of terrible things that
- 50:13we are doing to young people by taking away their ability to participate in meritocracy,
- 50:21but still holding them to the standards of meritocracy and telling them that meritocracy
- 50:25is evil, because their school systems are teaching them that communism is better than
- 50:30meritocracy. So they're basically stuck with a situation where they have no way to
- 50:40make their way in the world. They have no way to find their position
- 50:44in society and a way to value themselves and a way to be valued by
- 50:49the people around them. And I'm going to emphasize this. You know,
- 50:54everybody that's listening to this that's a grandpa. You are proud, probably in
- 51:00a better position to save your grandchildren than their parents' generation is, and you
- 51:07may need to be also looking at your own kids and how they're doing,
- 51:10because this is the twenty and thirty something age, you know, can be
- 51:17early twenties and late thirties, and so some people their kids are are you
- 51:25know, almost but not quite Generation X age. And then there are kids
- 51:30that are you know, almost but not quite Generation ALPHA that are caught up
- 51:36in this as well. All right, so let us know what you guys
- 51:40think about these is this story in the comments. I think that there is
- 51:45definitely a relationship between these suicide statistics and a little bit of a trans suicide
- 51:52statistics. I don't think it's an accident, and let us know what you
- 51:54guys think about that. In the comments, I did get a super chat
- 51:58from Zarenx for five dollars and he says, would men dropping out of the
- 52:02workforce be something to look at regarding the shift? Absolutely, Yeah, for
- 52:07sure, I think so it goes right back to that. You know,
- 52:13you tell the men that they have to have a purpose in society, and
- 52:16you have men naturally having that need for purpose on top of that, and
- 52:22then you take away a pathway to purpose, you are making them more likely
- 52:27by that much to go on a self destructive path, whether it's suicide or
- 52:35other self destructive behaviors that are maybe a slower suicide. Yeah, yeah,
- 52:39self destruction. I was you know, that's actually more common, I think
- 52:45for you know, a person who is maybe they're not overtly trying to throw
- 52:50themselves from a ridge and end it quick, but instead they just sort of
- 52:52allow themselves to disintegrate, They vanish into drinking, overeating, just stop caring
- 52:58about their health whatever. They just die that way. And I think that
- 53:00is a kind of suicide that nobody wants to acknowledge as a suicide. So
- 53:06but anyway, let us know, you guys think about this one of the
- 53:07comments. We're gonna move on to the last story. This one should be
- 53:12a little bit of fun, at least to me. So, so,
- 53:15you probably heard about the Kansas City Chiefs kicker, three times Super Bowl champion
- 53:22and record holder for the longest Super Bowl field goal, Harrison Butker, right,
- 53:25and that he gave an impassioned speech several days ago at his alma matter,
- 53:31Benedictine College in Atchison, Kansas. Now, you know, like there
- 53:36were a lot of people doing speeches. I remember, you know, Joe
- 53:39Biden did one at a out of college and black people turned their backs on
- 53:44him. I remember Jerry Seinfeld recently did a talk at a college and basically
- 53:50said, you know, he's basically talking about how people need to like,
- 53:52you know, girl a spine. So, but those didn't do what this
- 53:57one did. Those did not upset people the same way that this one did.
- 54:01So what was it in his speech that was so awful? Was he
- 54:05calling for the gassing of the Jews? Was he calling for the Handmaid's Tale?
- 54:10I mean, yes, kind of. This is what I was told
- 54:15by the internet. So his speech largely focused on his Catholic faith, the
- 54:19failures of the current government administration, the degradation of tradition and values in society,
- 54:24and his hope that the Benedictine College class of twenty twenty four can help
- 54:29reverse that degradation. By the way, the college is a Catholic college,
- 54:34by the way, So he was a Catholic speaking out a Catholic college about
- 54:37Catholicism, and everyone loses their minds. While many have celebrated Butker for his
- 54:42rousing speech, such as fellow teammate Chris Jones and Gracie hunt A daughter of
- 54:46the chief CEO. No, not everyone was happy. The LGBTQ at the
- 54:52organization Glad called his speech inaccurate, ill informed, and woefully out of step
- 54:57with Americans because of a line his speech suggesting that graduates of Benedictine College should
- 55:02feel pride quote not the deadly sin sort of pride that has an entire month
- 55:07dedicated to it, but the true God centered pride end quote. Other detractors
- 55:13include musician Eddie Vedder, who paused his set during our concert to complain about
- 55:16Butcker's message to the male and female Catholic graduate, stating quote, the irony
- 55:22was that the football player, well, kicker, so he's just like trying
- 55:24to throw him under the bus, even though he like literally won that team
- 55:30and he like got eleven out of eleven. Like this is successful kicks,
- 55:35you know, so not a slouch mind you. But anyway, the kicker,
- 55:40let's see, you see the kicker doesn't have the pads because he doesn't
- 55:44tackle anybody or get tackled. But he started telling men, don't forget to
- 55:47put puff up your chest and be more masculine. Don't lose your masculinity.
- 55:52The irony was that when he was saying that he looked like such a fucking
- 55:57pussy. This is Eddie Vedder talking. There's nothing mask than a strong man
- 56:00supporting a strong woman. Of course, god wait, wait wait, you
- 56:09want me to go, Oh my god, here we go, Oh my
- 56:16god. Okay, So for the this is like that was that. That's
- 56:22it, Eddie Vedder, Your your man card has been revoked. The following
- 56:25are the two unredacted quotes from Bucker concerning the male and female Catholic graduates.
- 56:31So, like there was he did a whole thing right, But the clip
- 56:35where he talked about women was the one that went ultra viral because women were
- 56:38so upset that he would hold them to any standards, and of course his
- 56:43comments about pride, but he also talked to men too, and that one
- 56:46didn't really have the same It didn't pick up the traction. It didn't upset
- 56:51men really. But anyway, here's here's what I'm gonna read the what he
- 56:55said. Mike J did the write up, and he thinks it's important that
- 56:59we read the whole things away about all the contexts. Okay, quote for
- 57:02the ladies present today, congratulations on an amazing accomplishment. You should be proud
- 57:07of all that you have achieved to this point in your young lives. I
- 57:10want to speak directly to you briefly because I think it's you the women who
- 57:15have had the most diabolical lies told to you. How many of you are
- 57:19sitting here now about to cross the stage and are thinking about all the promotions
- 57:22and titles you are going to get in your career. Some of you may
- 57:27go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to
- 57:30guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children
- 57:34you'll bring into this world. And quote, Oh my God, the horror,
- 57:37the Handmaid's Tale. Then he continues quote I can tell you that my
- 57:42beautiful wife, Isabelle would be the first to say that her life truly started
- 57:46when she began living her vocation as a wife and a mother. I'm on
- 57:50the stage today and able to be the man I am because I have a
- 57:52wife who leans into her vocation. I'm beyond blessed with many talents God has
- 57:58given me. But it can be overstated that all of my success is made
- 58:01possible because a girl I met in band class back in middle school would convert
- 58:07to the faith become my wife and embrace one of the most important titles of
- 58:09all homemaker D D. Dunn. She is the primary educator to our children.
- 58:16This sounds like that they homeschool their kids, which is a good idea.
- 58:21She is the one who ensures I never let football or my business become
- 58:23a distraction from that of a husband and father. She is the person that
- 58:29knows me best at my core. And it is through our marriage that Lord
- 58:31willing, we will both attain salvation. I say all of this to you
- 58:36because I have seen it firsthand, how much happier someone can be when they
- 58:39are disregard the outside noise and move closer and closer to God's will in their
- 58:44life. Isabelle's dream of having a career might not have come true. But
- 58:47if you ask for today, if she has any regrets on her decision,
- 58:51she would laugh out loud without hesitation and say heck no to the entity spoke
- 58:55to the men, to the gentleman here today. Part of what place our
- 58:59society is that this lie has been told to you, that men are not
- 59:02necessary in the home or in our communities. As men we set the tone
- 59:07of the culture, and when that is absent, disorder, dysfunction, and
- 59:09chaos set in. This absence of men in the home is what plays a
- 59:13large role in the violence we see all around the nation. Other countries do
- 59:16not have nearly the same absentee father rates as we find here in the US,
- 59:22and a correlation could be made in their drastically lowered violence rates as well.
- 59:25Be unapologetic in your masculinity, fighting against the cultural emasculation of men.
- 59:30Do hard things. Never settle for what is easy. You might have a
- 59:34talent that you don't necessarily enjoy, but if it glorifies God, maybe you
- 59:37should lean into that over something that you might think suits you better. I
- 59:42speak from experience as an introvert who now finds myself as an amateur public speaker
- 59:46and an entrepreneur, something I never thought i'd be when I received my industrial
- 59:52engineering degree end quote. Jonathan Bean, the senior Vice President in chief Diversity
- 59:55and Inclusion Officer of the NFL, UGH would eventually distance the organization from Bucker's
- 1:00:00speech, saying, quote, Harrison Butker gave a speech on in his personal
- 1:00:05capacity, his views are not those of the NFL as an organization. The
- 1:00:08NFL is steadfast in our commitment to inclusion, which only makes our league stronger.
- 1:00:14End quote. Yeah, this is this is when fans need to get
- 1:00:22and and Albert Nada retro gave us five dollars Canadian and said this too.
- 1:00:25What this reminds me, I need to get his jersey the LOL catchup women
- 1:00:29most affected. So that's not the most recent super chat, but I had
- 1:00:32to read that because I'm gonna say this. If you go to games,
- 1:00:37get his jersey and wear it doesn't even matter whether the game is is between
- 1:00:45his team and any other team, if it's between two teams that totally don't
- 1:00:49have him, like, that's that's the perfect thing. If the stands are
- 1:00:52full of people wearing his jersey at the games, the NFL will have to
- 1:00:58recognize that they are going against what the fans want, right. That's that's
- 1:01:04a major thing. So I'm gonna I'm gonna speak on the whole uh pride
- 1:01:10months thing that he said, because this has been a bone of contention for
- 1:01:15me since about the mid nineties when I realized what what pride was starting to
- 1:01:22become and everything. And during that time, I wasn't going to a Christian
- 1:01:29church. I was actually practicing witchcraft at the time, so I was wicking.
- 1:01:35So it wasn't you know, uh, it wasn't historical witchcraft. It
- 1:01:40was kind of modern, made up witchcraft, not family tradition like either.
- 1:01:45It was a takeoff of a takeoff of Gardenerian witchcraft. So it was kind
- 1:01:51of dumb. But in any case, even and even then, I started
- 1:01:58to recognize that it stopped being about integrating the community and recognizing the humanity of
- 1:02:07all people, regardless of their private lives, and became about getting in people's
- 1:02:12faces and demanding special accommodations, not just you know, don't treat us badly
- 1:02:21because we're different, but you have to treat us like we're special. Because
- 1:02:24we're different. You can't offend us. We can offend you, but you
- 1:02:29can't offend us because we're different. And I've never been about that. I've
- 1:02:32never liked that. It's actually always graded on me very badly. And I
- 1:02:37sort of stepped away from LGBTQ. There was no queueack then. In fact,
- 1:02:45there really wasn't a t at the end. It was just mostly LGB
- 1:02:50you know, or GLB. I kind of stepped away from supporting the movement
- 1:02:55at that point, and it was it was basically a personal choice of This
- 1:03:02isn't the kind of behavior that I think is smart, and it's not going
- 1:03:08to endear anyone to anyone else, and it's not going to help form community
- 1:03:15together. It's going to create dividing lines and something akin to a nobility class
- 1:03:21that you can't criticize. And I don't like that, right, So what
- 1:03:27we have today is, rather than anything at all that's even remotely related to
- 1:03:35don't abuse us because we're different, we now have you have to accept all
- 1:03:42forms of degeneracy and dysfunction and coddling of people's mindiness and self absorption and vanity,
- 1:03:55or we're gonna We're gonna beat you up for it. We're going to
- 1:03:59bully you over it. And that's pretty much all LGBTQ is now as a
- 1:04:06movement. There is no fighting for rights anymore, There is no fighting for
- 1:04:15community integration anymore. There is no trying to blend in with society and be
- 1:04:20neighbors with your neighbor and colleagues with your coworkers. It's all about you know,
- 1:04:27the self. And so I got to thinking about at the topic of
- 1:04:35pride because of conversation with a coworker about being proud of a job well done
- 1:04:42and things like that. She's like, you know, if you're practicing your
- 1:04:46faith, the Bible doesn't make any exceptions for any type of pride. You
- 1:04:49are supposed to be humble all the time. And I started looking at how
- 1:04:54we use the word pride, and most of the time, pride is not
- 1:05:00what is being described right when you talk about like I go to work and
- 1:05:04I part of my job is to clean the bathroom, and I'm satisfied with
- 1:05:10the job, and I'm I find the result appealing when there is not a
- 1:05:16speck of anything. The toilet is shiny, the sink is shiny, the
- 1:05:20floor is clean, there's no dirt anywhere to be seen, nothing has dust
- 1:05:26on it. Everything smells nothing or good, and there's nothing that smells bad.
- 1:05:31And I've emptied the trash, so the trash can is empty and it's
- 1:05:35it looks like it's never been used. That's I take satisfaction in that.
- 1:05:41But I wouldn't call that pride because it's not something that I'm going to bring
- 1:05:45people in and say, look at how clean and beautiful this bathroom is.
- 1:05:47It's just that the bathroom looks the way that it's supposed to look in that
- 1:05:50moment, right, And I'm that way with every aspect of that job.
- 1:05:56But a lot of people will look at at what they do in their job
- 1:06:01and they'll they'll call it pride when they complete a task and it is done
- 1:06:10to specification like that, it looks exactly the way you want it to look
- 1:06:14and functions exactly the way you want it to function, and they'll say,
- 1:06:18I'm I'm done, I've done a good job. I'm proud. That's not
- 1:06:24that's not pride, that's satisfaction, right, That's that's understanding your worth when
- 1:06:31you have to draw attention to yourself for it, and when you want people
- 1:06:35to focus on you because of the thing that you've done, and it's a
- 1:06:42need or a desire or a that's pride. That's vanity. And if you
- 1:06:47look at the seven Deadly sins, like all of them involve some sort of
- 1:06:54self harm. Right when you're greed, Greed takes away your focus on other
- 1:06:59things that are valuable and important, and all you have left is stuff that
- 1:07:02you can't take with you when you die. Right. Lust exposes you to
- 1:07:06diseases, It exposes you to pain and suffering because of repeated loss of connection
- 1:07:15with people, and it also takes away your focus on things like intimacy and
- 1:07:20joy and fun. And anger is really difficult as a that's probably my toughest
- 1:07:27one to deal with, right and anger is self destructive because you end up
- 1:07:34pushing away the people that might love you and care about you, and you
- 1:07:39have to remember everything bad that you did to other people. But pride is
- 1:07:43probably the most absolute self destructive of all of the seven deadly sins, because
- 1:07:50it takes away your focus on learning, and it takes away your focus on
- 1:07:56being able to value other people more than you value yourself. And it's one
- 1:08:02of the things I think that leads specifically in the case of the trans suicide
- 1:08:14rate, where the ego end of it, you have to be someone special.
- 1:08:21People have to treat you exactly the way that you want to be treated.
- 1:08:27You can't have any pushback, you can't have any criticism, you can't
- 1:08:32be wrong about anything, at least on this one topic. So if you
- 1:08:41do something like have a surgery or change the way you dress, or try
- 1:08:45to fit in to a room full of women as a woman without looking like
- 1:08:50a woman, and there are women in there who refuse to accept you,
- 1:08:54or there are female bullies who you know, even though you could be accepted,
- 1:08:59decide to single you out. You end up vulnerable because of your pride.
- 1:09:03So pride is like the cancer, the brain cancer of the seven deadly
- 1:09:12sins. It leads to all of the other seven deadly sins, or all
- 1:09:15the other all six of the other seven deadly sins. It leads to every
- 1:09:19single one of those, including anger, right, including rage, And to
- 1:09:27encourage people to form their identity around it is to encourage death in a society.
- 1:09:35And these organizations, you know, they may have started out with the
- 1:09:41idea that it's obviously wrong to tell people that they can't live in your community
- 1:09:49and they can't have jobs and they can't go by their groceries at your grocery
- 1:09:54store because they're different. It's obviously wrong to tell people we're going to beat
- 1:09:59you because you're different, we might kill you because you're different, when that
- 1:10:03difference isn't something that involves other people, and that difference is just something that's
- 1:10:10in their home, they do in their private lives and it doesn't affect you.
- 1:10:15Right, But it's also wrong to tell people that that difference makes them
- 1:10:21better than everybody else, and they should be revered for it. Right,
- 1:10:28It's nothing special to be gay. It's nothing special to be straight, it's
- 1:10:33nothing special to be bisexual. It's nothing special to be trans. It's something
- 1:10:40special to be tough. It's something special to be strong. It's something special
- 1:10:45to love and care about the people around you and support your neighbors and be
- 1:10:50a person that they want to support and love and care about. But it
- 1:10:55doesn't matter who you fuck. That shouldn't change that as long as you're not
- 1:11:00doing it in a way that gets you hurt or hurts other people, right,
- 1:11:06So it really bothers me more than anything else. Like all the people
- 1:11:11will say this stuff about, you know, the stay at home moms and
- 1:11:14the career moms and all that stuff. That's people's personal choices. It's up
- 1:11:19to them. They decide what works for their family. And everybody has that
- 1:11:25right to do what's best for their family and what's needed the most in their
- 1:11:30family. And people should shut up about trying to impose their view of what's
- 1:11:35best for other people's families because you don't know their family special needs, and
- 1:11:42you're wrong regardless of what your take on it is. Like it's Some people
- 1:11:48do need to be homeschooled. Some people do need to be in a more
- 1:11:54social situation, and we should fix the schools because of that rather than just
- 1:11:59homeschooling. Right. Some people need both parents to work. Some people desperately
- 1:12:03need to have one parent at home. Sometimes it's the mom, sometimes it's
- 1:12:08the dad. All of that is not wrong, and there isn't one of
- 1:12:14that that is right and makes the other ones wrong. But this pride thing,
- 1:12:18none of that is right. That is not the way to deal with
- 1:12:23this. It never should have been the way to deal with this. We
- 1:12:26don't need parades because sometimes we sleep with people of the same sex or all
- 1:12:31the time, are you opending on who we are. We don't need parades,
- 1:12:35we don't need special costumes, we don't need people going hey, congratulations
- 1:12:41on your day, Like what the fuck you know? We just need to
- 1:12:47be able to go to work, do our jobs, and go home and
- 1:12:51be with our families, go to the grocery store and get our groceries and
- 1:12:56go home and fix our dinner without having somebody get mad because because we do
- 1:13:00it differently than they do in one little way, and decide that somebody needs
- 1:13:06to be beaten up or shot or dragged behind a truck or anything else like
- 1:13:13that. And those statements should never be extended to Also, you have to
- 1:13:19let us exploit your children. Also, you have to let us manipulate your
- 1:13:24children. Also, you have to let us tell your children how to live
- 1:13:28their lives instead of learning their lessons from you. None of that is appropriate,
- 1:13:33None of that is okay. All right, we have to just be
- 1:13:39able to get that straight. Yeah, and there's nothing wrong with this guy's
- 1:13:43speech at all. He is spot on. Yeah, not at all.
- 1:13:47There's nothing wrong with his speech. I agree, all right. So we
- 1:13:55got a couple of super chats and I think we're going to go into the
- 1:13:58after show. So I got let me see, I got one from Albernata
- 1:14:03Retro for five bucks Canadian and he says, I posted a very unfriendly comment
- 1:14:08on dish Nation's Instagram page. I don't know who they are, but thank
- 1:14:13you. And then I got another one from Albernada Retro for two dollars Canadian.
- 1:14:16He says the chief's owner's wife backed but Kerr, Yes, I that
- 1:14:20was in the in the write up, I mentioned that, thank you.
- 1:14:26And then the one that Hannah already read just catch up women most affected,
- 1:14:32and I think that's it. So I gotta get that straight. I see
- 1:14:36what you did there. Okay, So that's all the stories. Let us
- 1:14:45know what you guys think about this in the comments. What do you think
- 1:14:49about his speech? I mean, like, why are we being I would
- 1:14:55ask, like, why are we being made to sort of like confront what
- 1:15:00some dude did on some platform in some college somewhere who most of these people
- 1:15:06never heard of before. He said these things that apparently were foreboden And that
- 1:15:11only makes me think, you know, I don't think it's a coincidence that
- 1:15:16they came after him because he was Christian. I mean, I'm just saying,
- 1:15:20but anyway, not quite as oppressed as gamers, but pretty close.
- 1:15:27Anyway, let us know what you guys think about this one in the comments.
- 1:15:30I look forward to seeing your thoughts on that. So we're gonna head
- 1:15:33into the Patron Show now and we're gonna look at some clips and you know,
- 1:15:38maybe pick a few favorites and I'll send them to Alison and she can
- 1:15:42like have do whatever with them. I think I have a lot on my
- 1:15:45plate as it is. So thank you Hannah for coming and giving your thoughts
- 1:15:49on all of our stories and thank you guys for joining us. If you
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- 1:16:25Yeah, go ahead. Oh we got another super child, Yeah, another
- 1:16:29super chat. It's Canadian and said, yeah Nation went after the kicker.
- 1:16:32Sorry I forgot to put that in the s chat dish Nation talk show of
- 1:16:36sorts. Oh well that sounds like is it a woman thing? Is that
- 1:16:42like? Is that like the talk because it's called dish Nation, you know,
- 1:16:45it's like dishing on somebody. I bet it's first heard that. I
- 1:16:47thought of dish network, like, oh, like a satellite dish like a
- 1:16:54satellite dish. So I don't know. Maybe it's one, maybe it's the
- 1:16:57other, but either way, they should hear about it from people. They
- 1:17:00should make a women's opinions. You know. Yeah, if he went up
- 1:17:04there and he said the best thing that women can do is be stay at
- 1:17:11home moms and women who go to work and get jobs are wrong, right,
- 1:17:15I might not agree with them on that, but I support his right
- 1:17:19to say it. Exactly. If I can do that, and I'm a
- 1:17:23woman who has had two careers in my life and a bunch of odd jobs,
- 1:17:30then y'all don't have any reason to be complaining about it. Yeah,
- 1:17:33Right, that guy has a right to his opinion and he say what he
- 1:17:38wants. We can disagree with what he said without condemning him as an evil
- 1:17:42person. He didn't say that it's okay to molest children, right, there
- 1:17:46are people saying that. We can condemn that, and we can condemn the
- 1:17:50morality of the people that say it. But for him to say this is
- 1:17:55the best pathway women can take, and you disagree with it, Okay,
- 1:18:00don't take that pathway. Yeah, but you see. Yeah, But the
- 1:18:04thing is that the people who disagree with him that are giving him crap online.
- 1:18:12They're not okay with him having the opinion. That's the problem. They
- 1:18:16want his life ruined for saying that. They are like, there was a
- 1:18:21cheerleader who supposedly went to the same school and was extremely upset by what he
- 1:18:27said, and she was essentially trying to call for him to be I don't
- 1:18:30know, canceled. She was trying to cancel it. And it is always
- 1:18:33women that do this. I'm just gonna say it. It is always women
- 1:18:36that do this and the simps that support them. And it's not that he
- 1:18:41has an opinion you don't like, because like everybody has opinions I don't like.
- 1:18:44I'm sure that's irrelevant. I'm not trying to destroy their life for having
- 1:18:48the opinion. They're trying to destroy his life because he is essentially saying something
- 1:18:54that is bothering them, because it's getting under their skin because he might be
- 1:18:59right, and that's why they're mad. It's not because they they're just like,
- 1:19:01well, that's your opinion. They move on with their life. That
- 1:19:03that's what a sane person does. That's not what these online forever online cloud
- 1:19:09chasing women are doing. That's who's reacting this strong one. I know,
- 1:19:13ye had women online. I've had women on Twitter and on Reddit tell me
- 1:19:17they were going to find out, you know, where I lived and where
- 1:19:19I worked and get me canceled from my employer and blah blah blah. And
- 1:19:24by by the way, the charity that I worked for is a Christian charity,
- 1:19:28so good luck. But but yeah, and and it's not like I
- 1:19:32can't work for another Christian charity if you do. So uh so there you
- 1:19:39go, Yeah, there you go. And Albert Nada Retro also sent us
- 1:19:42another fight. I know. I thought he's gonna give us a link to
- 1:19:45the Facebook post where the vid male and female hosts. So it's yeah,
- 1:19:50the commonality of feminism among like hosts, I would say it, it's probably
- 1:20:00pretty high rate of commonness. Like so it doesn't matter male or female.
- 1:20:05And Richard Bierre said even the nuns were dunking on him. But I mean,
- 1:20:11sure, nuns don't get married and have children, so they probably took
- 1:20:15that a little too personally because they're women. That's why I think they didn't
- 1:20:19have anything to say about it. But he also ka men that one of
- 1:20:23the most important things they could do would be fathers. He just didn't say
- 1:20:27it in in the priestly way. Yeah, yeah, sure, well again
- 1:20:31I think men men family way and the family sure, I know I don't
- 1:20:35can't do that. So and they didn't take it personally, just the nuns
- 1:20:40did so well, yeah, I was gonna say, men don't care like
- 1:20:44we just sort of, you know, we either agree or disagree and we
- 1:20:46move on. It's the women they don't want. They don't they don't want
- 1:20:50men in particular telling them how like what they're making, any recommendations for their
- 1:20:56life choices. And they and we allow them to make whatever choices they want.
- 1:21:00And when they make bad choices, like choosing the fucking bear, then
- 1:21:03when men say, well you shouldn't have chose the bear, they get mad
- 1:21:06at men for like, for not stepping up. Yeah, like, I
- 1:21:10mean, like, look another aspect you made, you made your bed,
- 1:21:13lie at it. There's another aspect of this too. Right. You take
- 1:21:16a man and a woman and both of them are doing a thing, each
- 1:21:20one their own thing right, and each one knows for a fact, an
- 1:21:26undeniable fact, I am doing what I was meant to do. I'm doing
- 1:21:29the right thing for me, and I'm doing the right I'm contributing to my
- 1:21:32community in the right way, the best way that I can, and I
- 1:21:36should not be distracted from this path. I should not step off of this
- 1:21:41path. The right path for me to take is this path. It's it's
- 1:21:45blatantly obvious, and uh, nobody should be able to convince me otherwise,
- 1:21:51right, nobody should even try. If somebody comes along and tries to convince
- 1:21:56them otherwise, the man will just continue on his path because he already knows
- 1:22:00he's right. He might listen to what the other person has to say,
- 1:22:03weigh it against what he already knows, and when it's found wanting and what
- 1:22:08he already knows is still right, he's like, okay, well, thanks
- 1:22:11for the advice, and he goes on and does his thing. But a
- 1:22:14woman gets offended the minute the other person starts talking that more than anything,
- 1:22:21well, distractor from that path. Women need to learn not to do that.
- 1:22:26Women didn't always used to do that, and women women need to learn
- 1:22:30not to do that. They need to be able to like the man,
- 1:22:33if you know you're on the right path, you know, just say all
- 1:22:39right, well thanks for the advice, and you can even give it consideration.
- 1:22:43But at the very least you know you don't lose focus. If you
- 1:22:49are on the right path, you do the thing that you're doing and let
- 1:22:54it roll off your back. Don't take it personally. And if I took
- 1:22:58everything personally that we said to me online, I'd be one of those suicide
- 1:23:01statistics. Yeah right, all right, Well I'm gonna end it there,
- 1:23:06So thanks guys for coming on the show. Please like, share, subscribe,
- 1:23:12and comment, and I will see you all in the after show.
- 1:23:15So have a good one, everybody, See you next Tuesday. That's Tuesday.
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- 1:23:25Better than you, I guess I'm going a little further than you are.
- 1:23:27Yeah, I'm fucking better than you. Okay, much better than you.
- 1:23:30You are garbage.