Latest / The Breakfast Club / Rachel Rodgers, Stacey Tisdale and Nicole Barham Give You Money Moves That Will Change Your Business & Life
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- 0:00Speaker 1: What's up? It is the Breakfast Club. This is Angela
- 0:02Speaker 1: Ye's last Wealth Wednesday, so we wanted to make sure
- 0:05Speaker 1: we go out with a bang and have a special one.
- 0:07Speaker 1: But don't worry because they'll be more and way up
- 0:09Speaker 1: with Angela Yee. But I'm here with my partner Stacy Tisdale. Hi,
- 0:12Speaker 1: every volue. You're very excited about this. And Rachel Rodgers,
- 0:17Speaker 1: thank you so much for having me. And I got
- 0:18Speaker 1: a present too. We should all be millionaires. This is
- 0:21Speaker 1: her amazing book. It's a Woman's Guide to earning more,
- 0:24Speaker 1: building wealth and gaining economic power and the coole Barham
- 0:28Speaker 1: hy Rachel be here all right, so you guys, let's,
- 0:33Speaker 1: you know, get started on what this whole journey is
- 0:36Speaker 1: that you were on, because I think you went to
- 0:38Speaker 1: law school, right, Rachel, Yes, all right. And then a
- 0:41Speaker 1: lot of people and we hear this. Some people they
- 0:42Speaker 1: graduate from law school, they graduate from college, they graduate
- 0:46Speaker 1: from whatever higher degree they decided to earn, and it's
- 0:49Speaker 1: hard to get the money that you anticipated getting exactly.
- 0:52Speaker 1: I actually heard a study recently that said sixty percent
- 0:55Speaker 1: of black wealth is tied up in student loans, Like
- 0:58Speaker 1: it goes to student loans so that's where a lot
- 1:00Speaker 1: of our money is in our community. But yes, I
- 1:03Speaker 1: went to law school and I graduated during the two
- 1:05Speaker 1: thousand and eight recessions, so there was not a lot
- 1:07Speaker 1: of jobs. I was like, great, perfect timing, and so
- 1:11Speaker 1: I was like, either I take one of these jobs
- 1:13Speaker 1: that I don't really want, or I could start my
- 1:15Speaker 1: own practice. I have skills, right, I know, I know
- 1:19Speaker 1: how to practice law. I've been trained, and so let
- 1:22Speaker 1: me just go do that. My mother hated the idea.
- 1:23Speaker 1: She was like, please go get a six figure job
- 1:25Speaker 1: that I thought you were going to go get, you know, yeah,
- 1:27Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, I'm already used
- 1:29Speaker 1: to being broke, right, I was a broke student, Like
- 1:31Speaker 1: why don't I do it now instead of waiting until
- 1:33Speaker 1: I have a big salary and a more expensive lifestyle.
- 1:37Speaker 1: So I just went for it, even though everybody around
- 1:39Speaker 1: me was like you bug in. And I started my
- 1:41Speaker 1: own law practice and grew that significantly over six or
- 1:45Speaker 1: seven years. So made a lot of money doing that,
- 1:47Speaker 1: and then people started coming to me my own clients
- 1:49Speaker 1: because I mostly served women entrepreneurs. So many people were
- 1:52Speaker 1: quitting their jobs because you know, it was a recession,
- 1:54Speaker 1: as well, and so they used their severance packages to
- 1:57Speaker 1: start their own businesses. So all of those folks, they
- 1:59Speaker 1: were just people that I knew, became my clients. And
- 2:02Speaker 1: we all need a lawyer at some point, exactly, exactly,
- 2:06Speaker 1: And honestly, selling legal services was the best training because
- 2:09Speaker 1: you don't want to pay a lawyer, like nobody ever
- 2:11Speaker 1: wants to actually hire a lawyer. You need a lawyer, right,
- 2:14Speaker 1: So I had to sell services and it was all
- 2:17Speaker 1: transactional work. So people weren't hiring me for litigation. They
- 2:19Speaker 1: were hiring me because they needed to take care of
- 2:20Speaker 1: their business stuff, right, and you know, it's the kind
- 2:22Speaker 1: of things that like trademarks, copyrights, contracts, they want to
- 2:25Speaker 1: put it off. And so having to learn how to
- 2:27Speaker 1: sell that and get people to say yes to that,
- 2:29Speaker 1: it was like the best sales skills, you know, selling
- 2:32Speaker 1: something people don't want and entrepreneur that is an important
- 2:35Speaker 1: investment that we make in our business, even for myself,
- 2:38Speaker 1: you know, just hiring somebody to handle all of these
- 2:40Speaker 1: legal like you said, trademarking all of those things, contracts,
- 2:44Speaker 1: mus all of those things, contracts with vendors to get
- 2:48Speaker 1: taken care of early on. And it might not be
- 2:49Speaker 1: inexpensive to have monthly throughout, but in the beginning, it
- 2:53Speaker 1: definitely is something that you have to put some money into.
- 2:56Speaker 1: That's right, exactly. And working with all those people, Rachel,
- 2:59Speaker 1: I know, give you a really unique you know, bird's
- 3:02Speaker 1: eye view. Oh, this is what works in a business.
- 3:04Speaker 1: This is what doesn't work in a business. And that
- 3:06Speaker 1: was that yes, which actually was your Aha. Oh, I
- 3:10Speaker 1: can make money telling people exactly because I saw the
- 3:14Speaker 1: behind the scenes, like the real deal with people's businesses,
- 3:16Speaker 1: you know. And so people like I had clients who
- 3:19Speaker 1: were influencers, who had a million followers, but we're not
- 3:21Speaker 1: making any money. They didn't know how to monetize it,
- 3:24Speaker 1: and they weren't they were broke, right, and so I
- 3:27Speaker 1: know based on what they put on a grand I
- 3:29Speaker 1: know exactly right, like they taking pictures with all these
- 3:32Speaker 1: rented things. Listen, I'm not about that life. So so
- 3:35Speaker 1: I got to see the real, real, like what actually
- 3:38Speaker 1: grows a business, who's actually doing well? Who's not? Because
- 3:40Speaker 1: people don't lie to their lawyer. You gotta tell your
- 3:42Speaker 1: lawyer to people. Some people do, but they shouldn't. Ladia
- 3:46Speaker 1: Lawyer A Laddie adapted exactly your account exactly. You don't
- 3:50Speaker 1: lie to those three, I agree one. So I got
- 3:53Speaker 1: to really see what grows a business and also had
- 3:55Speaker 1: my own experience growing my practice because I started building
- 3:57Speaker 1: a team, hiring other lawyers, and I just found that
- 4:00Speaker 1: I was really good at sales and marketing getting clients
- 4:02Speaker 1: in the door, and so I just grew that over time,
- 4:06Speaker 1: and people my clients would say, how are you getting
- 4:07Speaker 1: so many clients? How are you growing this business so quickly?
- 4:10Speaker 1: And so I started telling them for free. And one
- 4:12Speaker 1: of my mentors was like, no, you actually need to
- 4:14Speaker 1: pay for that business advice. I told you that you
- 4:17Speaker 1: just then I was talking to her. A couple of
- 4:19Speaker 1: weeks ago, someone was asking me for advice on launching
- 4:22Speaker 1: a podcast and turn and making it into a business,
- 4:25Speaker 1: and I just had a conversation with her. I'm like,
- 4:27Speaker 1: all the hours that I'm putting in talking to this
- 4:29Speaker 1: person again advice, I'm just gonna ask them do you
- 4:32Speaker 1: mind paying me for it? And they didn't at all. Yeah,
- 4:35Speaker 1: that's one of the ways you help people find wealth.
- 4:37Speaker 1: You know, I work for free too much, leaving money
- 4:39Speaker 1: on the table. That would be a perfect example where
- 4:41Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I'm I stay on the phone like
- 4:43Speaker 1: I'm getting paid for this, Like I need to be
- 4:45Speaker 1: saying money. We need to exactly stop giving our labor
- 4:48Speaker 1: away for free. We do it so much and we
- 4:50Speaker 1: really need to do a time study, audit our lives
- 4:53Speaker 1: and see because I was doing the same thing giving
- 4:55Speaker 1: away business advice to my clients that only paid for
- 4:57Speaker 1: a contract. So I started charging for that and that
- 5:00Speaker 1: that changed the game. Now, Nichole, let's talk about what
- 5:02Speaker 1: it is that you do, because we're talking about people
- 5:04Speaker 1: you don't lie to, and when it comes to your
- 5:06Speaker 1: bookkeeping and everything, you have to be very honest about
- 5:09Speaker 1: that too. Yes, absolutely, and so m I created five
- 5:13Speaker 1: Minute Bookkeeper based on Retail's coaching, and it has been
- 5:18Speaker 1: you know, taking helping women entrepreneurs to manage your finances
- 5:22Speaker 1: so that they don't they know exactly what's coming in
- 5:25Speaker 1: what's going out. Yes, and also when it's tax time,
- 5:28Speaker 1: they're not scrambling to get it all together right, to
- 5:30Speaker 1: take their feeling empowered around your numbers. It's so important
- 5:33Speaker 1: because we think that men know money better than us,
- 5:35Speaker 1: but there are actually studies that show that women are
- 5:37Speaker 1: better with money than men are, right, And so we
- 5:40Speaker 1: need to have more confidence around our money and our
- 5:42Speaker 1: financial decision. So I love that you empower and it
- 5:45Speaker 1: goes back to what Angelo is saying, time is money.
- 5:47Speaker 1: Most entrepreneurs spend an average of like four hours a
- 5:50Speaker 1: week on their books and on their No exactly, it
- 5:53Speaker 1: still don't right. I'd rather be doing what I do well,
- 5:56Speaker 1: making money, getting paid for that and let somebody else
- 5:58Speaker 1: do that. That's what they do, right, absolutely, And I
- 6:01Speaker 1: feel like a lot of entrepreneurs, especially the ones that
- 6:04Speaker 1: I work with, they are not paying attention to the
- 6:08Speaker 1: finances the way that they really should. And so I
- 6:11Speaker 1: wanted to change that because there were just so many
- 6:14Speaker 1: overwhelming platforms and you know, I tried to use one
- 6:19Speaker 1: or two, I know, because some of them are really popular,
- 6:25Speaker 1: and it was just not working for me because they
- 6:27Speaker 1: were created for professionals, not for an entrepreneurship. Just quickly
- 6:31Speaker 1: see what's happening with their money, right, And so I
- 6:34Speaker 1: wanted to create a simple solution to that, right. And
- 6:38Speaker 1: you know, met Rachel got into the club, got the idea.
- 6:42Speaker 1: I famously say that I got the idea in the shower.
- 6:45Speaker 1: That's where you know the best ideas are born. Yes,
- 6:48Speaker 1: m J. Cat listed on his toilet is where he
- 6:58Speaker 1: exactly and so UM, yeah, I wanted to really um
- 7:02Speaker 1: make it easy and simple. And the byproduct of that
- 7:06Speaker 1: is having empowered entrepreneurs who have literally transformed their businesses
- 7:11Speaker 1: and their lives. M Yeah, it's interesting because I was
- 7:14Speaker 1: just talking to Pinky Coal, she owns Letty Vegan. Yes,
- 7:17Speaker 1: she's gonna actually she's speaking up my event that I'm
- 7:19Speaker 1: doing in Puerto Rico in January. Yeah, she's a great
- 7:22Speaker 1: example of somebody who will talk to you about how
- 7:25Speaker 1: she started her business and financially she didn't have like
- 7:28Speaker 1: the knowledge to be able to know how to keep
- 7:30Speaker 1: her own books, and she was making a lot of money,
- 7:33Speaker 1: but she was not paying the sales tech. Like, there
- 7:36Speaker 1: was just certain things that you're running a business, you're
- 7:39Speaker 1: being creative, you're being an entrepreneur. But there's so many
- 7:42Speaker 1: things that can end up yes, not just act. You
- 7:45Speaker 1: don't know yes until until right until you get hit,
- 7:49Speaker 1: Like you have your first good year and then you
- 7:51Speaker 1: get hit with an enormous tax bill and you're like, oh,
- 7:53Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that. I didn't plan for that. Um,
- 7:56Speaker 1: there's so many places where you're just not ready and
- 7:58Speaker 1: not prepared. I think that's why coaching is so valuable, right, Like,
- 8:01Speaker 1: why don't we hire people who know what to do, right,
- 8:04Speaker 1: like show me the way, make it easier, to make
- 8:05Speaker 1: it faster for me. And that's something that I did
- 8:07Speaker 1: along the way. I hired coaches too to help me
- 8:10Speaker 1: so that I didn't have to make all the mistakes myself,
- 8:12Speaker 1: right like I made. I made twelve years worth of
- 8:14Speaker 1: business mistakes so other people can learn from him. And
- 8:17Speaker 1: like that's in a perfect example. Nicole is a client
- 8:19Speaker 1: of mine who has reached half a million in revenue,
- 8:22Speaker 1: way faster than I did when I was growing my business, right,
- 8:25Speaker 1: And that's the whole point. Yeah, listen, but then it
- 8:32Speaker 1: this trip she probably will be is the thing when
- 8:36Speaker 1: we We've been focusing a lot on wealth Wednesdays over
- 8:39Speaker 1: the last year of introducing people to different coaches, and
- 8:41Speaker 1: it's just been meeting the moment you said, blacks, really
- 8:46Speaker 1: embrace entrepreneurship COVID and post COVID and kind of really see,
- 8:50Speaker 1: you know, the economy doesn't work for us and move
- 8:52Speaker 1: into this entrepreneurship digital economy. And all of a sudden,
- 8:56Speaker 1: these coaches started coming up because we are so hungry
- 9:01Speaker 1: for this knowledge. And I kept noticing these coaches, they're
- 9:04Speaker 1: creating millionaires and they're really good at it. And what
- 9:07Speaker 1: are some of the things, the things that they're telling people.
- 9:09Speaker 1: It's more just like a support system, Nicole, you were
- 9:12Speaker 1: telling me it was, you know, you were making like
- 9:14Speaker 1: twenty five hundred dollars a month. You started working Chel
- 9:19Speaker 1: for the year. Rachel brought you just like sixty thousand
- 9:22Speaker 1: dollars a month within six months you quit your day job.
- 9:25Speaker 1: But it's the things that you're telling people that it's like,
- 9:28Speaker 1: hire somebody when you don't want to invest in yourself
- 9:32Speaker 1: when you don't feel like it. And it's the mindset
- 9:35Speaker 1: shift is really what's so critical. You gotta leading into
- 9:38Speaker 1: the fear right and the uncertainty of it all. And
- 9:40Speaker 1: it's also sometimes inconvenient as well. It's like you have
- 9:43Speaker 1: to be willing to make those investments. I think so
- 9:45Speaker 1: many of us can't see ourselves paying for a coach
- 9:48Speaker 1: or paying to go to a business retreat to learn.
- 9:50Speaker 1: It's like, well, I just don't do things like that.
- 9:52Speaker 1: We'll start doing things like that. Like if you want
- 9:54Speaker 1: to become a millionaire, you got to start making these
- 9:55Speaker 1: kinds of decisions. I agree with that because sometimes you
- 9:58Speaker 1: have to look at the people around you too. Yes, right,
- 10:00Speaker 1: are the people around you do they have that entrepreneurial spirit?
- 10:04Speaker 1: Are they pushing you? Are we hyping each other up?
- 10:06Speaker 1: Like you say? Yes? Am I hyping you up? Are
- 10:08Speaker 1: you hyping me up? Are we bringing each other deals?
- 10:10Speaker 1: Are we having those conversations? Yes? And sometimes you have
- 10:14Speaker 1: to create that network for yourself, absolutely, and most of us.
- 10:17Speaker 1: If you didn't go to an Ivy League school, if
- 10:19Speaker 1: you didn't grow up in an affluent neighborhood, right, if
- 10:21Speaker 1: your parents weren't wealthy, you do not have a network, right,
- 10:24Speaker 1: And that's most of us, especially as black people. I
- 10:26Speaker 1: had no network when I started. I didn't know anything
- 10:28Speaker 1: about starting a business. I just went and did it
- 10:30Speaker 1: and read books, and there was much less available than
- 10:33Speaker 1: there is now. So we have to manufacture that network
- 10:36Speaker 1: for ourselves. We have to find a way to create it.
- 10:39Speaker 1: And the way that we do that I just went
- 10:40Speaker 1: to events, right, I went to business events. I joined
- 10:43Speaker 1: business communities and that's where I met some of my
- 10:46Speaker 1: closest friends that I have today. That we do events together,
- 10:49Speaker 1: we partner on certain things, right, And that network around
- 10:52Speaker 1: you is so crucial. And I always say, like, you
- 10:54Speaker 1: got a friend who keeps you on the phone every
- 10:56Speaker 1: night while all her drama, Like, Okay, we love her,
- 10:58Speaker 1: we could talk to her once a month. We can't
- 11:00Speaker 1: be on the phone her every night, like the same drama. Exactly, exactly,
- 11:06Speaker 1: not that you gotta be around people. Listen, Iron sharpens
- 11:09Speaker 1: iron as soon as you get around a community of
- 11:11Speaker 1: people who are out there doing it and they're talking
- 11:12Speaker 1: about their wins, and they're talking about who they're meeting,
- 11:15Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, come with me to this event, right,
- 11:17Speaker 1: come with me to this experience. That's that it makes
- 11:20Speaker 1: it so much easier for you to reach your goal.
- 11:22Speaker 1: When you try to do it alone, it is so
- 11:24Speaker 1: much harder. What if you people who feel like they're
- 11:26Speaker 1: not social, right, they go to these events and there's
- 11:29Speaker 1: thousands of say people networking, but I have her. People
- 11:34Speaker 1: are like, how do I even approach anyone? How do
- 11:37Speaker 1: I keep those relationships going? How do I follow up?
- 11:40Speaker 1: How do I make sure I know there's a million
- 11:42Speaker 1: people trying to talk to you know, to Rachel, how
- 11:45Speaker 1: do I make sure that she can make the time?
- 11:47Speaker 1: And because it's hard to do that. Yeah, so how
- 11:50Speaker 1: can that work? I agree, and I think it can
- 11:52Speaker 1: be challenging. What I would say is if you don't
- 11:54Speaker 1: if you feel uncomfortable, first of all, uncomfortable as a
- 11:57Speaker 1: part of growth, So that's just what you gotta do, right,
- 11:59Speaker 1: you gotta be to be uncomfortable. But I also think,
- 12:02Speaker 1: like what I used to do is try to make
- 12:04Speaker 1: online connections first before I got there. So I would
- 12:06Speaker 1: try to like message people, or if there's a Facebook
- 12:09Speaker 1: group for the event, I would try to connect with
- 12:11Speaker 1: people there and just try to find one or two
- 12:13Speaker 1: people that I know, so I have a game plan
- 12:15Speaker 1: when I walk in, because believe it or not, I
- 12:17Speaker 1: mean I'm a loudmouth, but I don't really love talking
- 12:20Speaker 1: to strangers. I love talking to people I know, right, yeah,
- 12:25Speaker 1: you know, yes, yes. And what I used to do
- 12:29Speaker 1: too is I would just find something that I like,
- 12:31Speaker 1: like oh I love those earrings? Where'd you get those?
- 12:33Speaker 1: You know? Just like start a conversation that way, like
- 12:36Speaker 1: compliment them, something genuine, and that's like sort of a
- 12:39Speaker 1: way in to start a conversation and like being there
- 12:42Speaker 1: and being helpful, like having the goal of how can
- 12:45Speaker 1: I be useful? How can I help people. What skills
- 12:47Speaker 1: do I have or talents do I have that I
- 12:48Speaker 1: can bring to the table here instead of trying to
- 12:50Speaker 1: get something because I think people, I know you feel
- 12:53Speaker 1: that energy, right, we all do. Right, when people are
- 12:55Speaker 1: trying to get something from us, you just you repel
- 12:57Speaker 1: that you don't want to be around somebody wh's trying
- 13:00Speaker 1: take something from you, right, And so I think if
- 13:02Speaker 1: you just show up and say, like, how can I
- 13:03Speaker 1: be helpful and useful and like enter into conversations where
- 13:07Speaker 1: oh you talking about a legal issue, let me tell
- 13:09Speaker 1: you about you know, how to solve that problem. I'm
- 13:11Speaker 1: a lawyer, right, So like just using whatever you've got
- 13:13Speaker 1: as a way in? Is that? What have you done?
- 13:16Speaker 1: The cale? So I am a an attraction marketing person,
- 13:20Speaker 1: Like I attract people to me because I don't, like,
- 13:22Speaker 1: I don't walk up to people and to start conversations.
- 13:25Speaker 1: So what I've done is I've done like gone into
- 13:28Speaker 1: people's communities and become like an expert in there. Yeah,
- 13:32Speaker 1: so everybody knows me. So when I go to the
- 13:34Speaker 1: actual events, are like Nicole, and that's how I start
- 13:36Speaker 1: the conversation. Yeah, it's kind of like backing into it,
- 13:39Speaker 1: right because I'm not. And you know, I network, but
- 13:43Speaker 1: I find that it's easier to just have conversations with people.
- 13:48Speaker 1: But it's easier for me if I connect with them,
- 13:50Speaker 1: as Rachel said, connect with them like off online on
- 13:54Speaker 1: social media. Have a conversation. So when you get there,
- 13:57Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, this is the person I want to
- 13:59Speaker 1: talk You have a point of reference. Yeah, exactly. And
- 14:02Speaker 1: so that's how I do. And I've become a little
- 14:05Speaker 1: bit of a celebrity in some community. Yes, it's so true.
- 14:09Speaker 1: Everybody knows the five minute bookkeeper in my community. She's
- 14:12Speaker 1: famous and so. But I don't know how the people.
- 14:15Speaker 1: And I love talking to you, yeah, but I love
- 14:19Speaker 1: talking to people. I just don't like starting conversations. Yeah.
- 14:22Speaker 1: And I guess when you go to certain things, like
- 14:24Speaker 1: you said, investing in yourself and going to these events, yes,
- 14:26Speaker 1: you know, getting a coach, even when they cost money
- 14:28Speaker 1: to go an event, everybody's there for that reason, yes, right,
- 14:31Speaker 1: Like I was thinking, um, Stacy, you helped me up
- 14:34Speaker 1: with Cassandra Cummings for her stocks and stilettos. When I
- 14:36Speaker 1: went out there, you know, I was talking about getting
- 14:39Speaker 1: investors in my coffee company, and people were coming up
- 14:41Speaker 1: to me afterwards, like, well, how can we talk about
- 14:43Speaker 1: you know, because everybody's there for that, Yeah, meeting angel
- 14:47Speaker 1: investors exactly, all different kinds of people, and everybody's there
- 14:50Speaker 1: for their reason. They're a business owner, they're an investor,
- 14:54Speaker 1: they're looking to have those commence. And I like building
- 14:57Speaker 1: community better than networking yea, because people get oh I
- 15:00Speaker 1: have to network, I have to meet that just be real. Okay,
- 15:02Speaker 1: well yeah, this is what I'm about. What are you
- 15:04Speaker 1: about your natural connection points and just the science of it.
- 15:08Speaker 1: When you're in community with someone and trying to achieve
- 15:12Speaker 1: a goal together, they'll hold you accountable. You have an
- 15:14Speaker 1: eighty percent higher chance of chanting that goal exactly. It
- 15:18Speaker 1: was we were talking about sometimes women have difficulty doing this, Yeah,
- 15:24Speaker 1: and a lot of it because we don't have time.
- 15:26Speaker 1: Andy said, it was interesting you were telling me about
- 15:28Speaker 1: some of the pigeonholes that women get into for sure,
- 15:30Speaker 1: because we well we were just talking about it, right
- 15:33Speaker 1: working for free that nowhere, nowhere does that happen more
- 15:35Speaker 1: than in our own homes, right with our partners who
- 15:38Speaker 1: get home from work and sit on the couch and
- 15:40Speaker 1: ask us when is dinner going to be? Made. That's
- 15:41Speaker 1: still the truth for eighty percent of women. And even
- 15:44Speaker 1: when they are the breadwinner, they are still doing the
- 15:47Speaker 1: work making the money, and still making dinner, doing laundry,
- 15:51Speaker 1: doing all of the emotional labor with children, reading all
- 15:53Speaker 1: the school emails, making sure they have pajamas for pajama day. Right,
- 15:56Speaker 1: Like there is so much invisible labor that we are
- 15:59Speaker 1: doing it. We have to say no. Right. They bring
- 16:01Speaker 1: that to their businesses to women try to do everything exactly,
- 16:05Speaker 1: not hiring help, right, like saying well, I can do
- 16:07Speaker 1: my own books, right, like I will, I'll just figure
- 16:10Speaker 1: it out. I don't need to hire a coach, right,
- 16:12Speaker 1: or I don't need an assistant, right, yes you do.
- 16:15Speaker 1: And this is the thing, Like men's businesses grow so
- 16:17Speaker 1: much faster and they make so much money so much
- 16:20Speaker 1: faster because they are quick to hire help, right, because
- 16:23Speaker 1: they're sort of in society. They're trained to like get help.
- 16:26Speaker 1: Other people are here to help me. The society is
- 16:29Speaker 1: created for their benefit, right, and we're here to be
- 16:32Speaker 1: their helpers. Right, That's what That's how our society truly
- 16:35Speaker 1: is built, and that's how we're all socialized. And so
- 16:37Speaker 1: we have to fight against that and say no, I'm
- 16:39Speaker 1: not here to do everything. I start my day with,
- 16:41Speaker 1: look I look at not to do this. I'm like,
- 16:42Speaker 1: who could do this? And I just give out instructions here,
- 16:45Speaker 1: I need you to do this. I need you to
- 16:46Speaker 1: do that, whether it's family members, people on my team.
- 16:49Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not here to be to do everything,
- 16:52Speaker 1: Like y'all ain't gonna make me your work. Okay. So
- 16:55Speaker 1: but yes, there's a whole and the thing is the
- 16:57Speaker 1: beautiful thing about that is there's a whole economy, right,
- 17:00Speaker 1: Like I have all of these team members and they're
- 17:02Speaker 1: making money right and there, so there's like all this
- 17:05Speaker 1: you know, there's a whole economy that's built on my business, right,
- 17:08Speaker 1: So like the more money I make, the more everybody
- 17:10Speaker 1: in my community wins. And it's a beautiful thing. So
- 17:13Speaker 1: we need to ask for help. We need to ask
- 17:16Speaker 1: our partners to do more. We need to make these
- 17:18Speaker 1: kids do their own laundry and wash these dishes like
- 17:20Speaker 1: these fifteen year olds, Like what I wish I would
- 17:23Speaker 1: wash a fifteen year old clothes? Are you out your mind?
- 17:27Speaker 1: Absolutely not? Like, listen, everybody needs to have a little
- 17:30Speaker 1: bit more autonomy and stop putting it all on us
- 17:33Speaker 1: as women. Now, what about investing in your business? Right?
- 17:37Speaker 1: We hear a lot of stories of people who put
- 17:39Speaker 1: their all into their business, and I feel like, okay,
- 17:43Speaker 1: you know, and I feel like I hear a story
- 17:45Speaker 1: a lot of stories about people going broke just starting
- 17:47Speaker 1: their businesses. Know, I'm when to walk away from a
- 17:49Speaker 1: nine to five to dip into their savings. Sometimes you're
- 17:52Speaker 1: borrowing against your retirement, yeah, and all of those things.
- 17:56Speaker 1: And so what are your thoughts about people saying I
- 17:58Speaker 1: have an idea, I'm gonna go my gut and put
- 18:00Speaker 1: everything into this. Yes, okay, so I love the idea. Listen,
- 18:05Speaker 1: I think going with your gut, right, Like instincts is
- 18:08Speaker 1: a point of data. It's a valuable point of data
- 18:11Speaker 1: that we should use to make decisions. Right, Like, oh,
- 18:13Speaker 1: my instincts say this, there's pointing me in a certain direction. Great,
- 18:16Speaker 1: Now validate that with other outside data, right, third party data,
- 18:20Speaker 1: to say, okay, is there a market for this business
- 18:22Speaker 1: that I want to start? Right? What information do I
- 18:25Speaker 1: have out there? Right? Like, some people say, well, my
- 18:27Speaker 1: gut says this, even though everything else is saying that
- 18:30Speaker 1: maybe this won't work, we go with it anyway. Right,
- 18:32Speaker 1: And so I think instincts are important, but we also
- 18:34Speaker 1: need to validate our instincts with other data and make
- 18:38Speaker 1: sure that we have a plan, right, Because you know,
- 18:40Speaker 1: I've heard of I've had friends or heard of people
- 18:42Speaker 1: who are like, well, this is my dream, so I'm
- 18:44Speaker 1: just going to quit my business and start it. And
- 18:46Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no,
- 18:48Speaker 1: But could we be a little bit more strategic about this, right, story,
- 18:52Speaker 1: This is what I did, Yes, my business on the
- 18:54Speaker 1: side while I was working a full time job. Yes,
- 18:57Speaker 1: that's how you're doing. You know, a cool day driving
- 19:01Speaker 1: three hour round trip to Miami, coming home, working with
- 19:04Speaker 1: clients in the evening. So that's a that's a thirteen
- 19:07Speaker 1: hour day. Yeah, absolutely, three hours of commuting an hour
- 19:10Speaker 1: and a half there and back, and then an eight
- 19:11Speaker 1: hour day then coming home and working with some clients
- 19:13Speaker 1: with yourself. That's what I had to do because I
- 19:15Speaker 1: wanted to really stop doing the nine to five. It's
- 19:18Speaker 1: a temporary thing for me to do these there. Yeah, yeah,
- 19:21Speaker 1: so that I can get to the point where days.
- 19:23Speaker 1: But you are so willing to do things differently, and
- 19:26Speaker 1: that's I think what you're all about. Yes, Like your
- 19:29Speaker 1: gut and the way you've done things is great, but
- 19:32Speaker 1: it's got you to where you are, right, So I
- 19:34Speaker 1: want to go something further. Okay, I have to change
- 19:36Speaker 1: up everything I'm doing. I have to change up how
- 19:38Speaker 1: I think of things. I have to be willing to
- 19:40Speaker 1: give up what I believe in. Right, you have to
- 19:42Speaker 1: take on a new identity. To take on a new
- 19:44Speaker 1: identity exactly, And I think we think like, how is
- 19:46Speaker 1: my gut gonna tell me how to build? Like, for example,
- 19:49Speaker 1: I have a business that we'll probably do about fifteen
- 19:52Speaker 1: million this year? How is my gut going to tell
- 19:54Speaker 1: me how to get to a hundred million? My gut
- 19:56Speaker 1: don't know yet. Okay, I have to hire coaches and
- 20:01Speaker 1: get advice and read up and learn. It's like willing, yes,
- 20:04Speaker 1: Like you don't have the knowledge yet to be able
- 20:06Speaker 1: to do that, right, so like let it point you
- 20:09Speaker 1: in the right direction, but validated with advisors. It drives
- 20:11Speaker 1: me nuts too when people hire coaches, they hire advisors
- 20:14Speaker 1: and they don't listen. So i'p hire experts and then
- 20:17Speaker 1: you pay them and then don't take their advice. So
- 20:19Speaker 1: what does the point keep your money? Then? If you're
- 20:21Speaker 1: not going to take their advice, learn from their mistakes, right, Like,
- 20:24Speaker 1: so it took me probably four years to get to
- 20:27Speaker 1: five hundred thousand in my business and my first business
- 20:30Speaker 1: in my law practice. Nicole got there and what a
- 20:33Speaker 1: year and a half years? Yeah, yeah, two and a
- 20:35Speaker 1: half years to get to five hundred thousand, So much faster, right,
- 20:37Speaker 1: Why because she's learning from my mistakes. So like that's
- 20:41Speaker 1: the whole point, right, so that it can go faster
- 20:43Speaker 1: for us. And you know, and this is very important
- 20:47Speaker 1: for our like our community. It's not just about us, Like, yes,
- 20:49Speaker 1: I want to make money, Yes, I like nice things, right,
- 20:52Speaker 1: and I also want to give back to my community.
- 20:54Speaker 1: But it's it's about like what does that mean? Right?
- 20:56Speaker 1: My neighbors who see me, right, they believe it's possible.
- 21:00Speaker 1: Somebody listening to this episode, right, they're like, oh, you
- 21:02Speaker 1: have a fifteen million dollar business and you're a black woman,
- 21:05Speaker 1: I can have that, right, Like they need to see
- 21:08Speaker 1: us doing it. So it's not just for us, it's
- 21:10Speaker 1: for our greater community. And why do you tell people?
- 21:13Speaker 1: Because you are correct, you're both I mean, you're living examples.
- 21:17Speaker 1: Some people will be like, yeah, she's saying that, but
- 21:20Speaker 1: I'm barely getting my bills paid. I have to do
- 21:22Speaker 1: everything myself in my business, and I have to and
- 21:25Speaker 1: I I mean, I was there. I'm an entrepreneur. You
- 21:27Speaker 1: have those ups and downs, and when I just said
- 21:29Speaker 1: to heck with it, and I went and I brought
- 21:31Speaker 1: on someone from marketing and I figured out a model. Okay,
- 21:34Speaker 1: so I don't have the cash to pay you what
- 21:36Speaker 1: your salary is, but i'll bring I can write you
- 21:38Speaker 1: into what I asked is being creative about it. But
- 21:41Speaker 1: some people hear you, but they don't think it's applicable
- 21:45Speaker 1: to them because they don't simply don't think they have
- 21:46Speaker 1: the money to do that. Yes, I honestly think one
- 21:49Speaker 1: of the biggest mistakes that we make is we're always
- 21:51Speaker 1: trying to figure out how right. We don't even know
- 21:53Speaker 1: what yet, but we're trying to figure out how right.
- 21:55Speaker 1: Like we know we have this dream, we have this desire,
- 21:57Speaker 1: and we say, well, that's not possible the moment we
- 21:59Speaker 1: have that vision or that dream, and we just cut
- 22:02Speaker 1: it off, right, we cut off the possibility. And so
- 22:04Speaker 1: what I want to challenge people to do is stop
- 22:06Speaker 1: stop doing that. Right if you have this vision or dream,
- 22:08Speaker 1: I don't know how I'm gonna get there yet, but
- 22:10Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna figure it out right and be creative, right, like, brainstorm,
- 22:15Speaker 1: talk to other people, connect, learn from coaches. You don't like,
- 22:18Speaker 1: we have this dream, but we're like, Oh, I don't
- 22:20Speaker 1: have the money, so it's not possible. I don't have
- 22:22Speaker 1: the money. But let me brainstorm ten ways that I
- 22:24Speaker 1: could still bring in some help. Could I do a trade, right?
- 22:27Speaker 1: Could I write them into a contract? Could I hire
- 22:30Speaker 1: them for two hours a week? If I stop doing
- 22:32Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna cancel this other thing that I
- 22:34Speaker 1: have and use the money for that, right, Like, get creative, right,
- 22:37Speaker 1: use your ideas. I think people are just very like,
- 22:40Speaker 1: it's not possible for me, and they just shut it.
- 22:42Speaker 1: You don't want it then, right, Like, I need you
- 22:44Speaker 1: to work a little harder, right for your vision and
- 22:46Speaker 1: for your dream. I need you to be more creative
- 22:49Speaker 1: about how you're gonna make it happen, right, instead of
- 22:52Speaker 1: just saying, well, it's not possible for me, so forget it.
- 22:55Speaker 1: What about bad partnerships? Oh god, yes, I know this
- 22:59Speaker 1: is an issue for a lot of people in business.
- 23:01Speaker 1: You're like, I'm going to go into business with this person. Yes,
- 23:04Speaker 1: we have you know this person does this. We're best friends,
- 23:06Speaker 1: we've known each other for such a long time. I
- 23:08Speaker 1: trust them. We have this vision together. We're gonna sit down,
- 23:11Speaker 1: we're both gonna grind. And then one person's not holding
- 23:14Speaker 1: their weight. One person's putting up all the money while
- 23:16Speaker 1: the other person it doesn't have anything to lose. Because
- 23:19Speaker 1: I do feel like if you start a business with somebody,
- 23:21Speaker 1: everybody should be putting up some money. That's right. But
- 23:25Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on having to end exit a
- 23:28Speaker 1: partnership or even walk away from a company. How do
- 23:31Speaker 1: you know when his time? Yes, I think well, I
- 23:33Speaker 1: think we often know, but we're just afraid, right, Like
- 23:36Speaker 1: we're afraid to speak the truth, like, yeah, this is over,
- 23:39Speaker 1: we know it's over, but we're avoiding it because of
- 23:41Speaker 1: whatever the fallout might be, or the emotional parts of it,
- 23:45Speaker 1: or we're scared of what's going to be on the
- 23:46Speaker 1: other So I think it's salvageable, yes, exactly, and so
- 23:50Speaker 1: but it usually is it right? Because if if you're
- 23:52Speaker 1: mentally already gone, you're gone, right, you ain't coming back.
- 23:55Speaker 1: So we need to accept that. And I've seen, trust me,
- 23:58Speaker 1: I've seen so many bad partnership and like the lawyers
- 24:01Speaker 1: who you call right when the partnership goes bad. And
- 24:03Speaker 1: so I saw lots of examples of those, and still
- 24:05Speaker 1: I entered into my own bad partnership, you know, and
- 24:08Speaker 1: I had ended in federal court. I had to take
- 24:10Speaker 1: her to court to get my IP back, which I did,
- 24:14Speaker 1: but it was a very unpleasant experience that was a
- 24:16Speaker 1: huge distraction from growing the business. And so here's what
- 24:18Speaker 1: I think. I think that people should have separate businesses. Right.
- 24:21Speaker 1: If you want to partner with somebody, partner with them
- 24:23Speaker 1: on an event, partner with them on a small project
- 24:26Speaker 1: that's finite, test it out, Like, don't say, oh, this
- 24:29Speaker 1: person we're going to do great because we know each
- 24:31Speaker 1: other and we're besties. How you know their work ethic
- 24:33Speaker 1: as their bestie. You ain't at work with them, right
- 24:35Speaker 1: you hanging out with them. In partying with them, that
- 24:37Speaker 1: make the same thing. And so test it out right
- 24:40Speaker 1: by doing something doing something small together, do a workshop together,
- 24:43Speaker 1: do some sort of small thing that you can do
- 24:45Speaker 1: together where you really get to see what they bring
- 24:47Speaker 1: to the table, and then decide whether to turn it
- 24:49Speaker 1: into a full blown thing. I think most of us
- 24:52Speaker 1: take on partners because we're scared, right, because we're scared
- 24:55Speaker 1: of being rejected. We're scared of doing it alone, and
- 24:57Speaker 1: so we just we it's a safety net. It's like
- 25:00Speaker 1: release the safety net, right and allow your opportunities to come.
- 25:03Speaker 1: Because I mean think about, like, you know, all of
- 25:05Speaker 1: us right where we started, right, can we imagine that
- 25:08Speaker 1: we would be here today? Probably not? And so you
- 25:11Speaker 1: just have to be willing to believe in yourself and
- 25:13Speaker 1: go for it. Plus, especially there's so few people, especially
- 25:16Speaker 1: black people, in so many of different industries, like our creativity,
- 25:20Speaker 1: our different way of seeing things like that is valuable,
- 25:23Speaker 1: and it's there's less of that in the marketplace. So
- 25:25Speaker 1: we need to put ourselves out there and go for it.
- 25:27Speaker 1: And I think another thing, and I know you've said this,
- 25:29Speaker 1: is people are scared to talk about money. But if
- 25:32Speaker 1: you do do a partnership with somebody, finances are really important. Oh, absolutely,
- 25:36Speaker 1: disgust your credit? How much money do you have? Are
- 25:38Speaker 1: you in debt? Yes? You know? What do you have
- 25:41Speaker 1: saved up? What? I would treat it like a marriage
- 25:45Speaker 1: and marriages they we've been talking about this a lot lately.
- 25:48Speaker 1: Relationships are better if you're financially independent. Yeah, just come
- 25:52Speaker 1: to them from a totally, totally different perspective. Yes, you
- 25:57Speaker 1: and I had a great conversation about most of us
- 25:59Speaker 1: have the mentality my wealth is how many ways I
- 26:02Speaker 1: split up my paycheck? Oh? Yes, And it's really about
- 26:05Speaker 1: your earning potential. Yeah, we're not. This conversation isn't about Okay,
- 26:08Speaker 1: here's how to manage money to start a business. It's
- 26:10Speaker 1: about you have the capability inside of you to earn
- 26:14Speaker 1: a million dollars. You have the capability to earn more
- 26:17Speaker 1: money to get les. We had an amazing experience with
- 26:21Speaker 1: someone who's working with us on this campaign. Rachel is
- 26:24Speaker 1: saying one of the first things she has people do
- 26:26Speaker 1: is look for unclaimed assets. Yes. And one of the
- 26:29Speaker 1: people we were talking to while we were talking, just
- 26:32Speaker 1: one on one of those websites and found four thousand dollars.
- 26:35Speaker 1: You just found two thousand dollars yesterday exactly. Don't use
- 26:39Speaker 1: all their resources to build it's so us all the
- 26:42Speaker 1: money they have, and that's what you're about. I agree.
- 26:44Speaker 1: I think we don't even realize all that we're bringing
- 26:46Speaker 1: to the table. That's why we get into those partnerships
- 26:48Speaker 1: that don't make sense for us because we're not even
- 26:50Speaker 1: really taking a stock of all of our talent and skills.
- 26:53Speaker 1: And that's how we do it. Right, with real estate,
- 26:55Speaker 1: you have to have good credit, You've got to have
- 26:56Speaker 1: a deposit to put down. Right, if you want to
- 26:58Speaker 1: become an investor, you got to have some capital to
- 27:00Speaker 1: invest in, either in the stock market even day trading. Right,
- 27:04Speaker 1: there's a big barrier to entry in terms of learning.
- 27:07Speaker 1: Entrepreneurship is to me a social justice imperative because it's
- 27:11Speaker 1: an opportunity for us as black people to close the
- 27:13Speaker 1: wealth gap, right, to start something from literally nothing, because
- 27:16Speaker 1: I had nothing. I had three hundred thousand dollars a
- 27:19Speaker 1: student loans, I had a four hundred credit score, I
- 27:21Speaker 1: had no network, nobody who wanted to give me any money.
- 27:24Speaker 1: I had a job where I was making forty one
- 27:26Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year. That's what I started with. So
- 27:28Speaker 1: I had nothing. And from there I was just like,
- 27:31Speaker 1: what kind of business can I start? What skills do
- 27:33Speaker 1: I have? Let me use those skills. So like, if
- 27:35Speaker 1: you do marketing at your day job, you could do
- 27:38Speaker 1: marketing on the side, right, and do marketing for other
- 27:41Speaker 1: people's businesses, right, Like whatever. If you are super organized
- 27:45Speaker 1: and are a great executive assistant, could you be a
- 27:47Speaker 1: personal assistant for somebody on the side on the weekends
- 27:50Speaker 1: or in the evenings. Right, Like, whatever skills you have,
- 27:52Speaker 1: you can use those skills and make money. And that's
- 27:55Speaker 1: the thing we need to take stock of us. We
- 27:57Speaker 1: are our biggest asset. This is your million dollar asset
- 28:00Speaker 1: right here. You have it. Do you remember your first
- 28:02Speaker 1: time negotiating for actually getting a fee for coaching, because
- 28:06Speaker 1: I know you said people were coming to you they
- 28:08Speaker 1: needed help. He was giving away all this advice for free.
- 28:11Speaker 1: But then it was like you should charge for this?
- 28:13Speaker 1: So what was that like that transition? Yeah, and it
- 28:16Speaker 1: was scary. It's always scary when you're like, you know,
- 28:18Speaker 1: telling somebody the price and you feel like it's a lot, right,
- 28:21Speaker 1: And so I agreed to do I think it was
- 28:23Speaker 1: like six months of coaching for sixth grand, which is
- 28:26Speaker 1: not enough, let's be clear. So I said six thousand dollars,
- 28:31Speaker 1: which I thought was a lot at the time, And
- 28:33Speaker 1: so I was like, I'm just gonna try. So I
- 28:34Speaker 1: had like a friend of a friend who was looking
- 28:36Speaker 1: for help with her business, and so I was like, Okay,
- 28:39Speaker 1: I will help you and I will coach you for
- 28:40Speaker 1: six months for six grand. And I just sent the
- 28:43Speaker 1: email and I was just like squeamish. Yeah, And that's
- 28:46Speaker 1: the thing. Listen, when you stage your price. You staged
- 28:49Speaker 1: your price and then you just shut up. Don't say anything.
- 28:52Speaker 1: Silence right now, just let me think about it, all right,
- 28:55Speaker 1: because then we start being like, well, I could discount it,
- 28:57Speaker 1: or I could work with you, I could do a payment.
- 29:00Speaker 1: Stop talking, say the price, it's fifteen thousand, and I
- 29:04Speaker 1: let that awkward silence. Just sit just be like, you know,
- 29:08Speaker 1: I'll wait right and just see what the response is,
- 29:10Speaker 1: because oftentimes the response is okay, great, but then we
- 29:13Speaker 1: start talking. There are literal studies that show that women
- 29:16Speaker 1: entrepreneurs in particular, like eighty percent of them, discount their
- 29:19Speaker 1: price when clients aren't even even asking for it. Were
- 29:21Speaker 1: just out here playing ourselves and cutting off our own money.
- 29:24Speaker 1: I'll stop that and exactly don't do any of that.
- 29:32Speaker 1: Stay with the price. Literally, if you have to write
- 29:33Speaker 1: it down, I have my clients write it down on
- 29:35Speaker 1: a post to note, put it on your desk, read
- 29:37Speaker 1: the post to note, and then stop talking, you know,
- 29:39Speaker 1: and people will say yes, and that's exactly what happened
- 29:42Speaker 1: for me with that first client. She was like, I'm
- 29:44Speaker 1: in and so I was like also, like I was
- 29:46Speaker 1: so surprised, but also really excited. And then her business
- 29:50Speaker 1: went from she was making like ninety thousand in her
- 29:53Speaker 1: business and having to travel, and so I took it
- 29:55Speaker 1: online and she was able to make like half a
- 29:58Speaker 1: million dollars with then literally less than a year, her
- 30:01Speaker 1: business was making five x what she So I was like, oh,
- 30:04Speaker 1: six thousand was not enough. I need to be charging
- 30:06Speaker 1: a lot more for this, you know what I mean.
- 30:07Speaker 1: And that's what happens. You get that first client, you
- 30:09Speaker 1: see the results they get, and you're like, oh, hell no,
- 30:11Speaker 1: I need to be charging more for this. But I
- 30:13Speaker 1: do understand where pricing it fairly in the beginning, as
- 30:16Speaker 1: you're trying to build your clients hel yes, you know,
- 30:18Speaker 1: and you're you're also learning because it's a different space
- 30:21Speaker 1: to be in, yes, and so you want to also
- 30:23Speaker 1: have some great clients that can recommend you and that
- 30:26Speaker 1: can actually say I worked with Rachel, she was amazing, yeah, exactly.
- 30:31Speaker 1: And the problem is when people start talking about your price,
- 30:33Speaker 1: like how might she charge you? Well, this is that
- 30:35Speaker 1: is the exact problem. And so here's the thing that
- 30:38Speaker 1: I say, even if you're not experienced, you are qualified.
- 30:41Speaker 1: Even if you are not experienced, you are qualified. You
- 30:44Speaker 1: have the skills to do the job right, And so
- 30:46Speaker 1: charge as if you are qualified. Even if you're not experienced, right,
- 30:50Speaker 1: you don't have to have all the experience in the world.
- 30:52Speaker 1: You're still going to get people the result. When I
- 30:53Speaker 1: was a brand new lawyer, I didn't have a ton
- 30:55Speaker 1: of experience handling all these different legal transactions. But I
- 30:59Speaker 1: was qualified, and so I charged accordingly. And then you know,
- 31:03Speaker 1: over time, I got more and more confident. And the
- 31:05Speaker 1: thing is, here's the thing. Here's what I tell people.
- 31:07Speaker 1: If you're really scared, charge charge the higher price, and
- 31:10Speaker 1: if you screw something up, just give them a refund,
- 31:12Speaker 1: or you could always give money back, right like you
- 31:14Speaker 1: could always make it right on the back end if
- 31:16Speaker 1: you have to. But don't low ball yourself on the
- 31:18Speaker 1: front end, because what happens is you keep lowballing yourself.
- 31:21Speaker 1: People tell everybody about about the prize. You get used
- 31:24Speaker 1: to saying that prize, and you're scared to say the
- 31:26Speaker 1: higher price, you know, and then it just becomes a
- 31:29Speaker 1: barrier for us, none of this works without community. Yes,
- 31:32Speaker 1: the layd angel is talking about at the getting to
- 31:35Speaker 1: that point where you have the confidence to do that.
- 31:37Speaker 1: That's really the strength the Hello seven and the challenges
- 31:40Speaker 1: in these groups that we try to start because it's
- 31:42Speaker 1: hard to do. Who could do that by themselves? Yes,
- 31:45Speaker 1: for sure. There's a study that was done. It was
- 31:48Speaker 1: like the American Work Study or whatever, and it shows
- 31:52Speaker 1: that when you have accountability and you have community, you
- 31:55Speaker 1: are ninety five percent more likely to achieve your goals.
- 31:59Speaker 1: If you try to go alone twelve percent. That's like
- 32:02Speaker 1: your chances of accomplishing a goal alone is twelve percent, right,
- 32:06Speaker 1: But if you do it with a friend, or if
- 32:08Speaker 1: you do it with an accountability group, right like where
- 32:10Speaker 1: somebody's going to check in with you and be like,
- 32:12Speaker 1: how are you doing towards that thing we talked about
- 32:13Speaker 1: last week? Right Like, when somebody's checking in with you
- 32:16Speaker 1: weekly and you're you're supporting each other and you're sharing
- 32:19Speaker 1: resources ninety five percent. So it's like, if you want
- 32:22Speaker 1: to be successful, get into a community. That's why my
- 32:24Speaker 1: business has built the way that it is because I
- 32:26Speaker 1: know what's gonna make us successful is not just my coaching.
- 32:29Speaker 1: But the whole community is just like all these people
- 32:31Speaker 1: you find your business bestie, right, and you support each
- 32:34Speaker 1: other and you're not on the phone where Brenda talking
- 32:36Speaker 1: about her boy problems every night anymore. Everybody like you know,
- 32:39Speaker 1: there's a grant that as Yeah, oh I met somebody
- 32:44Speaker 1: and I told them about your services, So such and
- 32:46Speaker 1: such is going to call you like they're potential client. Right,
- 32:48Speaker 1: those are the conversations we need to be having, right,
- 32:51Speaker 1: That's that's the conversation. We started Wealth Wednesdays for Entrepreneurs.
- 32:55Speaker 1: It's just called that Wealth Wednesdays for Entrepreneurs on Facebook.
- 32:58Speaker 1: It's a community and like Rays featured in it this month,
- 33:01Speaker 1: and we want conversations about it. But we want everybody
- 33:03Speaker 1: to sign up for that as well. Yes, exactly. Can
- 33:06Speaker 1: I say something about the pricing though, because when I
- 33:09Speaker 1: started Five Minute Bookkeeper, you don't want to know how
- 33:11Speaker 1: much I priced it. If I was not in Hello seven,
- 33:19Speaker 1: I don't think I would have, you know, changed my
- 33:22Speaker 1: pricing how as fast as I did, And now it's
- 33:25Speaker 1: definitely not the original price, right, And people are still
- 33:29Speaker 1: buying it because they see they see the value in it,
- 33:34Speaker 1: and I think sometimes we undercharge as women, you undercharge
- 33:37Speaker 1: because we're like, oh, people are not going to pay
- 33:38Speaker 1: me this money. But then when you start, you know,
- 33:41Speaker 1: increasing your pricing. And that's what I learned from Rachels.
- 33:43Speaker 1: He's like, double your prices. I'm like, oh my gosh,
- 33:47Speaker 1: nobody's gonna buy from me. And I kept I've doubled
- 33:49Speaker 1: my prices like three or four times in the past
- 33:52Speaker 1: two and a half years, and people are still buying.
- 33:55Speaker 1: I'm on a plane coming here and people are buying. Now.
- 33:57Speaker 1: People will tell you that you get what you pay
- 33:58Speaker 1: for because sometimes people to think if something is cheap
- 34:01Speaker 1: is not good to Yeah, exactly, why do you want
- 34:03Speaker 1: to listen When people are like, your prices are kind
- 34:06Speaker 1: of high, I'm like, listen, I'm premium, Okay, I'm not
- 34:08Speaker 1: the cheapy, cheap option. You're going to get the results
- 34:11Speaker 1: that my price suggests, you know, and so I'm going
- 34:15Speaker 1: to charge accordingly. And the thing is is like, how
- 34:17Speaker 1: can I how can I be an entrepreneur and charge
- 34:20Speaker 1: low prices? And when I'm supposed to be modeling for
- 34:23Speaker 1: my clients, right, like I need to be taking the
- 34:25Speaker 1: same advice right that I'm giving. But when you think
- 34:28Speaker 1: about the times that we're into. Yeah, that makes sure
- 34:30Speaker 1: that coaching is accessible for people. Yes, so I know
- 34:34Speaker 1: you kind of change your model for that too, exactly. Yes,
- 34:37Speaker 1: we have we have a community, and then we also
- 34:39Speaker 1: do a challenge, and these are all things that make
- 34:41Speaker 1: it easy for people to have an entry point in
- 34:44Speaker 1: because I'm here, like in the challenge. Literally, by the
- 34:46Speaker 1: end of the five day challenge, people are making thousands
- 34:48Speaker 1: of dollars. It's it's bananas. I mean literally everybody's crying.
- 34:51Speaker 1: By the end of my whole team is crying because
- 34:53Speaker 1: they're just like we're changing people's lives, you know, Like
- 34:55Speaker 1: I love my job and it's so great right to
- 34:58Speaker 1: watch the transformation. Like somebody comes in not believing in themselves,
- 35:02Speaker 1: being fearful, and they're just like, I'm gonna spend ninety
- 35:04Speaker 1: seven dollars and see what happens. And they just show
- 35:06Speaker 1: up and being surrounded with community, getting the advice, and
- 35:09Speaker 1: I make them do take action every day. So every
- 35:12Speaker 1: day you got to make a money move. And by
- 35:14Speaker 1: the end of the week, people are making money and
- 35:16Speaker 1: starting to see the results of just in a couple
- 35:18Speaker 1: of days. And so like in that you make you
- 35:21Speaker 1: make some money, right, and then you can join the community, right,
- 35:23Speaker 1: which is our our membership community, and that's that's not
- 35:26Speaker 1: so expensive, right, That's something that you can get into
- 35:28Speaker 1: and most people can afford it. And then from there
- 35:31Speaker 1: there are other ways that you can work with us
- 35:32Speaker 1: as your business continues to grow. But you have to
- 35:34Speaker 1: just figure out a business model that makes sense. But
- 35:36Speaker 1: even for a community, we're still premium, right, like we're not.
- 35:38Speaker 1: There are communities that are nineteen dollars a month. We
- 35:41Speaker 1: charge to ninety five a month, right, so we're we're
- 35:43Speaker 1: not the cheapest, but you do get results, right for
- 35:46Speaker 1: us when we're so honored for our last Wealth Wednesdays
- 35:50Speaker 1: with the Breakfast Club, Wealth Wednesdays will move on to
- 35:53Speaker 1: wonderful things as well. You did a special challenge, yes,
- 35:56Speaker 1: tell us all, yes, So it's called the Make Money
- 35:59Speaker 1: Moves Challenge. It's a five day challenge where when you join,
- 36:02Speaker 1: you come in and you're gonna make a money move
- 36:03Speaker 1: every day. You get coached by me every day and
- 36:06Speaker 1: I teach you like where you're leaving money on the table.
- 36:09Speaker 1: I teach you about pricing, I teach you how to
- 36:11Speaker 1: sell right, I teach you how to have make a
- 36:15Speaker 1: million dollar offer, right, So like Nicole had a one
- 36:17Speaker 1: on one offer that she was doing right. And so
- 36:19Speaker 1: that was the thing she was doing after work, making
- 36:21Speaker 1: a little bit of money, taking up a lot of time.
- 36:24Speaker 1: And I taught her how to do it in a
- 36:26Speaker 1: more scalable way, and now she's making a lot more money.
- 36:28Speaker 1: And how many hours you work a day? Two to
- 36:31Speaker 1: four hours a day? Because I spent what are you
- 36:35Speaker 1: doing the rest of the day chilling? I take it
- 36:38Speaker 1: them episode, So what I do is and I you know,
- 36:46Speaker 1: we talked about those thirteen hours that I used to work, right,
- 36:49Speaker 1: And I really wanted to take my son. My son,
- 36:51Speaker 1: Brandon is ten years old. He's on the autism spectrum,
- 36:55Speaker 1: and I wanted to drop him to school. I wanted
- 36:58Speaker 1: to pick him up, take him home so he could
- 37:00Speaker 1: have his therapies at a regular time during the day, right,
- 37:02Speaker 1: And I could not do that working those long hours.
- 37:05Speaker 1: And I really said before and you have to have
- 37:08Speaker 1: a hy yes, like if you don't have this big
- 37:10Speaker 1: why that you're you're you have in the forefront of
- 37:13Speaker 1: your mind, you will give up. Yes, it's it easy. So, um,
- 37:17Speaker 1: I wanted to drop him to school, pick him up
- 37:20Speaker 1: and so I'm like, Okay, I wanted to, you know,
- 37:22Speaker 1: schedule my day this way. Yes, and this is exactly
- 37:25Speaker 1: what I'm doing. I get to work out in the morning,
- 37:27Speaker 1: I get to chill you. I have a life. I'm
- 37:31Speaker 1: making you know, I'm making like thirty at least between
- 37:35Speaker 1: twenty and thirty thousand a month in two and a
- 37:37Speaker 1: half years, five hundred k cash. Like I'm like, I
- 37:40Speaker 1: would have had to work like eight years at my
- 37:42Speaker 1: day job to me, because that's the worst of people
- 37:44Speaker 1: are like, you know, I work fifteen hours a day,
- 37:46Speaker 1: but then it's still a struggle. Yes, you know, and
- 37:49Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that I mean, I felt
- 37:51Speaker 1: like early on that was my life. Yes, but it
- 37:54Speaker 1: is also a why if you know what kind of
- 37:56Speaker 1: goal you're working toward, And Rachel, I know. One thing
- 37:59Speaker 1: you also stress is don't feel bad about making money,
- 38:01Speaker 1: because sometimes you feel like there's a you know, tough
- 38:05Speaker 1: times for people. Here. I am feeling like a selfish
- 38:08Speaker 1: person making all this money. Listen, you are, Listen, You're
- 38:11Speaker 1: doing the world a favor, especially if you black making money,
- 38:14Speaker 1: if you're of any marginalized identity and you're making money.
- 38:16Speaker 1: We need to see those examples. So even if you
- 38:19Speaker 1: spend all your money on Chanel or you spend all
- 38:21Speaker 1: your money on taking care of yourself text first of all,
- 38:25Speaker 1: listen me too. But listen, even if you spend all
- 38:28Speaker 1: your money on yourself, right, Like, I'm not one of
- 38:30Speaker 1: those people that judges, and I'm not one of those
- 38:32Speaker 1: people that's like, the black community stop spending money on
- 38:34Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Listen, the black community needs some pleasure
- 38:37Speaker 1: in their life, Okay, the black community needs to enjoy themselves, right, Like,
- 38:40Speaker 1: it's not about hustle and work so hard and sacrifice everything.
- 38:43Speaker 1: I don't resonate with that message. I need to enjoy
- 38:46Speaker 1: my life, and I need to make the money, and
- 38:48Speaker 1: I need to be planning for the future, and I
- 38:49Speaker 1: need to be giving back. All of those are possible.
- 38:51Speaker 1: I want to imagine possible all of those things. I
- 38:54Speaker 1: need it all. I don't want just one or some
- 38:57Speaker 1: I don't want to live off of peanuts, like no,
- 38:59Speaker 1: and there's there's a way to do it right. We
- 39:01Speaker 1: don't have to do that. And I think that message
- 39:04Speaker 1: is just I don't know, it annoys me. I'm like, listen,
- 39:06Speaker 1: black people have been through enough. If we want to
- 39:08Speaker 1: buy some nice things. Were gonna buy nice things leave
- 39:10Speaker 1: us alone, Okay, We're gonna buy them responsively, responsibly, right,
- 39:14Speaker 1: And we can't do that. And also, like you said,
- 39:16Speaker 1: still be able to give back exactly, tapping into our
- 39:20Speaker 1: creativity and our skill set to make more money, right,
- 39:22Speaker 1: so that we can both have nice things, invest in
- 39:25Speaker 1: our future, right, and invest in our community. I'm doing
- 39:28Speaker 1: all three right. I put save money every month the
- 39:30Speaker 1: Mustock account, right. And I am also I have a
- 39:34Speaker 1: nonprofit where we are helping black mothers with dulas and
- 39:37Speaker 1: childcare and night nurses. Right. And I also have nice clothes. Right.
- 39:41Speaker 1: So you can have all of those things. You just
- 39:42Speaker 1: have those buckets and you you decide how you're going
- 39:45Speaker 1: to divvy it up. But denying yourself all pleasure does
- 39:47Speaker 1: not actually help you grow, right, Like discipline is only
- 39:50Speaker 1: going to get us so far. And that's why I
- 39:52Speaker 1: teach people how to build a business based on your
- 39:54Speaker 1: natural talents, your natural skills, because it doesn't rely on discipline,
- 39:57Speaker 1: or it relies on like you actually enjoy your work, right,
- 39:59Speaker 1: that's why you show up and do it every day consistently.
- 40:02Speaker 1: It's not going to be discipline and turning ourselves into
- 40:05Speaker 1: a puzzle and making ourselves miserable. And honestly, some of
- 40:08Speaker 1: these men, I'm gonna just attack these male coaches because
- 40:11Speaker 1: some of these men, right like, they're talking about all
- 40:13Speaker 1: this work fifteen hours or put in all this effort,
- 40:16Speaker 1: and it's like, well, that's because you have a wife
- 40:17Speaker 1: at home taking care of figs, right Like, Listen, let's
- 40:21Speaker 1: be real, let's have advice that actually resonates with women
- 40:24Speaker 1: who are doing the majority of the work. And so
- 40:26Speaker 1: that's why I teach people how to make money and
- 40:28Speaker 1: not be hustling all the time, right, like how to
- 40:30Speaker 1: have a short work day and still make good money, right,
- 40:33Speaker 1: still have a fulfilled life. Yes, yes, And we need
- 40:36Speaker 1: to reject these ideas. We take them as law, like oh,
- 40:39Speaker 1: I just have to work long hours if I want
- 40:40Speaker 1: to make money, or I just have to No, that's
- 40:42Speaker 1: not actually true. We need to challenge that DNA. We
- 40:45Speaker 1: are committed to their struggle, but we have to remember
- 40:48Speaker 1: who we are because if you look at us of
- 40:50Speaker 1: the challenges since the beginning of the beginning, black people
- 40:54Speaker 1: have the entire financial system set up against the Yes,
- 40:57Speaker 1: we have money, you know, to stolen from us exactly
- 41:01Speaker 1: different points in history, yet we still have all this
- 41:04Speaker 1: buying power. Yeah, that's still the biggest group of entrepreneurs. Yeah.
- 41:07Speaker 1: We always say we are a study and resilient, ye,
- 41:10Speaker 1: don't forget Yes, and we're still out here winning. And
- 41:13Speaker 1: I want us to not just be resilient, but to
- 41:16Speaker 1: actually enjoy our lives. Right, And that's why I wanted
- 41:18Speaker 1: to bring the coal because I want people to see examples, like,
- 41:20Speaker 1: don't just take my word for it, Okay, like this
- 41:23Speaker 1: is real, it does work, it is possible. I want
- 41:26Speaker 1: people to know that, not for my benefit, for their benefit, right,
- 41:29Speaker 1: so we can change the game. Right, Just think about
- 41:31Speaker 1: how the world is going to look for my daughter
- 41:33Speaker 1: who's eleven right now if all of us start taking action,
- 41:37Speaker 1: building these businesses really, you know, building these empires and
- 41:40Speaker 1: being able to give back in big ways as well. Like,
- 41:42Speaker 1: we're going to change the world. And that's what I'm
- 41:44Speaker 1: here to do. I don't want to just make money.
- 41:46Speaker 1: I don't want to just fly in private planes and
- 41:48Speaker 1: floss right, Like, I want to change the world, and
- 41:50Speaker 1: that's what I'm here to do. That's why I wrote
- 41:52Speaker 1: this book, That's why I share this message. Like I
- 41:54Speaker 1: could be chilling on my couch, right, I go out
- 41:57Speaker 1: and share this message because I want people to know.
- 41:59Speaker 1: I want the reception is to know, right, or the
- 42:01Speaker 1: woman working at the doctor's office, right, or like whatever,
- 42:04Speaker 1: if you work at mcdonne, yes, you're over driver, you
- 42:07Speaker 1: work at McDonald's, Like, this message is for you. It's
- 42:09Speaker 1: not just for people who already have money, because I
- 42:12Speaker 1: think that's what we do. It's like, Okay, you already
- 42:13Speaker 1: have You're already professional, you're already making money. Let me
- 42:16Speaker 1: tell you how to rework it. I will do that too.
- 42:18Speaker 1: But I also want the person who used to be
- 42:20Speaker 1: me when I was twenty something and feeling hopeless and
- 42:22Speaker 1: feeling broke as hell, and like, how am I going
- 42:24Speaker 1: to dig myself out of a three hundred thousand dollars
- 42:26Speaker 1: negative net worth? And I did that. My net worth
- 42:29Speaker 1: is a lot more than that right now, right, And
- 42:31Speaker 1: with no nobody helped me, I had to figure it out.
- 42:33Speaker 1: And so exactly what I did I share that. I
- 42:36Speaker 1: share it in the challenge. Y'all need to get up
- 42:38Speaker 1: in here, and I'm going to show you how to
- 42:40Speaker 1: make more money and tap into the skills that you
- 42:41Speaker 1: already have. So how Can people sign up for the challenge? Yes,
- 42:44Speaker 1: so you go to make money mooves dot Co. Put
- 42:47Speaker 1: in your email. Put in your cell phone too, so
- 42:49Speaker 1: we can text you reminders and get up in this
- 42:51Speaker 1: challenge because it's going to change your life. December fifth
- 42:55Speaker 1: through December ninth. Yes, this challenge. I feel like we
- 42:58Speaker 1: could do it. Yes, I've never feel like I've learned everything. Yes, exactly. Student,
- 43:05Speaker 1: that's whatever. Feel like you know everything? You still open
- 43:07Speaker 1: the learning and doing things differently, and you're not committed
- 43:10Speaker 1: to the struggle and the challenge, yes, exactly, change your thinking. Right.
- 43:13Speaker 1: So it's from six to eight pm Eastern Standard time
- 43:16Speaker 1: because I wanted to accommodate working people, so it's in
- 43:18Speaker 1: the evenings. Everything is recorded, so even if you can't
- 43:21Speaker 1: be there live, you can listen to the recordings. Show
- 43:23Speaker 1: up every day and do the work and listen. It's
- 43:25Speaker 1: gonna be real talk. Okay. I'm not here to coddle
- 43:28Speaker 1: you and say like, oh, it's so easy. No, you're
- 43:30Speaker 1: gonna And the hard work is not sitting at your
- 43:32Speaker 1: desk for eight hours, right. The hard work is pitching
- 43:35Speaker 1: yourself right. It's sending the email, it's making the ask,
- 43:38Speaker 1: it's putting yourself out there. That's the stuff that scares us.
- 43:41Speaker 1: But if we're willing to do that, we can see
- 43:43Speaker 1: amazing results really quickly. So yeah, let's get together. It's
- 43:46Speaker 1: like a party. It feels like a family, right. Everybody
- 43:50Speaker 1: is so supportive and loving. It's a great environment and
- 43:53Speaker 1: it'll change your life, all right. And and so make
- 43:55Speaker 1: money moves that co Yes, and we have and we
- 43:58Speaker 1: have a special offer for the Breakfast Club so you
- 44:00Speaker 1: actually get one hundred dollars off. So I'm actually making
- 44:03Speaker 1: this challenge free for general emission. So general emission is
- 44:06Speaker 1: usually ninety seven dollars, but you're gonna get it for free,
- 44:09Speaker 1: and just use the Breakfast Club code which is BC
- 44:12Speaker 1: one hundred. Okay when you check out, and you can
- 44:14Speaker 1: get it for free if you do the VIP. It's
- 44:16Speaker 1: two ninety five normally, but you could get one hundred
- 44:18Speaker 1: dollars off. That's one ninety five, and the VIPs get
- 44:21Speaker 1: extra an extra hour of coaching with me every day.
- 44:23Speaker 1: And listen, listen, I'm going to get in your listen.
- 44:26Speaker 1: You already know. Yeah. Seven that's the coaching platt So
- 44:32Speaker 1: people can go on there too, right, what's the website?
- 44:35Speaker 1: For the website is Hello seven dot co and listen,
- 44:37Speaker 1: we never do this challenge for free. It costs six
- 44:39Speaker 1: figures for coaching with me. The reason I do this
- 44:42Speaker 1: is to give back and to help people. So that's
- 44:44Speaker 1: why we're doing it. So get up in here, even
- 44:46Speaker 1: if it's inconvenient, cancel whatever plans you had, because trust me,
- 44:48Speaker 1: this is gonna be better than that. And look and
- 44:50Speaker 1: even as a marketing genius, you know, you do have
- 44:52Speaker 1: to admit that this gets the word out even more. Absolutely,
- 44:55Speaker 1: we're always refreshing and doing that over and over exactly.
- 44:58Speaker 1: Off for that too, Yes, more people seeing the message,
- 45:01Speaker 1: more people you know, success stories exactly, more people getting
- 45:04Speaker 1: help exactly. That's that's the whole goal. So there's a
- 45:07Speaker 1: win win here. And the code before you wr price again,
- 45:10Speaker 1: how can you because it's coming so Wealth Wednesday's discount. Yeah,
- 45:22Speaker 1: so you could go to five minute bookkeeper dot com.
- 45:26Speaker 1: So that's the number five minute bookkeeper dot com and
- 45:29Speaker 1: your discount code for the Breakfast Club is be fast
- 45:33Speaker 1: Club and you will get a thousand dollars off the
- 45:36Speaker 1: yearly subscription. Wow, that's very generous. It's awesome for our
- 45:41Speaker 1: last Wealth Wednesdays here. Yeah, all of their resources you
- 45:44Speaker 1: can also find in our wealth Wednesdays for entrepreneurs face
- 45:47Speaker 1: fo yes, And here's the thing, right, that's the beautiful thing.
- 45:50Speaker 1: When you make more money, you can be more generous,
- 45:51Speaker 1: right like, and that's to me that's fun right, where
- 45:54Speaker 1: you can be helpful without hurting. Don't try to be
- 45:55Speaker 1: generous when you ain't got nothing yet, like let's wait, hey,
- 45:58Speaker 1: let's wait till we have with in the community. Yes,
- 46:01Speaker 1: must not be generous and poor fermin empty well, right,
- 46:03Speaker 1: but when we have the ability to, let's do that.
- 46:05Speaker 1: And for everybody support other you know, black owned businesses, yeah, businesses,
- 46:10Speaker 1: black women owned businesses. When you see somebody really trying
- 46:13Speaker 1: to do something and they have a great product or
- 46:16Speaker 1: you want to try it out, support it, post about it,
- 46:18Speaker 1: pay for it, yes, because that's important. We can't always
- 46:21Speaker 1: be asking for discounts and always trying to get something
- 46:24Speaker 1: for free. If you're friends with somebody who has a business,
- 46:26Speaker 1: this is a great time for you to go and
- 46:28Speaker 1: support them. Yes, you know, that's it's not an easy
- 46:30Speaker 1: road to travel down. So every little thing helps and
- 46:33Speaker 1: it means a lot when people can actually support your business,
- 46:37Speaker 1: and that could even just be doing a nice post
- 46:39Speaker 1: about it, exactly exactly. Word of mouth makes such a difference,
- 46:43Speaker 1: and that's that's what grows businesses. Right. You do the
- 46:45Speaker 1: marketing just to get people listening and doing it, but
- 46:48Speaker 1: once people experience it and they share it with their friends,
- 46:51Speaker 1: that's what actually blows businesses up. Even fourtune, five hundred companies,
- 46:54Speaker 1: that's how they get there is through word of mouth.
- 46:56Speaker 1: That's how you get product market fits. So the more
- 46:59Speaker 1: you can share about those those black owned businesses that
- 47:01Speaker 1: resonate with you, the more you're helping them grow. All right, Well,
- 47:05Speaker 1: this is a great last Wealth Wednesday on the Breakfast Club.
- 47:08Speaker 1: But you know the platform continues, right, Stacy, it continues,
- 47:12Speaker 1: and it started about five years ago, and we used
- 47:14Speaker 1: to do this for free. Yeah, Wealth Wednesdays. We just
- 47:17Speaker 1: got so passionate about giving people financial knowledge from Angela's
- 47:21Speaker 1: Juice Bar. Yeah, and just by us staying focused on
- 47:24Speaker 1: our mission, it's just grown around us. And the Breakfast
- 47:27Speaker 1: Club has been a premendous, tremendous part of that journey
- 47:31Speaker 1: and I'm always grateful for that. And now Wealth Wednesday's
- 47:35Speaker 1: going way up, Yeah, to take you all to the
- 47:37Speaker 1: next level. Yeah, and we're gonna take you from we've
- 47:40Speaker 1: got you this far to six figures. Now we're going
- 47:43Speaker 1: to seven things. That's right and beyond y'all and figures
- 47:47Speaker 1: nine figures. It's all possible. And with Stacy even saying
- 47:50Speaker 1: that when we first started Wealth Wednesdays for free at
- 47:52Speaker 1: the Juice Bar, you know, in person, it was always
- 47:55Speaker 1: I always knew that it would turn into something bigger.
- 47:57Speaker 1: But I also knew, like, let's just get it started. Yeah, exactly.
- 48:01Speaker 1: Have to just go and do it. You think too hard,
- 48:03Speaker 1: We talk ourselves out of it. Yeah, just do it.
- 48:06Speaker 1: Just get started to do it. You don't know what
- 48:08Speaker 1: opportunities will come your way. You'll also learn how to
- 48:11Speaker 1: tweak things. You'll learn how to do a lot of
- 48:12Speaker 1: different things just by putting your feet in the water.
- 48:15Speaker 1: It's like an education. It's a class at first, that's right,
- 48:18Speaker 1: and the surround yourself with the best piece of entrepreneurial advice.
- 48:21Speaker 1: Before I was an entrepreneur, I was a journalist and
- 48:24Speaker 1: we were building this is angelists said to me, don't
- 48:28Speaker 1: give it away. Yes, And a lot of us tend
- 48:31Speaker 1: to build something and we's like, oh, somebody else could
- 48:33Speaker 1: do it better. Or I have to go it away.
- 48:35Speaker 1: Just don't give it away and believe in yourself. And
- 48:39Speaker 1: next thing you know, you're sitting with people like this,
- 48:43Speaker 1: I'm helping. We've helped millions and millions of people make
- 48:46Speaker 1: millions and millions of dollars. Yeah, keep doing that. That's right.
- 48:50Speaker 1: I mean to me, like, that's what gets me out
- 48:51Speaker 1: of bed, because at this point my life is comfortable.
- 48:53Speaker 1: I could just live off of what I have already
- 48:56Speaker 1: and be done with it. But I just show up
- 48:58Speaker 1: every day because we nowhere near done, right, Like, there's
- 49:00Speaker 1: so many more people to help and support, And when
- 49:03Speaker 1: I hear stories like Nicole's from my community, it's like,
- 49:05Speaker 1: that's that's what gets me hype. I'm like, yes, okay,
- 49:08Speaker 1: let's go. We gotta make more Nicole's right, Like, we
- 49:10Speaker 1: have to create more opportunities for people who think it's
- 49:13Speaker 1: not possible. I want them to know that it is.
- 49:15Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you so much for joining us.
- 49:17Speaker 1: You're from Queens, right, Queens, New York. All right? See,
- 49:23Speaker 1: every year we feel like, I don't know Queens has
- 49:25Speaker 1: any really intelligent people. Here's proof, yes, here's evidence. All right,
- 49:38Speaker 1: Well it's the Breakfast Club Wealth Wednesday,