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What Did We Miss !? · GAS MONEY

• 0:10
  SPEAKER_00: What's up, everybody?
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_00: Uh welcome to another episode of the Gas Money Podcast.
• 0:15
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• 0:27
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, looks like we're missing somebody.
• 0:30
  SPEAKER_00: Um you know, it's one thing I always say nobody is exempt from the scissors.
• 0:38
  SPEAKER_00: Even if we shoot in your crib, you can still get cut from this roster.
• 0:43
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, but our boy AG is um, he's on vacation right now, you know, enjoying his time in the sun in Mexico.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_00: He's right.
• 0:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 0:51
  SPEAKER_00: So, looks like I gotta be the host.
• 0:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, what we gonna do?
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_00: But to the right of me, we got our boy Senior Charley making another addition to the podcast.
• 1:01
  SPEAKER_00: Sir, it was good.
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_00: Got introduced to oh man.
• 1:06
  SPEAKER_06: To my far left, we have Toon in the building.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_06: Yes, sir ski.
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_06: And to the right of me, we got the hostess with the most is.
• 1:13
  SPEAKER_06: Hostess?
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_06: You try to call me a bitch?
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, is that how that works?
• 1:16
  SPEAKER_06: Hostess is the female.
• 1:17
  SPEAKER_06: I thought that was like more like, you know, mostess.
• 1:20
  SPEAKER_06: Is most the female?
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I thought it was, I thought it was hostess like us in most.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, right, exactly.
• 1:25
  SPEAKER_06: Alright.
• 1:25
  SPEAKER_06: Because what'd you say, host with the most?
• 1:28
  SPEAKER_06: I guess maybe.
• 1:28
  SPEAKER_06: I guess so.
• 1:29
  SPEAKER_06: Alright, so the host with the most.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_06: That even ruined it.
• 1:31
  SPEAKER_06: But alright, we got cash in the building.
• 1:34
  SPEAKER_00: Alright, guys.
• 1:35
  SPEAKER_00: I guess I'll just uh ask AG's regular question.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_00: How was our how was our weekend, bro?
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_06: Actually, though, I'm pretty sure we all got a story because uh July 4th.
• 1:44
  SPEAKER_06: My my actually my July 4th was actually pretty lit, litter than usual.
• 1:48
  SPEAKER_06: Um I went to a barbecue, of course, but um it wasn't a regular barbecue.
• 1:53
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, you went to the uh Queensbridge in the middle of the room.
• 1:55
  SPEAKER_01: Oh nah, nah, I didn't go.
• 1:56
  SPEAKER_06: I didn't go into a barbecue.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_06: No, I didn't go to that one.
• 1:59
  SPEAKER_06: That one did look fun though.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_06: But I went to um I went to uh like a family friend's house, and they didn't just do the hot dogs and burgers, they did everything the ribs, chicken, um salmon, uh just everything.
• 2:17
  SPEAKER_06: Empanadas, like it, and it wasn't, yeah, it was it was it was crazy.
• 2:21
  SPEAKER_06: It was probably the most diversified food options I've ever had at a barbecue.
• 2:25
  SPEAKER_06: And the shit was amazing.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_06: Spanish people or nah, it was black people, surprisingly, surprisingly.
• 2:32
  SPEAKER_06: Because I went with uh my um my baby mother's side of the family, her family friend, and I thought it was gonna be some Spanish shit for real.
• 2:40
  SPEAKER_06: But when I got there, it was black as hell.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_06: It was black as hell, I can't believe it.
• 2:45
  SPEAKER_05: Uh same shit.
• 2:46
  SPEAKER_05: I went to a barbecue um in Connecticut though, in the sticks, because you get off the highway, it's like hold on.
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_05: But no, it was a cool barbecue, right?
• 2:56
  SPEAKER_05: Not as much of a variety as that, but the food was good after watching, but then I watched it.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_05: But um, yeah, that was pretty much it.
• 3:06
  SPEAKER_00: Um with me, I mean, of course, I obviously went to barbecue, but this is this is my thing.
• 3:11
  SPEAKER_00: I'm getting sick and tired of people talking about you know, we we made we made food sexual.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_00: And shout out to Nomar because Nomar wrote me a very strong-worded message about his disdain for the originator of calling hot dogs or glizzies or anything gay.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_00: Let me tell you this right now.
• 3:31
  SPEAKER_00: I'm a hot dog type of nigga.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_00: I love me a hot dog.
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_00: I I like him a little burnt.
• 3:36
  SPEAKER_00: That's pause because you're gonna say I like black.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody would say that.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody would say that.
• 3:42
  SPEAKER_00: That's what niggas is gonna allude to.
• 3:43
  SPEAKER_00: But me, I love a hot dog.
• 3:45
  SPEAKER_00: My my I I don't feel like I have enough hot dogs in my life.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_00: If I'm being perfectly honest, when I was growing up back in the days, I had a George Foreman grill, and the cheapest thing to get is always hot dogs.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_00: I used to survive off of hot dogs when I was a kid.
• 3:58
  SPEAKER_00: Hot dogs and cereals, my my meals.
• 4:01
  SPEAKER_00: So when the when the summertime comes out, I don't get invited to many cookouts.
• 4:04
  SPEAKER_00: But 4th of July, I'm making a stand.
• 4:07
  SPEAKER_00: Cola hot dog, I I mean, I post it every time.
• 4:09
  SPEAKER_00: I give niggas the time opportunity to say something about me.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_00: And niggas just act like they don't see nothing.
• 4:14
  SPEAKER_00: Cause I'm posting hot dogs all day.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie, so I definitely seen you post two hot dogs.
• 4:18
  SPEAKER_06: I really had no issue with the hot dogs besides the fact those shits really didn't look like they had much love put into them.
• 4:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, somebody wrote me saying that too.
• 4:27
  SPEAKER_00: They was like, yo, just mustard.
• 4:29
  SPEAKER_00: Like, that's no, that isn't ill.
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_00: What am I supposed to put on the hot dog?
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_05: You better put at least ketchup and mustard.
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_05: No, no.
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_05: That's what I'm saying.
• 4:35
  SPEAKER_05: You did have the right mustard, which is the space.
• 4:37
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 4:38
  SPEAKER_05: You did it good with that, but you missed the ketchup, yeah.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_06: I don't like ketchup.
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know.
• 4:42
  SPEAKER_06: Uh the bun was looking a little like, bro, come on, see.
• 4:45
  SPEAKER_00: Now you be in classes.
• 4:47
  SPEAKER_06: I'm just saying, it's just like if you're gonna post something and expect us to not say anything or not to judge you, the buns gotta look a decent way.
• 4:56
  SPEAKER_06: You come to me gotta look a certain way.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_00: So now I gotta worry about niggas looking at my buns and my hot dog.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_00: Type shit.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_00: See, but that's not gay.
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_00: That's not niggas checking out my buttons and my hot dog on my Instagram.
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas just trying to make sure you're doing right by yourself.
• 5:08
  SPEAKER_06: And them them them buns and the hot dog niggas it didn't look like it didn't look like it was doing its part, bro.
• 5:16
  SPEAKER_05: Yo, what a fucking intro.
• 5:18
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 5:19
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, I'm with you though.
• 5:20
  SPEAKER_05: Uh Glizzy Gang.
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_05: Like, all that's what I'm talking about.
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_00: Or that can't eat hot dogs.
• 5:24
  SPEAKER_05: Three times with Uncle.
• 5:27
  SPEAKER_05: Or that can't eat hot dogs and shit.
• 5:28
  SPEAKER_05: I don't be paying no mind to that.
• 5:30
  SPEAKER_05: So how many how many y'all had?
• 5:31
  SPEAKER_00: I had a lot.
• 5:32
  SPEAKER_00: That was probably like my second round when I posted that.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_00: Because I forgot for the first round.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_00: I was so hungry.
• 5:37
  SPEAKER_05: Three hot dogs is like it's like wings at a restaurant.
• 5:39
  SPEAKER_05: Like, it's like the apple.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_05: You better bust down at least two or three glizzies.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie.
• 5:43
  SPEAKER_00: Except I just don't like hot dogs when you go to like a baseball game and got them fat ass hot dogs, it was and it'd be squirting out at you when you bite into it.
• 5:50
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not sure.
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, no, hot dogs definitely should it shouldn't be no juice coming out to me.
• 5:54
  SPEAKER_06: I feel like there shouldn't be it shouldn't be no juice coming out of it.
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, a nice, nice, slim hot dog with a little bit of crisp to it, with but a nice soft bun, one line, maybe two lines of mustard, and then y'all ain't gonna have to.
• 6:06
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, see that's that's all you putting on, like I ain't gonna lie.
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_06: If I'm if I'm gonna have a hot dog, gotta have the sauerkraut.
• 6:13
  SPEAKER_06: No, no, yeah, sauerkraut.
• 6:15
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas don't fuck with the sauerkraut?
• 6:16
  SPEAKER_01: Just think it's a white man.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_01: Nah, I think it's a whole crow.
• 6:19
  SPEAKER_01: I know you've heard a black personality.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_06: Actually, nah, you know what's crazy?
• 6:21
  SPEAKER_06: I used to go to school in the city, right?
• 6:22
  SPEAKER_06: Jalapenos, maybe.
• 6:23
  SPEAKER_06: But they used to have, yeah, I remember papayas, the hot dog spot.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_06: That shit used to be two blocks up.
• 6:29
  SPEAKER_06: That shit was like a dollar, maybe.
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_06: After school, you get a couple of those.
• 6:33
  SPEAKER_06: I never fuck with sauerkraut.
• 6:35
  SPEAKER_06: But one day I was like, fuck it, I'm gonna try it.
• 6:36
  SPEAKER_06: And ever since then, I was like, if you go and get a hot dog, why not?
• 6:40
  SPEAKER_06: Why just do the plain way?
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_06: Like, come on, that's like making a sandwich, a turkey sandwich, and just putting whatever sauce you put on it.
• 6:47
  SPEAKER_06: You might as well put some cheese on there.
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_06: It's the red one, right?
• 6:50
  SPEAKER_06: Not the one and that's the white one.
• 6:53
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know what it is.
• 6:54
  SPEAKER_06: It's what is I think it's supposed to be um, I don't know what it is.
• 6:57
  SPEAKER_05: What I have done before is the the uh put nacho cheese on a hot dog.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_05: That'd be fire too.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that niggas used to do shout out to Raymond.
• 7:04
  SPEAKER_00: He used to always go to 7-Eleven and get them.
• 7:07
  SPEAKER_00: And get them big fat hot dogs.
• 7:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 7:09
  SPEAKER_00: I forgot they have a special name for it.
• 7:11
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that missing.
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_01: That shit is crazy.
• 7:13
  SPEAKER_06: No hot dog shaming, though.
• 7:15
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, or growing up, niggas have the Franks and Beans.
• 7:18
  SPEAKER_06: Y'all niggas didn't do that?
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not, I'm not a bean nigga.
• 7:20
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, but yeah, niggas used to chop it up.
• 7:23
  SPEAKER_06: What about the chili dog?
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas ain't fuck with the chili dogs.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, see.
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_00: I seen this, I will see that on TV.
• 7:29
  SPEAKER_06: I guess so.
• 7:30
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas is wildin', bro.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_06: Chili dogs.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_06: But can't I always used to boil them though?
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_00: I never can see this nigga.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_00: You done eating dog dogs?
• 7:37
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 7:38
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, boy hot dog is nasty.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_00: That's how you make it fat.
• 7:40
  SPEAKER_00: That's the fat hot dog.
• 7:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not jacking.
• 7:42
  SPEAKER_05: That's how I knew how to do it.
• 7:44
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas want the skinny Frank.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_05: Or used to, or I used to pay it.
• 7:47
  SPEAKER_05: Chop it up, put it in the craft make and cheese.
• 7:49
  SPEAKER_05: Okay.
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, I never had no shit like that before.
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_06: Never in my life.
• 7:53
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_06: That shit's still good today.
• 7:55
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_06: I never tried, I never had that shit before.
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_01: So can we agree that hot dog is a goaded cookout food?
• 8:01
  SPEAKER_01: 100%.
• 8:01
  SPEAKER_06: 100%.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_06: But I I I don't I don't want niggas to stop cutting niggas' asses for it, though.
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_00: The only niggas.
• 8:07
  SPEAKER_06: It's funny.
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_06: It's funny.
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_06: It's funny.
• 8:09
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie.
• 8:10
  SPEAKER_06: It's funny.
• 8:10
  SPEAKER_00: The only niggas I feel like should get their ass cut for eating hot dogs is the niggas that eat them vertically.
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'll judge every nigga, every time I see a video of a nigga eating a hot dog, it's vertical.
• 8:19
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if it's like bun bun meat, you're supposed to turn it sideways and then eat it sideways.
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_00: Hey yo! Wait, nah.
• 8:27
  SPEAKER_00: Nah.
• 8:28
  SPEAKER_05: So you got the hot dog, you put the soul.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_00: And then you turn it sideways when I bite it.
• 8:32
  SPEAKER_00: Like a sandwich.
• 8:33
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's like it's bread.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_00: Nah.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_00: Eat bread.
• 8:35
  SPEAKER_00: So you eat it vertically.
• 8:37
  SPEAKER_05: See, you a freak.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_05: With the sauce facing up.
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I'll eat it vertically.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you a freak.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all some freaky feel.
• 8:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you deserve to get it.
• 8:43
  SPEAKER_05: But what about when the sauce?
• 8:45
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, you gotta.
• 8:45
  SPEAKER_05: I feel like you gotta I feel like you gotta turn your head.
• 8:47
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, cause y'all niggas, this is what this is what happens.
• 8:53
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all niggas put too much shit in your hot dogs.
• 8:54
  SPEAKER_00: You gotta eat it sitting.
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_00: Because all the shit gonna fall off.
• 8:58
  SPEAKER_00: I don't got a problem.
• 8:59
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, but I put my my couple lines of mustard, twist to the side, pull that's flay.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_00: And then oh that's flay, but you put meat first in your mouth.
• 9:06
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, nah, you put the is bun.
• 9:09
  SPEAKER_06: How the hell is it just meat?
• 9:10
  SPEAKER_06: Because you're talking about the meat is going first in your mouth.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_00: Because the hot dog is stick, you know what?
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_00: It don't even matter.
• 9:15
  SPEAKER_05: I but I do like when I bite it though, that little ketchup that gets stuck over here, you look that that adds to the yo, nah, that's gay.
• 9:24
  SPEAKER_01: That's gay.
• 9:26
  SPEAKER_01: Thinking what the remnants, remnants on his lips.
• 9:29
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, uh, you gotta you gotta get it.
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_05: If you have to get rid of one, which you which when you getting rid of, hot dogs or burgers?
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, easily hot dogs.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_05: I'm getting nah easy.
• 9:36
  SPEAKER_00: Easily, easily from a cookout, I'm I would get rid of burger.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_00: Life.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_00: I might get rid of the burger.
• 9:42
  SPEAKER_00: But if we talk about life, I'm getting rid of hot dogs.
• 9:45
  SPEAKER_00: I like to go to a restaurant, you know, when they get like the um the crispy onions and they put it on top of the burger, that shit is fire.
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_00: And then I put my french fries in it too.
• 9:55
  SPEAKER_00: That shit, that shit is fire.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, nah, it's burgers over everything outside of outside of a cookout, but at the cookout, gotta have the hot dogs.
• 10:01
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like a hamburger is the safest food to ever eat.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_01: That's what I'm saying.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_01: Because you can't fuck up a hamburger.
• 10:06
  SPEAKER_06: That's why I don't want to get rid of it.
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_06: Because I feel like niggas could fuck up hot dogs at a cookout.
• 10:09
  SPEAKER_06: For sure.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_05: What?
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_06: No, niggas be burning them shits, bro.
• 10:13
  SPEAKER_05: I like it burnt.
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, see, I can't.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_05: You could easily fuck up a burger way easier than the hot dogs.
• 10:17
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, burger, you get sick from eating a burger wrong.
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_00: You could eat a hot dog raw and it'd be perfectly fine.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_00: You can't eat raw meat from a burger, you'll get sick.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_06: No, niggas don't have to mess me on the hot dogs at a cookout, bro.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_06: If I had to give up the one or the two, yeah, bro.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_00: That's crazy.
• 10:32
  SPEAKER_00: But speaking of the 4th of July festivities, uh, we have a tragic incident that occurred.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_00: Um, we got our man four extra, blew his hand off playing with fireworks.
• 10:44
  SPEAKER_00: So, how do y'all feel about that?
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_06: Oh man, uh I I like I like I like who he is as a character on the internet, so I don't want to like go too far with the joking about it too much, because anything can happen to anybody.
• 11:01
  SPEAKER_06: But some of the things I have seen people say about him, about the incident, is just straight jokes.
• 11:07
  SPEAKER_06: Somebody say he needs four extra fingers now.
• 11:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, Aaron the Plumak.
• 11:11
  SPEAKER_00: They were supposed to fight.
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to say there's a video.
• 11:13
  SPEAKER_05: Is it a video of it?
• 11:14
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, it's just a picture of his hand fucking.
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, his shit is definitely blown up in a million pieces.
• 11:17
  SPEAKER_00: But well, what they said was he only he's only missing two fingers now.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_00: Like he had surgery and they was able to save his other fingers.
• 11:23
  SPEAKER_00: But I seen a picture.
• 11:24
  SPEAKER_06: Nigga, how the fuck the shit look like?
• 11:25
  SPEAKER_06: I'm looking at it now.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_06: How the fuck you save two fingers from that?
• 11:29
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_00: But I I seen a picture.
• 11:32
  SPEAKER_00: This nigga thumb was just on the ground, like on the concrete.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_00: But I don't I don't know if that was real because there was no blood on it.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't feel like there could be a clean blow-off of a of a finger or any body part for that matter.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_05: Like no blood at all?
• 11:46
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it was just like his finger on a curb with like nothing on it.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't feel like that's possible.
• 11:51
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe something for like I don't even know.
• 11:53
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like it well, what well with a knife, maybe, but not with a fucking firework.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_00: That's like a mess.
• 11:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I don't know.
• 11:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 11:59
  SPEAKER_00: Was it a black thumb?
• 12:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it was a black thumb.
• 12:02
  SPEAKER_00: But um, one thing I that's why I don't fuck around with fireworks at all.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 12:07
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I I don't want to be, I don't fuck with anything that has to do with fire or sharp objects.
• 12:12
  SPEAKER_00: Like, y'all really y'all be going to see fireworks on 4th of July?
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_06: Um, if I can, because uh what was it?
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_06: Uh Friday.
• 12:19
  SPEAKER_06: I didn't uh I was in Jersey, so I drove back.
• 12:21
  SPEAKER_06: I missed the whole fireworks thing.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_06: I didn't really care about it.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_05: I was tight that I missed that Macy shit.
• 12:25
  SPEAKER_05: That shit look fire.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah?
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, that shit look hard.
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_05: I never seen a they never done a display like that on 4th of July that I remember.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_05: Did you know you don't want to talk about?
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_05: Nah.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_05: Like, what you mean?
• 12:34
  SPEAKER_06: Like by the Brooklyn Bridge, they did a I heard they moved it.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_06: It wasn't always by the Brooklyn, Brooklyn Bridge, but it looked epic.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I yeah, I didn't I didn't get to see it at all.
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_05: I do like fireworks, I just don't want to be the one lighting it.
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_05: But yeah, that shit do look.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_06: I mean, I part I participated in a couple times, but nothing, not them shits that he had in his hands, them shits like look look like little dynamites.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_00: Nigga, them shits are like fucking um looney tunes with when the roadrunner and the wildly coyote fight each other.
• 13:02
  SPEAKER_05: That nigga held that shit too long.
• 13:04
  SPEAKER_05: He had to be that's what I was gonna say.
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_05: What happened?
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_05: He held Oh, we don't have the full story.
• 13:07
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I guess it's gonna come out soon, but he said he's like in good spirits though, because you seen a video of him afterwards, nah he but it was a text message he was with a uh talking to some girl and he was like, I'll still sock a nigga out with one hand or something like that.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, see that's that's one of the things I was talking about.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_00: Them Aztec Apache fucking crash out warriors.
• 13:23
  SPEAKER_00: You need niggas like that.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_00: Niggas talking about I'll punch a nigga with my nub.
• 13:26
  SPEAKER_00: That shit is crazy.
• 13:28
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas gotta stop playing with them shits, bro.
• 13:32
  SPEAKER_06: If you gonna play with them shits, that shit didn't even have like a warning label.
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_06: The ones that I the ones that I seen that niggas be like setting on fire, they be, they you put it down on the floor, the little the fuse comes out far enough that you can just light it and you can run away.
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, that nigga literally had two, like uh, what's those big ass batteries that used to go into the um oh like uh the D battery?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, he had like two D batteries of fucking dynamite in his hand, bro.
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_06: I've never seen them shits.
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_06: Those are those shits that like niggas is literally like, all right, but I got these, set them on fire, bro.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_00: Throw and the crazy shit, he was talking about how I'm gonna blow a nigga crib up.
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna blow and blow a nigga house down with these shits.
• 14:09
  SPEAKER_00: You're saying that?
• 14:10
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and then boom, bow.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_05: And what those are supposed to just stand up and it shoot.
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know what the fuck.
• 14:18
  SPEAKER_06: Them shits was like bro, that's what I'm saying.
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_06: Them shits don't look like they was fun.
• 14:21
  SPEAKER_06: It really looks like you set them on fire and you throw them to fuck with somebody.
• 14:25
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, them shits don't look like you you set it up in front of the neighborhood and let the neighborhood watch.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_06: That shit is like dynamite.
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_06: I'm telling you, bro.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_06: That shit is that shit was a bomb.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas had no water.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: I don't even understand why niggas even like I seen a video one time, it was like a a car meet or some shit.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_00: And and a nigga threw nigga threw a firework at the nigga windshield and they got stuck on his windshield, and a nigga Nah, but give him give him give him credit, bro.
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_06: He probably he probably was like, let me get this shit off my car.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_06: Like even though, you know, even though he probably realized it was a firework, obviously, but he probably was just reacting.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_06: You you think he would I don't think he was really that dumb.
• 15:02
  SPEAKER_06: I think he was reacting.
• 15:03
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, yeah.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_06: And he didn't give himself he didn't give himself a chance to think.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_06: Because that was stupid as fuck.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_06: But if somebody throws something on your car, your first reaction isn't to be like, let me get this shit out of here before this shit fucking damages my vehicle.
• 15:16
  SPEAKER_00: I would I would think so, but the only thing is you don't know how much time.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's the yeah, that's like like we all grew up playing Call of Duty.
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_00: You you you you running around the field and a nigga throw a grenade at you, you don't know how long that nigga was cooking that grenade.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_00: Because it gives you the option to throw the grenade back.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so do I take the chance of throwing the grenade back or do I run away?
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_00: Because most of the time niggas is cooking a grenade.
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so if a nigga throw a firework at me, I'm running.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna pick that shit up.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't even I don't even think I would even kick a firework, I'm not gonna lie.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I ain't gonna But in the video to finish the story, the nigga threw a firework at the nigga car and it got stuck on like his windshield, and the nigga reached around like through his driver's side window to try to pick it up, and nigga, whole hand blew off.
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and the nigga just like he just he he didn't he wasn't crying or nothing.
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's the other thing they said for us.
• 16:02
  SPEAKER_00: He didn't cry.
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_00: Actually, they said he went blind.
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_00: It's a shock.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_00: He went blind.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, he went temporarily blind because the explosion was in his face, and then he said he regained his vision later.
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_00: But the guy he just took his hand and he tried to run.
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_00: I guess it was like a whole car, me, so it was mad traffic.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: So he ran the other direction, I guess to go to his boy's car to go to take him to the hospital or whatever.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_06: But I would be extremely pissed.
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_06: If some shit like that happened to me, I probably wouldn't be able to return to my normal self.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, yeah.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_06: Especially if it's somebody else's fault.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_06: If I blew up my own finger, I'm gonna be mad at myself, obviously.
• 16:32
  SPEAKER_06: But that car situation, yeah.
• 16:35
  SPEAKER_06: I'm I'm definitely probably gonna be a whole new person after that shit happened.
• 16:38
  SPEAKER_00: I'm about to kill a nigga.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna lie.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_00: Nigga blew my hand off.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_00: Something.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_00: Well, technically he didn't blow his hand off, but he did something that led to the.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, you was gonna damage his car because you saw the hood of the shit came up a little.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_06: Because it's like, my nigga, what we doing?
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_00: Why would you, if you know, if you know a firework got that big of an explosion, it wasn't like one of them.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_00: It was like a boom type of firework.
• 16:56
  SPEAKER_00: Like, why would you throw that at my car?
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_00: Why would you throw that in my fire?
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_06: You see what I'm saying?
• 17:00
  SPEAKER_06: Like, yeah, that shit is crazy.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_06: So how how how would you kill him?
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, it's all you gotta just shoot.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_06: You just gotta shoot that in the gun.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_00: It only takes one hand to shoot a gun, man.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_00: It only takes one hand to stab somebody.
• 17:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, nah, bro.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_00: But with that being said, this also goes along with this other video I saw.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_00: Cause now for extra is obviously his whole brand is fucked up because his whole thing is I'm beating niggas up and fighting niggas and I put hands and feet on niggas.
• 17:25
  SPEAKER_00: He only got one hand and now he has two feet.
• 17:28
  SPEAKER_00: So he's disabled.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_00: I also saw another video.
• 17:31
  SPEAKER_06: Does that make you disabled?
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, Mr.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, 100%.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_06: Because, like, alright, because when you when you fold your hand up to make a fist, it can't, it can't be as I don't, I don't know.
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_06: I I have all my fingers.
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_00: Any any any type of he can't play video games no more.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_00: He's disabled.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_00: It's over.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's done.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_00: So with that being said, I seen another video.
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_00: It was two guys arguing.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: It was one regular nigga and it was a nigga with no legs.
• 17:55
  SPEAKER_00: He had like the stilts shit.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_00: Oh shit.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_00: And the the stilts nigga was the one pressing the issue.
• 18:01
  SPEAKER_00: And the other guy was like, yo, I'll beat you up, I'll beat you up.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: And the stilts nigga, they get into a fight and his legs started falling off and all type of shit.
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_00: So I just wanted to ask y'all, how much grace are you giving somebody that is that's clearly disabled when you get into an argument with them, especially like a physical type of argument?
• 18:20
  SPEAKER_06: Can I make it more complicated?
• 18:22
  SPEAKER_06: I think I think age really is a factor when when you're when you're when you're dealing with like circumstances.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_06: So your age is important and the the age of the person you're dealing with is important.
• 18:34
  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_06: If I'm in my 20s and somebody that's disabled is fucking with me to the point where I feel like I gotta get aggressive, I say you have up until they put hands on you, until you should, you know, you should handle your business.
• 18:48
  SPEAKER_06: Now, if you're in your 30s or older, and somebody's fucking with you that you know you can easily whip their ass, I you just gotta let them have it.
• 18:57
  SPEAKER_06: As being a grown man, I think you should let them have it.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_06: Now, if it's the person that's fucking with you, if they're in their 20s, like I said, the same thing.
• 19:04
  SPEAKER_06: They put hands on you, you handle them.
• 19:06
  SPEAKER_06: Older, 30s, you still put hands on them.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_06: But maybe as a like 40, 50, bro, you got it.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_05: I think it depends on the disability.
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_05: It depends on what what's going on.
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_04: If it's for extra, you fucking low.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, you fucking low.
• 19:25
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, you got here.
• 19:25
  SPEAKER_05: You feel me?
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_05: But I'm not touching nobody in a wheelchair.
• 19:30
  SPEAKER_00: What if a nigga in a wheelchair spit on you?
• 19:33
  SPEAKER_05: First of all, I doubt you got to my face from down there, but even if you did, it just don't I don't it don't feel like right.
• 19:42
  SPEAKER_05: Like I'm gonna just all swinging down at the wheelchair.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I just flip that shit over.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 19:47
  SPEAKER_05: Maybe that might be where it's like, alright, just you're gonna have to get up on your own.
• 19:51
  SPEAKER_05: Maybe, but yes, being somebody being somebody up in the wheelchair is kinda.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like Tune kind of, you know, had the best take on it because uh it's like it's like dealing with a woman at the end of the day.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like I'm not gonna touch a woman in a physical, I'm not gonna touch a woman at all.
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_00: But if they put their hands on me first, I need to defend myself because I don't know what can happen.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_00: Just like, but if it is like a big ass, like say if it's a nigga that got no legs.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_00: Say, God for okay, I'm not even gonna put you, say four extra had no legs.
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that nigga still knocked me out.
• 20:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, he can still grab you.
• 20:28
  SPEAKER_00: So, I mean, I gotta defend myself.
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_00: I might have to throw the first punch or kick his leg off or some shit.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I would definitely attack the lower half of you.
• 20:37
  SPEAKER_06: If you have no leg, a hundred percent.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_06: There's no way, there's no way you have stability.
• 20:41
  SPEAKER_06: I don't care how long you've been walking around with the with these new legs, there's no way you have stability to be wrestling with somebody.
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_06: Right.
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_06: So I would just, yeah, I would take it there.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_06: But then again, you gotta understand, no matter what, the blowback you're gonna get from it is just obviously you're always gonna be on some dance nigga's an asshole for fucking with the person.
• 21:01
  SPEAKER_06: So you just make sure it's worth it.
• 21:03
  SPEAKER_06: That's just it.
• 21:04
  SPEAKER_06: You just gotta make sure it's worth it.
• 21:05
  SPEAKER_06: Because once that video comes out that you sitting there tussling with a nigga with no legs.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_06: Well, you gotta win first.
• 21:10
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_05: You better win.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_05: Does does a woman hitting you always mean you have to defend yourself?
• 21:15
  SPEAKER_05: Like, are you always in danger once she hits you?
• 21:17
  SPEAKER_06: It depends on a woman.
• 21:19
  SPEAKER_06: That is crack.
• 21:20
  SPEAKER_06: And yeah, and the type of attack she she tries, like, if she tries to like swing on you, like not like the uh the mushroom.
• 21:28
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, one of those like like jab to your face, I think yeah, you have to protect yourself because she's clearly prepared to fight.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_06: The mush, the mushin is that's probably some type of emotion.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_06: She's mad about whatever she's mad about, but the jab to your face, that she's ready to fight.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_06: That bitch is clearly ready to fight, bro.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: Like she has some training, yeah.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_06: It's like she's clearly ready to fight, bro.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_06: She days you a little bit.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's just crazy.
• 21:51
  SPEAKER_00: It's like my girl, she she boxed, and I remember one time I was playing around with her and she uppercut me.
• 21:57
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, bro.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_00: And I felt my brain shake.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: Around in my head.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: Literally.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: Like my girl is not like the average woman.
• 22:03
  SPEAKER_00: Like, she's very strong.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: And she really knows how to fight.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_00: Like, she she boxed for like a long duration of time.
• 22:11
  SPEAKER_00: So if she swung on me, I'm not gonna beat her up, but I'm gonna have to grab some after it's gonna have to be some restraints involved because I could get seriously injured.
• 22:19
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna have to throw a fire work over there.
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_00: But speaking of that, um I was a so you know how we had the dink thing?
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_00: Dink, dink.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_00: The dual income no kids.
• 22:32
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay, yeah, yeah.
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_00: So for the 4th of July, my girl went to DR and I was a sync for a couple days.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_06: Sync is jokes.
• 22:41
  SPEAKER_00: And you know, it was cool.
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_00: You know, being alone, I enjoy being alone and just doing my own thing.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_00: But one thing about DR, there's been some things going on there that, you know, that we gotta speak about.
• 22:55
  SPEAKER_00: There's this MLB player.
• 22:57
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't write his name down.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_00: I forgot his name.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_00: But actually, I think I got his name.
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, MLB player.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_00: Uh Wanda Franco from the Tampa Base.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_00: Uh he's been accused of, and I think he got sentenced also for statutory grape.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_00: And the situation basically was he was messing with this girl that was like 14 or 15.
• 23:20
  SPEAKER_00: When he was 21.
• 23:21
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, he was 21 years old.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: And um, he's got found guilty.
• 23:26
  SPEAKER_00: So he got a two-year suspended sentence, and the mother of the girl got 10 years, I believe, because he was paying the mother in order to have her daughter, and she basically got charged with like sex trafficking.
• 23:39
  SPEAKER_06: That's what I'm talking about.
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_06: That's a win for the justice system, man.
• 23:43
  SPEAKER_00: So, as you being our representative of the Dominican Republic, as someone who is Dominican yourself and someone who frequents the DR, uh, I've what I've been hearing is that this is a common thing.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_00: Gotta, it gotta be.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_05: I'm definitely not the representative for this.
• 24:02
  SPEAKER_05: Um but in reality, it it is common.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_05: It is very common.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_05: Especially like it's I mean, I don't know how I don't know what to say on this exactly, but it is it is common.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_05: I feel like I didn't like I didn't I never partake in uh in a that situation because I was raised here.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_05: I didn't have to do that, but it is very common.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_06: I feel like majority of the world probably majority of cultures kind of maneuver in this same type of like, all right, I want your daughter, I'm gonna pay the parents to have permission to have their daughter.
• 24:43
  SPEAKER_06: Okay.
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_06: Like, or like I mean, obviously in America, we don't as it's probably not as I mean, I'm sure everything happens everywhere.
• 24:51
  SPEAKER_06: It's just not as public-sized.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_06: Because I'm pretty sure that it has to be like, come on.
• 24:55
  SPEAKER_06: These things America's a big ass place.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_06: Somebody in America probably has definitely had some type of situation where they paid a parent to have Well, I mean, we have like R.
• 25:05
  SPEAKER_00: Kelly and shit like that.
• 25:06
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, shit like yeah, exactly, shit like that.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_06: So uh what basically what I'm saying is like, even though this story is based out of DR, um, I feel like majority of cultures have like this kind of setup, arranged relationship, marriage type of thing going on.
• 25:24
  SPEAKER_05: In DR though, it don't really be arranged.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_05: I think I think um a lot of times the girls grow up faster than in America.
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_05: Like at 14, they're at 14 they're probably at like at like a 17, 18 year old here.
• 25:38
  SPEAKER_05: Like they're cooking, they're cleaning, they they they learn a lot of things.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_05: And everything in DR is very not sexual, but like just No, I feel I I would I would I would with no disrespect, I would, I would agree to sexual.
• 25:52
  SPEAKER_05: Especially in the Caribbean, where when you're poor, really poor, there's also not a lot to do.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 25:58
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying?
• 25:58
  SPEAKER_05: Like, and then I I I know exactly what you get now.
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_05: I know I know exactly what you're getting now.
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_05: You know, so and then it don't it don't take all the like when you're really poor also, the older man probably could like a lot of times is uh the 21-year-old is buying groceries for the house which your mom is living in.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_05: You know, he's helping with the so that matters, you know.
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_05: And if you take it back to, you know, just 50 years ago, that wouldn't have been that crazy for a 20-year-old or 21-year-old to uh marry or take a 14, 15 year old back with them.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_05: Going back to the um buying the daughter though, I did go to Africa one time and I did visit a tribe and they still operated like that.
• 26:43
  SPEAKER_05: But it wasn't money because they didn't, they were, you know, those tribes that be like, they don't use like things.
• 26:48
  SPEAKER_05: So they're still trading cows and sheep.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_05: Oh wow like that for the daughter.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_05: Or or they'll say, This is my farm, this is this is the life I could provide for your daughter.
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_05: And at 12, they can start bidding for the daughter.
• 27:01
  SPEAKER_06: Oh wow.
• 27:01
  SPEAKER_05: And it don't matter how old the guy is, as soon as the girl is 12 years old, she and as soon as she has her period, she is eligible to be to be so so do you think it's uh criminal?
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_06: Like obviously he got uh charged and is gonna face some time behind it.
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_00: No, he's not well he's not doing any time.
• 27:20
  SPEAKER_00: He has to suspend a sentence, so he just has to fit like certain requirements and anything.
• 27:23
  SPEAKER_06: So the the mother though, she Yeah, she's done.
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_06: She's serving time.
• 27:27
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 27:27
  SPEAKER_06: So like yeah, so basically what I'm saying is like the attentions, even though it seems crazy, the attentions don't seem as crazy.
• 27:37
  SPEAKER_06: Like it doesn't seem like these niggas is trying to be, you know, I don't even know how to word it, but basically what I'm saying, does it like it?
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, that's basically what I'm saying.
• 27:47
  SPEAKER_06: So it's like we we know, like when we see people get uh charged with a crime of like child pornography and weird shit like that, like clearly something's wrong with that person.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_06: I don't think something's wrong with the person that's just living within their culture of like how you said in Africa, that tribe in Africa, they're exchanging whatever they're exchanging for somebody's daughter, and their daughter is 13 at the time.
• 28:12
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not even gonna lie, I'm not gonna lie, like as nasty as it may sound, you know how certain slangs start from a maybe a bad place, but then it just becomes slang.
• 28:20
  SPEAKER_05: There's a slang over there where you will call a girl or you'll see and you'll refer to her as La Menor.
• 28:26
  SPEAKER_05: Or Mira Sla menor.
• 28:27
  SPEAKER_05: Like that what it really means is look at that minor.
• 28:30
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, oh okay.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_05: But we they I think is transformed to being used like look at that young girl or look at that nice looking girl, but it it really does mean look at that minor.
• 28:41
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 28:41
  SPEAKER_05: So it's like underlying Yeah, like a little So it's tricky.
• 28:46
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_00: My girl, she tells me um all the time, like certain slang that she used.
• 28:51
  SPEAKER_00: Well, not she she doesn't, she's not super Dominican culturally, but she grew up with people that are from DR and stuff like that.
• 28:59
  SPEAKER_00: So like the way she talks, she'll tell me like certain slang that she used, and it it translates to English.
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_00: It was like, what the fuck?
• 29:05
  SPEAKER_00: But that's like normal there type shit.
• 29:08
  SPEAKER_00: Just like how I mean it's not equal, but it's a liking to like how nigga comes from nigger.
• 29:15
  SPEAKER_00: That's like that's no big deal.
• 29:16
  SPEAKER_00: But we still get mad at other people when they use it because it's like the connotation behind it is is separate.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_00: That's exactly what, yeah.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_00: Um one thing I was really surprised about is that the that it was illegal in the first place.
• 29:29
  SPEAKER_00: I would I would have thought that the uh age of consent was lower in DR than it is here, but I think I I saw that the age of consent is 18 in DR.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_00: That's interesting.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, because like in places like India, India's like 14, China's 16.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_06: Isn't Canada like 16?
• 29:46
  SPEAKER_00: I bet it might be.
• 29:47
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 29:48
  SPEAKER_05: I heard Canada's a little low too, yeah.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that that that was the most surprising thing to me.
• 29:51
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, I well, I first heard the case.
• 29:53
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, okay, what the fuck?
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_00: But then 18 is a I was like, wow, that's crazy.
• 29:58
  SPEAKER_06: That's pretty interesting.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_05: It's it's I think it made news.
• 30:00
  SPEAKER_05: Well, one, he's a baseball player, but it made news also because in reality nobody gets arrested for this.
• 30:05
  SPEAKER_05: Like the age of consent over there, it's like it's treated.
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_05: It's nasty, but it's treated like almost like Jaywalking.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_05: Like, you're not really no one a mom is not really gonna press charges on a 20-year-old because he messed with her 16-year-old daughter.
• 30:21
  SPEAKER_05: Like it's never gonna really happen, you know what I'm saying?
• 30:24
  SPEAKER_05: Especially if that 20-year-old could provide, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_05: Remember, poverty is a is a is a motherfucker.
• 30:31
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I feel like when you poor and you and your girl and your daughter gets a guy who can buy groceries.
• 30:38
  SPEAKER_05: I'm telling you, people are not eating sometimes.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_05: Like, it's just we all we could buy is rice, or it ain't no meat, or eggs, or like, you know, so it it it it puts things in perspective when shit like that happens.
• 30:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, prayers to all those people out there that's dealing with um any type of issues like this.
• 30:56
  SPEAKER_05: You ever got like you ever you ever thought a girl was old enough and then you like you started shooting at her, and then it's like, oh wait, nah, like Yeah.
• 31:09
  SPEAKER_00: That's that's normal.
• 31:10
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I don't know if that's ever happened to me per se, but I know of situations like that.
• 31:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like one of my boys, um, this happened a long time ago.
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_00: He was like 18 or 19, and he had sex with this girl that was 16 or something like that, and um, like her family came to his house and was beating a door down and all this shit.
• 31:27
  SPEAKER_00: And then um, but he didn't know.
• 31:31
  SPEAKER_06: I'm just saying that's that's that gotta be the most scariest thing in your life.
• 31:34
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so the cop the cops came and he proved that she was like lying about her age.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel like that's a very common thing, especially now because people want to people, well, it's like a social media thing, like girls see certain lifestyles and they want to do this and do that, be with the popping crowd, and um they just lie, and then people get caught up in bad situations.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_05: That's another thing in DR.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_05: That whole gotta be a certain age to get in a club.
• 31:57
  SPEAKER_05: They a lot of that shit gets bypassed if you bad, if you you know, yeah, yeah.
• 32:00
  SPEAKER_05: I kind of so you might end up in a club, a 21 year older club, with a 15-year-old in this, and then all this makeup and body enhancement.
• 32:09
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, it's a different one.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_05: So you could get caught up like that too.
• 32:11
  SPEAKER_05: No, no, I've never ID'd a girl in a club.
• 32:13
  SPEAKER_05: Why would you yeah, like why would you everybody's supposed to be of age in here?
• 32:16
  SPEAKER_06: So yeah.
• 32:24
  SPEAKER_00: Um, there was a thing that happened where he fucked a girl allegedly that was 16, and then niggas was like, what the fuck?
• 32:30
  SPEAKER_06: But then the girl was in a club, so it was like, yeah, how are you gonna I feel I feel like a lot of those, because remember Akon had a situation like that?
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_06: Oh no, but I don't think that was in America actually, so scrap that.
• 32:40
  SPEAKER_06: But I feel like um Drake had that situation where the girl was on stage.
• 32:45
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, he kissed her, right?
• 32:46
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, but and it's just like, well, nah, but that was a concert, so you don't have to be 21.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_06: And she was oh sh she was legal.
• 32:54
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, she was just younger.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_06: She was legal.
• 32:56
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 32:56
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know.
• 32:57
  SPEAKER_06: I just I feel like I do feel like men unfortunately do have the um not unfortunately, but the responsibility to be on top of a woman's age and environments that women should be of age is uh I feel like is a little bit too much.
• 33:13
  SPEAKER_06: Cause granted, a guy is most likely probably drinking.
• 33:16
  SPEAKER_06: So if you know if he's drinking, this nigga's not gonna be thinking, let me check your ID, and we're in a club.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_06: Like, I feel like that's a little bit crazy.
• 33:23
  SPEAKER_06: Or if you're talking to a woman and she's not being honest with you, there should be.
• 33:28
  SPEAKER_06: I mean, I'm glad that he was.
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I mean it's a bunch of shit that I feel like there is men that definitely prey on young women, and then there's definitely, I'm pretty sure there's a lot of men that get caught up in a situation where the truth wasn't being told, or he just assumed she was of age because where he met her at.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_06: So yeah, these I I think it should be some type of some grace when handling these situations.
• 33:52
  SPEAKER_06: Like people should be uh And it gets tricky when he's 18 but she's 17.
• 33:56
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I've uh yeah, I thought that was always crazy.
• 33:58
  SPEAKER_06: So yeah, that's legal.
• 34:00
  SPEAKER_00: That's a um they have the Romeo and Juliet Law or some shit like that.
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_06: But I felt like people have definitely gotten in trouble for that before.
• 34:06
  SPEAKER_00: Like they've I think I think the only thing you get in trouble for that is with like if you're sexting and the girl's 16 and the guy's 18, because it's like you're technically in possession of child pornography at that point.
• 34:16
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, but that's not really like you know that's not what's going on.
• 34:19
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 34:20
  SPEAKER_00: But um, yeah, that's definitely interesting.
• 34:23
  SPEAKER_00: Cause I know there was even like a popular TikToker, he's from UK, but he was living in India for like a long time, and the age of consent there was like 14 or something like that.
• 34:33
  SPEAKER_00: So then he went back to the UK and he was fucking with some young girl, and then he he got arrested.
• 34:38
  SPEAKER_00: He's like, What the fuck?
• 34:39
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what you mean?
• 34:40
  SPEAKER_00: And he was like, yo, the age of consent here is 16 or whatever.
• 34:42
  SPEAKER_00: And he was like, Oh, I died.
• 34:44
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, so India.
• 34:44
  SPEAKER_06: So the law actually, so if I'm texting somebody that isn't um of age in the place that I'm texting them from.
• 34:53
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, he came back.
• 34:54
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but what I'm saying is he was texting the girl in India, right?
• 34:57
  SPEAKER_00: No, he went, so he he he's from UK.
• 34:59
  SPEAKER_00: He went to India.
• 35:01
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 35:01
  SPEAKER_00: The age consent was 14 in India, so he's fucking with 14-year-olds or whatever.
• 35:05
  SPEAKER_00: Then he moved back to UK and he tried to fuck with a 14-year-old in UK.
• 35:08
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, he's bugging out.
• 35:11
  SPEAKER_04: He's bugging the fuck out.
• 35:14
  SPEAKER_05: No, but that is a good question.
• 35:15
  SPEAKER_05: What if I'm talking to a girl from another place?
• 35:19
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 35:20
  SPEAKER_00: Just talk to old older women, man.
• 35:22
  SPEAKER_00: But the thing is, the thing nowadays I like older women.
• 35:25
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 35:25
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I that's what I would do, honestly.
• 35:27
  SPEAKER_00: The thing, the thing nowadays, this new thing that's going on is niggas, it don't even matter if you of age, if your age gap is too big, um, people still calling you a creep.
• 35:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 35:37
  SPEAKER_05: And it's only happening to men.
• 35:39
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 35:41
  SPEAKER_05: Women aren't creeps.
• 35:41
  SPEAKER_00: They're cougars.
• 35:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, Keisha Cole fuck be fucking with 20-year-old niggas and shit.
• 35:45
  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, they be letting her.
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_00: Shout out to Keisha Cole, man.
• 35:47
  unknown: Yeah.
• 35:48
  SPEAKER_06: I'll tell you, man, women are just the they the new bullies, bro.
• 35:51
  SPEAKER_06: We gotta stop letting them write all the rules.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_06: These rules I kind of agree with.
• 35:56
  SPEAKER_06: Like, niggas probably shouldn't mess with younger women now because just I feel like the way they think, yeah, you just just try to stay out of trouble, bro.
• 36:05
  SPEAKER_06: That should just be your main, like, if you're a bachelor in your your 40s, your 50s, you probably should mess with the firework or my bugger.
• 36:13
  SPEAKER_06: Alright.
• 36:15
  SPEAKER_06: Make sure your fingers is there.
• 36:17
  SPEAKER_06: But um, anyway, yeah, you probably should mess with somebody that's closer to your age just to try to stay.
• 36:24
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas get in trouble for messing with bad bitches in their 20s.
• 36:27
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas get in trouble with fucking with ugly bitches too.
• 36:30
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas never got in trouble for fucking ugly bitches.
• 36:32
  SPEAKER_05: No, I mean, yo, if you if I'm 50, 60, yeah, you're not.
• 36:36
  SPEAKER_05: I I don't know why you expect me to turn down a 28-year-old, 20.
• 36:39
  SPEAKER_05: Like, nah, but I feel like that's grown.
• 36:42
  SPEAKER_05: Now, let's say two.
• 36:44
  SPEAKER_01: Dumb niggas is getting called a creep.
• 36:45
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, no, I think that's a little crazy.
• 36:47
  SPEAKER_06: I I don't agree with it, but I'm I'm gonna I'm gonna do the uh the agey, I'ma just be the devil app devil's advocate.
• 36:55
  SPEAKER_06: I think what happens is niggas just be subtracting their age from their from the the person they fucking with age, and then if that person then exists and you was and you're still with 30 years old, it kind of looks crazy.
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_00: But a lot of things that's fun look crazy.
• 37:15
  SPEAKER_00: Driving fast in my car looks crazy, but it's fun.
• 37:17
  SPEAKER_00: Dangerous.
• 37:19
  SPEAKER_06: It's dangerous, yes.
• 37:22
  SPEAKER_06: That's what it is, just dangerous.
• 37:24
  SPEAKER_06: I don't I don't blame a nigga for messing with younger women with younger legal women because come on.
• 37:30
  SPEAKER_06: They they probably look better, everything's tight in place.
• 37:35
  SPEAKER_05: But if a 30, if a 50-year-old woman walks in with a 30-year-old man, girl, nothing else.
• 37:40
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 37:40
  SPEAKER_05: What?
• 37:41
  SPEAKER_05: He dicking you down.
• 37:42
  SPEAKER_05: Like, you know, all that, all that but then if you walk in with a if a 50-year-old man walk in with a 30-year-old girl, it's like, damn, you gonna find a girl your age?
• 37:51
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I don't I don't know why it's like that.
• 37:53
  SPEAKER_06: Because they say that women mature faster than men.
• 37:56
  SPEAKER_06: So I feel like That is true.
• 37:58
  SPEAKER_06: Women, women that date younger, I don't, I don't see where the appeal would be because younger men would supposedly be uh immature.
• 38:10
  SPEAKER_05: And it and and this popular thing with Dreya and Homeboy, like he's the same age as her son.
• 38:15
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_06: But see, I think also women put in the uh Well damn, actually.
• 38:21
  SPEAKER_06: So I think in that situation, they they applaud that because that's a come up for her.
• 38:25
  SPEAKER_06: This nigga's worth 300.
• 38:27
  SPEAKER_06: Well, his contract is worth 300 something million.
• 38:29
  SPEAKER_06: So it's like, girl, you did your thing.
• 38:30
  SPEAKER_06: You 50, 40, whatever, and you got this young ass man.
• 38:33
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, so there's a price on the morals.
• 38:35
  SPEAKER_06: That's that's 100% for 100% for women.
• 38:38
  SPEAKER_06: I definitely think there's a price on the morals.
• 38:41
  SPEAKER_06: The one thing I can't argue though, I just don't understand why they mess with younger men that can't provide for them.
• 38:46
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, it's like what they could rip.
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_06: So then they then they gotta admit that they just as shallow as we are.
• 38:52
  SPEAKER_06: No, women are exactly, but they have to admit that.
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_00: You think a woman a woman will be angry about something, they won't even admit what they're angry about.
• 39:00
  SPEAKER_00: So why would they admit that they're doing some shit they don't even approve of if another person did it?
• 39:04
  SPEAKER_00: They just doing it because they like it.
• 39:06
  SPEAKER_06: Then they have to then they have to sit there and not call men that do the same creeps.
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_00: But it would never happen.
• 39:12
  SPEAKER_00: You know why?
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_00: Why I've said this a thousand times.
• 39:15
  SPEAKER_00: Because what?
• 39:16
  SPEAKER_00: If you don't stop, if niggas don't get together and stop fucking bitches that they're doing shit that they don't like, then you'll always make the rules.
• 39:24
  SPEAKER_05: And by the way, I feel like everybody in here knows a girl that could tell you, like, yeah, I was in high school and I was dealing with 25.
• 39:31
  SPEAKER_05: So you know, you ever know a couple girls that was in high school dealing with niggas that was 25, 26, 23.
• 39:37
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, he had a car, this is very and that's here.
• 39:41
  SPEAKER_05: Imagine Yeah, imagine, yeah.
• 39:44
  SPEAKER_00: But let's stay on the sexual topic.
• 39:48
  SPEAKER_00: Lizzy topic.
• 39:50
  SPEAKER_00: Um, so now we see the verdict that of the Diddy case is out.
• 39:54
  SPEAKER_00: How we feeling?
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_00: Diddy has been acquitted of all charges except for the the the prostitution that was the transportation to prostitute, Cassie and Jane Doe, but all the rest of the charges, sex trafficking and beat the Frico.
• 40:08
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, he basically beat the Frico.
• 40:10
  SPEAKER_00: How we feeling?
• 40:11
  SPEAKER_00: Against the feds.
• 40:12
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_06: Day one, Diddy was down probably like 2-0 in the series.
• 40:19
  SPEAKER_06: If we if we making this basketball, he was down 2-0.
• 40:22
  SPEAKER_06: He lost the two-away games.
• 40:24
  SPEAKER_06: Then the home games, he lost, he lost game, he lost game, no, he won game three.
• 40:30
  SPEAKER_06: So it was 2-1.
• 40:31
  SPEAKER_06: He lost game four.
• 40:33
  SPEAKER_06: Somehow, somehow, this nigga came out, came out good.
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_06: He won the series.
• 40:38
  SPEAKER_06: Diddy and seven, man.
• 40:39
  SPEAKER_06: Did he and seven?
• 40:40
  SPEAKER_06: I mean, we gotta still see the sentences, but the the two the two charges aren't they like max out at 10.
• 40:48
  SPEAKER_06: So like the worst he could do is 20 years, right?
• 40:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and there's no minimum.
• 40:52
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, there's no minimum.
• 40:53
  SPEAKER_06: This nigga ain't gonna, bro.
• 40:54
  SPEAKER_06: He's not, yeah, he's not, he's not.
• 40:56
  SPEAKER_06: He's a Tom Servan, that's it.
• 40:57
  SPEAKER_06: I'm telling you, this I think it's Diddy and seven.
• 41:00
  SPEAKER_06: I think it was looking really bad.
• 41:01
  SPEAKER_06: Like everybody was throwing him away, like, yeah, this nigga's about to be cooked.
• 41:06
  SPEAKER_06: And then, I mean, I I didn't think he was gonna get caught on the Rico just because we seen other Rico's, but I thought they was gonna get him on everything else.
• 41:14
  SPEAKER_05: The sex trafficking shit.
• 41:15
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I thought I thought they was gonna cook him on everything else.
• 41:18
  SPEAKER_06: But now, since everything has played out, I think this was a domestic uh violence case that just blew up to something that was never what they made it out to be.
• 41:29
  SPEAKER_05: Some of the jurors came out like, yo, the videos was they look consensual.
• 41:33
  SPEAKER_05: Like the videos of that him, Diddy, and Cassie and Kato, whatever.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_05: They were like, yo, it was hard to say that it was forced.
• 41:38
  SPEAKER_05: Like they look like they rocking, you know what I'm saying?
• 41:41
  SPEAKER_05: And then the evidence they had on Cassie, where she's voicemails and texts, where it's like, I don't know.
• 41:47
  SPEAKER_05: People want to call it Stockholm, and I ain't saying it's not, but it's just like it looks like we knew what it was.
• 41:53
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I feel and that's what really be upsetting me sometimes about people, because it's like they say that like Diddy has all this power, which we know he has all this power, but sometimes, regardless of the power, I think people really be involved in some of these things.
• 42:08
  SPEAKER_06: Like uh, some of the the the R.
• 42:11
  SPEAKER_06: Kelly shit, I won't defend defend the younger underage people, but the grown-ass women he was fucking with, I look at it in the perspective of R.
• 42:21
  SPEAKER_06: Kelly during his time was a sex symbol.
• 42:23
  SPEAKER_06: Women loved him.
• 42:24
  SPEAKER_06: It's not like this nigga was some fucked up looking individual.
• 42:28
  SPEAKER_06: Like, women literally love this nigga.
• 42:30
  SPEAKER_06: If they gave, if he gave them a chance, most likely was consensual.
• 42:35
  SPEAKER_06: I feel the same thing about Bill Cosby.
• 42:37
  SPEAKER_06: Bill Cosby was one of the most uh one of the most uh liked personality.
• 42:42
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, one of the most liked people.
• 42:44
  SPEAKER_06: He was rich, he was a comedian.
• 42:46
  SPEAKER_06: I feel like these individuals that was getting caught up on these cases, on these charges, what why would they have to steal pussy?
• 42:54
  SPEAKER_06: This is that we talked, they they getting charged with shit that they did during the height of their career.
• 42:57
  SPEAKER_06: Could you imagine somebody like uh Chris Brown taking pussy or Drake taking pussy?
• 43:03
  SPEAKER_06: Like these niggas, like we like we literally see these niggas be celebrities and women, these niggas don't even be in a club with these niggas.
• 43:11
  SPEAKER_06: Like, we hear their music getting played, and we in a spot where they music getting played, and these women just go crazy.
• 43:17
  SPEAKER_06: So I don't know.
• 43:18
  SPEAKER_06: I'm I'm glad Diddy, if he's innocent of like most of the shit he did, because I do I do think he's guilty of putting hands on Cassie and he didn't get charged with that though.
• 43:26
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, nah, but I'm just saying that was nasty, though.
• 43:29
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
• 43:30
  SPEAKER_05: Like, you know, he I I do I do think he But I think they had that relationship.
• 43:33
  SPEAKER_05: She would box him up, he would box her up.
• 43:35
  SPEAKER_05: Like, I think that was the the it was a toxic Yeah, she was calling prostitutes and shit.
• 43:40
  SPEAKER_00: Like Yeah, niggas were saying that Cassie should have been charged with the same shit.
• 43:43
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I saw that.
• 43:45
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, the best Cassie, one of Cassie's old best friends, or bet one of them took the stand and they said she said she told Cassie to leave.
• 43:53
  SPEAKER_05: And Cassie said, Why would I leave?
• 43:56
  SPEAKER_05: J Z already taken.
• 43:57
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, she said that.
• 43:59
  SPEAKER_05: Nah.
• 44:04
  SPEAKER_00: But that's that's how a lot of women are.
• 44:06
  SPEAKER_00: Like they'll be in a bad situation because they know that's they just know this is this is it.
• 44:12
  SPEAKER_00: It's like that's the um a lot of a lot of people get poisoned, mostly women, with this upgrade culture.
• 44:18
  SPEAKER_00: And you always see that with with relationships when they fall out or whatever.
• 44:22
  SPEAKER_00: Somebody was like, oh, who won who won the breakup, who had the better upgrade, uh, who got the best next partner or whatever.
• 44:29
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's not about that.
• 44:30
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if I'm with a rich woman, or if I'm a woman that's with a rich man, I don't have to go get a richer man or a richer woman.
• 44:38
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I could just be with somebody I'm happy with.
• 44:40
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 44:41
  SPEAKER_00: And if the financial situation is comfortable for me with this person I'm also happy with, then who am I to be looking at the other person to see if they're doing better than me as far as the upgrade from me?
• 44:51
  SPEAKER_00: Like, nigga, I'm me.
• 44:52
  SPEAKER_00: So if you feel like somebody's better than me and they make less or more, yeah, it makes no difference to me.
• 44:58
  SPEAKER_00: That's your life.
• 44:59
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, no, I agree 100%.
• 45:01
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like a lot of people get stuck in this compare and contrast thing with their life.
• 45:06
  SPEAKER_00: Like you're never gonna be happy if you're always looking at somebody else to see what they're doing, to see if you're happier than them because you they have something that you don't have or you have something they don't have.
• 45:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like that's never gonna that's never gonna work.
• 45:17
  SPEAKER_06: It's the phones, bro.
• 45:18
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, they got I'm telling you, I try to stay away from that social media as much as possible.
• 45:22
  SPEAKER_00: But so you said our parents was right.
• 45:24
  SPEAKER_00: It's always it's because you always on that damn phone.
• 45:26
  SPEAKER_00: And now it actually makes sense.
• 45:28
  SPEAKER_05: All these relationship pages and and hate men man hating pages or women hating pages, like maybe just spewing toxic shit about the opposite sexes, is like girls.
• 45:39
  SPEAKER_05: Really internalize that and bring it home.
• 45:41
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, 100%.
• 45:42
  SPEAKER_06: And now they're looking at their man through that scope, like, and it's just like you don't even notice, like yeah, like yeah, that shit is is really content for a reason.
• 45:50
  SPEAKER_06: These people set up these cameras and do all this shit for likes.
• 45:54
  SPEAKER_06: Like, this is not nobody normal puts a phone down and then go kisses their spouse and then fucking grabs the phone and then post.
• 46:02
  SPEAKER_06: Nobody does that.
• 46:03
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 46:04
  SPEAKER_06: So you gotta, I don't, I don't know, man.
• 46:06
  SPEAKER_06: I I think men are just as guilty as falling for the same shit, but I definitely think women consume the most of that bullshit and and apply it to real life.
• 46:14
  SPEAKER_06: It's crazy.
• 46:15
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I don't feel like niggas get they don't channel it into their relationship.
• 46:21
  SPEAKER_00: Because women look for the things that the man does when they looking at social media, like he's more affectionate, this nigga's more affectionate than you, this nigga got more money than you, this nigga's buying more stuff than you, this nigga's doing XYZ more than you.
• 46:33
  SPEAKER_00: Don't think niggas really like, yo, this bitch got fat ass.
• 46:36
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, and that really be it for real.
• 46:38
  SPEAKER_05: As long as the girl looks to your liking and respects you, the right, she she really wins in it.
• 46:46
  SPEAKER_05: Like, there's nothing else really she has to do.
• 46:48
  SPEAKER_06: But see, I also feel like that's that's why roles sometimes it really is not set up for us to really enjoy some of the things women get to enjoy.
• 46:58
  SPEAKER_06: Because majority of the women's role, besides obviously handling the home, depending on the dynamics, she's getting taken care of.
• 47:07
  SPEAKER_06: Even if she works, she's getting taken care of, she's protected.
• 47:10
  SPEAKER_06: Men, on the other hand, no matter who the woman is, our role is still to provide.
• 47:17
  SPEAKER_06: Like women, depending on who they're male, the whoever they decide to date, they still most likely are supposed to be taken care of.
• 47:26
  SPEAKER_06: Like, we we we don't have enough time to be blinded by the small, dumb shit.
• 47:30
  SPEAKER_06: Because every day we have to go to work, we have to provide, we have to protect, we have to, you know, make plans for the for the home.
• 47:37
  SPEAKER_06: If we decided to do something in the future, that's all on you.
• 47:41
  SPEAKER_06: Women, they have way too much time.
• 47:44
  SPEAKER_06: Unless obviously they are the ones that provide for the home.
• 47:48
  SPEAKER_06: But what's the what's the percentage of that?
• 47:49
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
• 47:50
  SPEAKER_06: You feel what I'm saying?
• 47:51
  SPEAKER_06: So I just feel like honestly, when it comes to this Instagram shit, women have the most time to look at things and be and nitpick what doesn't work or what does work.
• 48:01
  SPEAKER_06: When men, like how you said, all we really looking at is she got a fat ass or not.
• 48:05
  SPEAKER_06: Because no matter if she has a fat ass or not, my role doesn't change.
• 48:09
  SPEAKER_06: I'm still gonna have to provide for the I'm still gonna have to provide for this woman regardless.
• 48:14
  SPEAKER_06: You feel what I'm saying?
• 48:15
  SPEAKER_06: So I don't care if she has a fat ass or not, because if I love her, I'm still gonna go to work every day, I'm still gonna do this, I'm still gonna plan for us in 10 years I have kids or not have kids.
• 48:25
  SPEAKER_06: We're gonna have a house, we're gonna so women are the other hand, they just they just kind of down for the ride for real.
• 48:31
  SPEAKER_06: They run the world for real.
• 48:32
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, they do, they do from the passenger seat, which is crazy, but oh man.
• 48:37
  SPEAKER_00: So since we're talking about roles, um you were saying that Nelly said he doesn't want to change diapers.
• 48:43
  SPEAKER_06: Ah, this nigga Nelly, man.
• 48:46
  SPEAKER_06: So yeah, Nelly said he doesn't change diapers.
• 48:48
  SPEAKER_06: He said he's not gonna do any, he said he's not gonna do no extra shit until the the child could speak and tell him what he needs to get done.
• 48:57
  SPEAKER_06: Now what the fuck does that mean?
• 49:00
  SPEAKER_06: I guess like so being that I have a uh a six-month-old, you obviously don't know what they want.
• 49:09
  SPEAKER_06: You kind of tell by their cries what they want, what they don't want.
• 49:14
  SPEAKER_06: Um Luckily for me, my my child really doesn't cry about much besides uh maybe he's getting sleepy.
• 49:19
  SPEAKER_06: But anyway, I guess when when your child gets hungry, they're obviously gonna cry.
• 49:24
  SPEAKER_06: He's basically saying if his child can't tell him what needs to be done or what they need, he's not doing.
• 49:32
  SPEAKER_06: So it's Ashanti's job to like, alright, the baby's crying.
• 49:35
  SPEAKER_06: I gotta figure out if he needs to be changed, if he needs to be fed, if he's tired.
• 49:41
  SPEAKER_06: He he gave her the responsibility of doing that.
• 49:43
  SPEAKER_05: Now, I will I will give him the there's a piece we left out.
• 49:47
  SPEAKER_05: He did say, Yeah, I will I will pay for whatever nannies, however many nannies, you want a nanny to be there overnight while we sleep, I'll pay for all of that.
• 49:56
  SPEAKER_05: I'm just not waking up to change diapers or none of that.
• 50:00
  SPEAKER_05: Um, you know, but he's not saying she has to do it.
• 50:03
  SPEAKER_05: He's just saying, yeah, he's a good thing.
• 50:04
  SPEAKER_05: He's saying, yo, I'll pay for whoever you want to do it.
• 50:05
  SPEAKER_05: If you want to do it, you could do it.
• 50:06
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not doing it.
• 50:07
  SPEAKER_05: So that I wanted to add that to that.
• 50:10
  SPEAKER_06: That's a good point.
• 50:10
  SPEAKER_06: Because yeah, I I agree with that.
• 50:12
  SPEAKER_06: I I if I had the money, I'd be on that type of time, too.
• 50:16
  SPEAKER_05: Well, there's a lot of people judging him without his money.
• 50:19
  SPEAKER_05: If you had his money, Beyonce got how many nannies?
• 50:22
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like they all got a hundred nannies running around.
• 50:25
  SPEAKER_00: So it's like Well, a lot do think that you know, having that type of connection with your child will or doing those things with the with your child would build some type of con form of connection to make you love and appreciate the kid more as time goes on.
• 50:43
  SPEAKER_00: If you a rich nigga, I mean, changing diapers not gonna make or break how good of a father you are, or or feeding them or something like that.
• 50:50
  SPEAKER_00: Like if you taking it, if you putting up your camera and post it on social media every time you do it, then you get the public perception of, oh yeah, he's such a great father, look what he's doing, blah blah blah.
• 50:58
  SPEAKER_00: But in reality speaking, if you have a family that you say you have a house that you live in a family, and your grandparents, you're like both your grandmother and grandfather live there, and your sister lives there, and you and your husband or whatever live there, and then you have a kid.
• 51:12
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody in that house is contributing to doing something for that kid at that day.
• 51:17
  SPEAKER_00: So if I'm a rich person, I'm not gonna be living with all these family members, but I do have the ability to hire family members to come help with my kid.
• 51:24
  SPEAKER_00: So I don't think that he's wrong for saying that.
• 51:28
  SPEAKER_00: People get that this is the thing I feel like with people, they they get more obsessed with the tone of what you're saying rather than what you're actually saying.
• 51:34
  SPEAKER_00: And a lot of the time I feel like it's women that you know have these feelings, but men do it also, where you can't talk to a nigga a certain type of way, it's not gonna be receptive.
• 51:42
  SPEAKER_00: But at the end of the day, that's what he's doing.
• 51:44
  SPEAKER_00: He's saying, Listen, I'm gonna provide everything I can, but these certain actions aren't fit for me as a person, but I have the ability to provide these things, and my child will be very well taken care of.
• 51:54
  SPEAKER_00: If you would have said it like that, nobody would be having this uproar.
• 51:58
  SPEAKER_00: But him being like, Oh yeah, I ain't doing that.
• 52:00
  SPEAKER_00: He's saying the same shit.
• 52:02
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 52:02
  SPEAKER_00: But the tone of what he's saying is making people not like what he said, which I feel like is a is is leaning towards ignorance to me.
• 52:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah But you know, that takes more of a what do you call that?
• 52:14
  SPEAKER_00: Like uh presence?
• 52:16
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, it's like uh fuck, I can't think of the word, but you know, like when you're taking the the uh ELA test, and oh, it takes more comprehensive skills to to be able to come to that um read through the tone, yeah.
• 52:30
  SPEAKER_05: Um also he did tell her this before she got pregnant, that's another thing.
• 52:35
  SPEAKER_06: And I mean I could imagine too, like, because um I'm sure uh I'm not I'm not positive, but I'm sure um Nelly has kids from before.
• 52:45
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 52:45
  SPEAKER_06: So like I mean, he probably already felt like, you know what, I've already I already done did this.
• 52:52
  SPEAKER_06: So if if I want if if you want me to participate in this, the only way I'm gonna do it is if I, you know, I'm gonna pay for somebody to do it.
• 53:01
  SPEAKER_06: But uh Shanti, on the other hand, this is her first child.
• 53:04
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 53:04
  SPEAKER_06: So I kind of understand also in the like she's probably very excited to do this shit herself.
• 53:10
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 53:11
  SPEAKER_06: So I mean, I don't blame Nellie for feeling that way, because I ain't gonna lie.
• 53:14
  SPEAKER_06: One, if I did it previously with other children and I'm like in my 40s now, and I'm like, you know what, I'm just it's just not in me to wake up in the middle of the night.
• 53:22
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 53:22
  SPEAKER_06: And I have the means to actually not have to do this, I'm not doing it.
• 53:27
  SPEAKER_06: Let's be for real.
• 53:28
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not doing it.
• 53:30
  SPEAKER_05: Just to say you did it, you know.
• 53:31
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 53:32
  SPEAKER_05: But yeah, you don't really have.
• 53:33
  SPEAKER_05: I don't, I don't think my dad changing my diaper has changed our relationship.
• 53:39
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying?
• 53:40
  SPEAKER_06: Like, it's just because I mean, I feel my bad because you're off because I feel like a lot of us, I was taught funny, I was talking to my child's mother about this uh the other day.
• 53:48
  SPEAKER_06: I was just like, this is why it's important to have like the two-parent households.
• 53:51
  SPEAKER_06: Cause I feel like there's certain things that as a man, as a father, I feel like a lot of your a lot of the things that matter if you're there or not, it's on the back end.
• 54:03
  SPEAKER_06: Like when they're when they're kids and children, it's like being there is important, but that's not really like I don't know how to explain it without sounding crazy.
• 54:13
  SPEAKER_05: But I literally just I had this conversation with somebody recently.
• 54:16
  SPEAKER_05: I literally said, yo, the mom's main part is like from age one to ten.
• 54:21
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 54:22
  SPEAKER_05: And the dad comes in 10 to 12.
• 54:23
  SPEAKER_05: Like that's where his implic his uh contribution really kicks in.
• 54:27
  SPEAKER_05: That's and then I got goosebumps because I said exactly that.
• 54:30
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, man, I'm telling you.
• 54:31
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, that's a fact.
• 54:32
  SPEAKER_00: And I didn't also think about what you were saying, where he's been through this multiple times already and he's mad old.
• 54:37
  SPEAKER_06: So it's like waking up at 2 o'clock to do this shit, bro.
• 54:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that that makes that makes the that makes the most sense because it's like if it's my first time, then yeah, obviously.
• 54:45
  SPEAKER_00: If you if it's your first time having a kid and you saying that, that's I feel like that's kind of crazy.
• 54:48
  SPEAKER_00: Like he's like, I ain't changing no fucking diapers.
• 54:50
  SPEAKER_00: Like, whoa, nigga, come on.
• 54:51
  SPEAKER_00: Like, yeah, what you got a kid for?
• 54:52
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if you have if you have five other kids and you're 40 years old, it's like a like I done I done been through this road.
• 54:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 54:58
  SPEAKER_05: Like, for example, growing up playing ball, like I don't know if it sounds bad or not, but I never really cared if my mom was there.
• 55:03
  SPEAKER_05: Like, yeah, yeah.
• 55:05
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, baby pops, you know what I'm saying?
• 55:06
  SPEAKER_05: Like those things like that, or if I'm uh learning my dad taught me how to deal with money and going to the bank and to the ATM, like these things.
• 55:13
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, that's the same.
• 55:15
  SPEAKER_06: So I think uh yeah, I think we're on the same page, but with that for sure.
• 55:20
  SPEAKER_00: So just like how we was talking about being in the house with having family help uh raise your kids or anything, just let's let's talk about being in the house with with your girl.
• 55:31
  SPEAKER_00: So you were saying earlier how you was uh thinking about if your girl had her company over, what would be the proper attire for you to wear?
• 55:42
  SPEAKER_00: Because you know, like how you were saying, uh when you when you say we all chilling and we in my house, my girl's not gonna walk around with the same clothes she walks around when it's just me.
• 55:53
  SPEAKER_00: So how do you think that you should be dressing when your girl has company?
• 55:57
  SPEAKER_05: Well, that that that's where it gets tricky too, because like guys would tend to maybe wear a tank top or like boxers or shorts, but like you said, your shorts ride a little high.
• 56:08
  SPEAKER_05: So what I'm just saying, you got his higher shorts.
• 56:15
  SPEAKER_05: But um, yeah, it was it was tricky because not to make it too personal, but I I let's say I know somebody who was in this situation where after the after the fact the his girl's company came back late and said I was I felt uncomfortable how your dude was dressed at the crib.
• 56:34
  SPEAKER_05: Well, what do you have on?
• 56:35
  SPEAKER_05: Literally a uh t-shirt like this and and box of briefs.
• 56:39
  SPEAKER_05: Like the long Oh yeah, he's wild.
• 56:42
  SPEAKER_05: So but mind you, he's not he wasn't um kicking it like that.
• 56:47
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, this was the the complaint was that it was four in the morning, he went to the kitchen to get a to get something from the fridge and left, and she happened to be in the kitchen at that time.
• 56:56
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, he went in, got what he had, got what he had to do, and left.
• 57:00
  SPEAKER_05: That was where and it's just like come on, like it's not like he was on the couch, balls out, yeah.
• 57:06
  SPEAKER_05: So it made me think, and I'm like, yo, in that situation, what do you do?
• 57:10
  SPEAKER_05: What if she said I made her feel uncomfortable?
• 57:13
  SPEAKER_05: That's a scary spot for niggas.
• 57:15
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 57:15
  SPEAKER_05: Now your girl gotta choose between what her what her friend said versus what her man is saying.
• 57:20
  SPEAKER_05: It's just like, yo, like sometimes people drag it, girls will drag it like that.
• 57:24
  SPEAKER_05: And sometimes they do it for attention, like, you know, you know what?
• 57:27
  SPEAKER_00: I'm my girl told me to stop using this word to refer to woman.
• 57:32
  SPEAKER_00: But I'm I'm itching right now.
• 57:34
  SPEAKER_05: She's in DR right now.
• 57:35
  SPEAKER_05: We're good.
• 57:36
  SPEAKER_00: Now she came back.
• 57:36
  SPEAKER_00: I was about to say this.
• 57:38
  SPEAKER_00: But I am itching right now because this girl, you in my crib at four o'clock in the morning, the lights is off.
• 57:44
  SPEAKER_00: I walk in the kitchen real quick to grab something and walk right back to my room, probably even acknowledge you.
• 57:49
  SPEAKER_00: And you're gonna twist your lips to tell my girl in my house that you felt uncomfortable that I walk past you one time in the middle of the night.
• 58:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's nasty.
• 58:01
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna call you a bitch, but that's some bitch shit.
• 58:04
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not gonna lie.
• 58:05
  SPEAKER_05: No, for real.
• 58:07
  SPEAKER_05: Mind you, I'm doing you a fate.
• 58:08
  SPEAKER_06: You're you actually stay ahead.
• 58:10
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
• 58:10
  SPEAKER_06: Like, nah, that's that's crazy.
• 58:12
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, that's that's some um that girl's really full of herself.
• 58:17
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and and girls do that because a lot of yo, girls do not like each other because they might be friends, they might be best friends, even because if you spending the night in my house, you're pretty on a pretty good, pretty good level.
• 58:27
  SPEAKER_00: But they'll do something to make you feel uncomfortable with your partner for no reason.
• 58:33
  SPEAKER_05: Because maybe they want a partner, they don't have one, and don't let you be the the bad cousin, like the good the cousin that looked good, that always got a man, and she don't let you be that man.
• 58:42
  SPEAKER_05: So, but is a tank top, is a tank top appropriate around your partner.
• 58:46
  SPEAKER_05: I would, I would, I would think so.
• 58:47
  SPEAKER_06: I mean, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe not to lounge around like like has saying, like, oh, like I think you said, like, I'm not sitting on the couch.
• 58:54
  SPEAKER_06: If if we all sitting, maybe watching a TV show or something, I'm I'm probably not gonna do it in the tank top.
• 59:01
  SPEAKER_06: I'm probably gonna wear a t-shirt, maybe some basketball shorts or something.
• 59:04
  SPEAKER_06: But in the middle of the night, if I'm making runs to the to the kitchen or to the bathroom, I'm not gonna make sure I got a t-shirt on just to do those things.
• 59:13
  SPEAKER_06: Like, a tank top, I feel like is enough.
• 59:16
  SPEAKER_05: To be honest, it it really be if your nigga look good.
• 59:19
  SPEAKER_05: If you know your nigga look good, that'd be that'd be the shit.
• 59:21
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 59:22
  SPEAKER_05: If you was some fat, sloppy nigga, she really wouldn't care what you're wearing.
• 59:25
  SPEAKER_05: But if she knows you look good, you got a nice body, whatever, yeah, she's gonna be more like nigga for the tank.
• 59:30
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I feel like I feel like I probably would tell her, like, yeah, nah, like, like you said, like she probably is attracted to me if she felt uncomfortable.
• 59:36
  SPEAKER_05: And you felt uncomfortable with me running past you in the kitchen, but I'll be I'll be wearing less if we was at a pool, at a beach.
• 59:43
  SPEAKER_05: Exactly.
• 59:43
  SPEAKER_05: And and and and you can also wear the most uh what's the word for uh not promiscuous, like you know, girls be wearing these sexy clothes, provocative, provocative clothes, you know, your thigh out, all that stuff, back out, all these things.
• 59:58
  SPEAKER_05: And I can't say, yo, your friend, the way your friend was dressing around me that night, I can't say that, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:00:03
  SPEAKER_05: So it'd be tricky.
• 1:00:05
  SPEAKER_00: Now you could say it.
• 1:00:06
  SPEAKER_00: But I wouldn't say you're gonna be a bitch.
• 1:00:07
  SPEAKER_00: I would I wouldn't say nothing.
• 1:00:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you're gonna be a bitch, yeah.
• 1:00:10
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, I would I wouldn't say nothing because I don't give a fuck.
• 1:00:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if if a girl, if my girl's friend come around dressing how if she wanna dress, if my girl's comfortable with her friend dressing like that around me, then definitely gonna start a pot.
• 1:00:22
  SPEAKER_05: But let's say that same friend now that night comes and tells you girl, yo, I didn't like how your man was dressed in the house.
• 1:00:28
  SPEAKER_05: So this is like, girl, like your whole titties was out here.
• 1:00:33
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, for real.
• 1:00:35
  SPEAKER_00: If I cause because this is my thing.
• 1:00:38
  SPEAKER_00: I'm wearing, I will, I'm not gonna walk around.
• 1:00:42
  SPEAKER_00: If if there's people other than my girl in the house, I probably wouldn't even come out with no shirt on.
• 1:00:49
  SPEAKER_00: I'm wearing shorts and uh if I have a wife beater on, I'm wearing anything that if I wear it outside, I'll wear it in my crib around you.
• 1:00:55
  SPEAKER_00: I will go outside with a wife beater and shorts on.
• 1:00:57
  SPEAKER_00: So I will wear that in the crib with your friends.
• 1:00:59
  SPEAKER_00: Because at the end of the day, I don't think that the the swimming pool thing necessarily fits because you go to the swimming pool with shorts and and no shirt.
• 1:01:07
  SPEAKER_00: But a girl, uh, my girl's friend's not gonna walk around my house with a bikini on.
• 1:01:11
  SPEAKER_05: No, no, no, for a fact, for a fact.
• 1:01:13
  SPEAKER_05: But But I'm saying to call and say I was uncomfortable.
• 1:01:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I wouldn't call, I would never tell nobody I'm uncomfortable.
• 1:01:18
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't.
• 1:01:18
  SPEAKER_05: You just won't come back to your crib.
• 1:01:19
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:01:20
  SPEAKER_05: That's how y'all live.
• 1:01:20
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, for real.
• 1:01:22
  SPEAKER_00: But you're gonna tell you uncomfortable.
• 1:01:24
  SPEAKER_00: First of all, why you ain't say nothing to me then?
• 1:01:26
  SPEAKER_00: You gonna tell my girl now you're gonna call with me and my girl, be like, yo, listen.
• 1:01:29
  SPEAKER_00: She can't say nothing to me.
• 1:01:30
  SPEAKER_00: No, you just you can say it.
• 1:01:31
  SPEAKER_00: You can say it.
• 1:01:32
  SPEAKER_00: You can say it.
• 1:01:32
  SPEAKER_00: Because cause then it could turn it, because if you don't, it could turn into yo, he came out with his underwears and he tried to touch, he tried to touch me.
• 1:01:38
  SPEAKER_00: Or you try to or you try to shoot a shot at me or some shit because you were sleeping in the middle of the night.
• 1:01:44
  SPEAKER_00: Then what?
• 1:01:44
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, bitch you get the fuck out.
• 1:01:46
  SPEAKER_00: I don't trust you now.
• 1:01:46
  SPEAKER_05: Cause you go deal with that's crazy.
• 1:01:49
  SPEAKER_05: The trust is gone.
• 1:01:50
  SPEAKER_05: Like, I don't want to, you can't be around this person without you.
• 1:01:52
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like now, because they tell you you can't make certain jokes now.
• 1:01:56
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, so certainly.
• 1:01:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you're a weirdo.
• 1:01:57
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what you mean?
• 1:01:58
  SPEAKER_00: I I walked, I walk, I was in front of you.
• 1:02:00
  SPEAKER_00: You see me for 10 seconds in my underwear.
• 1:02:02
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, like and like you said, I didn't even acknowledge you.
• 1:02:05
  SPEAKER_06: It wasn't like I said, oh my bad.
• 1:02:07
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, I literally went to the kitchen and back.
• 1:02:10
  SPEAKER_06: And it's my it's my crib.
• 1:02:11
  SPEAKER_06: Ultimately, that's really what it boils down to.
• 1:02:14
  SPEAKER_06: It's my crib.
• 1:02:15
  SPEAKER_06: I shouldn't be put too much out of inconvenience just because I'm hosting somebody.
• 1:02:21
  SPEAKER_06: My boxer briefs probably fit like this.
• 1:02:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but that's like you got like a like a bulge coming out.
• 1:02:27
  SPEAKER_05: I get that, I get that.
• 1:02:28
  SPEAKER_05: But my boxer briefs fits like this.
• 1:02:29
  SPEAKER_05: But you also know I'm a man, you know I have a dick.
• 1:02:31
  SPEAKER_05: The same way, even though you have a bra on, I know I think it's like that don't make it uncomfortable.
• 1:02:36
  SPEAKER_05: If you see a bulge, number one, you looked at it.
• 1:02:38
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:02:38
  SPEAKER_05: Number two, I'm a man, you know I have a dick.
• 1:02:40
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, but it's like the same way I know you have a you could wear the the whatever pants.
• 1:02:44
  SPEAKER_05: If you have a fat pussy, I'ma see it.
• 1:02:45
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:02:45
  SPEAKER_05: If you have a fat ass pussy, I'm gonna see it, yeah, yeah.
• 1:02:47
  SPEAKER_05: But so it's just like that double standard.
• 1:02:49
  SPEAKER_05: Y'all, y'all whole assets could be out all the time.
• 1:02:51
  SPEAKER_05: It is, yeah.
• 1:02:52
  SPEAKER_05: And and we can't even look.
• 1:02:53
  SPEAKER_05: Let's let's look at your friend, like you feel me, but our bulge or whatever, now we can't wear sweats, and it's like, come on, son.
• 1:03:01
  SPEAKER_00: I just think the underwear thing is too far because like there was a video the other day, I seen um I think this rapper destroyed lonely.
• 1:03:08
  SPEAKER_00: He was walking around with the Claremont twins, and this nigga had like tights on.
• 1:03:12
  SPEAKER_00: First of all, he's wildin', but second, it's not even the bulge, you could literally see the rim of the tip of his dick through his pants.
• 1:03:20
  SPEAKER_00: And that is fucking like, come on, my nigga.
• 1:03:22
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel the same way if you walk around box of breeze.
• 1:03:25
  SPEAKER_00: If you can see details of a nigga penis, do his underwears.
• 1:03:28
  SPEAKER_00: It was a burnt glizzy.
• 1:03:33
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like that's why it's too far.
• 1:03:35
  SPEAKER_00: Like regular boxes, like the old man boxes.
• 1:03:38
  SPEAKER_00: That's I stopped wearing them because my girl was cutting my ass.
• 1:03:41
  SPEAKER_00: But if you walk around with old man boxes and you just running in and out real quick, that's the same thing as wearing shit.
• 1:03:46
  SPEAKER_05: I wasn't like niggas wasn't lounging like that.
• 1:03:48
  SPEAKER_05: It was you thinking it's four in the morning, you think it's safe to do that quickly.
• 1:03:53
  SPEAKER_00: Like if you uncomfortable my house at four o'clock in the morning, that's early enough for you to get the fuck out.
• 1:03:57
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, type shit.
• 1:03:58
  SPEAKER_06: I honestly, for real.
• 1:03:59
  SPEAKER_00: For real.
• 1:03:59
  SPEAKER_00: Niggas wake up and go to niggas be at work at four o'clock in the morning.
• 1:04:02
  SPEAKER_00: For real, yeah.
• 1:04:03
  SPEAKER_00: You can wake up, I'll make you so comfortable.
• 1:04:04
  SPEAKER_00: Go home.
• 1:04:05
  SPEAKER_00: It's time to go.
• 1:04:06
  SPEAKER_00: Sun is about to come out.
• 1:04:07
  SPEAKER_06: Don't even think about coming back.
• 1:04:08
  SPEAKER_06: I don't even contact my girl no more.
• 1:04:11
  SPEAKER_06: That's funny.
• 1:04:12
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, that's crazy business right there.
• 1:04:14
  SPEAKER_01: It's the audacity.
• 1:04:17
  SPEAKER_01: All right, there's no more transitions for me to make.
• 1:04:19
  SPEAKER_05: But you in my just to add to that last part, the uncomfortable, the story was from the first visit.
• 1:04:25
  SPEAKER_05: That person revisited again after feeling uncomfortable on the first visit.
• 1:04:28
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 1:04:29
  SPEAKER_00: So they told them on the second visit?
• 1:04:31
  SPEAKER_05: They told them a month after the second visit, like way later.
• 1:04:34
  SPEAKER_05: But the the Yeah.
• 1:04:37
  SPEAKER_00: She was thinking about his dick.
• 1:04:38
  SPEAKER_00: That was crazy.
• 1:04:39
  SPEAKER_00: That's really that's really what happened.
• 1:04:41
  SPEAKER_00: She seen that shit.
• 1:04:41
  SPEAKER_00: She's because she couldn't get it out of her mind.
• 1:04:43
  SPEAKER_05: If he didn't say nothing to you, look at you, he ain't even say good morning, nothing.
• 1:04:47
  SPEAKER_05: What what was so?
• 1:04:48
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I don't, I don't, yeah.
• 1:04:50
  SPEAKER_06: Shorty, shorty wanted him.
• 1:04:52
  SPEAKER_06: I think he was right.
• 1:04:52
  SPEAKER_06: If he was unattractive, she wouldn't have said anything.
• 1:04:55
  SPEAKER_06: But the fact that I guess she found him attractive, she was like, Yeah, I'm gonna just stir the pot because I don't have a man.
• 1:05:01
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's crazy.
• 1:05:02
  SPEAKER_00: That that has to be it.
• 1:05:04
  SPEAKER_00: That's that's post plank post print clarity.
• 1:05:10
  SPEAKER_00: Sorry, say that again?
• 1:05:15
  SPEAKER_06: You have to go through the front.
• 1:05:20
  SPEAKER_05: Brief intermission.
• 1:05:22
  SPEAKER_00: But yeah, that's postplint clarity.
• 1:05:24
  SPEAKER_00: Plose post print clarity.
• 1:05:27
  SPEAKER_00: Like she she seen the print and and and it took her that long to perceptualize what just happened.
• 1:05:33
  SPEAKER_00: Like she was like, damn, that shit made me uncomfortable because I got hot when I seen it.
• 1:05:37
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and she was probably you on a sleepy print.
• 1:05:40
  SPEAKER_02: That's the sleepy, sleepy print.
• 1:05:44
  SPEAKER_00: But um, let's just move on to the next.
• 1:05:46
  SPEAKER_00: There's no transition.
• 1:05:47
  SPEAKER_00: So Drake dropped a new song.
• 1:05:48
  SPEAKER_00: How are we feeling about it?
• 1:05:50
  SPEAKER_06: I heard it literally right before we started the pod.
• 1:05:54
  SPEAKER_06: Um, he's rapping again, so I'm with that.
• 1:05:58
  SPEAKER_06: Um I'm always with Drake rapping.
• 1:05:59
  SPEAKER_06: I Think he's a bad rapper.
• 1:06:01
  SPEAKER_06: I don't think uh I don't think a lot of people can fuck with him when he's rapping.
• 1:06:05
  SPEAKER_06: So the fact that he's rapping again and he's back on uh addressing what what niggas kind of been playing with him over the last couple years.
• 1:06:13
  SPEAKER_06: So I'm I'm with it.
• 1:06:15
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not sold on it, but I'm with it.
• 1:06:19
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:06:19
  SPEAKER_05: And I think the way he's monetizing and spinning this uh 20 V 20 V1 shit, like even in the video he dropped all the guns pointing at him.
• 1:06:26
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I think that's uh the imagery in that is like everybody shooting at me, and I'm still standing.
• 1:06:32
  SPEAKER_05: That's why he's standing over the guns, whatever.
• 1:06:35
  SPEAKER_05: Um, yeah, or just the way he's he's spinning the whole narrative, where it's like and just calling people out, Braun, Ross, and just that whole niggas get punched in the face.
• 1:06:44
  SPEAKER_05: I was with Ross got punched in the face in Canada, like you know, so it's I like it.
• 1:06:50
  SPEAKER_00: I like it.
• 1:06:50
  SPEAKER_00: And it and it's a bop.
• 1:06:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, this song is cool.
• 1:06:54
  SPEAKER_00: I I didn't I didn't think about the um the guns pointing at him, but I just like how he went to the concert with the bulletproof ass with the smoke coming out and shit.
• 1:07:01
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:07:01
  SPEAKER_00: Uh yeah, it was definitely interesting.
• 1:07:03
  SPEAKER_00: He dissed LeBron, he dissed kinda future too.
• 1:07:06
  SPEAKER_00: Like, well, that's what we could uh we could think he's intending to do by saying certain lines like uh niggas is switching sides or whatever, niggas what um what do you say about uh LeBron?
• 1:07:18
  SPEAKER_00: He was like even on my Dixon's headlines, and bro at the pop out and even on my Dixon's headlines.
• 1:07:23
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, so you know I don't know, man.
• 1:07:26
  SPEAKER_06: See, that's what Drake kind of like be losing me.
• 1:07:30
  SPEAKER_06: We y'all niggas agree that LeBron's been on Drake's dick.
• 1:07:34
  SPEAKER_05: No, I think that's I think that's rap shit, but I do think they've been on each other's dick.
• 1:07:38
  SPEAKER_06: I think they I think they were very I don't know, man.
• 1:07:41
  SPEAKER_06: I can't really pinpoint any time.
• 1:07:42
  SPEAKER_06: I mean, I I'm not saying that they wasn't like cool or but I don't I feel like when we look at history or we like put things together, it kind of looks like Drake was more so a LeBron stick.
• 1:07:56
  SPEAKER_00: This is my thing.
• 1:07:57
  SPEAKER_00: I think that Drake maybe it's a cultural thing because he's Canadian or whatever, but he don't know how to just be cool.
• 1:08:08
  SPEAKER_01: Like we from New York, so yeah, yeah.
• 1:08:10
  SPEAKER_00: Like we know, like if a nigga, if a nigga we if we fuck with a nigga, like we just that's our man.
• 1:08:17
  SPEAKER_00: But we're not gonna overly Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:08:19
  SPEAKER_00: But Drake is like, he don't have no concept of that.
• 1:08:21
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if y'all friends with each other, he can be like, yo, my son, too, he a rap.
• 1:08:25
  SPEAKER_00: My son used to rap, now you dropping clothes, nigga.
• 1:08:27
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I'm wearing shit every day, blah, blah.
• 1:08:29
  SPEAKER_00: But you're not gonna be like that with him because you you from New York, like, yeah, yeah, that's my man.
• 1:08:32
  SPEAKER_06: I see what you're saying.
• 1:08:33
  SPEAKER_06: You're not gonna overly do that.
• 1:08:35
  SPEAKER_06: I do see what you're saying.
• 1:08:36
  SPEAKER_06: That actually makes a lot of sense.
• 1:08:37
  SPEAKER_06: I'll give you how do you are you applying that to the LeBron thing?
• 1:08:41
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like him and LeBron was cool, and LeBron probably do more things behind closed doors than Drake does in public.
• 1:08:46
  SPEAKER_00: But Drake, his whole image is yo, these are my men's, these are my brothers, I'm gonna treat them how I would want my brothers to treat me.
• 1:08:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so now anything they do, I'm shouting them out, I'm gonna get a match and tattoo with them or whatever.
• 1:08:58
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna go support they stuff.
• 1:09:00
  SPEAKER_05: But isn't that the shouldn't that, isn't that what we should be doing?
• 1:09:04
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, but see, yeah, that's but that's his point though, is like maybe since it's not hitting it's the the difference of cultures.
• 1:09:11
  SPEAKER_06: Maybe like LeBron, LeBron didn't allow himself probably to be more so like, yeah, my boy doing this shit, I'm gonna be like pumping his shit.
• 1:09:20
  SPEAKER_06: Like, yeah, I don't know.
• 1:09:21
  SPEAKER_06: I see what he's saying.
• 1:09:23
  SPEAKER_05: I mean, I know a lot of rappers walked out with him in a in his in that tour, but he did when he was saying last time I looked, I saw y'all niggas to the right of me.
• 1:09:29
  SPEAKER_05: That's what they saying.
• 1:09:30
  SPEAKER_05: He's talking about y'all niggas was you walked out on literally months before the beef, you walked out on the floor with me with your son.
• 1:09:36
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie, like niggas definitely, niggas definitely did Drake.
• 1:09:39
  SPEAKER_06: They did him dirty.
• 1:09:40
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, they did them dirty.
• 1:09:40
  SPEAKER_06: They did him, they definitely did them dirty.
• 1:09:42
  SPEAKER_06: Um But that I beef, I feel like kinda that's the shit you gotta expect when when you in that spot.
• 1:09:49
  SPEAKER_05: And even if we beefing, I like let's say uh Drake and LeBron fell out like privately.
• 1:09:56
  SPEAKER_05: I ain't shoot at you publicly.
• 1:09:58
  SPEAKER_05: Like, I I I I left it private because out of respect, whatever, like whatever went through, I'm not gonna diss you on the track or this and that.
• 1:10:04
  SPEAKER_05: Like, I think the pop-up was just like, oh, like, damn, like that, and you jumping up and down to my pedophile bars.
• 1:10:10
  SPEAKER_05: Like, oh wow, yeah, like that.
• 1:10:12
  SPEAKER_00: And then and then the shit came on with Team USA when Seth Perry was like, I'm tired of the song.
• 1:10:15
  SPEAKER_00: He's like, nah, I love this song.
• 1:10:16
  SPEAKER_06: Like, oh, I didn't see that.
• 1:10:18
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, things like that.
• 1:10:19
  SPEAKER_06: It's like hold on, LeBron out of his mouth.
• 1:10:21
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 1:10:21
  SPEAKER_05: That he he loved, not like us.
• 1:10:23
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 1:10:24
  SPEAKER_05: They were playing the song, and home uh Curry was like, yo, I'm tired of this shit.
• 1:10:27
  SPEAKER_05: This shit played out.
• 1:10:28
  SPEAKER_05: And LeBron's like, I fuck with the shit.
• 1:10:29
  SPEAKER_05: Mind you, LeBron knows they mic'd up.
• 1:10:30
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:10:31
  SPEAKER_05: You know what you're doing.
• 1:10:31
  SPEAKER_06: You've been in there 20 minutes.
• 1:10:32
  SPEAKER_06: I never seen that clip.
• 1:10:34
  SPEAKER_06: That's interesting.
• 1:10:34
  SPEAKER_06: Usually I don't miss too much.
• 1:10:36
  SPEAKER_06: They're in the Olympics.
• 1:10:37
  SPEAKER_06: But I feel like, yeah, damn, that's a big deal.
• 1:10:39
  SPEAKER_06: So it's like Alright, yeah.
• 1:10:41
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna lie.
• 1:10:41
  SPEAKER_06: I do feel Drake definitely has the right to feel upset at any uh signs that LeBron looked like he decided to like jump ship because clearly we all know there's there's definitely some type of relationship there.
• 1:10:56
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not saying that it isn't a relationship, but yeah, but after the after the push a tea shit, he could have given anybody an interview.
• 1:11:05
  SPEAKER_05: He went to the shop, he gave LeBron that interview.
• 1:11:07
  SPEAKER_06: Oh sure, yeah, yeah.
• 1:11:08
  SPEAKER_05: Like that after the meat shit.
• 1:11:12
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:11:13
  SPEAKER_05: Like, there is a relationship there.
• 1:11:14
  SPEAKER_05: They got pay when he said on the song, like, uh drinks you you at my crib, drinks and hoes, this and that.
• 1:11:20
  SPEAKER_05: Like, he's talking about I think he's talking about multiple people there.
• 1:11:22
  SPEAKER_05: Okay, yeah.
• 1:11:22
  SPEAKER_05: I think he's talking about future there too.
• 1:11:24
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, but I think he's talking about LeBron too.
• 1:11:25
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, yeah.
• 1:11:26
  SPEAKER_05: On Bridal Path on Certified Lovable Boy, he he nah, he was bigging up LeBron and saying, like, well, he's he said something like um fishbowl wine glasses with LeBron betting 100k.
• 1:11:36
  SPEAKER_05: Like he said something like that, like talking about how they'd be at the crib gambling and shit like that.
• 1:11:41
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, yeah, no, I definitely do think there was there's a yeah, man.
• 1:11:44
  SPEAKER_05: And I think the last verse, the very last slipper was a future disc.
• 1:11:47
  SPEAKER_05: Where he was like, when I was looking at y'all, cooking with y'all, giving out verses, like they got a lot of verses.
• 1:11:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so see, that's the thing about I feel like that's how niggas should be, where they just bigging up their friends all the time.
• 1:12:00
  SPEAKER_00: But that's a high risk, low reward type of thing.
• 1:12:03
  SPEAKER_00: Because at the end of the day, the image that you're given is you're a very supportive person, and um and you you're you're just a very supportive person.
• 1:12:11
  SPEAKER_00: Like you're a person, you're somebody that somebody would want in their corner at the end of the day.
• 1:12:15
  SPEAKER_00: But on the flip side, when everything crumbs down, now niggas looking at you like you was Dick Rod and LeBron, blah blah blah.
• 1:12:21
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:12:22
  SPEAKER_00: And niggas, I feel like honestly, it's hard, it's gonna it's never gonna really change in New York, but just in general, niggas should be okay to be fans of their friends.
• 1:12:31
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, nah, that's that's really what it should boil down to be.
• 1:12:34
  SPEAKER_00: I I didn't realize that until like a couple years ago.
• 1:12:37
  SPEAKER_00: Like, um my boy made me realize that the what the um my boy that got drafted.
• 1:12:42
  SPEAKER_00: And in New York, when you're playing basketball, nobody really wants to be that like it started being it started being towards the trend of niggas wanting to be cool with each other.
• 1:12:52
  SPEAKER_00: Um, like, you know, because basketball's always old competitive.
• 1:12:55
  SPEAKER_00: I would never be friends with a nigga that's on a different team.
• 1:12:57
  SPEAKER_00: But when I was in high school, that's kind of when the transition happened, even in the NBA when everybody started being cool with each other, everybody started working out with each other.
• 1:13:03
  SPEAKER_00: And my man's, I knew like it was like we didn't know if he was going to the NBA or not, but it was like, why would I not be supportive of this person?
• 1:13:12
  SPEAKER_00: Like, why would I not obviously I'm I was done playing basketball at this point, but it's just like why would I not want to be as supportive as I can to this person that's gonna be in a one in one billion situation?
• 1:13:25
  SPEAKER_00: So why not?
• 1:13:26
  SPEAKER_00: Why can't I be his fan?
• 1:13:27
  SPEAKER_00: Because niggas be like, like, no one ever told me that, but just saying in general.
• 1:13:31
  SPEAKER_06: I've definitely had my oh, you on you on this person's dick moment.
• 1:13:36
  SPEAKER_06: I'll never forget it.
• 1:13:37
  SPEAKER_06: My youngest experience and probably that was uh, y'all remember when Young Jeezy first came out, he had the uh the snowman shirts.
• 1:13:43
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah I had a snowman shirt.
• 1:13:45
  SPEAKER_06: This nigga, he comes up, I'm on the block in Queensbridge.
• 1:13:48
  SPEAKER_06: What's up?
• 1:13:50
  SPEAKER_06: It was definitely a big ass shirt.
• 1:13:51
  SPEAKER_06: Uh fucking, he comes to me, we like, you like young Jeezy?
• 1:13:55
  SPEAKER_06: I'm like, yeah, I like young Jeezy.
• 1:13:56
  SPEAKER_06: Mind you, I didn't buy the shirt.
• 1:13:57
  SPEAKER_06: I just happened to get the shirt.
• 1:13:59
  SPEAKER_06: And uh he was like, Oh, you on this nigga's dick.
• 1:14:02
  SPEAKER_06: I'm like, nigga, like at in the moment, I'm like, damn, this nigga's right.
• 1:14:07
  SPEAKER_06: I'm never gonna wear the shirt again.
• 1:14:08
  SPEAKER_06: But like when you really think about it, it's like, yo, bro, like, so what if I'm a fan?
• 1:14:13
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 1:14:14
  SPEAKER_06: Like, we we not supposed to like anything.
• 1:14:16
  SPEAKER_06: Like, nah, bro.
• 1:14:17
  SPEAKER_06: That's what I'm saying.
• 1:14:18
  SPEAKER_06: So I'm not sure.
• 1:14:18
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not on Bathing Ape's dick right now.
• 1:14:20
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, you yeah, apparently you are.
• 1:14:21
  SPEAKER_05: But if I'm wearing an OVO shirt, I'm on Drake's shirt.
• 1:14:23
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, you're on Drake's.
• 1:14:24
  SPEAKER_05: If I'm wearing a Nike shirt, I'm not on Nike dick.
• 1:14:26
  SPEAKER_06: But if I'm wearing a snowman, I'm like it's like yeah, it's crazy, it's I'm telling you, bro, and and that's that's the unfortunate reality of sometimes when when you like born and raised in New York, or even a lot of places, a lot of people do not want you to support shit because they just fear what that shit could become.
• 1:14:43
  SPEAKER_06: And that's kind of how I look at it now, because like for you to come to the realization, like, all right, I'm done with basketball, but but my man's really have a chance, let me support him.
• 1:14:52
  SPEAKER_06: That's you letting go of like any type of resentment because that's not true.
• 1:14:57
  SPEAKER_06: A lot of niggas be on uh, alright, bro, I'm not doing anything with my life, but this nigga is.
• 1:15:03
  SPEAKER_06: I can't fuck with that.
• 1:15:05
  SPEAKER_06: Because if he does make it, that just makes me look even less than what I already feel like.
• 1:15:10
  SPEAKER_06: And niggas gotta stop doing that shit, bro.
• 1:15:12
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't think I feel like that's just the black people thing in general.
• 1:15:15
  SPEAKER_00: Because I feel like white people, like you even see in movies and shit, like it'll be like a leader of the group, and then a nigga will be like, What?
• 1:15:22
  SPEAKER_00: That's that's Connor, uh, whatever the fuck last night.
• 1:15:25
  SPEAKER_00: That's Connor Roberts, bro.
• 1:15:27
  SPEAKER_00: Are you fucking kidding me?
• 1:15:28
  SPEAKER_00: You can't do that to fucking Connor Roberts.
• 1:15:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:15:30
  SPEAKER_00: But a black nigga be like, nigga, you sucking this nigga dead.
• 1:15:32
  SPEAKER_03: What the fuck?
• 1:15:36
  SPEAKER_00: Because it's crazy because um, just talking about my men's.
• 1:15:39
  SPEAKER_00: I was talking, I was in a group, I was I was um talking to a couple of my boys, and we was talking about how like not a lot of people, like when you go to the basketball tournament, like um, there's obviously different levels of basketball.
• 1:15:51
  SPEAKER_00: You go to like a pro-am basketball tournament or you go to like some local hood shit.
• 1:15:54
  SPEAKER_00: Like say you play in a Queensburg tournament.
• 1:15:56
  SPEAKER_00: And you might see a nigga that's that's alright, he might have like 15, 20, or whatever, but that nigga might not never have met in a life in their life, somebody that played in NBA or even a professional basketball player.
• 1:16:07
  SPEAKER_00: But for me and my group of friends, we was all like really good at basketball.
• 1:16:11
  SPEAKER_00: So all of our peers are like professional, or they had like a standing NBA or something like that.
• 1:16:16
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:16:16
  SPEAKER_00: So that's like nothing special to us.
• 1:16:18
  SPEAKER_00: But somebody else, like that same guy that scored 20 in that game, might have never even been in the presence or seen somebody in real life play at this level.
• 1:16:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so it's just like I don't know, you you gotta you just gotta support niggas because you know you gotta be grateful because that's what we're talking about.
• 1:16:36
  SPEAKER_00: We was like, yo, it's crazy how like our boy Um Donovan Mitchell said out of his mouth, he's like, yo, this is the best offensive player I've ever seen in my life.
• 1:16:44
  SPEAKER_00: And to hear that from an NBA player that's scoring 50, 40, whatever, yeah, like we're gonna be.
• 1:16:50
  SPEAKER_00: So it's like for us to know this person, like, not to say, because it it if as a New York nigga, it hurts to say, like, yo, we're lucky to know somebody like that.
• 1:16:59
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:17:00
  SPEAKER_00: But that sounds like some dick riding shit, but at the end of the day, definitely do sound like some dick riding shit.
• 1:17:04
  SPEAKER_00: A billion people have never met somebody that's as good as basketball as this person.
• 1:17:07
  SPEAKER_05: But you know, it only sounds like dick riding shit to us, yeah, yeah, to us.
• 1:17:12
  SPEAKER_05: So we gotta stop defining that as dick riding shit.
• 1:17:14
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I mean?
• 1:17:15
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, you're from New York, so yeah, it's impossible.
• 1:17:18
  SPEAKER_00: Niggas that grew up with Michael Jordan, they wasn't like, nigga, I'm I'm look, I'm lucky to I'm lucky to have been on the same team with Michael Jordan.
• 1:17:25
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody's calling him dick riders.
• 1:17:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but I got one of my men's that's OD nice, but it's just because we I know a lot of niggas that's OD nice.
• 1:17:31
  SPEAKER_00: So now if I said about another nigga, am I dick rider them too?
• 1:17:34
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, but I'm sure you know mad people that will post somebody else's content but won't repost yours.
• 1:17:39
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like even you, like I don't I mean at a time you was posting doing content on Instagram, whatever.
• 1:17:44
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I'm sure you have people that will post somebody's funny shit that they don't know.
• 1:17:47
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, but cash is some funny shit.
• 1:17:49
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, I'm not gonna repost it because we'll look at that shit.
• 1:17:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 1:17:54
  SPEAKER_00: Now I just repost everybody's shit.
• 1:17:55
  SPEAKER_00: Niggas hit me up to post it, cool.
• 1:17:57
  SPEAKER_00: I don't even I don't even respond, I just do it.
• 1:17:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, or I just if I see it, I'll put on my story or whatever, cuz why not?
• 1:18:02
  SPEAKER_00: It's not it's not hurting.
• 1:18:03
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, like it's not like you say, it's just a support thing.
• 1:18:06
  SPEAKER_06: I don't understand why niggas that niggas don't be on that technique, especially if you like it.
• 1:18:10
  SPEAKER_00: Like if you don't like it, then you don't repost it.
• 1:18:12
  SPEAKER_00: That's one thing.
• 1:18:12
  SPEAKER_06: That's because I've definitely being that I used to do it like the music shit, or even with the close shit now, or even with the pod, you'd be like surprised.
• 1:18:20
  SPEAKER_06: I'm pretty sure you have people randomly say, yo, I want to come up to the pod, and you didn't even know they listened to the pod because they never even did any type of interaction.
• 1:18:28
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, like the same thing with the music shit.
• 1:18:30
  SPEAKER_06: Like, being that I completely stopped with the rap and shit, people like, oh yo, I actually like your shit.
• 1:18:35
  SPEAKER_06: Bro, like, why are you telling me this now since I'm like a two years removed from this shit?
• 1:18:39
  SPEAKER_06: You should have told me this fucking two years ago.
• 1:18:42
  SPEAKER_06: But I don't know what's up with people are.
• 1:18:45
  SPEAKER_05: I know it's gonna sound like wrong, but like, is it a good idea to have your girl on Instagram?
• 1:18:52
  SPEAKER_05: Absolutely not.
• 1:18:53
  SPEAKER_01: To like to post her or follow each other.
• 1:18:56
  SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
• 1:18:58
  SPEAKER_01: Um I mean it dep uh like honestly.
• 1:19:03
  SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
• 1:19:05
  SPEAKER_01: Three three absolutely nots, that's trauma.
• 1:19:08
  SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
• 1:19:09
  SPEAKER_00: But it depends on the person.
• 1:19:10
  SPEAKER_00: Because if you have a girl that's that's that's like-minded as you, then that's one thing.
• 1:19:15
  SPEAKER_00: But you know, uh most women are they don't know how to just be happy, I feel like.
• 1:19:21
  SPEAKER_00: Like there's they're always gonna look for a problem all the time.
• 1:19:24
  SPEAKER_00: And social media is like the number one source of the problem.
• 1:19:26
  SPEAKER_00: You go on social media to see niggas get shot in the head and shit like that.
• 1:19:29
  SPEAKER_00: Number one source.
• 1:19:30
  SPEAKER_05: So, I mean, I met this guy one time and he was like, um I was like, Oh, you know, what's your IG, what else is saying?
• 1:19:39
  SPEAKER_05: He's like, Oh no, I don't have Instagram no more.
• 1:19:40
  SPEAKER_05: But it was a it was at a time where everybody had Instagram, and I was young, I'm like, you don't got Instagram.
• 1:19:44
  SPEAKER_05: Why don't you got Instagram?
• 1:19:44
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like so.
• 1:19:45
  SPEAKER_05: I got a girl.
• 1:19:46
  SPEAKER_05: I'm like, what that gotta do?
• 1:19:48
  SPEAKER_05: He's like, that shit just brings drama, problems.
• 1:19:50
  SPEAKER_05: As soon as I got my girl and I knew that was gonna be my girl, got off that shit.
• 1:19:54
  SPEAKER_05: Because now we can't, we don't gotta argue about who I liked, who's following me, who who DM'd me a heart emoji, who like it's it'd be a lot of bullshit.
• 1:20:03
  SPEAKER_06: I changed my whole etiquette now since uh I have my child and my my my my girl.
• 1:20:09
  SPEAKER_06: We really trying to figure this shit out.
• 1:20:11
  SPEAKER_06: I really I don't even comment on anybody's like if any if any girl I used to know, like friends or whatever, I don't do the happy birthday shit.
• 1:20:20
  SPEAKER_06: I don't, yeah, I don't do none of that.
• 1:20:22
  SPEAKER_06: I don't like their pictures no more.
• 1:20:25
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, because it's just said, bro.
• 1:20:27
  SPEAKER_06: You don't want anybody to uh say anything, anybody uh the like people be so the like isn't you don't have to like it, it's okay.
• 1:20:35
  SPEAKER_05: Like niggas be feeling like they they like a controller with them, like nah, I can't, I'm gonna like this fat ass because it's my Instagram.
• 1:20:43
  SPEAKER_05: Bro, like you just you creating a like it's alright.
• 1:20:47
  SPEAKER_00: I don't feel like that should be your problem though.
• 1:20:49
  SPEAKER_00: I I I agree, but I'm just saying, like, it is.
• 1:20:52
  SPEAKER_00: But yeah, I mean in in the real world, you know, but in you know, perfect world, that's what see I feel like likes don't mean as much as people be giving it value to.
• 1:21:01
  SPEAKER_06: Because honestly, because I literally could grab my phone right now and be scrolling and like, like, like, like, like it's not like I'm sitting there like, oh, this was a great angle.
• 1:21:10
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, her ass is fat.
• 1:21:12
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, like it's literally, I'm just liking it because at the time when I seen it, I just want to give it a like.
• 1:21:18
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not judging it, I'm not giving it a rating out of 10.
• 1:21:23
  SPEAKER_06: I'm literally just like, okay, cool.
• 1:21:25
  SPEAKER_06: Cash is at the gym, boom.
• 1:21:26
  SPEAKER_06: Or this girl's at the beach, boom.
• 1:21:28
  SPEAKER_06: Or Charley is at a restaurant.
• 1:21:31
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not like I don't understand why people just sometimes look at a like and be like, oh my god, this is the best thing I've ever seen in my life.
• 1:21:37
  SPEAKER_06: It's really not that serious.
• 1:21:39
  SPEAKER_05: And we don't always like it because the fat ass.
• 1:21:40
  SPEAKER_05: It could be a fat ass in the picture, but we could really like it because you're a Mikados, or you're in like it is.
• 1:21:45
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, like you're doing something with your life.
• 1:21:47
  SPEAKER_06: So I'm like, I'm happy for you.
• 1:21:49
  SPEAKER_06: But that's honestly why I like some certain things.
• 1:21:51
  SPEAKER_06: If you're doing something and I'm like, okay, graduation picture, or you're at a beach, like you're doing something with your life.
• 1:21:57
  SPEAKER_06: I I like the picture.
• 1:21:58
  SPEAKER_06: Like, come on, like, I don't know.
• 1:22:01
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but you know, men and men, women a woman.
• 1:22:03
  SPEAKER_00: That's why the world spins.
• 1:22:06
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, that's exactly why the world spins, man.
• 1:22:10
  SPEAKER_06: Um, transition, man.
• 1:22:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but speaking of spinning, right?
• 1:22:17
  SPEAKER_00: I watched this movie the other day, F1.
• 1:22:19
  SPEAKER_00: And it was spinning around that motherfucking racetrack.
• 1:22:22
  SPEAKER_00: And let me tell you, I'm a movie.
• 1:22:25
  SPEAKER_00: I waited for this.
• 1:22:26
  SPEAKER_00: And this movie is one of the best movies I've ever seen, I feel like.
• 1:22:31
  SPEAKER_00: Off of first reaction, you know.
• 1:22:35
  SPEAKER_06: So I'm glad you said one of the best movies you've seen.
• 1:22:40
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 1:22:41
  SPEAKER_06: This is where I'm gonna need you to like break down what do you mean by one of the best?
• 1:22:47
  SPEAKER_06: Is one of the best top five, top ten, top twenty, top one hundred.
• 1:22:56
  SPEAKER_00: I probably have it in my top 20 or 30.
• 1:23:01
  SPEAKER_05: So top 20, if you think about all movies, top 20 is a strong 20.
• 1:23:06
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, cause because the thing is with me, I'm not a suit, I'm not a movie buff.
• 1:23:10
  SPEAKER_06: So 20 movies for you, you probably seen maybe hundreds of movies.
• 1:23:15
  SPEAKER_06: I probably haven't seen a hundred movies.
• 1:23:18
  SPEAKER_06: I'm gonna be honest with you.
• 1:23:19
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, unless they're like big ones, like let's say, you know, when we was growing up, Transformer was a big deal or Marvel movies, but I don't really watch too many in-between movies.
• 1:23:29
  SPEAKER_06: Like, I feel like this F1 movie is like one of those in-between movies.
• 1:23:33
  SPEAKER_06: Like, it's it wasn't a big deal to me.
• 1:23:34
  SPEAKER_06: Okay, but anyway, long story short, um when do you so one through five would be a all right?
• 1:23:42
  SPEAKER_06: So context.
• 1:23:45
  SPEAKER_06: Cash gave this movie a 9.5.
• 1:23:47
  SPEAKER_06: Okay.
• 1:23:48
  SPEAKER_06: When somebody tells me one of the best movies they ever seen, I assume it's a 10.
• 1:23:55
  SPEAKER_06: So I want to know one through three of your top movies of all time, those are ten out of ten, or maybe the one out of one through five is ten out of ten.
• 1:24:05
  SPEAKER_06: I want to know on your list of movies that are ten out of tens, when does it stop being a ten out of ten?
• 1:24:12
  SPEAKER_06: If that makes sense.
• 1:24:13
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have a list, but I would assume that the top ten are tens.
• 1:24:18
  SPEAKER_06: So everyone in your top ten should be a ten out of ten.
• 1:24:22
  SPEAKER_00: It don't have to be necessarily.
• 1:24:23
  SPEAKER_00: But yeah, but it possibly, yeah.
• 1:24:26
  SPEAKER_06: That's pretty interesting.
• 1:24:27
  SPEAKER_06: Because I when you because when I saw that it had a 9.5, I'm like, if I said something was one of the best movies I've seen, I would think hands down it's a 10 out of 10.
• 1:24:36
  SPEAKER_06: So maybe you could explain to the people what stops a movie from being a 10 out of 10 to you.
• 1:24:42
  SPEAKER_00: Small mistakes or things I feel like are left out.
• 1:24:44
  SPEAKER_00: Like for this movie, um one of the things that was a kind of a take back, and it's kind of just me nitpicking, but they'll so the movie's about F1 drivers.
• 1:24:54
  SPEAKER_00: So Formula One is like the biggest racing thing that is worth billions, each car is worth like a billion dollars and everything.
• 1:25:00
  SPEAKER_00: So the top racers uh make cameos in the movie.
• 1:25:04
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's tough.
• 1:25:06
  SPEAKER_00: Um Lewis Hamilton is shit like that.
• 1:25:07
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, Lewis Hamilton was in the movie and he was in a lot of scenes, but he didn't have any speaking roles.
• 1:25:11
  SPEAKER_00: But that's a budget thing because an actor, if you give them over a certain amount of lines, that's when the budget goes up.
• 1:25:18
  SPEAKER_00: And Lewis Hamilton, he's all the money in the world.
• 1:25:20
  SPEAKER_00: So to even have him in the movie probably costs a crazy amount.
• 1:25:24
  SPEAKER_00: But to have him speaking would have like shot to the bone.
• 1:25:28
  SPEAKER_00: So that was one thing I didn't, I was it was kind of like it was basically like like a like a like a video game cutscene when you see him like he don't even look like he's on the set with the people that's in there.
• 1:25:38
  SPEAKER_00: And I also felt like the movie kind of missed um, it could have taken this could actually take away from the movie, I feel like also, but they didn't have any like rivalry between the racers, but that's not what the movie was about, though.
• 1:25:49
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:25:49
  SPEAKER_00: So that's not really anything I took back.
• 1:25:51
  SPEAKER_00: It was just that the the other people that were racing didn't have any dialogue.
• 1:25:54
  SPEAKER_00: That was that was one small thing.
• 1:25:55
  SPEAKER_00: The other thing I didn't like, um I I can't say without spoiling it.
• 1:26:00
  SPEAKER_06: But um how long has the movie been out?
• 1:26:05
  SPEAKER_06: Probably like a week.
• 1:26:06
  SPEAKER_06: I think you could spoil it.
• 1:26:09
  SPEAKER_06: It's been a week.
• 1:26:10
  SPEAKER_06: Come on, man.
• 1:26:11
  SPEAKER_06: Is it a huge spoiler?
• 1:26:12
  SPEAKER_06: Because I do want to see it.
• 1:26:14
  SPEAKER_05: Never mind, never mind, never mind.
• 1:26:15
  SPEAKER_05: Is it a really is a spoiler for sure?
• 1:26:18
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, not really.
• 1:26:20
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't trust it.
• 1:26:21
  SPEAKER_00: It wouldn't make or break.
• 1:26:21
  SPEAKER_00: Me telling you wouldn't make or break the movie, but it's just like Is it the plot?
• 1:26:24
  SPEAKER_00: Like, is it like, oh, this is this is where we're leading?
• 1:26:27
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
• 1:26:28
  SPEAKER_00: It's just like something happened at the very end.
• 1:26:29
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, uh, that's that's too close.
• 1:26:31
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know, man.
• 1:26:32
  SPEAKER_05: The end, he's at the very end.
• 1:26:33
  SPEAKER_05: The very end be some the very like the last five minutes be like bullshit.
• 1:26:37
  SPEAKER_05: Like crying, like, oh thank you for it.
• 1:26:39
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's basically what like basically because I would have to explain the context, so no, I'll just leave it.
• 1:26:45
  SPEAKER_00: Just watch the movie.
• 1:26:45
  SPEAKER_00: I watched it in IMAX.
• 1:26:46
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not even an IMAX person, but watch that shit on IMAX.
• 1:26:49
  SPEAKER_00: That shit is fire.
• 1:26:50
  SPEAKER_00: I do like movies.
• 1:26:51
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like this movie couldn't have been acted better by the two lead actors, which is Damn St.
• 1:26:56
  SPEAKER_00: Idris and Brad Pitt.
• 1:26:58
  SPEAKER_00: They like the way they portrayed who they were supposed to be in the movie, with whether it's the facial reactions, the tone of their voice, and showing the humbleness versus cockiness and everything, they did a perfect job.
• 1:27:11
  SPEAKER_00: The movie is about um uh a failed race car driver joining a F1 team to try to help his boy uh come from going bankrupt with his company.
• 1:27:24
  SPEAKER_00: Because every every uh F1 team is two drivers, but they're run by like big business, so they have backers and everything, and they're they're just there to promote each car.
• 1:27:33
  SPEAKER_00: So each car works with a company, so it'll be like Ferrari, Porsche, uh Fucking Rolls Royce, like each car is buying.
• 1:27:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so yeah, that movie is an amazing movie, though.
• 1:27:42
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody should go and see an IMAX.
• 1:27:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna spoil it too much, but um, the theme of the movie was like how a fall from grace changes you as a person, and the lessons you learn can be taught to another person that's going on the same path as you because Dansel Idris is an up and coming superstar and he's Young and Rap Hit is a weathered old person, but he's skilled, but he just used to be somewhere and he has PCSD dealing with uh certain things that happened to him and doing his journey.
• 1:28:13
  SPEAKER_05: So yeah, but I don't think for it to be a top best movie ever seen, it don't gotta be a ten.
• 1:28:18
  SPEAKER_05: I think it has to be at least a nine.
• 1:28:19
  SPEAKER_05: Anything over a nine, you could put it in one of the best ever seen conversation.
• 1:28:23
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, because uh uh a movie being good, uh like ten out of ten means there's no mistakes, nothing.
• 1:28:28
  SPEAKER_00: Like how how Sinners had that scene when it was mad niggas dying, there wasn't that much niggas, like that makes it not a ten.
• 1:28:34
  SPEAKER_00: Would you rate sinners?
• 1:28:35
  SPEAKER_00: I think I gave it a nine.
• 1:28:38
  SPEAKER_06: I think that's a little high.
• 1:28:39
  SPEAKER_06: What you thought?
• 1:28:40
  SPEAKER_06: Oh shit.
• 1:28:40
  SPEAKER_06: I mean, see that I'm the type of person that thought uh Soul Plane was a good movie.
• 1:28:45
  SPEAKER_00: That no, no, that doesn't make just cause the budget of a movie and stuff like that doesn't make a movie.
• 1:28:49
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, I'm just talking about like I've heard people just say, like, yeah, no, Soul Plane is not a good movie.
• 1:28:53
  SPEAKER_06: I like Soul Plane.
• 1:28:55
  SPEAKER_06: So that's why when people be asking me to rate movies, I'd be like, I don't watch movies the same way other people watch movies.
• 1:29:02
  SPEAKER_00: So I mean enjoyability is a big factor.
• 1:29:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like, it could be a movie that's like very niche about whatever the fuck, like Oppenheimer or some shit.
• 1:29:08
  SPEAKER_00: But if I didn't enjoy the movie, I'm not gonna give the movie a 10.
• 1:29:11
  SPEAKER_00: It could be a 10 movie to most people, but and I'm not using that movie as an example.
• 1:29:15
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't watch that full movie because I got into a fight in the movie theaters that day.
• 1:29:18
  SPEAKER_06: You got into a fight with who?
• 1:29:21
  SPEAKER_06: Stop.
• 1:29:21
  SPEAKER_00: It was some nigga.
• 1:29:22
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I didn't tell the state of the movie.
• 1:29:25
  SPEAKER_00: I told it, I told it, I told her on my on my other uh my and on my other podcast.
• 1:29:29
  SPEAKER_00: When I had when I had my other podcast.
• 1:29:31
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
• 1:29:31
  SPEAKER_00: But basically what happened was I was in the movie theaters with my girl.
• 1:29:33
  SPEAKER_00: I was in um Regal Limbrook, and we came in the movie theater like a couple minutes late, so the movie just started playing.
• 1:29:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:29:40
  SPEAKER_00: And we just sat down and it was like this German couple with their kids there.
• 1:29:45
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, and they was in there speaking mad German or whatever language they were speaking.
• 1:29:48
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like thinking, like, the fuck?
• 1:29:50
  SPEAKER_00: These niggas' grandparents was probably fighting the war or some shit, so they hyped to see it.
• 1:29:53
  SPEAKER_00: So, but they talking mad loud.
• 1:29:55
  SPEAKER_00: So I was like, yo, could y'all like chill?
• 1:29:57
  SPEAKER_00: They right next to you, like over here.
• 1:29:59
  SPEAKER_00: Like, we sitting in the middle and they like on the edge.
• 1:30:01
  SPEAKER_00: So you did the young.
• 1:30:04
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:30:05
  SPEAKER_00: So they was like, oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.
• 1:30:07
  SPEAKER_00: But then a couple minutes go by, they keep talking again.
• 1:30:11
  SPEAKER_00: So we like, what the fuck?
• 1:30:12
  SPEAKER_00: So my girl was like, yo, can y'all stop?
• 1:30:14
  SPEAKER_00: Like, we not sitting in y'all room and like in your in your living room in your couch.
• 1:30:17
  SPEAKER_00: Like, can y'all chill out?
• 1:30:18
  SPEAKER_00: And then they stopped talking and start talking again.
• 1:30:21
  SPEAKER_00: So the kids was American, they would sit next to me.
• 1:30:24
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, yo, bro, could you like tell your parents like that?
• 1:30:26
  SPEAKER_06: How old were the was the kids?
• 1:30:28
  SPEAKER_00: It was like teenage, like 14, 15, 16.
• 1:30:30
  SPEAKER_00: That was older.
• 1:30:30
  SPEAKER_00: So I was like, I was like, yo, can you just tell your parents?
• 1:30:32
  SPEAKER_00: Like, yeah, yeah.
• 1:30:32
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like, yeah, I'm not trying to have a problem in here.
• 1:30:34
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you feel me?
• 1:30:35
  SPEAKER_00: So they kept talking and talking, and my girl, she's a like a hot head.
• 1:30:40
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, she like, I want a problem in here.
• 1:30:41
  SPEAKER_06: So she took the top.
• 1:30:43
  SPEAKER_00: She bought a um a big soda, she took the top off the soda, and she was holding her hand like this.
• 1:30:47
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, yo, chill, chill.
• 1:30:50
  SPEAKER_00: So they kept talking loud and loud.
• 1:30:52
  SPEAKER_00: And my girl's like, yo, yo, can I shut up?
• 1:30:54
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god, and then they like, shut the fuck up, monkey.
• 1:30:58
  SPEAKER_00: So my girl's like getting up, and I'm like, yo, chill, chill, chill, chill.
• 1:31:03
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm barking on the nigga like yo, get the wife.
• 1:31:06
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, yo, who the fuck are you talking to?
• 1:31:07
  SPEAKER_00: You fucking like I'm cursing him out, whatever.
• 1:31:09
  SPEAKER_04: Nah, what you say?
• 1:31:13
  SPEAKER_04: This was a couple years ago.
• 1:31:15
  SPEAKER_00: So there was kids behind us amping it up.
• 1:31:17
  SPEAKER_00: So every time I would respond to them talking, or my girl responding to them talking, they like, oh, oh, she about to drop a bomb on them.
• 1:31:25
  SPEAKER_00: So now it gets to that point where they call my girl a monkey.
• 1:31:30
  SPEAKER_00: The kids was behind us laughing.
• 1:31:31
  SPEAKER_00: So it was, I forgot at what exchange, but the guy got up and went to the kids, like, listen, every one of you laughing, I'm gonna make you cry.
• 1:31:39
  SPEAKER_00: He said that to the kids.
• 1:31:40
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm just looking like, oh nah, this some this some wild shit going on.
• 1:31:43
  SPEAKER_00: So when they got to the part when they call my girl a monkey, the kids started throwing like popcorn and MMs at the guy.
• 1:31:49
  SPEAKER_00: So the guy, before my girl could even get over there, the guy went to the kid, it started choking the kid.
• 1:31:53
  SPEAKER_00: Whoa.
• 1:31:54
  SPEAKER_00: So then that's when I got up, I'm like, all right, now I'm gonna beat this nigga up.
• 1:31:57
  SPEAKER_00: So then I got I got up and I started walking, so it was a guy in the security came in and everything, and they broke us up and all this shit.
• 1:32:04
  SPEAKER_00: And that was that was basically it.
• 1:32:05
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie.
• 1:32:06
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, that's that's jokes.
• 1:32:08
  SPEAKER_06: I definitely, it's crazy.
• 1:32:09
  SPEAKER_06: I never heard this story before.
• 1:32:11
  SPEAKER_06: That's crazy.
• 1:32:12
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, so I was about to beat that old white nigga up.
• 1:32:14
  SPEAKER_05: Why were they saying the I thought the monkey came first?
• 1:32:17
  SPEAKER_00: The monkey was the last thing he did.
• 1:32:18
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that was like the last thing, and then the kids threw the popcorn at him, and then he got up and went to them.
• 1:32:23
  SPEAKER_05: The girl's about to splash him with the with the Yeah, she's about to go crazy.
• 1:32:26
  SPEAKER_00: Because it was like some old ass girl, first of all, we was gonna fix them.
• 1:32:29
  SPEAKER_00: My girl know how to fight.
• 1:32:30
  SPEAKER_00: I think my girl could beat up the nigga.
• 1:32:31
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna lie.
• 1:32:31
  SPEAKER_00: That's crazy.
• 1:32:32
  SPEAKER_00: But the it was some old white lady, and the nigga, I'm standing there, and I was like, I was crossing my hands.
• 1:32:37
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, I dare this nigga to touch me.
• 1:32:38
  SPEAKER_00: Because he had to walk past me and go back on the scenes because security was escorting him out.
• 1:32:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I dare this nigga touch me.
• 1:32:42
  SPEAKER_00: I would fucking throw this nigga with a banister.
• 1:32:44
  SPEAKER_00: How old was he?
• 1:32:45
  SPEAKER_00: This nigga had to be like 50, 60 or something.
• 1:32:47
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, this nigga still I think he touched me.
• 1:32:49
  SPEAKER_06: He like, my girl about the fuck this nigga up.
• 1:32:51
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't even gotta do nothing.
• 1:32:52
  SPEAKER_06: We're talking about the disabled thing.
• 1:32:54
  SPEAKER_06: Do we give elderly grace?
• 1:32:55
  SPEAKER_00: Oh no.
• 1:32:56
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, nah.
• 1:32:57
  SPEAKER_06: I swear to swear, once once the racist shit comes out, I don't care how disabled you is.
• 1:33:02
  SPEAKER_05: I give them grace.
• 1:33:03
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not giving them a path.
• 1:33:04
  SPEAKER_05: I think nine times out of not nine, but like, I think a majority of the time that people say a racist thing, it's because they know it's racist, not because they are racist.
• 1:33:11
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:33:12
  SPEAKER_05: Like they just saying the worst thing they could possibly say, and they know that bringing race into it is is is gonna be.
• 1:33:17
  SPEAKER_00: I feel no, I feel like that when black people do it.
• 1:33:20
  SPEAKER_00: When white people do it, I feel like it's something else.
• 1:33:21
  SPEAKER_00: Because you got you got it take a certain type of white nigga to be like call somebody a nigger.
• 1:33:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:33:25
  SPEAKER_00: Like I could call a like I get mad at a Chinese guy and call him a chink, but that could just be me being upset.
• 1:33:31
  SPEAKER_00: I don't I don't dislike Chinese people.
• 1:33:32
  SPEAKER_00: I love Chinese people.
• 1:33:33
  SPEAKER_06: And why can't a man, a white man, be upset and nah?
• 1:33:36
  SPEAKER_06: Because I feel like when you call a black person nigga, you really don't know what this could become.
• 1:33:41
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 1:33:41
  SPEAKER_06: So like I feel like you gotta be a certain amount of racism, the racist, to be like, no matter if this if this man is ready to kill me behind this word, I have to stand on it.
• 1:33:52
  SPEAKER_06: Like, you know, a black person on Yeah, I would say black person.
• 1:33:55
  SPEAKER_06: I can't speak with anybody else.
• 1:33:56
  SPEAKER_06: But if I if I use the derogatory word to to offend somebody else, in my head, I I'm understanding that it's like, yo, this person could take this shit and be like, I'm ready to die behind you offending me to this level.
• 1:34:12
  SPEAKER_06: Is monkey on that list?
• 1:34:14
  SPEAKER_06: Fortunately, I never even seen anybody fix their lips to say something.
• 1:34:18
  SPEAKER_06: So I can't really fant them like what that would mean to me, but I've definitely been called a nigga before.
• 1:34:24
  SPEAKER_06: And that didn't make me want to kill somebody.
• 1:34:28
  SPEAKER_06: Maybe being called monkey probably wouldn't make me feel that way.
• 1:34:31
  SPEAKER_06: Really?
• 1:34:32
  SPEAKER_06: It probably.
• 1:34:32
  SPEAKER_06: I I don't know.
• 1:34:33
  SPEAKER_06: Like I'd never seen it, nobody ever and I've only been called a nigga once.
• 1:34:37
  SPEAKER_06: And I was in somebody, like they was driving.
• 1:34:39
  SPEAKER_06: Uh funny enough, Mohammed was with me, and Raymond was with me.
• 1:34:43
  SPEAKER_06: We was uh on Queen's Plaza, and we was walking across, you know, that shit is like fucking eight lanes of traffic.
• 1:34:50
  SPEAKER_06: So we're walking across or whatever, and the guy stops at the light, and he's like, it's like two other white people in the car.
• 1:34:57
  SPEAKER_06: White dude's driving, a girl's next to him, and I think a guy's in the back.
• 1:35:00
  SPEAKER_06: And he's like, Look, niggas, just like that, just like that.
• 1:35:04
  SPEAKER_06: Mind you, bro, we like probably like 22, 23, man, young.
• 1:35:08
  SPEAKER_06: So I'm like, What?
• 1:35:10
  SPEAKER_06: Ray, you know, Ray being at that time, super hot-headed.
• 1:35:13
  SPEAKER_06: He walks up to the car, and like you can see like a hammer in his car, not a gun, a hammer, hammer.
• 1:35:17
  SPEAKER_06: And I'm like, yo, Ray, he got a hammer.
• 1:35:19
  SPEAKER_06: Nigga speeds off, and I just throw like the the bottle I had hits the car, whatever.
• 1:35:24
  SPEAKER_06: But even in that moment of me throwing the bottle, I in my head, I'm not like, even if he got out of the car, I wasn't gonna strangle him to death or kill him or whatever.
• 1:35:32
  SPEAKER_06: So I don't think nigga would make me that upset.
• 1:35:35
  SPEAKER_06: But if somebody fixed their mouth to say monkey, maybe, maybe.
• 1:35:39
  SPEAKER_05: Because new we in New York, especially in New York, we so used to nigga.
• 1:35:42
  SPEAKER_06: Like, yeah, it's like I don't I like I really didn't feel enraged at it at all about it.
• 1:35:46
  SPEAKER_06: I just knew he shouldn't have, I knew he said it with ill intent.
• 1:35:49
  SPEAKER_06: So maybe that's what caused me to throw what I had in my hand, but it didn't make me feel like, oh, there's if I see him, I'm gonna fucking like do something to him.
• 1:35:59
  SPEAKER_05: That happened to my mom one time at the bank, because my mom is dark skinned, like like you.
• 1:36:02
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 1:36:02
  SPEAKER_05: So she was at the bank, she got there last minute.
• 1:36:06
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know, she wanted me to tell the story.
• 1:36:08
  SPEAKER_05: By the way, she watched the whole podcast.
• 1:36:10
  SPEAKER_05: I'm like, you're not supposed to watch that.
• 1:36:11
  SPEAKER_05: That's support, that's support right there.
• 1:36:13
  SPEAKER_05: That's fire.
• 1:36:15
  SPEAKER_05: Um, she was like, Whoa, she was asking questions about it anyway.
• 1:36:17
  SPEAKER_05: Um she went in last minute, you know, and no one's gonna assume my mom speaks Spanish because she looks black.
• 1:36:25
  SPEAKER_05: So the lady behind the glass, look not luckily, because my mom's not really like a fighter like that, but luckily the lady was behind the glass, and yeah, I guess she was about to clock out, and she was like, she told the girl, like, all right, all right, I'll meet you downstairs.
• 1:36:36
  SPEAKER_05: Let me finish with this monkey.
• 1:36:37
  SPEAKER_05: Oh.
• 1:36:39
  SPEAKER_05: In Spanish, she said it.
• 1:36:40
  SPEAKER_05: So, you know, it was a whole thing.
• 1:36:42
  SPEAKER_05: Man, manager got involved, and you know, obviously, she's behind the glass, so nothing can really happen.
• 1:36:46
  SPEAKER_06: But your mom made it a big deal.
• 1:36:47
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:36:48
  SPEAKER_06: The good, yeah.
• 1:36:48
  SPEAKER_06: I think I think that's important for black people.
• 1:36:50
  SPEAKER_06: They gotta make it a big deal.
• 1:36:51
  SPEAKER_06: I thought about it later.
• 1:36:51
  SPEAKER_06: I'm like, damn, she could have gotten lawsuit at it.
• 1:36:53
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:36:55
  SPEAKER_06: But you know, we don't be thinking about that shit sometimes.
• 1:36:57
  SPEAKER_06: So I think I think black people, I think we really gotta make a big deal out of some of these things.
• 1:37:02
  SPEAKER_06: Because I think a lot of times we just let shit just roll off because like there's so much other shit going on in our life.
• 1:37:09
  SPEAKER_06: But if the roles were reverse, a white person would definitely want our job behind some shit like that.
• 1:37:15
  SPEAKER_06: So I think we get we do gotta make it our business to be like, yo, hold people accountable for for offending us.
• 1:37:23
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, because at the end of the day, black people are really the only ones that's affected by racism.
• 1:37:26
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 1:37:27
  SPEAKER_00: Like other people, they get offended, like you could offend somebody, but you're not no system that's oppressing you.
• 1:37:33
  SPEAKER_05: I was watching this trash, trash, trash ass movie last week.
• 1:37:37
  SPEAKER_05: When I tell you trash, it's called IHostage on Netflix.
• 1:37:40
  SPEAKER_05: Everybody goes Oh, yeah, oh that shit is whack.
• 1:37:43
  SPEAKER_05: Bro, the worst.
• 1:37:45
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I cut that shit off, but go ahead.
• 1:37:47
  SPEAKER_05: But point being is that as soon as the the the robber goes in, he's he looks Middle Eastern.
• 1:37:53
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, he's wearing a bomb.
• 1:37:54
  SPEAKER_05: And I it just made me think.
• 1:37:56
  SPEAKER_05: I was like, damn, like they really be going through real racism too.
• 1:38:00
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:38:00
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know if you see this page on Instagram told called Subway Takes.
• 1:38:03
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, I feel like I heard that.
• 1:38:07
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, yes, oh yeah, yeah.
• 1:38:09
  SPEAKER_05: There was one where they the guy was like, Muslims go through more racism than well, not maybe not Muslims, but Middle Eastern go through more racism than black people.
• 1:38:16
  SPEAKER_05: And that was just a big conversation.
• 1:38:18
  SPEAKER_05: It it it is there is a debate there.
• 1:38:20
  SPEAKER_00: No, that's ignorant.
• 1:38:21
  SPEAKER_00: Because nobody is gonna not hire uh a Muslim nigga just because he's Muslim.
• 1:38:26
  SPEAKER_00: A nigga will not hire a black person because they're black.
• 1:38:29
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like the most the most thing they go through is the the oh 9-11 or oh 7-Eleven.
• 1:38:34
  SPEAKER_00: What about a what about worldwide?
• 1:38:36
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe in America, but what about worldwide?
• 1:38:38
  SPEAKER_00: Black dark skinned people are treated the worst in every single person.
• 1:38:40
  SPEAKER_06: I feel I feel like what black people have the biggest disconnect is a lot of other cultures that deal with racism, they have some sort of backing.
• 1:38:50
  SPEAKER_06: Like, if you deal, if you're Asian and remember, I think it was during COVID, they were dealing with a lot of Asian hate.
• 1:38:57
  SPEAKER_06: At the end of the day, if you was fed up with how you was treated in America, you go back to your country, whatever, you have that there's there's a country for you to go back to.
• 1:39:06
  SPEAKER_06: Like if if you really, really had to.
• 1:39:08
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:39:09
  SPEAKER_06: You really have support of something like a country.
• 1:39:11
  SPEAKER_06: Whether whatever, where even if where you live or the country you're from is is tough, is you know, is it's not the best place to live, you have a country that, you know, that that is yours.
• 1:39:22
  SPEAKER_06: I feel like, you know, especially with Muslims, that's not a that's not a poor um I don't know the word.
• 1:39:30
  SPEAKER_06: Uh Muslim people, like that that that whole, I don't really know how to explain it, but you think they have somewhere to go back to the bigger.
• 1:39:37
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, and then they're not poor.
• 1:39:39
  SPEAKER_06: You feel me?
• 1:39:39
  SPEAKER_06: Like, they're like being uh Well But I mean, yeah, you they have poor people, but they're essentially like they're yeah, you feel me, like it's money there.
• 1:39:50
  SPEAKER_06: It's not like there's uh like I don't know, I really don't want to get too poor.
• 1:39:55
  SPEAKER_05: No, I don't know if there's money there, but there's people there for them.
• 1:39:58
  SPEAKER_06: But in the sense of like, yeah, they're they're poor countries, but like, yeah, but yeah, yeah, community, but uh, and essentially what I'm saying is uh with black people, what we was dealt with, they disconnected us from where we from.
• 1:40:14
  SPEAKER_06: So I don't know what type of African I am.
• 1:40:17
  SPEAKER_06: You feel me?
• 1:40:18
  SPEAKER_06: I'm I'm more American than African.
• 1:40:21
  SPEAKER_06: You're all American.
• 1:40:22
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, you see what I'm saying?
• 1:40:23
  SPEAKER_06: So it's like a lot of people, even though they deal with racism in this country, most likely their moms, they know where their mom is from.
• 1:40:31
  SPEAKER_06: My mom is American, my mom's mom is American, my mom's mom is American.
• 1:40:36
  SPEAKER_06: So even though racism, they deal with racism, I feel like as far as the sense of like we it's we don't have a language.
• 1:40:45
  SPEAKER_06: You see what I'm saying?
• 1:40:46
  SPEAKER_06: It's uh it's a lot of shit I feel like black people deal with that people like just brush over because it seems like oh yeah, no, they just lazy.
• 1:40:54
  SPEAKER_06: But nah, it's a lot that's deep-rooted that we have to erase, not erase, we have to climb out of the 400 years of the shit that we was given in order to progress.
• 1:41:06
  SPEAKER_05: On top of still being pounded on, exactly.
• 1:41:08
  SPEAKER_06: So I like I do people do deal with uh uh prejudice, but as far as like to compare to what black people have to deal with, I think is it's a little bit insensitive.
• 1:41:21
  SPEAKER_06: For sure.
• 1:41:22
  SPEAKER_06: Insensitive.
• 1:41:23
  SPEAKER_05: You made a good point, yeah.
• 1:41:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and not to say that it's they fault, right?
• 1:41:28
  SPEAKER_00: But with with black people versus like Middle Eastern and Muslim people, something happened that was from the countries that Muslim people come from, like one of the countries that Muslim people come from in America that would make people not like people from that area.
• 1:41:45
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing happened with black people.
• 1:41:46
  SPEAKER_00: We got brought, we were stolen and brought here, and then niggas was like, nah, we still don't like you.
• 1:41:50
  SPEAKER_00: Like I didn't have a choice.
• 1:41:51
  SPEAKER_06: And and another thing, the reason why I said the money thing, even though it is poor countries, like I used to work in this school um in Astoria where they have a lot of Muslim, Arab uh kids or whatever.
• 1:42:03
  SPEAKER_06: And a lot of these kids, even though they was from the hoods in in Queens, in the summer, they're going back to their homes.
• 1:42:12
  SPEAKER_06: Well, not to their homes, but to their family homes where they're experiencing a whole different type of life.
• 1:42:17
  SPEAKER_06: Like they like even I see these some of these kids now because I have them on Instagram, and it's like, you know, here you assume that they lived this, they was living maybe property or middle, middle class, but they have family back home that are living great.
• 1:42:34
  SPEAKER_06: You feel what I'm saying?
• 1:42:35
  SPEAKER_06: So it's like, yeah, while they're here, they probably deal with some type of you know prejudice, but they have back home, they have funding.
• 1:42:42
  SPEAKER_06: You feel me?
• 1:42:43
  SPEAKER_06: Like, God forbid if they miss some payments here.
• 1:42:45
  SPEAKER_06: There's a family member back home that does whatever they do back home and they can send money here.
• 1:42:51
  SPEAKER_06: So a lot of people, like a lot of black people in America, they don't have nobody in foreign country that you know they they can leave the hood in the summer.
• 1:43:00
  SPEAKER_05: The only people we have to depend on is our oppressors.
• 1:43:04
  SPEAKER_00: Type shit.
• 1:43:04
  SPEAKER_00: You feel me?
• 1:43:05
  SPEAKER_00: So yo, whoever made that argument, shout out to them for at least trying to think, but you a dumbass nigga.
• 1:43:10
  SPEAKER_00: Yo, there's no Muslim niggas getting lynched.
• 1:43:12
  SPEAKER_00: There's niggas is getting lynched now.
• 1:43:13
  SPEAKER_00: You go down south, it's fucking my grandfather where he lives, there's a sign that says cool clutch clan meeting point.
• 1:43:20
  SPEAKER_00: That sign is still up.
• 1:43:21
  SPEAKER_00: That's cool.
• 1:43:22
  SPEAKER_00: And we're in 2025.
• 1:43:23
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if it's not probably still not active.
• 1:43:25
  SPEAKER_00: That sign is there.
• 1:43:26
  SPEAKER_06: And it's there for a reason.
• 1:43:28
  SPEAKER_05: I mean, I know black people in movies deal with the same shit where it's like the black guy's the hood nigga or the thief or whatever, but yeah.
• 1:43:33
  SPEAKER_05: I'm sure that they again, I'm I'm I'm gonna host in the race, but I'm sure they feel like in all these movies where if it's an airplane bombing, it's a Muslim.
• 1:43:41
  SPEAKER_05: If it's a you know, like it's they have their own set of I'm gonna say something that's offensive.
• 1:43:45
  SPEAKER_00: They were wrong, but I'm gonna say something that's offensive.
• 1:43:48
  SPEAKER_00: What other niggas blowing up planes or taking planes or blowing shit up?
• 1:43:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I I see I see Cash's point.
• 1:43:54
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I'm not saying that that's everybody, but the the groups of people that are known for doing those type of things are those people.
• 1:44:00
  SPEAKER_00: If we want to talk about niggas getting their head cut off for cocaine and shit, who we can think of?
• 1:44:04
  SPEAKER_00: Mexican niggas.
• 1:44:05
  SPEAKER_00: Because that's what they do in Mexico.
• 1:44:07
  SPEAKER_00: They have the cartel where they cut niggas' heads off and all type of shit.
• 1:44:10
  SPEAKER_00: They probably do that in other countries too.
• 1:44:12
  SPEAKER_00: But they're the most popular niggas.
• 1:44:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, they're known for they literally uh show themselves doing those things on purpose to put fear in other people.
• 1:44:20
  SPEAKER_00: You go in it, I go on the internet, I Google some shit right now.
• 1:44:22
  SPEAKER_00: There's probably a video from me last night, a nigga getting his fucking head off cut off in the cartel.
• 1:44:26
  SPEAKER_00: We just had a fighter that just fought, Jake Paul, um, Julio Ceslo Chavez Jr.
• 1:44:31
  SPEAKER_00: They said that nigga was part of the cartel and they used to hang niggas upside down and he used to punch them like a punching bag, and he's part of the cartel.
• 1:44:38
  SPEAKER_00: What are we talking about?
• 1:44:39
  SPEAKER_06: He deported that nigga too.
• 1:44:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:44:41
  SPEAKER_00: And that's the reason why, because it says part of the cartel, and he was uh he was a nigga that used to to um fucking torture niggas.
• 1:44:47
  SPEAKER_05: Oh yeah, so you gotta go.
• 1:44:49
  SPEAKER_05: Plain devil to plain devil's advocate.
• 1:44:52
  SPEAKER_05: Is it fair to say that because we see black people doing certain either crimes or violence or acting a certain way in public that we should that it's okay to assume that they may have a weapon or they may about to fight or they may, you know, come in here.
• 1:45:08
  SPEAKER_05: No, let's not let these group of black girls come in because they might start twerking on the table.
• 1:45:12
  SPEAKER_05: Like, should we you know what I'm saying?
• 1:45:14
  SPEAKER_05: Cause then because what we gonna say, well, but see, we do see a lot of people.
• 1:45:18
  SPEAKER_06: But see, that that's a good counter-argument, but uh, it kind of goes back to what like um what Cash was saying about like the systems that's in place, because a lot of the times with with media, they choose to show these aspects of black people.
• 1:45:32
  SPEAKER_06: Now, don't get me wrong, I feel like now, after 2020, where now everything is really on the internet and people want to go uh um they want to go viral and this clout thing, I I do feel like black people definitely give people the the fuel.
• 1:45:50
  SPEAKER_06: But I feel like a lot of the times they purposely try to portray, they try to portray us as this type of person.
• 1:45:55
  SPEAKER_06: So when you do encounter a black person for the first time, you automatically assume this is the type of person you're gonna get.
• 1:46:01
  SPEAKER_06: Now, unfortunately, there's places like uh networks like Zeus that I don't feel like they force anybody to act the certain way.
• 1:46:09
  SPEAKER_05: No, but I'm saying even outside of media, in real life, you go to places and you see.
• 1:46:15
  SPEAKER_05: But yeah, but we will act like our us.
• 1:46:17
  SPEAKER_06: But but like the but see, honestly, I definitely see black people act out.
• 1:46:22
  SPEAKER_06: But I've I've been around, see the beauty about being from Queens is that you run into all different types of people.
• 1:46:28
  SPEAKER_06: So as much as I seen black people act out, I definitely seen Spanish people act out way more.
• 1:46:33
  SPEAKER_06: Because that's we uh Queens is diverse, but I would say I inter I interacted with Spanish people a lot in Queens.
• 1:46:43
  SPEAKER_06: And them niggas was turning up way more than I've seen black people turn up.
• 1:46:48
  SPEAKER_06: So it's kind of like if I feel like black, if I can't let these black people in because they may act up, I gotta look at the Spanish people do the same thing.
• 1:46:56
  SPEAKER_06: Cause that's who I that's why I seen also acting up as well.
• 1:47:00
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I don't way more, I think is a stretch, but I respect that.
• 1:47:03
  SPEAKER_06: Now in the sense of like, what I like I don't So you went to you went to Louis, right?
• 1:47:08
  SPEAKER_06: Louis Omstrong.
• 1:47:09
  SPEAKER_06: Louis Omstrong.
• 1:47:10
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, yeah, yeah.
• 1:47:10
  SPEAKER_06: So I mean, what's the what's the majority proper population of students in there?
• 1:47:15
  SPEAKER_05: Especially today, it's definitely Spanish.
• 1:47:17
  SPEAKER_05: But back then it was it was mixed, but I think it would be more Spanish or so that's what I'm saying.
• 1:47:22
  SPEAKER_06: So like a like the odds are like who you've seen act up the like turn up the most.
• 1:47:28
  SPEAKER_06: Shoot, shoot, show.
• 1:47:28
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not.
• 1:47:29
  SPEAKER_06: You see what that's how I kind of feel like Queens is diverse, but I feel like Spanish people clearly, I feel like got the numbers.
• 1:47:35
  SPEAKER_05: I feel you, but I'm more talking about an adult environments, like a club or a restaurant or a plane or like But see that's the thing too.
• 1:47:41
  SPEAKER_06: I party, I party on Steinway.
• 1:47:43
  SPEAKER_06: Come on, you know Steinway is yeah, yeah.
• 1:47:46
  SPEAKER_06: Now maybe if I party in Jamaica, I probably would see what you're saying, but so my thing is with that, right?
• 1:47:52
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I I do understand what you're saying, where anybody should be aware of the possible threat of anybody at all times.
• 1:48:02
  SPEAKER_00: But if I do see a bunch of black people in like an environment like that, um would I be more wary of if they are a threat or dangerous?
• 1:48:14
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:48:15
  SPEAKER_00: But this is the thing the clubs that we would frequent outside of like maybe like in Manhattan or whatever, they're gonna be frequented by the people in those areas.
• 1:48:27
  SPEAKER_00: And and the areas that these clubs are in are in places that are the hood.
• 1:48:30
  SPEAKER_00: Why are these places the hood?
• 1:48:32
  SPEAKER_00: We have to start there.
• 1:48:32
  SPEAKER_00: They're the hood because the system that was in place to create these areas impoverished, they weren't impoverished areas, they were just areas, but they were forcefully impoverished by the governmental entities or whoever races racism is the is the key factor in this.
• 1:48:48
  SPEAKER_00: And poverty is what brings crime.
• 1:48:51
  SPEAKER_00: So if I make an area and I make it poor as hell, nothing gets fixed, the streets is all fucked up, the schools is bad because we're not giving enough tax dollars.
• 1:49:01
  SPEAKER_00: Six liquor stores on the one.
• 1:49:02
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, then obviously the people that are poor are gonna move there, and I'm not gonna give them any upward mobility financially.
• 1:49:10
  SPEAKER_00: So, what are they gonna have to do to make money?
• 1:49:11
  SPEAKER_00: They have to do something illegal to make money.
• 1:49:14
  SPEAKER_00: Things like sell drugs, steal, you know, rob people.
• 1:49:18
  SPEAKER_05: And on top of that, there's a lot of frustration or just building.
• 1:49:21
  SPEAKER_05: So once you go to a club or something, any little thing will set you off, you know?
• 1:49:25
  SPEAKER_05: I feel you, I feel you.
• 1:49:26
  SPEAKER_05: I was just making an argument because I was asking if it's fair to judge us the same way, but he he he and it depends where you are.
• 1:49:32
  SPEAKER_00: If I'm in Manhattan and we're all sitting down at like uh uh some upscale place and I see some black people walk in, I don't think they have a gun.
• 1:49:41
  SPEAKER_00: But if I go to the club in Southside Jamaica and there's a fucking metal detector and sitting on the concrete, I would assume that niggas got guns in it.
• 1:49:48
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like for example, y'all saw that video of girl in DR where she I don't know exactly what happened.
• 1:49:52
  SPEAKER_05: Maybe she felt like she was overcharged with it, but she started throwing the nigga pineapples and doing that.
• 1:49:56
  SPEAKER_05: That's nigga shit.
• 1:49:57
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, you're right.
• 1:49:57
  SPEAKER_06: You that's that that's that's the shit I don't.
• 1:50:00
  SPEAKER_06: Like from niggas because that's the shit that really be having people look at everybody else like we have to treat everybody, so we have to treat everybody that looks like her a certain way, because the way she did what she did, and that that's the shit I don't like from niggas because there's no reason why I'm going to somewhere so I can enjoy myself and I feel the same type of judgment that I get back home from certain places because some asshole fucked this whole shit up.
• 1:50:30
  SPEAKER_06: But I feel like even though you get one Karen, though you know the type of white woman that fucking complains and lies or whatever she does, they don't they don't all get that same treatment though.
• 1:50:44
  SPEAKER_06: Because a a black woman, that black woman did that, but what's the difference of a Karen falsely accusing you some shit?
• 1:50:53
  SPEAKER_01: That's worse, right?
• 1:50:56
  SPEAKER_05: You saw that ESPN shit that the girl had with ESPN and she the the Uber Job was trying to kick her out because she was having an attitude about the AC.
• 1:51:03
  SPEAKER_05: You ain't hear about that?
• 1:51:03
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, yeah, I've seen that video.
• 1:51:05
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, they calling her Karen and all that.
• 1:51:07
  SPEAKER_05: That is some Karen shit.
• 1:51:08
  SPEAKER_05: But she was black woman.
• 1:51:10
  SPEAKER_05: The passenger was white.
• 1:51:11
  SPEAKER_05: They were both black.
• 1:51:12
  SPEAKER_05: The driver was a black woman and the passenger was a black woman.
• 1:51:14
  SPEAKER_00: She was a Karen, she was a Karen, though.
• 1:51:15
  SPEAKER_00: That was crazy because she was she was like, oh, this is comfort.
• 1:51:18
  SPEAKER_00: Um, I want to be comfortable.
• 1:51:20
  SPEAKER_00: You gotta turn the air conditioner on.
• 1:51:22
  SPEAKER_00: And then, oh yeah, the driver was some young black girl, and she was like, Listen, I'll turn the AC on, but it takes time to get cool in here.
• 1:51:27
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I can't.
• 1:51:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like yeah, like, no, but you just got that window cracked.
• 1:51:30
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I just got the window cracked because that's how I was comfortable with my car.
• 1:51:32
  SPEAKER_00: But when you get in, I'll turn the AC on.
• 1:51:34
  SPEAKER_05: No, because people getting sick and shit, so keep the window cracked.
• 1:51:38
  SPEAKER_05: Oh man.
• 1:51:38
  SPEAKER_05: My only issue is that she was trying to tell her to get out.
• 1:51:41
  SPEAKER_05: She she said she pulled over on a highway.
• 1:51:44
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, yeah, yeah.
• 1:51:45
  SPEAKER_05: And was telling her to get out the car.
• 1:51:47
  SPEAKER_05: That was my only thing.
• 1:51:48
  SPEAKER_05: I was like, I I agree with the driver all until that point.
• 1:51:50
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, because it's like comfortable.
• 1:51:52
  SPEAKER_05: Not about the kick.
• 1:51:52
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:51:53
  SPEAKER_05: Come on.
• 1:51:54
  SPEAKER_05: Like, you could just get off on the next exit.
• 1:51:56
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, and then and people were saying, like, oh, but it's Georgia, it's like it's it's the it'd be like the middle of nowhere and stuff like that.
• 1:52:02
  SPEAKER_05: I'm like, anywhere is better than the side of the can't get picked up from the street.
• 1:52:08
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like how you could find a gas station, you could find something on the exit.
• 1:52:11
  SPEAKER_05: That's all I that's but everything else the Java did was cool.
• 1:52:15
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, yeah.
• 1:52:16
  SPEAKER_06: I I I like like I see what you're saying.
• 1:52:19
  SPEAKER_06: Black black people definitely they're not immune from being judged.
• 1:52:23
  SPEAKER_06: Because niggas be doing niggas shit, but I feel like sometimes like we be harshly too harshly judged off for it.
• 1:52:33
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, especially since Elon Musk let people say the N-word on Twitter and shit like that, and then did you just let people be openly racist?
• 1:52:40
  SPEAKER_00: Anytime you see a black a person a video of a black person doing anything like out of the ordinary of the social norm or like being aggressive or anything, the comments just click on the comments of the video and just look good.
• 1:52:53
  SPEAKER_00: I seen a video of a a guy playing the piano in like the airport or some shit, and this little black baby just came and started hitting the piano keys.
• 1:53:00
  SPEAKER_00: And the caption of the video is why do they instinctually disrupt?
• 1:53:08
  SPEAKER_00: And you're talking about a baby, and niggas some niggas is quoting it like you're talking about babies, right?
• 1:53:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like children, right?
• 1:53:15
  SPEAKER_05: And you internalize those things.
• 1:53:16
  SPEAKER_05: Like, I've I've caught myself maybe on a train with my hoodie on, and be like, and then you make our contact with somebody, you like you might think like, damn, do I look like scary right now?
• 1:53:26
  SPEAKER_05: But you'll see a white person with a hoodie on, you know, I wouldn't even think like, or I'll be on the train with my shades on.
• 1:53:30
  SPEAKER_05: I'm like, damn, like, do I look I'm tired, and and and that's foul that I have to like have those feelings.
• 1:53:35
  SPEAKER_05: I was like, let me take my hoodie off so I can make that.
• 1:53:37
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, no, like that's fucked up, bro.
• 1:53:40
  SPEAKER_06: And this is one thing that like people, I really don't.
• 1:53:43
  SPEAKER_06: I want my my son, he's gonna be more light-skinned, obviously, but I really want to tell him and teach him that like do not make yourself feel small or seem small for anybody else's comfort.
• 1:53:54
  SPEAKER_06: Because I feel like that's a that's how a lot of black men grow up.
• 1:53:58
  SPEAKER_06: No matter how big you are in stature, you just kind of if especially if you want to avoid problems, you try you tend to make yourself seem smaller so nobody feels inferior when they're around you.
• 1:54:11
  SPEAKER_06: So that's why I'm saying, like, people other cultures or other races can't feel the way we feel when it comes to racism because like that alone is traumatic.
• 1:54:23
  SPEAKER_06: If you ask me, like I wanna be, I don't want to offend anybody else just by me being normal.
• 1:54:29
  SPEAKER_06: Like, you didn't have the hoodie on because you wanted to rob the train.
• 1:54:32
  SPEAKER_06: Like, like, what the fuck?
• 1:54:34
  SPEAKER_06: That's crazy.
• 1:54:35
  SPEAKER_05: You see a white person with a hoodie on, or they emo, or they like uh introvert, or they punk, or whatever.
• 1:54:41
  SPEAKER_05: But you see us, and it's just like that's what I'm saying.
• 1:54:43
  SPEAKER_00: What that what that Indian nigga was talking about?
• 1:54:45
  SPEAKER_00: What feeling, how is he gonna dress when he walks outside to make him not seem threatening?
• 1:54:49
  SPEAKER_00: He gonna he what he think he what he go on the train and he got a hoodie on niggas, think he got a bomb on him?
• 1:54:55
  SPEAKER_05: But he might can't wear the hijab.
• 1:54:58
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, for you know, you're right.
• 1:54:59
  SPEAKER_00: You're right.
• 1:55:00
  SPEAKER_00: But um idiots.
• 1:55:03
  SPEAKER_00: I'm saying niggas' perception of the world be so narrow, they just think of how does this affect me?
• 1:55:09
  SPEAKER_00: That's that'd be niggas' number one thing.
• 1:55:10
  SPEAKER_00: How does this affect me?
• 1:55:11
  SPEAKER_00: How does it how can I be upset at this shit?
• 1:55:14
  SPEAKER_00: How dare you think?
• 1:55:15
  SPEAKER_00: I don't understand how anybody could come to America and think a country that has been built by the enslavement of these people, and I got it worse than them.
• 1:55:25
  SPEAKER_00: And I my family's been here for 20 years.
• 1:55:27
  SPEAKER_00: What the fuck are you talking about?
• 1:55:28
  SPEAKER_05: Is that the only education they have is from their culture history?
• 1:55:31
  SPEAKER_05: They don't have you know, they don't have an education.
• 1:55:33
  SPEAKER_00: When you go to the United States school system, you learn about slavery in middle school and high school, maybe too.
• 1:55:37
  SPEAKER_00: You learn about Jim Crow and all this shit.
• 1:55:40
  SPEAKER_00: How you gonna tell me my my grandfather and my mom, I think too, was in the Jim Crow era.
• 1:55:48
  SPEAKER_00: And you're gonna tell me that your Muslim family have probably been here for like 40 years or or less than that.
• 1:55:54
  SPEAKER_00: They probably just came here when you was born.
• 1:55:55
  SPEAKER_00: I could find it.
• 1:55:56
  SPEAKER_00: And you got it worse than me.
• 1:55:57
  SPEAKER_05: I can find it.
• 1:55:57
  SPEAKER_05: You wanna sit up?
• 1:55:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, tell that nigga come on here.
• 1:55:59
  SPEAKER_05: You wanna box it?
• 1:56:00
  SPEAKER_00: Slap the shit out there, nigga.
• 1:56:01
  SPEAKER_00: Verbally.
• 1:56:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna put my hands on him, but you're just gonna get you're gonna get talked down too because you're an idiot.
• 1:56:07
  SPEAKER_00: Like that was stupid.
• 1:56:08
  SPEAKER_00: But I do appreciate the discourse being.
• 1:56:13
  SPEAKER_00: See, now now you're being racist.
• 1:56:14
  SPEAKER_00: See, this is this is what you're talking about.
• 1:56:16
  SPEAKER_00: Think about you gotta come in here and blow some shit up.
• 1:56:20
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:56:22
  SPEAKER_00: Oh man.
• 1:56:23
  SPEAKER_00: Well, yeah, we're winding down.
• 1:56:25
  SPEAKER_00: Uh you said that you had a oh yeah.
• 1:56:28
  SPEAKER_06: So unfortunately, we did not get a submission this week.
• 1:56:30
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know if you niggas got a little shot, but that's fine.
• 1:56:34
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry for calling that nigga bad names last week.
• 1:56:36
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all could, y'all could, y'all could submit.
• 1:56:39
  SPEAKER_05: But uh submission is what they submit questions?
• 1:56:41
  SPEAKER_00: They submit a story and then we tell them if they're bugging or not.
• 1:56:44
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, so I think I think this one's gonna be interesting.
• 1:56:46
  SPEAKER_06: I'm gonna make sure I say no names because I feel like the person that told me this story, uh, the person they told me this story of is is definitely a listener, and he'll he'll be able to figure out that uh this it's about him.
• 1:57:00
  SPEAKER_06: I'm not trying to ruin any friendships.
• 1:57:02
  SPEAKER_06: But anyway, uh I'm not gonna go into too much detail with the story because I heard the story yesterday, but the gist of the story, the out of gas, the out of gas story this week is basically a guy, a friend of somebody, a friend of a friend of the show, he has a friend that uh he has a child, but he's no longer with the mother uh of the child.
• 1:57:28
  SPEAKER_06: So he moved on to his next relationship where he dates this next girl, and she has uh a daughter, I believe.
• 1:57:37
  SPEAKER_06: Um a young daughter, like maybe let's say under the age of two.
• 1:57:42
  SPEAKER_06: So in the process of dating this new girl, he is somewhat became uh a deadbeat to his uh his actual biological child.
• 1:57:53
  SPEAKER_06: With that being said, the friend, his friend, the friend of the show, he's basically stuck in a position where he's like, Yo, I don't know if I should be friends with you or not, because you play in house somewhere else when you actually have a biological child and you not handling your responsibilities.
• 1:58:14
  SPEAKER_06: There's a bunch of other deadbeat shit going on, like not paying for certain shit, uh not working.
• 1:58:21
  SPEAKER_06: Uh so basically he's just like, yo, I'm at the point where I'm like, yo, I'm gonna just be like, yo, I ain't trying to talk to this nigga, I ain't trying to be friends with this guy no more.
• 1:58:31
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know if I, you know, should tell him that I don't want to be his friend no more, or I should just be like, yo, fuck it.
• 1:58:37
  SPEAKER_06: I ain't gonna speak to him ever again, type shit.
• 1:58:40
  SPEAKER_06: Uh which which I think about the situation.
• 1:58:43
  SPEAKER_00: So the the Debbie nigga don't got a job?
• 1:58:45
  SPEAKER_01: Not that I know of.
• 1:58:46
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah, that nigga just a bum ass nigga.
• 1:58:48
  SPEAKER_00: Irish exit, you heard that's my number one rule.
• 1:58:50
  SPEAKER_00: Irish exit.
• 1:58:52
  SPEAKER_00: You stop fucking with him.
• 1:58:53
  SPEAKER_00: Don't get the message.
• 1:58:54
  SPEAKER_00: That's it.
• 1:58:55
  SPEAKER_00: He'll be like, yo, bro, uh, nah, nigga.
• 1:58:58
  SPEAKER_00: It's over.
• 1:59:00
  SPEAKER_05: I agree.
• 1:59:01
  SPEAKER_05: Um, I just think that maybe it's good to tell him something.
• 1:59:04
  SPEAKER_05: Maybe you, if you're a real close friend to him and he values your friendship, whatever, even though he showed he clearly don't value his kids for you.
• 1:59:10
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that nigga don't value nothing.
• 1:59:11
  SPEAKER_05: But yeah, in the hopes that he maybe has a little value for y'all friendship, maybe you telling him that, like, yo, I love you, but I can't fuck with you because you on bullshit, and then maybe it could be like, damn, like I'm I'm a like I should change my ways.
• 1:59:24
  SPEAKER_05: Like, this is some real foul shit.
• 1:59:25
  SPEAKER_05: If I'm losing friends from 10, 15 years, that you know, so it could influence him to change, but yeah, it's it's over.
• 1:59:33
  SPEAKER_00: Yo, do what the nigga did from last week.
• 1:59:35
  SPEAKER_00: Fuck that nigga baby mom.
• 1:59:37
  SPEAKER_00: She split on you and you're gonna deny the pussy.
• 1:59:39
  SPEAKER_00: It's like last night.
• 1:59:40
  SPEAKER_05: That would be crazy as hell, man.
• 1:59:42
  SPEAKER_05: Lappen.
• 1:59:42
  SPEAKER_00: Somebody gotta take care of the kid.
• 1:59:43
  SPEAKER_00: But if I'm gonna take care of your kid, I gotta rip too.
• 1:59:45
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, but I'm not really in a dial over your kid.
• 1:59:47
  SPEAKER_05: That nigga fucking crash out over there, and it's like to teach you a lesson, I'm gonna take it.
• 1:59:51
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, like, yeah, like, come on, man.
• 1:59:53
  SPEAKER_05: But um, but yeah, I I'm not with that.
• 1:59:55
  SPEAKER_05: Like, guys who or girls who, but mainly, you know, we mainly have guy friends, but that be on that just live foul.
• 2:00:02
  SPEAKER_06: You know, like I feel like a lot of times, like when I was hearing this story, I was like, I actually feel like I've I've heard a situation like this before.
• 2:00:10
  SPEAKER_06: I feel like a lot of times niggas be having children with these women only because they love the women.
• 2:00:19
  SPEAKER_06: Like, they don't they they they try to keep the woman by having a child with the woman.
• 2:00:29
  SPEAKER_06: And then when the time goes where they don't have the they don't have the woman anymore, they just start acting like weird.
• 2:00:35
  SPEAKER_06: And like when I when I was thinking about that shit the other day, I'm like, yo, it's crazy how I really pride myself on being like a man's man.
• 2:00:43
  SPEAKER_06: Like I really feel like emotion-wise, I have it in check.
• 2:00:47
  SPEAKER_06: Financial-wise, obviously I could build on that, but like I work, I'm you know, I don't ask nobody for no no money.
• 2:00:54
  SPEAKER_06: Like, I I really try to be a man.
• 2:00:56
  SPEAKER_06: So when I be hearing niggas do shit or kind of like move off of emotions or don't handle responsibilities, especially because maybe they don't have the woman anymore.
• 2:01:07
  SPEAKER_06: And I'm just like, how the fuck do you like how the fuck could you live with yourself?
• 2:01:12
  SPEAKER_06: Like I don't I don't I don't know that that shit really had me like really like I couldn't even come up with an explanation like how niggas could like really wake up the next morning and be like, yeah, nah, I have a child in this world, or even responsibility.
• 2:01:24
  SPEAKER_06: Fuck fuck having a child.
• 2:01:25
  SPEAKER_06: Let's imagine you having rent and you just literally on some like yeah, I'm I'm not gonna handle this.
• 2:01:30
  SPEAKER_06: Like how the fuck how the fuck do you wake up in the morning and be like, yeah, I'm just I'm gonna just let this shit figure itself out.
• 2:01:39
  SPEAKER_06: Like, how the fuck do you do that?
• 2:01:41
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know, man.
• 2:01:42
  SPEAKER_06: Uh I was maybe helpers.
• 2:01:43
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know.
• 2:01:44
  SPEAKER_06: I know you guys are responsible men, so you guys probably couldn't even come up with a reason either, but I need to speak to somebody on how the fuck do you I don't I don't get it.
• 2:01:53
  SPEAKER_05: I think it's just people's brains work different.
• 2:01:55
  SPEAKER_05: Right, that's what it has to be.
• 2:01:57
  SPEAKER_05: You you find a peace in it, or like you just uh suppress it.
• 2:02:02
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know, like, or people's emotions be so overpowering that they it overpowers the logic and the right thing, you know.
• 2:02:09
  SPEAKER_05: Like it's like because you so upset at her, or whatever the case is, like it overpowers all yeah, whatever everything.
• 2:02:16
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, how old is this nigga?
• 2:02:17
  SPEAKER_01: Let's say got it, let's let's say 30, at least 30.
• 2:02:21
  SPEAKER_01: This is what I was saying last week, I think.
• 2:02:23
  SPEAKER_00: It's different being a broke nigga and being a bum ass nigga.
• 2:02:26
  SPEAKER_00: That nigga bum ass nigga.
• 2:02:30
  SPEAKER_05: Bro, a guy just killed and got convicted for killing his five-year-old son by drowning him in a bucket of detergent and then attempting to murder the wife or the or the girlfriend, or baby mama.
• 2:02:40
  SPEAKER_05: Right.
• 2:02:40
  SPEAKER_05: Like, it's like you would think, like, how do you even know?
• 2:02:44
  SPEAKER_05: It's just people be dumb.
• 2:02:45
  SPEAKER_00: Those emotions, man, the anger that should be in a bucket of detergent, that's a crazy death.
• 2:02:50
  SPEAKER_05: And uh, and again, it is I mean, I know I'm not to because I know white people are doing the same shit, but then is it was a black guy, the same nigga threw the baby over the Bronx River.
• 2:02:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:02:59
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, be looking crazy.
• 2:03:02
  SPEAKER_05: Nah, it's definitely because our community don't teach each other like emotional intelligence.
• 2:03:09
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:03:09
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying?
• 2:03:10
  SPEAKER_05: Like, and everything is we teach each other how to fight before we teach each other how to how to communicate.
• 2:03:15
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:03:16
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying?
• 2:03:16
  SPEAKER_05: Like, if a nigga get disrespectful, hit him in his shit.
• 2:03:19
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:03:19
  SPEAKER_05: Instead of if he gets disrespectful, find a way to like you know, yeah, like come to a commune.
• 2:03:23
  SPEAKER_05: Still, I'm gonna teach you how to fight, but like that shouldn't be the second that shouldn't even be the first or second option.
• 2:03:27
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:03:28
  SPEAKER_05: You know, one could be avoid like get in the way.
• 2:03:30
  SPEAKER_05: People think, oh, you run away, you pussy.
• 2:03:32
  SPEAKER_05: No, like you you want to fight this nigga, especially if he's starting to fight with you, he's this is you at his home part.
• 2:03:37
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:03:38
  SPEAKER_05: When a nigga start a fight with you, that is a bad spot to be in.
• 2:03:41
  SPEAKER_05: Because you don't know what his intent is, you don't know what he got behind his back.
• 2:03:44
  SPEAKER_06: You ain't Yeah, like yeah, nah, niggas, niggas is crazy.
• 2:03:48
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas, niggas will will fight a nigga off of the the nigga's opinion of the person, right?
• 2:03:57
  SPEAKER_06: But this the same nigga would not care about what his child thinks about him.
• 2:04:02
  SPEAKER_06: That's crazy.
• 2:04:03
  SPEAKER_06: Like when you really think about it, like a nigga really would be like, yo, you it'll really approach a man and be like, yo, you think I'm a bitch, and fight that nigga.
• 2:04:10
  SPEAKER_06: But your child is like, yo, my father doesn't care about me, and that shit doesn't move you at all.
• 2:04:16
  SPEAKER_06: Like, I don't, I don't get it.
• 2:04:18
  SPEAKER_06: I don't get it.
• 2:04:18
  SPEAKER_06: I don't get it.
• 2:04:19
  SPEAKER_01: How old is the how old is this a biological kid?
• 2:04:22
  SPEAKER_06: Uh let's say like eight.
• 2:04:25
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no, no, no.
• 2:04:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, like eight, yeah, yeah.
• 2:04:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, your kid, your kid don't fuck with you, my nigga.
• 2:04:29
  SPEAKER_00: It's over.
• 2:04:31
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 2:04:32
  SPEAKER_00: Because is it like the baby mother have he had problems with baby mom?
• 2:04:35
  SPEAKER_06: Nah, as far as I know, him and a baby mom, they was really cool.
• 2:04:40
  SPEAKER_06: It wasn't one of those situations where they just had a kid out of a one night.
• 2:04:44
  SPEAKER_06: They was together at one point.
• 2:04:46
  SPEAKER_06: They were together for a long period of time.
• 2:04:49
  SPEAKER_06: She, like you said, he kind of been on some bum ass nigga shit.
• 2:04:53
  SPEAKER_06: She got she's she was done with him.
• 2:04:56
  SPEAKER_06: She moved on, he moved on, and the nigga just still on the same path of like.
• 2:05:01
  SPEAKER_00: But I'm saying, like, is it a pro like with his baby?
• 2:05:03
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, like now, they they they they they they they were still cool up until like just the recently with the whole, you know, he got a new baby, a new girl, that and that he's basically playing house over there and not handling his responsibilities without the child.
• 2:05:19
  SPEAKER_06: Not not with them, not with the mother.
• 2:05:21
  SPEAKER_06: She's fine with like not receiving anything from him.
• 2:05:24
  SPEAKER_06: But the child, he's not like, you know, he's basically treating his new situation as if that's his only situation.
• 2:05:33
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's crazy.
• 2:05:34
  SPEAKER_00: I I don't even know if I could even really form a real connection with the product of another nigga's nut as opposed to my own.
• 2:05:43
  SPEAKER_00: Like, like I don't think I can think of is like if his baby mom is giving him problems about being around his kid and shit like that.
• 2:05:48
  SPEAKER_00: But if if that's not even an issue, then it's like, nigga, what the fuck?
• 2:05:52
  SPEAKER_00: You think that you think the other kid looked better than your kid?
• 2:05:55
  SPEAKER_00: That's what's going on.
• 2:05:55
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, that's like I don't, but see, that's that's why I think niggas really just be loving the woman.
• 2:06:00
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas love the woman, yeah.
• 2:06:01
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, and that's where his mind is.
• 2:06:03
  SPEAKER_06: I really feel like a lot a lot of niggas be moving like that.
• 2:06:06
  SPEAKER_06: Because that's not even the first time I heard of some shit like that.
• 2:06:08
  SPEAKER_06: Niggas be moving on to another situation, regardless of how the past ended, and they knew situation, just they that's all niggas see.
• 2:06:17
  SPEAKER_06: Like, this is this is my life now.
• 2:06:20
  SPEAKER_05: Another side of that coin that doesn't get spoken of enough, even though being the deadby is trash and everything y'all said, there's a lot of because uh when the man is a deadby, it's it's more visual.
• 2:06:34
  SPEAKER_05: He's usually not around or not paying or not, whatever the case is, and that is 100% deadbeat behavior.
• 2:06:40
  SPEAKER_05: But then there's also the mom deadbeat who's lives with the kid, who treats the kid like shit because it looks like the dad, or or isn't attentive, or leaves him with the grandma all day, or even if the dad is a piece of shit, talk shit about the dad.
• 2:06:54
  SPEAKER_05: So it's like you not a cool mom, and you tell me my like it could be a good thing.
• 2:06:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, nah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:07:00
  SPEAKER_05: It could uh the single mom being a single mom is terrible and hard as fuck.
• 2:07:09
  SPEAKER_05: I have people in my family who are, but I'm just saying, like, there are times where the mom is the problem.
• 2:07:14
  SPEAKER_06: The problem, yeah.
• 2:07:15
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, I I I I would definitely agree.
• 2:07:17
  SPEAKER_06: Like, I I wouldn't I wouldn't.
• 2:07:19
  SPEAKER_05: He's a bum.
• 2:07:20
  SPEAKER_05: He's a bum.
• 2:07:22
  SPEAKER_06: Bum ass nigga, man.
• 2:07:24
  SPEAKER_06: Damn, man.
• 2:07:24
  SPEAKER_06: So that nigga's out of gas.
• 2:07:28
  SPEAKER_05: I was watching, I was watching the join jada podcast.
• 2:07:30
  SPEAKER_05: He they were talking about the gook off the bottom of the dumpster.
• 2:07:33
  SPEAKER_05: That's the type of bum he is.
• 2:07:35
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 2:07:36
  SPEAKER_06: Damn, man.
• 2:07:37
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 2:07:38
  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to say how nigga get how nigga, I don't know.
• 2:07:41
  SPEAKER_00: Dude, a nigga don't got no job.
• 2:07:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm assuming he don't really have no income either.
• 2:07:45
  SPEAKER_06: How you how you get it?
• 2:07:46
  SPEAKER_05: I feel like I yo, bro, you know how the universe won, bro.
• 2:07:49
  SPEAKER_05: I think that has to be a mental issue.
• 2:07:51
  SPEAKER_05: And two, I also think that there were signs that she that she ignored.
• 2:07:55
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, it has it has to be.
• 2:07:57
  SPEAKER_06: It has to be.
• 2:07:58
  SPEAKER_05: Girls know exactly the mandate with.
• 2:08:00
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:08:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but I'm thinking about the next girl.
• 2:08:02
  SPEAKER_00: Like, how did you even She probably ain't know?
• 2:08:05
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, you gotta know something.
• 2:08:06
  SPEAKER_00: You don't think they gotta kill it?
• 2:08:08
  SPEAKER_00: Because I mean, it's no, it's never too late to cut ties.
• 2:08:10
  SPEAKER_06: It really be somebody for everybody, even if it ain't forever, it really be like, come on, bro.
• 2:08:17
  SPEAKER_06: You know, I'm telling you, bro.
• 2:08:19
  SPEAKER_05: And I I do think you should judge people sometimes by their spouse.
• 2:08:23
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, a hundred percent.
• 2:08:24
  SPEAKER_05: The guy the girl that's with him is probably just as nutty in another way.
• 2:08:28
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:08:28
  SPEAKER_05: Like, she if she knows and she's witnessing and cool with it, she has her own mental issue.
• 2:08:33
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, just like him.
• 2:08:34
  SPEAKER_05: Just in a way, like maybe a pussy stink.
• 2:08:37
  SPEAKER_06: Damn.
• 2:08:37
  SPEAKER_06: Uh that's not really like the worst thing, though.
• 2:08:40
  SPEAKER_06: Like, it's like uh that's pretty bad, but like that's not a mental issue in a heat wave, and that could be that could be a mental issue, though.
• 2:08:48
  SPEAKER_00: A stink pussy could be you're not taking care of yourself, there's something else going on.
• 2:08:53
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, okay.
• 2:08:54
  SPEAKER_06: I see the connection there.
• 2:08:55
  SPEAKER_05: What if the man is not healthy and he's throwing up the pH?
• 2:08:59
  SPEAKER_05: Why you fucking with a dirty nigga?
• 2:09:01
  SPEAKER_05: That's that's mental issue.
• 2:09:02
  SPEAKER_05: He's just like McDonald's and shit.
• 2:09:04
  SPEAKER_00: I don't throw unless he's done in you, but uh nigga don't wash his dick.
• 2:09:09
  SPEAKER_01: You know what we do.
• 2:09:10
  SPEAKER_01: What y'all doing?
• 2:09:12
  SPEAKER_01: What that means?
• 2:09:13
  SPEAKER_04: What's he talking about?
• 2:09:14
  SPEAKER_04: First of all, pause.
• 2:09:15
  SPEAKER_04: I don't know what the hell we do.
• 2:09:18
  SPEAKER_04: This is fucking now.
• 2:09:19
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:09:20
  SPEAKER_04: Well, we know we do.
• 2:09:22
  SPEAKER_05: Father's day.
• 2:09:23
  SPEAKER_05: We know what you're doing.
• 2:09:23
  SPEAKER_05: What I do.
• 2:09:24
  SPEAKER_05: We talk about nothing and oh we talking about that.
• 2:09:26
  SPEAKER_05: My bad.
• 2:09:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that could fuck up a girl's page bound no matter what.
• 2:09:30
  SPEAKER_00: That's just that's just life.
• 2:09:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 2:09:32
  SPEAKER_00: But speaking of judging, it's probably gonna be a last thing.
• 2:09:36
  SPEAKER_00: This major judging somebody off their spouse.
• 2:09:39
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna lie, when I be seeing, and this is because of of careful research I've done with a few anecdotal examples.
• 2:09:46
  SPEAKER_00: Um when you see a a nigga that's like good looking, and then he got a girl that looks fucking crazy.
• 2:09:54
  SPEAKER_01: I'm I feel I might disagree with you on this.
• 2:09:56
  SPEAKER_01: Let's just say this.
• 2:09:58
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not a big proponent of calling niggas gay, but that there's been a lot of situations where where that's the case.
• 2:10:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like that's that girl is just a beard.
• 2:10:06
  SPEAKER_00: And then you like you feel me?
• 2:10:09
  SPEAKER_06: So that nigga fucking with that girl is just a front.
• 2:10:17
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like that about certain black, certain type of black niggas that fuck with white women too.
• 2:10:23
  SPEAKER_00: Elaborate.
• 2:10:24
  SPEAKER_00: Like it'll be like I was watching uh um a TikTok of this girl break it down too, because on Love Island, there's a nigga.
• 2:10:35
  SPEAKER_06: I feel like Love Island and all those shows, them reality shows, is really hard to base your opinion on, or is that it's not fair to base your opinion on because they not putting a lot of black women on them shows.
• 2:10:48
  SPEAKER_06: No, no, no, no, no.
• 2:10:49
  SPEAKER_06: That's not that's not the point.
• 2:10:50
  SPEAKER_06: That's not the point, okay.
• 2:10:51
  SPEAKER_00: There's a nigga on a show, and I don't watch the show, but the clips I've seen, I'm like, yo, this nigga flay.
• 2:10:56
  SPEAKER_00: And and um the girl was saying that a lot of black guys that are like down low, they fuck with white women because white women don't perceive men the same way that black women perceive men.
• 2:11:11
  SPEAKER_00: Like black men are supposed to be like masculine and blah blah blah.
• 2:11:16
  SPEAKER_00: So when as soon as they show you a feminine side, that's like a negatively feminine, not like feminine, like you take care of herself, but feminine like that's like weird for you to like react like that.
• 2:11:26
  SPEAKER_00: White women don't they don't have that same because at the end of the day, black men are the most masculine type of men.
• 2:11:31
  SPEAKER_00: Like that's how we're portrayed, that's how people perceive us.
• 2:11:34
  SPEAKER_00: So white women not looking at the black man to be the most masculine type of guy.
• 2:11:38
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I see what you're saying, yeah.
• 2:11:39
  SPEAKER_00: So when they do like weird shit, they like, oh, that's just him.
• 2:11:42
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, yeah, that's a fact.
• 2:11:44
  SPEAKER_05: Um, I mean, I don't know if the I don't know if that's always a beard.
• 2:11:48
  SPEAKER_05: It could just be, you know, like a coincidence.
• 2:11:51
  SPEAKER_05: But you know, that that does exist the beards.
• 2:11:55
  SPEAKER_06: At first I kind of didn't agree with you, but I kinda could see I could see.
• 2:12:00
  SPEAKER_06: the connection that would be pretty crazy if niggas is on your move.
• 2:12:04
  SPEAKER_05: But that is also a conversation that men can't be in tune with their feminine side or with black women.
• 2:12:12
  SPEAKER_05: Hell no.
• 2:12:13
  SPEAKER_06: And that I mean not not only with black women.
• 2:12:18
  SPEAKER_06: But yeah.
• 2:12:18
  SPEAKER_06: They they do believe in the charge in that.
• 2:12:21
  SPEAKER_06: They do believe in the charge of that.
• 2:12:22
  SPEAKER_06: You know?
• 2:12:24
  SPEAKER_05: And I think I think that we don't uh we don't let we don't make men feel comfortable knowing that you could be you could have a feminine side you could be in tune with it you could uh be sensitive and all that because as soon as there's a a sensitive moment or a feminine moment it's like oh is he gay is he this and it's just like no he's just a human that has the same emotions you have.
• 2:12:53
  SPEAKER_00: Like you know he can be jealous he could be insecure he could need words of affirmation some the same way girls he don't tell me I'm pretty he don't niggas want to hear that too like yo tell me I look good today tell me I smell good tell me when the fuck whatever like yeah so but if if you do if you complain about that it's like oh you trying to be a baddie or you you trying to compete with girls like why y'all need to be complimented it's like come on telling bro women are bullies man yeah because it's like um I'm I I've been watching Survival My Girl and there's one of the seasons where this is white nigga and he cries all the time like he's some little white boy he's like in a band and shit and he just cry all over everything he be having panic attacks in the middle of the night and niggas be having to soothe him and all type of shit and I never thought he was gay I was like that's just some white nigga but if there was a black guy that was doing the same shit I was like alright this nigga's clearly flick there's something going on and that's that's a flawed R.
• 2:13:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah but I think that if you do anything that I would refer to as bitch ass well damn that'd be offensive if I said that but I already alluded to it like that if you do enough bitch ass things niggas gonna start raising questions about your sexuality and that's wrong to to believe it.
• 2:14:08
  SPEAKER_05: But there's a lot of straight straight niggas that do bitch ass shit.
• 2:14:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah that's what I'm saying.
• 2:14:12
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying?
• 2:14:14
  SPEAKER_06: But yeah what would you what would you say is an example of uh two or three bitch ass things that would start to be like alright what's good with him to make me think he's gay or just to be like or yeah whatever you said questioning sexuality whatever that would make crying a lot like crying over everything throwing like hissy fits a lot um okay that's all I can think of the top of my head like about their personality that would make me think like that because it's like a hissy fit like they just throw a tantrum okay like something doesn't go your way and you throw in a tantrum look at it's like nigga what the fuck I'm like yeah like what the fuck like you know I'm not even gonna say it forget it you be no jam was John will if I said John there'll be a moment where John was like oh I'm getting uncomfortable I'm getting uncomfortable we could talk about him you're not here he's not gonna say if I say I'll say that nah you're men so you used to do shit like that all the time oh yeah nah nah it but see also sometimes yeah I feel like a lot of times though niggas niggas be raised by women I was raised by a woman that is true but we say this every we we we mentioned something once a week that you be like oh yeah no I deal with that hey but you're not like the you're not the rule you're the exception because I I was raised by a woman but there's a lot of niggas that's raised by women that they talk a little different they act a little different I'm not saying that they get like low baby son exactly like it's just the way that it comes off they they act like their mother that you are a product of your environment it don't matter what your environment is if your environment is a lot of women you will be a product of that environment that's you know what I'm saying which is why they look at uh like Prince who's a loving hip hop I don't know if he's gay or not but oh yeah yeah I don't know he's very whatever the word is and he to this day denies it but it could be it's just a product of environment in Miami Bad bitches family whatever you might turn in you might have a little whatever a little sass to you there's nothing wrong being a little sassy man you got a little sassy uh uh cash no well yeah yeah of course well yeah I'm not the I'm not the most manly nigga I'm not the most masculine nigga and I don't care you cry your girl seen you cry have she seen me cry in my lifetime yeah aside from when you got down on the knee no I didn't cry that day I was about to say that may be a little flavor crying on the nigga you proposed you seen the video of the nigga you seen the video of the nigga in the restaurant and he was opposed to his girl he's like everybody in the look was looking at like what's wrong with this nigga yeah that's a little crazy I mean I get it it's definitely a moment but like I I I can't imagine myself crying while proposing like I feel like that would take away from the moment that makes it about you then you can do like a tear I'd rather tear during the proposal than tear during the vows I would rather I would rather I don't want to be up there crying like it's like yeah because they had a talk too crying maybe like a couple tiers a three tier minimum I feel like maximum I feel you have to be very I don't know maybe I maybe I have to get to that point but it's like so much you're just looking at them at this at the altar but it's so much going on in the room like I don't even got the I can't even focus on being emotional because it's like you know people taking pictures and this like you thinking so it's like when people you're up there crying they'd be like yo you really like into it yeah I think that's what happens because I ain't gonna lie this I never told the story before but when when uh my girl was uh when the baby finally came out I was I was fine up until the point where like he literally was coming out and a tear came out like two three tears came out I nigga never in my life I'm thinking it's so dependent bro but not but nah this is why I want to paint the picture for niggas that's why I think with the with the wedding thing I think it it's is like what you said like yeah so much going on because nigga birth so much is going on but like when you I think when you actually like you said when you in the moment you like oh nah this shit is like real maybe so I think that I think that's what happens but like yeah that boohoo and shit that's crazy yeah I don't but yeah no I don't and that's why I say women they gotta make niggas feel comfortable doing that because I mean that moment at first the first thing was like I can't let none of these people see me it was fucking nurse it was a room full of women so I'm just like I can't let none of these people see me and then when like when the moment happens when everybody realizes that you got a couple of tears in all you like nah you gotta embrace this shit so that so that girl saying the vows and the it got to the for rich or for poor report and she was kind of like she's like yes I do like it was I'm like man that's crazy.
• 2:19:00
  SPEAKER_06: So you watch you watch your girl like the baby come out yeah that shit is yeah that shit is an experience I ain't gonna lie to you that shit that shit is the experience I've watched mad videos like that like I'm different I never that was the first time I ever seen or nah a lot uh one time on Twitter I seen a birth but yeah but nigga said I seen videos yeah I seen mad videos like that yeah but would you are you gonna watch yeah why not yeah you gotta say in front and center like like really like be right next to the doctor some some guys don't want to see the vagina like that yeah because I was thinking like is that making you gonna not want to rip no not at all wanted to rip that same day wanted to rip the day before and the day after yeah I may need a break if I see it like trust me yeah trust me you're not you're not so did y'all wait the six weeks hell no what is the six weeks for apparently it besides the healing um their guts gotta get rearranged back or some shit nah uh they're very also it's very important they're very um still fertile so you the uh part of it is healing but most part is that uh I'm not really that great with anatomy but it's still very open so obviously when you inside there you could easily get her pregnant again that's bad it's not the best thing but like could that nah nah nah nah it should be perfectly fine but like mind you everything is nigga everything is fucking still healing so at that point now you have a baby about to start being made again like during the healing process I'm pretty sure that's not ideal but I'm not a doctor.
• 2:20:39
  SPEAKER_05: That sounds ideal.
• 2:20:40
  SPEAKER_00: If you want two kids nah because I feel like your body has to readjust yeah like so if it's readjusting and then it has to build I guess because then just like I feel I don't know.
• 2:20:50
  SPEAKER_05: It's like yeah I feel like it's a lot of counteracting going on if that's the case then I mean the way the body was made you shouldn't be fertile at that moment if it's not ready to I just think because it's like as open I remember it was something as good so I this is this it can you after your girl have birth right how long did you wait before you had sex again?
• 2:21:12
  SPEAKER_06: Uh let's say roughly like as soon as the the bleeding stopped because she continues bleeding it was a natural birth uh no we went to the hospital no I'm saying oh like yeah but I mean you know because I was I was thinking about the natural birth shit uh but no I'm saying was it the C section birth yeah yeah yeah but I was also thinking about the whole yeah no we're gonna go to the doing in the kitty pool yeah it's shit like that but yeah we changed our mind but um she bleeds I think for like two weeks as soon as that stops you really could get back to it so if you if you the day that it stopped bleeding right back at it if you if you take the finger like that you could look inside and see I didn't I didn't do that but yeah like yeah I I didn't do that I'm not gonna do this we already yeah facts yeah but I ain't gonna the snatch but the snap back is like is like I ain't gonna lie it felt even tighter yeah it felt even yeah so yeah the human body's amazing man like yeah it feels like could you just do that of course you probably yeah you could because that's not bleeding but some girls butt but oh ripped open rips open when they give birth yeah luckily never we didn't have that issue but I I so when the baby got to the to the place where they do the the um circumcision and all I did do the little test to make sure everything's fine there was another gentleman next to me he was like yo my girl was in here for two days before she even gave birth so I'm pretty sure that like luckily it really only took about six hours oh yeah that nigga Bills is crazy yeah facts they was probably giving a whole bunch of shit but I'm pretty like depending on your experience you probably don't want to go back in there so soon but like I said my my experience wasn't too bad so I was like talk talk about sex right this because the question just popped up who is the dominant person in this who is the dominant person in an oral sex situation the person given oral or the person receiving oral who is who is the person in charge or in power or dominating the other person I would say uh the person receiver is the dominant party yeah because what you I was about to say what I was gonna say was usually niggas when they ask a question like that they're trying to think if it's more gay for you to suck a dick or get your dick sucked by a nigga.
• 2:23:38
  SPEAKER_05: No no no I'm talking about between uh heterosexuals okay situation the the nigga getting the nigga getting head is the is the dominant one yeah okay so the guy squirming uncontrollably can't like doing all these things is the dominant one but the person in control of all these emotions and powers and if you nut or not other I I see what you I see what you getting at.
• 2:24:01
  SPEAKER_06: You don't gotta squirm I see what you getting at because it's it's like I kind of look at it from this perspective if uh if if if I found out my girl was cheating and I found out she gave head I would look at it as the nigga con uh conquered my woman because of the how it looks yeah so but when you're saying in if if it's between me and my girl and like she's squirming and she's about and I'm in control of her orgasm I do see the the point that you're getting there and that's that's actually an interesting take and that and that's the same thing on the other side when she's giving and causing your orgasm she is empowering that shit because because let her stop baby no no no keep going keep going keep going I actually I guess that makes it worse if you bring it back to my thought of it like if she shorty's cheating on you it's like damn this this bitch fucking copy this man.
• 2:24:57
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah that's pretty crazy.
• 2:24:59
  SPEAKER_05: Damn you kind of changed my perspective on the real I think in sex there's there is even in heterosexual situations there is a a dominant and a yeah yeah like I feel like when she's riding you she's the dominant party I feel like when you missionary or hitting it from the back you probably like y'all y'all into change dominance in that way.
• 2:25:18
  SPEAKER_00: You know maybe you should think about it like who could kill who easiest in this situation.
• 2:25:23
  SPEAKER_00: Like literally kill yeah like if she if she's a dominant one when she's riding you she could kill you because she can choke you from the bottom like you in the bottom getting choked out.
• 2:25:31
  SPEAKER_00: If you're fucking it from the back you could put in a full Nelson.
• 2:25:35
  SPEAKER_05: That's pretty interesting okay is a at a time that's why I say I'm the dominant one if I'm getting my dick sucked because you could say she could buy my dick off but niggas not buying dicks up yeah but my dick is your mouth I could yeah and punch in the back of your head but now we getting I'm just talking about act like I know you could you could force her to do all that because she could nigga she could grab your dreads while you're eating it and do some shit.
• 2:25:57
  SPEAKER_05: You know what I'm saying like so the girls be holding your head don't move stay right there they be you know all that shit is extra I'm just saying just the act itself I think the person given is the dominant one.
• 2:26:09
  SPEAKER_06: Now I feel like you actually being like you actually being more submissive in the given head situation.
• 2:26:17
  SPEAKER_06: Even though you are in control of the orgasm you really are putting yourself in a position to be to be used to reach that orgasm.
• 2:26:30
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah type shit for real so are you the submissive one eating pussy yeah yeah because I mean at the end of the day let's say even though you doing your thing she may coach you in the sense of saying like don't stop right that's her you know her giving you directions so I would assume she's the one like running the show even though obviously you like you could stop and fuck her whole shit up or you could do whatever you do to get her there but if she's like yeah nah that's it that's the spot that or do this my thing is that I my what I'm doing is the is the pop is is what's causing anything if I stop it all stops.
• 2:27:14
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah yeah yeah so that's why I feel like I'm holding the the the pop but I feel you you that that is a good it's no right answer.
• 2:27:20
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah that's what I feel like because I think that's a good way to look at it when you when you are the one handling business that's a great way to look at it because you you you running this shit you making this shit go.
• 2:27:33
  SPEAKER_05: But I think on outside looking in it kind of I I would look at it like once y'all get past the point where you got a culture because that's in the beginning once she knows your man you know exactly his spots what to do you ain't got a coach no more she gonna make you not like that that is um that's interesting given your mom gonna like this part huh ask some questions about it because because then if you take it to the other way what about who's the dominant one between two girls eating each other up or two niggas.
• 2:28:01
  SPEAKER_00: Like it then it gets you know what I'm saying because I just if you take the gender out of it someone has to be the dominant one somebody yeah yeah because I think the one that got something in your mouth is a submissive one.
• 2:28:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 2:28:11
  SPEAKER_05: Because a girl could sit on your face and she could kill you so are you the are you the is she the dominant one when she's sitting on your face?
• 2:28:20
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 2:28:22
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• 2:28:33
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• 2:28:44
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