Latest / Eating While Broke / DOUG MELVILLE - A Come-Up Served Over Rice (pt. 2)
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- 0:12Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of Eating While Broke. I'm
- 0:16Speaker 1: your host, Coleen Witt, and today we're continuing my conversation
- 0:19Speaker 1: with author, speaker, and storyteller Doug Melville. Without further ado,
- 0:24Speaker 1: let's get back to the kitchen. What I also find
- 0:28Speaker 1: interesting is very early on your first couch visit with
- 0:31Speaker 1: your well technically yeah, your first couch visit with your dad,
- 0:36Speaker 1: one of the things that you said that stood out
- 0:38Speaker 1: was the job comment to your father, the just above
- 0:41Speaker 1: being broke, just over, just over broke. Where did you
- 0:45Speaker 1: pick up that line from?
- 0:47Speaker 2: I don't know exactly where I picked it up, but
- 0:49Speaker 2: it's very important to know that when you pay for
- 0:51Speaker 2: an education, you should be investing in your career. But
- 0:55Speaker 2: people in interchange the word job and career, but job
- 0:59Speaker 2: stands for just overbroke. You could pay for your expenses, and.
- 1:02Speaker 1: That's why they kept saying, John, and you were like, who.
- 1:04Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, because you know, when you have nothing,
- 1:07Speaker 2: your parents are like, just get something, Anything's better than nothing.
- 1:11Speaker 2: But my argument is no, anything is not better than nothing.
- 1:14Speaker 1: I love you for that. Now, Okay, so you finish
- 1:18Speaker 1: the tours, you start your own agency where along Now
- 1:23Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a guess. Forbes comes up next.
- 1:25Speaker 2: No. After I started, you know, working with those entertainers
- 1:30Speaker 2: and having my own marketing company, I get a call
- 1:35Speaker 2: from a friend of a friend who works with Magic Johnson.
- 1:40Speaker 2: And my superpower was writing business plans that you're able
- 1:44Speaker 2: to just you know, draft and then send to people.
- 1:47Speaker 2: So I would read the trades and be able to
- 1:50Speaker 2: draft business plans to people, and people be like, man,
- 1:52Speaker 2: these business that's the trade trade magazines like it would
- 1:55Speaker 2: be like, oh blah blah blahs partnered with so and
- 1:58Speaker 2: so and so to on a new project. So I
- 2:02Speaker 2: would read that and I would just find out who
- 2:04Speaker 2: their agent was or manager, and I would say, Hey,
- 2:06Speaker 2: just read this story about what you were building. Here's
- 2:09Speaker 2: a full business plan. It's like thirty pages. I'm going
- 2:12Speaker 2: to Kinko's. I'm putting them in the machine to be laminated,
- 2:16Speaker 2: and I'm mailing them out all over the United States.
- 2:20Speaker 2: And all I get are doing this on your own
- 2:22Speaker 2: for free?
- 2:23Speaker 1: Wait, and why were you doing this.
- 2:25Speaker 2: Just to practice being better at my craft?
- 2:27Speaker 1: I love this interview. I love this interview. I can't I'm.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Mailing them no to be that much better? Listen once
- 2:35Speaker 2: the rice doesn't look like the shape of the container.
- 2:37Speaker 2: I know we've made it. Okay, we're eating while middle.
- 2:40Speaker 1: We want to check on the chicken parmesan, just see
- 2:44Speaker 1: if the sauce is bubbling.
- 2:46Speaker 2: So so I start writing these business plans and I
- 2:50Speaker 2: get the same letter in the mail from everybody. No, unsolicited, rejected, rejected, rejected.
- 2:55Speaker 1: Did they actually read them?
- 2:57Speaker 2: I don't know. It just got like that's a lot.
- 2:59Speaker 1: Of work to get rejected.
- 3:00Speaker 2: Business plans are hard, exactly.
- 3:02Speaker 1: And this is before AI, guys, because trust me, hey,
- 3:04Speaker 1: I would have banged out some bangers.
- 3:07Speaker 2: No, this was real business plan.
- 3:09Speaker 1: I know because I've written them, and they are not easy.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Do you start just I'm just curious, do you start
- 3:14Speaker 1: from the back because I feel no, he's from the top.
- 3:17Speaker 1: I start from the top and then I go to
- 3:18Speaker 1: the back.
- 3:19Speaker 2: Colleen, never start from the back.
- 3:22Speaker 1: Oh you're.
- 3:25Speaker 2: Just I love you, dog.
- 3:28Speaker 1: We were meant to be. We were meant to be, Doug,
- 3:30Speaker 1: we were meant to be Okay, Okay, so tell me
- 3:34Speaker 1: the correct way. Okay, I'm I don't go to college
- 3:37Speaker 1: for formal education. I'm a Kanye West. Okay, So I
- 3:40Speaker 1: learned by Okay, So how do you properly do a
- 3:44Speaker 1: business plan?
- 3:45Speaker 2: So you first you write the executive summary. Oh look
- 3:48Speaker 2: at that, okay, Kanye.
- 3:51Speaker 1: When I was like twenty, my grandfather used to make
- 3:53Speaker 1: me write business plans for all my businesses. That was
- 3:56Speaker 1: his thing. You gotta write a business plan. I did
- 3:59Speaker 1: like the this is what I say, what I learned
- 4:01Speaker 1: and why my grandfather wanted me to do it. Is
- 4:05Speaker 1: a business plan definitely covers all the possible surprises that
- 4:09Speaker 1: we don't predicted a business. And I like the formality
- 4:12Speaker 1: of the layout. But you know, coming from being broke,
- 4:16Speaker 1: you're like, okay, executive summary, got it? What's a math
- 4:19Speaker 1: looking like? And you know that's the last chapter. And
- 4:21Speaker 1: it's always like you have to do the math.
- 4:24Speaker 2: You have to do the strategy, do your competitors.
- 4:28Speaker 1: But you don't think it's easier to go executive summary math.
- 4:31Speaker 1: And then you see the math and you go, oh,
- 4:33Speaker 1: I didn't cover that. That that and then go back
- 4:35Speaker 1: to marketing and strategy and go, okay, to hit these numbers.
- 4:38Speaker 1: This is why I did it the way. This is
- 4:40Speaker 1: why I do it the way. So I'm curious from
- 4:41Speaker 1: a professional you.
- 4:43Speaker 2: Would do the next thing up is this is the
- 4:46Speaker 2: what is the aha, what is the spark? What is
- 4:48Speaker 2: what makes this idea uniquely you? But the issue is
- 4:51Speaker 2: it can't be yourself. It actually has to be some
- 4:54Speaker 2: something that's like the asset as a trademark, a patent,
- 4:57Speaker 2: an angle, a color scheme, a package design. There has
- 5:01Speaker 2: to be some entry in. Then once you know that,
- 5:04Speaker 2: then you look at the competitors in the market and
- 5:07Speaker 2: you try to see, Okay, where are they selling their product,
- 5:10Speaker 2: what's the supply chain, what's the odds they could steal this,
- 5:13Speaker 2: what's the odds you could duplicate it. Then you figure
- 5:15Speaker 2: out at what level of sales will a competitor look
- 5:19Speaker 2: at this and see you as a competitor, Because when
- 5:22Speaker 2: you have so few sales, no one's really paying attention
- 5:25Speaker 2: to you until you show up on the radar. So
- 5:27Speaker 2: you have to figure out how many sales do I
- 5:29Speaker 2: have to get to be on the radar. Then you
- 5:31Speaker 2: figure out if you can actually pull that together, who
- 5:34Speaker 2: would be the market team, who will be the sales team,
- 5:37Speaker 2: what's the business model? And then you do the numbers.
- 5:39Speaker 2: So you wouldn't do the numbers until you actually have
- 5:42Speaker 2: a few more pieces together, so you could figure out
- 5:45Speaker 2: exactly what the numbers look like, because you have to
- 5:47Speaker 2: be as close to guessing as you can.
- 5:49Speaker 1: And with a business plan. This has come from a
- 5:53Speaker 1: broke mindset. I have to keep in saying this because
- 5:58Speaker 1: when you start out as an entrepreneur, Yeah, you do
- 6:01Speaker 1: think from the perspective a shoutouts to Cup. I have
- 6:04Speaker 1: to say shout outs to Cup because I did learn
- 6:06Speaker 1: a lot in literally one meet up with Cup. So
- 6:09Speaker 1: now my mindset is changing as of last night. So
- 6:12Speaker 1: we're gonna give me some grace. But from this mindset,
- 6:15Speaker 1: you think of what can I actually accomplish as an
- 6:19Speaker 1: entrepreneur based on my bank account, based on who I
- 6:21Speaker 1: know or whatever. But when you do write a business plan,
- 6:25Speaker 1: are you supposed to write it as though I have
- 6:28Speaker 1: the capital that I need behind me and I can
- 6:32Speaker 1: hire the best in this industry.
- 6:36Speaker 2: The way you should write the business plan is that
- 6:38Speaker 2: you partner with your biggest expense. When you write a
- 6:42Speaker 2: business plan, the most expensive expense you have to partner.
- 6:47Speaker 2: Do not try to do it yourself. Do not try
- 6:50Speaker 2: to make it happen. Do not try to dig that ditch.
- 6:53Speaker 2: Partner with your biggest expense. Rule Number one, think about
- 6:57Speaker 2: every business Basket needed, Robin Sears needed Roebuck, Steve Jobs needed,
- 7:03Speaker 2: Steve Wozniak, Steve Bomber needed, Bill Gates. Everyone is a
- 7:08Speaker 2: partnership because you partner with your biggest expense, you partner
- 7:13Speaker 2: with your biggest deficit. You don't try to do it yourself.
- 7:16Speaker 2: You focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses.
- 7:19Speaker 1: Damn, now I'll see why we got it.
- 7:22Speaker 2: DM me, Yo, I'm trying to help, yo, DM me.
- 7:26Speaker 2: I tell people DM me at Doug Melville on my Instagram,
- 7:29Speaker 2: and I want answer the questions for you. Come on
- 7:31Speaker 2: the show. I'm trying to get everybody level up, tighten
- 7:35Speaker 2: up and look forward and not down. There's a lot
- 7:37Speaker 2: of change that's happened in the last few years. I
- 7:39Speaker 2: tell people this is the best analogy for our time today.
- 7:43Speaker 2: We were all playing chess. Then Donald Trump became the
- 7:47Speaker 2: president the United States, and he went like this to
- 7:49Speaker 2: the chessboard, and everybody's piece is all over the place.
- 7:53Speaker 2: Some people moved ahead, some people move behind, but very
- 7:57Speaker 2: few people are in the exact same place. So well,
- 8:00Speaker 2: you just have to learn how to rework your piece
- 8:03Speaker 2: and understand the new chess board, and you know, move
- 8:07Speaker 2: on and move ahead.
- 8:08Speaker 1: Now, in the case of the people that you mentioned
- 8:12Speaker 1: that partnered, a lot of them were probably in almost
- 8:15Speaker 1: a similar state. So when you say partner with your
- 8:18Speaker 1: greatest expense, you can't shoot a book. I don't want
- 8:22Speaker 1: to put limitations, but can you shoot above your.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Now, this is a subject that is not meant to
- 8:29Speaker 2: be controversial, but it is a point of note. A
- 8:32Speaker 2: lot of people partner with their partner, so you marry
- 8:37Speaker 2: your biggest expense. So if you look in the case
- 8:41Speaker 2: of when you need funding or people that start companies,
- 8:44Speaker 2: they don't necessarily position it that way, but a lot
- 8:47Speaker 2: of women in particular are marrying finance people, investors, venture capitalists,
- 8:55Speaker 2: and then those individuals are their first seed capital to
- 8:59Speaker 2: start their company. They have money and don't have the idea.
- 9:03Speaker 2: They have the idea, but don't have the capital. Because
- 9:06Speaker 2: the biggest part of the game right now is access
- 9:10Speaker 2: to capital, and a lot of times people just marry it.
- 9:16Speaker 2: This is brilliant. Yeah, no, it's happening all the time.
- 9:19Speaker 1: Next time you see me, especially at the cup events,
- 9:24Speaker 1: who is that's not Colee? Yes, that is Coling and
- 9:28Speaker 1: I'm single. Just so y'all know, keep that in mind everyone, But.
- 9:31Speaker 2: No, that is that's how it works. But now it's
- 9:35Speaker 2: not positioned that way because you could always read into
- 9:38Speaker 2: it and you can say, oh, well that's a sexist
- 9:40Speaker 2: way you look at it, or that's not really why
- 9:43Speaker 2: they got together. I'm not into all the details. I'm
- 9:46Speaker 2: just saying, you're.
- 9:46Speaker 1: Not into all the details. But what doesn't make a
- 9:49Speaker 1: better situationship than or whatever? Then an entrepreneur and a
- 9:53Speaker 1: finance person. That's like the best marrior past the t
- 9:57Speaker 1: and and give me some game that is a burd
- 10:00Speaker 1: It's that's a perfect release.
- 10:01Speaker 2: It's why it works. And you know, there was a
- 10:03Speaker 2: woman that I won't mention her name, but she is
- 10:06Speaker 2: a pretty celebrated executive and she was at a conference
- 10:10Speaker 2: and someone asked her a question, said how did you
- 10:13Speaker 2: become a CEO of this big company? And she said,
- 10:15Speaker 2: I married. Well, we got the sitters, we got the neighborhood,
- 10:20Speaker 2: I was built into the golf course, ecosystem paid for
- 10:24Speaker 2: my school, gave me the network, and now we made
- 10:27Speaker 2: it together. You know, it's not negative, but because a
- 10:31Speaker 2: lot of people marry the wrong partner or you missed
- 10:34Speaker 2: that opportunity, it's hard to go back using the canvas example,
- 10:39Speaker 2: because once your canvas has colors on it, the amount
- 10:44Speaker 2: of opportunity that you get is least because you have
- 10:47Speaker 2: to go back on your canvas and reset. If you
- 10:49Speaker 2: got married and I got married, and everyone got married
- 10:51Speaker 2: at twenty to the right partner, geez, just compound interest.
- 10:56Speaker 2: Fifty years from now, you own half the town, just
- 10:59Speaker 2: under law number. But because we stay single longer, because
- 11:02Speaker 2: we're out here flexing, because we try with a partner,
- 11:05Speaker 2: it doesn't work. Because people have won two opportunities, then
- 11:09Speaker 2: they don't want to do it again. So all that
- 11:11Speaker 2: kind of takes away from the opportunity that time can
- 11:14Speaker 2: give you. So if you marry someone who is your opposite,
- 11:19Speaker 2: there's an opportunity there to build together. And it's positive.
- 11:25Speaker 1: When I say the game on this episode is crazy.
- 11:28Speaker 1: I haven't even covered all of it yet. Is the
- 11:30Speaker 1: parmesan ready?
- 11:32Speaker 2: Oh look at this? We have to eat the rice?
- 11:33Speaker 1: We got it? Oh, we have to eat the rice.
- 11:35Speaker 2: Looks delicious. Looks like you need some more cheese.
- 11:38Speaker 1: Okay, so guys, we're back in. The food is hot
- 11:41Speaker 1: and ready. Can you go ahead and.
- 11:42Speaker 2: Start coming to Italy? Well, today we have a chicken,
- 11:47Speaker 2: a nugget parmesan. Look how fresh that is. I don't
- 11:53Speaker 2: know what part of the chicken is the nugget, but
- 11:55Speaker 2: it is quite fresh. We're gonna have this beautiful spatula,
- 12:01Speaker 2: and then can I plate you.
- 12:02Speaker 1: For plate me first? And then I don't want you first.
- 12:06Speaker 1: I don't want to put into your cooking, but go
- 12:08Speaker 1: ahead and serve. I'm just so about your story. Right.
- 12:10Speaker 1: Oh it looks did we overcook it?
- 12:13Speaker 2: Probably, but we just got to get this knife game.
- 12:15Speaker 1: It looked like he got it.
- 12:16Speaker 2: I don't want any problems here. There is no serving
- 12:19Speaker 2: knife on eating while broke, because if you are broke,
- 12:22Speaker 2: likely you don't have a serving knife. Okay, so we're
- 12:26Speaker 2: gonna get this cut here. This is the four nugget
- 12:30Speaker 2: quantity lasagna. They actually had it as lasagna, which really
- 12:37Speaker 2: was an upgrade. And I'm thinking of this. Okay, we
- 12:41Speaker 2: have this, Okay, we have a little there, and then
- 12:45Speaker 2: we have some white rice here because you gotta put
- 12:49Speaker 2: a little extra starch on it. This bowl is so
- 12:55Speaker 2: hot that I'm burning my hand. The skin is going
- 12:58Speaker 2: to be on this plate. For the love of everything
- 13:01Speaker 2: I know, that bowl is so hot. That's perfect Okay,
- 13:10Speaker 2: here you go.
- 13:11Speaker 1: Okay, awesome, this looks good.
- 13:13Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna play a little mine and I'm
- 13:15Speaker 2: clearly not going to touch that rice before I end
- 13:19Speaker 2: my career here.
- 13:21Speaker 1: So we stuck it to the bottom. Is there a
- 13:23Speaker 1: key to not get it stuck to the bottom?
- 13:25Speaker 2: Yeah? L O L sixth ingredient. Okay, okay, all right,
- 13:30Speaker 2: we're gonna plate that. It does look dry. I mean,
- 13:34Speaker 2: it does look like you needs some more sauce, but
- 13:37Speaker 2: we're just working what we got over.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Didn't I say what in the no.
- 13:40Speaker 2: You did say its sauce here, I would actually pour
- 13:46Speaker 2: it sauce. I'm pouring some more on.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Ian's sauce and cheese.
- 13:50Speaker 2: Let's still do more sauce and cheese.
- 13:52Speaker 1: Okay, So I I hate to be all up in
- 13:55Speaker 1: your bees wax, but the dish looks great. But catch
- 13:58Speaker 1: me up on what happens with Magic.
- 14:01Speaker 2: So I write these business plans, and I get contacted
- 14:05Speaker 2: from someone I know who works at the Magic Johnson Enterprises,
- 14:10Speaker 2: and I take an interview in New York City, and
- 14:14Speaker 2: I passed the interview, and I get hired to work
- 14:18Speaker 2: as president for one of mister Johnson's companies. It was
- 14:22Speaker 2: his marketing company and that changed my whole life. And
- 14:27Speaker 2: the person who made the introduction to me was the
- 14:31Speaker 2: person I interned for a Quest Records. So all these relationships, yes,
- 14:37Speaker 2: and that was what I learned about this process. The
- 14:42Speaker 2: impossible takes time, but in time you can accomplish the impossible.
- 14:46Speaker 1: So okay, I am dying to eat this.
- 14:48Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so we got this chicken Mcnow, I
- 14:51Speaker 2: don't want to hear TikTok come for me. If you
- 14:53Speaker 2: can make a better chicken McNugget parmisan than this, then
- 14:58Speaker 2: please step up your game. But until then we are
- 15:03Speaker 2: gonna have some chicken nugget palm. I'm not sure what
- 15:09Speaker 2: that face met bot.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I think in theory it sounded great.
- 15:15Speaker 2: My actually think is good.
- 15:17Speaker 1: But this is a definite.
- 15:18Speaker 2: It's bringing back so many memories for me. I'm thinking
- 15:20Speaker 2: this meal is now as not Mass Jos or mister Chows.
- 15:28Speaker 1: If you're hungry.
- 15:29Speaker 2: My favorite restaurant's Ovrea Mamo is in New York, and
- 15:33Speaker 2: I can tell you what they would not let me
- 15:38Speaker 2: back in if I told him that I cooked this
- 15:40Speaker 2: Italian this year. But coming from someone who's eating hundreds
- 15:45Speaker 2: of broken meals and getting that face is not a
- 15:47Speaker 2: good review.
- 15:49Speaker 1: Look, I'm starving, so I'm gonna eat this.
- 15:51Speaker 2: But I'm blaming the chicken nugget quality.
- 15:53Speaker 1: I think it's like we either overcooked it, maybe we
- 15:55Speaker 1: should have like took it straight out the oven or whatever.
- 15:59Speaker 1: But I think if you had more seasonings respectfully, you
- 16:02Speaker 1: could have murdered this dish. This is definitely what in
- 16:05Speaker 1: the caucasiity has happened. I think if you would have
- 16:08Speaker 1: used even fried rice, but the white rice makes it
- 16:13Speaker 1: more bland.
- 16:15Speaker 2: Very bland.
- 16:16Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you you Caucasidy.
- 16:18Speaker 2: This is very bland. But that's how I like my food.
- 16:21Speaker 2: That's the thing. The thing is, I built this for
- 16:24Speaker 2: my personal taste buds. I just met your taste buds today.
- 16:28Speaker 2: I don't know about those taste buds. I don't know
- 16:30Speaker 2: where they came from. I don't know. There's superpower.
- 16:32Speaker 1: I'm Jamaica, man, you know what I oh, If.
- 16:34Speaker 2: You're Jamaican, we might as well wrap this whole show
- 16:37Speaker 2: right now, because this is not gonna work for you.
- 16:39Speaker 2: But I'll give this dish chicken McNugget palm. People are
- 16:44Speaker 2: sleeping on it that if I eat it. By making
- 16:47Speaker 2: a lot of noise.
- 16:50Speaker 1: We're gonna have Katie once the cameras go, We're gonna
- 16:53Speaker 1: have Katie rate the dish. Sorry Katie, but she's.
- 17:00Speaker 2: MM no. What if you do this?
- 17:04Speaker 1: If you're hungry and you need something filling that has
- 17:06Speaker 1: more calories, this is it. I do think more seasoning
- 17:12Speaker 1: and straight out the oven. I think we messed up
- 17:14Speaker 1: his dish by overcooking it. I think if we didn't
- 17:16Speaker 1: overcook it, I definitely think the chicken nuggets by McDonald's
- 17:20Speaker 1: would have been better. So don't do the bread it
- 17:22Speaker 1: at home. I'm gonna give this dish like like a
- 17:27Speaker 1: four out of ten.
- 17:32Speaker 2: Study long study wrong.
- 17:34Speaker 1: But let me tell you something. This interview certified ten
- 17:37Speaker 1: out of ten one of my top favorites of all time.
- 17:40Speaker 1: Most gems in one episode haven't even finished. So who cares?
- 17:44Speaker 1: If you could cook?
- 17:45Speaker 2: I cannot care.
- 17:46Speaker 1: Nobody care. No one's marrying you for your cooking, so
- 17:49Speaker 1: that's great.
- 17:50Speaker 2: That's well, that's right. If you marry me for my cooking,
- 17:54Speaker 2: this is we might as well just file the divorce
- 17:57Speaker 2: at the same day two for one. But truth be told,
- 18:01Speaker 2: I haven't made this since college, and I don't cook.
- 18:03Speaker 2: I eat out every meal because I learned really bad
- 18:07Speaker 2: habits going on tour. Okay, year after year after year,
- 18:10Speaker 2: when you have caterers and everything, you just get so
- 18:13Speaker 2: used to eating out that you know, you just don't
- 18:16Speaker 2: necessarily learn how to cook. So I don't even really
- 18:19Speaker 2: if cooking is partner with your biggest expense. I am
- 18:25Speaker 2: definitely not bringing any cooking to the table.
- 18:28Speaker 1: But you want to know something that means for all
- 18:30Speaker 1: the women out there, we just found out his Achilles
- 18:34Speaker 1: heel because I'm sure cooking is his biggest expense, which
- 18:37Speaker 1: means you should marry a cook.
- 18:39Speaker 2: Yeah that's a good idea.
- 18:41Speaker 1: That's a good idea, you know, just saying no, I
- 18:44Speaker 1: know how to season some things. Oh okay, I'll just
- 18:46Speaker 1: not season yours.
- 18:47Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, start from the back.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Okay, So tell us about magic. Johnson and magic and
- 18:59Speaker 1: that whole experience life changing.
- 19:02Speaker 2: He was the one who really told me to focus
- 19:04Speaker 2: on my strengths and not my weaknesses. He brought me
- 19:07Speaker 2: into a circle. He taught me how to be a presenter.
- 19:10Speaker 2: He taught me how to be a businessman of color.
- 19:14Speaker 2: He told me how to work the room. He told
- 19:16Speaker 2: me how to be relatable, He taught me how to
- 19:21Speaker 2: I mean, he taught me everything a young executive could
- 19:24Speaker 2: ever want. Like if Tommy hill Figure was my master's
- 19:29Speaker 2: degree in marketing, Irvin Magic Johnson was my PhD. He
- 19:33Speaker 2: showed me everything, helped me travel the world. It was
- 19:37Speaker 2: the first time I was even in a private jet.
- 19:40Speaker 2: And he's like, Doug, do you know what FPO airports are?
- 19:44Speaker 2: Like I didn't even know how millionaires move.
- 19:48Speaker 1: Good, Well neither do I currently.
- 19:50Speaker 2: So yeah, so okay, well you know, well they don't
- 19:55Speaker 2: eat this.
- 19:58Speaker 1: So what did exactly was your role for him?
- 20:01Speaker 2: I was on his executive team. I headed up his
- 20:04Speaker 2: business development team for two years and I was the
- 20:06Speaker 2: president of his marketing company for two years. So I
- 20:09Speaker 2: had a seat at the table and so many different
- 20:11Speaker 2: meetings with our partners, with our all of our alliances,
- 20:16Speaker 2: and we would work on his speaking engagements, his corporate partners,
- 20:20Speaker 2: his philanthropy, and his appearances. So he had a really
- 20:24Speaker 2: full schedule and it was a It was a really
- 20:26Speaker 2: it was an amazing gift.
- 20:28Speaker 1: And what was your biggest takeaway from them?
- 20:31Speaker 2: My biggest takeaway from him was you cannot control what
- 20:34Speaker 2: you cannot control, but what you can control you need
- 20:38Speaker 2: to be aware of and control it well. So he
- 20:43Speaker 2: would give examples that if you if I know you're
- 20:45Speaker 2: good at this, then I'm going to feed you the
- 20:48Speaker 2: opportunity right here, okay, because I don't know if you're
- 20:51Speaker 2: going to work after to be better, if you're going
- 20:54Speaker 2: to improve on weekends, if you're going to take certification
- 20:56Speaker 2: classes to get better. But I know right now you're
- 20:59Speaker 2: a great here, so I'm going to feed you where
- 21:02Speaker 2: you are great, Okay, double down on great, ten thousand hours,
- 21:06Speaker 2: twenty thousand hours to be exceptional. So he taught me
- 21:11Speaker 2: get some of the noise out and focus on exactly
- 21:14Speaker 2: what you're great at. If you can earn enough money
- 21:17Speaker 2: doing that, then you can pay for the experts to
- 21:20Speaker 2: work around you that could fill that in and that's
- 21:24Speaker 2: how you build and scale a company. But he also
- 21:26Speaker 2: taught me about scale. He taught me how to move
- 21:29Speaker 2: in rooms with CEOs, the value of board of directors,
- 21:34Speaker 2: compensation for your time, how to set up a speaking engagement,
- 21:37Speaker 2: how to tell a story. I mean, the guy changed
- 21:41Speaker 2: my whole life. I mean, it's hard to even explain
- 21:44Speaker 2: his impact on me.
- 21:45Speaker 1: What I find most interesting about a lot of these
- 21:47Speaker 1: men that you're working with. Is that it seemed like,
- 21:52Speaker 1: for lack of better word, they wanted you to excel
- 21:56Speaker 1: past whatever they were initially bringing in.
- 21:59Speaker 2: They saw and mean much more than I saw myself.
- 22:01Speaker 2: Like working with the hill Figure family, they were fashion, music,
- 22:07Speaker 2: entertainment in their own way. But Tommy hill Figure and
- 22:11Speaker 2: Andy hill Figure and Magic Johnson were very similar. One
- 22:14Speaker 2: of eight grew up in the suburbs, you know, blue
- 22:19Speaker 2: collar families like they both came from very similar backgrounds
- 22:25Speaker 2: in a way. I mean, and not to compare them,
- 22:26Speaker 2: but they had the one person in their family was
- 22:31Speaker 2: the one that was going to drive and elevate you know,
- 22:33Speaker 2: the whole family in general. And to have the opportunity
- 22:38Speaker 2: to work under both of them was just a gift. Wow.
- 22:41Speaker 2: That they were my first two real mentors to learn business, fashion, sports.
- 22:46Speaker 2: I mean, you can't learn from smarter people than they had.
- 22:48Speaker 1: Did you actually call them mentors or was that just
- 22:51Speaker 1: something you put in.
- 22:52Speaker 2: Well after I worked for them, I mean, while they
- 22:54Speaker 2: were still signing my chin. I remember the first check
- 22:56Speaker 2: that Tommy hill Figure wrote me with his actual signature
- 22:59Speaker 2: on it. I have aimed in my house In the
- 23:01Speaker 2: first check, Magic Johnson wrote to me I had framed
- 23:04Speaker 2: in my house because I was like, they actually signed
- 23:08Speaker 2: the check. These two people that I feel are like,
- 23:12Speaker 2: you know, don't even know that they're real signed my
- 23:15Speaker 2: actual check underpaid from the order And I said, I
- 23:20Speaker 2: can't believe it. You know, I came from the couch.
- 23:24Speaker 1: Okay, So where did you pivot to after that?
- 23:27Speaker 2: So after my time went, Magic Johnson expired, but it
- 23:31Speaker 2: was a mutual separation and we still communicate, but my
- 23:35Speaker 2: time was up there. I had worked there for three
- 23:37Speaker 2: years and I decided to Actually my immediate follow up
- 23:43Speaker 2: was to work back for Tommy Hillfigure because he was
- 23:45Speaker 2: starting a capital management company, and this was not to
- 23:50Speaker 2: work with him in fashion, but more in the finance
- 23:52Speaker 2: investing space, and I decided to start my own company.
- 23:56Speaker 1: Now I just want to backcheck and not trying to
- 23:59Speaker 1: cut you off, But so what happened to the original
- 24:01Speaker 1: company you started? The media market?
- 24:03Speaker 2: I actually, are we editing this or we're just talking
- 24:08Speaker 2: through what haven't well? Okay? So when I leave Magic Johnson,
- 24:15Speaker 2: I had an AHA moment. He had a speaking engagement
- 24:19Speaker 2: up at Google headquarters, and after the speaking engagement, I
- 24:23Speaker 2: got a chance to talk to Sergei Brinn and Larry Page.
- 24:27Speaker 2: They were the co founders of Google. They came out.
- 24:29Speaker 2: One of them was from Michigan, where he mister Johnson
- 24:32Speaker 2: grew up, so they had requested him to come to
- 24:35Speaker 2: the office to do a speaking engagement. So it was
- 24:38Speaker 2: one of my last assignments before leaving, and I went
- 24:41Speaker 2: up to Google headquarters and after the speech, we were
- 24:47Speaker 2: walking down the hall and I asked one of them.
- 24:50Speaker 2: I said, if you had one idea for a young
- 24:54Speaker 2: entrepreneur to do, what would it be. I'm like, you, guys,
- 24:57Speaker 2: start at Google if you had one idea for entrepreneur
- 25:01Speaker 2: because I knew when I left I was going to
- 25:02Speaker 2: go on my own. And he goes, you should start
- 25:06Speaker 2: a business backwards based on keyword search. And I said what,
- 25:13Speaker 2: And he goes, there's a website we have called Google
- 25:16Speaker 2: Labs that shows you every single advertising category and what
- 25:22Speaker 2: words people search that aren't trademarked. What you should do
- 25:26Speaker 2: is you should find whatever category you like, and you
- 25:30Speaker 2: should start a business backwards. So I went home that
- 25:35Speaker 2: night and I went to entertainment and the most searched
- 25:38Speaker 2: term under entertainment was red carpets. So I go to
- 25:44Speaker 2: go Daddy, and I pay forty four hundred dollars for
- 25:49Speaker 2: the domain redcarpets dot com. I have no clue what
- 25:54Speaker 2: this is going to do. I don't know what I'm selling.
- 25:56Speaker 2: I don't know anything about it. And I call my
- 25:59Speaker 2: best friend Bill, who I had my company with before,
- 26:02Speaker 2: and I said, Bill, we're gonna bring a company back,
- 26:05Speaker 2: but we're gonna pivot it and it's gonna be called
- 26:07Speaker 2: redcarpets dot com. And he goes, what does redcarpets dot
- 26:11Speaker 2: com do? And I go, Bill, you always ask so
- 26:15Speaker 2: many questions. We're calling it redcarpets dot com. So we
- 26:22Speaker 2: have a meeting, colding, we have a meeting. What is
- 26:25Speaker 2: this website gonna sell? Now? What they had told us
- 26:28Speaker 2: at Google was if you start a URL that's an
- 26:32Speaker 2: exact match for a term people search, it will always
- 26:37Speaker 2: show up first in the natural search. So if more
- 26:40Speaker 2: people are searching red carpets than anything else, then they're
- 26:44Speaker 2: gonna go to your website. So we were like, well,
- 26:46Speaker 2: what do we sell? Photo rights? Do we do like
- 26:49Speaker 2: a thing where you can watch Jlo and all her
- 26:52Speaker 2: red carbridge. We're like coming up with all these wonky
- 26:54Speaker 2: ideas and we're like, not gonna work, stupid, dumb. We're
- 26:58Speaker 2: like up at night, sweating, deaf, not eating ass. But
- 27:00Speaker 2: we're sweating, we're eating pizza, maybe ramen, and we're trying
- 27:04Speaker 2: to come with the answer. And then we have an
- 27:06Speaker 2: aha moment. What if we sold red carpets?
- 27:18Speaker 1: That's actually that's brilliant.
- 27:20Speaker 2: And we were like, what if we actually sold red carpet?
- 27:25Speaker 2: This so we were like, well, who makes these red carpets?
- 27:31Speaker 2: So we go to home depot and we're like, can
- 27:33Speaker 2: we buy a red carpet? And or like, no, young man,
- 27:36Speaker 2: you can't buy a red carpet. We don't sell red.
- 27:39Speaker 2: So we started going to all these places and we
- 27:41Speaker 2: realized no one sold red carpet.
- 27:46Speaker 1: Even more brilliant, This is crazy.
- 27:48Speaker 2: So we find that there's one guy in Atlanta, Georgia.
- 27:53Speaker 2: It's deLuce Georgia that makes all the carpet in America
- 27:57Speaker 2: that's colored orange, yell red, green. And we find who
- 28:04Speaker 2: they're working with and we say to him, what if
- 28:07Speaker 2: we made a website where you could design how much
- 28:10Speaker 2: red carpet you need? And then the phones were coming
- 28:15Speaker 2: out that were vertical, and we said, then you could
- 28:17Speaker 2: have a backdrop and then we could ship it together
- 28:21Speaker 2: like a yoga mat. Will roll up the red carpet,
- 28:25Speaker 2: and then we'll put the backdrop in a tube and
- 28:27Speaker 2: then we mail it to you and you could press
- 28:29Speaker 2: it against the wall. The backdrop with your logos come down,
- 28:32Speaker 2: and now you have a square and because your phone
- 28:36Speaker 2: is vertical, you could take a picture and you could
- 28:37Speaker 2: be in the kitchen. But people could think you're a celebrity.
- 28:43Speaker 2: So we're like, this is genius. I swear to you
- 28:47Speaker 2: on my life. We went three years and did not
- 28:50Speaker 2: sell one of these carpets.
- 28:52Speaker 1: Man, I thought this story was gonna have a way different.
- 28:56Speaker 2: Three years goes by, We don't sell one carpet. People
- 28:59Speaker 2: are coming to the website. Where are the photos of
- 29:02Speaker 2: this person on the red carpet? Do you rent? No?
- 29:05Speaker 2: Why would anybody want to square a carpet? This idea
- 29:08Speaker 2: is ridiculous. So him and I are looking at each other.
- 29:11Speaker 2: So I'm investing all the money that I've made into
- 29:14Speaker 2: this idea. I'm getting quarters out of the couch, I'm
- 29:17Speaker 2: eating dollar pizza, I'm cutting Chipotle bowls in half. Things
- 29:22Speaker 2: are looking icy. Okay, three years, we don't sell one
- 29:27Speaker 2: of these carpets. And he's looking at me and goes, well,
- 29:31Speaker 2: we did have a vision. We had a commitment to
- 29:33Speaker 2: an idea, We had a vision, we had all of it.
- 29:38Speaker 2: And then we get a phone call from Clarence Cosmetics
- 29:43Speaker 2: and they go, we need to get more people to
- 29:47Speaker 2: come to our retail desks at malls and in department stores,
- 29:53Speaker 2: and we want people to try on the product and
- 29:56Speaker 2: then take a picture. Can we make an or for
- 30:00Speaker 2: three million dollars of red carpet and backdrops for every
- 30:05Speaker 2: single one of our retail locations?
- 30:07Speaker 1: What the fuck? I would have been.
- 30:10Speaker 2: Out three dollars. Oh yeah, we believed it. Well, we
- 30:16Speaker 2: sell it. We sell three point one million dollars the
- 30:18Speaker 2: red car We had not sold one red carpet. This
- 30:21Speaker 2: is a c We sell three point one million dollars
- 30:24Speaker 2: of red carpets. And then the first thing we say
- 30:27Speaker 2: is we can't get the product. We don't have any money.
- 30:35Speaker 1: Well you can can't You take that to what happens next?
- 30:40Speaker 2: I have to go to the bank of Mom and Dad.
- 30:45Speaker 1: Oh heck no, I know. Papa Duke's was not happy.
- 30:48Speaker 2: The o MD. I had to go to the bank
- 30:50Speaker 2: of Mom and Dad and I go Dad, I wore
- 30:52Speaker 2: a suit.
- 30:53Speaker 1: What'd you say, b o MD would.
- 30:54Speaker 2: Bank of Mom and Dad? Oh yo, that's my bank.
- 30:59Speaker 2: So I went right to my mom and dad. I
- 31:01Speaker 2: had a suit on and I said, hello, Dad, I
- 31:03Speaker 2: would like to have a meeting today with the judge
- 31:06Speaker 2: and his wife. And I set up the kitchen. I
- 31:09Speaker 2: had jazz music playing Bosa Nova.
- 31:13Speaker 1: I'm like saying, they know you've been struggling in the
- 31:15Speaker 1: last three years.
- 31:16Speaker 2: Oh my mom is like, my Dad's like, Bro, your
- 31:18Speaker 2: commitment to this dumb idea of selling Carpus is ridiculous.
- 31:23Speaker 2: They were like, you were an executive for Irving Magic Johnson.
- 31:28Speaker 2: They were like, we met him, we know it. Why
- 31:31Speaker 2: are you selling carpet. I'm filling out my tax is
- 31:33Speaker 2: rug salesman. They're like, dude, you have made the greatest
- 31:38Speaker 2: error in history. So now I have taken the bonds
- 31:42Speaker 2: out of the bible that my parents had, Like you
- 31:45Speaker 2: know they have those emergency bonds from Nona where they're like,
- 31:48Speaker 2: we have one hundred dollars we had saved since the reconstruction.
- 31:51Speaker 2: I had spent all that money. Everything's gone, and I go, guys,
- 31:58Speaker 2: I need a loan. They said, how much money do
- 32:01Speaker 2: you need I need five hundred thousand dollars.
- 32:04Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm sure they left you out that.
- 32:06Speaker 2: My mom was like, honey, don't do it. This is
- 32:10Speaker 2: hard retirement. And my dad's like, I believe in you.
- 32:15Speaker 2: You have gone this far.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Wait did you tell them that you got the sales order?
- 32:18Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, no. I had to show them the receipt.
- 32:20Speaker 2: I had to present the billing the sales and my
- 32:22Speaker 2: mom was like, what if they don't pay You know,
- 32:25Speaker 2: but I needed a half a million dollars to get
- 32:27Speaker 2: the stuff. We have to deliver it. It has to be.
- 32:30Speaker 2: So my mom and dad get in an argument and
- 32:32Speaker 2: on the right in front of me, you're gonna take
- 32:35Speaker 2: away a retirement. You can't trust these kids. Money is
- 32:38Speaker 2: not money is a gift. It's not alone. Kids never
- 32:41Speaker 2: pay us back. You remember this person, and then you know,
- 32:44Speaker 2: your mom remembers everybody whose kids didn't pay back their
- 32:47Speaker 2: parents from the from the meeting that they have with him,
- 32:50Speaker 2: and then you remember, you know this family didn't pay back.
- 32:53Speaker 2: My friend is didn't pay back. And I'm like, okay.
- 32:55Speaker 2: My dad's like, we've we believed in them this far.
- 33:00Speaker 2: Here's the five hundred thousand dollars. My dad deposits five
- 33:06Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars in my bank account. We fulfill the order,
- 33:11Speaker 2: we sell the order. Next thing you know, reality shows.
- 33:16Speaker 2: I was dating a woman at the time, and she
- 33:18Speaker 2: was on the Bachelor and her job when we broke up.
- 33:23Speaker 2: When she went on the Bachelor, it was said spokesman
- 33:25Speaker 2: for Redcarpets dot Com. So now ABC airs every day
- 33:31Speaker 2: people are going to redcarpets dot Com. Next thing you know,
- 33:33Speaker 2: New York Post doesn't feature hottest trend the Real Housewives
- 33:37Speaker 2: in New Jersey. Next thing you know, we're selling these
- 33:40Speaker 2: redcarpets dot com. Redcarpet in a bag like buy the thousands.
- 33:46Speaker 2: Boom boom. But we're getting multimillion sales. Multimillion sales. The
- 33:49Speaker 2: idea is working. We build a studio in New York City,
- 33:53Speaker 2: a red carpet studio.
- 33:55Speaker 1: Pausible. One second. I have to go back to the parents, and.
- 33:58Speaker 2: I just want to say, at this we are selling
- 34:00Speaker 2: more than just red. We have twenty seven colors. You're hilarious, green, astro, turf, white.
- 34:07Speaker 1: How long did it take for your parents to get
- 34:09Speaker 1: the money back and how did it feel paying them back?
- 34:14Speaker 2: Well, when when I got the money back and I
- 34:16Speaker 2: went to go pay my parents back. My my dad
- 34:20Speaker 2: was like, keep the money, oh yeah, mom, and my
- 34:24Speaker 2: mom was and my mom was like, honey, and then
- 34:28Speaker 2: and then I gave him the money back.
- 34:30Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, she was like you bet not.
- 34:32Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, my dad was like blown away. He was
- 34:35Speaker 2: a holy man, you.
- 34:35Speaker 1: Know, Baba Dows Barbados. You know, I love both. I
- 34:38Speaker 1: love I love the yin and the yang. But yeah,
- 34:41Speaker 1: I don't put your mama through that.
- 34:42Speaker 2: No. My mom's my best friend. My dad's my you know,
- 34:45Speaker 2: right hand man. So they're still alive and you know,
- 34:47Speaker 2: living their life. But now it's all funny to talk about.
- 34:50Speaker 2: But see, this is the thing about me. I'm eleven
- 34:54Speaker 2: and twelve years younger than my brother and sister because
- 34:57Speaker 2: my mom's tubes were tied for ten years and when
- 35:01Speaker 2: my mom got pregnant, it was a ninety nine point
- 35:05Speaker 2: nine percent chance when a woman gets her tubes tied
- 35:08Speaker 2: that she can still conceive. And they were on their
- 35:11Speaker 2: honeymoon and Niagara falls and they came back and my
- 35:15Speaker 2: mom was like what And she goes to the doctor
- 35:23Speaker 2: and the doctor goes, well, there's two things I want
- 35:25Speaker 2: to tell you at ninety nine point nine and it
- 35:27Speaker 2: worked for ten years. But now you have to make
- 35:31Speaker 2: a decision what do you want to do with his baby?
- 35:34Speaker 2: And my mom goes, you will never know the conversation
- 35:37Speaker 2: with your husband. Well, I will never know a conversation
- 35:40Speaker 2: with any husband, but you'll never know the conversation with
- 35:42Speaker 2: a husband when you have an eleven and twelve year
- 35:45Speaker 2: old and you're pregnant, and now the decision is do
- 35:50Speaker 2: you keep the baby or not? So they decided to
- 35:55Speaker 2: keep me. But I think this was like, if we've
- 35:58Speaker 2: gone this far's you know, let it ride. Yeah, yeah,
- 36:03Speaker 2: that's a real I don't know how I snuck through
- 36:05Speaker 2: that thing.
- 36:08Speaker 1: The what they say, God knows the steps or I'm
- 36:11Speaker 1: a butcher. I butchered quote in the Bible, just so
- 36:13Speaker 1: you know. But that's an incredible story. So redcarpets dot
- 36:17Speaker 1: Com sells a lot of red carpets.
- 36:19Speaker 2: Yep. So now we sell all the red carpets and
- 36:21Speaker 2: actually we provide the red carpet.
- 36:24Speaker 1: Is it still going on?
- 36:24Speaker 2: Yep? Fifteen years. It's the number one online retailer of
- 36:28Speaker 2: event carpet in the United States of America for fifteen years.
- 36:32Speaker 1: You didn't even say that in the resume, that long
- 36:34Speaker 1: ass resume.
- 36:35Speaker 2: Because my buddy Bill runs it.
- 36:38Speaker 1: And it's he's like and every month I get money
- 36:41Speaker 1: while I sleep well.
- 36:42Speaker 2: During COVID, it wasn't looking too good. It was looking icy.
- 36:45Speaker 2: We went three years. We couldn't sell a smile, but
- 36:48Speaker 2: we came back strong. There's no smiles on sale. And
- 36:53Speaker 2: now it's it's redcarpets dot Com. We have twenty seven
- 36:56Speaker 2: different colors of carpet. We have step repeat, we do shows, events.
- 37:01Speaker 2: You just go up there, design it, drop ships. Next
- 37:04Speaker 2: thing you know, you.
- 37:05Speaker 1: Feel like, I've placed orders with Redcarpets dot Com for
- 37:09Speaker 1: my events because.
- 37:10Speaker 2: They provide the carpet for the met Gala.
- 37:14Speaker 1: Drop it dust them sodas off dug.
- 37:18Speaker 2: But see, we're not a production company, so we don't
- 37:20Speaker 2: actually install it, but we actually create the carpet or
- 37:25Speaker 2: the material. The Metgala doesn't actually use carpet because it sticks.
- 37:28Speaker 1: And you're still partnered with the guy.
- 37:31Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so I own the company in Atlanta. Oh yeah, yeah,
- 37:34Speaker 2: our carpet guy. Yeah. Because okay, so American carpet or
- 37:39Speaker 2: when you think of the red carpet, it's one inch
- 37:43Speaker 2: twilled pulled recycled nylon that is dyed in Georgia. So
- 37:51Speaker 2: in Georgia, that's like the carpet capital of the United States.
- 37:54Speaker 2: When you get carpet from other countries, they have a
- 37:56Speaker 2: different process. That's why people want American red carpet. So
- 38:02Speaker 2: the first red carpet was rolled out in four to
- 38:05Speaker 2: fifty eight BC Agmemnon, and there was a reference and carpet.
- 38:12Speaker 2: Red carpet actually historically would come when people would rush
- 38:16Speaker 2: a castle and then people would shoot the people from
- 38:19Speaker 2: the castle to stop them from coming in. Their blood
- 38:23Speaker 2: was the entrance of the castle. So in four to
- 38:26Speaker 2: fifty eight BC, having a red carpet was just like
- 38:29Speaker 2: a red trail, which meant that your castle was powerful
- 38:32Speaker 2: because the blood of the people that couldn't come in
- 38:35Speaker 2: was at the door. That was how the tradition started.
- 38:39Speaker 2: Then they used colored berries and fruits to dye materials
- 38:43Speaker 2: red so you could have the regalness of the red carpet. Wow.
- 38:48Speaker 2: So President Monroe heard about this tradition and rolled out
- 38:52Speaker 2: the red carpet in the United States, and he was
- 38:55Speaker 2: the first president to hear about this tradition and use
- 38:58Speaker 2: the red carpet on US soil. Then it started with
- 39:03Speaker 2: the Egyptian Theater here in California. Sid Grauman took what
- 39:08Speaker 2: he had read about the president and took about what
- 39:10Speaker 2: he had read about history and created the red carpet
- 39:13Speaker 2: entrance in Hollywood. But the interesting thing about it was
- 39:16Speaker 2: the first red carpet was rolled out in Hollywood when
- 39:19Speaker 2: there was only black and white television and black and
- 39:22Speaker 2: white photography, so no one actually saw it read And
- 39:28Speaker 2: then over the course of time it's become like standard
- 39:31Speaker 2: for all the different events. So I became a red
- 39:33Speaker 2: carpet historian. And we still sell thousands of red carpets
- 39:37Speaker 2: every day, all day. We should red carpet this whole place.
- 39:40Speaker 2: You need step and repeats boom boom, logo.
- 39:43Speaker 1: Wall, So what's the pivot after that?
- 39:47Speaker 2: So we're selling the red carpets. And I was tired
- 39:51Speaker 2: of being a carpet salesman. I did not want to
- 39:54Speaker 2: be an entrepreneur. I did not want to sell carpets.
- 39:57Speaker 2: I was tired of running around. I felt like a
- 39:59Speaker 2: salmon constantly swimming upstream. You have to sell everybody on
- 40:03Speaker 2: the idea. You have to build technology, data, you have
- 40:06Speaker 2: to track it, drop ship, set up insurance like it
- 40:10Speaker 2: was just a lot of job, just overbroke. It was
- 40:14Speaker 2: a lot of job, and I didn't feel like it
- 40:18Speaker 2: was fulfilling my superpower. So I get an opportunity. I
- 40:23Speaker 2: get a phone call to interview for this new position
- 40:27Speaker 2: on Madison Avenue. I'm in New York at the time,
- 40:31Speaker 2: and it was called chief Diversity Officer. I had never
- 40:36Speaker 2: heard of that job, and my whole life, I didn't
- 40:38Speaker 2: even know what it was. I didn't even know if
- 40:40Speaker 2: it was full time. I was like, what is this job?
- 40:42Speaker 2: And I'm like, Doug, you are going to help work
- 40:45Speaker 2: with our company and our clients on ensuring we are
- 40:49Speaker 2: inclusive and all of our messages. Now, when we first
- 40:54Speaker 2: started this idea, it was more around making sure that
- 40:58Speaker 2: all the marketing and all the imagery that we were
- 41:01Speaker 2: creating for clients was inclusive. So our clients were Pepsi
- 41:05Speaker 2: Co And Apple, Nissan, McDonald's and.
- 41:12Speaker 1: All right, no, no, I don't want to continue with
- 41:14Speaker 1: the story. Sorry, And.
- 41:19Speaker 2: I started working with them because at the time, in
- 41:21Speaker 2: twenty twelve, there wasn't a lot of diversity officers, so
- 41:24Speaker 2: they were like, Doug, maybe you could work with our clients,
- 41:26Speaker 2: and I would work with them to ensure all their
- 41:28Speaker 2: messaging was holistic. There was nothing that could be interpreted
- 41:32Speaker 2: as stereotypes in the scripts because we're making their television commercials.
- 41:38Speaker 2: So I did that for several years and then I
- 41:43Speaker 2: got a phone call to go to Geneva, Switzerland and
- 41:46Speaker 2: do it internationally. So I got a call from a
- 41:50Speaker 2: holding group and they asked me if I would want
- 41:53Speaker 2: to relocate to Geneva, Switzerland and head up diversity internationally
- 41:59Speaker 2: for this luxury company. And in that position, I traveled
- 42:03Speaker 2: to forty countries to understand what is diversity around the world.
- 42:07Speaker 2: Is it family status, is it socioeconomic? What is it
- 42:12Speaker 2: that triggers it? Because this is when I became a
- 42:15Speaker 2: reputation management expert. What do companies and individuals need to
- 42:21Speaker 2: observe to ensure that they don't have any reputational risks
- 42:24Speaker 2: in the market for their brand, their name, and their likeness.
- 42:28Speaker 2: So this is when I started lecturing at Stanford Graduate
- 42:32Speaker 2: School of Business on reputation management. This is when I
- 42:36Speaker 2: started working with Forbes to start to write stories around
- 42:40Speaker 2: what companies were delivering on their promise. And this is
- 42:44Speaker 2: when I signed my book deal with Simon and Schuster.
- 42:47Speaker 2: I'm under Charlemagne the God's Black Privilege publishing. How can
- 42:52Speaker 2: I start to tell stories to people to inspire them
- 42:56Speaker 2: around what they could do to build themselves up and
- 42:59Speaker 2: be more or positive because a lot of people look
- 43:02Speaker 2: at this as negative. Oh I don't like diversity, or
- 43:06Speaker 2: companies aren't always guessing right. But the thing about it
- 43:08Speaker 2: is you can't solve a problem and complain about a
- 43:12Speaker 2: problem at the same time. If a company brings you
- 43:15Speaker 2: in because they have a problem, then you need to
- 43:19Speaker 2: solve said problem and deliver it as if it's an opportunity.
- 43:23Speaker 2: But people like to create problems and then try to
- 43:27Speaker 2: solve them at the same time. Or they look at
- 43:29Speaker 2: a company and say, oh, look at the company messed up. Well,
- 43:32Speaker 2: I'm the person here to fix it. So I can't
- 43:34Speaker 2: be the person who's there looking at anything negatively. You've
- 43:38Speaker 2: brought me in the team, all my life experiences together,
- 43:42Speaker 2: so I like to help people move through the rooms
- 43:45Speaker 2: and make sure their reputation is right. And one of
- 43:48Speaker 2: the stories that I have never told on a podcast,
- 43:51Speaker 2: but I write about it in my book was I
- 43:54Speaker 2: worked with Pepsi to retire Aunt Jemima.
- 43:58Speaker 1: Yeah, you briefly mentioned that when I met you, Can
- 44:01Speaker 1: you tell me more about it?
- 44:02Speaker 2: Yeah? So obviously Aunt Tramima is no longer on the packaging,
- 44:06Speaker 2: but there was an insight around Aunt Jemima and PepsiCo
- 44:10Speaker 2: was one of our clients, and I started collecting Aunt
- 44:15Speaker 2: Jemima memorabilia. So I have over one hundred pieces of
- 44:19Speaker 2: like really iffy Aunt Jemima stuff from forty to fifty
- 44:25Speaker 2: sixty years ago because it was really like a blackface doll.
- 44:29Speaker 2: And when Aunt Jemima started, they used to call the
- 44:33Speaker 2: products slave in a Box because it was implemented right
- 44:38Speaker 2: after the Emancipation Proclamation. Wow. So it ended up getting
- 44:44Speaker 2: changed to aunt Jemima, and then there was different imagery
- 44:47Speaker 2: along the way.
- 44:48Speaker 1: And they actually labeled box.
- 44:50Speaker 2: There's a book you could read all about it. It's
- 44:52Speaker 2: called slave in a Box.
- 44:53Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, okay Jesus okay, yeah.
- 45:02Speaker 2: Yeah. So anyway, we worked with them, and then when
- 45:05Speaker 2: they agreed to retire Aunt Tremima, we'd had a conversation
- 45:09Speaker 2: if they would call the other food companies so we
- 45:11Speaker 2: could retire all the food mascots, so Lando Lakes an Temima,
- 45:16Speaker 2: Uncle ben Rastus from Cream of Wheat, Missus Buttersworth and
- 45:20Speaker 2: Eskimo Pie were all retired in the same ninety day period.
- 45:25Speaker 2: So that's why there's no more food mascots was the
- 45:28Speaker 2: inspiration that I drove around reputation. Wow, yeah, I messed
- 45:33Speaker 2: up your kitchen. All the fun characters are gone, but
- 45:37Speaker 2: they weren't getting paid the mascot. No, the families. So
- 45:43Speaker 2: like Chef Boyardi's a real person. He shares in the profits.
- 45:48Speaker 2: Paul Newman's estate shares in the profits. But a lot
- 45:51Speaker 2: of times women and people of color are labeled mascots
- 45:55Speaker 2: on food, so they don't get any percentage of the sales.
- 45:59Speaker 2: Famous Aimen I could go down the line.
- 46:01Speaker 1: Famous Amos doesn't get a percentage of the.
- 46:02Speaker 2: Same He never did. He was a mascot. What yep.
- 46:11Speaker 1: So when you go into the store and you buy
- 46:13Speaker 1: a product and you think, hey, this is benefiting, it wasn't.
- 46:16Speaker 2: No, the Taquida Banana lady, that's like doing her thing.
- 46:20Speaker 2: She's still trying to get royalties. Also, the Pineapple dole lady,
- 46:25Speaker 2: they're still trying to get royalties, but they're labeled as mascots.
- 46:31Speaker 2: So see, these are the things you have to look
- 46:33Speaker 2: at that are nuanced and not everybody's eyes are open.
- 46:36Speaker 1: To kick these buy Felicia.
- 46:39Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a lot more emails and presidents. Let's
- 46:43Speaker 2: just say I kicked them, but it was really more
- 46:44Speaker 2: emails and meetings and more diploma So it took a team.
- 46:49Speaker 2: But I had an ally within PEPSI CO that was
- 46:52Speaker 2: really working to help move this forward. So it was positive.
- 46:56Speaker 1: I hate to be a race person. But was that
- 46:59Speaker 1: team did they?
- 47:02Speaker 2: What was there? Well, the person who was most against
- 47:07Speaker 2: retiring and Temima internally at the time was a person
- 47:11Speaker 2: of color.
- 47:13Speaker 1: And knew the history he after he knew the history.
- 47:17Speaker 2: Sexist but after and the person that was my ally
- 47:23Speaker 2: was not a person of color. I mean, I don't
- 47:25Speaker 2: know if it matters so much, but it was someone
- 47:28Speaker 2: who was just like, we can't have this here. Okay, Yeah,
- 47:34Speaker 2: But the person who wanted to keep it was a person.
- 47:36Speaker 1: Of color and they knew the history though.
- 47:38Speaker 2: They said it was the greatest spokesperson in the history
- 47:41Speaker 2: of entrepreneurship.
- 47:45Speaker 1: Wow okay, so okay, Wow, you covered all the land
- 47:49Speaker 1: that I needed to cover.
- 47:50Speaker 2: Yeah. And then I wrote a book after leaving Switzerland
- 47:53Speaker 2: and it became a best seller. It's called Invisible Generals.
- 47:58Speaker 1: You guys should check it out. Already started reading it.
- 48:01Speaker 1: It's very easy read. Another thing I wanted to cover
- 48:04Speaker 1: was CUP. Just sorry, not trying to jump over yeah,
- 48:08Speaker 1: but let's talk about CUP.
- 48:11Speaker 2: So I now serve as the executive director. I think
- 48:14Speaker 2: a big part of everyone's success needs to be working
- 48:18Speaker 2: with nonprofits. I think when people say what's the best
- 48:21Speaker 2: way to move, what's the best way I could grow,
- 48:24Speaker 2: What's the best thing I should do for my career,
- 48:26Speaker 2: my answer, one hundred percent of the time is very well.
- 48:32Speaker 2: But if you can't do that, participate in nonprofits. So
- 48:37Speaker 2: earlier this year I was appointed to serve as the
- 48:41Speaker 2: executive director of the Council of Urban Professionals, which is
- 48:45Speaker 2: a nonprofit organization of five oh one c that specializes
- 48:50Speaker 2: in leadership development and mid level career development across different industries.
- 48:55Speaker 2: So most nonprofits are vertical, but CUP is horizontal. So
- 49:01Speaker 2: we have forty percent finance, venture banking, we have about
- 49:05Speaker 2: twenty five percent legal in law, around twenty five percent
- 49:09Speaker 2: tech in sports, twenty five percent entertainment or so and
- 49:14Speaker 2: a growing number of entrepreneurs. So we have this pie
- 49:19Speaker 2: that may or may not add up to one hundred,
- 49:21Speaker 2: which is what I just was thinking in my mind.
- 49:23Speaker 2: But we have this pie of people and these individuals
- 49:28Speaker 2: are a lot of the movers in the shakers across
- 49:31Speaker 2: these industries, and they're very diverse, all different representations. But
- 49:37Speaker 2: you get a really good community and most importantly, you
- 49:42Speaker 2: get relationship building. The number one way if you look
- 49:46Speaker 2: at hiring today, the number one area companies are hiring
- 49:51Speaker 2: today is the new collar worker. This is somebody who
- 49:55Speaker 2: is great at relationships and also has a hard skill
- 50:00Speaker 2: soft skill, hard skill on top of AI fluency. So
- 50:05Speaker 2: what's happening now. People that are good at AI do
- 50:08Speaker 2: not necessarily have a good soft skills or hard skills.
- 50:10Speaker 2: People that are good at hard skills may not be
- 50:12Speaker 2: good at AI. But the new collar worker, and I
- 50:15Speaker 2: wrote about this in Forbes and we could put the
- 50:17Speaker 2: article on the link, is someone that's good at hard skills,
- 50:20Speaker 2: soft skills and AI. And the only way you're going
- 50:23Speaker 2: to really start finding these new relationships is by working
- 50:27Speaker 2: with nonprofits that cross pollinate these individuals in the same room,
- 50:32Speaker 2: so you could start to understand where there's opportunities. So
- 50:37Speaker 2: I was in Davos earlier this year and I was
- 50:40Speaker 2: talking to a lot of different executives, and one of
- 50:43Speaker 2: the things that came up was where are they hiring?
- 50:48Speaker 2: And one of the areas that they're hiring is through relationships.
- 50:52Speaker 2: So the data shows that somewhere around seventy four percent
- 50:58Speaker 2: or more of every single job filled in twenty twenty
- 51:02Speaker 2: five was through a relationship, not through a job posting.
- 51:07Speaker 2: So where you're going to build these relationships working with
- 51:10Speaker 2: five oh one c's like counselor urban professionals. So I
- 51:13Speaker 2: found it my duty and honor to serve as the
- 51:16Speaker 2: executive director. So we could take this community of nineteen
- 51:20Speaker 2: thousand people New York, LA, Martha's Vineyard, and DC more
- 51:24Speaker 2: joining from around the world, but primarily those markets and
- 51:28Speaker 2: help build and elevate community. So we can work together
- 51:32Speaker 2: to build off each other and create more opportunities.
- 51:35Speaker 1: Okay, I have just a couple more questions and then
- 51:38Speaker 1: we're gonna have to do way every time. Sorry, give
- 51:41Speaker 1: is not very good.
- 51:43Speaker 2: Give me an example of I know this is a
- 51:45Speaker 2: cooking show, and let me tell you something.
- 51:48Speaker 1: Okay, So hard and soft skills, just one example of each.
- 51:52Speaker 2: Hard skill is more data driven. It's a very specific
- 51:56Speaker 2: could be a trade, you know, you could say plumbing,
- 51:59Speaker 2: or you could say con tracting. But in my world
- 52:01Speaker 2: it would be more like producing a graphic designer. It
- 52:06Speaker 2: would be an account and finance operations. It could be
- 52:09Speaker 2: any hard, more digital tangible skill and a soft skill
- 52:14Speaker 2: is relationship building through presentation, marketing, PR networking, connecting personable.
- 52:24Speaker 2: So you need the combination of both, and historically they've
- 52:28Speaker 2: been separate, but because AI is coming up as the
- 52:31Speaker 2: great equalizer, it's now your responsibility to have both, and
- 52:34Speaker 2: all three of those together are called the new collar worker.
- 52:38Speaker 1: I one hundred percent agree with that. I tell people
- 52:41Speaker 1: because there's there's a part of the world that's like
- 52:43Speaker 1: I don't mess with AI, or creatives that are like
- 52:46Speaker 1: I don't mess with AI, and I'm like, I think
- 52:48Speaker 1: you guys are looking at AI differently. If you are
- 52:50Speaker 1: skilled in a certain field, you can use AI as
- 52:54Speaker 1: the steroids in your battery pack. Yeah, if you don't
- 52:56Speaker 1: know how to communicate with AI, their lies the problem,
- 53:01Speaker 1: along with a lack of expertise. I don't think AI
- 53:03Speaker 1: can fully replace someone, but I definitely think it could
- 53:06Speaker 1: be the steroids or the battery pack that you need.
- 53:09Speaker 1: I love AI like I would I would personally marry Yeah,
- 53:14Speaker 1: not after this conversation, okay, And then one other.
- 53:17Speaker 2: Thing I want to could better than this chicken nugget
- 53:19Speaker 2: parm before we wrap.
- 53:21Speaker 1: I do want to know how can people join CUP, Like,
- 53:24Speaker 1: what's the process? What does that look like?
- 53:26Speaker 2: You can go to CUPUSA dot org and you could
- 53:29Speaker 2: just write us a quick note and join our email list.
- 53:32Speaker 2: And we're going to start our formal membership later in
- 53:35Speaker 2: the year. So we come up on twenty years next
- 53:37Speaker 2: year and we want to make sure to tighten our
- 53:41Speaker 2: membership base. So we're going to go to a full
- 53:43Speaker 2: membership model right now. Anybody could join for free, but
- 53:46Speaker 2: we are going right now. You got to enjoy right now,
- 53:48Speaker 2: right now. So just go to CUPUSA dot org. And
- 53:51Speaker 2: we have incredible sponsors, we have incredible partners. You were
- 53:55Speaker 2: at the event, yes, is.
- 53:56Speaker 1: At the event. I was blown away.
- 53:57Speaker 2: I have John Hope Brian a fellow Black of Fact.
- 54:00Speaker 2: I was like, I'm on Black Factor. He's like, I
- 54:03Speaker 2: am one of the investors and sit on the board
- 54:05Speaker 2: with Charlemagne John. I was like, bro, he said yeah.
- 54:10Speaker 2: He walked in like, let me tell you something, guys.
- 54:12Speaker 1: I've been trying to get John for so long. Thanks
- 54:15Speaker 1: to Doug, we were able to Hey, man, you talk
- 54:21Speaker 1: to me.
- 54:22Speaker 2: I love that guy. It was my first time really
- 54:24Speaker 2: talking to We got him.
- 54:25Speaker 1: He's gonna be on eating walk brokes just so you know,
- 54:28Speaker 1: hopefully with cup too in front of the.
- 54:30Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna do a live studio, then we should.
- 54:32Speaker 1: Totally do that. Thank you guys for tuning in. Keep
- 54:35Speaker 1: up with everything. Doug Melvinville, he's calling.
- 54:39Speaker 2: Me Doug melvin it's you know what, she doesn't like
- 54:41Speaker 2: the name. She doesn't Melville.
- 54:45Speaker 1: DM me with Doug, dm.
- 54:48Speaker 2: ME with Doug. Why do you say dm me like
- 54:50Speaker 2: it's so hard? You know you've been telling these dudes
- 54:52Speaker 2: the dm me. You know how to say it. Let
- 54:54Speaker 2: me let it roll off your dm me, dm me.
- 54:57Speaker 1: Do you know how people have their dms popping my
- 55:00Speaker 1: There is zero activity. And I talk to a guy
- 55:03Speaker 1: about it. I said, I don't understand everyone.
- 55:05Speaker 2: You don't have any activity in your DM my dms.
- 55:07Speaker 1: I mean they get like business stuff, but I've never
- 55:09Speaker 1: got like, hey, what's up. It never has ever happened
- 55:12Speaker 1: to my dms. And someone said, it's the way you
- 55:14Speaker 1: set up your profile, like it doesn't look like you're oh, dmable,
- 55:19Speaker 1: I guess who cares.
- 55:20Speaker 2: Anyways, I'm the closest DM you've ever gotten. Dad jokes
- 55:25Speaker 2: available now Doug Melville dot com Book of Dad Jokes.
- 55:28Speaker 1: Okay, where can everybody keep up with everything? Does?
- 55:30Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah? Just add me DM me on Instagram at
- 55:33Speaker 2: Doug Melville. You go to Doug Melville dot com or
- 55:36Speaker 2: LinkedIn Doug Melville. I mean, it's just the same name everywhere.
- 55:39Speaker 2: But the most important thing is if you need to
- 55:42Speaker 2: pivot your career, if you need some support, DM me,
- 55:46Speaker 2: I'll bring you on the podcast and we kick off
- 55:49Speaker 2: May nineteenth. Then we're gonna be on and popping. So
- 55:51Speaker 2: I'm happy to be on Black Effect, happy to have
- 55:53Speaker 2: my new work colleague. And my book comes out. My
- 55:57Speaker 2: next book in the chapter, so I'm writing a trilogy
- 56:00Speaker 2: in my next chapter comes out January twenty sixth. I'm
- 56:05Speaker 2: Black January.
- 56:08Speaker 1: Pre sales are in all right, Thank you guys for
- 56:11Speaker 1: tuning in.
- 56:12Speaker 2: Peace out
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