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#011 - The HIDDEN Impact of Trauma In Your Business Growth! 🚀🔒 · Beyond Sovereignty

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  the masochist wounding. If this is left unhealed, they can
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  turn into... When you have had the psychopathic wounding and
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  you heal that within yourself, then you become an amazing leader.
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  Until you heal that within yourself, you can be a
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  You know of the four main nervous system responses, fight,
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  fright, freeze, and fawn, but you probably don't realize
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  that there's another two that are in there as well. The first one is Welcome
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  Wisdom Keepers, Soul Tribe and New Earth Leaders to
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  Soul Temple, your haven for self-discovery and growth.
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  I'm Blythe Langford and I am your guide to finding yourself and
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  your true, true, true, true, true purpose. Together, let's
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  shift from feeling stark and misaligned to living a
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  life of purpose and prosperity. Is
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  trauma impacting your business growth? This
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  is an interesting one because a lot of entrepreneurs are like, I don't need to deal with my past. That's really
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  just ridiculous because I am so successful in
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  my business. And if I concentrate on my past and take time out
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  from my business, then how am I going to get any growth? Yes,
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  I hear you because I used to think the same. Why do I need to concentrate
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  on all of the shadows and all of the dark things in order to have growth
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  in my business? Let's just do like another marketing thing or like let's just put
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  some time into a new software or AI development so
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  that we can grow our business. yet there is an underlying
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  trauma that we live each and every
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  day from. So I'm going to talk to you about these because I want you
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  to be able to see how they are either parts
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  of you or people around you. because the type
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  of breathwork that I've done, we studied basic psychology. And so
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  these five trauma responses, these
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  five trauma wounds, will literally help you understand where
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  your greatest trauma was. And then once you can
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  understand where your greatest trauma was from your past, your
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  childhood, then you'll be able to see how much it
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  affects everything that you do. You get your greatest imprints
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  in life from conception to seven years old, and
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  that is 100% true and correct. First of
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  all, we get in the womb, we get imprinted with
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  our DNA. What are you talking about? Our DNA is
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  already part of us. No, it's not, sweetheart. Our
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  DNA is an imprint that our mother creates for
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  us over the nine, 10 months that we are in the womb. So
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  every experience that she has, every thought that she
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  has, every food that she eats, every situation
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  that's going on in the world, whether there be a war, whether there be a death in the family,
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  whether there be a house burning down, whether it
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  be a friend that she loses, her dog that dies, all of these feelings
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  create imprints in us of how we
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  react and feel things. It's
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  also known as our epigenetics. So our epigenetics and
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  our DNA goes back four generations. So our mom, our
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  grandma, great grandma, great, great, great grandma, right? So that
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  is what creates our epigenetics. And I know a lot of people, especially close friends
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  to me are all alike epigenetics shows you everything and let's live
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  to our epigenetics. I'm like, screw that. I don't want
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  to live for the last four generations of my trauma. I want
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  to go beyond that to back where people were all
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  good and go back to my organic state and live from that place where
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  like you can live a thousand years old and freaking feel as happy as anything and be a
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  magical being. That's why your conception is
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  so interesting because your mother's experience
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  will create you and how you
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  live every day of your life and your birth then
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  creates how you interact with the world. So,
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  for example, my birth was so messy.
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  My mum thought she was having me. She got me to the hospital. My dad wouldn't let
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  her go to the hospital because he was a farmer. He's like,
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  you're not having the baby because he birthed cows. So he thought that he knew better. My
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  mother called the hospital and said, I'm having the baby. And my dad was like,
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  you're not having the baby. We're not going to the hospital. We're going to have a cup of tea, go back to bed. And
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  so the hospital's there stressing out, wondering why they haven't showed
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  up to the hospital. You know, my mum's doctor wasn't
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  there, so it was three days in labour. That's it, you know, we
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  need to do an emergency caesarean, the baby's not coming, da-da-da-da. And then my
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  dad ended up having an argument with this dude, nearly got into a punch-up, got
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  kicked out of the hospital room. It was just chaos. and
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  drama, right? And then
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  I went into stress as a baby and then they like cut
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  mum open, gave her all the drugs so she was passed out and I was birthed into
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  the world. Had no flesh with either one of
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  my parents straight away. I was there with the doctors for who knows how long and
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  then my dad was able to hold me for a little while but because it was 10 o'clock at
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  night then I went into a humidity crib and was by myself until
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  my mum was okay the next day to see me. So I
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  had no skin to skin, I had extreme trauma
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  in that moment and that was my first experience of the world. This
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  is so common for so many of us and we don't actually realize that
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  the root, like we always want to get to the root cause and the reason we do all this personal development
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  and all these things is to get to the root cause of our issues so
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  that we can be better in our businesses and our lives and our relationships. but
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  we never actually go back this far. We always just concentrate on the mindset, the
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  NLP and all of the things, yet this is where our
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  core traumas are birthed and this is where our epigenetics are
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  created, our DNA, and this is the place that we actually get to resolve
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  these things as well. So, that's how your birth
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  trauma can continually show up in your life
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  for, you know, especially overachievers. We generally have
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  a lot of chaos and drama and trauma
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  in our past. That's why we're such great problem solvers because we've had
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  to deal with so much crap just to be alive and
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  make it through our family and our life. Now, let's
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  go into these five core wounds. The first one
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  is, I'm going to go through them and then I'll go in and explain them each one. We've
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  got first, the schizoid wounding. These
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  are terrible names because they were created a long time ago in the 40s.
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  Second, we've got the oral wounding. Then we've got the masochist. Then
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  we've got the psychopath. Then we've got the
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  rigid. So let's go into the schizoid. The
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  schizoid wounding happens at birth. You
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  know when a baby doesn't stop screaming? There's like a technique that happens
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  called scream technique where you let the baby scream and scream and scream and then
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  eventually it'll calm itself down and then it will
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  start to sleep by itself. What's actually happening
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  is the baby goes into a state of terror. It's so terrifying
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  that it screams, it screams, it screams, it screams, it screams so much and you've
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  seen these babies that they scream so much then they just pass
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  out. What's happening in that moment is the baby's spirit
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  and soul leaves its body because it
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  is so traumatized and feels so
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  unsafe and so neglected in that moment that it has to tap
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  out because there is no way it could survive in that moment. So it
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  leaves its body and that's known as a schizoid wounding.
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  So this happens in the birth because it is so traumatic. They're
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  cutting umbilical cords, they're slapping babies on the bum so that it screams. This
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  is its first experience of life that's supposed to be beautiful
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  and loving and nurturing on this world and it's in this freaking
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  hospital room that looks like a spaceship with aliens, like, all
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  in white gowns with face masks and on. Like, it's crazy when
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  you think about it. Bright lights, like, so unnatural. And they
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  cut it from its source, which is its placenta that's supposed to keep
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  pulsating all of the vitamins and nutrients and minerals so the baby never
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  gets sick again. And you might recognize within yourself or
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  recognize other people that have this schizoid wounding, it generally looks
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  like somebody that is more lanky. quite lanky in
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  their body and very
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  creative, like they love gaming, they love to not be
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  in the world, they are an artist, they're very by
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  themselves, they can be somebody that's completely disassociated
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  from reality, that it's like just so hard to be here
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  and they're never actually, you know, they always look like they've
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  got fear in their eyes because they're just in this permanent
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  state of shock and terror that's imprinted them so
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  much as a child, as a baby, that you just see it
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  in their eyes. They're often scared and they're generally running in their nervous
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  system 24-7. Second of all, we've got the oral
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  wounding. Now, the oral has two parts of it. It's the oral and then
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  the compensated oral. Let me explain. The oral wounding is
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  literally what comes next in the developmental stage. Oral
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  wounding is generally somebody that wasn't breastfed, that
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  didn't have that skin-to-skin connection with their mother and was
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  is it feels so needy. They're the people that take up
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  so much time in their communication. Like, you know, you give them your...
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  Back in the day before we had mobiles, you know, you'd be on the phone and you'd be like, they'd
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  talk for two hours and then you'd get one second in before they get off the phone. You're
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  like... How is this a relationship? You
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  know, it's all about them all the time. They outwardly
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  express everything. They don't internally process
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  a lot. They externally process and need to talk so
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  much just so that they can understand life. They're always
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  just needing the attention, needing the attention. And for
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  somebody that's a compensated oral, you can be repelled by this
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  person. A lot of people are repelled by this energy because it comes across as so needy.
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  And we all have all of these wounds, so whilst
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  you might be really repelled by this, we all
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  have some of this within us as well. So that's the oral wounding.
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  And their significant part on their body
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  that you would notice is they have a little hole in their chest, like a little
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  divot right in their ribcage, like you'll
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  actually be able to see there's a hole there. A lot of orals
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  have that. So with an oral wounded boss, what
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  it would look like is somebody that's always externally processing,
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  always is in control, never really has the time or
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  capacity to listen to their team, doesn't even consider what their
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  team is going through or how the information they're sharing with
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  their team lands. because it's all about them and their internal
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  dialogue being expressed. It's all about their ideas and there's no
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  time for anybody else's ideas because they're the most amazing person in the world. The compensated oral
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  is the flip side of the oral wounding. So rather than being
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  externally needing, they're the opposite where they
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  aren't even aware that they're actually so independent but yet
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  so needy of somebody's love and so they will push everybody away
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  hoping that somebody gives them the attention. I'm a compensated oral
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  with a psychopath. Anyway, so we all have all of these wounds.
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  And now this can show up by somebody, this is so common
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  with business owners and high achievers. I'm going to do everything myself until
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  you learn to delegate, that is. I'm going to do everything myself. I'm going to learn every single role. I
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  can do it all. I don't need to delegate anything because I got
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  it. I can do all of this and I will get everybody into the team and I will tell them
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  all how it's all done. But at the end of the day, I am the independent one. I'm
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  the one that's running everything. I know exactly how I'm going to do everything because I
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  can do it all myself. And then we've got our third trauma response, which is
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  the masochist wounding. Now the masochist happens after
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  the oral, so these are all in sequence, okay? So the masochist happens
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  next. Now the masochist had to be the happy child, had
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  to be okay with everything, everything's fine, don't worry, everything's
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  okay. Now we call them the smiling assassin.
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  because externally they are so happy and so bubbly and
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  will just, you know, you can rely on them for everything, they're amazing
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  and they're generally like this, you know. But underneath
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  they have so much repressed anger and suppressed anger that
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  if this is left unhealed they can turn into
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  a terrorist, okay? Like it's legit that
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  bad. Their unresolved anger and
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  repressed anger is dangerous. So
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  that's why these wounds are
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  extremely important to deal with and inner child work is
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  very important to deal with. Now, how a masochist shows up in their
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  business is pretty similar. Like, I can do everything. Everything's okay. Everything's
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  fine. But then they have passive-aggressive attacks at their staff, you
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  know? Or they might have that little bit of an anger thing
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  come out and it's like, oh my god, I'm so sorry, I didn't even mean that, I don't know why I said that. So
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  a masochist body shape is somebody, because they literally have
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  this repressed anger, is somebody that is bottom-heavy. So
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  what I mean by that is they're quite hippie. You might know a
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  certain family. Kardashians that
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  are all quite bottom-heavy, you know? That would be a specific,
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  very clear masochist. A masochist has got so much repressed anger,
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  but on the other side of that, they are just the most loving
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  out of everybody because they've experienced such suppression and
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  so their love is unbounded. It's so beautiful. Next,
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  we have number four, the psychopath. Now, this is
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  the most triggering word for everybody. Guess who's a psychopath? Moi.
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  Psychopathic people that speak with those crazy eyes
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  because they are like manipulating you with their eyes. They think
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  that they're being really spiritual, but it's actually a psychopathic wounding. Ew.
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  I didn't realize that for a very long time. And I just thought I was like
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  with all these other spiritual people, we're all just being spiritual. We actually
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  have major psychopathic woundings. So what
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  that means is that you had a parent that you
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  were a COE for. a codependent. They were
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  a narcissist and they had top-down authoritarian and
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  everything that they said went and you were having
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  to suppress everything and just It was generally
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  a war zone of chaos that you grew up in and that
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  narcissist was always right. They were always right.
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  So you might find that you've got a wounding of never being able to be wrong because you
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  had to be right for your mum or your dad. For me, my mum was my narcissist.
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  So I was her codependent and I would do anything
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  for her. You are so loyal. You are
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  so loyal and you have had the craziest leaders lead
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  you. That's what makes you a great leader. When you have
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  had the psychopathic wounding and you heal that within
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  yourself, then you become an amazing leader. But
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  until you heal that within yourself, you can generally be
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  a narcissist boss. So what that means is
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  you can manipulate people to do things for you and you can use your
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  crazy eyes to be overbearing. Yes,
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  we thought we were spiritual coming from our heart. Our wounding is
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  saying another thing. Gosh, it's so tricky, isn't it? So
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  the psychopathic wounding obviously says that if
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  this wound is left unhealed and mixed with another wound. masochist,
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  then you can create a psychopath, narcissist, also
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  a sociopath. So this is a really important wound to
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  do some inner child work on because this will highly affect
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  your business because people don't like being manipulated or
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  you'll have such intense relationships with your team
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  and your staff that are unhinged. They're actually
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  unhinged and that's when that person will end up leaving and it will
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  be like a catastrophe and You know, they might steal your database
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  or they might like steal from you. All these crazy things
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  will happen, but it's because you've also been that
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  within the business. And then number five is the rigid
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  wounding. Now, rigids have, it's the last
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  developmental stage, right? So they have gotten through all
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  of the other stages without any deep trauma. Now,
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  how this shows up in people is literally through their
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  body. They are symmetrically really balanced
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  because every one of these previous traumas causes
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  a physical impact on the body. So they can be
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  not as tall, they will not have symmetry in
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  their body. Whereas the rigid, they're generally taller, they're
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  generally symmetrical, they're generally really beautiful people,
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  they're generally people that are celebrities and go into fame. because
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  they haven't had those previous woundings, so they're a lot more confident in
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  themselves, and they're just naturally being praised a
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  lot for being so beautiful. So they feel more confident in
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  themselves. Rigids are also generally people that
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  are very regimented, that set themselves up very
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  well to succeed, that are very much in their heads, that are super organized, very
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  much results-driven, but don't enjoy the journey because
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  it's all about the next win, the next win, the next win. So you can see a lot of
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  bosses are like this. They're like, yep, this is where we're going, this is where we're going. And
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  then it's like they're a psycho the whole way or they're completely not
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  present. Sometimes the rigids are generally mixed with
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  a schizoid wounding. So they're very action orientated
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  and very about the final place, but then they're out of their
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  bodies and disassociated a lot of the time. They can generally be somebody that
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  has obsessive compulsive. right? And a lot of addictive
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  behaviors and things that are done like too schedule and
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  very, very rigid. So that's
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  the trauma side of it. But a healed rigid is an
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  amazing mission and visionary and pioneering leader,
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  right? Because they can not only have
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  the detail but have the greater mission and the vision and the
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  pioneering skills to get there and they also have the confidence within
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  them that they are going to make it no matter what. I'm pretty
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  sure that you can relate to at least one of them and
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  then the people around you, you can absolutely see how
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  or who they are or where their wounds come from. And
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  I'm hoping, and I'll touch on this, but I'm hoping that you can see
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  how our childhood wounds and how our birth imprints literally
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  are the root cause of how we show up each and every day. Like when I
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  started to go into this, I actually realized that my wounds
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  were running everything in my
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  life and I was pretty grossed
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  out by it. If you can attune to what
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  it is that you feel your biggest birth wound is, or
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  biggest childhood wounding is, where you're potentially
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  that body shape, and I'm not talking about your plastic body. If you've gotten
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  plastic surgery, I'm talking about your previous body, where your body
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  shape would be, where your psychopathic eyes
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  are, where your rigidity is and how, oh my gosh, I'm a bit
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  obsessive-compulsive, or where your big
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  hips are and you're potentially pushing down and suppressing a
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  lot and your passive-aggressive nature and your smiley assassin-ness, or
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  your neediness, whether it be like externally needing or whether it's
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  like, I wish that they would give me more attention, but I'm
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  just going to do it all by myself. Or whether it's your schizoid, it's like, Farrah,
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  I don't even want to be here. Like, I just never want to be here. Oh my gosh, it's
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  so hard to be in the world, of the world. I don't
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  feel like I belong at all. So see where it
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  is that you potentially have a bit of work to work
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  on. And where your responses to certain situations might
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  show up, do you generally fall into blaming or
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  guilting or passive-aggressive trauma responses, which
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  is toxic feminine? Or do you generally fall into shaming
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  and being angry, which is your more masculine wounding?
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  So you can start to see this might have, whether it's the toxic feminine or
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  the toxic masculine, it might have come more so from your mother or
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  your father, and that will be your significant
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  wound. For myself, it's my mother. So a
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  lot of my internal rapport mechanisms and how
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  I relate to the world comes through this feminine
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  wounded place. Now, I want to also explain how
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  these show up in the nervous system as well, because
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  this will help to even take it that level deeper for you
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  as well. Now, you know of the four main nervous
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  system responses, which is fight, fright, freeze, and
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  fawn. Now, they are the ones that are heavily promoted, but
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  you probably don't realise that there's another two that are in
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  there as well. Feasting and, excuse my French, fucking. Are
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  you an obsessive eater? And so many people are like, oh my gosh, I'm
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  an obsessive eater. I didn't realise that that's my nervous system response to
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  how I deal with something. I
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  was being G'd up for a long time. And then some men and women are
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  like, I'm a fucker. That's how I deal with everything. That's how I relate. That's how
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  I calm my nervous system down. So this is really important information
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  for us to see how we respond to things and
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  then create a holistic plan for how we
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  are going to work on ourselves to benefit our business.
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  Now, if you notice that you're especially a
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  business owner, like I used to be in the retail industry and
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  fucking was a total nervous system response for a lot of straight men. Like
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  they would be predator energy, leaking energy over younger
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  women and manipulate them into doing things that are
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  not okay. You know, like older men with young women.
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  So noticing these things about yourself and especially
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  like if you have pedophilic thoughts, like this is totally
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  a thing. If you have pedophilic thoughts, That's something that's wired
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  into your nervous system and it's something that
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  you can deal with. It's not something that needs
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  to be stuck with you forever. There is in
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  countries such as the Philippines, they literally have
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  a healing modality that they work with their pedophiles and they've got an
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  89% success rate. There are healing tools
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  and remedies that can actually help with every single one of these. But
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  it also starts with, like I was saying, these five childhood
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  wounds, which literally knowing which one you are and
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  then being able to go and do healing within this. This is
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  why I do rebirthing breathwork. This is why we heal these wounds within my
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  program. So the one takeaway I would love you to gain from
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  this episode is realizing that your nervous system controls
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  your entire life. And it's probably been wired to
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  something that you have been rejecting, suppressing, and putting
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  away, and shutting down, and all of those things. And once you
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  learn to regulate your nervous system, it'll completely change your life. This
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  one thing is the gold. Just this one thing will
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  take you from your sympathetic nervous system back to your parasympathetic nervous
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  system. Slow exhales. Slow
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  exhales literally tells the body to go from your sympathetic back
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  to your parasympathetic. Whenever you're triggered, whenever you're anything, it'll go
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  from that wounded little version of yourself back into your conscious mind. So it
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  literally changes your brain function. And that's why I just want to touch on this for my program,
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  The Divinity Method. We go through cleaning up, growing
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  up. waking up, and then showing up. They are the
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  four pillars. You can see why this is so vitally important, right? And
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  I hope that with you, even if you're not coming to my retreat, then
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  or doing my programs, that you start to concentrate on
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  these areas, going in and internally cleaning up. growing up
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  these younger parts of yourself, awakening to the true possibility
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  of who you are, your mission, your purpose, your leadership, and
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  then showing up in the world as the person that you know that you're here to be without any
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  of your wounds. So the first step that you could do to acknowledge where
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  you're at and start the healing process is acknowledge where
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  you're at in the comments below. Let us know. Let us know where
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  you think you are, what you think you're currently working through, because
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  remember, we're all something at any one time. So it's
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  okay to normalize what we are. It's actually perfect
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  because once we put it out there, we start to heal it. It will literally change
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  your life forever. Thank you for joining me on Soul
• 24:12
  Temple. If this episode spoke to your soul, I would love,
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  love, love your support with a five-star review on Apple Podcasts
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  favorite platform. But don't let your journey end here. Connect with me and
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  my like-minded community of souls at Blythe Langford
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  on all social platforms. I look forward, I really look