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The Most Pivotal Point in the Early Stages of Dating! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  The most pivotal point You want to know The most pivotal point
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  in the early stages of dating? Get ready for it.
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  Hang on. Yes, it's coming from a
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  professional matchmaker. 16 years, ladies and gentlemen, I
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  know what I'm talking about. Here goes.
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  Have you guessed what it is? Have you guessed?
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  It's before you start sleeping together, actually.
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  So what is it? Well, sure.
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  Are we going to just see each other?
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  Is a big one. But even a step before that,
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  especially if you've met on the dating apps and most of you are
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  meeting on the dating apps these days.
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  The guy, not you ladies, the guy.
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  The guy should say, hey, let's get off the dating apps, let's
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  just see each other. That's how that conversation
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  should go, all right. Before you ever sleep with them,
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  Before you ever sleep with them. Before you ever reach out to me
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  and say, Gina, I met this great guy, Take Me Out of your
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  database. Slow down, ladies.
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  Slow down. OK, I know that you like to get
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  moved off the market as soon as possible.
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  But recently I was working with this lady through my, you know,
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  one-on-one program, my transformative program.
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  And thank God she gave me the scoop so I could tell her what
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  was up with this guy. Hang on.
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  And she was so beautiful. She looks just like Sofia
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  Vergara. OK.
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  And this guy was older. He was so lucky to be with her,
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  yet she got played by this guy. Hang on.
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  And I do not want this to happen to you ladies.
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  All right. So they were already sleeping
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  together, but she had to initiate the conversation.
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  Are we just seeing each other? And he agreed, Yes, sure, We're
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  just seeing each other. But they both remained on the
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  dating apps he never mentioned. Hey, let's get off the dating
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  apps. So that was one of the first
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  things I asked her, well, are you guys off the dating apps?
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  She's like, oh, no, no, he's still on there.
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  I'm still on there. And I said, oh, OK Well, I think
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  that's a little odd. And you're sleeping together and
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  you think you're just seeing him.
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  And you're so gorgeous. I know men.
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  Any man is going to be the first thing they want to do is lock
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  you down if they're so into you. All right, Men are either in or
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  they're out. They're never murky about the
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  waters, all right? And and I know men want a movie
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  off the market if they're really into you.
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  So he would want her to get her off the dating apps as soon as
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  humanly possible if he wasn't playing around.
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  And it turns out, because I guided her to ask this question
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  and that question and this question and that question.
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  And yeah, he folded like a House of Cards.
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  It turned out he wasn't just seeing her.
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  He didn't just want to see her. And he ended up telling her,
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  well, I just didn't think I could really get serious with
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  you because you have kids. Even though the whole time he
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  knew she had kids. All right, this is what they
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  will do, ladies. So don't move so fast.
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  Wait for him to initiate these moves.
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  The big moves. Hey, are you?
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  Let's get off the dating apps. Hey, just see each other.
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  If you're initiating the conversation, it means nothing.
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  If he agrees to it, he needs to be the initiator.
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  All right. I hope it helps.