Latest / The Breakfast Club / INTERVIEW: Taraji P. Henson Talks 'STRAW,' Protecting Black Women, Tyler Perry, Oprah, Sobriety Journey +More
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- 1:01Speaker 2: Wake that ass up in the morning, the breakfast club morning.
- 1:05Speaker 1: Everybody in the j n V just hilarious charlamage the
- 1:09Speaker 1: guy we are the breakfast club. Lonla Rosa is here
- 1:11Speaker 1: as well, and we got a special guest.
- 1:13Speaker 3: In the building. Yes, indeed, the legend Taji p Henson.
- 1:17Speaker 3: Welcome back.
- 1:17Speaker 4: Thank you. I can't tell that I'm a legend because
- 1:19Speaker 4: I'm not on this wall. Can you get the wall?
- 1:21Speaker 3: We got something special for you done yet.
- 1:24Speaker 4: I'm telling you I need to be on the wall.
- 1:27Speaker 5: It's gonna be bigger than the wall, and it's gonna
- 1:29Speaker 5: be something that's in the studio because you know, we
- 1:30Speaker 5: love you, Angie, love you.
- 1:31Speaker 3: Watch you'll see watch, just watch. It's gonna be worth it.
- 1:37Speaker 4: You know I've been I've been told them put you
- 1:39Speaker 4: up here. What he's saying to me as soon as
- 1:41Speaker 4: I walk ahead, you sound like Hollywood exect right now.
- 1:52Speaker 3: Hell, legend, we're looking for somebody else.
- 1:56Speaker 5: Nobody said that to you, no more than what they
- 1:58Speaker 5: been looking for somebody else.
- 1:59Speaker 4: It's it's just the whole Hollywood of it all. We
- 2:01Speaker 4: love her, we love her. Well, where is my check?
- 2:06Speaker 5: One thing I know about you and OG's like Mary
- 2:09Speaker 5: j BLI, y'all over it.
- 2:12Speaker 4: I can be I just you know. The thing is
- 2:14Speaker 4: the older you get. I just can't do the b asked, like,
- 2:17Speaker 4: just be real with me, that's all. I'm a grown
- 2:20Speaker 4: ass girl, a woman. I can take it. Just be real,
- 2:23Speaker 4: don't be blowing smoke.
- 2:25Speaker 2: How are you feeling? How are you feeling?
- 2:31Speaker 4: Was great? I am feeling amazing, to be quite honest,
- 2:35Speaker 4: because I'm not dealing with nobody's unhealed son or daughter.
- 2:39Speaker 1: Yes, I.
- 2:41Speaker 4: Can't. You're not on your healing journey. I can't help you, baby,
- 2:46Speaker 4: because I can't take on your trauma while I'm trying
- 2:48Speaker 4: to get over mine. Yeah, and you not trying to
- 2:51Speaker 4: heal yours. I can't help you. I'm not qualified yourself.
- 2:57Speaker 4: Oh my god, the peace that I found, like, you know,
- 3:00Speaker 4: even somebody asking me to come out, the first question
- 3:03Speaker 4: I asked, is is it going to disturb my peace?
- 3:06Speaker 4: Because you know, when you're young, you just you gonna
- 3:09Speaker 4: have phone mall a little bit. It's like I gotta go,
- 3:11Speaker 4: and then you find yourself going why did not? Why
- 3:13Speaker 4: did I just stay home? You know, no more of
- 3:15Speaker 4: those moments because I'd rather be home with my fat frenchies.
- 3:19Speaker 5: You don't always want to ask you as being an
- 3:20Speaker 5: advocate for mental health ever made you feel more exposed
- 3:23Speaker 5: than being just a public figure in Hollywood. More exposed, Yeah,
- 3:28Speaker 5: because you tell you tell more of yourself being a
- 3:30Speaker 5: mental health advocate, because you probably if you was just
- 3:33Speaker 5: Taraji in Hollywood, who wasn't that you wouldn't have to
- 3:35Speaker 5: probably give up so much.
- 3:36Speaker 4: That's true. But I kind of always been that, So
- 3:39Speaker 4: I wear my heart on my sleeve. So I just
- 3:41Speaker 4: I don't know if I feel any different. I'm still
- 3:45Speaker 4: looking at this wall, but go ahead.
- 3:46Speaker 1: I want to ask, when did you get to the
- 3:49Speaker 1: point where you don't have to come out for the BS?
- 3:52Speaker 3: Right?
- 3:53Speaker 1: It's weird. We just had this conversation the other day
- 3:55Speaker 1: where it was like I got to a place a
- 3:57Speaker 1: couple of years ago where I just say no. Before
- 3:59Speaker 1: it was like I felt like I had to do it,
- 4:00Speaker 1: I had to show up, I had.
- 4:01Speaker 2: To go and sometimes things up your piece.
- 4:04Speaker 1: But now to the point where if I feel like
- 4:06Speaker 1: the energy is gonna be off or I just don't,
- 4:09Speaker 1: I'm not going.
- 4:10Speaker 4: No. It is my favorite word. I love saying that
- 4:13Speaker 4: word no, and that said I don't owe your explanation.
- 4:16Speaker 4: Like when I was with our forever first Lady Michelle
- 4:19Speaker 4: Obama doing her show She was like, no, it is
- 4:21Speaker 4: a complete sentence, and it absolutely is.
- 4:25Speaker 2: When did you get there?
- 4:27Speaker 3: When?
- 4:27Speaker 2: When did it click?
- 4:28Speaker 4: Which trip was it? The first one? The first one
- 4:32Speaker 4: when I went alone, the first one, because that that
- 4:36Speaker 4: refocused me, recentered me. I was. I didn't I felt
- 4:40Speaker 4: outside of myself before I went to Bali. That was
- 4:44Speaker 4: a well needed trip because I was literally losing myself.
- 4:48Speaker 4: I didn't even know who I was the joy. I'm
- 4:52Speaker 4: a I'm the one that brings the life to the party,
- 4:55Speaker 4: you know, and I become I was like tight all
- 4:59Speaker 4: the time, not happy and complaining a lot. That's just
- 5:03Speaker 4: not me. Even my team noticed, they were like, is
- 5:07Speaker 4: everything okay? You don't you seem a little you know,
- 5:10Speaker 4: And that's just not in my DNA. So I had
- 5:13Speaker 4: to unplug and just go away and be with myself
- 5:18Speaker 4: and in the middle of a rice field.
- 5:22Speaker 5: You want to share that with the world that I
- 5:23Speaker 5: started seeing that people need to hear that.
- 5:26Speaker 4: I think sometimes when they see public figures, they think
- 5:29Speaker 4: we have it all together because we've you know, we've
- 5:33Speaker 4: found some money or whatever. You know. People think that
- 5:35Speaker 4: money heals and money will bring you more problems than
- 5:38Speaker 4: you had when you were broke. I often find myself saying,
- 5:42Speaker 4: damn I missed when I was broke and dreaming because
- 5:45Speaker 4: everything seemed possible, you know, but then when you make
- 5:49Speaker 4: it and you you get behind the Wizard of Oz
- 5:52Speaker 4: curtain and it's like, oh, it ain't what it seems.
- 5:58Speaker 3: Straw.
- 5:59Speaker 4: Yes, a very moving film.
- 6:01Speaker 6: Thank you, Yes, listen, what did you What did you channel?
- 6:07Speaker 4: Because you you are healing, you mean your healing journey.
- 6:10Speaker 6: But to put yourself in a role like that, you
- 6:13Speaker 6: had to go back. You had to go back. That
- 6:16Speaker 6: was a trying day. So the movie was like it
- 6:18Speaker 6: took place one day to deal with all that in
- 6:21Speaker 6: the day and to have to embody that much trauma.
- 6:25Speaker 4: Because I don't want to give away to ending.
- 6:28Speaker 6: It's gonna fuck you. What what did you pull from?
- 6:31Speaker 6: Did you have to go put yourself back where you were,
- 6:34Speaker 6: where you were going through everything?
- 6:37Speaker 3: Executives.
- 6:40Speaker 4: I am a single mother, you know. I moved to
- 6:43Speaker 4: Hollywood with my son, who was a toller at the
- 6:45Speaker 4: time of seven hundred dollars in my pocket and just
- 6:47Speaker 4: a pocket full of dreams and Jesus and so I've
- 6:51Speaker 4: you know, humans, we all have can have a moment
- 6:55Speaker 4: where we can snap. You know, I think what made
- 6:59Speaker 4: me different from Jenia's that I've always had a support system.
- 7:04Speaker 4: So I have a sister circle where they'll talk me
- 7:06Speaker 4: off the ledge, you know what I mean. But have
- 7:08Speaker 4: I ever got to the point where I wanted to snap? Yes,
- 7:11Speaker 4: that's why I went to Bali, you know what I mean. So,
- 7:14Speaker 4: but she didn't have the resources, she didn't have the support,
- 7:18Speaker 4: so all she had was the voices in her head,
- 7:21Speaker 4: and she literally reached them her point where she just
- 7:25Speaker 4: couldn't take it anymore, and things just got out of
- 7:28Speaker 4: control and she God, bless her heart, she was just
- 7:31Speaker 4: trying to do the best she could with what she had,
- 7:35Speaker 4: you know. And I in particular, I am drawn to
- 7:38Speaker 4: characters who are voiceless and need a voice because I
- 7:42Speaker 4: am such a big personality. I like to breathe light
- 7:45Speaker 4: into those characters because I feel like those characters are real.
- 7:50Speaker 4: You know, Tyler Perry and just pulled us out of
- 7:52Speaker 4: the sky. These women exist, These people exist, and they
- 7:55Speaker 4: need to see themselves, and they need to know that
- 7:57Speaker 4: they're not alone and that people do see them.
- 8:00Speaker 7: To make you mad when people tell Tyler Perry to
- 8:02Speaker 7: stop showing those women on camera, I.
- 8:04Speaker 4: Think that's their own trauma's trigger because in the community
- 8:10Speaker 4: black community, we don't deal with it, you know what
- 8:12Speaker 4: I mean. So if you're forced to look at it,
- 8:14Speaker 4: often you will be triggered. So the first thing you're
- 8:16Speaker 4: going to one to say is I don't want to
- 8:18Speaker 4: see it, but there are people out there that need
- 8:21Speaker 4: to see it. He's forcing real conversations in the community.
- 8:25Speaker 4: That's why I'll never stop working with him.
- 8:27Speaker 5: So for a person that doesn't work on themselves the
- 8:30Speaker 5: way you do, when you got to go on an
- 8:31Speaker 5: intense emotional journey for a four day shoot, what is
- 8:34Speaker 5: your approach to that?
- 8:35Speaker 3: Like, how do you prepare for like those inevitable triggers.
- 8:37Speaker 4: I have trained well, I think out of necessity. I've
- 8:41Speaker 4: trained my instrument. My body is my instrument, just like
- 8:45Speaker 4: you know, a musician has a guitar, they know how
- 8:47Speaker 4: to hit the notes. I have a know and off switch.
- 8:49Speaker 4: And I think that's because I was a mother very
- 8:51Speaker 4: young and when I would work and come home, I
- 8:55Speaker 4: didn't have time to process and deal with the character
- 8:58Speaker 4: that opportuny because now it's homework. He got eat, I
- 9:00Speaker 4: got a science fait project, you know what I mean.
- 9:02Speaker 4: So I had to turn it off, so I'm just trying.
- 9:05Speaker 4: I Literally, you ask anybody that I've worked with. I
- 9:08Speaker 4: could be in the middle of a singing, balling my
- 9:11Speaker 4: eyes out and they'll yell cut, and I'll be like,
- 9:13Speaker 4: what a fried chicken? Or I have these games that
- 9:19Speaker 4: I play on my iPad to because I have to
- 9:24Speaker 4: separate myself from the character. I cannot stay again that
- 9:29Speaker 4: is that character's trauma. I can't take that on. I
- 9:33Speaker 4: just can't because I have my own shit to deal with.
- 9:35Speaker 4: So literally, when they yell cut, I'm back to Taraji
- 9:38Speaker 4: just like that.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Is it easier to shoot a four day movie because
- 9:41Speaker 1: you did this movie in four days, right? Or is
- 9:43Speaker 1: it more difficult because you got to do everything in
- 9:45Speaker 1: those four days.
- 9:46Speaker 4: It's taxing, But I like it, especially when the subject
- 9:49Speaker 4: matter is so heavy, because I don't have to stay
- 9:52Speaker 4: in it long like I you know, that fourth day,
- 9:55Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, I gotta do this again,
- 9:57Speaker 4: you know what I mean, because it's not comfortable. Showing
- 10:02Speaker 4: a character's trauma and pain is like showing you some
- 10:06Speaker 4: of my trauma and pain and it's healing, but having
- 10:09Speaker 4: to open up those wounds, it's not comfortable. It's not
- 10:12Speaker 4: comfortable to be in that, but it is healing.
- 10:15Speaker 8: There's a visual reference in the movie.
- 10:17Speaker 7: I think what I call it is a visual reference
- 10:20Speaker 7: to Annie Lee's Blue Monday. Yes, that's exactly it. Okay,
- 10:23Speaker 7: So I'm not crazy, no talk, Okay. So even visually
- 10:27Speaker 7: showing things like that in a film and it being
- 10:29Speaker 7: like that's like that image is so iconic and you're
- 10:32Speaker 7: speaking without speaking when that scene happens, when you're looking
- 10:35Speaker 7: at a script. Is that something that's already there when
- 10:38Speaker 7: you and Tyler Perry are discussing. Perry came up with
- 10:40Speaker 7: that all on his own, okay, Yeah, and he nailed it. Oh.
- 10:44Speaker 4: I know the painting too.
- 10:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 10:45Speaker 4: And I've had Blue Mondays, you know where I just
- 10:49Speaker 4: felt like, shit, I don't want to do it today.
- 10:52Speaker 4: I think we all understand that. That's why that painting hits,
- 10:56Speaker 4: especially for black women.
- 10:59Speaker 5: How did your advocacy for mental wellness inform your portrayal
- 11:02Speaker 5: of Janaia's.
- 11:03Speaker 4: Psychological understanding her breaking point and understanding what it is
- 11:09Speaker 4: to just be going through the motions barely hanging on
- 11:13Speaker 4: by a thread, Like I get that, I understand what
- 11:17Speaker 4: that looks like. That's why at the end when they
- 11:20Speaker 4: go back, you kind of you like, oh, you can
- 11:23Speaker 4: see exactly when she snaps it's crazy. I ain't trying
- 11:27Speaker 4: to do it is crazy.
- 11:30Speaker 6: Somebody in the movie said it's more expensive to be poor.
- 11:34Speaker 4: Oh my god. Okay, So prime example, Tyler said when
- 11:40Speaker 4: he was homeless, he called his mother and was like,
- 11:44Speaker 4: can you send me twenty dollars? She said, you need
- 11:46Speaker 4: to bring your black ass home because it's gonna cost
- 11:48Speaker 4: me fifteen dollars just to send you twenty dollars. Damn.
- 11:52Speaker 4: And I don't think people really understand that.
- 11:57Speaker 1: I wanted to know, without giving too much a way,
- 12:00Speaker 1: what's the message in Straw that you hope sticks.
- 12:02Speaker 2: With people after the credits roll?
- 12:03Speaker 1: So there was women unity, There was so much about it.
- 12:07Speaker 1: What's that one message that you want people to get
- 12:09Speaker 1: it and understand.
- 12:09Speaker 4: That we should move with grace at all times because
- 12:12Speaker 4: you never know what somebody's going through. Never judge a
- 12:14Speaker 4: book by its cover, because you never know what battles
- 12:18Speaker 4: a person is a fighting You just don't and really
- 12:23Speaker 4: see people, really don't just throw how you doing, and
- 12:26Speaker 4: you know, really wait for a response and really ask
- 12:29Speaker 4: the question to want to know you know, connect with
- 12:32Speaker 4: people say hi, how are you? You know, and really
- 12:36Speaker 4: mean it, because that could save a human's life, just
- 12:39Speaker 4: that human interaction, especially for people who feel unseen.
- 12:43Speaker 5: Only when Tyler even was casting you for that role,
- 12:45Speaker 5: did he even know what you had went through? Because
- 12:48Speaker 5: if I write a role about somebody getting to their
- 12:50Speaker 5: breaking point, knowing somebody already had got on, it feels kind.
- 12:52Speaker 4: Of Tyler and I are friends of verse, and so
- 12:55Speaker 4: we talk all the time about personal things, and so
- 12:58Speaker 4: he knows a lot about But he said when he
- 13:02Speaker 4: started writing, he just had to. He was going through
- 13:05Speaker 4: his own thing and he had to get it out
- 13:07Speaker 4: and on the page. And then he said, as he
- 13:09Speaker 4: was writing, he saw me, and he'll bring me a
- 13:12Speaker 4: lot of projects, and I'll be like, you know what, time,
- 13:14Speaker 4: I don't think this is for me. I think this
- 13:16Speaker 4: is somebody else's blessing, you know. And then he'll just
- 13:20Speaker 4: keep writing. And when he got straw, he said, he
- 13:23Speaker 4: hit me. He said I got one for you, and
- 13:25Speaker 4: he sent it to me and I read it. I said,
- 13:27Speaker 4: this is it. This is the one. So that's kind
- 13:30Speaker 4: of how we operate.
- 13:31Speaker 2: How do you not fight somebody over Tyler?
- 13:34Speaker 1: How do you not fight because they attacked time, but
- 13:41Speaker 1: one because he does so much for people and he's
- 13:44Speaker 1: so good to especially our community, and I think a
- 13:46Speaker 1: lot of times people don't see that, and even people
- 13:48Speaker 1: that he don't know that he doesn't know. Excuse me.
- 13:51Speaker 2: He helps so much. He talks to, he godes, he mentors,
- 13:54Speaker 2: and you guys are so close.
- 13:55Speaker 3: How do you not just say you know?
- 13:58Speaker 4: Because his action speaks louder than the because this man
- 14:01Speaker 4: owns a studio. What you got? Every raise that I've
- 14:05Speaker 4: gotten and how I've whenever I'm treated the best in
- 14:09Speaker 4: this industry is always by him. Every raise that I've
- 14:12Speaker 4: gotten has come from a black man.
- 14:14Speaker 8: Tyler Perry.
- 14:16Speaker 4: He doubled my quote in Straw four days of work,
- 14:20Speaker 4: which is so important for when you go on to
- 14:22Speaker 4: that next he understands that that man has helped. He
- 14:26Speaker 4: does so much that we don't even know because he's
- 14:29Speaker 4: not even talking about it.
- 14:30Speaker 6: Yeah, you filmed two movies at the same time, Fight
- 14:34Speaker 6: Night and Straw. Right, did you find the two characters
- 14:38Speaker 6: bleeding into each other?
- 14:39Speaker 4: It's not at all totally different. He was the first
- 14:43Speaker 4: director to challenge me in that way because I was
- 14:45Speaker 4: in the throes of Empire. When he called with acrimony,
- 14:48Speaker 4: and I was like, Tyler, I don't know. It's being
- 14:50Speaker 4: a thesbian. I don't know if I can get into
- 14:53Speaker 4: this character. He was like, girl, with your instrument, you
- 14:56Speaker 4: can do it. He was like, you're gonna come down here,
- 14:58Speaker 4: We're gonna shoot it in five I was like five days.
- 15:00Speaker 4: He said, you can do it. If anybody can do it, Taji,
- 15:02Speaker 4: you can do it. And he challenged me. He knows
- 15:04Speaker 4: I love a good challenge. That's I lean into roles.
- 15:07Speaker 4: That scared the shit out of me because I have
- 15:09Speaker 4: to grow in some way or change or be transcended
- 15:14Speaker 4: or something. And that's what I want from my audience.
- 15:16Speaker 4: And if I'm not doing it as the artist, then
- 15:18Speaker 4: how is the audience going to transform? So I lean
- 15:21Speaker 4: into challenges and he knows that about him because he's
- 15:24Speaker 4: a virgo as well. And so now I'm a pro
- 15:28Speaker 4: ad it because of Tyler. So when he called this time,
- 15:31Speaker 4: I didn't even think about it. I was like, great,
- 15:33Speaker 4: four days in and out, Okay, let's go.
- 15:36Speaker 5: In the industry is finally catching up to your arrange?
- 15:38Speaker 5: Are you still underestimated in certain rooms?
- 15:42Speaker 4: This is an actress no, I think they get it.
- 15:46Speaker 4: I think I'm at a really particular point in my
- 15:50Speaker 4: special place in my career where I've done so much
- 15:54Speaker 4: that I can't just do anything anymore because y'all will
- 15:57Speaker 4: be like, why should do that? You know what I mean?
- 15:59Speaker 4: And so you know, it's just looking for that right
- 16:03Speaker 4: material and it doesn't come like that, so that my
- 16:06Speaker 4: fans are frustrated because I'll post a pretty picture and
- 16:09Speaker 4: they're like, that's cute. When your next movie coming out, like,
- 16:12Speaker 4: I have to be very particular about what I'm choosing now,
- 16:16Speaker 4: and some of this stuff doesn't exist and I have
- 16:17Speaker 4: to create it, and so that takes a little longer.
- 16:20Speaker 8: What age were you when you did Empire?
- 16:23Speaker 4: That was ten years I was forty five. It was
- 16:27Speaker 4: twenty fifteen.
- 16:28Speaker 7: The reason why I asked you that is because I
- 16:29Speaker 7: saw your interview where you talked about your overseas and
- 16:32Speaker 7: how people received you overseas, and you realized then how
- 16:35Speaker 7: big like us overseas were like that whole thing, And
- 16:39Speaker 7: I'm wondering right now in your career, you just said
- 16:41Speaker 7: you can't do anything, and you get into these different
- 16:44Speaker 7: levels so early in your career, even though you've been
- 16:48Speaker 7: our Taraji forever. What are new experiences that you're having
- 16:51Speaker 7: just in your celebrity life at where you are right
- 16:53Speaker 7: now in your career that we might have thought that
- 16:55Speaker 7: you've already experienced before.
- 16:56Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess for me, it's always because
- 17:01Speaker 4: I people always go do you not know who you are?
- 17:03Speaker 4: Like I went to the girl. I still like to
- 17:05Speaker 4: go to the groceres.
- 17:06Speaker 8: So by my own damn produce, like by Empire, you
- 17:08Speaker 8: were iconic to us.
- 17:10Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, But you know, after so many years
- 17:15Speaker 4: of being told by the industry, oh, no one knows
- 17:17Speaker 4: you overseas, and then I get overseas and they're like,
- 17:19Speaker 4: did ogi please please? Picture? That still throws me, Like
- 17:25Speaker 4: I just came back from can and it's the age
- 17:28Speaker 4: range for me, it's like the Grandma all the way
- 17:30Speaker 4: down sometimes to the great grandchildren. And I'm leaving Connor
- 17:33Speaker 4: and I forget, you know, I'm overseas. I'm like, don't
- 17:36Speaker 4: nobody know me? And all of a sudden I get
- 17:39Speaker 4: crowded by this group of people and then over in
- 17:42Speaker 4: the corner, I see these young boys and it's like
- 17:45Speaker 4: a soccer team or something. They're standing there with their
- 17:47Speaker 4: camera and I just I don't even think they spoke
- 17:54Speaker 4: fluent English, but they knew exactly who I was because
- 17:57Speaker 4: one of them and I was like, babies, come on,
- 18:02Speaker 4: and they all gathered. I'm telling I'm like maybe ten,
- 18:06Speaker 4: but that always throws me when the babies know who
- 18:10Speaker 4: I am. You know, I'm just like, dang, I'm still relevant.
- 18:14Speaker 3: Fifty four years old? You ever want a young girl?
- 18:17Speaker 3: When black women?
- 18:18Speaker 7: He was like, the age you remind me asking that?
- 18:22Speaker 7: The reason I asked I tell people my age.
- 18:24Speaker 4: Because I hate that women we feel ashamed of age
- 18:27Speaker 4: and when men can have beer bellies balding, sorry.
- 18:38Speaker 7: I gave, and then we can kind of seehere the like,
- 18:42Speaker 7: but you understand what they.
- 18:44Speaker 4: Can and then they can have a young thing on
- 18:46Speaker 4: there and we let that pass and we have to
- 18:48Speaker 4: be ashamed of our age. No, I'm not doing it.
- 18:51Speaker 1: At one point, you were flirting with leaving Hollywood. You
- 18:54Speaker 1: said you were tired with the bullshit, the.
- 18:55Speaker 4: Little ball before I went to the first time, Yeah
- 19:02Speaker 4: I had, I remember, I had gotten too a better place.
- 19:04Speaker 4: But see, that's what happens when you give so much
- 19:06Speaker 4: power over to humans. See, I know God chose me.
- 19:10Speaker 4: I'm called chosen and covered. So when you know that
- 19:14Speaker 4: everything's not gonna be easy, you know, I had to
- 19:17Speaker 4: get back to that. That's what got me to Hollywood
- 19:19Speaker 4: with seven hundred dollars in my pocket and my toddler,
- 19:22Speaker 4: because I knew I had a calling and I just
- 19:26Speaker 4: stirred away from that. But I'm back.
- 19:29Speaker 2: You feel appreciated more.
- 19:31Speaker 4: I do, I do. I don't. Look, you know, it's
- 19:36Speaker 4: like it's interesting because you go, I didn't get it
- 19:40Speaker 4: nominated for this award again, that's did you see the
- 19:43Speaker 4: powerful talk that Denzel did about how he got bitter?
- 19:48Speaker 4: I mean that was me. That was me, and it
- 19:50Speaker 4: particularly happened after hitting figures. I was like, what do
- 19:55Speaker 4: I have to do? Like you know, y'all didn't see
- 19:59Speaker 4: the rain. Yeah, I'm still playing cookie. And then I
- 20:03Speaker 4: gave you a rocket scientist like what? And that hurt
- 20:08Speaker 4: a little bit, But again it hurt because of the
- 20:11Speaker 4: power I placed in man's hand. But if you step
- 20:15Speaker 4: back from that and take that power back, Look how
- 20:18Speaker 4: many black girls are coding now? Not even black girls,
- 20:21Speaker 4: young kids, kids, period. Like So that's what I always wanted,
- 20:26Speaker 4: and that's what I asked God. I said, I want
- 20:28Speaker 4: longevity and I want the work that's going to affect
- 20:32Speaker 4: lives in a positive way. I want the work that
- 20:36Speaker 4: people are gonna study long after I'm gone, like I
- 20:40Speaker 4: did the greats that came before me, you know, And
- 20:42Speaker 4: when you ask that's specific. It may not be the awards,
- 20:47Speaker 4: you know. I figure if I keep working, that shit'll come.
- 20:51Speaker 4: But what's rewarding to me? Or when fans come up
- 20:54Speaker 4: to me and go bay whatever? That last it touched me.
- 20:58Speaker 4: It made me change the way I, you know, think
- 21:01Speaker 4: about things like that's rewarding to me.
- 21:05Speaker 5: Was on the phone yesterday and she was just saying
- 21:07Speaker 5: how much of a fan of you she is?
- 21:09Speaker 3: I mean, but I'm just like, there's nothing wrong with
- 21:12Speaker 3: expressing that.
- 21:13Speaker 5: Share that with her because you just existing provides that inspiration.
- 21:17Speaker 3: And then she's shamed me because I was just like,
- 21:18Speaker 3: I was like, you damn right. We saw Toaji.
- 21:20Speaker 5: I saw to Rogi in the theatters for baby Boy,
- 21:22Speaker 5: and she was like you saw baby Boy in theats.
- 21:26Speaker 4: She made you feel older.
- 21:28Speaker 7: I've never thought about baby Boy in a movie theater about.
- 21:33Speaker 4: Crazy my son.
- 21:40Speaker 7: But I don't know just how you feel, but I
- 21:42Speaker 7: feel like wanting to be in entertainment being television like
- 21:45Speaker 7: it's you think of you because you're able to be.
- 21:48Speaker 4: It always seems like you've been able to be yourself.
- 21:50Speaker 7: So when we were like, I know for myself, when
- 21:52Speaker 7: I heard you talk about that before that first body trip,
- 21:54Speaker 7: not feeling like enough, I'm like, wait, what, Like she's
- 21:57Speaker 7: been the this is how you can be the girl
- 21:59Speaker 7: from where are you from?
- 22:00Speaker 8: Run away?
- 22:01Speaker 7: Whatever you want to call it, But like you're in
- 22:03Speaker 7: Hollywood and you're graceful in your career impacts. So I'm
- 22:07Speaker 7: glad you're out of that because I was like, what
- 22:10Speaker 7: this is?
- 22:10Speaker 8: Dteragp intem like it was.
- 22:12Speaker 4: Actual burnout because of the work. You know, people go,
- 22:16Speaker 4: you work a lot. I too, because the math ain't
- 22:19Speaker 4: math and the zeros ain't adding up, you know. And
- 22:22Speaker 4: so because you see somebody working a lot a lot
- 22:25Speaker 4: of times when it's us, it's because that one job
- 22:29Speaker 4: is not gonna cover you for the year. I wish
- 22:31Speaker 4: I could just do two films and be like, I mean,
- 22:33Speaker 4: I'm kind of to that point now, you know what
- 22:35Speaker 4: I mean. But there are actors out there that's just
- 22:37Speaker 4: one job a year because that's how they get paid.
- 22:41Speaker 4: And I don't think people really understand the breakdown of
- 22:43Speaker 4: the math. You know, fifty cent. If somebody goes they
- 22:48Speaker 4: made ten million dollars, right, you got to remember Uncle
- 22:50Speaker 4: Sam's coming to take half of that off the top,
- 22:54Speaker 4: and then you have to pay your thirty or forty
- 22:56Speaker 4: percent whatever you're paying your team off your gross. So
- 23:01Speaker 4: you're not taking home ten million dollars. I know it
- 23:03Speaker 4: sounds amazing, but you're not taking it home. Somebody gets
- 23:07Speaker 4: paid one million for a film, they not seeing that
- 23:09Speaker 4: one million in their bank account. Do the math, you know.
- 23:13Speaker 4: So that's why. So I think a lot of it
- 23:15Speaker 4: was burnout and frustration because once I lifted my head
- 23:19Speaker 4: and was like, why do I have to work so much?
- 23:22Speaker 4: You know, I just got burned out. That became bitter.
- 23:26Speaker 5: You know a lot of people thought you were kicking
- 23:28Speaker 5: Thiland Oprah's back in during the Color Purple.
- 23:30Speaker 4: Oh my god, why would they think that.
- 23:32Speaker 5: I guess that they were the producers of the film,
- 23:33Speaker 5: and they thought that when you were complaining about the pay.
- 23:36Speaker 4: You know, they had bosses, right, thank you? And when
- 23:41Speaker 4: have you ever seen me drag another woman, particularly a
- 23:45Speaker 4: black woman? Ever? I'm ten toes down for us. Never?
- 23:50Speaker 4: And then the fact that blogs, and I think it
- 23:53Speaker 4: was just a campaign so that this black movie wouldn't
- 23:56Speaker 4: do well, right, because to say I even saw some
- 24:01Speaker 4: bits about it was my fault that the film didn't
- 24:04Speaker 4: do well? Oh yeah, I saw that. What how did?
- 24:07Speaker 4: How did? How? How?
- 24:08Speaker 7: They tried to say that you because of the conversation
- 24:10Speaker 7: you raised about the money and things that weren't right.
- 24:12Speaker 7: It pivoted the focus to people aren't going to go
- 24:15Speaker 7: see the film. They care more about what is Taraji saying?
- 24:17Speaker 8: Is it true or not?
- 24:18Speaker 4: That's you know that total now I know it is.
- 24:21Speaker 7: But I'm gonna tell you what the conversation, what you're
- 24:23Speaker 7: referring to. We're telling jess what the most.
- 24:25Speaker 4: And me and Oprah, I have such a love and
- 24:28Speaker 4: a fondness for her. She just texted me the other
- 24:30Speaker 4: day commending me on a job well done in Straw.
- 24:33Speaker 4: So that was all fixtures like and to draw a
- 24:36Speaker 4: wedge between us. But see, I'm not gonna let you
- 24:38Speaker 4: do that because I went to her defense right away.
- 24:40Speaker 4: Y'all not gonna do that to this woman. All of
- 24:43Speaker 4: this what she does, I mean, like, stop it, stop that.
- 24:47Speaker 3: Even with Tyler, Tyler is the person that pays you
- 24:49Speaker 3: the most.
- 24:50Speaker 4: What I'm never gonna not work with Tyler. That just
- 24:52Speaker 4: is that's insane to me. I enjoy working with him.
- 24:56Speaker 4: I really really do. We have fun on that set.
- 24:59Speaker 4: I love that he challenges me. I understand. I'm never
- 25:04Speaker 4: gonna turn my back on us. You know, people that
- 25:07Speaker 4: go to the Tyler Perry films is a huge population
- 25:10Speaker 4: of us. Like, so for me to say I'm not
- 25:13Speaker 4: gonna do it time about, that's me turning my back
- 25:14Speaker 4: on us. I would never speaking of black women in
- 25:18Speaker 4: relationships your character and Strolgian and during her like worst moment,
- 25:22Speaker 4: black women in the movie still like get around her
- 25:27Speaker 4: and heller around her even almost like forcibly, but like
- 25:30Speaker 4: not really because they identify with her absolutely.
- 25:33Speaker 7: What is you know, not even the importance? But like
- 25:37Speaker 7: when people watch those moments throughout the movie, what do
- 25:39Speaker 7: you want them to take from that?
- 25:40Speaker 4: That we need each other and we're more powerful when
- 25:44Speaker 4: we support each other. I'm a huge you know how
- 25:48Speaker 4: I am with the sister girls, you know? And I
- 25:50Speaker 4: told this to the Spellman Lady graduating class of twenty
- 25:54Speaker 4: twenty five. The last thing I said to them was like, ladies,
- 25:57Speaker 4: like we are more powerful in numbers. We need to
- 26:00Speaker 4: support each other. Do not air your grievances with another
- 26:04Speaker 4: sister in public. You got a problem with her, pull
- 26:06Speaker 4: it to the side. That's between you and her. To
- 26:08Speaker 4: fix that is not for the public to weigh in
- 26:12Speaker 4: with their shallow opinions. I said, it's black women. We
- 26:15Speaker 4: take too many bullets from society. Why why would I
- 26:19Speaker 4: be another obstacle for another sister to get over. I'm
- 26:24Speaker 4: just not gonna do it.
- 26:36Speaker 8: Earlier today. I need it to depend on her. How
- 26:39Speaker 8: we've had this.
- 26:40Speaker 4: I'm glad. That's beautiful, and that's growth and more of that.
- 26:44Speaker 4: But it breaks my heart when I see sisters go
- 26:47Speaker 4: at it in public. It does something to me because
- 26:51Speaker 4: we have enough to overcome. Why should it be another
- 26:54Speaker 4: sister like we got the same struggle.
- 26:57Speaker 5: So the dynamic between you and Sherry Shepard and Leanna
- 27:00Speaker 5: Taylor in the movie, that's the enhanced like the exploration
- 27:03Speaker 5: the sisterhood and solidarity is.
- 27:04Speaker 4: Absolutely Tyler wrote that, and he doesn't do anything by mistake,
- 27:10Speaker 4: like he's a virgo. He's very calculated.
- 27:13Speaker 8: Because I was wondering that dynamic was that something you
- 27:16Speaker 8: brought in?
- 27:17Speaker 4: But it was already there. It's already there. He wrote
- 27:20Speaker 4: it like that, see, because you know Detective Raymond, who uh,
- 27:25Speaker 4: Tiana plays so effortlessly that girl. Let me just say
- 27:28Speaker 4: this about Tiana. She coming for everything, y'all. She's coming
- 27:34Speaker 4: for everybody and everybody's next and everything. She what I
- 27:38Speaker 4: love about her. I mean, she just leaves nothing on
- 27:43Speaker 4: the table. She checks every box. She's just incredible. Have
- 27:47Speaker 4: you seen the snippet for her new video Come As
- 27:50Speaker 4: the mini movie that she directed.
- 27:52Speaker 3: Yes, in front of the camera, behind the camera.
- 27:55Speaker 4: Every gift that God gave her, she is using an
- 28:01Speaker 4: I mean, sweetheart, I love her anyway. When she starts
- 28:05Speaker 4: hearing my character Jania's story, she totally identifies because she's
- 28:10Speaker 4: a single mother, so that touches her right. She's like,
- 28:12Speaker 4: wait a minute and see for us. Do you have
- 28:16Speaker 4: you ever seen that that series call is it The Center?
- 28:20Speaker 4: It's called The Center, and it's about people who do
- 28:24Speaker 4: these crimes. And there's this gentleman who's a detective and
- 28:27Speaker 4: he goes to the why. There's always a why, and
- 28:31Speaker 4: when you understand the why, then you're able to show
- 28:35Speaker 4: compassion and give some grace because people just don't do
- 28:38Speaker 4: stuff just because they're pushed to a point. I'm not excusing. Yes,
- 28:43Speaker 4: I'm not excusing the d that has been done. But
- 28:46Speaker 4: if we can just understand why, the why. And that's
- 28:50Speaker 4: why I'm always playing the why of my characters, because
- 28:54Speaker 4: I want the audience to feel for the person. If
- 28:57Speaker 4: I didn't play the why of cookies, she could have
- 28:59Speaker 4: been just another sass, smart mouthed black woman. No one
- 29:01Speaker 4: would have cared. But because I got to her why,
- 29:05Speaker 4: everybody in the world could identify with her. Lays the
- 29:09Speaker 4: cookie too. You know, do you.
- 29:11Speaker 7: Think that the layers that we see in Jenia and
- 29:13Speaker 7: Straw in her having to learn to be like actually
- 29:17Speaker 7: admit that she's not okay and not just covering things up,
- 29:19Speaker 7: and you talk about your personal life not being a
- 29:21Speaker 7: life of a party anymore and being okay with that.
- 29:23Speaker 8: Do you think that that.
- 29:24Speaker 7: That's something that after watching this movie people can take
- 29:26Speaker 7: on easily or like, what do you think people's journey
- 29:28Speaker 7: to get to that point will be after watching this movie.
- 29:30Speaker 4: Everybody's journey is different. Some people find it hard to
- 29:34Speaker 4: very difficult to deal with trauma because it's it's not
- 29:38Speaker 4: easy going through therapy. You gotta deal with the ugly
- 29:42Speaker 4: shit first before you get There is no way to
- 29:45Speaker 4: get over a storm or under a storm. You gotta
- 29:48Speaker 4: go through it before you can see the sun. But
- 29:51Speaker 4: the sun always shines, but you have to go through it.
- 29:56Speaker 4: And that therapy journey is not for the week, and
- 30:00Speaker 4: some people, unfortunately, spend their lifetime just dodging it. And
- 30:04Speaker 4: it's unfortunate because your life can be so much better
- 30:06Speaker 4: if you could just heal, because you find yourself, you know,
- 30:12Speaker 4: almost like a Gerbil in the wheel. If you're not,
- 30:15Speaker 4: because the same shit that you think you're running from,
- 30:18Speaker 4: you're gonna wherever you are, wherever you go, there you are,
- 30:21Speaker 4: and all your problems you cannot.
- 30:25Speaker 8: You're not drinking or decision and not drink anymore.
- 30:28Speaker 4: Okay, So I do have my wine, and I do
- 30:32Speaker 4: I love my seven daughters, but I do take breaks.
- 30:36Speaker 4: For five months, I had stopped drinking because I felt
- 30:39Speaker 4: like I needed clarity. I needed to get rid of
- 30:43Speaker 4: some negative energy that was in my life that I
- 30:45Speaker 4: couldn't see because and not to say that I have
- 30:48Speaker 4: a drinking problem or anything like that, I just think
- 30:51Speaker 4: like you fast sometimes because you need to reset your system.
- 30:55Speaker 4: I did this sobriety for like five months, and then
- 30:58Speaker 4: you know, when I have to promote my wine and
- 31:01Speaker 4: I do really like my seven daughters, but it's a
- 31:04Speaker 4: it's low in calories, and it doesn't get you like
- 31:08Speaker 4: plastered like you. I mean, I can sip it by
- 31:12Speaker 4: the pool and still function, you know, But I do
- 31:16Speaker 4: have moments where I fast from that as well, because
- 31:20Speaker 4: I just think it's great for my mental because I'm
- 31:22Speaker 4: I'm present.
- 31:23Speaker 7: I was going to ask what presence did it bring
- 31:25Speaker 7: before you at and prepare for this role?
- 31:28Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, I was able to get up in
- 31:30Speaker 4: the morning. And another thing I find when I don't
- 31:35Speaker 4: drink is that I can work out, you know what
- 31:38Speaker 4: i mean. Like, that's one vice that I pick up
- 31:43Speaker 4: and I go hard with. I mean, I'm sure you've
- 31:45Speaker 4: seen some of my videos that I'm pouring into myself
- 31:49Speaker 4: because I'm present, you know, I'm not numbing out.
- 31:54Speaker 5: What's one quiet decision to Roger you made that had
- 31:56Speaker 5: the biggest impact on your career but never made.
- 31:59Speaker 4: Headlines the biggest say that again, it was one.
- 32:01Speaker 5: Quiet decision you made that had the biggest impact on
- 32:04Speaker 5: your career but never made headlines.
- 32:06Speaker 4: Quiet decision. I mean, it seems like everything I do
- 32:09Speaker 4: makes the headline because I thought me going to BALI
- 32:12Speaker 4: was gonna be quiet, and it's still we're still talking
- 32:16Speaker 4: about it. I think I talk about everything. I don't
- 32:22Speaker 4: think you know, because I feel like if you have
- 32:26Speaker 4: a story to tell, tell it. I try to keep
- 32:29Speaker 4: my breakup. Gab. Oh, that's a good one. I'might have
- 32:36Speaker 4: to call you back on that one. You have to
- 32:38Speaker 4: call you back. Well, this is not even this is
- 32:40Speaker 4: not even a question.
- 32:40Speaker 6: But in watching Straw, I got John kevibes, Oh my gosh.
- 32:47Speaker 4: Well. The difference with John Q is that he was
- 32:50Speaker 4: very conscious and what he was doing. He was trying
- 32:53Speaker 4: to save his son, and he was like, I ain't
- 32:56Speaker 4: got no money. The insurance is not paying, so I'm
- 32:58Speaker 4: gonna stick y'all up, you know. But it was like
- 33:02Speaker 4: what you would do, what links you would go through
- 33:05Speaker 4: your new mom for your kid. It hits you in
- 33:08Speaker 4: a new way, doesn't it. When you become a mother,
- 33:11Speaker 4: and it's real, like it's not about you anymore. Once
- 33:15Speaker 4: you become a parent, you have this whole existence and
- 33:20Speaker 4: being and human that you are responsible for. And if
- 33:23Speaker 4: you are a responsible person, that's a very serious job
- 33:27Speaker 4: for you. Like you know, before you were probably like
- 33:30Speaker 4: I'm a you know, you know, a public figure. Now
- 33:34Speaker 4: it's like I'm a mom first, you know. So it's different.
- 33:38Speaker 4: Life is different when you have that kind of responsibility
- 33:41Speaker 4: and you'll do anything for your child and you and
- 33:45Speaker 4: the hurt that they feel, you feel it ten times
- 33:48Speaker 4: more because you feel like it's my job to protect
- 33:51Speaker 4: this child. And so when they're bully, you ready to
- 33:54Speaker 4: go to wall because it's like, no, how dare you?
- 33:57Speaker 4: You know?
- 33:58Speaker 6: And Jeniah snapt but she kept going, didn't he Really
- 34:01Speaker 6: she didn't know.
- 34:02Speaker 4: She had no idea. She was operating outside of herself.
- 34:07Speaker 3: A lot.
- 34:08Speaker 5: We know a lot of things you do are super
- 34:09Speaker 5: intentional because, like you said, you so, what's the most
- 34:11Speaker 5: strategic thing you've ever done?
- 34:13Speaker 3: That people mistook as emotional?
- 34:18Speaker 4: Probably talking about the paying that because I have a
- 34:21Speaker 4: crying about money. I tell you what, bitch, if you
- 34:28Speaker 4: want to eat, you better speak the fuck up right.
- 34:32Speaker 4: The squeaky wheel gets figged, mouth don't get fed right.
- 34:35Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell you who's not complaining about that
- 34:37Speaker 4: money anymore?
- 34:40Speaker 3: Because after that, Hollywood started coming.
- 34:41Speaker 4: Correct, man, listen, they have to you do you want
- 34:45Speaker 4: to hit my mouth again? I demanded that respect. This
- 34:50Speaker 4: is my last question. Are you happy? I'm so happy.
- 34:53Speaker 4: I can't expect people go you're glowing? Yes, because I
- 34:57Speaker 4: am not dealing with nobody's a hell child at peace,
- 35:01Speaker 4: the peace that I have been fighting for. I have it,
- 35:05Speaker 4: and it has nothing to do with anybody, no other human.
- 35:08Speaker 4: It's all in me. I love you. I love you.
- 35:12Speaker 3: Do you even tell the unhealed people anything anymore?
- 35:14Speaker 4: No? No, because sometimes they ain't ready to hear it.
- 35:17Speaker 3: I will say, I hope you heal.
- 35:18Speaker 4: I do say that, you know, I just cause sometimes
- 35:21Speaker 4: they take that all right right, you know? So it's
- 35:32Speaker 4: just for you to discover.
- 35:33Speaker 8: Sweet well, thank you?
- 35:36Speaker 3: Is this Friday?
- 35:37Speaker 4: Netflix?
- 35:38Speaker 2: Definitely check it out.
- 35:39Speaker 3: And wait till you see what we do for you
- 35:40Speaker 3: in this building.
- 35:41Speaker 4: You see is it a bust?
- 35:44Speaker 8: What does that mean?
- 35:45Speaker 2: It is a bus like a.
- 35:48Speaker 4: Is it?
- 35:48Speaker 3: Yes?
- 35:49Speaker 4: Don't put no badass wig on it.
- 35:51Speaker 3: Like yesterday will be a bust.
- 36:00Speaker 4: Okay, were in the situa of his table in the.
- 36:04Speaker 5: Hall because people will see it whenever they want. So
- 36:07Speaker 5: you have to go buy Angie Studio and.
- 36:08Speaker 4: Coming it look like me. Don't like.
- 36:12Speaker 2: The way waves when the way Wade statue that don't.
- 36:15Speaker 4: Don't do that, yeah, because that's okay, not mine. And
- 36:21Speaker 4: I met thank you.
- 36:21Speaker 7: For your career than not ending the interview yet. I
- 36:24Speaker 7: thank you for that, thank you, thank you for you.
- 36:26Speaker 5: Yes, that's your career, you the person that you are,
- 36:28Speaker 5: because your career has given you the platform to be
- 36:31Speaker 5: out here being the mental health advocate that you are.
- 36:32Speaker 5: And I think that that work is going out outlive
- 36:35Speaker 5: probably anything, I hope.
- 36:36Speaker 4: So yeah, that to me feels like probably why God
- 36:40Speaker 4: set me up to be a public figure to get
- 36:42Speaker 4: to that. Absolutely, yeah, so grateful, Thank you so much, guys.
- 36:46Speaker 2: This is beautiful and gentlemen, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
- 36:51Speaker 2: wake that ass up in the morning.
- 36:53Speaker 3: The Breakfast Club.