ATU Shorts SE5: Helping the Unfaithful Move From "Not It!" to "Got it!"
On today's episode of "Moving from Not It to Got It," Sam takes listeners on an honest journey through the pivotal moment when an unfaithful spouse chooses to stop deflecting and starts owning their actions. The episode opens by breaking down the psychological reality of the "Not It" phase—where self-protection, avoidance, and justification keep an individual stuck, unable to truly connect with their partner or heal the damage from infidelity.
The reality is, "Not It" causes a significant amount of collateral damage including but certainly not limited to:
blocking all forward progress…
The skinny
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