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Too Good for Cheesecake? · WDYM What Do You Mean?

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  SPEAKER_05: So today's episode, well, first and foremost, welcome to the WDYM.
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  SPEAKER_05: Thank you for tuning in today.
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  SPEAKER_05: Today's episode, we're talking about the state of dating from the woman, from the I guess the woman's point of view.
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  SPEAKER_05: I got three examples of women that that let I'm gonna let you guys decide if it if it's just me or are these ladies out here tripping.
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  SPEAKER_05: Uh the past these past three examples are examples, uh not examples of all women.
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  SPEAKER_05: Let's let's let's be clear with that, that these are not all women.
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  SPEAKER_05: These are just three examples of some, in my opinion, uh some really bad bad examples of dating and women in dating to be particular.
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  SPEAKER_05: So the first one, I'm pretty sure everybody's heard of this now.
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  SPEAKER_05: We have the young lady that went to the cheesecake factory and completely crapped the bed for the date.
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  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna play the clips of her acting a monkey in the parking lot at the cheesecake factory to set up the sound bits we got.
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  SPEAKER_05: Um, they have pulled up to the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_05: He gets out to get, you know, open her car door like a gentleman would, and she gets full-blown monkey.
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  SPEAKER_13: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_05: Now again, this is his car, and if you heard him knocking on the door in the window, pat pap, and she's has her again, she has her phone out recording the date, talking online to her date.
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  SPEAKER_14: Uh, would you want me to open the door for you?
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  SPEAKER_14: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_14: Are you you're recording me?
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  SPEAKER_12: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_12: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_12: This is the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_12: This is the cheesecake factory, y'all.
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  SPEAKER_12: What's the problem with that?
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  SPEAKER_12: This is a chain restaurant.
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  SPEAKER_05: What's wrong with the cheesecake factory?
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  SPEAKER_05: I don't mind the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_05: Massive menu.
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  SPEAKER_05: We're gonna get exactly what you want.
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  SPEAKER_05: Now, again, this is a first date, and she's upset about the Cheesecake Factory.
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  SPEAKER_12: Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?
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  SPEAKER_14: You wanna talk about it?
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  SPEAKER_14: I'm I'm fine with talking about it.
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  SPEAKER_14: You in front of them?
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  SPEAKER_13: Oh, yeah, I want to talk about it.
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  SPEAKER_13: Yeah, we can come on get up on in the car.
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  SPEAKER_13: Yeah, we're gonna talk about it.
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  SPEAKER_05: Now again, she has her phone out going on on the internet broadcasting this.
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  SPEAKER_05: This is this this is not cool.
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  SPEAKER_05: So, just for the record, that is this is not cool.
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  SPEAKER_12: Oh, okay.
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  SPEAKER_14: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_13: So, yes.
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  SPEAKER_13: Let's talk about it.
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  SPEAKER_13: Let's talk about it.
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  SPEAKER_14: So you expect a man to go all out on the first date.
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  SPEAKER_13: Is that right?
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  SPEAKER_13: I mean, you're supposed to.
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  SPEAKER_13: Look at, I mean, when you take out a beautiful woman and you're courting her, because I I get courted.
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  SPEAKER_13: So you're courting her, right?
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  SPEAKER_13: You're supposed to take care of her.
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  SPEAKER_13: You're supposed to cover her, you're supposed to protect her, cherish her, treat her well, right?
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  SPEAKER_13: Yeah, as it is.
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  SPEAKER_14: I agree.
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  SPEAKER_14: I I went into the state as I expect uh with the expectations for myself to keep you safe, you know, to respect you, uh, to pay for for your food, of course, pick you up, of course, and just treat you like a gentleman, which I believe I have done.
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  SPEAKER_05: I mean Okay, so you hear everything that you know he plans to take care of her, all that stuff, part of the date.
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  SPEAKER_05: And then he offered to pay for the date, and she she's not impressed.
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  SPEAKER_05: That's the general idea that most of us got, but there's more to the story than what we know.
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  SPEAKER_05: What we know so far is that he goes, he picks her up, he gets out of the Cheesecake Factory, gets out to get her out of the car, and she's not having a bit of it.
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  SPEAKER_05: Let's hear his take on it.
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  SPEAKER_14: I, on the other hand, have certain expectations for a girl I go out with on the first date.
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  SPEAKER_14: I expect her to be respectful too.
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  SPEAKER_14: I expect her to be cooperative, and and at least, you know.
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  SPEAKER_13: Uh what did I do that wasn't cooperative?
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  SPEAKER_14: Well, I mean, like, even like uh when we were walking to the car, uh, you wouldn't uh put your hand around my arm or anything like that, or okay.
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  SPEAKER_05: So she wants him to go one thousand percent at the beginning of the date, right?
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  SPEAKER_05: She said, You need to go one thousand percent because I need I am courted.
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  SPEAKER_05: Her words not mine.
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  SPEAKER_05: Courted.
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  SPEAKER_05: And all he asks is, can you, you know, put your arms around my arm?
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  SPEAKER_05: You know, like a official date, you know, you expect some kind of interaction like this, some physical interaction in the first date.
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  SPEAKER_05: That's nothing wrong with that.
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  SPEAKER_13: I mean, it's too early for that.
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  SPEAKER_05: It's too early for that as her response.
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  SPEAKER_05: But she wants to go all out and uh and not want to go to the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_14: Yeah, no, I can respect that.
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  SPEAKER_14: I can respect that.
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  SPEAKER_14: When uh I got to your apartment to pick you up, uh, you didn't want to invite me in.
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  SPEAKER_05: I Oh, so I can't even come into your house on the first date.
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  SPEAKER_05: But you ain't happy with the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_14: I can respect that too.
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  SPEAKER_14: If we're not again.
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  SPEAKER_14: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_13: And then but I mean, I feel like I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do as a woman.
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  SPEAKER_13: But I got myself all made up.
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  SPEAKER_13: Right?
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  SPEAKER_13: Yes, there's a lot wrong with the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_13: Okay, well, look at I mean the thing now, see, as as a as a culinary culinarian, as a chef, I do think there's something wrong with c with the cheesecake factory.
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  SPEAKER_05: There's that their menu's too darn big.
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  SPEAKER_05: If you got that much stuff, you're not focused on the right thing.
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  SPEAKER_05: The primary thing.
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  SPEAKER_05: McDonald's, burgers, Olive Garden, pasta.
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  SPEAKER_05: You know, Cheesecake Factory, everything.
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  SPEAKER_05: It just doesn't match up.
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  SPEAKER_05: It doesn't lead up.
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  SPEAKER_13: Right.
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  SPEAKER_13: Yes, there's a lot wrong with the Cheesecake Factory.
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  SPEAKER_13: Okay, well, look at I mean, look at my plan.
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  SPEAKER_13: Where we were gonna go originally.
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  SPEAKER_13: See, now that's that's where that's where we should have gone, Arias.
• 9:57
  SPEAKER_05: You hear that?
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  SPEAKER_05: She was she was cool with going to another day, another place called I believe she said Arias.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_05: Again, I don't know nothing about it, but it sounds sounds wonderful.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_13: Right there.
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  SPEAKER_13: Call him.
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  SPEAKER_13: No.
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  SPEAKER_13: What do you mean no?
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  SPEAKER_14: See, I specifically told you both yesterday and this morning that I come to pick you up at 4 a.m.
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  SPEAKER_05: Let's stop it right there.
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  SPEAKER_05: He said two times.
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  SPEAKER_05: I expect to pick you up at 4 p.m.
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  SPEAKER_05: Do you think she made it?
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  SPEAKER_05: At 4 p.m.
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  SPEAKER_14: Right?
• 10:29
  SPEAKER_14: And I got to your place at 4 p.m.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_05: You heard that?
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  SPEAKER_14: You didn't even come downstairs for another hour.
• 10:35
  SPEAKER_14: So I was waiting downstairs for an hour.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_13: Yeah, right.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_13: But I wasn't expecting for work to take me so long.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_05: Oh so now we got excuses.
• 10:46
  SPEAKER_05: What's going on?
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  SPEAKER_05: You you want an RS, but you can't even bring yourself down here because you're late at work.
• 10:53
  SPEAKER_05: And then you're gonna leave the brother downstairs in the car while you're getting ready.
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  SPEAKER_05: I mean, he's lucky he stayed.
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  SPEAKER_05: If it was me, I would have just, you know what, is cancel loss as I go to Cheesecake Factory in my darn self to go get me something to eat.
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  SPEAKER_13: Little A.
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  SPEAKER_13: And like I said, I don't know you well enough to invite you up into my apartment.
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  SPEAKER_13: And that is not possible.
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  SPEAKER_14: And that's why I'm saying, I'm thinking, okay, if we're not there in a relationship to, you know, meet uh at your apartment, then maybe we're not ready in a relationship for such a nice fancy rel uh restaurant as Arya.
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  SPEAKER_14: Especially if I'm paying for the whole thing.
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  SPEAKER_05: Okay, so is it just me?
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_05: Am I the one that's crazy that's doolulu?
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  SPEAKER_05: She was late, she was late at work, she was late to the date, didn't bring him in, didn't want to hold his hand, but once the most expensive re most expensive restaurant that this man could probably afford.
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  SPEAKER_14: And I specifically said for it because maybe we could get there early and even get have some time to get to know each other on the way there.
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  SPEAKER_14: And while we're in the parking lot.
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  SPEAKER_14: I mean for a reservation.
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  SPEAKER_13: We can still get to know each other.
• 12:05
  SPEAKER_13: Isn't there another restaurant you can call that like you know it's equivalent to that?
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_13: I mean, you don't understand.
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_13: Look at me.
• 12:12
  SPEAKER_13: I cannot go in the cheesecake factory.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_13: There's nothing.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_13: I will die.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_13: That's embarrassing.
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  SPEAKER_14: I as I said, I have very specific certain expectations for this.
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  SPEAKER_14: I can tell it's not gonna be there.
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_14: I ha and maybe we're not right for each other.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_14: So respectfully, I'm gonna just drop you off.
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_12: Oh no, he didn't.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_05: Yes, he did.
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  SPEAKER_05: It's time for you to go on back home.
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_05: Find you some mother sucker that wants to take you to this expensive you and maybe it's the sign of the times where you know, hey, talk beforehand, but hey, what are you interested in?
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_05: Where do you want to go?
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  SPEAKER_05: And she probably said, whatever.
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  SPEAKER_05: So when this happened, a list came out of 28 places that are not acceptable on a first date.
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  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna go down, eat all 28 and with a yes, no, and an explanation if needed.
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  SPEAKER_05: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_05: Number one, thank you for paying attention.
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  SPEAKER_05: Cheesecake Factory.
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  SPEAKER_05: I that's acceptable in my book.
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  SPEAKER_05: That is a check mark.
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  SPEAKER_05: Number two, Applebee's.
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  SPEAKER_05: No, I will not go to Applebee's.
• 13:28
  SPEAKER_05: Here's a reason why.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_05: I I did volunteer work at Applebee's, I saw more microwaves in in grills, grill lines, okay?
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_05: No, thank you.
• 13:37
  SPEAKER_05: Chili's, respectable.
• 13:39
  SPEAKER_05: I think that's a check mark.
• 13:40
  SPEAKER_05: Chipotle, uh, that's an X.
• 13:42
  SPEAKER_05: I'm I'm not going to Chipotle.
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not no, I don't think Chipotle is an appropriate date.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_05: That's not gonna happen.
• 13:50
  SPEAKER_05: Olive Garden.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_05: Yes, that's acceptable.
• 13:54
  SPEAKER_05: Nice restaurant, free breadsticks and salad.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_05: It depends on how far the day goes.
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  SPEAKER_05: You can at least get the that that done first.
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  SPEAKER_05: Nice breaststicks, breast sticks and salad, and call it a day.
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  SPEAKER_05: The movies.
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  SPEAKER_05: This one's a I don't know, because you can't talk.
• 14:09
  SPEAKER_05: You can enjoy each other's company, but you can't talk.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_05: Your house.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_05: No, we ain't going to nobody's crib.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_05: No.
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_05: Any fast food chain.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna say that's an X2.
• 14:18
  SPEAKER_05: Beatubs.
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_05: Now look, I like some wings.
• 14:22
  SPEAKER_05: Most people like wings.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna say that's a yes.
• 14:25
  SPEAKER_05: Loud but fun.
• 14:26
  SPEAKER_05: Wing stop, same thing.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_05: Wings.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_05: Red lobster, not that many people beating fish.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_05: And fish is expensive.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_05: No.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_05: Buffet.
• 14:33
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna say yes to the buffet.
• 14:35
  SPEAKER_05: I hope man, keep it going.
• 14:37
  SPEAKER_05: Check mark.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_05: Denny's?
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_05: No.
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_05: We ain't gonna The Gym.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_05: Now listen here.
• 14:44
  SPEAKER_05: I would I don't mind this one at all.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_05: A nice gym workout with your partner.
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, that's a check mark in my book.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_05: Church, no, no, no, no.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_05: Starbucks.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna give that a checkmark.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_05: That's a nice that the atmosphere in Starbucks is nice for you to get it, you know, talk, have a espresso, a strawberry refresher.
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, that's a that's a that's a check mark.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_05: Coffee dates.
• 15:07
  SPEAKER_05: That's the same as Starbucks.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_05: Checkmark.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_05: Ice cream dates.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_05: Like Tosh Talent.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_05: I don't think so.
• 15:11
  SPEAKER_05: Family functions.
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_05: No, not too ready for that.
• 15:14
  SPEAKER_05: Movie night, which is Hulu, Netflix, nope.
• 15:16
  SPEAKER_05: Setting a four-trap.
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_05: Somewhere that requires a long drive.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_05: Question mark.
• 15:22
  SPEAKER_05: That doesn't sound too bad if the destination is good.
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_05: Bowling.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_05: Competition.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_05: Like it.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_05: Nightclubs.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_05: Um I'm gonna question mark that one because man, I can't dance.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not gonna lie.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_05: I think I could dance, but after those first two minutes, I don't know what happened to my body.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_05: My feet and my body, we're not acting, we're not talking.
• 15:43
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna avoid it.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_05: Question mark down to an X.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_05: Hookah bar.
• 15:46
  SPEAKER_05: No need for that.
• 15:48
  SPEAKER_05: A bar for just drinks.
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_05: Nope.
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_05: Not doing that.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_05: Waffle House.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_05: We can get it and go home.
• 15:56
  SPEAKER_05: I'm not eating at Waffle House.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_05: I'm gonna get it and go home.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_05: That's a check mark in my book.
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_05: Sporting events.
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know.
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_05: That's that's a tough one.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_05: That is a tough one.
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_05: If you if you know the personality of your girl, then I'm gonna say yes to that if you know the personality.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_05: So out of this list of 28, I say 12 out of 28 are unacceptable for a first date.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_05: These are all these locations.
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_05: Whoever made this list is tripping.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_05: Because again, you can go to the Cheesecake Factory on a first date.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_05: And that's what I'm thinking.
• 16:29
  SPEAKER_05: What do you guys think?
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_05: Do you think you could you could is that acceptable?
• 16:32
  SPEAKER_05: Was this woman asking too much on a first date and not even giving half of what he asked for?
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_05: She was late, which is not cool.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_05: She didn't she left him out hanging because she didn't want him in the house.
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_05: All these things that she's like, well, I don't know you, I don't know you, but you want to go to RS.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_05: That's is that's example one of modern day dating from the woman's point of view.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_05: The second one, listen to this one.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_03: Due to the fact that men make it, I have this idea.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_03: Disgusting decided that I am single, celibate, and no longer willing to date anyone.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_03: However, if you insist on taking me on a date, there will be a$500 fee.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_03: That$500 fee can be paid through Zoo, Cash App, or Apple Pay.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_03: I'll send you my phone number and you can shen we can discuss an arrangement.
• 17:36
  SPEAKER_03: However, if you decide that you're gonna text me or call me before you will be blocked.
• 17:45
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, that's how we're gonna do that.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_05: Okay, so what what are we doing in that situation?
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_05: She's asking for a$500 upfront fee.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_05: Excuse me?
• 18:00
  SPEAKER_04: What?
• 18:15
  SPEAKER_05: Now someone asked me for a$500 fee up front.
• 18:19
  SPEAKER_05: Is that is that not border round prostitution?
• 18:21
  SPEAKER_05: What what is going on?
• 18:23
  SPEAKER_05: What kind of man are you out there dating if you're asking for a$500 upfront fee?
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_05: I have never heard of that.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_05: That's the type of stuff where you just need to push that away, way far away.
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_05: And what type of culture of men are you around that you can you can have the audacity to say that?
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_05: I wish I was single.
• 18:47
  SPEAKER_05: And someone said, hey, before we even discuss this, we need to talk about this$500 fee.
• 18:53
  SPEAKER_05: I'm like, for what?
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_05: For an arrangement?
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_05: That's what she said.
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_05: An arrangement?
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_05: She is ridiculous.
• 19:01
  SPEAKER_05: That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
• 19:05
  SPEAKER_05: From the words of the great Shura King, no sir, no ma'am, no ham, no bacon.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: Won't be doing it.
• 19:11
  SPEAKER_05: Won't be doing that, absolutely not.
• 19:13
  SPEAKER_05: That is ridiculous.
• 19:15
  SPEAKER_05: So, fellas, if you ever come across a woman that's asking for a$500,$500 fee just to discuss, make an arrangement run the other way.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_05: The last one is something that we are rehashing yet again, dating all the way back to season one, episode 12, which was titled The Toxicity of Jada Peakett Smith.
• 19:43
  SPEAKER_05: And yes, she's on this list too of dating, marriage, relationships.
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_05: Man, this one, this one's bad.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_05: Okay, so we've already talked about how bad Jada Peakett Smith is to Will.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_05: Remember, her daughter was writing letters to Tupac, who died in the 90s, and his daughter, her daughter wasn't born till much, much later.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_05: To stating, she stated that she never wanted to get married.
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_05: So again, she's back at it because she has a book coming out.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_05: The book is called Worthy, was released October 17th, debuted at number three, selling 21,000 copies.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_05: But what what's new?
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_05: What is what is absolutely new to Jada Pickett?
• 20:27
  SPEAKER_05: It's a whole nother smear campaign on Will Smith.
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_05: Again, this is Will Smith, the one of the darlings of America.
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_05: What has Will Smith done wrong before what he did to Chris Rock, right?
• 20:43
  SPEAKER_05: So Jada Pickett's out there making the media rounds, sounding stupid, you know, trying to get more sales for the book.
• 20:51
  SPEAKER_06: She interviewed on today, where the interviewee goes, I feel like you're a straight talker.
• 20:58
  SPEAKER_06: I am.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_06: Except you're not sometimes.
• 21:02
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 21:02
  SPEAKER_05: So she basically says, I feel like you're a straight talker, but I'm here calling you bluff, and you're just saying, Yes.
• 21:09
  SPEAKER_05: It's just she doesn't make sense, ladies and gentlemen.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_05: I'm trying to figure out how this person makes sense.
• 21:15
  SPEAKER_05: So the big bombshell from this interview on today was talking about, oh, they've been divorced since 2016.
• 21:24
  SPEAKER_06: There are so many surprising things in the book, but the thing that surprised me the most that I actually had to reread it because I said, Is this true?
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_02: Right.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_06: Was that in 2016 you and Will decided that you were going to live completely separate lives.
• 21:43
  SPEAKER_06: It was not a divorce on paper, but it was a divorce.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_06: So from the year 2016, which is seven years ago, y'all have been apart.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_05: So Knowing that, why did Will go up there and s and do the thing he did to Chris Rock?
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_05: And you may ask yourself, well, Michael, I haven't been paying attention.
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_05: What has happened?
• 22:10
  SPEAKER_05: Chris Rock was hosting the Oscars.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_05: He made a joke about Jada Pink is alopecia.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_05: Will laughed at first, but then saw his divorcey wife, whatever you want to call this, not up not happy about the situation.
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_05: He goes up there and smacks Chris Rock on live TV in front of everybody.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_05: And oh, by the way, since you know we did the podcast, the original podcast in June, Chris Rock had a response.
• 22:44
  SPEAKER_08: Okay?
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_08: Now, I normally would not talk about this.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_08: But for some reason, these put on the internet.
• 22:54
  SPEAKER_08: I have no idea why two talented people would do something that f low down.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_08: We all been cheated on.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_08: Everybody in there been cheated on.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_08: None of us have ever been interviewed by the person that cheated on us on television.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_05: So the way Chris Rock puts it just makes it even funnier.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_05: She's out here doing this thing to Will.
• 23:19
  SPEAKER_05: And it's so embarrassing we see this type of dynamic between a husband and wife that this has not cultivated into a toxic relationship, a toxic divorce.
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_10: You during that time launched into an interaction with August.
• 23:38
  SPEAKER_10: What do you feel like you were looking for?
• 23:42
  SPEAKER_07: I just wanted to feel good.
• 23:45
  SPEAKER_07: It had been so long since I felt good.
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_07: And it was really a joy to just help heal somebody.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_07: I think that has a lot to do with my codependency, which is another thing that I had to learn to break in the cycle.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_07: Just that idea of needing to fix and being drawn to people that need help, whether it's your health or whether it's your addictions.
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_07: There's something about that childhood trauma that feels as though it can be fixed through fixing people.
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_05: What do you take from that?
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_05: What do you take from that thing she wanted to feel she wanted to feel good?
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_05: She wanted to heal somebody when she is across the table from her husband of 20 plus years.
• 24:40
  SPEAKER_05: Make it make sense, people, why this person continues to hurt and damage her husband.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_05: It doesn't make sense.
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_05: That's what I'm trying to get at.
• 24:49
  SPEAKER_05: She doesn't make sense with nothing she says.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_05: None of it makes sense.
• 24:54
  SPEAKER_05: Listen to this.
• 24:55
  SPEAKER_05: There was another one where she starts recording Will Smith live on for her Instagram, whatever, her social media.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_05: And hear Will Smith, hear how he responds to that.
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_07: You know Stara Corona is coming to the table.
• 25:09
  SPEAKER_07: She's gonna be at the red table.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_07: Would you say she has been instrumental in you and not redefining our relationship?
• 25:15
  SPEAKER_11: I would say don't just start filming me without asking me.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_07: Oh my goodness.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_11: If you could film us.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_07: Would you say that she helped us heal the hurts that we caused between women and another?
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_11: My social media presence is my bread and butter, okay?
• 25:35
  SPEAKER_11: So you can't just use me for social media and not, you know, don't just start rolling.
• 25:40
  SPEAKER_11: I'm standing in my house.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_11: Don't just start rolling.
• 25:42
  SPEAKER_05: See, don't she sound like a bully to him?
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_05: It just it just sounds so bad.
• 25:48
  SPEAKER_05: It just sounds so bad that this is still a thing.
• 25:52
  SPEAKER_05: And then, you know, as everybody puts all their stuff out there for us, the people to digest, and all of us are just like, what's going on?
• 26:00
  SPEAKER_05: Bruce Bruce, a comedian, puts it all together.
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_00: When you got a woman that don't really like you, you gotta Hollow.
• 26:08
  SPEAKER_00: Tell me about you not the first man to say this.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_00: Come on now.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think she does.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_00: I think What damn, how they gonna be married all these years at some point in time, you get I think she liked the lifestyle.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_00: Now who's she gonna marry with that much money?
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_00: Oprah?
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_00: Oprah ain't gonna have her.
• 26:20
  SPEAKER_00: You understand what I'm saying?
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, and then she's she's she's mean.
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_00: Is she?
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I don't know anything about it, so I'm just talking about it.
• 26:26
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know anything about it.
• 26:27
  SPEAKER_00: I can just see it in her face.
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_00: She for her to sit there.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: See a real woman would have said, Hey, don't don't get up and do that.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_00: Don't you miss this money?
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, don't get up and do that.
• 26:36
  SPEAKER_00: Talk to him after the show.
• 26:37
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: She wanted him to go up there and do that.
• 26:39
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 26:40
  SPEAKER_00: And he did it.
• 26:41
  SPEAKER_05: He sure did.
• 26:43
  SPEAKER_05: And now that that's cost him now, he can't be at the Oscars or get any rewards, any awards for his movies.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_05: Basically, have you then's the last time you've seen Will Smith in a movie?
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_05: All this, and they're still together.
• 26:55
  SPEAKER_05: And I asked myself, Will, why can't you say something?
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_05: Will say any say something.
• 27:01
  SPEAKER_05: Say and he does.
• 27:02
  SPEAKER_05: He finally, we finally catch him saying something, and it challenges, it challenges a person who's been in a in a relationship this long, if I even know what love is.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_09: Our union is a sloppy public experiment.
• 27:31
  SPEAKER_09: It is a a sloppy public experiment in unconditional love.
• 27:45
  SPEAKER_09: Can you love somebody forever, no matter what?
• 27:51
  SPEAKER_05: So that's the question I pose to you.
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_05: Could you love somebody unconditionally, no matter what?
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_05: Like Will said, can you do that?
• 28:01
  SPEAKER_05: I can't.
• 28:01
  SPEAKER_05: Nuh-uh, no way, uh-uh.
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_05: There ain't no way in heck.
• 28:05
  SPEAKER_05: I don't like cussing, you know, I don't like it.
• 28:07
  SPEAKER_05: There's no way in heck I could I can be with somebody like Jada Peakett Smith.
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_05: I challenge my worst enemy out there.
• 28:14
  SPEAKER_05: Could you do it?
• 28:15
  SPEAKER_05: Because there's no way.
• 28:16
  SPEAKER_05: There's no way anybody has any ounce of dignity and respect will put up with this mess.
• 28:23
  SPEAKER_05: I'm sorry.
• 28:24
  SPEAKER_05: There's just no way.
• 28:25
  SPEAKER_05: There's no way.
• 28:26
  SPEAKER_05: But I would challenge people to reach some level of that.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_05: Not all the way, because that's crazy.
• 28:32
  SPEAKER_05: Not if she's out here demolishing you to get profit.
• 28:37
  SPEAKER_05: There's no way you could tell me that.
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_05: And on top of the$500 young lady and the lady that can't do cheesecake.
• 28:43
  SPEAKER_05: Lady that can't do the cheesecake factory.
• 28:45
  SPEAKER_05: We're in a world of trouble when it comes to courting and dating.
• 28:51
  SPEAKER_05: Because what would you do in those situations?
• 28:55
  SPEAKER_05: What would you do in those situations?
• 28:57
  SPEAKER_05: What do you mean you can't go to Cheesecake Factory?
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_05: What do you mean I gotta pay$500 just to court you?
• 29:06
  SPEAKER_05: And lastly, what do you mean you're still married to Jada Pinkett Smith?
• 29:09
  SPEAKER_05: With that being said, I'm glad I'm married because there's no way in hell.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_05: I can survive with this.
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_05: You don't wanna go Cheesecake Factory.
• 29:26
  SPEAKER_05: I need to have$500 just to talk to you.
• 29:29
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, you wanna slander me in your book?
• 29:31
  SPEAKER_05: Go ahead.
• 29:32
  SPEAKER_05: I don't care.
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_05: No, no.
• 29:35
  SPEAKER_05: Don't do that.
• 29:35
  SPEAKER_05: Don't fall for these men.
• 29:37
  SPEAKER_05: Please don't.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_05: I'm your host, Michael Gillespie of the WDYM.
• 29:42
  SPEAKER_05: Guys, take care of yourself and each other.
• 29:43
  SPEAKER_05: I'll talk to you later.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_05: Peace out, Girl Scout.
• 29:46
  SPEAKER_05: Peace.