Latest / Motivational Podcast / DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY – Master Your Reactions
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- 0:07Speaker 1: Don't take anything personally. Whatever happens around you, don't take
- 0:15Speaker 1: it personally. You take it personally because you agree.
- 0:21Speaker 2: With whatever was said. As soon as you agree, that
- 0:27Speaker 2: poison goes through you.
- 0:33Speaker 1: Personal importance, or taking things personally, is the maximum expression
- 0:38Speaker 1: of selfishness. Because we make the assumption that everything is
- 0:42Speaker 1: about me. During the period of our education or our domestication,
- 0:56Speaker 1: we learn to take everything personally. We think we are
- 1:01Speaker 1: responsible for everything. Nothing other people do is because of you,
- 1:14Speaker 1: It is because of themselves. All people live in their
- 1:19Speaker 1: own dream, in their own mind. They are in a
- 1:29Speaker 1: completely different world from the one we live in. Even
- 1:36Speaker 1: when a situation seems so personal, even if others insult
- 1:40Speaker 1: you directly, it has nothing to do with you.
- 1:53Speaker 2: What they say, what they.
- 1:54Speaker 1: Do, and the opinions they give are according to the
- 1:57Speaker 1: agreements they have.
- 1:59Speaker 2: Their their own minds.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Their point of view comes from all the programming they
- 2:05Speaker 1: received during domestication. Taking things personally.
- 2:12Speaker 2: Makes you easy. Pray for these predators, the black magicians.
- 2:20Speaker 1: They can hook you easily with one little opinion and
- 2:23Speaker 1: feed you whatever poison they want. And because you take
- 2:26Speaker 1: it personally, you eat it up. You eat all their
- 2:30Speaker 1: emotional garbage. And now it becomes your garbage. But if
- 2:38Speaker 1: you do not take things personally, you are immune in
- 2:41Speaker 1: the middle of hell. Whatever you feel and do is
- 2:50Speaker 1: just a projection of your own personal dream, a reflection
- 2:56Speaker 1: of your own agreements. It is the way you see
- 3:00Speaker 1: the world. Others are going to have their own opinion
- 3:06Speaker 1: according to their belief system. You may even tell me, hey,
- 3:14Speaker 1: what you're saying is hurting me, but it is not
- 3:18Speaker 1: what I am saying.
- 3:19Speaker 2: That it is hurting you. It is that you.
- 3:23Speaker 1: Have wounds that I touch. By what I have said,
- 3:26Speaker 1: you are hurting yourself. There is no way that I
- 3:32Speaker 1: can take this personally, not because I don't believe in
- 3:37Speaker 1: you or don't trust you, but because I know that
- 3:41Speaker 1: you see the.
- 3:41Speaker 2: World with different eyes.
- 3:44Speaker 3: With your eyes, you create an entire picture of a
- 3:51Speaker 3: movie in your mind, and in that picture, you are
- 3:58Speaker 3: the director.
- 4:00Speaker 1: You are the producer. You are the main actor or actress.
- 4:05Speaker 1: Everyone else is a secondary actor or actress.
- 4:09Speaker 2: It is your movie.
- 4:15Speaker 1: The way you see that movie is according to the
- 4:17Speaker 1: agreements you have made with life. Your point of view
- 4:21Speaker 1: is something personal to you. It is no one's truth
- 4:24Speaker 1: but yours. Whatever people do, feel, think, or say, don't
- 4:32Speaker 1: take it personally. If they tell you how wonderful you are,
- 4:39Speaker 1: they're not saying that because of you.
- 4:43Speaker 2: You know you're wonderful.
- 4:45Speaker 1: It is not necessary to believe other people who tell
- 4:48Speaker 1: you that you're wonderful. Don't take anything personally. Even if
- 4:55Speaker 1: someone got a gun and shot you in the head,
- 4:59Speaker 1: it was an even at that extreme. Even the opinions
- 5:08Speaker 1: you have about yourself are not necessarily true. Therefore, you
- 5:13Speaker 1: don't need to take whatever you hear in your own
- 5:15Speaker 1: mind personally. All of those agreements we have made are
- 5:24Speaker 1: not necessarily compatible with each other. Every agreement is like
- 5:31Speaker 1: a separate living being with its own personality. There are
- 5:37Speaker 1: conflicting agreements that go against other agreements, and on and
- 5:41Speaker 1: on until it becomes a big war in the mind.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Humans are addicted to suffering at different levels into different degrees,
- 5:52Speaker 1: and we support each other in maintaining these addictions. Humans
- 5:57Speaker 1: agree to help each other suffer. If you have the
- 6:01Speaker 1: need to be abused, you'll find it easy to be
- 6:04Speaker 1: abused by others. Wherever you go, you will find people
- 6:11Speaker 1: lying to you, and as your awareness grows, you'll notice
- 6:16Speaker 1: that you also lie to yourself. Do not expect people
- 6:22Speaker 1: to tell you the truth, because they also lie to themselves.
- 6:27Speaker 1: You have to trust yourself and choose to believe or
- 6:30Speaker 1: not to believe what someone says to you. When we
- 6:37Speaker 1: really see other people as they are without taking it personally,
- 6:40Speaker 1: we can never be hurt by what they say or do.
- 6:45Speaker 2: Even if others lie to you, it's okay.
- 6:50Speaker 1: They're lying to you because they're afraid. They're afraid you
- 6:55Speaker 1: will discover that they are not perfect. It is painful
- 6:59Speaker 1: to take off that social mask. If others say one
- 7:04Speaker 1: thing but do another, you're lying to yourself if you
- 7:07Speaker 1: don't listen to their actions.
- 7:12Speaker 2: But if you're truthful with yourself, you'll save yourself a
- 7:14Speaker 2: lot of emotional pain.
- 7:20Speaker 1: Telling yourself the truth about it may hurt, that you
- 7:23Speaker 1: don't need to be attached to the pain. You'll find
- 7:30Speaker 1: that you don't need to trust others as much as
- 7:32Speaker 1: you need to trust yourself to make the right choices.
- 7:38Speaker 2: When you make it a strong habit not.
- 7:40Speaker 1: To take anything personally, you avoid many upsets in your life.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Your anger, jealousy, and envy will disappear, and even your
- 7:53Speaker 2: sadness will simply disappear.
- 7:55Speaker 1: If you don't take things personally, you will find that
- 7:59Speaker 1: nothing can put you.
- 8:00Speaker 2: Back into hell.
- 8:02Speaker 1: There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to
- 8:05Speaker 1: you when you take nothing personally. You become immune to
- 8:11Speaker 1: black magicians and no spell can affect you, regardless of
- 8:16Speaker 1: how strong it may be. The whole world can gossip
- 8:20Speaker 1: about you, and if you don't take it personally, you
- 8:23Speaker 1: are immune. Someone can intentionally send emotional poison, and if
- 8:34Speaker 1: you don't take it personally, you will not eat it.
- 8:39Speaker 1: When you don't take the emotional poison, it becomes even
- 8:43Speaker 1: worse in the cinder, but not in you. Taking nothing
- 8:50Speaker 1: personally helps you to break many habits and routines that
- 8:53Speaker 1: trap you in the dream of hell and cause needless suffering.
- 8:57Speaker 1: You begin to break dozens of teeny any agreements that
- 9:00Speaker 1: cause you to suffer. As you make a habit of
- 9:07Speaker 1: not taking anything personally, you won't need to place your
- 9:12Speaker 1: trust in what others do or say. Will only need to.
- 9:17Speaker 2: Trust yourself to make responsible choices.
- 9:24Speaker 1: When you truly understand this and refuse to take things personally,
- 9:29Speaker 1: you can hardly be hurt by the careless comments or
- 9:32Speaker 1: actions of others. You can say yes or you can
- 9:36Speaker 1: say no, whatever you choose without guilt or self judgment.
- 9:43Speaker 1: You can choose to follow your heart always, don't take
- 9:51Speaker 1: anything personally
- 10:43Speaker 2: In it.