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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two Teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camrad Judge.
- 0:13Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Teas Myself,
- 0:17Speaker 2: Teddy Mellencamp.
- 0:18Speaker 3: And tambrid Judge.
- 0:19Speaker 4: Should we have a I mean, this is clearly an
- 0:23Speaker 4: o G to the OC that we haven't seen in
- 0:27Speaker 4: a very long time. So I'm so excited to introduce
- 0:29Speaker 4: Joe Dela Rosa.
- 0:32Speaker 2: She's a television personality best known as being the original
- 0:35Speaker 2: housewife in the Real Housewives Orange County. She released an
- 0:38Speaker 2: album in two thousand and seven called Unscripted. Joe was
- 0:42Speaker 2: also part of the first spinoff of the Real Housewives franchise,
- 0:46Speaker 2: Date My Ex Joe and Slade.
- 0:48Speaker 3: That aired in two thousand and eight. I don't even
- 0:50Speaker 3: know about this had it lasted long.
- 0:54Speaker 2: She recently started her own creative agency called House of
- 0:57Speaker 2: Gray and was married a year ago to Tarin Gray.
- 1:02Speaker 2: So there's you can go and see her People magazine
- 1:04Speaker 2: article about her wedding or her engagement and get caught.
- 1:08Speaker 5: Up from the past.
- 1:12Speaker 4: Do you look amazing?
- 1:14Speaker 5: How's it going?
- 1:15Speaker 4: It is going so well. Thank you so much for
- 1:17Speaker 4: coming on our podcast. We're so excited to have you.
- 1:20Speaker 4: You and I have been chatting on on DM. Oh
- 1:22Speaker 4: my god, the outfit, the hair, that everything. My question
- 1:27Speaker 4: to you is do you still own a skytop?
- 1:30Speaker 5: I'm absolutely not. I got rid of those ages ago.
- 1:36Speaker 4: So tell So do you live in La now?
- 1:39Speaker 5: Yeah? I've been living in LA since I left the show.
- 1:42Speaker 5: Actually really literally, did.
- 1:44Speaker 3: You leave or did you get the boot? Or did
- 1:46Speaker 3: you break up with Slade?
- 1:47Speaker 5: Broke up with Slade and then moved her late?
- 1:50Speaker 1: My heart was always city, like I've just I've always
- 1:53Speaker 1: gravitated the city, you know, the lights of Hollywood and whatnot.
- 1:58Speaker 4: And yeah, was it hard for you to leave from
- 2:01Speaker 4: the show or you were sitting along?
- 2:04Speaker 1: No, No, I don't think so in the sense that,
- 2:07Speaker 1: like because it was a breakup and I was just
- 2:10Speaker 1: ready to like start my life over. I was also
- 2:13Speaker 1: already going to LA every weekend with my girlfriends, and like,
- 2:16Speaker 1: I was just in such a different place in my
- 2:18Speaker 1: life where.
- 2:18Speaker 4: You were going to LA when you were dating Slade.
- 2:21Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but that's what I like a Slade?
- 2:24Speaker 1: Were you, honestly, like honest back then, love of my life?
- 2:31Speaker 5: Then? What?
- 2:32Speaker 1: In my twenties he really was? I had just graduated,
- 2:36Speaker 1: you know, college, he threw my college graduation party.
- 2:39Speaker 3: Oh god, how did you meet?
- 2:41Speaker 2: I'm so taken aback by this because I'm watching things
- 2:43Speaker 2: where you're going out and having fun and I'm like,
- 2:45Speaker 2: clearly you're twenty four years old.
- 2:47Speaker 3: Yeah, how was he home wear? Dressing up in costume
- 2:51Speaker 3: for him? I'm like, information, I'm.
- 2:54Speaker 1: So sorry you had to see that, Teddy, I'm so
- 2:57Speaker 1: sorry I had to see that. So uh I I yeah,
- 3:04Speaker 1: no excuses, just young dumb but him.
- 3:07Speaker 5: Oh.
- 3:08Speaker 1: I worked at a mortgage company. That was my first
- 3:10Speaker 1: job out of high school. I was a little assistant.
- 3:13Speaker 1: He was one of the title reps that would come
- 3:15Speaker 1: in every week, and I like, my boss was like, hey,
- 3:18Speaker 1: you need to like take her out and like teach
- 3:19Speaker 1: her the business. And he taught you the business, all right,
- 3:23Speaker 1: he taught me the business. But like when I met him,
- 3:27Speaker 1: he was like all the dad vibes, like dockers, like
- 3:31Speaker 1: khaki shorts, like you know what I'm saying.
- 3:34Speaker 3: So when you had a Hummer back then, like you
- 3:36Speaker 3: were hot.
- 3:37Speaker 1: So the fact also about Hommer, huh why with the
- 3:41Speaker 1: chron Like why was that the thing?
- 3:44Speaker 5: Well?
- 3:44Speaker 4: Why was the calm cline underwear with the ice mask
- 3:49Speaker 4: on his face or whatever he had.
- 3:51Speaker 5: He was so special back then.
- 3:53Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean you dodged that bullet.
- 3:55Speaker 3: Okay, so you were twenty four years old.
- 3:57Speaker 5: Yeah, how did this all come about?
- 3:59Speaker 3: Because it originally was called Behind the Gates, right.
- 4:03Speaker 5: Uh, yeah, I believe.
- 4:05Speaker 1: So I know there was a lot of stuff circulating
- 4:09Speaker 1: before like I ever joined and I had I have
- 4:15Speaker 1: this little like I think it was like a studio
- 4:17Speaker 1: that I was living in Encoda Dacasa. So a lot
- 4:20Speaker 1: of people don't know that, like I was already living there.
- 4:24Speaker 4: And yeah, you didn't live with Slide.
- 4:27Speaker 1: Not right away, Okay, so I'd gotten like my own
- 4:31Speaker 1: place for a minute, but like it was just a
- 4:32Speaker 1: little studio again right out of college.
- 4:35Speaker 5: Like yeah, fairly trying to find my way.
- 4:38Speaker 1: So yeah, it just kind of it was wild. And
- 4:42Speaker 1: then there was just I think being so young and
- 4:46Speaker 1: being thrown into the life. First of all, I did
- 4:47Speaker 1: not come from money, so like everything that like I've
- 4:51Speaker 1: done in my life, I just like was on me.
- 4:54Speaker 1: So to get thrown into number one, a world of
- 4:56Speaker 1: like wealth, number two, being so much younger and everybody
- 5:00Speaker 1: being so much older, I was super intimidated going in
- 5:03Speaker 1: because like why wouldn't I be with like you know, sure,
- 5:07Speaker 1: and all the personalities as well, and.
- 5:09Speaker 4: You didn't know anybody right when I didn't know anyone.
- 5:12Speaker 1: Literally, I remember first seeing like first day shooting. They
- 5:15Speaker 1: brought me to this bar in the middle of Koto
- 5:18Speaker 1: and they were like, okay, Joe, we're gonna you're gonna
- 5:20Speaker 1: meet all the girls for the first time on the patio,
- 5:23Speaker 1: and I think it was like Kimberly and a bunch
- 5:26Speaker 1: of other like you know.
- 5:27Speaker 3: I remember that scene. Yes, and you're saying you want
- 5:31Speaker 3: to make friends. Yes.
- 5:33Speaker 4: Are you talk to any of the girls to this day?
- 5:36Speaker 1: Yeah, actually still talked to Gina Alexis. They actually came
- 5:40Speaker 1: to my wedding when I just got married a year.
- 5:41Speaker 4: Okay, I was going to talk to you about that.
- 5:43Speaker 4: So your one year anniversary is coming up on the
- 5:46Speaker 4: twenty eighth. Congratulations. Now you are a cougar because you
- 5:51Speaker 4: are five years older than your husband. I am five
- 5:54Speaker 4: years older than my husband.
- 5:56Speaker 5: Really, yeah, up here to go, you go, girl pounded out.
- 6:01Speaker 5: I think I'm actually seven. He's thirty five, thirty six? Yeah,
- 6:05Speaker 5: oh you're seven years old? Yeah?
- 6:07Speaker 3: Hold on, speaking of age, how old is Slade?
- 6:12Speaker 1: He was fifteen years older than me when I met him,
- 6:15Speaker 1: and I so when I met him, I was he
- 6:17Speaker 1: was thirty do the math, so doing the math backwards?
- 6:21Speaker 4: Yeah, so wait, so you're forty.
- 6:23Speaker 1: I'm about I'm about to be forty three in September
- 6:26Speaker 1: and forty two.
- 6:26Speaker 4: Right, and he's fifteen years older than you.
- 6:29Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so forty, I'm fifty eight years old, so
- 6:32Speaker 3: you're he is low to change.
- 6:35Speaker 4: He pulls up, he says he's forty eight, says he's
- 6:38Speaker 4: forty eight years old to this day.
- 6:40Speaker 5: I'm sorry what he's just kidding?
- 6:42Speaker 4: Yeah, just kidding.
- 6:45Speaker 1: What I joke with everybody, I'm forever twenty seven because
- 6:49Speaker 1: La just keeps you like, yes, it's La La Land
- 6:52Speaker 1: and like nobody ever grows up here, at least on
- 6:54Speaker 1: our side in West Hollywood and Hollywood.
- 6:56Speaker 5: But he's absolutely not forty eight.
- 6:59Speaker 4: No, he's ten years older than that.
- 7:02Speaker 2: Okay, how long were you guys dating before you were cast?
- 7:06Speaker 3: And when I met I met.
- 7:07Speaker 2: Him and Gretchen at like a race car event years ago,
- 7:12Speaker 2: back when I was still on the show, and I
- 7:14Speaker 2: remember him telling me something along.
- 7:16Speaker 3: The lines like the show was his idea?
- 7:19Speaker 1: Is that his idea? Like he started it? It was
- 7:22Speaker 1: his idea to go on and like to do the
- 7:24Speaker 1: whole thing. Because a lot of people may or may
- 7:27Speaker 1: not know he was. He had an agent in LA
- 7:30Speaker 1: when I met him, he was already because of his
- 7:33Speaker 1: like cycling stuff he would get he would book like
- 7:36Speaker 1: professional cycling stuff.
- 7:38Speaker 5: You know.
- 7:39Speaker 4: Can you clarify something for us, Yeah, because he has
- 7:42Speaker 4: said that he raced in the Tour deference, I'm calling
- 7:47Speaker 4: bullshit on that. I'm saying that he was like a helper,
- 7:52Speaker 4: a water boy, something like that. Eddie actually is a
- 7:54Speaker 4: cyclist as well. Didn't ever race in the Tour de France,
- 7:58Speaker 4: but he took Slaid out one time riding in Napa
- 8:01Speaker 4: when we were filming and he could barely keep up.
- 8:05Speaker 4: In fact, he was on the side of the road
- 8:07Speaker 4: in cramps and Eddie was like rubbing his cramps out
- 8:09Speaker 4: because he was so bad. Is that just an exaggeration,
- 8:13Speaker 4: because I feel like he likes to exaggerate to make
- 8:17Speaker 4: him you know.
- 8:20Speaker 1: So all I remember is it was him and the
- 8:24Speaker 1: big cycling guy.
- 8:25Speaker 5: I'm sorry, so I note.
- 8:29Speaker 1: Yes, the two of them were like Lance was a
- 8:32Speaker 1: national champion at the time of his like state, and
- 8:36Speaker 1: then I believe I remember telling me.
- 8:39Speaker 5: He was his in his state.
- 8:42Speaker 3: Telling you or did you see it with your own eyes?
- 8:44Speaker 5: He told me, he told.
- 8:46Speaker 1: Me when we met, like because I would ask him,
- 8:48Speaker 1: I'm like, why do you put on these like super
- 8:50Speaker 1: neon outfits and like sit on a bike and like,
- 8:52Speaker 1: like I just I wanted to like understand.
- 8:54Speaker 4: I mean the cycling outfits are horrendous that he has
- 8:56Speaker 4: a ton of them. I mean they're all neon, which
- 8:58Speaker 4: is great because people's eddie cycle he does, he does.
- 9:02Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, But then how long did you guys date
- 9:04Speaker 2: before you were cast? I?
- 9:08Speaker 5: Oh, such a long time ago. I want to.
- 9:10Speaker 1: Say maybe like at least almost a year, if not
- 9:14Speaker 1: a little bit. And we were together for like a
- 9:17Speaker 1: while actually, because we were already engaged when we were
- 9:20Speaker 1: on the show, and we got engaged almost at a year,
- 9:23Speaker 1: so at least a year we were dating before, so
- 9:25Speaker 1: we had like a fully normal life of just you know,
- 9:30Speaker 1: living in Coodo with the kids.
- 9:31Speaker 5: I had moved in at the time.
- 9:34Speaker 2: And then that was the shasting process then, because like
- 9:37Speaker 2: for us, it's for me, it was very different than
- 9:39Speaker 2: even for Tamra, Like how did it work for you?
- 9:42Speaker 1: Yeah, So they were looking for the fifth couple to cast. Uh,
- 9:47Speaker 1: And again I wasn't there when we got cast. This
- 9:51Speaker 1: was all Slade.
- 9:52Speaker 4: Wasn't friends with Scott.
- 9:54Speaker 1: Done up. Yeah, So we lived literally down the street
- 9:56Speaker 1: from Scott, and I guess there was a charity event
- 10:00Speaker 1: that Slade went to and that's kind of where the
- 10:03Speaker 1: whole thing went down. So what I remember and then
- 10:07Speaker 1: how it actually happened was two different things.
- 10:09Speaker 5: I later found out.
- 10:10Speaker 1: I thought that Slade had gone to this event with Scott,
- 10:14Speaker 1: this you know, codo party that he had thrown, and
- 10:16Speaker 1: they had asked us to be on the show, is
- 10:19Speaker 1: what I originally thought. It was kind to find out
- 10:21Speaker 1: later Slade had bought a ticket. It was like a
- 10:24Speaker 1: charity auction to be on the show.
- 10:27Speaker 4: And I remember hearing that, so he got his way
- 10:30Speaker 4: on the show.
- 10:31Speaker 1: But I don't remember that again ages ago. So I guess, yeah,
- 10:37Speaker 1: that's apparently how it ended up happening. But I was
- 10:39Speaker 1: never there. And then Slade came home one day and
- 10:41Speaker 1: was like, hey, so we're going to do this thing.
- 10:44Speaker 1: And I you know back then, so I never.
- 10:47Speaker 2: Even met you and did auditions with you or any
- 10:49Speaker 2: kind of no camera work.
- 10:51Speaker 5: Nothing, nothing.
- 10:52Speaker 1: It was literally the I guess maybe the allure of
- 10:55Speaker 1: like young girl moving.
- 10:57Speaker 5: To codo with this older guy who has Do you.
- 11:00Speaker 4: Remember who the production company was back then? It was evolution,
- 11:04Speaker 4: so it's spent abolition from the very beginning. So yeah,
- 11:07Speaker 4: you were the very first to leave the show and
- 11:10Speaker 4: then do a spinoff.
- 11:13Speaker 5: God bless that spinoff.
- 11:14Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I need to watch it. I didn't
- 11:16Speaker 3: even until I was reading your intro, I was like,
- 11:19Speaker 3: what is it? Was?
- 11:21Speaker 1: Was dating my ex is that it was like the
- 11:24Speaker 1: Bachelorette meets a reality show, except there was no like.
- 11:29Speaker 4: But don't you feel like it would really make it today?
- 11:32Speaker 5: I feel like it was it's time and it was
- 11:38Speaker 5: on yep.
- 11:39Speaker 1: What Yeah, So I was the first to get a
- 11:41Speaker 1: spin off, and then I had just gotten and I
- 11:45Speaker 1: know there's going to be all Back then it was like,
- 11:48Speaker 1: you know, getting a record deal was like a funny thing,
- 11:52Speaker 1: you know now looking back at it.
- 11:53Speaker 5: But I was also the first. I was never a singer.
- 11:56Speaker 1: I was a dancer and I just had music and
- 11:59Speaker 1: singing in my life, and they were like, you know,
- 12:02Speaker 1: dancer first, singer second, and more like karaoke singer. But
- 12:06Speaker 1: you know, the producers were like, hey, we want to
- 12:09Speaker 1: give you this music opportunity, and I was like.
- 12:11Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it. Who doesn't want to ever do
- 12:13Speaker 5: an album.
- 12:14Speaker 1: And put themselves on like a music video, like as
- 12:16Speaker 1: a little girl dancing in the mirror with like a
- 12:18Speaker 1: hair brush unscripted.
- 12:21Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 12:31Speaker 4: Did I hear that Gretchen bought your the rights to
- 12:36Speaker 4: your music or something like that years ago?
- 12:39Speaker 5: He sure did, what I mean? And why did she
- 12:43Speaker 5: do that? Yeah? So again this is just what I hear.
- 12:49Speaker 1: So my music producer at the time, Brian Todd, was
- 12:54Speaker 1: the music producer for Ashley Tisdale. For me, for like
- 12:57Speaker 1: a bunch of like young like you know, Hollywood la
- 13:01Speaker 1: like girls that were like trying to come up and
- 13:02Speaker 1: make it type thing.
- 13:03Speaker 5: That was the reality version.
- 13:05Speaker 1: At some point there was a financial situation and he
- 13:08Speaker 1: started to sell his catalog. Catalog's out and for whatever reason, uh,
- 13:14Speaker 1: she decided to buy it for how much I'm not
- 13:19Speaker 1: sure that's all.
- 13:22Speaker 3: But what was the point?
- 13:22Speaker 4: It was it just for something to put on the show?
- 13:25Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know. I think it was wild.
- 13:28Speaker 5: I think it was wild.
- 13:29Speaker 1: She ended up coming out with a single after that too,
- 13:31Speaker 1: I saw, well, So I don't know if like that
- 13:34Speaker 1: was the way she would like, I don't know, I
- 13:37Speaker 1: don't know.
- 13:37Speaker 4: But let me go after my new boyfriend's girlfriend's music.
- 13:41Speaker 4: Like really, now, when when Gretchensley started dating where what
- 13:46Speaker 4: was your mind at at that point where you're like,
- 13:48Speaker 4: what the because he dated Laurie after you? Right, yeah,
- 13:53Speaker 4: so you had a single.
- 13:55Speaker 5: I had a single.
- 13:56Speaker 1: It ended up on radio, which was amazing, music video
- 13:59Speaker 1: ended up on Network on TV and then right when
- 14:03Speaker 1: and I also got a publishing deal because one thing
- 14:05Speaker 1: I was.
- 14:05Speaker 5: Wow, was a songwriter.
- 14:07Speaker 1: That's actually what I actually for reels like did where
- 14:10Speaker 1: I felt the most confident, And I got a publishing
- 14:13Speaker 1: deal through Sony. And then one of the songs I
- 14:15Speaker 1: ended up writing ended up actually On the Hills on MTV,
- 14:18Speaker 1: which was.
- 14:18Speaker 5: Kind of cool. Oh I remember yep, it was called
- 14:22Speaker 5: a Little Inspiration.
- 14:24Speaker 4: And yeah, were you ever on the Hills?
- 14:28Speaker 1: I so, Lauren Audrina, Yeah, that whole crew the scenes
- 14:33Speaker 1: I was ever in, like never air because you know
- 14:34Speaker 1: they shoot everything I never did. But yeah, so like
- 14:37Speaker 1: that whole group of like OC girls, it was same age,
- 14:40Speaker 1: same time. We all kind of came up together and
- 14:43Speaker 1: Lauren Conrad and I had a friend in common. Leslie Bruce,
- 14:47Speaker 1: who worked at US Weekly, went to uc Ervine. She
- 14:50Speaker 1: introduced us, and so the both of us being in
- 14:53Speaker 1: la being the girls on reality from OC just kind
- 14:55Speaker 1: of like grew up and kind of grew up together.
- 14:58Speaker 1: Lauren kept going and has blown up since then, and
- 15:01Speaker 1: I kind of took a break from reality after. You know,
- 15:05Speaker 1: just did you.
- 15:06Speaker 4: Do any other reality shows after your spin off?
- 15:10Speaker 5: No? No, no, would you ever? Yeah? Definitely?
- 15:14Speaker 4: Okay, So you will be coming to you will be
- 15:17Speaker 4: coming to my parties next season?
- 15:19Speaker 5: Oh? I mean yes, I was.
- 15:21Speaker 2: Perfect because Andy said you're the one that got away
- 15:24Speaker 2: too early.
- 15:25Speaker 1: Really yes, Oh my god, Andy, that's so sweet.
- 15:33Speaker 4: Maybe some double dates with the husbands or parties or
- 15:36Speaker 4: something next season.
- 15:37Speaker 3: I'll see. So I have a question.
- 15:41Speaker 2: One of your main storylines was making friends and Codo.
- 15:46Speaker 2: Did you find any genuine connections with any of the
- 15:50Speaker 2: women on the show.
- 15:51Speaker 5: I did.
- 15:52Speaker 1: I will say number one Gina. Gina has been like
- 15:55Speaker 1: a second mom to me. I always called your mama Gina,
- 15:59Speaker 1: and that's kind of what she's been in my life.
- 16:01Speaker 1: If I ever needed advice or anything like that. Kimberly,
- 16:04Speaker 1: even though she left the show super early after season one.
- 16:07Speaker 5: Where did she go? You know what? None of us
- 16:10Speaker 5: know that. Like I heard she moved out.
- 16:13Speaker 4: Of state and just that's what I heard.
- 16:14Speaker 1: Yeah, but she was more of like she was like
- 16:20Speaker 1: if there was a housewife training of how to be
- 16:21Speaker 1: a housewife, because I had no idea, like you know
- 16:24Speaker 1: what I mean, just that world.
- 16:25Speaker 5: She was my like Yoda if you will.
- 16:29Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like a caricature of what a housewife is
- 16:33Speaker 2: supposed to be.
- 16:34Speaker 5: Completely Yeah.
- 16:34Speaker 4: Like I ran into her at the montage. Wait what
- 16:39Speaker 4: she's back, Gina. Yeah, she's in Orange County.
- 16:41Speaker 3: Oh no, I was talking about Kimberly.
- 16:44Speaker 5: Oh Kimberly.
- 16:45Speaker 4: No, no, I'm talking about Tina.
- 16:46Speaker 5: Yes it is.
- 16:48Speaker 4: And so I ran into her and she was just
- 16:50Speaker 4: like Gina, like I had didn't skip a beat.
- 16:53Speaker 5: I love Gina.
- 16:54Speaker 1: Gina remains the same, so down to earth, so like
- 16:57Speaker 1: just Gina, like and that's why I love her, like
- 17:00Speaker 1: nothing has ever changed her and like she's just she's
- 17:03Speaker 1: my heart.
- 17:04Speaker 5: I love her so much.
- 17:05Speaker 2: Has anything changed? The canary diamond ring that you got?
- 17:08Speaker 2: And where is it?
- 17:11Speaker 5: It was fake? Right? Okay?
- 17:12Speaker 1: Yes it was what The canary diamond ring still sits
- 17:18Speaker 1: somewhere in a little chanel box inside three more boxes
- 17:22Speaker 1: at my mom's house because I can't even bother to
- 17:25Speaker 1: dig that thing up.
- 17:27Speaker 5: But like, yes, so.
- 17:28Speaker 3: Don't you find out it was fake? Or am I
- 17:30Speaker 3: going to find this out later on in the season.
- 17:32Speaker 5: So so Slade told me. Slade told me in.
- 17:35Speaker 4: The clubhouse it needs to be on Andy's clubhouse on
- 17:37Speaker 4: the shop.
- 17:38Speaker 5: Wait should I bring it? Yeah?
- 17:41Speaker 3: Yes you should.
- 17:43Speaker 1: We can actually take it to a jeweler and actually
- 17:46Speaker 1: see how much that poor little thing is worth.
- 17:49Speaker 5: Twenty five dollar to any If that.
- 17:52Speaker 3: Right, I am blown away.
- 17:56Speaker 5: Okay, so he was honest with me.
- 17:57Speaker 1: He did tell me that, you know, the setting was real,
- 18:01Speaker 1: but the centerstone he wanted to change it with day.
- 18:03Speaker 4: Do you think Gretchen's is fake too?
- 18:08Speaker 5: I don't know, probably not.
- 18:10Speaker 3: At what point did he tell you that it.
- 18:12Speaker 5: Was fake after he proposed? But again, this is pre Housewives,
- 18:18Speaker 5: so no cameras know nothing.
- 18:21Speaker 4: And how do you when someone goes, I'm proposing to
- 18:24Speaker 4: but this is a fake ring.
- 18:25Speaker 5: Here's the thing. I know.
- 18:28Speaker 1: I'm a sap. I'm the biggest romantic that there is.
- 18:31Speaker 1: So at the time back then also twenty three, twenty four,
- 18:35Speaker 1: no experience. Yeah, I was in it for like, I
- 18:39Speaker 1: genuinely loved him so much that he could have given
- 18:42Speaker 1: me a band and I wouldn't have cared.
- 18:45Speaker 2: But that's my question for both of you guys, now,
- 18:47Speaker 2: knowing what you know, would you rather have a small
- 18:51Speaker 2: diamond that's real, Yes, that's authentic for sure, or a
- 18:56Speaker 2: giant fake one?
- 18:57Speaker 5: No?
- 18:58Speaker 1: I rather have a band a million percent, like I
- 19:02Speaker 1: don't even need like, of course, every girl loves diamonds,
- 19:05Speaker 1: but like what like I wanted a fall left for
- 19:07Speaker 1: love and not for money.
- 19:08Speaker 5: But why was it fake?
- 19:09Speaker 4: He's briging that he's making seven figures and he's got
- 19:12Speaker 4: all this money.
- 19:13Speaker 3: By the way, how are you just seven figures?
- 19:16Speaker 5: A million?
- 19:17Speaker 4: A million plus? And then he said that the ring
- 19:21Speaker 4: was over one hundred thousand dollars if he bought you.
- 19:24Speaker 3: I don't think of one hundred thousand pesos?
- 19:27Speaker 5: Who exactly? No? Wait what he didn't say that? Really? Yes?
- 19:34Speaker 5: I did? Yes on the podcast?
- 19:38Speaker 3: No, I come on here?
- 19:40Speaker 5: Do you think i'd have here? Okay?
- 19:43Speaker 4: On the show?
- 19:44Speaker 5: Do you and him not? No? Wait, I don't stand
- 19:47Speaker 5: you know, I don't know.
- 19:49Speaker 1: I feel like I'm so far removed from the world
- 19:52Speaker 1: of housewives being in La like it's it's like a
- 19:54Speaker 1: little bubble.
- 19:55Speaker 5: I don't know any of the riff any of the drama,
- 19:57Speaker 5: any of the anything.
- 19:58Speaker 1: So you sharing all this with me and like for
- 20:00Speaker 1: the first time, going wait what, I didn't know you
- 20:02Speaker 1: and him don't get along.
- 20:03Speaker 2: But moving slightly away from Slade, what are your thoughts
- 20:07Speaker 2: on Vicky and how did she treat you?
- 20:11Speaker 5: I love Vicky. Vicky.
- 20:13Speaker 1: Vicky is always going to be Vicky and again, like
- 20:16Speaker 1: I always just had my experience with her back when
- 20:19Speaker 1: we lived in OC and Vicky has always been great
- 20:23Speaker 1: even over the years. Like Gina and her are you know,
- 20:26Speaker 1: still close and Gina will like again whenever I can,
- 20:30Speaker 1: like see her, will bring me to like I know,
- 20:32Speaker 1: we like did a dinner once. This is years ago,
- 20:34Speaker 1: by the way, and this is like she'd probably Vicky
- 20:36Speaker 1: had probably been on the show like a lot of
- 20:38Speaker 1: seasons by now, six seven, eight, and we all went
- 20:41Speaker 1: to dinner. Still Vicky, like Vicky, I feel like is
- 20:44Speaker 1: always going to stay Vicky as well when you get
- 20:47Speaker 1: her one on one, it's very consistent.
- 20:48Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm actually going to see her tonight.
- 20:53Speaker 5: Oh you are tell her? I said, Hi, I actually
- 20:56Speaker 5: saw a picture of you and her.
- 20:57Speaker 4: And yes, yeah, so the three of us are going
- 21:01Speaker 4: to meet tonight. But I told her yesterday, I said
- 21:03Speaker 4: I'm having jokes. She's like, oh my god, she's so sweet.
- 21:06Speaker 2: I love.
- 21:07Speaker 5: She said, Hi, tell her.
- 21:08Speaker 1: I said, Hi, I'm rid Or died for Vicky.
- 21:11Speaker 5: So if anyone has a problem, like, I'll kill him.
- 21:15Speaker 3: Well you might have to kill me then, yeah, because.
- 21:18Speaker 4: He does not like Teddy Vicky what.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Okay, So she has a real problem with me because
- 21:27Speaker 2: she always wanted to do a podcast with Tamra And
- 21:31Speaker 2: I reached out to Tamra when iHeart reached out to
- 21:34Speaker 2: me and said, we want to do a Housewives podcast.
- 21:37Speaker 2: And I said fine, but I'm only going to recap
- 21:40Speaker 2: and do these things if i can do it with
- 21:41Speaker 2: somebody that I want. And they said who, and I
- 21:43Speaker 2: said Tamara. And I contacted Tamara and it was like
- 21:46Speaker 2: three days and we were done and then like yeah,
- 21:48Speaker 2: we we kind of exploded, thank you know, thanks to
- 21:51Speaker 2: like amazing production team and iHeart and everybody. It was
- 21:54Speaker 2: great and our connection. But then Vicky like couldn't take it,
- 21:58Speaker 2: Like so instead of being happy for camera.
- 22:00Speaker 5: You know, Vicky, I do know Vicky.
- 22:03Speaker 4: She actually called our boss and said that they should
- 22:05Speaker 4: get rid of Teddy and bring her on.
- 22:07Speaker 5: Yes, Vicky, that's not nice. And then but it's so Vicky.
- 22:13Speaker 2: And then she went on What Happens Live and said
- 22:16Speaker 2: she didn't know who I was, like, she just okay,
- 22:19Speaker 2: she's bitter Boots.
- 22:21Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I think it's amazing that y'all are doing
- 22:24Speaker 1: this podcast. And I think that just opportunities come to
- 22:26Speaker 1: people and like, you know, you ride them. And also
- 22:30Speaker 1: she has her own podcast? What is she talking about?
- 22:32Speaker 5: Doesn't she?
- 22:33Speaker 3: She did and it was very hot.
- 22:35Speaker 5: Yeah, oh okay I was. I was like so confused
- 22:38Speaker 5: because I thought she was doing hers. Okay, yeah, I
- 22:40Speaker 5: have a question for you.
- 22:41Speaker 4: Would you ever do the Ultimate Girl's Trip?
- 22:45Speaker 5: I I have seen a trailer of that. Would I
- 22:50Speaker 5: do it? Why the hell not?
- 22:52Speaker 1: I think that, you know, I haven't been in that
- 22:56Speaker 1: dynamic four years. I don't know if I would get
- 22:59Speaker 1: eaten a or if like, like I don't, I don't.
- 23:04Speaker 4: It's like riding a bicycle, Joe, you get right back on.
- 23:07Speaker 5: Have you done it? I have done on it? How
- 23:10Speaker 5: was it? So?
- 23:12Speaker 4: I was let go after my twelfth season, and I
- 23:17Speaker 4: was I did nothing for a year and then I
- 23:19Speaker 4: think twenty nineteen twenty, maybe twenty twenty, they asked me
- 23:23Speaker 4: to do Ultimate Girls Trip. So I did Ultimate Girl's
- 23:26Speaker 4: Trip and from there they brought me back on Orange County.
- 23:30Speaker 3: So I did it.
- 23:32Speaker 4: It was weird because I was kind of out of
- 23:34Speaker 4: the mix. I'm with new girls and I don't necessarily
- 23:37Speaker 4: know that well, some of them I've met through Bravo stuff,
- 23:40Speaker 4: but didn't really know them. It was it was hard,
- 23:44Speaker 4: but it was fun.
- 23:45Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 23:45Speaker 4: It was during the pandemic. So we went to Derenda's house.
- 23:48Speaker 4: Now the girls nowadays are going to do Turks and
- 23:51Speaker 4: Caicos And where did the uh where the new ones go?
- 23:55Speaker 5: They?
- 23:56Speaker 3: Where did they go? Bali?
- 23:57Speaker 4: Well not Bali, they went to Landiland.
- 24:01Speaker 5: That production budget though, okay.
- 24:03Speaker 3: I know, and it is ten days.
- 24:05Speaker 4: It's a lot of money for ten days.
- 24:07Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, So I don't think you would get.
- 24:10Speaker 4: So you hear that Andy, she'll do Ultimate Girls Trip.
- 24:14Speaker 2: Andy, there's just a psa, she will do Girls Triph.
- 24:19Speaker 3: So do you watch any Housewives right now?
- 24:21Speaker 1: I do not watch any Housewives, to be honest with you.
- 24:25Speaker 1: I only have the apps, no cable, so I stream
- 24:27Speaker 1: everything like, also shout out to Peacock because that's actually
- 24:30Speaker 1: one of the apps that I pay for because they
- 24:33Speaker 1: and all of my favorite shows are on there. But yeah,
- 24:35Speaker 1: unfortunately you get everything one day later. So I'm just like,
- 24:38Speaker 1: so that's okay.
- 24:39Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you get on Ultimate Girls Trip, they
- 24:41Speaker 4: give you one free year of Peacock.
- 24:44Speaker 5: So oh nice, okay, get I'm all for a free streamings,
- 24:49Speaker 5: me too, Me too.
- 24:50Speaker 4: On a saturder note, watching season one into, Grayson was
- 24:56Speaker 4: on the show, and obviously you've heard that he recently
- 25:00Speaker 4: passed away. Yeah, do you reach out to Michelle or
- 25:05Speaker 4: Slide at that point?
- 25:06Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 25:07Speaker 1: I actually I actually okay, sorry, sorry, I didn't even
- 25:13Speaker 1: know where that came from.
- 25:14Speaker 5: I actually did.
- 25:15Speaker 1: I reached out to Slade just to say like, I
- 25:20Speaker 1: was so sorry, and yeah, I never heard back from him.
- 25:23Speaker 1: But yeah, wow, I don't even know where that came from.
- 25:26Speaker 4: Yeah, there when he was all in Yeah, do you
- 25:30Speaker 4: remember what were you with him when he got diagnosed?
- 25:35Speaker 5: No? No, I when I met Slide, I I already knew.
- 25:40Speaker 4: Yeah, oh they already knew at that point.
- 25:42Speaker 1: Uh, yes, yes, when I believe when I when we
- 25:47Speaker 1: when we had been dating, like he already had the tumor.
- 25:51Speaker 4: Oh I didn't know that.
- 25:52Speaker 5: I didn't.
- 25:53Speaker 4: I didn't realize that he was diagnosed that young because
- 25:55Speaker 4: it wasn't really talked about.
- 25:56Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, it was.
- 25:58Speaker 1: He was two years old when I met him, and
- 26:01Speaker 1: he was already struggling, and so Slade had kind of
- 26:05Speaker 1: opened up and shared the story about how they found
- 26:07Speaker 1: out and stuff like that.
- 26:09Speaker 4: Heartbreaking, so heartbreaking can till we live three years later.
- 26:14Speaker 1: I it honestly just warms my heart that like he
- 26:19Speaker 1: was able to have as many years yeah, as like
- 26:21Speaker 1: he did, and his.
- 26:23Speaker 4: Poor mom, like she really lived her life to take
- 26:26Speaker 4: care of him. Really heartbreaking.
- 26:29Speaker 1: Okay, Now I wish I had whiskey in this.
- 26:35Speaker 4: Well we have we have champagne today.
- 26:37Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that's what I should have done.
- 26:48Speaker 2: This is I think something that's going to help a
- 26:50Speaker 2: lot of our listeners because there's a lot of people,
- 26:52Speaker 2: of course, that are in relationships where you are, you know,
- 26:58Speaker 2: a bonus parent, you know, and you are and then
- 27:01Speaker 2: all of a sudden when you break up, how how
- 27:04Speaker 2: do you kind of reconcile that and how do you
- 27:06Speaker 2: how has that affected your future relationships?
- 27:10Speaker 3: And you know, now you're married, now and you're in
- 27:12Speaker 3: a different place.
- 27:13Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean I always know, like when when
- 27:15Speaker 2: my mom and step my step mom was my stepmom
- 27:18Speaker 2: for twenty years and then you know, when they broke up,
- 27:21Speaker 2: there was obviously like a huge shift and there's like
- 27:25Speaker 2: that void, but there's also like you're trying to have boundaries,
- 27:28Speaker 2: so kind of how did you deal with that after
- 27:31Speaker 2: the breakup?
- 27:32Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it was hard.
- 27:33Speaker 1: I think it was actually harder like after I moved
- 27:37Speaker 1: to LA, because I think it's easier to move on
- 27:41Speaker 1: from a relationship when you leave a city, right because
- 27:45Speaker 1: it's just like, yeah, yeah, you leave everything behind, you
- 27:49Speaker 1: get caught up in LA and you know all the
- 27:51Speaker 1: things of La going out, like all the things you
- 27:53Speaker 1: do when you're young in LA and first moved to
- 27:55Speaker 1: a new city. I think for me it really hit
- 27:57Speaker 1: me years later when you know, I would hear about
- 28:02Speaker 1: Gavin or like you know, see somebody would send me
- 28:06Speaker 1: something about Grayson, you know, a picture of him, an
- 28:09Speaker 1: update of him, anything, And I think it's in those
- 28:12Speaker 1: moments it was hard. But I did reach out to
- 28:15Speaker 1: Gavin as well, like a few years ago, just to
- 28:17Speaker 1: tell him, Hi, I heard he got married. Congratulations. Just
- 28:20Speaker 1: as like somebody, you know, I know I don't have
- 28:22Speaker 1: a right to, but like he was a big part
- 28:25Speaker 1: of my life.
- 28:26Speaker 4: Everybody has a right to say something nice to somebody.
- 28:29Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not like.
- 28:32Speaker 4: Right right, And then she broke up.
- 28:34Speaker 3: You can still you still should And then what's your
- 28:37Speaker 3: So you're you're married? Now, how how did you meet
- 28:39Speaker 3: your new husband?
- 28:41Speaker 5: Hinge? What we met in the middle of covid on Hinge?
- 28:46Speaker 5: I read that, yes, and okay, literally it was one.
- 28:50Speaker 1: Of these things where like I had been after the
- 28:53Speaker 1: show in digital advertising and that's all I had done,
- 28:57Speaker 1: and I was kind of like shooting doing videos like photography,
- 29:01Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I'm going to
- 29:03Speaker 1: leave this incredible career behind to go pursue being a creator,
- 29:07Speaker 1: and that's what I did. And then three months later
- 29:10Speaker 1: the pandemic hit. I was super focused on like the
- 29:13Speaker 1: YouTube channel, like building just like all of that. But
- 29:17Speaker 1: then it's the pandemic, so we're bored.
- 29:19Speaker 5: So I'm like.
- 29:20Speaker 1: Scrolling through and I was like, you know what, I
- 29:23Speaker 1: kind of just want to like flirt with cute boys,
- 29:26Speaker 1: and so I signed up for Hinge and he had
- 29:28Speaker 1: a disclaimer on his like profile that said I don't
- 29:32Speaker 1: want to meet anybody because you know, it's the pandemic.
- 29:35Speaker 5: And I was like, perfect, this is going to go nowhere,
- 29:38Speaker 5: let's go.
- 29:39Speaker 4: Yeah, why are you on hinge in your bio says
- 29:42Speaker 4: I don't want to meet me.
- 29:43Speaker 3: But no, he's saying I don't want to meet anyone
- 29:44Speaker 3: in person.
- 29:48Speaker 5: Yep, there was no VOBE. Okay, I got it.
- 29:50Speaker 1: And at the time his roommate was had health issues,
- 29:55Speaker 1: and then my roommate at the time also had health issues,
- 29:58Speaker 1: so it actually worked perfect.
- 30:00Speaker 2: And for those of you guys listening, COVID in LA
- 30:03Speaker 2: was different than COVID anywhere else, I mean other than
- 30:06Speaker 2: New York.
- 30:07Speaker 3: I mean yeah, we were on lockdown.
- 30:09Speaker 2: Like I remember, like five months into it, I hadn't
- 30:12Speaker 2: even seen people, and my friends came over and we
- 30:14Speaker 2: sat outside with gloves on and we made each other
- 30:17Speaker 2: pee in the grass because.
- 30:19Speaker 3: You couldn't even like it was. Everyone bought their own drinks.
- 30:23Speaker 5: It was.
- 30:23Speaker 1: It was wild, like yeah, like washed down. I never
- 30:27Speaker 1: washed down my like groceries, but like people like it was.
- 30:29Speaker 4: Yeah, they would wash down the boxes that came from Amazon.
- 30:32Speaker 3: Yeah, and then the fruit, the special fruit spray that
- 30:35Speaker 3: I'd never heard of, because COVID could have been like
- 30:38Speaker 3: it was. La was another freaking beast.
- 30:41Speaker 1: It was a wild, wild time and so it was
- 30:44Speaker 1: like easy to see him and know like, oh perfect,
- 30:47Speaker 1: Like he doesn't want to meet. I want to focus
- 30:49Speaker 1: on what I'm doing and that's it. But just over
- 30:51Speaker 1: time talking to him, you know, over FaceTime, over zoom, you.
- 30:55Speaker 3: Know, just doing all the things intimacy.
- 30:58Speaker 1: I ended up falling in love over a screen, and y'all,
- 31:01Speaker 1: I swear I always say, I feel like I was
- 31:04Speaker 1: in a Love is Blind episode because I was falling
- 31:08Speaker 1: in love with a human that, like literally over our screen,
- 31:11Speaker 1: that I had never met. Because also, we talked for
- 31:13Speaker 1: three months before our first date. I said I love
- 31:16Speaker 1: you before we ever met in person. We were boyfriend
- 31:20Speaker 1: and girlfriend before we ever had our first date in
- 31:23Speaker 1: person three months later because again COVID, we were falling,
- 31:27Speaker 1: like falling into over.
- 31:31Speaker 5: Why, yes we did.
- 31:33Speaker 4: I was like, all right, let's let's really get to
- 31:36Speaker 4: yeeah yeah, fun sex.
- 31:38Speaker 5: Yes we had fun sex. Yeah, oh my god, greed.
- 31:41Speaker 4: And so how long were you dating before you got married?
- 31:45Speaker 1: We were dating like a year and a half and
- 31:48Speaker 1: then we got engaged and then we ended up getting
- 31:53Speaker 1: married like two years two.
- 31:55Speaker 4: And a half years later, and he's a music composer.
- 31:58Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a music composer. But actual recently, we just
- 32:01Speaker 1: started a creative agency. So I worked at TikTok this
- 32:03Speaker 1: last year and then we just decided to kind of
- 32:06Speaker 1: like the dream has be a content creator full time,
- 32:09Speaker 1: but what needs to pay the bills is we wanted
- 32:11Speaker 1: to start a creative agency where we help brands like
- 32:14Speaker 1: show up on TikTok because obviously we had both kind
- 32:16Speaker 1: of come from that world.
- 32:18Speaker 5: He was also working at a creative agency.
- 32:20Speaker 1: So although we do have two separate rooms, so they're like,
- 32:24Speaker 1: how do you start a business with like your partner,
- 32:27Speaker 1: But honestly, like it's been good because there's like that separation.
- 32:30Speaker 1: So yeah, we started Social play recently, so we've been
- 32:33Speaker 1: like just kind of like you know, doing.
- 32:37Speaker 3: On Social play. If they wanted to hire you guys
- 32:40Speaker 3: for help and whatnot.
- 32:41Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can go to our website social playdigital
- 32:45Speaker 1: dot com and everything is on there. But yeah, we
- 32:48Speaker 1: literally just started like a month ago, tunny like literally
- 32:52Speaker 1: baby baby baby brand, new business. Yeah, so I'm seeing that, like,
- 32:57Speaker 1: you know, things can take off and you know, he
- 32:59Speaker 1: has one client, and I just feel like it's exciting
- 33:02Speaker 1: when you can like kind of hit the reset button
- 33:05Speaker 1: and start over and build something.
- 33:08Speaker 2: Together and something that you guys love and you're good at.
- 33:11Speaker 2: And yeah, you know what, after this, I have a
- 33:14Speaker 2: feeling we're going to see you on reality television again.
- 33:17Speaker 2: Like I think I have to be honest, because I
- 33:19Speaker 2: didn't watch at the beginning, so I was like, you know,
- 33:25Speaker 2: like I was not I was like having one of
- 33:26Speaker 2: those things about this interview anyone. You are so engaging,
- 33:30Speaker 2: You're warm, you're easy to talk to, You've shown all
- 33:33Speaker 2: of the emotions like we talked.
- 33:35Speaker 3: You have to understand we talked to housewives multiple times
- 33:39Speaker 3: a week and half the time.
- 33:41Speaker 2: Everybody's so media trained and so sheltered, very like you're
- 33:45Speaker 2: getting a certain type and you're just who you are,
- 33:49Speaker 2: just giving it all.
- 33:50Speaker 3: I have to give you cups to that because that
- 33:52Speaker 3: is since.
- 33:52Speaker 4: You're giving it all, I have a question.
- 33:54Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, and yet.
- 33:56Speaker 2: We're going to take it back.
- 33:57Speaker 4: We're going to take it back quite a few years.
- 33:59Speaker 4: Did you ever hook up with Shane Kyo.
- 34:05Speaker 3: The bunny Killer, Buddy Killer?
- 34:11Speaker 5: She did? You did? Here's the thing, was it just
- 34:14Speaker 5: a quick little hand job. Was it?
- 34:16Speaker 3: No, a hand job?
- 34:18Speaker 5: Hold on?
- 34:19Speaker 3: Is this gonna play out on the Is it a blowy?
- 34:22Speaker 5: No? No, it was none that It was way after,
- 34:26Speaker 5: And honestly, I don't mean way after.
- 34:28Speaker 3: You watched his episodes and you're like that's a guy.
- 34:31Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no, no, I mean a
- 34:33Speaker 3: good one.
- 34:34Speaker 5: Like after it was a kiss. It was a kiss,
- 34:36Speaker 5: It was just a kiss.
- 34:37Speaker 1: Years after, Yeah, it was nothing, a little innocent heart
- 34:40Speaker 1: back then, like, yeah, it.
- 34:42Speaker 5: Was literally just a kiss.
- 34:45Speaker 4: And then he slipped And.
- 34:52Speaker 3: This is after the show. You've moved to l A.
- 34:55Speaker 1: I'm in LA Like this is years later, as in
- 34:59Speaker 1: like I've been off the sho show for years. You know,
- 35:02Speaker 1: we've all like kind of moved on, and I don't
- 35:05Speaker 1: even know how it happened.
- 35:06Speaker 4: You're friends with Alexis, right, I am.
- 35:08Speaker 1: I love Alexis so much. And one thing that I
- 35:12Speaker 1: don't understand is why people call. Like just yesterday, I
- 35:15Speaker 1: was telling someone like, oh, you know, just sharing like
- 35:18Speaker 1: I'm going to go on a podcast having done you
- 35:21Speaker 1: know something housewives in a second, and they were like
- 35:24Speaker 1: with who, I'm like Tamar and they're like, oh, that's awesome.
- 35:26Speaker 1: Do you talk to anyone anymore. I'm like, yeah, Gina Alexis,
- 35:28Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, Jesus drugs.
- 35:30Speaker 4: I'm like, why do people say, like, well, because I
- 35:34Speaker 4: called her Jesus jugs once that. Yeah, but you have
- 35:45Speaker 4: to understand when she was with her ex husband, Yeah,
- 35:49Speaker 4: she was a different person. Okay, she was a very
- 35:52Speaker 4: different person.
- 35:53Speaker 1: I'm like, first of all, I've never even noticed her
- 35:55Speaker 1: boops are big, and second of all, the sweetest, nicest human,
- 36:00Speaker 1: very sweet, very very Again, I wasn't on the show
- 36:02Speaker 1: with her, and we also connected post yeah yeah, yeah,
- 36:06Speaker 1: And I would.
- 36:07Speaker 4: Love for her to be back on the show where
- 36:09Speaker 4: she is now because she's like in a relationship now
- 36:13Speaker 4: getting married.
- 36:15Speaker 5: Tam Oh, I don't.
- 36:16Speaker 4: I don't have a problem with her. I had a problem,
- 36:18Speaker 4: Like I just didn't like her ex husband.
- 36:21Speaker 5: Okay, I don't.
- 36:23Speaker 4: It was allegedly allegedly, No, he just was very you know,
- 36:28Speaker 4: she was a different person. I think with him, got
- 36:31Speaker 4: it and she probably is today.
- 36:33Speaker 5: Okay, that makes sense, got I got it? Yeah, yeah,
- 36:35Speaker 5: I got it. And I'm all for for you know,
- 36:38Speaker 5: people changing.
- 36:39Speaker 4: But I think she's a kind person. I don't think
- 36:41Speaker 4: she's got like a mean bone in her body.
- 36:43Speaker 3: I don't think she's malicious.
- 36:44Speaker 2: No, I haven't gotten to any life, not at all.
- 36:47Speaker 2: So so I have nothing to weigh in here other
- 36:50Speaker 2: than what I heard from the past.
- 36:52Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 36:53Speaker 1: But also I feel like all of us on the show,
- 36:56Speaker 1: like I know, let's be honest, eighty percent of my
- 36:59Speaker 1: interview I had probably a cocktail or two in me. Ye,
- 37:03Speaker 1: Like I remember seeing some episodes where I'm like, Joe,
- 37:06Speaker 1: are you really slurring as you're talking to camera, like.
- 37:10Speaker 3: You're smoking a cigarette outside? Honestly heaven.
- 37:14Speaker 2: I was like the fact she gives so she I mean,
- 37:18Speaker 2: you could tell the two thousand and six grand and
- 37:19Speaker 2: my parents would dropped me off at school with like
- 37:21Speaker 2: cigarettes and we would all no one had car seats.
- 37:24Speaker 3: Or anything like a different time.
- 37:26Speaker 2: Yeah, but the fact that you're like he's like come
- 37:28Speaker 2: home and you're like, no, I know, it's not even late.
- 37:33Speaker 3: And he's like it's three am, and you're like, I know.
- 37:36Speaker 5: It literally like who was I? Who was she? Like
- 37:40Speaker 5: I I?
- 37:41Speaker 1: And so I just feel like a lot of us,
- 37:42Speaker 1: Like also, I don't do pink boas and deebra hats
- 37:45Speaker 1: and made costumes anymore, right, I feel like we all right,
- 37:49Speaker 1: we're probably not who we were back when we were.
- 37:52Speaker 3: Except for Vica, She's said exactly the same.
- 37:55Speaker 4: Ye, Pinky's never changed except her face, which.
- 37:58Speaker 5: By the way, I have to love. I think she
- 38:01Speaker 5: looks amazing.
- 38:02Speaker 2: She does, but I have to say, no, I have
- 38:06Speaker 2: to say now that I watch season one, her original
- 38:09Speaker 2: face is a nice face.
- 38:10Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 38:11Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't have a problem with that face.
- 38:14Speaker 5: Nope, I get it.
- 38:16Speaker 3: We all have our own thing. I've had a necklace.
- 38:17Speaker 4: Speaking of speaking of your face, well, does anybody ever
- 38:20Speaker 4: mistake you for Megan Markle?
- 38:23Speaker 5: That's super sweet. I have been told that before.
- 38:29Speaker 3: I can see it.
- 38:30Speaker 1: I see every time someone I'm like, y'all are way
- 38:33Speaker 1: too kind because like, I don't see it.
- 38:34Speaker 5: I think it's funny and thank you.
- 38:36Speaker 1: By the way, I'm watching Suits right now because all
- 38:39Speaker 1: of my shows are done for the year. I had
- 38:42Speaker 1: no idea she was actually an incredible actress.
- 38:45Speaker 4: I've never seen it.
- 38:47Speaker 1: It's like, if you're bored, Yeah, if you're ever bored,
- 38:50Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch Peacock.
- 38:53Speaker 4: Netflix has nothing right now, nothing.
- 38:57Speaker 3: Hold on, No, I was recently obsessed with some thing,
- 39:00Speaker 3: but now I can't remember.
- 39:01Speaker 4: I probably already seen it.
- 39:02Speaker 1: Summerhouse also an amazing recommendation if you need a new
- 39:06Speaker 1: show to watch.
- 39:06Speaker 5: I'm obsessed. People are It's all provo.
- 39:10Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So I have a question if you had
- 39:12Speaker 2: to pick somebody just this is our closing question has
- 39:14Speaker 2: nothing to do with Orange County. If you had to
- 39:19Speaker 2: pick somebody from Vanner Pomp Rules to have sex with,
- 39:21Speaker 2: who would it be?
- 39:23Speaker 5: Guy?
- 39:24Speaker 3: Yeah? Either or either?
- 39:28Speaker 5: Oh man, I guess James Kennedy.
- 39:34Speaker 1: I can't think James because, honestly, like the other two
- 39:41Speaker 1: are just no, it's too much of a wreck. The
- 39:44Speaker 1: other time is way too passive. And I just feel
- 39:47Speaker 1: like James would give it. I feel like, you know, I.
- 39:51Speaker 4: Feel like time James would be a good time in bed.
- 39:54Speaker 5: Yeah, you'd probably be drinking right before it happened.
- 39:57Speaker 1: I mean he would last a long time, you know,
- 40:01Speaker 1: young fun girls to sir like, that's my vibe.
- 40:04Speaker 4: I don't hate that answer.
- 40:05Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't need to do that.
- 40:07Speaker 3: But mine is Tom Schwartz.
- 40:09Speaker 5: Really he is. Yeah, I feel he looks like my dad.
- 40:13Speaker 3: Absolutely not, he looks like a dad.
- 40:17Speaker 5: I feel like he would.
- 40:18Speaker 4: I'm gonna fantasize it's gonna be about somebody today that he.
- 40:21Speaker 3: Had an a hommer in an ill fitting suit, he'd
- 40:24Speaker 3: be Joe's tight.
- 40:27Speaker 5: Teddy plans. Do not know. I feel like Tom would
- 40:32Speaker 5: like make love to you and James would like, No, I.
- 40:35Speaker 3: Don't want making love, absolutely not.
- 40:40Speaker 5: That's not happening.
- 40:41Speaker 3: But we appreciate you so much.
- 40:43Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me. This was super
- 40:45Speaker 5: fun and Teddy, it was really nice meeting you.
- 40:47Speaker 3: It was nice meeting you too.
- 40:48Speaker 4: Where can people find you?
- 40:50Speaker 5: Instagram?
- 40:51Speaker 1: Yeah, you can go on Instagram Jody Larissa with two
- 40:54Speaker 1: a's at the end, or you can go to TikTok
- 40:55Speaker 1: Jody Larissa Gray.
- 40:57Speaker 5: Awesome.
- 40:58Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Thank you Joe so much.
- 41:00Speaker 5: She thanks for having me Chay to have on.
- 41:04Speaker 3: I know, like she's so likable.
- 41:06Speaker 5: I know I'm like us