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Ay Por Favor: The Internet is a Scary Place · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, Alexia,
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  Speaker 1: I missed your face this weekend. We were supposed to
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  Speaker 1: get together. I didn't get to see you. You did it.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like I saw you maybe Friday.
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  Speaker 1: Friday.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's great Friday. Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: But I wanted a little more than that.
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  Speaker 2: You.
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  Speaker 1: No, that was a quick lunch. It wasn't one of
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  Speaker 1: our usual like six hour things. It was like a
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  Speaker 1: two hour quickie.
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  Speaker 2: It was It was good, it was fun. It was
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  Speaker 2: nice to start off the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I know. Are you ready for Halloween?
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  Speaker 2: I'm actually not because I'm not dressing up this year?
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  Speaker 2: What about you? Are you gonna make it spooky? Are
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  Speaker 2: you gonna make it sexy and slutty? What are you
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  Speaker 2: doing for Halloween?
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it biamas and in by ten, in
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  Speaker 1: the bed by ten, Piama and Lagama.
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  Speaker 2: No, I plan to go out. I just don't want
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  Speaker 2: to dress up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeap, What are you gonna do?
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  Speaker 2: No, We're just gonna do the usual. We're gonna have
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  Speaker 2: dinner to one of like, Yes, we're gonna have dinner,
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  Speaker 2: probably a casadonna that I'm so excited to try god
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  Speaker 2: mm hmmm, and some friends and you know, we'll just
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  Speaker 2: sit down and look at everybody else with their costumes.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think Miami is a city where they get
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  Speaker 2: so much into Halloween. I feel like New York and
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  Speaker 2: maybe La.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. No, everybody here dresses so slutty like they do
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  Speaker 1: all year round, right, they just make.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing changes exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the same thing all year round.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. It didn't surprise me. So it was really awkward
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  Speaker 2: to literally be in a restaurant with your husband and
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  Speaker 2: another couple and just sitting there watching all the girls
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  Speaker 2: go by in their slutty outfits with all their asses out.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, but you know, welcome to Miami.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, is it Saturday night or is it Halloween?
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  Speaker 1: Because it seems like the same thing to.
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  Speaker 2: Me, right, Like I said, it's just an excuse to
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  Speaker 2: like dress slutty and show your ass.
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  Speaker 1: To be even sluttier. Mm hmmm, yeah, every day of
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  Speaker 1: the week. Yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I think that if you're going to dress up,
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  Speaker 2: like go to a house party or go to like
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  Speaker 2: a Halloween party, I just think it's a little weird
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  Speaker 2: to show up at a restaurant. You know that's like that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and not have a party in mind, just go
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  Speaker 1: dress yeah, in a theme, you know.
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  Speaker 2: I mean there weren't like trick or tuning. They weren't
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  Speaker 2: looking for candy, you know what they were looking for
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  Speaker 2: actually eye candy. But no, it was fun. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it's fun. We're already used to it.
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  Speaker 1: He speaking of sluttie and looking for trouble. Did you
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  Speaker 1: read about that guy that he's from Iran and he
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  Speaker 1: is an exact doppelganger of Lanel Messi. I saw that.
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  Speaker 2: Did you see it? But I see you though, It's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they look exactly like Wait, I have a question, maybe
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  Speaker 2: is that AI or is that real life?
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  Speaker 1: Because I know now that that's real life. I guess
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  Speaker 1: I hope.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: We will have to ask the twenty three women. Apparently
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  Speaker 1: lord into bed pretending he was Lanel Messi.
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  Speaker 2: That's what the women get because he's a married man,
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  Speaker 2: so exactly. Yeah, so you know what, I don't feel
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  Speaker 2: sorry for these women. I'm actually glad that happened to them.
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  Speaker 2: From messing around with a mayor messy. Yeah yeah, messing
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  Speaker 2: around with messy exactly.
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  Speaker 1: That super messy. I just want to know, like, where
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  Speaker 1: did he take them? Did he have a sprawling pad somewhere?
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  Speaker 1: Was he in an efficiency? Because how do you fool
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  Speaker 1: people like that? He must have had some kind of
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  Speaker 1: a plan.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean women are so just mesmerized by
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  Speaker 2: just like you know, a feeing a celebrity. Yeah, where
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  Speaker 2: he had a good excuse for he couldn't take them
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  Speaker 2: a good place if that was the case. No, that
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  Speaker 2: sounds like a messy situation. But I'm just wondering. Didn't
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  Speaker 2: the girls wonder why he didn't have like an Argentinian
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  Speaker 2: accent versus an Iranian accent, or maybe they didn't even talk,
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  Speaker 2: they just got right to it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm imagining they were so lit in some dark club
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  Speaker 1: and probably were just like, yeah, let's go. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I would have asked for an idea, But.
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  Speaker 2: Twenty three of them, that's like a lot. He just
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  Speaker 2: really look like him and he must be really good
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  Speaker 2: at it.
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  Speaker 1: We probably spoken English, and he had an accent in
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  Speaker 1: English because he's from Iran, and they couldn't tell it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't an Argentina accent in English.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you're not from my family list here, so
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  Speaker 2: they can't tell. I can pick up accents. What about you,
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty good at differentiating the accent.
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  Speaker 1: Pretty good, pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: That wouldn't happened to us.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no question, bro. If you knew that a
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  Speaker 1: house that you were interested in buying had a murder
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  Speaker 1: in it or was built on a graveyard, would you
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  Speaker 1: still want to live there or buy it?
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  Speaker 2: Never? If I knew about it, I would never want
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  Speaker 2: that house. I don't want that energy that was left behind.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to know the details of it. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want anything to do with it. It would really
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  Speaker 2: spook me, and I would be scared. I would be
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  Speaker 2: scared to live in a house that was haunted or
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  Speaker 2: I knew there were ghosts inside of it, or there
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  Speaker 2: had been a murder.
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  Speaker 1: Hell no, oh my god. Yeah, like like where someone
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  Speaker 1: like shot up a whole family and then you decide
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  Speaker 1: to buy it anyway and live there.
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  Speaker 2: Happens aime, happens all the time.
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  Speaker 1: It happens all the time, of course.
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  Speaker 2: I mean it's different if the person is deceased in right,
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  Speaker 2: if the person actually passes away into the house but
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  Speaker 2: hows like a peaceful death. You know that obviously for
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  Speaker 2: me would be different, even though I still don't want
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  Speaker 2: to know about it. That's why I prefer a new house,
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  Speaker 2: but definitely not like a murder or something spooky like that.
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  Speaker 1: You're supposed to disclose that that there was a murder there,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't think you have to disclose if someone
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  Speaker 1: just passed away on a home.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Well, that's different, That's what I'm saying. That happens
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  Speaker 2: all the time. Obviously, Yeah, that's very different. But you know,
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  Speaker 2: the way you described it about buying a house where
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  Speaker 2: you know somebody had been murdered, I was like, no, right.
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  Speaker 1: Or that the property was on top of an old
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  Speaker 1: grape site, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Like a cemetery. I have such a hard time even
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  Speaker 2: going to a cemetery. I feel like, you know, and
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  Speaker 2: I want to say they're all good spirits, but you know,
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  Speaker 2: you don't know she said that, and like it attaches
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  Speaker 2: to you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm such a sponge for that stuff. Everything sticks to me. Honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I can't be around any of that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't. I don't want that, but I
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  Speaker 2: remember my dad would always tell me milos, So you know,
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  Speaker 2: I do want to believe that, which is kind of
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  Speaker 2: true if you think about it, you know, because I
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  Speaker 2: don't feel like, you know, the dead spirits are coming back,
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  Speaker 2: you know, to haunt us, which you heard us, you know.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's easier to say than than to believe it.
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  Speaker 2: So I've always been really scared of of all that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, me too. And actually I'm living with
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  Speaker 1: a ghost here. We have one here at the house.
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  Speaker 2: And so how come you're still living there?
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  Speaker 1: Steve doesn't want to leave, he doesn't want to go anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, the guys. He hangs out with
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  Speaker 1: me every day we're together. And I said to him,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to hire I want.
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  Speaker 2: To say it's a good at least it's a good ghost.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he likes to party anyway, he.
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  Speaker 2: Likes it right, so we like him. If he's right.
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  Speaker 2: If he likes to party, he likes to drink, and
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  Speaker 2: he is good and peaceful, and he's just there to
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  Speaker 2: hang out because he likes you guys. Then you know what,
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  Speaker 2: it's cool.
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  Speaker 1: I told Steve, I'm gonna I'm gonna hire someone to
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  Speaker 1: get rid of him because I don't know, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: feeling great here, and you know, maybe he should go.
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  Speaker 1: And then Steve does this, How do you hire?
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  Speaker 2: How do you wait, I want to know how this works.
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  Speaker 2: How do you hire someone I would praise their people.
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  Speaker 2: There are there people that actually do this, you know,
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  Speaker 2: pretty s get rid of, you know, bad spirits. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: he prest are holy people. So yes, you want to
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  Speaker 2: think so, But how do they know? How do you
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  Speaker 2: know that it's a bad spirit. You just said he
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  Speaker 2: just likes to party and he's like a good spirit.
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  Speaker 2: It was an older man that just passed away.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't say it was a good spirit. He's just
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  Speaker 1: around and sometimes I feel something behind me when I'm
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  Speaker 1: walking through the house. I get you. I know. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I don't like it. It's creepy. You know, You're
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  Speaker 1: walk down these dark hallways and I'm like, who's momy,
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  Speaker 1: Nobody he's here. Or if I'm upstairs right here banging
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  Speaker 1: around downstairs and vice versa and nobody's here.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you sually got you? My friend? That sounds like
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  Speaker 2: a little like I don't know, I mean, even like
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  Speaker 2: Goldie Han. I don't know. If you just read about
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  Speaker 2: Goldie Han saying that like an alien had touched her face.
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  Speaker 2: I touched her face?
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  Speaker 1: Her face? Oh thank god, it wasn't something else.
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  Speaker 2: I've heard these crazy stories, right, you hear all these
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  Speaker 2: crazy stories, like do you believe in aliens? Do you
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  Speaker 2: believe in ghosts? I don't know. Like life is a
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  Speaker 2: really pretty scary without aliens and ghosts and all these things.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you don't make it a complete gud like so.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be complicated either. But he's here.
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  Speaker 1: He lives here too, anywhere.
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  Speaker 2: You don't have a name for him? Do you have
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  Speaker 2: a name? No?
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  Speaker 1: I call him DRUNKI Drunkerson. Steve's like, please don't get
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  Speaker 1: rid of him. Who am I going to drink with
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  Speaker 1: when you're out of town? I'm like, oh, okay, your
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  Speaker 1: he's your bar buddy. Now, yeah, the three of us
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  Speaker 1: live together.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are crazy. I think it's all in your head.
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  Speaker 1: It's not in my head. Trust me. I know I
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, and then we have to call somebody. Toy
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  Speaker 2: am I the rereest, I mean, whoever can help you
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  Speaker 2: with this situation.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to I'm gonna go. I have to
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  Speaker 1: go visit the church. You know, you have to sip
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  Speaker 1: him a little cash, you know, a little donation, right, gotchaly, gotchaly.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not sure that I can live there. I'm sure.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not even sure that I'm gonna go visit you
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  Speaker 2: again in that house.
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  Speaker 1: You've been here a few times.
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  Speaker 2: I know. I haven't seen him.
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  Speaker 1: You can't see him. He's just there. He's there, he's here,
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  Speaker 1: exactly his name is.
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  Speaker 2: You can't see him because it's in your head, bro,
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  Speaker 2: it's in your head.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what does he look like?
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  Speaker 2: Tell me what does he look like? You feel him
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  Speaker 2: or you?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what he looks. I feel him. I
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  Speaker 1: don't see him.
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  Speaker 2: And it's a man.
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  Speaker 1: You know for sure that the dogs see them, because
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  Speaker 1: they're barking all the time.
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  Speaker 2: The dogs say when I don't have a ghost in here. Dogs,
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  Speaker 2: that's what they're supposed to say.
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  Speaker 1: You have no idea whether you have a ghost or not.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if you ghost, he'd be out of there
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  Speaker 1: so fast, like very hectic. I'm gonna get out of here,
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  Speaker 1: that's funny. So I'll be home for Halloween.
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  Speaker 2: You'll be home with Halloween with your ghosts. You see,
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  Speaker 2: that's why you don't need to go trick or treating
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  Speaker 2: or you don't need to celebrate Halloween, because you live
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  Speaker 2: this house with your ghost.
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  Speaker 1: Wait Steve the other day was like, hey, we should
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  Speaker 1: buy candy for Halloween. I'm like, are you gonna get
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  Speaker 1: up every time they ring the doorbell, go through the
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  Speaker 1: front door and going to the gate, because I'm not
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  Speaker 1: getting up. That's a lot of exercise and I'm not moving.
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  Speaker 1: So don't even answer the door and don't buy candy.
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  Speaker 2: What about for your ghost? Your ghost would like some candy.
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  Speaker 1: He likes booze. He doesn't like candy.
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  Speaker 2: No, but that was fun. I mean I used to
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  Speaker 2: like Halloween and giving candy to the children all but
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  Speaker 2: I think that all that has changed so much. I
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  Speaker 2: don't even know do kids even go trick or treating nowadays?
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  Speaker 2: Do they knocking people's doors and don't.
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  Speaker 1: Let them in? Answered my door? In twenty years, I'm
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  Speaker 1: still yatesy to answer the door. And you know, if
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  Speaker 1: you put it out there, the first kid's gonna dump
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  Speaker 1: the whole thing is and get And what if one
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  Speaker 1: of them gets poisoned from somebody else's candy, but they
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  Speaker 1: blame you?
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  Speaker 2: You know, my god, it's just so sad. It's even
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  Speaker 2: taking away the love for Halloween and trick or treating
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  Speaker 2: and celebrating this holiday that I never liked. But yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: even like like I said, I don't think that people
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  Speaker 2: are as festive and celebrating like before. I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if it's what's going on in the world
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  Speaker 2: or just like that they just you know, are afraid
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  Speaker 2: or whatever it may be. I just didn't notice it
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  Speaker 2: this weekend as festive and you know, as colorful as
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  Speaker 2: other years. You know, even though we know that some
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  Speaker 2: people were still celebrating their Halloween parties, like who like
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  Speaker 2: some of your friends? You made some of your friends, right,
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  Speaker 2: both of our friends in the beach in Miami Beach.
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  Speaker 2: There's a Miami Beach. There are a lot of house
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  Speaker 2: parties that apparently we weren't invited to. But it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: We never wanted to go anyways.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want to go anywhere, right, So bro, have
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  Speaker 1: you Have you heard about Britain's new memoir?
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  Speaker 2: I have, and you know, I'm going to read that because,
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  Speaker 2: like I was telling you in the past, I love
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  Speaker 2: to read a memoir, especially about women. I feel that
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  Speaker 2: all of the memoirs that I have read have been
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  Speaker 2: about women. So I'm definitely going to be buying this
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  Speaker 2: and reading it so all it you know, because I
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  Speaker 2: know you don't like to read so much.
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  Speaker 1: But it's not that I don't like to I don't
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  Speaker 1: enjoy it because of my dyslexia.
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  Speaker 2: It's very difficult, right, it's hard. Well, yeah, but there's
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  Speaker 2: there's auditory there's the audible books that you can listen
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  Speaker 2: to auditory books.
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  Speaker 1: H mm hmmm.
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  Speaker 2: So anyways, but yeah, like I expected, she was gonna
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  Speaker 2: say a lot of things that you know, you usually
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  Speaker 2: say in books that you've never shared before, and that's
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  Speaker 2: exactly what she did, you know, And like I told
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  Speaker 2: you, you know, we talked about Jada last week, you know,
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  Speaker 2: and all these other women right that find themselves writing
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  Speaker 2: books and finally opening up and sharing things that they
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  Speaker 2: weren't comfortable about sharing in the past and for whatever
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  Speaker 2: reason now they are. And I like, and I have
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  Speaker 2: to agree with them that, you know, like I said,
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  Speaker 2: sometimes you just sit down and you feel so comfortable,
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  Speaker 2: you know, just like writing and just getting it out
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  Speaker 2: of you, that it's therapeutic and it's healing. And by
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  Speaker 2: the way, it doesn't really change the way I feel
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  Speaker 2: about justin Timberlake or anything else, but it just gives
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  Speaker 2: me like more clarity and kind of like more of
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  Speaker 2: an understanding, you.
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  Speaker 1: Got clarity of who who changes?
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  Speaker 2: No. I mean again, like I don't know, did your
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  Speaker 2: perception change after you know, reading and knowing some of
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  Speaker 2: the things that she changed that she shared about justin
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  Speaker 2: like for example, that he made her have an abortion,
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  Speaker 2: or he encouraged her to have an abortion and she
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  Speaker 2: had to do it at home because they didn't want
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  Speaker 2: anybody to find out, and he broke up with her. Well,
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  Speaker 2: the breaking up is We'll get to that also, But
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  Speaker 2: I feel like this is something that you know is
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  Speaker 2: a lot more significant and touching. I mean, did you
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  Speaker 2: think he was just like young and immature and stupid
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  Speaker 2: and didn't know any better.
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  Speaker 1: I would have to guess that there was a team
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  Speaker 1: of people in his life advising him. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that was just him alone making that decision. You know,
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  Speaker 1: so a lot of people that were probably like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: a B or C could happen, or deef could happen.
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  Speaker 1: You could go to the right, you could go to
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  Speaker 1: the left, and these are going to be your scenarios.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess he suggest you pack.
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  Speaker 2: People, and so popular as they were and they've always
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  Speaker 2: been that they were probably scared to go to a
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  Speaker 2: center or something where you can do this, and it
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  Speaker 2: came to the house and did this for them? I mean,
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  Speaker 2: did he even make the right decision? They were young?
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  Speaker 2: I think there were seventeen, eighteen, no years old. I
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  Speaker 2: mean their life would have been a lot different. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they were very young, so their life obviously in relationship,
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: would have worked out a lot of differ So I guess, like,
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: you know, you're answering all these and thinking about all
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: these questions, and the truth is, you never know, like
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: if she would have had the baby, how her life
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: would have been different, or they would have gotten married.
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: It's just like, but the fact that she's finally just
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: like opening up and just getting everything out.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: Sounds like she's a little angry with him because she's
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: she's really given it to him in this book. Well,
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I's kind of not over these things that happened.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: You know. I think that sometimes things like that in
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: life mark you. And she was a young girl, and
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: I can see how a young girl can be very
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: affected and traumatized by that first time something like this.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: You know, first of all, it was her boyfriend and
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: she was super and it was like her first love,
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: and he just decided to take up with her, you know,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: and be a text just like it's over after three
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: years of dating, Like, how do you just do that?
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: It was like she has every right to fee and
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: I think she never got over it, you know, you
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: have to, like heal, some women or some girls do
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: get over it, and I feel like she did. She
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: always like held on to that.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah she I guess she didn't have any closure.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: No, I mean not even that. I think that affected
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: all her other relationships too, you know, and and who
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: she is. I mean, obviously we can't blame him, you know.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: I know that she has such a fan base and
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: everybody you know is you know, always see the same
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: people that are in her Free Britney movement are probably
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: commentating on this and you know, hating on him. I
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: heard he had to turn off his comments on his
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: social because a lot of people are attacking him. Yeah,
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: I mean, she has a lot of loyal you know, followers,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: and you know how that is everybody takes advantage and
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: right now everybody goes to social media. That's like the
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: platform that people go and you know, the abuse of
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: the freedom of speech that we have in this country,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: and instead of making things better, they make it worse,
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: and you know, and that's why that you know, it's
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: full of hate and that's the world unfortunately that we're
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: living in. Nobody goes on the comments to leave something
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: beautiful and kind rarely. Yeah, yeah, so, but you know,
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: the these are people like us right now that we
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: really don't know what happened. This is like what she's saying,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: you know, I mean, he hasn't said anything yet. I mean,
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: do you think Justin should make a public statement? Like
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: how do you feel about that?
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: God, I don't know. I don't know how I feel
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: about him saying anything. I think she's scorn because apparently
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: he was sleeping around on her too. Well.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: We know he's done that before because he's done it
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: to Jessica pill too.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and he did it to Cameron Diaz with
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Jessica and Scarlett Johansson's doing it. He's been doing it forever,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: even do it. He's a wild wader that one.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, so he does have a history of that.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: But again, if like you know, Brittany was still very young,
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: and for me, I think what I got more of
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: this It wasn't even like the breakup. It was just
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: the fact that you know, unfortunately she had to do
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: something was very traumatic to her, you know, as a
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: young girl. Yeah, and then now after all these years,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: she's sharing it, you know, and that's the scary part.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Like you know that you can write anything you want
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: in a book, Like I always say that, I'm like,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: I read these books and I see like all these
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: things that you know, these women because like I said,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: I read the women's memoirs are sharing, and I feel
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: like women are more emotional and more passionate and and
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: you know so and we're overshareres Like I feel like
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: men are more private with things like that. And I'm
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: sure he would have better mentioned something like this, but
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: you know, we're more emotional, and for whatever reason, she
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: wanted to share this. You know, I don't know how
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: that's going to change anything, right because like I said,
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: I don't think people are going to look at Justin
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: differently just because that happened, because he was very young
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: and immature, and you know, sometimes you don't know any better, right,
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to let yea.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: And I think I think it's not it's kind of
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: like it's it's upsetting because you know, she's so young
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: to have the abortion. The way he broke up is
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: not nice, but I think he already has that stamp
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: of philandering and you know, cheating, and so it's not
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: a surprise, and I'm sure it will happen again and
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: we'll be talking about it again one day, right, you know,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: once a wandering waiter all is a wonder.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think that after all these years,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: you know, he should actually go out and make a
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: public statement, Like what can he say? I mean, there's
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: nothing he can say that's going to fix it or
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: it's going to make a people feel a different way
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: about him or not. So I would just keep quiet.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: You know, in a few days, nobody will be talking
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: about this, you know, once nobody's starts talking about her
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: book anymore, like everything. I feel like that's the best
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: pr sometimes to just keep quiet. And of your comments.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got to learn how to turn off the comments.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Thing.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I haven't gotten.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Hip to the just be like me, I can have
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: a thousand comments. I don't even read them, so you know,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but well, yeah, that's the best thing to
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: But you know, I have I have that capacity that
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: I don't care like I mean, you know, and all
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: the ones that are kind and good and loving. Thank
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: you for that, and I love you for that. But
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't want just see one that maybe
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't allow it to determine the rest
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: of my day or how my life is going to
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: play out. But you know, sometimes reading a lot of
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: those negative comments actually does get to you, and you
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: have to protect yourself. And I wish that Instagram had
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: not us, not that we had to turn it off.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I wish Instagram had like some special filter or something.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: Instead of having all those filters that change the way
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: you look, they should have a special filter that detects
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: hate and nasty comments.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: They do, they don't do They don't because a lot
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: of comments, Yeah, yeah they do, Yeah they do. You
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: have to edit the way you deliver the sentence because
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: they won't let you post certain things if their hate space.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Well, let me tell you something, I've seen a lot
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: of hate. Well it's not working, my love. Yeah, everybody
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: looks like a different person in their Instagram, so they
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: should focus.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about the speech part, not the photos.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Well, obviously I know you're talking about that, but I
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: don't agree with you. I think, like everything, things fall
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: through the crack. I mean, it's hard to detect, you
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: know how much hate there is in the comment.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: You have to write it cleverly for Instagram not to
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: detect it. Because I've had some nasty suff written on
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: my Instagram and all, yes, of course, don't you get it?
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I don't read that. I tried it, and I like
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: you try to reply.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: Sometimes don't even particip Sometimes you can.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I do not because I'm like, look at you,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: what are you talking about me? And then it won't
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: let me because it says you can't have like, and
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: then you have to rea say it in a different way,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: using different words, and then it lets you post it.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so you're not going to do that because
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: you're wasting your good energy and that bloom. Like you know,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: there's people that don't have a life, and I just
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: feel sorry for them. And that's it. So I'm glad
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: that Justin turned off his comments because it wasn't going
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: to make it any better or worse. It's not going
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: to fix anything now. The damage has already been done.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: It's out there, and it's out there. Can't people keep
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: on adding to the damage. Yeah, people keep on adding
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: to the damage because that's what people like. Yeah. Unfortunately,
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Bad Bunny apparently likes Sophia ever Gotta right. Yeah, yeah,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: So Sophia ever Gota flirts with Bad Bunny even though
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: he's in a relationship with Kendel Jenner. Do you think
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: that's shady, my friend, because we learned what shady was
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: in Thailand in our Automic Girls strip. At least I did.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I mean in all and all like sincerity in the
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: context of it. He's saying nice things about her in
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: his song, and she's repeating, Oh, you're fabulous and beautiful
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: or whatever it is.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, because she said, you know, I love what
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: he told her, because I get the sala too. The
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: lyrics say, Sophia Ever got a Linda Linda persona the
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: rapper builds out, which translates to Sophia ever God is beautiful,
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: but she's a more beautiful person. So I don't know
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: about you, my friend, but I get that all the time.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: That and I prefer that because what counts is in
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: real life. So I prefer to look much better in
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: real life than in a picture or on the show
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: or whatever. So I'm happy with that. And I can
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: totally relate to that, but the fact that she flirted
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: back with him and she literally wrote to him and
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: said make Linore too.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I like it, would you have done that? You?
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: She?
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I think this this is hot and I'm all about it.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: Do you think she wants him? I want I don't
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: know if she's ready to date a young.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Guy she wants him, but I'm telling you, I think
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: he would want her and she'll steal my two seconds.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: One hundred percent. I mean not long term, because but
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: you know for sure, I mean I think that maybe
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: she wants to get back at Joe and she's like, look,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: would you look? You know what you're missing? Like you
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: know benitoo, like this is you know what's happening. I
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: think she's a little like she likes the attention and
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: and it's coming from Bad Bunny, which is everything right now.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: And you know, he just hosted the SNL Show and
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: he has a new album which is What's Making People
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: Talk and what We're talking About, where he makes references
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: to his girlfriend Kendall in certain lyrics, but in the
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: song Monaco, he also talks about Sophia Bergata, like do
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: you think that Sophia was being shady by making that
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: comment knowing that he has a girlfriend.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: No, he gave her a compliment and she complimented him
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: right back.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you think that's perfectly normal if you know
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: a guy is in a relationship, you're gonna flirt back
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: with him, knowing that the guy has a girlfriend.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I think it was like a Latin kind of you
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: complimented me, and I complimented you.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: But I feel like he's complimented other women.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: He's like, you're beautiful, and she's like you're beautiful too.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: It was sweet.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: First of all, I think that he's an artist. I
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: mean that I think I know that he's an artist,
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: and he's this is what he does, so he sings right,
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: and his music, his lyrics is always like he's singing
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: about somebody. Like remember when he dissed Kendles when he
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: started to the Dating Candle and she had just broken
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: up with her boyfriend that played for the Phoenix Suns.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: He just dumbined his song. So you know, he's like
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: a rapper that they do that kind of stuff. They
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: talk about women, they talk about guys, they talk about
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: what's going on, and like a podcast sounds like yeah.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: So anyways, it's a lot of ship. But anyways, with
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: that being said, I feel like that's his job. But
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: like if you were Kendle, would you get mad? So like,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: let's say, of course I'd be pissed and I'd be afraid.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: I'd be super a freaking she'd steal him from me
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: because she's like, oh she can't. Yeah, she's a fan, you.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Can take she steal him in two seconds from.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: I think so too, because to me, Candle is super like,
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: how do you say this actually has no like she's
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: like flat yeah right, but listen, I mean he.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Must be like Callian thing.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, honestly, that's what we know about her.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know how gallienish she is because you know,
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: it wasn't working out with her and Joe, so like,
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, client enough to get him
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: well I mean anybody, yeah, but not to keep him,
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? It's together decent seven years?
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: How long were they to get?
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Seven years?
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Seven years? So then she got they got to pick up.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Pick up bigp going with Bunny on Yeah, yeah, that's
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: what you want to scratch.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: His scratches cony toast.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. So I don't know. I think that's
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: a conversation that Kendl would have to have with with
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: that bunny. But I feel like he's gonna tell her.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm an artist. This is what I do.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: I make money off my lyry craft.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: This is my lyrics, and you know I might have
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: to sleep with her just to make the song better.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Because you know it's my.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Craft, right, I just have to understand my subject.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Right, That he would because he guess what, you know,
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: he hed? So I went to his instagram because you're
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: saying that Mosa, I'm becoming here on the podcast, so
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I need to do my nemework. So I looked at
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: his Instagram and he hardly follows anybody. He hardly follows anybody.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Really, so that he doesn't follow hers.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: What I'm trying to say, because that I would there,
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: I want to take it to the bottom of it.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: I'm like, if he follows I'm breaking up with him.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know, actually he does. I haven't said that
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: right now, Okay, you're better at that. But anyways, so
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: he doesn't follow Sophia, but Sofia did you know? But
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: bad Bunny respond to him and it's so funny because
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: maybe he didn't see it. But you know, there's always
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: like Jim Mooso's out there looking at the comments, see
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: who you like, see who you follow.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: He follows nobody and has no.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Post exactly, and he has no post. That's what I
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: thought I was. I was gonna say three or four people,
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: but I forgot when I did it. But yeah, so
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: he follows nobody, he has no posts. I think he
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: has like just his album covers. So you know what
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: been either, you're super smart. I'm going to give him
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: an applause for not having social media because you know
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: that I really like that. But with that being said,
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: how does he even know? The only reason why he
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: knows that Sophia you know, commented on that was because
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: somebody else most in the world looked it up.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: He thought that his people found out from her people,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: and then they told his people.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: I don't know. There's so many people that have nothing
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: to do. They're looking at whose pictures, you're podcasts, who's
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: liking yours? Who are you following?
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: It's maybe maybe it was she did an interview in.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: The press, Benny don't know. She didn't. It was somebody
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: got it and it went to like, you know, all
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: the media.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Outlets they get it.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know, and I don't care
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: that much. But what I do care about is.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Just talking about.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: I don't like, I really don't care. How you know,
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: you don't have to get down to the bottom of it. Really,
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: the topic here is if you were Kendled, you would
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: be annoyed, and of course it would be okay. But
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: I know his answer is going to be like, I'm
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: an artist and those are my lyrics and I made
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: money off my lyrics, and like it's expected and blah
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: blah blah, but you know, I love you, you know
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: tu la Masba, I'm sure is what he's telling her.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: You're like, you're the most beautiful, Like she can be
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: my mother because you know, I'm sure that you know
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: that that's what he's going to say.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: What's true.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: Bunnie is younger than her son Manolo. Yeah, so it's like,
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: definitely by age, you could be her son. You know,
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: you're I'm sure he's going to get out of it.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: You know, we're going to see that. You know, it's
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: just like we're going to see that. She's going to
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: continue with them and she doesn't care. It's a song.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: It's his job. To sing about other women and and
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: that's it. But I think she was being a little
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: shady and a little bit disrespectful by doing that, because
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, everyone knows that he is in a relationship
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: with Kendall. But then he can say, well, then don't
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: think about me. Well, then don't sing about me, right,
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: that's she can say that too. Well, then you know what,
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: don't think about me if you're so happy you relationship,
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: WHI are you saying about me?
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I like it.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: I like the whole thing, so I want to see
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: because she's Latina, right, that's what I.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Just I like Sophia, and I just get like a
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: like a I think you should do it too, But
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: to talk about on the next podcast, because this is hot.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Right, I think it's super hot to I mean, I
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: don't know that I'll have longevity, but I think they
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: should go for it.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: And yeah, right, they should go for it.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I think they should too. Let's see, let's see how
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: how how it ends up? Right, because you know that's
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: how it starts. My friend with a little tweet, with
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: a little yeah, say you know what how I feel
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: about Instagram? It's like the biggest dating app. I don't
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: even know why there's women and men in dating apps
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: because like all the happens on Instagram. It's like, yeah, I.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: Wonder if dating apps are doing like not so well
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: anymore because of this.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: I I I don't have any research to back that up,
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: because you know, I just say things, but then they're
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: usually right. Of course not because it's free and all
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: the other dating apps you have to pay a membership
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: fee and they make it so complicated, all these steps
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: and you have to do you know, the people get
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: turned up like this is so easy. This is like
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: instant gratification. Yeah, I mean like literally that access. I
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: mean saying the guy and this is somebody like bad Bunny,
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: he sings a song, and this girl, Sophia Virgatta is like,
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: you know, answering him back on social media, like if so,
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: if you want it right there, even if they don't
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: know each other, they meet right there. And this is
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: happening every single day in everybody's lives, not only in
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: the celebrity world, in everyday's lives.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: Do you think this is what he wanted? This is
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: kind of like what that guy Kelsey did to get
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: to Taylor Swift. You know, he put a little a
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: little PRP a little message out there. He had a
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: crush on her and all of a sudden they're together.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Maybe this is his mansa to her, Like.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's kind of desperate, my friend, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Anything else you want to talk about. I know you
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: were talking to me about that, Dad.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I wanted to talk to you about that
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: because I know that you told me that you kind
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: of well, you didn't really have a wedding the first time,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: but you did the second time, right, Yes, you got
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: a wedding this yes, side of my husband paid for
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: because because your father was no longer alive.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Correct right? Yeah he yeah, yeah, my father was in here,
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: So it depends. So what did you wanted to read
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: the whole thing? Right?
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: So I'm asking these questions because there is a father
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: that is refusing to pay for his daughter's destination wedding
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: that she wants and it costs two hundred thousand dollars,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: And now she and her mother are giving him the
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: silent treatment because they want him to pay the two
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars for this wedding. And he's been dragged
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: through the internet saying that he should spend two hundred thousand.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Innt know that he did this? How does the internet
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: even know this?
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Well, he reached out. Sorry, the father has been dragged
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: for reaching out to the internet to ask if he
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: should spend two hundred thousand dollars on his daughter's destination forward,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: he posted an anonymous form that's that his wife and
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: daughter are both giving him the silent treatment because well,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: just cost.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: Of wedding, okay, just for that. The man needs to
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: pay for the wedding. Okay, the wedding. The way to
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: the Internet.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: I mean in New Zealand. The weddings in New Zealand
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: and they live in New York.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, destination wedding. Okay.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: He says he can easily afford the wedding, but thinks
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: it's throwing money away. People on set Line says it's
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: his fault for raising a spoiled brat.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Uh huh Okay, Well why is she a spoiled rap
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: because she wants a destination wedding and it costs two
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: hundred K. I mean, I don't think why she's a
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: spoiled brat like that? That's what I'm saying that. First
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: of all, his biggest mistake was it he went to
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: the internet to ask random people that don't even know
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: him to care about him or his daughter or his
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: wife or his family. That was just a silly question,
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: like how are you even a millionaire? Or how do
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: you even have money? Because you're so stupid? I mean, honestly,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: like this is like a man, like how old is he?
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: I didn't get his bio. I don't know how old
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: he is, but he definitely yeah. I mean, you know,
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: ask a stupid question and you may not even here,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: you may not hear what you want to hear, and you're.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Going to get a stupid answer. You ask a stupid question,
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: you're going to get a stupid answer.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: So you don't think he should pay for it?
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: No, I think he should.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: You think he should? Yeah, you think he should.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Well, first of all, the dads, if you're lucky enough
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: to have your father around the day that you get married,
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: I think it's been a custom and a tradition that
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: the father gives you away, and also the father of
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: the bride pays for the wedding. He should have a
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: say in it, just like his wife. Right, So I mean,
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: I feel like the husband has the money, but remember
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: the husband is married. The dad is married to the
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: girl's mom, which is the wife, so therefore it becomes
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: her money as well. So it's not his two hundred k,
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: it's her two hundred k too, and she wants to
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: do this for her daughter. So I think they should
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: sit down like a normal family and have this discussion.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I'm guessing she doesn't have access to the cash.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Well she should, Well, then maybe something even better will
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: come out about and say, and by the.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Way, she'll have access to So I had.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: A two hundred a hundred is mine, and you're going
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: to put in your hundred and I'm going to put
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: in my hundred, and we're going to pay for a
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: daughter's wedding because that's what she wants. I mean, especially
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: that he keeps on reiterating that he does have the money.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Oh no, because I have the money, and I have
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: the money, and I have the money. So if you
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: have the money, then pay up.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: Maybe he sees maybe, maybe he sees something. Maybe he's like,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: this guy's a loser. This isn't gonna last. I don't
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: want to blow out my money.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Maybe you see something that can happen to any but
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: that's different. He didn't give all that information.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: Hey didn't. You're not guessing this is Marisol's thoughts, perhaps,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: but it's not that.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: But if you want if that's the reason, then I
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: back that up, Like, you don't have to participate in
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: your daughter's wedding at all just because you have money.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: If you don't agree with the person she chose, or
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: you don't agree with the marriage or whatever, that's different.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: But if it's just because what the article says, which
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: is that they live in New York City and there's
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: plenty of beautiful venues, and why do they have to
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: go to New Zealand and spend that amount of money
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: when they can probably spend less and just stay in
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: New York. That's what he wants, but that's not what
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: his daughter wants. Or maybe he should do something else
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: and say, you know what, I think it's a waste
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: of money giving you two hundred thousand and just blowing
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: them in New Zealand on a wedding. What if I
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: give you the two hundred thousand and you do whatever
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: you want with it, because you know sometimes when they
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: give you the money, you're like, ah, now it's my money.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Like right, I want to spend two hundred thousand.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: On a wedding. That's a good idea. Or here, I'll
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: give you one hundred and if you want to pay
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: for two hundred thousand dollars and you could pay for
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: the rest of it or your fancy husband or whatever.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I know that, you know, my dad was comfortable, and
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: if he had said to me, now I'm not giving
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: you two hundred thousand dollars for a wedding, I would
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: not push it. And I certainly want to have my
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: mother and me giving him the silence treatment, because if
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: he didn't want it. I was not going to push it.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: It was his money, he earned it, and I wanted
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: to I would respect him.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: You know your parents there for your first wedding.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, but it was a justice of the peace
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: in the living room. It's five pie went to dinner
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: for your first wedding. I was going to the courthouse. Actually,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: I've never had a big wedding. They've always been like,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: you know, me and the groom and that's about it.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: So that's I have five people at my first wedding,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: no people at the second.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: I know when to be consulted by that. Yeah, thank you,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: thank you very much for not inviting me.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: Us to Aspen, or to none of them, or to
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: or Scotland or Scotland.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: The thing with you is that you never know when
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: you're getting married. You never know when you're getting married.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: So that's why I never get the invite.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: Well, I told you about Aspen. I told you about Scotland,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: not just not Mexico, because I didn't even know that
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: was going to happen.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: Scott anywhere. And you renewed your bowls. But yeah, I
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: expect to get invited next time when we go to
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: with the same man, though, I want you to marry
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: the same man. So I just want to go to
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: your wedding with Steep, not with anybody else.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Of course, it's not that's not even an option, not
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: even an option. I mean, I don't. I feel really
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: bad for the guy. I don't think that good for him.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: I don't think that love should be a negotiation. And
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: you know it from your father, from your father, like
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: you know, maybe you want to torture your husband and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: give him the silent treatment because you want to buy
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: you something or give you money, but your daddy who
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: raised you, like I want you on a k for
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: a wedding. I don't know. If my dad said no,
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: one'd be like, okay, dad, sorry, Like what are you
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: comfortable with? That's how I would be about it.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: But you think that there should be a limit on
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: how much you should spend on a wedding.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I think that it's even if you can afford him.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I think it's his money. And if he thinks that's
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: ridiculous and he earned it and he doesn't want to
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: spend it on that, then you know, and he's the one.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: I mean, he doesn't have to. He doesn't have to. Absolutely,
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: I mean, this is a gift you know that you're doing.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: It's a daughter, Yes, it's a gift.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Raised.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: I was always raised that you need to earn those gifts.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: So I mean, I'm not sure you know what relationship
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: she has with her father. A kind of seemed that
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: she expects it just because he has the money. And
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: that's not always the case, right, I mean, your parents
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: can be very wealthy and they don't have to It's
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: not there. How do you say this like that they
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: have to give it to you? You know, it's not
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: like they're they have to do that for you.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: And listen on the and on the other hand, I mean,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: how I've known a lot of Cuban friends that their
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: parents had no money and they second mortgage their house
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: to have a big wedding for their kid. Huge. You know,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: it's just the way your thought process, how you're brought up.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: And yeah, I think it could be a little cultural too. Yeah,
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: you're right, Yeah, but I think all that has changed
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: because unfortunately, you know, there's so much divorce in the
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: world now that I think even the own couples are like,
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: you know, should we really invest and spend all this
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: money on our wedding? That maybe you know, four or
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: five years down the line, you know, we're not even
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: together anymore, and we spend you know, two hundred thousand
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: and half a million. I mean there's people that spend
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: a million and two million on their weddings.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't even have to be a celebrity, just
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: like anybody, of.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Course, and then everybody walks away and criticizes it.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: Yes, you get saying everybody has fun except the groom
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: and the.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: Bride and the groom. I know, it's the parties for
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: everybody else because you're running around the whole night, you know.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Taking I personally think, I personally think it's a waste
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: of money. Now you know that I'm older, and I'm
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: on my third marriage, you know, the first time around
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: when you are in your twenties, you know, and especially
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: like when we grew up, like I always dreamed of
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: getting married and having a beautiful Catholic you know, celebration
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: you know in the church, and getting married in the
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Catholic church, which never happened, and having for reception you know,
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: with Willie Chitto and miamis Machine and you know, yes, right,
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: so that's what I wanted, you know. Unfortunately, it didn't happen.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes when it doesn't happen the
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: first time, you kind of want it the second time.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: And so I I did it the second time. But
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: my father was in here, so he didn't always tell
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: my parents that, like they save so much money, you know,
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: with me, you know, they never had to pay for
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: those things. But the man had to do. The mans
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: had to pay, not my parents. But so then the
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: second time around, you know, Hermit paid for it because
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: you know, he was a guy. And then now it
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: was kind of like you know, Todd and I paid
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: like for some things that were important to me, and
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: he paid for you know, most of the things. But
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: I love flowers, so like I was like, I don't
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: care what they cost. I'm paying for them.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: They were spectacular, your flowers.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: I think we're a little bit different, like the woman
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: and the man. So flowers were important to me. The
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: guy doesn't care whether it's like you know, la Rosa
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: is from Columbia or for it's from like Switzerland, whatever,
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: you know, or like the decor. They care more like
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: about the booze and the music and whatever. So like
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: you said, it's like a conversation we have to sit
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: down and talk. You know, yes, it is my wedding,
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: but if your dad's paying for it, I think you
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: should have a little bit of a say. And I
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: think she's just such a little bit sweeter she'll she'll
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: get them to pay, you know, for the wedding.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the silent treatments, that's cruel.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Especially during this time that you're actually it's a beautiful
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: time in your life and you're preferring your wedding and
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: you want, you know, your family to be good and
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: and and it's it's.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you one thing, if he ends up having
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: to do that wedding, when he's gonna drag her down
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: the aisle by her hair, he's gonna be so pissy
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: they made him do it? Agree with?
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: Like with He'll be like, no, I don't, but yeah,
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: but I just think his biggest mistake was just going
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: on the internet. That was really that really I think
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: it's so funny how like again, I always say that
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: how we get criticized for doing like reality TV. But
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: there's like people that don't even know and like they're
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: like looking for this, you know what I mean that
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: one of the people's like validations and like other people.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: It's like, why would you do that? I think he
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: made things worse with his wife and with his daughter
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: intead of just like sitting down, you know, like a
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: mature aunt and like a father and like the head
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: of your family and just having that conversation. Oh yeah,
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: but see, do you think we'll get invited to the wedding?
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I want to go. If the wedding's in New Zealand,
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: you'll get a.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Who do you think he's not going to fly you there?
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: He's a miser.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But anyways, I really do hope he pays for
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: it because it's a special time in her life. Yeah,
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: and I believe in love and marriage, and.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: I know we both believe in love and marriage.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: So yeah, and if he has the money, you know what,
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: you only live once. Make your daughter happy.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Well maybe you know another thing I thought of was,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: you know, perhaps she's a little she is spoiled, and
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: maybe he's trying to pump the brakes. Yeah it's a
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: little too late.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, it's a little bit too late.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Who knows. Who knows what it's like at their house
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: and what she's like, and what he's like, or who
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: these people really are. I just know how I would
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: have handled it. Oh, I love you. I'll be by
• 44:55
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• 45:01
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• 45:12
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  Speaker 1: They're very clever, all of them.
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  Speaker 2: So we hope you love our new season. Season six
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  Speaker 2: premierees on Wednesdays on Bravo at nine pm November one,
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  Speaker 2: us the next day at Peacock Peacock. Well, thanks for
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Wednesday premiere.
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