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170: The Dark Side of Empathy: When Understanding Becomes Self-Abandonment

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When does empathy become toxic? When it leads to self-abandonment.

Yes, empathy is beautiful—it helps us connect, support others, and hold space. But what happens when your empathy starts costing you your peace, self-worth, and well-being?

Join me as we explore:

What toxic empathy is and how it differs from healthy compassion

How people-pleasers and highly sensitive people (HSPs) often fall into this pattern

Real-life examples of toxic empathy in romantic, platonic, and family relationships

The shift from enabling to empowered empathy

How to set boundaries without losing your…

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