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How I Manifested My Boyfriend + Mistakes I Made (Twin Flames) · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  Welcome to the spirit, Nomad the podcast, for learning, how to
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  step into your purpose. Raise your vibrations, and
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  manifest your dream life before we dive in.
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  Remember that you can find the video version of this episode,
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  and many more on the spirit Nomad YouTube channel.
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  Now, here's your host, Julia London.
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  Today, I will share with you, not only how to manifest their
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  boyfriend off your dreams. Yes, but also the one so your
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  twin flame if you're an old soul then chances are that you have a
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  twin flame. So an other part of your soul
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  that is incarnated on Earth right now and that you will meet
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  in this lifetime. I will also share one thing that
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  other love gurus or manifestation gurus talk about
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  and recommended by this actually, really, really
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  dangerous. And you need to drop it right
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  now if you want to attract Friend.
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  I will go over how I attracted my boyfriend and twin flames.
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  Seth in three steps and the mistakes are made so that you
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  don't have to go through them now.
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  I've been in a stable long-term relationship with my twin flame
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  for over two years now, but it hasn't always been this way.
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  I've been single for most of my life.
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  I was traveling the world as a nomad and I thought the sink
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  being single was the best thing ever.
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  Yeah, I hadn't really had any long-term relationships before
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  then, but now I've completely changed.
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  My mind about that. I think being in a relationship
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  is the best thing ever, especially when it's your twin
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  flame because it's literally the other part of your soul.
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  So you help each other grow your own, the exact same vibration,
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  and it's not a draining relationship.
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  I am an introvert, so I very easily get drained even with my
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  best friends after a while. I'm like, I need to be alone
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  now, I need recharged, but with my twin flame, I never
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  experienced that just want to be with him all the time.
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  So if this sounds like something you want to learn how to Packed
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  then let's get into the three steps to attracting a boyfriend
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  and now the first step is to dump the list and this is what
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  I'm so mind, blown that all these manifestation coaches and
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  lot of gurus are preaching that you should write down a list,
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  all the qualities, because this is what I did and that is what
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  kept me from getting into a relationship in the first place
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  because I had such a long list. And since nobody was able to
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  meet that, I just ended up breaking up or like, it never
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  worked out. I didn't keep my eyes open for
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  for other type of people and I know it's not as easy as it
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  sounds like because we all have like a mental list as well.
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  So we sample, a few are of a certain religion.
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  You might have a mental note that you want to find someone
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  who is also about religion, you especially want to let go of
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  these superficial things like a certain eye color or hair color
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  or height or even religion. I would call religion.
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  Also being Or background or skin color.
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  I would say, oh these are superficial things that don't
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  really matter because it's about the soul and not about the
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  exterior. So the first thing is to write
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  down what you think is on that meant a list.
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  So when you have looked for mates in the past, what have you
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  been looking for, see what did they all have in common and
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  write that down? And then look through this list
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  and ask yourself, is this coming from my soul, or from my ego?
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  So let's say for example, that you are a very tall but you want
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  your boy A friend to be even taller, which is hard to find.
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  Then that could be an ego issue, right?
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  That you feel like you're a bit insecure about your height maybe
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  and you can take someone who is the same height or shorter than
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  you while for example, he should be kind, that is a sold thing
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  because of course, we want to have mutual respect for each
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  other and we should treat all treat each other kindly, of
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  course. Now when I look back on my list
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  before meeting stuff, it was a lot of ego, things on that list,
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  for example, money. I Always said that I was because
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  I thought ambition is important and because people usually have
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  money, but I think it was actually also that it would mean
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  that I'd have to work less right if my partner also have money.
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  So that was definitely an ego issue.
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  Instead of focusing on how can I make money?
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  I was looking for a partner who ride that and then socially I
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  was looking for someone who was very extroverted and had a big
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  Social Circle because I did not have a big Social Circles.
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  I still don't have, and I thought this would be a good way
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  for me to just slide into his Social Circle and not having to
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  make that effort to make friends myself.
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  So really go through that list and see.
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  Okay, is this? So he will complete me because
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  you want to already be complete and if you feel like you're not
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  complete and work on that, before you start looking for
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  someone, and that brings us to The Next Step, which is To Love
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  Yourself, practice self-love. This is super important.
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  I definitely did not love myself throughout my 20s.
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  I'm turning 30 next year and it wasn't actually until Look like
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  a few years ago that I actually truly started to love myself.
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  I always became a chameleon around other people and I try to
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  fit in and behave in the ways they behaved, and that made me
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  very easy to connect with people, but short term because
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  eventually they found out who I was and that I wasn't who I
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  pretended to be, and then they would follow me for my life.
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  So, love yourself enough to set boundaries with other people,
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  and keep your standards high. And I found the most effective
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  way to practice self-love is Is through affirmations.
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  So write down positive statements that you want to be
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  true about yourself. For example, it can be something
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  simple. Like I love myself, I deserve
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  love and just read it to yourself.
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  Look into the mirror into your own eyes and repeat the phrase
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  has two to three times. My favorite way of practicing
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  self love recently has been to take a step back from work and
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  not be a workaholic and make more time towards self care like
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  taking a long bath just with myself.
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  Some essential oils, maybe a bath bomb.
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  Yeah, massaging my feet, having a nice nourishing morning.
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  Ritual, these are ways, I love practicing self-care and
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  self-love nowadays. Step number three is to listen
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  to the signs that the Universe sends you and surrender to the
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  journey. So the universe will actually
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  lead you to the one. The person you're meant to be
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  with in this life, believe it or not, but you made contracts with
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  certain Souls before you were born into this life including
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  the person you're meant to be with by that is your twin flame
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  or your soul mate and you don't actually have to go on all these
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  dating apps and and look around the universe will bring them to
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  you. Of course, you can't just sit
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  around on the couch eating Ben and Jerry's.
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  You have to open yourself up to social opportunities by going to
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  different events. If you more of a home person,
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  maybe go on social media. For example, I met the staff on
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  Instagram. He messaged me a DM message.
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  Eventually we decided to meet up in Spain and that's when we met,
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  I remember his message. She said, are you also a digital
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  Nomad? And I looked at his profile and
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  we were so similar, he was vegan, he's a nomad and blogger.
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  And there was something about his eyes as well that they felt
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  like home. I know that sounds very silly
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  but that's actually a big sign that this is your twin flame if
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  their eyes feel like home. So I decided to to listen to the
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  sign, I thought, well, could this be my twin flame and I I
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  decided to meet up with him. So those were the three signs.
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  Let me know in the comments. If you think that you have a
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  twin flame or what you're doing is to manifest your dream
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  partner and also make sure to check out my channel between the
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  flame guides if you want to learn more about how to find
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  your twin flames have a beautiful day.
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