Latest / The Inspired Stories Podcast / Higor Valle on Building Wine Programs for Miami's Top Restaurants and Why the Beverage Industry Is at a Crossroads
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- 0:04Welcome to another edition of the Inspired Stories podcast,
- 0:08where leaders share their experiences so we can learn from
- 0:12their successes and be inspired by how they've overcome
- 0:14adversity. As you listen today, let one
- 0:17idea shape what you do next. My name is Anthony Kotaspodi and
- 0:21today's guest is Igor Valley, Corporate Wine Director at Mr.
- 0:25Hospitality Group where he designs and leads wine programs
- 0:30across three very different Miami concepts, Queen Miami
- 0:34Beach, Marion Miami and Lafayette Steakhouse.
- 0:38Born in Brazil, Igor worked his way up from busboy to sommelier
- 0:43after a life changing taste of a 1995 Chateau Margot.
- 0:49Since then he's built high performing wine programs at top
- 0:52restaurants, fast tracked full launches on aggressive timelines
- 0:57and earned advanced certification from the Court of
- 1:00Master Sommeliers. At Mr. Hospitality, Igor
- 1:04overseas purchasing staff, training, partnerships, events
- 1:08and the financial strategy behind each list, bringing fine
- 1:12dining discipline to Miami's dynamic hospitality scene.
- 1:16He's also the founder of Wise Seller with AC, where he offers
- 1:21consulting and seller management services.
- 1:23And he regularly shares his passion through tastings and
- 1:27industry events like Fine Expo America's.
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- 2:25All right, back to our guest today, Corporate Wine Director
- 2:27of Misper Hospitality, Igor Valley.
- 2:30Thanks for making the time to Share your story today.
- 2:33Thank you for having me. So, Igor, what were the
- 2:36circumstances that brought you from Brazil to the USA?
- 2:42At the ripe age of 18, I was very curious about spending some
- 2:47time in a different country that that had happened before, of
- 2:51course, even in younger years. But during my team years, I saw
- 2:58the opportunity of participating in AJ1 program.
- 3:03So it's essentially a temporary job visa where you spend three
- 3:09to six months overseas or in this case here in the United
- 3:14States. So I took advantage of that
- 3:16program in 2006. And what were you doing when you
- 3:22came to the States, and where were you?
- 3:24It's an interesting journey that as as you can imagine, this is a
- 3:28a temporary visa during your college break for you to
- 3:34experience a different country. So the jobs are very basic.
- 3:40There's a variety of jobs. I don't know if this programs to
- 3:44exist at this date, but at the time, you know, there were basic
- 3:48and fun jobs either at Disneyland or the Mohegan Sun
- 3:52Casino in Connecticut. In my case, it was quite
- 3:56different. It was at CVSCVS Pharmacy.
- 3:59So you know, we worked as a clerk and right when I landed
- 4:05here and of course Internet access and all this was quite
- 4:10different than it is today. You had to go to the library and
- 4:12all this. So we had a checklist of things
- 4:14that we have to do once we landed here and one of them was
- 4:18contact your sponsor. So then you could start the
- 4:23process of getting your social, Social Security set up and, and
- 4:27you know, get in touch with your, your new employer and all
- 4:30this. And as soon as I contacted my
- 4:32sponsor, he said, Hey, eager look, something happened in
- 4:35between, you know, the, the last couple of days that you were
- 4:37travelling and getting yourself settled here, the contract with
- 4:42your employer got cancelled. So you so you have two options.
- 4:48You can return to Brazil and we'll refund, you know, the cost
- 4:51of the program. This is something kind of
- 4:53unprecedented at the, you know, the, I don't know exactly what
- 4:57happened in the details, but that was jobless and that visa
- 5:01works. One of the main requirements is
- 5:05that you, you have a job placement here.
- 5:07So, so you have a, a, a, a stream of income and they said,
- 5:12look, you, you can return and we'll, you know, reimburse you
- 5:17just like everyone else. That was part of this situation
- 5:21or we'll change your, your visa status as independ as
- 5:25independent, meaning you have 30 days to find a job, otherwise
- 5:30your visa will automatically be cancelled.
- 5:32And I said I'm not going back. I need I you know, I it took me
- 5:35so much to get all all 2 documentations last year already
- 5:40and. And where were you physically?
- 5:42Naples, FL. Naples, FL.
- 5:44OK. And there were other challenges
- 5:49going at the same time. I still didn't know where I was
- 5:51going to live. And so I was staying in a hotel
- 5:54in Naples. And the receptionist had
- 5:58mentioned to me, I, I was just having coffee and chatting with
- 6:01this lovely gentleman at the time.
- 6:04And, and he said, hey, by the way, a couple of rooms down,
- 6:07there's a, a group of Brazilian guys.
- 6:09I think they're part of the same program as as you.
- 6:13You should go chat with them. And I was like, Oh my God, yes,
- 6:16they they either will be in my the same situation as me or
- 6:20better because they probably have a job.
- 6:22So I go there and luckily a few of them had been had done this
- 6:29program already. I actually was this one guy was
- 6:31his third time here. And so they knew everything, all
- 6:35this, everything you know that you're supposed to do at the
- 6:37beginning. I was so lost.
- 6:39And they said, hey, listen, we are going to rent a three
- 6:45bedroom apartment, so we need to find two other guys.
- 6:49So there is space for you. And I was like, Oh my God.
- 6:51OK, living situation settled. And I said, what about what
- 6:56about work guys? What are you going to do?
- 6:58And they're like, oh, you know, it's this really cool place
- 7:02because we're going to work in a convenience store.
- 7:05So you got to eat and drink for free.
- 7:08The hours are easy. And if you work overnight, they
- 7:11pay you $2 more an hour instead of $8 an hour.
- 7:14It was 10. This is 2006.
- 7:17And little I know I was 711. But in my mind, I'm, you know,
- 7:21you're 18 years old. You just landed here.
- 7:23And I'm like, wait, convenience store.
- 7:25And it's pretty easy and I can eat and drink for free.
- 7:28I said sign me up. So I, I took my bike.
- 7:35You know, we each bought like these $30 used bikes.
- 7:39And I got my bike and I actually biked to the 711.
- 7:44And I, I mentioned to the manager, I said, hey, I just
- 7:47landed with this program. And my colleagues said that I
- 7:51should come here, talk to you. And he's like, oh, yeah, I've
- 7:53been waiting for you. You know, I, I need to figure it
- 7:56was actually someone else, but he signed me up right away.
- 8:00So I, I, I had a short stint of four months as a cashier at
- 8:057:11, which, which was a, a fun experience.
- 8:10And so how did? You transition from that into
- 8:13eventually getting into the hospitality space.
- 8:16You got a an early busboy job. Yeah.
- 8:18So after that, I, I worked at Abercrombie and Fitch at the
- 8:23mall. And then for a period of time,
- 8:26you know, you would, you know, you, you would, anything that
- 8:30would provide a, a, a good weekly wage at the time, you
- 8:37know, we, we, we were gain, we were having a good time, you
- 8:41know, your young kids. And so I, I, I worked at the
- 8:45mall like I mentioned. And then after, you know, my
- 8:47visa expired with 711, you have to extend your visa and then you
- 8:51kind of have to find your own thing again.
- 8:54And at the time I used to live with this, this group of guys
- 8:58was three or four of us, I can't remember now.
- 9:01And one of them started working in this small family owned
- 9:05restaurant in Naples, FL, coincidentally also called
- 9:08Lafayette, not not related though.
- 9:13And I was still working at the mall at the time.
- 9:17And I think I was my, you know, my wage was like 850 an hour.
- 9:23And he started working in this restaurant and he would come
- 9:25home at night and he would be so excited about, you know,
- 9:30everything that he saw at the restaurant.
- 9:32And he, he got to try some, some food and he got to try some of
- 9:36the wines. And especially for me at the
- 9:40time, he would come home and, and tell us guys, you have no
- 9:43idea. I made $97.00 tonight and we
- 9:47were like, Oh my God, this is crazy.
- 9:50What am I doing working at the mall?
- 9:53I, I want to do this too. But of course I, you know, I had
- 9:59no experience. I didn't know what to do.
- 10:00And then actually his visa expired here, so he went back to
- 10:05Brazil and doing so he told the family, he said, hey, listen, I,
- 10:10you know, I'm, I'm, I got to go back and I'll do the program
- 10:14next year again. But if you need someone right
- 10:18now, there's this guy that lives with me and he really wants to,
- 10:21to start working in a restaurant.
- 10:23And that's how it all started. So essentially I replaced him
- 10:27and I started working at Lafayette as a busboy.
- 10:31And that's how it all started. Where?
- 10:35And did you love it from the beginning or was it kind of
- 10:38rough and like, I don't know what I'm doing?
- 10:40Long hours on my feet, Yeah. It was a a good mix of both.
- 10:45I loved being there. I've always, I've always been
- 10:49curious about food and wine and in, in in a certain level of
- 10:55dining scene or, or as much interest as you can have as a 18
- 10:59year old. And it was really challenging
- 11:04because I had no idea of, of the, of the, the style of dining
- 11:12really, or in, you know, or, or the levels of a gourmet
- 11:15restaurant, let's put it this way, or fine dining, the steps
- 11:20of service and everything that yeah, you know, is involved in
- 11:24a, in an operation like this. So I, so I learned everything
- 11:28from Zero. For me, it was really exciting
- 11:31at the beginning because, well, it still is.
- 11:33But it was really exciting because it was all so new to me.
- 11:36It was all so exciting and you know, to discovered that you had
- 11:41different silverware for certain dishes and you know, you, you,
- 11:48you, you seen closures, the like the, you know, to cover dishes
- 11:51and you know, it's, you know, as a kid, you see that in cartoons
- 11:55or movies and you're like, oh, this is what it's for.
- 11:58You know, I'm carrying it and it's going to keep it warm.
- 12:00And then someone, you know, stands up to use a restroom and
- 12:04their food just lands. So you put it there, keep it
- 12:06warm. And then all the different
- 12:08glassware and all this. So it was, it was, it was super
- 12:11exciting, but of course challenging as well.
- 12:13Extremely busy. If we were a really, really
- 12:16small team. And you know, as soon as I land
- 12:21at the restaurant, you know, your training is maybe four
- 12:24days, one week. And then, and then right after
- 12:27that, you're, you're, you're right, you get thrown right into
- 12:31the fire. So definitely some some
- 12:33challenges, but but incredible experience so.
- 12:36Here's what I gathered from that is that you finally started to
- 12:39understand your childhood cartoons.
- 12:41Exactly, but I want to. Go back actually to you first
- 12:46coming to the country and like, it has to be a little bit
- 12:48intimidating, right? 18 year old stepping off the
- 12:51plane, new place, you don't know anybody.
- 12:54You had some English, it seems like, but you know, and then you
- 12:58find out that your job's been cancelled and now you're on your
- 13:01own and you got to find a place to live.
- 13:03You got to find a job. What were those early days like?
- 13:08Yeah, yeah. And you know, it's so, it's so
- 13:14for me, it was so thrilling to just picture that I would be
- 13:20going to a different country and, you know, get to see all
- 13:24this. And everything was so new, a
- 13:27brand new culture and all this. But then at the same time, it's
- 13:29terrifying. And I think that, you know,
- 13:36it's, it's a good moment to give a shout out to everyone that has
- 13:40had the courage to leave their home country and really just,
- 13:48you know, figure it all out from zero, from day one in a
- 13:52completely different culture, in a completely different country.
- 13:57And you know, very quickly, depending on, you know,
- 14:02depending on the situations and the day and, and the days at the
- 14:06beginning, very quickly you get your excitement completely
- 14:09replaced by fear, right? Or you know, you're like, what
- 14:13do I do? I have, you know, I, I need to
- 14:16make decisions in there. You can't, I can't call my dad
- 14:19or, or you know how there is help, but it's in a very
- 14:25different way, as you, as you can imagine.
- 14:27So it was terrifying at times. But but, you know, as, as we
- 14:36were faced or as I was faced with these challenges, you, you
- 14:40really, even if I didn't want to, we force me to figure stuff
- 14:45out and come up with solutions, which, you know, I would like to
- 14:50think that has helped me with my character and and with my life
- 14:54experience. You learn to grow.
- 14:57Up pretty fast, yes. You like that you, you, you
- 15:01know, I, you don't get much time or many choices as far as
- 15:07growing up, you know, you just, you just have to do it so.
- 15:11So you're cutting your teeth in the hospitality and the food
- 15:14industry at this family owned restaurant in Naples called
- 15:17Lafayette. It's exhausting, exhilarating.
- 15:21You're learning new things. But now I want to talk about
- 15:25this life changing wine tasting of this 95 Chateau Margaux.
- 15:33Tell us about that. Yeah.
- 15:36You know, at the end of every shift, there was always maybe 30
- 15:42minutes, 45 minutes. While they were, I wasn't
- 15:46necessarily doing any, you know, admin closing duties.
- 15:49But as they were doing it, the GM and, and the owners, they
- 15:55would always taste a couple of wines, either because someone
- 15:59left half a decanter for them of, of something that I didn't
- 16:04know something special or something interesting.
- 16:06Or they would just share a glass of wine that we featured by the
- 16:11glass and things as such. And they would always offer me a
- 16:16little sip to, to try the wise and, and I was always so curious
- 16:22about it and I would ask all kinds of questions.
- 16:25And there was this one time I, I tasted the swine and I just, I
- 16:31was like, Oh my God, what is this?
- 16:33Why, why does it taste so different and so good at the
- 16:37same time? And I remember perfectly.
- 16:40Like at the moment I couldn't explain anything, you know, I
- 16:44couldn't, I couldn't even say that I exactly liked it.
- 16:48It was just, I was just so curious about it.
- 16:52I was just so tickled by it and and I was like, Oh my God, what
- 16:57is this? This is incredible.
- 16:59And they were all laughing and they're like, Oh my God, here we
- 17:01go. Of course you love it.
- 17:03And it's an. Expensive wine.
- 17:05Right. And and I come to find out it
- 17:07was a 1995 shuttle Margo. So that was maybe, you know, a
- 17:14lot of people in the, in the world of wine, they like to say
- 17:17that, you know, you have like the moment that you, you, you're
- 17:21bitten by the bug. And so maybe that could have
- 17:25been mine. And then sort of fill in some of
- 17:30the gaps here. You have that tasting and it
- 17:33eventually leads to you becoming a sommelier.
- 17:36Yes. So, you know, and at that moment
- 17:40I was already very interested in wine, but I had no idea that I
- 17:48could work selling wine or I didn't even know that there was
- 17:53such a thing as as a sommelier or, or anything like this.
- 17:57But I knew that I wanted to become a server at the
- 18:01restaurant because, you know, for me, it was so cool to see
- 18:04the servers come in and, you know, they would have their
- 18:07sections and, and their VI PS and check who's coming in and
- 18:11all, you know, excited about the, the evening to start and
- 18:14all this. And I, I knew I wanted to become
- 18:18a server. And I also learned at the time
- 18:22that the servers that knew how to sell wine, they would get
- 18:27the, the preferred service, let's say, right, you get the
- 18:31better sections and all this. And they, they are kind of like
- 18:35the Ogs of the restaurant, right?
- 18:37So I said, listen, listen, I need to do 2 things.
- 18:39I need to learn how to become a server and I need to learn about
- 18:44wine. I already like it anyways.
- 18:46And I, you know, so I started just paying attention.
- 18:49I didn't even start reading about wine, but I started paying
- 18:52attention to, you know, a couple of these guys were doing as far
- 18:57as movement and all this and I would just, you know, annoy them
- 19:01with questions and you know, why do you decant and why?
- 19:04What is this crazy tool that you use to pull the pull corks and
- 19:07all this? And then I and then I became,
- 19:11you know, super, super, super in super into wine.
- 19:14And luckily for me, the, the owners of the restaurant decided
- 19:20to expand the restaurant. It was really, really small.
- 19:23And when I say, you know, servers before the restaurant
- 19:27expanded, I'm, I'm talking 3 or 4.
- 19:32And you know, they have been there forever.
- 19:36So when the restaurant so there was no space for me, even even
- 19:39even if they had said, you know, Igor, you're, you're already
- 19:41good. You can, you can become a server
- 19:43ready. You know, I, I was a food runner
- 19:45at the time. There was no space for me.
- 19:47This was a very, very small restaurant and everyone had been
- 19:50there forever. So when they decided to expand,
- 19:54of course, they had to bring in a lot more employees in every
- 19:58front. So then they're like, hey,
- 20:01listen, this is your opportunity.
- 20:03You know, you, you, you were, you are promoted to server.
- 20:09And in another, another good opportunity.
- 20:16Maybe I got lucky again, but this gentleman had moved in from
- 20:20San Francisco. Who's a friend of mine to this
- 20:22day. He moved from San Francisco with
- 20:25a ton of experience and an incredible, incredible
- 20:29hospitality professional with a lot of energy to train and teach
- 20:35people too. So he is, you know, he took me
- 20:39under his wings and started showing me all kinds of things.
- 20:43And, and, and every time we would open a bottle of wine, he
- 20:47would tell me a little bit about it.
- 20:48And, you know, then when the the wine room was ready at the
- 20:52restaurant, now the wine list was bigger and all this then we
- 20:56set up the wine room together was, you know, three of us.
- 21:02And he gave me a lot of opportunity to really start to
- 21:07understand, OK, what is Napa Valley?
- 21:09You know, what is Bordeaux? What is Burgundy, You know,
- 21:13understand the grapes and the regions and the style and all
- 21:16this. What makes it this producer
- 21:19special? Why is this one so famous?
- 21:21Why are these two from the exact same village?
- 21:24But one costs $300, one costs 3000?
- 21:28And this gentleman at the time told me, hey, you know, you're
- 21:33really into it. You and I'll, I'll, I'll let a
- 21:37secret in here. I was never a good server.
- 21:43What made you a bad server? You're so curious.
- 21:45You were so into it. Why weren't you a good server?
- 21:48I think I, I think I thought too much.
- 21:51I was probably not prioritizing my steps of service.
- 21:56And so, I mean, I was, I was probably decent, but I wasn't
- 21:59very good. I would I would never make the
- 22:01cut to the top guys. And but that's not the reason
- 22:04why this this friend of mine said this.
- 22:06Now we laugh about it and he knows this.
- 22:08And he's like, yeah, yeah, it was it was a good decision you
- 22:10made. But he told me, hey, listen,
- 22:12you're so into wine. Why don't you study wine and
- 22:15become a sommelier? I was like, so sommelier, what?
- 22:19What is this? He's like, well, you know, you
- 22:21see the server, you see what? See what we're doing now you do
- 22:24the same, but only, you know, all your focus is wine.
- 22:27You go to the tables and I was like, Oh my God, this sounds so
- 22:30cool. This is exactly what I want to
- 22:32do. I don't want to.
- 22:34I don't want to have to fire the soup course and then re silver
- 22:37and then think about the temperature of the steaks and
- 22:40you know the birthday candle that needs to be.
- 22:42I just want to. Focus on wine.
- 22:44I want to talk to whoever is using the wine at the table.
- 22:48I want a purple. I want to let them know about
- 22:50this amazing wine that I tasted last night and sell the wine
- 22:54open and, you know, come, you know, it's so so how?
- 22:59Did you head down that path? And so I, you know, and, and I
- 23:04really started thinking about it.
- 23:05And at the time, of course, you know, the, the, the, the, the
- 23:11owners were the chef and his sister and his sister was taking
- 23:16that role, right? And of course we would all help.
- 23:18And there's a couple of us that were really more into wine than,
- 23:21than either the other servers or everyone else in, in the
- 23:24restaurant. So there was no such a thing
- 23:26there either. As a sommelier.
- 23:28She, she was a sommelier, but she was the owner, you know, she
- 23:30didn't title herself as a sommelier.
- 23:34So then I decide to move on And I said, you know, I, I now, now
- 23:39I know enough that I can present myself at a restaurant, either,
- 23:46you know, and ask if they're looking for some Lea or, or see
- 23:49a job listing. And, but you know, in Naples and
- 23:54this were fast forwarding maybe a couple of years and, and none
- 23:57of this was really available in Naples.
- 24:03Let's say, yes, a couple of restaurants had sommeliers,
- 24:05maybe the Grill Room at the Ritz and and Blue Provence, but I
- 24:11couldn't really find anything like this.
- 24:14And then at the time, my girlfriend, she used to spend a
- 24:19lot of time on Nantucket. Of course, summers on Nantucket
- 24:23Island, they're incredible. But she was actually there year
- 24:26round for some time. So she said, Hey, you know, I'm
- 24:33going back to Nantucket once season ends and you know, it's
- 24:38an amazing place and all this, but she didn't say, you know,
- 24:40why don't you come with me? She was just essentially just
- 24:43telling me like, hey, I'm, I'm heading out.
- 24:46So this same guy, he told me, Hey, Iver do you know, do you
- 24:50know that place that she's talking about?
- 24:51I said, no, I have no idea. He's like, that place is
- 24:53amazing. You got to learn so much.
- 24:55If you go there, you you really, really, really should go.
- 24:59So you invited yourself, so I. Invited myself.
- 25:02So I went to Nantucket and you know, I learned so, so much more
- 25:07there and I was exposed to to an incredible hospitality scene
- 25:13there. And Fast forward and then when I
- 25:15came back to Naples, I was that much more confident.
- 25:18And at the time that the Mikos group in Naples were the
- 25:23strongest restaurant group and they were set to open this
- 25:28steakhouse called the Continental.
- 25:32And that was a talk of the town at the time.
- 25:35Everyone was saying, oh, wow, the Mikos, you know, they're
- 25:37opening a new restaurant and you know, this is going to be
- 25:40essentially it was set to be the hottest place in town.
- 25:45And I, I, I was just dead set of getting a, on getting a job
- 25:50there. I said, look, that's where I'm
- 25:52going to work. And then again, the challenge
- 25:55they were, they were not, there was no Somalia position for the
- 26:01restaurant. And of course, at the time, I,
- 26:04I, I had already experienced and, and I knew better and I, I
- 26:08was able to understand more how restaurants work.
- 26:11And I looked at the, you know, the, the setup that was to be at
- 26:16the restaurant and all this. And I said, you know what, I'm
- 26:19going to apply for a server. I'm going to apply for a server
- 26:22position, but I know they're going to need a sommelier.
- 26:25You know, it's a steakhouse and it is going to be large and busy
- 26:29and all this. So I got the job and during my
- 26:32job interview, you know, or after the job with everyone,
- 26:37they let me know that that they were offering me the position.
- 26:40I go back there and and they say, hey, listen, you, you are
- 26:45really well versed in wine and we're certainly going to need
- 26:47this help. You should help us train the
- 26:54staff on the wines by the glass and all this you are, we're
- 26:58going to connect you with our beverage manager and you know,
- 27:02we, we, we would love for you to be involved with the wine and
- 27:06all this. And I was like, oh, we have
- 27:08absolutely. So the restaurant opened and,
- 27:11and I was right. You, you, you really, you know
- 27:15it. You really needed someone on the
- 27:18floor dedicated to sell wine. So maybe short, very, very
- 27:23shortly after, 2-3 months after opening, I said, hey, listen,
- 27:27how about, you know, I would, I would love to be the sommelier
- 27:30here. You know, I, I have my section,
- 27:33but I'm, I'm still going to all their service tables and I'm
- 27:37helping them and I'm, I'm essentially already kind of
- 27:40doing it. And they said, yes, you know, we
- 27:45agree. Yes, we see, you know, we, we
- 27:47see what you've been doing, you know, let us get back to you
- 27:50with a, with a proposal. You know, I don't promise
- 27:52anything. At the time I was asking the
- 27:53gym. I don't promise anything, but I
- 27:55agreed, you know, I'll try. And then they, you know, they
- 28:00told me, listen, how about this? You, you work as a server on the
- 28:06weekdays and then Thursday, Friday, Saturday, you work as a
- 28:09wine steward. And I was, I was thrilled.
- 28:14I was like, Oh my God, finally, you know, I, you know, I'll be
- 28:17able to work as a sommelier and, and you know, just dedicate my
- 28:22time for it kinda. I still had to work like 2:00
- 28:24Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday or Tuesday and Wednesday as as a
- 28:27server. So how did this?
- 28:28New role go for. You so it went really well,
- 28:31except that you know the you know the the the deal was that
- 28:36when I worked on Thursday, Friday, Saturday as wine
- 28:40steward, of course, I there was no tips or anything like this.
- 28:45So they said, look, you know, it's, you're going to have to,
- 28:49you know, pay forward for this. So Thursday, Friday, Saturday, I
- 28:53was, I was essentially, I was almost volunteering my time.
- 29:01So you have. To do the thing that you love,
- 29:02but you're not getting paid very well for?
- 29:04Exactly. But you know, looking, looking
- 29:06at it today, it worked out very well because for it was
- 29:10education, right? It was I was, I was essentially
- 29:13getting paid to learn the trade. So it all went very well and the
- 29:18season ended. And then right after that I
- 29:21became the official sommelier, officially the sommelier there.
- 29:25And then shortly after I was promoted to beverage manager.
- 29:33And when this happened, then I, I really started thinking, OK,
- 29:38I, you know, do I, I need to know now, do I take this to the
- 29:43next level, right? I, if I, if I want the growth,
- 29:48do I take it to the next level or what am I going to do here?
- 29:52And at the time I was familiar with the, with some of the
- 29:55certifications, but I really didn't know what was the Court
- 29:57of Masters Senneliers or anything like this.
- 30:00And one of the gentlemen that used to work at the restaurant,
- 30:04he, he said, Hey, we're look, I am a level 2.
- 30:06I have, I am a certified some MBA and you, you should really
- 30:10do this. And essentially so I went and
- 30:15took my level 1. I really loved it.
- 30:17And then almost back, like two months later, I went to it was
- 30:22at the, IT was Houston and I took my certified and, and I
- 30:26passed and, and I, I had a, a pretty good run at the
- 30:35continental while I was, you know, working through my
- 30:39certification and learning and gaining experience and all this.
- 30:42But then this this this guy that I met working at a different
- 30:47ration, he's like, hey, I'm going to go for my advanced, I'm
- 30:52going to go for my Level 3. And I need someone to study.
- 30:56I need someone to study with because, you know, you cannot do
- 30:58this alone. And he's like, have you
- 31:00considered, you know, I was like, man, you know, I've never
- 31:04been really an academic person. Let's say I get fidgety if I'm,
- 31:08you know, just hitting the books for too long.
- 31:11And yeah, I get distracted and, and I said, I don't know, but
- 31:16look, I'll help you, you know, you know, let's go, let's go for
- 31:20it. Let's study.
- 31:20And then I started studying for the advanced and of course, it's
- 31:26that much more difficult, right? It's it's intimidating.
- 31:31It takes a very, very long time. It may be maybe three to five
- 31:36years after you're sorry to interrupt.
- 31:39Igor, I want to make sure that we leave enough time to talk
- 31:42about what you're doing present day, Miss Hospitality, the
- 31:45consulting and everything. So I understand through the
- 31:47overall arc here, like you're getting more experience.
- 31:50You're, you know, getting the opportunity to level up.
- 31:53Now you're, you know, you're getting your own certifications.
- 31:56And then from here, connect the dots for us to get to how the
- 32:00opportunity at Mr. Hospitality came about.
- 32:02Oh. Yeah, sure.
- 32:03So what when I was in Naples, Fast forward, I stayed with the
- 32:08Damicos for about 8 years and I wanted to experience a a
- 32:15different side of hospitality, you know, and one of the things
- 32:18that I didn't have was a member only environments.
- 32:21So I started working at Bacolony Beach Club in Naples and after
- 32:28about 18 months there, Hurricane Ian passed in.
- 32:32So it was in 2022 and Bacolony Beach Club is as waterfront as
- 32:36it gets. So the, the property sustained
- 32:40quite a bit of damage and it was closed indefinitely.
- 32:43And because of that, I, I needed to figure out what to do.
- 32:46So I started reaching out to people, you know, everywhere
- 32:52Naples, but also San Francisco. But Naples was, you know, the
- 32:55whole city was silly shock from all this.
- 32:58And so I started reaching out to friends in San Francisco, in New
- 33:01York and Nantucket as well. And then this friend of mine had
- 33:06just moved to Miami and I was thinking, OK, look, do I, I
- 33:11either make the long journey, move across the country to
- 33:16California or I look for other places around here.
- 33:20And I called this friend to pick her brain on her experience in
- 33:23Miami, what she was doing and what was it difficult to find a
- 33:26rant and all this. And she's like, why are you
- 33:29asking me all this? Are are you looking to move?
- 33:31And, and I said, well, I kind of have to, you know, I, I, things
- 33:36are really complicated here after the hurricane and all
- 33:38this. And she said, well, look, might
- 33:40not be what you're looking for, but I'm looking for a sommelier.
- 33:44And I said, no, it is. It's perfect.
- 33:47I said, because I didn't want, you know, to be in a new city in
- 33:50a completely new environment with big responsibilities
- 33:54already. And all this for me, what I
- 33:56wanted to, for the first job to be in a new city was exactly
- 34:00that, going back to being a son on the floor.
- 34:02You know, you clock in, you come in.
- 34:05Because in some ways this was a little bit of a step back,
- 34:07right? You've been food and beverage
- 34:09director now kind of stepping back into a sommier role.
- 34:12But you're like, no, this is very comfortable for me.
- 34:14I I would prefer to move forward in this way.
- 34:16Exactly because I wanted, you know, what if it what if it
- 34:19doesn't work out? What if the move doesn't work
- 34:21out right? Or what if the adaptation in the
- 34:23city is, you know, takes a little longer?
- 34:25You don't want the massive responsibilities of a, of a
- 34:28beverage director role to be all jumbled up into this.
- 34:32And it was, so it worked out really well.
- 34:34And I started there, this was at Fisher Island Club here in
- 34:38Miami. And five months later, maybe
- 34:42four or five months later, they handed me the beverage program.
- 34:46So then I so that I took over the beverage program as a whole.
- 34:51And then I stayed there for about 18 months in total, almost
- 34:55two years. And then at the time, I was
- 34:58really curious about experiencing the real Miami or,
- 35:05you know, these the the properties that are more into
- 35:08this pulsating energy of Miami. And at the time, Mr. Hospitality
- 35:14was building the the mood boards.
- 35:18It was soon in the early stages of their new venture, or which,
- 35:22you know, in this would become Lafayette and they were looking
- 35:26for someone to put together the wine program.
- 35:30But the, the challenge was that there were six weeks until
- 35:38opening. I'm fast forwarding a little
- 35:39bit, but there were six weeks until opening and there was
- 35:41nothing done as far as wine program.
- 35:45So I got this phone call by this friend of mine who at the time
- 35:50was the director of operations there.
- 35:52And he said, listen, I, I have a challenge for you.
- 35:54And, and you know, there's a couple of guys here that I think
- 35:57that can do this. And, and please, please say yes.
- 36:01And he said we need to build the wine program for a multimillion
- 36:06dollar steakhouse and we're looking to, you know, go for
- 36:09awards right off the bat. We really want a beautiful wine
- 36:12list. And, and I said, oh, that all
- 36:15sounds great. What's the challenge?
- 36:17It's all exciting. It's like, well, the challenge
- 36:18is that there's no, nothing done yet.
- 36:22No wine has been bought. And we you have you would have
- 36:25about 5 weeks to put it together.
- 36:28How long would you normally want to start a program from scratch?
- 36:34Three to six months, OK, three to six months, I would say, but
- 36:38you. Made it happen I.
- 36:39Made it happen. Yes, I and.
- 36:40How did you do it I. Made it a rabbit.
- 36:43Out of a hat. Yeah.
- 36:44Well, thankfully, I think with the, you know, with the years of
- 36:47experience and for all the years that I spend at at the Mikos de
- 36:51Continental as well-being a high volume but also high end
- 36:57steakhouse. You know, I've had that
- 36:59experience of running that average program, which I was
- 37:02able to implement, you know, with some changes, of course, to
- 37:09completely different cities to complete completely different
- 37:11markets being Naples and Miami. But I was able to kind of
- 37:16readapt my ideas from those years and implements at at
- 37:22Lafayette and it it worked out very well.
- 37:24So after eight weeks of consulting, the the restaurant
- 37:29was open, you know, and we were running in, in training.
- 37:31I had a nine week contract with the group then organically and
- 37:37you know, the opportunity appeared to join the team as an
- 37:42employee. So then, you know, the other two
- 37:44properties also needed some love either revamping the the program
- 37:50or you know, staff training and all this, which I had already
- 37:53plans of doing. So then I became the the
- 37:57corporate wine director for the company.
- 38:00So I consulted for about 8 weeks and then I joined the team.
- 38:05So here's my question as an outsider or somebody who just,
- 38:08you know, knows wine from having consumed it but doesn't
- 38:12understand sort of the nuances of your role.
- 38:16What is so challenging, what is so difficult about setting up a
- 38:19wine program? You know, I see you've got these
- 38:21three restaurants. Why not just serve the same wine
- 38:25to each location? The main reason or, or one of
- 38:34the main reasons would be the, the demand, right?
- 38:40The demographics and the, the placing time that the, that any
- 38:45given city is at the moment. This is something that could be
- 38:50very challenging where, you know, I, I can't, for instance,
- 38:55mirror what I have done in San Francisco to Miami, right?
- 39:02Because the demand, the demographics that you know, the,
- 39:05the, the, the stage in that the city is as far as hospitality or
- 39:12dining is completely different. And so it's an ever involving
- 39:16thing and it's certainly a moving target.
- 39:19So this is a challenge. The other thing is really, you
- 39:24know, understanding the what, what takes a successful beverage
- 39:32program, right? And, and what do I mean by that
- 39:35is a lot of, a lot of times when someone is building a beverage
- 39:38program, it's very easy to start thinking that you're building
- 39:45the program for yourself. You know, you're, you're like,
- 39:49oh, I like this and I like that and I like this.
- 39:51And in this region and out that. And you forget that you're,
- 39:55you're not building the, the program for yourself, right?
- 39:58You're building the program for the people that will come
- 40:00through the doors and, and, and experience that.
- 40:02And and you still, you still have many chances and many
- 40:07opportunities of showing your personality or showing what you
- 40:10love in your preference in. In being the wine list or
- 40:14cocktail selection or styles of service and all this.
- 40:18But ultimately you are, you know, you are reading what the
- 40:24guests are looking for. So this is another challenge,
- 40:29right? And this changes from 1 concept
- 40:32to another, or from one city to another, or even for from one
- 40:38wine region to another in the same wine list, right?
- 40:41So obviously, we've been talking a lot about wine.
- 40:44That's where your big passion is.
- 40:47But as beverage director, you know, you're also responsible
- 40:50for other drink options. How do you approach, like,
- 40:54what's your thought process in choosing those?
- 40:57Yeah. You know, yeah, beverage
- 41:01beverage as a whole, you know, it's you cannot have, you cannot
- 41:08have a fantastic and you see it happen, right?
- 41:11It's it's not going to necessarily think a business,
- 41:14but you cannot have an amazing wine list and a very weak
- 41:20cocktail list, right? Or you cannot have a really
- 41:25great tea selection and not have a good coffee machine.
- 41:30So understanding that is very important.
- 41:35And then also, you know, learning that you can put your
- 41:41ego aside and use your team members or bringing in people
- 41:48that, you know, have either the know how or have the, the
- 41:53experience to develop a section of the beverage program that
- 41:58maybe you might not be, you know, as well versed or as
- 42:02creative at. For instance, I cannot mix great
- 42:06drinks, right? I don't, I, I can mix drinks and
- 42:09I can probably figure it out if I'm, if I'm, if I get thrown
- 42:12behind the bar, but I, I cannot create cocktails.
- 42:16I cannot create something exciting.
- 42:19So, you know, it's I, I, I have the humility, let's say, to, to
- 42:26understand that. Do I have, do I have a good bar
- 42:30manager here? Do I have a mixologist?
- 42:32Do I have a strong team that I can give directions, I can show,
- 42:38I can share my vision and have it developed, you know, as a
- 42:44team. And this is also a great
- 42:47opportunity to empower team members to allow them to
- 42:52exercise their creativity. So, so it's a win win for
- 42:55everyone. Talk to me about how you view
- 42:59the state of the hospitality industry today.
- 43:04Challenging, you know, there's a, you know, there are, there
- 43:08are different ways to look at it.
- 43:10You know, it could be scary in a way, it could be tense in
- 43:19depending in, you know, or which cities that that we talk about,
- 43:24but definitely challenging and, you know, from a because of a, a
- 43:30combination of factors. But you know, one example that
- 43:32we can use is the high cost of everything, right?
- 43:38And the prices that especially in a city like Miami, you see,
- 43:42right? And there's a, you know, let's
- 43:48use Miami as an example. 2020 or after COVID, Miami was going
- 43:54through this era that the sky was the limit, right?
- 43:58And we still see that today. The city is growing like crazy.
- 44:02But there was this these number of years that that the city
- 44:08exploded. And then you start seeing
- 44:14situations where the top restaurants in the city were the
- 44:19most expensive ones or every top restaurant in the city was also
- 44:25expensive restaurants, Right. And I know to some people this
- 44:28might seem obvious. Oh, yeah.
- 44:29Of course, the best restaurants in the city will be the most
- 44:32expensive ones, But that that's not true, right?
- 44:34You can have legendary restaurants in, you know, in, in
- 44:39any given city, or you can have really famous and really popular
- 44:42restaurants that are not necessarily high end or, or, you
- 44:46know, celebration places. But then because of this
- 44:50situation happened in Miami, when all of a sudden every place
- 44:55you go to is is expensive, right?
- 44:57And then when we look at the beverage being such an important
- 45:04revenue stream for the restaurant, it's a fine line
- 45:07where you look at it and you're like, OK, the, the, the, our
- 45:13wine selection or our beverage program is making really good
- 45:16money. You know, we have a really good
- 45:18COGS or cost of goods sold, meaning, you know, I, I paid
- 45:22$20.00 for this and I'm selling for 100 and people are buying
- 45:26and etcetera. There's a very fine line from
- 45:29this to people coming in and saying, wait a second, you know,
- 45:35I, there's this glass of wine that, you know, I don't know
- 45:39what it is. I'm not a wine, a wine expert or
- 45:43anything. I just want a glass of wine with
- 45:45dinner and it's $27.00, right? Then this person will be like,
- 45:50you know what, I'm just going to have a vodka soda for 18.
- 45:54He's going to give me the same buzz, you know, it's going to be
- 45:57my drink of the night anyways. And then it come and then and
- 46:02that develops into a situation where people's like, oh, people
- 46:05are not drinking anymore wine or people, you know, people are,
- 46:08people are already drinking less and less and people would drink
- 46:10even even less if you go to any restaurant and you're like, man,
- 46:16I, I ordered a beer. And then after tax and tip, this
- 46:19beer's $14.00, right? For a Corona, let's say.
- 46:24And this is something that is very common here now.
- 46:29So it is challenging because not only we have inflation all
- 46:35across, right, not only with, you know, dying out, but also at
- 46:40the groceries and everywhere, right, We see this inflation and
- 46:45then operating costs are extremely high, as as we all
- 46:49know. And then in addition to that,
- 46:53there is the pressure of of course turning a profit, making
- 46:57sure your your beverage program is being successful in terms of
- 47:02profitability, but then at the same time figuring out how to
- 47:09provide a form of value to the consumer.
- 47:12And I feel like these years, maybe last year or 2024-2025, in
- 47:19these first couple of months of 26, this has been the most
- 47:22challenging thing in the beverage program along with
- 47:26people drinking less and less, which you know, it's maybe the
- 47:30most talked about subject in the beverage world right now, how
- 47:35the current generation is ranking 30% less and all this.
- 47:39Talk to me about the resilience of the hospitality workforce.
- 47:43Yeah. You know, it's as, you know,
- 47:48it's an industry that almost almost always someone joins
- 47:57either because of plain necessity, right, or just like,
- 48:03hey, look, I need some quick cash.
- 48:05You know, I'm going to, I'm going to go and you know, I'm
- 48:08going to work in a restaurant for a few months.
- 48:09So because, you know, I need that money or I, you know, I
- 48:14did, I don't have experience or to have a diploma or just for
- 48:19whatever reasons that necessity could come or because it is a
- 48:23labor of love, right? It's like I, I'm going to go
- 48:26because I've always loved food and wine and I want to, you
- 48:29know, I could, this is what makes me happy, you know, and,
- 48:35and that that creates a very, you know, not that creates a
- 48:42very challenging industry, but naturally it becomes a volatile
- 48:51industry. Let's see.
- 48:52And then on top of it, there is, you know, there, there's so much
- 48:56the, the variables of a restaurant.
- 49:02When you compare that to other industries, there's just so
- 49:05much, right? You can have a great restaurant,
- 49:08but if the location is not ideal, the restaurant will
- 49:12suffer. You can have a perfect location,
- 49:14but if you don't have a great restaurant, the restaurant will
- 49:18suffer. If you have everything perfectly
- 49:22but then a hurricane comes by, then the restaurant will suffer
- 49:27or rain or you know, or if you don't have the.
- 49:30Right team in place or? If you don't have, you know, or,
- 49:33and then in addition to that, we, you know, you have the hours
- 49:40that are, you know, crazy in, in some places.
- 49:44And then you have the, the, you know, it's how you're walking
- 49:49and you're standing and you know, the level of stress.
- 49:52And it is just, it's a continuous barrage of things.
- 49:57And then, you know, on top of it, then, you know, we have
- 50:01things that can come up like COVID, right?
- 50:04This, I remember when it happened at first we, we got,
- 50:10you know, when we got the notice that we were all going to be
- 50:13furloughed in like 3 days when COVID happened, you're like,
- 50:19what, you know, what do I do, right?
- 50:21And I understand if you have to switch from one restaurant to
- 50:27another, but now there, there is no restaurant, right?
- 50:31What are you, what are you going to do?
- 50:32And then it was so of course it was, it was challenging, it was
- 50:37difficult for all all of us, but it was so inspiring to see also
- 50:41how quickly so many people figured out in our industry
- 50:45like, Hey, I'll use myself as an example, right?
- 50:49I said, look, I'm, you know, I run beverage programs.
- 50:52I know a lot of people from dining constantly at a
- 50:55restaurant that, you know, people have texted me for, for
- 50:59questions, either when they're shopping at, at a wine store or
- 51:04if they're entertaining and they're opening this special
- 51:06bottle of wine. And I said maybe I can do
- 51:10something with this experience outside of restaurants.
- 51:12And that's when I set up wise Seller and you know the idea,
- 51:18Make sure. Everybody heard it correctly.
- 51:19Wise seller. Wise seller?
- 51:22Yeah, and the seller? Is with AC, yeah.
- 51:24It's like a wine seller, OK? So out of the stress and the
- 51:28turmoil of COVID came, you know, you came up with this new
- 51:32opportunity. Yeah.
- 51:33You know, and now my idea was I, you know, I, there's no
- 51:38restaurant, right? Every restaurant is closed.
- 51:40So what do I do? And then I had this idea of
- 51:43using my experience to provide consulting, seller management,
- 51:53you know, private client services and all this.
- 51:55And then luckily for me at the time, because restaurants were
- 51:59closed, a lot of, a lot of people were either entertaining
- 52:02at home or they were looking to get creative with their, with
- 52:07their wine selection, right? Hey, listen, I have all this
- 52:10wine at home. I can, I cannot dine out.
- 52:14I have a private chef. I'm going to turn my restaurant
- 52:18into, you know, my, my home into my little restaurant.
- 52:21Let's see, I'm going to invite 10 guests and, and of course,
- 52:24I'll eventually opportunities started appearing where, you
- 52:30know, I would go to people's homes and, and essentially
- 52:34provide a sommelier service throughout the dinner.
- 52:38And this is one example of that resilience, right?
- 52:42And there, and there are so many, right?
- 52:44This, this friend of mine, she is a, an extremely successful
- 52:48private chef today. And it all started because of
- 52:50COVID. She, she was not furloughed and
- 52:53once the restaurant reopened, she would come back.
- 52:55She, she lost her job. The, the restaurant decided not,
- 52:58you know, the, the, the owners decided to not reopen the
- 53:01restaurant and now she owns an incredibly successful catering
- 53:06business. So, you know, there's, these
- 53:11are, are good examples of of the resilience from the from the
- 53:16world workforce of the food and beverage world.
- 53:20So I want to hear more about the state of wise seller today.
- 53:25Are you still providing services?
- 53:27What does it look like in present day 2026?
- 53:31Yeah. So today as the business
- 53:33evolved, we provide services both for commercial on the
- 53:40commercial side and private side.
- 53:42So I provide beverage management or beverage consulting to
- 53:50restaurants being either shorter.
- 53:53Hey, you know, we've noticed for the last three months, you know,
- 53:57our profits are really low. We don't know what to, you know,
- 53:59we don't have a beverage manager.
- 54:01Our GM runs the program. Can you come take a look at it
- 54:04or long term, such as how my experience with Mr. Hospitality
- 54:10started. I was, I was contracted to build
- 54:14the wine list under wise seller. So I was consulting, you know,
- 54:18for, for the company because they didn't have someone to put
- 54:21the, the wine list together. And then on the private side,
- 54:26besides, of course, private dinners and, and, and so maybe
- 54:33yes, services. We also do a lot of salary
- 54:37management and seller valuation. I can assist with connecting
- 54:46different, connecting collectors with each other.
- 54:49A lot of times they, you know, they, they want to create a
- 54:54small group of people that they can go out and dine together.
- 54:58And so I, I work as a, as the glue between between them and so
- 55:03we essentially anything around wine that one might need, we
- 55:10provide. Except I don't make, except I
- 55:12don't make, I don't make wine. You don't make the wine, that's
- 55:15the only thing you can't do, but you can choose the great ones
- 55:18for them. And so you have the the wise
- 55:22seller as its own stand alone business and you're a full time
- 55:26employee of Mr. Hospitality today.
- 55:28Is that yes I do. Both, yeah.
- 55:31And so, yeah, you've got time for both, obviously.
- 55:33I mean, you get to do your your life's passion every day.
- 55:37What is the future Mr. Hospitality look like?
- 55:40Are there more locations coming and any plans for growth there?
- 55:44So right now we're staying with the three locations and
- 55:49essentially just developing. You know, Lafayette is still
- 55:52fairly new. It's on its second year and
- 55:56Marion, which is our longest standing properties, just over
- 56:0010 years, recently went through a major renovation.
- 56:04So the idea is to focus on the, on these three properties now
- 56:08and maintain and develop the all my department, you know, to
- 56:16develop these programs and, and maintain, you know, what we're
- 56:19doing with tweaks here and there and adjusting to, you know,
- 56:24whatever we feel like the, the industry demands.
- 56:30But we're keeping these three properties that I know of, at
- 56:33least right now, yeah. You've got your hands full with
- 56:35a recent renovation and one of the concepts still being pretty
- 56:39new. You know, you talk about the
- 56:40stressors of working in the hospitality industry.
- 56:44What do you do to make sure that you and your team are having
- 56:47fun? Taste wine.
- 56:52That is one of them for sure. You know, some, this is
- 56:57interesting actually, it, it, it, you know, I say this as a,
- 57:00as a, as a joke, but if you think about it, you know, in, in
- 57:05this industry, people that do what I do, we get maybe a little
- 57:10bit sensitized about a how intimidating wine can be to
- 57:15some, but also how new and, and exciting it could be, right?
- 57:20We get so used to you're tasting wine all the time and people
- 57:24will invite you to dinners and you go to the station's at the
- 57:27wine makers there, the owners and 200 different wines and all
- 57:31this. But to a lot of people, even in
- 57:34the restaurant that you might be working and to a lot of people,
- 57:38you know, they they never get to try anything.
- 57:39They never get to, you know, they see these bottles floating
- 57:44around the restaurant and going in and out.
- 57:46And maybe the sommelier is excited about this bottle that
- 57:49he or she sold for this specific table in, in, in, you know, a
- 57:53lot of a lot of team members, they just see these things, but
- 57:56they don't experience it. So I love giving them the
- 58:01opportunity to to try the wine, you know, to, you know, to to
- 58:05understand why maybe we got excited about this one producer,
- 58:10this one bottle. And so I love giving the whole
- 58:15team the opportunity to try special wines and, and you know,
- 58:19sharing a little bit of the passion.
- 58:22For people who want to break into a similar role, wine
- 58:26director, sommelier, folks that are listening now, what advice
- 58:29do you have for them? If you, if you are curious about
- 58:37it or if you love wine, to not be intimidated by the challenges
- 58:42that appear at the beginning, especially in the, in the wine
- 58:50industry, it's very common to see the, you know, the moment
- 58:54someone thinks they know enough, or maybe this person has some
- 59:00level of recognition and some, this person have a number of
- 59:03years of experience. Sometimes you see people getting
- 59:07maybe a little, you know, too confident or too full of
- 59:11themselves and they're like, oh, you know, this, they all this
- 59:15person, you know, just said this about this region and it doesn't
- 59:17make any sense or this this person doesn't know what they're
- 59:21they're talking about. And when you just start into
- 59:25whine, it's very, you know, it's very common to either maybe feel
- 59:29like you don't belong or maybe you feel belittled by some other
- 59:34people and you know it. But of course, whoever does that
- 59:38and you know, it's, it's, they go in my black book, whoever
- 59:42treats, whoever treats newcomers like that, it's really bad.
- 59:46So, but, but it does happen, right?
- 59:48So I what I would say to people is if, if it feels intimidating,
- 59:55if it feels challenging, and if it feels like a complete crazy
- 1:00:00foreign world, whoever is maybe a master sommelier today or an
- 1:00:07advanced sommelier. Or a wine celebrity, they were
- 1:00:10there to at some point, right? No one, no one was born knowing
- 1:00:17about wine. It doesn't matter if if it's
- 1:00:19Genesis Robinson or any of the, you know, a master sommelier or
- 1:00:25master of wine, you know, everyone started from zero,
- 1:00:27right? Everyone at some point had to
- 1:00:30know what is Chardonnay, right? So that's what I tell people.
- 1:00:33It's just be humble, let you know and, and, and ask
- 1:00:39questions. There's not a bad question that
- 1:00:41you can ask and any opportunity that appears to try the wine.
- 1:00:50It's it's, it's, it's important, right?
- 1:00:52Because a lot of times we, you know, if you, if you can read
- 1:01:00about a lot of wines and regions and, and you can hear someone
- 1:01:05say, Oh, this, this is what is great.
- 1:01:08And this is what is not so great, being a region, being a
- 1:01:11great, being a producer. But ultimately wine is very
- 1:01:14personal, right? You, you, you, you, you might
- 1:01:18like something that maybe most people think it's not very good
- 1:01:22or the other way around, or you, or there's something that maybe
- 1:01:24everyone loves and you might not be really fond of.
- 1:01:27And you're really going to find out all this by tasting the
- 1:01:31wine. So when you have the
- 1:01:32opportunity, try. You know, we've already talked
- 1:01:36about some of the big challenges you've overcome, COVID, you
- 1:01:39know, coming to the States and your job not being here.
- 1:01:42I wonder if there's anything else that you want to give voice
- 1:01:45to? Big challenge that you've
- 1:01:46overcome in your life. What is it?
- 1:01:52What is what is a a big challenge?
- 1:01:57I think you know why. The, the, the toughest thing for
- 1:02:03me is as on a, on a personal side is being fired from my
- 1:02:09family, right? You, you, you know, we, we, even
- 1:02:14though moving to a different country was a decision of mine,
- 1:02:19you know, there is this big, big, big, big compromise, which
- 1:02:24is to be far from your family. So, and this is a constant,
- 1:02:30right? We, we always, you know, we, you
- 1:02:34know, you always think of did I move for a better life?
- 1:02:38Did I move because I wanted to, you know, experience something
- 1:02:44different in something new. And then, you know, eventually
- 1:02:48as we get older and time passes, maybe we get wiser than not that
- 1:02:53you start questioning your decisions, but you start
- 1:02:56realizing how much you how much you had to, you know, yeah, part
- 1:03:06ways with right and, and being fired, being fired from all your
- 1:03:13relatives, right. I'm here.
- 1:03:14I I don't have not even a cousin or, you know, every everyone is
- 1:03:19back in Brazil. So this is a, you know, a big
- 1:03:23challenge and you know, the one of the, one of the things that
- 1:03:28happened, and I think 1 can only experience this by going through
- 1:03:35this life decision is how much we end up connecting either with
- 1:03:42friends or, you know, with partners.
- 1:03:45You know how quickly your friends become your family,
- 1:03:49right? And eventually you, you realize
- 1:03:53how much you have to count on each other because you're
- 1:03:57detached from your family. So, so this is a challenge.
- 1:04:01And it's something that, you know, I, I have told myself to
- 1:04:05not take, you know, not, not forget it, right?
- 1:04:10And not to think, oh, you know, my, my, my mom and my dad will
- 1:04:15be there forever. And, and you know, it's, it's
- 1:04:19all good. And so this is so this is a, a
- 1:04:22challenge for me to try to balance out the, the, the
- 1:04:28decision of living so far from, from my family and understanding
- 1:04:33and understanding why and, but also, you know, being able to,
- 1:04:39to cope with it, cope with the distance.
- 1:04:41How do you cope with the distance?
- 1:04:43Is it like FaceTime calls, Zoom calls?
- 1:04:46Maybe a trip there once every year or two.
- 1:04:49Yeah, you know, we try to I try to visit as much as possible and
- 1:04:56that's the the kind of Part 2 all we're talking about.
- 1:05:01You know, it's so easy to get sucked into our routines and
- 1:05:07work and you know, you're, you're just you.
- 1:05:13We know it. We get we get so busy, right?
- 1:05:16We get so busy with life and, and, and we're like, Oh, I'm too
- 1:05:19busy to do this or I'm too busy to plan a visit.
- 1:05:21And, and sometimes, you know, when a family member calls you,
- 1:05:26you don't pick up, right? You're like, Oh, no, I, I'm
- 1:05:30running, I'm busy, I'm running around and all this.
- 1:05:32And you know, this is, this is something that I have thought
- 1:05:35myself and I, you know, and I'm not perfect, right?
- 1:05:38And we all, I'm not saying that I pick, I pick up their phone
- 1:05:43every time my mom calls, but this is something that I've been
- 1:05:46trying to do better. And, you know, spending, you
- 1:05:52know, having more meaningful conversations, right?
- 1:05:56Maybe maybe expressing a little bit more often to them that, you
- 1:06:05know, you're, even though you, you live so far away and maybe
- 1:06:10you're not seeing them every weekend like your, your siblings
- 1:06:15do, that you still care for them very much.
- 1:06:18And of course, you, you, you, you, you, you are thinking about
- 1:06:23that most of the time. So and then of course, you know,
- 1:06:25the usual, then the usual phone calls and conversations and all
- 1:06:28this. But I have certainly gotten
- 1:06:31better into having more meaningful conversation,
- 1:06:34especially with my parents. It's so important that human
- 1:06:37connection. Evor, I just have one more
- 1:06:40question for you today. But before I ask it, I want to
- 1:06:42do 3 quick things for the audience.
- 1:06:44First of all, anybody that wants to get in touch in Igor, know
- 1:06:48that Igor's name is spelled with a silent H at the beginning
- 1:06:51HIGOR, so his e-mail address is igorwithanh@wiseseller.com.
- 1:06:58And remember, seller is spelled with
- 1:07:00aclikewinecellarsoigor@wisellar.com and we'll have that in the show
- 1:07:04notes for folks. Also, if you're enjoying the
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- 1:07:33So last question for you, Igor, what is your superpower?
- 1:07:41Being positive and smiling at almost all times, no matter no
- 1:07:48matter how difficult or challenging the situation might
- 1:07:51be. And where does that come from?
- 1:07:54Is that something you've had to develop over time, or did you
- 1:07:57kind of pop pop out of the womb as a happy little kid?
- 1:08:02But that, that's a good question.
- 1:08:03I don't know if it's a trade off my personality or maybe maybe it
- 1:08:07was, but I certainly developed it a little bit more throughout
- 1:08:10the years. You know, it's, it's a lot
- 1:08:13easier. It's a lot easier to complain or
- 1:08:17be negative than to take a deep breath and and stay positive
- 1:08:23about something and looking at the solution or the positive
- 1:08:29outcome of something. It's much harder.
- 1:08:32It's much harder to to do that than to be negative and
- 1:08:38complain. Unfortunately.
- 1:08:40I wish it was the other way around.
- 1:08:42Did you have a helpful teacher with this mindset or some books
- 1:08:47or courses or podcasts that have kind of helped steer you in this
- 1:08:50direction? You know, I think that even
- 1:08:56though she's not here on a daily basis, my mother, you know, my
- 1:09:02mother went through many challenges her entire life and
- 1:09:09every time I talk to her, every time I, I, I see her, you know,
- 1:09:14and it doesn't matter how difficult or how how hard the
- 1:09:18situation might be. And she always ends with yes,
- 1:09:22but it would all work out. God bless.
- 1:09:26It would all work out. So I think it comes from her
- 1:09:29there. You go all right.
- 1:09:32Well, Igor Valley from both Mr. Hospitality and Why Seller, I
- 1:09:36want to be the first to thank you for sharing both your time
- 1:09:39and your story with us today. I really appreciate you being
- 1:09:41here. Thank you very much, it was a
- 1:09:44pleasure. Folks, that's a wrap on another
- 1:09:47episode of the Inspired Stories podcast.
- 1:09:49Thanks for learning with us. And if one thing stood out, put
- 1:09:53that into action today.