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Thou Art No Russell · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who talks.
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  Speaker 3: What's up y'all? It's your girl, a j Holiday? What's
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  Speaker 3: up Tambama?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all. I gotta catch my breath. I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I missed y'all. Thank y'all for tuning back in this
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  Speaker 2: week with us. How is your weekend? Aj Shah?
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  Speaker 3: You know we was in Atlanta this weekend. We meaning
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  Speaker 3: everybody but your ass?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all, I make it.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody d m me was like, uh I heard Tambama
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  Speaker 3: ain't coming? Or what does this person say if I
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  Speaker 3: had some extra I just saw a message message today.
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  Speaker 4: Did you put out there that you wasn't gonna be there?
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  Speaker 2: No? I did, But one of the listeners asked me,
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  Speaker 2: was I going? Was I there?
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  Speaker 3: That's probably who it was. Then, Yeah, I didn't see
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  Speaker 3: the message until today. I'm sorry. Shit, Look, I don't
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  Speaker 3: got no pull. I tried, though, you know, I would
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  Speaker 3: have tried to get here a VIP band job, but
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  Speaker 3: it was a time.
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  Speaker 4: You know, it's such a hustle and bustle to do
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  Speaker 4: those things.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Events like that. It's just
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  Speaker 3: it's fun while it's happening, but then your body just
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  Speaker 3: really pays for that shit.
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  Speaker 4: So I understand the Renig right.
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  Speaker 2: Listen. I was literally so I ordered some stuff to
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  Speaker 2: come and didn't come in time. So I was literally
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  Speaker 2: walking through the mall trying to find something that's supposed
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  Speaker 2: to rain. So I'm trying to find something that was
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  Speaker 2: rainworthy to wear, and I literally stopped in my tracks
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  Speaker 2: like Forrest Girl when he stopped running and he just stopped.
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  Speaker 2: That's what happened. I stopped, and I just went home,
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  Speaker 2: and I did not leave my house for three days.
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  Speaker 3: And I think people should probably try to get into
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  Speaker 3: routine and not forcing themselves. Like if you just feel
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  Speaker 3: like your body does not want to do something, don't
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  Speaker 3: ship you. I don't be having fomo now. Saturday night, everybody,
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  Speaker 3: it's one thirty at night, we finishing up dinner, and
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  Speaker 3: they talking about going to the strip club because you know,
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  Speaker 3: that's like the routine to do the routine people night,
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, man, y'all, please go home because I'm
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  Speaker 3: not going to the strip club and I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to have fomo everybody to go to go home. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: they didn't. Nobody else went out, so I was happy
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  Speaker 3: about that. I have to regret going to fucking sleep.
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  Speaker 3: But girl, it was the time. Ky Michelle was a
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  Speaker 3: guest appearance. You know. Of course young Man was there. Damn,
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  Speaker 3: what's the comedian.
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  Speaker 4: The segment?
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  Speaker 3: I mean the zeta. Yeah, she's a xeta, the old comedian. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: Cheryl Underwood was there, and it's this this trans guy
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  Speaker 3: off Instagram. I forgot his name. He was there as
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  Speaker 3: a guest with Mona. I really really wish that Mona.
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  Speaker 3: Mona is very very funny. I'm talking about don't call
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  Speaker 3: me white girl. I just wish she would have done
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  Speaker 3: like a funnier It was more like interview style. I
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  Speaker 3: guess because we're in Atlanta, Like you feel like you
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  Speaker 3: got a catered girl. Trump is president. That's my excuse
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  Speaker 3: for all ignorant shit. Why are you like?
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  Speaker 2: Why was it so? It wasn't outside of what we're
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  Speaker 2: used to for her?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted something different because I really like I
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  Speaker 3: went to see her, yeah, honestly, but it was cool.
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  Speaker 3: It was a good time. You know, you see all
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  Speaker 3: all the all your family members at the family reunion.
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  Speaker 2: I had. I missed this year's family reunion. I really
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  Speaker 2: On Saturday, I was like sad in here saying like
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  Speaker 2: I should have win.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody was like, what's tam damn Tam? Yeah, I said,
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  Speaker 3: man she me at the last minute.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I sure did. At the very final hour. I'm
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  Speaker 2: talking about Friday night. I call her like, hey.
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  Speaker 3: Wait till I'm already in town, Like I don't think
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  Speaker 3: I'm coming. I ain't coming again.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't coming again.
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  Speaker 3: What did you do for the weekend?
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  Speaker 2: I slept. I slept, and I slept and slept some more.
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  Speaker 2: I really didn't do shit else. I think I went
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  Speaker 2: and worked out one time, like that was it. I
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  Speaker 2: wore the same T shirt three days straight. I washed.
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  Speaker 2: I washed, okay, But I don't even know if I
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  Speaker 2: watched every day. Honestly, I just did not. I just
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  Speaker 2: needed tell the rest. My body was like, girl, if
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  Speaker 2: you don't lay down, I'm gonna lay you down. So
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  Speaker 2: that's all I did. But I missed, y'all. I really
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  Speaker 2: missed y'all. And I promised I will prioritize rest before
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  Speaker 2: next year's event so I don't miss it, because would
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  Speaker 2: be a whole year so people won't see me for
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  Speaker 2: two years, you know, unless we do a live show
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  Speaker 2: and people come out.
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  Speaker 3: I just hope they don't do it in Atlanta again.
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  Speaker 3: I love Atlanta, No excuse me. I like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: the venue in Atlanta, but I would like to see
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  Speaker 3: because I do not like Atlanta, and I feel like
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  Speaker 3: that is part of the reason why I feel exhausted.
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  Speaker 3: I always say, like Atlanta really be draining my energy,
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  Speaker 3: Like every day it's like a struggle even if I
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  Speaker 3: get enough sleep, you know what I'm saying. And I
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  Speaker 3: don't feel like I did a whole a bunch of shit,
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  Speaker 3: Like I know, Friday, me and my best friend went
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  Speaker 3: and we at two restaurants within three hours, like whole meals.
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  Speaker 3: Like that was fun.
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  Speaker 2: That sounds like a good time to me. Well, I'm
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  Speaker 2: glad you have to yeah, and I'm glad you had
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  Speaker 2: a good time.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and your presence was missed. Black Effect Podcast Festival
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  Speaker 3: this year. Next year, we will do it in Charlotte.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was about to say. They should
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  Speaker 2: do it in Charlotte. Charlotte would be the perfect place.
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  Speaker 3: Houston, I mean, like another black city where we know
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  Speaker 3: people will fly in unreaying for an event.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Houston, sound like a vibe with me too, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: but no more Atlanta. I even go to New York,
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  Speaker 2: but it's no more Atlanta. No no shadey y'all. We
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  Speaker 2: love y'all too, but we just don't want to come
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  Speaker 2: there every year for the festival. Let's get in the sand.
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  Speaker 3: We got going on. I can across this. You know,
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  Speaker 3: I really don't know who this comedian is, but the
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  Speaker 3: thing that his that his ex wife said kind of
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  Speaker 3: threw me off that he basically actually what he said.
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  Speaker 3: So this is it, says Houston influencer known as Nicki Influence,
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  Speaker 3: is calling out her ex husband comedian uncle Stanley Joe
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  Speaker 3: Stanley Starks, do you know what that is? After she
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  Speaker 3: posted videos from their past relationships showing violent incidents the
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  Speaker 3: twour together for twenty years. Nearly twenty years, she's been
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  Speaker 3: speaking out about what she says happened behind closed doors
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  Speaker 3: and footage she shares. Nikki says that Joe kicked her
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  Speaker 3: and punched her in a face during an altercation. She
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  Speaker 3: also say police recalled to the scene at the time.
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  Speaker 3: The videos quickly started circulating online, with many reacting strongly
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  Speaker 3: to what was shown. After facing backlash, Uncle Stanley Joe
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  Speaker 3: sarcastically responded with the video apology. He acknowledged his behavior
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  Speaker 3: seen in the clips, but said that that reflects on
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  Speaker 3: who he was about three years ago, insisting that he
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  Speaker 3: has since changed. He also claimed Nikki maybe posting the
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  Speaker 3: footage because she wants the version of him he is today,
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  Speaker 3: adding that he doesn't feel he can be his positive
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  Speaker 3: self when it comes to her. And that's interesting, and
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  Speaker 3: that shit pissed me off a little bit, right, We
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  Speaker 3: do like I do feel like like so in one
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  Speaker 3: of my last relationships, I do feel like we just
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  Speaker 3: didn't bring out the best in each other.
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  Speaker 2: And that's possible.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So that that person he might have been busting
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  Speaker 3: her up and probably would never put his hands on
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  Speaker 3: somebody else. I don't know what the dynamic would have
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  Speaker 3: been or why you felt you need to put your
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  Speaker 3: hands on a woman who is you know, just physically less,
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  Speaker 3: you know, not as strong as a man like you. See, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: right to say that she just you know, she just
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  Speaker 3: wants the man he is today. I'm pretty sure she
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  Speaker 3: fucking would prefer that, especially if she was with you
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  Speaker 3: for twenty years.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't want to leave, right, and.
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  Speaker 3: We really usually only need one reason to stay.
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  Speaker 2: But who would they ass be over and over again?
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  Speaker 2: Like that video was heartbreaking watching her get whooped up
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  Speaker 2: around that island when he was whooping her ass all
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  Speaker 2: up and down there island it was on that was
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  Speaker 2: on a trip.
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  Speaker 3: You said, oh, up and die the island like the kids.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, they was on a trip in that video,
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  Speaker 3: Like why are not not on vacation?
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  Speaker 4: Nigga?
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  Speaker 3: Like what.
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  Speaker 2: Crazy around that island? It's very sad. But have you
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  Speaker 2: ever met someone who's always with someone that's violent?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: I know a few girls women who I just feel
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  Speaker 3: like their whole life they have been in domestic violent
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  Speaker 3: situations And it's the weirdest.
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  Speaker 2: How does that end up happening? Though? Like I knew
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  Speaker 2: this girl. She was always posting a different nigga that
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  Speaker 2: had hit her that she was dating. It's like, how
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  Speaker 2: do you keep on ending up with men? It's got
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  Speaker 2: to be like something psychological happening there, right, Like you
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  Speaker 2: attract abusers?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Is that a thing?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like bitches who get beating niggas that beat bitches,
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  Speaker 3: they just somehow find each other and they just do
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  Speaker 3: the things.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why I want to. I want to
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  Speaker 2: laugh at that, but it's not funny, Like it's just.
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  Speaker 3: You know, because you know, they're not going to go
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  Speaker 3: to somebody who they deem like has like a strong personality,
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  Speaker 3: who's knocked like an abuser. Right. They usually pick women
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  Speaker 3: who are already weak in some way, right, maybe like
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  Speaker 3: you know mentally, you know, mentally weak or whatever. But
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  Speaker 3: I can't I can't imagine that these women are just
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  Speaker 3: provoking these men to beat the ass, right, dude, you
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  Speaker 3: in a relationship with how are you with these fragile,
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  Speaker 3: azed men that can't take words? Or women do hit
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  Speaker 3: men a lot, right, So maybe it's a situation where
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  Speaker 3: she can't keep her hand off with people. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: talking about this person in particular, but I'm talking about
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  Speaker 3: like just women, women have gotten beat up, and I
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  Speaker 3: know he just wins.
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  Speaker 2: I definitely used to hit my niggas. I don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't do that no more. But I used to
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  Speaker 2: get mad and strike.
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  Speaker 3: Now notin't like you know how you you know how
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  Speaker 3: you like swing, but you don't like, oh, I've got
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  Speaker 3: that type of ship before.
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  Speaker 2: I don't hit a nigga with up me.
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  Speaker 3: Push it, push it, push it like a coke killer,
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  Speaker 3: say man, because.
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  Speaker 2: Well that that's not I'm sorry, y'all. That sounds so terrible,
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  Speaker 2: but it was because I just so agree. But I'm
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  Speaker 2: a better person.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes no words don't work. Girl. You gotta give a
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  Speaker 3: nigga on the job training. It's just OJT. It's like
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  Speaker 3: they don't understand until you hit them, and it's this
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  Speaker 3: is bad, right, But I like the only times I
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  Speaker 3: have hit a guy. I remember the first time I
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  Speaker 3: hit a dude is because I want I'm in a
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  Speaker 3: whole like triangle between you, you, you and your baby mama.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Now, I'm over here. I
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  Speaker 3: don't got no kids, I don't have that family dynamic
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  Speaker 3: bullshit at my house. I'm a single woman as far
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  Speaker 3: as I'm concerned. You feel like you could pull up
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  Speaker 3: on my ship. I can't pull up at your ship.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: So I opened my door because you popping up at
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  Speaker 3: my apartment. And when I opened a door, I punched
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  Speaker 3: them in the face because we had arguing. What it
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  Speaker 3: was all already arguing, arguing, and you didn't allow me
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  Speaker 3: time to really calm down, like I hang up on you.
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  Speaker 4: The next thing I know, my doorbell ringing, like yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and I.
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  Speaker 3: Looked through the people I saw was him, and I
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  Speaker 3: opened the door and punched him in his fucking face
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  Speaker 3: because really, that's how I was feeling on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't allow me time to calm down. And I
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  Speaker 3: can't pull up at your ship where you love at
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  Speaker 3: with your baby mama and and and try to reconcile
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  Speaker 3: with you, right, yeah, you can't do that over here.
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  Speaker 3: So y'all viholate him.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, y'all, we we talked back.
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  Speaker 3: Do not fucking lie Like at some point in life,
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  Speaker 3: I was fucking hands and feet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but now now now we've seen the era of
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  Speaker 2: our ways, and we don't promote or condone any type
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  Speaker 2: of violence, zero percent male or female. All right, that's topic.
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: So Tennessee woman sues Mercedes Benz dealership after employee allegedly
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  Speaker 2: took her car without permission for his date night while
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  Speaker 2: while it was getting repair. So this woman drops off
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  Speaker 2: her car to get it repaired because she puts some
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  Speaker 2: back gas, so it's something going on with the gas tank.
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  Speaker 2: She gets a notification at like ten o'clock at night
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  Speaker 2: that her car is on the other side of town,
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  Speaker 2: and she's thinking like maybe it's just like a malfunction
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  Speaker 2: on the sensors. But then she gets another notification at
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  Speaker 2: like twelve thirty at night on Saturday night that it's
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  Speaker 2: somewhere else, and she looked up the location. It's like
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  Speaker 2: a bar. So she's like, uh uh, I ain't no
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  Speaker 2: fucking way. So she catches an uber to the restaurant
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  Speaker 2: the bar and sees her car out there, so she
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  Speaker 2: uses her spare key and she sits in the car
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  Speaker 2: and then she calls the police. The police comes and
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  Speaker 2: there's a jacket. He left his coat in the car,
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  Speaker 2: his jacket and has seen that the passport was in
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  Speaker 2: the car, so they went inside and found him and
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  Speaker 2: he said that they do this all the time at
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  Speaker 2: the dealership.
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  Speaker 3: But the kick is she had been waiting for her
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  Speaker 3: car as if it wasn't ready right. Meanwhile, this person
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  Speaker 3: is putting hell of knowledge on her ship, hanging out.
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  Speaker 2: With bitches, taking bitches on yeah I'm gonna pull up
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  Speaker 2: in the baby, and.
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  Speaker 3: She ain't have no regular bends, like like amg, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: some nice.
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  Speaker 2: Shit, some flod shit. So so he out gallivanting and
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: her shit so he gets arrested. She's like, I want
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: to press charges. She calls the dealership. He said the
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: dealership told him he could do it. They called it.
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: She caused the dealership. The dealership says the police called
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  Speaker 2: the dealership. They said, no, we did not authorize that.
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: But then they try to press her to like drop
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: the charges. But I really believe that they were allowing it.
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  Speaker 3: So I understand like fixing someone's car and then driving
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  Speaker 3: it to determine if the repair is good or not, right,
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  Speaker 3: but you taking bitches on dates, it's caring. Probably well,
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  Speaker 3: I guess she would have had other alerts if the
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  Speaker 3: car was moved, you know, more than that time. But yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like that is that is not acceptable.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's a violation.
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  Speaker 3: What if he would have what you know? And also
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: he was intoxicated.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Oh yeah, exactly, you drunk. You might have been fingering.
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  Speaker 2: Fucking bitches. I'm the only person who sucks in my car.
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  Speaker 3: Girl, Now you think what, like I just want to
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  Speaker 3: you know, you violate my car. You might try to
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  Speaker 3: fucking a small ash little amg loo can do it.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: She had like a little it was like a little tudor. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: that's that's fucking wild man. He need his uh, he
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  Speaker 3: needs his ass beat actually, and.
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  Speaker 2: They were like, oh, he's a good kid. Don't do
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  Speaker 2: this to him, don't do this to him, don't do
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  Speaker 2: this to me.
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  Speaker 4: Right, he did it to himself.
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  Speaker 2: Right. I think y'all did it to him because 'all
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  Speaker 2: was letting him do that ship forgetting that some people
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  Speaker 2: actually have notifications on their car.
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  Speaker 4: Stupid so dud.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, while we're at the Black Effect Podcast Festival, mag
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  Speaker 3: the Stallion was dropping bombs on Twitter, and y'all, Laura
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  Speaker 3: l Rossa does not play the fucking radio when it
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  Speaker 3: comes to this journalism. Okay, because she was hosting, how
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: are you hosting and simultaneously checking with your resources, checking
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  Speaker 3: your sources see what the fuck is going on with
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  Speaker 3: magde Stallion and also posting, you know, step by step
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  Speaker 3: what happened. Yeah, uh, sources close to mag THEE Stallion,
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  Speaker 3: you know how she yes, while working. I'm like, this
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  Speaker 3: girl does not.
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  Speaker 2: Play out work, Laura la Rossa. Okay, she's out there
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  Speaker 2: with her gown on. Please don't play with her right
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: doing getting the story correct?
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  Speaker 3: So Magustallion tweets cheating had me around your whole family
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  Speaker 3: playing house got cold feet, is what he told her.
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  Speaker 3: Holding you down through all your horrible mood swings and
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  Speaker 3: treating and treatment towards me during your basketball season. Now
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  Speaker 3: you don't know if you can be monogamous, bitch. I
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: need a real break after this one, by y'all. This
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: is what Megus Stallion tweeted on Saturday. And so apparently
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: Klay Thompson cheated on Maga Stallion. And I mean, based
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: on his track history, I believe he's cheated on the
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: women he's been in relationships with.
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  Speaker 4: They may not have put him.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: On matter of fact, somebody else did put him on
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: blast before, did she not? No, it was someone else
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: that put him on blast.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: I don't know though.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: It's just a men response to this. It's like they
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: just hate Mega Stallions so bad.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: It's like they want play for themselves or something that's
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: y'all just want y'all chairs. They were real man, having.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: A conversation with somebody at the podcast festival, and he
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: was saying like he didn't even understand how a nigga
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: like Clay could even pull Mega Stallion. I was like,
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I don't know how he how a Mega Stallion pulled
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: him right, just not even knowing who he is for real, right,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: just looking at the two of them, it just looked
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: to me that she was trying something different with the bag,
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: the bad boys or whatever, and maybe in her mind
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: because of his aesthetic, he was a Russell Wilson type nigga, right,
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: I think that.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Was she thought she was getting her rustle. That's what
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: we need to talk about today. Let's talk about you
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: thought you thought you was getting Russell.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: Russell was.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: We'll be right back, y'all gonna get into it, all right.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: So y'all be back, and we know like the Russell
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: Wilson is like he's like this archaetype. Right, So, for example,
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: Sierra had a baby for future. Sierra used to fuck
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: with Lobo, Wow, Jesus Christ and whoever else had a.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: Baby for future.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: I think most people will agree that future and Russell
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Wilson are polar, yes, opposites, polar opposites, right, So I
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: think even people think Sierra doesn't deserve Russell Wilson, even
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: though like she has built a whole family and probably
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: in counting she's probably.
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: Pregnant right now.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Again, they're obviously supposed to be together because they are
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: perfect meats. Right, but someone some men gave her a
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: hard time when she got got with Russell Wilson, like
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: you're expected to never do better or try to do better.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: She was the fifty, so she deserved I know that
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: was hard for real. Remember she was dating fifty and
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: he made all them ugly posted about her on Twitter.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: I don't remember that.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: This is a long time ago.
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: I don't remember that. Damn mm hmm.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: She's had her fair share. I don't want to call
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: him fuck niggas, but.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: So Klay Thompson, And I mean this is why you know,
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: I just always go for what I like because I mean,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: the nigga will disappoint you regardless, right, So now here
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: you are trying to do something different, right, I I
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: mean I can't say that she that he isn't her
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: type of based off of the guys that she was
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: dating before, I would say no, right, even aesthetically.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Because yeah, it's like the swag, ain't there the you
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: know that bad boy, that charm he don't have that?
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: Is he good looking? Yes, you think Russell Wilson is
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: good looking.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: He's like cute. I like he's like a puppy. I
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: like niggas that like puppies.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's cute, But so let's talk about what is
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: the Russell Wilson archetype anyway in our minds because we
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: don't know who the fuck that nigga is for real.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: He could be crazy as hell. She might come out
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: with a survivor Russell. You know, you never know, right,
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: But based on how they present, it's a man who's
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: like faithful, very vocal about God. I think that's important.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Last guy was dating, That's why we ended things because
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: he did not believe in God. I can't do that.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. I try it. I can't do that.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Way though, because I think sometimes like, how how did
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: he not believe in God?
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: To you?
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: What?
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: It was?
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: Your perspective?
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: He's just she's so At first I was like, if
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: he may not, it's not just organized religion, right, so
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: I can like, you know, that's okay. When I'm talking
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: about I'll say something about how good God is to me.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: And he was like, oh, here you go, you and
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: your sky daddy.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, y'all, I do believe it's a sky daddy.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I don't like that. Don't call my guy scot daddy.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: It's like a condescending almost like you're stupid to believe
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: in God kind of thing. And I just couldn't be
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: with somebody who I need someone who gonna pray with me,
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: you know. So that was the deal worker for me personally.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: All right. So then another characteristic unintentional dater. He's marriage minded.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: He's not just casually out here nick in his hand.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah then right, and she nice to everybody, financial, financially stable.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: He's a provider. He wants to provide, you know, public publicly,
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: respectful to his partner. He's not out here embarrassing you,
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: and a different nigga with you, but someone totally different
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: when he's by hisself or with his friend. He's emotionally expressive,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: you know, someone who's not afraid to be soft. I
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: like a guy who can be like hard everywhere else,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: but like soft and vulnerable with me.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're supposed to talk to women very nice. You're
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: supposed to be real nice to women. Remember last week
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: I was saying how my eggs said I was stink
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: after working hard for that nigga all day, And I'm like,
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: there's a way to say that, right, Like, baby, I
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: can't wait till we get home. I'm gonna wash your ass,
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: and you know what I'm saying, like that is a
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: very nice way to tell your partner that they still
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: we can't wait until we can take a bath, like
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: the fuck. So yeah, So those are characteristics of Russell
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: Wilson archetype.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I don't mind a nigga telling me I stink, especially
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: if I've been working. It's just the man. You what
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: you say. If you say it like you gross by me,
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: that's what pisses me off, because nigga, I'm staying helping you.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was cursing in the school. I mean it
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: was empty, but it was definitely echoing in the hallways.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: I didn't have the nigga who loved when I'm staying.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: He was like, oh yeah, they want it straight from
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: the gym.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: Anyway, I think sometimes women want those that Russell Wilson
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: type like, and we're just using him as the example,
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: right because like Tam said, we don't really know how
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: Russell is for real in a relationship. We can only
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: see what we see from the outside, and they seem happy.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: M hm.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: I'm saying I think that women want that, but sometimes
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: we are not actually ready for that, right son to
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: have a man who is uh a career driven. He's
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: prioritizing like marriage and that type of stuff. Usually it
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: is aligned right with his spirituality. So now, if you
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: are a woman that doesn't like you, you are not
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: whole yet, but you're looking for your partner to be whole, right,
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: So it's not about you choosing somebody else. It's actually
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: about you changing to attract that other thing. And Sierra,
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: like her prayer or whatever what it is, essentially that
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: is her that she manifested Russell Wilson.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: But Sierra kissed me off a little bit. I ain't
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: gonna lie see her come with that song. She came
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: out with This is for the girls who don't need
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: no man. This is for the girls that that shit.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: This was like one of the more recent songs about
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: something for the girls who don't need no man. I
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: was so mad at her, because, girl, you over there
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: with that good ass man talking about shout out to
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: the girls who don't need no man. What do you
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: know about it?
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Maybe like we don't know what's going on in their household.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: Maybe that was a shot at Russell Wilson. We will
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: never know. Like, yeah, nigga, you better tighten up. Because
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: I still don't need that nigga. Like, maybe we don't know.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's the perspective, because.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: That girl.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Never remind us nigga on some lemonade shit, some Beyonce.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: That's my favorite album.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's actually, to me, one of her best albums,
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: the best album actually, I think.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I love that album.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: So maybe maybe that's what the type of time Sierra
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: might have been on at that time. I don't know.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: But and you know, like women sometimes say men are
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: too nice, what do we mean by that? Really?
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Because everybody likes a little chase, I think even women
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: and I know I enjoy a little chase. If it's
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: too easy, sometimes i'd be like not into it, and
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: that which is toxic. I'm about to say, not at
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: this big age, but younger now. I just can't wait
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: for a nice, decent man to come along.
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: I like my nervous system to be intact.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: I don't like surprises no more. I don't like feeling anxious.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: I don't like chasing the good times, because that's really
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: what keeps you wrapped up in these bad situations.
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: Too fucking long you're waiting.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: I don't want my nervous system to like be fucked up,
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: because I think what keeps people in the bad relationships
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: is that like, let's say you have a seven days
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: in a week. You got four a good day, four
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: bad days, right, three good days, Like you're literally waiting
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: on those three good days, but most of the days
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: are terrible. Right, So it's just like this, like your
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: body is always in fight or flight, and then you're
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: always chasing.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: The high of the good times.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: That's what that's like. The toxicity that just keeps people
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: wrapped up in the thing is like, you know it
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: can be good, so you're looking for that.
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: Little small good time.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: You're get the hell up out of there, Okay, for
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: you be twenty years getting beat up, get out of
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: there waiting for him to be a better man. Because
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: this is why I always say, like, yeah, you could
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: be a better man, but it's probably not gonna be
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: for me.
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: Right, m You're gonna be a.
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: Better man to the next woman because of the hurt
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: you experienced for me leaving your ass. Right, you're gonna
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: make sure that never that you never feel that thing again.
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: So you're gonna do better in the next relationship. I'm
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: firm believing giving a bitch, a re furbished nigga.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: I don't like that. Treat that bitch the same way
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: you treated me nigga here.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: I mean, it's like I said, sometimes people just don't
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: bring out the best in each other. Like y'all weren't
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: supposed to be together. Maybe you forced the thing. So
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I think maybe Meg the Stallion probably became a little
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: bit different, right, you cooking Christmas and Thanksgiving for this man,
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: whole white family.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: I know they was enjoying that, Larie's and girl kids like, right,
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: But you know what, I bet she enjoyed that because
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: she's lost both her parents. I don't think she has siblings.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: I never see her with no siblings, So being able
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: to be like this matriarch figure in this family probably
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: felt really really good for her. So that's why it
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: makes me sad that this happened to her, you know,
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: because I wanted that to be her Russell Wilson so badly,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: you know, did you not?
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: Like didn't he buy her house and all this stuff like?
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: And that's why I think like people were just trying
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: to say like.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: She was just something to play with.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: No. I think they both had very strong feelings for
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: each other. I just think I don't think if you
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: and this is me personally my opinion, I don't think
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: peace come with athletes like one favorite Cloud, but I
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: don't think peace is one of the things that comes
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: with them, you know. So you have to get a
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: regular dude like Mega Style, ain't gonna have to get
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: like a someone who's not an entertainer, a businessman, a doctor,
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: someone who's not on the scene, and Clayney a woman
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: who's not. Also like also.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: Tali would do better with somebody like a I don't know,
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: a good, quiet, regular, degular right.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Who's gonna turn a blind eye to his bullshit because
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: they want to keep their lifestyle. When you have a
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: woman who can provide that the same lifestyle for herself,
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: you can't do that shit. Mm hmm.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: I think women do a good job at you know
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: how they always say, like men, women expect men to
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: read their minds. I don't think that's true, and that
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: that characteristic have been assigned to us since the beginning
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: of time. But women will say what they want and
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: need until they're blue in the fucking face and they
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: only stop speaking. It is men whose minds you literally
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: have to read. You never know what these niggas need
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: or want because they're not gonna say so. I think
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: sometimes you're in relationships with men, they changed their minds
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: about you. He probably was all in for the first year,
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: the first few months, and then maybe he saw some
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: shit he ain't like, and instead of leaving the situation,
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: he went outside of it to complete his happiness. That
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: is the fuck shit that comes into play, because I
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: think a couple of weeks ago, I was talking about
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: how I commented on something Duval had posted online about
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: and we.
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: Had a whole episode about it.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: How men don't leave relationships mm, how they don't break
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: up or women think just because they don't cheat right
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: that they are good, that they're a good woman. What
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: do you need from the woman? You need to explicitly
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: state to women that you are engaging with what you need. Now.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: If you're an impossible man and you cannot be satisfied,
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: you need to be by your fucking self so you
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: could fuck and do whatever you want to do with
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: whoever you want to do with it. And stop putting
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: women in these fake ass monogamous relationships when you know
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: you're not a want multiple bitches, You want multiple women
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: and you could actually have that if you get a woman,
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: as she might fuck the bitches with you. But see,
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: y'all want to put a bitch in a box.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: I have a friend, I have this homeboy in Miami,
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: and I like, I respect him something like he's disgusting.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Let me just say, he's a disgusting human being. He
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: got all the people like he showed me, like his
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: holo decks, that's what I call it, like all these
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: pictures of women, and it's like thousands, thousands of pictures.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: And he's a good looking, successful man, so he has
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: he can have his way. And he was just on
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: the phone telling with me that he feels like women
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: don't want honesty. He said, we say that we do,
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: but we don't because when men are honest with them,
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: it don't never go well, you know. And then he
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: feels like he can't even be himself with women because
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: all these women anytime they want to be in a relationships,
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: never like nobody wants to just have fun instantly. They
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: want him to be his their man.
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: And he's like, damn, those women are tripping because the
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: men are not going to settle down until they're till
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: they're absolutely ready and then you have some fools that
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: are trying to lock you in just to keep you right,
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: and they still want to they want they will go
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: out there way to get you back once you leave them,
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: just so they can see what else you can take.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: But he like, he like really sweet, and he like
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: thoughtful and terment and handsome and successful. And I'm like,
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: you can't expect these women not to look at you
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: and see you as a possible candidate to be a mate.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: But why why when he ain't shit? Why are you
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: looking at this fun boy as a possible mate? You
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: are tripping as a woman that is not somebody you
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: want to have a child.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: But they don't know what. They've seen them thousands of
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: pictures I seen them, so they don't know that.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: That's so, how is he telling women the truth? Then
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: I would think that he's showing everybody the whole decks.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: If I don't think it, I don't think he's sharing
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: that with these women. He shares that with me because
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: we are homies. But I'm sure he would take me
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: down too, you know, like, so.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: That's not your friend, that is my friend. Never now.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: But can a man be like kind, loving, charming and
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: sweet with a woman but not want to be with
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: them and just do that with several women and it
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: be okay. Is that fucked up?
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: I guess it depends on how you're if you're having
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: sex with women, it depends on how you're having sex
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: with them. You can say what you want to say,
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: but actions speak louder than words. I've been in a
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: situation like this, like I'm doing all the girlfriend boyfriend shit,
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: but this person doesn't want the title of the thing.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: And then when I switch up and start acting like him,
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: I'm going on dates. I'm finding somebody that I can,
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: you know, be in a relationship with because I already understand.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: I don't I don't hallucinate, so I already know I
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: can't get this from you. Now you're feeling different because
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: I'm doing me, Like, what do you want?
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: So?
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: Really, men just want you to be emotionally only tied
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: to them while they outside, because if they knew one
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: hundred percent that you was fucking with somebody else, they
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: wouldn't want you anymore, even on some fun shit, like
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: even on some friendship. That means some men, I don't know,
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: because I'm about to say some men they like that. Yeah,
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: they find out another nigga that's trying to lock you down.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: I want to see videos and all type of shit. Girl,
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: I don't have one like that too, Like you want
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: to see me getting smashed by somebody else?
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Are you okay? Right? And be real turned on by that?
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: I guess that's like how pimps are pimps like well
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: married a final bottom bitch, like when they finish pimping
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: like you, you don't watch this lady smash everybody in
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: the city and they don't care about that, right, they
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: don't care about uh super body count.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: They don't care like yeah, and that's that's wild because
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: you put me into that body count. Mm hmmm, yikes
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: on bikes? Are you a Sierra? What is that me?
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: I don't know because the world was mad when Sierra
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: was tworking at the uh what was it like the
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: after party for the.
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: Matt Gallar or something?
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: It was something one year it was her and like,
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: uh no was it no money?
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm uh having a good time?
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Yes, she looks Sierra. She's still a chicken. I had.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: I got into the argument with a friend at the
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: time about that ship. I'm like, girl, they still be
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: regular fucking people. Bitch, and I'm liable to be liable
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: to be talking if I got a kid and husband
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: at the house and.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: I'm having a good time, Yes, damn, you can't let
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: your way back at all.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: And it's probably somebody literally at the same party sniffing
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: coke off the table somewhere, right, she's just tworking someone
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: that ancestors like, what's wrong with that?
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Exactly? I agree, It's just so much judgment. That's why
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: I say, just do whatever, make you have it, because
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: something you're gonna piss somebody off, no matter what it is,
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: like if you twerking and like, look at her, she's
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: a selut tworking all over the place. If you're not.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: She thinks she's a rain dance.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Money ring or like rain ring, but regardless, it's a
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: rain dance. So I asked you earlier, what is like
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: a nice guy? I think sometimes people people consider nice
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: guys like lame. I think Mega saying probably thought she
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: was getting a lame corny ass dude.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: I think she did just because he just because he
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: cheated on her, don't make him not lame in corny.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You just hope the lame
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: corny ones ain't gonna do. It's worse when a lame,
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: corny one do you don't like like you wasn't even
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: my type.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: And that's why you should always go for your type,
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: because then you understand why the nigga playing in your
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: face like the aint nothing worse than choosing a nigga
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: that you know you ain't you don't even fuck with
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: like that, and they still playing your face.
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: That shit is let'shit fuck with your self esteem.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: But sometimes you'll type be the worst thing for you though.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. You gotta change you if you
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: want something different. It's really not about the other people.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: It is totally about you, because this nice guy won't
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: be laming you once you have rid your body of
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: needing the toxicity that comes with a future.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, sometimes niggas be laming it ain't
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: got nothing to do with like toxicity. Niggas.
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: Shoe wh are your shoestrings so tight?
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: Nigga loosen goddamn shoes. God damn you know.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: You get forty five fifty, Well, I don't even want
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: to say that, old thirty five bitch, thirty five forty forty.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: We want the lamb iss nigga possible with a little
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: bit of swag.
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: And dick and money.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Can we get back to just them standards? They don't.
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: The standards really don't get low. But you you know,
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: you kind.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: Of flex them of them a little exactly what matters
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: most mm hmmm, because they're cool. Thiggas just don't come
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: with no peace. They just don't.
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: Would you date a Russell Wilson in progress?
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: What does that mean?
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: That's like he's still building the career, still building the money.
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: You know, maybe he's like, you know, working on hisself.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Maybe he has some spirituality, Maybe he just started going
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: to church, don't.
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: I mean, for you, we don't never have to go
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: to church.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: I'm down with someone who's doing the things to make
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: themselves better.
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: If I can see a person actively chasing growth and
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: a better version of himself, I'm all about that. But
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: it just gotta it just depends on what the starting
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: point is like.
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: Kind of thousand, I don't know.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: I think there are a lot of good guys out here,
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: but we probably overlooked them because aesthetically they are not
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: what we want. Right My homegirls who already got kids,
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: they love ugly nigga love like, you know, like ugly ugly.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: I'm not talking about like medium or somebody that looks
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: good to you. They don't give a damn what a
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: nigga look like, you know, like face wise.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: If I got to kiss you, I can't have no
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: frankist I'm about to call. I can't have that nigga
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: with me right drooling the sweating on you, chain you
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: in the chair.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: I'm just not that selfish to do that to my
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: fucking kid, Like you know, I'm already funny looking like
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: what the fuck about my kid? Come my heir looking
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: like her daddy, Like, I'm not doing that to my baby.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: So yeah, I like somebody they have to definitely be,
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: definitely be aesthetically pleasing to me.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: But have you ever had someone who wasn't as aesthetically
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: pleasing at first to you, but they started to soften
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: up and look more attractive because of who they were
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: versus how they looked. I've had that.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: I feel like I do see people spareing and soul first,
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: so that's never a thing. But I'll make you look
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: high and need you to look like I'm gonna buy
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: you the shit I'm gonna do like the little tweaking. Hey, baby,
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: my nigga got a whole beard.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: Now that he did not have when we met.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: It. Okay, like he had one, but it wasn't like full.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: Now he got the full beard, and like his hairline
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: is great. So you just have to just do the
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: little because sometimes what I do know is like a
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: lot of men don't They just don't know how to
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: do shit until they get a woman's Yes, they just
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: you know, shit all day. Some guys don't want to
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: do so, yeah, you gotta be willing. I remember he
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: was like, I don't give a fuck what I'd be
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: putting on. If you don't like somebody got on, just
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: let me know and then we could change it up.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: Like he's you know, he's malleable. If I have somebody
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: like that who doesn't care, Like if I get you something,
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: you're gonna wear the things like I don't mind doing that.
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: It's actually funny.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it ain't not worse than a guy that
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: won't let you fix them, right. I know that sounds awful, but.
• 42:28
  Speaker 4: They don't take your input, you know what I'm saying.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like most men, I think most men gonna let
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: you fix them, Like.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: One of the guys we had like a thing going
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: on right between his eyebrows that was like I don't
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: know if that was like a fungus or something. I
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: don't know what was going on right there, but it
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: would like errupt every now and then, and it would
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: be like and I bought him some expensive skin care
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: so he could fix that, and he refused to use
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: this shit, and then shit just be like climbing in
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: his eyebrows and shit, and then going like.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: No, I'm not fucking with you no more. Yeah, I
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: can't growths come out between your dad. No, he's just
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: being nasty.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Like I've watched you something to hell then and you
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: just refuse to use it. He's like, I'm a man,
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: I just used Irish spring.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: That's it. First of all, Irish spring. Irish springs is
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: tearing your skin up. That ship is full of chemicals
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: and you probably still ain't even getting that clean.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: Get that nigga white wash rag.
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: You probably just need to use a white washlot right
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: there and it foliate really well. Oh yeah, like yeah,
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: but you have to be and I'll and I'll do
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: a little tweaking of things. Right If it's something that
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: my man wants now, bitch, right now, my hair is
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: two inches long. I'm not wearing it outside. Don't talk
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: to me about ship.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: Don't talk to me about hair.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: And that's one thing. Don't talk to me about fucking
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: hair because I always it's a disclosure. When I meet
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: a nigga, I wear weave all the time. If we
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: do not like weave, you have to go get you
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: somebody who doesn't wear weed. That is a disclosure. Okay,
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: So don't come over here and then trying to be
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: in a relationship with me and then slowly trying to
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: picture and change shit.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Walk around.
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: But for the day, because you could have gotten exactly
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: what you wanted. You chose with me, and now you're
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: harassing me about this weave that you liked when I
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: first started fucking on your ass, right, don't do me
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: So what did it? Wait?
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: Are you Sierra?
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: That's what I say?
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Who is they? I don't know who.
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: Sierra is, just a regular woman, right.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: I do think Sierra is more faith driven right now,
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: and that's probably how she attracted her husband and whatever
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: that is, like, we don't know exactly. I don't never
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: really does Russell Wilson, like, you know, talk about Jesus
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: a lot. I don't know what their religion is.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think because I don't know about
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: Cera or Russell for real. But when it when when
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: I see this question, I feel like is it it's
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: asking like are you ready for the type of man
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: that you want?
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: You want?
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: Like, am I emotionally available?
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm?
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: Sometimes do you respect consistency over excitement?
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: Yes I do. Then it says can you handle structured
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: discipline in leadership? That discipline word kind of and.
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: I think that Okay, I know I am not disciplined.
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: I talk about it a lot, and it is tough
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: if you are not a disciplined person and you're in
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: a relationship with somebody who is disciplined. Now, and this
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: is where that person leadership skills has to show up
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: in a way that's not like the meaning right my ex,
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: one of my exes, he was very disciplined. Go to sleep,
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: you know, bitch, I had to get off the phone
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: at a certain time.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: I gotta go to bed. I couldn't talk.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Then turn the TV off and turn the light off
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: on my ass quick it and be mad if I
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: go downstairs and be down there like he wanted me to.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: And I mean, and it's important, you know what I'm
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: saying that is it is important because if you want
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: to be somebody different or you want to you know,
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: you want to do something different, you have to be
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: somebody you've never been. You have to do things you've
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: never done. So if you have somebody in your life
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: that is more discipline than you, that should be like
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: a good thing. But it's a way to he just
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: did not fucking know how to talk to me, Like
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: he just was not a good manager.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: But it's just can you handle discipline? When I think
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: about that, I don't know. For some for some reason,
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: it feels like stuffy. I feel like somebody trying to
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: tell me what the fuck.
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: Do y'all say? Y'all want men to lead, y'all, but
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: you have to fucking listen to the man if he's leading. Yeah,
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: you know, like you can't you can't say you want.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: You want I want to leader, but I don't want
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: to be disciplined because I'm not your child, you know,
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Like I don't know something about that word. I mean,
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: I had to unpack that with my therapist or something,
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: because something about the word discipline sounds like condescending to
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: me for whatever reason.
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: Really, mm hmm.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: So when I think about it, I just think about,
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: like the things that I struggle to do with do
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: everything every day, right, I struggle to get up at
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: a decent time. I struggle to work out every day
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: like I say I want to do, right. I struggle
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: to do the things I say I want to do
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: because I know it's going to get me to a
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: better place. Imagine you have a partner who doesn't struggle
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: with those things and all you gotta do is be
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: a fucking partner.
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: Well, I think when you have a partner that doesn't,
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: it makes it so much easier to just fall in alignment,
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: And I can fall in aligne with it. But when
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: you're talking to me, crazy to do it? No?
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: But what I just think about, Yeah, when I think
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: about someone disciplining me, like, who the fuck are you
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: talking to?
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: So I'll go, I'll go and see that's the thing. Right.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: So now you may not be ready for marriage, and
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: part of me is not ready for marriage because there
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: is some tweaking of who you are because you're not
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: supposed to be you no more. Both of you are
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: supposed to be different. So yes, you do want somebody
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: that you know loves who you are, absolutely right, But
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: both of you you come together, so you're supposed to
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: be one. Now, you're not supposed to just be two
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: completely complete individuals. And that is where I struggle, because
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: you know how I always be saying I want to
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: be single in a relationship. It's not real. It's not
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: a thing that you can actually, I mean you could.
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: There's some men be single in relationships all the time,
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: but it's just a shut of fun as a woman.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: But yeah, you have to You're not going to be
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: the same. Neither one of you are supposed to be
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: the same. It's supposed to be a new thing. So
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: in order to create that, you'll have to you have
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: to there's alignment. There's an alignment that has to happen.
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: And this is where a lot of times women lose
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: themselves to men. We lose ourselves because we get on
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: their program. Now, if you fucking with somebody that has
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: an ill program, Okay, this program ain't shit.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: That's what I I did. That's how I cain't on
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: that weight with that young nigga eating like I haven't
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: eaten Taco bell in twenty years. Let's start hanging with
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: this little y n now getting with those local tackles.
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: This shit is busting too.
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: You know, my program is you come over here, we're
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: not eating beef and stuff. I got a program too,
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: but my program is good though it's not like it's
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: not harmful to the other person. Like, so I want
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: somebody whose program isn't going to be harmful and it's
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: gonna make me better better.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't nobody's telling me when the fuck
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: I can go to sleep, you know, Like I don't
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: want that. I go to sleep when I get good
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: and damn ready because I'm an adult, you know.
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but do you think you should go to sleep earlier?
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: Sometimes and sometimes not. It just depends because I'm a fucking.
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: Adult, you know, stay your ass single, then you're not
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: gonna tell me to be has changed. I knew I
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: needed to go to bed. I knew I shouldn't be
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: up in the dark scrolling, but it would just be
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: my mind going and going and going. Like I just
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: men just fall asleep so easy and quick. I've never
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: been with a man who I went to sleep before
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: they all go to sleep so early, and I just think,
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: Our bodies are wide different. I think for women.
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: Because I'm more I'm more nocturnal, you know. So I'm
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: a nocturnal person. So don't try to make me go
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: to bed at nine o'clock. This will never work. This
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: will never work if you want me to go to
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: bed at nine, right, No, don't tell me yeah to
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: do that. So mm hmm, God ain't through with me yet.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: All right, So let's let's play a game. Are we
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: gonna try this game?
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: I guess because.
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: It's saying Russell wasn't regular dude. He is a regular
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: dude as far as I'm concerning.
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: You know, he's very regular.
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: So and Russell, Well, the thing is, Russell Wilson could
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: have been a fuck nigga to someone else. He chose
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: to be Russell Wilson to Sierra. So that's the other thing.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: You have to get somebody who's ready and aligned with
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: what you want, because you are not gonna get a
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: Russell Wilson out of future. I don't think in this
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: lifetime will future be Russell Wilson. Like at this point,
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: eleven twelve kids in Like, I don't give a fuck,
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: but listen, I'll try next time, the next lifetime. I
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: know that's how he just like you know, it is
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: just he's who he is, right, and any woman who
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: chooses to fuck with him knows exactly what he comes
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: with what you're getting, right. So Sierra had his what
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: ninth kid or something, eighth kid, whatever, whatever number she was,
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: she had no business. If you wanted a Russell Wilson
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: at any point in life, you had no business fucking
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: with future.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: That is a big difference.
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want nobody. I got no eight kids.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: That's a lot to see.
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: The thing with me is that if you got eight
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: kids and they all went to Ivy League schools, I.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: Might be like, if you who are you talking about?
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: Because this nigga old as hell? If all your kids
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: went the Ivy League schools.
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well the oldest ones, the older ones, right, he
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: does have like a younger one.
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: This is somebody I used to know.
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: Girl. I was thinking about it at one point because
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: I don't I think I said this before too.
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: Is it not something Uh?
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know. If it's like an animalistic instinct type
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: thing that makes a man with kids more appealing because
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: just take away like the morals and all that stuff
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: right on a strict animal like animal animal kingdom. This
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: man is a producer. This man can produce children. Like
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: that is like what a woman is supposed to do.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: You're supposed to find the best suitable made to procreate right, right.
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: And there's a lot of things because we're human, right
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: in this life, it costs a lot, Like there's a
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: lot of things that comes with being a human human
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: that we have to consider so many things. But I
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: think there's an animal like an innate thing that makes
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: men who have children, multiple children, probably multiple women more
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: attractive than a Russell Wilson who has no kids seemingly lame. Right.
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: We know Black people in particular a lot of cool nigga, right,
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: It's just something about them, and I just think we
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: just we don't think that deep, right, It was something
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: attractive about future.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Until you Babybama nine, right.
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: And then now you're not just considering you anymore. Now
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: you considering you plus this life the person, right, and
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: now you have.
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: To blinders have come off, yes, But yeah.
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: Like it was the point where I was like, hmm,
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: maybe I could have this niggas kid because I know
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: I'll be taken care of, you know, Yeah, but no, Yeah,
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: but no, then you come to your senses. But yeah,
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: are we are we playing a game.
• 55:30
  Speaker 4: And don't play a game with these lame ass niggas.
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: Man, you're gonna play a game with you that.
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: Part I think, I mean, we don't beat the dead horse.
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: I think my last last and this situation is, and
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: I probably said it a thousand times, you know in
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: this conversation, it is not about you finding something different.
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: It's about you changing into something different.
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: To attract that.
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: I mean, because you cannot be trying to attract somebody that.
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: Has all these different things that you are not.
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: Right. You got to be who you who you want
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: to be. You have to be who you.
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: Want, who you want to be with. Yeah, I agree.
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: So my last last is, y'all can't y'all can't lock
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: me into one nigga for the last decade. Y'all can't
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: pinpoint it, like, stop telling your business. You don't have
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: to post every person on social media. You can take
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: these l's in private. You can like it could be
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: great in private, and then you can take the l
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: in private. Nobody has to know. You can't tell me
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: that Laura London ain't smashing nobody. You can't tell me
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: that Vanessa Bryan ain't getting them legs pushed back yet. Okay,
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: it's the years, Laura London. Okay, exactly. So keep your
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: business to yourself so you don't have to suffer public
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: and embarrassment, and even on a small scale in your
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: local community, because we'd be seeing y'all with these niggas
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden he missing. We will
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: know that can't happen, like we see all the pictures.
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: Now he's just gone, bitch, what happened? So just keep
• 57:14
  Speaker 2: your shit to yourself and then you don't have to
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: worry about it.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 57:19
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry to go back.
• 57:21
  Speaker 3: One thing we missed. What was the ship with Glorilla laughing?
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: Did you see that people were talking about her like
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: laughing possibly or insinuating that she was laughing at magde Stallion?
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I missed that.
• 57:36
  Speaker 4: Uh hold on?
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Why she finding that? Nia Lung said eat it and
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: sign it. That's what I'm talking about. Keep your pussy
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: facts to yourself, right, it.
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: Ain't business, and then you won't have niggas like Cameron
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: lining your lining your bodies up and they never do
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: it to men. They never do it to men. I mean,
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: as far as I'm concerned, he's been with the same
• 58:09
  Speaker 3: amount of women that she's been with in the last decade.
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: But nobody's counting the bodies men have. So this thing
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: is saying that Glorilla did shade. I don't know how though, shades. Uh,
• 58:28
  Speaker 3: Mega Stallion. All she posted was your problematic faves.
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but all she did was post laughing emogis.
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 58:36
  Speaker 4: Maybe people reaching and they didn't stretch first. I don't know.
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: Anyway, y'all.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: If y'all saw some ship with about Glorilla like coming
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: from Maga Stallion or laughing at her pain, I mean
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: they're probably both on the same dock, okay, boat pulling
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: up at the same dock. I don't know yet. So
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: that if she did laugh at Mega Stallion, don't be
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: laughing out of the people, pay man, because your time
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: come up.
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, your time coming. If it ain't already came, everybody,
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: everybody get a turn. Isn't she pregnant?
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: People are speculating that.
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: Girl episode is over a bitch.
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: Let's go okay, that was that stupid internet news or
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: dumb This story because at least Meg did not get
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: fucking pregnant that part part.
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: I'm proud of you for this.
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: Right anyway, y'all, I don't know, Uh, shoot for the stars,
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: get what you like, okay, so you feel good about
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: it at the end of the day. When the nigga
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: do fuck up, at least don't go for no uther
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: nigga when you like find niggas ain't for the stars. Girl,
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: all right, I already did my last life.
• 59:42
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• 59:43
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