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- 0:00Speaker 1: All right, here we go. The after show podcast is on,
- 0:03Speaker 1: and look at the special guests stepping in on vacation.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Already special about this Ashley and Santy GM in morning show.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Welcome guys, thank you for coming on my podcast.
- 0:14Speaker 2: Do we have a choice.
- 0:15Speaker 1: I didn't even have to ask, you just appeared.
- 0:17Speaker 3: Listen, you have thirty seconds because what we're doing here
- 0:21Speaker 3: is leaving to go on vacation.
- 0:23Speaker 1: You tried to leave. Correction, you tried to leave and
- 0:25Speaker 1: I roped you, guys, and see you were just hanging
- 0:27Speaker 1: out with me, and now we're talking on the podcast.
- 0:30Speaker 4: What do you want from us?
- 0:31Speaker 1: Okay, vacation you're excited. What are you doing? I asked you, Santy.
- 0:36Speaker 2: I'm hanging at home doing nothing special but just getting
- 0:38Speaker 2: to sleep in and not get up in the middle
- 0:40Speaker 2: of the night.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Boring Ashley, just about the same.
- 0:44Speaker 3: I mean, at least for you, you're gonna be able
- 0:46Speaker 3: to sleep. Probably it'll seven, seven thirty, maybe even eight.
- 0:49Speaker 2: That's right, because I don't have young kids that wake me.
- 0:51Speaker 3: Year. Yeah, I'll be up at six, but you know what,
- 0:52Speaker 3: six is better than three thirty, So I'll take that
- 0:55Speaker 3: any day. And let's be honest, I'll be drunk for
- 0:57Speaker 3: more than half. This's that's the real truth of it all.
- 1:00Speaker 3: I actually thought to myself, maybe I'll start smoking.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Wouldn't like smoking cigarettes, Yeah, like a.
- 1:05Speaker 4: New port or something.
- 1:06Speaker 3: It's disgusting, but like that's how stressed most mothers are
- 1:09Speaker 3: at this point time. I mean, my daughter's birthday is tomorrow,
- 1:12Speaker 3: then you got Christmas. It's like I might rip a
- 1:14Speaker 3: butt and black out.
- 1:15Speaker 1: Survival people, they say that's a new thing now with
- 1:18Speaker 1: young people. They don't smoke cigarettes full time, only when
- 1:21Speaker 1: they drink.
- 1:24Speaker 4: Yeah right, Yeah, that's when my cousin used to rip them.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Yeah, smokers, you know what I used to do. And
- 1:28Speaker 1: I couldn't afford cigarettes because I was on drugs. So
- 1:33Speaker 1: at the Maulden Courthouse down the street, they had the
- 1:36Speaker 1: ashtray was outside was just sand, and so the lawyers
- 1:40Speaker 1: would come out to the smoke and they would take
- 1:41Speaker 1: a couple of puffs and they would just stick it
- 1:43Speaker 1: in the sand. But they wouldn't like, you know, crunch
- 1:45Speaker 1: them up. So I would just go there and wait,
- 1:48Speaker 1: and then when they'd all go inside for court, I'd
- 1:50Speaker 1: go in and I'd take all the snipes and I'd
- 1:52Speaker 1: put them in an empty cigarette box. And then I
- 1:54Speaker 1: had like half smoke to go.
- 1:58Speaker 2: You're like variety camels if the drugs and that didn't
- 2:04Speaker 2: kill this man.
- 2:05Speaker 1: Oh est in some of the butts had lipstick on them.
- 2:13Speaker 1: Get spirits, oh my. And then and then also so
- 2:17Speaker 1: I would be a middleman for a lot of people
- 2:19Speaker 1: that wanted drugs, right, So say they wanted fifty bucks worth,
- 2:23Speaker 1: they'd give me the money and I'd go meet the guy.
- 2:25Speaker 1: And it got to a point where I would I
- 2:27Speaker 1: would short them five dollars so I could buy myself cigarettes. Yeah.
- 2:31Speaker 1: That eventually they were like, We're not coming to see
- 2:33Speaker 1: you unless you have the whole They caught onto it. Yeah,
- 2:36Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Cigarettes were like a big
- 2:38Speaker 1: deal when I was. When I was, they really were.
- 2:40Speaker 3: I mean think about it when we were young, our age.
- 2:43Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to be forty next year. Like
- 2:44Speaker 3: there were cigarette commercials twenty four to seven. I think
- 2:47Speaker 3: about that.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Camel Yeah, Camel Joe, Camel Joe Joe, like the leather r.
- 2:52Speaker 4: Right, and then they started the Dare program and shit
- 2:54Speaker 4: got real or.
- 2:55Speaker 1: The Marlboro Miles or the Marble whatever they would call.
- 2:57Speaker 1: You could get gifts.
- 2:58Speaker 2: All those called I don't know, like the like the man,
- 3:02Speaker 2: like the cowboy.
- 3:03Speaker 3: I can distinctly like right now, smell my grandfather's Mercedes,
- 3:09Speaker 3: all leather with the ashtray in the middle, always filled.
- 3:13Speaker 4: Like I can't.
- 3:14Speaker 3: I could put myself right back in that car right now.
- 3:16Speaker 3: I'm like ten yep, and he's ripping butts right into
- 3:20Speaker 3: the ashtray, right in the car, Like they didn't make
- 3:21Speaker 3: cars without ashtrays.
- 3:22Speaker 1: Oh, I know. I have memories of being in the
- 3:24Speaker 1: back seat and the windows being up in them, smoking
- 3:27Speaker 1: my pack absolutely like crack a window.
- 3:29Speaker 4: No, no, that was like the way, that was nothingness.
- 3:31Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 3:32Speaker 2: I love tobacco, I actually do. I don't do it
- 3:34Speaker 2: a lot just because cancer. I smoked the cars in
- 3:36Speaker 2: the summer, But like I love chewing tobacco.
- 3:38Speaker 1: What about like just the nicotine pouches or whatever.
- 3:41Speaker 2: I've tried them. I don't love those because I don't
- 3:43Speaker 2: want to hold it in my lip. But baseball, I
- 3:46Speaker 2: was chewing tobacco like all the time.
- 3:47Speaker 1: That's a big baseball thing.
- 3:48Speaker 6: You know.
- 3:48Speaker 1: My first job, I was a snitch. Did I ever
- 3:51Speaker 1: tell you this?
- 3:51Speaker 4: I would tell you this your first job, you were imagine.
- 3:54Speaker 1: My life story, right, I went into this life of like,
- 3:57Speaker 1: cryme snitch, I'm not a rat. But my first job
- 4:01Speaker 1: was I was twelve years old and I was bigger,
- 4:03Speaker 1: so I looked older. And my mom's friend worked for
- 4:06Speaker 1: the Department of Public Health in Lynn, Massachusetts. Santi's favorite place.
- 4:10Speaker 2: Worst place in America.
- 4:11Speaker 1: Okay, So she came to my mom and said, hey,
- 4:13Speaker 1: would justin be willing to help me out on some saturdays.
- 4:16Speaker 1: I'll pay him money. I was like, okay. So she
- 4:18Speaker 1: would drive me around to all the stores in Lynda
- 4:20Speaker 1: bodega's and she would send me in with money to
- 4:22Speaker 1: buy cigarettes. And so I go in and try to
- 4:24Speaker 1: buy them. If they would sell, and if they carded me,
- 4:27Speaker 1: I would go out and we'd go to the next door.
- 4:29Speaker 1: But if they sold to me, I'd come out give
- 4:31Speaker 1: her the cigarettes, and then she would go right in
- 4:32Speaker 1: there with like a citation and a fucking fine. She
- 4:35Speaker 1: shut them down. Why and some stores sold them to me.
- 4:43Speaker 2: You're a fucking nark.
- 4:45Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, see, but I was even good with that cash.
- 4:49Speaker 1: Fifty bucks. It's really good.
- 4:51Speaker 4: That's a that's a very interesting tale. I never knew that.
- 4:54Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 4:54Speaker 1: Yeah, no more cigarette stuff for me. My mother in
- 4:56Speaker 1: law is a big smoker, down down the down lash.
- 5:01Speaker 1: She's probably twice two a day.
- 5:02Speaker 3: And she and she doesn't she you know, most smokers,
- 5:06Speaker 3: they like knock the ash off.
- 5:08Speaker 4: She doesn't.
- 5:08Speaker 3: I had a full on conversation with her once the
- 5:11Speaker 3: ash was the length of the cigarette and there was
- 5:14Speaker 3: like a little millimeter left of actual sig. I'm like,
- 5:18Speaker 3: I don't even know how she was holding it. Like
- 5:19Speaker 3: it was the craziest thing I'd ever seen.
- 5:21Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really. It bothers me because it's sad, But
- 5:24Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, my friend's mother was eighty eight.
- 5:27Speaker 1: She just passed away, and she smoked her whole life.
- 5:30Speaker 3: They told my grandfather, you smoke one more cigarette, we're
- 5:32Speaker 3: cutting a hole in your throat. You're gonna be like
- 5:34Speaker 3: the guy in the commercial with a little hole in
- 5:35Speaker 3: your throat. To know what he said, cut the whole,
- 5:39Speaker 3: cut the whole, dead ass.
- 5:41Speaker 4: He was like, cut the hole.
- 5:42Speaker 3: Like people that age sometimes they get to the point
- 5:44Speaker 3: where they like they've lived and they're gonna do whatever
- 5:46Speaker 3: the fuck they want.
- 5:47Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't care. But You'm like vaping now, which
- 5:49Speaker 1: like is that also can kill you? It came but
- 5:51Speaker 1: it's not as bad, I think. So she did vape
- 5:53Speaker 1: for six months several years ago. We got her on
- 5:55Speaker 1: the vape and her cough went away within two weeks.
- 5:58Speaker 1: It used to have made her cough. She had. Oh she
- 6:00Speaker 1: has a wicked smoker's cough like forever like. Yeah, she
- 6:04Speaker 1: has co op d.
- 6:05Speaker 4: You know about the smokers cough.
- 6:07Speaker 1: I haven't heard the smokers cough. She peas a little
- 6:10Speaker 1: when she coughs.
- 6:11Speaker 3: Honestly, that's the kids you do to, right, My wife does.
- 6:15Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I pee when I cough. Sometimes when I jump,
- 6:18Speaker 3: she holds, She holds her I'm scared.
- 6:19Speaker 1: Yeah, well she when she sneezes.
- 6:21Speaker 4: We all got to tighten our pelvic floor.
- 6:23Speaker 1: Is that what that is? Wow?
- 6:26Speaker 4: This is We've learned so much here, We've gotten around.
- 6:28Speaker 3: This is.
- 6:29Speaker 1: This is what the after show is about. It's free balling.
- 6:32Speaker 2: My wife does not be when she colls because she had.
- 6:33Speaker 1: A c section. Ah, but Gen did too. She had
- 6:37Speaker 1: to them me she got.
- 6:39Speaker 4: Something else going on. Yeah, mine were vaginal.
- 6:42Speaker 2: You should give that area like a break and that
- 6:45Speaker 2: might be our cue.
- 6:46Speaker 4: That might be r Q. Because you don't want to
- 6:48Speaker 4: go down this path.
- 6:50Speaker 1: Get it.
- 6:50Speaker 3: Let's end with this because we're leaving and we're going
- 6:52Speaker 3: on vacation. I know the two gifts you had planned
- 6:54Speaker 3: on getting your wife.
- 6:55Speaker 1: But they can't.
- 6:57Speaker 4: They can't like that creep sex game.
- 7:00Speaker 1: Hey hey, hey, the package came and she took it in.
- 7:02Speaker 1: I don't think she looked at that. Maybe she did,
- 7:04Speaker 1: but it's said on the top sip or sin.
- 7:07Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 7:08Speaker 3: Well, if she listened to our show, shared knew that
- 7:09Speaker 3: thing was coming, so she'll probably have to pretend to
- 7:11Speaker 3: be surprised. Did you start writing in the journal?
- 7:14Speaker 1: Oh, the journal came. No, not yet. I'm gonna wait
- 7:16Speaker 1: till next week when I'm like, calm down.
- 7:17Speaker 4: I want to get going on that.
- 7:18Speaker 1: And I have to think about it. You know what
- 7:20Speaker 1: I'm going to answer for each one?
- 7:22Speaker 5: You know?
- 7:22Speaker 1: Do you know about the book? Yeah? Yeah, it's like
- 7:24Speaker 1: all the reasons why I love you. You should try this?
- 7:27Speaker 3: Okay yeah yeah, and then yeah, but you know what,
- 7:31Speaker 3: don't let him. Don't let him talk down to you
- 7:34Speaker 3: about things, because I don't know if you have seen
- 7:36Speaker 3: my Instagram today. No, but he spent twenty dollars on
- 7:42Speaker 3: a laser pointer.
- 7:43Speaker 1: Okay, I have those.
- 7:44Speaker 3: That is no, No, you don't have this it's different.
- 7:47Speaker 3: Maybe you do. The one he has is different shapes
- 7:50Speaker 3: of penises. So here I am. I'm trying to give
- 7:54Speaker 3: the news, like talk about serious stuff and I have
- 7:57Speaker 3: a penis on my cheek.
- 7:58Speaker 1: Hold on is this are there any Oh god, twenty dollar?
- 8:04Speaker 1: Where did you find that TikTok talk shop?
- 8:06Speaker 2: By the way, Like I'm forty five?
- 8:11Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's sad. Santy did make the top five
- 8:16Speaker 1: moments of the end of the year for the least
- 8:18Speaker 1: a show. Yes, for the prank? Yes, which one?
- 8:21Speaker 2: The fire?
- 8:23Speaker 1: The fire?
- 8:24Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Justin called me.
- 8:27Speaker 3: He's like, no, Ashley, I actually think I'm going to certified.
- 8:31Speaker 1: I just heard it. Yeah. And then and then the
- 8:33Speaker 1: best is I replaced all of them in my whole house,
- 8:36Speaker 1: and I it's good, which takes time. You got to
- 8:39Speaker 1: pull them down. It's a whole thing. Yeah, so I
- 8:41Speaker 1: replaced them all. I kid, you not replaced them all.
- 8:43Speaker 1: I was like, what's crazy? Hold on, yeah, I sat down.
- 8:50Speaker 4: What's crazy is like that's how he drew it up.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Like in his vision board.
- 8:54Speaker 3: It was you would go home, you would freak out,
- 8:57Speaker 3: you would exchange the batteries.
- 8:58Speaker 8: And all of them.
- 8:58Speaker 3: Then you would sit down, take a deep breath and
- 9:01Speaker 3: hear it again.
- 9:02Speaker 4: It's crazy.
- 9:03Speaker 1: That's well. Actually, that's why I made the Top Moments.
- 9:06Speaker 6: Yeah, great accomplishment. Ally on vacation, Yes, have a great vacation. Okay, bye, guys,
- 9:13Speaker 6: thank you for joining. I really appreciate it. Have fun.
- 9:16Speaker 6: How the hell they get vacation on a Wednesday? All right,
- 9:18Speaker 6: what about me? We got two more days here together?
- 9:21Speaker 6: But anyway, yeah, today is Wednesday. We have two more
- 9:25Speaker 6: days of vacation coming up Friday the end of Year awards.
- 9:29Speaker 6: Looking forward to that, and also the Talkbacker of the
- 9:32Speaker 6: Year will be named at nine to ten on Friday morning,
- 9:36Speaker 6: so that should be cool from the.
- 9:38Speaker 1: People justin it's Mo.
- 9:40Speaker 9: So help me God. If I ever somehow ran into
- 9:45Speaker 9: a troll that leaves those comments, I swear to fucking god.
- 9:50Speaker 1: Geez, how pathetic.
- 9:52Speaker 9: Are those human beings? Get a fucking life. I'd love
- 9:57Speaker 9: to see them try and do what you do. There's
- 9:59Speaker 9: no and you know what, none of those people would
- 10:02Speaker 9: say those things to your face because they're cowards and
- 10:04Speaker 9: they're pieces of shit.
- 10:05Speaker 7: Wow.
- 10:05Speaker 1: Fuck that, Yeah, talk that talk Mo. Here we go, man,
- 10:09Speaker 1: I want Mo on my team. Well she is on
- 10:11Speaker 1: my team. Well, thank you, mo Thank you very much.
- 10:13Speaker 1: I appreciate that, you know. And she's talking about some
- 10:16Speaker 1: of the bad comments that were online about our show
- 10:20Speaker 1: and about me and all that stuff. And like I
- 10:22Speaker 1: explained before, the one that really hurt my soul, hurt
- 10:25Speaker 1: me deep was the one about my sneakers, because you know,
- 10:28Speaker 1: I'm a big sneaker guy and I had these special
- 10:31Speaker 1: sneakers that I was saving for a big event. I
- 10:33Speaker 1: was so excited putting them on, wearing them, and then
- 10:37Speaker 1: they were shitting on them on Facebook, saying that they
- 10:40Speaker 1: belonged from the eighties. I'm like, what the hell is that?
- 10:42Speaker 1: Bud Shout out to you, Mo, Hey.
- 10:44Speaker 10: Justin, I just listened to your after show podcast about
- 10:48Speaker 10: the jingle Ball Show and all the haters out there,
- 10:51Speaker 10: and I just wanted to say, you are doing a
- 10:54Speaker 10: great job. Everybode at the show is doing an awesome job.
- 10:58Speaker 10: I love listening to you guys. Listened since I was
- 11:00Speaker 10: a kid. I'm forty and hate is gonna hate, So
- 11:05Speaker 10: keep doing what you're doing. There's a bunch of people
- 11:07Speaker 10: that love you and think you guys are doing awesome.
- 11:09Speaker 1: Yeah, and I appreciate that too. Thank you very much,
- 11:12Speaker 1: and listen. I didn't make that podcast to like get
- 11:14Speaker 1: everybody on my team or whatever. I was literally literally
- 11:17Speaker 1: just venting because you know, it bothered me. It bothers me.
- 11:23Speaker 1: Not it's bothering when people say things like with no repercussions,
- 11:28Speaker 1: you know what I mean, they say hurtful things to people,
- 11:32Speaker 1: and I think in today's world there's just no there's
- 11:35Speaker 1: no room for that, and it's so childish. Like my son,
- 11:39Speaker 1: he's in third grade, he deals with that, you know,
- 11:41Speaker 1: kids saying things to other kids, making fun of things
- 11:44Speaker 1: they're wearing. You know, I went through it. I'm sure
- 11:46Speaker 1: you did too in school. But these are grown ass adults,
- 11:50Speaker 1: you know, writing hurtful things online, which, like I said before,
- 11:54Speaker 1: I would never say that to any of our faces,
- 11:57Speaker 1: not just me, to any of us, you know. So
- 11:59Speaker 1: I mean, ippreciate, I appreciate the support. Yeah, it hasn't
- 12:01Speaker 1: been easy, but it's been an adjustment. It is what
- 12:04Speaker 1: it is. There was a change, like they just canceled
- 12:07Speaker 1: the entire morning show on Hot ninety seven, long standing
- 12:11Speaker 1: hip hop morning show Ebro in the Morning, gone on
- 12:14Speaker 1: a Friday, you know, and then they put funck Master
- 12:17Speaker 1: Flex who's been on in the afternoons or nights forever.
- 12:20Speaker 1: They put him on in the morning, and I was
- 12:22Speaker 1: watching all the videos of people being like, what the
- 12:24Speaker 1: hell is this? You know, it's just one of those
- 12:26Speaker 1: things that sucks. But you know, I get it. People
- 12:29Speaker 1: listen to the show now and they hear us, you know,
- 12:32Speaker 1: talking and laughing, and they're like, well, what about whatever.
- 12:34Speaker 1: Like I said before, it's not like they came to
- 12:36Speaker 1: us and they were like, hey, justin Billy, Lisa, we're
- 12:40Speaker 1: thinking about making this change. What do you think about it?
- 12:43Speaker 7: Nah?
- 12:44Speaker 1: The fucking show ended and they were like, boom, this
- 12:46Speaker 1: is how it is. Now. Move forward. We have our
- 12:49Speaker 1: reasons why we're doing it. Now, move forward.
- 12:52Speaker 6: You know.
- 12:52Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, that's what we do. And by the way,
- 12:56Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I always follow the
- 12:58Speaker 1: same same philosophy, right, which is I just show up,
- 13:03Speaker 1: I do my job. I treat people with respect, I
- 13:06Speaker 1: show up on time, I get all my work done
- 13:08Speaker 1: and more because I think that's what makes helps make
- 13:12Speaker 1: me successful. You know. You know, I do a lot
- 13:15Speaker 1: of stuff that's well known, right, and that's kind of
- 13:18Speaker 1: how I built my career. You know, I've talked about
- 13:21Speaker 1: getting in here as an intern, and the impossibility of
- 13:24Speaker 1: getting a job here, even part time, was not attainable.
- 13:29Speaker 1: I was told that, and I kept going, and I
- 13:31Speaker 1: kept going, and I had faith that it would happen.
- 13:33Speaker 1: And then I got part time. And then I was
- 13:35Speaker 1: told that full time would never happen in radio because
- 13:37Speaker 1: of the state of it, and you you're too late, justin.
- 13:40Speaker 1: And then that happened. And then I was told getting
- 13:42Speaker 1: a contract would never happen, and I was like, I'm
- 13:46Speaker 1: gonna keep going. And I learned everything that I could,
- 13:49Speaker 1: and I became good at doing multiple things. So any
- 13:54Speaker 1: of us can get fired, any of us can get
- 13:56Speaker 1: let go at any time. But I just know if
- 14:00Speaker 1: if that comes for me, they're going to have to
- 14:02Speaker 1: replace me with multiple people, which could probably cost them
- 14:06Speaker 1: more money. And you know that doesn't mean I'm safe
- 14:08Speaker 1: or anything. I'm just saying when I look at my
- 14:10Speaker 1: workload on things that I'm doing, which I love doing
- 14:13Speaker 1: by the way I've been doing it forever, it's like, God,
- 14:16Speaker 1: I do a lot of stuff, you know what I mean.
- 14:20Speaker 1: It's it's actually mind boggling, but I love doing it.
- 14:23Speaker 1: That's the thing. I'm passionate about it. And so they
- 14:25Speaker 1: always say, find what you love and you'll never work
- 14:28Speaker 1: a day in your life. I love that quote.
- 14:29Speaker 8: Justin just wanted to drop a message real quick. I
- 14:33Speaker 8: saw some of those comments you were talking about on
- 14:35Speaker 8: the photos, you know, wish when he was here in
- 14:37Speaker 8: some other nasty comments. Man, people just got to get
- 14:39Speaker 8: over the whole thing. She's not there, she's gone, Get
- 14:41Speaker 8: over it, move on on to the next.
- 14:44Speaker 1: If you want to.
- 14:45Speaker 8: Miss her so much, then go follow her on social media.
- 14:48Speaker 5: Man.
- 14:48Speaker 8: At the end of the day, you guys got a
- 14:49Speaker 8: job to do, and you've been doing a great job,
- 14:51Speaker 8: so screw the haters.
- 14:52Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks Brian. Brian was our first Talkbacker of the
- 14:55Speaker 1: Year winner. That was like three years ago, I think.
- 14:59Speaker 1: And what he did was he did the whole, uh Fred,
- 15:02Speaker 1: When he fred that whole you might remember he left
- 15:04Speaker 1: talk backs all the time about it. Whoa whoa, whoa, Fred,
- 15:07Speaker 1: So shout out to him and yeah, it's it is
- 15:11Speaker 1: what it is. But I will say, shout out to Winny.
- 15:13Speaker 1: She has a podcast. So that's my other thing. If
- 15:17Speaker 1: you are so upset with our show for not having
- 15:19Speaker 1: her on the show anymore, that's okay. She has a
- 15:22Speaker 1: podcast which you can go listen to. You can subscribe
- 15:25Speaker 1: to it, you can pay the money to listen to it,
- 15:27Speaker 1: and she has new episodes I think once a week
- 15:30Speaker 1: that you can go listen to and get you Winny fixed,
- 15:32Speaker 1: like turn us off. I shouldn't say that, because you
- 15:36Speaker 1: know we want you to listen. It's all about how
- 15:38Speaker 1: many listeners we have, and that's important in the radio business.
- 15:40Speaker 1: But not if you're gonna leave nasty comments. If you're
- 15:42Speaker 1: gonna leave nasty comments, just turn it off. It's okay
- 15:45Speaker 1: if you think. What if you think something, you don't
- 15:49Speaker 1: have to say it right, Sarah.
- 15:51Speaker 7: Okay, I'm calling myself Sarah the therapist now because I am
- 15:54Speaker 7: a therapist, but I always annoyingly say it, and so
- 15:59Speaker 7: many talk about DMS tither but listening to you saying
- 16:05Speaker 7: like the whole pause before you speak, like yes, that
- 16:08Speaker 7: is what I preached so many of my clients, poor kids,
- 16:12Speaker 7: all the time, and clearly it works.
- 16:14Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good you teach it to kids, Sarah. I
- 16:17Speaker 1: learned that when I got clean. Honestly, it's the pause
- 16:19Speaker 1: between the thought and the action, and that was related
- 16:22Speaker 1: to when you're getting clean, not picking up right. So
- 16:27Speaker 1: it's an obsessive and compulsive disease. You get the thought
- 16:31Speaker 1: and you immediately act on it and you have to
- 16:33Speaker 1: do it. And in recovery you learn about taking that pause,
- 16:37Speaker 1: the pause between the thought and the action. So you
- 16:39Speaker 1: have the thought I want to use instead of doing it,
- 16:43Speaker 1: you pause, think about it, play the tape through. Right,
- 16:46Speaker 1: that's kind of like a recovery thing. You play the
- 16:49Speaker 1: tape through. Okay, if I am to do this, what's
- 16:52Speaker 1: on the other side, what's going to happen? What's the
- 16:55Speaker 1: result going to be? And when you think about it,
- 16:58Speaker 1: you know what the result's going to be. It's going
- 17:00Speaker 1: to be death. It's going to be detoks, it's going
- 17:02Speaker 1: to be jail, it's gonna be homelessness, it's gonna be
- 17:04Speaker 1: all the stuff that you just got out of. So
- 17:08Speaker 1: that's where you have to have that pause to be like,
- 17:10Speaker 1: I don't want to do that, call someone for help.
- 17:12Speaker 1: So that's where I got that from. But that's great,
- 17:15Speaker 1: you know, and I teach my son that too, you know,
- 17:16Speaker 1: because he's got a lot of the characteristics that I have.
- 17:20Speaker 1: It's actually really scary, you know, he's got a lot
- 17:23Speaker 1: of that impulsive you know, can't control himself at times,
- 17:27Speaker 1: thing going on, So you know, that kind of worries
- 17:30Speaker 1: me a lot, but you know, it is what it.
- 17:32Speaker 5: Is, justin you are so impressive, and I'm sure there
- 17:37Speaker 5: are so many people that are so proud of you.
- 17:41Speaker 5: I don't know you from a home in them all
- 17:42Speaker 5: just listening to you on the on the radio. Please
- 17:46Speaker 5: please do not let these a holes pull you down.
- 17:51Speaker 5: You are wonderful and people are crazy. That's why a
- 17:56Speaker 5: lot of stars don't even read a comment. Not that
- 17:59Speaker 5: you're not star, but you.
- 18:01Speaker 1: Know what I mean, definitely not a star. And thank
- 18:03Speaker 1: you for that. I appreciate that. I appreciate those words,
- 18:06Speaker 1: and thank you for not calling me an elitist. That
- 18:08Speaker 1: was the other comment that I was talking about the
- 18:10Speaker 1: other day. They said I was an elitist because I
- 18:12Speaker 1: had asana, which is like insane to me. You know,
- 18:15Speaker 1: like my net worth. My net worth is like god,
- 18:19Speaker 1: three thousand dollars. I don't know, maybe it's a little
- 18:21Speaker 1: bit more than that. But I don't have a lot
- 18:23Speaker 1: of money. I just learned how to save money. Four
- 18:26Speaker 1: years ago. I had nothing. I was living paycheck to paycheck.
- 18:29Speaker 1: You know, I don't have Billy Costa money and by
- 18:32Speaker 1: the way, Billy Costa, you know he has money now.
- 18:35Speaker 1: He's worked his whole life to get that. He's worked
- 18:38Speaker 1: multiple jobs, still does to get to where he's at.
- 18:42Speaker 1: So I don't know, people are crazy, but shout out
- 18:45Speaker 1: to you guys. I love you so much. I love
- 18:47Speaker 1: doing this podcast. I know there's been a lot of
- 18:49Speaker 1: changes since the podcast started, but you guys have hung
- 18:53Speaker 1: in there and it really really makes me feel good.
- 18:56Speaker 1: It warms my heart and I'm appreciative. You know. I
- 19:00Speaker 1: like doing this podcast every day. I like the format
- 19:02Speaker 1: of it where you know, I can have guests on
- 19:05Speaker 1: sometimes or sometimes it's just me talking or both. You know,
- 19:08Speaker 1: I had Santi and Ashley in here and then they
- 19:10Speaker 1: left and now it's just me kind of catching up.
- 19:12Speaker 1: So leave a talk back. I will play them. I
- 19:15Speaker 1: promise it might not be the next podcast after you
- 19:17Speaker 1: leave it, but I promise I will play it. I
- 19:20Speaker 1: love to hear from you guys, and yeah, that's about it.
- 19:23Speaker 1: Tomorrow Friday, I'll do my best to jump on no
- 19:26Speaker 1: promises with a lot of like finishing touch stuff that
- 19:29Speaker 1: we have to do today and tomorrow, so I'll do
- 19:31Speaker 1: my best. I love you guys. Have an awesome day