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BONUS: The Definition of Beauty · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hi you guys, Balacant, Welcome back to the bonus episode.
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  Speaker 1: If you give them all the podcast, I have Jessic Kerr.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, good morning, good good morning, a boy mate, a
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  Speaker 2: boy and then I have Easton.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get a new snap back? Is it a
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  Speaker 1: snapback or a fitted? Oh? I got my La Dodger fitted. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing my thing.
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  Speaker 3: I think I got a patch on one of the sides.
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  Speaker 1: You do World Series twenty twenty stunning.
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  Speaker 4: It's new, newish, newish.
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  Speaker 3: I buy things and then don't wear them for a while.
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  Speaker 1: That's exactly what I do. It's like I'm saving it
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  Speaker 1: for when I go do something. But then I realized
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  Speaker 1: I'd never go do.
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  Speaker 2: Something, and then it wasn't that must be nice. I
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  Speaker 2: buy things and wear them immediately because I'm so excited
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  Speaker 2: to wear them.
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  Speaker 4: So they're like, do that, oh to jiu jitsu? Like
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  Speaker 4: I just wear like I just got it.
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  Speaker 3: I like your heels.
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  Speaker 4: I like your heel.
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  Speaker 1: By the way your your legs would be stellar if
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  Speaker 1: you could, if you jiu jitsu and in Stiletto's, Oh.
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  Speaker 4: You tell everyone you would.
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  Speaker 1: If I didn't think about that, I just thought about
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  Speaker 1: the epic ass you'd have you thinking.
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  Speaker 5: About what do they call it grappling?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, with a girl in a dress and heels.
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  Speaker 2: Oh ass out vagina out everything with me out china
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  Speaker 2: vagina vagina.
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  Speaker 1: That's what Ocean calls it. That's so cute because you
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  Speaker 1: have to wash your vagina, mom, And I'm like, yes,
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  Speaker 1: you do, and your arm pit and your show does okay.
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  Speaker 1: I got a text from a friend that was like,
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  Speaker 1: you give Ocean the accent of like a Rugrats character.
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  Speaker 4: She does have it. It's so accurate.
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  Speaker 1: She does. And like the other day she asked me
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  Speaker 1: for a purple otter pop you know, like the frozen things,
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  Speaker 1: and she she goes, I want to pupple one mom,
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  Speaker 1: And I said you want pupple and she goes, no purple.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, purple, no purple. She totally thinks she's saying
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  Speaker 1: it correctly. I have to say the like, as time passes,
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  Speaker 1: you become, for me at least more and more obsessed
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  Speaker 1: with your kid.
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  Speaker 3: You're like Sart becoming a little human.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like, you're the coolest person. You're sitting here
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  Speaker 1: talking to me about things that matter. I was watching
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  Speaker 1: Kardashians today for background noise, and then it sucked me
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  Speaker 1: in and I was like, you know what, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to go and watch like the new season because Roku
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  Speaker 1: has like keeping up and it's like all they do
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  Speaker 1: is play Kardashians all day long. So it was like
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  Speaker 1: season three, episode one where they go camping or something
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  Speaker 1: and they go with Adrian Baylone's parents and.
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  Speaker 4: I loved Adrian and Rob, but okay, go Chloe.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, I watch and the Ocean was
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  Speaker 1: talking about, you know, is this Housewives? I've never seen
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  Speaker 1: this before and I was like, it's great, girl. You
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  Speaker 1: should feel inspired by these women. Absolute freak Absolutely these
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  Speaker 1: are the women.
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  Speaker 4: Study these women.
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  Speaker 1: They're interesting, kind, very exciting to look at, very esthetically pleasing.
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  Speaker 1: The Arctic Ape easton a couple.
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  Speaker 3: Well, Kim has one, Kylie has one.
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  Speaker 1: Where did you get that Kylie has one? I don't
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  Speaker 1: know this is this true? I don't think so I
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  Speaker 1: can post me this, please don't. I do not need
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  Speaker 1: Marty Singer coming for me. Oh yeah, no, you're have
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  Speaker 1: you seen it? I think he's seen it, that's why
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  Speaker 1: he's talking about it. Well, allegedly allegedly.
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  Speaker 3: Allegedly allegedly, it looks like her allegedly.
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  Speaker 5: It's with Ai going around who knows, but it's been
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  Speaker 5: on the but it's been out for a good while
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  Speaker 5: before Ai was something, so I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: But allegedly she's on there.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. There's this. I go through kicks where
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I say this all the time. You don't
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  Speaker 1: need to know. You don't have to watch the Kardashians
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  Speaker 1: to know what's going on in their life. Like they're
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  Speaker 1: just shoved down our throats. And I'm totally fine with it.
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  Speaker 1: I find them interesting and aesthetically very pleasing to look at.
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  Speaker 1: But there are times where it sucks me in and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, let's watch, let's see. I'm into it.
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  Speaker 2: I love it for the how I love it for
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  Speaker 2: the homes that I just like it for that. So
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you were like or so many people
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  Speaker 2: are like, it's not that interesting now, but I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: it's interesting in a different way than I watch Bravo
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  Speaker 2: stuff for anyway, keep going sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I think so too.
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  Speaker 4: Like I like the homes. I like to be like,
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  Speaker 4: oh wow, look at the yard.
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  Speaker 1: I like watching how powerful these women are. Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: just like wild to me to go from like them
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  Speaker 1: driving an r V by Lake to like security camped
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  Speaker 1: outside of the homes and getting on private jets to
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  Speaker 1: go to Paris for twelve hours and then get back
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  Speaker 1: to like it. Just I find it amazing.
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  Speaker 2: They also get so much hate and they really don't
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  Speaker 2: give up. They don't give a heck at all.
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  Speaker 1: You want to know why, I think it's be well,
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  Speaker 1: I think they do maybe behind closed doors. I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: it's hard because they're still humans, but it's the family,
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  Speaker 1: like the safest you could ever feel. They're like experiencing
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  Speaker 1: it together. It would be like Easton and my mom
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  Speaker 1: and me having multiple other siblings, knowing exactly what the
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  Speaker 1: other one is going through, but like we've got memories
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  Speaker 1: together since birth, Like you're that thick. So what's the bonus?
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  Speaker 1: What's the bonus episode about? Today?
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  Speaker 4: Jessica speaking of beauty, speaking of Kardashians.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of stunning to look at No, this is I
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  Speaker 2: really loved this. You picked this lot and it is
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  Speaker 2: how do you define beauty?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm interested to see Ethan's take on this.
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  Speaker 2: I am interested Ethan's take, I'm interested yours, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: interested in mine because I think we're all going to
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  Speaker 2: be very different.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well I would love for one of you to
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  Speaker 1: go first.
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  Speaker 4: Easton, shall you stay or no? I did a lot
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  Speaker 4: of people.
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  Speaker 1: Write in all this because this one. When you sent
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  Speaker 1: me the list of like what bonus topics to choose from,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, this one seems interesting and I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to sugarcoat it.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of amazing and different ones. So you're right,
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  Speaker 2: it's interesting, lots of different perspectives.
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  Speaker 3: What did Taylor say?
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  Speaker 1: Who's Taylor your friend? Tap good?
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  Speaker 3: What do you say? That is a lid for every pots?
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  Speaker 1: The lid for every pot? No, it was Alex.
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  Speaker 3: It was a rushing a lid for every pot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've we've been talking. I think I gravitated towards
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  Speaker 1: this topic because we've been talking a lot about types
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  Speaker 1: and who we find attractive, and it started again with
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  Speaker 1: Kardashians Landon. We'll talk about it in the Actually, let's
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  Speaker 1: talk about it now since it's right on topic. Landon
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  Speaker 1: yesterday was talking about he finds Kendall more appealing than
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  Speaker 1: Kylie of the Jenner sisters. Easton said he likes a
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  Speaker 1: look that's more manufactured.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't, Yeah, I know that sounds.
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  Speaker 1: I don't we all can. They're not a natural family,
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  Speaker 1: Like that's not a nat like natural beauty. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: drawn to that.
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  Speaker 3: Look you know why. I'm just drawn to like lips, yeah, lips. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know why.
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  Speaker 4: And if you're like.
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  Speaker 1: Different pot oh that he was like, there's the lid
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  Speaker 1: for every pot and he was Landing, was like, I
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  Speaker 1: like more of an athletic build a more natural body.
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  Speaker 1: Easton was like, I like more of a bb L.
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  Speaker 4: Great, you know, but that's what's so great. Everyone can
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  Speaker 4: have their preference.
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  Speaker 1: That's what's so great is your lid. There's a pot
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  Speaker 1: for you, but there's.
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  Speaker 4: A pot for your lid.
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  Speaker 1: I'm hoping and if you're as lucky as like Irena
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  Speaker 1: Shake to have lips like that. Do you know who
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  Speaker 1: Irene she had a baby with Bradley Cooper.
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  Speaker 4: She was Yeah, she's she's stunning.
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  Speaker 1: She's Irena Shake. She's Russian and absolutely beyond and her
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  Speaker 1: body is amazing. See. I think I have many differences
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  Speaker 1: after that, are ready to fit many different pots.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like you do too.
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  Speaker 2: If we're going just off of physical attributes, is that
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  Speaker 2: what you're saying, like physical attributes.
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  Speaker 5: Is she taken after Adriana Lima in something because that's
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  Speaker 5: who she kind of reminds me of.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she does have like she does have that very pretty,
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  Speaker 1: like olive skin, like the natural look, the good eyebrows
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  Speaker 1: that don't need much work like whatever, like that's that's
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  Speaker 1: my type of look.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and she you said her lips are natural.
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  Speaker 1: Irena sche Yeah, I don't know, she's always had lips
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 4: Beautiful, beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: I bet, I bet I'd like to find this list once.
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  Speaker 2: Who are the top ten that people bring into doctors?
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  Speaker 4: I bet she's up there.
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  Speaker 1: I bet she's definitely.
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  Speaker 4: Up there for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Okay for yeah, defining beauty, you got, okay, defining beauty.
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  Speaker 5: I'm attracted to looks, But how I define beauty is
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  Speaker 5: almost how you treat other people like your server, your mother,
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  Speaker 5: your father, the people around you.
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  Speaker 3: That's where I find beauty. And how you treat other people,
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  Speaker 3: how piecy of you.
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  Speaker 4: I totally agree. We all know the hot chick who's stunning,
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  Speaker 4: and then we.
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  Speaker 2: Meet her and you and everybody, like, I can't be
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  Speaker 2: seen with you.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want totally dick energy to come to me,
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  Speaker 5: so I do, And that isn't PC that.
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  Speaker 3: I really I was joking got her, but no, I
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  Speaker 3: really do.
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  Speaker 5: Like I I have to be attracted visually, but now
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  Speaker 5: I have to find beauty in the person, and that's
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  Speaker 5: where I find out.
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  Speaker 3: How do you treat other people? How do you hold
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  Speaker 3: yourself you know totally?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's my Yeah, how do you hold yourself in
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  Speaker 5: you know, anxiety riddled rooms, somewhere you're not supposed to be,
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  Speaker 5: but you fit. I find beauty in that, Like, how
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  Speaker 5: can I just fit in? How can I make it work?
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  Speaker 5: Be like cordial with all these people? That's where I
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  Speaker 5: find beauty.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, why you treat others like? That's awesome?
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  Speaker 5: Ye?
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  Speaker 2: Stunning, absolutely stunning answer, absolutely beautiful answer.
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  Speaker 1: Off. Okay, so that's like the initial you obviously have
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  Speaker 1: actually attracted.
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  Speaker 5: I have to be attracted, yeah, visually attracted to you,
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  Speaker 5: and then after that, if you're a bitch, I can
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  Speaker 5: not be visually attracted to you anymore?
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  Speaker 1: Right, turned off really quickly?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 5: But there's a lot of girls that like, honestly that
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  Speaker 5: I'm not attracted to, but I see them and I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: oh damn, now I'm attracted to her.
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  Speaker 4: The attitude.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, how they're like going.
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  Speaker 5: Around, I'm like, dude, yeah, you're attractive just because the
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  Speaker 5: energy you're giving, how you're treating everybody when you go up,
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  Speaker 5: you're like, you know, you're lighthearted, just things like that,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm like, all right, you're dope. Even though you're
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  Speaker 5: not my type, you're very attractive. So I just find
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  Speaker 5: beauty in that.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, love that.
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  Speaker 1: What about you, Joss beauty?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So two answers. First one's quick is kindness. Number one.
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  Speaker 2: Kind It's like to say, that's just my number one.
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  Speaker 2: If you're not kind, like I've seen so many stunning
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  Speaker 2: women stunning men. The second I interact with you, if
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  Speaker 2: you're an asshole or rude, immediately, like truly, I am on,
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  Speaker 2: like my physical attraction to you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh it's like it like goes away. Number one. Number
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  Speaker 4: two's humor.
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  Speaker 2: Anyone with a good sense of humor is like, I
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  Speaker 2: just find so beautiful men and women like it. Just
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  Speaker 2: the second I find you have a good sense of humor,
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  Speaker 2: it's like attracting attraction level skyrockets.
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  Speaker 4: That's like the main thing.
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  Speaker 2: The thing I want to say, and I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what I would call this, but I'm just gonna like
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  Speaker 2: say it. It's like a quick story because I was
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  Speaker 2: thinking about that when you pick this. I was talking
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  Speaker 2: to my friend Edward yesterday and he was telling me
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  Speaker 2: about his aunt. I'm saying her name because I just
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  Speaker 2: love her or okay, Gloria Rodriguez. So he was telling
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  Speaker 2: me this, and I thought about this when we were
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  Speaker 2: doing how do you define beauty? She has had, like
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  Speaker 2: I won't say what, I'll just be vague, a very
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  Speaker 2: tough year.
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  Speaker 4: It got horrifically tough year.
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  Speaker 2: And she got brought up because she loves you by
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  Speaker 2: the way, loves you love the podcast, but she's had
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  Speaker 2: a tough year. And he was telling me about how
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  Speaker 2: after all she's been through and who is this? This
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  Speaker 2: is my friend Edward's aunt. I know this is random,
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  Speaker 2: but it has to do with beauty. So he's telling
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  Speaker 2: me about her year and I'm thinking like, oh, I
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  Speaker 2: know where this is going.
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  Speaker 4: She's like down and out.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever, but she's like this beautiful, kind person's who even
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  Speaker 2: though she's had a horrific year, she's like her like
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  Speaker 2: sweet to her family, cares for people, always doing things
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  Speaker 2: for others. And I don't know, I guess it's an
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  Speaker 2: unselfishness there's some sort of beauty in that where like
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  Speaker 2: you're down and out or you're at your worst and
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  Speaker 2: somehow and that's okay. If you're like sad and you
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  Speaker 2: have to sit in it and you're depressed, that's okay too.
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  Speaker 2: But there's this like beauty I find in people, especially
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  Speaker 2: if I know they're really struggling and they just like
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  Speaker 2: get up every day and they're still kind.
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  Speaker 4: What would you call that?
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  Speaker 2: It's just like a lovely I guess, yeah, like an
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  Speaker 2: optim or like soldiering through.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what it is.
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  Speaker 6: It's like it's it's a strength that someone has strength,
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  Speaker 6: but like a strength in a way that's like not
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  Speaker 6: just for you, Like you see, you hear about something
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  Speaker 6: this woman went through and you're like, even if she
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  Speaker 6: gets up every day, that's wonderful, But then she's also
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  Speaker 6: kind and cares about people and it's not about her
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  Speaker 6: every day, it's about others.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know that's beautiful to me. I'm sure there's
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  Speaker 4: an easy word for that strength, courage, like everything. So anyway,
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  Speaker 4: moving on, I thought, no.
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  Speaker 1: I love that story because I think I find beauty
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  Speaker 1: in those qualities as well. Yeah, like it's mine with women.
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  Speaker 1: I think I have wonderful taste in women.
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  Speaker 3: M Like esthetically, right, where are we going on this?
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  Speaker 1: Well, because like I'm just talking about where I find
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  Speaker 1: beauty and women and where I find beauty like handsomeness
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  Speaker 1: and men. So with chicks, like, I definitely have a
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  Speaker 1: specific type, right, I prefer like a very I would
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  Speaker 1: say that Easton and I have kind of a similar
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  Speaker 1: It's I mean, and when I'm talking about type, like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not hooking up with chicks, I'm just saying I
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  Speaker 1: can appreciate like, like I love the look of a
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  Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner. I love the look of an Olivia Colpo
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  Speaker 1: or Jennifer Lopez, Like, I just like that type of beauty.
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  Speaker 1: I've never been super into blondes. Yeah, I've hooked up
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  Speaker 1: with a blonde before, but like blondes, I'm usually not
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  Speaker 1: and I'm not saying that they're not beautiful. I'm strictly
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  Speaker 1: talking about what literally grabs me where I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: this this woman has like pretty much taken my breath away, right,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm very into female beauty. I'm not trying to
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  Speaker 1: hook up with you. I don't want to date you,
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  Speaker 1: but I find female beauty something where I can really
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  Speaker 1: really appreciate. But you're right, it can go away very quickly.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sure the Diddy stuff has a
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  Speaker 1: lot to do with Jennifer Lopez and people not really
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  Speaker 1: writing for her. Again, we don't know what she knew,
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: what she didn't know. There's a lot of conspiracy theories.
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  Speaker 3: You could say that about everybody at at his party stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Denzel Washington was.
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  Speaker 4: There, Kardashians.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but truly. And the reason why I kind
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  Speaker 1: of ride hard for people like in those situations is
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  Speaker 1: because I can relate to being like I had no
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  Speaker 1: idea and other people saying like, how could you not?
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  Speaker 1: So maybe that has something to do with Jennifer Lopez
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  Speaker 1: getting a lot of hate. There's a lot of tiktoks
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  Speaker 1: about how she claims she's Jenny from the Block and
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  Speaker 1: she used to wear her hair like this in high
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  Speaker 1: school and people are like, no, you did it. No
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  Speaker 1: one talks about you at the school. You're not liked.
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  Speaker 1: People are going in on her right Again, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know her at all, but there was a
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  Speaker 1: video of her at the met Gala and she looks
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  Speaker 1: incredible as always, and someone Salli and Gavarelli. Yes, and
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  Speaker 1: she was like so cold and like, how dare you
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  Speaker 1: even ask me a question? And she like looked at
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  Speaker 1: the girl and then turned her head and that's when
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  Speaker 1: she chose to say it. And I was like, that
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  Speaker 1: is so just like not hot, not cute, and it
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: turned you off, It turned me off. But at what
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: point do we allow people to also like have a
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: bad day? Like maybe she was like, I don't want
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: to fucking be here.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: How many times I'm.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Going through a lot today and I don't want to
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: talk about this stupid dress. And yes, I feel fortunate
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: to be here, but like I'm hanging on by a thread.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: You know, it's funny you say that, because I did
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: not get that from that clip I watched, and I
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: was like, she answered.
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: It would have been I was like, what would have
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: been rude if they said what do you want?
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: And she went, but did you see everybody else?
• 18:03
  Speaker 5: But did you see everybody else's met gallup voted like,
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: uh usher, all these people who were asked took the
• 18:09
  Speaker 5: time to like walk up and at least talk about it.
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: I bet she answered that though multiple.
• 18:14
  Speaker 5: Times, and she's going up the stairs, which how far
• 18:18
  Speaker 5: did you have to walk to get to the stairs,
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: and how many questions were you asked about what? So
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: I get it, But that's where I'm just like, So
• 18:27
  Speaker 5: it's you literally have to be on point every time
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: if you are in that position for everybody to love you,
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: but not everyone's gonna love you, so fuck it, You're
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: going to have a bad day.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna have a bad day.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Fucking let them.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: But if I were to go out on a date
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: with a dude and he was super banging and he
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: was like mean to the hostess or the waiter or
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: like didn't tip what he should be tipping, that would
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: be you just went from like a ten to it
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: two to literally like ground zero. We're done here, Like
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: give me the ick. My mom, Okay, my mom has
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: always said beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: like whoever you are. I could think someone's super attractive,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: and my mom for the most part has told me,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: I like really ugly dude, and I.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, and they're like you like pretty.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Like Easton likes the look that's like rough, like it
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: looks not And when I say rough, I mean like
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: like no, But you know what I mean, I don't know,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: but like tough.
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: When I like somebody, I like somebody with a background,
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: somebody who's been.
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: History and got some baggage.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: No, no, like that, just like family things like that.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: At school, you were bullied, you got through it.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: You have character, like correct, you.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Hold yourself at a high standard.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: And yeah, just the way like with the for his
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: ex for example, beautiful beautiful girl, he likes attractive looking women.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, but I like some lips done. Yes, she she
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: only got her lips done, but she had a booty
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: on it. I like a little slim ways with a booty.
• 20:13
  Speaker 5: I like short girl, like I got a very specific Yeah,
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: I know, it's very cute.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no she was. It like that's I like a skinnyway.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: It's a little booty.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Don't think of you to like a slim ways behind.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. When we were where did we
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: go yesterday? The beach? I was walking and there were
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: so many girls just sitting and having dinner, and I
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: was like, wow, there's a lot of girls with ass.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there are a lot of girls. The problem is
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: they don't get the credit anymore because unless you have
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: the BBL, it's like.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Hey, girls with the natural because we do see it
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: because I think they do.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: To watch the ass that the girls that do the
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: squat the ass and the let like I recognize it
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's hard work.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: Good for you, right, Yeah, but what.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Easton saying, he just likes the chick where it's like,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I've been through a lot in my life.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: I need nothing from you.
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: It's nothing.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, history history, like she she she gives me like
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: she gives me attitude when I do this. Well, here's
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: the reason why. You know, I like it.
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: Character.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: I love that I wanted to slap back at me.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: She's got a little spicy Yeah.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: I don't want like a submissive girl.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: You know, we've been trying to not cuss as much,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: but see how we do. I want to say this
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: really quick because even though my mom says you don't
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: like attractive men, I also think that my mom has
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: said that if these men would have like really shown
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: up and acted right, Twinkle Toes, Yeah, like Twinkle Toes
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: she was, Yes, I think she would think differently. But
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: I think it's because of how they treated me in
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: others that she's like, they were ugly. You don't like
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: good looking men. I think she's based on personality, right, Yes,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: what did our friends say?
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: So many good ones?
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, internal confidence of how you look makeup, no makeup,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: over or under application.
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: Confidence is key.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 22:21
  Speaker 5: When you see a girl with no makeup out, yeah,
• 22:24
  Speaker 5: like you're looking at her going like, damn, she stepped out.
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: Most dudes and I know they're like, she stepped out
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: no makeup. She's competing with all of these women. I
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: can only imagine if she put makeup on. Yeah, so
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: I like a girl like that too, Just fuck it,
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: let's go.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I find women sexiest when they have like clean face.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I don't like the big fake lash.
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: I don't like fake big ones. I like fake lashes,
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: but you don't always need them time, there's a.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: Time and the place.
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, a lots of Like I like a naturally
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: unnatural girl, sorry to cut you.
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: Off, naturally unay. Confidence in your body the way it
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: is now. So I hear that.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: I've always said confidence is beautiful, of course, and like
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: with women who are like body positivity celebrated. I had
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: a friend who was like, she felt a certain way
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: she was overweight. Her doctor told her she was obi.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: She said, I want to be healthier. I don't want
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: to celebrate this because I personally want to be healthier
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: and I respect the women who do want to celebrate it.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: But and she said, but what does frustrate me? So
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: when people say, oh, well, you should be healthier, Like,
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: first off, you don't know. Second, I understand where you're
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: coming from. But she's like, what does frustrate me is
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: people having the attitude toward me, like like they don't
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: know I'm working on myself and my body. Why can't
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I just like, yes, I know I need to lose weight,
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: but why can't I also just like love and appreciate
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: what I look like now as a work in progress.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: Like She's like, I need to lose fifty pounds, but
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: why can't I also love? Because it's like, what am
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: I supposed to not be happy with myself and confident
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: until I lose fifty pounds.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: She's like, I'm trying, but right now, I also.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Want to feel good. I also want to feel like
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: you know what, This isn't where I want to be.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: But I'm going out, I'm looking good, I'm feeling good.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: And I was like, that's a great point.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: If I agree, Look how you want as long as
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: you're healthy. Whatever your body type.
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: Is, whatever you look like, it doesn't matter your weight,
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: whatever it is, it doesn't matter as long as you
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: are healthy.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: No, she's saying, what, like, why can't she even though
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: she knows for health purposes, I need to lose x
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: amount of pounds.
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: But that's why the doctor looks that because you are healthy,
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: you're just bigger. You're fine, obviously, But that's.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Where I'm saying, like she say, But she was saying,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: but the doctor and she both decided for you to
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: live a healthy life, you have to lose x amount
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: of pounds. Why can she not sell celebrate the way
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: she looks knowing I am going to lose the fifty pounds,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: but I don't want to sit here and beat myself up.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: And then once I lose the fifty pounds, I'll celebrate.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: And you know what, you get into really really murky
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: waters when you start living that way, because once you
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: accomplish that, it will never be an yeah right, And
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I think that comes with money, It comes with job titles,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: It comes with so much if you start. And the
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: reason I can say this is because I have to
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: actively that's who I am. By nature? What is I
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: will be happy once this is over. I will be
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: happy once I do this. Guess what, this is over,
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: This is coming gone. And I still look at the
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: next thing like, oh, I'm gonna be so thrilled when
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: this is done. And it's the people around me to
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: say to me, you've got to stop and look around
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: and be.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Like, look at your accomplishment, right, be.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Grateful for or for all of these things.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: I used to say, I'll be happy when I get
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: rid of my acne, for example, the acne leaves, well,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I'll be happy once I get rid of the freckles,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: like once these fade, and once.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: I do some like get rid of your eleven, you
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: get some res.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: I'll be happy once I have my lips done.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I'll be happy when it is so dangerous because it
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: never comes.
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: Usually it never comes momentary.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: It's fleeting, and you're like, I'm happy now that's probably fleeting, right.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So I think that is a bat An internal
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: battle rather than why can't people allow me? It's like
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: hold on though, that's not real life because these people
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: who maybe aren't celebrating you, they say one thing, they
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: move on with their days. Like if you're feeling that
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: you are, that you can't live a certain way. People
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: aren't allowing you to No, no, no. And I can
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: say this because I live this way and have to
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: actively stop myself from living this way. You're not allowing
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: yourself to celebrate where you're at and what you look
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: like right now. No one else cares.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: And if they are in their assholes, they don't matter.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: No, they don't matter. That's a tough pill to swallow. Yeah,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: and you're like, wow, most people's opinions are so insignificant,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: yet I allow it to affect my day.
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: You got to surround yourself with good friends, yeah, to
• 27:21
  Speaker 5: look at you and when you don't feel like confident
• 27:23
  Speaker 5: in the outfit because of this or that, and your
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: friends go, you look fucking great.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter because you
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: can tell someone they look amazing.
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: But when you got great friends, close friends, Like I've
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: put on stuff and like my homies have been like, no,
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: you look great, and I'm like, all right, fuck it,
• 27:39
  Speaker 5: I look like an idiot. But I go out and
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: I feel confident because of my good friends giving me
• 27:44
  Speaker 5: actual You know.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Wow, what a difference between men and women.
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: I could tell someone over and over.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: John agrees, tune in.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Pretty, Sir John, I'm the same way.
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: I wear the most ridiculous clothing, like different colors, everything
• 27:59
  Speaker 5: never even matter, and my friends will like.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Look great, you look fine, You look ridiculous, but you
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: look great because it's you.
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: And as long as someone.
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: Can accept that, no matter who talks shit, you look
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: at your homies and they're like, fuck them, you look great, and.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, seeing you up. And there will be
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: someone out there who's like, I dig that guy's look.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: And because because those people are normal, they won't tell
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: you that they dig it. They'll make a mental note,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: go buy that shit a compliment.
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: But also, but that's the thing for a woman like
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: I don't know why women aren't like going out. If
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: you don't love your body, love your body, who cares?
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: Because if I see women who even are bigger and
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: they're in like, I'm like, damn.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: You look good. When you're confident, look good, you're confidence.
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: You are bringing up like you're you could have been
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: a five face wise, nothing else, and you are now
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: at ten.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: The way you're holding yourself in the confidence that you have, in.
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: The outfit that you have with the body type like,
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: that's the thing if women had confidence. Dudes are really
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: attracted to confidence, good ones at least I don't.
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: Know what they're and there's some fake till you make it.
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: I believe in that.
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: But yeah, no, I love when women are just like
• 29:03
  Speaker 5: when we were at Coachella and all of them in
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: stagecoach and all these women no matter what size, skinny
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: as hell big, they.
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: Were doing whatever, and I was fucking loving it. Weren't
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: you part of my language? No?
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I did love it. That's why I was annoyed at
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: the comment section, like all on like la times, where
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: all these people were like coming out and being celebrated
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: by everybody. At Coachella, by the way, it was like
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: we all look freaking awesome and the music's good, and
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: like do you.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: Want a mushroom?
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: It's pretty fun to go to the comment section and
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: these people are like being very unkind, and I'm like,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: what is wrong with just being like good?
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: I'm so happy all.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: These people had fun.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: I hope I can go.
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: Back school, right, how about just keep scrolling?
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Anyway, what else are people saying? I feel like we've
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: monopolized I sometimes forget that this is like a communal podcast.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: Love who you are, be confident.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Are what else is sexy? I pray that one person
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: is like strictly looks.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: There's a lot of lalla with hearts.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Like I know, that's really sweet and I so needed
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: to hear that. And I hope that people like I
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: need to put it out there that it is not gone.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: It never goes unnoticed with people that show me love,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: but specifically this past like, however many weeks or months
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: it has like really meant a lot to me. So
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: thank you for setting hearts or being nice. Yeah, I
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: appreciate it.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, it's like, uh, the bar is low,
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: so thanks for being kind you guys to a very
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: kind lady. But okay, okay, this is what kind of
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: I was getting at.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: But they are way more eloquent with their words.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Being selfless in a very selfish world, which is very
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: hard to do. The effort to do so is beauty.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: I agree, it is a selfish world. Yes, well written,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: well said. Compassion.
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: This is another one.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Compassion and for others, regardless if you're the same or not.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: I think that's oh my god, open mindedness. I didn't
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: even I think that is beautiful.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I think that's beautiful if you.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: Don't agree, But you can just be in a room
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: with people who all have different opinions and it's peaceful
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: and fun.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: And have an open mind about it.
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: Like, oh, I don't agree with that.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: I think that's stupid, but I love that you have
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: your own opinion. How you treat someone. Lots of those
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: someone's overall aura? What is an aura?
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: Like an energy?
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Energy?
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: And it's crazy because I used to hear the like
• 31:36
  Speaker 5: hippie girls there, or it's blue and.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: Fully it's like colors, right, you can have like the energy.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: That's how I mean. They'll say, they'll.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Say, like you have a lot of blue around you,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: and I don't know what it means, but I've had
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: that done. You can do like they take like pictures
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: and the colors so you can actually see and read
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: what it means.
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: But yeah, someone's aura their energy, their vibe. Like I
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: think if you go around someone and they are being
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: kind to you or whatever, but you just kind of
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: get a weird feeling when you're around them and you
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: can't explain why, just don't go around them.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I really like this one. They said, accepting
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: yourself is true beauty. Only when this happens to you
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: truly shine. And I like it because they didn't put
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: accepting And maybe they didn't mean this, but this is
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: kind of how I read it. They didn't put accepting
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: and loving yourself. They just put accepting yourself. And to me,
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: that's like there are many times in my life even now,
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: where there's so many things I have to work on
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: that I do not love about.
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: Myself at all.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: But when I can finally be like, you know what,
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: this is how I am, and I'm working on it,
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: and I've accepted myself and accepted that I need to
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: work on these things and that I have flaws and
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: that I'm an asshole.
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: Sometimes I do think that's beautiful.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: I think there's like a beauty in that I don't
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: have to love myself wholeheartedly and be like I'm the best.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: Because I'm not almost like self awareness.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, yes, but I feel like it's
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: also like circling the drain at times, or like chasing
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: your own tail when you when people are like I'm
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: working on myself, unless you're like a really crappy person,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: like we are all going to have moments of being
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  Speaker 1: a hypocrite we're people. We're all gonna have moments of
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  Speaker 1: not being self aware, being dicks. Like, there's never gonna
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  Speaker 1: be a time in my life where I'm gonna say
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  Speaker 1: I can work on that and just never be a
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  Speaker 1: dick again. Right, It's just impossible. Right, we're people. I'm
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: going to do things and then someone else could do
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  Speaker 1: the same thing and I could judge them for it,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: and it's like, Wow, in this moment, I'm not only
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: a hypocrite, I'm not self aware. We're human beings. So
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  Speaker 1: I think you also, in eccess yourself, have to say,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, like, is this something that I need
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  Speaker 1: to work on? No, this is just called a moment,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: and I'm a person. It's not a proud moment, but
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: it's it is what it is. But if you're someone
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: who's like you beat yourself up at all times, that
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: needs to be worked on.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, right, or you're.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of a dick to people like that should be
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  Speaker 1: worked on. But not these moments because you had a
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: bad day. Bad days are going to happen. Can I
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: tell you I watched Inside Out last night with my
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: daughter for the first time. The new One's coming out,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: The new One's coming out, I'm so grateful that I
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: watched it Easton. It is absolutely adorable.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: It is the different emotions.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like basically and I love the angry guy.
• 34:42
  Speaker 7: It's so who's like that said, we're going that she
• 34:46
  Speaker 7: like loses her mind and like all these and they're like, no,
• 34:51
  Speaker 7: you're touching a core memory that's happy and you're making
• 34:54
  Speaker 7: it sad.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: I think accepting the fact that we're human beings and
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: this constant and I think this is what kind of
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: gets to me when I do when I'm filming a
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: show or whatever, and I'm just having like an abbody
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: experience these past few months where I'm like, I'm kind
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: of sick of like the tit for tat and keeping
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: track of like what you did and how mine's different,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: and like psychoanalyzing why you may have done that or
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: you psychoanalyzing me. I just want everyone to be like,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: you know what, let's just like be people and like
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: do the best we fucking cat because there's a lot
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: of work. Anything that doesn't have to be worked on,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: that's not affecting your day to day, don't worry about it.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: We've got to stop putting so much pressure on ourselves.
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: Okay, try to smile and get through the day. Even
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: if I'm having a bad day, I'll try to make
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: somebody's better.
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  Speaker 1: But you know what, that's you and sometimes people can't
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: do that. I can't. If I'm having a bad day,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: I wear it on my sleeve. I wear it on
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  Speaker 1: my face at the world. I don't care. And that's
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: why I have to apologize a lot.
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: I was there too, and then I started being nice
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: to other people when I was pissed off. I know,
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  Speaker 5: Like then I see them happy and I'm like, oh,
• 36:08
  Speaker 5: maybe it's not that bad.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I force myself to smile when I'm sad.
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  Speaker 4: I try to do that too, and I look like
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: a crazy person.
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  Speaker 1: Do you you make me happy? And and so do
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: you dress. I could be having a bad day, and
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: if I see both of you, it makes me happy.
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  Speaker 4: That makes me happy, and I thank you and I
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  Speaker 4: love you.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: When I come around your family, though, I do, and
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: I tell you it's like my family. Anytime I can
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: be a bitch, and then I go around my family
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, Okay, I feel better.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what it is. It's called when you
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: have your little community. We called it passing the rock.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Like after my dad died, it was like one of
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: us would be having the worst day ever and it
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: was just one of those days of burning and like
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: mom would be the pillar of strength. So we just
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: kind of passed the rock to each other.
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  Speaker 4: And I love that.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: I've literally never heard that, and I love that I'm
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: not tell my family about it. So it's like passing
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: the like you have the rock today and you're gonna
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: have a bad day and we're all going to be here.
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  Speaker 1: You're the pillar, You're the rock today.
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: Oh, the rock is the strength.
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  Speaker 3: That day. Somebody just grabs it and goes, all right,
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: I'll figure it out, and by the way, the.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Universe just picks. It's like, you know what, Easton's the
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: strong one today and the girls are going to lose
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: their minds and it's like, well, that's fine because Easton's
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: got the rock.
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: And then there was a day where I went and.
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: We are the rock. I love that so much.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: I feel like that's happened a little lately with like
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: me and you, where I feel like I work for you,
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: but like sometimes I've shown up to the house and
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: I'm like in a certain mood and you like have
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: the rock and you've like said to me, like, you know,
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: if you ever need anything, and I'm like, so sweet,
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: or your mom or you.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: The moment I turned into an employer where I like,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: don't care about what people are going through in their
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: personal lives. I'm like, let's make that a priority. We'll
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: recognize it, and how can we structure the dynamic of
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: all of us so that we can all continue doing
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: our jobs properly and that doesn't suffer who can pick
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: up the slack in what areas? But still remember that,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: like so and so is going through something right now.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: You know the moment I don't do that anymore, someone
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: better check me well.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: That I mean it comes back to beauty because I
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: will mention this was like a month ago.
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: I texted Lalla, I want to mention it on here
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: and I said.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: Especially if you're a boss out there, and I said
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: it was like it was a day before. I said,
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but I have to take a mental
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: health day tomorrow and I did feel really bad about it,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: and like not without skipping a beat. Not only was
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: she like, of course, take it, like take care of yourself.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: The entire family was like texting me. The entire team supportive.
• 38:54
  Speaker 4: Kind just as a boss.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: It's like I feel like it's very rare or like
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: they'll go okay and then you feel guilty, but it's
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: thank you for that because it's very beautiful and they
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: like came out in droves and it's just.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: Like, thank you for everything you do with of.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: Course, as you know, you feel appreciated in love.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: And we're here to tell you that you are all beautiful.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: And if you're.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, so that's how we define beauty. Yes. And
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: that was really fun.
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: That was so fun. You guys wrote in so many
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: amazing things.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I wish maybe we'll start sharing screenshots or something.
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: I think we need to make the bonus episode a
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: little longer. You guys. I love you so much. I
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: hope you go out there and slay the day. It
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: is Monday, and I know that we all go wan,
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: but like just another day to be like, do I
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: need to work on this or is it just a
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: bad day?
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: If you're self aware of it, it's just a bad day.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: It's just a bad day. I love you, guys. Reminder,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Bonus episodes air every single Monday, and the video on
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: YouTube drop same day. Wednesdays. We have the regular old
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: give them Mala episodes and videos for that on YouTube
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: drop Fridays at ninet am Pacific time. I will catch
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: you guys next week, or I'll catch you on Wednesday.
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  Speaker 4: To welcome