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Don’t Throw a Napkin at Me!! · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.
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  Speaker 2: Here we are with another episode of two Teas and
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  Speaker 2: a pup nod and see what's going on, Cynthia.
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  Speaker 3: Just hanging out in Kelly, just enjoying my daughter Noel
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  Speaker 3: and just living life.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's nice for you, because yesterday I went tod
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  Speaker 2: this TV show with the it's called the two Minute Drill,
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  Speaker 2: and it's it's a really cool idea. But you go
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  Speaker 2: and they have like entrepreneurs on the panel as judges
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  Speaker 2: or you know, business people in some capacity, and then
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  Speaker 2: these kids come on and they give you two minutes
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  Speaker 2: of a pitch and then at the end of the pitch,
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  Speaker 2: somebody gets fifty thousand dollars. So my friend is one
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  Speaker 2: of the hosts, and I'm like, oh, yeah, of course
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  Speaker 2: I'll go do it. As I'm walking in I guess
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  Speaker 2: he films three shows a day.
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  Speaker 4: I was in the second set of shows.
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  Speaker 2: Guess Who's there?
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  Speaker 4: Saw Anya from Real Housewives in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: After I can't even tell you the amount of things
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  Speaker 2: that I've said about her on the pond, I was like,
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  Speaker 2: this was way worse than the gena of it all.
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  Speaker 4: With you and we both looked.
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  Speaker 2: At each other and she's like, Hey, that is hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: I'm actually seeing lu Ayne later. She texted me earlier
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  Speaker 3: today she's in town. I guess, so we're gonna hang
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  Speaker 3: out later on tonight before I hit back to Lante.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, but I was laughing so hard.
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  Speaker 2: And then the Dave Meltzer, who's the guy that does
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  Speaker 2: the show, had to make it worse because he doesn't
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  Speaker 2: realize there's any like awkward.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, she was.
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  Speaker 2: We were both really nice to one another, but it
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  Speaker 2: was just kind of funny, like when you're and he goes,
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  Speaker 2: I always say, you too, are just too nice to
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  Speaker 2: ever be on the Housewives. I was like, and she
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  Speaker 2: kind of looked, and I go, I'm not that nice
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  Speaker 2: on the podcast.
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  Speaker 4: Oh teddy teddy, teddy teddy. Ah, but what are you
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  Speaker 4: going to do, my friend?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, why can't people give you a little heads up,
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  Speaker 2: like you're you know you're gonna be having a time.
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  Speaker 4: I go, I am someone you need to let.
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  Speaker 2: Know if there's going to be a housewife there, solely
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  Speaker 2: because I need to know and prepare myself.
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  Speaker 4: And what I've said.
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  Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know you know what, but
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  Speaker 3: I think, like, I mean, most of the ladies don't
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  Speaker 3: take themselves that seriously unless you're just like going like
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  Speaker 3: in or whatever.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, they're on a show.
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  Speaker 3: Like when I was on the show, I expected, you know,
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  Speaker 3: podcast people like yourself and bloggers to talk about me.
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  Speaker 2: It's just, you know, it's just part of Heather Debroh
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  Speaker 2: took it that seriously for the record last year on
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  Speaker 2: the way to Bravo Con. She like cornered me on
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  Speaker 2: the plane and like gave me a talking to.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, Lauren, Okay, well, I gotta be mindful what I
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  Speaker 3: say on this podcast because from me, I'm like, listen,
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  Speaker 3: this is not my podcast.
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  Speaker 4: I am co hosting. I am feeling it.
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  Speaker 2: Look at you dodging already. We haven't even officially started.
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  Speaker 2: You already dodged. I'm gonna call you Cynthia the Dodger.
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  Speaker 4: I'm getting good. I'm getting good.
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  Speaker 3: But wait, wait, wait, I have to shout out my
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  Speaker 3: I think eight almost ten people followed me from the podcast,
• 3:20
  Speaker 3: and this is what I love. Like ten people followed me,
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  Speaker 3: and then two of them told me that they also
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  Speaker 3: followed me from their dog's accounts.
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  Speaker 4: So like, I was like, you guys are really trying
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  Speaker 4: to help me get there.
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  Speaker 2: No from the what if I.
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  Speaker 4: Had a dog account, I would follow you from there
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  Speaker 4: as well.
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  Speaker 3: I am grateful like all pets, people, animals, we do
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  Speaker 3: not discriminate.
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  Speaker 2: You are good with any It doesn't even have to
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  Speaker 2: be a huge and human form.
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  Speaker 4: You're getting there. Keep coming, keep coming up, guy, serious thought.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, all right, we have to keep it
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  Speaker 2: going every week where you let us know how many.
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  Speaker 4: More because let the countdown begin, baby steps, we're gonna
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  Speaker 4: get to that four million.
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  Speaker 2: We are getting there. So Real Housewives, Orange County. I
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  Speaker 2: thought it was a pretty good episode. I'm like getting
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  Speaker 2: into the flow.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I enjoyed it as well.
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  Speaker 3: And I was a little stressed at some you know
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  Speaker 3: points in the episode, which I will tell you when
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  Speaker 3: we get to those to those parts. But some things
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  Speaker 3: made me a little uncomfortable and we'll talk about that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. Okay, So the show starts out and
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  Speaker 2: it's Shannon and John cook dinner at his house. John
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  Speaker 2: tells Shannon her mind is always spinning and he just
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  Speaker 2: wants to have fun. Do you agree that with John
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  Speaker 2: that Shannon just needs to turn her mind off sometimes?
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  Speaker 4: And just have fun. I love watching Shannon have fun.
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  Speaker 4: Like there's nothing nothing makes me happier than Shannon having
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  Speaker 4: a tequila shot and having a good time. I just
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  Speaker 4: feel like I don't really know her really, to be honest,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I maybe met her.
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  Speaker 3: One time, but it feels like from the outside looking in,
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  Speaker 3: she can take herself like she could just be super
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  Speaker 3: serious and I just like, just have fun. It seems
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  Speaker 3: like you've been through a lot of stuff, like live life.
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  Speaker 3: So I agree with him.
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  Speaker 4: And I think she should just you know, just live life.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, even her fridge is like relax. John's
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  Speaker 2: fridge is like please back, you're breaking me down. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I've flung out with Shannon and she is a lot
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  Speaker 2: of fun. And I can't tell if when she's on
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  Speaker 2: the show she's just because you know, you when you're filming,
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  Speaker 2: you can't really have your phone easily accessible. There's like
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  Speaker 2: you have kids, there's things that you can't always have
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  Speaker 2: the answer to right now.
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  Speaker 4: So maybe she's, you know, a touch like me and
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  Speaker 4: on the.
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  Speaker 2: Controlling side of things and it just stresses her out.
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  Speaker 2: But I do think in the same tone where like
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  Speaker 2: Heather gave that advice to Gina, at some point, if
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  Speaker 2: you can't just go and have fun, your significant other
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  Speaker 2: does get sick of it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it does. It does.
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  Speaker 3: And I think, like I'm like kind of a highly
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  Speaker 3: stressed person, you know, just in general, and when I
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  Speaker 3: would film on the show, it would be stressful for
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  Speaker 3: me for the most part, Like you know, sometimes it'd
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  Speaker 3: be like no stress, but I would go in there
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  Speaker 3: with a fair amount of stress, usually with scenes. And
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  Speaker 3: I think, you know, it just kind of comes off
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  Speaker 3: like that with her, And I'm sure she's like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: the life of the party, like you know, in real life.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, but on the show, it definitely seems
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  Speaker 3: like he's a little like, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, she's on the muscle, like like maybe she's having
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  Speaker 2: to like cover certain things that maybe she doesn't necessarily
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  Speaker 2: want to have to talk about, like moving in together.
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  Speaker 2: To me, that seems like it might be a stressor
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  Speaker 2: because they don't seem like they're in that place and
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  Speaker 2: now knowing what we know now, clearly they weren't.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, see, that would be no stress for me. If
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  Speaker 3: I'm into someone, I am moving queen, they can move in.
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  Speaker 3: I'll move in, Like I actually prefer to move in
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  Speaker 3: with someone that I'm serious, you know, about our living
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  Speaker 3: or to see if we can live together if we
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  Speaker 3: especially if I want to, you know, consider taking it
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  Speaker 3: to the next level. I don't want to move in
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  Speaker 3: after we get married and then find out you know,
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  Speaker 3: everything that you know maybe like eh.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I'm a proponent of moving in together first.
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  Speaker 2: Is there a pressure for her to show right now
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  Speaker 2: that her relationship's good?
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  Speaker 4: Why would that be because of the whole thing that
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  Speaker 4: happened with the ex? Well, no, because they're broken we
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  Speaker 4: know now they're broken up.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So what would the pressure because you know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know a lot of extor because.
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  Speaker 2: Because if I don't think you just randomly break up,
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  Speaker 2: Like for example, I knew for a long time with
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  Speaker 2: my ex husband we were probably gonna break like I
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  Speaker 2: could feel it for a while. I'm sure in your
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  Speaker 2: divorce it wasn't just one day. It's not good for
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  Speaker 2: divorcing today, like there's a bill. So if you are
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  Speaker 2: like this season, I'm wondering if they're trying to figure
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  Speaker 2: it out and that's where that extra nervous energy is
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  Speaker 2: coming from, or.
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  Speaker 4: That or maybe she's just you know, moving with caution.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I mean. I think she seems like
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  Speaker 4: very like, well, let me just be sure, let me
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  Speaker 4: maybe take things slow.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but you think it's on her terms
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  Speaker 2: not his.
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  Speaker 3: Again, from what I know, I just really started watching it.
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  Speaker 3: I can't really say, like, you know more backstory than
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  Speaker 3: I do. It just feels like she's a cautious person
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  Speaker 3: like rebuilding her friendship with Tamra. She's moving with caution.
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  Speaker 3: She's excited, but she's like, Okay, let me just see.
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  Speaker 3: She just seems like that type of personality, because.
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  Speaker 2: We do see in the preview for next week, something
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  Speaker 2: has said that causes Shannon to say, if this airs,
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  Speaker 2: it will be the end of my relationship. So I
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  Speaker 2: do wonder what airs, like, what is it that she
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  Speaker 2: wants not to be?
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  Speaker 4: But I guess we'll stay tuned for that.
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  Speaker 2: Then we get to the next scene, which made me
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  Speaker 2: so excited I even had to text Emily, we missed you.
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  Speaker 2: It's so good to have you back. Tamra. Emily and
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  Speaker 2: Heather are getting their nails done. Emily tells Heather that
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  Speaker 2: she can be hurtful sometimes and comes across better than people.
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  Speaker 2: Emily thinks Heather is just not self aware of how
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  Speaker 2: she talks to people. Do you think the way Emily
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  Speaker 2: is telling Heather is too harsh or it's the way
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  Speaker 2: Heather needs to hear it.
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  Speaker 3: I love that Emily's a straight shooter. I don't think
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  Speaker 3: it's too harsh. I think she's you know, coming from
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  Speaker 3: I think her intentions, intentions are good, to be honest.
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  Speaker 3: I think she's like, hey, you know this is because
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  Speaker 3: she's not the only person that thinks this. A lot
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  Speaker 3: of the women in the group have pretty much said
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  Speaker 3: the same thing. I just think Emily's the balls you
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  Speaker 3: are winning the group to just say, hey, this is
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  Speaker 3: what's happening. Your stuff is not hitting right, it's not
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  Speaker 3: landing right, like it's making people feel some kind of way,
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  Speaker 3: and I think, you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, well, go ahead. And that's the next question because
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  Speaker 4: I think.
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  Speaker 2: Well, though I was also thinking she's Emily's probably to
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  Speaker 2: the point, you know, when you don't go on a
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  Speaker 2: trip and then you get them fifty two calls from
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  Speaker 2: all the women and they tell you everything and you're like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, Okay, So she's probably just over it,
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  Speaker 2: like she's like, listen, everybody else is beating around the
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  Speaker 2: freaking bush. So I'm just gonna give it to you here.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, but I also love Emily missed the trip,
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  Speaker 2: but there was not a chance she was going to
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  Speaker 2: miss that free champagne getting her panic here.
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  Speaker 4: Pat here, that's my girl, that is my fight. I
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  Speaker 4: feel you right, But.
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  Speaker 3: I will say I will say I don't feel like
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  Speaker 3: I choose to think that Heather is not intentionally being
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  Speaker 3: this way, which is why I want to lean on
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  Speaker 3: the side of her being just not really aware that,
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  Speaker 3: you know, some of the things may make people feel
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  Speaker 3: some kind of wed don't things you come on a
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  Speaker 3: show like this or just even in real life, she
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  Speaker 3: would be like that. But like, if you're ever going
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  Speaker 3: to like censor yourself a little bit, it's when you
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  Speaker 3: know everybody's gonna watch, you know what I'm saying, So
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  Speaker 3: I and you know, especially we live in such a
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  Speaker 3: sensitive world and everything can be picked apart, and everything
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  Speaker 3: can become a thing. I think she just doesn't realize
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  Speaker 3: it until she watches it back or someone just says, hey,
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  Speaker 3: you know what, you're kind of coming off like a
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  Speaker 3: B and C. I just refuse to believe that she
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  Speaker 3: just chooses to come on and and say these things
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  Speaker 3: and made people feel, you know, a certain kinds.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean Heather acting like she you know,
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  Speaker 2: she's like I had so much to do with my
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  Speaker 2: kids and blah blah blah, and she did. But it
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  Speaker 2: also was clear when we were watching she hired people
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  Speaker 2: to do the actual.
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  Speaker 4: Packing, like she had to delegate. Yeah, I mean she
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  Speaker 4: had to delegate.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm going to pretend that I don't like nice
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  Speaker 2: things or that I also can't like scale back. But like,
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  Speaker 2: for an example, once I was in introduced to the
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  Speaker 2: world of traveling first class or business, it is very
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  Speaker 2: hard for me now to be like I I'm going
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  Speaker 2: and coach I'm going in Southwest, like because I have
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  Speaker 2: tasted the better life and that's where then I have
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  Speaker 2: to decide is the money that I make. We'reth that
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  Speaker 2: investment of my comfort level and having that glass of
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  Speaker 2: champagne and actually being able to eat something other than this.
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  Speaker 2: They don't even serve nuts anymore because everyone's freaking allergic.
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: But whatever it is, like a biscus could be like,
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  Speaker 2: I understand that, but I also am aware of that situation.
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  Speaker 4: Like I will warn people, like if we're going.
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  Speaker 2: On a girls trip like with my friends, or if
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  Speaker 2: we're going on trips with families. I'm like, listen, I'm
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: gonna be bougie on this one. Like I am going
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: to fly business with my family. Does not mean you
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  Speaker 2: and your family have to. But this is where I
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  Speaker 2: am picky. Granted, like other stuff, I'm like, I get
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  Speaker 2: me dirty, I'm good, but like it's just I'm a
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  Speaker 2: nervous flyer anyway, So just but I think i'm at
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  Speaker 2: least Yes, you can be a little bit of an
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  Speaker 2: asshole or have your preferred preferences, but you should be
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  Speaker 2: aware of them.
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  Speaker 4: Exactly. I agree. I agree, And when it comes to travel,
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  Speaker 4: we're on the same page. Like I will eat raw
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  Speaker 4: Ma noodles.
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  Speaker 3: For years and make sure when it's time to go
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  Speaker 3: on a vacation, I'm standing in a nice hotel. I'm
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  Speaker 3: flying first private if I can work that out, Like
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  Speaker 3: I know how to move my money around and make
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  Speaker 3: it fit. How you know where it matters to me personally,
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  Speaker 3: because I just you know, we work hard. I want
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  Speaker 3: to enjoy the things that I enjoy, and traveling well
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  Speaker 3: is one of them.
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  Speaker 2: But I also wonder if it's because she has had
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  Speaker 2: it for so long, like she's been doing like for me,
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  Speaker 2: this is a newer thing. Like when I first met Edwin,
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  Speaker 2: we didn't fly first class or business like. We both
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: were just figuring out our careers and blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 2: And then I remember the first time we did we
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: both like kind of looked at each other and we're like, oh, yeah,
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: we've opened a new cat worms here, we've created a monster,
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  Speaker 2: and now we've created monsters and our kids. But I'm
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  Speaker 2: just wondering if she's so many years and that maybe
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  Speaker 2: that's why she can't.
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  Speaker 4: No, I don't know who knows. I'm just going down
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  Speaker 4: the rabbit And yeah, I mean it does.
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  Speaker 3: Like you know, I think it's easy to get comfortable
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  Speaker 3: with you know, your wealth and success and all that stuff,
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  Speaker 3: and you know you don't really I mean, once it's
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: hard to go back remember the old days where you're like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 3: you know you would you know, you just wouldn't move
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  Speaker 3: a little differently because you had to. When I first
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: started traveling, my sister used to work for Continental, which
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: is I think now United, and I was on her
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: buddy pass, honey. So if anybody knows how to work,
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  Speaker 3: like forget that happened to get on the damn plane.
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  Speaker 3: Half the time, I was the person like they're like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: it's five seats, so but I was like watching them
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  Speaker 3: on until.
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  Speaker 4: Like a hawk the whole time.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta get on, and like, you know, I always
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  Speaker 3: had a crappy seat, but I was like, I'm on
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  Speaker 3: the plane and at the end of the day, we're
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  Speaker 3: gonna we're gonna still get there. So I have evolved
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  Speaker 3: a lot and I appreciate, you know, all of it.
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  Speaker 4: So and I think that's what it's about, just you know,
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  Speaker 4: being grateful and you know.
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  Speaker 2: Being grateful. But then they didn't really do any favors
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  Speaker 2: when they She's walking in and she's holding her back
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  Speaker 2: and then she's like, I shoveled shit. And I also
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: threw an axe, and I'm like, oh god, Heather, you're
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: walking right into it. And listen, I'm old. My back
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: would probably hurt if I threw an axe too. I'm
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: sore right now for orange theory this morning, and I
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: think I have ten pounders. But like I, I don't know,
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: there's a difference between work.
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  Speaker 3: She said, somebody said something that made me laugh about loud.
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  Speaker 3: So someone said they've been shoveling shit their whole life.
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  Speaker 4: Is. I mean when I tell you, I was like,
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  Speaker 4: that is so me.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, what, like, Okay, I get to go on
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  Speaker 3: this fabulous trip and like the one bad thing I
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: have to do is shovel some shit.
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  Speaker 4: But I get to like I have all this other.
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  Speaker 3: Amazing things happened on a trip, like Okay, where's the shovel?
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  Speaker 2: Like yeah, well, also, I mean clearly I paid a
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  Speaker 2: shovel shit.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: We're about to slate is here with her headphones.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: On, but the second we're done, we're going to the
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: horse show to go shovel some shit and take care
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: of our words.
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: I pay a lot of money to shovel shit. Yeah, Okay.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Then we get to Gina goes to Gen's yoga studio
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: and they talk about Montana. Gina says that Jen's story
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: made her process and things she wasn't aware of. They
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: agree that Montana was a good thing for their friendship.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Did this conversation make you feel any different about Gina? Yes?
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: Lord, it was like the best thing ever. I really
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: enjoy this conversation. I love that they got together. I'm
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: excited to see where this friendship is going to go.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: And it definitely made me, you know, I've always liked Gina.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: I just want to know more about her, and I
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: just felt like she was kind of making Jen's thing
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: her thing a little bit, and yeah, like, okay, you
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: can be you can you know, feel how you want
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: to feel, but it shouldn't be that upsetting to you
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: because it's not You're not it's not really your thing.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: But anyway, I love that they talked, and you know,
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: I God, I just feel bad for Jen and I
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: just want her to have somebody to have her back
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: on that show and just have someone she could just
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: really be, like, just really say whatever needs to be
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: said to and hopefully maybe Gina may be that person,
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: because I think that Jen has to open up a
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: little bit more about the situation because it doesn't seem
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: like it's going away anytime soon.
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: So I think, yeah, I agree with you.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: I wish Jen would just say, listen, you guys, I
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: was a marriage for whatever it was. Let's say it
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: was fourteen eighteen. It was a lot about it was
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: a lot of years, eighteen years, and at the end
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: of the day, I wasn't fulfilled, I wasn't happy, and
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, this new guy came in. He
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: made me feel special, made me feel alive, and listen,
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: it's not perfect. He may cheat on me, it may
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: have already happened, but at this point in time, I
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: am enjoying.
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: My life, right. I don't really care what you guys
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: have to say here.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: If I come to you crying because of something he did,
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: you're welcome to say.
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: But until then, leave me alone. Like I almost wish
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: she would just get them all together, literally, do a
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: PowerPoint presentation, be like, okay, y'all, woman, break it out
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: the way to him. This is what happened, this is
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: where I'm at, and I wanted some good d and
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: get off my ass about it.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: If this man cheats on me, that is my crusty beer.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: For now, I'm gonna enjoy this dick.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: Leave me alone, Okay like that?
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: That's all I want her to say is yeah, I
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: know the rumors they could or could not be true.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: At this point in time, we are happy and that's
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: what I'm going with. So go kick rocks and worry
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: about your own relationships exactly.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: And unless someone in the group has actually slept with
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: my man, not him, say allegedly that he wanted to.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: And if somebody can't produce like a solid reason for
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: me to like, leave this man, leave me alone, let me,
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: let me crash and burn. I don't care, just let
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: it go. And I think if she did that and
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: just stood on it, they would have to move on
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: to somebody else.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you have to imagine when I first
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: met Edwin, he had a two month old baby. He
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: and like everybody I know, was like, what are you doing?
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Like this is going to be And the more people
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: told me what are you doing, the more I lean
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: right in and I was like, I'm going for it.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: And I still remember the first time I had Edwin
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: in the car with my dad. We went to go
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: visit them for Thanksgiving or something like this. At this
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: point we've been together like eight months or whatever, and
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: my dad goes, I've done some research on your history
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: and I just want you to know you hurt her,
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: you're dead, And like that, I am almost more okay
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: with If somebody wants to say to Ryan, Ryan, your
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: reputation is shit.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: We don't want you hurting our friend Jen, right, do
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: it right there? Jen gonna do about it.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Clearly, she is in a situation where she's in love
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: with this guy or enjoying this guy, And I'm sorry.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: I think probably one hundred percent of us have been
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: in that situation before.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely at one point in time or another.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Maybe they're not cheaters, Maybe they're money launders, maybe they're this,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: maybe they're you know, who knows? I good amount of
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: ass how assholes out there?
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm single. I'm looking for that situation
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: to some degree.
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: I want some Okay, we should all be so lucky
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: to be walking around on cloud nine because giving a
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: test so good.
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: Ride it out, girl, More power to you.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: You had a what an You had a good run.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: She seems like you enjoyed every second, every minute of it.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I'm looking for, like, like, that sounds like a pretty
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: good thing.
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: You're like, I'm looking forward just for six good minutes. Okay.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: Then we get into Shannon thrift shopping with her daughters.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: But the part that kills me on this is she's
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: worried about off gassing the clothes before wearing them. But meanwhile,
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: all I could think about is Shannon doing like twenty
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: eight tequila shot. It's so good what people are particular
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: about I just love it.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that was crazy crazy.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: Also, like I don't know how as when you're shopping
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: with Noel. But yesterday after work, we're like where we're
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: staying right now that we're like right on the little
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: board walk where.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: There's all these little shops.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: And I tried to get Slate to try on something
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: that I thought was really cute, and she looked at
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: me like she wanted me dead, Like I'm like, this
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: is so granted, I look ridiculous right now because I'm
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: in my riding clothes and like my my formal visor.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: But I was like, this is so cute, this little
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: two piece, and she honestly was like this, yeah.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: And so you have to find something that you actually
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: like and say it's awful.
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: And then I don't think it's kind of cute.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Actually I think I get it, Like I think the
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: fact I think they don't like anything that we like,
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, because then it's uncool.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: But yet they'll borrow all my stuff. They wear my
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: sized shoes, and all of a sudden, I'm like, are
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: those my sneakers? Oh yeah, I'm like, oh, I thought
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: I have terrible tastes. But that was pretty expensive thirty
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: two sixty eight. I was like, for Pete's sakes, that's
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: expensive for off gas clothes.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: All right, then we keep it moving. Why are they
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: on another duffy? I'm confused? This is the second duffy, right, Wasn't.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: The other boat a duffy as well?
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: Was this one seemed a little tighter for some reason?
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: Because they kept loading on I kept getting a little concern.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: I was like, no, hell, big is this duffy? Because
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: it just feels like a lot of people sitting on
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: here now and I look everyone I had on like
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: really cool platform shoes, which I'm like, I don't know
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: if that was the bright shoe choice to begin off
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: and deafy, but anyway, I was like noticing all.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: I was slightly confused by some of the outfit choices
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: as well, Like I thought Taylor really had it right,
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Like she's got a loose, flowy dress. She's brought like
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: a little jacket kaled, but like some of them are
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: like formal wear.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: I'm like, what is happening?
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: This is what theme is always good because just kind
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: of keep everybody on threat because they were a little
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: all over the place nearly.
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: Some casual. Then like Shannon comes down with her like
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: quarter length.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Like red like cocktail dress. Yeah, then we've got and
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: everybody was all over the board. I can't remember what
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: Heather had on, but yeah, it was it was.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: It was interesting. I did like that it was pink pink.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: And then I was confused, why is the acting coach
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: that taught them how to breathe out of their who
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: has to prepare for acting there?
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: You know that. I was wondering where that going to go?
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: But I think she did.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: She was just invited because I thought that was Usually
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: someone comes to a scene and they're not an actual
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: housewife or a friend of the show, there's a damn
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: good reason why production has been there, and as it
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: played out, it just seemed like she was just an
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: invited guest.
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: I can't But.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Also, if we would have met her first because she
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: was friends with Taylor, that would have made sense. But
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: we met her first because Taylor was paying her.
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: To teach her acting lessons, right right?
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah? So then how did I don't know? I was
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: I was a little lost there.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: I mean, granted, she looked really cute, but I think
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: they only showed her to say two words.
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: For me, it was like normally it's you know, they
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: produce these shows intentionally. It's usually a reason if if
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: in our group, if some person shows up, somebody got something,
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: you better believe she's being's husband had to drop a
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: bomb on her hands.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Is this Ryan's girlfriend?
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: Are you on Ryan's snapchat?
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to tell you, Like I kept waiting on
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: some bombs drop. I was like, oooh, okay, so this
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: is bigger than the whole acting coach thing, Like she's
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: here to like drop some some other situation on us,
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: and it just didn't happen.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: So seemed like a nice enough lady. So you know,
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: I don't know. Yeah, well we'll have to see.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: But do you think that it's been refreshing to see
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: like the drama wrapped up on both ends, Like now
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: they're at this point in time.
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: You think everybody's pretty good. We're good. We're good on
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: the movie now. I think it got enough.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Episodes at this point, even made it to a trip,
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: So I think we're good.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: The only thing I'm not super clear on just for clarity, Teddy,
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: So now that it's done, so Heather's no not gonna
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: be in a movie right because I was well key
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: wanting to see her acting skills at this point with
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: all the talk about her IMDb and all that stuff.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: So I was like, you know what, I kind of
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: want her to actually do the movie in the end,
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: but it seems like that's just not gonna happen.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Well, let's let's book another show then, and let's see
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: some action and Taylor, if they're still casting, me and
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Cynthia are both still available. I mean, Cynthia is going
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: right up the chain right now because she has eight
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: more followers than last week, so it's.
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: Gonna be hard to get us, but I'm going up listen.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm glad to kind of see this
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: wrap up. And it wasn't that big of a deal.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: So I'm glad they didn't like make it like some
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: horrible thing at the end, like you know, she's not
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: you know, she didn't want to do it, and they
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: talked it out and they drug it out long enough.
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: We're good here.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: Oh. Also, just so you guys know, I was getting
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: dms about why I still post or do things on
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Instagram and why I haven't said anything about the writer's strength.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: I am personally not an actor.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: I am on I was I was on a reality
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: television show but we are not SAG. So anybody on
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: a reality show is not SAG. Just to give you background,
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: and any reality shows yeah also aren't. Like, yes, there's
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: we are supportive of the strike for SAG and for
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: the Writers Guild, but neither of If you're on reality television,
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: there's no SAG and there's no writers guilt.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: So that's why unfortunately, you know.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so there are no unions for the low lives
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: like us, like trust and believe, Like after years of
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: being on Housewives, I would love for them.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: VINSTAG after so I gets some residuals because now it's.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: Just like all of the bloods, wit and tears, those
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: things can rerun for the rest of my life and
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: I don't see another dime. So I will that that
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: was not the case. But totally supportive of the strike
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: in every single way. And uh, you know, just praying
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: this thing wraps up sooner than later.
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: So yeah, and I.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Hope that we don't see AIS if everybody wanted around.
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: No, nobody needs to see an AI of me, that's
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: for sure. One is enough for everyone. Okay, then they
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: get to Nobu.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: Tamra tells Jen to be honest about her past. Tamra
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: says she worries for Gen because she left her world
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: for Ryan. Jen says she did not leave her world
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: for Ryan, and then Tamra says she does not think
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Ryan will be loyal to.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: Jen for the rest of her life.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: Do you think that she's being a good friend here
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: or do you think she's being too messy?
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: I think Tamra started off being a good friend, and
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: I think her intentions were good.
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: But now this is coming.
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: Off like I feel like it's starting to get a
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: little messy because I feel like Tammer's kind of dragging
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: it a little bit, and she just keeps, like, you know,
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: making it a thing with Jin Like once you say
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: like for me, it's like once you tell me what
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: it is and you say like, okay, and this, he
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: said this, and he said that and whatever.
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: Once you just say it to me to my face
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: and I choose to still stay with this man, We're good,
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: like let me let it. I feel like it just keeps.
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: I feel like they're just riding her ass about it.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: I'm just like, listen, it's it's almost like now. The
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: fact that they won't let it go, or at least
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: camera won't let it go. It's almost like, why won't
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: you just let this go?
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, this is what I would say. You
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: love to play the games and set the things up.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: So Renna loved doing it at dinners too. At this dinner,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: this would have been the time where we could have
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: gotten to know all the women better and somebody could
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: have brought up the game let's talk about a relationship.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: So let's talk about the best part and the worst part,
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: and everybody could share at that point, and then it
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: opens up a place where somebody then would potentially feel
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: comfortable to share. There's always you know, because this man
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: was once a cheater. I am worried it will happen
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: to me again, but you know, I'm going, you know,
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: whatever it is. I do think Tamara is trying to
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: just really have it sink into genin like this is
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: this is bad news. But instead of Jen actually fighting back,
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: I really would rather somebody actually say what it is
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: than say what She kind of like threatened Tamar, like
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: not threatened, but she was like, don't make me go there, Tamar.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: And then I'm like, we'll go there, because if you're
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: gonna say it now, my head goes to the worst place. Ever,
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: and then when I actually found out what it was,
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: it was just that Tamor may a joke about like
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: let me take one for the team. I was like, well,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: that's not even bad, right, but a napkin throw it
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: in your face for that?
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: I perked up when she said don't maybe go there, Tammer,
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: because I was like, oh, here we go, and I'm like,
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: go there, go there, go there.
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: What's get rid of to happen?
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: And I definitely feel like when she released it, it
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: was kind of like, Okay, well, first of all, just
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: knowing a little bit of Tama's personality, I absolutely think
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: she would say that in two seconds because.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: She just you know, says whatever and she just without
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: any without it, Like, I.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: Don't think she would, like, you know, if she was
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: serious about it, I think she would be serious about it.
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: But for the most part, Tama's got of a loose cannon.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: She says, you know, she talks stuff all the time.
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: So that would not be a big deal for me
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: knowing Tamrack. You know what I'm saying that just to
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: be like, Okay, Tamras is talking shit, you know what
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: I mean?
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I like Jen, but now I need her
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: to step it up and either hit back or just
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: really lay it all on the table, because if not,
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: this storyline may ever end.
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, Jenny's definitely open her mouth and just lay
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: it out because it's time. It's going to go away, and.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: It's just making it feel like it's just making it
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: seem like.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: I don't know, it's getting walked over a little bit,
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: which you know, I give her the benefit of the
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: doubt because she's first season and she's probably still in shock,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: and she's I think even though you know, we know
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: that her and Tamor and this other Heather and mean
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: girl had her falling out, I think she's still trying
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: to save her this relationship.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just I think when you come in a
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: group like whatever it is that you are, you have
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: to be able to command some kind of respect from
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: the leaders because they're not going to respect you if
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: you don't do that. And I think now it's teetering
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: toward like you know, it's just making me feel like
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: they just don't respect her because they're not gonna come
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: at everybody like that, you know what I mean. It's
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: like they're on her butt, and I think she's the
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: only person that can shut that down and just and it.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I wanted to shut it down because at the end
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: of the day, I'm not like, hey, you know whatever,
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: I don't you know, have an opinion really about Like
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: I don't know her life, like honestly outside of the show,
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: but I know that, you know, in relationships and.
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: Marriages, things happen, and it's just nice.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: And I am supportive of her owning her stuff and
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: doing what she wants to do with her grown life. Okay, yeah,
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: and being done with it. Now we're going to talk
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: about the napkin now, because that was That was okay.
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: So what would you have done if somebody through a
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: napkin in your face?
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: Well, first of all, if someone threw anything at dinner, anything, water, napkin, whatever.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: I would definitely respond. I'm not like, hey, I'm gonna
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: jump across the table like a spider monkey and fight.
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: This person, but at the very least, a napkin's gotta
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: go back in that person's face, if not a glass
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: of water, Like I'm not gonna sit there and like
• 35:21
  Speaker 4: let the napkin hit my face and just fall off
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: and do nothing. And then this person and then you know,
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: I was like maybe she was in shock, because.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Sometimes you're like, yeah, it just happened. But once Standra
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: left and came back, at that point, the shot is
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: worn off and you're like this woman threw a napkin
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: in my face, like she violated my space. She like
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: disrespected me for sure. Yeah, and I gotta she gotta
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: get get back for sure.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: So I don't know, she needs to like come on,
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: come on, and even if you don't want to, like
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't probably throw a napkin back. I don't think.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: I think I would have at that point killed somebody
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: with words, yeah, and like I would have light.
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: She didn't even bring it up.
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: When Tamar came back, she didn't bring up the napping thing,
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: which I was like, oh, she's gonna like say something
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: like I don't.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Know or I would have like if I had, if
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: like I'm trying to remember like how meek I was
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: my first season, like how not myself I was. If anything,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: I would have been like this, I'm leaving. I'm not
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: dealing with this, Like.
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: If you don't have throw your napping back, leave something.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: Something had to happen, and it just made me uncomfortable
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: that it didn't happen. But I will say I was
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: a little disappointed in Tamra, who is such a firecracker
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: and a wordsmith that she just couldn't light gin light
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: light her up with her words, because you know, Tamra's
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: very quick on her feet. I didn't like that Tammer
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: through that napkin because I feel like, you know, when
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: you do things like that, you open up the door
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: for things to actually escalate.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: And get it. Yeah, and on a ladder.
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: You thought napping into somebody's face, you may as well
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: have thrown a chair because it's going to escalate.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: Like how did you see all the video else from Potomac?
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: Yes this past week?
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you don't want you don't want to. I
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: just think you have to respect people's space. Now you
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: can read them for philth, you can curse them out,
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: you can do whatever you want to do with your words.
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: And again, Tamra's my girl. Tama knows how.
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: To like land the plane and get a point across
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: and say what she needs to say. Although I wish
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: jin Haud have stood up in some way, even if
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: it was just to stand up and say, you know
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: what this is really to lower myself to even engage
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: in this anymore and I'm leaving. I would have gotten
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: on the little pink boat and went back, and I would.
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: Have just I would have swam back if I needed to. Oh,
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: I would have faded back anything, anything. My butt would
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: have left.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: Okay, but I might have packed up my food to
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: go because the food looked like it was good. If
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: I did nothing else after I watched this show, I
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: ordered sushi.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: Because then you come back. And then they're into a
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: new conversation where Emily's telling Heather that she has a
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: phony relationship with Tamra and thinks that Heather is afraid
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: of Tamra. Gina chimes in and tells Heather that she
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: did not appreciate her bringing up his son getting his
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: real estate at the same time she is announcing it.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: Gina tells Heather that it felt condescending. Heather says she's
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: going to work on it. Here's the thing. I don't
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: think that Heather was meaning to be condescending to Gina
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: when she brought up the real estate license thing. But
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: I don't like when somebody doesn't just apologizes and says
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: they're going to work on it, Like if you said
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: to me Teddy, it was really condescending when you did
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. If I care about you, my initial
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: response is sorry, right, and then I will say, you
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: know whatever it may be, Like I can't even believe
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: that I was so.
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: Absent minded that I would say that to you. I'm
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: gonna figure it's not gonna.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: Happen again, right, but I'm gonna work on it. Is
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: also a little bit condescent, like, oh, okay, I'll work
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: on it.
• 39:23
  Speaker 4: I don't like you will say I'll work on it. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: It's kind of like when people say, when you're like
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: excited about something that may not be a big deal
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: to them, it's a big deal for you, and they say, oh,
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: I love.
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: That for you.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like you, you.
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: Love it for me, like I love it for the world, Like, yeah,
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: I love it for you.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Oh that's so good for you.
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: Oh isn't that great?
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: That's something to you.
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: Oh you're getting your real estate license.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: But there's a lot to unpack here. Do you think
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: that Gene and Emily really care about how they's friendship
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: or do you think they care about the proximity to
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Heather because she feels like a higher level housewife.
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: Okay, higher level housewife.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: Do you think that she thinks I'm one of the originals,
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: I've been here longer. And do you think that Heather
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: actually really likes Tamra or she just knows that Tamra
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: is the one not to piss off, is the one
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: that is the most fun.
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: I don't think any of the ladies really want any
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: real smoke with Tamra because camera Tamra goes in okay,
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: and not only does she go into the show, and
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: she can take it to social media too, like someone
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: and like it's like it's like the worst, but you
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: have like conflict with someone on the show and then
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: they're dragging you're ass on social media too. So I
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: wouldn't want to smoke with her if I was on.
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: So I think a lot of ladies are like, who
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: gonna fight with this? Not Tim, I'm just getting paid
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: on the show. Isn't even worth it at this point.
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: So I think I think a lot of the women
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: are kind of afraid to do that, which is why
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: I do like the ones who will kind of hold
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: her accountable. You know, Shannon, the whole thing with the friendship,
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: she kind of she may Tamra earn that friendship back.
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: I can tell you that right now and now.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: I think Tamora will respect those boundaries that you know,
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: wherever it is with you know, she and Shannon, she
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: will respect those boundaries because she made it a little
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: difficult for her to get back over there in the
• 41:29
  Speaker 4: friendly with her and Emily.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: I feel like I just like Emily because I just
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: feel like she's just real and she just calls it
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: like it is.
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: And you know, I don't know.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: I think Heather may not want any real smoke with Tamra,
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: but I do feel like because she was so sad
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: when or seemed like a little down when Shannon and
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: tamarraa got back together, kind of being left out, I
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: think she does like being friends with her, but I
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: think she's a little like, you know, I don't I
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: don't want to smoke with her.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: At the same time, Yeah, I mean, I think she'd
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: rather be friends with Tamra and Shannon and Gina and
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: Emily if she were to peck because.
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: Popularity reasons on the show. Also that's true too, that's
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: true too. But also I will say this just common sense.
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: If you're gonna be on a reality show, I definitely
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: would rather attach myself with the villains than not. You
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: want to get a villain off your ass, be friends
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: with them, you know what I'm saying. And then you
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: just watched them light everybody else up.
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: So it's like, I think that part up. Oh, I definitely.
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, if I'm over here with them on
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: their team, then I'm.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: Safe because they can't really come to me because I'm like,
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: you know, they're back up, you know what I'm saying.
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: So, so are you? Are you saying Tamara's the villain, Cynthia, I'm.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: Not saying that Tamra's a villain. Maybe villain is not
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: the word. But Tamara knows how to go in there
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: and stir it a pot and get stuff moving around.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: She knows how to come in there and insert herself
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: and get a scene poppin' for sure. So it's not
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: a villain. But she's gonna do what she's gotta do to,
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: you know, keep us entertained.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: So if you had to pick two wives from Orange
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: County that you could just go party with, who would
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: they be? Not on the television show Just Real Life?
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: Oh for More, Wait for More County, And they don't
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: have to be on the show. No, like we wouldn't
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: be filming just like if.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: You have.
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: Definitely Tamor because she's fun.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: And me too, what so whatever is happening here, like
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: we I'm loving the even though they can both come
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: off maybe abrasive aggressive. I would rather know I'm gonna
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: get what it is right from the person than feeling
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: like somebody is gonna be passive with me or not
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: tell me or talk about me behind my back. So
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: what I can say is, even though Tamar is coming
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: for Jen a little bit, then all of a sudden,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: other people pipe in, I forgot if it was Gina
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: our Emily.
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: They're like, oh, yeah, we heard that.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: We knew that. So it's like I would if it's
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: gonna come out, I'd rather the person just come.
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: Out and tell me Attlena, and I'd love Tambor for that.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: I think now she just has to leave it alone
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: a little bit, because I think Jen just has to
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: like stand up and owner stuff and like just shut
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: these girls down. But my only thing with Tamar is
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: I just don't like disrespecting people's face. I don't like
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: throwing things in people's face, so that I'll never like yeah, no.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: That was I Now. When I saw tampdall, I was like,
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: damn it, tam And then the way the noise made
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: when I was like, oooh no, not her best move.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: But then we get over to I'm a little confused this.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: Heather gets a text from Terry saying that David Shannon's
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: ex's husband is getting a divorce from his wife.
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: Leslie.
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: Shannon says that she already knew, but says she's worried
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: that it will cut into her financial situation.
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: That can affect your children.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, if that were you that got the text, would
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: you have waited until cameras were down to bring it
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: up or would you have just brought it up right then?
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: If I was friends with the person, like real friends
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: with the person, I would have waited until after the
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: cameras were damn. But if I wasn't a close with
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: the person, I would have been like, this is my
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: this is where I turn up and sing yeah to
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: show oh, oh my goodness, I just got this really
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: weird text.
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: I mean it's like a gift at this point where
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: you're shooting the scene to get like some random text
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: about something that had nothing to do with and then
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: your friends is very game because they're going to read it.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: And I also have a question, is Terry actually code
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: for either a TMZ alert or whoever the producer is
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: on the side. I was like, it's tearing the brow really,
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: like sitting at home, like awful, Like I cannot imagine
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: Edwin doing.
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: That, like right right, right.
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, But it was good that Shannon knew already. She
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: didn't seem like she was traumatized.
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: That it was rare.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: No, but did you see her eyes started welling up
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: with tears when they said yes, when they said this
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: is the anniversary. It was some sort of anniversary with
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: her David the day that they filed.
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: Oh, that's right, that's right toward the end. That did happen?
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: I know, so, I I mean, I wasn't surprised that
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: those two got it deforced. I mean, I think they
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: filed multiple times. It seemed like a tumultuous relationship.
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: But I don't know.
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: For some reason in my gut, I feel like we're
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: going to see David Badoor again at some point on
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: this show.
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: I don't know, what would you have done? Would you
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: have told read the text at the table or.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, for sure, Because here's the thing. If it
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: was if I got a TMZ alert saying that John,
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: like her current boyfriend, was doing something, No, I wouldn't
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: have read that at the table, right, but her ex
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: husband getting a divorce, Like that's I mean, it's not
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: to be an asshole.
• 47:18
  Speaker 4: That's kind of goodness did work for that either he's
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: still an asshole. And it wasn't something like super scandalous
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: or anything like that. It was just like just news
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: like they're getting a divorce. So you know, I've.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: Had to drop worse bombs. Yeah, So that one would
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: have been like, oh, this is easy, all right.
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, someone's like, would you even care if somebody said
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: your ex husband was getting a divorce from his wife
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: after you?
• 47:43
  Speaker 4: Like what do what?
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: You know we're not together getting married and divorced whatever,
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, if.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: You do you yeah, well that's the end of the episode.
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: We just it blows right by Cynthia when we're having fun.
• 47:57
  Speaker 4: I know, right, No, this this was a good one.
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: I had to actually look.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: I even wrote little notes because I was like, I
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: gotta have my thoughts together because I was like, whoa
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: theres a lot going on here.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: I love how you put it on note cards too,
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: a little flash cards.
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, totally. Oh you're so cute call me Heather Dubrow.
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: I'm so cute for you that you did that. I
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: do the iPad love that for me. I took my
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: little job seriously over here.
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: I was like, let me collect my thoughts because again,
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know a lot of backstory, which I never
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: said I did when you guys have to be on here.
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: But I'm learning and I'm.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: Enjoying, you know, getting to know these ladies on Orange County,
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: and this is fun.
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: So I like to be as prepared as I can be.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Well, I like it too, and I always have fun
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: with you. You guys. Make sure priority of this episode
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: is to go over and follows because we're keeping a tally.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: And those of you that follow Cynthia that don't follow me,
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: like hello, helped me out four Remelion, I'm at one
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: point one, like help me.
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: Better get teddy.
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: I'm close to close to four, and every follow counts.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: Trust me, I do not You guys do not go unnoticed.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: And I love when you guys leave me comments. I
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: always try to respond to you. Guys, and thank you guys,
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: because hey, it's it's a long broke like that for
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: like once, once you start getting up there, it gets
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: it's a struggle. Like you know, the first fifty thousand
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: was like okay, then after that it's like, I mean,
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: you guys will see you, guys.
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: Guys, don't worry. We pissed people off and we lose
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: them just as quickly as why do you want to
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: get into that?
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: Like every like what if I got like maybe twenty
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: five followers, I've probably lost you know.
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: A thousand.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: You know what.
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: They come on, they they dropping life flas so you
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: know what I mean, It's like.
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: What man, only as that as your last post? Oh
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: my gosh, Well, I love you. I will talk to
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: you next week.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: And louay and I.
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: Said, hi, I know she texted me too.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: I'm bummed that I'm not in La.
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: I'm an oc or. I'll I would meet you guys.
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I will, but next time definitely for sure.
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: All right, love you guys, talk soon.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: Bye bye