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- 0:03Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken.
- 0:05Speaker 2: It's your dose of the hottest influencer and pop culture
- 0:08Speaker 2: news twice a week. I'm Sophie Torber and coming up
- 0:12Speaker 2: on today's show. Bec Judd triggers fans in viral fake
- 0:16Speaker 2: tan video. Indie Clinton sparks debate after launching subscriber-only content
- 0:21Speaker 2: on TikTok. And Steph Claire Smith and Laura Henshaw address
- 0:25Speaker 2: feud rumors. But first, Sarah's Day has revealed she's got
- 0:29Speaker 2: a thing for calling her kids after brands she works with.
- 0:33Speaker 2: This week, Sarah, who is pregnant with her third son,
- 0:36Speaker 2: released a YouTube video revealing the list of girls' names
- 0:39Speaker 2: she won't be using.
- 0:41Speaker 3: I'll say one of my favorite names now, Bloom. We
- 0:44Speaker 3: were going to call Fox Bloom if he was a girl.
- 0:47Speaker 3: We were going to call her him. We're going to
- 0:50Speaker 3: call the baby, if it was a girl, Bloom Harper.
- 0:52Speaker 3: So Harper for a middle name I love. Unfortunately, I
- 0:55Speaker 3: feel like it's so popular now.
- 0:56Speaker 2: I feel like every second girl I meet is a Harper.
- 0:59Speaker 3: But still, I think it's a beautiful name.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Bloom is a really beautiful name.
- 1:02Speaker 2: But all I could think about was back in 2018
- 1:05Speaker 2: when Sarah first fell pregnant, she brought out a drink
- 1:08Speaker 2: called Body Bloom with Tropica. And it was this pink
- 1:11Speaker 2: powder that she used to stir into water. And it
- 1:14Speaker 2: was supposed to help with your digestion and your hair health.
- 1:17Speaker 1: And she was really pushing it all the time.
- 1:19Speaker 2: And it's quite funny because she ended up calling her
- 1:22Speaker 2: firstborn son Fox. And so many followers at the time
- 1:26Speaker 2: drew parallel between Fox and White Fox Boutique, who she
- 1:30Speaker 2: also has.
- 1:30Speaker 1: An activewear line with.
- 1:31Speaker 2: Maybe she's getting some kind of kickback from the brands
- 1:34Speaker 2: for naming her kids after them. I mean, maybe it's
- 1:36Speaker 2: just a subconscious thing where those names are on her
- 1:39Speaker 2: mind because they're part of her day-to-day life.
- 1:42Speaker 1: Well, Bloom was also the name of Chloe Zep's app,
- 1:45Speaker 1: I remember. Oh, yeah.
- 1:46Speaker 2: So it was a very popular name. name that was
- 1:48Speaker 2: being thrown around in 2018. I don't think I've ever
- 1:51Speaker 2: met a child called Bloom. You said it was a
- 1:53Speaker 2: beautiful name. I don't really think of it as being
- 1:56Speaker 2: a child's name. I can't imagine calling any of my
- 1:58Speaker 2: kids Bloom.
- 1:59Speaker 1: But when she said it, I was like, oh, that
- 2:01Speaker 1: is very pretty. Maybe as a middle name.
- 2:03Speaker 2: It was quite funny because when I was watching this YouTube,
- 2:06Speaker 2: she also mentioned she liked the name Asmay, which sounds
- 2:10Speaker 2: a lot like skincare brand Esme, who she works with too.
- 2:13Speaker 1: And I'm like, Is she trolling us now?
- 2:16Speaker 2: I'm just surprised that she didn't try and weave Trapika
- 2:19Speaker 2: in because that's.
- 2:20Speaker 1: Kind of a cute kid's name.
- 2:21Speaker 2: Well, she doesn't work with them anymore. And the thing
- 2:23Speaker 2: about Sarah is she only works with a handful of brands.
- 2:26Speaker 2: That's why this whole naming thing is so obvious because
- 2:28Speaker 2: you're like, those are just the key brands that she
- 2:30Speaker 2: works with.
- 2:30Speaker 1: Maybe she could call her son Grom then after House
- 2:33Speaker 1: of Groms.
- 2:34Speaker 2: It was interesting to see the way that Sarah approached
- 2:37Speaker 2: selecting names. It almost felt like she was holding a
- 2:40Speaker 2: branding meeting because Sarah She really wants her kids' names
- 2:44Speaker 2: to align with her overall Sarah's Day branding and the
- 2:47Speaker 2: vibe that she's created for herself online. It wouldn't be
- 2:50Speaker 2: on brand for her to pop out a kid and
- 2:52Speaker 2: call it Jessica or James.
- 2:54Speaker 1: It has to be something unique.
- 2:56Speaker 2: And when she was talking through the name, she would say,
- 2:58Speaker 2: I really like this name because it has a cool
- 3:00Speaker 2: surfy girl vibe or a skater vibe or she would
- 3:03Speaker 2: say that a name was fashion forward or had an
- 3:06Speaker 2: old money vibe.
- 3:07Speaker 1: It's funny because initially I was thinking.
- 3:10Speaker 2: Wow she has thought about this for way too long
- 3:12Speaker 2: and normally no one really cares as much as you
- 3:15Speaker 2: do about some of these milestone moments in your life
- 3:17Speaker 2: like your wedding or your children's names but in this
- 3:20Speaker 2: case people actually do care a lot what Sarah names
- 3:23Speaker 2: her kids.
- 3:24Speaker 1: She's got a lot of eyeballs on her.
- 3:26Speaker 2: Well as I said she can't just do something run
- 3:28Speaker 2: of the mill and normal. I mean she's got a
- 3:30Speaker 2: kid called Fox Ocean and one called Malachi Koa. So
- 3:34Speaker 2: she's got to have a name that fits in with
- 3:36Speaker 2: the rest of them. I was really keen to hear
- 3:39Speaker 2: what she was going to call baby number three if
- 3:42Speaker 2: it was a girl.
- 3:43Speaker 1: And this name didn't disappoint. Here's what she said.
- 3:47Speaker 3: Honestly, if I was pregnant right now with a girl,
- 3:49Speaker 3: I think I would call her Della, Cammy, Chloe.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I don't know.
- 3:55Speaker 3: I can't, I don't, I don't even know. Oh, Matilda
- 3:57Speaker 3: or Tiggy. Okay, I'm going with Tiggy. Going with the OG,
- 4:00Speaker 3: Tiggy Tills. I think that is such a cool name.
- 4:02Speaker 3: So if I have a surprise fourth girl, watch out
- 4:05Speaker 3: for Tiggy Tills roaming the streets.
- 4:08Speaker 1: It reminds me of the supermodel Twiggy, but just with
- 4:10Speaker 1: the W missing. It sounds like- fucking piss take.
- 4:13Speaker 2: I'm kind of torn because I think that those names
- 4:15Speaker 2: can be kind of cool. Like for instance, my partner
- 4:17Speaker 2: really wants our kids to have a name that starts
- 4:20Speaker 2: with H and our last name is Hancock.
- 4:22Speaker 1: And I think it kind of work if you get
- 4:24Speaker 1: the right name.
- 4:25Speaker 2: It kind of reminds me of when Kanye West and
- 4:28Speaker 2: Kim Kardashian got pregnant and everyone was joking that they
- 4:32Speaker 2: should call their kid Northwest. And it sounded so ridiculous
- 4:35Speaker 2: at the time, but of course they went on to
- 4:37Speaker 2: have their daughter Northwest. And now the name just sounds
- 4:40Speaker 2: so normal. So I assume it'd be the same with
- 4:42Speaker 2: Tiggy Teals. At first you're like, what the fuck? But
- 4:45Speaker 2: then it grows on you.
- 4:47Speaker 1: It might work. It might grow on you.
- 4:48Speaker 2: Well, some of the more unique names that Sarah also
- 4:51Speaker 2: had on her list were London Love, Tiger, Winslow, Bambi,
- 4:56Speaker 2: Aspen and Munro.
- 4:57Speaker 1: So a bit like Marilyn Monroe.
- 4:58Speaker 2: Do you have to have actually visited the city before
- 5:02Speaker 2: you name your kid after it?
- 5:03Speaker 1: I think that you should have.
- 5:05Speaker 2: It's a bit like Victoria Beckham, how she and David
- 5:08Speaker 2: decided to call their son Brooklyn because she found out
- 5:11Speaker 2: she was pregnant in Brooklyn. I feel like you've got
- 5:13Speaker 2: to have some connection with the city that you name
- 5:15Speaker 2: your child after.
- 5:16Speaker 1: Maybe they could call the baby Cronulla. Cronulla. That's got
- 5:18Speaker 1: quite a nice room for it. Conceived and born in Cronulla.
- 5:21Speaker 1: I was quite surprised to hear some of the mainstream names.
- 5:23Speaker 2: Like she really liked the name Chloe, Isabel and Matilda,
- 5:27Speaker 2: but she said that she would avoid Matilda as it's
- 5:29Speaker 2: too popular. I was going to say, isn't Tilly like
- 5:31Speaker 2: the most popular name at the moment because of the
- 5:33Speaker 2: Matilda's soccer team and then also just.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Because it's a cute name?
- 5:36Speaker 2: Yeah, I really like that name. Sarah said that she
- 5:38Speaker 2: wishes if she was called Tilly. And that's what actually
- 5:41Speaker 2: forced my partner to watch this video with me. And
- 5:43Speaker 2: he said the funniest thing about the whole video is
- 5:46Speaker 2: that she's coming up with all these like wacky and
- 5:48Speaker 2: unique names, yet her name is Sarah.
- 5:50Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:50Speaker 2: Like that is like the stereotypical, like the most popular
- 5:53Speaker 2: millennial name is Sarah and probably the plainest name.
- 5:57Speaker 3: Hey, guys.
- 5:57Speaker 1: Welcome to my house. I've got JK inside ready to
- 6:00Speaker 1: do my glam. So come get ready with me.
- 6:03Speaker 2: A video of Bec Judd applying fake tan while standing
- 6:06Speaker 2: in her pristine white bedroom has gone viral.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Now, the video, which was filmed.
- 6:11Speaker 2: As part of a paid partnership with fake tan company Sprayoz,
- 6:15Speaker 2: showed Beck in a black bikini applying fake tan as
- 6:18Speaker 2: she answered questions about herself for eight minutes. And I'm
- 6:22Speaker 2: not overselling this, Sophie. This room had white floorboards, a
- 6:26Speaker 2: white rug, a white ottoman, and white cupboards. I am
- 6:29Speaker 2: still having a bit of PTSD from watching this video
- 6:32Speaker 2: because as an avid fake tanner, I just was like,
- 6:36Speaker 2: oh my God, something is going to get spilled on
- 6:38Speaker 2: this white.
- 6:39Speaker 1: At one point in.
- 6:40Speaker 2: The video, Beck put her leg up on the ottoman
- 6:43Speaker 2: to tan it, which almost sent me over the edge.
- 6:45Speaker 1: I think that was just asking for trouble. But she
- 6:48Speaker 1: applied this fake tan like a pro.
- 6:50Speaker 2: There was no spillage, absolutely no contact with any of
- 6:53Speaker 2: the white furniture. I did hold my breath at one
- 6:56Speaker 2: point during this video when she accidentally knocked the bottle
- 6:59Speaker 2: over on the ottoman and And she let out the
- 7:02Speaker 2: girliest shriek. It was so funny, but thankfully nothing came out.
- 7:06Speaker 2: I don't know about you because you don't do it often, Amy,
- 7:09Speaker 2: but when I fake tan, I tan in my bathroom
- 7:12Speaker 2: and there'll be one point where I'll knock the bottle
- 7:15Speaker 2: over or I'll leave my mitt on the basin and
- 7:18Speaker 2: tan goes everywhere.
- 7:19Speaker 1: So I was very impressed by Bec's skills here. Yeah,
- 7:22Speaker 1: she certainly looked like she knew her way around a
- 7:24Speaker 1: fake tanning mitt.
- 7:26Speaker 2: I wondered, did she film it in her bedroom because
- 7:29Speaker 2: her bathroom was too dirty? Because why, I mean, obviously
- 7:33Speaker 2: most people I would assume would do their fake tan
- 7:36Speaker 2: just after they'd gotten out of the shower.
- 7:38Speaker 1: Why would you ever do it in that room?
- 7:39Speaker 2: Well, I want to know if this was a strategy
- 7:42Speaker 2: to get people talking because I know in some videos,
- 7:46Speaker 2: people purposely try to do something distracting, like they'll pronounce
- 7:49Speaker 2: something wrong or lingerie wrong. Don't fucking say it again.
- 7:54Speaker 2: That was a genuine fuck up. Sophie, you said it
- 7:56Speaker 2: the exact same way, but that's how we just say it.
- 7:59Speaker 1: But I'm just saying we're triggering people.
- 8:01Speaker 2: Yeah, but apparently that's how Americans say it.
- 8:04Speaker 1: Oh, is it?
- 8:04Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 8:05Speaker 1: I just thought it was us being annoying. But anyway,
- 8:07Speaker 1: back to this.
- 8:08Speaker 2: I did wonder if it was some sort of strategy
- 8:10Speaker 2: to get people engaging in the comment section because They
- 8:14Speaker 2: knew that people would be triggered by someone.
- 8:16Speaker 1: Tanning in a very white room.
- 8:18Speaker 2: On the other hand, I think that she probably just
- 8:20Speaker 2: wanted to shoot somewhere aesthetic. She probably had a nice
- 8:22Speaker 2: big mirror that she could put her camera up on
- 8:25Speaker 2: and film from.
- 8:25Speaker 1: Well, that's the other thing I wondered.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Perhaps maybe the lighting was better in there at that
- 8:30Speaker 2: time of day. Well, the other thing that triggered me
- 8:32Speaker 2: in this video was that she fake tanned with her
- 8:34Speaker 2: hair down. So her hair was all beautifully curled. And
- 8:37Speaker 2: she was going to do her back and just her
- 8:40Speaker 2: hair just went all in the tan. She finally put
- 8:42Speaker 2: it up in a high bun. But I mean, I
- 8:44Speaker 2: can't have anything like I have to have my hair
- 8:47Speaker 2: straight back. But do you think when people do those videos,
- 8:49Speaker 2: they just instantly wash off the tan?
- 8:51Speaker 1: Because it would be hard to do it properly with
- 8:53Speaker 1: your bathers on. I don't know because it looked like
- 8:55Speaker 1: she applied it pretty well.
- 8:57Speaker 2: I've got to say Spray Oz must be wrapped with
- 9:00Speaker 2: this collaboration because usually their videos attract around 10,000 views.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Because at the time of recording, this video has had
- 9:08Speaker 2: over 367,000 views and the engagement rate was huge. There
- 9:13Speaker 2: were 627 send-ons and 116 comments. And the comments were hilarious.
- 9:20Speaker 2: One follower wrote, eek, that fresh tan near the fresh
- 9:23Speaker 2: white is giving me chills. Whilst another said, me just
- 9:27Speaker 2: watching you tan on the ottoman is making me rock.
- 9:30Speaker 2: Also thinking you're so talented for.
- 9:32Speaker 1: Not getting it on there haha.
- 9:33Speaker 2: I wondered if maybe Spray Oz had some kind of
- 9:36Speaker 2: promotion where their tan didn't stain or there was some
- 9:39Speaker 2: kind of tie-in but no it just seemed to be
- 9:43Speaker 2: maybe every room in Brett Judd's house is just as
- 9:46Speaker 2: white and.
- 9:46Speaker 1: She just thought fuck it.
- 9:47Speaker 2: True well as part of this eight minute video Beck
- 9:51Speaker 2: took part in a viral beauty trend where she told
- 9:54Speaker 2: followers about herself while applying fake tan and I've been
- 9:57Speaker 2: seeing this a bit on TikTok. I think it's a
- 10:00Speaker 2: really great marketing strategy because no one wants to sit
- 10:03Speaker 2: and watch a video where an influencer just tries to
- 10:06Speaker 2: sell you the product the whole time, talk about the
- 10:08Speaker 2: product and explain the product. And I mean, it was
- 10:11Speaker 2: eight minutes and I was hooked because I am a
- 10:14Speaker 2: bit of a fan of Beck Judd.
- 10:15Speaker 1: I mean, we did do a deep dive on Beck
- 10:16Speaker 1: Judd last year.
- 10:17Speaker 2: But even I found out new information about her in
- 10:20Speaker 2: this video. And the biggest takeaway for me was that
- 10:24Speaker 2: she said her first son, Oscar, was an accident. So
- 10:28Speaker 2: Bec was talking about how she was working as a
- 10:30Speaker 2: speech pathologist at the time before she fell pregnant.
- 10:34Speaker 1: Here's what she said. I stayed there until I got
- 10:37Speaker 1: pregnant and Oscar accidentally got pregnant.
- 10:40Speaker 2: After I drank too many champagnes at Oak State in 2010.
- 10:47Speaker 4: I accidentally got pregnant before my wedding and.
- 10:51Speaker 1: Went on mat leave from my job at the Alfred
- 10:53Speaker 1: and then I never went back. Like I'd never gone
- 10:55Speaker 1: back to speech pathology.
- 10:57Speaker 2: I really liked how she just had fun with it.
- 10:59Speaker 2: I don't think she's ever told that story before. A
- 11:02Speaker 2: lot of people said it felt like she was just
- 11:04Speaker 2: talking to her girlfriends and she was praised in the
- 11:06Speaker 2: comments section for being really down to earth. One admission
- 11:09Speaker 2: that surprised me was when Bec said that she wasn't
- 11:12Speaker 2: very maternal.
- 11:12Speaker 1: I still can't believe I've got four kids.
- 11:15Speaker 3: How did I?
- 11:16Speaker 1: I have four kids. I'm not maternal.
- 11:17Speaker 2: I don't really love kids.
- 11:19Speaker 1: I'm not the, oh, let me hold the baby type
- 11:21Speaker 1: of person.
- 11:22Speaker 4: You know when your friends have babies.
- 11:23Speaker 1: And everyone wants to hold the baby?
- 11:24Speaker 2: Nah, I don't need to hold the baby.
- 11:25Speaker 1: I am good. Four kids is a lot. So funny.
- 11:32Speaker 2: People laugh.
- 11:32Speaker 4: They're like, you are.
- 11:33Speaker 1: The least maternal person and you're the one who ended
- 11:35Speaker 1: up with four kids. But I do love my kids
- 11:37Speaker 1: so much.
- 11:38Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with them. I really liked seeing this side
- 11:41Speaker 2: of Beck because I think a lot of millennials and
- 11:43Speaker 2: Gen Zers could relate to not particularly feeling maternal because
- 11:48Speaker 2: we're this generation that have grown up focusing on our
- 11:51Speaker 2: careers and other aspects of our life. And sometimes you
- 11:53Speaker 2: can think, oh, why don't I feel this certain way
- 11:56Speaker 2: towards kids?
- 11:57Speaker 1: Or why don't I have this pull?
- 11:58Speaker 2: But to hear her say, well, I wasn't that maternal,
- 12:01Speaker 2: but it's actually great having kids and I love them
- 12:02Speaker 2: and I'm.
- 12:03Speaker 1: Obsessed with them.
- 12:03Speaker 2: Yeah. But I think that's a big difference between liking
- 12:06Speaker 2: other people's children and liking your own sometimes. Indie Clinton
- 12:09Speaker 2: has sparked debate after launching subscriber-only content.
- 12:13Speaker 1: On her TikTok.
- 12:14Speaker 4: So for $ 9.
- 12:14Speaker 2: 90 a month, subscribers get access to exclusive TikTok.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Lives and also videos.
- 12:31Speaker 2: Now, so far, Indie has uploaded three subscriber videos with
- 12:34Speaker 2: the rest of the videos still free to view. I
- 12:37Speaker 2: was kind of surprised when I saw that only 596
- 12:39Speaker 2: of Indie's 1.9 million followers had subscribed.
- 12:41Speaker 1: It does equal around $ 6, 000 a month, which equates to
- 12:43Speaker 1: $ 72, 000 a year. However, there is a catch. So TikTok
- 12:45Speaker 1: takes home 50% of the profits.
- 12:57Speaker 2: Leaving Indie with $ 3, 000 a month and.
- 13:01Speaker 1: $ 36, 000 a year.
- 13:02Speaker 2: I saw a lot of comments from followers saying, oh
- 13:04Speaker 2: my God, I can't believe how much she's taking home
- 13:07Speaker 2: a month just for putting up a few extra TikTok videos.
- 13:10Speaker 2: But when you break it down and see the large
- 13:12Speaker 2: percentages that some platforms are taking from creators, it is
- 13:16Speaker 2: quite large. I mean, even with- Well, 50% is a lot.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Even with us, we have a subscription podcast. And at
- 13:22Speaker 2: the very beginning in the first year, Apple takes quite
- 13:25Speaker 2: a large chunk of that.
- 13:26Speaker 4: It does.
- 13:27Speaker 1: And it continues to make quite a big chunk of
- 13:29Speaker 1: it too.
- 13:29Speaker 2: But if you look at it, say Indie doesn't gain
- 13:32Speaker 2: any more followers, which is really unlikely. I'm sure she'll
- 13:34Speaker 2: pick up a lot more subscribers. That's not that much
- 13:37Speaker 2: for Indie when you think about how much she could
- 13:40Speaker 2: make for a single brand deal.
- 13:41Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing.
- 13:42Speaker 2: When Indie announced that she was going to have this
- 13:44Speaker 2: new subscription offering on TikTok, she said it came down
- 13:47Speaker 2: to the fact that she doesn't want to push out
- 13:50Speaker 2: ads and work with brands that she doesn't align with.
- 13:53Speaker 1: I wonder if she.
- 13:54Speaker 2: Thought she would be signing on more than this. I mean,
- 13:56Speaker 2: I'm sure that number will grow.
- 13:58Speaker 1: The reaction from Indie's followers was really mixed.
- 14:01Speaker 2: So some people were disappointed and thought it might mean
- 14:04Speaker 2: they're going to start missing out on parts of Indie's life.
- 14:07Speaker 2: Whilst others said it's no different to other influencers starting
- 14:10Speaker 2: Patreon accounts or subscription channels on Instagram. Other followers blame
- 14:15Speaker 2: TikTok for not allowing Australian creators to sign up to
- 14:18Speaker 2: the very lucrative TikTok creator fund. which has been around
- 14:22Speaker 2: since 2020. Last year, that fund was replaced by a
- 14:26Speaker 2: new model, which is called the Creativity Program. And creators
- 14:30Speaker 2: are paid per every thousand views. So the more views
- 14:33Speaker 2: you get, the more money you make. So for example,
- 14:36Speaker 2: if a creator gets 1 million views on a video,
- 14:39Speaker 2: they earn just under 2000 US dollars.
- 14:42Speaker 1: It's so unfair.
- 14:42Speaker 2: Because this program is only available to creators in the US, UK, France, Germany, Spain,
- 14:49Speaker 2: and Italy. I would be so pissed off if I
- 14:52Speaker 2: was a creator like Indie Clinton because she could be
- 14:54Speaker 2: making so much more money by doing this. And as
- 14:56Speaker 2: she referenced, actually taking on less sponsorship deals, which would be,
- 15:01Speaker 2: I suppose, more authentic.
- 15:02Speaker 1: To her followers.
- 15:03Speaker 2: Well, there have been rumors since October that Australia might
- 15:07Speaker 2: be granted access to this program, but so far it
- 15:10Speaker 2: looks unlikely. There are a couple of loopholes with this program.
- 15:14Speaker 2: So the videos have to be a minute long. You
- 15:17Speaker 2: can only use royalty-free music. you have to be over
- 15:20Speaker 2: the age of 18 and you have to at least
- 15:23Speaker 2: have 10,000 followers and 100,000 views within 30 days to
- 15:27Speaker 2: be eligible. Now they are saying that this new initiative
- 15:31Speaker 2: will pay out 20 times more than the old fund did.
- 15:35Speaker 1: But because of these loopholes, it makes it a lot.
- 15:37Speaker 2: More difficult because if you think about those huge viral
- 15:39Speaker 2: videos on TikTok, a lot of them are popular because
- 15:43Speaker 2: they'll use trending tracks. And if you're not allowed to
- 15:46Speaker 2: use that, it cuts out a lot of those viral moments.
- 15:48Speaker 2: But also there were a lot of clips that were
- 15:50Speaker 2: going off on TikTok that were say 10 seconds long
- 15:53Speaker 2: because TikTok rewards the creator if someone watches the video
- 15:57Speaker 2: in its entirety and if they watch it over and
- 15:59Speaker 2: over again, which obviously if it's a 10 second video,
- 16:01Speaker 2: you might sit there and watch it a few times.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 16:03Speaker 2: It does seem to be part of TikTok's overall strategy
- 16:07Speaker 2: to motivate creators to make longer form content and also
- 16:10Speaker 2: higher quality content. It seems like they're trying to steal
- 16:13Speaker 2: a lot of creators over from YouTube. I mean, nowadays
- 16:17Speaker 2: you would probably go to TikTok to watch daily vlogs
- 16:20Speaker 2: as opposed to YouTube.
- 16:21Speaker 1: And I think as the way.
- 16:22Speaker 2: That we view TikTok has changed, before it was just
- 16:24Speaker 2: these short clips, but now you go to TikTok when you're.
- 16:27Speaker 1: Bored and want to be entertained.
- 16:29Speaker 2: I think we're going to see a lot more influencers
- 16:31Speaker 2: and creators opting to share their lives on subscriber platforms.
- 16:35Speaker 2: And this is due to a lot of the negativity
- 16:38Speaker 2: and hate they receive, because I think we're seeing a
- 16:40Speaker 2: lot of influencers holding back because I think there's a
- 16:43Speaker 2: lot of influencers who don't want to be vulnerable on
- 16:46Speaker 2: their main accounts because they're fearful of.
- 16:49Speaker 1: What's going to come. Especially on TikTok, everyone's so vicious
- 16:52Speaker 1: on there.
- 16:52Speaker 2: The difficult thing about the way social media works now
- 16:55Speaker 2: is we're constantly being fed these short form videos.
- 16:58Speaker 1: From people who we don't follow.
- 17:00Speaker 2: So a lot of the time these videos lack any context,
- 17:03Speaker 2: which will lead to people jumping on and making assumptions
- 17:05Speaker 2: and usually being quite rude to that creator. So I
- 17:08Speaker 2: can see why influencers would turn around and say, hey,
- 17:11Speaker 2: I'm only going to be vulnerable or open up to
- 17:13Speaker 2: my core community of people who support me. I'm not
- 17:16Speaker 2: going to, I'm going to put parameters around who I
- 17:18Speaker 2: share content with. Yeah, but they might lose followers by
- 17:21Speaker 2: doing that or subsequently... not actually grow their followership because people.
- 17:26Speaker 1: Want to see real and raw content.
- 17:28Speaker 2: And people do get pissed off when it is suddenly
- 17:30Speaker 2: behind a paywall.
- 17:31Speaker 1: I'm not blaming Indie though, because I think it's clever.
- 17:34Speaker 2: She's obviously not receiving any money from the TikTok creator fund.
- 17:37Speaker 2: She's one of Australia's most popular TikTok creators. I find
- 17:42Speaker 2: it interesting though, if you look at what content she's
- 17:44Speaker 2: decided to put behind the paywall. And I think that's
- 17:47Speaker 2: what sparked a bit of not anger, but a bit of,
- 17:50Speaker 2: I suppose, questions have been raised by her followers. Because
- 17:54Speaker 2: the first video was her dog, Billy, meeting her new puppy.
- 17:59Speaker 1: And we spoke about it on the podcast on Tuesday.
- 18:01Speaker 2: There's been a bit of controversy around her dog, Billy,
- 18:04Speaker 2: potentially nipping at some of her children. So a lot
- 18:07Speaker 2: of her followers have been interested to see how the
- 18:09Speaker 2: two dogs interact with each other. Yeah, it was an
- 18:12Speaker 2: interesting one to keep behind the paywall.
- 18:14Speaker 1: I can see why she did it.
- 18:15Speaker 2: She probably thought, I can't be bothered with everyone's comments
- 18:18Speaker 2: today and backlash.
- 18:19Speaker 1: She actually did.
- 18:20Speaker 2: Put up a TikTok video today where she commented on
- 18:23Speaker 2: it and she was saying to her husband, Ben, let's
- 18:26Speaker 2: rename Aloha to be content because everyone is apparently claiming
- 18:29Speaker 2: that I bought this dog for content. And then Ben
- 18:32Speaker 2: was like, why the fuck would we make our life
- 18:34Speaker 2: even harder just for content?
- 18:36Speaker 1: Like he was beside himself.
- 18:37Speaker 2: I mean, one point we didn't really mention on the
- 18:39Speaker 2: podcast on Tuesday was the fact that Indy's brand is
- 18:43Speaker 2: known as being chaotic. So adding a puppy to the
- 18:46Speaker 2: mix was very on brand for her.
- 18:49Speaker 1: We're about to go into all of the, yeah.
- 18:51Speaker 2: This week, fitness entrepreneurs, Steph Clare Smith and Laura Henshaw
- 18:55Speaker 2: released a three-part series on their podcast about how they've
- 18:58Speaker 2: navigated two of the toughest conversations in their friendship.
- 19:02Speaker 1: This was a real tease, wasn't it?
- 19:04Speaker 2: Because there's been conversations online about a supposed feud between
- 19:08Speaker 2: Laura and Steph.
- 19:09Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:10Speaker 2: And to me, when they promoted the episode like this,
- 19:12Speaker 2: I thought, oh my God, They're going to give us
- 19:14Speaker 2: all of the dirt on what went down.
- 19:16Speaker 1: In this very- Get the popcorn ready. Yeah, because this
- 19:18Speaker 1: was a very publicized fight.
- 19:20Speaker 2: So back in May, the Daily Mail reported that there
- 19:23Speaker 2: was a rift between the famous fitness duo.
- 19:25Speaker 1: And these two have been friends for 10 years.
- 19:27Speaker 2: They launched Kick back in 2015, and they have quickly
- 19:31Speaker 2: had to work out how to run a business with
- 19:33Speaker 2: a friend. So the Daily Mail reported that a year
- 19:36Speaker 2: and a half ago, Steph and Laura had a bust
- 19:39Speaker 2: up during a luxury holiday. So- The article said that
- 19:42Speaker 2: the women were enjoying a getaway with their husbands, Dalton
- 19:45Speaker 2: and Josh, when a fight broke out, and it claimed
- 19:48Speaker 2: that their partners were forced to intervene. and split up
- 19:51Speaker 2: the conflict before the fight became nastier. So it sounded
- 19:55Speaker 2: like things got very tense. It almost sounded like there
- 19:57Speaker 2: was like about to be a physical altercation. Yeah. And
- 20:01Speaker 2: I think people kind of loved this article because everyone
- 20:05Speaker 2: in their own weird way almost wants there to be
- 20:08Speaker 2: a fight between Steph and Laura. It's like this sick
- 20:11Speaker 2: thing of like, nobody, I don't know. It's because they
- 20:13Speaker 2: appear perfect, but I also think it's because society and
- 20:17Speaker 2: the media has an obsession with pitting two successful women
- 20:19Speaker 2: against each other. You might be wondering how the Daily
- 20:23Speaker 2: Mail ascertained these details because they don't have a good
- 20:26Speaker 2: track record of getting things right. So they built this
- 20:30Speaker 2: story around an interview that Laura did on the Share
- 20:33Speaker 2: My Mood podcast. So In the interview, Laura mentioned that
- 20:37Speaker 2: they had a fight, but she didn't say what triggered it.
- 20:40Speaker 2: She did say that their husbands had convinced them to
- 20:42Speaker 2: sit down and be open with each other. So, I mean,
- 20:45Speaker 2: she didn't say that they had a punch.
- 20:47Speaker 1: Up or anything like that.
- 20:49Speaker 2: Now, Steph and Laura addressed the Daily Mail article at
- 20:51Speaker 2: the start of the episode saying this.
- 20:54Speaker 4: But it is something that we've been wanting to talk
- 20:56Speaker 4: to you guys about for a while and tackle some
- 21:01Speaker 4: less than ideal kind of headlines that have been out.
- 21:06Speaker 1: There about us.
- 21:07Speaker 2: And I think that obviously the headline that we had
- 21:11Speaker 2: a rift and our.
- 21:12Speaker 4: Husbands had to split up a nasty fight between.
- 21:15Speaker 1: Us is something we want to talk about.
- 21:17Speaker 2: So as you can hear, the women confirmed there was
- 21:20Speaker 2: no physical contact between them and their husbands did not
- 21:23Speaker 2: have to hold them back. This was the most open
- 21:26Speaker 2: they got during the podcast though, because the rest of
- 21:29Speaker 2: the very long 45 minute conversation.
- 21:32Speaker 1: It just went around in circles.
- 21:33Speaker 2: I felt like I was this friend listening into this conversation,
- 21:38Speaker 2: but I was out of the loop because they never
- 21:40Speaker 2: once addressed what this fight was about. It's like they thought, geez,
- 21:43Speaker 2: the Daily Mail got a lot of clicks for that headline.
- 21:47Speaker 2: Fuck it.
- 21:47Speaker 1: We'll just recycle it for the podcast and get the clicks.
- 21:50Speaker 1: I mean, particularly because this.
- 21:51Speaker 2: Was promoted as a three-part episode. So you're thinking, wow,
- 21:54Speaker 2: there must be a lot for them to talk about.
- 21:56Speaker 1: What are they telling for the next two parts?
- 21:58Speaker 2: So what they're actually doing for the next two parts
- 22:00Speaker 2: is they're having this coach on who– It's like this
- 22:05Speaker 2: relationship coach, but she actually works for their business. So
- 22:07Speaker 2: she's an advisor for kick and she was, the person
- 22:11Speaker 2: who they had a very difficult conversation with about their friendship.
- 22:14Speaker 2: So I don't know if it was their way of thinking, well,
- 22:16Speaker 2: we're going to have this woman on an episode. Let's
- 22:18Speaker 2: try and make it a little bit personal by pretending
- 22:20Speaker 2: that we're going to go into our fight.
- 22:22Speaker 1: Maybe we could hire her for this podcast.
- 22:24Speaker 2: Oh, that would probably be helpful. We probably need to
- 22:26Speaker 2: speak to someone about the way we talk to each other.
- 22:28Speaker 2: I enjoyed hearing about what went down on night one
- 22:32Speaker 2: of their trip though. Because this is where we sort
- 22:35Speaker 2: of got an idea of what happened. So they said
- 22:38Speaker 2: that their husband stayed up with a bottle of wine
- 22:40Speaker 2: and they got into a DNM about their wives and
- 22:43Speaker 2: the stresses that.
- 22:43Speaker 1: They were bringing home from work.
- 22:45Speaker 2: And they discovered that both Steph and Laura had been
- 22:48Speaker 2: venting about one another. So Dalton and Josh thought, okay,
- 22:53Speaker 2: the best way that we're going to resolve this situation
- 22:55Speaker 2: is to have an intervention.
- 22:57Speaker 1: So their husbands, whilst probably half tanked on wine, were like,
- 23:01Speaker 1: let's discuss it, guys. Well, they didn't discuss it then.
- 23:04Speaker 1: They waited for the next night. Oh, my God. The
- 23:07Speaker 1: girls thought that they were going to watch a movie
- 23:09Speaker 1: together and then.
- 23:10Speaker 2: The two guys came in and said, we've got to
- 23:11Speaker 2: talk about this. Fancy your husband just throwing you under
- 23:15Speaker 2: the bus like, oh, yeah, she actually has been bitching
- 23:17Speaker 2: about your wife as well. I think it shows how
- 23:20Speaker 2: men approach things so differently because I think that they
- 23:22Speaker 2: would have wholeheartedly felt like, let's just talk about it
- 23:26Speaker 2: and resolve things straight away and that'll nip it in
- 23:28Speaker 2: the bud. Whereas most women, we're emotional creatures. We don't
- 23:31Speaker 2: want a fight to be sprung on us. And it
- 23:33Speaker 2: is embarrassing and almost like could ruin your friendship to say, hey,
- 23:37Speaker 2: they've been bitching about you. I'm sure they didn't question everything.
- 23:41Speaker 2: They probably didn't say it like that, but they probably
- 23:43Speaker 2: just said, look, we've had a chat and it seems
- 23:45Speaker 2: like you both are feeling the same feelings about each other. Well,
- 23:49Speaker 2: what we discovered during this podcast episode is that there
- 23:53Speaker 2: seemed to be some sort of tension around Steph returning
- 23:56Speaker 2: to the office after maternity leave. So Steph said her
- 23:59Speaker 2: son Harvey was a year and a half at the
- 24:01Speaker 2: time of this fight and Laura seemed to be having
- 24:04Speaker 2: all of these built-up feelings towards it.
- 24:07Speaker 1: Again, they didn't actually say what the feelings were.
- 24:09Speaker 2: It's not really surprising considering Laura has brought out this
- 24:12Speaker 2: other podcast series about whether she wants to have kids
- 24:15Speaker 2: or not. I think it's definitely opened her eyes to
- 24:18Speaker 2: how difficult it actually is for working mums. This fight
- 24:21Speaker 2: must have been pretty bad though because Steph said that
- 24:24Speaker 2: she felt like the worst friend after it and felt
- 24:26Speaker 2: really yucked. She felt on eggshells around Laura and really
- 24:30Speaker 2: awkward around her.
- 24:31Speaker 1: I can see. Do you know what?
- 24:32Speaker 2: I actually really feel for Steph and Laura because it's
- 24:35Speaker 2: easy for Kate, Sophie and I, like Sophie and I
- 24:38Speaker 2: run a PR business together. And not that it's easier
- 24:41Speaker 2: because you say things to your family members that you
- 24:44Speaker 2: would never say to anybody else. It's more that you
- 24:47Speaker 2: would forgive a family member where you might not forgive
- 24:49Speaker 2: a friend. One juicy nugget that Steph did drop in
- 24:52Speaker 2: this conversation is that Steph worried that Laura didn't want
- 24:55Speaker 2: to be her friend anymore. After she became a mum,
- 24:58Speaker 2: here's what she said.
- 25:00Speaker 4: I mean, one thing I had to work through in
- 25:02Speaker 4: therapy recently was like there's a– I don't know if
- 25:06Speaker 4: I've had this conversation with you, but like there's a
- 25:08Speaker 4: bit of an attachment thing with me and you and
- 25:11Speaker 4: there was a period there where I was like genuinely
- 25:14Speaker 4: fearful because of the different phase of life that I
- 25:16Speaker 4: was in that you just didn't get me anymore and
- 25:19Speaker 4: we were going to fall out of friendship.
- 25:21Speaker 1: Oh, sad.
- 25:21Speaker 4: And so I was trying to do everything that I
- 25:23Speaker 4: could to still make sure– you liked me.
- 25:29Speaker 1: Because I was never you've never told.
- 25:31Speaker 2: Me this I can't believe I just did that as
- 25:34Speaker 2: you said Amy this was even more interesting because Laura
- 25:37Speaker 2: has recently launched that podcast where she interviews people about
- 25:40Speaker 2: basically not wanting to have kids and it sounds like
- 25:43Speaker 2: she's not into the whole thing it sounds like it's
- 25:44Speaker 2: a big thing for her at the moment she's obviously
- 25:47Speaker 2: spending a lot of time thinking about it I know
- 25:49Speaker 2: people have said that they didn't really drop much I
- 25:52Speaker 2: disagree I it's more so you need to listen to.
- 25:55Speaker 1: This podcast and read into it a bit more. They
- 26:00Speaker 1: haven't dropped, oh, I said this and X, Y, and Z. Yeah,
- 26:03Speaker 1: but that's what people want to hear. But you can
- 26:05Speaker 1: read into a lot of this.
- 26:07Speaker 2: No, I know. But to be honest, when you just
- 26:09Speaker 2: want to sit down and listen to a podcast, you
- 26:10Speaker 2: have this clickbait thing, oh, we're going to go into
- 26:13Speaker 2: this epic fight that we had. And then For 47 minutes,
- 26:16Speaker 2: you have to piece together what the fuck went on.
- 26:18Speaker 2: Like it did my head in listening to it. The
- 26:20Speaker 2: only reason I got through it was.
- 26:21Speaker 1: For this podcast.
- 26:22Speaker 2: Like we've had people message in our group saying, is
- 26:24Speaker 2: it worth investing in this?
- 26:26Speaker 1: No, it's not. Just listen to this podcast instead.
- 26:29Speaker 2: Maybe though the counselor will get to the bottom of
- 26:31Speaker 2: it because they do ask tough questions.
- 26:34Speaker 1: So maybe she's going to be like, well, what is
- 26:37Speaker 1: it that annoys you? Or, you know, what happened to
- 26:38Speaker 1: this fight? No, this is just going to be.
- 26:40Speaker 2: Like, asking questions on behalf of listeners. I think it's
- 26:43Speaker 2: going to be that sort of scenario.
- 26:45Speaker 1: I know we've.
- 26:45Speaker 2: Spoken about it a few times on the podcast, but
- 26:48Speaker 2: they really are going there with their content.
- 26:51Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what confuses me.
- 26:53Speaker 2: They literally tell you every detail about their sex life,
- 26:55Speaker 2: yet they can't tell us what they had a fight about.
- 26:57Speaker 1: The other day I was shocked.
- 26:58Speaker 2: I went on news.com.au and I saw this headline and
- 27:01Speaker 2: it was something about one dangerous sex act that Laura
- 27:05Speaker 2: Henshaw did.
- 27:06Speaker 1: It was something along those lines.
- 27:07Speaker 2: And I clicked on the article and And it was
- 27:10Speaker 2: talking about her admission that she used a cucumber as
- 27:14Speaker 2: a sex toy. And then it was this full article
- 27:16Speaker 2: about statistics showing how dangerous it can be to use,
- 27:20Speaker 2: you know, objects around the house.
- 27:21Speaker 1: And I just thought, my God.
- 27:23Speaker 2: Is that like, is the PR team celebrating that one? Like,
- 27:26Speaker 2: you know, you get runs on the board for getting
- 27:27Speaker 2: an article. To be fair, I did actually think, oh,
- 27:30Speaker 2: maybe I'll listen to that episode. Yeah.
- 27:32Speaker 1: I mean, listen to those ones. Maybe give this one
- 27:34Speaker 1: a little bit of a miss because it was all
- 27:36Speaker 1: over the place.
- 27:37Speaker 2: I think the issue is that when You promise that
- 27:39Speaker 2: you're going to address a fight and then you leave
- 27:42Speaker 2: your listeners in the dark.
- 27:43Speaker 1: It does open up interpretation.
- 27:46Speaker 2: So I know as soon as I finished listening to this,
- 27:48Speaker 2: I rang Kate up and we started speculating on what
- 27:50Speaker 2: else the fight could have been about. And my version
- 27:53Speaker 2: of things was probably way worse than what this fight
- 27:55Speaker 2: actually was.
- 27:56Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
- 27:57Speaker 2: Like people are just going to be like, holy fuck,
- 27:59Speaker 2: they're closing kickdown.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Jeez, these girls can't get along.
- 28:02Speaker 2: Like it might make the Daily Mail listen to this
- 28:05Speaker 2: and cut little excerpts from it and make up more
- 28:07Speaker 2: of a story. Yeah. Well, I think that's all we've
- 28:10Speaker 2: got time for today. Thank you so much for listening
- 28:12Speaker 2: to another episode of Outspoken. We are on Instagram and
- 28:16Speaker 2: TikTok at Outspoken underscore the underscore podcast. Soph and I
- 28:19Speaker 2: are also on Instagram if you want to follow us.
- 28:22Speaker 2: If you want to hear more from us, we dropped
- 28:23Speaker 2: a subscriber episode on Thursday where we did a little
- 28:26Speaker 2: bit of a relationship.
- 28:27Speaker 1: We discussed a big fight that we had. Yeah.
- 28:30Speaker 2: I don't think anyone would be shocked or slash interested
- 28:33Speaker 2: in that whatsoever, but We did this relationship quiz, which
- 28:36Speaker 2: is a quiz that you do to get to know
- 28:37Speaker 2: each other better.
- 28:38Speaker 1: It was a bit of fun. Now, this episode was
- 28:40Speaker 1: recorded on the traditional land of the Kaurna people of
- 28:43Speaker 1: the Adelaide Plains. We pay respect to elders past and present.