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Can You Forgive Your Ex? · The Cubby and Christine Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Six seven Light FM Your Variety from the eighties through
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  Speaker 1: Today with Kubby and Christine in the morning along with
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  Speaker 1: producer Kristen Friday, October seventeenth. A lot of things we
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  Speaker 1: can talk about today. It's pasta day, It's Mulligan Day,
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  Speaker 1: it's paid back a friend day.
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  Speaker 2: Isn't it something about X's Day? I can't see it.
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  Speaker 3: It's forgive an X day.
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  Speaker 2: Forgive an X Day? What a question?
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  Speaker 3: That's where we get stuck, at least I do now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, is there anything even though you're in a happy
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  Speaker 1: relationship right now, is there anything holding on top of
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  Speaker 1: your head that just you're holding onto and you can't
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  Speaker 1: forgive somebody?
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  Speaker 3: You tell me how you guys manage it. I feel
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  Speaker 3: like this has been coming up for me lately because
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  Speaker 3: I'm listening to these podcasts as I go to sleep.
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  Speaker 3: One of them is Jay Shetty, who we love writing
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  Speaker 3: and HEREMN iHeartRadio. He's been talking with Madonna and they're
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  Speaker 3: talking about forgiveness and how you need to forgive because
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  Speaker 3: Madonna learned those through Kabala. She said, you need to
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  Speaker 3: forgive in order to free yourself, like you're not hurting
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  Speaker 3: the other person by not forgiving them, you're hurting yourself.
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  Speaker 3: She said, it's like a prison. And then I'm thinking,
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  Speaker 3: and she's talking about x'es and stuff and how she's
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  Speaker 3: decided she's going to forgive and move on. There I
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  Speaker 3: look back and I just I just can't.
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  Speaker 1: Well, in my opinion, you can forgive and just not
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  Speaker 1: let them back in your life again and.
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  Speaker 4: Still move on and move on.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I agree, make yourself. It's a little selfish, but
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  Speaker 2: at that point, right, you want to be selfish, of course. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you've got to protect anymore. Yeah, yeah, So you forgive,
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  Speaker 2: maybe mentally, and then move on.
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  Speaker 3: When you've been so wronged and so betrayed, it's hard
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  Speaker 3: to It's hard to say I forgive you. I know,
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  Speaker 3: technically we're supposed to. I know I'm supposed to, right,
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  Speaker 3: and I always do the Well, I can forgive, but
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  Speaker 3: I won't forget, you know, But it's it's really hard.
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  Speaker 4: Do the opposite.
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  Speaker 3: Christine, what's that?
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  Speaker 4: Do the opposite? You say that you you forgive, but
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  Speaker 4: you'll never forget, right, Okay, Well, don't forgive, but forget.
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  Speaker 3: I think That's where I'm at. Yeah, you should, No,
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  Speaker 3: Kristen's got it. That's that's where I am. And that's
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  Speaker 3: like not okay, Like according to.
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  Speaker 4: Why you're happy, I'm happy I did that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy you did the same.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've always adopted this philosophy.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: I just don't care anymore. Enough time goes by, you
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  Speaker 2: just don't care.
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  Speaker 3: Well, this is true. I mean, it's not an active thing.
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  Speaker 3: It's not somebody you think about on a daily basis,
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  Speaker 3: doing this reflection thing. Like I said, and I'm listening
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  Speaker 3: to these podcasts, and in order to evolve and move on,
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  Speaker 3: we need to forgive. I'm like, why the person did
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  Speaker 3: something really awful? Yeah, and like it's not okay, it's
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  Speaker 3: never going to be okay.
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  Speaker 2: If anything, they should be apologizing to you, right what
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  Speaker 2: they did to you?
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  Speaker 3: And they're yeah, so yeah, even though I've moved on
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  Speaker 3: in life clearly and I don't think about them every day,
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  Speaker 3: when I do reflect on them, I'm like still get angry.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's fair. Just don't think about them at all.
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  Speaker 3: No, I no, stop listening to these mind opening podcasts.
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  Speaker 2: That's the problem.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're actually listening to this and it's got your thinking.
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  Speaker 1: You were even thinking about it before, right, which is
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  Speaker 1: I guess it's good and bad exactly.
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  Speaker 2: It's making you your own worst.
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  Speaker 3: And you know, get in here and we'll discuss.
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  Speaker 2: All right, forgive an next day? Could you forgive an X?
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  Speaker 2: Or just say I don't care?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? What do you? What do you guys talk about?
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  Speaker 1: Text us four four three six three Speaking of talking
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  Speaker 1: about things, you have the headlines coming.
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  Speaker 3: Up somebody's I'm sorry one of the Texas hard hitting
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  Speaker 3: conversations for a Friday.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, are they being sarcastic or I think really hardation?
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  Speaker 3: Was was a lot, Yeah, I do, and and we
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  Speaker 3: will lighten things up. Have you washed your banana today?
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  Speaker 3: Because it's very important.
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  Speaker 2: I just looked down when you said that. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know why you Well, I have a banana right here