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90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 10 “Prepare for Arrival” · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi everyone, My name is Chris Fair. Welcome to Vanity
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Speaker 1: Farrah My podcast with Chris Fair, which is my name,
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Speaker 1: and you can also watch on Patreon and YouTube the visuals. Hi.
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Speaker 1: Prepare for a fabulous episode. I'm super excited because it's
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Speaker 1: ninety Day Fiance. It's Before the ninety Days. This is
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Speaker 1: season eight, episode ten, and the episode it's called Prepare
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Speaker 1: for Arrival. Obviously, they've all been playing themed p l
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Speaker 1: a n E. Plain themed honey, and if you listened
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Speaker 1: to the last f we did with Matt Maer, I
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Speaker 1: really want one of them to be baggage Claim one.
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Speaker 1: We can still get there. It would happen after this
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Speaker 1: episode obviously, because it's like Prepare for Arrival and then
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Speaker 1: you know, obviously they tell you what baggage claim you
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Speaker 1: go to. That's what happens on planes. Spoiler alert. Oh
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Speaker 1: my goodness, Hello everyone. I hope you have had a
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Speaker 1: fabulous Valentine's Day week and I went to go see
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Speaker 1: Weathering Heights with some of my gal's fabulous fashions and
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Speaker 1: Codependency my favorite. But at the same time, I'm really
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Speaker 1: enjoying Before the ninety Days and obviously Single Life came
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Speaker 1: out and Single Life is Wild. It's really an interesting
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Speaker 1: deep dive into the characters they decide to follow and
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Speaker 1: lifting the veil on some of the like intense and
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Speaker 1: dramatic parts of their life. There is kind of a
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Speaker 1: mix of things that feels fake and things that feel
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Speaker 1: real on that show, which is interesting. Also, Love is
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Speaker 1: Blind happened, and Traders is happening. And I also happened
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Speaker 1: to have watched the Netflix America's Next Top Model documentary.
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Speaker 1: So here's the thing. If you're like Chris, you watch
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Speaker 1: a lot of television. I'd be like, well, yeah, sure,
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Speaker 1: for sure, yes. But if any of that interest to you,
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Speaker 1: you know where to find me. So please go ahead
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Speaker 1: and make sure that you're following and subscribing and giving
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Speaker 1: five stars wherever you can. And let's get into not
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Speaker 1: ad Fiance before the ninety days, Honey, prepare for a rival.
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Speaker 1: This was a great episode. I have a lot of visuals.
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Speaker 1: Some people didn't get along segment and some people did
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Speaker 1: get long segments, and that's what happens. I don't add
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Speaker 1: of the show. I just talk about it. Okay, let's
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Speaker 1: start with Forrest and Sheena. So obviously we are hot
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Speaker 1: on the heels the morning after, not forst and Tuna
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Speaker 1: having had sex, which I don't think has happened yet.
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Speaker 1: Even though this air and bab Sorr airbnb is romantic,
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Speaker 1: just that now not only is Molly there, now they're
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Speaker 1: around her parents and family as well, so it's actually
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Speaker 1: like the family has been multiplied, just like sister wives anyway.
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Speaker 1: So having said that, the morning after Sina has had
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Speaker 1: her confession, she's had a laba that she has lied
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Speaker 1: to Forrest and Molly about the nature of her parents
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Speaker 1: and her families asking of money for her. She made
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Speaker 1: it seem like her parents and her family guilted her,
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Speaker 1: obligated her, almost like stole, if not like intimidated her
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Speaker 1: for money. It wasn't the first time the money that
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Speaker 1: she was just holding onto and begging them please, no,
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Speaker 1: this is Forrest and me money, you know. And then
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Speaker 1: at the same time she sort of had her family
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Speaker 1: be like no, no, no, it's more like a loan.
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Speaker 1: We're going to pay him back. But also it's a
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Speaker 1: cultural thing and they sort of like tap danced around.
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Speaker 1: But Forrest like why are you even talking about how
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Speaker 1: she spends her money, Like where's your money, where's your
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Speaker 1: contribution to this? So that's how it happened last night,
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Speaker 1: and then she know was really put to the flames
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Speaker 1: in the morning. It's a warm one today, says Molly. Honey,
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Speaker 1: I mean just weather giruling it up. Okay, have we
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Speaker 1: got news for you? But anyway, Mollie says this as
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Speaker 1: Forrest enters and they talk of about last night. Now.
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Speaker 1: Mollie literally every time she talks to Forrest, she's sort
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Speaker 1: of waiting for Forrest to be like, Mommy, were right,
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Speaker 1: You're right. She's scamming me, and I can't ever be
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Speaker 1: with anyone. You're right. Everyone's crazy out there and I
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Speaker 1: can only really be with you and dev for the
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Speaker 1: rest of my life. So I'm gonna go back to
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Speaker 1: America and only trust you. Like that's what she really
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Speaker 1: wants to happen. But that's not what happens, right. Forrest
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Speaker 1: wants out, and Forrest is halfway out. I mean he's
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Speaker 1: literally out of the country and Molly's just there, but
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Speaker 1: he is like, you're going to leave and I'm gonna stay.
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Speaker 1: Forest is like, well, I think it went great last night,
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Speaker 1: and Mollie's like, come again, I'm sorry. Were you At
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Speaker 1: the same dinner it was a great dinner, like all
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Speaker 1: the banana leaf, Honey, I had so much fun. You
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Speaker 1: saw Dev. No one's having a better time than Dev.
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Speaker 1: This is the most DEV heavy episode we've had. There's
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Speaker 1: so much DEV. I don't even know what to do.
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Speaker 1: I don't even what to dove. Isn't Dev And I
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Speaker 1: should look this up? Maybe I'll look it up right now.
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Speaker 1: Isn't DEV the name of that group that sang that
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Speaker 1: song like whip it dev O God? I was close
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Speaker 1: to be like almost right, okay, so you know it's
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Speaker 1: all I'm talking about. Okay. So Mollie's obviously like it
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Speaker 1: did not go well, you weirdo, and we have to
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Speaker 1: get on the same page. And he's like, yeah, no,
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Speaker 1: I want to propose I'm there, and she's like, okay, no, am,
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Speaker 1: I are you paying attention to what I'm paying attention to,
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Speaker 1: which is absolute chaos. She's lying here, She's lying there.
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Speaker 1: This airbnb is so nice that it really is nice.
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Speaker 1: I've already been talking about the weather. I need some
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Speaker 1: air conditioning. It's like kind of summer nights. Again. I
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Speaker 1: use that phrase a lot because they edit it so
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Speaker 1: that he Forrest is talking to his mom. Meanwhile, Sina
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Speaker 1: talks to her dad and then she's like, yeah, Dad,
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Speaker 1: here's the thing. I was forced to lie to them
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Speaker 1: because they don't understand the culture, and we know I'm
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Speaker 1: going to like keep giving money to you, you know, have
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Speaker 1: to pay that back. And I had to lie to
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Speaker 1: them about why, you know, like why I don't have
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Speaker 1: all the money as well as I need to tap
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Speaker 1: dance around what I really want. And this is what's
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Speaker 1: annoying to me about this. Sheena Sina's dad, not just Sena,
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Speaker 1: arguably other people are like Forest has to make a
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Speaker 1: financial contribution to the entire thing, not just like you
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Speaker 1: get here and then I'll tell you that I'm going
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Speaker 1: to take care of you once you're here. It's like, no,
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Speaker 1: if the initial cost of going there, like you know,
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Speaker 1: all of it, and the move everything, the visa cost
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Speaker 1: is like there's a ten thousand dollars. I think they
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Speaker 1: said four thousand, but I just don't know if that's everything.
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, then that means that he's paying like
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Speaker 1: part of that. So I don't understand why it's always
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Speaker 1: been on her. And the thing about it is if Sheena,
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Speaker 1: in this very moment, still thinks that Forest is going
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Speaker 1: to be able to pay like all or you know,
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Speaker 1: half and half of their living there in America. Then
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Speaker 1: I think that she needs to come to America and
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Speaker 1: see what life's like with him, because you know, I
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Speaker 1: think that she makes more money than him. He is like,
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Speaker 1: I'm going, you know anyway. So it's just it's interesting,
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Speaker 1: and I'm surprised that they can't get on board with
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Speaker 1: a little more of a clear financial conversation. But I
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Speaker 1: understand it's an awkward thing to talk about. So she
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Speaker 1: feels like she's stuck in between two worlds because she
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Speaker 1: can't She feels like truly express to him the cultural
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Speaker 1: importance of how she shows her love to her, you know,
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Speaker 1: her family, which is like monetary stuff and the expectation
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Speaker 1: and the pride and like all of it, and you know,
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Speaker 1: who knows what They're like, well, we paid for your college.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not quite sure what happened. But on
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Speaker 1: top of that, the understanding that if they're in this relationship,
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Speaker 1: that Forrest should be paying even maybe more than she
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Speaker 1: is because of just the fact that he is the man.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I was saying culturally, and so I think
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Speaker 1: to not make him feel bad she doesn't say these things,
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Speaker 1: and then she just makes herself look bad and feel bad,
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Speaker 1: like and I say, look bad by being labeled a
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Speaker 1: liar when and here's the thing, she's she's a liar
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Speaker 1: because she's lying instead of enforcing the boundaries or like
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Speaker 1: saying what she wants right. And so I have contention
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Speaker 1: when she says she was forced to lie, because that's
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Speaker 1: not true. You are choosing to lie because someone is
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Speaker 1: forcing you to reveal your boundaries, reveal your cards, and
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Speaker 1: you refuse, like, you know what I'm saying, That's why
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Speaker 1: she's lying. Anyway, So back with Molly and Forrest, She's
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Speaker 1: like Forest, Mollie says this. You know what autism does.
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Speaker 1: It makes you a little love bug who just trusts
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Speaker 1: the entire world, a little gullible love bug, honey. And
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Speaker 1: you just can't, you know, look at someone for what
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Speaker 1: they are. You just want to trust everyone, You just
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Speaker 1: want to believe in everyone, and sometimes I feel like
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Speaker 1: I'm not. Then, I mean the best part of the
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Speaker 1: episode happens. Okay, obviously, I had Christina, who is my
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Speaker 1: producer on the show, who's from the Philippines, and then
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Speaker 1: she sent me these amazing pictures which at this very moment,
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Speaker 1: I'm so said, ever got to actually put the pictures
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Speaker 1: she sent to me up on the computer, So I'm
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Speaker 1: just gonna show them from my phone, which is basically
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Speaker 1: pictures from this gorgeous bath that they go to. They
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Speaker 1: go to this spa where you basically sit in big
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Speaker 1: ass ramen bowls, I mean high bowls, you know, like
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Speaker 1: where it's deep on the inside, and they put beautiful
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Speaker 1: hot water scented with herbs. Now, when Gina says herbs,
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Speaker 1: she really hits the age. So she says herbs and
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Speaker 1: flowers and banana leaves, and then you sort of just
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Speaker 1: curl up in I mean this gorgeous Kawa bath and
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Speaker 1: relax r e lax, honey, And who relaxes more than anyone? Dev?
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Speaker 1: First of all, the producers give us this one shot
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Speaker 1: of like Molly almost between her legs looking over her
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Speaker 1: into Dev in this tub. I mean Dev is at
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Speaker 1: one point washing his face with the banana leaf. I
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Speaker 1: mean Dev is living, He's never felt so clean. Dev
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Speaker 1: is like a little fishy in this pond, Honey. Dev
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Speaker 1: is a frog. Dev is like Pisces obviously as well.
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Speaker 1: I mean Dev is never coming home if Forrest thinks
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Speaker 1: that he's not going to go back to America. Dev's
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Speaker 1: not going back. Mollie is gonna either have to get
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Speaker 1: both men to go back or Molly's gonna move to
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Speaker 1: the Philippines. And I mean one of those castles. I
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Speaker 1: want a cawibath right now? Do they have kwabaths in America?
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Speaker 1: Can I get one? I mean a half of me?
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Speaker 1: It's like, do I look up now if there's a
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Speaker 1: kwibath in California, I want to go to it. I
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Speaker 1: mean now, yeah, I'm littally looking up cawabath. They're so beautiful,
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Speaker 1: they look so also high end. I mean, can you
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Speaker 1: imagine I can imagine like an Aman spa, one of
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Speaker 1: those like fancies Amon Gury's spas, like just like having that.
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Speaker 1: By the way, when I look that up, it changed
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Speaker 1: it to cow and now just showing me cow baths.
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Speaker 1: I thought I spelled it right. Wow, that's really sad. Okay,
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Speaker 1: So I'm going to look it up on my own time,
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Speaker 1: but know that, you know, whatever it takes to regulate
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Speaker 1: my nervous system. And I mean, looking at Dev just
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Speaker 1: blist out, zoned out with that banana leaf in that tub, honey.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so he should be the spokesperson. No
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Speaker 1: one will make me do anything more than like Dev.
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Speaker 1: I mean, if you think that, I don't want to
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Speaker 1: know where those burgers are at what strip club? Because
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Speaker 1: he certainly told me how good they were, and I
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Speaker 1: believe it. I believe it. Oh my god. Okay. So
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Speaker 1: it rains and it foreshadows like what's to come, and
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Speaker 1: it's very like melodramatic, like where the weather just like underscoes,
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Speaker 1: like the emotional stability of the scene. I mean, it's
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Speaker 1: time for them to leave, you know, the beautiful area
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Speaker 1: that Sheina leaves and go back to Manila and the
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Speaker 1: dad and Shena's dad wants to talk money. This is
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Speaker 1: after Dev had like a little cute moment making bird
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Speaker 1: sounds with Sheena's sister, because you know, he just charms everyone.
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Speaker 1: So basically, Gina's dad is like, She's going to always
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Speaker 1: give us money and she you know, is not going
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Speaker 1: to share finances with you unless you're married. And he's like, oh,
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Speaker 1: Sheina's going to do whatever Sheina wants to do. And
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Speaker 1: there's the rub. Forrest believes that Sheena is not acting
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Speaker 1: with her will paramount Forrest still believes that Sheena is
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Speaker 1: under the thumb of her dad. But we have never
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Speaker 1: seen Sheena be like no, Dad, or you're wrong, or
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Speaker 1: I want to give all my money to Forest, or
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Speaker 1: I'm you know. It's like in her talk to her dad,
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Speaker 1: she certainly gave me no inkling to wanting to make
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Speaker 1: a stand for herself to me. And she has hinted
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Speaker 1: off camera, you know, with its when it's just her
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Speaker 1: that she does want Forrest to contribute more financially. So
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Speaker 1: then Mollie is like listening to this and she's like
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Speaker 1: weirded out because she's like, why is he the dad
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Speaker 1: saying anything? And then she eat Mollie has to have
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Speaker 1: a conversation a little bit with Forrest on like the
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Speaker 1: confessional side where she's like, Forrest, you have to be
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Speaker 1: paying attention right now to how you see Sheena interacts
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Speaker 1: with her dad. Because the minute that you marry Shena,
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Speaker 1: you're marrying her dad. Because when you marry someone, the
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Speaker 1: parent comes right along and they'll be in their lives
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Speaker 1: and they won't leave and they won't even know they're
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Speaker 1: in their lives. Sometimes the parent will be talking about
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Speaker 1: the very thing I'm talking about and not even know
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Speaker 1: that it should be about them they're talking about. That's
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Speaker 1: what happens for Ust. I I'm telling you, as Molly
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Speaker 1: your mom. Some people are really ignorant. Some parents are
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Speaker 1: really hard and it's very difficult to deal sorry sometimes
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Speaker 1: with some parents. That is what I know as Molly
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Speaker 1: your mom, and I'll tell you. And like Forest is like,
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Speaker 1: so Forrest tries to talk to Dev as one would,
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Speaker 1: as I would, as I still as I want to,
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Speaker 1: and he's like, Dev, you know what am I going
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Speaker 1: to do? As you know, it's real difficult over here.
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Speaker 1: I'm in love, absolutely in love. I mean, you see her,
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Speaker 1: She's amazing. I can't get enough. What was happening? Dev
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Speaker 1: is like, well, Forrest as your stepdad kind of guy,
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Speaker 1: the person that's with your mom. I'll tell you have
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Speaker 1: you better have a have a book written ready to
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Speaker 1: follow that book. I'm sorry, what it's one more time, Dev,
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Speaker 1: you better have a book. You better have a have
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Speaker 1: a book written, ready to follow that book? What? Now
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Speaker 1: here's the thing. It's kind of like I do know
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Speaker 1: what he meant to say. What he meant to say
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Speaker 1: was I think I speak Dev? That him and China
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Speaker 1: better get on the same page. Better write down, almost
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Speaker 1: like a contract. What it is. Does she give you
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Speaker 1: his parents' money? Does she not? Do you have a
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Speaker 1: shared bake account? When does that happen? How much money
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Speaker 1: does he put in? How much money do you put in?
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Speaker 1: You know? Like you better hear? Like what Dev is
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Speaker 1: saying is get everything figured out now. If not on paper,
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Speaker 1: better on paper, and then when you get married, all
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Speaker 1: you do is follow the paper, and then that's how
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Speaker 1: you win. In Deaf's world, I cannot not have Dev
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Speaker 1: for us. It's like Dev is really wise, just sometimes
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Speaker 1: I can't understand one thing he's saying. I can't. I
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Speaker 1: don't what he means? Who knows? But he pauses. He
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Speaker 1: barely says anything. So when he says anything, you do
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Speaker 1: pay attention. And then he pauses in such a way
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Speaker 1: then you're like what. And then he sometimes rambles And
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Speaker 1: it's when he rambles one word into another and none
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Speaker 1: of them actually makes sense. When you're thinking about what
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Speaker 1: he's saying that, you're like, what, what do you think
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Speaker 1: Dev thought about when he was in that hot bowl,
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Speaker 1: that hot bath, bawl? What do you think he's washing
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Speaker 1: away his sins like it was as if he had
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Speaker 1: never been in a bath before. I wonder if and
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Speaker 1: I like think of I will leave it alone because
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Speaker 1: I don't have to move on. Do you think it
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Speaker 1: was like, Okay, this is what I'm saying. Sorry, I
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Speaker 1: love a bath. I love a bath. I you know,
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Speaker 1: operate in this world as a cisgender heterosexual lady. Doesn't
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Speaker 1: have to be heterosexual to say, but like whatever, God
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Speaker 1: bless born a woman born with vagina, and having said that,
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Speaker 1: this person is allowed to decaditely, you know, luxuriate in
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Speaker 1: you know, things like baths. All that to say, I
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Speaker 1: wonder if Dev just being like Dev doesn't get access
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Speaker 1: to baths that much. Or maybe it's like he thinks
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Speaker 1: that like you know, he it's a little like indulgent
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Speaker 1: or you know, when when one had the time to
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Speaker 1: just sit in hot water, I just would think that
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Speaker 1: maybe he hasn't done it, Like maybe he's more of
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Speaker 1: like a cold shower guy who knows. And when his
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Speaker 1: body felt the deep i mean deep nervous system release
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Speaker 1: of a bath like that, he just couldn't get enough.
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Speaker 1: I mean it's like him and the chicken. It's like
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Speaker 1: watching Dev take in any sensory experience is like watching
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Speaker 1: someone for the first time take it in and it's
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Speaker 1: great for them and they're loving it. It's like I
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Speaker 1: never you know, it's like going to Disneyland with like
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Speaker 1: a kid for the first time. You're like, oh my god,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna like lose your mind. You just like we
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Speaker 1: get to watch someone like lose their mind over something.
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Speaker 1: It's that's what dev's like doing anything. I love them. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I can't, I can't, Okay help. So so then Laura
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Speaker 1: and Burkhan so burken my mind said like that we're
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Speaker 1: hard on the heels of her finding out that he's
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Speaker 1: just absolutely addicted to get gambling. Loves it, honey. I
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Speaker 1: mean he just was watching the Super Bowl and every
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Speaker 1: time there was a gambling commercial he was like, there's me.
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Speaker 1: That's me, Me, that's me. I love it, you know,
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Speaker 1: like now me fanatics. He is one he loves like
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Speaker 1: Kendall Jenner. Honey. Anyway, God Blast Satday made that joke.
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Speaker 1: So basically, they go back to the hotel and it's
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Speaker 1: a cute coral and green it's like a boutique hotel.
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Speaker 1: She's like, you know, and she's paying for it, so
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Speaker 1: she is supposedly has pause for him. Now she has
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Speaker 1: put a blind eye to so many red flags. We
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Speaker 1: truly don't understand who she is as a person at
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Speaker 1: this point. I mean, also, Michael just I don't know
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Speaker 1: why the producers didn't try and like tease a little
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Speaker 1: bit of like a running Michael in this. But like
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Speaker 1: at this point, we know that she's never cared for him,
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Speaker 1: because she's not even texting him anymore or they're not
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Speaker 1: even talking about it. So basically, in bed, he knows
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Speaker 1: that the gambling thing was real bad, and he also
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Speaker 1: knows that he fucked up when he said that he
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Speaker 1: was just trying to like bounce out of the country
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Speaker 1: to skip out his debt, which is not even the gambling,
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Speaker 1: and that you know, that was basically the reason why
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Speaker 1: he's with her, And so he's like, no, here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and stop gambling. I know I shouldn't
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Speaker 1: try and stop, and she's like, oh, wow, thank you,
19:16
Speaker 1: he's trying. So then he takes on a boat and
19:20
Speaker 1: it's she's it's a romantic boat, she says, and he
19:23
Speaker 1: paid for it. And when she's like, how'd you paid
19:25
Speaker 1: for it, he's like, gambling, how much is the boat.
19:27
Speaker 1: I mean, does this mainly pay for food? I mean, okay,
19:30
Speaker 1: also this he doesn't have a house or he sleeps
19:32
Speaker 1: in people's couches, but he is paying for that sisha
19:35
Speaker 1: at that coffee shop every day. Now, he could literally
19:39
Speaker 1: just buy one head of tobacco and like one mint
19:43
Speaker 1: tea and I told you that's what happens easily and
19:45
Speaker 1: sit there all night and you know, ruin someone's section,
19:48
Speaker 1: and I'm sure he does, but he has to have
19:51
Speaker 1: some money for the tea in shisha. So she is
19:55
Speaker 1: overjoyed that she's on this boat, and she's like, oh,
19:58
Speaker 1: just taking a girl on her romantic ride. She just
20:02
Speaker 1: like lives to she lives to like pretend that he
20:08
Speaker 1: is this dashing prince who wants to hyper take care
20:14
Speaker 1: of her in every moment and mor soul. She alludes
20:19
Speaker 1: to him being a provider and a protector and yeah,
20:22
Speaker 1: like you know, someone who's going to like save her,
20:25
Speaker 1: protect her. Even though he said he is more the
20:28
Speaker 1: princess type. It's interesting because everything that he gives me
20:34
Speaker 1: is not someone who would be able to throw down
20:36
Speaker 1: in that way. He so obviously is someone who needs
20:39
Speaker 1: her so viscerally and the times in which he's manipulated,
20:44
Speaker 1: you know, almost wielding a certain like dominant sexuality, was
20:50
Speaker 1: to get an end goal that was like obvious at
20:53
Speaker 1: least to us as the audience. I mean good I
20:56
Speaker 1: So basically he then is like, listen, you saved me.
21:02
Speaker 1: You saved my life. I'm basically You're Lisa and I'm Danielle,
21:06
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't be here without you. You really had
21:08
Speaker 1: me have a glow up because before you, let me
21:11
Speaker 1: tell you, I was living the best life ever. I
21:13
Speaker 1: was like a soccer star. Then I got an injury.
21:17
Speaker 1: My hot ass, great ass girlfriend, who I was in
21:19
Speaker 1: love with, who I still am in love with, who
21:21
Speaker 1: I'm in love with, who's like who I think about.
21:25
Speaker 1: So he says, like, this is what he says. At first,
21:28
Speaker 1: he says this girl like broke up with him after
21:31
Speaker 1: a month, and he also says that she never wanted
21:33
Speaker 1: to go visit him in the hospital. And at this
21:35
Speaker 1: point he also says, nor did anyone else, sorry, nor
21:38
Speaker 1: did anyone else. He's already made mention to the fact
21:41
Speaker 1: that he doesn't have a close relationship with his family,
21:45
Speaker 1: so and during the injury, they definitely don't go visit him.
21:49
Speaker 1: So is this the beginning of the bad relationship was
21:52
Speaker 1: just like a symptom of it. How you guys weren't
21:54
Speaker 1: close and therefore they didn't come to the hospital. You know,
21:56
Speaker 1: God bless. He's like, I need you, so, Laura, I
22:00
Speaker 1: have life because of you. Also, I'm going to have
22:02
Speaker 1: a second life out of this country because of you.
22:05
Speaker 1: So speak of Lisa and Danielle, I'll go right into them. Yeah,
22:08
Speaker 1: Lisa and Daniel. She is so upset because obviously a
22:13
Speaker 1: she showed her true hair and he hated it. And
22:15
Speaker 1: then she went to go visit hang out with his friends,
22:19
Speaker 1: and as I said, his friends are like, oh, nice
22:21
Speaker 1: to meet you person who really saved our friend Daniel's
22:25
Speaker 1: life and who made his life so much better than
22:26
Speaker 1: it was before. Like, look at the clothes he's wearing.
22:28
Speaker 1: He was wearing such shitty clothes. And then she sort
22:32
Speaker 1: of started to hear that, and then again the hair
22:35
Speaker 1: thing was upsetting to her, and she brought up something
22:38
Speaker 1: in front of the friends, which is that he could
22:41
Speaker 1: be a scammer because he had talked to other American
22:45
Speaker 1: women before her and she found out about it. She
22:48
Speaker 1: tells this in front of everyone, that the woman that
22:52
Speaker 1: he was talking to beforehand online, reached out somehow found
22:58
Speaker 1: Lisa's page, reached out to her and then had sent
23:02
Speaker 1: her screenshot oh sorry, had sent to her like images
23:06
Speaker 1: that Daniel had sent to this lady okay, like whether
23:11
Speaker 1: it's pictures or dick pics not quite sure. And Lisa
23:15
Speaker 1: had screenshotted and saved that information and then since then
23:20
Speaker 1: deleted it because she like decided to trust him or
23:23
Speaker 1: something like that. But then at this dinner with his friends,
23:27
Speaker 1: was like, fuck it, I'm just gonna, you know, put
23:29
Speaker 1: your ass to the fire, make you ask answer all
23:32
Speaker 1: these questions. And even though she's brought it up to
23:36
Speaker 1: him before, and he had admitted it and they had
23:39
Speaker 1: talked about it, but he had said it was nothing
23:41
Speaker 1: in front of his friends, he just was like, that
23:44
Speaker 1: didn't happen. Nope, there was no one else, Nope. And
23:49
Speaker 1: she had shown pictures of him. And when she shows sorry,
23:53
Speaker 1: when she shows Daniel the pictures of this set woodman,
23:58
Speaker 1: Daniel at first is like, I don't know her, never
24:01
Speaker 1: met her, never seen her, don't know her. Mariah Carey,
24:04
Speaker 1: j Lo, I don't know her. M mmm, I only
24:08
Speaker 1: have up you know, You're just like no, come on, please, Danielle, come,
24:19
Speaker 1: he is trying. See he just was putting out feelers
24:27
Speaker 1: to Biddy's all over. And I wonder what other research
24:33
Speaker 1: he did, Like I wonder, yeah, like is it just
24:37
Speaker 1: the Instagram? And does he try and find out that
24:39
Speaker 1: they're also rich? Does he also try and find out
24:41
Speaker 1: like what their past relationships are? Like I can't imagine
24:44
Speaker 1: it's not hard to find out that Lisa maybe was
24:49
Speaker 1: married and or like was with a woman. I'm assuming
24:51
Speaker 1: that it can't be that hard to find pictures online
24:53
Speaker 1: just because faith exists, Faith's gonna put up pictures. I
24:57
Speaker 1: for some reason can find out information about any one. Almost.
25:02
Speaker 1: Oh well, I'm very good. It used to be a
25:04
Speaker 1: lot easier before they put all the privacy settings, but
25:07
Speaker 1: Facebook is just you can really do so much damage
25:09
Speaker 1: there because there's just so many old people that don't
25:12
Speaker 1: have privacy settings. So once you can isolate the family
25:16
Speaker 1: of someone, you can really deep dive into like aunts
25:19
Speaker 1: and uncles and then like find old pictures and family
25:22
Speaker 1: pictures and like Christmas pictures and old pictures. You know.
25:24
Speaker 1: Really just oh but I don't know, you could do
25:26
Speaker 1: whatever you want to do. I'm not quite sure, you
25:28
Speaker 1: don't do what I'm just telling you to do. Good
25:29
Speaker 1: offline breathe outdoor air and like touch grass is what
25:33
Speaker 1: I would say. This is what I'm telling myself to do. Anyway.
25:36
Speaker 1: So Lisa also in the next morning, having talked about this,
25:40
Speaker 1: comes out and a great two piece. Let's talk about it.
25:44
Speaker 1: It's like this floral, black rimmed bathing suit with ribbony
25:51
Speaker 1: kind of tie on the like you know, for the
25:54
Speaker 1: for the shoulders and again like a strong honey. She
25:58
Speaker 1: has like a super cute son hat like. Lisa does
26:03
Speaker 1: not have bad style. Sure this is Timu or Sheen
26:07
Speaker 1: or whatever the fuck it is, but she doesn't. She
26:09
Speaker 1: does not. She doesn't like I don't even know how
26:11
Speaker 1: much money she has, certainly not a lot. You know,
26:13
Speaker 1: she's having some issues, but she doesn't have, you know,
26:16
Speaker 1: really good personal skills when it comes to like keeping
26:19
Speaker 1: her word. And I'm not quite sure what her situation
26:21
Speaker 1: like always with her daughter, but they seem to be,
26:24
Speaker 1: you know, pretty chill. Now they've had a TikTok live
26:28
Speaker 1: together where they were kind of bickering back and forth,
26:29
Speaker 1: but also together. So maybe there's just like a kind
26:32
Speaker 1: of toxic kind of back and forth put a pendent
26:34
Speaker 1: relationship there. I'm not quite sure you tell me. At
26:37
Speaker 1: the same time, it is a cute two piece. So
26:39
Speaker 1: basically he comes out to the pool to talk about
26:41
Speaker 1: last night and he then wants proof that this woman
26:47
Speaker 1: in this situation happened, but obviously Lisa deleted it right,
26:51
Speaker 1: So then Lisa now has to go back, try and
26:54
Speaker 1: find the woman, try and like re message her and
26:57
Speaker 1: wait for the woman to message her back, and I'm
27:00
Speaker 1: sorry the woman does and it's like I the girl.
27:03
Speaker 1: That woman's like, it's been so long, I don't have
27:04
Speaker 1: the pictures I sent to you before. And Lisa's like, well,
27:08
Speaker 1: I'm actually in nigeriare right now. I'm about to marry him.
27:11
Speaker 1: And that woman's like, what girl, what the fuck are
27:14
Speaker 1: you doing? That's crazy. He's obviously a scammer. You're Banana Ramas.
27:20
Speaker 1: Don't come for me to don't text me anymore. If
27:23
Speaker 1: that's where you're at with this, what are you doing
27:25
Speaker 1: Because you already knew everything that we've already gone over
27:29
Speaker 1: months ago, and then you're asked God on a plane
27:31
Speaker 1: and now you're going to bring it up again. There's
27:33
Speaker 1: no new information, So if it didn't sit in if
27:36
Speaker 1: it didn't like marinate and get in there before what
27:39
Speaker 1: thing's gonna happen? Now I got shit to do, Like
27:41
Speaker 1: that's how I would be, Like, suffer fools. Why the
27:44
Speaker 1: minute you suffer fools, you just continue. It's unfortunate once
27:47
Speaker 1: a fool shows you their fool colors. Unfortunately, fools are
27:52
Speaker 1: hard because sometimes you just think that maybe they're silly,
27:55
Speaker 1: then you realize they're fools. Silly is fun. Fools are draining,
28:01
Speaker 1: Fools are black holes, you know what I'm saying. So basically,
28:04
Speaker 1: that woman, you know, is like again your banana ramas.
28:08
Speaker 1: And then Lisa shows Daniel another picture of that lady
28:12
Speaker 1: and then he knows, like, oh, let me see that.
28:14
Speaker 1: Let me see oh you showed you showed me the
28:17
Speaker 1: wrong picture before that was I didn't know that lady
28:21
Speaker 1: because you showed me the wrong profile picture. But this is, yeah,
28:23
Speaker 1: I know this lady. You just it was you that
28:25
Speaker 1: did it. And then Lisa's like, don't blame me, I
28:27
Speaker 1: mean half of me feels like two things. Lisa sort
28:33
Speaker 1: of blew her shit up by bringing up this girl.
28:37
Speaker 1: The only reason why Lisa was upset or should be
28:40
Speaker 1: upset about daniel Is because she wanted to not have
28:45
Speaker 1: to wear her hair now she also had sores and
28:50
Speaker 1: just kept it on. I'm not quite sure why she,
28:53
Speaker 1: to me, didn't take it off to shower or didn't
28:56
Speaker 1: take it off to sleep. If they're in the same
28:58
Speaker 1: room and they're just like in not public, it seems
29:01
Speaker 1: that that's when you take it off. You take it
29:04
Speaker 1: off to sleep, so you're not running around going back
29:06
Speaker 1: and forth, and then like and also like that there's
29:09
Speaker 1: less light in the room, so you have to worry
29:11
Speaker 1: about that, and then in public you can wear the wig.
29:14
Speaker 1: But what she did was she wore the wig until
29:17
Speaker 1: there was sores, then took it off in a public
29:19
Speaker 1: and then didn't feel like she brushed her hair or
29:21
Speaker 1: anything underneath it, and so it was a certain way.
29:25
Speaker 1: I wonder what happened if she got a fresh dye
29:28
Speaker 1: job and actually styled the hair that's underneath the wig.
29:31
Speaker 1: I don't know what would happened, but I just wonder.
29:33
Speaker 1: I would like you to tell me, Okay, so you know, basically,
29:38
Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, I do know her, but like we
29:42
Speaker 1: were just talking and the minute I started talking with
29:44
Speaker 1: you was kind of like the volume like that volume
29:46
Speaker 1: went down and the volume of you what up? So
29:49
Speaker 1: not a problem? Okay, So Annelin and Javon had kind
29:54
Speaker 1: of like a shorter little number oops. And basically it
29:58
Speaker 1: is they also obviously are in the So they're going
30:00
Speaker 1: back to Manila and it's busy, and they're on the
30:04
Speaker 1: way to her hometown, Cavite, And when they get there,
30:08
Speaker 1: like you know, it's like a smaller probably like neighborhood,
30:11
Speaker 1: and I'm sure she's like all her neighbors know each other.
30:13
Speaker 1: So when they get there, he's not from there, and
30:16
Speaker 1: they have interest in that. And also he looks different.
30:20
Speaker 1: He is, you know, a black American tall, you know,
30:23
Speaker 1: God bless and so they are just like and he
30:26
Speaker 1: feels it. He feels like people are staring. He says
30:29
Speaker 1: that it feels like he is a t rex walking
30:32
Speaker 1: around a parking lot. So this is also another kind
30:36
Speaker 1: of like I give money to this person, I want
30:39
Speaker 1: to see how they live. And also it's a little
30:42
Speaker 1: bit like Forrest and Sheena in that in Forrest expected
30:45
Speaker 1: Sheena's parents to live worse, Javon expects Annalyn to have
30:51
Speaker 1: like maybe not a super nice place, and he had
30:54
Speaker 1: a little inkling that she likes massages. So she obviously,
30:58
Speaker 1: as we know, also lives next her with her mom,
31:01
Speaker 1: who is her best friend. And we're so happy about that.
31:03
Speaker 1: She gets Devonne and they get to the town and
31:06
Speaker 1: they have to like walk through and they get to
31:08
Speaker 1: her house, and her house is super super cute, super clean,
31:12
Speaker 1: super organized, you know, like like look at it, like
31:15
Speaker 1: look at all of her dishes. There's like a lot
31:18
Speaker 1: of fun magnets on the refrigerator. There's one surprising element
31:22
Speaker 1: to me, which is like a big chip like a
31:26
Speaker 1: pirate ship, not really pirate, it's like a big ship
31:29
Speaker 1: like the may like I don't know, Mayflower, honey, a
31:33
Speaker 1: big ass ship and it's sitting on top of the frigerator.
31:36
Speaker 1: I don't know what it's for what she does with it.
31:38
Speaker 1: There's also like a picture of a forest. She has
31:41
Speaker 1: a full toaster oven, honey, there's a rice cooker. Things
31:44
Speaker 1: are clean, things are put away, you know. Uh yeah,
31:48
Speaker 1: I like her whole setup. And he is astounded. He's like,
31:52
Speaker 1: this is real big. Now he says some weird dumb shit,
31:55
Speaker 1: like at one point he says, she has huge closets
31:59
Speaker 1: with oh, she's not even wearing Okay, yeah, I mean,
32:03
Speaker 1: she's wearing the clothes she's wearing, and then the clothes
32:05
Speaker 1: that she's not wearing dus Lee in a closet. What
32:08
Speaker 1: the fuck are you talking about? Because it doesn't make sense.
32:10
Speaker 1: You've never met her, so you don't know what clothes
32:12
Speaker 1: she's wearing. Like if you were trying to say she'd
32:15
Speaker 1: just wear those clothes in life, how would you know?
32:17
Speaker 1: How did you here? Do you know? You don't know
32:19
Speaker 1: what the weather like and there's seasons. I mean, I
32:22
Speaker 1: guess I find out, but you know, I thought that
32:25
Speaker 1: was weird. I like it. And then her mom comes
32:28
Speaker 1: and her mom is adorable. We're both are wearing red.
32:31
Speaker 1: Look at these circle sunglass or sorry, not sunglasses, circle glasses.
32:36
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now her mom is like a little
32:39
Speaker 1: magnet honey to the little you know, other magnet that
32:43
Speaker 1: is Javon. She's just like super cute, but like, yeah,
32:46
Speaker 1: she's super affectionate for someone who just met, Like she's
32:49
Speaker 1: just like, I think, overwhelmed with the fact of maybe
32:52
Speaker 1: just the love that she has that her daughter's happy,
32:54
Speaker 1: but she's like wiping away javonn sweat and yeah, I
32:57
Speaker 1: mean it's really it's really sweet and it's really indicative
33:02
Speaker 1: of someone who's like showing love to someone because of
33:05
Speaker 1: also like the love it brings to someone they chiefly love,
33:10
Speaker 1: which is her daughter. Oh my god. I was like
33:13
Speaker 1: javan either not ever, you'd better not hurt any of
33:16
Speaker 1: these ladies, any of these lovely ladies and red ladies,
33:20
Speaker 1: and bit like you better not. I'll kill you. No,
33:24
Speaker 1: I won't kill you. I'm busy. But at the same time,
33:27
Speaker 1: now it was really really cute. So but yeah, he's
33:29
Speaker 1: taken aback by like the travel photos, you know, because
33:33
Speaker 1: I know Landa is fabulous, and he's like, why is so?
33:35
Speaker 1: She was broker? I thought that I could do more
33:37
Speaker 1: for her. It's a little bit like I think that
33:39
Speaker 1: Javonne is like, yeah, I want to you know, like
33:41
Speaker 1: be able to like be the cool guy you know,
33:44
Speaker 1: like just sends money, you know, like they just don't
33:46
Speaker 1: have that much. So I just get to like be
33:48
Speaker 1: like a little night and shining armor, you know, like
33:52
Speaker 1: they're safer, they're like hero you know. But you know
33:55
Speaker 1: it's not like that. And Elin's getting massages and fabulist resorts,
33:58
Speaker 1: which's going to Australia and she looks fabulous all the time.
34:02
Speaker 1: Sometimes her shoe brakes, but like f that. You know,
34:04
Speaker 1: her mom's her best friend, and her mom runs the
34:06
Speaker 1: snack shop and the snacks looking at me, you know,
34:09
Speaker 1: like there's nothing that Anelin doesn't have, and you're just adding,
34:12
Speaker 1: you know, to her fabulous life or whatever. And the
34:14
Speaker 1: good news is if you're lucky, your life becomes more
34:18
Speaker 1: fabulous because she's in it now. I mean, I don't
34:20
Speaker 1: have to tell you that's how it works. So then
34:22
Speaker 1: we move on to stick in a Viva. She's wearing
34:25
Speaker 1: the super cute orange orange swim suit with like this
34:29
Speaker 1: gold hardware. It's almost like a horseshoe that holds the
34:34
Speaker 1: two bikini booby parts in between. It's awkward for them
34:38
Speaker 1: in the car, it's been they go in between either
34:42
Speaker 1: just being like horny af for each other or basically
34:45
Speaker 1: not talking to each other. It's like the most high
34:46
Speaker 1: school thing. Then they go to this like amazing, super cool,
34:51
Speaker 1: take me there secret beach and belize honey. Or there's
34:56
Speaker 1: picnic benches in the beautiful blue water. So you're just
35:04
Speaker 1: sitting in the water and like it's like a picnic
35:08
Speaker 1: pool almost, but it's again the ocean, and yeah, there's
35:11
Speaker 1: service will come up right to your picnic table and
35:13
Speaker 1: get your order. Oh my lord, I want that. I
35:18
Speaker 1: want that. It's been so long since I've been in
35:20
Speaker 1: like any sort of beautiful tropical environment. I can't even imagine.
35:24
Speaker 1: I First of all, this is like now the second
35:26
Speaker 1: part of this episode where I've really considered what it
35:30
Speaker 1: would be like to be in hot water, and it's like, yeah,
35:33
Speaker 1: I want to get there, obviously, I want to be
35:35
Speaker 1: dev I'm like divving it up right now in my
35:36
Speaker 1: mind thinking about Aviva and Stick at this like picnic
35:40
Speaker 1: picnic ocean bench, sorry, picnic bench in the ocean. Okay,
35:45
Speaker 1: So basically this is where it gets crazy. Stick's like,
35:48
Speaker 1: you know what, I just don't know if we're doing
35:51
Speaker 1: it right. You know, we're just like moving so fast.
35:54
Speaker 1: We just don't know each other very well all the things,
35:56
Speaker 1: So like, you know, maybe we should be just making
35:58
Speaker 1: Maybe we should just not be how do I say
36:01
Speaker 1: this breeding? I'm gonna sorry, Maybe we just shouldn't be
36:06
Speaker 1: raw dogging. I just don't know if I should be
36:08
Speaker 1: shooting up the club every night all night long, you
36:12
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. She's like, why are you saying this?
36:14
Speaker 1: Just because I was on my phone. It's because you
36:16
Speaker 1: were singing to some girl told you not to sing
36:19
Speaker 1: that song, and you were like grounding on some girls.
36:21
Speaker 1: So I try to make you mad by getting on
36:22
Speaker 1: my phone. And he's like, who you're in the phone with?
36:24
Speaker 1: And she was like, my friend from Arizona? What friend
36:26
Speaker 1: from Arizona? A girl? A girlfriend from Arizona. There are
36:30
Speaker 1: no girls in Arizona. Fuck you think I am girls?
36:34
Speaker 1: And Ara, there's no girls in Arizona anyway. Yeah, He's like,
36:37
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull back and not fuck you raw, and
36:40
Speaker 1: a Viva is devastated. I don't know why I love
36:49
Speaker 1: it so much. She's so mad, she's suck She's what No,
36:55
Speaker 1: she's like this, oh oh okay, yea. But whatever you want,
36:59
Speaker 1: whatever you think you should do. You don't want to
37:01
Speaker 1: me Ron anymore, you know you know what. You don't
37:05
Speaker 1: want to go in there anymore. No condom and just
37:08
Speaker 1: make sure it's all covering your DNA. You want to
37:10
Speaker 1: do anymore. It's fine, you can do whatever you want.
37:14
Speaker 1: But I'll tell you one thing, Mike. Spring's coming. Yeah, bitch,
37:19
Speaker 1: I've been warning you, honey, Winter is coming. Fuck it,
37:23
Speaker 1: Spring is coming. Spring is here. Spring is coming, and
37:27
Speaker 1: she's gonna tear your ass up, bitch. I do I
37:32
Speaker 1: just it is great. I can't I can't help it.
37:35
Speaker 1: I do like it. Okay, So then Spring comes, Okay,
37:38
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like it's like dd d D
37:41
Speaker 1: D d D. I don't know. There's like some flowers happening.
37:43
Speaker 1: There's obviously birds, they're chirping, eggs hatching, easter, all of it. Honey,
37:48
Speaker 1: Spring is here. She has a huge longer ponytail than before.
37:51
Speaker 1: I mean you know, like yeah, it's a longer ponytail piece.
37:54
Speaker 1: And they all go to this super cute restaurant that
37:58
Speaker 1: is Spring's nieces husband's families and niece's family's place or whatever.
38:03
Speaker 1: And Spring obviously, as we know, lived in Belize with
38:06
Speaker 1: her husband who was a no good, dirty scoundrel, cheating person. Okay,
38:14
Speaker 1: and she found out and then she like you know,
38:15
Speaker 1: had to skip town or whatever. And Stig knows that,
38:18
Speaker 1: so have a Stig thing with Spring. And Spring is like, well,
38:22
Speaker 1: she's putting on me, you know, her own situation, which
38:25
Speaker 1: is that she was just you know, obviously recently cheated on.
38:28
Speaker 1: And then she therefore thinks that all men and especially
38:32
Speaker 1: ones that are and belize do this. Well, it's really
38:35
Speaker 1: all men period anyway, So he still can taste the
38:39
Speaker 1: cheery lip gloss on him that Aviva had kissed on
38:42
Speaker 1: him before. I don't understand what, okay, I don't understand
38:46
Speaker 1: how Viva's hair could always look this greasy, because sometimes
38:50
Speaker 1: it's just that it. Okay, it looks greasy every day.
38:54
Speaker 1: And I know that she can't. I know that she
38:56
Speaker 1: showers like she she can't. She she's shower one of
39:01
Speaker 1: these days. So is it that she keeps putting on oil? Yeah?
39:06
Speaker 1: Does she does? She get out of the shower every
39:09
Speaker 1: morning and then just put on a bunch of oil
39:11
Speaker 1: all over her hair. And that's why it is so greasy.
39:15
Speaker 1: And then if you really look at her nails, and
39:19
Speaker 1: I really have already pointed them out, but I need
39:21
Speaker 1: to point them out that one more time, in that
39:24
Speaker 1: they are super square, chunky block nails with French designed, sorry,
39:34
Speaker 1: with a French design. And the way that is is
39:37
Speaker 1: that the white goes all the way down the side
39:41
Speaker 1: of the nail. It is such a look. It is
39:44
Speaker 1: such a look. I just got my nails done. I
39:46
Speaker 1: just got shoulder nails. It's been like I've been rocking
39:48
Speaker 1: long nails for so long and I just can't type
39:51
Speaker 1: with them at all. I can't type it all. I
39:53
Speaker 1: have to move. I am moving. I've been in the
39:56
Speaker 1: process of moving. I'm almost done anyway. I think said
39:58
Speaker 1: that I went back to short nails, and I feel
40:00
Speaker 1: good about it. I forgot how easy it is to type.
40:02
Speaker 1: I mean, night and day. I can do so many things.
40:05
Speaker 1: Now it's like I forgot. I just can't get over
40:07
Speaker 1: Aviva's hair, Like it's the opposite of Chloe. Chloe went
40:12
Speaker 1: to Aruba and all I wanted was like all the
40:14
Speaker 1: hair oil, just to like run it through it you
40:17
Speaker 1: just like, you know, make sure it was just like
40:19
Speaker 1: having a moment in there. But yeah, that didn't happen.
40:23
Speaker 1: And now all I want is like, try shampoo, Just
40:28
Speaker 1: try shampoo, living Proof for you know whatever. It is,
40:31
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, just get in there, soak up some
40:35
Speaker 1: of that oil, like it'll give her like some volume
40:38
Speaker 1: at the base. I mean, I just can't imagine it.
40:39
Speaker 1: I'm just I would love to see it. So basically,
40:42
Speaker 1: while Spring and Aviva and Stick are talking and Steak
40:47
Speaker 1: is trying so hard to like charm Spring, you know,
40:51
Speaker 1: he's like, Oh, what beautiful eyes you have, and Spring's like, yeah,
40:54
Speaker 1: I can clock your eyes. Yeah, that's what my husband
40:57
Speaker 1: used to say about the Mies. Yeah, as they were
40:59
Speaker 1: earliest oldest trick in the book. Buddy, I know him
41:02
Speaker 1: and he then Spring is like, you know what, why
41:05
Speaker 1: don't you and I have a talk, And why don't
41:08
Speaker 1: Aviva you hang out with Cec? And she's like, yeah,
41:10
Speaker 1: hang out with Cec. Here's a drink and hang out
41:13
Speaker 1: and I'm going to talk to Stig. And then she
41:16
Speaker 1: pulls Dick aside and she's like, hey, Stig, now, can
41:20
Speaker 1: you explain why my girl Aviva thinks that this shit
41:25
Speaker 1: is so serious between you and this is you? And
41:28
Speaker 1: then just shows him her phone. Who knows what's there?
41:32
Speaker 1: Here are some guesses, him and a bunch of kids,
41:35
Speaker 1: his kids, him in a sex video, him in an
41:39
Speaker 1: or g with same thing. I don't know the answer,
41:44
Speaker 1: but I mean Stick has been acting like there are
41:47
Speaker 1: no possible opportunities for him to be caught. And in
41:51
Speaker 1: the year of Our Lord twenty twenty five, especially if
41:54
Speaker 1: he's like famous at all, and he is, he has
41:58
Speaker 1: to assume that there is treachery and vultures everywhere he
42:01
Speaker 1: goes that people are waiting to like tear him down,
42:05
Speaker 1: like that's what I it's interesting if I was ever
42:08
Speaker 1: a celebrity or I'm not, hahaha or famous. I can't
42:12
Speaker 1: imagine like having to trying to cheat on your spouse
42:15
Speaker 1: or something. I me, unless you have an open marriage
42:17
Speaker 1: or whatever. But it's just things get out. There's cameras everywhere,
42:21
Speaker 1: you know, God bless so we'll see what happens. And
42:24
Speaker 1: last couple, and certainly not least, Oh my goodness, is
42:28
Speaker 1: the birthday girl herself. Honey, it's Emma's. She's so excited.
42:33
Speaker 1: It's her camel birthday and Agafe. I love cambl not
42:38
Speaker 1: the ammel so much. The color camel is my favorite,
42:41
Speaker 1: one of my favorite colors. I love gold. I love
42:43
Speaker 1: camel though. I think it's such a beautiful, like warm tone.
42:47
Speaker 1: I love it. I should know that's camel. Give it
42:48
Speaker 1: to me. So they're in a good mood and she's
42:53
Speaker 1: excited and she's like in a car driving to Agafe
42:57
Speaker 1: and they get there and it's like a desert. But
43:00
Speaker 1: then he says it's not a desert because there's no sand.
43:03
Speaker 1: But I didn't realize that that was the definition of
43:06
Speaker 1: a desert because like Joshua Tree, here is a we
43:10
Speaker 1: call a coastal desert. And when it's like rocks, I think,
43:12
Speaker 1: I'm not quite sure exactly. Actually I'm not please, but
43:15
Speaker 1: that's what's happening. It's beautiful, a lot of rocks. There's camels.
43:19
Speaker 1: She freaks out. She's always one of this cambl birthday,
43:21
Speaker 1: she again has heels. It was never a good idea
43:24
Speaker 1: for her to have heels. She's like, we're the road
43:26
Speaker 1: isn't paved in the desert of Agapa. She's like, oh my.
43:29
Speaker 2: God, babe, this is so cute. Only gun it's so great.
43:37
Speaker 2: They like pull into these little like huts. They have
43:41
Speaker 2: one bed. She's like, one bed, babe, where are you
43:45
Speaker 2: gonna sle He's like, not in this room, in my
43:47
Speaker 2: own hut with my own one bedroom. She's like oh.
43:50
Speaker 1: She's like, babe, after we've had already had sex, I
43:54
Speaker 1: thought it'd be totally chill for us to continue having sex.
43:57
Speaker 1: But now on TV and he's like, no, bitch, if
44:01
Speaker 1: I tell you, I can't get any sort of like
44:03
Speaker 1: female touching me until I get married and then maybe
44:06
Speaker 1: you can touch me, but not probably on TV. No,
44:09
Speaker 1: like that's what it is. I don't understand how hard
44:13
Speaker 1: it is to understand that, how many times you have
44:15
Speaker 1: to say understand, I don't get it. So did Emma
44:17
Speaker 1: really think that once she told the cameras that they
44:21
Speaker 1: had sex once she said it, because he still hasn't
44:24
Speaker 1: said it. She did, she said they had sex to
44:29
Speaker 1: the cameras and the producers, not even in the same
44:32
Speaker 1: room as him. Why once she said it, did she
44:35
Speaker 1: think that he would be open to being on camera
44:41
Speaker 1: doing it. Maybe she's just like, that's how pure I am.
44:45
Speaker 1: Whatever I deal and say is what I would do
44:47
Speaker 1: on camera. And this is where I'm like, oh yeah, no,
44:50
Speaker 1: let me just introduce you to fundamentalist religious folks, the
44:55
Speaker 1: two types that believe everything and then just repress their
44:57
Speaker 1: lives that are crazy at the end, or honey, the
44:59
Speaker 1: ones that just pretend and then do whatever the fuck
45:01
Speaker 1: they want to do. Anxiets that one Dianne is pretending
45:04
Speaker 1: to do what if he wants to do. But then yeah,
45:06
Speaker 1: we'll have sex with you. But then, yes, his family
45:07
Speaker 1: is still a family. He can't go on TV and
45:10
Speaker 1: say it happened. He's not going to. He's not going to.
45:13
Speaker 1: He's like to disrespect his family for TV for some
45:16
Speaker 1: girl he's already boned off camera, you know, such a
45:20
Speaker 1: weird thing. So then they go and they she gets
45:23
Speaker 1: to ride a camel, and she's so happy in her
45:26
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, wig hair is blowing in the breeze.
45:29
Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting to me. I was like, you
45:31
Speaker 1: never thought, even on the camel, just to like get
45:34
Speaker 1: a little hair tie, just to like tie that back
45:36
Speaker 1: a little scrungey because it's windy and she has makeup
45:41
Speaker 1: on and it's you know, that hair blows, you know.
45:44
Speaker 1: But she, yeah, she didn't have the proper shoes for it.
45:46
Speaker 1: She they gave them these cute little like flats by flats,
45:52
Speaker 1: I mean slippers. They seem mildly happy and after dinner,
45:57
Speaker 1: let me get there. So after the camel her birthday,
46:01
Speaker 1: and she has been hinting wildly loudly that she wants
46:04
Speaker 1: a proposal, and he's been wildly loud that no, he
46:08
Speaker 1: won't do it. He has explicitly told her percentage wise
46:12
Speaker 1: it's a zero percent chance. Sorry, I can't make it clear.
46:16
Speaker 1: And English is my second language or a third, probably
46:19
Speaker 1: third because of French in Arabic, so I don't know
46:22
Speaker 1: how to make it clear to you that like no,
46:24
Speaker 1: zero percent no. So she's like, great, let's go to dinner, babe,
46:28
Speaker 1: and they're like, okay, welcome to Barrocco, where you gonna
46:32
Speaker 1: have the famous Baraccan dish you've never had before. She's
46:36
Speaker 1: like chicken tou jin and she's just been getting chicken
46:39
Speaker 1: chicken toujean the left and right. They can't stop, won't
46:42
Speaker 1: stop chicken jujen. I mean just there's no like couscous.
46:46
Speaker 1: This girl can have a little couscous. She wants a
46:49
Speaker 1: little kiss, kiss a little cous cous. So basically she
46:52
Speaker 1: is hinting at things. He starts getting weird, like he
46:55
Speaker 1: either thinks that he wants this dinner to be over with.
46:58
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm cold. She's like all right, babe, here's
47:01
Speaker 1: my sweater and she's like, sister, she has like, no,
47:03
Speaker 1: she's sweater her on. She's like, look at the sunset, babe,
47:08
Speaker 1: how do I look against the beautiful sunset? Are there
47:12
Speaker 1: any words you would use to describe such of you? Babe? Beautiful? Hot, gorgeous, breathtaking, stunning,
47:20
Speaker 1: wildly special, How lucky you are? Get on one knee
47:24
Speaker 1: like you know, you was saying. She was like blink blink.
47:26
Speaker 1: He's like, I do have a surprise for you. She's
47:29
Speaker 1: like oh, He's like bring it out, and she's like,
47:33
Speaker 1: oh my god. He's like happy booth dab boo, happy
47:41
Speaker 1: booth day her face, honey when they get this cake,
47:45
Speaker 1: and he doesn't rething to her. Obviously he doesn't have
47:47
Speaker 1: that bad of an accent under joking, but he does
47:49
Speaker 1: say I wish you a real happy birthday in your life,
47:54
Speaker 1: with all the good and happiness in your life. And
47:58
Speaker 1: she again is just like, it's weird. What a weird
48:02
Speaker 1: cake shaped ring. It's weird. It's like a cake. This
48:06
Speaker 1: wedding ring that you're putting before me, big ass chocolate
48:09
Speaker 1: ass looking ring. Why you know he does have a
48:12
Speaker 1: piece of cake. He won't eat anything. He's weird. She's like,
48:15
Speaker 1: try to be cute by making him a plate, and
48:17
Speaker 1: he was like no. Then they again walked to the
48:19
Speaker 1: room and those flats and she wants him to pick
48:23
Speaker 1: her up, bring her into the room, you know, like
48:25
Speaker 1: propose to her, definitely have sex with her, Like maybe
48:27
Speaker 1: I on camera, I'm not quite sure, like how up
48:29
Speaker 1: close the SHOT's supposed to be. But he's like, all right,
48:32
Speaker 1: well this is where I drop you off. He's like,
48:34
Speaker 1: I'm tired, aren't we tired? And she's like, babe, it's
48:38
Speaker 1: my birthday. They'll bebe. He's like, good night, sweet hard
48:43
Speaker 1: will it's time to go. Like he's just like, yeah,
48:45
Speaker 1: well I did. I did, Like did you let the camel?
48:47
Speaker 1: I brought you to a cafe. There was the camel,
48:49
Speaker 1: there was the cake. Two seas. She's like, where's the cock.
48:52
Speaker 1: She's like He's like, no, no, it's horrible for me
48:55
Speaker 1: to say I wouldn't do it. So then the next
48:58
Speaker 1: morning he feels bad because it was her birthday. So
49:01
Speaker 1: he knows how to get her back. The big thing
49:03
Speaker 1: he does gives her tea. She loves that tea and
49:06
Speaker 1: he flourishes it. He pours that tea like salt Bay,
49:09
Speaker 1: Like you know how that with that guy would do
49:11
Speaker 1: salt Bay and weird ass fancy has gold steaks so expensive,
49:14
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, oh whatever, we had a moment
49:18
Speaker 1: of him and then never again. But yeah, I mean,
49:20
Speaker 1: you know, he articulates a certain ornamentality when it comes
49:24
Speaker 1: to this spectacle nature of his tea pouring. You're like
49:27
Speaker 1: Christian up. He I mean he raises up the tea.
49:30
Speaker 1: It like pours beautifully aerodynamically right into the glass. I
49:35
Speaker 1: mean it's a show. She loves it. And then he's like,
49:39
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry last night I was. I was cold
49:41
Speaker 1: literally and figuratively. I was so cold. Maybe I have animei,
49:46
Speaker 1: I gotta look it up. But also I was cold
49:48
Speaker 1: to you on your birthday. And she's like, it's okay, babe,
49:52
Speaker 1: let me tell you. There's this whole other guy I
49:54
Speaker 1: never told you about. His name is Mohammed, and Mohammed
49:57
Speaker 1: is like Moroccan. Yeah, like I came. I really, here's
50:00
Speaker 1: the thing. I was in love with him, and then I
50:01
Speaker 1: came here and I like wanted meet with him, and
50:03
Speaker 1: we got engaged and like full an fiance, and then
50:06
Speaker 1: he left me. I was so upset. So then I
50:08
Speaker 1: was like, I don't going to do I'm going to
50:10
Speaker 1: join the dating website to see if he's back on it.
50:12
Speaker 1: So I joined and then I found you, and I
50:14
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I'll talk to you a little bit.
50:16
Speaker 1: But then Mohammed came back in my life and I
50:18
Speaker 1: was so excited. Baby. You don't understand. You think I
50:20
Speaker 1: call you babe. Mohammed was the first babe. I wonder
50:24
Speaker 1: if she ever called Mohammed Habibi or her baby, or
50:27
Speaker 1: I wonder if he ever called her he baby or
50:29
Speaker 1: her baby baby. Just kidding, that's disgusting. However, I might
50:33
Speaker 1: use it as a character, so don't take it away
50:35
Speaker 1: from me. Have baby Anyway. Basically, she's like, yeah, so
50:41
Speaker 1: then I ghosted you. That's when the ghosting happened. We
50:44
Speaker 1: all know that you knew what happened too. And it's
50:46
Speaker 1: because I like to give one f about you and
50:48
Speaker 1: I want to get back on my baby, and I did,
50:51
Speaker 1: and then I didn't. I kind of messed up, and
50:53
Speaker 1: so now I'm here. Now who honey, it's it's it's assassinate.
50:57
Speaker 1: It's she's over it. She's yeah, She's like, there's been
51:00
Speaker 1: good times, there's been bad times, but you know, I'm
51:01
Speaker 1: over it. I mean, it's funny because the next season
51:05
Speaker 1: or next season, next episode has her being like, well,
51:09
Speaker 1: here I am, and here's the thing that was supposed
51:12
Speaker 1: to happen. If it happens the thing I always wanted
51:14
Speaker 1: to happen. I got myself back to Morocco just to
51:18
Speaker 1: see if I can see Mohammed again, I wander every
51:21
Speaker 1: time she was like anywhere with Zaiah, she was like Mohmed. Also,
51:25
Speaker 1: God bless, Muhammed is the most common name, you know,
51:29
Speaker 1: so we everywhere as a Mohammed. But at the same time, yeah,
51:33
Speaker 1: she was like everywhere I see his face and I
51:35
Speaker 1: hear his name. Yeah, it would suck to be obsessed
51:37
Speaker 1: with the Mohammed only in that. Yeah, the name is
51:40
Speaker 1: so common, it's like being obsessed with like a John Smith.
51:42
Speaker 1: You know. Well, baby booze, that's the end of the episode.
51:46
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, gracious, can you believe what we had
51:50
Speaker 1: to deal with? The whole bunch of wonderful drama. What
51:55
Speaker 1: a gift. Oh my loves. Thank you so much for
51:58
Speaker 1: being with me. We talk about this and more shows
52:02
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52:06
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52:08
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52:10
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52:13
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52:18
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53:31
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53:33
Speaker 1: about the America's Next Top Model documentary. Okay, two breaths,
53:36
Speaker 1: Why if you can give this moment a little gift
53:40
Speaker 1: for yourself to do a mindful exercise, like a present
53:43
Speaker 1: moment exercise just unfortunately folded into a dumb pop culture
53:48
Speaker 1: recap show. I'm going to make everyone do an actual
53:52
Speaker 1: moment of meditation that will hopefully turn you into a
53:57
Speaker 1: person that craves present sensory experiences. Wherever you are, you
54:04
Speaker 1: can use the sound of my voice to bring you
54:06
Speaker 1: to the present moment, or of course, something like your breath.
54:10
Speaker 1: Some other great things are the sensory things you can
54:13
Speaker 1: experience in real time, so touch like putting your feet
54:17
Speaker 1: on the floor, feeling that feeling if you're sitting on
54:21
Speaker 1: the floor where your butt is. Those things again, the
54:24
Speaker 1: sound of my voice or your breath, feeling the air
54:29
Speaker 1: go through you. Also the sound the intake in the out.
54:34
Speaker 1: Two breaths. One's a rehearsal. One's another shot at it.
54:38
Speaker 1: You could do some more after, of course we'll do
54:41
Speaker 1: some at the end of every episode. I think it's
54:43
Speaker 1: great and it's my little gift to you, however, truly,
54:47
Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening to me. It means
54:49
Speaker 1: a lot, all right, my loves, Okay, let's do it. Rehearsal,
54:52
Speaker 1: breath out one more time. Thank you so much, Thank
55:03
Speaker 1: you so much for being here. You guys, take care
55:04
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55:06
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