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Would You Want Someone To Treat Your Kids Like Their Own? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Call me the breakfast club topic one morning. Everybody's Steve
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  Speaker 1: j Envy Charlottagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.
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  Speaker 1: We have uh, what's wrong with you? Oh no, I
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  Speaker 1: was singing justin Stephanie Mills. He's singing. Stephanie jes Hilarius
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  Speaker 1: is here, ow co host. We're asking eight hundred five
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  Speaker 1: A five one on five one. It's come from our
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  Speaker 1: Tyler to play what's his name? All the time black
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  Speaker 1: always want to fancy up their name. Name be Johnson,
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  Speaker 1: Reginald val Johnson, Tyler play Tyler left leave us here earlier.
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  Speaker 1: This is what he said. Miracle Watt's head said something about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like she takes on your kids or some kids, Like,
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  Speaker 1: how is that situation now? Because I know that April
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  Speaker 1: got mad at that she How is that now? Though? Um,
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  Speaker 1: you know it's it's it's a process. You know, it's
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  Speaker 1: like it's definitely better than it was. You still got
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  Speaker 1: a little way to go. As much as I would
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  Speaker 1: not like it to be like that, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: can't rush anything because this is you know again, the
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  Speaker 1: problem is that the man you're in it just it
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  Speaker 1: kind of happens like this. The one thing I will say,
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  Speaker 1: is that again, that's that's some other two of my children.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, I'm trying to have nothing but love
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  Speaker 1: and respect for us. So you know, I give her
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  Speaker 1: grace and patience as she as she figures out what
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  Speaker 1: she got to feel herself through. You know what, I
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  Speaker 1: will want for somebody to treat my kids like that
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  Speaker 1: like my kid is there? You know what I mean? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five eighty five one oh
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  Speaker 1: five one. You know, if you buy your fiance something
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  Speaker 1: or you supposed to take care of your baby mom's
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  Speaker 1: the same way. And also do you want your fiance
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  Speaker 1: that you know, look at you your other kids the
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  Speaker 1: same way as they look at your kids. That's the
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  Speaker 1: question we're asking. Greta, who's this? This is Shiquana Hey,
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  Speaker 1: Shiquana Hey, guys some morning? Yes, what right? I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have got so bad? But she mana, UM, honestly, I
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  Speaker 1: just want the way in and say, um, it depends
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  Speaker 1: on how long you've done with the person, because I
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  Speaker 1: have an ask who would take our kids around his girlfriend?
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  Speaker 1: He just met like a week ago, and I feel
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  Speaker 1: that's something you shouldn't do. But if you're serious with
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  Speaker 1: the person and you know you're feel like you got
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  Speaker 1: a future with them. I mean, I see nothing wrong
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  Speaker 1: with it. But on the stand still, it is a
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  Speaker 1: lot of crazy people in the world, and you got
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  Speaker 1: to be cautious. A lot of people harming kids and
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  Speaker 1: doing pretty things to kids. So that's where I'm with it.
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  Speaker 1: Like if, um, you think you're gonna be at the
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  Speaker 1: first long term and you're dating for a minute and
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  Speaker 1: you get to know each other, you're talking about your kids, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but on your first date, you're not taking their kids
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  Speaker 1: to check the keys to play together because y'all woke
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  Speaker 1: my kids. I agree, right, I agree. I agree. You
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  Speaker 1: can't to be bringing anybody around your Yeah, that's that's
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  Speaker 1: what she's saying. That's what she's saying. But I do believe.
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  Speaker 1: I do believe that. Um, if I got kids and
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  Speaker 1: you got kids and we ain't got no babysit this,
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  Speaker 1: we want to see each other bead enough, Yeah, let's
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  Speaker 1: meet up at Hello? Hello, Hello, Hey, what's your name? Monica?
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  Speaker 1: Hey Monica, good morning, good morning. What's your thoughts? Mama,
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  Speaker 1: my thoughts? I do not date with me. I don't
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  Speaker 1: date kids if I can't let my kids go over
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  Speaker 1: to the other parents. I don't feel comfortable. That's not like,
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  Speaker 1: how am I gonna feel comfortable if my kids going
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  Speaker 1: to see his other parent if I don't like or
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  Speaker 1: get along with the other person? Now, is that better enough?
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  Speaker 1: But let me ask you this, monica, Is that because
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  Speaker 1: you better or is that because has he ever given
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  Speaker 1: you any type of like, Yo, I'm gonna I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: put my son in jeopardy or put my kid in
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  Speaker 1: jevity like you see that. You got to know the
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  Speaker 1: other parents too. Are they ever gonna bring somebody that
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  Speaker 1: you don't like around your kid that's gonna do something
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  Speaker 1: to your kid? Is that better? Or is that just
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  Speaker 1: how you feel that's not better? I can't get swiss
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  Speaker 1: up as a mother. Yeah, I'm gonna speak it for
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  Speaker 1: the mother to do. As a mother, you have to
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  Speaker 1: feel comfortable. If you're not comfortable with the man cho
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  Speaker 1: was gonna write me, it's not ever gonna work. So
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  Speaker 1: I would think that maybe me and the girl would
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  Speaker 1: have to talk. I would be maturingal to be like,
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  Speaker 1: let me talk to the girl and if I'm still
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  Speaker 1: on her and I like her, God, yeah, you can
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  Speaker 1: go for it. But listen, Jeff, Yes, must and I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking about it. You have to stay the permanent co
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  Speaker 1: host on the show. I've been trying all week. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this is the funniest the show ever been in mind,
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  Speaker 1: like tell the man is at his best with you.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, girl. I I agree with everything
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  Speaker 1: you say that because I hand you, I had you,
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  Speaker 1: and I think I dressed the best way out of everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Maybe I already told you she
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  Speaker 1: get the permanent role. I'll guarantee you she won't be
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  Speaker 1: coming here like she hosting the awards. I guarantee you
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  Speaker 1: to be sweatsuits. It's all right. So what's to morrow?
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  Speaker 1: The story? What is the moral of the story? Just
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  Speaker 1: because you mean cold parenting very well for a pretty
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  Speaker 1: long time now, oh man, the moral of the stories?
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  Speaker 1: All right? So look what wish she said, which is
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  Speaker 1: also a part of the moral. You still cannot say,
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  Speaker 1: because she said, uh, if you don't, if you don't
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  Speaker 1: trust the other parents to date somebody that you, you can't.
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  Speaker 1: Really that's still in the sense controlling, like you, you
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  Speaker 1: don't know who they're gonna date. They dated you, So
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  Speaker 1: if you're going off of that past, then you got
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  Speaker 1: to include yourself. Like, you can't just say he and not,
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  Speaker 1: that's not the monica. But I'm just saying, like it's
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  Speaker 1: just period. You can't control who some of you. Who
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  Speaker 1: are you to say like, oh, I don't like the
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  Speaker 1: way he dates. I don't. You don't until you get
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  Speaker 1: to know somebody. But I like how she ended it.
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  Speaker 1: If we have a conversation. Look, you're gonna be around
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  Speaker 1: my child. This is who I am, this is you
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  Speaker 1: know whatever. So the moral what the story is? You
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  Speaker 1: do not? I don't think you have to. You're not
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  Speaker 1: responsible for your actual responsible for your kids. I think
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  Speaker 1: that's what that is. And no, that makes sense. You're
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  Speaker 1: not responsible for your act. You're responsible for your kids. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're not. You're not responsible like my Like I said,
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  Speaker 1: my son's dad has five kids with five different women.
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  Speaker 1: As after he moved on, he take care of his
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  Speaker 1: bomb father, take care of his kids, and I don't
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  Speaker 1: try to support no more for none of them, but
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  Speaker 1: no more. Yeah, but he is not responsible for their
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  Speaker 1: mothers right, not in that nothing. Yeah, it's different than
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  Speaker 1: the marriage because the divorce you gotta settle that, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta you get this, I get this. Whatever. But like girlfriend, boyfriend. Yo.
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  Speaker 1: If if it's not about my child, yo, I'm in
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  Speaker 1: my relationships. Let's say you move on and now that
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  Speaker 1: one child lives a different life than those off those
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  Speaker 1: other four kids, how do you think the other four
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  Speaker 1: kids will feel like you know what I mean? Like, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that one kid he gets you know, he gets to
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  Speaker 1: to go to the football games, he gets to go
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  Speaker 1: to this because he's with the father old day long
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  Speaker 1: in that house. Don't you feel like all the kids
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  Speaker 1: should have that same love and that same feeling. But
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  Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. What the ex gotta do with that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go pick my kid up and we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you with the rest of my kids.
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  Speaker 1: For daddy, it ain't. I'm gonna pick you in the
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  Speaker 1: baby mother up and y'all and no, I'm picking my all.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all my kids together, just like Rome
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  Speaker 1: do it, Just like my son's dad does it. He
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  Speaker 1: don't do nothing with all his other kids. Or if
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  Speaker 1: he got his girls his girls Day and the boys
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  Speaker 1: boys Day, then he got days where he get all
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  Speaker 1: of them. So he does. I don't know how Nick
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  Speaker 1: Cannon do it, but my baby father though it it
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  Speaker 1: basically what Jesse saying. She only buying McDonald's for her son.
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  Speaker 1: She ain't buying me donald for the rest of the
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  Speaker 1: room kids,