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Separate Bedrooms · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for our American mama's. Dear mamas,
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  Speaker 1: would you ever consider having separate bedrooms from your husband's?
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  Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mama's mama, mama.
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  Speaker 1: And joining is now our American mama's Terry Edville and
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly bur Listen. You know what I kind of think
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  Speaker 1: of Bill Clinton and Hillary Clinton because when he became
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  Speaker 1: president went into the White House, Hillary's like, I am
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  Speaker 1: not taking a separate room. I Am not, We're going
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  Speaker 1: to be in the same bedroom. And then when I
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  Speaker 1: saw the movie Milani do you'll see the movie Milanias,
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  Speaker 1: it kind of seemed like maybe she and Donald have
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  Speaker 1: separate bedrooms or either that or he just never sleeps. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and so she went to her bedroom and he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: need one. But I wonder about that. I mean, would
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  Speaker 1: would y'all ever consider having separate rooms from your husband's.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I did consider it. Evan's like, uh no,
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  Speaker 3: only because he's snores, you know. And I told him,
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  Speaker 3: I said, I said, like, I think, I don't think
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  Speaker 3: there's anything wrong. I said, my grandparents, you know, they
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  Speaker 3: had separate bedrooms. And you know the Brady Bunch, you know,
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  Speaker 3: mister Miss Brady they had separate.
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  Speaker 4: Beds, and he didn't. They actually they had the same bed.
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  Speaker 1: The Brady Bunch was the first TV show that had
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  Speaker 1: the same bed. Now, if you go to and.
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  Speaker 3: When I rid up to Kevin, it was after, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I'd let he'd fall asleep, and then I would just
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  Speaker 3: you know, tiptoe out and go in the guest room
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  Speaker 3: and he would wake up and he doesn't like it
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  Speaker 3: when I'm not in the bed. And I said, well,
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  Speaker 3: we've got to figure something out because I'm so tired.
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  Speaker 3: I said, I don't see anything wrong with us having
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  Speaker 3: separate beds. I mean separate beds and separate bedrooms at night,
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  Speaker 3: just at night. And he said that you're starting something
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  Speaker 3: that's not good. It's not healthy for a married couple.
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  Speaker 3: I'll get a sea pap, I'll do whatever. But I
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  Speaker 3: don't like to wake up and reach over there and
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  Speaker 3: you're not there. I don't like it. So I did
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  Speaker 3: consider it. But then I saw this point and I thought,
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  Speaker 3: he's right, he's right.
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  Speaker 4: It's comment that I did not realize how common it was.
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  Speaker 4: This was a TikTok and this girl saying she's young too.
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  Speaker 4: I could see it older. You know later in marriage
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  Speaker 4: you kind of get to that point. But this is
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  Speaker 4: a young girl and she and her husband decided to
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  Speaker 4: have separate bedrooms and they're loving it. She gets to
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  Speaker 4: decorate it the way she wants to decorate it. Go
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  Speaker 4: to the comments and I was shocked. I thought she
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  Speaker 4: would get hate. And the number of people that are like,
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  Speaker 4: we do that, we enjoy it. It makes life easy.
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  Speaker 3: And she talks about how it does. I mean it
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  Speaker 3: kind of enhances the sex life, she said, because it's
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  Speaker 3: like you're going to their place, have a little fun,
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  Speaker 3: and then you can go sleep in your bed. So
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  Speaker 3: you know, that's the way she I wonder if Kevin
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  Speaker 3: would consider this again.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I know that Mike and I we
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  Speaker 4: were traveling. We were traveling last summer and we went
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  Speaker 4: to a hotel and they had two queen sized beds
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  Speaker 4: only when they had so we were like, yes, we
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  Speaker 4: want those. So Mike gets in bed and I get
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  Speaker 4: in the other bed and he said, what are you doing,
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  Speaker 4: YE said, you're six foot six, these are two queen
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  Speaker 4: size beds. I don't want to roll into you. I'm
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  Speaker 4: going to sleep in my bed and he goes, that's weird.
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  Speaker 4: I said, no, it's not. It's the best night sleep
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  Speaker 4: we both had. We both woke up like maybe this
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  Speaker 4: is a new thing when we go to hotel because
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  Speaker 4: it was, it was nice. But to me, it's it's
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  Speaker 4: what makes you sleep the best. I mean, you have
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  Speaker 4: your moments, you have your intimacy, you know, but what
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  Speaker 4: what keeps because sleep is so important, it's so important.
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  Speaker 5: I don't like this idea at all.
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  Speaker 4: I know, I know at all I would do. I
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  Speaker 4: don't want that, but I get it.
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  Speaker 3: I think that's the thing about Landy Landy is no, Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like going to sleep without her that yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So all right, so my daughter and my wife likes
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  Speaker 1: starting projects at midnight, yes, yeah, And because I work
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  Speaker 1: in New York in the in the mornings, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm up at four thirty and so if I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to bed at ten o'clock and and she's not there,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like that because she and my daughter are
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  Speaker 1: off starting a new project somewhere. I'm like, yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I'm with Kevin on that. I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's something comforting about being together.
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  Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's it's just it's time spent together. It
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  Speaker 1: is you know, maybe I'm like a golden retriever.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, you're a golden retriever.
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  Speaker 1: So the idea on this is that for dogs spending
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  Speaker 1: time with dogs, if you're just sleeping in the same room,
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  Speaker 1: that counts for the dog. Like the dog's like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're back, we're together. As long as you're there. You
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  Speaker 1: can be asleep, but you know that still counts as
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  Speaker 1: good quality time for a golden retriever.
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  Speaker 3: Now, I'd be curious to know how many women I
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  Speaker 3: think it's a good idea compared to how many men,
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  Speaker 3: because it sounds like men are not too keen on that.
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  Speaker 1: Because Mike was like, this is dumb. Yeah, Kevin's like dangerous.
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  Speaker 1: Ye I'm pouting, ye, No.
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  Speaker 2: No, this is it.
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  Speaker 3: This is it good? That's interesting.
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  Speaker 4: Just get a really big bed. That's my advice. Everybody
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  Speaker 4: get a really big bed in California.
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  Speaker 1: King, Yeah, that doesn't that still doesn't help. I still
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  Speaker 1: end up over on her side.
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  Speaker 2: All the time.
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  Speaker 5: That's where she is. Yeah, I gotta get there. If
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  Speaker 5: you were to come to the middle of the bed,
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  Speaker 5: this would be fine. I wouldn't have to cross the
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  Speaker 5: Great Divide. But you know, all right, I'm I'm a
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  Speaker 5: firm no. You guys are both like sounds so bad.
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  Speaker 4: I kind of get it. I don't want it, but
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  Speaker 4: I get why they did.
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  Speaker 3: A good way to say it's all right, fair enough.
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  Speaker 1: If you'd like to ask our American mama was a question,
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  Speaker 1: Terry Outville, Kimberly Brothers, and thank you so much, thank you,