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Dirty Little Secret: I Reported My Sister! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
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  Speaker 1: Morning on Mix 102.9.
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  Speaker 2: your confession? What is your secret? 833-787-1029. Doesn't matter what
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  Speaker 2: it is. Bring it on. We do Dirty Little Secrets
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  Speaker 2: 730 and 930. You have one. So what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so if I'm being honest, this could completely destroy
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  Speaker 1: my relationship with my sister if she ever found out.
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  Speaker 1: I anonymously reported her and her husband to CPS. And honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I don't regret it at all.
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  Speaker 2: Whoa. To CPS, to Child Protective Services.
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  Speaker 3: Your sister?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Why?
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  Speaker 1: So they have two young kids, six and eight. And
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  Speaker 1: for years, they've been very open about the fact that
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  Speaker 1: they use a belt to discipline them. And I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not talking about something that I've just heard about either.
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  Speaker 1: I've like... actually seen the aftermath and these kids come
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  Speaker 1: over to my house and I've seen the marks and
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  Speaker 1: welts on the backs of their legs more times than
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  Speaker 1: I can count and yes I'll be the first person
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  Speaker 1: to admit that their kids can be like bad bad
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  Speaker 1: like they're wild they don't listen they're constantly getting into
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  Speaker 1: something but I mean, they're six and they're eight.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks ago, we were at their
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  Speaker 1: house and one of the kids got into trouble. And
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  Speaker 1: my brother-in-law made another comment about how he is going
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  Speaker 1: to whip them into shape. And I just, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: something in me snapped and me and my sister got
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  Speaker 1: into an argument about it. And she told me that
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  Speaker 1: they're her kids and this is how they discipline them
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  Speaker 1: and I need to stay out of it. So I
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  Speaker 1: just left, you know, but the entire drive home, I'm
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  Speaker 1: thinking like, what if staying out of it makes me
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  Speaker 1: part of the problem?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay. So you decided to do something about it and, um, Now,
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  Speaker 2: were you and your sister, were you, like, I know
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  Speaker 2: some people spank, some people don't. Belt is a little
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  Speaker 2: bit different than, were you both, were you raised like
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  Speaker 2: this where you would get, you know, quote, whipped?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 1: My sister and I were not raised like this. Our
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  Speaker 1: parents did not beat us with belts, you know, like.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: This totally comes from her husband. That's how he grew up.
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  Speaker 1: He's very old school. He'll say things like my dad
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  Speaker 1: whipped me and I turned out fine or kids today
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  Speaker 1: need more of this and stuff, you know? I'm sorry. Yeah, no.
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  Speaker 1: But when you're hitting a child hard enough with a
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  Speaker 1: belt that they're like regularly showing up with marks and welts, that's.
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  Speaker 1: Beyond anything that I possibly know.
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  Speaker 2: So you call CPS anonymously, of course. What do you
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  Speaker 2: tell them?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I didn't give them my name. I just told
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  Speaker 1: them that I've personally seen like these welts and things
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  Speaker 1: and I let them decide, you know, what needs to
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  Speaker 1: happen next. I don't want their children like taken away
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  Speaker 1: from them. That's not my goal at all. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I love my sister. I love them. And I know
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  Speaker 1: she loves her kids. I'm hoping somebody showing up and
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  Speaker 1: like asking questions makes them start taking this more seriously.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what you want them to do. You bet
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  Speaker 2: you want, you want it to scare her a little bit.
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  Speaker 4: It's just not that simple. They're going to show up
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  Speaker 4: and they're going to, they will, They file a report.
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  Speaker 2: Well, these kids could get taken.
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  Speaker 3: Away like that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think they're going to take it away right away.
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  Speaker 3: Not right away. But I mean, they're under under the radar.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: They should be.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, and I get it.
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  Speaker 4: But like, I think you let your temper get get
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  Speaker 4: the best of you should have at least had a
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  Speaker 4: conversation with your sister.
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  Speaker 2: She tried to. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But I mean, both of them are heated. You don't
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  Speaker 4: just sneak off and call it. CPS is serious. Well,
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  Speaker 4: so is leaving belt whips. I mean, I'm not going to.
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  Speaker 2: You're old school, though. Who thinks it's fine?
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  Speaker 3: I'm old school like your brother-in-law.
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  Speaker 4: I got whooped. I got whooped by my mom, my dad.
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  Speaker 4: To the point where it was leaving marks and welts?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, no. Welts? Not welts.
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  Speaker 2: Consistently?
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  Speaker 3: I didn't swept up. I think one of my.
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  Speaker 4: When my grandma whooped me with a switch, I did
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  Speaker 4: have a little welt, but that was just because it
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  Speaker 4: was a big old switch.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what the law is, but I think
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  Speaker 2: if I remember, we looked into this one time, I
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  Speaker 2: think the law was basically if you are, you can
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  Speaker 2: do this kind of, it's not illegal to use a belt.
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  Speaker 2: It's basically a weapon. But if you're using it and
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  Speaker 2: it's leaving injuries to a child, I think that's where
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  Speaker 2: it becomes a major problem.
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  Speaker 3: If this happened at school, it'd be an issue. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: but there's still schools.
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  Speaker 2: If you did this to an adult, this would be
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  Speaker 2: an issue. There's still schools that use belts.
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  Speaker 3: Not belts.
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  Speaker 2: They have paddles.
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  Speaker 4: There's still schools out there that have corporal punishment.
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  Speaker 3: Like outside of Houston, I know. I remember I looked
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  Speaker 3: it up.
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  Speaker 2: Like recently?
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  Speaker 3: I looked it up a while back.
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  Speaker 2: No way. I'm telling you. I don't think so. But anyway,
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  Speaker 2: so you call them. You say you don't feel bad
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  Speaker 2: about it. I mean, I'm sure it was a tough decision.
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  Speaker 2: Does anything happen yet or not yet?
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  Speaker 1: So my sister just recently reached out to me and
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  Speaker 1: said that somebody reported them. And she's obviously furious about it.
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  Speaker 1: And she's trying to figure out who did it. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like sitting there listening to her talk about
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  Speaker 1: what a horrible person would do this to her family.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like knowing the entire time that it was me.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you're brave.
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  Speaker 2: You're very brave. I trust that you made a decision
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  Speaker 2: after seeing the kids consistently with injuries on them. Right. And,
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  Speaker 2: and trying to talk to him afterwards. I can't blame
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  Speaker 2: you for doing something about it. I can't.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying you can't spank your kids. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: saying that either. But you shouldn't leave injuries to the
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  Speaker 2: kids consistent.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that, yeah, I agree with that.
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  Speaker 1: She's my sister.
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  Speaker 2: I love her.
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  Speaker 1: But they're also my niece and nephew, and I love
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  Speaker 1: them too. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I did what I did because I felt like somebody
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  Speaker 1: had to stand up for those kids. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: think they were going to change unless I, like.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like the vibe of the guy. Right. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I automatically just go, he's influencing her to
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  Speaker 2: do things that she doesn't seem comfortable with, but maybe
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  Speaker 2: I'm wrong. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: She's going to stand by her husband, though.
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  Speaker 2: At some point, stand by your kids. Either way, I
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  Speaker 2: know we're going to get calls about this, and I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: I want people to call in and let me know
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  Speaker 2: what you think, whether you did the right thing or not.
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  Speaker 2: I think... You followed your gut instinct, and I don't
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  Speaker 2: think usually with women, your intuition is spot on. Yep. Right.
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  Speaker 2: So let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Good luck with everything.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, she knows. You know, I feel like she
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  Speaker 2: knows what's best in that situation. I didn't see the welts. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: If we were to see that and see it consistently,
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  Speaker 2: that's where it gets weird to me. Exactly. You know,
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  Speaker 2: the belt is one thing, but you're using it consistently
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  Speaker 2: to the point you're leaving a lot of welts. This
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  Speaker 2: is how we discipline?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Repeatedly? It's not the way I personally do it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not against using, you know, spankings and whatnot, but just,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: She knows.
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  Speaker 2: She knows. Something's not right. Yeah, we'll find out what happens.