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- 0:00Heartto-Heart podcast. Before Miami's
- 0:02tech boom, before the headlines, there
- 0:04were people building quietly. There were
- 0:07women taking risks. Today's guest is one
- 0:10of those women. Melissa Medina did not
- 0:12walk into a ready-made ecosystem. She
- 0:15helped build it. Co-founding Emerge
- 0:17Americas at a time when people
- 0:19questioned why a tech company would even
- 0:21choose Miami. But this conversation is
- 0:24not just about tech. It's about taking
- 0:26risk before there is proof. It's about
- 0:28motherhood, divorce, rebuilding, and
- 0:31creating peace in a modern family. It's
- 0:33about what happens when chaos, whether
- 0:35in business or life, becomes fuel. This
- 0:37is a conversation about vision before
- 0:39validation. Let's get into it and
- 0:41welcome Melissa Medina.
- 1:07Hi everybody and welcome to the
- 1:09heartto-he heart podcast. I'm Christy
- 1:11Diaz and today I am with Melissa Medina
- 1:14and we're going to talk about before
- 1:17Miami was on the map as a tech boom.
- 1:20Before we were the IT place to be, there
- 1:23was pioneers le leaving the foundation
- 1:26on the floor for what would become
- 1:28Miami's tech boom, as I like to say. And
- 1:32one of those women are here today and
- 1:34her name is Melissa Medina. Hi there,
- 1:35Mel. How are you?
- 1:36>> Hi. I'm good, Chrissy. Thank you. I'm
- 1:38really excited to chat with you today.
- 1:40>> It's wonderful to have you here. Not a
- 1:42lot of people know that you were laying
- 1:45the foundation for this Miami tech boom
- 1:48long before it was a trend.
- 1:51>> Thank you. There were a lot of us kind
- 1:53of really championing Miami as a tech
- 1:55hub for a long time and now seeing all
- 1:58the elements kind of coming together is
- 2:00really exciting. But there was a lot of
- 2:02people working hard, rolling up their
- 2:04sleeves for a long time.
- 2:05>> And you were definitely one of those
- 2:06people. And you were silent about it,
- 2:08which you should not be. You deserve
- 2:10just as much credit as the next.
- 2:12>> Thank you.
- 2:13>> I am blown away by all the hats that you
- 2:16wear and I don't know how you do it. So,
- 2:20>> a village. That's the truth. That's the
- 2:22secret.
- 2:22>> It definitely takes a village. I want to
- 2:25go back and take me back to that before
- 2:27Miami was considered the tech hub that
- 2:29it's become.
- 2:30>> Miami is the newest
- 2:34>> tech boom of the day. I'd like to say
- 2:37were growing at such a rapid speed. But
- 2:40there was a time
- 2:42>> where that wasn't even a thought in
- 2:44anybody's head. You would think Silicon
- 2:46Valley and California. You'd think maybe
- 2:48New York
- 2:50>> Boston.
- 2:51>> You knew it was Miami before it was
- 2:53Miami. So tell me more about that.
- 2:56I think, you know, there were a couple
- 2:59reasons why
- 3:01there were a lot of us that believed
- 3:03Miami could be a thriving tech hub. Um,
- 3:07most of the reason actually stemmed from
- 3:09a place of frustration.
- 3:11>> Okay.
- 3:12>> And that was having worked in a
- 3:14technology company that my father
- 3:16founded and built called Terramark
- 3:19Worldwide, which is an IT infrastructure
- 3:21cloud computing company headquartered
- 3:23here in Miami. But it was global, right?
- 3:27It was very difficult at the time
- 3:30evangelizing Miami as a tech hub,
- 3:32understandably. So, we would travel the
- 3:34world selling our products and services
- 3:36and we were always asked, "Why are you
- 3:38headquartered in Miami? There is no tech
- 3:40in Miami." And that really built up a
- 3:43lot of frustration with us because we're
- 3:45from here. You know, I have a very
- 3:47similar story to a lot of us that were
- 3:49born and raised here, right? My parents
- 3:50are both Cuban,
- 3:52left communism for the American dream,
- 3:55and we not only, in my opinion, landed
- 3:58in the best country in the world, but we
- 4:00ended up here in Miami. And that's like
- 4:03in our DNA. And we didn't want to leave
- 4:06Miami. So that frustration coupled with
- 4:09passion for this community is truthfully
- 4:13what drove us to say no we want to share
- 4:16the narrative that we believe which is
- 4:18that we can become a thriving tech hub.
- 4:21But to kind of answer your question we
- 4:23weren't a thriving tech hub. So the the
- 4:25frustration stemmed from data and facts.
- 4:29I mean we didn't have this you know uh
- 4:32boom of tech companies here. We didn't
- 4:34have all the investors here. So that
- 4:36took time to build and that was sort of
- 4:39our job. We wanted to share the
- 4:41narrative and attract more talent,
- 4:44attract more companies and that's really
- 4:47the idea of Emerge. That's why we
- 4:48launched Emerged.
- 4:49>> Yes. And we're going to get all into
- 4:50that because you have a big week ahead
- 4:52of you.
- 4:53>> Yes.
- 4:53>> With a lot of people to
- 4:55>> 12th edition of Emerge America is this
- 4:58week.
- 4:58>> Congratulations. What a feat. back when
- 5:01you would start traveling to conferences
- 5:03and people would ask you why Miami. How
- 5:06would you sell our city to them?
- 5:09>> When when are we talking though? Because
- 5:10it depends the year.
- 5:12>> Okay, let's talk like
- 5:13>> 2012, 2013.
- 5:15>> Oh wow. Yeah, that was the beginning.
- 5:17>> Yes.
- 5:17>> So 2012 was when we incorporated Emerge
- 5:21Americas and the idea was we're going to
- 5:24do everything we can to help foster a
- 5:27thriving tech ecosystem here. And there
- 5:30were multiple ideas under this like
- 5:31large ambitious mission. The first one
- 5:35was to create a convening and to attract
- 5:38what we consider are the stakeholders
- 5:41that make up a thriving ecosystem. Who
- 5:43are those entrepreneurs, investors,
- 5:46global tech execs, government, academia,
- 5:49all under one roof. When we were
- 5:51pitching people to come to that first
- 5:53edition Yeah.
- 5:54>> of Emerge, we had so much push back.
- 5:57again, understandably, but why would you
- 6:00do that in Miami? So, we had a lot of
- 6:02work to do. What what would we say? We
- 6:05would say, you know, it's it's a
- 6:08favorable uh tax economy, which still to
- 6:11this day, it's a great place to live,
- 6:15work, play, and
- 6:18just kind of believe us that it's worth
- 6:21at least trying to, you know, be part of
- 6:24this ecosystem. And it was almost like
- 6:27they had to believe in us before even
- 6:28realizing that there was this other
- 6:31backbone behind the tech ecosystem. Even
- 6:34then, a lot of convincing. Let's let's
- 6:37leave it there. A lot of convincing and
- 6:39a lot of push back.
- 6:40>> At what point did you enter a room and
- 6:42say, "I'm headquartered in Miami." And
- 6:44there was that, "Oh my god, that's
- 6:46amazing." Not, "Are you crazy?"
- 6:49>> So, it's funny. Our I would say our aha
- 6:54biggest year was actually 2019. So if
- 6:57we're talking pre-COVID now, right?
- 6:59>> 2019,
- 7:01which we're now essentially 5 years into
- 7:04emerge because we opened our doors in
- 7:06May of 2014. It took us two years to
- 7:08build that first one was our absolute
- 7:12best year. And I don't mean that just in
- 7:14numbers. I mean just how the narrative
- 7:17had begun changing. how you know the
- 7:20data was also changing and it was like
- 7:24this perfect storm of elements were kind
- 7:26of coming together but still we weren't
- 7:30in the global media lens there was still
- 7:34a lot of convincing to do but definitely
- 7:362019 for us internally was wow things
- 7:38are really changing
- 7:41never ever did we expect what happened
- 7:44in 2020
- 7:45>> sure
- 7:45>> which is a little bit ironic because
- 7:492020 of course the global pandemic no
- 7:52one wants to go through that again that
- 7:54was the strangest time period awful for
- 7:58you know the world I don't think um we
- 8:02have even truly filtered what that
- 8:04global pandemic did to us right as as
- 8:07not only as a nation but worldwide but
- 8:10there were
- 8:12silver linings for our state and
- 8:15specifically for South Florida and
- 8:17specifically particularly in the tech
- 8:19ecosystem that is that are undeniable.
- 8:22There is a precoid and a postcoid
- 8:26sort of metrics for the tech ecosystem.
- 8:29So pre-COVID 2019 we felt really excited
- 8:342020 you know everything crashes because
- 8:37of the pandemic and then late 2020 into
- 8:40early 2021
- 8:42there was just this frenzy almost of
- 8:47people moving to Florida maybe
- 8:50temporarily
- 8:52because it was open for business because
- 8:54you could be outdoors all because of the
- 8:57pandemic and I think people really
- 8:59started realizing
- 9:01this the the beautiful life you can live
- 9:04here and sort of like the secret was out
- 9:06like what what you and I knew about
- 9:09>> living and working here all of a sudden
- 9:12>> so many more people realized it and then
- 9:14it just created this in snowball effect
- 9:17and
- 9:19>> Twitter x trend and virality
- 9:23>> that you know I think catapulted us into
- 9:26this J curve effect that even us and I
- 9:29say us collectively I don't mean just us
- 9:31emerged because there was a lot of
- 9:32organizations working to build the tech
- 9:34e ecosystem here I don't I I don't think
- 9:37any of us could have imagined or ever
- 9:41realized
- 9:43this type of momentum
- 9:45>> right
- 9:45>> happen that happening that fast
- 9:48>> because of co
- 9:50>> co just I think put the technological
- 9:53world at warp speed
- 9:56>> and I feel like people are still trying
- 9:58to catch up.
- 9:59>> Yeah, absolutely. I think it also
- 10:03it did something really interesting
- 10:05specifically in the tech world that then
- 10:08permeated into all these other verticals
- 10:10which is precoid
- 10:14most industries were not open to virtual
- 10:17meetings. We're not open to a hybrid
- 10:21model. We're not open to remote workers.
- 10:24>> Right.
- 10:25>> Co changed that landscape completely.
- 10:28>> Absolutely. And now, not only in the
- 10:30tech world, you know, so many more
- 10:32industries are now open to having a
- 10:34remote workforce and to allowing their
- 10:37employees to choose where they want to
- 10:39live. And that's always been sort of our
- 10:43motto hasn't been it's Miami or bus,
- 10:46like you have to live in Miami, you have
- 10:48to live in South Florida. For us, it's
- 10:50always been we want Miami and South
- 10:52Florida to be in the conversation. We
- 10:55want entrepreneurs to have a choice
- 10:57beyond
- 10:59Silicon Valley, Boston, Austin, New
- 11:01York. If those are the cities for them,
- 11:03great. But I, you know, I'm here to say
- 11:05that South Florida should absolutely be
- 11:08in that conversation and should be
- 11:09considered. That was like always our
- 11:11sort of train of thought. And now it is,
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- 11:37back to the conversation. Well, take us
- 11:40back to that moment where you booked the
- 11:43Miami Beach Convention Center before you
- 11:46had the proof, right? That's bold. What
- 11:49was going through your mind in that
- 11:50moment?
- 11:52>> I have to credit um my father for that
- 11:55because
- 11:56he's always taught me and my brother to
- 12:00think big, to take risks. And we had no
- 12:05idea in that first edition how many
- 12:08people would come,
- 12:11if it would be successful or not, if
- 12:13we'd do it annually, if we'd ever do it
- 12:14again. But we thought big from the
- 12:18beginning and we said, if this is going
- 12:19to be successful when we want the home
- 12:22base to be the same every year because I
- 12:24think it it creates like a stickiness to
- 12:27it. and we had this wild dream of
- 12:31filling the entire convention center at
- 12:32some point. So, we said, you know, if
- 12:34we're going to go for it, let's go for
- 12:36it. So, we booked the convention center
- 12:38since 2014 and we've been there ever
- 12:40since. And every year it grows and
- 12:42thankfully is this wood, knock on wood,
- 12:45you know, it paid off.
- 12:46>> Your goal that initial year was 2,000 to
- 12:493,000 attendees and you ended up with
- 12:515,000 attendees. Yes, we uh basically
- 12:55doubled our expectation for that year 1
- 12:58which was huge for us and we did realize
- 13:02then a few things. One, we were filling
- 13:05a void in the market I think more than
- 13:08we even realized because at the time
- 13:11there was no tech convening anywhere
- 13:14near us. And then obviously seeing the
- 13:17numbers
- 13:19basically almost double from what we
- 13:21expected even with all the push back. We
- 13:24said, "Oh no, we're definitely doing
- 13:25this annually." That was, you know, that
- 13:27was sort of the the point of saying,
- 13:30"This is going to be not only are we
- 13:31going to do this annually, but we're
- 13:32going to grow the team. This is going to
- 13:34be a year-round effort." It helped us
- 13:36shape the model that we are today, which
- 13:38is the conference is like one piece of
- 13:40what we do. But
- 13:41>> sure, it's one pillar as you once told
- 13:44me. It's just but it's a major
- 13:46foundational pillar.
- 13:47>> Yeah, absolutely. And it is sort of the
- 13:50physical representation of what we're
- 13:52doing year round. It's the one time a
- 13:54year that we have critical mass here in
- 13:56our community under tech innovation
- 13:59entrepreneurship and we do a lot of
- 14:01marketing around it of course. So it is
- 14:04what we're very much well known for. But
- 14:06important to note that we are a full
- 14:08team year-round effort accelerator
- 14:10programs and we probably host another 30
- 14:13or 40 convenings throughout the year.
- 14:15Also incredible
- 14:16>> but definitely the global tech
- 14:17conference is the flagship event let's
- 14:20say of the year.
- 14:22>> Melissa, can you fill the blank in for
- 14:25somebody who's listening to the first to
- 14:27us for the first time and does not know
- 14:29what Emerge is? Emerge is
- 14:33Emerge Americas is an organization whose
- 14:36mission is to help create and at this
- 14:40point now sustain a thriving tech
- 14:42ecosystem in South Florida. How we do
- 14:46that is through a multi-pronged
- 14:47approach, including a global tech
- 14:50conference that's happening this week at
- 14:52the Miami Beach Convention Center where
- 14:54we bring together over 20,000
- 14:56entrepreneurs, investors, global tech
- 14:58execs from around the world, interactive
- 15:00exhibit space, lots of stages, thought
- 15:03leaders for our attendees to be inspired
- 15:06by. And then we also host three
- 15:09different accelerator programs
- 15:10throughout the year cuz our
- 15:14our goal is for entrepreneurs to be able
- 15:17to scale. And one of the ways to do that
- 15:21is for us to create these programmatic
- 15:22efforts where we connect entrepreneurs
- 15:24with investors with the tools to help
- 15:26their companies scale. And that is sort
- 15:29of very much the heart and soul of of
- 15:31the work that we do. But our core
- 15:34remains very much the same. anything we
- 15:35could possibly do to continue to grow
- 15:38the tech ecosystem here.
- 15:39>> And how many people are we expecting
- 15:41this year?
- 15:42>> I think we're going to cross over 22,000
- 15:45this year. So
- 15:46>> So I should go with my walking shoes.
- 15:48>> Yes. And you'll see if you track your
- 15:51your um steps throughout these next few
- 15:54days at the Kajin Center. It's it's
- 15:56incredible how many miles you will walk
- 15:58into in two days.
- 15:59>> I am so excited. This is my first year
- 16:01attending and I can't wait.
- 16:03>> Welcome to the club. I am so excited. I
- 16:06want to know
- 16:06>> first of many.
- 16:07>> First of first of many. Absolutely. But
- 16:10you got to tell me what can I not miss
- 16:12this year?
- 16:13>> Mhm.
- 16:14>> Well, you definitely do not want to miss
- 16:16the networking events.
- 16:18>> Okay.
- 16:18>> Okay. So, Thursday night, April 23rd
- 16:22coming up, we take over Lincoln Road and
- 16:26we host a block party there. And it's of
- 16:31course on an iconic,
- 16:33you know, street in Miami Beach. It's
- 16:35also walking distance from the Miami
- 16:36Beach Convention Center. Any passholder
- 16:38for emerge, so any type of passholder
- 16:40can enjoy this networking event and live
- 16:43music. It's a great way to
- 16:48showcase our city, but at the same time
- 16:51network, create business connections in,
- 16:55you know, an iconic part of the city. So
- 16:58that's one. So the networking events for
- 16:59sure
- 17:01depending on you know uh your interests
- 17:04because there are a lot of verticals
- 17:06that we focus on at emerge. There's
- 17:08fintech, there's health tech, there's
- 17:11national security, so anything around
- 17:12dual use and defense technology. And the
- 17:15fourth one I have a feeling you'll
- 17:16probably be very interested in which is
- 17:17deep tech. Anything that has to do with
- 17:19AI. So, I think you're going to want to
- 17:22stick around to that deep tech AI stage
- 17:25and learn a lot about the different AI
- 17:27platforms that are revolutionizing
- 17:30across multiple verticals. I have a
- 17:32feeling you're going to like that,
- 17:33Christie.
- 17:34>> I have a feeling that that's where I'm
- 17:35going to be the whole time.
- 17:36>> Yes, I know where to find you.
- 17:37>> Yeah, you'll know where to find me. Um,
- 17:39if I get lost, I'm gonna have to like
- 17:40ping you.
- 17:42>> But I'm so excited to attend everything
- 17:45and just get a feel for what it is to be
- 17:47at Emerge. and also at the same time
- 17:50meet so many people from all over the
- 17:53world because we're not just locals
- 17:55attending this event.
- 17:56>> No, no, no. We host it here but it's a
- 17:58global event and we have over 60
- 18:00countries that are represented amongst
- 18:01our attendees. So, it's definitely a
- 18:03global platform and I think that's one
- 18:06of the
- 18:07benefits of being there and attending is
- 18:10that over a couple days you're going to
- 18:12meet people from around the world. And
- 18:14for companies that exhibit and attend,
- 18:16they find that as one of the um benefits
- 18:20as well because, you know, you don't
- 18:22have to hop across all these different
- 18:24countries to meet people. We're we're
- 18:27literally bringing everyone together
- 18:28under one roof. So, that's definitely
- 18:30one of the advantages for sure.
- 18:32>> I'm so excited. I can't wait. I'm going
- 18:34with my husband. I'll be recording live
- 18:37uh from Emerge and it's just it's going
- 18:39to be a great time. I'm really looking
- 18:41forward to it. Please tell me you go on
- 18:43vacation at the end of
- 18:45>> That's such a good question. So, um,
- 18:48believe it or not, the week after for us
- 18:51as a team, it's very important for us
- 18:53together to get together, sorry, and
- 18:55debrief when we have everything top of
- 18:57mind, right? And of course, at the end
- 18:58of the day, it is a live event and so
- 19:00there are a lot of moving pieces and
- 19:02each of us as a team are kind of
- 19:04tracking, you know, were there some
- 19:07challenges, what were the highs, etc. So
- 19:10we get together as a team that following
- 19:12week even though everyone almost cannot
- 19:15move but we make it very very casual. We
- 19:18all get together. It's important to get
- 19:19together when everything is top of mind.
- 19:21>> Sure.
- 19:21>> But yes, the following week the entire
- 19:24team is fully off and can you know
- 19:27either just stay in bed all day or go on
- 19:29vacation
- 19:31>> and kind of recoup because it's not only
- 19:32the physical aspect of it. Um, but
- 19:36there's a lot of emotion that goes into
- 19:38>> absolutely
- 19:39>> building something like this. The
- 19:41logistics behind it. I have thankfully
- 19:43an incredible team. Everyone puts 150%
- 19:46into it. And there's anxiety involved,
- 19:49all of it. And then all of a sudden, you
- 19:51know, you need to take some time to
- 19:53recover both physically and emotionally.
- 19:56And we're super aware of that.
- 19:58>> If someone's getting excited just by
- 20:00hearing our conversation right now, is
- 20:02there still a possibility for them to
- 20:03attend? Yes, absolutely. You can go
- 20:06online and purchase passes emerge.com
- 20:10and you can also purchase a day pass for
- 20:12the second day day of also.
- 20:14>> Okay, great.
- 20:16>> I want you to jump back to the AI, which
- 20:19is probably where I'm going to be
- 20:20spending the most amount of my time
- 20:22because
- 20:22>> it's a hot topic.
- 20:24>> It's and I think it's top of mind for
- 20:25everybody right now.
- 20:27>> And if it isn't, here's my
- 20:29>> Please.
- 20:30>> Yeah. Yeah. If it's not a horse's mouth,
- 20:32>> if it is not top of mind, it it needs to
- 20:34be.
- 20:35>> Okay?
- 20:35>> Doesn't matter how big or small your
- 20:37company is. Doesn't matter what industry
- 20:39you're in. This is
- 20:43as big, if not bigger, than when we were
- 20:46introduced to to the internet. That's
- 20:48how transformational
- 20:50AI is. And so, if you're not thinking
- 20:52about it, here's my commercial. Think
- 20:54about it now.
- 20:55>> Okay?
- 20:56>> Get on top of it. Look at the platform.
- 20:57Study them. which ones could affect your
- 21:00business, how can you streamline
- 21:01different processes? How can you make
- 21:03things more efficient?
- 21:05Because if you're not thinking about it,
- 21:08your competitors are.
- 21:10>> Absolutely.
- 21:10>> That's just the truth.
- 21:12>> What are your thoughts as a mom with AI
- 21:14in the schools?
- 21:15>> Yeah. So, yeah, I have five kids and
- 21:20well aware of the challenges that
- 21:23technology bring. For example, social
- 21:25media, etc. you know, I have my the the
- 21:28positive and the negatives. So, I'm not
- 21:30just the cheerleader for technology, but
- 21:35they also aren't going away. So, to in
- 21:39my opinion, to uh not expose your
- 21:43children to it at all
- 21:47is not my methodology because at some
- 21:52point they are going to be exposed to
- 21:54it. Sure.
- 21:55>> So talking to them about it, being very
- 21:57transparent and honest of
- 22:00these are the to-dos, these are the not
- 22:02to-dos.
- 22:03>> Sure.
- 22:04>> Are important. So a lot of conversation.
- 22:06How I feel about AI is that
- 22:09schools are already using AI in many in
- 22:13many many many
- 22:15not only universities but you know prep
- 22:18schools, elementary schools, teachers
- 22:21are realizing that there is efficiencies
- 22:23using AI.
- 22:26Now do I understand the push back around
- 22:30AI is
- 22:32you know writing everything for example
- 22:35for my child yes I I think there has to
- 22:37be some sort of balance
- 22:40you know I have English teachers in my
- 22:42kids school that have told me they're
- 22:45teaching students how to prompt
- 22:48>> what to prompt
- 22:50>> but at the same time when it comes to
- 22:52writing the essays or typing them out
- 22:55they are having them do it all in class
- 22:58so that they don't have that
- 23:01pressure to just put it into chat GPT or
- 23:05any of the other AI platforms.
- 23:08>> Absolutely. It's a difficult balance
- 23:10right now, but the conversations need to
- 23:13be had. And I think the schools who
- 23:16have, you know, their presidents, their
- 23:18headmasters, head of schools, whatever
- 23:20the title may be, that are learning
- 23:23about this and thinking about the best
- 23:25way to, you know, implement AI into
- 23:29their systems are ahead of the game.
- 23:32Again, cuz AI is not going away.
- 23:35>> No. you know,
- 23:36>> you're going to have to embrace it one
- 23:38way or another, but you still need to
- 23:39know how to think for yourself. I think
- 23:41the critical thinking
- 23:42>> critical thinking is key.
- 23:44>> Absolutely. Writing, you know, the
- 23:46writing skills. And yes, I'm the first
- 23:47one to say it it it's going to get more
- 23:50difficult. Sure.
- 23:51>> Because it does a lot of the thinking
- 23:52for you, right?
- 23:54>> I mean, do you use it at all for
- 23:56prompting or typing emails? Of course.
- 23:59Me, too. And spell check.
- 24:01>> Saves time. You know, you prompt it a
- 24:04couple bullet points and it spits out
- 24:06this beautifully written exactly,
- 24:08>> you know, couple paragraphs and then you
- 24:09make it your own.
- 24:10>> Yeah.
- 24:10>> And I think that's the important part
- 24:12too where our kids have to realize that
- 24:14it's not just copy and paste. It's not
- 24:17always right.
- 24:18>> Correct.
- 24:18>> You have to check what's the information
- 24:21that's given to you. You want your own
- 24:23voice in there, too.
- 24:25>> But it is a whole new skill that we did
- 24:27not
- 24:28>> have growing up. And so even as adults,
- 24:31we need to learn how to use it properly.
- 24:33>> Hey my friends, it's Christy from
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- 25:06So, there has to be a big difference in
- 25:08AI, I assume, when you're using it for
- 25:11personal consumption as opposed to a
- 25:13business or a company.
- 25:15>> Which apps are the ones that business
- 25:17owners should be thinking about using
- 25:20instead of just Gemini, ChatGBT? Yeah.
- 25:23and the ones that we all have just
- 25:25skimmed through now.
- 25:26>> Well, there's so many Christy and it
- 25:29it's really going to be dependent on
- 25:31your company on the vertical. So, I
- 25:34don't want to um you know give too many
- 25:40plugs for different platforms because
- 25:41it's really going to be dependent. But
- 25:42what I can say is the ones you mentioned
- 25:44for example chat GPT right open AI there
- 25:47are professional layers to those that I
- 25:50think a lot of people are
- 25:51underutilizing. So you can pay
- 25:53subscription-wise
- 25:55a very nominal amount every month
- 25:58>> and your entire team now is working off
- 26:01the same HIM sheet as opposed to let's
- 26:04say we work in the same company. You
- 26:05know Christy is using OpenAI or chatbt
- 26:08both for work and personal reasons and
- 26:12you're it's only tracking your stuff and
- 26:14then I'm using it Melissa's using it
- 26:16also but we're not connected. So there
- 26:20is a professional subscription and now
- 26:23Christy and Melissa
- 26:26our information is actually being
- 26:27aggregated on how it's being used
- 26:30professionally right under let's say you
- 26:32worked for Emerge under the Emerge
- 26:33umbrella which is really cool. So our
- 26:36company has that and all of our um team
- 26:40>> that's fascinating
- 26:41>> works off of this professional
- 26:42subscription and now it starts thinking
- 26:45as Emerge Americas how every single one
- 26:49of our team members is using it how
- 26:51every single one of our team members uh
- 26:54how it's prompting the language we're
- 26:56using.
- 26:57>> Fascinating.
- 26:57>> Yeah. And that's I mean it's pretty
- 26:59simple. This is not, you know, there's a
- 27:02lot more layers to this, but even
- 27:04something as simple as that, a lot of
- 27:06teams are not leveraging or taking
- 27:08advantage of and people are using it
- 27:09anyways is the thing.
- 27:10>> Sure. So, what happens to a company that
- 27:13ignores AI in today's world?
- 27:16>> I don't think they're going to be around
- 27:19that long. That's just the truth because
- 27:21I, like I said earlier, your competitors
- 27:23are looking at AI. And this is not to
- 27:25say,
- 27:28you know, you have to use AI across all
- 27:31of your processes at work,
- 27:33>> but you really do need to assess where
- 27:36AI can make can give you a competitive
- 27:39advantage, where AI can make your
- 27:41processes more efficient.
- 27:44And I think if you're not looking at
- 27:46that, and I'm I mean any business,
- 27:48>> sure,
- 27:49>> I do think like red flag, red flag, you
- 27:52you need to start looking at it. And
- 27:53again, I'm not saying change all your
- 27:55processes and immediately, you know,
- 27:58convert everything to an AI AI model,
- 28:01but any company, any size, from a
- 28:04startup to a Fortune 500, etc., needs to
- 28:08look at the different AI platforms and
- 28:10how they can work in their company.
- 28:12>> Sure. And what responsibility do tech
- 28:15leaders have in shaping the ethical
- 28:17innovation?
- 28:19>> I think a lot.
- 28:21And I don't think it's talked about
- 28:23enough. That's why I said earlier too
- 28:26that I think about it as a mom, right?
- 28:30Right. With my kids, it I can't just be
- 28:33a tech cheerleader, right? There has to
- 28:36be the ethical conversations behind it,
- 28:41the challenges that they pose as well.
- 28:44And I think that's the the neat part
- 28:46about
- 28:48uh the conference that you'll experience
- 28:49this week, Christie, because we don't
- 28:52shy away from having those difficult
- 28:54conversations also cuz we need we're a
- 28:57platform. We're bringing all these
- 28:59decision makers together and we want to
- 29:01have these difficult conversations and
- 29:03it can't just be, you know, AI is going
- 29:06to change the world positively in every
- 29:10aspect. No, we need to say what are the
- 29:12ethical implications here? What are the
- 29:15the challenges? People talk about the
- 29:17deep fakes and how AI can it can quite
- 29:22literally take our voice from this
- 29:23podcast and now all of a sudden, you
- 29:26know, Mel and Christy are talking about
- 29:27something else that we didn't talk about
- 29:29here.
- 29:30>> How do we decipher what's real and
- 29:32what's not? Those are all real
- 29:35challenges,
- 29:36>> right? that I am sure that there are
- 29:40going to be fixes for because I'm very
- 29:41much the glasses half full and usually
- 29:45challenges breed a lot more opportunity
- 29:49and so you're going to see a lot of
- 29:50founders and companies kind of bubbling
- 29:53up addressing these challenges but we
- 29:55need to talk about them.
- 29:57>> Yeah. And that's part of Heartful
- 29:58Living's mission, which is opening the
- 30:00door to these
- 30:02>> difficult conversations and sharing them
- 30:05because if we don't open the door and
- 30:07let that conversation in,
- 30:09>> we're just going to continue, as we say
- 30:12in Spanish,
- 30:14you know,
- 30:15>> covering it up because eventually the
- 30:17sun's going to come up.
- 30:18>> Absolutely.
- 30:19>> And we're going to have to discuss it.
- 30:21>> Um, so I'm so glad that the conference
- 30:23has
- 30:24>> Yeah.
- 30:24>> those conversations coming. totally not
- 30:26shy about having the hard conversations
- 30:28and we should.
- 30:28>> Yeah. And speaking of shy conversations,
- 30:32you are a mother of five
- 30:34>> and you have a big, beautiful, modern
- 30:37blended family.
- 30:38>> A thank you.
- 30:39>> And one of the things that people have
- 30:41come up to me to say is you need to have
- 30:44Melissa Medina come and explain to us
- 30:48how she makes it work with her modern
- 30:51family.
- 30:53It's something that I think you have
- 30:56>> just nailed.
- 30:58>> It appears like you guys have nailed it.
- 31:00You're doing it right. The the heart and
- 31:02the intention is there.
- 31:04>> Thank you.
- 31:05>> You're listening to the Heart-to-Heart
- 31:06podcast with Christy Diaz for Heartful
- 31:08Living, where stories, connection, and
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- 31:24back to listening.
- 31:26>> Can you share with those who don't know
- 31:28you what it is I'm talking about?
- 31:30>> Yeah, of course. And um so funny,
- 31:34Christy, cuz I I get asked this a lot in
- 31:37private all the time. It's probably the
- 31:41topic that I am like my DMs,
- 31:46people I don't know ask me about the
- 31:49most, which is crazy, right? Um, but
- 31:52it's something that publicly I don't
- 31:55think anyone's really ever asked me
- 31:57about. So, um, I'm a little I am a
- 32:00little shy about it, but I am I'm
- 32:02thankful that you asked the question.
- 32:05Um, so yeah, for those that don't know
- 32:08me, um, I was married. So I'm divorced,
- 32:12remarried. Uh, I have five kids, four of
- 32:15whom I had with my first husband, and
- 32:18then remarried and had a little girl
- 32:20with my current husband. My ex-husband
- 32:23also got remarried and has a little
- 32:24girl. Um, so alto together it's six of
- 32:27them. I gave birth to five. And then my
- 32:30ex-husband and his wife had a little
- 32:32girl who is adorable. and we adore. And
- 32:37I think the reason that people reach out
- 32:39all the time is because they
- 32:43can't believe that we
- 32:46kind of work so well together. And for
- 32:49us, and I say us collectively because I
- 32:52think everyone has to be on the same
- 32:54page, which is my husband, my
- 32:56ex-husband, his wife, we all put the
- 33:00kids first. Like, it's just an abundance
- 33:02of love for these children. I mean, my
- 33:04my daughter with my husband and my
- 33:08ex-husband's
- 33:10daughter, you know, literally love each
- 33:12other like sisters.
- 33:14>> And, you know, even for, you know, the
- 33:17my five, there's no these are this is my
- 33:21half sibling. Like, these are your
- 33:22siblings.
- 33:24And I I give credit really to all the
- 33:27adults in this
- 33:28>> absolutely
- 33:29>> um sort of puzzle and equation because
- 33:32we put them first is the reason I don't
- 33:36talk about it that much either is
- 33:37because it's not as if any of us are
- 33:39advocates for divorce.
- 33:41>> Sure. you know, and I think that's kind
- 33:43of the
- 33:44the fine line, you know, when you're
- 33:47expressing like, hey, we made it work.
- 33:51And I love and adore our family so much.
- 33:56The modern blend, all of it. You know, I
- 33:59I think as a as a husband or wife going
- 34:02through a divorce, one of your biggest
- 34:04fears is who your partner or your former
- 34:08partner might end up with. How how will
- 34:09they be with your children,
- 34:11>> right?
- 34:11>> And I just feel so fortunate, you know,
- 34:14um my ex-husband's wife is beautiful
- 34:17inside and inside and out. Loves loves
- 34:19loves my children. Um I adore her
- 34:22daughter. It's just, you know, I I feel
- 34:24very lucky for the people that um are
- 34:27involved, but at the same time, again,
- 34:30we're not advocating divorce. It's just
- 34:33an unfortunate part of our story
- 34:36>> story and reality is that and I don't
- 34:38know if the data still remains, but
- 34:40pretty sure that over 50% of marriages
- 34:42end in divorce. And it's sad, nobody
- 34:44gets married, least in our, you know, in
- 34:47our scenario, we didn't get married to
- 34:48get divorced. You know, I don't think
- 34:50anyone sets out to get divorced. So
- 34:52that's our story. Uh how we do it is
- 34:55just a lot of extra love. Um open door
- 34:57policies. We're, you know, we're we're
- 35:03doing everything we can to make sure
- 35:05we're putting our kids first.
- 35:06>> And I'm sure it hasn't always been easy,
- 35:09you know.
- 35:10>> No,
- 35:10>> I'm sure it takes a lot of work.
- 35:13>> Absolutely takes a lot of work. Time
- 35:15obviously is always on your side, right?
- 35:18the more time that passes, um, the
- 35:22easier it gets. And, you know, I think
- 35:24fortunate for us, you know, we each
- 35:28found an amazing partner in life and and
- 35:33I acknowledge that, you know, right?
- 35:35>> And we're happy for each other, like,
- 35:37you know, and you think it's just like
- 35:39simple,
- 35:40>> you know, we're happy for each other.
- 35:42Our kids now have extra layer of love,
- 35:46>> right? And I also I think it's also
- 35:49important to acknowledge like the
- 35:51extended family because
- 35:54>> the acceptance that
- 35:56>> my in-laws you know of
- 36:00you know four kids all of a sudden
- 36:01coming into the family. Absolutely.
- 36:03>> And on the other side as well and we
- 36:05just I think we were just very fortunate
- 36:07that
- 36:08>> everyone really kind of supported us.
- 36:10And
- 36:11>> that's amazing. It's my hope and my wish
- 36:13for every divorce with children
- 36:17>> to come to a place of harmony like you
- 36:20guys have found.
- 36:21>> Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah.
- 36:22>> What would you say to the woman who's in
- 36:24the thick of the divorce and just can't
- 36:26see that possibility of peace right now?
- 36:31>> I feel for you. Um I think it's a very
- 36:34very difficult time. feels hopeless, I'm
- 36:37sure, at times, but there is a light at
- 36:40the end of the tunnel. If they have
- 36:43children, I would say that's the focus,
- 36:46right? Uh it's easy to allow a lot of
- 36:50noise into your mind and have you either
- 36:54upset or kind of digress into a place of
- 36:57of animosity or, you know, this is not
- 37:01the way you anticipated things to
- 37:03happen.
- 37:04>> Sure.
- 37:05And I know it's easier said than done,
- 37:07you know, um but time time really does
- 37:10heal a lot. A lot.
- 37:12>> Yeah.
- 37:13>> How does motherhood change the way you
- 37:15lead your business today
- 37:17>> with that troop?
- 37:19>> Yeah. So much. Um I think motherhood or
- 37:23parenthood
- 37:24changes the way you think about
- 37:26everything in life, right? There's a
- 37:28before and after motherhood.
- 37:31um you know what are what am I focusing
- 37:33my time on what am I building is it
- 37:36worth it is it impactful
- 37:39how could it how is it affecting them
- 37:41potentially so many questions go into my
- 37:44mind as I'm building an organization and
- 37:48a company I involve them as much as I
- 37:50can as as well so they hopefully
- 37:53understand you know what their mom is
- 37:55working on and their opinions mean a lot
- 38:00to me. So, I actually asked them a lot
- 38:02of questions like, "Who do you want to
- 38:03see? Who would inspire you? And what
- 38:06kind of topics do you want to hear?" And
- 38:08you know, my oldest is already a
- 38:09freshman in college. He's 18 years old.
- 38:12>> Don't tell people that.
- 38:13>> Yes.
- 38:15So, you know, what are the emerging
- 38:17technologies he wants to learn about
- 38:19him, right? Of course. Like, they know a
- 38:20lot more than we do. I promise.
- 38:22>> Absolutely. I couldn't agree more. What
- 38:24fuels you more, vision, challenge, or
- 38:26impact?
- 38:31challenge probably.
- 38:32>> Yeah,
- 38:33>> I love that.
- 38:34>> Yeah.
- 38:34>> Yeah, I could see that.
- 38:35>> Yeah.
- 38:36>> When you doubt yourself, what brings you
- 38:37back to center?
- 38:40>> For sure. My children,
- 38:41>> right?
- 38:42>> Yeah. It's perspective. You know, there
- 38:44there are a lot of things that get into
- 38:46my mind that could
- 38:50distract me or get me overwhelmed. And
- 38:53then I think about really Melissa,
- 38:55you're driving yourself crazy over XYZ
- 38:59issue when you know here you have
- 39:03healthy amazing family, children, etc.
- 39:07So that's kind of my why that brings me
- 39:09back. But it's easy I think in the rat
- 39:12race of
- 39:14personal and professional life like
- 39:15getting distracted is really easy. I'm
- 39:18sure you
- 39:18>> especially in today's world.
- 39:19>> Yeah, exactly.
- 39:20>> I agree. So, if chaos is inevitable in
- 39:23both life and business, Melissa, what
- 39:25have you learned about what comes after
- 39:27it?
- 39:29>> I'm still in the chaos.
- 39:31>> You're still in the chaos. I like that.
- 39:33It's a challenge.
- 39:34>> Still in the chaos. Um, yeah,
- 39:37definitely. Chaos is my middle name.
- 39:40>> Finish this sentence as we close,
- 39:42Melissa.
- 39:43>> Okay.
- 39:43>> The future belongs to
- 39:46>> the next generation.
- 39:49That's it. The future belongs to the
- 39:52next gen. And
- 39:55again, whether it's
- 39:57your children, our children, or our
- 40:00children's children, thinking about the
- 40:02next generation is something that is top
- 40:05of mind for me every day.
- 40:08>> Melissa, I can't think of a better way
- 40:10to close than with that statement you
- 40:12just made. I am so excited for this
- 40:15week.
- 40:15>> Yes. I'll see you there.
- 40:17>> Wear sneakers. I'm telling you.
- 40:19>> Will it look bad with what I'm wearing
- 40:20right now?
- 40:21>> No, absolutely not. You'll
- 40:23>> If you're listening and you're
- 40:24interested in attending,
- 40:25>> wear sneakers.
- 40:26>> Wear sneakers. Buy your ticket at
- 40:28>> emergeameas.com.
- 40:29>> Okay. We look forward to it.
- 40:31>> I'll see you there. Yeah.
- 40:32>> Melissa Medina, thank you so much for
- 40:34>> Thank you for the opportunity. It was so
- 40:35fun.
- 40:35>> I know how busy you are this week.
- 40:37>> No, not for this.
- 40:38>> Thank you for being here.
- 40:39>> This is an awesome opportunity. Thank
- 40:40you for having me.
- 40:41>> Thank you. That is all the time we have
- 40:43for everybody. Thank you for joining us
- 40:44today. Bye
- 40:45>> bye.
- 41:09Nat.