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Horse Feathers and Single Parent Dating 6-30-26 · Dom and Jeremy

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  Speaker 1: Jerry, Katy and Josh makes one hundred.
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  Speaker 2: I stumbled across this list. It's making the rounds on
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  Speaker 2: the show Social Today. Fifteen silly old timy words that
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  Speaker 2: you need.
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  Speaker 3: To start using again.
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  Speaker 4: Shash frash, shash fresh, shashparilla.
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  Speaker 3: You want some of these? Yeah, it's funny because most
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  Speaker 3: of these mean like being foolish or nonsense, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Like here's the first one, flap doodle, which means foolish words.
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  Speaker 3: Of course, Henry.
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  Speaker 2: Thinks he's a genius, but everything he tweets is pure
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  Speaker 2: flat doodle.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, I like that one.
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  Speaker 2: Huh, Tommy rot, which is utter foolishness or nonsense, which
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  Speaker 2: is generally what I'm spouting on the air here.
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  Speaker 3: That Jammy on the Mixed Show is full of the
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  Speaker 3: Tommy rot, Isn't he gotta work in the show today?
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  Speaker 3: Enough of that time?
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  Speaker 6: Right?
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  Speaker 3: See monkey shine? I like that one that means Katie
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  Speaker 3: making whoopee.
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  Speaker 5: Katie.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's a playful activity or a prank. Quite frankly, Katie,
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  Speaker 2: And I'm growing tired of all your monkey shine and
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  Speaker 2: you need to start acting like an adult.
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  Speaker 1: Well, if you stop spitting all that flatdoode all.
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  Speaker 2: Over there, that's just hor feathers, which is foolish or
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  Speaker 2: untrue words.
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  Speaker 3: Horse feathers, Josh us it in a sentence.
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  Speaker 5: Horse feathers is an old timey word. How was that?
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  Speaker 3: Apple sauce means nonsense? I kind of like that one. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: we just broke up. I couldn't take all of her
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  Speaker 3: apple sauce. She had so much apple sauce. You guys
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  Speaker 3: like literally, yeah, like literally is.
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  Speaker 1: That too much? It makes me hungry? Like, no, I
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  Speaker 1: want apple sauce.
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  Speaker 2: Baffle gab is just gibberish or gobbledygook, like this whole
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  Speaker 2: segment right now, it's just a baffle gas.
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  Speaker 1: I just took two words and put them together that
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  Speaker 1: made no sense and said it was a new word.
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  Speaker 1: Is what they did back in the day. I'm understanding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, some of these I can't say they're so they
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  Speaker 2: sound like naughty work. No ham buggery, false or deceptive behavior.
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  Speaker 5: Quit that hambuggery.
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  Speaker 2: I fell for this hotties ham buggery on tender and
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  Speaker 2: ended up being.
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  Speaker 3: Catfished by my best friend.
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, they were dealing with a lot of nonsense
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  Speaker 1: back in the like, okay, like remember all.
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  Speaker 7: These yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Pile which is just trivial nonsense. Did I do Taradiddle?
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  Speaker 5: No like that one.
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  Speaker 3: It's a fib a Tara diddle. Oh he told me
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  Speaker 3: the of that movie and it was just total teradidyle.
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  Speaker 3: It was completely wrong. I don't like that one. Don't
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  Speaker 3: either anyone else.
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  Speaker 5: I want to give you.
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  Speaker 3: Cod swallop, which is just nonsense.
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  Speaker 5: Why is everything nonsense?
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  Speaker 3: Everything's nonsense.
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe anything back in the day.
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  Speaker 2: I think the best one on this list that I
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  Speaker 2: am going to start working into just daily life is
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  Speaker 2: the Apple Sauce, which is just nonsense.
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  Speaker 3: I couldn't take all that apple sauce. I just couldn't
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  Speaker 3: do it. I'm gonna try to work that in. When
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  Speaker 3: a big Rob.
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  Speaker 8: Comes in to talk to us, don't explain it, that's
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  Speaker 8: apple sauce and walk out.
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  Speaker 3: Just what did you play that song? I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: It's just a bunch of apple sauce, Big Rob, then
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  Speaker 3: walk out. What.
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  Speaker 5: Well.
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  Speaker 2: We are definitely approaching a holiday and a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people are going to be getting out of town and
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  Speaker 2: there's a couple of big stories out this morning, one
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  Speaker 2: of which is coming out from the TSA. It's all
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  Speaker 2: the things you should be never you should never be
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  Speaker 2: putting in the tea bin at the airport. It's a
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  Speaker 2: lot of just stuff that's like, uh, your passport, your
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  Speaker 2: ID watches, jewelry, loose lithium batteries, headphones, glasses, neck pillows,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know whatever. One of the big things that
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  Speaker 2: they're talking about, though, is I guess they're getting a
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  Speaker 2: lot of complaints from people because people are tossing in
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of loose cash into those bins to get scanned.
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  Speaker 2: And while it's in some of those machines, I guess
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  Speaker 2: it's getting like sucked.
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  Speaker 3: Around in there or something.
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  Speaker 2: And if it gets it gets lodged in those TSA
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  Speaker 2: scanning machines, you can't get it back.
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  Speaker 3: They're saying that they're not gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Go in and look for your cash money, So don't
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  Speaker 2: put your loose cash inside those TSA machines. They say,
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  Speaker 2: fold it up, put it in a wallet, do something,
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  Speaker 2: because if you lose some hondo's in there, they're not
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  Speaker 2: going in for them.
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  Speaker 5: What you're doing that? Do you know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? A story being published about it.
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  Speaker 3: Like you looked around, we got a we live amongst
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  Speaker 3: a bunch of mouth breath.
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  Speaker 5: People were bringing ranch through the TSA.
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  Speaker 2: Lately, the people still bring guns and knives through those
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  Speaker 2: scan which is insane.
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  Speaker 3: Which is so.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, look around, we're surrounded by mouth breathers, man, which
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  Speaker 2: makes another great T shirt.
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  Speaker 3: Who surrounded my mouth breathers? Okay, they make.
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  Speaker 1: All kinds of friends.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you what I gotta get that get
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  Speaker 2: going immediately.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Now get this.
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  Speaker 2: If you are going out of town and you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: be near an ocean, this is a big heads up.
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  Speaker 2: There's a new study out finding people who accidentally swallowed
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  Speaker 2: ocean water were more likely to come down with stomach problems.
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  Speaker 2: You know why, because the water might be contaminated near
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  Speaker 2: the shore with bacteria linked to seagull poopoo. They say
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  Speaker 2: that's one of the biggest risks for people who swallow
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  Speaker 2: swallow ocean water while swimming, is all those seagulls be
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  Speaker 2: pooping in it.
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  Speaker 3: It's probably just sitting there on the surface.
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  Speaker 4: It's all boyant making its way inland is you know,
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  Speaker 4: and everybody's out there swimming and then you're sucking it
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  Speaker 4: up and then you get stomach issues while you're on vacation.
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  Speaker 8: Look, the ocean's beautiful, but that it grow the ocean
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  Speaker 8: grosses me out, it really does.
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  Speaker 3: I'm scared of it.
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  Speaker 5: It's pretty, it's too deep for me. It's pretty, but.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna know you're seagulls until this moment, and the.
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  Speaker 3: Next thing you know, you're walking around stealing people's sandwiches.
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  Speaker 7: And they.
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  Speaker 1: Snarf flatt and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: That's right. Be careful, be careful out there.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we are definitely approaching a holiday and a lot
• 6:40
  Speaker 2: of people are gonna be getting out of town. And
• 6:43
  Speaker 2: there's a couple of big stories out this morning, one
• 6:45
  Speaker 2: of which is coming out from the TSA. It's all
• 6:48
  Speaker 2: the things you should be never you should never be
• 6:50
  Speaker 2: putting in the TSA bin at the airport. It's a
• 6:55
  Speaker 2: lot of just stuff that's like, uh, your passport, your
• 6:58
  Speaker 2: I D watches, jewelry, loose lithium batteries, headphones, glasses, neck pillows,
• 7:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know whatever. One of the big things that
• 7:07
  Speaker 2: they're talking about, though, is I guess they're getting a
• 7:10
  Speaker 2: lot of complaints from people because people are tossing in
• 7:13
  Speaker 2: a bunch of loose cash into those bins to get scanned,
• 7:18
  Speaker 2: and while it's in some of those machines, I guess
• 7:20
  Speaker 2: it's getting like sucked around in there or something, and
• 7:23
  Speaker 2: if it gets it gets lodged in those TSA scanning machines,
• 7:27
  Speaker 2: you can't get it back. They're saying that they're not
• 7:29
  Speaker 2: gonna go in and look for your cash money, So
• 7:32
  Speaker 2: don't put your loose cash inside those TSA machines. They say,
• 7:37
  Speaker 2: fold it up, put it in a wallet, do something,
• 7:39
  Speaker 2: because if you lose some.
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  Speaker 3: Hondo's in there, they're not going in for them.
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  Speaker 5: What you're doing that? Do you know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, a story being published about it.
• 7:48
  Speaker 2: Like you looked around, we got a we live amongst
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of mouth breathers.
• 7:52
  Speaker 8: People were bringing ranch through the TSA. Lately the people
• 7:56
  Speaker 8: still bring guns and knives through.
• 7:57
  Speaker 5: Those scan which is insane.
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  Speaker 2: Which is so Yeah, look around, we're surrounded by mouth breathers.
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  Speaker 3: Man, which makes another great T shirt. Surrounded my mouth breathers. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: they make.
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  Speaker 1: All kinds of friends. Yeah, I'll tell.
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  Speaker 3: You what I gotta get that. They get that going immediately. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: Now get this.
• 8:12
  Speaker 2: If you are going out of town and you're gonna
• 8:14
  Speaker 2: be near an ocean, this is a big heads up.
• 8:17
  Speaker 2: There's a new study out finding people who accidentally swallowed
• 8:21
  Speaker 2: ocean water were more.
• 8:22
  Speaker 3: Likely to come down with stomach problems.
• 8:25
  Speaker 2: You know why, because the water might be contaminated near
• 8:29
  Speaker 2: the shore with bacteria linked to seagull poop.
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  Speaker 3: Booooo.
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  Speaker 2: They say that's one of the biggest risks for people
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  Speaker 2: who swallow swallow ocean water while swimming, is all those
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  Speaker 2: seagulls be pooping in it.
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  Speaker 3: It's probably just sitting.
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  Speaker 4: There on the surface, all boyant making its way inland
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  Speaker 4: is you know, and everybody who's out there swimming, and
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  Speaker 4: then you're sucking it up and then you get stomach
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  Speaker 4: issues while you're on vacation.
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  Speaker 8: Look, the ocean's beauty, but that it grow the ocean
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  Speaker 8: grosses me out. Same, it really dulls.
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  Speaker 3: I'm scared of it.
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  Speaker 5: It's pretty, it's too deep for me. It's pretty, But I.
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  Speaker 1: Never swam in the air and there I'm not gonna know,
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  Speaker 1: always wanted to until this moment.
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  Speaker 2: And the next thing you know, you're walking around stealing
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  Speaker 2: people's sandwiches and the.
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  Speaker 1: Falling things a snarf flat and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: That's right. Be careful, be careful out there. What you got?
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  Speaker 1: Okay? So this is from Noel and she asks for
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  Speaker 1: our help. She says, I have a nine year old daughter.
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  Speaker 1: Her dad and I broke up when she was five,
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  Speaker 1: so as far as she knows, Mama is single and
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  Speaker 1: that's all I'll ever be. I don't go on dates,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not on any of the apps, and when I'm
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  Speaker 1: done working, all of my time is spent on her.
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  Speaker 1: This year, I turned thirty two, and I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what kicked in for me, but I got an immediate
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  Speaker 1: feeling of fomo when it comes to love. I totally
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  Speaker 1: feel like I'm just letting my person slip away from me,
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  Speaker 1: which is weird because I've never cared about a person before.
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  Speaker 1: I tried talking about this to my brother, he's super
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  Speaker 1: close to me, and we had an interesting talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: He had this take. He said, I can't date until
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  Speaker 1: my daughter leaves the house or is at least sixteen.
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  Speaker 1: He says, it's too risky to bring a person into
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  Speaker 1: her life at this point, and I missed my window
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  Speaker 1: to introduce her to a stepdad. He said, Specifically, a
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  Speaker 1: kid this age is going to feel like they're competing
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  Speaker 1: with someone new. That's a good point right there. It
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  Speaker 1: really is. She said, what the frick? What did my family?
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  Speaker 1: When did they get to decide what approach I take
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  Speaker 1: with dating. Now get his point that it's rough out
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  Speaker 1: there and I should stay focused, But life's way too short, right,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I should put my life on hold,
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  Speaker 1: even if it's to step up to that parent role.
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  Speaker 1: So she asked, She's just like, which way should she go?
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  Speaker 1: This is new to her when it comes to single
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  Speaker 1: parent dating. So should she take her daughter into consideration
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  Speaker 1: before she goes on these dates?
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  Speaker 2: Or is she should just give up dating? Like altogether, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you should give up dating?
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  Speaker 1: Or should she try?
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  Speaker 3: Because here's the thing, and here's.
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  Speaker 1: My I guess concern for her here is at thirty two,
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  Speaker 1: as a woman, it's the internal clock, especially like if
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  Speaker 1: you want to have another baby, Like it's not like
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  Speaker 1: we're not like al Pacino where he can father a
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  Speaker 1: kid at eighty four. That's not how it works for us.
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  Speaker 1: So you get that clock ticking and the time just
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  Speaker 1: gets less and less and less and less. And so
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  Speaker 1: I just feel and that's from Noel, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: Noel and Lakewood. I just feel for Noel. Yeah, she's
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  Speaker 1: really got to think about what she wants at this
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  Speaker 1: point in her life, because if she wants another kid,
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  Speaker 1: that's something you have to take into the equation as well.
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  Speaker 2: I know we have a lot of single parents to
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  Speaker 2: listen to this show. Maybe you guys are dealing with
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  Speaker 2: whether or not you should get back into the dating world,
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  Speaker 2: or maybe you have and you've noticed that it has
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  Speaker 2: affected your relationship, maybe with your Kiddoh, yeah, we want
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  Speaker 2: to hear from you. What should Noel do here? She's
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  Speaker 2: got a nine year old.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, nine year old daughter old looking to.
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  Speaker 2: Get back out in the dating scene. Brother's saying, Nah,
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  Speaker 2: you gotta wait. You gotta focus on your kiddo right
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  Speaker 2: now versus your love life.
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  Speaker 3: She's maybe not feeling it. What's your advice?
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  Speaker 2: Three O three six nine one one mix three O
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  Speaker 2: three six nine one sixteen forty nine. What makes her
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  Speaker 2: brother such an expert at this? That's what I want
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  Speaker 2: to know exactly right, Well, why.
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  Speaker 3: Did he put the artificial date of sixteen?
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  Speaker 1: Well, and honestly, I think he's just taking the kid's
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  Speaker 1: point into consideration without anything from the outside, like he's
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  Speaker 1: only looking at at it from that vantage point, which
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  Speaker 1: I think is a little unfair to Noel. She's a
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  Speaker 1: person and she is feeling Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And Katie, look, I've dealt with a lot of single
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  Speaker 5: moms here.
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  Speaker 2: How you job?
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  Speaker 9: So?
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  Speaker 2: You the stories that we can't even tell on the air,
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: which I think.
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  Speaker 9: I think her waiting, I think her waiting because of
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  Speaker 9: her brother and possibly her own daughter would be a
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  Speaker 9: little foolish in her aspect, because you still can't put
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  Speaker 9: your life on pause just because your daughter might be
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  Speaker 9: uncomfortable with it.
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  Speaker 1: At first, we care about Noel's happiness, right, Josh?
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  Speaker 5: I do I give her my number? I know, we do.
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  Speaker 2: I know you nine year olds are gross and we
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  Speaker 2: got court Court on the line. Hi Courtney, Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 2: all right, what do you think Noel should be doing?
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  Speaker 7: She should go out and she should go have fun
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  Speaker 7: and meet people, tear it up.
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  Speaker 6: Huh yes?
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  Speaker 3: Why yes? Why is that?
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  Speaker 7: I think because yeah, you're a mom, but also that
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  Speaker 7: shouldn't be your whole identity, Like you're still yourself and
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  Speaker 7: you should still be able to go have your life
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  Speaker 7: without your kid, and you should all also have your
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  Speaker 7: life with your kid.
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  Speaker 1: That's such a good point, Courtney. I think, especially when
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  Speaker 1: you're a young mom, I think people just expect you
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  Speaker 1: to one put all of your efforts towards your kid,
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  Speaker 1: or you know, they label you a bad mom. So
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  Speaker 1: I think you are so right. It's important to remember
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  Speaker 1: that you're a young woman as well, and you still
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean you take care of your kid any less.
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  Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, exactly. I'm in the same position. I'm a
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  Speaker 7: single mom just getting out into the dating world again.
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  Speaker 7: And it is a lot harder that you are a
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  Speaker 7: single mom and you have a child because you don't
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  Speaker 7: want to bring your child on dates.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, Also that kind of leads out the bad guys
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  Speaker 10: that don't want to deal with your children, and it's
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  Speaker 10: you should have some time away from your child because
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  Speaker 10: everyone needs that.
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  Speaker 1: You should absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: Team date. Yes, all right, Corkork, good luck out there.
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  Speaker 3: Do you ever did you find a good guy right now?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: I have one?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, good.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you want to feel like you're like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I have one.
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  Speaker 10: He's gotta he's gotta go through some processes and make
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  Speaker 10: sure he's actually a good one.
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  Speaker 3: I heard that. Yeah, we'll see, you'll see. Well, good luck, Cortney,
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  Speaker 3: keep us updated. All right, thanks for calling in. Here's Eddie.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Ed, what's up.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, you're up, bro? What are your thoughts on Noelle's situation?
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  Speaker 6: Well, I met my kid's stepmom when I was thirty
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  Speaker 6: two and my daughter was four and my son was
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  Speaker 6: about to turn seven, and that was eight years ago.
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  Speaker 6: And now like they love her more than they love
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  Speaker 6: me or their mom. And I joke about that, but
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  Speaker 6: I think it's true. So so it can work. You're saying, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: So it's like as long as you're not introducing them
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  Speaker 6: right away and like, this is my new lover. I
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  Speaker 6: just said, like she came over and was like, hey,
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  Speaker 6: this is my friend for a while, and then she's
• 15:45
  Speaker 6: going to live with us now and then eventually they
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  Speaker 6: figure it out.
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  Speaker 3: But Daddy, was your door always closing?
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  Speaker 1: Why are you hurting mommy?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: Why she's screaming our new mommy.
• 15:57
  Speaker 6: How to keep the cat out of the room.
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  Speaker 3: That's yeah, there you go.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, I got to ask you, was it hard to
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  Speaker 2: find a balance when it came to spending too much
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  Speaker 2: time away from the kids with the new girlfriend. The
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: reason I'm asking that is I have somebody in my
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  Speaker 2: life that is back in the dating scene with a
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  Speaker 2: kidd oh, and the problem.
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  Speaker 3: Is is that she is never around now because it's normal.
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  Speaker 2: It's like whenever we even when you don't have kids,
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: you get a new boyfriend or girlfriend, you want to
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: spend all the time with him, and you guys are
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: always doing everything, and she's doing that, and she's kind
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: of abandoning her kids.
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: Did you run into that at all?
• 16:37
  Speaker 6: So I got kind of lucky. And so with me
• 16:40
  Speaker 6: and their mom, we have split custody, so it's like
• 16:43
  Speaker 6: one week I have, the one week I don't, and
• 16:45
  Speaker 6: then on the weeks that I do have them, they
• 16:48
  Speaker 6: were young enough and they would go to sleep around eight,
• 16:51
  Speaker 6: so she would just come over and we'd watch a
• 16:54
  Speaker 6: movie or whatever.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah or whatever.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: Okay, so you were good.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: You weren't bailing out on your time then, because that
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: and that's definite what's happening on my end where even
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: though she has a week with the kids, she's coming
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: up excuses, you know, as to why she can't take them.
• 17:08
  Speaker 6: Or if it was something on my week with the
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: kids where I needed alone time, I would just work
• 17:13
  Speaker 6: out something with their mom to just switch time or something.
• 17:17
  Speaker 6: So good co parenting strongly recommend.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: That's a huge part of it, for sure. What's it ed?
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: We appreciate you sounding off and sharing your life with us, buddy.
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: Yeah, no worries, all right, man, have a great.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: Weekend or a great week. It's only Tuesday forgot six
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: year So yeah, I'm thinking she could still get out
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: there and do a little bit of date. Why still
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: be a human.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: But there is that thing where it's still I feel
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: like for me personally, I would still make sure I'm
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: making my kid my number one priority, especially a young
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: girl who's starting to enter those formative years there you
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: want to make sure you're a mom that's there for her.
• 17:51
  Speaker 5: Well that's Noell.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Absolutely everything about her letter says that she puts her
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: kid first. I mean, she hasn't dated in the entire
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: nine years. I mean the years it looks like she's
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: been single. She hasn't even entertained the idea.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: So you got to be careful with it.
• 18:05
  Speaker 9: Though.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: It is that slippery slope where if you find a
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: guy that you fall madly in love with it you're
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: not like pushing the daughter to this side.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: I don't think. I truly don't feel like that's a
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: big issue. I mean when I was dating, Zoe was
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: always number one. Always. She didn't meet people that I
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: just dated, Like I don't. Yeah, I think that most
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: parents know that you have to make sure you're still
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: being a parent, you know, that's always going to be
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: number one.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: But I always love having this conversation with Nicole.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: We've had it many times, like how quick would you
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: start dating again?
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we've had like how would you like? How quick?
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Who would you choose? It's fun, it's a fun hype.
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: She's like Eric from accounting.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really quick. Really fun conversation. No her thing,
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: you know, and whether or not I trust her or not.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: She said that she would always wait until the kids
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: were much older and grown. Yeah, just because she said
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: there's too many weirdos out there. Yeah, She's like, and honestly,
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't trust to anybody else, but the kids I
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: wouldn't trust. So she would wait until they were you know,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: probably more so, like deep into high school or something.
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: Again, it's all hypothetic.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: She's going to be back out there. I was like,
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: you're so full of it, and that's the thing you're
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: a It.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Goes back to each individual situation because you know, Nick Knack,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I doubt she wants to have more children, you know.
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: What I mean?
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: So like Noel, she's thirty two, she may still want
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: to add to her family.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: So her weight or she could put that in there,
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, well, but that's the thing, is her waiting
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: to you know, take place with all that. Like I
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: just feel like that's a different situation.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, who knows,