Latest / Motivational Podcast / GRIND HARDER – Push Past Your Limits, Achieve More
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- 0:01Speaker 1: At the end of your feelings is possible.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Nothing but at the end of your principle is a promise.
- 0:11Speaker 2: And some of you are where you are if you
- 0:13Speaker 2: could be real with yourself. You have gotten yourself in
- 0:16Speaker 2: some mess because of your feelings. We are losing control,
- 0:21Speaker 2: and it's time for those of you in this room
- 0:23Speaker 2: to take control.
- 0:25Speaker 1: You've held up yo some day.
- 0:27Speaker 2: Either you didn't get the right information, or you got it,
- 0:29Speaker 2: you didn't use it.
- 0:30Speaker 1: You're not getting up early enough. I don't know what
- 0:32Speaker 1: you're doing.
- 0:33Speaker 2: But when you leave, all I want for you is
- 0:36Speaker 2: to live your some day.
- 0:37Speaker 1: No more play it after today, because the only one
- 0:40Speaker 1: that is stucky you is here.
- 0:42Speaker 2: I need you to take control over every single err
- 0:45Speaker 2: and if someday gonna be your day.
- 0:47Speaker 3: No more excuses, no more I'll start tomorrow.
- 0:51Speaker 1: No more just this once.
- 0:53Speaker 3: No more accepting the shortfalls of my own will. No
- 0:56Speaker 3: more taking the easy road, no more waiting for the
- 0:59Speaker 3: person a moment, and no more indecision, and no more lies,
- 1:03Speaker 3: no more weakness.
- 1:05Speaker 4: Now is the time for strengths.
- 1:07Speaker 1: And through strengths and through will and through unwavering.
- 1:11Speaker 4: Discipline, I will become who I want to be.
- 1:15Speaker 1: Stop running from it and run. Two is stop telling
- 1:18Speaker 1: me what you're going through. The greats they get to it,
- 1:21Speaker 1: they go through it, and the harder it is, the
- 1:24Speaker 1: better make it work. Let's go now. If you know
- 1:28Speaker 1: what's your worth, the glody deal with your worth.
- 1:30Speaker 5: But you gotta be willing to take the hits and
- 1:32Speaker 5: not pointing's fingers saying you.
- 1:34Speaker 1: Ain't where you want to be because of him or
- 1:36Speaker 1: her or anybody. Cowards do that, and that ain't you.
- 1:39Speaker 1: You're better than that. I'm trying to tell you you
- 1:41Speaker 1: can win.
- 1:42Speaker 2: You can win despite the circumstance.
- 1:45Speaker 6: You can win despite the adversity. You can win despite
- 1:48Speaker 6: the situation. You can win despite how much money you
- 1:51Speaker 6: got in your baby. You can win despite the fact
- 1:53Speaker 6: of your parents in your life or not. You can
- 1:55Speaker 6: win despite the fact that you start.
- 1:57Speaker 7: To be on.
- 1:58Speaker 1: You can win. You get pulled it off.
- 2:01Speaker 8: No, it's juices, No more complaining, no more giving up.
- 2:05Speaker 8: What's that thing that's gonna pump you up and get
- 2:07Speaker 8: you over that heel. What's gonna pump you up and
- 2:08Speaker 8: get you over that mouth? What's gonna pump you up
- 2:11Speaker 8: and get you past that disease? What's gonna pump you
- 2:13Speaker 8: up and get you past bankruptcy. What's gonna pump you
- 2:15Speaker 8: out and get you to the other dog tie?
- 2:17Speaker 1: Come on, you can win. If you do what is easy,
- 2:21Speaker 1: your life will be hall. But if you do what
- 2:24Speaker 1: is hall, your life will be easy.
- 2:30Speaker 9: It's really hard to be led by your butt. But
- 2:33Speaker 9: I'm not qualified. But I'm not good enough. But I'm
- 2:37Speaker 9: not smart enough. But I didn't go to the right school.
- 2:39Speaker 9: But I don't have enough money. But but, but, but
- 2:43Speaker 9: but If you're ever gonna step into your future, if
- 2:46Speaker 9: you're ever gonna step into your destiny, you're gonna have
- 2:48Speaker 9: to get over your butts.
- 2:50Speaker 1: And that's what a pitted ponty is.
- 2:51Speaker 2: Is when you have an undisciplined mine and you're meditating
- 2:54Speaker 2: on the wrong thing over and over and over again.
- 2:57Speaker 1: And you're gonna throw a painted ponty. I'll give you
- 2:58Speaker 1: three days and that's it.
- 3:00Speaker 10: And after three days, you cut up your record player,
- 3:02Speaker 10: your iPods, YOUMFY three and you come up.
- 3:04Speaker 1: With the player. Do I just sit there and sat?
- 3:06Speaker 1: Oh No, I don't. I say, enough's enough, man, and
- 3:09Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it change. I'm gonna keep going, And
- 3:11Speaker 1: so I get it.
- 3:12Speaker 5: You Chase something that you believe you deserve until you
- 3:15Speaker 5: get it, and it doesn't matter what happens to you.
- 3:18Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how the tiresfit fired, doesn't matter how many.
- 3:20Speaker 5: People don't believe in you. Just go until you get it.
- 3:23Speaker 5: That's the point. Are you tired yet? Some of you
- 3:26Speaker 5: need to get tired. You need to be tired of
- 3:28Speaker 5: what's going on in your life. Get tired of your ass,
- 3:31Speaker 5: get tired of the actions that you're putting it at
- 3:33Speaker 5: every day. You gotta change man or nothing intentions.
- 3:35Speaker 1: I woke up one day and stop making excuses. I
- 3:39Speaker 1: woke up one.
- 3:40Speaker 2: Day and looked at the man, and the man was like, yo.
- 3:42Speaker 1: Bro, what are you doing? Wake up? Its show time,
- 3:45Speaker 1: let's go. I still grind. I love the grind.
- 3:49Speaker 11: If you're compediing on one of my businesses, I'm gonna
- 3:51Speaker 11: kick your ass because I'm gonna out grind you.
- 3:53Speaker 12: You have to be willing to work in places people
- 3:56Speaker 12: don't see.
- 3:57Speaker 8: While the other guy's sleeping, I'm working, the other guys eating,
- 4:01Speaker 8: I'm working.
- 4:02Speaker 13: There's a buff you're out there. Who wants what you have,
- 4:05Speaker 13: Who wants the position you are, who wants the job
- 4:08Speaker 13: you have? Who wants the wife that you have, what
- 4:10Speaker 13: the husband the or not they're hungry.
- 4:13Speaker 1: It was everything you can have. So make that a
- 4:15Speaker 1: motivation for you. This what are they gonna give you
- 4:18Speaker 1: what you deserve? This work will give you what you
- 4:20Speaker 1: work for.
- 4:21Speaker 7: I'll put that work in every single day and when
- 4:23Speaker 7: you wake up every single.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Day and you put that work at and yes, for
- 4:26Speaker 1: some of us it might be harder than others.
- 4:28Speaker 2: Man, whatever we do, what it is we gotta do,
- 4:30Speaker 2: especially when we're desperate.
- 4:32Speaker 14: When he's not loyal to you, he doesn't care about you,
- 4:35Speaker 14: when he doesn't care how sore you are, when he
- 4:37Speaker 14: doesn't care how much sleep you care, when he doesn't
- 4:39Speaker 14: care how hard you work. At times when he requires
- 4:42Speaker 14: all of you and then more and it promises you nothing.
- 4:45Speaker 1: It's a master.
- 4:46Speaker 14: Amind of creative fearing doubt in your mind. It calls
- 4:49Speaker 14: a setback after setback. So the question is about winning?
- 4:52Speaker 1: Are you willing to strang? When this is soun known
- 4:55Speaker 1: life chases.
- 4:56Speaker 14: This think called winning because the only thing that's guaranteed
- 4:58Speaker 14: in life if you don't chase it is get.
- 5:00Speaker 1: Up, go to clients, get up, do your homework. You
- 5:03Speaker 1: ain't up earlier than people you say later than people.
- 5:06Speaker 14: You stay humble, you work harder than anyone.
- 5:08Speaker 1: But no, it's there.
- 5:09Speaker 14: I guarantee someone it feels bad about yourself soon will
- 5:13Speaker 14: label you.
- 5:13Speaker 1: Guess he's filled difference, he's feel difference for.
- 5:16Speaker 5: You're label because people feel bad about themself.
- 5:19Speaker 14: You're letting exactly what you want it because every day
- 5:22Speaker 14: you've made choices.
- 5:23Speaker 11: In me, you're responsible incredible for every single choice you've made.
- 5:26Speaker 1: The choices And.
- 5:27Speaker 2: What I need to get to do for me is
- 5:29Speaker 2: why are you here? And then take only ship for
- 5:31Speaker 2: why you hear? We don't have forever. Let's not act
- 5:34Speaker 2: like it. We're all going to die, and so I
- 5:37Speaker 2: don't act like I'm gonna live forever.
- 5:38Speaker 1: So every opportunity I get, I murder it. Process driven.
- 5:42Speaker 1: I love it. I'm about that life. I get up
- 5:43Speaker 1: every morning.
- 5:44Speaker 2: At three o'clock when I want to get up, when
- 5:46Speaker 2: I don't, when I feel like it, and I don't
- 5:48Speaker 2: feel like wow because I'm process driven.
- 5:50Speaker 1: I'm not feeling driven. That's asking you a question, that's
- 5:55Speaker 1: asking you what could you be?
- 5:58Speaker 4: What could you be?
- 6:00Speaker 1: Could you be if you worked as hard as you could?
- 6:03Speaker 15: What could you be if you opposed real discipline in
- 6:06Speaker 15: your life. What could you be? I said, you crak
- 6:12Speaker 15: up the volume on that voice. Crak up the volume
- 6:15Speaker 15: on that question. Mass it out. So easy to put
- 6:20Speaker 15: things off, so easy to say you're going to do
- 6:24Speaker 15: it tomorrow. Well, I once you reprogram your brain and
- 6:28Speaker 15: tell yourself that tomorrow is not a viable option. Tomorrow
- 6:32Speaker 15: doesn't work. You do it today. You get it done today.
- 6:35Speaker 15: That's what you do. Too tired, too hungry to soar,
- 6:45Speaker 15: too hot, too cold, to whatever.
- 6:49Speaker 16: Stop rationalizing, Stop making excuse, Stop down yourself a.
- 6:54Speaker 1: Little water down assessments of where you really act, down
- 6:58Speaker 1: yourself to truth.
- 7:00Speaker 15: Are you making yourself better? Are you making yourself worse?
- 7:03Speaker 15: Are you moving forward or are you moving back? Are
- 7:06Speaker 15: you making progress or are you stagnating?
- 7:10Speaker 1: Make the decision yes or no. Are you going to
- 7:14Speaker 1: work out today? Yes or no? Are you going to win?
- 7:18Speaker 1: Yes or no?
- 7:20Speaker 15: Don't allow for any gray area in there. Get rid
- 7:24Speaker 15: of the debate, and you know the right decision to make.
- 7:28Speaker 1: So go and make it hard. Work works. And you
- 7:33Speaker 1: know what's verd about our culture? You know the world's lazy.
- 7:36Speaker 1: It's a good thing for you and me. Everybody will
- 7:39Speaker 1: talk about it everybody will post about it, but nobody
- 7:41Speaker 1: wants to roll their sleeves and just go get it.
- 7:44Speaker 1: And so what that means for me. I don't have
- 7:46Speaker 1: to be the most qualified. I don't have to be
- 7:48Speaker 1: the most talented.
- 7:49Speaker 17: All I got to begin to do is to apply myself,
- 7:52Speaker 17: and by default, I'm going to separate myself from the crowd.
- 7:55Speaker 7: If you set out and you say you're going to
- 7:57Speaker 7: do something, do yourself a favor.
- 7:59Speaker 17: And don't lie to yourself, because that is the worst
- 8:01Speaker 17: thing that an individual can ever do.
- 8:04Speaker 18: You think you lied to your payer, You think you
- 8:06Speaker 18: loud to your teacher, You think you loud to your coach.
- 8:08Speaker 1: At the end of the day, when you're.
- 8:09Speaker 18: Looking the merrit, you lie to you because that's your life.
- 8:12Speaker 1: You make your bed, you gotta lay in it.
- 8:14Speaker 19: You aren't getting it any closer to your five year
- 8:18Speaker 19: plan or your three year plan, or your seven year
- 8:20Speaker 19: planer or any planet you've got unless you get up
- 8:23Speaker 19: and start getting after it today.
- 8:29Speaker 20: But you want to know something else. You're not in
- 8:32Speaker 20: the graveyard yet. We get one life in every passing moment.
- 8:39Speaker 20: We would never get back again. The problem is you think.
- 8:45Speaker 4: You have time.
- 8:46Speaker 1: Stop wasting your life.
- 8:50Speaker 21: You gotta make a decision. What's the decision now? We're
- 8:53Speaker 21: at the moment the clock is ticket. Is the decision
- 8:56Speaker 21: to finally get serious? Is the decision to stop worrying
- 8:59Speaker 21: about what people think?
- 9:00Speaker 1: What's the decision right now? What is it?
- 9:03Speaker 21: Be honest with yourself. You're sitting right in front of you.
- 9:06Speaker 21: What's the decision? What have you been hesitating on? What
- 9:09Speaker 21: are you afraid of? Face it right now?
- 9:12Speaker 10: What do you need to decide? I don't know what
- 9:15Speaker 10: it is for you, but I know this. It's only
- 9:17Speaker 10: a thought if you don't take an action. The difference
- 9:20Speaker 10: between a thought and the decision is an action. You
- 9:22Speaker 10: have really decided if within this next hour you took
- 9:25Speaker 10: some step towards it, something something you do that you
- 9:29Speaker 10: follow up with the action to make it real. Because
- 9:32Speaker 10: you've been burying your dreams all your damn life, and guess.
- 9:36Speaker 1: What you keep thinking you're waiting for the right time.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. You keep burying those dreams.
- 9:41Speaker 1: The longer you wait, the harder they are to find.
- 9:44Speaker 10: It's time you dig those things out right now and
- 9:46Speaker 10: find them and put them right in front of you again,
- 9:49Speaker 10: and go chase him.
- 9:50Speaker 16: We are going to be aggressive, and that's gonna.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Be your default. Lower the good deals and you think
- 9:54Speaker 1: are gonna come for you in the world, We're not
- 9:57Speaker 1: gonna come knocking on your door. You've gotta go out
- 9:59Speaker 1: and may that will happen.
- 10:01Speaker 2: Don't give me this thing I have a difficult time
- 10:04Speaker 2: with at the time, and I don't have time for this.
- 10:06Speaker 1: You have time. You make the time.
- 10:09Speaker 2: I've even make all other sacrifices, whatever intends.
- 10:12Speaker 1: I need to focus on the way that I've never
- 10:15Speaker 1: focused before.
- 10:16Speaker 2: That you can do all the energy that's gonna be
- 10:19Speaker 2: required today.
- 10:20Speaker 1: You can put that energy in today. You can light
- 10:23Speaker 1: that fire today. You can get started. What you do
- 10:26Speaker 1: at night matters. What you do in the morning matters.
- 10:29Speaker 11: What you do on Saturday matters, what you do on
- 10:32Speaker 11: Sunday matters.
- 10:34Speaker 1: The success clock doesn't give up the fuck what day
- 10:37Speaker 1: it is. It's gonna run no matter what. So put
- 10:40Speaker 1: in the work. Put in the reps.
- 10:42Speaker 22: It might take ten reps, twenty reps, one hundred reps,
- 10:45Speaker 22: it might take a thousand.
- 10:46Speaker 1: Who cares, Just put in the rep. Put in the rep.
- 10:48Speaker 22: Put in the rep, and keep putting in the rep.
- 10:50Speaker 22: And if you keep putting the rest, put in some
- 10:52Speaker 22: more repue. They give me enough rep, Give me a rep,
- 10:54Speaker 22: Give me a rep, give me a rep. If you
- 10:56Speaker 22: put in the reps, and you put in enough reps,
- 10:59Speaker 22: and you make this, you will wake up one day
- 11:02Speaker 22: and that red will.
- 11:03Speaker 1: Turn into a reward. So shut up and put in
- 11:06Speaker 1: the red.
- 11:07Speaker 2: If you are intentional and deliberate every single day.
- 11:11Speaker 8: If you do a little, you're gonna wake up one
- 11:13Speaker 8: day and your dreams are gonna be a reality.
- 11:15Speaker 11: Accept that it's gonna take time, except that you're gonna
- 11:17Speaker 11: ask to do the work. Accept that it's going to
- 11:19Speaker 11: be hard, and don't step doing.
- 11:25Speaker 23: All your excuses are lies, little lies that you think
- 11:32Speaker 23: makes life easier, but they don't.
- 11:35Speaker 4: Now I know.
- 11:35Speaker 24: In the morning, got that blanket giving you a warm hug,
- 11:42Speaker 24: and you got the pillow which is whispering in your
- 11:46Speaker 24: ear telling you it's okay, telling you stay just a
- 11:51Speaker 24: little longer.
- 11:52Speaker 12: But don't listen to that. They're lying to you.
- 11:55Speaker 24: Listen to your alarm clock, which is telling you to
- 11:57Speaker 24: get up and get some Listen to the weight room,
- 12:01Speaker 24: the pull up bar, which is telling you to face reality.
- 12:05Speaker 24: And listen to your will, which is telling you to
- 12:09Speaker 24: get up and crush everything regardless.
- 12:13Speaker 1: Of how you feel. Don't negotiate with weakness.
- 12:16Speaker 4: Kill it.
- 12:17Speaker 1: See in life, you can go through life. You can
- 12:19Speaker 1: come up with reasons, or you can come.
- 12:21Speaker 25: Up with the results. You can come up with extillss
- 12:24Speaker 25: or you can come up with achievements. You can roll
- 12:27Speaker 25: through life blaming, or you can come up with solutions.
- 12:30Speaker 1: The choice is in your hand. Satisfaction or despair. We
- 12:34Speaker 1: can chills that you don't get better on a dag
- 12:37Speaker 1: ar couch.
- 12:38Speaker 15: We get better by coming out here and getting the
- 12:40Speaker 15: after every daggone day.
- 12:42Speaker 1: And now wild clock goes out at four or five
- 12:44Speaker 1: in the morning. Your mind says no, you say, this
- 12:47Speaker 1: is what we do.
- 12:47Speaker 26: Now.
- 12:48Speaker 1: My new norm is you can get every corn at
- 12:50Speaker 1: four o'clock and you suffer. That became my new life.
- 12:53Speaker 1: Most people want to get out of it. I said, normals,
- 12:55Speaker 1: this is your new life. This is who you are.
- 12:58Speaker 14: I don't care how small it is, I don't care
- 13:01Speaker 14: how minuscule the movement is.
- 13:04Speaker 15: But make movement, move forward and do that every single day,
- 13:09Speaker 15: no matter what.
- 13:10Speaker 1: You aren't getting any closer to.
- 13:12Speaker 19: Your five year plan or your three year planner, your
- 13:15Speaker 19: seven year plan, or.
- 13:15Speaker 15: Any planet you've got unless you get up and start
- 13:18Speaker 15: getting after it.
- 13:19Speaker 2: Today, you're trying to get to the next level when
- 13:22Speaker 2: you're just interested yourself.
- 13:24Speaker 1: Forget about it.
- 13:26Speaker 27: If you want to get to the next level, if
- 13:27Speaker 27: you want to eat it, if you want to live,
- 13:29Speaker 27: and if you want to be it, if you want
- 13:31Speaker 27: to do it, stop talking about it.
- 13:34Speaker 1: It can be full committed.
- 13:36Speaker 11: You can be the person who says this is going
- 13:38Speaker 11: to work no matter what happens, no matter how frustrated
- 13:42Speaker 11: I get, no matter how angry I get, no matter
- 13:45Speaker 11: what I'm doing this. If you're committing, you'll start today
- 13:50Speaker 11: to let go of your stories, your excuses, your reasons.
- 13:54Speaker 1: Why you can't and why you won't. You'll upgrade your knowledge,
- 13:57Speaker 1: You'll upgrade your skills.
- 13:58Speaker 25: You'll come in and every single day and figure out
- 14:01Speaker 25: how you had achieve those goals.
- 14:04Speaker 11: It's about executing, regardless of your emotions. These test days,
- 14:09Speaker 11: they test your fortitudes. You're endurance, you're disciplined, your grit,
- 14:14Speaker 11: your dedication, your determination, your mental toughness. At the very
- 14:19Speaker 11: moment when everything in you wants to do absolutely nothing
- 14:23Speaker 11: to you got to get the job done. Stop having dialogue.
- 14:26Speaker 1: With your emotions.
- 14:28Speaker 11: Start negotiating with your feelings and start to act. That's
- 14:32Speaker 11: where people separate themselves from the pack. That's where people
- 14:36Speaker 11: earn the right to success. They earn the money, they earn,
- 14:41Speaker 11: the life, they earn, the relationship they earn.
- 14:43Speaker 1: The body in those little moments.
- 14:46Speaker 11: Where they don't want to do what they need to do,
- 14:51Speaker 11: but move forward regardless of how they feel. That's what
- 14:55Speaker 11: champions know, Champions understand, and champions can thrive on.
- 15:04Speaker 12: What's stopping you? Are you tired?
- 15:07Speaker 1: Didn't god enough sleep, don't have enough energy, don't have
- 15:11Speaker 1: enough time?
- 15:11Speaker 12: Is that what's stopping you right now?
- 15:13Speaker 1: Don't have enough money?
- 15:15Speaker 12: Is that the thing?
- 15:16Speaker 1: Or is the thing that's stopping you?
- 15:18Speaker 28: You excuse to sound best for the person that's making
- 15:23Speaker 28: them up.
- 15:24Speaker 12: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get off the pity party.
- 15:27Speaker 28: Telling everybody you're sad and soft story, trying to get
- 15:31Speaker 28: people to show up to your pity partties and your
- 15:33Speaker 28: pity parade. If you ever see me in a Rose Royce,
- 15:37Speaker 28: a six or seven star hotel, living my life to
- 15:40Speaker 28: the fullest, don't get jealous of me.
- 15:42Speaker 12: Because I work my ass so off. Forget it.
- 15:44Speaker 28: Nobody handed me nothing. Wake your ass up. Awaken the
- 15:48Speaker 28: beast inside. It's game on, it's got season. It's time
- 15:53Speaker 28: for you to take advantage of the access and the
- 15:55Speaker 28: resource that you have in your country and your community.
- 15:59Speaker 28: Got a problem with your life, you got a problem
- 16:02Speaker 28: with your environment, Do something about it. If you want it,
- 16:06Speaker 28: go get it.
- 16:07Speaker 23: Recognize the excuses are not valid, they're conjured up, they're fabricated,
- 16:14Speaker 23: they're lies.
- 16:16Speaker 12: Then how do you stop the lives?
- 16:17Speaker 1: You stop the lies with the truth.
- 16:19Speaker 23: And the truth is you have time, You have the skill,
- 16:22Speaker 23: you have the knowledge and the support and the will
- 16:27Speaker 23: power and the discipline to get it done.
- 16:30Speaker 29: The fruit of everything good in life begins with a challenge.
- 16:34Speaker 29: Everything is uppill, that's worths wiolent, and it's not going
- 16:38Speaker 29: to come to you, and it's not going to fall
- 16:40Speaker 29: in your lap, and it's not going to be something that,
- 16:42Speaker 29: oh my god, it just was so simple.
- 16:45Speaker 12: It's always going to be difficult. If you want it,
- 16:49Speaker 12: you gotta go.
- 16:50Speaker 29: Get This is your chance, this is your shot, this
- 16:53Speaker 29: is your moment, this is your time, this is your place,
- 16:57Speaker 29: this is your opportunity.
- 16:58Speaker 2: My time, moment, Tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow, ain't no such thing
- 17:03Speaker 2: as tomorrow. We only got today it's Joe train. If
- 17:06Speaker 2: we wanted to have it, we joke what up and
- 17:08Speaker 2: make it happen.
- 17:09Speaker 1: If we wanted to have it, ride and ride.
- 17:12Speaker 12: You still got work to do.
- 17:13Speaker 28: Stay on that basketball court, stay on that football field.
- 17:17Speaker 12: It's grind. Scenes are coming.
- 17:19Speaker 1: Mental toughness is a lot different than motivation.
- 17:23Speaker 17: Because if I say, right now, everybody in here, everybody,
- 17:26Speaker 17: we're all.
- 17:27Speaker 1: Gonna run a half marathon in five days, all of us,
- 17:31Speaker 1: and we all going yeah, and we're getting fired up.
- 17:33Speaker 17: I said, yeah, we're gonna start tomorrow at five am,
- 17:35Speaker 17: and everyone's hugging each other.
- 17:37Speaker 1: Yes, five am, we leave. Five am comes.
- 17:41Speaker 30: It's dark, it's cold, our bed is comfortable. It's hard
- 17:46Speaker 30: to get motivated at five in the morning. And maybe
- 17:48Speaker 30: you do it one day, but again and again, you'd
- 17:51Speaker 30: go to it again and again. That is the X
- 17:54Speaker 30: Ray vision. It seemed through your broken bones.
- 17:57Speaker 17: To get to your goal, you got to train your
- 17:59Speaker 17: brain by doing things that make you uncomfortable consistently to
- 18:03Speaker 17: build this mindset that when things get hard, which they
- 18:06Speaker 17: will be, we don't shy away, we don't quit.
- 18:09Speaker 1: We attack. I'm singing through all those walls. I'm getting
- 18:14Speaker 1: to where I want to go.
- 18:15Speaker 12: You see, I've learned.
- 18:16Speaker 7: Everybody on the face of this planet they want something.
- 18:19Speaker 1: Everybody it comes into this world they've bought something.
- 18:21Speaker 7: Everybody wants greatness, everybody wants excellence.
- 18:25Speaker 1: The question is what are you wanting to go through
- 18:27Speaker 1: in order to get it?
- 18:28Speaker 7: What type of dedication, what type of commitment, what type
- 18:31Speaker 7: of sacrifice.
- 18:32Speaker 31: I tell people, if this is not your vision, if
- 18:35Speaker 31: you don't see this as part of your real contribution it, it
- 18:38Speaker 31: doesn't make it fully live and express and it's your
- 18:40Speaker 31: real goals, bail quit sooner than later. But if you
- 18:44Speaker 31: know it's right for you, then resilience is everything. And
- 18:47Speaker 31: the ability to be resilient toward your dreams that keep
- 18:50Speaker 31: marching on wes struggle at the trial, the chaos, the frustration,
- 18:54Speaker 31: the hurt, the anger, the disappointment, the shame, the regret,
- 18:58Speaker 31: the embarrassment. When all that is there and you keep
- 19:00Speaker 31: marching on, you know you'll be.
- 19:02Speaker 1: A successful person.
- 19:04Speaker 31: It's the ability to be optimistic enough to know this
- 19:07Speaker 31: too shall pass, this time shall change.
- 19:11Speaker 1: I will find a way.
- 19:13Speaker 31: I will honor my truth and keep pursuing my dreams.
- 19:18Speaker 1: Thick and thin, stormer night.
- 19:20Speaker 31: I will maintain.
- 19:22Speaker 2: My march mental toughness says that not only do I
- 19:27Speaker 2: climb that dog old mountain, I enjoy climbing the mountain.
- 19:30Speaker 1: I'm going to kick out the mouth. I'm gonna kick
- 19:33Speaker 1: out the ways.
- 19:33Speaker 2: I'm going to kick out of going up against the
- 19:35Speaker 2: number one team.
- 19:36Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick out of the tea. I'm gonna kick
- 19:38Speaker 1: out of the ground. I'm going to kick out of it.
- 19:41Speaker 11: I hope that you understand that every single person that
- 19:44Speaker 11: you look at, every single person that you admire, every
- 19:47Speaker 11: single person that you aspire to be like, is literally
- 19:52Speaker 11: just a regular human being like you that has worked
- 19:55Speaker 11: their mother fucking ash off.
- 19:56Speaker 1: Now it's gonna be hard.
- 19:58Speaker 11: Understanding that it's gonna be very hard, But you ain't
- 20:00Speaker 11: got nothing else to do, because let me tell you
- 20:02Speaker 11: something about being not successful.
- 20:03Speaker 1: Being not successful that's really hard.
- 20:06Speaker 8: So you might as well apply yourself to something that
- 20:08Speaker 8: has a benefit.
- 20:09Speaker 2: And what some of you doing wrong. You play the game,
- 20:11Speaker 2: but you not to game. You play football, but you're
- 20:14Speaker 2: not football. You've got to go all in.
- 20:20Speaker 12: Some of you are feeling like giving up right now.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Don't do it. Don't don't just don't do it. We
- 20:29Speaker 1: need you here.
- 20:31Speaker 32: The emotions are simply emotions, which means it can't last.
- 20:36Speaker 32: So no matter what you're feeling, that emotion will not stay.
- 20:41Speaker 32: So never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion.
- 20:46Speaker 1: Don't believe everything you think. You see.
- 20:48Speaker 32: We naturally feel that if we think something, it's got
- 20:51Speaker 32: to be true because it comes from within us. But
- 20:53Speaker 32: just because you think something doesn't make it true.
- 20:57Speaker 20: And it's not the end until you've given up, and
- 21:00Speaker 20: just the fact that you're here should persuade you there's
- 21:04Speaker 20: still hope.
- 21:05Speaker 12: Don't you give up on your dream.
- 21:08Speaker 26: It may take you twice as long, you may have
- 21:11Speaker 26: to take courses and classes, you might not read. It's fast,
- 21:14Speaker 26: you might not move, it's quick, you might not have
- 21:17Speaker 26: as much, but don't you quit. It takes courage to
- 21:21Speaker 26: be exceptional. It takes courage to be wise. It takes
- 21:25Speaker 26: courage to be rich. It takes courage to be educated.
- 21:30Speaker 26: It takes courage to be knowledgeable, because the moment you
- 21:33Speaker 26: do but you don't talk like, oh you got forgot where.
- 21:35Speaker 1: You came from, look at you talk to It takes courage.
- 21:40Speaker 26: And I'm just wondering, in this weak water down media
- 21:43Speaker 26: over society that we live in today, in this reality
- 21:47Speaker 26: TV world we live in today, I'm wondering if there's
- 21:50Speaker 26: anybody left that's got the courage to say, after all
- 21:54Speaker 26: I've been through, and all my ancestors have been true,
- 21:57Speaker 26: and all my parents have been through, I didn't come
- 22:00Speaker 26: to all of that just to fity and with normalcy,
- 22:04Speaker 26: have the courage to go after my dream.
- 22:07Speaker 1: Until you have the courage.
- 22:10Speaker 7: Everybody can stand up and do good when everything is
- 22:12Speaker 7: all good. Everybody can smile when the sunshine. Everybody can
- 22:15Speaker 7: do right when everything is going right.
- 22:17Speaker 1: Everybody can do that, but.
- 22:18Speaker 7: Everybody can't face opposition, adversity and challenges and say I've
- 22:22Speaker 7: been waiting.
- 22:22Speaker 1: On you to come. I'm embrace you, and I'm gonna.
- 22:24Speaker 7: Figure out a way to use you, because you would
- 22:25Speaker 7: never make me a person.
- 22:26Speaker 1: That people don't recognize before.
- 22:28Speaker 14: The adversity has made it from my mother for the
- 22:30Speaker 14: battle even happen.
- 22:31Speaker 1: Because I know a brother, I know any quay.
- 22:34Speaker 26: I would rather aim for the stars and not get
- 22:37Speaker 26: them than to not aim at all. I would rather
- 22:41Speaker 26: go after it and not get it, then not go
- 22:43Speaker 26: after it at all. I'd rather try and sail than
- 22:47Speaker 26: not try at all. I don't want to live with
- 22:50Speaker 26: the idea wonder what water have happened had I done
- 22:53Speaker 26: more with my life.
- 22:55Speaker 1: I'm gonna go for it to come, hell or hot water.
- 23:00Speaker 1: Going after my desk today.
- 23:02Speaker 2: I'm going to make a commitment and no matter what happens,
- 23:05Speaker 2: I'm going to do whatever it takes to get it done.
- 23:07Speaker 1: That's the whill. That's the most important part.
- 23:10Speaker 7: Like you're seen people like in the midst of opposition,
- 23:12Speaker 7: They're like.
- 23:12Speaker 1: That's why I'll played a wain. I've been waiting on
- 23:14Speaker 1: the opposition where you wit. This is why I signed
- 23:17Speaker 1: up to do it. I was waiting on it so
- 23:18Speaker 1: I can see what I don't made out up. I
- 23:20Speaker 1: just need you to keep moving. I need you to
- 23:22Speaker 1: make up in your mind that the only way you
- 23:24Speaker 1: can lose is if you quit. I just need you
- 23:26Speaker 1: to keep going.
- 23:27Speaker 2: But if you don't have no will to get you
- 23:29Speaker 2: all the stuff that you want to get through to
- 23:30Speaker 2: get you the other side, the whell you are strong
- 23:33Speaker 2: enough to cry, get me mountain. You are strong enough
- 23:36Speaker 2: to get through any tests. You have a will that
- 23:40Speaker 2: was given to you at birth.
- 23:41Speaker 33: I need you to exercise it. If you can fly, run,
- 23:45Speaker 33: if you can't run. Walk If you can walk, crawl,
- 23:49Speaker 33: but by all means keep moving.
- 23:53Speaker 25: It's hard living your dream. It's hard changing your life.
- 23:59Speaker 25: Once you've been not doubt by life, it's hard.
- 24:02Speaker 1: To pour yourself together and go back again. You're gonna
- 24:06Speaker 1: make a lot of mistakes. You're gonna have a lot
- 24:07Speaker 1: of failures. You're gonna have a lot of struggles.
- 24:09Speaker 25: You're gonna feel dumb and ask questions and don't know
- 24:12Speaker 25: what to do or where to go.
- 24:13Speaker 1: You gotta know why.
- 24:14Speaker 25: You're out here, because you're gonna get your butt kick
- 24:18Speaker 25: when the storms of life come, and they're going to
- 24:20Speaker 25: come when life pounds on you, and that's gonna happen,
- 24:23Speaker 25: when it catches you on the blind side and drop
- 24:25Speaker 25: you to your knees. And that's gonna happen. When your
- 24:28Speaker 25: plans don't work out, and that's gonna happen, when you
- 24:30Speaker 25: start running out of money, and that's gonna happen. When
- 24:32Speaker 25: you want to give out, and that's gonna happen. Your
- 24:35Speaker 25: reasons will be your rod and staff to comfort you.
- 24:38Speaker 25: Your reasons will be your bridge over troubled waters.
- 24:41Speaker 1: But you gotta know why you're there, because your reasons
- 24:43Speaker 1: when life dropped you to your knees. Your reasons will.
- 24:46Speaker 25: Help you get back up when times I want to
- 24:48Speaker 25: give up?
- 24:48Speaker 1: Why you hear less? Because I want to make m
- 24:50Speaker 1: Humba proud of me?
- 24:51Speaker 25: Why you hear less? I promise my kids I'm gonna
- 24:54Speaker 25: do for them. I'm gonna give them a better life.
- 24:55Speaker 25: I want to leave them a legacy. I'm not gonna
- 24:57Speaker 25: give up.
- 24:57Speaker 1: Go back, go back, fool, go back.
- 25:00Speaker 25: No, No, I refuse to give up on my dream,
- 25:03Speaker 25: and I'm not gonna let anything stop me. Sometimes you
- 25:06Speaker 25: have to back up and go within and pray and
- 25:09Speaker 25: meditate and recharge your batteries, go away, clean your head,
- 25:13Speaker 25: and then come back and look at it from.
- 25:14Speaker 1: A different vantage point.
- 25:16Speaker 25: Don't operate while you are under the stale or the
- 25:18Speaker 25: effect of.
- 25:19Speaker 1: What's going on.
- 25:20Speaker 25: See, we can't control the thoughts that come in our minds,
- 25:23Speaker 25: but we can control the thoughts that we dwell on.
- 25:25Speaker 25: So your thoughts have magnetism, and the most challenging thing
- 25:29Speaker 25: is to discipline your thinking the whole, the vision of
- 25:31Speaker 25: what it is that you want. Don't allow your emotions
- 25:34Speaker 25: to control you. We are emotional. But when you want
- 25:37Speaker 25: to begin to discipline your emotion. If you don't discipline
- 25:40Speaker 25: and contain your emotions, they will use you.
- 25:43Speaker 11: This is a test, This is a day I'm gonna
- 25:45Speaker 11: find out if my goals really are my goals. I'm
- 25:49Speaker 11: talking about looking at yourself in the mirror, look at
- 25:51Speaker 11: yourself in the eye, and saying, I'm gonna dominate today.
- 25:54Speaker 1: Better than any other day.
- 25:55Speaker 2: You won't get up, you won't get dressed, You're won't
- 25:58Speaker 2: get out, and you're gonna do what you and call
- 26:00Speaker 2: to do. You're gonna be what you called me, and
- 26:02Speaker 2: you're gonna prove that everybody that tried to break you,
- 26:05Speaker 2: everybody that's trying to stop you, everybody that tried.
- 26:08Speaker 1: To kill your dream, You're gonna prove all of them wrong.
- 26:10Speaker 1: I'm show them all at wrong because I'm gonna tap if.
- 26:13Speaker 2: I'm gonna prove I'm the greatest, I'm improven to you,
- 26:16Speaker 2: I'm the greatest.
- 26:16Speaker 1: I'm improved to the world from the greatest that'll never be.
- 26:19Speaker 11: You want to like meet or Character is defined by
- 26:21Speaker 11: the choice we made for a moment to moment basis.
- 26:24Speaker 1: It all adds up to the wind. You might not
- 26:26Speaker 1: win it today for your efforts.
- 26:27Speaker 19: Un today, even the failure felt today all measures and
- 26:31Speaker 19: create the moment later and if you got knock down,
- 26:33Speaker 19: found if this recorded getting I go try that same endeavor,
- 26:36Speaker 19: then you find yourself victorious and endeavor.
- 26:37Speaker 1: That's the sweetest stretch of your gold. That feels a
- 26:39Speaker 1: confidence that's unbreakable. And you've come too far. Don't become
- 26:43Speaker 1: this far. So you fight if you have to, You
- 26:46Speaker 1: call if you have.
- 26:48Speaker 2: To, you scrapped if you have to, you do whatever
- 26:51Speaker 2: replants because on.
- 26:52Speaker 1: The other side of that bag is your promise. So
- 26:56Speaker 1: you get through. You'll get through so you can get
- 26:59Speaker 1: your reward.
- 27:01Speaker 3: We are taking apart, slowly, convinced to take an easier path,
- 27:08Speaker 3: enticed by comfort. Most of us aren't defeated in one
- 27:12Speaker 3: decisive battle. We are defeated one tiny, seemingly insignificant surrender
- 27:19Speaker 3: at a time that chips away.
- 27:21Speaker 4: At who we should really be. It isn't that you
- 27:24Speaker 4: wake up one day and decide that's.
- 27:26Speaker 1: It, I'm going to be weak.
- 27:28Speaker 4: No, you have to be on guard.
- 27:32Speaker 1: You have to hold the line.
- 27:33Speaker 23: On the seemingly insignificant little things, things that shouldn't.
- 27:38Speaker 4: Matter, but things that do.
- 27:42Speaker 34: It's not about winning, it's the battle itself.
- 27:47Speaker 1: It's the struggle. It's the daily test.
- 27:51Speaker 4: That's what life's about. I want to struggle.
- 27:54Speaker 34: I want to grind and claw and scratch, and I
- 27:57Speaker 34: want to dig in and I want to push, and
- 28:00Speaker 34: I don't want to end.
- 28:02Speaker 4: And I don't want to rest, but I don't want
- 28:04Speaker 4: to coast and then don't.
- 28:05Speaker 35: Want to reach a point in my life where I
- 28:07Speaker 35: say I've done enough.
- 28:10Speaker 1: No, everyone listening to this, here's the deal.
- 28:14Speaker 23: No complacency, no complacency, no backing off, no slack whatsoever.
- 28:24Speaker 7: Fight the standard is the standard. We don't lower it.
- 28:29Speaker 7: We compete, we fight. We live to fight another day.
- 28:32Speaker 7: We don't retreat against nobody that ain't talent. That's essence,
- 28:38Speaker 7: that's core. That's who I am as a person. That's
- 28:41Speaker 7: how I get down, that's how I'm coming, that's what
- 28:44Speaker 7: that is. And every time you get ready to stop,
- 28:47Speaker 7: every time you get ready to quit, that's you.
- 28:49Speaker 1: As a man.
- 28:50Speaker 7: But when you press forward in the midst of the opposition,
- 28:53Speaker 7: in the midst of adversity, you're building a mentality that's supposed.
- 28:56Speaker 1: To stay in your twenty thirty, forty fifty years left.
- 28:58Speaker 25: Because you want some different kind of results in your life.
- 29:03Speaker 1: You've got to be willing to be unreasonable.
- 29:06Speaker 25: If you want unreasonable results in your life, you've got
- 29:09Speaker 25: to be willing to be unreasonable.
- 29:11Speaker 1: Part of being.
- 29:12Speaker 25: Unreasonable you don't judge according to appearances.
- 29:14Speaker 1: Part of being unreasonable, you can see it because you
- 29:18Speaker 1: believe it. That's part of being unreasonable.
- 29:21Speaker 25: Part of being unreasonable you must have the thingif to
- 29:24Speaker 25: call for those things that do not as though they were.
- 29:27Speaker 1: That's part of being unreasonable. And so I started going
- 29:31Speaker 1: to work earlier.
- 29:32Speaker 36: I started being the last one to lead there.
- 29:35Speaker 25: I started working harder than anybody else.
- 29:38Speaker 1: The other guys couldn't out. Why would you work so
- 29:40Speaker 1: hard less, I said, I'm not working for them. I've
- 29:43Speaker 1: been cheating myself and my family.
- 29:45Speaker 37: Wherever you are, whatever you're doing, doing with everything that
- 29:48Speaker 37: you have, develop the habit of giving more than what
- 29:52Speaker 37: you're paid for. Develop the habit of setting standards that
- 29:55Speaker 37: others will be measured by. Someone said, do not go
- 29:58Speaker 37: where the path may lead, but go where there's no.
- 30:00Speaker 1: Path and leave betrayal.
- 30:07Speaker 38: Success is not measured on the days when the sun shines.
- 30:12Speaker 38: Success is measured on the dark, stormy, cloudy days. And
- 30:17Speaker 38: if you can't absorb failure, you're never going to meet success.
- 30:23Speaker 1: There's one thing about being in dark places. If you
- 30:27Speaker 1: have the courage to stay in there.
- 30:29Speaker 6: Long enough, your eyes will start to adjust to the darkness.
- 30:36Speaker 1: Your body and mind will always.
- 30:38Speaker 13: Adjust to more suffering, some more pain.
- 30:42Speaker 1: If you want to push harder, know this, your mind
- 30:46Speaker 1: quits way before your body does.
- 30:48Speaker 13: So you got to be willing to go way into
- 30:50Speaker 13: that darkness and find more yourself.
- 30:56Speaker 39: Failure is not final, it's formative. It's part of the process.
- 31:01Speaker 39: It's part of the journey through. Failure matters as much
- 31:04Speaker 39: as your success. How do you think you're gonna grow?
- 31:06Speaker 39: You'll never fail.
- 31:07Speaker 1: Every one of my successes.
- 31:10Speaker 9: Is stacked on top of failures.
- 31:12Speaker 39: Failure is just another peg in the ladder for.
- 31:14Speaker 1: Me to go higher. And some of you in this
- 31:16Speaker 1: room today you need to change your mind because.
- 31:18Speaker 9: Some of you are thinking about giving up because you're
- 31:20Speaker 9: in a season of failure.
- 31:21Speaker 1: But just because you failed.
- 31:23Speaker 31: Doesn't mean that God doesn't have a bright future.
- 31:25Speaker 1: It's for you. It is always too soon to quit.
- 31:29Speaker 40: Don't complain, don't murmur, don't talk negative.
- 31:32Speaker 1: Average people talk problem. The great talk solution.
- 31:36Speaker 18: My greatest moments didn't come for my greatest moments. My
- 31:40Speaker 18: greatest moments came for my greatest defeats because it was
- 31:43Speaker 18: doing my defeat that I had to find a way.
- 31:46Speaker 1: To get back up.
- 31:48Speaker 2: I love the sun, but things don't grow because of
- 31:51Speaker 2: the sun. You have to have some rain, and you've
- 31:54Speaker 2: gotta stop looking at rain.
- 31:56Speaker 1: In your life. It is something bad. The laying don't
- 31:59Speaker 1: mean deny.
- 32:00Speaker 2: Delay, just mean you're gonna have to wait a minute.
- 32:03Speaker 2: When you unsuccessful are in delay, they get nervous, they
- 32:06Speaker 2: get worried, they give up, they quit, they stop, they
- 32:10Speaker 2: surrender because they don't see what they think they should see.
- 32:12Speaker 1: But when the successful are in delay, we work while
- 32:16Speaker 1: we wait.
- 32:17Speaker 2: We work, we work, we ride in between time. We
- 32:21Speaker 2: don't give up. We don't surrender, we don't quit. We
- 32:24Speaker 2: see differently. Our perspective and different. And because our perspective
- 32:28Speaker 2: is different, our our culs.
- 32:29Speaker 1: Are different, our rewards are different.
- 32:31Speaker 2: I feel my way through every situation, every trial, every trivial.
- 32:35Speaker 40: I will my way through it. I don't care if
- 32:38Speaker 40: it's canceller, I will my way through it. I don't
- 32:40Speaker 40: care if it's your mess, I will my way through it.
- 32:42Speaker 40: I don't care if I'm struggling at school. What I'm
- 32:44Speaker 40: trying to get a degree? I will my way through it.
- 32:46Speaker 40: I don't care if you fail the boards, go again.
- 32:49Speaker 40: I don't care if you fail the law example, go again.
- 32:51Speaker 40: Will your way through it. Some things you can steal
- 32:54Speaker 40: yourself through. Some stuff you gotta will your way through.
- 32:59Speaker 1: No last on words.
- 33:01Speaker 41: And when you make up your mind to deal with
- 33:03Speaker 41: pain because you know what it feels like.
- 33:05Speaker 1: Man ain't a divlent health to stop what you're trying
- 33:08Speaker 1: to do. There's one side.
- 33:10Speaker 41: Of pain, that's the suffering and the discomfort side of pain.
- 33:13Speaker 1: But then there's another side of pain that's called efforts.
- 33:18Speaker 1: It's called chlorine.
- 33:20Speaker 41: It's called if you can find a way to push
- 33:22Speaker 41: stuugh pain. There's something preyed on the other side of it,
- 33:26Speaker 41: and if you.
- 33:27Speaker 8: Never tap into it, it's because the first time you felt.
- 33:30Speaker 1: That, you back off, stop tripping.
- 33:32Speaker 2: When it get dark and you run it, you're running
- 33:34Speaker 2: from your success.
- 33:36Speaker 1: Why would you do something for ten years then quick?
- 33:39Speaker 1: If you was gonna quit, you should have quit.
- 33:40Speaker 2: When you put your first brand in it, you're like
- 33:44Speaker 2: nine eight hundred hours deep into it.
- 33:47Speaker 1: It only takes ten thousand hours.
- 33:49Speaker 2: So it's not the darkest moment that's the problem. You
- 33:52Speaker 2: the problem, and your perspective is the problem.
- 33:55Speaker 1: Every time you come up to a challenge, you quit,
- 33:56Speaker 1: So right did you get in? Every single thing? I
- 33:59Speaker 1: going to remember I was called with and I draw
- 34:01Speaker 1: from it. Every single time I'm going through pay, I
- 34:05Speaker 1: remember that I've gone through pay since I was a kid.
- 34:07Speaker 1: I draw from it.
- 34:08Speaker 18: Recycle your pain, get something from it.
- 34:11Speaker 1: You're already in pain, use it, do something with it.
- 34:14Speaker 2: A lot with the taking to the next lef a
- 34:16Speaker 2: lot your pain to push you to.
- 34:17Speaker 25: Greatness except where you are and the responsibility that you're
- 34:22Speaker 25: going to take yourself where you want to go.
- 34:24Speaker 36: We have two primary choices in life.
- 34:26Speaker 1: We can either accept conditions as.
- 34:28Speaker 25: They exist, or we can take the responsibility to change them.
- 34:32Speaker 42: The difference between the winners in life and the people
- 34:35Speaker 42: that constantly live their lives on the lowest level is
- 34:39Speaker 42: that the winners handle problems better. They look at the
- 34:42Speaker 42: situation and they say what do I need to do?
- 34:45Speaker 42: Instead of why me? And they look to fix the
- 34:47Speaker 42: problem so that the next time around they're prepared for it.
- 34:51Speaker 42: If you want to be a real winner in life,
- 34:53Speaker 42: don't try and avoid problems, get really masterful at handling them.
- 34:57Speaker 25: See, a lot of people want to exhibit themselves from
- 35:00Speaker 25: taking responsibility.
- 35:02Speaker 1: All they want to do is talk about the problem.
- 35:03Speaker 25: Every time you see them, they'll tell you their story
- 35:06Speaker 25: over and over and over and over again. No, no,
- 35:09Speaker 25: you want to take responsibility for your life. I got
- 35:12Speaker 25: to me here, I can get me out of this,
- 35:14Speaker 25: and I'm getting out.
- 35:15Speaker 1: You can decide that it's a bunch of change, that you're.
- 35:17Speaker 26: Not going to be a whin.
- 35:18Speaker 11: I'm not going to be a volunteer victim.
- 35:21Speaker 1: You must have faith.
- 35:23Speaker 27: You must have the faith, the call for those things
- 35:26Speaker 27: that be not as though they were to synthe and
- 35:29Speaker 27: the courage to make it through the enduring power, the
- 35:33Speaker 27: ability to persevere to handle it.
- 35:35Speaker 1: It will add you the inner power.
- 35:38Speaker 27: To overcome, to come back again.
- 35:40Speaker 1: So in order to begin to prepare for the storm,
- 35:43Speaker 1: you've got to go within and start working on yourself.
- 35:46Speaker 36: You've got to get grounded. You've got to train your
- 35:48Speaker 36: mind to serve you. Meditation is one of the ways
- 35:52Speaker 36: in which you can do that. Reading is one of
- 35:54Speaker 36: the ways that you can do that. Listening to music
- 35:57Speaker 36: is one of the ways that you can do that
- 35:59Speaker 36: exercises one of the ways in which you can do that.
- 36:01Speaker 36: Things that you can do to steal your mind, to
- 36:04Speaker 36: clear your thoughts, so you can think I had.
- 36:07Speaker 1: A program for myself.
- 36:08Speaker 25: I have books that I read that inspire me, tapes
- 36:11Speaker 25: that I listen to that find me out. Because you're
- 36:13Speaker 25: gonna have sometimes low moments when you won't want to
- 36:16Speaker 25: get out of bed.
- 36:17Speaker 1: I just want to stay there.
- 36:18Speaker 25: The times you won't want to come out the house,
- 36:20Speaker 25: the times you'll be feeling better.
- 36:22Speaker 1: Don't know why I was wrong, I don't know. Just
- 36:24Speaker 1: leave me long.
- 36:26Speaker 25: The first tendency is to panic. When I said your
- 36:29Speaker 25: mother has breast catching, I panicked.
- 36:31Speaker 1: The needy I start grieving and cried. I'm telling them across,
- 36:35Speaker 1: Oh God, I can't handle this. I never thought this
- 36:39Speaker 1: day would come. I can't deal with the same. See
- 36:42Speaker 1: what the psalm does, ladies and gentlemen.
- 36:44Speaker 25: It empowers you. It strengthens you when you go through
- 36:48Speaker 25: a storm. When you come through that kind of experience
- 36:51Speaker 25: and able to reclaim your life, you come back with
- 36:54Speaker 25: a certain kind of power and you will never be
- 36:57Speaker 25: the same again after that experience.
- 36:59Speaker 1: Yes, sir, different things when you go through those says and.
- 37:02Speaker 25: You come up out of those things, you come up
- 37:04Speaker 25: a different kind of person, different stare, different hour, different energy.
- 37:08Speaker 1: But Bill's art.
- 37:10Speaker 25: Don't ever say when you're going through some rough time,
- 37:12Speaker 25: I'm going through a really bad, tragic time.
- 37:15Speaker 11: No, you should take pride in want to quit and
- 37:19Speaker 11: not quitting. Hey, ship's really hard right now, dude, you're
- 37:23Speaker 11: really struggling right now. But here's the thing. Right now
- 37:26Speaker 11: is when everybody else quits. Right now is when everybody
- 37:29Speaker 11: else is going to fall behind. Right now is when
- 37:31Speaker 11: everybody else decides to do something that's easier or faster
- 37:35Speaker 11: or not as hard.
- 37:37Speaker 1: And that's what gets you ahead.
- 37:38Speaker 11: That's what gets you to have pride because those struggles,
- 37:41Speaker 11: those feelings, those things that are difficult, they are there
- 37:45Speaker 11: to test you. This pain, this conflict, this tragedy, this tribulation.
- 37:49Speaker 1: Is the test.
- 37:50Speaker 11: Don't fail it, stay strong, don't ever quit. Struggle is
- 37:54Speaker 11: a privilege. Hardship is a privilege because those struggles, those hardships,
- 38:00Speaker 11: those things that you face will turn you into an
- 38:03Speaker 11: unstoppable motherfucking machine.
- 38:05Speaker 1: So if you want to create super.
- 38:07Speaker 11: High confidence, super high self esteem, super high momentum, that
- 38:12Speaker 11: feeling I'm super powerful I'm invincible. I'm the fucking man,
- 38:16Speaker 11: or I'm the fucking woman. You have to take pride
- 38:20Speaker 11: and not quitting when other people are going to quit.
- 38:23Speaker 11: You have to take pride in executing your job to
- 38:26Speaker 11: the very best of your ability when everything around you
- 38:30Speaker 11: is going wrong.
- 38:31Speaker 1: That's what gets you out of the store. You can't
- 38:34Speaker 1: just focus on this moment.
- 38:35Speaker 11: You've got to hold the vision whole, the vision of
- 38:37Speaker 11: things improved. Hold the vision of your health coming back.
- 38:41Speaker 11: Hold the vision of being financially independent and debt free.
- 38:45Speaker 11: Hold the vision of your relationships working out. Hold the
- 38:48Speaker 11: vision of everything being all right.
- 38:52Speaker 8: Because what you're going to discover as you're going towards
- 38:55Speaker 8: your dream, as you're going towards your goal, there's going
- 38:57Speaker 8: to be so many people that come up against you,
- 39:00Speaker 8: the obstacles, so many trials, so many tribulations. When people
- 39:03Speaker 8: ask me ET like for real careal E, I know
- 39:06Speaker 8: you can give me twenty things that you've.
- 39:07Speaker 2: Done to help yourself to become successful, but et I
- 39:11Speaker 2: just need like one or two. Can you give me
- 39:13Speaker 2: one or two? And one of the things I tell
- 39:15Speaker 2: people is I outlasted to pay. I outlasted to pay
- 39:20Speaker 2: when I was sleeping in those abandoned buildings, I kept
- 39:23Speaker 2: telling myself, one day, you'll be a homeowner. Every time
- 39:27Speaker 2: I walked into that abandoned building, I told myself that
- 39:30Speaker 2: this might be your card circumstances, but this will not
- 39:34Speaker 2: be how the story ends.
- 39:37Speaker 1: All you have to do et is to survive today.
- 39:41Speaker 1: Survive today.
- 39:42Speaker 2: I knew that I would not be a high school
- 39:44Speaker 2: dropout for the rest.
- 39:46Speaker 43: Of my life.
- 39:46Speaker 1: I knew I got to get through this one day.
- 39:48Speaker 2: And so every single day when I wake up homeless
- 39:51Speaker 2: one day, every single day, when I woke up in
- 39:55Speaker 2: that abandoned building, one day, one day is going to
- 39:59Speaker 2: be ET's day.
- 40:00Speaker 1: But that day can't come if I give up today.
- 40:03Speaker 1: So every single day.
- 40:04Speaker 2: When I woke come, I kept telling myself today might
- 40:08Speaker 2: not be today, but soon it will be my day, and.
- 40:11Speaker 8: I will recycle my pain. What will you do with
- 40:15Speaker 8: your pain? Will you let it break you?
- 40:18Speaker 1: Or will you let it redifine you, I will not.
- 40:21Speaker 44: Go count exact way. I choose to fight first. I
- 40:28Speaker 44: choose to rise, not hard. I choose to live not die.
- 40:33Speaker 6: You keep standing, no matter how rough the see, you
- 40:36Speaker 6: keep standing.
- 40:37Speaker 1: No no what you don't give up.
- 40:40Speaker 12: You keep standing.
- 40:42Speaker 2: This is not time to quit. We might be discouraged,
- 40:44Speaker 2: but we not defeat it. This is not our time
- 40:47Speaker 2: to give up. We thrive and the disappointment. We thrive
- 40:51Speaker 2: under problems. We thrive undistress. That's what we do. We
- 40:56Speaker 2: are acquainted with sorrow. We are acquainted with grief. Obie Ross,
- 41:01Speaker 2: you're going to have some hard times. They're gonna be difficulties, Eric,
- 41:05Speaker 2: things are not going away on playing.
- 41:07Speaker 1: If success was easy, everybody would do it. When you
- 41:11Speaker 1: get knocked down, and you're gonna get knocked down.
- 41:12Speaker 14: When you run into some roadblocks and you're going to run.
- 41:14Speaker 1: Into them, when you have some setbacks, but you.
- 41:17Speaker 25: Can always be able to bring yourself back in knowing
- 41:21Speaker 25: if someone has done.
- 41:22Speaker 1: It, it's possible that I can do it.
- 41:25Speaker 27: It's necessary laison gonnimen, when you're working.
- 41:28Speaker 25: On your dream, that you learn how to handle rejection,
- 41:31Speaker 25: that you become empowered by it, that don't let.
- 41:34Speaker 1: It stuff you. Most people when the hair no are
- 41:37Speaker 1: they're rejected. It takes that puddle away and they become discouraged.
- 41:42Speaker 45: They lose sisterity, they lose their energy, they stop No. No,
- 41:46Speaker 45: I can tell you, ladies and gentlemen, it's necessary to
- 41:49Speaker 45: face a lot of rejection, a lot of nos.
- 41:51Speaker 1: I don't have any college training, I don't have any credentials.
- 41:54Speaker 45: It was necessary that I face a lot of rejection,
- 41:58Speaker 45: a lot of laughter, a lot of nos, in order
- 42:01Speaker 45: to get here.
- 42:01Speaker 1: It was necessary then I face that.
- 42:04Speaker 25: And I'm saying to you when you're facing those rejections
- 42:07Speaker 25: day in and.
- 42:07Speaker 45: Day, I don't say I had a bad day to day,
- 42:10Speaker 45: say I had a character building day.
- 42:16Speaker 46: And there are people out there, and there are things
- 42:19Speaker 46: out there that are trying to take you down. Things
- 42:23Speaker 46: are going to go wrong, and when things go wrong,
- 42:26Speaker 46: it's pretty easy just to say, you know what, I'm
- 42:28Speaker 46: gonna stand down or I'm gonna give up. And you
- 42:30Speaker 46: can do that, but I think no, I think no.
- 42:36Speaker 3: I think keep fighting, and you keep fighting, and you
- 42:40Speaker 3: keep fighting, and you keep fighting no matter what, never
- 42:46Speaker 3: never quit.
- 42:48Speaker 4: And if you feel like your life isn't a.
- 42:50Speaker 16: Place where you can't get any lower and you don't
- 42:54Speaker 16: think you can find any way out.
- 42:57Speaker 4: Because that means the ultimate showing is ahead of you.
- 43:01Speaker 16: It means you can only go up. And it also
- 43:04Speaker 16: means that things are going to be tough, things are
- 43:07Speaker 16: going to be tougher than anything you can imagine. But
- 43:12Speaker 16: that storm that you're in.
- 43:14Speaker 3: From your perspective, it seems like that storm is enveloping
- 43:19Speaker 3: the whole world.
- 43:20Speaker 23: But I'm telling you it is not the storm that
- 43:25Speaker 23: you're in. It is hard to see out of that storm.
- 43:29Speaker 23: It's hard to see past it. It seems like the
- 43:31Speaker 23: storm is everything.
- 43:33Speaker 34: But the storm is not everything, and it won't last forever.
- 43:39Speaker 34: You can get out of the storm, and you will
- 43:43Speaker 34: get out of the storm, and when you get out,
- 43:47Speaker 34: you're going to see the sun. But right now you're
- 43:50Speaker 34: being tried, you're being a forge.
- 43:53Speaker 4: You're being tested by fire and by the pain.
- 43:58Speaker 35: Don't fail to test, don't give in, don't quit, fight on,
- 44:04Speaker 35: Fight through the storm, fight through the pain, and come
- 44:07Speaker 35: out the other side, stronger and tougher and better, victorious
- 44:14Speaker 35: and free from that storm, free from the darkness.
- 44:19Speaker 4: It's the one life you've.
- 44:22Speaker 23: Got, So go and live a life that, in the
- 44:26Speaker 23: end allows you to look.
- 44:28Speaker 35: Back and say, hell, yes, I do it all again.
- 44:36Speaker 2: Every day you say no to your dreams, you might
- 44:39Speaker 2: be pushing your dreams back a whole six months, a
- 44:41Speaker 2: whole year.
- 44:42Speaker 1: That one single day, that one.
- 44:44Speaker 26: Day you didn't get up, could to push your stuff back.
- 44:47Speaker 1: I don't know how long those fifteen minutes.
- 44:50Speaker 8: That sweet, that you're gonna push back your dream, that
- 44:53Speaker 8: you're gonna push back your goal.
- 44:55Speaker 2: You are where you are because of your feelings. You're
- 44:58Speaker 2: not on principles right now. That's not what drives you.
- 45:01Speaker 2: You would be a millionaire right now if you stop
- 45:03Speaker 2: going back to bed.
- 45:04Speaker 1: Yeah you got the mentor yeah you got the book.
- 45:07Speaker 2: So what the boots can't make you get your butt up?
- 45:10Speaker 1: Or what can? Is your principal?
- 45:11Speaker 8: And your problem is either you ain't gotten one or
- 45:14Speaker 8: you ain't living by the ones you have.
- 45:16Speaker 2: And some of you, there are things you like you
- 45:18Speaker 2: have absolutely no control. You are like a slave to you.
- 45:21Speaker 2: You were a slave to your personality. You a slave
- 45:23Speaker 2: to some of your advices. You a slave to some
- 45:26Speaker 2: of the.
- 45:26Speaker 1: Things you like.
- 45:27Speaker 2: You a slave. You have absolutely no control. And what
- 45:30Speaker 2: I'm telling you is the reason why we fast from
- 45:32Speaker 2: time to time is not that we have to fast,
- 45:34Speaker 2: but at some point you gotta fast because you.
- 45:37Speaker 1: Gotta tell the pless who's in control. I'm in control,
- 45:40Speaker 1: You not in control. I know you don't want to
- 45:42Speaker 1: wake up. You don't have an option. Get up, were
- 45:45Speaker 1: trying to eat.
- 45:47Speaker 47: So many of you know, damn Goodingwell, get down, you
- 45:49Speaker 47: have no excuse.
- 45:51Speaker 11: Are you the kind of person that can draw the
- 45:53Speaker 11: line in the sand. Are you the kind of person
- 45:55Speaker 11: who can say this is enough? Are you the kind
- 45:57Speaker 11: of person who says, I am being done with that
- 46:01Speaker 11: and I'm going to become what it is I know
- 46:04Speaker 11: I can become. And we want that change more than
- 46:07Speaker 11: we want that pizza, more than we want that cigarette.
- 46:09Speaker 11: We want to fucking change more than the sacrifice we're
- 46:13Speaker 11: going to make to get it. That's the difference between
- 46:16Speaker 11: winners and losers. Everything in your life changes when you
- 46:21Speaker 11: learn how to draw a line in the sand.
- 46:26Speaker 1: Like, what is it gonna take me to do it?
- 46:27Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 46:29Speaker 1: I just know this is my year.
- 46:31Speaker 43: All of us in life have things we want. We
- 46:35Speaker 43: don't get what we want. We get what we have
- 46:38Speaker 43: to have. We all get what we tolerate in ourselves
- 46:42Speaker 43: and other people. But when you're no longer willing to
- 46:45Speaker 43: tolerate something, that's when your life changes. The difference in
- 46:50Speaker 43: people is their standards.
- 46:52Speaker 1: Period.
- 46:53Speaker 43: Everyone in the world has a list of things they
- 46:56Speaker 43: think they should do. I should lose weight, I should
- 47:00Speaker 43: work out, I should work harder, I should make more calls.
- 47:04Speaker 43: I should, I should, I should I should And then
- 47:08Speaker 43: you know what, people don't do their shoulds, and they
- 47:10Speaker 43: get mad at themselves, and then when I call shout
- 47:12Speaker 43: all over themselves, they beat them.
- 47:14Speaker 1: Help up.
- 47:14Speaker 43: About what changes people is when you should becomes a must.
- 47:20Speaker 43: When suddenly the thing he said should happen has to happen.
- 47:24Speaker 43: That's when human beings change. It's like if you want
- 47:27Speaker 43: to take the island, burn the boats because if there's
- 47:31Speaker 43: no way to go back. It's amazing what happens when
- 47:34Speaker 43: it's a must to do something versus a should the
- 47:37Speaker 43: number one thing, and it's going to change your life.
- 47:39Speaker 43: The only thing that will change your life, change your business,
- 47:43Speaker 43: change your money, change your relationship, is you must raise
- 47:47Speaker 43: your standard.
- 47:49Speaker 11: If you can't stick to something for five fucking days,
- 47:52Speaker 11: you deserve to have ash your life. You deserve to
- 47:56Speaker 11: get your ass kicked, you deserve to be miserable. We're
- 47:58Speaker 11: talking about five days. We're not talking about fifty years.
- 48:03Speaker 11: We're not talking about the five years it probably takes
- 48:05Speaker 11: to build something worthwhile. We're not talking about the five
- 48:08Speaker 11: months that could take for you to lose one hundred pounds.
- 48:10Speaker 11: We're talking about five sing days and you can't even
- 48:13Speaker 11: stick to it for that. So what the do you
- 48:15Speaker 11: think you deserve? You deserve exactly what you get. This
- 48:20Speaker 11: is your year, your year for change. It's time to
- 48:24Speaker 11: make that change right now.
- 48:26Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if it's the first, the second, the third,
- 48:28Speaker 1: the first week, the second week. It's the new year.
- 48:31Speaker 1: You have new opportunities. There's new doors opening for you
- 48:35Speaker 1: every single day. Do you have to just walk through there?
- 48:38Speaker 1: It can be who you are, mince and being on
- 48:39Speaker 1: the sunt.
- 48:44Speaker 47: You meet somebody wealthy, their family at one point was
- 48:47Speaker 47: not wealthy, and then the one shows up. The one
- 48:52Speaker 47: one person changes the family tree forever. In my family,
- 48:55Speaker 47: I'm the one. And it wasn't because I wanted it
- 48:58Speaker 47: or I.
- 48:58Speaker 1: Hope for it. I fought for it. I want to win.
- 49:03Speaker 47: I want to fight for my family. I want my
- 49:04Speaker 47: mom and dad proud of me. I want my kids
- 49:07Speaker 47: proud of me. I want me proud of me. I
- 49:10Speaker 47: want to look in the mirror and be happy with
- 49:12Speaker 47: the man I look back at that. He gave it
- 49:14Speaker 47: everything that he went for it. But here's the truth.
- 49:18Speaker 47: Most people's dreams can be bought. With enough failure, with
- 49:22Speaker 47: enough rejection, they will sell their dreams. They can't still fight.
- 49:27Speaker 47: They can get a little bit, but when it gets
- 49:29Speaker 47: a little jo they go boom. So buy the dream.
- 49:31Speaker 47: You can have it. It's not worth it to me.
- 49:33Speaker 47: And their will to win is buyable. You can buy it.
- 49:36Speaker 47: But if you decide my will cannot be bot's, I
- 49:40Speaker 47: don't care how long it takes. You can't buy this,
- 49:42Speaker 47: dude out. I'll keep fighting for my family. I'm the one.
- 49:46Speaker 47: I'm gonna change my family treat forever. That's the decision.
- 49:50Speaker 47: Decide Now you're gonna keep negotiating the price, or can
- 49:52Speaker 47: you not be bought?
- 49:53Speaker 1: Don't give up on yourself.
- 49:55Speaker 25: Don't throw the towel in so quickly many people give.
- 49:59Speaker 1: Up on the one yard line.
- 50:01Speaker 25: You know, the human spirit is powerful.
- 50:04Speaker 1: This nothing is powerful.
- 50:05Speaker 25: It's hard to kill the human spirit, that greatness in you.
- 50:10Speaker 25: And you've got to learn how to tune out the
- 50:12Speaker 25: critics outside and the critic inside.
- 50:16Speaker 1: And says I'm going to do this.
- 50:17Speaker 37: I'm gonna honest my will and I'm.
- 50:20Speaker 1: Not gonna let anything stop. I deserve this.
- 50:23Speaker 25: Working on yourself, talking to yourself, that's so very important
- 50:27Speaker 25: overcoming the negative conversation that ino dialogue is going on
- 50:32Speaker 25: all the time. You got to stand up inside yourself
- 50:35Speaker 25: sometimes and say shut up, I'm in control here.
- 50:38Speaker 1: You've got to have.
- 50:39Speaker 37: An uplifted expression, watch your body posture.
- 50:42Speaker 1: All of these things affect you psychically.
- 50:45Speaker 25: Start working and developing yourself now and prepare yourself for
- 50:48Speaker 25: what it is that you want because you expect to
- 50:50Speaker 25: get it.
- 50:51Speaker 2: All I need to do is speak up and say
- 50:54Speaker 2: I expect to win. Declare that is over, that yesterday
- 50:58Speaker 2: was the last day that you want a loser Like yesterday,
- 51:02Speaker 2: well the last day you expect it to come up
- 51:05Speaker 2: short when you set out for a go, expect it
- 51:08Speaker 2: to happen, Expect to be successful, Expect it to be positive.
- 51:12Speaker 2: If you can expect it, if you can wake up
- 51:15Speaker 2: feeling like a winner, if you can wake up talking
- 51:18Speaker 2: like a winner, if you can expect.
- 51:20Speaker 1: That everything you do will.
- 51:22Speaker 2: Come out winning, I guarantee you you never ever have
- 51:26Speaker 2: to come up short again.
- 51:28Speaker 1: It might be here, two, three, four before you get
- 51:30Speaker 1: your big win.
- 51:31Speaker 47: But you could decide now I'm gonna walk, talk and
- 51:33Speaker 47: be a different person. If you decide that you're the
- 51:36Speaker 47: lead character in the story of your life. Everything has
- 51:39Speaker 47: to do with you. Attended to win. Too many of
- 51:40Speaker 47: you are playing with your business. If you make that shift,
- 51:43Speaker 47: I'm going to win. We're gonna play to win now.
- 51:45Speaker 47: We're not playing to play. We're not playing to see
- 51:47Speaker 47: how we do. We're not playing for fun. Once you
- 51:50Speaker 47: start getting some winning, you start changing. You talk different,
- 51:54Speaker 47: you walk different. All of a sudden, this isn't the same.
- 51:56Speaker 1: Damn as human being. You can change you. You'd be
- 51:59Speaker 1: surprised what a little winning would do.
- 52:01Speaker 47: You'd be surprised how good you'd be if you just
- 52:04Speaker 47: decide to win. Be number one in your office, number
- 52:07Speaker 47: one in your region, and when you start stacking them up,
- 52:10Speaker 47: your life can change