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AI, Gut Checks & Gallbladders: A Diva's Guide to Owning Your Medical Story · The Diva Details

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Hello, this is Diva Mia. Today, I'm going to talk to you about something that
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hits really close to home.
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I know I've been away for a couple weeks, and I apologize, but I had some major health issues.
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Something that is impacting a lot of us as we get into our 50s and our 60s is
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once in a while, we have a health issue or a health scare that comes out of
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nowhere, although I'm a firm believer nothing comes out of nowhere,
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and it will knock you on your butt.
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It will take over every aspect of your life.
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When you have a health issue, you only have one issue, and that's your health.
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Everything else gets pushed back to the back burner.
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So today I wanted to talk a little bit about something personal to me and my health issue.
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How to self-advocate when you get into a medical situation that a lot of us
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are or our loved ones are,
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and how we need to take care of ourselves as well as listen to our doctor,
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but at the same time advocate for ourselves so we don't get run over and ignored.
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The average adult now sees the doctor more often than they see most of their extended family.
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Most people are terrified to question them. I think a lot of times some doctors
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have a God complex, or we look at them as if they are all-knowing.
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I'm sorry, it's called practicing medicine for a reason. They're practicing.
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They don't know it all. They may come across as if they know it all,
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and they may tell you that you have to do this or you have to do that.
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I experienced that recently. They tried to railroad me.
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You need to learn to stand up for yourself, and you need to learn to stand up for your family.
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Because if you don't, when you know you're right, they may guide you down the wrong path.
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Just like that friend that says they know how to sell your house,
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even though they've never sold one, or they sold one one time,
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and they tell you to go against your realtor's advice, and they may lead you down the wrong path.
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Or, you know, a dentist that says a tooth needs to get pulled,
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and all of a sudden now it doesn't anymore.
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There are things that happen in medicine, there's things that happen in life, and no one knows it all.
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And that's why today I'm going to talk a little bit about how to do self-advocacy
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for yourself, how to research information yourself, and how to be really informed about your health.
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Because the more informed you are, the more you can stand up for yourself.
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And learning how to advocate yourself in the medical system is so crucial because
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as we get older, we're going to have more and more doctor's visits,
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emergency visits, surgeries, etc.
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It just happens. Things come up. Some things are unexpected.
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Some things are planned.
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But nonetheless, you still need to be able to advocate for yourself.
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So recently, I went through navigating doctors and hospitals,
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and I did not blindly trust them.
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I know they're a medical authority, but I understand my own body, and they don't.
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And without them understanding my body, it can be dangerous for me because I
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have a rare autoimmune condition.
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We need to talk about how healthcare is focused on the majority,
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not the minority. Each of us is unique.
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Artificial intelligence is one of the things that helped me,
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and it's become a smarter advocate for our health than I think than a lot of friends or people.
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Family members, they all are, by the way, they all are looking out for your best interest.
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I'm more of a fact-based person. If I can get the data and understand the data,
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I will go that direction.
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I don't want to go off of someone's opinion just because of their Aunt Sally
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did this or their Uncle Bert did that. I'm not into that.
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So healthcare is very complicated. And doctors are, they're amazing professionals
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and they're very good, but they're also overworked. A lot of times they're rushed.
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They have to deal with insurance systems. there's a profit margin
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they have to hit and they see dozens of patients per day and
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most of the appointments are only 10 to 15 minutes if you're going to even to
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your primary and you're talking to them for 10 minutes they're not going to
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know everything about you you may forget to tell them some things as well so
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sometimes you are the only person who has the full picture of your health and
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if you go to an ER an emergency room you're the only person that knows your
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history in detail And you live in your body 24 hours a day,
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not just 10 minutes, which is what the doctor sees you.
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Now, they can read tests and they can read labs, but there's a gap.
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And that gap needs to be filled by self-advocacy. It's essential.
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It's not an option if you want to live long and have longevity.
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Doctors should be a partner in the health care system.
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Just like if you have a real estate professional and they advise you not to
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buy a house or they advise you to buy a house, you have to make the final say.
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Just like if a doctor says you need a surgery or you don't need a surgery,
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you get to make the final say.
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Now, there are times when there's emergency things that, you know,
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you have to need or you really need to go and do.
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But a lot of times, if they can't explain to you why you have to do it right
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now, then you may need to question their authority.
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Some doctors will educate their patients very well.
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I did deal with a couple doctors that were very educational and took my questions
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and answered them thoroughly.
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And when I had points, they listened.
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I had other doctors, no offense, that were trying to mansplain to me.
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And treat me like I was clueless when, quite frankly, I know way more about
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my autoimmune than he does because I've been living with it for three years. I'm an expert. He's not.
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He probably researched it once 20 years ago. In college, he didn't even know
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that the name had been updated five years ago.
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I'm more of an expert at my autoimmune
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than he is, and I can read the labs probably better than he does.
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And that's why you have to advocate for yourself.
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Unfortunately, a lot of doctors have large egos, and I ran into one of those
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doctors at the emergency room. It's kind of like a medical god complex.
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They think they are the end-all, be-all, and they know it all.
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The reality is they don't. You need to advocate for yourself.
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They are not gods. They may have a large ego, and you're probably going to step
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on it a little bit, even if you try not to.
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But I tried not to in the very beginning, and then he kept mansplaining and
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trying to force me into doing something, and I just said no.
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Then I told him why, and then he left. He told me to stop researching online
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and stop Googling, and I said, well, somebody's got to advocate for myself,
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and that kind of upset him.
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He says, well, the doctors here and the nurses are looking out for your best interest.
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I go, well, somebody's got to advocate for me, and that's what I was doing.
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It doesn't mean that he's a bad doctor. It just means that I'm not prepared
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to listen to his advice when I have
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things that are telling me quite the opposite of what he's telling me.
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And you've got to be prepared to advocate for yourself, but do it respectfully.
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There are times that they may get upset, but it was his ego getting upset, not anything.
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I was never mean. I was never callous. I just specifically said I need to advocate
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for myself, and I was clear.
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Never swore at him, never got angry.
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I was just very clear. So what I recently went through, it was a pretty serious
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medical event. It involved my liver, my gallbladder, and my pancreas,
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and I have an autoimmune that affects my liver.
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I ended up needing to have a duct cleared, and they did an MRI of my gallbladder,
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and my gallbladder looked a little inflamed but not too bad with a few stones in it.
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They decided that, or they said I needed to have my gallbladder out. I said, why?
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They go, well, it's a simple procedure, and it's just preventative.
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For me, to take out an organ as an idea of prevention is not what I'm looking
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for. Because I have an autoimmune related to my liver, I don't want to remove
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something that's very close to my liver that is going to impact it down the road.
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Plus, it might push me into a liver transplant way before my time.
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So I said, unless you can show me why my gallbladder needs removed, I'm not going to do it.
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Well, I had an obstruction in a duct, but that was the main problem.
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My gallbladder was actually still in good shape. It actually showed up as normal on the MRI.
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One of the doctors kept trying to push me to have gallbladder surgery.
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I said no, and they want to do the gallbladder surgery first.
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They kept saying no, and I kept saying no, and he got a little angry with me.
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And I had to stay in the hospital.
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I had a lot of tests run. And they were supposed to operate on me Monday for
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removing the blockage in one of my ducts.
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But they had some issues with the emergency room.
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One of the other things was they didn't tell me the ER was down.
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They just kept saying, oh, we don't know what time we're going to schedule you.
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Oh, we don't know what time you're going to schedule you.
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And I was like, guys, I'm in a lot of pain here. Can we figure out when we're
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going to have the surgery?
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And then they finally fessed up to it like 2 o'clock in the afternoon that the
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ER was down because they had a boiler problem. It would have been nice to know
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in the morning because I could have gotten transferred to another hospital.
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They did try to transfer me later in the day, but it was too late.
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So ended up that I ended up having
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what's called ERCP, where they actually remove a blockage in your duct.
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And they did a really good job. I got a lot of stuff cleared out.
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And then it ended up triggering pancreatitis because that's a side effect of the procedure.
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Since I'm extra sensitive, I tend to get a lot of side effects.
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Then I had to deal with pancreatitis.
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As soon as the pancreatitis hit, that doctor that was trying to push me to have
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my gallbladder out just assumed it was my gallbladder again.
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I had already uploaded all of my information into ChatGPT and was researching extensively.
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He kept saying, it's your gallbladder. I go, it's not my gallbladder.
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All signs are pointed to pancreatitis.
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Pancreatitis was an option that it could have happened. About 10% of people
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that have ERCP may get pancreatitis.
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But it's a much higher percentage, close to 50%, if you have an autoimmune like I do.
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They ended up putting me on some massive pain meds, which I was only on for
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a day and a half because I don't like pain meds.
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I got off as quickly as I could, but I had to deal with a lot of extra pain.
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The doctor that performed the ERCP was wonderful.
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He was very apologetic that it happened, and I don't think it could have been
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avoided, and sometimes it does happen.
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But he did a great job explaining it, and he was not pushing for my gallbladder out.
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Besides, if you have pancreatitis, no doctor in their right mind would operate
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on a gallbladder. But that other doctor, he was the one that did rounds,
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the general doctor, and he just kept pushing, pushing, pushing.
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And I said, look, I'm not having my gallbladder out. You can stop asking.
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Besides, I have pancreatitis, and you shouldn't be operating on a gallbladder
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if you have pancreatitis.
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He goes, well, we'll see what the tests come back as. The test came back,
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and it showed pancreatitis.
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I had to strongly and forcefully push back on the doctor because doctors don't
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know everything. Sometimes they don't see the full picture because they're blinded
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by what they're used to seeing.
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And I know everybody's getting their gallbladders out lately.
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I mean, it's like everybody's lining them up, getting their gallbladders out.
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I think it's an important organ.
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And I think every organ in the body is important. I don't think you should be
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taking them out willy-nilly unless you have to.
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I don't care if some people says it's preventative. It wasn't preventative for
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me. And I do realize I could get another blockage and I have to go back in.
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But that's what it is. It showed normal.
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And because of that, some doctors, they think they know it all.
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And they may miss those rare conditions like I had.
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Because now that I've had that surgery, I feel amazing. My gallbladder is still there.
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I kept it in. The ERCP seems to have removed all the problems that I have,
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but it's only because I stood up for myself. And I had to do it by myself.
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There was no one with me. And I advocated for myself.
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Now, I do have a friend that's a nurse, and she said, well, what is your doctor
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saying? I kept saying, well, my doctor doesn't know what he's talking about.
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And he didn't. He doesn't specialize in it. Because what I have only happens
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once every 100,000 people. He probably never sees it.
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And so my specialist understood what was going on. And my GI doctor understood
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what was going, but they really wanted to pull out my gallbladder.
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Now, I'm sure there's a profit margin there somewhere because those gallbladders,
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they're a very simple surgery and they charge $10,000 to $20,000 to pull those out.
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But I don't think you should take it out unless you really need to.
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So I held on to my gallbladder. And if I had not asked questions and done research
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and pushed for those answers, I think my outcome would have been very different.
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And I really like the fact that I had one doctor, Indian doctor,
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that was a very good bedside manner. He kept explaining in detail.
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When I asked questions, he gave me the semi-medical, not the full medical term,
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but exactly what was going on. He gave good explanations.
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I actually liked him. The other one just had his ideas of what I should be doing
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and was mad because I didn't do it. You really need to stand up for yourself
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because silence in health care can be dangerous.
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If you don't ask questions and you don't speak up, bad things can happen.
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Things can happen to you that you didn't realize that shouldn't have been done.
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Sometimes you'll have side effects. Then when I had the pancreatitis,
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I did the research on what pain meds I needed to be on for pancreatitis because they're
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They were putting me on a pain med that was too light, and pancreatitis is extremely painful.
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Once I got my pain meds managed for a day and a half, I was great.
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Things got fixed. But you're going to have to stand up for yourself,
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okay? You're going to have to advocate for your health. It's not disrespectful. It's responsible.
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You have to advocate for you, because if you don't, no one else is going to.
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Medicine is evolving, I think, and it's constantly evolving,
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and things keep changing, too. with.
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Sometimes what a doctor went to school for, he may have understood that this
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is how they treated before, but now there's a whole new pathway to treatment.
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What was standard practice 10 years ago? So if they've been out of school for
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more than a couple of years, I mean, 10 years ago, it's maybe not even be active anymore today.
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And if you have a unique situation, they may have no idea.
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And doctors do specialize. A liver doctor may not deeply understand an autoimmune
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disease, and an autoimmune doctor may not understand other things.
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An ER doctor may not recognize any metabolic conditions. He may not understand
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that because he's used to treating emergency situations.
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Rare conditions are often misunderstood. And quite frankly, we're all a little rare, if you ask me.
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We all have a little bit of uniqueness to us. And some doctors only see certain
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diseases once or twice in their entire career.
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And I think mine was probably one of those. He didn't understand the complications
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of pulling out my gallbladder for me.
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But for him, it was a simple surgery. And I agree, it's a simple surgery.
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But it's the lifelong results of that surgery that I have to deal with,
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that I have to be subject to, and that it could push me into other future surgeries.
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It can push me into cascade organ problems, and I didn't want to have to deal
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with that if I didn't need to.
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Sometimes, you know, most of us are knowledgeable people about our conditions
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and may even be more knowledgeable than the doctors, especially if they're just
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a general doctor and they don't have our specialty in mind.
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Your doctor is the expert on medicine. You are the expert on your body.
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So remember that you have to work together.
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The two of you, you and your doctor, to come up with a solution.
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I think AI is going to change patient advocacy forever.
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And this is where it gets really interesting because artificial intelligence
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is becoming such a powerful tool for patients.
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And if you have any type of medical condition, I do encourage you to load your
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test results into AI, tell them which diet you're on, tell them what supplements
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you're on, tell them what pharmaceuticals you're on, ask them for its input.
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Here's the other thing is there's a lot of people out there on five,
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ten different pharmaceuticals all at the same time and seeing multiple different doctors.
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It's nice to just do a gut check and say, hey, AI, I'm on all these different
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pharmaceuticals. Are any of these going to have interaction issues?
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Because not all doctors realize all the medicines you're on and know all the
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different interactions.
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AI can help with interpreting blood work trends. So every time I got my blood
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work back, one, at least twice the first day and then every day after that,
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I uploaded my blood work into AI, and then it helped me interpret the trends.
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And then it also helped explain the lab results. Now, I knew a lot of the lab results, but it.
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It went into more detail and gave me expectations on where my lab work should
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be trending if the surgery went well.
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And then it helped me compare across different medical research options, too.
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So it gave me a detailed information about what was going on.
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And it also suggested questions that I could ask the doctor to see what the
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doctor thought about certain things or certain processes. It didn't replace the doctor.
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So here's the thing. I think a lot of doctors are threatened by the Internet and threatened by AI.
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It's not replacing them. It's just asking, letting us ask smarter questions
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so that we are more informed patients.
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One of the doctors was very happy with that. He was not a very egotistical doctor.
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He was a very informed doctor.
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And he and he liked the fact that I was asking questions and that I was very
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knowledgeable about what I have because I have to be because it's my body.
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I do my own blood work every month, sometimes every two weeks if I'm doing a
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lot of changes to any supplements I'm doing.
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And so every month I get blood work and I'm tracking it. and
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so I knew when my numbers when my bilirubin went from 2.5 to 10 there was not
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that was not a normal gallbladder issue there was something going on with an
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obstruction before they even did the MRI I knew I had an obstruction and I said
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I wanted to keep my gallbladder if at all possible but one doctor just kept pushing and pushing and.
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I had to overly advocate for myself. AI doesn't replace the doctor,
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but it makes you much more informed so that when you have to push back,
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you have information to push back with.
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You don't sound like you're just doing it out of emotion. I was completely doing
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it fact-based. I was completely doing it data-driven.
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I was completely doing it based off my numbers, based off my symptoms.
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Based off of what was going on. There was no emotion there.
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I wasn't angry. I could do it in a very intellectual, informed way.
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A lot of the different doctors have apps.
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And when you go to a hospital, you should download the app because you can check
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your results from your tests.
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You can check your results from your blood work, any imaging,
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pathology, procedural notes.
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All of that stuff is in an app that you get when you go to any doctor or hospital.
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You legally have the right to them. If you don't have the app or you're not
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really good with phones, you can ask them for physical copies.
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You legally have the right to everything they test with you.
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Take a snapshot of it. if you have it on the app, just download it and re-upload it into the app.
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So you have the ability to integrate AI. You have the ability to integrate just
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looking up your own documents.
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It is a lot more work, I will say, if you don't upload it into ChatGPT or one
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of the other AIs out there and do the manual work, because then you're looking
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at test result by test result.
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I like the fact that I could upload the entire test result. It would scan through
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and say, oh, well, you've been on regular saline for too long and your chloride
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is up. That's a common thing.
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Things like that were informative.
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So I was like, why is my chloride level so high? That was because I was on normal
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saline for a really long time.
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Then the other thing was, they pumped about 60 pounds worth of fluid through me in six days.
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I gained about 20 pounds, even though I didn't eat anything for those six days in the hospital.
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Because I was on, at first I was on every day they thought I was going to have
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the surgery, and then it ended up that afterwards I had pancreatitis,
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so I couldn't really eat.
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So I gained a lot of fluid weight, which then I talked to Chachi PT,
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and it says, okay, well, for every day you were in the hospital,
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it's going to take about two days for the fluids to come off.
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So then I was like, okay, I got 10 to 12 days of just fluid retention loss,
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which is good, because then it
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didn't bother me so much. AI is a tool to kind of put your mind at ease.
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And then I would say, is this a normal side effect? Is this a normal symptom?
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And it helped me evaluate my condition in a way that I think when you go to
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a hospital and you're laying in bed and you're all by yourself and something happens,
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you feel something or you're not feeling well and you ring the door and she's
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like, okay, I'll be right there.
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And then like five minutes later, they show up. They ask for your symptoms.
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Okay, I'll send that off to the doctor. You could wait a half hour or an hour
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or two before you find out the results.
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Whereas if I had the ability to look it up right away, it might put my nerves to rest.
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Because now I can say, okay, it's just a typical side effect.
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Or this is happening because of this.
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At least then I could also say, maybe they should alert the doctor right away
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because it looks like it's a serious problem.
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Or if it feels like normal, you could say, okay, I'm going to let them know.
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They've been notified. They can take whatever time they need to,
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but at least I know what steps I need to take. For instance,
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I needed to walk more to help get the fluid down.
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That's one thing that was recommended by the AI as well as the nurses.
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And the nurses said, I said, how much to go? Just as much as you can.
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And AI said, walk 15 minutes every hour and just do as much as you can.
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And so it gave me more of an analytical approach to exercise.
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My recovery. You can also copy and paste lab results if you have it in an email,
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CT scans, MRI findings, and then ask questions of the AI.
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Say, what does this mean in layman's terms or simple language,
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these test results, the blood work? Why is this number so high?
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And what conditions can cause these abnormalities?
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You have a gut check. If they come in and say you need your gallbladder out,
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when your gallbladder is showing normal, you have a gut check.
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You have a secondary a gut check.
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And then I said, well, I asked it, why do the doctors recommending my gallbladder
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come out when it shows as normal?
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Then it said, because a lot of times it's preventative. Then I asked that question,
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are you wanting to take it out just for prevention? They said, yes.
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Before that, they were acting like I needed to have it. Then I asked why.
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Then they said, it's because of prevention.
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For that, I didn't want it prevention. I am here to heal myself fully. I'm doing that.
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Granted, in the future, I may still have to have it out. And I understand that,
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but it's not in the condition that it has to come out right now.
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It was more important to get the blockage out as far as I was concerned.
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Then you can also say what additional
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tests might we consider if this test shows that I have a blockage?
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Can we do any other tests or do we need to go straight for surgery?
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You can find out different types of things. Now, I ended up having surgery and that's okay.
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I'm not afraid of surgery. I was just not wanting unnecessary medical procedures
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if I didn't have to have them.
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Now, look for patterns too. AI is great for looking at patterns,
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I think, better than humans, honestly.
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It looks at the symptoms, it grabs the labs, and it can look at the trends over time.
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Doctors do as well, don't get me wrong. However, AI does it so quick,
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and it's so powerful, especially if you have a rare disease.
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I think doctors can look at an EKG and say, yes, you had a heart attack.
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And we've got to do something about it. And you've got to go along with that.
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Or maybe they've got to get stent put in. I get that.
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But if you have a rare autoimmune condition or a rare disease that is not common,
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AI has the ability to look at the trends in your data and your labs and all your medical symptoms.
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And it can put together those trends and offer suggestions the doctor may not realize.
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I think this is amazing. Because going forward, I think doctors really need to embrace AI.
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Because right now, their patients are. And their patients are starting to advocate for themselves.
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And instead of them feeling threatened by our knowledge, maybe they could look at it as.
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A way to inform themselves as well. AI should never replace a medical professional,
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though. I'm not saying that in any way.
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But it acts like a research assistant for us so we can ask better questions,
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so we can be better informed.
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It's like an extra brain or having your own specialist that you're bringing
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to appointments with you to go talk to your doctor.
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So remember, you can push back, but let's do it respectfully.
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When you advocate for yourself, it doesn't mean being confrontational,
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but it does mean be direct. You do not have to be a pushover.
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Doctors respond best by curiosity. Ask questions with the statement, if that makes sense.
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You're saying, oh, wow, my bilirubin is high. I see that.
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Is there something I need to be doing quickly that would be the most important
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thing to focus on in order to bring it down? instead of saying you're wrong.
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Try saying, I read somewhere, and I always say, I looked up online,
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and they got mad about that, but I looked up, and I wanted your opinion,
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because it says that my lipase, can you do a lipase test?
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Because all the symptoms are pointing to pancreatitis, because the doctor just
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wanted to take on my gallbladder. He didn't want to do a lipase test.
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Lipase is what I needed to do in order to look at my pancreas numbers.
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I asked for that test. It got done, and then it was very clear that I had pancreatitis.
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It was good for me to know what tests to even order because at the time,
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the doctor was just wanting to go full force to take out my gallbladder.
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None of the symptoms were gallbladder-related. Then it was like,
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can we also look at this option?
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If it comes back that my light pace is up, can we also explore maybe getting
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me on pain meds that work for pancreatitis?
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Then you can also say, once you get your lab results, are there any other tests
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that need to be done to rule out that it could be this or is not that?
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Just keep the conversation collaborative and curious. If you do that.
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The doctor's egos shouldn't be as a...
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Is involved, although some doctors will. I can't say for all.
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And some doctors, I mean, I will tell you, that guy that was mansplaining to
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me, I don't know why he thought he was just so much more superior than me because
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I was very honest. I was not mean.
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And the other doctors, all the other doctors were fine. It was just this one
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man that just had this huge ego and just wanted to keep pushing, pushing, pushing.
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It kept proving him wrong every time he said something because he kept saying,
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you have to do this. I go, well, why can't we do this?
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Can't we just go get a lipase test and check. He ordered it and he saw that
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he was incorrect by pushing some things.
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So just be an advocate for yourself. Be informed, but always stay calm.
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Don't make it emotional.
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If you get emotional in a hospital, things can spiral. I was there and I saw
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this woman throwing a fit at the nurses and screaming at them because she hadn't gotten her food.
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I was thinking to myself, lady, I had to eat for six days and I didn't want to scream at the nurses.
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Don't scream at people and just advocate. Be calm.
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Bring documentation. If you know you're going into the hospital and you have
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an autoimmune that's unique or some type of disease, bring your documentation
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with you. Put it in a binder.
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Have that binder. And then listen to the doctor's reasoning and then do your own research.
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Because you need to advocate for yourself. And you may be the one that has to
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advocate for loved ones as well.
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Because this is especially true
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when you have elderly parents or sick children or just a sick partner.
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And what's happening is we need to start helping them advocate for themselves.
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If you're in this position, you may be the information organizer.
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You may put together binders. You may.
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All their medications, their diagnosis, their lab results, keep it all together.
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My lab results, I don't keep them paper-wise anymore because it's about 2,000 pages.
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But people, I keep mine electronically now. And the nice thing is when they're
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electronically, you can also, a lot of the different apps have trends,
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so you can see trends over timelines.
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So hospitals want to move quickly on problems. So when I went to the ER,
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I was pretty much admitted within an hour of my lab results coming back from
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the ER. Be prepared to advocate for yourself because changes happen quickly.
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And you may be pushed into things, and it may be an emergency that you have
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to get something done. Quickly research, if you can, or for your loved ones, research.
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Honestly, the best medical outcome happens when three things work together.
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Knowledgeable doctors, very informed agents, and then intelligent tools like
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AI or Google, and just do your own research.
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Your health is too important to leave entirely up to someone else,
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especially someone else that doesn't know you.
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Because when you go to the emergency rooms, they don't know your history.
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They don't know your story.
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But learn to ask questions. and learn to be respectful at the same time because
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as you advocate for yourself or someone you love, you can't be afraid.
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You have to be direct, but at the same time, respectful.
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Doctors, they save lives every day. Nurses are there and they're great helps.
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Some of the nurses were wonderful.
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Some of the nurses are afraid of the doctors though, I will say.
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They have to work with those people every day. They have to collaborate.
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You're not really gonna get someone to go against a doctor, I will say,
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if you're talking to a nurse, but you can ask the nurse questions and they can
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relay them to the doctor because a lot of times you're only seeing the nurse most of the day.
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Doctors only come in once or twice a day. So advocate for yourself.
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Be informed, be engaged, and be unafraid.
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Be unafraid to speak your mind. Be unafraid to ask questions.
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And realize that you are your best advocate. You will always be your best advocate.
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And no one is better than you. So I hope this helped for anybody out there taking
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care of people or taking care of yourself or if you come into a medical emergency yourself.
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Realize you have the right to question things and
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do your own research and advocate for yourself because a lot of times there
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might even be better things out there that are coming down the pipeline this
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is diva mia hopefully this helped this is not medical advice this is a way to
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help you educate yourself when you're having a medical condition this is diva
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mia signing off i hope you have a wonderful day.
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And I wish you all the best health in the world. And I wish you long life and
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love. Take care. Ciao, ciao.
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