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Why I Finally Went All In (Episode 1) · Natty Unfiltered

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  Foreign welcome
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  to Natty Unfiltered Podcast. I'm Nettie
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  Realtor, digital hustler, mom of three and proof
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  that you can rewrite your story at any age.
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  On this podcast I want to talk about side
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  hustles, self worth and stepping out of your survival
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  mode because you were not meant to lose yourself in motherhood.
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  If you ever felt that there's more waiting
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  for you but you didn't know where to start, you're in
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  the right place. So welcome and let's get started.
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  I want to take you back to why I finally decided
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  to went to go all in and
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  just start putting myself first. My family was
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  always important to me and still very important to me.
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  But as kids started to get older, I was craving to
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  create something that was meaningful
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  for me, something that I wanted to be financially independent.
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  I wanted to feel that not
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  the self worth but something inside me just wanted
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  to succeed beyond being
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  a mom, a wife. And I dabbled into
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  different businesses while the kids
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  were growing up. And I think that failure,
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  the fear of failure, that was what prevented
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  me from going all in on different businesses that I wanted
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  to start. Then years
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  later when I started working on myself and working with the life coach,
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  I started to change my subconscious mind and
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  I realized that fear just prevented me from so many things
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  in life and I no longer wanted that
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  to be
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  a hold that dark cloud over my head.
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  And so little by little I just started to learn about social
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  media, I started to exploring more things that
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  I can double into and I started to see other moms that
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  were either were 9 to 5 or working
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  at the hospitals, different careers,
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  more out of their life than just like everyday
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  struggles of motherhood work, just balancing everything
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  together. Now I wanted to do
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  podcasts years ago and because I thought that we're going to be a good fit
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  and we can just talk about motherhood careers.
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  But that never came into fruition.
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  Now years later I still wanted to
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  do podcast and I wanted to be open and
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  I wanted to just talk about all things moms
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  and how we go through life and sometimes we lose ourselves and we
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  try to find ourselves and sometimes either you are a stay at home
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  mom or you go to work. We at
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  times tend to still put ourselves kind of
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  like on the back burner and
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  at some point I think that we
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  need to look at ourselves and say okay, what makes us happy and what
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  steps do you want to take to maybe
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  go after that dream, maybe start that business,
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  start that podcast, get on social media,
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  just whatever it is. I know sometimes it Takes
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  some time and some planning, but it is doable
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  now.
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  I've tried many things in my
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  life. I tried to go and have a store online and then
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  go to be a health coach and
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  at some point do drop shipping. And then I started
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  to do digital affiliate marketing. Being an influencer
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  and all of that experiences that some
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  did not work out still led me to today.
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  It still built a self worth, a self confidence that
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  I'm also trying to instill into my kids. I show them that
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  anything is possible and you should not be afraid of going after
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  your dreams and goals. Don't let anybody stop you.
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  Don't let yourself stop you from
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  achieving what your heart desires.
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  Even things that might look scary difficult,
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  you can still achieve them. Is the
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  biggest thing is that I've also learned is you always will have people
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  that will try to second guess you who will
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  have doubts and they will feel make
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  you feel that you maybe not capable or
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  it's too difficult to get into something. One thing
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  you have to remember is that you need
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  to get rid of that noise and surround yourself with people
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  that believe in you now. Yes, you have to hear the
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  ups and downs and the obstacles that you
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  can hit along the way.
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  That doesn't mean that that has to prevent you from going
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  after your goals is just
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  be cautious and listen to the advice. Just still
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  pursue what your little heart desires.
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  You might need to pivot along the way, which is fine.
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  That doesn't mean that you absolutely have to press
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  on the brakes and come to a complete stop.
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  So in this podcast I would love to just
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  talk about the struggles,
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  the ups and downs, the positive side
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  of being a mom, running a business,
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  reaching those milestones and those goals.
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  And I've met so many obviously moms along the way.
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  And sometimes when I talk about what I would love to do,
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  they talk about the same thing. It's a realization that at
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  some point you just stop worrying about what other people think. You stop
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  worrying about the haters,
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  the negativity. And you just surround yourself with positive
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  people. You have a positive mindset, you manifest
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  things, you make
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  shit happen and you seek help.
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  And if you cannot get that help, then rely on yourself or
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  seek help from those that will lead you.
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  A hand will listen to you when things don't always
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  go right or smooth. Even if that one,
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  one person that can be by your side and
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  be your cheerleader. It could be your kids, it can be your husband,
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  it could be your best friend and sometimes it could be somebody that
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  you just talk here and there and they're your biggest cheerleader.
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  So I just wanted to say thank you for listening
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  to this podcast. I'm so excited that I found finally decided to
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  go ahead and pull the plug and believe in myself
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  and just go after my dreams and
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  this is one of them. So I would love for you to leave a comment,
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  preferably a 5 star review.
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  If you can leave a topic that you would like for me to cover in
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  the future episodes that will be amazing. So I
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  just want to say thank you for listening and until next time.