Latest / Beauty In Positivity / are you worshiping the wrong god?
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast.
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner.
- 0:05SPEAKER_00: I built my dream life, including my dream income, traveled to my dream destinations, dream husband, dream job, dream schedule, dream friends.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: And my dream life is constantly expanding because of the information I've chosen to study, the information I choose to make time to take into my subconscious every single day and my conscious mind because of how I choose to spend my time and energy reading and key practicing the actual practices.
- 0:37SPEAKER_00: We can learn and learn all this information and never put it into action.
- 0:41SPEAKER_00: So that is the trick.
- 0:43SPEAKER_00: Doing it and practicing and choosing the mindset shifts and perspective changes every single day.
- 0:49SPEAKER_00: And that's why I created this podcast to offer that to the rest of the world, to be your daily reminder.
- 0:55SPEAKER_00: And we are improving together in this community, and that's why it's so much easier and so much more fun when you have people to relate to, people you're also going through it with.
- 1:07SPEAKER_00: It's kind of like when you want to start eating healthy, and this person you live with is not going to eat healthy with you.
- 1:12SPEAKER_00: That's way more challenging.
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: And it's hard to do something that's difficult all by yourself versus jumping on board with others around you.
- 1:21SPEAKER_00: And then it becomes more fun, and then it's easier, and you're all in it together.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: So that's exactly what this community is that I've chosen to build.
- 1:27SPEAKER_00: I want to grow together, talk about your dreams, how you're gonna get there.
- 1:31SPEAKER_00: I want to talk about all the synchronicities you saw that day and the confirmation you received.
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: And I want to talk about your growth and all the good things happening to you and celebrating you and celebrating me.
- 1:41SPEAKER_00: No one deserves to dim their light, to dim their success, or to dim any good thing happening to them just to make someone else more comfortable.
- 1:49SPEAKER_00: Because they are definitely not trying to make you more comfortable.
- 1:52SPEAKER_00: So fuck that life that we've all been conditioned to live.
- 1:55SPEAKER_00: We're leaving that behind us today.
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: And over a hundred thousand women follow me because I started in the space that we all start in.
- 2:04SPEAKER_00: I started in the nine to five space.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: I started in the space where I felt directionless.
- 2:10SPEAKER_00: I started in the space where I was broke.
- 2:12SPEAKER_00: And we're all starting in a space like that.
- 2:15SPEAKER_00: I've healed the same things people are trying to heal.
- 2:18SPEAKER_00: I have taken leaps other people are building the courage to take.
- 2:22SPEAKER_00: And that is why I'm here.
- 2:25SPEAKER_00: To kind of do it first, jump in and let you know how it is.
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: So you can trust my word.
- 2:31SPEAKER_00: I have helped hundreds of women already take that leap, whether they did it through my Enlightened Babe Academy, or they, you know, did the identity work through my podcast, or they DM me and tell me they are quitting my job because they heard something that I shared on my story one day.
- 2:48SPEAKER_00: Regardless, the amount of DMs I receive, people saying they quit their job, they went all in on their business, they left their relationship, dumped those friends, chose to treat themselves better, chose to speak to themselves differently.
- 3:01SPEAKER_00: Healing is for everyone, and self-worth is for everyone.
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: You absolutely are worthy of taking the leap.
- 3:08SPEAKER_00: You are absolutely worthy of God, source energy, the universe appearing with the net when you take the leap.
- 3:17SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, today's episode is a gentle but profound reminder, and I want to talk about the leap because it's gonna be kind of a short and sweet episode, but I want you to know that you are worthy of your dream life or every single thing you desire.
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: But if you are wanting to make a decision, okay, this is where the hard work comes in.
- 3:40SPEAKER_00: You can feel it in your bones.
- 3:42SPEAKER_00: It's time.
- 3:42SPEAKER_00: You're scared.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: You know you should quit, but you're not ready.
- 3:46SPEAKER_00: You know you should leave, but you're not ready.
- 3:48SPEAKER_00: Whatever it is, you know your next step, but you're terrified.
- 3:52SPEAKER_00: It's because you're probably worshiping the wrong God.
- 3:57SPEAKER_00: So if you know it is time to leave your nine to five, if you know it's time to leave your job, if you know it's time to quit, if you know it's time to leave that relationship, if you know it's time to move out of your hometown, just quit.
- 4:09SPEAKER_00: Just do it.
- 4:10SPEAKER_00: Put in your two weeks.
- 4:11SPEAKER_00: Fuck it, quit the same day.
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: They're not giving you a two weeks.
- 4:14SPEAKER_00: That's just more conditioning that we were taught.
- 4:17SPEAKER_00: And you hold zero obligation.
- 4:19SPEAKER_00: Do what your character and your heart tells you to do, but don't do anything out of obligation.
- 4:25SPEAKER_00: So if you're terrified of quitting because it's stable, because it brings you an income, because it makes you feel safe, you're worshiping the wrong God.
- 4:34SPEAKER_00: That job is not God.
- 4:36SPEAKER_00: That job is not the universe.
- 4:38SPEAKER_00: It is not source energy, it is not what your entire being is made up of.
- 4:43SPEAKER_00: That job is not what your entire being, cell by cell, is made up of.
- 4:49SPEAKER_00: What actually brings you safety, stability, and income is God, is the universe.
- 4:55SPEAKER_00: We put our faith into things outside of us when the universe, God, source energy, is not outside of us.
- 5:03SPEAKER_00: It is within us.
- 5:04SPEAKER_00: So why are we attaching ourselves to these external things out of safety, out of comfort, out of fear?
- 5:12SPEAKER_00: We put our safety and stability and faith into money, but you're not meant to worship money.
- 5:20SPEAKER_00: You are not made up of cell by cell money.
- 5:23SPEAKER_00: You are made up of source and all that is.
- 5:25SPEAKER_00: You are made up of infinity.
- 5:27SPEAKER_00: And we are worshiping money when we should be worshiping the universe, our connection, our self.
- 5:36SPEAKER_00: See where I'm going with this?
- 5:37SPEAKER_00: We forget where being taken care of comes from.
- 5:41SPEAKER_00: It does not come from the job, although it appears to be.
- 5:44SPEAKER_00: It does not come from the money, although it appears to be.
- 5:46SPEAKER_00: It does not come from the people in our life, although it appears to be.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: It comes from source, it comes from the universe.
- 5:53SPEAKER_00: You are always taken care of.
- 5:55SPEAKER_00: The universe chooses the vehicle on how that comes through.
- 5:59SPEAKER_00: Whether that comes through a money, whether that comes through a job, or a partner, or a best friend, or a random stranger you've crossed paths with.
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: So this is your reminder: your safety, your stability, your survival doesn't come from the job that you're so terrified of leaving.
- 6:13SPEAKER_00: It doesn't come from the money you're so tired of leaving.
- 6:17SPEAKER_00: The support was never coming from the money.
- 6:20SPEAKER_00: You have to come to worship the God within you.
- 6:26SPEAKER_00: And you're so terrified of spending the money that comes from the job in the first place.
- 6:32SPEAKER_00: You're terrified of not having enough money that comes from the job in the first place.
- 6:36SPEAKER_00: Is it really even supporting you that good?
- 6:40SPEAKER_00: No, it comes from within.
- 6:41SPEAKER_00: The true support, the true stability, the true faith comes from within.
- 6:47SPEAKER_00: And so I challenge you to break that illusion starting today.
- 6:51SPEAKER_00: And I know that whatever you feel called to take action on is the safer choice.
- 6:58SPEAKER_00: And it always was because you will always be taken care of, following the path your soul is guiding you down.
- 7:05SPEAKER_00: Not by the job, definitely not the job.
- 7:08SPEAKER_00: That job does not actually take care of you.
- 7:12SPEAKER_00: And whenever I need this good reminder, my mantra is infinite.
- 7:16SPEAKER_00: I am infinite, God is infinite, space is infinite, the universe is infinite.
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: I am made up of infinity.
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: Forever.
- 7:24SPEAKER_00: Endless, limitless potential.
- 7:28SPEAKER_00: All possible existence is all within me.
- 7:31SPEAKER_00: How crazy is that?
- 7:33SPEAKER_00: To just sit there with your eyes closed for a second and just feel how wide the darkness can go.
- 7:40SPEAKER_00: Make the darkness behind your eyelids wider and wider and wider and wider.
- 7:44SPEAKER_00: Infinity, forever, never ending.
- 7:48SPEAKER_00: That is within you.
- 7:50SPEAKER_00: That's huge.
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: So I know it's so scary to not think logically.
- 7:55SPEAKER_00: It is terrifying.
- 7:57SPEAKER_00: That's why it's called faith.
- 7:58SPEAKER_00: Because it's not fucking logical.
- 8:00SPEAKER_00: It is scary because it's unknown.
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: But in the unknown is the only place the magic is.
- 8:08SPEAKER_00: The big magic.
- 8:10SPEAKER_00: We can experience bits of magic every single day, no matter what we do.
- 8:13SPEAKER_00: We are magical beings by nature.
- 8:16SPEAKER_00: But your dream life, where the huge miracles happen, where you find true faith, things that you cannot explain, that is in the unknown.
- 8:27SPEAKER_00: And I'm not saying it because it sounds good, it sounds deep and intellectual and profound.
- 8:32SPEAKER_00: I found that magic.
- 8:35SPEAKER_00: I made a super irresponsible decision, irresponsible to the logic mind, irresponsible to the people outside of me, irresponsible to my boss, my coworkers, my parents, my soul was quietly screaming within me, I'm meant to do more.
- 8:52SPEAKER_00: Please let me do more.
- 8:54SPEAKER_00: And instead of listening to the very loud, ego, logical, analytical mind, my brain, telling me, Alyssa, this manager position is literally in your fingertips.
- 9:05SPEAKER_00: All that's all you've been talking about.
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: This is what you want.
- 9:08SPEAKER_00: They offered it to you.
- 9:09SPEAKER_00: They want to pay you this much money.
- 9:10SPEAKER_00: This is your dream.
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: What happened?
- 9:12SPEAKER_00: What happened was my tiny, quiet, very patient soul was crying to go after my dream.
- 9:20SPEAKER_00: Please let me live, Alyssa.
- 9:22SPEAKER_00: Damn.
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: Something inside of me, it was like my soul took over in this meeting.
- 9:28SPEAKER_00: And I said, I quit.
- 9:30SPEAKER_00: I don't want this position.
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: I don't know what the fuck I'm doing.
- 9:35SPEAKER_00: And you know, when I left, I didn't feel, wow, I'm free.
- 9:39SPEAKER_00: I did it.
- 9:40SPEAKER_00: Wow, that was the right choice.
- 9:42SPEAKER_00: No, I didn't feel like the movie.
- 9:44SPEAKER_00: The movies where I'm just like so confident, happily ever after.
- 9:48SPEAKER_00: No.
- 9:49SPEAKER_00: I pondered for a good solid two weeks.
- 9:52SPEAKER_00: Uh, did I make the wrong decision?
- 9:54SPEAKER_00: I think I made the wrong decision.
- 9:55SPEAKER_00: I'm scared.
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: What am I doing?
- 9:57SPEAKER_00: It's too late now.
- 9:58SPEAKER_00: Plan B just became plan A.
- 10:00SPEAKER_00: My dream was plan B.
- 10:02SPEAKER_00: My dream was, oh, I'll just do a little bit on the weekends.
- 10:05SPEAKER_00: You know, I have to have this job because of money.
- 10:07SPEAKER_00: I have to, blah, blah, blah.
- 10:09SPEAKER_00: I'll just do my dreams at night after work.
- 10:11SPEAKER_00: No.
- 10:12SPEAKER_00: Your dreams should never sit on the back burner.
- 10:15SPEAKER_00: One day, maybe when this happens, if only this could happen, then this.
- 10:19SPEAKER_00: No, none of that.
- 10:20SPEAKER_00: It's never gonna happen.
- 10:21SPEAKER_00: It's never gonna happen when it's on the back burner.
- 10:25SPEAKER_00: You have to go for it.
- 10:27SPEAKER_00: You have to trust that when you know you're following your destiny, you're following your dream and your calling, your soul is going to be fulfilled when you take this path.
- 10:37SPEAKER_00: And that is why it works out.
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: That is why it's the correct path.
- 10:42SPEAKER_00: That's why magic happens and shit just works out somehow.
- 10:45SPEAKER_00: That is when the miracles happen of like, I don't know, my rent just got paid.
- 10:50SPEAKER_00: I'm serious.
- 10:51SPEAKER_00: There are people walking around grocery stores surprising people with thousands of dollars in cash.
- 10:57SPEAKER_00: They're surprising people at checkout.
- 10:59SPEAKER_00: I just want to pay for your things today.
- 11:02SPEAKER_00: Like, that's just one way that I could think of right off the top of my head.
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: Miracles happen all the time, and it only comes when you take the leap.
- 11:14SPEAKER_00: Those miracles are the net.
- 11:16SPEAKER_00: The net appears when you say, I don't know how it's gonna work out, but this is what I want, so I'm gonna go for it.
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: You just have to decide I'm never gonna know how it works out, but I know it will because this is what I'm meant to do.
- 11:31SPEAKER_00: You have to decide there's no backtracking.
- 11:35SPEAKER_00: And people love to tell you how irresponsible that is.
- 11:38SPEAKER_00: They love to tell you you're just living in fantasy land, you're not being realistic, but what about the kids?
- 11:45SPEAKER_00: But what about your work?
- 11:46SPEAKER_00: How are you gonna support yourself?
- 11:48SPEAKER_00: Let me tell you, when those people love to tell you all those things, you know you made the right choice.
- 11:56SPEAKER_00: Because if you hadn't, if you did listen to their advice, if you did choose to believe the same things they believe, you're gonna live the exact same life they're living.
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: They they just want the best for you, they love you, but they are not living their dream life.
- 12:10SPEAKER_00: So what the fuck do they know about going after it?
- 12:14SPEAKER_00: They don't.
- 12:15SPEAKER_00: Their advice is wrong.
- 12:17SPEAKER_00: It's wrong.
- 12:19SPEAKER_00: And every single successful person will tell you that.
- 12:22SPEAKER_00: They could not listen to their family and their friends because although they love them and although they mean well, they are wrong.
- 12:30SPEAKER_00: They know nothing about going after their dream because they were too scared to do it.
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: So remember what you are made up of.
- 12:37SPEAKER_00: Remember you are always taken care of, and just choose to believe that if you believe all on your own, you're that you're gonna be okay.
- 12:47SPEAKER_00: Or if you believe you're gonna fall on your face.
- 12:49SPEAKER_00: That's a self-fulfilling prophecy, either way.
- 12:53SPEAKER_00: You are everything's gonna fall into place, exactly how you focus it to fall into place.
- 12:59SPEAKER_00: That's all it takes is visualizing it every single day, morning and night.
- 13:04SPEAKER_00: Whenever you remember, start visualizing it.
- 13:06SPEAKER_00: In the car, start visualizing it on your break at work, start visualizing it.
- 13:11SPEAKER_00: In your journal, write it down.
- 13:14SPEAKER_00: Never stop visualizing it, never stop talking about the details.
- 13:18SPEAKER_00: You can never make a wrong turn when your soul is begging you to take that turn.
- 13:23SPEAKER_00: It is actually impossible.
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: So quit worshiping your job, quit worshiping other people's opinions, quit worshiping the money, worship the God within you.
- 13:35SPEAKER_00: You are a powerful being.
- 13:37SPEAKER_00: And doing this work is hard.
- 13:39SPEAKER_00: We all need a community.
- 13:40SPEAKER_00: We need someone to guide us.
- 13:42SPEAKER_00: That's why my Enlightened Babe Academy is there.
- 13:45SPEAKER_00: It is for that.
- 13:46SPEAKER_00: It is to walk you through taking the steps, step by step, how to believe it, what steps to take, how to rewire your brain to believe shit just always works out for me.
- 13:57SPEAKER_00: Because that's a tough belief to ingrain into our brain.
- 14:00SPEAKER_00: We've been taught the opposite for far too long.
- 14:03SPEAKER_00: It takes the practice, it takes the mental effort, it takes daily reminders, knowing when you take the leap, your that path goes straight to your dream life.
- 14:14SPEAKER_00: So the Enlightened Babe Academy is all the identity work I've shared, and this is exactly what changed me within a six-month period.
- 14:24SPEAKER_00: I s I started looking different, I made different money, I met different people.
- 14:28SPEAKER_00: Every single dream came true.
- 14:31SPEAKER_00: When I discovered exactly how to do it, it's the how.
- 14:35SPEAKER_00: We all want to do it, but we don't know the how.
- 14:37SPEAKER_00: And we don't know how to find the courage.
- 14:40SPEAKER_00: So that is always linked in my bio on Instagram at GorgeousBioyssa.
- 14:45SPEAKER_00: You can always come here to my podcast.
- 14:47SPEAKER_00: Of course, I will always have this free option to hype you up, to motivate you, to remind you exactly who you are, and to just go for it because you have one life.
- 14:56SPEAKER_00: You should be running full speed towards the things you want in this one short life.
- 15:02SPEAKER_00: So, I'm sending you so much love and success.
- 15:06SPEAKER_00: Bye.