Latest / Surviving Narcissistic Abuse with Jill Wise
Why Narcissists Punish You For Loving Them
Send us Fan Mail
In this episode, Jill breaks down one of the most confusing and painful dynamics in narcissistic relationships: why the more deeply you love a narcissist, the more cruelly they often treat you.
What should create intimacy in a healthy relationship—love, loyalty, vulnerability, devotion—often becomes ammunition in the hands of a narcissist. But why? Why does genuine love seem to trigger resentment, contempt, and punishment rather than gratitude?
Jill explains the psychology behind why narcissists devalue those who care for them most, how vulnerability activates their shame and…
The skinny
The skinny isn't ready yet — notes appear once the transcript is processed.