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66: coping after taking the interior design board exam with IDLE topnotchers and passers · Mindset Magic with Mika

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  Let's jump through the timeline now.
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  Ohh wow, they're done with the exam and they're just waiting
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  for the results. So Kamusta Young waiting game
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  for you, Jenna. Ohh, well yeah, hassle while
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  you. Wait.
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  Ohh you you. Last day of the board exam I
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  either Wednesday or Thursday so the next day was a work day and
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  we have a Marlo and I have already exhausted our leave
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  credits and we do we do not want we did not want to just stay at
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  home naman and rest even when we were allowed so most important
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  Commission work. Welcome to Mindset Magic with
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  Mika, where we unlock clarity, courage, confidence, creativity
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  and connection so you can show up as their most expressed, most
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  aligned, most unstoppable self. If you are ready to shift into
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  your main character energy and design our life that feels as
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  good as it looks, you're in the right place.
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  I'm Mika Doria, your interior designer, your mindset.
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  Magic news, branding goddess. Let's dive in.
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  And at that time the energy was still very high.
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  But I don't know, adrenaline, but I don't know.
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  Just stay on your positive attitude, keep a sense of
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  humour, celebrate because you have already done your part in
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  the preparation. You showed up during the board
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  exam, you know, you asked for, you sought divine help.
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  And now is the time to trust that you will receive more of
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  that, more of what you've asked now that it's done.
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  Yeah, very, really love that and it makes me happy to hear it
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  from you. Jen, really, the way you
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  articulated, yes, that is faith in action.
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  And like since all the intentions lined up, all the
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  energy and the toyon, the biggest chunk is the preparation
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  and the waiting game is just cherry on top.
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  Would know where they were. Like there's feeling it now.
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  Ohh I really believe now it's past now and when you found out
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  not top one style movement they inspire you.
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  Ohh it was a high for some. Time.
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  Yeah, everyone's cheering on you, congratulating you again.
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  There's a spotlight that comes with the title and um, but I
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  think more so it provided insight on me about goal setting
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  and teamwork because I usually work alone.
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  I like working alone with super young.
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  I remember. Yeah, but because of the board
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  exam, I I was able to see that there's so much you can do when
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  you allow other people to help you.
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  So we're gonna cha it's, it's also a a humbling experience in
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  a way. Ohh I like that but then I
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  remember now it's a similar theme for everyone.
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  Also who passed and like topped the board exam.
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  Well, at least among for them, it's really about remembering
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  now you're not alone in this. Yes, now there are powers
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  backing you up. There are people believing in
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  you. And you have yourself friend.
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  At the end of the day, you really like pull yourself
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  together. So wow.
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  Alone Wolf, Jen covering Lone Wolf.
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  Yeah, there is power in company. That's really work in the team,
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  guys. Breaking a team?
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  Forget spiritual guides for extra extra support if you feel
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  like you don't have a team yet. Yeah.
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  Oh, oh. How was faith for you during
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  that time? Jenna, how did you, how did feet
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  play a part so for the exams? Eat at the time.
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  I was spiritually challenged at the time.
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  So. Young strength goal mangagaling
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  Samantha It's very I don't know I I would I wouldn't I would
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  call it miraculous even maybe cause you more times that I was
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  most I felt most powerful was when people were talking me
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  talking to me about Bible verses.
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  They were sharing Bible verses with me.
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  Malakas you emotional empowerment, especially when
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  people were telling me to have faith and speak in the month.
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  It's also it's correlated with perseverance.
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  When when you have faith, that's only when you will persevere.
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  So you have to believe first talaga that you will get what
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  you want before you can put yourself in a position where
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  Gagawin cotton, because I believe I will get this.
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  Yeah, sure. That's through classified rang,
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  you know, happening now. When you have this feed you can
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  do anything you set your mind to.
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  Ohh because it's infinite. Wow.
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  Huh. So differently Sana failure in
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  your refresh, Nayan for our listeners there and OK, I'm
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  overwhelmed. Our intention is for you to find
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  and to hear. Most commonly you need you at
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  this moment. Even manifestation works out and
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  you know for manifestation the man and because works on the on
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  the wall review. Yeah.
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  What I did was I have I have this whiteboard and then I wrote
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  my name there the same way that it would be written Campinos PRC
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  new top ten list. And then there was my name 1 and
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  then my name and then the percentage that I wanted to get.
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  But I like you. And then I was surprised when
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  you grade Manila. It was my highest grade in the
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  board exam. In.
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  The same grade overall, but it was the highest grade in one of
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  the subjects. For the desire for the.
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  Number. I don't know why.
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  But I. Believe that it is something
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  about manifestation just because I was seeing it every single day
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  it happened. Did anyone else know going in?
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  There. Yeah, Hmm.
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  Two of the of the white board with my name in it.
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  Me and yes, that was manifestation in action and
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  leveraging subconscious mind. I knowingly.
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  I knowingly, yeah, that's a manifestation is really seeing
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  it before you really, you know, like experiencing it before you
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  see it happen in real life. And then young Nagagawa Nang,
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  having your name placed on it and seeing it everyday until
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  it's imprinted on your mind now. Ohh I can't tell the difference
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  if it's real or not ohh so when the moment came not top one car
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  it's like you're young subconscious.
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  It went like, huh, I know about this I.
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  Ohh, it's the same also as writing the goal on paper.
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  Yeah, see, this is the psychology behind it.
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  I won our episode for this tip. What?
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  We've been at the dog, like give yourself use now you're going to
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  be successful at it because it does work.
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  It does work. Wow, okay, so challenging daily
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  habit. Now, is that the daily habit
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  that you'd recommend to them, or is there something else now you
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  wanna recommend? You recommend it?
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  Genesis, fighting, wallpaper, laptop or whatever.
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  Something that you can see everyday.
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  Yes, and you still have time, especially Kapag.
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  NASA energy cannot review this in amplify Mopar with this it's
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  gonna happen. Alright so you wanna pop natural
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  tips nothing from China, the top 1 from 2023 and the highest
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  design portion down on the manifest Yeah let's shift Saddam
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  idea now ohh. What if they finish taking the
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  exam now and they're just waiting for them for their names
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  there manifesting now They passed so many long waiting game
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  and it can really be like nerve wracking for some.
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  So for you, how did you navigate young uncertainty now waiting in
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  my own? That's weird.
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  It's a blur. Umm.
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  My difference though I. Was sick ohh.
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  There, after the few days are over, I was.
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  In bed. And in the 20 days in between?
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  Ohh. This is my I'm sorry that you
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  take out the room with friends I shared earlier.
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  I will. I unintentionally isolated
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  myself. This one, this one that you
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  recited reaching out after my friends and to my family and to
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  have some time together and to also think about the next shop.
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  Well, next chapter. The thing about the next chapter
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  of my life, because in theory design, this is just one chunk
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  of my life. It's not it's your design
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  doesn't 100% defined me. Like there I am other things
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  aside from my career. So I started thinking about
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  other aspects of my life. Well, waiting.
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  Feel very important that don't get lost in the process of
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  reviewing for the listener and like your life doesn't revolve
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  around the board exam. It may seem like it right now,
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  especially when you're reviewing better after it.
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  No, not really. Not really.
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  It doesn't define you. It doesn't define you at.
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  All really just a test of how prepared you are as a
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  professional ID right? Ohh, well.
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  I do see like the board exam is like one, yeah, validation not
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  for other people for but for yourself.
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  And then so I also see it like as a gift, like you've studied
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  that hard for four years. So it can.
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  Take as a gift for yourself, like a final gift for yourself a
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  year after dynamic life. Hmm.
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  Ohh, the internal validation, I like that cause I really start
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  right when you start attaching the meaning of the exam to
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  external validation. That's when it gets more
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  pressuring and overwhelming, yeah.
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  Yeah. Wow.
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  So see, these are the introvert. These are our introvert musics.
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  This is our frequency. Ohh it's such a fresh, fresh
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  steak. Ohh it's the waiting period
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  after the eggs out. How was your waiting period
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  during that time? Did you know when you were gonna
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  pass? Now is.
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  There are no ohh you you you of all people.
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  Like I was telling them. But we have GC.
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  See, I I felt like I was gonna feel legit.
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  Oh my God. I don't know, but I'm champagne
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  welfare context for the people who might be listening.
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  We had our exam in the hotel. So some of our classmates they
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  had, they booked in the hotel. So they were after the exam,
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  they would go to their hotel room and then we would discuss
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  mean send them back. So when when they were
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  discussing their answers, I felt like, so I I got really in my
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  head in the bottom. Ohh my goodness, am I going to
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  fail? I really don't know.
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  And then what? Yeah, at the time I really felt
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  like hella when they were discussing their answers.
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  It's quite different from mine. And then I knew.
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  Not for me, because I knew that. The Zion I knew that from Baleka
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  will be through multiple choice so it really rattled me.
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  I really didn't think I was going to pass the baton haha.
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  I told myself no multiple choice bar in and then versus what I
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  wrote. So at the time I really didn't.
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  I didn't have an inkling that ohh, I feel like I'm gonna pass
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  wala talaga. It is very, very unexpected now
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  when they were revealed the ipass.
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  Interesting guess is some would say that they already know that
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  they were gonna pass so great they know they're going to fail.
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  Really. That I like that you're in the
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  in between. Really.
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  No, this is very against your brand new copper like mindset,
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  my mindset telegram and like manifesting Mahina ahead.
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  Like I really don't parang ohh. If I believe in it, I will it
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  will happen. And obviously manifestation is
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  deeper than that. Fairly.
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  I really can't tell myself no, no, I can do it.
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  I can do it because I I I guess I'm too realistic.
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  Not well, there is a chance that I will fail.
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  Let's just be honest and transparent.
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  About that I can. I can see that.
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  And the way that you also like give you strategies.
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  I know, I can see now it's really grounded and logical
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  because of course we need that also.
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  Yeah, I like that. There's nothing wrong with
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  hoping federal like shampoo when you do your best, there's always
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  not Ohh I hope I pass and I know I did my best temporary.
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  There is a big chance that you will pass and that's that's
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  good. It's healthy.
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  That would damage shutting down there now.
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  Hello. Say you also.
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  Need to be realistic. Now there is a chance that you
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  will fail because there are so many factors apart from you.
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  It could be maybe so that you can focus or test items are the
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  ones you didn't study for, so it's natural to be doubtful.
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  There's so neutral, but again, new term, but yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  it's a good place to be in like when you're preparing for
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  something big because anybody least you're not too anxious and
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  you're not too excited, you're just in the win between ohh,
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  that's a skill. That's a skill right away.
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  Suppose exam reflections yesterday afternoon.
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  OK, like personal exam. Then next is the waiting game.
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  Hmm. Ohh I think.
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  Okay. How did you handle that
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  uncertainty? Ish.
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  All right. I think it's gonna be quite
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  long. They will answer the next 20
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  days. For me there was no uncertainty
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  like. I.
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  Know. The next 20 days after the exam.
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  But it was really just me relaxing and trying to get back
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  my old life. I knew I would buzz around.
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  Yeah, India. I wasn't, I didn't really hear
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  anxious after that exam. I believe that with the training
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  that we had with all the mentorship Aruna, so I am around
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  you would feel it the other this morning when you you know you
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  know it when you would pass the exam.
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  So I guess that's what really helped me then do not worry over
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  it and actually not exam just say I wanted my old life so
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  back. I but I wanted my old life back
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  then I guess so if I would give that time Papa for boards.
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  Ohh, I know when you're. Yeah, yeah.
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  Ohh, hear you again. Playing because if you could not
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  affect anyone so I know so even said never cause if it go
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  confident can in the waiting game.
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  How much more you learn in Mudon so.
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  So guys, do your best that you know before the exam, but after
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  you wouldn't worry so. Much.
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  Longer than and still waiting you.
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  Ohh I hope you're getting you're learning from like us applying
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  like in your review on the same day.
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  For sure. And actually, you know, like
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  apply this ohh. Yes.
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  It's all fun until you start implementing and then you
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  support. You're here.
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  Guys. Good give yourself even after
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  chambre topping 1 naira matata. I see.
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  Maybe better looking back, but is there something that you
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  still wish you did differently so review process more?
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  I think that would be starting early start.
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  Nobody started the whole afternoon and the whole week
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  three months long or less, so I knew I had little time to
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  coverall all materials all the on topics now affords part.
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  So it wasn't I had to sacrifice more time from when I committed
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  the laga. Nah, okay, since mentioned next
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  month before. I need to pay for it so must
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  draining show on my part like physically and mentally.
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  And if I started earlier Eddie I would have covered more topics
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  and the week before the exam. So I think that's it and around
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  everything else, someone I think, although my mom said must
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  then with other aspects, I think they're meant to be that way,
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  but I wouldn't have them changed their mind.
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  You're not gonna guess starting early as and as much as they
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  can. As early as 9, yeah.
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  Ohh. Send them like started last year
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  nor like January this item. Ohh my fantasy ohh no what if
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  one year degree review son Agree out of you?
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  You know that. Yeah it ohh yeah, time is your
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  friend. Time can be your friend.
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  Ohh. How did you stay grounded while
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  waiting for the results? Ohh I got ground like after
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  exam. Ohh now Chaplain and then
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  putting your nerves haha. Tama Barnabas, a hog, Yeah.
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  Okay so after exam but the weight was like it wasn't
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  accurate. Don't bring me no wrapping up He
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  and the Shah edges. Boom, wrong 2 proposal.
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  So it was a constant battle between those better better
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  better and the health up 1 energy.
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  Ohh, another man. You know they love me.
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  Practice, but I'm gonna it made the pain like go away.
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  Aside from that, no, I don't know.
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  But after the exam, whatever results, whatever the result,
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  whatever happens, this is my next step.
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  Subway. But I got to play more of my
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  video games after. But yes, two look go back to my
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  regular program, LeBron on the side, but at the same time.
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  Well. I'm picking up the the things
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  that I left hanging before you exam during the review but only
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  plans. Are you eating habits?
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  Comments are weird. Similar games so just like stop
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  the doubt. But I don't know the attachment
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  delegates. I Remember Remember the late
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  afternoon exam like McDonald's, Fitbit Ave. and your organiser
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  and then the Savanna mica. So I know, I know, like they eat
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  now. Like I don't get you let him
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  make it indeed. Like right after you because
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  data is not good enough. Ohh this I know.
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  I remember talking to wild. OK.
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  Started before all. This happened.
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  Ohh. All right, Ohh, right after you.
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  That immediately like. Oh my God.
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  What? These Ben general and revenge
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  hobbies, the movies the series now.
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  Anyway, like one month Bob before the results came out I
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  think. It was like.
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  Three weeks. Three weeks or so.
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  Yeah. And then you did because you
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  know, previous exams. But on me I'm.
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  Very pattern. Ohh.
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  So but I think I didn't hear any SO exam.
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  So how long Deep Neon? What I know, it's not excited
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  for me. I'm still excited about the
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  results. But I'm.
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  In he needed a surpassing like I know I was.
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  Oh my God. Metal weird like I asked all
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  those for the exam answers now let me buy Napapasaya and you
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  answer to that across different professions is yes the basement
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  it's. For four months.
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  So, okay, so that one. Yeah, this all wrong evidence
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  that you know for you now. Okay, my speech now.
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  Saddle Ranch. Hello They.
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  Kaya talaga, guys. See.
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  See. Wow.
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  Ohh really appears off at the back.
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  Can I know my drawing? What if this year, young,
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  longest list, long top ten ID? Yeah.
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  Remember them by the week to say in Eastern America, then you
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  bubble Laban Silla. I don't mean don't be feeling
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  the Empire but I just want to. But no no para Hindi guys but
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  because I'm the end and so whenever me Malata cool downside
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  of view but I do my best but resource do you need?
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  Very classic. I say I don't everyone's Goldman
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  is to pass OHH, aside from the school Seguro highs school.
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  So let's help each other out then if you have batch meets.
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  No, don't know if you if you yourself need help.
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  What Can you imagine, Geraldina? Good, this is your new notes in
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  the Golem. Ohh, you see, you know, like you
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  just have to ask and if it be beginning and you go ohh, well,
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  we also have this so you also get like free access to like top
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  notcher things faster pastor psychology diva.
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  So guys like share it because you know, like bubbly set up, so
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  feeling. Like this is like like legit
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  everyone's like hustling the pass and that energy just drives
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  you up no matter. OK.
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  But on the energy. Ohh.
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  Study Groups. Study group Russell Brand has
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  collective power. You know, everyone sharing
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  resources, share information, sharing like goals, desires and
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  everything that uplift. And I would say no you idea
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  either, Nico. Like topping the boards wasn't
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  solely me, it's always the people around me.
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  I really attributed to those people beside me during those
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  times like Sajana Panda Guru drawing.
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  You gonna be getting the tips like in batch meets now and
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  shared each information and wow, I don't I'm looking poodle on my
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  own subram Layo. No, I know.
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  Tapas guys like Imagine Chambray Imaging Study Group New Celerina
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  Magpie fill in gaps like what happened with Marlo and like you
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  can also share your strengths. So you're all like, balancing it
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  out and killing? Yeah, I'm going to Myers.
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  Jenna stop one gonna go up one. Yeah.
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  Communal study buddies, known batch.
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  So Jenny's weakness was academics, which I am in
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  Stratford. Then my weakness, the man was
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  drawing, which is her strength, like Oh my God, so come off the
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  boards. I nearly design like mentally
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  healthy pressure between ourselves crafting minimalist
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  anything. Oh my God, I'm doing this.
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  We will suffer in Supernanny. But you that was surrendering
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  like I'm gonna colour scheme. Yeah, and how she presents her
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  board might as well like, I don't know standards healthy
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  competition want to like also have that.
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  So the whole new. Yes it's late and no leg
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  reputation and they usually is a Filipinos.
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  They'd be like jealous Ganon or like insecure if it is you.
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  Ohh, it's fine. It's fine that way.
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  Ohh yeah so you know when a guy saying you wanna pairings and
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  you study bodies, this is the tool, the container where they
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  can improve and at least make her not really willing to
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  support you in and then. Yes, that's a wrap for today's
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  episode. I hope.
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  This insights give you clarity, courage, confidence and peace as
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  you prepare for your own board exam journey.
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  Until next time, trust yourself, take up space and keep going.
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  You got this. You are.
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  The main character of your life. If this episode sparked
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  something in you, share it with a friend or tag me that Mika
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  Daria on Instagram. I'd love to see how you're
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  stepping into your magic. And if you're loving the podcast
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  Receiver, review it. Helps more visionaries,
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  achievers and creatives like you find this space.
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  And as always, let's shift into our main character energy
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  together. Keep.
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  Shining, keep creating. And I'll see you in the next
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  one.