Latest / Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez / 396 Cómo resolvemos nuestros problemas económicos
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- 0:04Odcast number three hundred ninety- six. How to solve economic problems in marriage
- 0:13and this is part six. Today we will be talking about economic lies that
- 0:23do not produce prosperity. We cannot achieve God’ s economic goals by ignoring
- 0:32God’ s own methods and rules for the economy. Besides, we'
- 0:38re going to tell you about economic mistakes Smith and I already make and how
- 0:45we solve it. Maybe all of a sudden. Looking at you in that
- 0:49mirror that we are going to show you today, you too find ways to
- 0:54solve those economic problems that even sometimes take your peace and sleep away. Welcome,
- 1:07I mean, God won' t say we come the same. Lord
- 1:11bless me my economy. How many of his prayers, at the beginning of
- 1:15the two thousand twenty- four, were asking for God to heal his economy.
- 1:18And God says to ok you want me to heal your economy. But
- 1:21in the nine days he' s been in January, you' ve already
- 1:25told your partner ten financial lies. But that' s how you expect me
- 1:29to bless your eye. I' m not just telling men. I'
- 1:30m telling women too. So many economic lies. You tell your husband.
- 1:34The market cost two hundred and fifty. A thousand lies cost two hundred,
- 1:38the other fifty. Look, you spilled it on him, or he spilled
- 1:42it on you. I said it' s not that sales and discounts I
- 1:45earn because I' m not stupid. Look, look, look, how
- 1:49they act. Some women say that if I don' t save on my
- 1:53side and in warm I can' t buy the bag, I can'
- 1:56t buy the uniform from the kids. It may be that whatever you heat
- 1:59up and steal from your husband you use for good things, but you cannot
- 2:04pretend to achieve God’ s dreams by violating God’ s standards. It
- 2:08' s good that you buy your son' s uniform, isn' t
- 2:12it, but you always buy it by telling your husband lies, you say
- 2:16that if I don' t tell him, he' ll never give me
- 2:17up. It' s up to me to beat him up, steal him,
- 2:22take him away, or tell him or trick him so I can have
- 2:23Pap buy the kids' tennis. But I don' t know what happens
- 2:25to God that God doesn' t bless me and God says because you lie
- 2:30to your husband. If you go on like this, you' re never
- 2:34going to solve the problem that your husband has, that he never gives you
- 2:37and you' re never going to stop stealing, so he goes to trial
- 2:39for your husband and judgment for you That' s the result of what I
- 2:44told them a moment ago that then, for fear of telling him to hear
- 2:49me for the boy' s shoes, because you have to give me certain
- 2:52and she stops stealing. Then they became accustomed to having their economic model based
- 2:55on the structure of sin, which distorts absolutely everything. Then we went into
- 3:02the division of him. If you' re going to say something, it
- 3:07could be. I didn' t want to know if it was understood,
- 3:10because I don' t know if it was. These are, and we
- 3:13' re on it. But I' ll give you the word I swear
- 3:15I' ll give you the word right now I waited for a mummetic.
- 3:17Who sent her to marry me who speaks God, let us return who rules
- 3:25the man' s house. God says that man is head of his home,
- 3:30as Christ is head of the Church ok but who should govern the economy.
- 3:36If the woman has better ability, the woman administers, what is the
- 3:40problem that she governs something that you cannot govern. If God told him that
- 3:46authority was based on a principle of humility Yasmira administers absolutely all Jasmet. Know
- 3:54all the bank accounts, know every last weight I spend, the last weight
- 3:58that comes in already. She administers everything because she does it better. She
- 4:03sends me an excel and she doesn' t hide any account from me.
- 4:06I can ask you where this goes, what was bought for the estate,
- 4:10which was made, for this company, which was made for this program,
- 4:12that I buy everything absolutely. She informs me and to make some decision comes
- 4:16and asks me, love, this is how we do with this. I
- 4:20can tell you and take care of that. I don' t know or
- 4:23do it like this, like this, but I don' t know administratively
- 4:29you' re a thousand times superior to me, so the one who has
- 4:33to have control is the one who best does it to answer to God.
- 4:35Back then, that' s what my wife said that she kind of gives
- 4:40us a little bit of power, let' s not say it' s
- 4:43her way of looking at it. Okay. Yeah, it' s just,
- 4:46yeah, well, then the word power was men don' t know
- 4:48a little bit of power. Not good. What happens is that man has
- 4:51a head, he has as much responsibility for everything that the economy represents.
- 5:00And all this, and obviously, is at the forefront of all economics and
- 5:04responsibility. And we ask that they be part of us, give us the
- 5:13opportunity to be in all the decisions that they need to make, not only
- 5:18that they have the autonomy so that they can make all the decisions that in
- 5:25the economic part, simply with the opinion and concept that they have, but
- 5:30that they are given a little bit so that we can intervene, help,
- 5:35advise, guide and mutually make decisions regarding the economy. And it' s
- 5:41important love in weakness, being able to be strong. And this aspect is
- 5:47supremely important, because it' s that girls I was trying to tell you
- 5:54a while ago. We need to train. If you see that your husband
- 5:58is weak in some then don' t start to crush that aspect, to
- 6:05fight with him all the time, because he' s not doing it right,
- 6:11and I' ll be determined to hammer, to criticize, to judge
- 6:15why he' s not doing it right, why he' s doing this
- 6:21the other thing just train yourself learn learn to be trained and, amid his
- 6:27weakness, you can start to be strong. That, that was a task
- 6:29because when we got married, he was weak and I wasn' t good
- 6:32at it either. But I realized that little by little, he just doesn
- 6:36' t care about the things about the economy and finance. He' s
- 6:44in another world. I was touched by a creative husband who is, is
- 6:47in a world of creating, describing, doing other things. And for him
- 6:53the economics part of finance, for him he gets it from where he wants
- 6:59to be. He' s not interested. Then in that respect. I
- 7:03needed to start training, training, studying, reading, knowing what to do,
- 7:08how to do, what not to do. And even in spite of
- 7:13all these years that have passed, he even though he has learned, though
- 7:16he has tried, because he has really forced himself a lot, many times
- 7:21he returns and falls at least Joseph that is a person who is a compulsive
- 7:27buyer. I don' t know if you have a husband who buys compulsively.
- 7:30I have to be behind him, what are you going to buy?
- 7:33What are you going to buy it for? If it serves and does not
- 7:38serve and works, no, no, He does not look at anything at
- 7:42all. He just wants to buy. Look. It happened to us recently.
- 7:45We were in Miami, an antecedents of coming here one day. Suddenly,
- 7:49he stayed late because they were playing a game. I lay down and
- 7:55he stayed late watching. Yeah, it was because of the pressure that the
- 7:59good bucaraman lost watching a game and I saw that he stayed. It came
- 8:03about 1: 00 a m Güey the next day I tell her my love,
- 8:09you stayed late last night, what you stayed doing. Nothing. The
- 8:15game ended and I started looking around at Amazon and myself and what I was
- 8:20watching on Amazon Not some silly things I wanted to take you to Colombia.
- 8:26That' s where I bought some things, some gloves for the farm,
- 8:35a carpit, I think like some lights, because I want when we get
- 8:41there to sing a plant. Inside the plant. There were two, a
- 8:45generator don' t look, look, what happens and I write. I
- 8:50told him my love how much he cost what he bought and he says no.
- 8:56I don' t know. No. That wasn' t much.
- 9:00Yeah, I checked when I went over 15 things like that on the list
- 9:05and all repeated. I had bought two power generators. I' d bought
- 9:11a lot of stuff. Sure, I tell her, I love myself,
- 9:13but how do you figure out what you' re buying all that for?
- 9:16You don' t need that no, you tell me no, no,
- 9:18no? No, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 9:18no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Back?
- 9:20Back? Back? Back? Give it back? All that? If
- 9:22you look back, it' s my turn. It was my turn to
- 9:26start by fixing the problem he had left because it wasn' t needed.
- 9:30Impulsive buyers, like my husband, often buy things they don' t need
- 9:37with money, which there' s no way to impress those they don'
- 9:39t know, that is, all the time. It is so then,
- 9:43and but it has to be one there as if women guys power men with
- 9:50a boring face. But I definitely say in conclusion, my love is that
- 9:58I have to say something. We must have been talking for minutes or minutes.
- 10:00I know we must be strong. My love yes, where you are
- 10:05weak, I ask God for strength, where your husband is weak, ask
- 10:09Him. I mean, it' s something because she loves me. He
- 10:16wants this from a secret, because I know how to apologize. I'
- 10:20ll give you three points. Number. One, I' m sorry,
- 10:26it hurts I' m going to look at her eyes and tell her I
- 10:31' m sorry It was wrong. What I did, yes. Second,
- 10:35if that brings economic detriment, I' m going to work harder and get
- 10:41the money back and I give it to you and I always do. I
- 10:43' m going to wear look what I did Mari and Third, that I
- 10:48say I don' t do it again. Then he forgets that he should
- 10:50not do it again, but wait is look, look at economic health.
- 10:58Recognize when you' re not wrong you go to the person to look in
- 11:03the eyes and read forgiveness I did wrong. I shouldn' t have bought
- 11:09that. Second, the hole that stayed there, I cover it up.
- 11:13I' m gonna get up earlier, I' m gonna go out to
- 11:16work, and I' m gonna give you the cash for this third.
- 11:18I promise to fight so I won' t do my best again. Next,
- 11:24that' s next problem. Life goes on is podcast number three hundred
- 11:33ninety- six, but there are three hundred ninety- five waiting for you
- 11:39in Christian Joseph Ordonez. Com The main intention of these podcasts is to have
- 11:46the right information for you to put into practice. As the word of God
- 11:52says, not only be hearers, but be doers. Jasmid and I hope
- 11:58you found some answers about the Christian way we handle our money. For now
- 12:09I want you to have a nice day that prosperity will accompany you thanks to
- 12:15the good economic ways you put into practice. God bless you.