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- 0:00Speaker 1: Well, good morning, listeners. Thank you for listening to Lament
- 0:03Speaker 1: of Hope podcast, and thank you for listening, watching, whichever
- 0:07Speaker 1: platform you're on.
- 0:08Speaker 2: That's a very good question. I think that there are
- 0:13Speaker 2: several answers to that question. A few things that spring
- 0:17Speaker 2: to mind, or at least that apply to my own
- 0:19Speaker 2: personal experience, are the memories that are connected to food.
- 0:25Speaker 2: So I've got very, very strong memories connected not only
- 0:29Speaker 2: to the taste of specific foods, but also to their flavor,
- 0:34Speaker 2: to their smell, to what they smell like. For instance,
- 0:38Speaker 2: there is a particular pie that is a sweet pie
- 0:43Speaker 2: that is baked in Italy in the area of Naples
- 0:45Speaker 2: in the period around Easter. And it's made with orange
- 0:51Speaker 2: blossom water. So whenever my dad used to make it
- 0:54Speaker 2: at home, the whole house would smell like orange blossom.
- 0:57Speaker 2: And he made like 30 or 40 of these pies
- 1:00Speaker 2: because he used to give them away to friends and
- 1:03Speaker 2: family as a present for his to celebrate Easter. So
- 1:06Speaker 2: in my mind, every time I smell that, my head
- 1:09Speaker 2: goes immediately to my childhood years in my original family,
- 1:16Speaker 2: my mom and dad. in their house with my dad
- 1:20Speaker 2: baking these things for half of the village, essentially. So
- 1:25Speaker 2: I think the same thing goes for the taste of
- 1:28Speaker 2: some food that remind me of my grandmother, for example.
- 1:31Speaker 2: She used to make this particular type of pasta weekly, regularly,
- 1:35Speaker 2: every Wednesday. And every time I smell garlics frying in
- 1:42Speaker 2: olive oil with some olives in it, the smell and
- 1:44Speaker 2: the taste... brings me back to those days and that time.
- 1:48Speaker 2: So I think that there is an element of sensorial
- 1:58Speaker 2: linkage between every person and their past memories. And the
- 2:04Speaker 2: food is a very good representation of this. It's a
- 2:06Speaker 2: very good channel to bring out all those memories, usually good,
- 2:12Speaker 2: but not necessarily bad. good, and that's why it becomes
- 2:16Speaker 2: so important, it becomes such a radical part of everybody's personality.
- 2:21Speaker 2: On top of that, there is a bit of a
- 2:24Speaker 2: peculiar approach to food that is quintessentially Italian. It's the
- 2:33Speaker 2: fact that not only it's important to, for Italians, not
- 2:36Speaker 2: only is important the recipe itself that shows that belonging
- 2:41Speaker 2: to that particular region of Italy, but there is a
- 2:44Speaker 2: common ground all around the country in Italy where food
- 2:48Speaker 2: is considered way more than just its calorific value. So
- 2:53Speaker 2: it's not considered as fuel, but when you eat together,
- 2:59Speaker 2: you're sharing a social moment. The TV is off, and
- 3:03Speaker 2: that's the time when the family comes together, everybody talks
- 3:06Speaker 2: to each other, everybody's sitting around the table. You know,
- 3:11Speaker 2: there is that convivial slash social element to it that
- 3:16Speaker 2: is way beyond just the flavour of what you're eating.
- 3:20Speaker 1: You know, is that still... what it's like in Italy
- 3:24Speaker 1: for families, you think? Because in America, I mean, this
- 3:29Speaker 1: obviously isn't new news, but I mean, we're very busy.
- 3:32Speaker 1: There are not, you know, busyness is very idolized, I'd say.
- 3:37Speaker 1: You know, if you're busy, it's a good thing. And
- 3:40Speaker 1: so people don't have meals together often. And then when
- 3:43Speaker 1: you meet a family that has a meal together, you're
- 3:45Speaker 1: kind of stunned because, you know, it's like, whoa. it
- 3:49Speaker 1: feels like you're going back to the 1950s or something
- 3:51Speaker 1: for a second. Um, so I was, is like in Italy,
- 3:55Speaker 1: is that still the case that families.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Really spend a lot of time? So the, that, that
- 4:03Speaker 2: culture that you're referring to, uh, uh, if you're that busy,
- 4:08Speaker 2: that it's good, it must be good. Um, that type
- 4:11Speaker 2: of culture is percolating also in, uh, uh, throughout Italy. Um,
- 4:17Speaker 2: and throughout the whole country, really. So it's not as
- 4:21Speaker 2: easy as it used to be to have meals together.
- 4:25Speaker 2: When I was a kid, we used to have lunch
- 4:28Speaker 2: and dinner as a family together. So the table would
- 4:31Speaker 2: be set out with a tablecloth at lunch and at
- 4:35Speaker 2: dinner regularly every single day. The situation now is slightly different,
- 4:40Speaker 2: and lunches have become slightly more complicated for people to
- 4:45Speaker 2: meet up because People keep working all the way through
- 4:51Speaker 2: to late afternoon. So dinner has become the only opportunity
- 4:54Speaker 2: where the whole family can come together. But having said that,
- 4:57Speaker 2: at least in my house, for example, and I don't
- 4:59Speaker 2: even live in Italy any longer, we always come together
- 5:03Speaker 2: for dinner. The kids have got their own meal at school, obviously,
- 5:07Speaker 2: but we always eat together at least once a day
- 5:10Speaker 2: for dinner. And during the weekend when the kids are
- 5:14Speaker 2: at home, it's lunch and dinner, not just lunch. But
- 5:19Speaker 2: I have to say that there is...