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Use Feminine Energy In Business | Goddess Energy · Mindful Success Path

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  Using your feminine energy in business can be a massive superpower that not only helps you make more money, but also makes it easier in your relationships once you're off the clock and done.
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  Working.
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  So if that's something that you're interested in hearing about, then make sure to stick around until the end.
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  'cause I'm gonna be sharing some tips that a lot of these women out here in the YouTube feminine energy space don't even know what they're talking about because they've never actually run a business.
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  But I have, hi, my name is Amanda Abya.
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  Welcome to this channel where we talk all about how to manifest what you desire in life with all, all the without, all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to.
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  So if that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single video that we have coming out on this channel.
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  And make sure to give this video a like and share it with women in your life.
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  Lately we've been talking a lot more about masculine energy, feminine energy.
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  We've been talking about relationships, how to manifest provider.
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  Men.
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  You all are loving.
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  The provider men content, save a sister, share it with her.
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  'cause there's a lot of craziness going on out here in relationships.
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  And we need to get this information out, uh, to as many women as humanly possible so we can start shifting the dynamics, uh, in our society to something that's a lot healthier, uh, for men, women, and future generations.
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  And for those of you who've been asking, if I do one-on-one.
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  Sessions, I did open up my calendar for some one-on-one sessions, specifically for, uh, this audience and this YouTube channel.
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  The only caveat is I don't know how long I'm gonna be able to have this available because this is not the main gig in my life, uh, or in this household.
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  So I don't know how long it's gonna be available, and as the channel grows, then I'm gonna have less and less time to do one-on-one sessions.
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  But for those of you who've been asking, yes, I made some time, uh, it's first come, first serve and it's whatever's available in my spare time when I have time to do it.
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  You can find the link to that below.
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  All right, let's get into it.
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  How to use feminine energy in business.
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  So let me give you a little bit of background.
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  Uh, before I talk about, you know, present day, my background is that, um, way before I met my husband, I spent about seven to eight years in the financial space.
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  I was doing marketing for banks.
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  I was a financial educator.
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  I would get hired as a spokesperson.
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  I learned a lot about, uh, the marketing world, the media world.
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  Finance, all those kinds of things.
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  And then I shifted into teaching people how I built that business, right?
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  'cause a lot of people were asking me, how'd you do it?
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  And I'm like, you gotta learn how to market and sell.
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  So I had a training company where I was teaching, uh, marketing and sales.
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  And then right when I met my husband is when I was starting to go through some transitions in my life, uh, and in my career where I realized, uh, I needed to make some really big shifts in how I made money.
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  Um, and if you've seen any of my videos previously, I've talked about like the really deep stuff that was going on for me that maybe may resonate with you.
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  The reason I was pushing so hard in my career was to avoid relationships altogether because I had been taught, um, you know, for my own safety and, and stuff like that, that the world is a dangerous place.
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  You can't trust men.
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  Men are incompetent.
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  Um, men are gonna hurt you.
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  They're gonna abuse you, they're gonna take advantage of you.
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  So you need to make sure that you know how to take care of yourself.
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  Well, I did a really damn good job taking care of myself to the point where, uh, men didn't want to take care of me, right?
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  Which then led, uh, to some other problems.
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  And perhaps some of you watching this video can relate to that.
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  In addition to that, um, most of my mentors, and to be honest, my best mentors, if I'm being completely honest, in business, were men.
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  Uh, so the template that was provided for me was a very masculine template.
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  Now, on the one hand, this was actually pretty awesome because I got to see what healthy masculine energy looks like in business, in career.
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  Uh, you know, I was colleagues with men who, for example, would say, Hey, the reason I'm pushing so hard is for my future wife and kids.
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  The reason I'm pushing so hard is so my wife doesn't have to work.
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  The reason I'm pushing so hard is so my kids can do X, Y, and Z.
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  So I was exposed.
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  To a lot of like very healthy masculine behavior, um, in a lot of instances, which was great because it gave me like a template of maybe something I would be interested or what I'm looking for.
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  But at the same time, um, they were teaching me to run businesses like a man because that's what men know how to do.
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  So, um, it was a lot of like the hustle, culture, uh, stuff.
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  And then also again, on the flip side, it was good because I learned how to receive assistance.
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  Uh, from men, because I think it's Cody Sanchez who says this, that, you know, men in the workplace, they either want to like father you, like, be like your mentor.
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  They want to, uh, be your friend and, um, help you in that way or they wanna f you and you just have to decide, you know, which bucket, uh, the men in your workplace go into.
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  And I was like, you know what?
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  She's right.
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  Unfortunately a lot of women don't know how to make that distinction and they get themselves into problems, but that's a conversation for another time.
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  So learning business from men and being in industries that were pretty male dominated on the one hand was great because I did get to see really healthy examples of masculine men, and I made a lot of friends with men.
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  Uh, who would give me a lot of insights in, uh, in terms of relationships and dating and stuff like that, but on the other hand, it wasn't so great.
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  Because I was taught to, you know, push like a man because that's what they know how to do.
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  And eventually, uh, that all came crashing down on me.
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  You know, that combined with, uh, I was pushing so hard to avoid being in relationship to begin with, to keep myself safe.
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  So eventually that all crashed and burned.
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  So by the time I met my husband, I was already in that transition where I was on my way out.
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  Um, of my last business and my last career, and I was very interested in finding a career or a life where I could be a lot more in my feminine, um, energy.
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  And within the first four months of, of starting to come back from everything falling apart, I met my husband, uh, who's been instrumental in this journey for me.
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  So what have I been trying to figure out the last two years?
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  How to run business and make money.
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  From a more, uh, feminine perspective, especially as I go through career transitions.
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  Um, because, and to be honest, my whole life transitioned.
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  I met my husband, I moved to another country.
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  Everything transitioned all at once.
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  Talk about quantum leaping, right?
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  If you guys want me to do a video in quantum leaping, uh, let me know in the comments.
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  But the, the last thing that I've been figure trying to figure out how to transition is, you know, career and making money.
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  And thankfully.
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  You know, I have a husband who is very healthy and he's masculine and he is very much a provider.
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  So he's been very helpful in that regard, uh, both in terms of taking on the provider role in a lot of ways, but also as I given me time to experiment and see kind of, you know, what clicks and what doesn't.
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  which I very much appreciate because I know, especially from the comments and the one-on-one sessions, a lot of what I'm hearing is that a lot of these husbands out here are not letting give their wives any time and space to go figure out, you know, what makes them happy, because they're like, you gotta pay half the bills, or you gotta pay all the bills, or, I'm not working, so you gotta go pay bills.
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  And then women feel like they're under a lot of pressure.
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  So I'm very grateful that my husband, uh, has given me that space.
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  Uh, and that patience to, to go experiment because ultimately at the end of the day, he doesn't want me to have to work.
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  Um, I work because I want to and because it's fun and I have a lot to say and I have a lot of energy.
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  Right?
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  Um, but it's not because I necessarily have to, if that makes sense.
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  Um, so my husband has given me a lot of that space.
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  So part of what I've been figuring out right, is, okay, well how can I run businesses in more?
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  Uh, ways that are more in alignment with my feminine energy.
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  And in my case, I happen to marry a man who is really good at the more structural parts, uh, of a business.
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  So in my case, I always knew that I was very good, and this is the feminine energy part.
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  I was always very good.
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  At the creative side of things, at the marketing side of things, uh, you know, tapping into what people are feeling.
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  I'm really good at that.
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  Um, tapping into trends, like I'm super good at all that stuff.
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  Anything administrative or operations or anything like that?
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  I'm horrible.
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  Anything tech.
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  I'm horrible.
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  So.
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  I got lucky, and so far as my husband's really good at that stuff, the stuff I'm really bad at.
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  So in terms of now, now that's a, a particular instance and part of the reason why I was burning out so bad before I met my husband, um, is because I didn't, I didn't understand that stuff, right?
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  Like I was not naturally good at systems and structures and operations and admin stuff, and like, I'm not naturally good at those things.
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  But what I was doing was that I was taking all that stuff on.
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  Um, and that's part of what caused my burnout.
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  And I think where a lot of women are right now, and of course this has to do with where your natural talents lie.
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  I think a lot of women in business.
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  Are in positions right now where they're doing too damn much, which is exactly where I was.
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  Some of you have team and you're doing too damn much'cause that team isn't bringing you in any money.
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  And instead you're paying for everybody's salary.
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  So you're working your buns off trying to make sure that all the bills are paid, which is no different than being in a relationship with a man who is not providing.
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  Okay.
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  It's really not.
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  I've worked with women in business capacity and at the same issues they're having in business, I see it play playing out with their men, um, a lot of times.
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  So a lot of your positions, or perhaps you have team employees, all this kinds of stuff, but they're not actually contributing, uh, to the point where you need them contributing, and then you are the one, uh, with the load on your back.
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  And I would not be surprised if you're starting, you're seeing something similar happen, uh, in your relationships, right, in your romantic partnership.
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  So a lot of women are being overburdened by doing too damn much in their businesses.
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  So step one would be to, um, find support and support that's actually good and support that's actually contributing, uh, support that's actually growing your business, not just you paying for everybody's salary while they coast.
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  There's a lot of that going on too.
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  The second thing right, is that you need to have.
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  It's gonna sound kind of counterintuitive, but you do need to have more masculine structures in a business so you can, uh, thrive more in your feminine.
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  And again, this is gonna go back to asking for help because some of you are gonna be more like me, where, uh, you're, you're more naturally creative, right?
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  And you're really good at that aspect of things.
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  You have an eye for things, you have a sense for things you, you can tap into intuition and stuff like that.
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  You're very creative.
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  You've got idea after idea, after idea after idea.
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  Some of you're gonna be more like me, in which case.
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  Uh, you're gonna need to add in a lot more structure, but that structure doesn't need to be done by you.
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  And that's the important part.
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  So, number one, hire the right people, but number two, get a lot more tech and automations in place.
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  Now again, I lucked out that my husband literally is a genius at those things and did it for a living, uh, for 15 years.
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  So even with this YouTube channel, for example, if you're clicking on links or getting automated emails or all that kind of stuff, like he helped me build.
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  All that stuff.
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  'cause I'm fatal, as we say in Spanish when it comes to those things.
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  And that's part of what was burning me out before is I was trying to figure all that stuff out, um, on my own or just with the, the capability that I had.
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  So you may need to find somebody, even if it's hiring them, uh, to really build out what these systems are because.
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  For example, you wanna be able to eventually get in a position where we are right now, where, you know, business comes to us basically, um, from our YouTube channels.
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  Like this YouTube channel started making passive income.
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  And that's why I was like, you know what, uh, probably should spend a little bit more time on there now that I have the data.
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  The, the other YouTube channel is more about the, the relocation business, which is more my husband's jam.
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  He does more of the operations and the services, um, for that business, um, that most of the business comes to us.
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  Um, through YouTube, and then everything behind the scenes is basically automated.
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  So eventually you wanna get to a point in your business where you've got enough structures in place, either through team or through automations and technology and things like that, where most of the grunt work is already being done automatically, or most of the structural work is being done automatically.
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  And then you can spend more time in more of the feminine energy tasks, which is.
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  Doing marketing, right, doing videos, building connections, building community, that's all more feminine, um, energy stuff, or you just have more time to work on your energy period.
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  Because part of what was happening to me in my previous, uh, career in businesses is that I was so overworked and overburdened.
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  And I explained all the reasons why and all the factors contributing to that, um, is the, I didn't even have time to work on my own energy and my own rest.
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  It got to a point where I didn't have time to work out.
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  I wasn't sleeping very much.
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  Uh, I couldn't even sit down and meditate for five minutes because I was so anxious from all the pressure, um, that I was feeling.
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  So sometimes, right, it, it's a matter of not even just building all these things so you can make more money.
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  It's also building these things so you can actually take care of yourself.
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  Um, and rest and have more time and space because if you are a more feminine energy woman like I am, you probably get your best ideas when you're doing nothing.
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  Uh, and if you're looking to cultivate more feminine energy, you need to spend more time resting.
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  So I spent two years not necessarily doing nothing but experimenting and not working.
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  Uh, or three years not working as hard as I used to.
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  Again, that's partially thanks to my husband.
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  Um, but in that downtime, that's when I was like, oh, I have an idea for a YouTube channel to talk about, you know, Americans and British people and Canadians living in other countries like we do.
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  Boom.
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  That turns into a business.
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  That's when, uh, if in my downtime when I get an idea like, oh, you know what?
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  I'm gonna do this workshop thing and I'm gonna put it on Facebook and boom, it's making sales in 24 hours.
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  When I have that downtime and I have that rest, um, that's when I can see like the bigger picture of things and how they all work together.
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  But if I'm so overworked and stressed out that I don't have downtime.
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  I can't tap into that.
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  I can't tap into it at all.
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  Right?
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  And then, you know, I can't problem solve, although my husband solves a lot of the problems now.
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  Um, but I can't figure out marketing campaigns because that's all very creative, intuitive stuff for me.
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  So I need the time to chill.
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  And the final thing that I'm gonna say is that you need to focus on things that are more leveraged.
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  Uh, so a lot of people are trading time for money.
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  Now, you might say, Amanda, you're offering one-on-one sessions right now.
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  The reason why I'm doing that now is because this is a brand new project, right?
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  So I'm gonna offer one-on-one sessions, number one to get practice in.
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  But number two, because it's also really good market research, um, for me, and I'm in the beginning stages of a project, give it six months, I won't be doing it anymore, right?
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  So there's time and place, uh, as well, and that's important too.
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  To point out, but the, the point that I'm trying to make here is you need to focus on things that are more leveraged, right?
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  So in previous businesses.
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  Uh, for example, I would teach group programs or courses instead of doing one-on-one time.
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  Or for example, one thing that we've really focused on heavily in the last year is YouTube through two different channels.
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  This one being one of them, which was a fun, creative project for me, and now it's turned into a business, right?
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  Um, so through YouTube, because YouTube is leverage.
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  What do I mean by that?
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  You wanna focus on things where like, let's say you take one action, but it's gonna give you like 10 times the result.
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  And YouTube is the perfect example because here's what most people are doing.
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  Most people are out dancing on TikTok or writing 10 posts on Facebook a day.
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  I will do that if I have time.
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  Instead, what I would rather do is focus on YouTube because if I make one video, and of course I've learned how to do all this stuff, and I do actually have a course that teaches you everything I'm about to say.
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  So I will leave it in the comments below.
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  Um, but let's say, right, if I learn how to do YouTube really well, so I learned the search engine optimization.
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  I learned how to optimize each video.
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  I learned how to get these videos to show up on search results.
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  Then guess what happens?
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  I film one video and it brings me business for years to come because I am the honeypot attracting the bees.
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  Does that make sense?
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  Right.
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  And it's much easier to do that on things like YouTube where you can take advantage of YouTube search and Google search than it is to do it on anything else.
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  So I do have, uh, a course that I've taught a couple times now you can get it on demand.
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  It's called the YouTube Mastery Workshop, for those of you who have businesses and you wanna leverage the power, um, of YouTube because, for example, this channel.
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  Gets traffic from both, uh, YouTube and Google.
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  And then you've got people booking sessions on autopilot without me really doing much of anything except making videos.
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  Core sales.
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  Automatically.
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  Um, the other business, it's a lot more involved'cause we're helping people with immigration and find real estate and helping them move to another country.
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  So that's a, that's a different story right over on that.
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  And again, that's mostly my husband's jam.
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  Um,'cause he's good at operations, but all the business, uh, comes to us.
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  People are attracted to us.
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  Um, and that's a very feminine way of doing marketing rather than writing 10 times a day on Facebook or dancing on TikTok.
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  For no apparent reason.
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  It's about being very strategic and learning how to attract people to you, not just one time, not just for 48 hours, but for years to come.
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  Because when you start building that in, right, then money starts to be, uh, to come to you more easily.
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  That's like the structural part.
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  Again, YouTube mastery workshop.com to get like all the logistics and the SOP and the step by step process of how YouTube works and how to get it to bring you business, the energetic part.
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  Of YouTube that I really enjoy is the fact that I provide a lot of value through videos.
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  Uh, universe is like, okay, so and so is providing a lot of value.
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  You find me right?
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  And then I get value in return in the form of money just for sharing things that help people.
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  That's it from the energetic standpoint and YouTube is just, um, a more leveraged way of, and a work smart, not hard kind of way of sharing things.
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  That helped people.
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  All right.
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  Had to readjust the camera there, but we are back.
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  So next thing I'm gonna talk about, about in terms of how to use more feminine energy in your business, and this is so crucial, especially if you wanna attract more abundance and more money in a way that's more pleasurable, um, is to literally have some damn fun, right?
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  So a lot of what I see, and I've also gone through this, and it depends what stage of business that you're in, is that a lot of you are just not even really having fun.
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  You're doing things out of obligation.
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  You're doing things'cause you think you're supposed to be doing it, but you haven't really, a lot of you haven't necessarily.
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  Tapped in or clicked in to the thing that it is that you're supposed to be doing right now.
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  Again, I've been right there with you.
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  It's, I've chilled out the last three years or so, experimenting with a lot of things and spending a lot of time in meditation, figuring out what the next move is, how, you know, how, what's my career, what's my purpose supposed to look like?
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  'cause my purpose connected to my career.
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  I get it right.
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  Um, however, I can tell you.
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  For example, I would use the Entrepreneur Expat Project as an example.
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  Um, the relocation business that my, my husband runs and I help him with that is the fastest growing entrepreneurial project we've ever seen.
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  We each had been in business over 15 years.
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  Or or 10 years before we met each other and we've done a lot of things, okay?
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  Both of us, before we even met each other in terms of business and experiments and projects and brands.
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  It's the fastest growing one ever.
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  One of the reasons why is because it's so freaking.
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  Fun to us.
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  Like what is not fun about living in other countries?
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  What is not fun about talking, seeing what real estate is available in other countries and in my husband's case, he loves to solve very complicated problems for people.
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  And moving abroad has a lot of logistics and a lot of complicated problems.
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  So that's fun for him.
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  So when you're doing things that are actually fun, um.
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  You're more motivated to actually do the things that you're supposed to do to bring in the money.
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  This channel started as a fun side project for me, and then it started bringing in money, so I was like, okay, but because I enjoy doing it, then this right here, like filming this video doesn't feel like a drag in my previous business doing anything related to marketing.
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  Um, started to feel like a total drag because I just wasn't that into it anymore.
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  I wasn't having fun with it.
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  It wasn't, um, getting me going.
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  It wasn't inspired by it.
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  I, I was like, okay, fine.
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  Help people make more money in their businesses.
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  Like, who cares, honestly.
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  Whereas in the other, um.
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  Businesses.
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  It's like, oh, help people move abroad.
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  And then, you know, they change their whole lives or help people have better relationships and that changes their whole lives or help them manifest.
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  And that changes, that's actually fun and inspiring and stuff we can talk about over and over and over again.
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  And it actually energizes us rather than, than drains.
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  So that's one thing, um, to keep in mind, right, is to do things that are actually fun.
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  I find a lot of times, uh, women are in businesses that they don't even enjoy.
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  Um, that's really dragging them down or they're in careers that they don't enjoy or that they're dragging them down and life is just too damn short.
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  And you can make money in way too many ways, especially now with the internet to have to tolerate that, um, in your life.
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  That's, that's how I feel about it.
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  Final point.
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  Um, and this is for those of you who consider yourselves to be good girls or you are more perfectionists, which is very masculine energy.
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  To try and be a perfectionist is that you have to be okay with being polarizing.
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  Okay, let me explain this.
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  So a confident feminine woman doesn't really care what other people think about her.
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  Now, she will read a room and she will adjust accordingly, but she knows where her values are.
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  She knows where she stands.
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  Um, she's not afraid to share things publicly, um, that are gonna attract attention.
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  Not like super negative attention.
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  I'm not talking about thirst trap photos here on Instagram.
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  I'm talking about, you know, I'm talking about things that attract attention, um, for your business, but she's not afraid to put herself out there.
• 24:48
  Um, she's not afraid of ruffling.
• 24:51
  Some feathers again, right?
• 24:52
  There's a difference between doing this naturally because it's who you actually are and how you actually feel versus forcing it.
• 25:00
  Okay?
• 25:00
  Big difference.
• 25:01
  I'm talking about it being very natural in you.
• 25:04
  That's the more feminine way of doing things.
• 25:07
  If you're forcing it to try and get attention, number one, it's not gonna work.
• 25:10
  Number two, you're probably not gonna get the attention that you're looking for.
• 25:13
  Number three, you're going to be exhausted, right?
• 25:16
  I'm talking more about, um, you know, for example, you know, this channel.
• 25:21
  I've gotten some people debating in the comments just because I have certain opinions.
• 25:24
  The entrepreneur, expat channel, same thing.
• 25:26
  I mean, on that channel we could literally say the sky is blue in Mexico and somebody's gonna be upset.
• 25:31
  But the point is that we're not feminine, using feminine energy.
• 25:35
  A lot of people think feminine energy is like, oh, I'm gonna be perfect and I'm gonna be, uh, you know, a very.
• 25:42
  The word that came to mind was docile, but that's not the word I'm looking for.
• 25:46
  Um, very, um, um, pleasant, right?
• 25:53
  I'm going to be very accommodating.
• 25:55
  And the truth is, like the feminine does have boundaries and the feminine does have a opinions.
• 25:59
  She's not a doormat.
• 26:00
  Um, and her, and she knows where she stands on things.
• 26:04
  Now she's not forcing her opinion down your throat.
• 26:08
  That's the difference.
• 26:09
  Masculine women will force their opinion down their throat, down your throat and make an argument and try and make a point.
• 26:16
  Um, whereas feminine women are just like, here it is, take it or leave it.
• 26:22
  They don't particularly care.
• 26:23
  Um, so that is.
• 26:25
  That's, that's the final point because I know some of you get very tripped up in your heads about, I have to look a certain way.
• 26:30
  It needs to be this figured out.
• 26:31
  I need to make sure I'm accommodating.
• 26:33
  I need to make sure I'm pleasing.
• 26:34
  I need to, and I've seen it happen, particularly women who are coming from like corporate jobs and moving into their own businesses.
• 26:40
  There's almost like a mold that they have to break because they've had to be so perfect in corporate that, um, they, they're like robots, right?
• 26:48
  So don't be a robot.
• 26:49
  Have opinions.
• 26:50
  It's okay to be polarizing.
• 26:52
  Have some fun.
• 26:53
  So those were the ways that you can use a lot more feminine energy.
• 26:57
  Uh, in business to attract more money.
• 26:59
  And the cool thing is that if you learn to use more feminine energy in business, it's not gonna drain you as much.
• 27:05
  Um, you know, so you're going to, you're not gonna feel burned out, you're not going to feel drained.
• 27:10
  You're gonna feel more energized, more rested, uh, and then that can only, you know, create positives both for your finances and also in other parts of your life.
• 27:20
  Uh, like your relationships.
• 27:22
  So let me know if this was helpful for you.
• 27:24
  In the comments below.
• 27:25
  A lot of you've been asking about business and how to balance all the stuff.
• 27:29
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• 27:33
  Share this with a friend to save a sister, because there's way too much.
• 27:38
  Foolery going on out here with men and we don't need to be tolerating that foolery.
• 27:44
  Um, so save a sister by sharing this video with a friend.
• 27:47
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• 27:52
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• 28:02
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