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Scotty and his girlfriend got in their first fight over his wardrobe! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is made and.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Scottie and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 3: I realized there was something.
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  Speaker 2: I did over the weekend that we were talking yesterday
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  Speaker 2: Abby about how like I will eventually give my girlfriend
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  Speaker 2: the ick. I think something I did this weekend actually
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  Speaker 2: made that happen.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I think it happened before then, because she already
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  Speaker 1: told me about the first time she got the ick
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  Speaker 1: from you. No, she did, Yes, she did, because she
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  Speaker 1: told me she she's like, our first fight happened because
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  Speaker 1: he gave me the eck. What you were there? What
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  Speaker 1: was literally there?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god?
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember the socks you were wearing? That?
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  Speaker 2: God? Okay, well that's all right, So well then this
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  Speaker 2: one's way worse than I've definitely given her much bigger
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  Speaker 2: ix than that. Yes, there was a night that we
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  Speaker 2: went out and I wore I call them boot socks,
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  Speaker 2: and I wear boots, I wear thicker socks. And so
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  Speaker 2: we had a couple of glasses of wine and I
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  Speaker 2: came back, I took my boots off, and I got
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  Speaker 2: these big old socks, and my girlfriend was a little
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  Speaker 2: wine drunk.
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  Speaker 3: And she looks down at my socks and she got pissed.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, what is wrong with your socks? They look
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  Speaker 3: like shoes? Oh god, that's how you know? Some wine
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  Speaker 3: was sad.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, what are you talking? She literally
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  Speaker 2: like take them off. I was like, are you serious?
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  Speaker 2: She's like, take them off right now.
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like them. So I have not
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  Speaker 3: worn those socks yet.
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  Speaker 1: It's just so funny. Women are so different because I've
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  Speaker 1: definitely been in that same conversation, but it's been completely reversed.
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  Speaker 1: So instead of are you look at me like that,
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  Speaker 1: I'm wait, like a jigsaw look instead of him wearing so,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, can you put socks on? Like? I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to look at your feet?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, now that I completely understand. Yeah, horrifying, Like dude
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  Speaker 2: toes whenever I see look, I get it. We live
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  Speaker 2: by the beach. People like to rock foot flops never
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  Speaker 2: a fan.
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  Speaker 1: Does your woman have a thing of her feet? Is
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  Speaker 1: that why shees mad that you had the socks on?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: I think it was because the socks were like you
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  Speaker 2: ever seen like elf shoes where they kind of like
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  Speaker 2: point up.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's how the boots ended up for me.
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  Speaker 1: I love a Christmas movie.
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  Speaker 2: Well that was me in my little red as. They
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  Speaker 2: look like I think she called them boats on my
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  Speaker 2: feet or something like.
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  Speaker 1: That, boats on your feet. Oh yeah, like they look
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  Speaker 1: like little gondolas.
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  Speaker 3: They looked like gondolas. It looked ridiculous.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so like your socks were too.
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  Speaker 2: Long, yes, and they were just flopping out there like
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  Speaker 2: little ears.
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  Speaker 1: That's horrifying.
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  Speaker 3: Well that's why she told me to take them off. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: this is not good.
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  Speaker 2: Then if that gave her the ick, then what I
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  Speaker 2: did this past weekend was even worse. Okay, because we
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  Speaker 2: were out for the Fourth of July weekend and we
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  Speaker 2: were out at the beach bars, and our whole plan
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  Speaker 2: was to, like, I don't know, take the sun Runner,
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  Speaker 2: which is a free transportation service. We took it down
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  Speaker 2: to the beaches that drops you right off, and we're
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  Speaker 2: coming back at like eleven. And the problem was is
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  Speaker 2: at that time, the sun Runners like slowed down, and
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  Speaker 2: so we're sitting by the bus stop after some drinks
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  Speaker 2: were had and fireworks were watched, and the sun Runners
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  Speaker 2: taking like it's thirty minutes, then it's forty five, and
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  Speaker 2: we're now been waiting for an hour, and so we say,
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  Speaker 2: ef it, We're gonna go ahead and get the uber.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we ordered the uber and we realize it's the
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  Speaker 2: car right in the parking lot. And as we go
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  Speaker 2: to get to the car, our friends find a way
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  Speaker 2: simple on the ground, and of course our friends are
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  Speaker 2: good in humans, and they're like, let's find the owner.
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  Speaker 3: Now. I'll be honest, I.
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  Speaker 2: Was a slightly buzzed, and I thought, no, that's them,
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  Speaker 2: that's not our problem. They left their wallet, they look
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  Speaker 2: it in, they find the the idea of this dude.
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  Speaker 2: And maybe I was just something about it didn't seem right,
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  Speaker 2: and I just maybe it's because our industry.
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  Speaker 1: Well, because sometimes I've heard that that is a common
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  Speaker 1: human trafficking Uh yeah, no, literally, it's a common human
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  Speaker 1: trafficking thing where they put some kind of sedative or
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  Speaker 1: poison on like the money. Maybe there's like money on
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  Speaker 1: the ground and you pick it up and it like
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  Speaker 1: knocks you out.
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  Speaker 3: I've never appreciated you more em in this moment.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I also am just a hater that if I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to go home, I would have been like, you guys,
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  Speaker 1: just leave it there. He'll come back for it.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I thought, because I literally the first sentence,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, don't touch that.
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  Speaker 3: It might have fentanyl on it. I don't know, but
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  Speaker 3: we see these stories.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and so no, of course, they pick up the
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  Speaker 2: wallet and my girlfriend and one of her best friends
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  Speaker 2: are like, we're gonna find the owner. They pull immediately
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  Speaker 2: we get in the car, they pull out the eye.
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  Speaker 2: They get them on Facebook, they start messaging people that
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  Speaker 2: they know. Well, all of a sudden we get in
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  Speaker 2: contact within that same ride with this human. Okay, now,
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  Speaker 2: that's fine whatever. I was kind of annoyed that. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, dude, you should have been responsible enough to
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  Speaker 2: not lose your wallet.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a little judge, because I've lost things to know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm kind of the same way where it's like I
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  Speaker 1: would have just left it there because I would have
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  Speaker 1: wanted to come back and just get my wallet.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I would have thought too.
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  Speaker 2: But as we started going back with him, my girlfriend
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  Speaker 2: texted this dude on like, I don't know, I think
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  Speaker 2: they got another numbers from Facebook. But all of a
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  Speaker 2: sudden he starts getting demandy. He's like, oh, could you
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  Speaker 2: just bring the wallet back? And I was like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: about to throw this wallet out the window. Because first off, sir,
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  Speaker 2: we didn't need to pick this up. And so now
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  Speaker 2: my girlfriend and I are going through this little moment
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  Speaker 2: of anxiety of like what do we do with this
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  Speaker 2: damn wallet?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but see he's got the same thought precess I had.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, well, I was turning around to go get
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  Speaker 1: my wallet, and now you've taken me on a wild
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  Speaker 1: goose chase. Why am I on his side?
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  Speaker 2: I don't, Well, you might be on the whole way through.
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  Speaker 2: And maybe my girlfriend was too, because I got a
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  Speaker 2: little too upset about it. I was like, this, dude,
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  Speaker 2: if you wanted his wallet, would have gotten his wallet.
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  Speaker 3: Let's get his address.
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  Speaker 2: We'll mail it to him, because we were thinking about
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  Speaker 2: driving it back then.
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  Speaker 1: I said, hell no, where did he live? By chance?
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  Speaker 2: Well, this is where it gets dicey, because we couldn't
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  Speaker 2: reveal who we are and where we were, because he
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  Speaker 2: was like, I'll just come and get it from you,
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  Speaker 2: and I said absolutely not. I don't know who you
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  Speaker 2: are and I don't want you showing up at my house.
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  Speaker 2: So we threw the question at him, where do you live?
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  Speaker 2: And he said absolutely not.
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  Speaker 1: You drop it off a police station. That's what you do.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we were in a taco boat line and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, if this dude doesn't give us his address
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  Speaker 2: to take the we'll mail it, I said, And I
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  Speaker 2: texted him. I was like, we will mail it to you.
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  Speaker 2: Where do you want us to mail it? He's like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel comfortable giving you our address. I thought, okay,
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  Speaker 2: but we're not the ones that lost our wallet. This
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  Speaker 2: is on you and we're not gonna come.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, could you just come back?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, We're just gonna drop it off
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  Speaker 3: a Taco Bell.
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  Speaker 1: Like.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm not doing this right now.
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  Speaker 2: That was a little mean of me, and I think
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  Speaker 2: my girlfriend realized that, and so what we ended up deciding.
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  Speaker 2: She gave me this idea, guys, a good thing to
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  Speaker 2: do is just listen. She's like, well, how about we
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  Speaker 2: take it to publics? I said, you know what, fine.
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  Speaker 1: To be fair, I would trust my wallet more at
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  Speaker 1: publics than I would ever at Taco bell. I said.
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  Speaker 2: You know, well, in my head, I was like, if
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  Speaker 2: you want it that bad, what you're willing to come get,
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  Speaker 2: come to the Taco Bell.
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  Speaker 1: But also drop again police station? Why not drop it
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  Speaker 1: off at a police station?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what the police station is. I said,
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  Speaker 2: I'll bring it in the publics in the morning. So
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  Speaker 2: I woke up and I drove it to public dropped
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  Speaker 2: it off and never saw it again. But what I
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  Speaker 2: realized is in that moment, I got way too upset
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  Speaker 2: about the situation. That was not that upsetting, huh, and
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  Speaker 2: it shouldn't have gotten me to that level, which I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: damn it, I showed a nick and I'm pretty sure
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  Speaker 2: that was an eck.
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  Speaker 1: What's funny is guys don't know what X are because
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  Speaker 1: that's not anick. No that I would consider it more.
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  Speaker 1: There is a difference between an itck and a turnoff.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so wow, and ick is.
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  Speaker 1: The sock thing where it's like, this is dumb, I
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't be getting this upset about it. But a turnoff
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  Speaker 1: is you shouldn't be getting that upset about it. And no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like turned off.
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  Speaker 2: So you think it was a turn off that I
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  Speaker 2: got like overprotective about it.
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  Speaker 1: That's not overprotective. You showed you lost your cool. That's
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  Speaker 1: a turn off.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's valid.
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  Speaker 1: That's not an ick. And it is like you wore
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  Speaker 1: the wrong colored T shirt and it doesn't match with
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  Speaker 1: your complexion, and I'm like, what are you wearing? That's
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  Speaker 1: an egg?
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  Speaker 3: Damn it? So what do you think is worse.
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  Speaker 1: For me? Probably the sock thing, because I would have
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  Speaker 1: been on your side in the wallet Okay, cool in
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  Speaker 1: the wallet situation.
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  Speaker 2: Luckily, I don't think the wallet got two out of hand,
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  Speaker 2: but it was weird to kind of reflect on it
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  Speaker 2: the day after. I was like, Scott, why are you
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  Speaker 2: so like adamant about this damn wallet?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I was just annoyed that we're going the lengths that
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  Speaker 2: we were for this random dude, and I didn't like
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  Speaker 2: the way he was responding to us.
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  Speaker 1: I get it. It's an inconvenience to you when you
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  Speaker 1: didn't do anything wrong, okay, and it's it's annoying, it's frustrating.
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  Speaker 1: I would have been thinking the same thing on the inside.
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  Speaker 1: It's recoverable, Yeah, it's recoverable. And also the guy was
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  Speaker 1: thinking exactly what I was thinking. Whereas if I realized
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  Speaker 1: I lost my wallet, the first thing I would have
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  Speaker 1: done is gone back to the bus stop, got my wallet,
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  Speaker 1: and now I've got to get up at six am
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  Speaker 1: to go to publics. Well, I'm hope, well, now everybody's inconvenience.
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  Speaker 2: I did wake up that morning when I was like,
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  Speaker 2: damn it, why did I agree to drive to public
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  Speaker 2: I was so cozy in bed, slightly hung over, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want to drive to publics.
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  Speaker 3: So there I was walked.
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  Speaker 2: Up the customer service and the wall that I found
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  Speaker 2: in the quote on working lot. I hope they got it.
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  Speaker 2: And if they happen to hear this one, keep your
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  Speaker 2: wallet closer to you next time.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta get an ear tag on it.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I'm thinking.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have one online, but if you had put
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  Speaker 2: one in, make it easier for yourself. It wasn't our
• 8:31
  Speaker 2: first fight. I don't think we've had our first fight yet.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, so you haven't fought, like legitimately thought about anything,
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  Speaker 1: which is good because you've only been together for like
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  Speaker 1: four months.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we handle things a lot better now,
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  Speaker 2: I mean honestly, but you're right, like, there hasn't been
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  Speaker 2: anything that's gotten to the lengths of why the hell
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  Speaker 2: would we be fighting yet?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Now, I'm not against fighting.
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  Speaker 2: Or conflict, but I do think that we've both acknowledged
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  Speaker 2: like things that would have gotten upset in the past.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, not even close anymore.
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  Speaker 1: But the thing is is, I really do think, like,
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  Speaker 1: what is there to fight about? Like, when you're dating
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  Speaker 1: somebody and you don't live with them and you don't
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  Speaker 1: have kids with them, what are you gonna argue about?
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  Speaker 2: That's a good question. What's crazy is in past relationships everything?
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  Speaker 2: Like what give me an example. Let's see, let me
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  Speaker 2: think of past traumatic moments. Not texting back soon enough okay,
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  Speaker 2: not giving someone enough attention okay, hanging out with a friend,
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  Speaker 2: talking to a woman that's not your girlfriend.
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  Speaker 3: Like all these little things I have, you know, put.
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  Speaker 2: Together, not listening all the way through, being too upset
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  Speaker 2: about a wallet, all of these little things. Yeah, they
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  Speaker 2: slowly add up. But I think it's how you react
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  Speaker 2: to them. Like I think, in the past, instead of
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  Speaker 2: listening and hearing where someone's at, you try fighting back.
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  Speaker 2: You try proving your point instead of hearing where they're at.
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  Speaker 2: That's caused so many fights. Where now those things are
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  Speaker 2: so small and so miniscool. But again we haven't. Luckily,
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  Speaker 2: we still have a little bit of distance between us. Luckily,
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  Speaker 2: I actually wish we were closer.
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  Speaker 3: But we have distance.
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  Speaker 2: Between us that when we get together, Oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 2: that'd be so silly to use that time to fight.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't think those little moments have been able
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  Speaker 2: to have time to come up yet.
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  Speaker 1: But I also think when you're with the right person,
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  Speaker 1: the thought of fighting is a huge, like justick factor
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  Speaker 1: for both of you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it has to be truly worth it, and
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  Speaker 2: it's not even oh, we're going to fight, it's like, no,
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  Speaker 2: we have something that we have to overcome. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: let's go at this together. That part's way healthier.
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  Speaker 1: I also think when you're with the wrong person, it
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  Speaker 1: brings out the worst parts of you, and that's supposed
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  Speaker 1: to be you're signed to get out of the relationship
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  Speaker 1: because little things shouldn't make you react that big. And
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  Speaker 1: I think sometimes it's subconsciously is telling you that something
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  Speaker 1: is wrong, but you think it's about the wallet. But
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  Speaker 1: it's not about the wallet. It's about the relationship you're in.
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly right. Yeah, Oh I do.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why people when people say they fight, are like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't fight with your partner, it's a red flag.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, actually, I think it's a huge red flag
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  Speaker 1: if you're fighting about. If you're fighting about things consistently.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good point, or like about little things.
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  Speaker 1: Because my parents have been married and not saying my
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: parents have never fought ever, but I think i've had them.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen them have one major argument ever. Oh really, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: haws that change? I mean did they fight in private? Maybe?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I saw them get in like
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  Speaker 1: one blow up fight in my eighteen years of living
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  Speaker 1: in their house.
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  Speaker 2: That's actually really healthy, I think if I don't know
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  Speaker 2: how you handle it, especially listening with your kids. But
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  Speaker 2: I remember my parents would have private foughts. But also
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  Speaker 2: I remember a lot of like male sitting there and
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  Speaker 2: I'm hearing everything, and I'm like, oh, And what's crazy
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  Speaker 2: is as I got older, I started to react similar ways.
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  Speaker 2: So I had to unlearn that because I would be
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  Speaker 2: saying things that I've heard my parents say and I'm like.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, what else? Not good? Not good at all? It's
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  Speaker 3: not good at all.
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  Speaker 1: I should never say deadly not good.
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  Speaker 2: But it is wild because I think a lot of
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  Speaker 2: those things. What I've learned and what we're trying to
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  Speaker 2: do in this relationship is just when things come up,
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  Speaker 2: just talk about them. Talk about them casually without letting
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  Speaker 2: the time go on where the emotion builds of it,
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  Speaker 2: because I've definitely done that in the past, where.
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  Speaker 3: It's you sit, you simmer, you sit and you simmer.
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  Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden, it's been a couple of
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  Speaker 2: weeks and maybe a couple months, or something's just been
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  Speaker 2: in the back of your head, but you're like, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if I should bring this up, and then
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  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, boom, and then you're in a
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  Speaker 2: fight because now you've got your emotions all charged. And
• 12:15
  Speaker 2: now the person's like, wait a second, I don't even
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  Speaker 2: have time to think about what you're saying.
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  Speaker 3: You're coming at me with so much heat. I gotta
• 12:20
  Speaker 3: come back with heat too.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't think it was a it wasn't a fight,
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  Speaker 2: but I think it was our first little moment of like, hmm,
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  Speaker 2: I think I was a turn off in that moment.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, your mask slipped a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: It did where I was like, Okay, let me come
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  Speaker 2: back to grips, let's come back. Let's reevaluate a good
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  Speaker 2: learning lesson for next time.
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  Speaker 1: But I think it's good then that person sees that
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: you're human. That's the part of relationships I've always been
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: afraid of is seeing a guy get disillusioned with you,
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: like they when you finally get off the pedestal, because
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: it will happen at some point, but I.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: Could feel it, like not for her, Like I literally
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: it's crazy. I'm like, wow, oh my god, so pretty.
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: But I could see that now that we're having more
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: casual hangouts, like we're now entering that phase where it's like, okay,
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: you could see me in a much more human side. Yeah,
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: it comes out a lot more frequently.
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And that will either make you love that person
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: more or it will make you like them less. And
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: that's the scariest part is when someone becomes disillusioned with you,
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: what path do they take?
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: Mmmm, well, hopefully it's more well.
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm gonna go ahead and say that
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: you're fine, but I'm saying that like that's always been
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: a fear of mine, Like, you want to keep yourself
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: on that pedestal so long so you never have to
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: see that make that decision.
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: That's a good I mean, that's what's really hard, because
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: if you don't present yourself in the beginning, I mean, yes,
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: you put on you know, your best but you still
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: got to live in your same light. Because if you
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: make them fall for somebody that's not you, and then
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: they kind of get they finally get to.
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: Meet the real you.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if those two people are so far apart, you're
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: literally setting yourself up for heartbreak.
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and performing constantly would just be exhausting apps all
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: to go home and feel like you have to play boyfriend.
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: That would suck.
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: I think I've done that in the past, where I
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: stepped into previous relationships acting as someone that I was
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: truly not in my core, Yeah, like the lifestyle that
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: I was trying to live, the ways I was trying
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: to be. Like what like let's say, like, okay, a
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: good example is, like somebody likes to go out all
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: the time. If I do that in the beginning of
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: a relationship, only for you to find out like in
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: my core, I love an at home date. Lord, have mercy,
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: Like I'll go out make me you know, months, maybe
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: twice a month, but for the most part, if we
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: could have a night in or with a smaller group
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: of friends, Like you got to know that about me,
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: because if you're expecting that I'm going to go out
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: every weekend and then you get upset if I'm not
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: going out every weekend with you. Oh lord, we're gonna
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: be detached quick. Yeah, like that's not going to be okay.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: But or like, okay, let's say like you also got
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: to realize, like I'm very work driven, like what I
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: do and my passions and my purposes.
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: Because this was many, many years ago.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: But when I stepped into this world and this took
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: over such a big part of my life, the person
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: I was with was not ready for that or wanting
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: to be.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: With that version of me. That was a shock because
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: then they tell you.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: Straight up, I don't like what you do and I
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: don't like who you've become. Okay, Well that sucks because
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: this is the most to me I've ever felt. I know,
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: So that part needed to be understood right up right
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: up front. And that's what I love about where we're
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: at right now. It is like we knew all those
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: things going into it.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And the good part about finding your person later
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: in your twenties because I feel like early to mid
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: twenties you're just constantly like it's not that you're somebody else,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: but you're constantly just doing what feels natural to you
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: and then I do feel like in your later twenties
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: to your early thirties, you're just like you just kind
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: of realize like, oh, like my personality has frozen over.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: This is just who I am, you know what I mean?
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Like this, this is what I am, this is what
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: I do, is what I like to do. It's what
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want to do. Where I see my future going.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: And in your twenties are constantly changed like that can
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: make being in a relationship really difficult. Oh.
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, if you're trying to morph yourself into something that
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: you're not.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: I was guilty of that. Trust me. I was running
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: five k's, trying to act like I was athletic, doing
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: all these crazy things, trying to look cool to these
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: guys that I wanted to date. And then I was like, actually,
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: you know what, I hate cardio. I don't want to
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: do that. I don't want to wake up at four
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: am to go run with a bunch of other losers.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, they have a new Sunrise club
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: here that wakes up at five to go get on
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: the trail by five thirty.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: And I'm just kidding. If you run, you're not a loser.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: I'm the loser because I don't like to run.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: You're not a turkey trot family.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: No, absolutely not. No.
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: I mean, I've never understood. And listen, I love if
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: you love My mom's a marathon runner. Hell yeah, I
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: love if you love it. I love that you have
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: something that you love enough to put yourself through that
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: kind of pain. It is never made sense to me.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: You want to wake up at four am and just
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: go run with a bunch of other people.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: It is insanity, you know what I mean? But I
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: get it to my core.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I wasn't like that forever and then all
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: of a sudden I got like this running twenty eight.
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: It's like I need to get out that run.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: You have to choose your personality traite. Do I want
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: to travel? Do I want to start at running marathons?
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Or do I want to go to grad school?
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's the one I've seen a lot. Or
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: you get to this point of like your twenties and
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: you're like, you know what, I'm going back to school.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: That is probably the furthest one from me where I
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: will run a marathon every week before I step back
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: into school. Oh yeah, I didn't like school that much.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: School's not great, it wasn't fun.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: And I also feel like in twenty twenty six, you
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: don't need a degree or specific grad program to be successful.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like maybe thirty years ago that was different,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: but like nowadays, I feel like there's just so many
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: other avenues to be successful.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Well that's what's tough though, because half of our population
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: sees it like that, but the other half that's hiring. Shoot,
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: I mean some of the requirements are well, you're not
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: even going to be looked at unless you have a master's. Yeah,
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: that's what makes it really tough, where it's.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: Like, well what do you do?
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Then?
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can get the skills without spending all the money,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: or you could go spend all the money hopefully get
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: a job. Like I think there's even and I could
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: be speaking way out of line here, but like for teaching, teaching,
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: a lot of it requires like a master's in education,
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: and then you go get a teacher salary.
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: That's fed up.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I know, it's so dumb. They don't teach you any
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: of that, and it's fine, Like if your parents paid
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: for your education, you've always wanted to be a teacher
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: and you're just like going into it debt for you.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: But that sucks.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I mean to have a teacher salary with a teacher's education.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're spending all that money to go back
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: to school and luckily, I think there's a lot of
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: programs that help, or maybe you could do working and
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: education at the same time. But what the You're doing
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: all that and then our system does not give you
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: the finances to be able to make it worth it.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: That's crazy to me, crazy crazy. Anyway, happy, how are
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: you doing good?
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting patiently for Taylor's shift to drop her wedding photos.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: As of recording this, it's July eighth, which I do wonder.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I do wonder if she's going to drop them today
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: because this is the three year anniversary of Travis attending
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: her Aras Tour concert.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, I didn't realize there's actually a talient.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Is there anything that would be coming up that would
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: make more sense than because if it's just I don't
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: know when there if we ever had an actual anniversary
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: for them for when they started talking.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: But okay, so this was that.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: So he attended the Aras tour on July eighth, twenty
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: twenty three in Kansas City. Nine two secret surprise song
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: was Last Kiss and also Dorothea. So I wonder if
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: she'll post today sometime around like noon so nine am PST.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Or if she will wait. I don't think she's going
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: to wait longer than two weeks. So I don't know
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: what another significant date would be. I don't know if
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: they have like a New Heights podcasting anniversary where he
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: asked her out. I don't know if we can find that.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: That would be sweet to see. I what's wild for
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: my brain still? And I've said this multiple times here,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: but it's like until she posts that, that's when we'll
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: find be like, Okay, it was real, Like we've had
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: everything else. Celebrities have talked about it. We've gotten so
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: many insider details of how the route was to get
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: into Madison Square Garden, the signs that went up all
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: through New York of you know, just married, and they
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: had the tea and the tea. But Taylor nor Travis
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: have they said anything.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: We have not heard anything. Okay, So here's the thing.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: The release date for the podcast where Travis revealed he
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: asked Taylor out and he wanted to was Wednesday, July
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: twenty sixth, twenty twenty three, and then they were first
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: spotted together September twenty fourth, twenty twenty three. So my
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: theory is they will release photos sometime between now and
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: July twenty seventh.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, so like two weeks. We got two weeks to
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: see if there's any photos that get released. Yeah, we
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: won't get much, though, we'll probably get one of I'm
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: thinking of just her and him.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: It'll probably just be a photo of them at the
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: altar or a photo of them together, and it'll just
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: be like just Tea and Tea married.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope it's as I guess, grand as my
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: heart imagines, Like I envision like the picture being Taylor
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Travis obviously looking gorgeous. But and then like, honestly, I
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: hope like Adam Sandler's right in the background like officiating.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Hey, I'm just hearing me.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: I really do, because I'm like to me, I know,
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: I guess that is what happened. You know, I do
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: believe it, but I'll believe it more if I actually
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: see it.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean they got married. Surprise, they got married.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: They're married.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited to see photos. I really feel like
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: they're gonna do it sooner rather than later, because do
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: we really trust a thousand people to keep their mouth
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: shut for two weeks?
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: Absolutely? Ooh, that's a good point.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I wonder if they're gonna wait as long as possible
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: and then when things do start to leak, they'll just
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: release the photo.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: I feel like Taylor would want to be ahead of that.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: It feels like this would be I think it's gonna
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: be one week after the wedding, So if it was
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: on Friday, I think this Friday, one full week it
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: now could be released.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: It makes sense.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: So July tenth, Yeah, like just okay, we've given enough time.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: They could breathe, they could have their own private moment.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Now they could let the world see.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let the world see Tete, which.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: What a weird thing.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: It has to be, like you got to like put
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: together the whole plan for the world to see your wedding,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Like nothing could be private for them.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't think they want privacy, that's true,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I think if they wanted privacy,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: they genuinely would find a way to have privacy. I
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: don't think a person that has a twelve hundred person
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: wedding cares that much about privacy. I think they care
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: more about security.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's valid, That makes a lot of sense.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: I actually don't think Taylors really cares that much about privacy.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: She has all our entire discography is literally, here's what
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: happened to my love life, Here's how it made me feel,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: here's what I've learned. Blah blah blah, blah blah blah blah.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: You know, yeah, No, and it's worked for And I mean,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: if she's okay with it, it just makes me wonder,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: like if you ever get to them, And I guess
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: this goes to what you said, like, if you ever
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: get to the point where you're like, we've been in
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: the spotlight for so long, it might be nice to
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: have some things that are just for us. But with
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: inviting a thousand people to your wedding, I don't think
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: that's what you're going after.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: No, And maybe they had a private honeymoon. Maybe they
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: jetted off to the seashells and we didn't hear a
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: peep from them, because we haven't heard anything from them
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: that maybe they got the privacy they wanted for this week,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: but they didn't care that much about privacy for their
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: wedding and.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: If they wanted to.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: It's like you said, if they wanted privacy, I guess
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: they could get it, because I didn't believe that until
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: you just talked about how they did the whole ascout thing,
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: like Travis talked about it in July and they weren't
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: spotted together until September. So that shows me. I'm like, oh, wait, well,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: if they did want privacy, they could have it.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: They kept things on the DL for two months. Nobody
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: we all thought he was crazy. We're like, there's no way,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: like maybe they went out on one date whatever. And
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I will never forget how I felt when I saw
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: her at the Kansas City Chiefs game that one time.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: I remember thinking this is not real life, because when
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: she was dating her last ex, Joe, we never saw
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: her like talk about wanting privacy. They wanted privacy, they
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: got privacy. But with Travis, she don't care. She's like,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: this is my boyfriend or no husband, and we're just
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: living our lives.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: I like that because I think it goes to show
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: that they could fully support each other out in the open.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: And what's crazy is again she's the biggest celebrity in
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: the world. These are very like at a Chiefs game,
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: like you have fans that are like right there, Like
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: you're walking through the hallway with fans.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: They're hard launching.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: That's crazy, but it's worked, and I think that goes
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: to show like they found the right person.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: You don't have to hide who you are.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: You could be all your goofy ways, your mooth, outrageous
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: and supportive person.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: That you want to be.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: And it is such a weird but cool thing to
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: see like Taylor in those moments not being the spotlight.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: I mean she is because she's getting a lot of
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: eyes on her, Yeah, but she's not there for her.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: She's like, no, I'm here from my man.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: She's like, I don't care good for her. They're putting
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: the cameras on me. I'm Taylor, I'm here, I'm drinking
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: my vodka cran and he's there, he's doing his job.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I'm doing my job, and we are good at our
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: jobs together.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: Like it did weirdly, even though like those moments are
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: very rich, like it did make them very human, Like
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: I did like that about it.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I think that was the fun part because especially coming
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: off well, she was still in the middle of the
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Era's tour. She'd become this larger than life figure with
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: this like the most successful tour of all time, and
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: really not having gotten access to her personal life in
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: six and a half years. Like as a fan, that
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: moment getting to see her at the stadium hard launching
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: with Travis, like it literally my mind exploded, like my
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: brain rewired. I was like, I wasn't aware this was
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: an option. I wasn't aware we were allowed this access
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: to her life anymore. And Yeah, it's been cool to
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: see them fall in love.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: I like it because I think they get to be
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: who they truly are without hiding it, fully human in
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: those moments. And I'm sure we're going to see, Oh
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: my gosh, what's it going to look like?
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: Travis has like one more season left of football.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I think this is probably his last season.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: If I had to guess, She'll probably be at every
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: single game fully supporting what we did get to see
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: the ring though, we got to see the engagement ring.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, I don't know this much about weddings,
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: but is there something else that gets added to it?
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: I know, like a wedding band paint, maybe probably.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, do you know, are you aware about how
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: marriage works with the wedding vand no.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: Not really, That's what I'm saying, Like, I really don't.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Want your dad not wear a wedding band.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: No he does.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: But the guys ring, so oh maybe I guess we'll
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: get to see Travis's then, uh huh? And what that
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: includes because it has to be immaculate.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Well, they probably used the same jewelry designer
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: as the one that Taylor got, which is this designer
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: who's actually from my hometown, Jacksonville. She's from Jacksonville, Kendrick Lubec.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: And the local girl I remember seeing like a girl
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: that was more like niche in jewelry that.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Didn't Yeah, she's very I mean she lives in Manhattan now,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: but that's where Travis got her ring. It's very original,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: very unique, and so it wouldn't shock me if they
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: use the same designer for that.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: I wonder what it has though engraved on it, or
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: if it has any like, if it has any bedazzlement.
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: I've seen a lot of dudes now.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: There's either two popular ones I've seen, like the ones
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: with the little diamonds around it, or a lot of
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: guys have one.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: That has like Wood. Oh, it probably won't be that one.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, she has a song called Wood that is
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: about Travis, So I mean, what a way to really
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: hone that message. I mind everybody constantly.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, if anybody could support Travis the way
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Taylor does, that is very impressive. I'm saying Friday, that's
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: my best guess. On one of these photos will be released.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: I would love to just see what the setup was,
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: at least inside without everybody in it, just to have
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: an idea.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I think they'll show us. I mean, maybe we're gonna
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: get like a Vogue spread.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: Who knows that would be sweet.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes sometimes celebs do that, I hear. I know.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: We're getting a lot of comments on Instagram about the
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift talk that we had yesterday, and what.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Were the people saying?
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: They're going back and forth.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: I think some people are upset with me because I
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: said like, oh, she's probably gonna, you know, down the line,
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: use this in a documentary, and everyone's like, maybe she
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: could just film this for herself. When I this is
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: where it's gonna be kind of funny. But they would
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: say when I got married, I had videographers there too,
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: and maybe they just want the video for themselves.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: I love that comment. But you and I we're not
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift. Nobody's gonna care about our wedding video. Yeah,
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: or maybe they will maybe maybe, maybe just a little bit.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: But also neither of us are having a twenty six
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: million dollar wedding. Like, yes, of course I'm interested because
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I've listened to Taylor Swift for two decades. But at
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: the same time, yeah, I am kind of curious how
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: they pulled off this very private, private until it wasn't
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: private wedding at Madison Square Garden, which, by the way,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: has only had three private events ever, and this is
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: one of them.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: Do you know the other ones?
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: One was an Elizabeth Taylor birthday party back in the
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: sixties or seventies maybe good lord, and then I can't
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: remember what the other one was.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: And then this one that's insane.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Se the only time Madison's Square Garden has been a
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: private event. Others like obviously concerts and stuff, but that's not.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Really private, No, that's literally for the public.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: And I was talking to a buddy that lives in
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: New York on that day. I was like, oh man,
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: did you see Taylor Swift cup And he's like, dude,
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: the whole city is like shut down. It's insane, Like
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: who's going to be able to do that? Taylor and
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: those two other people exactly like that's crazy.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: So some people were saying in the comments that they've had,
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: of course, their wedding recorded. So was married in the
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: nineties and we had our wedding recorded. It can mean
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: that they just wanted their wedding recorded for LMG themselves.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: Heaven forbid. I think that's hopeful thinking, but.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: I don't think that's realistic, and I don't honestly think
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: that's what Taylor would want. I think she would want
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: to show at least she seems like she is one
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: of the celebrities that and you'll definitely back me up
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: in here like actually appreciates her fans.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: I think she appreciates her fans. And also I think
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: I said, this is somebody in their DMS where I'm like,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I I have listened to this girl share about her relationships,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: her ups and downs, and she doesn't only talk about
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: her relationships, but I've heard her cry about her boyfriend's
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: for the last twenty years for the love of God,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Show me a wedding dress photo, show me a wedding
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: dress video, like not to be You're not always entitled
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: to people's personal lives, but I do kind of think
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: we are in that specific case. I do think we are.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: I do too.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: I think at least one or a few, not the
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: whole thing. I, like you said, I would love to know,
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Like I won't never get this, but like the logistics
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: that went into setting this up.
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that sounds insane.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I think one hundred percent. She probably has like a
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: vogue behind the scenes for her wedding dresses, something to
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: just give us like little tidbits about the meaning of everything.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: So like, why did she choose that fabric, why did
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: she choose that designer? Like, that's the stuff I would
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: be interested in, because when you're that big of a
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: celebrity and you have all the money in the world,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: those kinds of decisions do mean something Like when you're
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: just a girl picking at your wedding dress and it's
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: not a custom dress, you're just going from shop to shop,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: it's usually just because oh, I like this, But when
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: you get to make something custom from a designer who's
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: only made a couple of wedding dresses. Ever, like why
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: did you choose that person? What was the process? Like,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: like I would be very intrigued.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: I think, as you said that, something just came to
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: me like this is a historic moment. Mm hm.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: This will be something that you know, if I have
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: kids one day, that they're gonna be like reading about.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And I felt the same way about the Royal wedding,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Like I think the taxpayers are owed a little bit
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: of wedding content because their money is what gave them
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: that life. Same thing with Taylor Swift. Because I bought
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: a stupid amount of errors tour tickets. You got to
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: buy a Cartier bracelet. Oh wow, I'm pretty sure that's
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: like the cost of the cost equivalent. I'm like that
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: Cartier that you're wearing right now, my ticket.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: You're welcome.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: You're welcome.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: That's so crazy to think of it like that, Like,
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: and I could only imagine now, like if we go forward,
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: how what are we now about to be thirty Like
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: we go forward sixty years and it's like, oh god,
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: that's okay, let's not go that far. Fifty years and
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: we're gathering around I don't even know what televisions will
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: look like then, but we're watching like the documentary like
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: it just watched about like not the same context, but
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: like the movie for Michael, you know, oh yeah, and
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: that will be the Taylor Swift.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: It is crazy to think that there will be a
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: biopic about Taylor, and I honestly think it'll be sooner
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: than we expect. Yeah, Like I think within the next
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: twenty years.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: I could see that that would make more sense because
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: I think, well, I mean, we were talking about this earlier,
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: but like the artists that have stayed relevant for this long,
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: those artists deserve all of that recognition because in this
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: day of age of music, if you're not putting out
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: hit after hit, or connecting with your fans or being
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: out there in the public, like, you die off so quick,
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: very quickly, like Taylor Swift has been at it a granted,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: she was you know, a kid when she started, so
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: that does help because you all of a sudden you
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: fall along with the story. Yeah, but her, the Jonas Brothers,
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: they're coming back and they've still stayed relevant after a
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: little break.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: They're crazy because they took a break and then came back,
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: I know. And we're just as popular.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: But there's three of them, so they connect with three
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: different types of women, you know what I mean. So
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: like the girl's like, oh my god, I was a
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Joe girl. I was a nick girl. I was a
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Kevin girl. There's five of them because Kevin was too
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: old for us when we were growing up. We're like,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: he's drinking.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: Legally, that's a man, that's.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: A grown man. And then he got married and had
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: kids like immediately, so I think then we were all
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: kind of like detached from Kevin. But yeah, I mean,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: it's hard to stay that relevant for that long. But
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: she did it.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: There's only been a couple. I mean, the Jonah's brothers
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: did it. I was just thinking, Justin Bieber, he's done it.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: He's kind of gone through a rougher patch of it. Yeah,
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: Lady Gaga has been one that's been able to stay
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: like since the late two thousands.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: She's very private though, yeah she is. We don't know
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: a lot about Lady Kaka.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: She comes out, she performed.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: We also don't know a lot about like another artist
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: set that we've had since we're kids, like Bruno Mars.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think people don't really care that much
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: about Bruno Mars, but he.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: Still sells out arenas well, Like we don't care about
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: his life.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I think we care about his life the reason we
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: care about Taylor Swift's life. And I've been trying to
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: figure out why. I think she resonates more than just
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: like the average songwriter that's coming out like a Greasy
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Abrams or an Olivia Radrigo. And it's funny because I
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: think Taylor gets really ragged on for her singing voice,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: even though she does have a really incredible singing voice
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: if you heard her live, But she doesn't overly sing
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: her music like a lot of people think she does.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Like this sing talking type of song, which I guess
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: maybe she does, but it makes you feel more like
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: it's poetry and like she's telling you a story rather
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: than like a Gracy Abrams where sometimes I don't know
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: what she's saying.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: That's a good point.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Does that make sense.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, it's a different type of music.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: And it doesn't mean that I don't like Gracy Abrams music.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: It just feels more like Taylor's just talking to me.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: Ah, maybe that is it.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: I mean, I think there's a couple of different because
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: you got to look at the artists now that are
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: starting to pop. And what's crazy is some will pop
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: right now and then they'll die off so soon. But
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: how has Taylor been able to hold us for this long?
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: Where it is?
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: It's bringing us through the story, like everything was so
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: thought through and delivered that it's and that's why our
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: shows are so incredible. I haven't been able to go
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: to as many of you have, but I've gone to one. Yeah,
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: and I remember it's only been to two. Okay, well, okay,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: I wish I would have went to the ones that
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: you went to, like the Aras tour, Which when did
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: you go to?
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: I went to Reputation.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: See, that's my biggest one of my biggest regrets in
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: life is not going to the Reputation Stadium tour.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I wasn't a I was. I mean since I was
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: a teen, I was a freaking Taylor Swift fan. Like
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I liked her country stuff. Yeah, but then I kind
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: of died off. I didn't listen to pop at all,
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: but going to that show that showed me a whole
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: new world of what concerts could be. It's insane, Like
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I was up in the three hundreds, my nose was
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: bleeding and it didn't matter because you were part of
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: the environment. She had the big ass snake that was
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: in the middle of the floor, and it just felt
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: like you're watching this movie that you're a part of.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: Those little things, not even I'm sure they're millions.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: Of dollars, those big ass Yeah, that's what keeps you
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: wanting to come back for more. I'm sure people that
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: went to that show that were like, I'm not even
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: that big a you are now it's huge. You want
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: to be a part of it now, But not a
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: lot of artists are able to pull off that kind
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: of either that vision or putting that much expense into
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: a show. Like that's the part that I'm I wish
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: more artists did because unless you're one artist that I
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: saw that I didn't need to do anything. Was like
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: a Cynthia Rivo who did like Wicked, and she was
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: like she could.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Just sing because the magic is in her voice, Like
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: you listen to Cynthia Ribo because she has incredible talent
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: in her voice and she's worked very hard, Whereas like Taylor,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: she is a performer in a different way that Beyonce
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: is a performer, Like you go to Beyonce because you
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: want to see her dance and like make you feel
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: a vibe. Taylor's telling you a story, so she does
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: have to rely more on her dancers and the production,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: but it's impactful, just in a different way from other
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: artists that she's compared to.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: And that's why I think people still want to go
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: to those shows, because you're like, I'm about to be
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: immersed one hundred percent. Even if I don't like her
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: music that much, I know I'm going to be entertain.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: Well, I was, was I telling you this. I was
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: telling somebody the other day that I'm like, it's so
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: crazy to me how much people are determined to be
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: public about hating Taylor Swift. Yes, because I'm like, she
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: has so many songs that I'm like, I feel like
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: that says more about you than Taylor if you can't
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: find one that you like.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, it is the weirdest thing to see where people
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: would just hate to hate, and they hate because it's popular.
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: So I mean, but that's always happened.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: It's like hating on the Patriots. Correct you hate on
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: them because they're so good. It's like, oh, I keep
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: money and it's annoying.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: You're so annoying you want to go anti culture. Yeah,
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm going to be against the grain,
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: which if that's you, that's fine.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: I think I did it well. I've done it.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: Were multiple things we talked about Vine on the show.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: I did it for Vine. I was like, I'm not
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: gonna be a part of Vine. I'm cool for vying.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: And then I looked at myself and I was like,
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: how stupid. And then I did the same thing for TikTok.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, TikTok's gonna die. I'm not gonna
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: be a bar of Jet and I could have been
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: an influencer.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: You're just denying yourself of enjoyment.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: And that's what's silly about even artists like Okay, if
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: you're like I don't like her, it's like you said, well,
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: I'm sure there's one song, one song that you could.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: Really connect to. I don't like them all, but damn,
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: there's a good, good amount that I can get down to.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: There's got to be at least one.
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: With all these albums, all these things.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: Do you think, as a swifty there's gonna be any
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: new music this year versus maybe a re release or
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: an album or is just like a do you think
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: it is in Taylor to take a full break.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: No, I really don't know what she's planning because we
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: kind of got thrown off course because we were expecting
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: her to release her debut album and her reputation album
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: re released. But I don't know that we're gonna get that.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I don't even know if we're gonna get Vault tracks
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: because we've been getting Volt tracks from her, so I
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: really don't know. I know we'll get TS thirteen from
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: her at some point. What I think will happen is
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: we will get her thirteenth album and then she's gonna
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: go away for a little bit. But people are saying
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: that she's gonna have like this billion dollar residency at
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Madison Square Garden.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: That would be incredible.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Can you imagine they pay her a billion dollars to
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: post up at MSG?
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: That sounds I mean again, she's worked every bit of it,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: and it's like that one of those that you can't
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: even take away from it.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: But that sounds incredible.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: But I also wonder, and not to be like all patriarchal,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: but like or what's the right word. Patriarch is not
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: the right word, Not to be all heteronormative, but if
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: she wants kids. She's gonna be thirty seven this year.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: It makes you wonder like, is she gonna take a
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: big break because this might be her only window to
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: have kids.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Has she ever spoken openly that she wants kids.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: She's said it once in a song, but it was
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: when she was with Oh Yeah. She has said it.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: She's a whole song where she's like, I want a
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: whole block of kids that look like you.
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah, like can literally the last album Okay, so.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you kind of need to do that now.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: So it makes me wonder like what is her timeline?
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: Will she get a surrogate, will she adopt? I don't know.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: I mean, luckily nowadays there are so many options, but
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: that would make the most sense if like, maybe she
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: puts out one more and it's okay, I'm gonna take
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: a step back, yeah and just focus on this.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I don't see Taylor Swift doing a surrogate for some reason.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Though only reason I would say she would do a
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: surrogate is for security reason.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: I was just thinking that and of like, you need
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: to do well security. Well, let me see what security for? Like,
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: how would why would she need to do security first?
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: You know you just like he's more vulnerable. Yeah, you
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: know you're a pregnant lady.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: You pregnant. That's true.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: And I was thinking, I was like at that level,
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: and I don't know what other celebrities have done this,
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: but like, how do you pick a surrogate that's going
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: to carry your baby, which will be probably the most
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: popular baby.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: I'll literally do it. I'll do it for free on
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: interrupted access to Taylor Swift for nine months.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean I think that.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: I'll do it.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: I would be very curious.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: She might write a song about me. I'll get a
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: song called Abby. It'll be something like and you helm
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: my baby and news think you Abby. She'll like find
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: a way to rearrange Abby and baby. Oh wow, because
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Abby and baby use the same.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: They do, mix them all up together.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: This makes my all love like write.
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: Letters, see what happens.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Taylor, this is me putting it out there. I
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: will carry your child.
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: Wow, that is so sweet of you, volunteers tribute.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I just and I want to ask
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: you questions, like I have questions like and I won't
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: tell anybody because I just want to know for your
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: own self. Yeah, because I'll have like an ironclad NDA
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: obviously for the surrogacy thing.
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: Of course, of course you just happen to disappear for
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: a while.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: Disappear like what happened to you? She just started that
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Tampa job.
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: I know she disappeared for nine months.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all I'll say was a one night stand. It'll
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: be fine.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: What do you think would be the first thing that
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: you'd want to know from her? Because obviously there's a lot.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: There's so much I want to know.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: You know what I was over, you know what I
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: was thinking.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: About yesterday is she has this song called Question that
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: it's like an inside joke with all the Swifties, is like,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: we don't understand what the fuck it means, like we
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: it just it. There is no I think it's like
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: one big inside insider knowledge song, Like she's talking specifically
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: to one person and only that person understands what question
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: she's asking. Oh, it's so random, it's like can I
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: ask The lyrics are can I ask you a question?
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Have you ever? I don't even I don't listen to
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: the song, So actually question have you ever?
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: Sung?
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: In a crowning room?
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: You just want to know every single one of your.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: Friends were making fun of you, and fifteen seconds later
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: they were clapping to like, what does that even mean?
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Why are they? Why were they in front of you?
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: And then why were they clapping?
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: I wonder if she was talking to her younger self.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: I think she was, no, no, no, I think she's talking
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: to Matty Heally. Oh, I think she was talking to
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Matti Heally.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: Oh that's rough, Okay, Yeah, so I think that would
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: be a valid one on what the songs mean.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I want to know why Kelly Telllor wasn't at the wedding.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Kelly Taylor was a close friend of hers. I want
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: to know what was the last straw with you in
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Blake Lively? Was it the text messages or has this
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: been growing resentment for a.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: While Because I did see obviously, I mean, at least
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: what I saw, it's like they were not at the wedding,
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: like so that was for sure because I thought when
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: that was all happening, I was like, Okay, this is
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: just some little gossip online that they're like beef and
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: it looks like that was legit.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was legit, legit, legit.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: I would like to know, Oh, who is there somebody
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: that you've dated that the public never found out about
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: Oh that's good.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: You want to know what really pissed me off is
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: we totally the Birch Show totally would have interviewed Taylor
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Swift if he hadn't retired, because somebody else in our
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: company got to interview Taylor for Life of a show Girl.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: And I have so many questions about that album.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: What the heck? Who in the company did somebody else?
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not hating on them, no, yeah, I'm glad they
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: got to interview and that's so great. I just wish
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: I would have gotten it.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: That would have been insane.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: I think that would have been like there's a couple
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: of celebrities that if you meet, it almost becomes unbearable. Yeah,
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: do you think you'd be would have been able to
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: contain yourself.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: I would have held it together well, and then I
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: would have broke down crying after the interview. But think
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: of the content. That would have been such good content
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Lifelong Swifty gets to interview Taylor.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I didn't think I was going
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: to react the way I was going to react when
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: I saw celebrities that I truly appreciate.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: Who's the one that made you break down?
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: The most Well this is gonna sound so I think
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: I told you about this one. Like I met a
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: radio host that like, I didn't break down, but I
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: like lost it.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know you're talking about Yeah.
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: Like I like I met that radio host and I
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: was like, I don't know, I listened for years, and
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: I like lost it his co host.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: I said something stupid in front of Oh did you yeah,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: something so dumb. We were at morning show boot camp
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, was my first year there,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: and I think I said something about, like, yeah, I
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: get a lot of weird dms from old men. Turns
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: out I'm not really popular with the fifty five year
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: old man crowd. Something like that.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: How did she react? You just look at you.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: She's like, okay, weirdo. She didn't care. But I thought
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: it was so cool because I'm like, ooh, I'm talking
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: to like the like everybody here wants to talk to
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: them because they're.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: Like the bigger yeah, one of the biggest shows, and
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: like they're.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: One of the bigger shows in the country, and I'm
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: I'm just having a casual conversation with this girl. I
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: must be cool. Maybe just lemon mouth.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Anyway, that's how I am, not like when I go
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: back because they do these radio conferences and every now
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: and then, you know, they show up.
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: Now it's been more casual.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: But the first time, I literally I ran across the
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: room like you walked by, and I was like, oh
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: my god, that's how I say, like if you saw
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift, like I think in my head, I thought, oh,
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: it'd be cool, like I knew he was there, would
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: be cool cool, And then the opportunity came and my
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: body went, no, forget all like levels of being normal.
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: You're gonna chase him down before he gets on the elevator,
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: and you're gonna tell him how much he means to
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: you and that you love him, and you listen to
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: him since you're sixteen.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: And he was like, okay, read out bye. Yeah.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: Luckily it was cool.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: He gave me a hug and he was like, all right,
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: that man, come here, come here. I was like, that's
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: why he did that. I couldn't even get my words together. Yeah,
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: but I think the only other celebrity that would do
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: that because luckily with this job, like you've been able
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: to meet a couple fans or a.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: Couple like cool artists.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: Nobody's really been like crazy crazy, but if I met
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: like the Rock, I would lose it.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: Why the wrong?
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I just like the way the dude is.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: I think he's just a cool, down to earth, super rich,
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: super buff guy. Okay, And I'm like that would be cool,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Like I'd like to shake the Rock sand or rub
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: his bald head.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: You know, it's not where I thought you were going
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: with that sentence For a second. She just paused way
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: too long on that.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: I would like to get a workout in with the Rock.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Like he carries around a gym, a portable gym, whenever
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: he travels.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: It's the craziest thing. And in my head, I think
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: that's the coolest thing.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure like Taylor has a stew anywhere she goes,
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: like The Rock has a gym, And in my head,
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to work out in that gym.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, Like that's my weird thing. You know, there's
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: like only a few that would make that happen. But
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: for the rest, we've had some cool artist step in here,
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: go out to their festivals and talk to them.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: Yeh.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: I think it's just kind of cool, kind of casual. Yeah,
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: everyone's been very nice, very normal for the most part,
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: extremely human, very human, Like I think that's the biggest thing.
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: Where it's like you see these larger than life figures
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: online on stage and then you get with them and
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: you're like, oh, you're just You're just normal.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I know it is scary. Like I don't know that
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I would ever want to meet Taylor Swift.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Hmmm.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it would ruin it for me.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: I I literally the first thing that I came up.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: I think she's actually would be better than you could imagine. Really,
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: that's how I imagine Taylor because she just seems like a
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: but I.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't want to put that pressure on her. I'm like,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: just be you, girl.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: I think she would come in and be extremely friendly,
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: extremely light, and extremely welcoming. She for sure would be
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: like it's just so warm where you're like wow, like
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: you deserve twin.
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: I'm glad you did. That's what it's always given.
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: And I think that's what I've always heard from people
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: that have metter like you know our bosses better.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: I know, and so everyone is better except for me.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: But it is true.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Though, like it is better sometimes to not meet the
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: people that you truly look up to, because then that
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: illusion goes down. Yeah, that's like in a weird long
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: stretch all the way down to us common. Sometimes I worry, like,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: oh my god, if somebody meets me and I'm like,
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: I wonder.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: What their thought is. Yeah, Like it's like, oh my.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: God, I've listened to you since you were in college,
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh my god, that's awesome. Like, I
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: hope I live up to whatever the expectation is. The
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: only thing I've heard that has gone against that has
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: been like and this has happened weirdly frequently this year
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: as I'm not as tall as people think I am.
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, and not one time.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: But people always want to say that because I get
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: that too, Like it's always a common about your height
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: and people think I look taller than I actually am. See,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: I think we both get the same thing. I think
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: we both just know how to pose.
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: I'd never say I know how to I don't know
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: what to do with my hands or my arms, because
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: guys on.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Dating apps we'll say that to me too. They're like,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: you look like you're like six feet tall. I'm like, okay,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: well I'm not.
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: No, so that's what I don't know how to respond.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: They're like, oh my god, you're shorter than I thought
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: you were.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Like, well, well, it's good you don't give short I
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: don't have. That should make you feel good.
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: Small energy, I guess that would be the same in
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: that rate. Yet, Well, if you do want an opportunity,
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: and I said this in the last podcast, I'll say
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: it again. Just to make sure that we're living congruently
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: with our what we're doing here on the show, you
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: could meet us and see how non tall we are.
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: We are doing Scotty and Abbey Live. That's going to
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: be coming here first. So if you are in the
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: Tampa area and you're like, wait a second, that sounds
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: like there are some seats available, you just got to
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: get on the list that's up on our website, Mymagic
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: ninety four nine dot com.
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: Abby any closing remarks, I can go to see if
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: we have any new comments.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my closing remarks are that I'm regretting the
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: song to eat my yogurt is my stomach is eating
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: itself from the inside out. Oh. Also controversial for people
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: who've been following my Chobani journey. I think I'm gonna
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: switch from chobanni to unsweetened.
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: Why why are you gonna switch?
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: I'm starting to wonder if maybe artificial sweeteners are worse
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: for you than what science says.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: Oh you think, Oh, I mean anything that is genetically
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: create or I don't know.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: It's setically modified.
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like it probably.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: Should raise a magnifying glass to it. Probably your body
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: wasn't necessarily designed to deal with that.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: So I think for like a week, obviously not starting
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: until next week because I'm going on vacation next week.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you don't want to, I am going to
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: experiment with unsweetened.
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I know this is real character growth through me kids.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: This is huge, gibbon. I'll tell you what though. So far, honestly,
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: you have great recommendations.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: Listen, I'm a taste maker.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: You well, i'd say you have good taste in some
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: areas chobani else.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: So that's that's being a chaste maker.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, okay, I don't want to give you too
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: much credit because then you come in here and you
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: can't fit through the you know, the door with your
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: head too big.
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: But your bonny yogurt was a win. That was great.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: The show off campus was great.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: So good funny side tangent for those who love off campus.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Or we were in a sales meeting yesterday where literally
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: are She's Mel's got to be like what in her
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: forties fifties, She's obsessed with Belmont Cocmelly. She's like, we're
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: gonna pay to bring him down.
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: And you know what's cool is like she will make that.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: That's the thing is like, if anybody in here can
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: make it happen, Mel's going to make it happen. So
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: when you see a photo of me making out with
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: Belmont Cocmelly, no, no, it was one of our salespeople
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: that made it happen. Well, I think he still has
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: a girlfriend. Never mind. I don't want to wish Ill
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: will and their relationship, but I hope they I hope
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: they're just they have an open relationship.
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: And maybe she's allowing them to make out with fans.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let him have a whole pass with his fans.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: Othing do one.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: For the team. Okay, we're paying your bills.
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: God just making out with all these strangers.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Here's a message you got from yesterday's podcaster Won a
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: few days ago about oh okay, about your brother's wedding.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: So talking about the things that are actually worth the money,
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: Deborah says got married oh earlier this year, and I
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: will say a million times that doing an all inclusive
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: venue is one hundred times worth the money for no stress.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: They have people that set up, take down, and family
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: friends can legit, just chill and.
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: Enjoy the day with you. That was a non negotiable
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: for me.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: Well, Deborah, congratulations on your nuptials. But that's exactly how
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: I feel. It's like I do if I have to
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: pitch in for the wedding, I just don't want my
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: wedding to stress people out because no matter what, my
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: wedding's gonna make people hate me because it's an obligation.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: And I think obligations just you know what I mean, Like,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: just no matter what all I gotta do for as,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: it's a thing you have to do, and so naturally
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: there's gonna be some Oh, it's an obligation. So when
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: you get there, I just wanted to feel like vacation.
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: See that's a beautiful way to look at it. And
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: it's hard.
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: If you do have the money and you can make
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: it happen, it sounds like it is worth it. Because
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: then everyone could truly treat the day as the celebration
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: that it was meant to be. Yeah, instead of walking
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: in and now you gotta set up the flowers, make
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: the goodie bags, take down.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: Put up, and nobody's getting a goodie bag. Nobody, nobody
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: ads for you. And you know what, nobody cares. They
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: want an open bar, and they want air conditioning, and
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: they want easy access to the reception.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: Like good drinks, good food, good people, and good songs.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: Uh, that's a win win win.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: And listen, we already know I'm a taste maker. Will
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: my wedding be the most expensive, beautiful magical thing ever?
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: Probably not? But will it be a damn good time? Absolutely?
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you'll put toward the things that you know
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: matter exactly.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: And I will be forty five when I get married,
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: so I will have my market research done.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: You have plenty of time, plenty of time to put
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: this plan together. Well, thank you for your comments anytime
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: if you're listening. I haven't looked at Apple in a while,
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: and I don't know if you could still comment on Apple,
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: but Spotify or Apple wherever you're listening to. The podcast
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: rate five stars and comment whenever you feel like there's
• 51:55
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• 51:58
  Speaker 3: Thank you ever about them, but a cut down