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Control Freak · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, we're going to Bristol.
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  Speaker 2: You guys, are you ready for a little second date
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  Speaker 2: update action in Bristol?
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely? All right. On the line is Chrissy. Good morning, Chrissy,
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  Speaker 1: good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show. It is second date update.
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  Speaker 2: So obviously you went on a great first date and
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  Speaker 2: you're getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 1: That is that it?
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  Speaker 3: Oh yes, Oh my gosh, So tell me.
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  Speaker 1: About this great first date. The guy's name is Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Is that his name? Okay, tell me about.
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  Speaker 3: The date, my gosh, best date. So we went to
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  Speaker 3: a very fancy restaurant. The food was perfect, the conversation
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  Speaker 3: was great. I mean, he is literally everything I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, this is overall.
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  Speaker 3: This is an excellent date, Like, couldn't have gone any better.
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  Speaker 3: And so after the date, I texted him the next
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  Speaker 3: day and you know I wanted to meet up again. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: good date. The night before was so great? All right,
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  Speaker 3: and now I'm getting ghosted and I have no idea why.
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  Speaker 1: So did you drink too much? Do you think you
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  Speaker 1: had too much alcohol?
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, I do not drink at all.
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  Speaker 3: That is so bad for your health. I would never
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  Speaker 3: touch the stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, maybe that's why you're getting ghosted right there.
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  Speaker 2: Top's sober Susan in the house.
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  Speaker 3: It's chrissy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but yeah, yeah, it's sober Chrissy Jeff. All right.
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  Speaker 2: So, and then you reached out to him. He has
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  Speaker 2: not responded. Did he get too drunk on the date?
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  Speaker 3: No, he did have a couple of drinks and I
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  Speaker 3: didn't like that, but I figured because it was the
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  Speaker 3: first date, I could look past it and you know,
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  Speaker 3: maybe we could figure that out later.
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  Speaker 4: Now. Is drinking like a deal breaker for you?
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  Speaker 3: It's not necessarily a deal breaker. I mean, I'm really
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  Speaker 3: in a health and wellness so it's not something that
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  Speaker 3: I partake in, and I prefer my partners not.
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  Speaker 5: To do that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, but you know what, first date, I'll let
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  Speaker 3: it pass and we can just talk about it later.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Okay, all right, Well, listen, this is what
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna do. We're gonna put you on hold. We're
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  Speaker 2: gonna call up Steve. We're gonna ask him about the date.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to be listening, and if at any point
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  Speaker 2: you want to talk to him, you can, Okay. I'm
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  Speaker 2: just gonna ask him to be honest, and why he's
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  Speaker 2: ghosting you.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. I just feel like she's aggressive.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like, if you're into health and wellness, it's
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  Speaker 6: not a big deal.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, as long as you know she's not pushing
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  Speaker 4: it on him.
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  Speaker 1: Sounds aggressive. Hi is Steve there? Hello? Hi Steve, it's Courtney, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: It's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 4: Hey Steve, it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 1: You're on Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the radio
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  Speaker 1: this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Oh cool, how's it going?
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  Speaker 1: Hey, it's going well. Listen.
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  Speaker 2: We're calling you because we do something called second date Update,
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  Speaker 2: where if you go on a first date and you
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  Speaker 2: have a great time, but you get ghosted and you
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  Speaker 2: want answers, you call us.
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  Speaker 1: And that's why we're calling you.
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  Speaker 3: You're joking.
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  Speaker 1: No, We're totally not joking, are we, guys? No, this
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  Speaker 1: is not joking.
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  Speaker 2: Unfortunately, Chrissy called up. I'll fill you in. She says, you, guys,
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  Speaker 2: went on a great first date. You went to dinner,
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  Speaker 2: really good conversation. She says, she want doesn't want to
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  Speaker 2: waste time. She wants to see you again, but you're
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  Speaker 2: ghosting her. How is the date for you?
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  Speaker 5: You know? And this is perfect because she is. She's
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  Speaker 5: very nice. But that was one of the most control
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  Speaker 5: freak Micromanagy has to have everything her way dates I've
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  Speaker 5: ever had. I So this is wild.
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  Speaker 1: So tell me why.
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  Speaker 2: So you felt like she was a little aggressive or
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  Speaker 2: a little controlling.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, more than a little. The entire night she was,
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  Speaker 5: you know, talking about how, you know, all she does
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  Speaker 5: just go to the gym and work out and but
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  Speaker 5: every you know, two minutes she was say, Oh, but
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  Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not a control freak or anything. I
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  Speaker 5: don't because I'm not, which like that best textbook she is.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, she's there, Chrissy's there, Steve, she was listening in,
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  Speaker 2: So go ahead, Chrissy.
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  Speaker 1: He says, you were pretty much a control freak.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not a control freak. Why would you say something
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  Speaker 3: like that. I thought we had a great time.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we did have a good time. But you know,
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  Speaker 5: all you did was talk about them going out to
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  Speaker 5: the gym and working out, and when you sent the
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  Speaker 5: bread back.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, set, wait, I mean bread. You sent the
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  Speaker 1: bread back? Is that what you said?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they brought Why would bread with our dinner? That
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  Speaker 3: is so bad for you?
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes that's the best. They're so good. They get me
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  Speaker 1: every time.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: If you start to fill up on bread before you
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  Speaker 3: get your protein, and you're not going to get enough protein,
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  Speaker 3: and it's not you're not going to be sufficiently full.
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  Speaker 3: You'll feel full and then you'll crash.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, she's she's not wrong.
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  Speaker 1: She's going out to dinner on a first day. It's
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  Speaker 1: so you don't bring this stuff up.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, sounds like a great first But okay, Steve,
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  Speaker 2: was there anything else aside from sending the bread back?
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  Speaker 1: Whatever?
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  Speaker 3: Was?
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  Speaker 1: Is there any is that it?
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  Speaker 5: I'm so glad you asked. Yeah, of course there was. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: So I'm on top of her saying that she's not controlling.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah she So. I ordered a steak. You know, we
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  Speaker 5: were a nice restaurant, So I'm gonna get a stake,
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  Speaker 5: all right. I let the bread things slide.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: I got stake and it had butter on top of it,
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  Speaker 5: and she was lecturing me for all the calories of
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  Speaker 5: the butter.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's a huge okay.
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  Speaker 3: Punk of butter on this steak. I could not I
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  Speaker 3: couldn't believe they served that to you.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I had to say something, hold on, hold on,
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  Speaker 6: as much as I myself am a health freak.
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  Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no no no, I.
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  Speaker 6: Am hold on, give me the butter. I am a
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  Speaker 6: health freak, and I would do this with my food.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like on a first date or in general,
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  Speaker 6: it's not fair to push that on somebody else who
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  Speaker 6: doesn't want to live like that. Like, if you want
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  Speaker 6: to do that and you want your steak, no butter
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  Speaker 6: and no bread, go for it, like I live that life.
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  Speaker 1: I'm all with.
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  Speaker 6: You, But I feel like pushing it on somebody else
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  Speaker 6: is just taking it a little too far.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think that I know a
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  Speaker 3: lot about this stuff, and I'm very passionate about it,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm okay people knowing about that upfront.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right? So I feel this is this is
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  Speaker 2: my assessment. It's not a love match. You're just too
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  Speaker 2: far off. It's not a connection. Am I Is that
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  Speaker 2: fair to say?
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  Speaker 5: With your pee?
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  Speaker 3: Probably? Not?
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  Speaker 6: All right?
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  Speaker 2: I usually offer to pay for a second date, but
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  Speaker 2: I feel like there's not much of a connection here,
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  Speaker 2: and so I'll let you guys just do your own thing,
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  Speaker 2: but keep us posted on.
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  Speaker 1: Like maybe if you meet somebody.
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  Speaker 2: Christy, that's you know more in tune with what you
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  Speaker 2: believe in and same with you.
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  Speaker 1: Steve.
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  Speaker 2: Give him the.
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  Speaker 3: Money for a gym membership.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to another Steak.
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  Speaker 2: Okay or Steak and butter Well. Thank you guys for
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  Speaker 2: being so honest and for being on second date.
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  Speaker 1: Update.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks I you