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She's Pregnant By A Diff Man And Torn on What To Do · The Erica Show

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  Do you want to five? It's the Erica Show checking in with you.
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  Angie has a major dilemma. What's going on? Hi, guys, So
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  I'm pregnant. Congrat I just found out, thank you, But unfortunately it's
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  not by the guy that I am seeing. Yeah, so my boyfriend of
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  three years has a he's yeah, he's been gone a lot and things just
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  like happened. I would say, so up, Yeah, I ended up
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  hooking up with someone he knows, which is probably worse. How well does
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  he know the person? Are the best friends? They're not close friends.
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  I mean they're acquainted through like mutual friends, right, But I know this
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  is like a this this is like a typical situation for someone being irresponsible.
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  And usually usually I'm a good girl, I pay my bills, work hard,
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  I don't typically cheat. But it just happened. Now I feel embarrassed.
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  I don't know how to handle it. I just could go on about
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  it like it's his kid, or never say anything, or we break up
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  and the whole town knows what happened. So I don't know what exactly it's
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  gonna it's gonna come out. This is gonna come out. What if it
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  comes out? Looking just like the other guy like you have. Well,
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  yeah, the baby's gonna come out with the baby's come out, yes,
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  but the lie is gonna it's the cheating that's all gonna It's kind to eat
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  you up, like for the rest of your life too, You'll always know.
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  I mean, you hear those stories where the kids eighteen and finds out
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  they get a different daddy and ancestry dot Com and the thirteen and me,
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  it's gonna come out right, Okay, well I have nine months to figure
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  it out. So, yeah, how do you think your boyfriend of three
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  years will handle it? Is gonna be I mean, obviously a deal breaker,
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  But do you think that he would be like, oh, I understand
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  I was out of town. Absolutely not. I mean, if you were
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  cheating on me, then I would that would be a deal breaker. But
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  it's just the fact that I'm the one who did it and now I have
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  to deal with the consequences. They at least like are they the same race,
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  same ethnicity, but not exactly? Okay, yeah, girl, you're
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  gonna have to go on and let that one you got. Yeah, so
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  give advice to her on the best way to tell the world. Basically,
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  because you can't hide that one. Please, Well congrats on the pregnancy though,
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  Yeah, thanks, I guess Okay nine one. I mean this is
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  no brainer. I mean, this has all the potentials for uh Who's the
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  daddy episode of Mary Kovic. And before it even gets to that point,
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  she needs to come clean. She's she needs to just be honest about what's
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  going on, because it's you know, it's not fair to the guy who
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  doesn't know. It's flips up And would you stay with a girl that said,
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  hey, I made a mistake, I got pregnant. Would you still
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  stay with that girl? Or no, it's completely over me personally? Hell
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  no, it's over Okay, Yeah, I mean I would think that would
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  be most I think that's why she's a avoiding telling him because she doesn't want
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  the relationship to end. She cares about him. She just had a uh
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  uh oh, she slipped. She slipped on somebody. So does it make
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  it worse that it's somebody that her boyfriend knows? It absolutely makes it worse
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  that it's someone that he knows, in my opinion, I mean, because
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  now you gotta you know, you stay with her now, Now he's in
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  that orbit. Now you're going to run across this guy, and in the
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  back of that guy's mind is the one who's being cheated on, who's been
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  cheated on. He's always going to wonder and it won't even be just with
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  that guy, it's just going to be in general. Anytime she introduces another
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  man, he's going to be like, no, man, that guy needs
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  to run, he needs she needs to be honest, and he needs to
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  get the hell out. But if he's look, if he's got the heart
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  to forgive her, he I guess he's a better man than I am.
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  But I wouldn't