Latest / Arroe Collins Like It's Live / Vocal De Frag Episode 215 Whats The Solution
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I don't know how you run your streaming platforms when
- 0:02Speaker 1: you're trying to watch TV. Right here is the Disney Channel.
- 0:04Speaker 1: Over here is Hulu. There's Netflix. There's got to be
- 0:07Speaker 1: something on. It's almost Halloween. What are we going to do?
- 0:09Speaker 1: Is there something over here I can check into? Why
- 0:12Speaker 1: can't we just do it all in one place? Like arrow.net, A-R-R-O-E.net.
- 0:18Speaker 1: One place, 21 different podcasts to choose from. From My
- 0:22Speaker 1: Day of Play to The Choice, The Daily Mess, Foodie
- 0:25Speaker 1: Paradise if you love your cooking. How about Vocal Defrag
- 0:28Speaker 1: and even YA Authors? Arrow.net, A-R-R-O-E.net. 21 different choices in
- 0:36Speaker 1: one place. Enjoy your exploration. Hey, it's Harold, and this
- 0:40Speaker 1: is Vocal Defragging. Vocal Defragging is taking the time to
- 0:44Speaker 1: ask yourself the questions and question the answers. Well, I'm
- 0:48Speaker 1: going to ask a question right there. Why did I
- 0:50Speaker 1: even say taking the time? Because it seems like everybody
- 0:53Speaker 1: has no time.
- 0:54Speaker 2: We don't have time to do this. We don't have
- 0:56Speaker 2: time to do that. And now you want me to
- 0:58Speaker 2: take the time to ask myself questions and then question
- 1:00Speaker 2: the answers? That's a lot of pressure, dude. It is
- 1:03Speaker 2: a lot of pressure, and it's going to get even
- 1:05Speaker 2: more when you ignore... The fact that you ignored time,
- 1:10Speaker 2: if you know what I mean. This seems like we're
- 1:11Speaker 2: talking in circles, but it's not. It's learning more about
- 1:15Speaker 2: yourself and not more about things that you have no
- 1:18Speaker 2: control over. And that's one of the things that my
- 1:20Speaker 2: martial arts master used to sit down with me and
- 1:22Speaker 2: he would say, do you have control of it? No,
- 1:25Speaker 2: then let it go. I mean, he would say that.
- 1:27Speaker 2: I mean, I would come into that school with the
- 1:30Speaker 2: heaviest of all heavy things from the world of radio
- 1:33Speaker 2: and he would go, can you control it? No, then
- 1:35Speaker 2: let it go. And that really helped me out when
- 1:38Speaker 2: it came to clearly making my way through so many mountains.
- 1:41Speaker 2: Because you can't just remove a mountain. You've got to
- 1:44Speaker 2: take it down one stone at a time. What are
- 1:47Speaker 2: the things that you can control? Ask yourself the questions.
- 1:51Speaker 2: Question the answers. This is Vocal Defrag. The subject today
- 1:54Speaker 2: is kind of like almost on that line. But I
- 1:57Speaker 2: want to ask the thing about why is it that
- 2:01Speaker 2: when people bitch and moan about the everyday world and
- 2:04Speaker 2: about how their job isn't doing this and their boss
- 2:07Speaker 2: isn't doing that and family members are driving them crazy.
- 2:10Speaker 2: But if you sit down and really talk with them
- 2:13Speaker 2: about locating a solution, they go silent on you. And
- 2:17Speaker 2: it's like, how is that even possible? You can bitch
- 2:20Speaker 2: and moan all day about a situation. And then when
- 2:25Speaker 2: it comes to locating a solution, which is like a
- 2:28Speaker 2: word that people, you know the definition to it, but
- 2:31Speaker 2: in order to get to it is going to require
- 2:33Speaker 2: some elbow grease, as my father would say. So why
- 2:35Speaker 2: is it that we lose out in the department of
- 2:38Speaker 2: having elbow grease? locating a solution. But no, what do
- 2:42Speaker 2: we get? I don't know. Or we spend our days
- 2:46Speaker 2: and nights, that time we think we've lost and can't
- 2:49Speaker 2: get our hands on. We spend all of that time
- 2:52Speaker 2: bitching and moaning without finding that solution when all we
- 2:55Speaker 2: had to really do was dig in a little bit
- 2:58Speaker 2: deeper and And find out, A, that we're never alone
- 3:01Speaker 2: when it comes to a bad situation because there's other
- 3:03Speaker 2: people dealing with the same exact thing that are sitting
- 3:06Speaker 2: in their boxes and going, how can I get out
- 3:09Speaker 2: of this? And you got to think like a cat, man.
- 3:11Speaker 2: The cat's curiosity is a great tool in the way
- 3:15Speaker 2: of building a path to getting where you need to grow.
- 3:19Speaker 2: Not go, but grow. And that's what life is. It's
- 3:22Speaker 2: about growing. Does that make me a know-it-all? I hope
- 3:25Speaker 2: that doesn't come across this way on this podcast because
- 3:29Speaker 2: It's all about being a traveler, an explorer, someone who
- 3:33Speaker 2: celebrates the slightest little thing and, and locates a solution.
- 3:39Speaker 2: But I have pissed off so many people in my
- 3:43Speaker 2: 64 years of life because I have put that word
- 3:46Speaker 2: solution ahead of all things. They'll be the first to
- 3:51Speaker 2: tell me, you made another mistake. Okay, what's the solution?
- 3:56Speaker 2: You see what I mean? And they're going, blah, blah, blah.
- 3:59Speaker 2: They don't know what the solution is, but they are
- 4:02Speaker 2: so proud inside their gut and heart that, ooh, I
- 4:05Speaker 2: got to go and be with a guy that talks
- 4:07Speaker 2: to all of these famous people. He made a mistake. Oh,
- 4:11Speaker 2: I feel so good about making this guy feel so bad. Okay,
- 4:15Speaker 2: that's cool. So what's the solution? You see what I mean?
- 4:18Speaker 2: If we could just sit there and really ask that
- 4:23Speaker 2: question right there, what is the solution? We've got a
- 4:27Speaker 2: world that's at war, but they don't want to talk
- 4:29Speaker 2: about it being at war. My master in martial arts
- 4:32Speaker 2: would say, can you control it? No, then let it go.
- 4:35Speaker 2: Just let it go. I mean, that is the first
- 4:37Speaker 2: step of a brand new solution. in the way of
- 4:40Speaker 2: just getting rid of the crap that is weighing you
- 4:44Speaker 2: down that you have no control over. The cost of living,
- 4:48Speaker 2: the food, the electricity, the fuel for your car. We
- 4:52Speaker 2: are so freaked out about the way and the walk
- 4:56Speaker 2: of the world right now. And I can just hear
- 4:58Speaker 2: Master Harris right now say, can you control it? No.
- 5:01Speaker 2: Then say it with me. Let it go. Or ask
- 5:06Speaker 2: this question. What's the solution? It's like, yeah. I recognize
- 5:10Speaker 2: all of this is going on, but if I have
- 5:13Speaker 2: no control and I have no voice, then you just
- 5:17Speaker 2: got to let it go. Now, I'll tell you who
- 5:18Speaker 2: really inspires me very deeply. Lech Walesa of Poland inspires
- 5:24Speaker 2: me to this day because it seems like in everything
- 5:29Speaker 2: that I've ever studied, it seems like that he looked
- 5:33Speaker 2: at his world right there in Poland. And when someone said,
- 5:36Speaker 2: this is wrong, this is wrong, this is wrong, this
- 5:39Speaker 2: is wrong. He didn't say, I'm just going to let
- 5:41Speaker 2: this go. No, he said, I'm going to locate a solution.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Do you see what I mean? What is the solution?
- 5:50Speaker 2: Everything that you're moving through, around, above, beyond, if you're
- 5:55Speaker 2: running away from or if you're running to, ask yourself
- 6:00Speaker 2: that question. I know all of this is going on.
- 6:04Speaker 2: So what's the solution? You see, say it in a
- 6:07Speaker 2: peaceful way. and it will come to you in a
- 6:09Speaker 2: peaceful way. I'm Arrow. That's vocal defragging.