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- Lucas: So you walk into a room and there are three people sitting at the table — maybe four. One is the hiring manager, one is a peer you'd work with, and one is from HR. They all have notepads. They all take turns asking questions. This is a panel interview, and it is a completely different animal from a one-on-one. Luna: I think most people freeze up because they don't know where to look. Do you answer to the person who asked, or do you try to include everyone? Lucas: That's the exact problem. And the standard advice — 'make eye contact with everyone' — is too vague. So today I want to walk through a specific case. A Fortune 500 company I worked with used panel interviews for all final-round candidates. One candidate — let's call her Maya — absolutely crushed it. And the reason wasn't luck. She prepared for the panel as a team of stakeholders, not just a group of interviewers. Luna: I love that framing. So how did she map them out? Lucas: Before the interview, she got the names and titles of everyone on the panel — which is totally reasonable to ask the recruiter. Then she listed what each person cares about. The hiring manager wants to know if you can do the job and fit the team culture. The peer wants to know if you'll be easy to work with and if you'll make their life harder or easier. HR is checking for compliance, culture add, and longevity signals. Luna: Right, so her answers weren't one-size-fits-all. She tailored each response to the person asking. Lucas: Exactly. When the peer asked about a time she handled a difficult teammate, she didn't just tell a generic story. She framed it around collaboration — how she resolved the conflict without escalating to management, which a peer would appreciate. When the hiring manager asked about a project failure, she focused on the business impact and what she learned about resource allocation. That's a manager-level concern. Luna: It sounds obvious, but I bet most people just answer the question as asked without thinking about the person behind it. Lucas: That's exactly what separates a good interview from a great one. And there's another layer: managing the room's energy. Maya made a point to address her first answer to the person who asked, but then she'd glance at the others while making a key point, like 'and that's why I think this approach would benefit the whole team.' That simple shift made everyone feel included. Luna: I have a counter-example. A friend of mine was on a panel at a startup, and the candidate was excellent on paper but kept answering only to the CTO — ignoring the product manager and the designer on the panel. Those two ended up vetoing the hire because they felt the candidate wouldn't collaborate cross-functionally. Lucas: That's the danger. In a panel, each person has a vote. You can win over the hiring manager and still lose the job if you alienate someone else. So part of the prep is also anticipating what each person might ask. For the peer, expect questions about teamwork and conflict. For HR, expect questions about career goals and why you're leaving your current role. For the hiring manager, expect strategic or situational questions. Luna: What about the actual logistics? Like, if two people ask questions at the same time, or if one person dominates? Lucas: Great point. If two questions come at once, acknowledge both — 'I'd love to answer both, let me start with yours, and then I'll come back to your question.' That shows composure. If one person dominates, make sure to redirect gently. For example, after answering the dominant person, you can say, 'I'd also be curious if others have a different angle on this that I should address.' That invites the quieter panelists in. Luna: That's a power move. It shows you're aware of the group dynamic and you're managing it politely. Lucas: Yeah, and it also signals that you're collaborative — a key trait for most roles. Now, there's one more thing. Panel interviews often have a time limit, so your answers need to be concise. The standard advice for one-on-ones is two minutes max per answer. In a panel, aim for ninety seconds because there are more people who need to ask their questions. Luna: And you should always have a few backup stories that you can pivot to if the conversation goes in an unexpected direction. Lucas: Absolutely. Prepare three to four core stories that cover leadership, failure, conflict, and success. Then tailor the framing to the question. Maya's preparation paid off — she got the offer. And the feedback from the panel was that she seemed like she was already part of the team. Luna: That's the goal, right? To seem like you belong there. Lucas: Exactly. And honestly, if this episode helped you think about an upcoming panel interview, that's the kind of thing that makes this show worth doing. If today was worth a coffee to you, that's the link — buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. No pressure, just a way to keep this ad-free and focused on practical advice. Luna: Yeah, it's a small way to support the show if you've gotten value. We appreciate it. Lucas: Alright, back to the panel. So we've covered mapping stakeholders, tailoring answers, and managing the room. But there's one more layer: handling the 'hot seat' moment. Luna: What do you mean by hot seat? Lucas: Sometimes a panelist will ask a follow-up that feels like an interrogation. They're testing your poise under pressure. The key is not to get defensive. Take a breath, restate the question to make sure you understood it, then answer calmly. For example, if someone says, 'That doesn't sound like a real failure,' you can say, 'I can see why you'd think that. Let me give you more context about why it was significant to me.' That shows confidence without being combative. Luna: And it buys you a few seconds to collect your thoughts. Lucas: Exactly. Now, let's talk about the virtual panel. With remote work, many panels are on Zoom. The same principles apply, but there's an added challenge: reading body language is harder, and there's often a lag. Luna: I've seen people talk over each other because of the delay. How do you handle that? Lucas: Pause for a full two seconds after someone finishes speaking before you start. That gives the audio time to clear and prevents interruptions. Also, look directly at the camera when you're answering, not at the faces on the screen. It creates the illusion of eye contact for everyone. Luna: Good tip. What about taking notes during a virtual panel? Is that okay? Lucas: Absolutely. In fact, it's expected. Have a notebook and pen next to you. Jot down key words from each question so you can refer back. It shows you're engaged and organized. Just don't stare at your notes the whole time. Luna: So the preparation is really the same whether it's in-person or virtual — know your audience, tailor your stories, manage the flow. Lucas: Exactly. And one last thing: always send a thank-you note to each panelist individually within 24 hours. Reference something specific from your conversation with each person. Maya did that, and the hiring manager told me later that it sealed the deal because it showed she paid attention to each person's role. Luna: That's a great example of how small details can make a big difference. Lucas: So to recap: before the panel, research each panelist and map their concerns. During the panel, tailor your answers, manage eye contact, and stay concise. After the panel, send personalized thank-you notes. That's the framework. Luna: I think the stakeholder mapping is the most underrated step. Most people don't do it, and it's such a simple way to stand out. Lucas: It really is. And if you try it, let us know how it goes. We'd love to hear a success story. Luna: Or a failure story — we can learn from those too. Lucas: True. Alright, that's our take on panel interviews. Next time, we'll talk about how to handle the 'do you have any questions for us' moment — because the questions you ask can be just as important as the answers you give. Luna: Looking forward to it. Until then, good luck with those panels.