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I Hope My Daughter Doesn't Accept Things I Accepted - Annie Macaulay’s Words of Wisdom · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bantu Lorenzia.
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  How are you all doing now? If you're doing great for
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  today's episode, I want to talk to my ladies, my gallies, come
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  closer, come closer. Never fight for a man.
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  Never fight over a man. If a man puts you in a position
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  where you have to compete, a boat mission.
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  If a man puts you in a position where you have to make another
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  lady feel less than about mission.
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  If a man is not man enough to make decisions and he's busy
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  chasing everything in skirts and then you're competing to pin him
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  down about mission, it is not worth it at the long run.
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  You will cry premium tears because a man, there's a lady
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  from the young I think her name is, I can't remember her name
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  from young, famous and African. She said that a man will take
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  you to the desert and leave you there without water.
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  Now listen, our men are amazing. Our men are good.
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  Now the few people that I am referring to are the players who
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  who just think that they're just too good.
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  You know, it's a sexy they need women to fight for them.
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  They are the king, they are the prize.
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  Ronald Ronald Hmm. Now the reason why I want to
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  talk about this is because of our favourite couple of couples
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  are back in the news. Once coupled up and in the beer
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  and two face, her ex-husband 2 face in the beer, the latest
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  couple now Natasha and two faced DBA.
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  Let me just give you read out why this is back in the news.
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  I need DB as we know she has gone through divorce.
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  I don't know if he's final, but she's healing quite well.
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  She went through rehab. She's back, she's looking good,
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  she's partying, she's working and we are happy for her.
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  But I think she's still healing from her.
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  The fact that her first love, her first everything, According
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  to Annie, is now married to Natasha and Natasha is pregnant
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  with her husband's child with two first child now.
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  Annie made a post after it was made public that Natasha is
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  pregnant. She said that I hope my daughter
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  doesn't accept things. I have accepted that she knows
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  her what from the start and knows that no matter what, she
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  will always have me in her corner.
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  Our dear African Queen Annie Dibia is now giving us
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  motivational quotes. Now accept this, take it,
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  listen, because initially when I did the video, I said when the
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  whole thing was the whole saga between the divorce between
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  Annie and them Two Face was going on.
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  I was less empathetic to Annie because I knew that she knew
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  exactly what she was signing up for and she accepted it because
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  Annie dated 2 Face, 2 Face went about cheating.
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  He got several women pregnant, the one that we know of.
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  And then she's was fighting, fighting for his love, fighting
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  for his attention, fighting family members, fighting
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  managers who book shows for two fees.
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  Because according to her, whenever he goes for shows, he
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  always have, you know, girls, especially in America.
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  He's baby Mama. Peru lives in America.
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  So listen, there was a whole lot of drama.
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  Even Sophie, CDB's mother, didn't want Annie at some point.
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  It was a whole mess online now 2 face file for divorce because he
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  met Natasha and Natasha is a honourable minister.
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  Honourable Natasha. Natasha is this, you know, I
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  don't even know what to call Natasha, but Natasha is out
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  there. Natasha is in your face.
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  Natasha is just she, they've got money, but she's not the, you
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  know, prim and proper like Anita would go for photo shoots and
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  all that. So Natasha is always coming
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  online looking from P somehow. Even Natasha's best picture, she
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  doesn't have a publicist, she doesn't have PRI, don't think
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  she has a photographer. So these are just pictures and
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  photos being taken by people. So her pictures always look
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  somehow. Now if you compare Annie DBA and
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  Natasha EDBA, you could tell the difference that you know she's
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  just living her life now. 2 Face announced that he's leaving
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  Annie for Natasha. Natasha and Two Face got
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  engaged. They are now married.
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  And before you could say Jack, Natasha is pregnant for two
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  faced DBA and we all know that Annie is still recovering.
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  I mean, this whole thing happened this year.
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  We woke up one day after the young famous An African aired
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  and the way Annie was behaving, Annie was not OK.
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  Annie was clearly on something and everybody literally was
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  bashing Annie. 2 faced made a video to say that he's leaving
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  her. So Annie was put in rehab.
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  So everything is still raw, everything is still new and her
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  husband has moved on. He hadn't just moved on.
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  He's married and he himself and the wife are expecting.
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  So I don't even know how what that does to Annie because this
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  is her man. This is her king.
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  She is the African queen. I think she's just processing
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  things one step at a time. And if I was in her shoes,
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  honestly, I would I would make sure that anything I post
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  weather motivational weather, whatever, I will make sure that
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  it doesn't get tied to to face. Now after anime disposed to face
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  and his wife Natasha share the video.
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  They were dancing. They were happy and you could
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  tell listen, I can't take it away from them.
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  They look happy. They look they look lively.
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  You know, it's like to face is now alive because towards the
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  tail end of his marriage to Annie DBM, you could tell that
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  he was looking so unhappy, so unkept.
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  His eyes were swollen. He was really seen every other
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  day. There were videos of accusing
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  him of cheating or doing something or visiting his kids.
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  There was always something online and Annie was the one
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  initiating those things because 2 Faced has always been the
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  private person. So Annie is now in her feelings
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  and Natasha is rubbing it in. She is not taking her foot off
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  the gas. She is like, OK, I'll call you a
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  man. I'm carrying his baby and I will
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  show you that he's happy. After I watched all the videos,
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  I was like never hey, no matter the guy I love, that will be
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  shocking me fighting over a man or fighting for the attention of
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  a man. Hey, that is that is non
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  negotiable. That will never happen.
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  Because at the end of the day, yeah, people can say, oh, you
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  know, he's shy. He doesn't he can't ask you out
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  or he's not able to ask you. Listen, men are hunters.
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  They go for what they want. And if to Face had wanted you,
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  there's a way he would do it. There's a way he's going to play
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  that game. But after even when they were
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  getting married, Piro was pregnant with that tall child.
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  So if I'm marrying somebody like to face or if I'm going to be
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  fighting for somebody like to face, I already know that this
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  man is polygamous. I think Annie just loved him too
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  much. And she has said in interviews
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  that during some of their breakups that she she dated
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  other people. It's not like she was just
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  sitting down there while he was impregnating other people.
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  But she just couldn't move on. And I think it's still
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  happening. It's still, I don't think she
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  has moved on. I think she needs therapy
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  because we all know that she took a lot of beers from 2 Face
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  and in their marriage from 2 Face's family.
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  When Two Face was in Binui courting Natasha, the mother
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  came out and was screaming that Natasha used Jazz to hold 2 Face
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  because I think that she met her match.
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  Finally she met her match. She came out and was screaming
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  that people should help her look for her son, that her son is
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  missing, Natasha is holding her son hostage, that people should
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  help her. Ladies and gentlemen, when
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  pictures of their wedding was released, Mama I did bear was
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  standing behind her son during the marriage ceremony.
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  Don't fight for a man, Don't fight over a man.
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  Don't fight for the attention of a man.
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  You know, now people guys say, oh, I want somebody who loves me
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  more. I want it is vice versa.
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  Ladies, if he doesn't love you more about mission.
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  If he wants you to fight for him about mission, if he's not man
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  enough to express his feelings about mission, don't cry premium
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  tears. So don't be like Anita will now
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  start motivating her daughters. Just imagine the kind of
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  daughter that you know Isabel will be.
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  She will not take any BS and she will carry the scar of her mum
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  because even if a man is coming and maybe she finds the perfect
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  person who is even willing to give her any everything or do
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  anything, that trauma, she will carry that trauma.
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  She's going to carry that trauma.
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  She's going to see everybody you know in her father's image.
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  Men, be a good example to your daughters.
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  Be a good example. Would you want your daughter to
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  date you? If you're a man, would you want
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  your daughter to date you? Anyway, that's all I have to
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  say. Congratulations to Two Faced and
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  then Natasha and Annie. I hope you heal.
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  I hope you move on, and I hope you find peace, love, laughter,
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  and everything that these two people are rubbing in your face.
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  Don't engage. Don't engage, disengage to this
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  is messy. Natasha is messier.
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  They are going to use your your, your mental health and dance
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  suruge. Don't let it happen.
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  Anyway, what do you think? Do you think that Annie has
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  learnt her lesson and she would make sure her daughter just like
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  she says doesn't go through what she went through?
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  Or do you think that 2 faced and Natasha just looks very happy
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  and it should move on? Let me know what you think.
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  Thank you very much for watching today's episode.
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  Thank you very much for watching.
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  Bye.