Latest / Honey Badger Radio / TED Presents: Lilly Singh Isn't Unfunny or Uninteresting, You're Just an Istophobe! | Rantzerker 184

Transcript

TED Presents: Lilly Singh Isn't Unfunny or Uninteresting, You're Just an Istophobe! | Rantzerker 184 · Honey Badger Radio

• 0:00
  Coming to you live from deep within a leafy and windy and dusty and rag
• 0:07
  polliny radioactive wasteland. We are the survivors of the alt right apocalypse, the
• 0:14
  few, the brave, the bitchy, once more wading into battle against the
• 0:20
  unfunny feminist hordes with ran Zerker yourself, but I repeat myself, No,
• 0:31
  rand Zerker Number one eighty four Ted presents Lily Singh isn't unfunny or uninteresting.
• 0:40
  You're just a sexist because we all know that self righteousness is the best flavor
• 0:45
  of humor, the best. Yeah, it's it's cringe, but at least
• 0:53
  it's you know, it's like a classic sort of cringe. Speaking of cringe,
• 0:58
  speaking of modern stand up. What's the name of that woman? I
• 1:02
  think she's Australian, Uh, kind of like, ah, we're feminist woman.
• 1:08
  Yeah, yeah, fat lesbian woman that basically doesn't even tell jokes,
• 1:15
  Like she literally just gets up on stage and cries. Yeah, she laughing
• 1:23
  at at the absurdity. So that I am not consumed by it. I
• 1:26
  just I I forget her name, but yeah, I know she is Gabby
• 1:32
  something I don't know. Yeah, yeah, I think so, yeah,
• 1:36
  yeah, yeah, I don't know something, it's an appropriately gender neutral name.
• 1:44
  Well, I've I've definitely blocked as much as possible of her out of
• 1:49
  my memories. So thank you for reminding me. Sorry, I just I'm
• 1:53
  sorry. Hannah Gatsby, Thank you? Quantum fat Hannah Gatsby is the name?
• 1:57
  Could you imagine it? Sweet? When when we are having our life
• 2:01
  review, how much feminist crap is going to be in there? How many
• 2:07
  hours of watching them smirk through yet another bunch of lies about reality, you
• 2:15
  know, and and everybody standing up and slap slapping their fins together like a
• 2:21
  bunch of seals. You know. Oh that's that's, that's something to look
• 2:24
  forward to when you die, ay, Karen? Oh yeah, no,
• 2:28
  no, I think I think honestly, I'm having a hard time deciding what
• 2:32
  to play at my funeral. Is it? Is it feminist clapping seals clapping
• 2:38
  stupid things feminists say, yeah and wailing? Or is it the entire Parliament
• 2:46
  of Canada plotting a Nazi? That's all? But they were so Karen.
• 2:52
  They didn't know you dons, those lacking naxies they just managed to see in.
• 2:58
  They didn't know that the Soviets were our allies. In World War Two
• 3:02
  because they got all that high school history. Oh no, we were at
• 3:08
  war and weren't the Russians. You know, we were at war with Oceania
• 3:12
  during World War two. Oh Oceanna, they're they're nothing but trouble. Yeah,
• 3:16
  Oceanna, what a bunch of bastards. I mean, all those hum
• 3:22
  rumors about us being at war with I'm gonna say Earth Sea, and everybody's
• 3:25
  gonna be like, that's not right. Uh, Eurasia, all of us
• 3:32
  being at war Eurasia in World War two, all those rumors, they're wrong.
• 3:36
  We were at war with Oceana. It's true, it's true. And
• 3:43
  and remembering history and and also we were also at war with Mars. Yeah.
• 3:51
  You know, something just occurred to me. Uh, the estate of
• 3:57
  George orwell, they should sue like current governments for copyright infringement. I gets
• 4:05
  some money from all with this one sense. I think I think he's I
• 4:10
  think he's been dead too all mhmm. So it's in the it's in the
• 4:16
  what is it called, it's it's in the public, Okay, All right,
• 4:21
  Before we get into more off in the weeds discussion, I do want
• 4:26
  to remind everyone we are doing our monthly fundraiser, which must we must get
• 4:30
  the funds to continue our work. And after my recent adventures on Twitter,
• 4:34
  I have realized, Yeah, I think we may be one of the few
• 4:39
  groups of people. Correct me if I'm wrong, Karen. That is like,
• 4:43
  no, we can't keep blaming men. We we it's not working.
• 4:46
  We got to do something else. We got a new have another solution,
• 4:50
  another way of processing things, because it's it's just not working. And honestly,
• 4:58
  when I look even at conservatives and traditionalists, you know, today I
• 5:03
  looked at a tweet by Cernovich. I believes that that's how you pronounce his
• 5:09
  name right, and he basically said that if men serve their wives correctly,
• 5:16
  they won't get divorced. So the breakdown in the family. In that tweet,
• 5:25
  he puts it squarely. I mean, there's a little riggable room because
• 5:29
  he says most, you know, not all. He puts it squarely on
• 5:31
  men. You know, there's nothing to do with when in abandoning traditional values,
• 5:38
  whether or not you agree with them. But you know, think about
• 5:40
  that. Nothing to do with that, nothing to do with the pill,
• 5:43
  nothing to do with all of the technology that we now really don't have a
• 5:50
  way of dealing with and is producing like superstimulus for us. You know,
• 5:55
  we don't really have a means to emotionally deal with this stuff. Not I
• 6:00
  don't know. As long as a man serves his woman right, he will
• 6:03
  be in a relationship with her, she will, she will dote on him.
• 6:08
  Yeah, no, no, no, But here's the thing, like
• 6:14
  nothing else matters. It all comes down to men and men are not just
• 6:17
  not manning correctly. I mean, you see, we don't need traditional values.
• 6:23
  We don't need to do all of them all the we do need traditional
• 6:28
  values imposed on men. Yes, but that's the thing. And if men
• 6:32
  and women just do what they like, yeah, exactly, and that will
• 6:38
  work, even if doing what they like is uh, leaving traditional marriages like
• 6:44
  yeah, but anyway, the point is that we don't need traditional values.
• 6:47
  We don't need women to appull traditional we don't need society because let's face it,
• 6:51
  society. We're not in a traditional society. Traditional societies actually attend to
• 6:57
  the process of producing mary marriages. So you have older usually women who sort
• 7:04
  of grease grease the way towards people pair bonding and making sure that you know,
• 7:12
  the next generation of marriages happen, that's gone. You know, traditional
• 7:16
  societies don't constantly beat this drum of how horrible relationships are, like from every
• 7:25
  single media outlet, except for maybe the conservative ones. They occasionally take a
• 7:30
  break from it. It is a constant drumbeat of women are abused by their
• 7:33
  husbands, women are disrespected by their husbands, women are turned into domestic labor
• 7:39
  by their husbands, women are more miserable in relationships, which is absolutely a
• 7:44
  flat out lie. But we still we still, we still push that out.
• 7:46
  Well, but we're enslaved Ellison, Yeah, we're enslaved. So and
• 7:51
  then in this society we also downplay the worth of masculinity. It's there's not
• 7:59
  really a presentation of it being positive, inherently positive, not something that constantly
• 8:05
  needs to be proven, because that's another thing that conservatives seemed to struggle with.
• 8:09
  Masculinity is valuable in and of itself, okay, and it needs to
• 8:15
  be encouraged as valuable in and of itself. Yes, you know, that's
• 8:18
  you don't want to sit on this valuable thing and do nothing with it.
• 8:22
  But it's still valuable in and of itself. And at the end of the
• 8:26
  day, if a woman doesn't value masculinity in her life, She's going to
• 8:31
  constantly being hold her partner to the standard of service. And if you constantly
• 8:35
  forget how your partner serves in the last five minutes, you're never going to
• 8:39
  be happy with him. You're never going to be oh, oh, it's
• 8:43
  you know, like I'm happy with what he's done, because you're not even
• 8:46
  remembering it. It's always about the next thing. What's the next thing he
• 8:50
  can do for you? So that's my traditional Okay, mister Briffall, tell
• 8:56
  me more. And and the other thing is that, but traditional societies also
• 9:03
  present men as being desirable partners, They present masculinity as a desirable thing,
• 9:09
  and they also enable this perception of hypergamy, like a spiritual hypergamy, so
• 9:18
  women feel like men are superior to them in a spiritual sense. I know
• 9:24
  that sounds really but this is something I've seen in every every society that has
• 9:30
  any kind of stability and long term confusion that still has marriage. Right society,
• 9:35
  it's basically, by virtue of the man's gender, he is assumed to
• 9:43
  be of higher status than the woman. Maybe he's not smarter, maybe he's
• 9:50
  not more moral, maybe he's not more of this, more that, but
• 9:54
  in terms of all of the social structures and everything, he is assumed or
• 10:01
  agreed to be or you know, tongue in cheek, humored in the idea
• 10:09
  that he is superior to his wife, right, and because of that,
• 10:13
  because of that, her hypergamy isn't triggered the moment she earns as much as
• 10:20
  him. Yeah, but that's the thing, Like, if women tamed their
• 10:24
  hypergamus instincts, long term societies wouldn't have to indulge them by constructing these narratives
• 10:31
  in which women are superior to them. Yeah, Like if women were like,
• 10:37
  yeah, actually I'm okay with an equal partner the Bible. Yeah no,
• 10:41
  no, actually I'm okay with being a lawyer and being married to a
• 10:45
  plumber. Yes. If women were able to control them, then Confucionism probably
• 10:50
  wouldn't have to make this strong hierarchy which enabled the Chinese culture to exist for
• 10:56
  as long as it did. I mean, even Japanese culture has that kind
• 11:00
  of hierarchy. Every single culture that got to the point where it was able
• 11:05
  to write down its its mythic codes had this hierarchy. Every every society that
• 11:11
  graduated to the status of a civilization, Yes, writing, writing roads right,
• 11:22
  not just basic infrastructure, more than eight thousand people in small tribes.
• 11:33
  Yeah. Yeah, And why why do you think it was because people wanted
• 11:39
  to harm women? No, it was because that society create created the impression
• 11:45
  that women that men were desirable by being somehow superior to the women, and
• 11:50
  the women wanted those men. And there's nothing has changed, and that women
• 11:56
  were served by them, Yes, and one has changed. What has what
• 12:00
  has changed? Yeah? No, what has changed? Nothing? A government
• 12:05
  steals the money from the man and hands it to the woman and she doesn't
• 12:11
  even have sucked the guys. Well that's not even Look, look, nothing
• 12:16
  has changed about women, even if the government has made it so the average
• 12:20
  woman or average man can no longer earn enough to be attractive the average woman,
• 12:24
  the average woman hasn't changed what she wants in a man. She's still
• 12:28
  hypergamus. She still wants a man who makes more. Look, this is
• 12:33
  the thing and our society until women actually wrestle with that demon, all the
• 12:39
  only functional societies that will ever exist will talk up men as superior. Period.
• 12:46
  They'll be paid because that's what women want. They do not want an
• 12:52
  equal partner. They do not want a partner who is inferior. Okay,
• 13:00
  they want a partner who brings something to the table for them that's superior.
• 13:05
  That's what hypergamy is. That's what this whole thing about men being the head
• 13:09
  of the woman spiritually in the church, it's brilliant, Like men had a
• 13:15
  spirit that it didn't did It created a spiritual hypergamy in which a man who
• 13:20
  embraced this kind of stoic value system, you know, and this stoic quality
• 13:31
  that sort of isn't you know, embodied in the myth of the Christian,
• 13:37
  the Christian mythos, you know, he became the superior man who brings something
• 13:43
  to the woman. So it brought the whole pair bonding into the spiritual dimension,
• 13:48
  into the moral dimension. Okay, you see what I'm saying. Yes,
• 13:52
  and that was brilliant and very useful created cultures that were quite successful.
• 13:58
  Atheists are all cringing right now, But honestly, I think that think about
• 14:05
  it this way. I think only Christian cultures could create atheism. Yeah,
• 14:11
  so to have a little bit appreciation, but regardless, my point is that
• 14:15
  this is not something that societies do because they just want to subjugate women.
• 14:18
  They do it because that's what women want. They want to attract women,
• 14:22
  and that's what attracts women. Men who are perceived to be superior under bit
• 14:30
  on a desirable metric, and until whether whether that's whether that's looks, whether
• 14:35
  that's earth yes, whether that's status, whether that's like clout, you know,
• 14:41
  all of those things right, Whether that's physicality, you know, burly
• 14:46
  strong man, doesn't matter. He needs to be superior on at least one
• 14:52
  vector to her in order for her to be interested. Yeah, and then
• 14:58
  you you get these weird situations where you have very attractive women who are pairing
• 15:09
  with men who are you know, kind of wheelchair bound and really gibbled up
• 15:18
  and incapable of looking after themselves, incapable of chewing their own food. Right,
• 15:24
  But aren't Stephen Hawking. They aren't Stephen Hawking. They're not geniuses.
• 15:31
  And and I'm thinking to myself, well, these are just women who are
• 15:37
  like, well, he's superior to me in victimhood, in suffering. Trans
• 15:43
  women are superior to women in victimhood, you know. And it's it's going
• 15:46
  to be really difficult for conservatives to change all that, or to change the
• 15:50
  appeal for I wouldn't even say like guynophiliacs, but just trans trenders when by
• 15:58
  being trans a man and can a man can gain a position of moral superiority
• 16:03
  over women, Yeah, even when he's raping them in prison. Yeah,
• 16:08
  well, I have my doubts about that. I'm not sure. I don't.
• 16:14
  I don't have any doubts about that, because they've they've run the numbers
• 16:18
  and they've found that like close to fifty percent of men of trans women currently
• 16:23
  serving in women's prisons, Right, we're convicted of sex crimes. Yeah.
• 16:30
  Well, now they're with a bunch of women probably who engage in sex crimes
• 16:33
  on each probably too. Yeah, let's see in five years if the if
• 16:37
  the incredibly astronomical rate of sexual violence in women's prisons shifts even a percentage,
• 16:45
  because it's twice two and a half times higher, you're two and a half
• 16:48
  times more likely to be raped by if you're a female prisoner, by another
• 16:52
  female prisoner than a male prisoner is by a male another male prisoner. Like
• 16:56
  it's it's a it is a c thing cauldron of sexual violence in women's prisons
• 17:03
  already. Well, because they know that that's what hurts women yeah, yeah,
• 17:08
  yeah, no doubt. But so if if if trans women actually change
• 17:12
  that number, well I guess people will suddenly care about the violence and the
• 17:18
  sexual violence in women's presence because they don't care now as long as it's as
• 17:23
  long as it's normal women raping each other with with tables. Yeah, that's
• 17:30
  that's okay, that's that's acceptable. That's fine. It's just what women do
• 17:33
  because they're angels. All right. So where was I Well, I'm just
• 17:37
  noticing that getting back to my topic, and then eventually we will get to
• 17:41
  the topic of the actual show. We're it for holding women's feet to the
• 17:48
  fire and not getting into this indulgence of blaming men. It's like. And
• 17:56
  the funny thing is is that conservatives, it seems like they quiet down,
• 18:02
  or traditionalists, they quiet down because the last time they started to get riled
• 18:07
  up was with the Muslim men thing. You remember that, Karen, Oh
• 18:08
  yeah, yeah, okay, So the left will decide to do a bunch
• 18:15
  of stuff and they'll throw out a target for the conservatives, like the Muslim
• 18:22
  men thing, and the Muslim and the conservatives will go after it like a
• 18:25
  bowl after a red flag and and dissipate their energy, and it's always a
• 18:30
  group of men. You'll notice this, though, or a group of people
• 18:34
  who are perceived to be men, like trans women. So the trans women
• 18:37
  is the latest red flag the left is throwing out for conservatives to charge at,
• 18:42
  and it's always men because conservatives, just like the left, the left
• 18:48
  and the right blame men, and they're both manipulated by blaming men, and
• 18:52
  they're both addicted to it. So in many ways, our society has no
• 19:00
  political side except for one, the blame men party. Yeah, and then
• 19:06
  us. I mean, I think that we could probably include a Voice for
• 19:11
  Men. Maybe they don't approach it in exactly the same way because there seems
• 19:18
  to be more of an emphasis on the kind of the cultural stuff being being
• 19:22
  what's responsible for the situation which I think takes And this is something that I've
• 19:29
  explained to somebody. And a person who wrote for a Voice for Men,
• 19:33
  he's he's he is the webmaster of ginocentrism dot com. I think you know
• 19:41
  who I'm talking about, Karen, But I don't want to say his name
• 19:44
  because I don't know which name is the one I'm not supposed to say so,
• 19:48
  But if you're interested in his writings. They are very interesting. You
• 19:49
  can go to guidocentrism dot com. I believe and I talked to him about
• 19:53
  it, and he is concerned about using this idea that guidocentrism is biologic.
• 20:00
  And I pointed out that when we recognize it's something innate two men and women,
• 20:07
  the onus is on women to control it. Yeah, to give it
• 20:14
  or give it up or give it up if we if we look at it
• 20:18
  as a cultural phenomenon, then where's the honest It's on the men who perpetuate
• 20:23
  the institutions that create the gynocentrism. Yeah. So it's it's like you,
• 20:29
  if you want the situation to be something that women need to take responsibility for,
• 20:33
  then it's biological, right, And well, I mean I don't I
• 20:38
  don't care. That's just an appeal to consequences. I'm just talking. I
• 20:42
  was talking, you know, in terms of what I see, what I
• 20:45
  see in the hormone profiles of men and women, what I see in UH
• 20:51
  in sort of cultural universals, you know, all the way from uh early
• 20:59
  cave dwellers, all the way to the present, right, you know,
• 21:02
  the one species of hominid that survived the place to see in which is us
• 21:07
  right, all of those things. I look at all of those things,
• 21:11
  and what do I see? I see a situation in which women are protected
• 21:15
  and provided for by men right within groups. And that the only way that
• 21:23
  you bridge the gap between a society, because chimpanzees have society, baboons have
• 21:30
  society. Right, the only way you bridge the gap between society and civilization
• 21:37
  is to foster fatherhood is a concept, right, and male male cooperation among
• 21:45
  unrelated males, right, That's the only way you can do it. And
• 21:52
  so everything depends on men. Everything depends on fatherhood, and everything depends on
• 21:57
  the ability of of unrelated males who don't know each other from Adam to be
• 22:06
  able to work together for a common goal. That's really those are the two
• 22:15
  basic well two of the basic ingredients that go into bridging the gap between society
• 22:22
  and civilization. Another one of them is religion. I'm sorry, I'm sorry
• 22:26
  atheists, that's just what is right. You will not find a civilization in
• 22:34
  all of human history that was in ascendance that did not have temples. Okay,
• 22:42
  Well, ultimately my point was this, I think that it's we are
• 22:48
  one of the few places that actually is saying we can't continue to blame men
• 22:53
  and blaming men as in fact, as at this point in time, blaming
• 22:56
  men is contributing massively to the problem because you have constructed a situation where we
• 23:04
  most people realize that we have to pair bond, We have to produce families
• 23:08
  to continue to have a functioning civilization. No civilization that doesn't do that,
• 23:14
  it continues to exist for obvious reasons. But even more, you have to
• 23:18
  capture the instincts of paara bonding, the instincts around para bonding to the work
• 23:22
  of perpetuating a civilization, or you don't have it. Like the fundamental unit
• 23:26
  of a civilization is the relationship between men and women. It has to be
• 23:30
  functional in order for that civilization to be able to produce and protect itself.
• 23:36
  And we're at the point where, yeah, it's not functional anymore. And
• 23:40
  part of the reason why, or the big peat is because simply blaming men,
• 23:45
  like how are men supposed to navigate a mind field of being Like a
• 23:53
  single man's voice going up to a woman and saying I have worth against all
• 24:00
  all of society telling her, yeah, men are worthless, that's what you're
• 24:04
  asking for. You're not just asking for men to run the gamut of rejection,
• 24:11
  which is new. Like for most societies, the process of producing families
• 24:17
  is not just given to men, and like the whole honest isn't just put
• 24:19
  on men. It's it's a community activity. You know, you got the
• 24:23
  old the old Babushka's setting people up, matchmaking, grease and wheels, so
• 24:30
  to speak. So that it's it's there's much more support in a traditional system
• 24:36
  for the process of the very important process of paara bonding. That's gone.
• 24:40
  So men have to run all the risks of approaching, of trying to indulge,
• 24:47
  trying to convince a woman who may not even be interested in a long
• 24:51
  term relationship to pair bond. Meanwhile, and he has to fight against the
• 24:56
  entire narrative of while approaching is really in sexual harassment. So he has to
• 25:02
  accept that he's doing something rude to women in the first place, and then
• 25:07
  he has to fight back against all of the institutional narratives that are smearing masculinity
• 25:15
  in manhood and describing him as the worst possible partner choice for a woman.
• 25:22
  Now he's abusive, he's selfish, she's going to treat her like a slave,
• 25:26
  anything that she does for him, what's in it for her? All
• 25:30
  of these narratives, all of them, he has to fight against, every
• 25:33
  single one of them. Those are not traditionalist narratives. Traditional communities provide a
• 25:38
  means by which men are seen to fulfill women's desires for hypergamy. This society
• 25:47
  does the opposite. It's literally saying to all women, women are inferior,
• 25:52
  and they're wretched, and they're horrible and worthless. And a single man is
• 25:56
  supposed to walk up to a woman. Fight back against all of that,
• 25:59
  fight back against the fear of rejection, fight back against the constant drumbeat that
• 26:03
  him even walking up to her is some kind of offensive thing he's done to
• 26:07
  her. It's no how much. And you know what, if men tomorrow,
• 26:12
  if we snapped, men tomorrow figure it out a means to get through
• 26:17
  that minefield, the current minefield that we've constructed as impossible, self contradictory and
• 26:23
  ridiculous as it is, like right now, men have to fry ice in
• 26:29
  order to get through that minefield. But if tomorrow they snapped their fingers,
• 26:32
  and there was some dude who was like, I've figured it out. I
• 26:36
  know how to fry ice, and I'm going to tell you all that we'd
• 26:38
  immediately shut it down and move everything around so they couldn't do it. They
• 26:44
  would call that person a misogynist, shut him down, kick him out of
• 26:49
  society, take him off every freaking platform, and then we would rejigger the
• 26:53
  whole thing. So it's once again an impossible obstacle. Course, we would
• 26:59
  just put more weight on men. As soon as men can lift the thirty
• 27:03
  tons we put in one hundred and thirty tons. Yeah, no, as
• 27:08
  soon as as soon as men crack the code, they're like, okay,
• 27:11
  we need to we need to blow up all these ice fryers and burn the
• 27:15
  patent. So and this and this is this is not has nothing to do
• 27:22
  with what men are capable of or how men are failing. It has everything
• 27:26
  to do with the fact that we are expectations of men are out of control,
• 27:32
  and the only way to change that is to change those expectations. As
• 27:37
  difficult it is. And you know what, the more I see more conservative
• 27:41
  commentators, and I'm sorry they are more conservative commentators, we put the blame
• 27:45
  back on men. The more I realize that I think holding women to account
• 27:52
  for constructing this obstacle. Course takes courage. It takes a willingness to stand
• 27:59
  up and say, I know this is the truth. We can't keep blaming
• 28:02
  men. We can't keep making things worse for men and then blaming them for
• 28:07
  it being worse. Yeah, you know, we can't keep doing this is
• 28:11
  not creating a functional society. We need to stop. We need to do
• 28:15
  something different. It actually takes courage because we're standing up against not just instincts,
• 28:21
  but entrenched social messaging that women can never be questioned, women can never
• 28:26
  be seen as being wrong or bad, you know, like, and we
• 28:30
  can't actually hold women to any kind of external standard. And it's like,
• 28:36
  yes, we need to do that. Yeah, and that's the only thing
• 28:40
  that we can do. We can't just default into more and more of all.
• 28:42
  Men need to do this. Men need to do that. Men need
• 28:45
  to men, men, men, men. We can't because men cannot force
• 28:52
  women to choose them. And if that's what is going to end up being,
• 29:00
  then our society is going to implode because men will never force women to
• 29:03
  choose them. They're just not going to do that. No, they'll just
• 29:08
  walk away completely. The only the only men who would do that are the
• 29:14
  ones that you don't want to be chosen by. Yep. So I'm realizing
• 29:22
  more and more how absolutely critically important this message is because I think that we're
• 29:26
  the only ones who clearly state it. And I many many years ago I
• 29:32
  even told Paul I think it was in the Washington preview of the Red Pill.
• 29:41
  I said that this is what's going to screw our society, the fact
• 29:45
  that it ignores men's issues and blames men. This is what's going to fuck
• 29:52
  us. This is the face of our destructor. And if we don't face
• 29:56
  it, and if we don't develop a means to move forward word without it,
• 30:00
  we're doomed. And we're going to take a hell of a lot of
• 30:03
  people with us. You know, if there's one thing that Western cultures have
• 30:07
  a responsibility to, it's the future. Because right now we are sitting on
• 30:15
  the shoulders of all the other cultures in the world, the bricks nations.
• 30:19
  They're underwriting us, and they're underwriting us because at one point they put a
• 30:25
  lot of faith in us, and we are absolutely letting them down. We
• 30:29
  need to solve this problem, and we need to explain how we solve this
• 30:33
  problem so that this problem is solved for the human race, so we all
• 30:37
  have a future. Okay, yes, let's get started. But anyway,
• 30:42
  if you want to make sure that that message continues to get out and the
• 30:47
  light on the other side of the chasm continues to shine, then you must
• 30:51
  go to feed the Badger dot com slash support. It is up to you.
• 30:53
  If you've ever felt like you're doing nothing, well, that is something
• 30:57
  that is a big something. If we can continue to talk about these things
• 31:00
  and the way that we do, we can make sure that at least someone
• 31:04
  knows that the future, the path forward isn't blaming men. It's developing a
• 31:15
  means of holding women accountable for their side of the bargain. And there's no
• 31:22
  other way. There's no other way. Okay, feed the Badger dot com
• 31:26
  slash support. And also, it's not that horrible like being held to account
• 31:34
  for something as a part of developing your understanding of yourself. And there is
• 31:40
  nothing more valuable in the world than self knowledge, right yeah, Okay,
• 31:47
  So it's like it's women. You know, you look at this mirror and
• 31:51
  you think, oh my god, it looks like a monster. It's not.
• 31:53
  Once you walk through, you realize it is much better. To live
• 32:00
  with accountability and the recognition of men's vulnerability and the recognition of your responsibility than
• 32:07
  it is to live without it, because it's not living without it. Okay,
• 32:13
  so feed the Badger dot com slash support. I will have to probably
• 32:15
  do some arm twisting because we really do need to get this fundraiser funded.
• 32:21
  I fear a world where we are not allowed. We cannot continue to speak
• 32:25
  about these things. I mean, we probably would, but we wouldn't be
• 32:29
  able to do it as often as we do, which I think is really
• 32:31
  important for maintaining a community. Anyway, let's get back to the actual topic.
• 32:37
  I'll stop anything, okay, so I can talk now, all right,
• 32:42
  So we're going to be looking at this Ted talk from Lily Singh.
• 32:49
  Lily sing was a I guess. She was an Internet person comedian, was
• 32:55
  funny, I guess at one point. And she lived in Toronto originally from
• 33:01
  India or her parents or from India or whatever. And she had a late
• 33:08
  show kind of like the Tonight Show or whatever. But it was yeah,
• 33:13
  yeah, it was on really late though it was like, you know,
• 33:15
  well, it was one of those later ones like the Craig Ferguson Show.
• 33:20
  Craig Ferguson, The Scottish Guy, Very very funny by the way, also
• 33:23
  has a really late show. But her show is canceled and she thinks she's
• 33:32
  told that it's because it's not funny, it's not entertaining, she's not interesting.
• 33:36
  All she does is whine about being a like queer woman of color,
• 33:43
  and that must be the reason why nobody wants to watch her show, and
• 33:45
  it has nothing to do with the fact that maybe she's just not funny.
• 33:50
  So we have this ted talk where she sort of introduces and it's called a
• 33:54
  seat at the table. Isn't the solution for gender equity? Lily sing ted.
• 34:00
  So when I was born on September twenty sixth, nineteen eighty eight,
• 34:04
  my grandparents and great grandparents back in India didn't find out for two weeks,
• 34:08
  which is a shame because I mean, look how perfect I was. And
• 34:13
  it's not because the phone lines were down or because they weren't available. It's
• 34:17
  because there was a complication with my birth, and that complication was being assigned
• 34:22
  female at birth, you see, because my mom had been told that if
• 34:28
  she gave birth to a daughter, it wasn't worth phoning home about all Right,
• 34:32
  Well, I don't know what the culture of India is, but this
• 34:36
  is the story that we're getting. Well, they do they do favor sons
• 34:42
  because sons have a responsibility towards their parents. Yeah, kind of like the
• 34:47
  Chinese. Right, I'm going to say something from my experience, Like,
• 34:52
  we had a an Indian young man who helped us with a lot of the
• 35:01
  three D modeling that we did for like the Badger Cave and stuff like that,
• 35:07
  and he told me that he had to spend a month personally delivering as
• 35:14
  in, you know, printing out the the invitations to his sister's wedding and
• 35:22
  hand delivering them to all of her all of her guests. Yeah, he
• 35:29
  had to take off like from work for a month doing this. It was
• 35:32
  this incredibly arduous task. I'm not I think it was a very traditionalist.
• 35:37
  So it's has some kind of thing that you couldn't go through the mail.
• 35:40
  It had to be personally delivered. And you know, Indian weddings can be
• 35:45
  huge. So he did this and it was expected of him as her brother.
• 35:50
  Oh and there's all kinds of these obligations for men in traditional societies that
• 35:58
  are completely invisible in the calculus that these women do because it's again, it's
• 36:02
  just another of that example of what have you done for me lately? Well,
• 36:07
  it's it's not just it's not just the obligation of the brother to deliver
• 36:10
  the wedding invitations. Yeah, it's the obligation of the family to support the
• 36:17
  woman until she's finally married off, thank thank god, you know, and
• 36:24
  uh, and then she's somebody else's responsibility, right, So it it's not
• 36:32
  out, it's not beyond the pale that when you when when a woman gives
• 36:39
  birth to a girl, she's like, ah, this is just one set
• 36:47
  of obligations on top of another, on top of another. How can I
• 36:51
  afford this? Are we going to be able to afford this? Right?
• 36:55
  Because we have to invest in this girl right to see her married off to
• 37:01
  a quality man, right, so that she'll be taken care of, because
• 37:08
  because she doesn't have any other obligations, right, she doesn't have an obligation
• 37:15
  to us. Right. And this is the conundrum that the Chinese have found,
• 37:20
  you know, with the one child policy. Well, you know that
• 37:22
  was when female in fantaside became a thing right in China, and and sex
• 37:29
  selective abortions is because if you're only allowed to have one child, and a
• 37:32
  male is beholden to you for the rest of your life, whereas a female
• 37:38
  is beholden to whoever's parents, whoever are the parents of the band she marries,
• 37:44
  for the rest of her life. Right then, like, why would
• 37:47
  you invest all of that? And actually, if I ran the numbers,
• 37:52
  it's not really the female and fantaside is well over estimated. And it's a
• 38:00
  very complicated, Yes, it isn't. It's a complicated thing because because when
• 38:06
  you look at when you look at okay, you're you're a peasant farmer,
• 38:12
  okay, and you can afford to buy a diamond that you have to protect,
• 38:21
  an ornament that you have to protect, and you have to dust and
• 38:24
  you have to take care of and you have to blah blah blah until somebody
• 38:28
  takes it away and then they get to enjoy it. Or you could choose
• 38:34
  a shovel. Well you're probably going to shoot choose a shovel, yeah right,
• 38:40
  It's just that's just how it is, you know, because you own
• 38:45
  and that shovel will be yours until the day you die. Yep. So
• 38:52
  it's just a cost benefit analysis honestly. Yeah, and it's it's just basically,
• 38:57
  this is this is uh and this is a byproduct of female privilege.
• 39:04
  I made a whole video about it when female privilege backfires. Right, it's
• 39:08
  a byproduct of what women can expect. And one of the things that they
• 39:16
  can expect in these traditional Asian societies like India and China is they're not responsible
• 39:23
  for their parents. So, I mean, there was Oh god, I
• 39:28
  had a feminist say well, there was one successful lawsuit, right, because
• 39:32
  I was like, there are a whole bunch. You go look in a
• 39:36
  Chinese newspaper, You'll see all kinds of notifications of parents suing their sons for
• 39:40
  not financially supporting them, right. You don't see that for daughters, right.
• 39:46
  And she says, oh, there was a successful lawsuit on the part
• 39:50
  of parents parents against their daughter, right, And I'm like for what.
• 39:55
  And she's like, not visiting them often enough? And I'm like, oh,
• 39:59
  so she still didn't have to financially support them. She just wasn't visiting
• 40:06
  often enough. Hm hmm, yeah, you know. Okay, that's not
• 40:10
  comparable. Friend, No, all right, Okay, let's keep going.
• 40:14
  Let's see what else she has to say. After all, she had already
• 40:17
  given birth to my older sister, and this time everyone had high hopes that
• 40:21
  she would do right and have a son. But she didn't. She had
• 40:25
  me and so there were no Yeah, apparently her mom is a terrible person
• 40:35
  for I don't know, hoping for us on if there's any because there are
• 40:40
  there are men from India in our audience. I can't really comment on this
• 40:45
  because I don't know. Maybe there is there is this thing where they they
• 40:50
  cheer the production of a son, but I is it really Is it really
• 40:55
  the men or is it the women saying Okay, hey, you have a
• 41:00
  son, He's going to take care of you in your old age. It's
• 41:02
  both, it's both parents and it not. It doesn't just have to do
• 41:08
  with, you know, the sort of a lifelong obligation of supporting your parents
• 41:13
  that men have, that sons have that daughters don't. But it's also the
• 41:20
  uh, certain aspects of the religion where you know, the only a son
• 41:25
  can really eulogize a dead parent and you know, properly do that, and
• 41:34
  all of all of these there's there's there's ancient customs. They were set up
• 41:38
  so that women didn't have to be obligated to their own parents. When they
• 41:43
  moved into a household, they were like they were like chimpanzees, not like
• 41:47
  binobos. You know. The girls left the family and joined a new family.
• 41:53
  The boys stayed in the family and supported that family. Right. That
• 41:59
  that's just how it works. That's how it works with every freaking species of
• 42:06
  primate, higher of ape. Right. But does any kind that's doing anywhere
• 42:12
  near well in terms of population and survival prospects and stuff, right, And
• 42:20
  we just harness that through cultural traditions where it's like, yeah, no,
• 42:28
  she goes out from her family and joins a new family, right, so
• 42:35
  you're basically spending her entire childhood to maturity investing in her, and then you
• 42:40
  hope you get a good you know, uh, you hope you get some
• 42:47
  kind of status return on the investment because you're not getting the financial one.
• 42:54
  Yeah, so I don't. But anyway, there's there's there's men out there
• 42:59
  who can from India who can comment a little bit more if this is actually
• 43:02
  a thing where boys are celebrated like this. But on the other hand,
• 43:07
  like this is a traditional culture, maybe boys are celebrated in order to start
• 43:13
  beginning that feeding of female hypergamy. You know, you celebrate a boy because
• 43:20
  then when a woman, when a young girl grows up to a woman,
• 43:23
  she feels like she's getting something of benefit to her. So like, there's
• 43:29
  very few societies that are in fact, they're almost they're none that really are
• 43:34
  against women's desire. And what I've noticed is that they tend to and I
• 43:43
  think that this is something that women just don't want to acknowledge about themselves,
• 43:47
  that they do want a man that they perceive to be superior under whatever important
• 43:52
  metric that they have. Okay, if it's money, if it's physical,
• 43:58
  if it's intellectual, if it's spiritual. They usually it's there's one access where
• 44:02
  that men has to be superior in order for the woman to feel like she's
• 44:07
  getting something of worth. And maybe this is how this culture starts to build
• 44:10
  that sense in girls and women that they're getting something of worth when they get
• 44:15
  him in. You know, it could be as simple as that. And
• 44:19
  again, if women don't want this, if they don't, if we if
• 44:23
  we want to have a society that doesn't encourage some kind of sense of superiority
• 44:30
  so that women feel like their urge to hypergamy to desiring a spior, a
• 44:36
  man who superiors them in some way. If we if we don't want to
• 44:39
  have to do that, then women have to take responsibility for that instinct.
• 44:45
  And don't give me this shit about all I just want a companion. That's
• 44:47
  bullshit. Yeah no, it's bullshit. Yeah, you don't want a companion.
• 44:53
  You want someone who's superior to you along the axes that you care about
• 44:58
  that and if he's not, you're not interested. So if you want to
• 45:02
  change that, then change it. Okay, directly, face it, recognize
• 45:09
  it, and then evolve past it. And until you do, you cannot
• 45:14
  complain about those societies that look at women, see what women desire, and
• 45:17
  say, okay, how can we accommodate this? And they probably don't do
• 45:21
  this consciously, they just it's just that these are the ones that are successful.
• 45:24
  Those are the ones that are the ones that actually actually cater to women's
• 45:30
  desires in men are successful. It's as simple as that. What a surprise
• 45:35
  like the you know which which peacock is successful, the one with the most
• 45:40
  female pleasing tale. You know which of those those birds with the gigantic wobbles
• 45:47
  were are? You know the ridiculously wabble, which one of those male birds
• 45:52
  the one that attracts the most the females? You know, which, which
• 45:58
  which male animal the biggest horns? Why? Because it attracts the most female
• 46:02
  This is human society. Which mandrill? Which mandrill attracts the most females,
• 46:08
  the one with the most colorful face? Yeah? Right? And then and
• 46:12
  then and then when he's beaten down, every when he's beaten down by a
• 46:16
  challenge and male challenger, right, his colors fade overnight because they're completely completely
• 46:25
  uh dictated. Those facial colors on mandrills are completely dictated by their testosterone levels.
• 46:35
  Which human society becomes the most successful, the one that can create men
• 46:40
  that are the most desirable to the women. Yeah, simple as that,
• 46:45
  Like, and that is it. We either attend to that and we we
• 46:50
  disappear, and not not the ones that that encourage harems. Right, it's
• 46:57
  the ones that basically make all men desirable to the more to a woman.
• 47:02
  Right, Maybe not the high status woman, maybe not the supermodel, maybe
• 47:07
  not the whatever, but there is going to be a woman who's interested in
• 47:14
  you on some level. In a monogamous society where every every man and woman
• 47:22
  gets a chance at pairing up right, And those are the ones that that
• 47:27
  have been historically the most successful, the very most successful. Yeah. Even
• 47:31
  even the societies that allow for polygamy, they most the majority of of the
• 47:42
  of the pairings of the pair are pairs. Yeah, and but and and
• 47:47
  the other hand, if you look at history, even the societies that allow
• 47:51
  for polygamy are absolutely bodied by the societies that don't. Yeah, like they're
• 47:57
  they're they're freaking bodied. It is literally the society that can make the most
• 48:04
  attractive peacock's tail is the one that succeeds. And what a surprise like this
• 48:10
  is. This is the wind condition throughout for every every animal is to become
• 48:19
  attractive to the female. And what a surprise that those those societies that produce
• 48:24
  the most attractive males are the ones that succeed, you know, because and
• 48:30
  you can say that by the most amount of pair bonding is occurring. And
• 48:34
  it might be due to narratives, It might be due to this idea that
• 48:40
  men share in some kind of identity like what Rome? What was Rome?
• 48:45
  It was basically an identity that all of these men shared in. So they
• 48:47
  all in some way shared in the victories of the culture. That's that's the
• 48:52
  national identity. So all men share in that identity. All men becomes desirable
• 48:58
  because of that identity. It's just a gigantic peacock's tail made out of stories,
• 49:05
  history, philosophy, artwork, mosaics, spires, mythology, and it's
• 49:14
  just that's that's what it is, and it works. And what are we
• 49:17
  doing now right? We're doing the exact things. We are doing the exact
• 49:22
  opposite. Instead of talking men up, we're doing everything we can to throw
• 49:30
  them down. Yeah, do you understand how absolutely self destructive that is.
• 49:36
  It's like a guy who's like, you know, I want to breed peacocks,
• 49:39
  and the first thing I'm gonna do is cut off all the mail peacock's
• 49:43
  tail. It's gonna be so useful to me. I'm gonna have such a
• 49:47
  successful peacock breeding farm because I'm cutting off all of the tails. They don't
• 49:53
  need that. Like, no, actually, you're gonna be You are going
• 49:57
  to find that your success is non existent. Yeah, if none of the
• 50:02
  females are going to have any none of the females are going to have anything
• 50:06
  to do with the males. Once you do that and then your farm is
• 50:08
  going to go caput. And that's really what Western society has done. It's
• 50:13
  decided that it just doesn't want to attend to the task of making men desirable
• 50:17
  to women, and that isn't just a task that men have to do.
• 50:22
  We can't just keep blaming men for the fact that we are blaming of men
• 50:25
  is causing men to be undervalued, because he said, how that is,
• 50:29
  like we blame men, so they could that causes men to be undervalued.
• 50:32
  And then we blame men for the fact that they're under We even valued them
• 50:37
  by blaming them, and then we blame them yeah, and it's like,
• 50:42
  uh, no, no, no, we got to step back here,
• 50:45
  Yeah, what we're doing. And then and then we vilify the men who
• 50:50
  actually make themselves valuable in some way, you know, you know, the
• 50:54
  men who get laid that pick up artists, the Andrew Tates, right,
• 50:58
  we vilify them and it's like, what are they doing other than like,
• 51:02
  what are they doing other than they've cracked the code. They've figured out what
• 51:08
  it takes to talk a woman into bed, and and they're going to bed
• 51:13
  women. That's it, and the women are happy with it the hell,
• 51:16
  you know, No, the women aren't happy with it. The women are
• 51:20
  happy with it, okay, in so far as when Julian Assange had sex
• 51:25
  with that woman and then she went to a party the next night and she
• 51:29
  bragged that she bagged him. She's she was like, and then she found
• 51:31
  out he was fucking somebody else, okay, and that he wasn't interested in
• 51:37
  anything that kind of long term thing with her. Not that she was necessarily
• 51:42
  interested in a long term thing with him, right, She just wanted to
• 51:45
  be the one with the right of first for refusal. Right. This is
• 51:51
  this is the thing right that women women don't understand. It's like when when
• 51:57
  my husband when he was living in that co op with all the hippie chicks,
• 52:00
  right, and he's got these two women he's just broken up, and
• 52:04
  they're like, oh, we want to fuck you, and he's like,
• 52:07
  well, I'm not. I can't. I can't do a relationship with anybody,
• 52:13
  right, and you know, because i just came off this like horrible
• 52:17
  breakup, and so I'm just not in the market to do anything other than
• 52:22
  you know, like friends with benefits. And they're like, what are fine
• 52:25
  with that? Right, both of them separately, Right. And then at
• 52:30
  one point, and these are women who live across the hall from each other,
• 52:34
  right, And at one point he sticks his head in the door of
• 52:40
  you know, he knocks on the door and she's like, what is it?
• 52:45
  And he sticks his head and he says, you feel like company tonight
• 52:47
  and she's like no, and then he's like okay, and he closes the
• 52:52
  door and he goes across the hall and fucks the other one. Right.
• 52:57
  Oh oh no, oh no, fuck no, that was not okay.
• 53:06
  That was not That was when everything just fucking fell apart and he got kicked
• 53:10
  out of the house, right, and they were dancing around the R word,
• 53:15
  and you know, all kinds of shit, and you know it's because
• 53:20
  it's because he took one of their no for an answer and then went and
• 53:24
  fucked the other one. And she was like, well, you know,
• 53:30
  I needed him to lie alone until I felt like having sex with him.
• 53:40
  Right, even though I said it was an open relationship, it was friends
• 53:45
  with benefits, Like these are two women who even talked him into like having
• 53:50
  a threesome with them. Yeah, there's no before all of this, right,
• 53:54
  But because he took her no for an answer and then went got his
• 54:00
  dick tug by somebody else. Right, that was it. He was a
• 54:06
  villain, He was a uh an our word. He was like persona non
• 54:13
  grata. He needed to be kicked out, He needed to be out tomorrow,
• 54:17
  leave his stuff on the curb and change the locks. Right, And
• 54:23
  I'm like, yeah, that's women. That's what women are like. That's
• 54:29
  what that's just. That is just completely UNSI completely unself aware. Women are
• 54:36
  like that. Well, he wasn't supposed to just go get lead somewhere else.
• 54:39
  He was supposed to lie there and suffer because I didn't feel like fucking
• 54:42
  him right that second. Yeah, it doesn't make any sense. And that's
• 54:46
  actually very I'm pretty sure that the poly community we even point that and say,
• 54:51
  hey, that's that's really fucked up. Yeah no, and you look
• 54:53
  at you look at it. The right of first refusal, Right, this
• 54:58
  is this is what it is. Right. They I will flirt with you,
• 55:00
  they'll like lead you on, they'll whatever. Right. What he found
• 55:06
  was the best thing, right, was when you were kind of working on
• 55:10
  something and you're getting somewhere and then all of a sudden they say to you,
• 55:17
  oh you know, ah, you know this is awkward, But like
• 55:22
  I just wanted to let you know that, like, I just want to
• 55:25
  be friends. And then he's like, oh oh, oh, oh,
• 55:29
  oh oh what you thought that I wanted more than friendship? No, no,
• 55:36
  no, that that's a relief because I thought you might have wanted to
• 55:40
  be more than friends, and then all of a sudden they're interested. Oh
• 55:47
  god, yeah. No, it's it's like, this is why every fucking
• 55:52
  dating profile I meandered, you know, when I was online dating every dating
• 55:58
  site, every every profile I clicked on said no head games. Yes,
• 56:05
  but but then that basically means no women. That means I'm gonna I know.
• 56:09
  It's like, yeah, I'm gonna be I'm gonna be dating fem boys
• 56:13
  and gay men. That's that's you know, no a head games all right,
• 56:19
  which you know maybe might be worth it if you if you're able to
• 56:22
  swing that way, yeah, just go to the dark side. Friends.
• 56:27
  Well, I I can swing both ways, and I've always picked men,
• 56:31
  yes, I think. I think. I told Tommy Soda Mayor. He
• 56:36
  was like, well, why would you Why have all your relationships been with
• 56:39
  men when you swing both ways sexually, and and I was like, because
• 56:45
  it's just way more straightforward being with a man. Actually you can actually have
• 56:50
  a relationship with the man. Being with a man means never having to hear
• 56:53
  what like you don't know what you get wrong. I'm certainly not going to
• 56:58
  tell you. M Okay, yes, all right. So I want to
• 57:06
  do some thank you and I can. I hope Brian is using this time
• 57:09
  productively. Maybe he's macromaying like mittens for his dog or something. Nah,
• 57:14
  I mean, I'm just doing some research and with some other stuff. But
• 57:17
  yeah, go ahead, do the okay, all right, all right,
• 57:22
  So I want to thank uh uh Admiral. I'm I'm just I need to
• 57:34
  translate the names. Give me a moment. Uh god, Kate, he's
• 57:38
  his name is starts with admirable Admiral in the discord. That's all I'm gonna
• 57:45
  say. I know, I'm pretty sure he'll identify himself. Admiral gives us
• 57:49
  one hundred dollars. Thank you, Admiral. I apologize that I can't remember
• 57:53
  the rest of your name on on short notice. Boon is too big and
• 58:05
  uh and Great Indoors gives US one hundred dollars as well. So that's the
• 58:09
  second one hundred bucks of these givens. Thank you. Stop all right,
• 58:16
  and I probably should do some more arm twisting because we do need to get
• 58:21
  this done in order to continue to bring you this work. So please please
• 58:24
  please go to feed the Batcher dot com slash support. I do appreciate like
• 58:29
  every year. It's amazing that you guys are every month, sorry not year
• 58:32
  and a year or two actually, come to think of it, you guys
• 58:36
  come together and you make sure that we do have the funds to be able
• 58:38
  to continue to do this work. So far, you haven't haven't dropped,
• 58:45
  you know you have. You've come together to do this every month, and
• 58:47
  it's very much appreciated. So please please, if you're out there and you
• 58:52
  haven't put in whatever amount that you you want to put in, please do
• 58:55
  it now because it's really appreciated. And I think it's really important to make
• 59:00
  sure that this message. It's important to me because when I look around,
• 59:05
  I see that everybody blames men, Like it's the constant. Like if you
• 59:13
  look at the world in terms of who blames men and who doesn't, then
• 59:16
  everybody blames men except for us. And let's be honest, what's the most
• 59:23
  likely cause of someone's problem, Like the thing that they do compulsively that they
• 59:30
  can't stop, or the thing that they're avoiding thinking about that they've never done.
• 59:36
  Like you know, which is which is the source of the problem and
• 59:38
  which is the source of the solution. Generally, think about it, Like,
• 59:43
  the blaming of men is absolutely compulsive. When I look at these these
• 59:47
  people blaming men for having been blamed, for the fallout of having been blamed.
• 59:52
  Like all of the blames, all of the narratives of blame that we've
• 59:55
  put out, has made men to be undesirable, presented as undesirable partners,
• 1:00:04
  abusive, neglectful, selfish. When men get something, it's at the expense
• 1:00:08
  of women. All of these narratives, and they are overwhelming. I think
• 1:00:12
  anybody who's honest can look at the world and see that these narratives are predominant
• 1:00:17
  and they're overwhelming, and then we blame men for the fact that they're failing
• 1:00:23
  to overcome being blamed. It's just like, Okay, this has got to
• 1:00:30
  stop. It has got to stop. And not only do we have to
• 1:00:36
  stop it as people, we have to help men stop blaming themselves, because
• 1:00:39
  this is the other thing I see then blaming themselves more and more, becoming
• 1:00:45
  ashamed, being afraid of being in the world, and you wonder why they're
• 1:00:50
  not approaching women, Okay, because of this level of shame and sense of
• 1:00:55
  worthlessness. A society that sells its mail at men as desirable, as a
• 1:01:00
  successful society, it's a society with healthy peacock's tales, it's a society with
• 1:01:07
  a future. A society that constantly blames and shames and renders worthless and small
• 1:01:15
  and useless. It's men is a society on the way out. And if
• 1:01:22
  we want to fix that, there's one thing that we can do, and
• 1:01:28
  is to stop doing the thing that's making everything worse. Start doing the thing
• 1:01:34
  that we refuse to do. Take responsibility. Take responsibilities institutions, cultures,
• 1:01:40
  groups, families, educators, and as women. Ye for what we're saying
• 1:01:47
  to men and for seeing men is worthless, and to constantly seeing saying what
• 1:01:53
  have they done for us lately? Instead of oh, wait, actually they've
• 1:01:58
  been doing a lot that we haven't been paying attention to. Okay, And
• 1:02:02
  there's lots of reasons why women should do this. First of all, it's
• 1:02:07
  not living if you have no sense of accountability to anybody but yourself. That's
• 1:02:12
  not a life. It's a waste, but it has to be done if
• 1:02:16
  we want a future. And honestly, I think we're one of the few
• 1:02:21
  groups that are both calling out the blame of men and recognizing how much of
• 1:02:25
  a contributing factor it is to the destruction of everything we see around us.
• 1:02:30
  And if we are unable to continue to say these things, oh, it's
• 1:02:37
  over. Okay, and you can make sure that doesn't happen. I feed
• 1:02:42
  the Badger dot com slash support. All right, please do because it's very
• 1:02:49
  important that we continue. Okay, and let's continue since we're like an hour
• 1:02:53
  in and we've gotten forty seven seconds. Yeah, so I'm going to read
• 1:02:59
  some super chow and a super chat and then we will will continue the video.
• 1:03:06
  So I got a super child from Great Indoors. I know that he
• 1:03:08
  already gave a donation, so I'm just gonna read the other part. So
• 1:03:15
  he gives us ten dollars and says three of my nephews are in a relationship
• 1:03:22
  with children, but only one of them is married. I have heard some
• 1:03:25
  women talk about how they don't believe in some institutions. I guess it would
• 1:03:30
  save men an expensive wedding, but in this post marriage world. Can this
• 1:03:35
  non desire to get married still be viewed as a red flag? Yeah?
• 1:03:43
  I think so. I think, you know, Bettina aren't. And some
• 1:03:52
  sort of a traditional feminist, like a Christina Hoff Summer style feminist, did
• 1:04:00
  a talk and they found that, you know, like basically, couples who
• 1:04:05
  get married before they move in together stay together longer, they have more stable
• 1:04:11
  relationships. And it's because when you move in together before you get married,
• 1:04:16
  it's a series of decisions, and it's a series of conveniences, and it's
• 1:04:20
  like, okay, well, the first step is, you know, I
• 1:04:24
  bring my own toothbrush, and you know, a couple of change of clothes,
• 1:04:30
  right, he spares me a drawer whatever, right, and all those
• 1:04:33
  things. And then you gradually and then you just fall into it because it's
• 1:04:38
  like, well we can pull our resources and blah blah blah, but you're
• 1:04:42
  not actually and then five years later you get married and it's like, well,
• 1:04:48
  you kind of just drifted into it. You didn't. It's and it's
• 1:04:54
  not it's not a big step, right when you when you make a big
• 1:04:58
  step where you don't live together, you're not cohabiting, you don't have a
• 1:05:02
  child together, and you decide you're going to get married. That's a big
• 1:05:08
  step that you have to think about. And so people actually, people who
• 1:05:15
  do it that way think about it more, They value marriage more. And
• 1:05:21
  so I think that I think that this idea that you can just replace marriage
• 1:05:30
  with cohabitation and then people and then you know, what I found too,
• 1:05:35
  is that couples who've been together for like five years, living together for five
• 1:05:42
  years, they want to have a big wedding, right And it's like,
• 1:05:46
  well, I hadn't been living together with my ex for any length of time,
• 1:05:53
  and I had a wedding at the Justice of the Pieces House and it
• 1:05:57
  cost me a total of one hundred and eighty dollars. Right that that was
• 1:06:01
  my wedding. And I was married to him for fifteen years. And when
• 1:06:08
  I got with this guy, we we didn't have a wedding, but we're
• 1:06:13
  definitely going to be together forever because for several reasons. And so it's it's
• 1:06:20
  like we when when you enter into a relationship in a certain way, it
• 1:06:30
  kind of kind of cements the bond, right, So in a way that
• 1:06:40
  drifting into it in another way maybe doesn't. Right. It basically means you're
• 1:06:46
  both taking it really seriously when you make the decision. So, and I
• 1:06:51
  say that as somebody who actually lived with the man I married for seven years
• 1:06:57
  and now we're at like twenty six years. Yeah, yeah, no.
• 1:07:03
  And with me, I lived with my ex for several months before we decided
• 1:07:13
  to get married, and and we got married. There was no hoop law
• 1:07:17
  it was, but we we put it on paper. It was important that
• 1:07:21
  we put it on paper. And you know, with with this one,
• 1:07:27
  I think he's so dependent on me just for mere survival that I don't have
• 1:07:31
  to worry, you know, because because he's allergic to everything and he doesn't
• 1:07:38
  know all the two. So, yeah, you you cook. Yeah,
• 1:07:45
  I keep and I keep it secret. Yeah, you keep it a trade
• 1:07:53
  secret? How to keep it? Yeah, he's got to ask me,
• 1:07:56
  okay, is this going to kill me? Okay? How about this?
• 1:07:59
  How about this? What about this? Is this going to kill me?
• 1:08:01
  Like they don't even they don't even try anymore. He you know, is
• 1:08:05
  his workplace does lunch and learns and stuff, right, you know, these
• 1:08:09
  events and stuff. And you know they asked, okay, so what are
• 1:08:14
  your dietary requirements? And he's like, Karen, you need to you need
• 1:08:19
  to write it up a sheet right of things I can't have and things that
• 1:08:24
  I can have, and I did and they were like, fuck it,
• 1:08:30
  bring your own lunch. Okay, well, we might have to do the
• 1:08:35
  the feminist whiling at some point. Let's let's get more of the st I
• 1:08:40
  don't have any feminist whiling. Let's just listen to more of the feminist complaining.
• 1:08:45
  I got. Yeah, this is a whale, isn't it. Albert
• 1:08:48
  Nata retro gives us who I was Canadian as a super chat and says a
• 1:08:51
  good plumber can make more than some lawyers. Okay, yes, so that
• 1:08:56
  was going way back to the beginning of the video forty minutes ago. They
• 1:09:00
  don't they don't have the status. Yeah, it's about the status, not
• 1:09:03
  necessarily the money. I mean, I saw like a Man on the Street
• 1:09:06
  video clip where there was a guy asking girls, like, you know,
• 1:09:12
  hypothetical questions about men, and I think it was like nighttime, you know,
• 1:09:16
  when girls are out in their clubbing and stuff, and he went up
• 1:09:19
  to these two girls and said, if a man made seventy five thousand dollars
• 1:09:25
  a year, you would you date him? And they laughed and they they
• 1:09:30
  they thought it was ridiculous, and they were like, no, that's not
• 1:09:32
  that's not gonna work. So a plumber could make six figures, but it
• 1:09:38
  might not be enough anyways, you know, they want some high status.
• 1:09:42
  Yah. Well, and it's just the thing that we can't talk about.
• 1:09:45
  Women want men will have higher status. It's not enough. It's not enough
• 1:09:49
  because they go into other people's houses and deal with other people's shit. H
• 1:09:57
  and yeah. So, and it's not considered skilled work. It's not it's
• 1:10:01
  not considered high value work. It's not considered like super you know, status,
• 1:10:09
  high status work. Women women these days. And I never understood this
• 1:10:15
  because I always found blue collar men more attractive. But women these days they
• 1:10:19
  want a white collar man. They want a man who looks good in a
• 1:10:23
  suit, right and goes into an office and he wears one hundred and eighty
• 1:10:28
  dollars shoes, not one hundred and eighty dollars steel toad boots. Right,
• 1:10:31
  that's what they want. So yeah, well, I mean, and I
• 1:10:34
  don't understand it either, because maybe it's an element of just living. Really
• 1:10:39
  in my head, I find it fascinating people who, you know, like
• 1:10:43
  the men they're doing stuff and they're like the things are being built, I'm
• 1:10:46
  like, wow, you are making something in the world. Kind of what
• 1:10:50
  kind of strange voodoo is this? You know, I lived too much in
• 1:10:55
  my head maybe because that asounds me. Well. No, The thing is
• 1:11:00
  is that when you have when you have somebody, especially if you've done hands
• 1:11:04
  on work yourself, right, like handyman stuff yourself, you really appreciate the
• 1:11:11
  ability of somebody to just come in and say, oh, for fifteen hundred
• 1:11:15
  dollars, I'll do this bathroom that you've you know, demolished, I'll do
• 1:11:23
  it top to bottom and finish it off. And you're like, fifteen hundred
• 1:11:29
  dollars, Oh god, that's amazing. Right, Oh, it'll just take
• 1:11:33
  a day. And I'm like a day? What what? Right? And
• 1:11:42
  yeah no, And just like having the ability to to have somebody come in
• 1:11:47
  and dig post holes and put in fence posts right like, and have them
• 1:11:55
  all lined up and have them all spaced out nicely, and have them all
• 1:12:00
  properly footed and all of that stuff, you know, like all of those
• 1:12:06
  things that are like tricky and finicky and all, and they just come in,
• 1:12:12
  they have the proper equipment and they do it and you're like, oh,
• 1:12:15
  my god, you're done. It's it's incredible. It's incredible to be
• 1:12:21
  able to have that, And especially if you've done it yourself, especially if
• 1:12:28
  you've done it yourself as a d I wire And it's like, and there
• 1:12:31
  was that one fence post that was crooked, and you're like, oh,
• 1:12:35
  fuck now, I gotta look at that crooked fence post for the entire rest
• 1:12:39
  of my fucking life. What the fuck? Right, And I'm gonna it's
• 1:12:44
  gonna annoy me forever. Right, And so it's like, no, like
• 1:12:50
  hands on expertise, trades, skilled trades, right, anything like that,
• 1:13:00
  and the fact that that these people often make more than professionals, often make
• 1:13:04
  more than people with bachelor's degrees or or master's degrees or PhDs right in highly
• 1:13:15
  lofty subjects, right, I'm like, yeah, no, that's awesome.
• 1:13:21
  And because my dad was, he was a hands on guide like he they
• 1:13:26
  tried to convince him to like teach heavy due to mechanics at at Nate North
• 1:13:35
  North American or North Alberta Institute of Technology, right, they wanted him to
• 1:13:44
  teach there, and he was just like, no, I would rather fix
• 1:13:48
  trucks. Yeah, you know, and you know when he when he improved
• 1:13:57
  the performance of the suction trucks that they use to some uh sewage and stuff
• 1:14:01
  like that, he drew up all of the blueprints and the plans and everything
• 1:14:08
  for for all of that, and he modified all of these vectors for his
• 1:14:14
  company. And they were like, he needs patent that. And he's like,
• 1:14:16
  yeah, I'm just doing my job. Okay, should he should have
• 1:14:23
  patented them, but but I might have gotten something from that, yeah,
• 1:14:28
  but but yeah, no, he was just like, no, I'm just
• 1:14:30
  doing my job. Okay, speaking speaking of getting something from that, no
• 1:14:34
  offense once again, I'm just doing a call out because we haven't moved at
• 1:14:40
  all since the last call out. And I do need to ask you guys,
• 1:14:45
  you know, five bucks whatever you can help out with, just where
• 1:14:47
  my plumbers at? Yeah, yeah, where my plumbers at? Uh take
• 1:14:51
  the time, feed the Badger dot com slash support. Just put it in
• 1:14:54
  your put it in the URL and think about it, because it's it is
• 1:14:58
  really critically important that we make that fundraiser and because otherwise we will not necessarily
• 1:15:04
  be able to continue. Well, it's throw up to you guys, a
• 1:15:09
  bit of a guilt trip, but it's just the truth. So, you
• 1:15:13
  know, take take the weight off her shoulders. Make sure that we can
• 1:15:15
  be able to continue this work. Feed the Badger dot com slash support.
• 1:15:19
  Maybe we'll have to do something to encourage it. I can send Brian the
• 1:15:26
  link to the Whaling Feminists or something, but please do put something in.
• 1:15:30
  And again, I appreciate all of you for helping us out every month,
• 1:15:34
  and uh, that's very much, thank you for that. But if we
• 1:15:40
  want to keep going, we got to keep going. So feed the Badger
• 1:15:43
  dot com slash support. Go put something in the hat. Go do it's
• 1:15:48
  just five bucks. If it's not just five bucks, it's it's it's five
• 1:15:51
  bucks, it's it's it's getting us five bucks closer to the goal. So
• 1:15:56
  feed the Badger dot com slash support. You know, five bucks a fit
• 1:16:00
  hundred bucks. Some of you want to occasionally put in five hundred bucks.
• 1:16:03
  That's great. Feed the Badger dot dot com slash support. All right,
• 1:16:08
  Brian, let's listen. Try to get well. I got another super I
• 1:16:12
  got another super chat. I got to read the superchat. So some dude
• 1:16:15
  gives us twenty pounds and says WRT hypergamy. If anybody in our state institutions
• 1:16:21
  had the nads who admit that women prefer men that out earned them, they
• 1:16:26
  might find ways to reduce the pay gap more effectively. Also, I love
• 1:16:30
  the peacock analogy. Thank you some dude for the twenty pounds, and now
• 1:16:36
  we'll listen to some more lily sing congratulations or Indian Suite center away. Just
• 1:16:44
  the reality that from the moment I came into this world, I was already
• 1:16:47
  a disappointment to so many people. It's as if they had a time machine
• 1:16:53
  and already knew the trajectory of my entire career and life and decided that I
• 1:16:57
  had less to offer. It suck, So I'm just pausing it there for
• 1:17:02
  the bananas is Ted. You know, I remember when this stuff was on
• 1:17:08
  ted X, which wasn't actually affiliate with Ted, but now it's on Ted
• 1:17:13
  So yeah, okay, let's keep going. Am I telling you this heavy
• 1:17:16
  story after? I'm going to be a funny person. I have a nerve
• 1:17:19
  to come out here and hate you right in the fields? How dare I?
• 1:17:23
  Because you're you're saying that brown men are bad, and this audience is
• 1:17:28
  probably mostly white liberals, is gonna lap that up? Yeah, well they
• 1:17:32
  are men see this because although this is my leaked experience, men over there,
• 1:17:38
  those men over there are the bad men, and us men over here
• 1:17:42
  are the good men. But somehow, once we import these men, they
• 1:17:48
  become untouchable. But when they're in their own cultures, they're awful misogynists who
• 1:17:55
  hate women. Oh okay, yes, tell us all white people are superior
• 1:18:01
  Lenny's lily. It's also the reality that millions of girls face every day across
• 1:18:09
  every culture and in every country. Wait what you're talking about? Yeah,
• 1:18:14
  no, I call bullshit on that one every culture. I just I just
• 1:18:19
  remember, okay, because when I when I married my ex, I inherited
• 1:18:27
  two stepsons, and then I had a son, and then I was I
• 1:18:33
  was It was Halloween, Halloween Day. It was about four o'clock in the
• 1:18:40
  afternoon, and I was in I was in a regular hospital room in labor,
• 1:18:47
  and they small town hospital, two birthing rooms, two bassinets, two
• 1:18:56
  of everything. Right, four women went into labor that day. Right,
• 1:19:00
  one was there lifted out and the other two were deemed to be further along
• 1:19:06
  than I was. Okay, So I was given the regular hospital room,
• 1:19:13
  the teeny teeny tiny little hospital room, and I'm I'm there, and there's
• 1:19:19
  broken glass all over the floor because somebody knocked the suction jar off the crash
• 1:19:27
  cart because there were too many people cramped into this room. And every time
• 1:19:31
  this freaking psycho bitch of a nurse jammed the fetal heart monitor into my abdomen
• 1:19:43
  right, it would bring on another contraction. So instead of ninety second contractions
• 1:19:48
  two minutes apart, thirty seconds break in between, she'd cut me short at
• 1:19:54
  like ten seconds ten seconds of rest. She'd jabbed that in, Oh,
• 1:19:59
  I gotta check a fetal heart rate right and bring on another contraction. And
• 1:20:02
  I finally threatened to kick her head off her shoulders, right, and I'm
• 1:20:08
  I'm pushing and I'm pushing and I'm pushing And what was I thinking to myself,
• 1:20:14
  but didn't dare say, for fear of jinxing it? This had better
• 1:20:18
  be a girl, really, yeah, this had better be a fucking girl,
• 1:20:30
  whine because I already had three boys. We had two stepsons and a
• 1:20:41
  son, and I was like, you know, a son and a daughter,
• 1:20:43
  that's perfect, right, Okay, Like I want at least one girl,
• 1:20:49
  right, no matter how many kids I have, I want at least
• 1:20:53
  one girl, and I was like, this had better be a girl,
• 1:21:00
  and row and behold. I sat up and I looked down as they were
• 1:21:05
  pulling her out of me, and it was a girl. And I was
• 1:21:09
  like, thank fucking god, I don't have to kill anybody. Yeah,
• 1:21:14
  And the doctor's like, oh, my back because he had to bend over
• 1:21:17
  sideways when he was delivering the baby because it was like a regular hospital bed.
• 1:21:21
  And I was like, you're back, get the fuck out and yeah
• 1:21:28
  no, and then threatened to cut off my husband's testies and because yeah,
• 1:21:38
  I was just like cast Rake the bastard because it was extremely painful. And
• 1:21:45
  then like twenty minutes later, I was sitting out on a picnic table having
• 1:21:47
  a cigarette and this woman, young woman, was out there and she's like,
• 1:21:54
  did you hear that woman screaming? What were they doing to her?
• 1:21:59
  And I was like, oh fuck, that was me. She's like,
• 1:22:01
  oh my god, and I was like I was having a baby and she's
• 1:22:04
  like, oh my god, I'm fourteen weeks pregnant. I'm like, relax,
• 1:22:10
  it's twenty minutes later. I'm out here enjoying the sunshine, right,
• 1:22:16
  Yeah, but yeah, no, it was yeah, no it yeah,
• 1:22:21
  you can't be her. This had better be a girl, was yeah,
• 1:22:26
  it was my thought. Yeah, yeah, there's actually I actually looked at
• 1:22:30
  the numbers and it's quite possible that the West practices sex selective abortion in favor
• 1:22:35
  of what girls, So this is absolute bullshit. Now I don't know for
• 1:22:39
  sure. I would have to do an actual study, but it's a little
• 1:22:42
  suspicious that sex ratios at burst in the West are quite low. No no,
• 1:22:47
  no, no, that that has to do with probably with chemicals,
• 1:22:55
  petrochemical. No. But there is also some evidence that people select against boys.
• 1:23:00
  Oh yeah, oh yeah, and they also prefer to they prefer to
• 1:23:02
  adopt girls. So you are full of shit. You're talking about maybe your
• 1:23:09
  culture. He's talking about India. Yeah, you know, she's saying that
• 1:23:12
  all cultures are like that. You know, all cultures are not like that.
• 1:23:15
  Actually, females are more are preferred in in most Western cultures, girls
• 1:23:23
  are preferred. And it wasn't that I preferred girls. I just wanted at
• 1:23:27
  least one mm. Right, Okay, so let's get let's do some more
• 1:23:33
  and then I'll do another calling out because we're not moving at all. Telling
• 1:23:38
  you this because being born into this reality set me on a lifetime mission of
• 1:23:43
  trying to prove myself and just feel like I was enough? What did I
• 1:23:47
  want to be when I grow up? I wanted to be treated equally?
• 1:23:53
  And I'm not alone in this mission. No, you didn't. You wanted
• 1:23:58
  you you didn't want to be treated equally. You wanted to be treated special,
• 1:24:03
  says the famous woman doing a Ted talk that had a late show and
• 1:24:10
  yeah, up two million, twelve million subscribers on YouTube. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:24:16
  yeah. And I'm just like, I'm just like, give me a
• 1:24:20
  fucking break, you know, like treated equally in Indian culture, treated equally
• 1:24:27
  in Chinese culture. That's a little bit different. But you know, even
• 1:24:31
  if you talk to Indian parents who you know, they might have their well
• 1:24:36
  to do or whatever, they might have three, four or five daughters right
• 1:24:41
  before they start with uh, sex selective abortions, right, it's because it's
• 1:24:48
  because they can't afford any more daughters. They just can't afford anymore, they
• 1:24:55
  can't afford dowry, they can't afford uh, you know, using them.
• 1:25:00
  They're you know, they're trying for the one boy. They only need one
• 1:25:04
  boy, right to read their funeral rights when they die, and and you
• 1:25:13
  know, and so that that's if they could, they have as many daughters
• 1:25:16
  as they can afford. All right, That's just how it is, right,
• 1:25:24
  So that is how much you're worth. Is you're too expensive? All
• 1:25:32
  right? So let's get a little bit more. Okay, here we go.
• 1:25:38
  In fact us girls, what we desperately want is a seat at the
• 1:25:42
  table. It's what every motivational poster, tumbler, post instrument. I should
• 1:25:48
  go back real quick and look at those headlines seat at the table, taking
• 1:25:54
  a seat at the table Women on navigating male dominated in India again India industries
• 1:26:00
  industries. Yeah, you're right, that's a you the imperative for leaders to
• 1:26:03
  help women of color secure a seat at the table, have a seat at
• 1:26:06
  the table. So basically, there's a feminist buzz phrase, because you know,
• 1:26:11
  feminists and leftists love creating phrases and buzzwords and shit, and then they
• 1:26:16
  just use it over and over and over and over and over and over and
• 1:26:18
  over and over until it becomes like a part of the language. And then
• 1:26:24
  they use it to call out things that they want. And then later they'll
• 1:26:28
  they point to it and say, look at all the times at people I
• 1:26:30
  don't know who just people are are asking for a seat at the table.
• 1:26:35
  Yeah, no, and it seems like it's a thing everybody wants. It's
• 1:26:38
  like it's like constructing democracy. No, but she's also basically saying, you
• 1:26:43
  know, oh, well, this whole seat at the table business is just
• 1:26:45
  lip service. Yeah, but it's but it's the solution. Is how she
• 1:26:53
  gets her foot in the door to complaining about not having a seat at the
• 1:26:57
  table, despite the fact that she had her own show. She she's probably
• 1:27:00
  rich and you know, and she's doing a ted talk like, I mean,
• 1:27:05
  you're not oppressed. Well, she's literally the title of his video is
• 1:27:11
  a seat at the table isn't the solution for j She's going to make the
• 1:27:15
  argument that is not enough enough if you if you have a seat at the
• 1:27:20
  table, other people have a seat at that table, and that you know,
• 1:27:24
  if men have a seat at the table, then they are silencing you.
• 1:27:29
  Yes, okay, this is this is the face of our destructor our
• 1:27:34
  friends. It's what every motivational poster, tumbler, post, Instagram account you
• 1:27:41
  follow business cardl tells us success is a seat at the table. You know,
• 1:27:45
  And if they want to be extra spicy, they say, if there
• 1:27:47
  is no seat. Drag your own seat. I'm sure you've heard this all
• 1:27:51
  right, and so wrong with this? Well, she's gonna tell us how
• 1:27:57
  how is she a victim of themism? Now? Well, she's a victim
• 1:28:01
  of pop feminism. I went through that pop feminism video. It's the worst
• 1:28:06
  thing I've ever I could. I actually didn't make it. I got like
• 1:28:11
  close to halfway. It's basically, yeah, feminism exists, but it's not
• 1:28:15
  enough. And I think that's the case that she's making. You know,
• 1:28:18
  speaking of comedians that are no longer funny, I don't know if Lily Sing
• 1:28:21
  was ever funny, but I know she was supposed to be at one point.
• 1:28:27
  Well I don't know. I just know that she's like was sort of
• 1:28:30
  popular at first, and now it's maybe maybe. I'm thinking of Aquafina,
• 1:28:33
  who's another woman who got famous on YouTube and was originally I guess some people
• 1:28:40
  say funny but now is no longer funny. I remember my Lindsay, my
• 1:28:45
  wife's favorite comedian, Eliza Schlessinger, and Eliza Schlessinger's act, which is great
• 1:28:51
  if you can find the old The old specials she did was all about self
• 1:28:58
  deprecation and making fun of female behavior, and it was hilarious. You've ever
• 1:29:03
  seen Eliza Schlessinger's stuff, No, I haven't, but I understand it.
• 1:29:09
  Yeah, the whole, the whole idea of of humor is self deprecation.
• 1:29:17
  Yes, it comes from like an awareness of your weaknesses and limitations for whatever,
• 1:29:25
  for whatever reason. Okay, they could be personality traits, they could
• 1:29:28
  be identity based, they could be gender based. It always works, and
• 1:29:30
  especially if other people understand it, you know, like they're relatable. It's
• 1:29:35
  either something they've experienced themselves or something that they are seeing in themselves that you
• 1:29:41
  are presenting. So Eliza Schlessinger, when she started off, all of her
• 1:29:45
  jokes were well, a lot of her jokes were basically about how women act,
• 1:29:48
  and they were hilarious because and they were also kind of unique because not
• 1:29:54
  a lot of women outside of like Joan Rivers and maybe some others were actually
• 1:29:58
  making fun of female behavior, and Eliza Schlessinger was doing it in like sort
• 1:30:02
  of a more modern take, and it was really funny stuff, and especially
• 1:30:09
  as a white girl. So she had like a specific, you know,
• 1:30:11
  approach that I thought was extra funny. And then she at some point she
• 1:30:15
  became a feminist. She found it and then she did it. I think
• 1:30:18
  it was like her third or fourth special. I can't remember the name of
• 1:30:20
  it doesn't matter. The jokes were dead, like nothing was funny she you
• 1:30:27
  know, like all of it was gone, all the humor was sucked out.
• 1:30:29
  She didn't want to make jokes about women anymore. Somebody came to her
• 1:30:32
  and said, you can't do that. That's you know, women, your
• 1:30:35
  your your attack. You're punching down whatever it was, and all of a
• 1:30:40
  sudden she was no longer funny, and I a part of me thinks,
• 1:30:43
  again, I never watched Lilly's thing. I could be wrong. If anybody
• 1:30:45
  knows, you know, her content. I have a feeling that she started
• 1:30:48
  off when she was nobody and she was trying to build a name for herself.
• 1:30:54
  She probably had to like legitimately be funny or entertaining in some way.
• 1:30:59
  And then was she got some momentum, and then she became mainstream. And
• 1:31:03
  that's when the wokeness said it, because when she got when she got her
• 1:31:06
  own show, when she got her own show, like like the advertising was
• 1:31:15
  I'm I'm queer and I'm a woman and I'm of color, like it was
• 1:31:18
  it was like, not not necessarily in that order, but it was that
• 1:31:20
  that's that's what are you selling that I'm selling my identity and if you regret
• 1:31:25
  it, if you don't accept it, I'm gonna essentially like use it against
• 1:31:29
  you. And that's what she did, and nobody watched. Instead, they
• 1:31:31
  said, let's watch Craig Ferguson because he's funny. Yeah, Scottish and you
• 1:31:36
  know, and his show is funny. I mean I don't watch it regularly,
• 1:31:40
  but you know, Craig Ferguson is a funny motherfucker. So yeah,
• 1:31:44
  just saying no, well, and let's put something out before you start,
• 1:31:46
  Karen, that's going to be more succinct. Yeah, it's you know,
• 1:31:51
  if you're going to pass your own flaws off as somebody else's problem in a
• 1:31:57
  self righteous manner, you're not gonna be funny. No, No, you
• 1:32:00
  have to you have to do it the way Bill Bird. Did you know
• 1:32:03
  during that beautiful bit on Arnold Schwarzenegger, you know, the great man brought
• 1:32:13
  down right because you know, like, why wouldn't he think you know,
• 1:32:17
  it's been forty years nothing but net, why wouldn't he think he could bang
• 1:32:21
  the maid in his own bedroom, right without a condom. And and you
• 1:32:28
  know, because you think your dick is your friend, you think your dick
• 1:32:31
  is your friend, and it's not. It's not. It's like it's it's
• 1:32:35
  it's it's the third base coach. That's just like waving them all in,
• 1:32:40
  right, and and it's like, yeah, no, run run, run,
• 1:32:44
  exit strategy later. Right. That that's that's how it works when you're
• 1:32:50
  a man. Your dick is not your friend. And you know, and
• 1:32:55
  everybody sees that. He's like, yeah, no, you're you're Tiger Woods,
• 1:33:00
  right. You know, I golf. I don't have a busload of
• 1:33:04
  Scandinavian women, you know, running down the freaking hillside, skirts up,
• 1:33:12
  faces painted right, ready to jump on my dick, right in front of
• 1:33:15
  my wife. Right, I don't have that. I golf. Nobody cares.
• 1:33:20
  I lift weights, nobody cares. Right, Okay, you know there's
• 1:33:26
  an epidemic of gold digging horrors out there and nobody's addressing it, right,
• 1:33:32
  and he's but part of it is part of that that bit is that it's
• 1:33:42
  men who are tempted by these women. It's it's men. It's it's it's
• 1:33:49
  about it's not just about the fact that there are predatory women out there.
• 1:33:55
  Right, it's about the fact that there are men out there who will actually
• 1:33:59
  go with that, right. It's it's a perfectly balanced skit that critiques men,
• 1:34:06
  critiques women. Basically tells it like it is, and and it's like,
• 1:34:14
  yeah, no, it's it's I you know. This is why I
• 1:34:18
  loved all of his work until he did that, until he married a feminist.
• 1:34:23
  And then he did one freaking feminist special. I watched fifteen minutes of
• 1:34:27
  it. I turned it off. It just was not funny. When people
• 1:34:32
  indulged in the self righteousness, they ceased to be funny. Then he put
• 1:34:36
  out another one, and I think he had I think he gave his wife
• 1:34:41
  a talking to alright bil Burr, Oh he turned it around. Yeah,
• 1:34:45
  I think he gave the third day he has risen. Yeah, I think
• 1:34:49
  he gave his wife a talking to and said, yeah, I if if
• 1:34:56
  if I do this woke shit, we're an not earning anything. So you
• 1:35:02
  got a choice. I can be a feminist comedian or I can be an
• 1:35:09
  earning comedian. There's no in between. And so I'm going back to my
• 1:35:14
  old freaking gig, going back to my old routine, my old style,
• 1:35:20
  and if you don't like it, you can go funk yourself. And and
• 1:35:28
  the special after that was actually pretty good. M hmm. Let's see what
• 1:35:32
  she has to say, though I do have some thankies, but let's get
• 1:35:35
  a little bit more in orders were clear, get a seat at this coveted
• 1:35:41
  table by any means necessary when you have now see, this is what I'm
• 1:35:46
  talking about. So feminists create this concept of get a seat at the table.
• 1:35:53
  They do this over and over, and they do this with lots of
• 1:35:55
  things, okay, and they repeat this thing like it's true until it becomes
• 1:36:00
  so like ever present in our media that people think it is true, and
• 1:36:05
  then they try to actually achieve it. So she's like, now I'm going
• 1:36:09
  to get a seat at this coveted table that society is talking about, doctor,
• 1:36:15
  Society is talking about the seat at the table, and now I'm gonna
• 1:36:17
  get it. But she's literally like approaching an argument that feminists have made over
• 1:36:23
  generations, and then when it fails, she's gonna blame us. She's gonna
• 1:36:28
  blame the world, society, patriarchy, whatever, even though it's a lie.
• 1:36:31
  She's basically trying to get a lie she's using a lie to a comp
• 1:36:36
  to get to a conclusion that she's already have in her mind. You know
• 1:36:41
  what I'm saying. So okay, let's keep going. And that's been the
• 1:36:45
  driving forces reality. Now he's now shut up. It's the feet, it's
• 1:36:54
  the female it's the female system. This is the female system. A tildeer
• 1:37:00
  said, it's the woo. It's a Feminism is a religion, it's not.
• 1:37:02
  It's not like a religion. It is a religion. Like like,
• 1:37:08
  we can literally make the argument and make it illegal for feminism to be in
• 1:37:13
  transient government, at least in the States. Yeah, because it's a religion.
• 1:37:18
  Well, I just want to point out that this is another instance of
• 1:37:20
  a woman snatching victimhood from the jaws of victory. Yeah. Yeah, because
• 1:37:27
  victim victimhood isn't she can't profit on that. I mean, she can from
• 1:37:32
  victory on victory, no, because she got from victory. But she can
• 1:37:35
  also profit from turning victory into defeat. M Yeah, god, Okay,
• 1:37:42
  tell us how you've all you have in your mind turned your victory into defeat?
• 1:37:47
  Okay, and let us find that I noticed that no one on YouTube
• 1:37:51
  looks like me. Yeah, there was no South Asian woman who's very loud
• 1:37:55
  and uses her hands a lot, giving her take the front of a camera.
• 1:38:00
  So you saw a seat up for grabs, okay, and you got
• 1:38:04
  it and that's the end. Like what, Okay, let's find out the
• 1:38:09
  conclusion of this. So there was no her on YouTube because you are you
• 1:38:17
  like, yes, there's also I mean, there is a me on YouTube,
• 1:38:21
  but it's not a very big channel. So and there wasn't a me
• 1:38:25
  on YouTube before me went on YouTube. Yeah, like what okay? All
• 1:38:30
  right, so you saw a seat a U sap seeped seat at the table,
• 1:38:33
  and you grabbed it and got it. Now let's get to the part
• 1:38:36
  where your victory is actually a defeat. All right. So I've got to
• 1:38:43
  work and I started a channel under the name Superwoman, so modest. Yeah,
• 1:38:47
  because although I'm smart enough to do a ted talk, I'm not smart
• 1:38:50
  enough to understand copyright. That's funny, No, I don't think so was
• 1:39:00
  like, I don't know, it's cringe. I don't understand copyright. Guys.
• 1:39:03
  I called it Superwoman. I mean, where are these people mask?
• 1:39:09
  Is this like months ago or you're no, no, this is recent.
• 1:39:12
  This is just oh my God, this is just the world we live in.
• 1:39:15
  Look what Notice it's mostly women. I'm just pointing out the audience is
• 1:39:19
  mostly women. Okay, you know this is the start of burkas. You
• 1:39:25
  know that. Yeah, let's keep going, all right. I taught myself
• 1:39:30
  how to write, shoot, and edit my own content and it worked really
• 1:39:34
  hard. So you are atuber? Yeah she was a YouTuber? Yeah,
• 1:39:41
  like I taught myself to write, edit and shoot, shoot and edit my
• 1:39:45
  own content. Yes, because you set yourself a task and you did it.
• 1:39:49
  Okay, So I'm still wondering where where does the victimhood come in?
• 1:39:54
  And also why are you praising yourself for just doing the bare minimum? Do
• 1:40:00
  the bare minimum of what it is to be a YouTuber? And look at
• 1:40:02
  the freaking number of subscribers. Somebody's really loved by YouTube. Okay, let's
• 1:40:09
  keep it possible. Okay, let's keep going the hang of it. I
• 1:40:13
  committed to posting two comedy videos a week, and I found a success with
• 1:40:16
  a backward snap back on my head. I gave my take on relationships,
• 1:40:20
  pop culture subjects, and most popularly, dressed up like my parents. Yeah,
• 1:40:30
  basically mocked your father, yeah, ben your mother? Yeah, sort
• 1:40:35
  of I mean she just put on glasses and a head scarf. Yeah,
• 1:40:40
  well, let's I'm just that's just my guess. I don't know. I
• 1:40:42
  haven't watched your contact content. Let's keep going. I can't tell you how
• 1:40:46
  many times I forgot to wipe that chester off A lot of times. Now
• 1:40:51
  fast forward to twenty fifteen and I'm on stage in India announcing my first World's
• 1:40:57
  tour. Wow, say what they asked this monumental mind. No, none
• 1:41:02
  of this matters because she was denied a seat at the table or the seat
• 1:41:06
  at her table. I don't know. Let's let's keep going, Silestone,
• 1:41:11
  I was set to flight up in job, India becausit my grandfather for the
• 1:41:15
  first time in my adult life, and who nothing could have prepared me for
• 1:41:20
  what was about to happen. About to are you about to talk shit about
• 1:41:25
  your grandfather's Let's keep going. It was in the car driving to his house.
• 1:41:30
  He was standing outside. I nervously got out of the car, walked
• 1:41:34
  up to him. He walked up to me. He looked me right in
• 1:41:36
  the eyes, and you raised his hand and decorated me with a flower garland
• 1:41:44
  gesture fit for people of importance. He then proceeded to welcome me into his
• 1:41:48
  home, my mom buying my side, and proceeded to show me all the
• 1:41:51
  newspaper clippings he had saved with my name and face on them. He said
• 1:41:57
  the words twist he was wrong, words I had never heard a man say
• 1:42:02
  before to me. Really, he said, Should I keep going? Or
• 1:42:08
  uh? Okay, let's let's continue in this bizarre fantasyland that I had done
• 1:42:15
  when no one else could have done, and I had name made the family
• 1:42:18
  name proud me Lily? Okay, okay, let let's lets let's recap here.
• 1:42:25
  Let's recap all right. Is she probably making a lot of money,
• 1:42:30
  she has a gigantic YouTube channel, She's doing a world tour. Her relatives
• 1:42:34
  are proud of her. Okay, where does the victimhood coming? I know
• 1:42:39
  it's coming. I know the turn is. It's it's because it's because her
• 1:42:44
  grandfather said, oh you actually you actually made us proud? Oh? Yeah,
• 1:42:54
  no, did he did? She? Did he actually say me,
• 1:42:57
  Lily the baby born or girl? Is this from him his mouth? No?
• 1:43:00
  He said he said, he said that she had made the family proud.
• 1:43:13
  She says that he said that she did what no one else has done,
• 1:43:17
  which is make the family proud. Right, So she's humble, Greg,
• 1:43:21
  here she's saying, and it was bitter sweet because I was a girl
• 1:43:27
  and nobody expected. Okay, Brian, can I request something? Go back
• 1:43:31
  about fifteen seconds. I want to know exactly. Okay, that's good,
• 1:43:43
  and proceed to show me all the newspaper clippings he had saved with my name
• 1:43:46
  and face on them. He said the words he was wrong. Who words
• 1:43:53
  I had never heard a man say before to me? Bullshit? No,
• 1:43:58
  who was wrong about what? No? No specification? No, wrong about
• 1:44:01
  not celebrating her birth? Yeah, but I mean the only thing we could
• 1:44:09
  we could get is that that like, oh, she was a woman,
• 1:44:13
  I was hoping for a son, and of course she's taking that as or
• 1:44:16
  was he wrong about telling her something like? You know a lot of older
• 1:44:21
  generation people say, don't go into this strange YouTube thing. It's not gonna
• 1:44:26
  make it. You know, you're not gonna make it, Like until she
• 1:44:30
  specifies. This ambiguity makes me feel suspicious. Sure, okay, keep on.
• 1:44:38
  He said that I had done what no one else could have done,
• 1:44:40
  and I had name made the family name proud. No one else Willie the
• 1:44:45
  baby born Okay, stop, this is bullshit. This is a narrative she's
• 1:44:50
  constructed in her head. She had done what nobody else could have done and
• 1:44:55
  made the family proud. Shit, did he didn't? Did he not?
• 1:45:00
  Say? No one else, men and women included. I'm guessing this is
• 1:45:03
  a generational thing, and it's about the fact that she went into new media,
• 1:45:08
  and she's turning it into oh, it's about me as a girl.
• 1:45:12
  Yeah, well yeah, no, and it's okay, and what you what
• 1:45:17
  you said before? Right? You know, like basically, uh t J
• 1:45:23
  kirk right, the amazing atheist. He dropped out of high school to start
• 1:45:30
  a YouTube channel, and he's made something of himself. Right. I don't
• 1:45:35
  know exactly what. I don't know that I agree with any of his current
• 1:45:44
  positions on anything, but because he's extremely hard left. But but you know,
• 1:45:56
  he made something of himself and now his parents are proud, Right,
• 1:46:00
  his parents who told him no, no, no, what are you thinking?
• 1:46:03
  Are you stupid? Right? Why would you do that? Yeah,
• 1:46:08
  that's why we're going to drop out of high school? Right that. No,
• 1:46:11
  he's talked about it in the past, Right, I'm saying that's probably
• 1:46:15
  what happened here. But the way that she's constructing this. If you actually
• 1:46:20
  listen, there are things that aren't connecting, and it's because she wants to
• 1:46:26
  give an impression that isn't true to the reality that she actually experienced. This
• 1:46:30
  is a very adept liar as far as I can tell, because she's leaving
• 1:46:33
  these these open pits of ambiguity and what she's saying in order to allow people
• 1:46:39
  to interpret things. It sounds to me if her if her grandfather said you
• 1:46:43
  did something that nobody else could do, he's not saying no girl could do,
• 1:46:47
  no one else could do. Ye, make the family proud. I
• 1:46:55
  was wrong. Okay, you did something no one else could do. Make
• 1:47:00
  the family proud, all right? And now she's interpreting that as, oh,
• 1:47:05
  I'm I'm a girl. I don't even think that she was referencing her
• 1:47:10
  being a girl. There's no indication that that happened. And what she's saying
• 1:47:14
  when we go directly with what she's saying, she is making the interpretation that,
• 1:47:19
  Oh, it's amazing that me a girl despite being a girl. Yeah,
• 1:47:25
  yeah, that's the interpretation that she's presenting. Even with her words,
• 1:47:30
  she's not supporting it. All right, this one, I'm trying to get
• 1:47:35
  at I'm I'm just I'm just thinking. You know, like honestly, you
• 1:47:40
  have you have people in India and you know, their kids go forth into
• 1:47:45
  the Western world and or their grandkids, they want doctors and lawyers, yeah,
• 1:47:53
  and uh and engineers, and they don't probably don't understand YouTuber as a
• 1:47:58
  as a profession or median. Yeah, that's probably what happened here. And
• 1:48:03
  she's like, oh, I showed him up. I made my something of
• 1:48:06
  myself as a comedian and YouTube, which he was saying, Oh I couldn't,
• 1:48:10
  you know, go be a lawyer or doctor. You know, the
• 1:48:13
  typical thing which is very common in traditional societies. They do want their daughters
• 1:48:17
  to have these kinds of careers and have those kinds of degrees. Degrees not
• 1:48:25
  necessarily careers, because in a lot of these traditional societies, the degree is
• 1:48:30
  considered part of the trousseau. It gets you a more high status made well
• 1:48:35
  regardless of women are still if you if you have a bachelor's degree as a
• 1:48:40
  woman, you you can land a man with a master's degree or a PhD.
• 1:48:45
  Okay, well that's in my experience. Women from Muslim and Indian cultures
• 1:48:48
  comprise the majority of the women in STEM. Oh. Yeah, I was
• 1:48:53
  in there that said, that's what I saw, and we have a majority
• 1:48:56
  of the women in those in those jobs. Yeah no, that's that's my
• 1:49:01
  husband's uh experience, because he's been in STEM for you know, since I
• 1:49:08
  knew him. And it was not just the degree, it's also getting the
• 1:49:12
  job. So I'm asking that what happened was Grandpapa was like, no,
• 1:49:15
  I want you. I think you should be a lawyer. I think you
• 1:49:17
  should be a doctor. You're smart. You're smart, there's something important.
• 1:49:23
  Be an engineer, be a mathematician, a physicist. Why are you doing
• 1:49:26
  this YouTube? You know? And and then she comes back and is like,
• 1:49:30
  I became in a gigantic success. And he's like, that's amazing.
• 1:49:32
  You did something that very few people could do. You made your family proud
• 1:49:38
  with this thing. And she's pulling, oh but I was a girl,
• 1:49:44
  yeah, pulling that victimhood from the jaws of defeat of victor victory. Yeah
• 1:49:50
  no, and it's she's she's basically saying like he didn't expect her to amount
• 1:49:56
  to anything. And I don't know, but my husband works with Chinese women,
• 1:50:04
  Korean women, Vietnamese women, Filipino women, Indian women, Pakistani women,
• 1:50:15
  Bangladeshi women. Right. He works with all of these women, you
• 1:50:20
  know, for the last fourteen years, and none of them are like,
• 1:50:26
  yeah, no, my parents didn't expect me to amount My parents didn't expect
• 1:50:30
  me to amount to anything. That's bullshit. Their parents were probably driving them
• 1:50:34
  into engineering school. Yeah, and that was probably the same with her because
• 1:50:39
  she looks like she's in the upper class of you know, the upper cast,
• 1:50:43
  upper cast of the Indian society, and which is another thing which is
• 1:50:47
  amazing that she's become a victim. But regardless what she's presenting here, she's
• 1:50:55
  being very selective with the facts that she's presenting. Our interpretation is equally valid
• 1:51:00
  to what she's presenting as whatever the audience is interpreting from it. Yep,
• 1:51:06
  because she's laid these areas of ambiguity that is not clear. And I would
• 1:51:14
  honestly say, if if he if he said you did something nobody else in
• 1:51:18
  the family could do, then he's not talking as if, oh, it's
• 1:51:21
  because you're a girl, it's because you went into a career that is not
• 1:51:28
  a very low, a very low standard of of like your the YouTube career
• 1:51:35
  is a crapshoot for success. Yeah, no, it's it's a it's an
• 1:51:40
  extremely tight market for anybody who wants to be successful. But let's see what
• 1:51:45
  else she says. Maybe maybe my interpretation will be completely destroyed by her next
• 1:51:49
  piece of evidence, the dread misogyny of her should read I should read some
• 1:51:56
  super challenge some super chats. Okay, and I and I should and I
• 1:52:00
  should let you know that I have to go in like six to ten minutes.
• 1:52:06
  Okay, then we'll we will adjourn for tomorrow. Then right, yes,
• 1:52:13
  I guess yeah, yeah, all right, So I got a super
• 1:52:15
  child from uh rorshacks no for ten dollars, thank you, and he says,
• 1:52:24
  hey, badress, I needed to take a break for me to send
• 1:52:28
  this super child. These type of people are insufferable, claiming when she came
• 1:52:31
  into the world, a certain population males were against her. She wishes she
• 1:52:35
  could be a thought vapor particle about guys general butt vapor. Uh yeah,
• 1:52:43
  they are insufferable. Lily Singh is really like with an it's like the whole
• 1:52:47
  you know what's funny is her whole problem is her attitude. If her attitude
• 1:52:51
  was better she'd probably not only be more popular, but she probably have like
• 1:52:56
  a you know, a productive life. But she's just so, yeah,
• 1:53:00
  well you would. You You need to be you need to be humble in
• 1:53:04
  order to be funny, you know, or at least be able to self
• 1:53:09
  efface. But yeah, I've always tained hilarious these these entertainers who are like,
• 1:53:14
  yeah, it's not me, it's the audience that has the problem.
• 1:53:16
  Yeah, exactly, like really and no industry has that ever been true?
• 1:53:23
  Like yeah, yeah, like but anyway, then we got Duncan. Alexander
• 1:53:30
  gives us seventy tzar and says she is trying to stop gatekeeping. She is
• 1:53:38
  gatekeeping in a way, but yeah, I see what she's she's trying to
• 1:53:43
  claim that whatever world like her, the business world or whatever that she's trying
• 1:53:47
  to do, entertainment, YouTube, Hollywood, whatever it is, is trying
• 1:53:51
  to exclude her because of her like status, and it's it's crazy because you
• 1:53:59
  know, those places are super woke. So there's no way it's because of
• 1:54:01
  those those particular things. You're probably just not making any money literally, seeing
• 1:54:05
  your ratings are in the toilet. Maybe that's all it is. Yeah,
• 1:54:12
  maybe you just need to improve Jesus, look a thought, maybe you need
• 1:54:15
  to work on some shit. I know. Okay, let's keep going.
• 1:54:18
  Okay, go, well, I do have to do the thank you.
• 1:54:21
  Yeah, okay. So safe Demon gives us five bucks. Thank you,
• 1:54:26
  Safe Demon, and thank you very much. That's really nice. Thank you.
• 1:54:32
  Okay. And math Freak one two three HBr hopefully they're not your legal
• 1:54:38
  name, gives us one hundred dollars. Thank you, math freak. I
• 1:54:45
  are that's okay. So just want to remind everyone we are at the end
• 1:54:48
  of the month. We must get that fundraiser finished, so please take the
• 1:54:53
  time to go to feed the Badger dot com slash support and pledge some support
• 1:54:59
  to the We can keep bringing you this content because you know we we we
• 1:55:02
  approached these things from them about that, no, okay, we approach these
• 1:55:09
  things from a very unique perspective. It's a perspective that a lot of people
• 1:55:13
  seem to have a big issue with. I mean, there's the right,
• 1:55:16
  there's a left, both with which blame men, and then there's us saying,
• 1:55:20
  yeah, we got to stop that. We got to move past it.
• 1:55:23
  Otherwise our society is not going to continue. And like I said,
• 1:55:28
  like somebody said that the analogy of the peacocks. They liked it. Well,
• 1:55:31
  let me take it a little bit further. Our peacock farmer is absolutely
• 1:55:36
  certain that if he takes the tales of the peacocks off the peacocks and put
• 1:55:41
  them on the pea hens, that somehow something good will result from that.
• 1:55:45
  Yeah. No, no, little pea babies will Yeah, yeah, somehow
• 1:55:51
  pea babies will happen. It's like no. And again, I guess women
• 1:55:57
  just don't want to admit even though they will admit it. They don't want
• 1:56:00
  to take responsibility for the fact that they want a man who brings some kind
• 1:56:08
  of superiority along whatever access that they prefer to the table. And if a
• 1:56:12
  society does not attend to the task of making men desirable to women or allowing
• 1:56:17
  them some kind of feel to develop that desirability, it's a society that is
• 1:56:21
  not long for this world. And our society not only doesn't attend to the
• 1:56:25
  task of actually making men desirable, it literally makes them less desirable, undesirable.
• 1:56:32
  It's actively destroying men's desirability to women, which would be fine. Actually
• 1:56:38
  no, it wouldn't be fine. We have to stop that. Even if
• 1:56:41
  women were okay with an equal partner. The fact that our society is dead
• 1:56:45
  set on making men undesirable as partners would be a problem. But not only
• 1:56:50
  does our society making men undesirable as partners, Women still want a man who
• 1:56:58
  is superior to them along some metric either money or defense or well, less
• 1:57:03
  and less spirituality, but some metric, yeah, not only capability, you
• 1:57:12
  know, And that instinct of hypergamy is you know, women are generally helpless
• 1:57:17
  when it comes to giving birth, lactation, early childhood, taking care of
• 1:57:23
  kids. So it's understandable why they want a man who can defend them,
• 1:57:28
  can provide for them, has some kind of superior quality to help them during
• 1:57:32
  those times. All right. So it's not like it's a horrible thing,
• 1:57:35
  but it is a thing, yeah, and if you want it is it
• 1:57:40
  is the empty spots on women's spreadsheets when they want to have kids, yeah,
• 1:57:45
  and they need a man or somebody to fill those spots on the spreadsheet.
• 1:57:51
  And when a government stepped in and said, hey, we'll do it.
• 1:57:58
  We'll just steal money from me and give it to you so that you
• 1:58:01
  can you know, and all that did was just increase the amount of money
• 1:58:06
  that women wanted in order to pair bond with men like It did not change
• 1:58:11
  the hypergamy. It did not change women's desire for men to bring something more
• 1:58:15
  to the table. Okay, if we don't deal with that, then we
• 1:58:19
  are not long for this world. So we got to stop blaming men.
• 1:58:23
  We got to be start being honest about what we are and what we want,
• 1:58:27
  and start attempting to correct this without blaming men, without doing the easy
• 1:58:32
  thing, the easy and cowardly thing, which is simply blaming the group of
• 1:58:36
  people that has the least amount of power. Have you ever considered that it's
• 1:58:41
  much easier to blame the people who don't have any ability to change the situation
• 1:58:45
  because they don't have the power to screw with your life, do they?
• 1:58:51
  Yeah, no, we just blame men. Yeah No. It's it's like,
• 1:58:56
  why why are the vast majority of people who are on did middle and
• 1:59:00
  lower income people? You know? You know, why is the median income
• 1:59:05
  of people who are audited by the IRS, you know, like twenty thousand
• 1:59:12
  dollars or less per year? Why why is that? Well, it's because
• 1:59:15
  they don't have the resources to fight back, right. The billionaires, Yeah,
• 1:59:23
  they got they got a whole fleet of tax attorneys there to fight it
• 1:59:28
  in court and and get off the hook. So and to find every loophole
• 1:59:34
  and to find every every single deduction and all of those things, right,
• 1:59:40
  And that's why they target That's why the IRS targets overwhelmingly targets people of modest
• 1:59:47
  income or even lower income. And you know, that's that's just how it
• 1:59:53
  is. And so you're you're just you're looking at a situation where you have
• 2:00:00
  a situation where you know women they don't they don't undertand like, this is
• 2:00:10
  one of the things that I've always kind of noticed, is they don't under
• 2:00:14
  they don't notice the men who operate society, right, they don't notice them
• 2:00:24
  unless those men are holding up traffic, right, making them late for work
• 2:00:30
  or for lunch or for brunch or whatever. Right, they don't notice them.
• 2:00:36
  And I think, I think it's absolutely scandalous that you have, you
• 2:00:44
  have an entire half of the population who basically think that the people who are
• 2:00:55
  up in cherry pickers fixing the power lines are just an inconvenience on their way
• 2:01:01
  to go dress shopping. Yeah, yeah, that that's that's literally all they
• 2:01:08
  are. Same with the mechanic. You know, who fixes their car,
• 2:01:13
  who looks after their car? Uh? You know, like I look at
• 2:01:17
  the way some women treat their husbands, and you know, like, I'm
• 2:01:21
  not always nice to my husband. I'll give you that, but I'm always
• 2:01:27
  fair. I'm always fair, and you know so I but I'm I look
• 2:01:34
  at it and I think I see women treating men like absolute sacks of crab.
• 2:01:42
  And there they treat other women, right, other women who actually want
• 2:01:46
  to provide value for their to their men, they treat them like they are
• 2:01:57
  exploited victims. Well, oh, he doesn't do half the dish duty.
• 2:02:04
  Hey, you're stay at old fucking wife, Get your tits over the sink
• 2:02:09
  and wash some dishes. Okay, all right, men have been subject to
• 2:02:16
  like when we blame men, we make them undesirable as partners. Yeah,
• 2:02:26
  patriarchy theory, patriarchy conjecture, all of this makes men undesirable as partners.
• 2:02:31
  Okay, that's what we're doing as a society. And again, a successful
• 2:02:36
  society makes the most amount of men desirable as possible and doesn't just rely on
• 2:02:43
  the individual men to overcome a narrative of how he's undesirable as a partner,
• 2:02:48
  like, not just overcome you know that just the initial you know, selling
• 2:02:55
  himself to a woman overcome an entire societal narrative that makes him undesirable as partner.
• 2:03:00
  This is the first time in human history we've asked men to do that.
• 2:03:03
  Yeah. No, And and let's let's talk about desirability. Well,
• 2:03:09
  all that means is fitness. Yeah, if he's fit, then he's desirable,
• 2:03:16
  right, if he's more fit than her in certain ways, in certain
• 2:03:21
  aspects of her life that she's maybe not interested in pursuing. Maybe she's not
• 2:03:29
  interested in doing the physical work, maybe she's not interested in being the primary
• 2:03:34
  earner, maybe she's not interested in being all he needs to be more fit
• 2:03:39
  than her. And so we're basically crippling men, right, and then saying
• 2:03:46
  why won't these women? Why? Why are there are no fit men?
• 2:03:54
  Why won't why won't these women date these men in wheelchair? Why? Why?
• 2:04:01
  Why? When we cripple men's desirability with these with these narratives of blaming
• 2:04:06
  men, and then we ask men, well, why why we blame them
• 2:04:11
  for not being able to overcome Like literally a single man walking up to a
• 2:04:15
  woman who's heard all of her life how wretched it is that men are.
• 2:04:21
  Ye know, how horrible they are when they're not rapists, they're wife beaters.
• 2:04:26
  When they're wife beaters, they're selfish and neglectful. When not, they're
• 2:04:31
  entitled, Yeah, earn more money. All of this coming from every institution,
• 2:04:40
  every government body, you know, everywhere around her, every every newspaper,
• 2:04:45
  and her glossy mags in her choices of fiction, reading everything telling her
• 2:04:54
  that men are a bad choice. And we we look at that guy going
• 2:04:59
  up to that woman in the like, yeah, if you strike out,
• 2:05:01
  it's all you are fault. That's ridiculous. Yeah. No, it's like
• 2:05:09
  both of my sons have basically said it's not worth it. Right, they're
• 2:05:15
  they're both gainfully employed. One of them is like on a management trajectory,
• 2:05:19
  right, Like he's already a manager. He was promoted to management at nineteen,
• 2:05:26
  and he's on the upward in the pipeline to move up, and and
• 2:05:33
  he's just like, yeah, no, yeah, girl touched my penis a
• 2:05:38
  few times, and it's it's not worth it. So you know, honestly,
• 2:05:45
  I think he's got his priorities straight in a lot of ways. Yeah,
• 2:05:48
  okay, all right, let's let's do a little bit more and then
• 2:05:51
  I'll do another call out and then well, okay, I want to find
• 2:05:56
  out what the victimhood is like this has been when on pins and needles to
• 2:06:00
  find the turn of this's right now. I truly felt like Superwoman I did.
• 2:06:09
  I truly know through my YouTube videos, I've amassed almost fifteen million subscribers
• 2:06:14
  and three billion views. But more important than all of that, I managed
• 2:06:18
  to change one view. I challenged my grandfather's entrenched gender beliefs. Okay,
• 2:06:25
  there's the first time in my life. I remember thinking in that moment,
• 2:06:28
  oh, I finally got a seat at the table. Hello, props,
• 2:06:33
  alongside the men in the industry. I felt like that, Like, seriously,
• 2:06:39
  lady, at this point seven million subscribers, you are the table,
• 2:06:43
  now shut up. Yeah. How So, basically she said that because her
• 2:06:48
  grandfather allegedly not based on the things that she's actually said, but some kind
• 2:06:54
  of imputation of his attitude, which I guess is really unique for upper class
• 2:07:00
  Indian families because they all seem to want their daughters to be engineers and computer
• 2:07:05
  scientists. But you know, her, her family was unique. Her family
• 2:07:10
  was like, no, you need to be you need to tend the garden
• 2:07:15
  and slop the hogs. But we we don't want you to become a successful
• 2:07:18
  entertainer because you're a woman, not because successful entertaining is a crapshoot. No,
• 2:07:25
  okay, all right, so she's unique, her family is uniquely sexist,
• 2:07:30
  because yeah, how is it that, Brian, could you not move
• 2:07:33
  the cursor so much? It's really distracting. I'm sorry, I'm so autistic,
• 2:07:40
  but how is it that she is like in Indian and Chinese women like
• 2:07:45
  Indian, Asian and Muslim women comprise the majority of the women in STEM,
• 2:07:48
  not just getting degrees but getting jobs, and yet their families are all so
• 2:07:54
  freaking sexist relative to I guess Western people, Like, how does that work?
• 2:08:01
  All right? How does her culture have a unique problem with that while
• 2:08:05
  churning out the majority of the female STEM graduates and employees? How is that?
• 2:08:11
  How does this? Okay, square that square that round peg for me?
• 2:08:15
  But let's move past that. She has managed to make her life into
• 2:08:22
  victimhood. She has done this. She's in the one fucking percent and because
• 2:08:31
  she's a woman, she's a victim. Okay, but okay, let's let's
• 2:08:33
  listen, let's hear the rest of this. And encouraged by my grandfather's approval,
• 2:08:41
  I became more confident in my influence. I remember thinking, Oh,
• 2:08:45
  I'm gonna talk at this table. I'm gonna join the dinner conversation. You
• 2:08:48
  know, a lot of my male mentors make comments and posts about box office
• 2:08:52
  numbers and salaries and titles and those dollar dollar bills, So I thought the
• 2:08:58
  chime in here. I learned very quickly that whenever I spoke of money,
• 2:09:05
  people got a little little uncomfortable because you're probably at the time I pointed out
• 2:09:09
  the gender gap in the Forbes list for speaking about money. Oh my god,
• 2:09:15
  when you talk about money, people get uncomfortable. No, when you
• 2:09:18
  talk about your ideology? What's this? What's this novel thing? A gender
• 2:09:22
  gap? Does anyone? Has anyone ever heard of this before? I didn't
• 2:09:26
  know this. Oh yeah, really, says in her tweet two years ago.
• 2:09:33
  I was almost even between male and female. Last year it was just
• 2:09:37
  me, and this year there are no females at all, something I predicted
• 2:09:39
  in my Instagram caption last year. I'm concerned the digital space is going to
• 2:09:43
  repeat the mistakes of ancient industries. I hope I'm wrong. Okay, that's
• 2:09:48
  entirely driven by the audience or maybe the algorithm. I don't I'm just I
• 2:09:56
  just I'm fascinated by this idea. Oh are you saying there is a gender
• 2:10:03
  gap in pay I've never heard feminists talk about this before. No, no,
• 2:10:07
  I never heard it. And here's here's the thing. Right, she
• 2:10:13
  did literally she she was very successful on YouTube, Kate, don't start howling,
• 2:10:20
  Kevin, she was very successful on YouTube. And then she started talking
• 2:10:26
  about this ship and everybody got turned off. And then then oh, yeah,
• 2:10:31
  no, uh, because you know who doesn't talk market plier market plier?
• 2:10:43
  Like what does he do? He plays five nights at Freddy's and does
• 2:10:50
  the jump scares. Yeah, like that's what he does, Jake Paul.
• 2:10:56
  Oh, I'm sorry you don't match like the top three people on YouTube.
• 2:10:58
  I feel I weep for you. This must be patriarchy. Yeah. And
• 2:11:03
  then she then she like doubles down, and she goes down because it's like,
• 2:11:11
  yeah, no, nobody wants to hear you whining about how you're not
• 2:11:15
  as successful as people who are more devoted, more talented, more interesting,
• 2:11:20
  more appealable, I guess more appealing right than you are. And then you
• 2:11:30
  decide you're going to lecture everybody. You're gonna have your your late night talk
• 2:11:35
  show. You're gonna turn it into some kind of feminist podium, and nobody
• 2:11:39
  wants to hear it, right, because nobody wants to hear from a moral,
• 2:11:43
  busybody when they're supposed to be watching comedy. Right, That's just how
• 2:11:48
  it is. So I'm just like, oh, Jesus Christ, I'm just
• 2:11:54
  like, this is this is how she snatched defeat from the jaws of victory.
• 2:11:58
  Like she can't be happy with seven million and being part like most likely
• 2:12:05
  being a verily highly paid YouTube star. Nope, that's not sufficient. She
• 2:12:09
  now has to play the victim. I mean she was definitely monetized. I
• 2:12:13
  mean she's not saying anything contentious, like men are human beings, so blaming
• 2:12:20
  men for God's sake, Jesus spirits, we're blaming our men to the destruction
• 2:12:24
  of our society. Uh No, No, she's not saying anything contentious at
• 2:12:28
  all. And you know what, I cry me a fricking ridd of her,
• 2:12:35
  lady. Yeah, cry me a fricking ridder river. I'm done,
• 2:12:39
  We're done. Yeah, Yeah, I gotta I gotta thank you to give.
• 2:12:45
  I'm going to do another shout out. Guys. We aren't like we
• 2:12:48
  got one full like two days left. Must get this thing done, So
• 2:12:54
  please do go to feed the badget all com slash report, help us out
• 2:12:58
  in whatever way we can. I really appreciate it. I do not want
• 2:13:01
  to stop this because I feel like if I stop this, you know,
• 2:13:05
  there's nobody else that's going to pick up this baton of recognizing that we can't
• 2:13:11
  keep blaming men, not just because it's harmful to men, but also because
• 2:13:16
  we're basically destroying our future at this point, like we've we've gone as far
• 2:13:20
  as we can down this blind alley, and we are now smashing our head
• 2:13:24
  against the brick wall of the blind alley, being like Bob Man, why
• 2:13:28
  did men do this to us? Smash why did men do this to us?
• 2:13:31
  Okay, yeah, we gotta stop, all right, we gotta move
• 2:13:35
  on to something different. We gotta start thinking outside of the men blame box,
• 2:13:39
  you know. Yep, And if and this is a message that needs
• 2:13:45
  to be heard. It gives me a sense of hope in the future that
• 2:13:48
  you guys still continue to support it even though you know, we don't have
• 2:13:52
  sponsors or really big corporations at all interested in this. We have you,
• 2:13:58
  and that gives me hope. So please continue to do so. By going
• 2:14:01
  to feed the Badger dot com slash support and helping us out, you are
• 2:14:05
  making a difference. I mean, the world is trying to say to everyone
• 2:14:11
  that we can't make a difference. You know, we're small, we're insignificant,
• 2:14:15
  But I think we are making a difference by continuing to talk about these
• 2:14:18
  things comminuity, to be honest about men and women and a way forward that
• 2:14:22
  doesn't involve blaming men for everything. So feed the Badger dot com slash support.
• 2:14:28
  Please help us out so we can continue again. And if you want
• 2:14:31
  to give us a tip after the show is over, feed the Badger dot
• 2:14:33
  com slash just a tip. You get the full benefit of confusing us with
• 2:14:37
  an extensive little mini essay, and we get the full benefit of the money
• 2:14:43
  that you send. So feed the Badger dot com slash support to make sure
• 2:14:46
  that we can continue to do this. To give me hope for the future,
• 2:14:50
  maybe Karen and Brian will also feel that there's some hope for progress in
• 2:14:56
  these issues. If someone can at least support talking about them in this way.
• 2:15:01
  I mean, that's what's really critical. We're never going to deal with
• 2:15:05
  this problem if nobody can talk about it. Yeah right, it's just not
• 2:15:09
  it's just gonna disappear. And then we're gonna we're gonna be just another failed
• 2:15:13
  civilization and everybody's gonna look at our ruins and say, oh, I wonder
• 2:15:16
  what happened there, Paul. They seem pretty prosperous and then they just sort
• 2:15:22
  of collapsed. Okay, please, let's not do that. Let's be the
• 2:15:26
  Roman Empire. Let's rise up from the ashes of the defeat in the west
• 2:15:31
  and still go on for another fifteen hundred years in the east. Right there
• 2:15:35
  you go, that's what we want to do. So feed the Badger dot
• 2:15:37
  com slash support and make it happen, because it's up to you, and
• 2:15:41
  it's it's only you. It's it's that's it. It's you. All right,
• 2:15:46
  thank you for joining us, and I'll hand it back to Brian.
• 2:15:50
  All right, So I do have a super chow uh from anonymous for twenty
• 2:15:58
  five dollars, and they say the expectation of the presenter is to find the
• 2:16:05
  audience, not for the audience to find the speaker. I think that is
• 2:16:11
  something people have reversed in the era of social media. It's women, you're
• 2:16:15
  just you're thinking in the white male system. You have to stop. We're
• 2:16:18
  not living in the era of the white male system. We are now living
• 2:16:20
  in the era of the women's system, which is a feelings based system.
• 2:16:24
  I'm not kidding so anyway, and also shout out to the Rumble Gang before
• 2:16:30
  we wrap the show up. So if you guys liked this video, please
• 2:16:35
  hit like, subscribe. If you're not already subscribe, hit the BELF notifications,
• 2:16:39
  leave us a comment, let us know what you guys think about what
• 2:16:41
  we talked about in the video. There's a link to the source in the
• 2:16:43
  description if you want to put yourself through that yourself. And yeah, Doge
• 2:16:50
  is in the chat for the Rumble Gang and we'll talk to you all in
• 2:16:52
  the next video.