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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to to Hannah's on the wrong page. Sorry,
- 0:06Speaker 1: HBr Talk three twenty five Women's Suffrage Battle Girls versus Women.
- 0:14Speaker 1: To explain the title, a lot of zoomers might not know,
- 0:18Speaker 1: back in the nineties, when a lot of Gen xers
- 0:23Speaker 1: were in college or still in high school, there was
- 0:27Speaker 1: this thing called Riot Girls. We're in the media that
- 0:33Speaker 1: marketed to teenagers and young adult women, pretended that they
- 0:40Speaker 1: had just invented radical feminism for the first time, and
- 0:45Speaker 1: that they were the first women to complain so piteously
- 0:50Speaker 1: about such profound issues as people not letting you have
- 0:54Speaker 1: a band and other dumb shit that wasn't real complaints
- 1:01Speaker 1: because there there were already plenty of female bands. But
- 1:07Speaker 1: so that's that's where the girls come from. The Riot
- 1:11Speaker 1: Girls had more ours than I put in the title,
- 1:14Speaker 1: but I just didn't want a super long title.
- 1:17Speaker 2: And it was like a black thing. I think. I
- 1:19Speaker 2: think it's been culturally appropriated, maybe black girls, and now
- 1:24Speaker 2: girl is considered something that that black people said to
- 1:28Speaker 2: each other. But it's just an American thing. Yes, that's
- 1:32Speaker 2: how you spell girl in American with all and none
- 1:36Speaker 2: of the eyes.
- 1:37Speaker 1: I just remember the advent of riot Girls. Was one
- 1:41Speaker 1: of my first big clues that media periodicals, at least
- 1:46Speaker 1: for women were crap because they were marketing bullshit ideas
- 1:52Speaker 1: to us things that were obviously not true, and you, like,
- 1:57Speaker 1: you could see around you that the thing that they
- 2:00Speaker 1: were proposing were not true. And so I look at this.
- 2:06Speaker 1: I look at the suffragists in Suffragettes versus the anti suffragettes,
- 2:12Speaker 1: and I see three types of guynes centrists in these posts.
- 2:16Speaker 1: So that's that's why I put up this title, and
- 2:20Speaker 1: what we're going to read tonight. I'm gonna sort of
- 2:23Speaker 1: do a little recap just because we've been out for
- 2:26Speaker 1: a couple of weeks because of me, I had to
- 2:31Speaker 1: be healthy as a horse again. So there you go,
- 2:36Speaker 1: everybody that everybody that knows knows.
- 2:39Speaker 2: I need to get me some of that horse medication.
- 2:42Speaker 1: You're in the States, you can.
- 2:44Speaker 2: I'm no longer in the States. I am. I am
- 2:47Speaker 2: back in this hell hole in which I was born.
- 2:50Speaker 1: Well, then you can't. But yeah, I was gonna say,
- 2:55Speaker 1: if you were in the States, you could. But interestingly,
- 2:59Speaker 1: it is Russell Brand that's uh marketing it. So there's
- 3:05Speaker 1: a there's a kit you can get and it has
- 3:08Speaker 1: it can make you healthy as a horse, and then
- 3:11Speaker 1: it also can invite your friend Tammy over. So I
- 3:16Speaker 1: mean it has a couple of different things that address
- 3:18Speaker 1: a few different illnesses. I have never actually had to
- 3:24Speaker 1: get intimate with my friend Tammy. I handle influenza quite
- 3:31Speaker 1: quite well, actually, compared to respiratory illnesses, which kicked my
- 3:35Speaker 1: ass up the street and then back down for some
- 3:39Speaker 1: odd reason. Might have to do with the asthma. But yeah,
- 3:44Speaker 1: so I went. I went into overtime too much two
- 3:48Speaker 1: weeks ago, and and I couldn't do a show. And
- 3:53Speaker 1: it was because the illness that I ended up with
- 3:58Speaker 1: the next week was running ramp and through the organization
- 4:01Speaker 1: that I work with. And then after all my coworkers
- 4:08Speaker 1: came back to work, I got sick. So it all
- 4:11Speaker 1: worked out, we recovered. But anyway, as per usual, I
- 4:19Speaker 1: am your host Hanewallen here with the personification of perceptivity
- 4:23Speaker 1: Mike Stevenson and nonsense annihilator Lauren Brooks, and tonight we're
- 4:27Speaker 1: going to continue to talk about feminism's paradoxical claims about
- 4:32Speaker 1: girl power. And before we get into that, we gotta
- 4:36Speaker 1: do what we gotta do. As always, Honey Badger Radio
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- 5:35Speaker 1: the page. So to sort of recap what we've been
- 5:40Speaker 1: on the last couple weeks, like we've talked about how
- 5:44Speaker 1: the anti Suffragette movement was actually bigger than the Suffragette
- 5:50Speaker 1: movement for most of the time the suffragettes were doing
- 5:53Speaker 1: their thing, and the reasons that they had given, among
- 5:59Speaker 1: other things, were the fact that as nonpartisan citizens who
- 6:09Speaker 1: were not involved with political parties directly and who were
- 6:13Speaker 1: not voting based on political leanings and so on, women
- 6:18Speaker 1: had the power to in pre suffrage atte society, women
- 6:24Speaker 1: had the power to analyze basically how the laws benefited women,
- 6:30Speaker 1: how the laws benefited families, whether or not they thought
- 6:33Speaker 1: they were fair, and so on, and lobby not just
- 6:40Speaker 1: at the government level, but at the community level and
- 6:44Speaker 1: in the home for their perspective to be the common perspective.
- 6:52Speaker 1: And I'm gonna scroll up here a little bit because
- 6:55Speaker 1: there was a thing I think I highlighted it. I
- 6:58Speaker 1: don't know if it's still highlighted or not. In no so,
- 7:04Speaker 1: we talked a little bit last week about Harriet Beecher
- 7:08Speaker 1: Stowe's sister Catherine, who was an early anti Suffragette, who
- 7:13Speaker 1: talked about she was very dedicated anti in fact, but
- 7:17Speaker 1: she talked about that specific method she said her method
- 7:22Speaker 1: was of changing society was first convincing intelligent and benevolent
- 7:26Speaker 1: women that what I aimed at was right and desirable,
- 7:31Speaker 1: and then securing their influence with their fathers, brothers, and husbands,
- 7:35Speaker 1: and always with success. Her fifty years of campaigning convinced
- 7:39Speaker 1: her that all reasonable men are not only willing but
- 7:43Speaker 1: anxious to provide for the good of our sex. They
- 7:46Speaker 1: will gladly bestow all that is just reasonable and kind
- 7:51Speaker 1: whenever we unite in asking. And the importance of that
- 7:58Speaker 1: is essentially that with these women's clubs, these various groups
- 8:04Speaker 1: that women organized, in order to make this type of
- 8:08Speaker 1: difference and affect this type of change, you had to
- 8:13Speaker 1: be able to argue your case. You had to be
- 8:15Speaker 1: able to be persuasive. You had to be able to
- 8:18Speaker 1: get other women to see the value in what you
- 8:23Speaker 1: were arguing for and not see it as in any
- 8:28Speaker 1: way harmful to their families in their communities, because if
- 8:32Speaker 1: they looked at it and what they saw was, well,
- 8:37Speaker 1: this is going to create problem A, B and C,
- 8:40Speaker 1: you couldn't You couldn't persuade them to talk to their
- 8:44Speaker 1: husbands and say, hey, do this vote for this, pressure
- 8:47Speaker 1: politicians for this, and what we see today is a
- 8:51Speaker 1: minority of women who identify as feminists or who support
- 8:55Speaker 1: feminist organizations, controlling the political narrative around women and what
- 9:04Speaker 1: women want and what women think is best for their
- 9:08Speaker 1: families and their communities. And that ends up promoting the
- 9:16Speaker 1: brand of ism that people like to call it natural
- 9:21Speaker 1: guynes centrism. Why not natural kindess centrism, but guyness centrism,
- 9:25Speaker 1: where they refer to the brand of ism that is
- 9:27Speaker 1: more family oriented, That is more I would call it
- 9:34Speaker 1: child centrism because it's about preserving and protecting the family
- 9:39Speaker 1: for the purpose of giving your children the best upbringing.
- 9:43Speaker 1: That's not really guines centrism. Women's whole value within that
- 9:48Speaker 1: is determined by their value to the child, where modern
- 9:53Speaker 1: women are often viewed as having some sort of intrinsic
- 9:59Speaker 1: value over in a above all other people that has
- 10:02Speaker 1: nothing to do with children, and it's there's no reason
- 10:07Speaker 1: for it, right, And that's what feminists have been able
- 10:10Speaker 1: to do. And because they don't have to make rational arguments,
- 10:15Speaker 1: they can be entirely emotional and they can unite with
- 10:20Speaker 1: an establishment that has I guess control over your lifestyle
- 10:30Speaker 1: choices such that your lifestyle choices will be economically beneficial
- 10:34Speaker 1: to the establishment in mind, there.
- 10:38Speaker 2: Was never any reason for women and children first being
- 10:41Speaker 2: a thing, as though women and children I want them
- 10:45Speaker 2: the same. You may say, well a child needs them mother,
- 10:48Speaker 2: Well guess what else they need?
- 10:50Speaker 1: Yep, child needs their father too. But yeah, they've been
- 10:54Speaker 1: able to use that to promote establishment control, and they
- 11:00Speaker 1: I don't think they would have been able to do
- 11:01Speaker 1: that if they had not forced the vote on women.
- 11:06Speaker 1: And Yeah, women and children first has never been necessary.
- 11:09Speaker 1: You say children first, and whatever parent is the best
- 11:15Speaker 1: at being able to provide everything the child needs goes along.
- 11:21Speaker 1: In our situation, my family situation, if there had been
- 11:25Speaker 1: something that happened where one parent was going to have
- 11:30Speaker 1: to die to protect the rest of the family, it
- 11:32Speaker 1: would have been me, because if my husband's ex wife
- 11:39Speaker 1: had the situation of he's out of the picture now,
- 11:43Speaker 1: our son would never have been able to see his
- 11:45Speaker 1: sisters again until they had grown up, till all three
- 11:49Speaker 1: of them had grown up, and she might have succeeded
- 11:52Speaker 1: in alienating them from him. So they needed the kids
- 11:58Speaker 1: needed my husband to be there in order for them
- 12:01Speaker 1: to remain united as a family. And I actually had
- 12:08Speaker 1: nightmares about that circumstance coming up and in the nightmares,
- 12:14Speaker 1: faced that decision and came to that conclusion and then
- 12:18Speaker 1: had that discussion with my husband. If anything ever happens,
- 12:21Speaker 1: it's gonna have to be me like. He didn't like
- 12:24Speaker 1: that very much, but it was one of those things
- 12:27Speaker 1: you have to you have to know ahead of time.
- 12:30Speaker 1: You know something comes up, you know obviously if the
- 12:34Speaker 1: circumstances allow a choice, because sometimes they don't.
- 12:38Speaker 2: But if we're going to be as ergonomic fact, if
- 12:43Speaker 2: we're going to be as ergonomic as possible, then you
- 12:46Speaker 2: can't put a child in the lifeboat without one or
- 12:49Speaker 2: more of its parents because they'll just get sent to
- 12:51Speaker 2: an orphanage and get abused and bugger for the rest
- 12:54Speaker 2: of their lives. And that's that. That won't do anyone.
- 12:59Speaker 2: And women and children shouldn't be an entity, and men
- 13:03Speaker 2: and children shouldn't be an entity. It's not The phrase
- 13:07Speaker 2: men and children is not in anyone's vocabulary. It would
- 13:12Speaker 2: be nice if it was to counterbalance the women and
- 13:15Speaker 2: children thing, but that's not necessarily the ideal. I what
- 13:20Speaker 2: about a world where it's it's men and women first,
- 13:24Speaker 2: Because if the child dies, then then the man and
- 13:26Speaker 2: women could just produce another child, if it's just the
- 13:30Speaker 2: child that survives is gonna just fucking die on the
- 13:32Speaker 2: high seas because of hypothermiasm.
- 13:35Speaker 1: I'm joking, it is. It is something that people have said, though,
- 13:40Speaker 1: like and they've said it in seriousness as a reason
- 13:43Speaker 1: to excuse male disposability and child disposability, which is more
- 13:49Speaker 1: of a thing than female disposability. But the fact is
- 13:54Speaker 1: there there are women like me. I was lucky to
- 13:56Speaker 1: produce one. I really was. There's there are things I
- 14:00Speaker 1: could tell you about my reproductive history, like I've never
- 14:05Speaker 1: had an abortion or anything like that, but I've had
- 14:09Speaker 1: issues my whole life. I was really lucky to be
- 14:12Speaker 1: able to produce one, and I was also lucky to
- 14:16Speaker 1: survive producing one. And feminists like to say that pregnancy
- 14:21Speaker 1: is dangerous like that all the time, but it's not.
- 14:24Speaker 1: You have to have weird health conditions for it to
- 14:26Speaker 1: be that dangerous, and most of the time when it's
- 14:30Speaker 1: that dangerous, it's because the woman is overweight or does
- 14:34Speaker 1: not eat a proper diet when she's pregnant. But in
- 14:37Speaker 1: my case, it's genetic. And so yeah, there's the are
- 14:41Speaker 1: circumstances where that's not a possibility. But people don't think
- 14:45Speaker 1: about that when they say that, And like I said,
- 14:48Speaker 1: it's it might be a joke when Mike says it,
- 14:49Speaker 1: but it's it's serious when people who promote the idea
- 14:53Speaker 1: of natural gynocentrism say it, and it's it's really not
- 15:00Speaker 1: a valid argument. But in any case, they were under
- 15:04Speaker 1: the weeds already. The point that I wanted to make
- 15:07Speaker 1: with the recap is that we were we had gone
- 15:10Speaker 1: through that discussion of how women women have always been
- 15:15Speaker 1: able to use a type of collective bargaining with the
- 15:20Speaker 1: community as a means of influencing the community, and when
- 15:24Speaker 1: women were not involved in party politics, their their collective
- 15:31Speaker 1: bargaining was more rational, at least in terms of what
- 15:35Speaker 1: actually benefits women and families. And they were still guyinocentric,
- 15:43Speaker 1: but they were gynocentric in in ways that were closer
- 15:49Speaker 1: to that that child centric or pro natalist attitude as
- 15:56Speaker 1: opposed to women first because women, So we I think
- 16:05Speaker 1: stopped probably around I knew. I remember we looked at
- 16:12Speaker 1: this picture, So I think we stopped probably around one
- 16:15Speaker 1: of these two paragraphs, and I'm pretty sure it was
- 16:23Speaker 1: right after the description of Fig. Seven. So in the
- 16:27Speaker 1: era of Tammany Hall men's political activity involved deal making,
- 16:33Speaker 1: you know, patge, patronage, uh, personal attacks, bribery and corruption.
- 16:39Speaker 1: And remember, at the time that this was happening, I
- 16:45Speaker 1: think that ballots were still not secret. I think they
- 16:47Speaker 1: were still voting publicly by holding up colored pieces of
- 16:50Speaker 1: paper and stuff like that. So there was it wasn't
- 16:54Speaker 1: just you you have an opinion and then you vote
- 17:00Speaker 1: to support that opinion. It was you have an opinion,
- 17:03Speaker 1: and you vote publicly to let the public know that
- 17:07Speaker 1: you just used your vote to promote the candidate that's
- 17:13Speaker 1: going to make that opinion a reality. And if other
- 17:18Speaker 1: people disagree with you, they know you did that. So
- 17:24Speaker 1: there you go. So when women asked for that, they
- 17:28Speaker 1: were asking for their men to step up in public
- 17:32Speaker 1: and vote in public for what they wanted. Then lawmakers
- 17:38Speaker 1: the same thing. People paid attention to what their lawmakers
- 17:41Speaker 1: were doing. Like right now, there are Congress votes on
- 17:45Speaker 1: stuff every day, and I'll bet most people, without looking online,
- 17:53Speaker 1: couldn't tell me one single thing that Congress voted on recently.
- 18:00Speaker 1: Most Americans couldn't tell me one single thing that Congress
- 18:03Speaker 1: voted on recently.
- 18:07Speaker 2: So surely that's happened a bunch of times.
- 18:10Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, they're they're voting all kinds of shit
- 18:13Speaker 1: with regard to Ukraine. And actually, if it's all confirmed,
- 18:20Speaker 1: if the information is coming out is all confirmed, we
- 18:23Speaker 1: might preempt next week's show for a discussion about what
- 18:30Speaker 1: the second Trump shooter was doing. Because the more I
- 18:37Speaker 1: think about it, the more I realized that's a men's issue.
- 18:40Speaker 1: It's not necessarily an American men's issue, because he wasn't
- 18:44Speaker 1: doing it in America, but it is definitely a men's issue,
- 18:47Speaker 1: and it does involve the American establishment, or at least
- 18:51Speaker 1: it looks like it does. I want to see more
- 18:54Speaker 1: information and evidence come out before I say anything else
- 18:58Speaker 1: about that.
- 18:59Speaker 2: Reminder, we call it the second Trump shooter, but the's
- 19:02Speaker 2: two plus acts.
- 19:03Speaker 1: Yeah, the second known Trump shooter. But yeah, so, club
- 19:13Speaker 1: women and other women activists, as the anties pointed out,
- 19:16Speaker 1: were in a separate class. Because these respectable white women
- 19:19Speaker 1: we did read this before, were working for the good
- 19:23Speaker 1: of the community. Their motives were never questioned. It was
- 19:26Speaker 1: widely accepted that respectable married women occupied the moral high ground. Well,
- 19:30Speaker 1: politicians occupied the moral low ground. And I will remind
- 19:35Speaker 1: you that politicians were supposed to be respectable white men,
- 19:40Speaker 1: so they were still even back then, like this idea
- 19:43Speaker 1: that being old white males put men in a position
- 19:48Speaker 1: of greater power. That kills it right there. If married
- 19:52Speaker 1: women occupied a higher moral ground than politicians did, that
- 19:57Speaker 1: gave women more power than politicians. And of course the uh,
- 20:08Speaker 1: the racism of the day comes out in this as well,
- 20:10Speaker 1: because both sides kind of ignored the issues faced by
- 20:15Speaker 1: black women. And it goes on although lobbying by well,
- 20:24Speaker 1: I shouldn't say both sides, because there was Harriet Beecher
- 20:29Speaker 1: Stow in her book, so there had to be some
- 20:33Speaker 1: sentiment there among the anti suffragettes as well. While the
- 20:37Speaker 1: Suffragettes were quite busy throwing black women under the bus,
- 20:41Speaker 1: at least the white suffragettes were. Although although lobbying by
- 20:48Speaker 1: one million, seven hundred thousand organized clubs women resulted in
- 20:51Speaker 1: the passage of many new laws, there is a widespread
- 20:54Speaker 1: misconception that women were powerless to influence lawmakers before they
- 20:58Speaker 1: could vote. Anti suffrage women never accepted this view, and
- 21:01Speaker 1: as proof they repeatedly argued that laws favoring women, such
- 21:05Speaker 1: as those prohibiting night work and long hours for women,
- 21:09Speaker 1: at fact, women factory workers were better in non suffrage
- 21:13Speaker 1: states than in suffrage states, So they can't even argue
- 21:20Speaker 1: that without suffrage, without voting rights, kinocentrism was was compromised. Right.
- 21:28Speaker 1: There were the laws they're talking about only applied to women.
- 21:33Speaker 1: Laws to protect not laws to protect workers, right, Not
- 21:40Speaker 1: laws prohibiting night work for workers, not laws prohibiting long
- 21:45Speaker 1: hours for workers. Just women, just women who worked.
- 21:52Speaker 3: I think the craziest thing is that if you ask
- 21:54Speaker 3: the average feminists today, like when they think women couldn't work,
- 22:00Speaker 3: I bet you they would say something around this this
- 22:02Speaker 3: this era probably like you know later, they have no
- 22:06Speaker 3: clue that women were actually working during these times. They
- 22:09Speaker 3: could have jobs before they could vote.
- 22:12Speaker 2: You know.
- 22:12Speaker 3: It's just it's they don't understand the timeline, and it's
- 22:17Speaker 3: just crazy to me.
- 22:19Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's that's only based on the assumption that
- 22:23Speaker 2: work means working for someone else. History, work meant working
- 22:31Speaker 2: for your family. That's what That's what most people did,
- 22:34Speaker 2: not just women, but men. Yeah. You know, back in
- 22:37Speaker 2: ancient times, the idea of going to some office and
- 22:41Speaker 2: working for some for some fat bastard, for for for
- 22:46Speaker 2: minimum weight or some ship. It was never a thing
- 22:50Speaker 2: forever like working. Just men literally working, and yeah, and
- 22:55Speaker 2: then that that remained the case right up until the
- 22:59Speaker 2: twenty es century when when the government figured they could
- 23:02Speaker 2: also make women waste. You all, you all know the deal.
- 23:08Speaker 1: I I can't hear fat Bastard without especially in an
- 23:11Speaker 1: English accent, without thinking as the character.
- 23:18Speaker 2: Yes, I was a Scottish guy, I know.
- 23:22Speaker 1: But you still still heard the name with the English
- 23:27Speaker 1: accent said with an English accent multiple times in the film.
- 23:31Speaker 1: And it's horrible. Uh but but yeah, women women worked
- 23:37Speaker 1: in factories for for the whole time that factories existed,
- 23:42Speaker 1: and prior to the existence of factories, coal was used
- 23:46Speaker 1: for heating homes. There were women coal miners. But a
- 23:50Speaker 1: lot of people don't realize that. I think we might
- 23:53Speaker 1: even have done an episode about women coal miners. If
- 23:55Speaker 1: we haven't, I might have to. I know I did.
- 23:58Speaker 1: If I didn't do an episode, I didn't after show
- 24:00Speaker 1: about it. But I have talked to a lot of
- 24:04Speaker 1: feminists that think that before women, before World War two,
- 24:11Speaker 1: women couldn't work. Before Rosie the Riveter, women couldn't work,
- 24:16Speaker 1: And it's bullshit. Women always worked. Women didn't. Women were
- 24:23Speaker 1: not exempt from conditions of poverty and conditions of need.
- 24:30Speaker 1: And their labor being part of their family economy. Ever,
- 24:38Speaker 1: you know, maybe wealthy women, upper class women, their work
- 24:41Speaker 1: was not as hard or as necessary. But women who
- 24:51Speaker 1: were in the majority, they had to work. And I
- 24:57Speaker 1: had two great aunts who worked and textile mills when
- 25:01Speaker 1: they were young. That was like one of the most
- 25:06Speaker 1: dangerous places to work. And laundries were another one. Like,
- 25:11Speaker 1: you had these machines once the industrial age came along.
- 25:15Speaker 1: You had these machines that, if not handled properly, could
- 25:20Speaker 1: cause severe injury and even death in the process of
- 25:23Speaker 1: pressing people's clothes using heat and steam. And uh, there's
- 25:29Speaker 1: a great uh, there's a great Stephen King's story about
- 25:32Speaker 1: one of those called the Mangler. Really really uh not
- 25:37Speaker 1: a good not a good thing to read if you
- 25:40Speaker 1: know your family members worked with that stuff. But but yeah,
- 25:44Speaker 1: I know, I know Stephen King, so yeah, I can
- 25:47Speaker 1: only imagine how horrible it was. Yeh, it's a short story,
- 25:51Speaker 1: but it's a it's a great story. I mean, you know,
- 25:54Speaker 1: I don't like, huh did.
- 25:58Speaker 2: It involve any child? Right?
- 25:59Speaker 1: No? No, no, no, no, no.
- 26:01Speaker 2: He must be one of his better stories.
- 26:03Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he had a couple of stories that did.
- 26:07Speaker 2: Yeah, and and.
- 26:08Speaker 1: Actually, uh, one of them that involved involved child right
- 26:15Speaker 1: by another child.
- 26:19Speaker 2: I mean, I know the guy was on a great
- 26:20Speaker 2: deal of coke, but there's no amount of coke there's any.
- 26:24Speaker 1: He's a horror writer.
- 26:27Speaker 2: How do I even if you're a horror right, that's
- 26:29Speaker 2: that's beyond horror.
- 26:31Speaker 1: It is, but it's something that people, I don't know
- 26:36Speaker 1: people recognize that as horror. And there's there there's monsters
- 26:40Speaker 1: in the world, and then there's monsters.
- 26:43Speaker 2: How do you be able to write? How do you
- 26:45Speaker 2: bring yourself to a typewriter? How do your hands do that?
- 26:49Speaker 2: And at no point you go maybe maybe what I'm doing,
- 26:53Speaker 2: Maybe what I'm doing is wrong.
- 26:55Speaker 1: It's it's a tough thing. But if you look at it,
- 26:58Speaker 1: and I, like I said, I don't like his politics,
- 27:00Speaker 1: but if you look at what he actually wrote, probably
- 27:04Speaker 1: the only thing that normalized any type of sexuality among
- 27:12Speaker 1: children was the one in the scene in it where
- 27:15Speaker 1: all the kids had this ridiculous no reason orgy. Never
- 27:19Speaker 1: understood why that was in the book. But the rest
- 27:24Speaker 1: of what I've read from his stuff, and I've actually
- 27:28Speaker 1: read a lot of Stephen King up until probably when
- 27:33Speaker 1: I moved to Dayton and stopped having time to sit
- 27:36Speaker 1: and just read fiction. But it's presented as horror. It's
- 27:46Speaker 1: presented as this should never happen type of stuff where
- 27:51Speaker 1: the situation is horrifying for the person experiencing it. And
- 27:57Speaker 1: in it this scene where the child rapes the other
- 28:03Speaker 1: child and immediately afterward he gets killed by something that
- 28:07Speaker 1: is similar to like if you play D and D,
- 28:10Speaker 1: similar to a sturge. It's like a giant mosquito thing
- 28:15Speaker 1: that he gets attacked by a whole bunch of them.
- 28:19Speaker 1: And so it's one of those I kind of think
- 28:22Speaker 1: that he put that in there so that it wouldn't
- 28:26Speaker 1: be you're supposed to not sympathize with that character. Well,
- 28:29Speaker 1: he made how do you make a child into a monster?
- 28:32Speaker 1: You make him a murderer, or you make him do
- 28:36Speaker 1: some other horrific, horrible thing. And I think that's probably
- 28:41Speaker 1: what he was trying to do. But I mean, Stephen
- 28:44Speaker 1: King's not the only author that did that. If you
- 28:47Speaker 1: think that Stephen King is bad, you should read some
- 28:50Speaker 1: peers Anthony Firefly. Somebody recommended me that book because they
- 28:56Speaker 1: thought I would like it. There are things that book
- 29:00Speaker 1: that I will say absolutely had difficulty digesting. And I
- 29:08Speaker 1: don't think that book should actually exist. There aren't very
- 29:12Speaker 1: many books I would say that about. I haven't even
- 29:15Speaker 1: said that about it. I think I think that scene
- 29:21Speaker 1: in it was unnecessary, but the rest of the book
- 29:24Speaker 1: was kind of an interesting treatise on good versus evil.
- 29:30Speaker 2: Whenever you watch a film that's based on a book,
- 29:32Speaker 2: which most films are, yeah, well, a load of the
- 29:35Speaker 2: nerds go, oh, it's not like it is in the book. Good.
- 29:38Speaker 2: I'm glad it's not like it isn't the book. Books
- 29:40Speaker 2: are the most degenerate form of entertainment that has ever existed,
- 29:45Speaker 2: And it goes right back to the ancient books on
- 29:48Speaker 2: which a bunch of religions are based on. A lot
- 29:50Speaker 2: of them. Have, you know, stories of adults raping other
- 29:53Speaker 2: adults and adults raping children. But even they don't have
- 29:56Speaker 2: stories of children raping children. I mean, even the Koran's
- 30:00Speaker 2: as bad as even whatever you're talking about.
- 30:07Speaker 1: But as far as books being degenerated, it does kind
- 30:09Speaker 1: of depend on the book. You can say. There's there's
- 30:13Speaker 1: a lot of modern writers that you can absolutely say
- 30:16Speaker 1: that about, maybe some older writers, but I I will
- 30:21Speaker 1: defend Tolkien. No, you can't say that about him very
- 30:27Speaker 1: descriptive but not and and some people might find him
- 30:32Speaker 1: overly descriptive, but everything all that description played out beautifully
- 30:38Speaker 1: in the movies, And the only thing that I would
- 30:43Speaker 1: say about that is it there there are aspects of
- 30:46Speaker 1: the book that you couldn't have put into movies for
- 30:49Speaker 1: a modern audience, Like Tom Bombadil, everybody would have been
- 30:53Speaker 1: sitting in the the theater going geek. But it was
- 30:59Speaker 1: great And it doesn't have to be exactly the same
- 31:02Speaker 1: because you're looking at it from a visual media perspective
- 31:06Speaker 1: as opposed to a print media perspective. There's a lot
- 31:08Speaker 1: of they say a picture paints a thousand words, but
- 31:14Speaker 1: a picture may only paint a thousand words when the
- 31:17Speaker 1: story was ten thousand words long, and not all of
- 31:20Speaker 1: them are necessary if you're looking at the picture. A
- 31:24Speaker 1: lot of them are things that are implied even if
- 31:27Speaker 1: they're not painted by the picture. So that said, back
- 31:38Speaker 1: to the mangler and women working this issue. Like I said,
- 31:44Speaker 1: it's something that I've discussed with feminists on irregular because
- 31:48Speaker 1: of the wage gap myth and the divorce rape discussion
- 31:54Speaker 1: where men are taken for everything they have because women
- 31:57Speaker 1: play victim of their own choices. Oh yes, I cheated
- 32:01Speaker 1: on him, and I'm leaving him and I'm taking the children.
- 32:05Speaker 1: But I just can't handle myself financially. And it's his
- 32:09Speaker 1: fault because he didn't make me pay my half of
- 32:13Speaker 1: the living expenses, so I didn't have to have a job,
- 32:17Speaker 1: and now I don't know how to have one. So
- 32:19Speaker 1: you know, he's got to pay me for the rest
- 32:20Speaker 1: of his life. Bullshit. Women have worked throughout history. There's
- 32:27Speaker 1: not been a time when women were not able to work.
- 32:30Speaker 1: There's not been a time when women were not allowed
- 32:33Speaker 1: to work. And there's no excuse for women today to
- 32:37Speaker 1: not know how to work. So there you go. From
- 32:44Speaker 1: nineteen oh eight to nineteen ten, fifty four laws to
- 32:47Speaker 1: protect just women workers, not workers, but just women workers
- 32:53Speaker 1: were enacted in non suffrage states, versus only one law
- 32:59Speaker 1: in suffrage states. According to many Bronson missus Arthur M.
- 33:03Speaker 1: Dodge made similar points many times in the Women's Protest
- 33:08Speaker 1: against women's suffrage. She argued that women could get the
- 33:10Speaker 1: best results from lawmakers by working with them for the
- 33:13Speaker 1: common good, not by dividing among party lines, even without voting.
- 33:19Speaker 1: So women back in the day before the Suffragettes were
- 33:23Speaker 1: quite aware of the uniparty. That's my that's that's my
- 33:29Speaker 1: supposition here.
- 33:31Speaker 2: It's it's it's like what I what I said in
- 33:35Speaker 2: a video a long time, a long time ago. If
- 33:36Speaker 2: it wasn't for feminism, then we might have never discovered centrism,
- 33:42Speaker 2: because feminism was what took centrism too far, is what
- 33:46Speaker 2: politicized it, and and and and made it so gloated
- 33:51Speaker 2: and unforgivable that even the sins started noticing. One hundred
- 33:58Speaker 2: years into this thousand years of darkness and people are
- 34:02Speaker 2: starting to notice. If if it wasn't for these excesses,
- 34:06Speaker 2: then it would have kept on going. But I suppose
- 34:09Speaker 2: it would have kept on going until the inevitable point
- 34:12Speaker 2: that it went too far. And I guess if you
- 34:17Speaker 2: might say, feminism is as inevitable as kind of centrism was,
- 34:21Speaker 2: and it's it's it's sort of proportional with them, with
- 34:27Speaker 2: how decutent, decadent, and lazy a society becomes, that the
- 34:34Speaker 2: first people to experience the double edged sword of this
- 34:40Speaker 2: decadence will be it will be women. Because well, here
- 34:47Speaker 2: here is where I encounter the the controversial idea of
- 34:53Speaker 2: how natural some kind of kind of centrism is, and
- 34:57Speaker 2: if I'm calling it guin of centrism, then in many
- 35:00Speaker 2: interpretations it's not natural. But in so far as women
- 35:04Speaker 2: are the evolutionary bottleneck, it's And it sounds to reason
- 35:08Speaker 2: a species in which women's protection is prioritize over men's
- 35:15Speaker 2: is destined to have better odds of survival than a
- 35:21Speaker 2: species that doesn't do that, at least in the mammalian
- 35:27Speaker 2: genus or whatever we call it. But to that extent,
- 35:32Speaker 2: there is such a thing as biological I don't even
- 35:36Speaker 2: want to say gay of centrism because a lot of
- 35:38Speaker 2: you will get pissed off with me if I say that.
- 35:40Speaker 2: But well, you know what I mean.
- 35:41Speaker 1: You could say that natal results in a sort of
- 35:46Speaker 1: pseudo gyn of centrism, where in circumstances where it benefits
- 35:50Speaker 1: the child to prioritize women's safety, or where it benefits
- 35:55Speaker 1: reproduction to prioritize women's safety, then it gets done. But
- 36:01Speaker 1: it still would be natalism, if that makes sense. Yes,
- 36:14Speaker 1: so we didn't one. Let's see here, Even without voting,
- 36:20Speaker 1: club women around nineteen hundred actively supported political candidates, lobbied
- 36:25Speaker 1: for better laws, circulated petitions, and conducted educational campaigns. On
- 36:30Speaker 1: dozens of issues, but without connections to any political party.
- 36:35Speaker 1: So basically, they would if they liked what the Democrat
- 36:41Speaker 1: was saying, they would promote the Democrat. If they liked
- 36:44Speaker 1: what the Republican was saying, they would promote the Republican.
- 36:48Speaker 1: And the thing that people don't realize is there have
- 36:51Speaker 1: been progressives and individualists, because progressives are social and economic
- 37:01Speaker 1: collectivists and individualists are not. But there have been progressives
- 37:06Speaker 1: and individualists in both parties for well since before the
- 37:12Speaker 1: twentieth century. And so they if women were lobbying, they
- 37:17Speaker 1: were probably lobbying to progressives for most of the pro
- 37:23Speaker 1: woman things, and they wouldn't have been lobbying so much
- 37:29Speaker 1: to individualists or libertarian type people simply because we're talking
- 37:35Speaker 1: and greater restriction here on relationships between the individual and
- 37:41Speaker 1: the employer, relationships between the individual and the bank, family relationships,
- 37:47Speaker 1: community relationships, and things like that. So, but people understood
- 37:55Speaker 1: the distinction between women having influence over lawmakers as club
- 37:59Speaker 1: women did and entering the male world of partisan politics
- 38:03Speaker 1: as suffragists advocated. It is an important point and not
- 38:07Speaker 1: one of the fifteen college textbooks makes this distinction. So basically,
- 38:13Speaker 1: that's been erased from history, the fact that women had
- 38:17Speaker 1: all that power and influence, and the fact that they
- 38:20Speaker 1: had to be at least slightly more rational in their
- 38:26Speaker 1: exercise of it. They had to at least convince the
- 38:30Speaker 1: people that they were trying to persuade, that being not
- 38:33Speaker 1: just the politicians, but the community, which is important, that
- 38:38Speaker 1: what they were asking for was beneficial to not just
- 38:43Speaker 1: a few women, but families in general, and the community,
- 38:48Speaker 1: the greater community, that it would result in something good
- 38:51Speaker 1: without a bunch of drawbacks. Right, And today you don't
- 38:56Speaker 1: have that situation. When feminists wants something, they don't have
- 38:59Speaker 1: to can convince the public. They only have to convince legislators.
- 39:03Speaker 1: They only have to convince legislators that women are going
- 39:06Speaker 1: to vote for this right, And they don't have to
- 39:10Speaker 1: convince men at all. They only have to convince enough
- 39:15Speaker 1: women to vote as a big voting block that it
- 39:19Speaker 1: won't matter if men are not convinced, and they've been
- 39:23Speaker 1: able to do that consistently for decades. Suffragists regularly ridiculed
- 39:36Speaker 1: club women so called backdoor method of influencing lawmakers by
- 39:40Speaker 1: requesting changes rather than by voting. But Massachusetts anti Alice
- 39:46Speaker 1: George disagreed that women's nonpartisan methods were either ineffective or indirect.
- 39:51Speaker 1: It is the men who, because they belong to this
- 39:54Speaker 1: or that party, must placate some men or on the
- 39:58Speaker 1: other side. Not We we go straight to the governor,
- 40:01Speaker 1: to the chairman of the committee, to the mayor, whoever
- 40:03Speaker 1: is in highest authority. We have no favors to give
- 40:06Speaker 1: and none to ask. If there is anything indirect about this,
- 40:10Speaker 1: it is beyond my powers of perception. Because this method
- 40:17Speaker 1: of influencing lawmakers is frequently overlooked. There's a misconception that
- 40:21Speaker 1: anties wanted women to be powerless, and here we have.
- 40:27Speaker 2: This is where we bring up the horrible specter of
- 40:30Speaker 2: democracy and why it's not necessarily the best way to
- 40:34Speaker 2: do these because democracy gives people the illusion of power,
- 40:38Speaker 2: the illusion of control. Like none of this was an
- 40:42Speaker 2: issue before there was such a thing as a government.
- 40:45Speaker 2: There was only once people were well. Obviously men the
- 40:51Speaker 2: most landowners, and there were all other reasons that most
- 40:54Speaker 2: of them. The idea that that anyone other than the
- 41:01Speaker 2: king could could influence the way that society was run
- 41:08Speaker 2: only only only put it in motion that the powers
- 41:12Speaker 2: that be could simply blame the peasants for everything that
- 41:17Speaker 2: went wrong. And this, this is this is what's being
- 41:19Speaker 2: discussed in this article. The idea that well, if if
- 41:24Speaker 2: if men can vote, and if there's one more man
- 41:27Speaker 2: who can vote, then there then there are women who
- 41:29Speaker 2: can vote. Then that means there is that men have
- 41:33Speaker 2: tangibly more power than women do, completely ignoring what the
- 41:38Speaker 2: what the suffragists, not suffragettes, suffragists, We're talking about this
- 41:42Speaker 2: this this less tangible power. Maybe tangible is the wrong
- 41:46Speaker 2: because voting isn't tangible either, But this idea that voting
- 41:51Speaker 2: gives anyone power is what set the stage for feminism
- 41:57Speaker 2: in the first place. Voting doesn't give people power, it
- 42:02Speaker 2: just it just gives power to this, to this middle
- 42:09Speaker 2: man that is that is that that is the government,
- 42:15Speaker 2: and the idea that the government gives more power to
- 42:19Speaker 2: the peasants than the absolute monarchy ever did, which is
- 42:24Speaker 2: very difficult to get this through to people, especially people
- 42:27Speaker 2: who've lived in republics and whose ancestors have lived in
- 42:30Speaker 2: republics for the last couple of couple of centuries or so.
- 42:36Speaker 2: It's very difficult to break people out of this because
- 42:38Speaker 2: there's been no this thing as an absolute monarchy in
- 42:40Speaker 2: almost any country in the world the centuries, with the
- 42:43Speaker 2: possible excession of Saudi Arabia, and I'm certainly not going
- 42:46Speaker 2: to advocate for their system of.
- 42:51Speaker 1: Well, you could eliminate democratic government and democracy would still exist.
- 42:58Speaker 1: It wouldn't exist in terms of voting and voting systems.
- 43:02Speaker 1: What would exist in terms of when a group of people,
- 43:08Speaker 1: like a community or even just a big family has
- 43:13Speaker 1: to take action as a group, they're gonna end up
- 43:16Speaker 1: discussing and debating it and then deciding on a unified
- 43:21Speaker 1: course of action, or they're gonna split up. And those
- 43:25Speaker 1: are those are basically the two options. And in order
- 43:29Speaker 1: for families to maintain unity, a lot of times that
- 43:34Speaker 1: type of democracy results in uh a great deal of
- 43:41Speaker 1: you know, compromised by the younger set or the set
- 43:46Speaker 1: that the people within the family or the community that
- 43:50Speaker 1: are viewed as less credible or less trustworthy, and uh
- 43:56Speaker 1: more pressure on people that are viewed as more credible
- 43:59Speaker 1: and more trustworth because they've earned it to maintain that
- 44:04Speaker 1: credibility and that trustworthiness. So there's a there's democracy with
- 44:08Speaker 1: some accountability to it. If there's there's no democratic government system,
- 44:14Speaker 1: if there's no people at the top that can just
- 44:19Speaker 1: impose through some sort of authority. This is the ultimate
- 44:24Speaker 1: uh reading of this democratic decision. All Right, you guys
- 44:28Speaker 1: all voted for people who said they wanted to make
- 44:31Speaker 1: a law that would stop discrimination at universities. Okay, we're
- 44:36Speaker 1: going to create a law and then we're going to
- 44:38Speaker 1: spend the next fifty years interpreting it in the worst
- 44:43Speaker 1: possible ways for the opposite sex. But but you know,
- 44:50Speaker 1: that's that's just me going off about the unnecessary nature
- 44:56Speaker 1: of government again, Like, I don't think you can sell
- 45:00Speaker 1: that by having a person that's better than everybody else
- 45:04Speaker 1: putting them in charge and giving them military power and
- 45:08Speaker 1: power over currency. I think you could. You'd have to
- 45:11Speaker 1: solve it by making everyone equally accountable and you know,
- 45:17Speaker 1: or at least as accountable as the level of persuasive
- 45:20Speaker 1: power they have in society, where there's a balance between
- 45:24Speaker 1: their persuasive power and their accountability.
- 45:30Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's that's all very true. But at the
- 45:33Speaker 2: same time, the very idea that men have power because
- 45:38Speaker 2: men have the vote is I know this is held
- 45:42Speaker 2: in high regard, especially by those who keep talking about
- 45:45Speaker 2: our democracy and threats to our democracy. The very concept
- 45:51Speaker 2: is flawed because it's presented with the idea that such
- 45:57Speaker 2: a system cannot be corrupt, even though a great deal
- 46:01Speaker 2: of women did have the vote. It's it's still suggested
- 46:04Speaker 2: to us that because more men had the vote, men
- 46:09Speaker 2: had more political influence, and and and and that's it's
- 46:16Speaker 2: it's it's it's a fallacy in so many ways. I
- 46:20Speaker 2: I guess it took a couple of centuries for it
- 46:23Speaker 2: to really for it, for it to come to fruition,
- 46:28Speaker 2: in in in the conscience of the general public, that
- 46:31Speaker 2: the vote does not necessarily mean power of any of
- 46:39Speaker 2: any real significance, especially not compared with with with the
- 46:45Speaker 2: power of influence that that has long since existed uh
- 46:52Speaker 2: before the vote. Uh. Because civilization, for the longest time
- 46:58Speaker 2: has been held together by but by the families that
- 47:01Speaker 2: make it up. Society was made entirely of families for
- 47:08Speaker 2: most of human existence, and they and they and they
- 47:12Speaker 2: conducted what happened in society. And families have never been patriarchal, never,
- 47:19Speaker 2: not not even in in in in Greeks or Romans,
- 47:23Speaker 2: or any of the horror stories that the certain feminist
- 47:27Speaker 2: historians would tell us. Now. When society is run by families.
- 47:31Speaker 2: It very much is a gender egalitarian thing because because
- 47:37Speaker 2: because men love women, and especially the women who they
- 47:42Speaker 2: fall in love with them, choose to have families with
- 47:45Speaker 2: and and for the longest time, women were in love
- 47:48Speaker 2: with men in a similar way, maybe more out of
- 47:53Speaker 2: necessity than anything else. It just goes to show you
- 47:58Speaker 2: that things have changed when those necessities change, or maybe
- 48:01Speaker 2: those necessities only changed because of government influence and and
- 48:06Speaker 2: and that the government influence in question has always leaned
- 48:11Speaker 2: into human nature or indeed animal nature, that that there
- 48:18Speaker 2: is this little thread where for better or worse, men
- 48:24Speaker 2: lean towards to watch towards simplitude. But it's I say,
- 48:28Speaker 2: for better or worse, it's for worse that men lean
- 48:30Speaker 2: towards simplitude. But this is, this is something that needs
- 48:35Speaker 2: to be curtailed by by public sentiment. And and the
- 48:42Speaker 2: existence of the government has never curtailed this u this sentiment.
- 48:47Speaker 2: It is only it is only preyed on on on
- 48:52Speaker 2: men's simplitude for want of a better word, Shall I
- 48:58Speaker 2: bring up romantic chivalry at any point, because that's clearly
- 49:03Speaker 2: what I'm talking about.
- 49:04Speaker 1: Yeah, actually, that is that is a good point. And
- 49:08Speaker 1: you know, with with romantic chivalry comes the need to
- 49:13Speaker 1: mention women's safety net addiction, and like, that's a big
- 49:19Speaker 1: part of the problem. If women were exactly the same
- 49:25Speaker 1: psychological makeup as men in terms of risk taking and
- 49:31Speaker 1: for for a reward and recognizing the value of independence
- 49:37Speaker 1: over collectivism and so on, then you wouldn't have such
- 49:44Speaker 1: of a big, such a big deal with regard to
- 49:49Speaker 1: the safety net addiction, because that women wouldn't have that.
- 49:53Speaker 1: Women wouldn't have the safety net addiction. Women would have
- 49:59Speaker 1: more more more interest in maintaining their family's capability to
- 50:05Speaker 1: be their own safety net, to take care of themselves,
- 50:09Speaker 1: protect and provide for themselves, and they wouldn't want to
- 50:12Speaker 1: give up their families security as a unit and their
- 50:18Speaker 1: famili's freedom to act in their own interests right and
- 50:24Speaker 1: in order to get some sort of government protection and
- 50:30Speaker 1: safety net benefits. But unfortunately, men and women do not
- 50:34Speaker 1: have the same psychological makeup. Men and women are very
- 50:38Speaker 1: different psychologically, and women do have this tendency to not
- 50:44Speaker 1: want to engage in risk taking, and it's exacerbated by
- 50:50Speaker 1: the way girls are brought up, where he's sort of
- 50:57Speaker 1: girls are sort of taught that it's unlady like to
- 51:02Speaker 1: engage in any kind of risk taking like I When
- 51:06Speaker 1: I was a kid, I experienced this because we had
- 51:09Speaker 1: a monkey bars at the park Jungle gym, and it
- 51:13Speaker 1: had it was a big square shaped unit that had
- 51:18Speaker 1: a big empty space in the middle, and on one
- 51:21Speaker 1: side you had a chin up bar that was maybe
- 51:23Speaker 1: like four feet off the ground and on the other
- 51:26Speaker 1: side of it about maybe ten or fifteen feet away.
- 51:30Speaker 1: It's not huge or anything. There was a handoverhand bar.
- 51:35Speaker 1: It's like one of those you know, it looks like
- 51:37Speaker 1: somebody laid a ladder out, you know, horizontally on top
- 51:42Speaker 1: so that you know, you take where the rungs are
- 51:45Speaker 1: and you you go across it by swinging your arms,
- 51:50Speaker 1: you know, forward and then swinging your body to catch
- 51:54Speaker 1: the next rung. And of course the sidebars are slightly larger.
- 52:00Speaker 1: And when I was a little kid, there was a
- 52:01Speaker 1: boy who was a little older than me that used
- 52:05Speaker 1: to just beat everybody at monkey bar tag. We used
- 52:08Speaker 1: to play monkey bar tag all the time. The rule
- 52:10Speaker 1: was if you were it, you could go on the
- 52:13Speaker 1: bars or you could be on the ground, but if
- 52:15Speaker 1: you were not it, you had to stay on the bars.
- 52:17Speaker 1: If you touch the ground, you were it. And if
- 52:19Speaker 1: you got tag, you were it. And this one boy
- 52:21Speaker 1: never got to be it.
- 52:23Speaker 3: That sounds like so much fun.
- 52:25Speaker 1: It was the best game. I loved it, but this
- 52:29Speaker 1: one boy never never was it. And part of the
- 52:31Speaker 1: reason was he would get up on that chin up bar,
- 52:35Speaker 1: that four foot high chin up bar, and he would
- 52:38Speaker 1: wait until somebody was coming after him, and then he
- 52:42Speaker 1: would jump over them and grab the handover hand, the
- 52:46Speaker 1: sidebars on the handover hand, and slide himself up in
- 52:51Speaker 1: between the rungs and get on top. And now he's
- 52:55Speaker 1: ten feet up and none of the kids can reach him,
- 52:58Speaker 1: and they have to climb up there to get at
- 53:00Speaker 1: him if they want to tag him. And I decided
- 53:03Speaker 1: I was going to learn how to do that, which
- 53:05Speaker 1: entailed a lot of falling down until I finally jumped
- 53:10Speaker 1: hard enough and far enough to reach those bars. And
- 53:15Speaker 1: you know, you can fall down a lot like that.
- 53:17Speaker 1: From a height of four feet, that's not that bad.
- 53:19Speaker 1: Even from a height of ten feet, it's not really
- 53:20Speaker 1: that bad as long as you know how to roll
- 53:22Speaker 1: when you fall. And of course, since I played football
- 53:26Speaker 1: with the boys, I knew how to roll when I fell.
- 53:29Speaker 2: Kids have soft bones anyway, they can handle it. I'm
- 53:32Speaker 2: not saying you should throw children.
- 53:35Speaker 1: I had the benefit of incredibly flexible joints too, so
- 53:40Speaker 1: when I fell, I didn't dislocate anything permanently or you know,
- 53:45Speaker 1: I was a lot more flexible. I could put both
- 53:49Speaker 1: feet behind my head, over my shoulders behind my head
- 53:53Speaker 1: and do a handstand and walk around with my butt
- 53:55Speaker 1: in the air and make the other kids laugh.
- 53:57Speaker 2: I was.
- 53:58Speaker 1: I was a dork, but you know, I did that
- 54:01Speaker 1: kind of risk taking and stuff. And I would run
- 54:06Speaker 1: back and forth on top of the hand over hand
- 54:08Speaker 1: and run back and forth on top of the swing set,
- 54:11Speaker 1: and I had no fear that I was going to fall.
- 54:13Speaker 1: My balance was great. It's not now. It really sucks now,
- 54:17Speaker 1: but at the time it was great. And there were
- 54:20Speaker 1: women in the neighborhood that kind of complained to my
- 54:24Speaker 1: mom that I was a bad example to the other girls.
- 54:28Speaker 1: My Mom's like, why why is she a bad example
- 54:31Speaker 1: to the other girls? Are you complaining that, you know,
- 54:33Speaker 1: make us a bad example to the other girls. He's
- 54:35Speaker 1: doing it, well, he's not one of the other girls.
- 54:38Speaker 1: Boys do stuff like that. You know. It was never
- 54:41Speaker 1: the men. It was always other women. Oh don't. I
- 54:44Speaker 1: don't want my daughter to see her doing that. Okay, well,
- 54:46Speaker 1: then tell your daughters stay away from the park, you know,
- 54:49Speaker 1: keep her at home if you're going to shelter her
- 54:51Speaker 1: like that, or tell her that if she can't balance
- 54:54Speaker 1: like Hannah, she shouldn't try to do what Hannah does.
- 54:57Speaker 1: She should do what she does well instead. You know,
- 55:01Speaker 1: that's that's just the way things are. But but yeah,
- 55:06Speaker 1: women or girls are often raised where that, you know,
- 55:10Speaker 1: that kind of risk taking, that kind of like, hey,
- 55:12Speaker 1: this is a lot of fun. I'm gonna try to
- 55:14Speaker 1: do it harder and bigger, farther, riskier, doing things like
- 55:20Speaker 1: riding the couch cushions down the stairway and out the door,
- 55:26Speaker 1: which we also got in trouble for. We didn't get hurt,
- 55:30Speaker 1: you know, but that that kind of stuff. Girls are
- 55:34Speaker 1: discouraged from doing stuff like that by women. Men don't
- 55:39Speaker 1: factor into that. Boys don't factor into that. It's all
- 55:42Speaker 1: women policing girls. And what happens is then they grow
- 55:45Speaker 1: up and they're afraid. Right. I was raised to understand
- 55:52Speaker 1: if I had a job and I felt trapped in it,
- 55:56Speaker 1: it was terrible and I couldn't stand it. You were
- 55:58Speaker 1: looking for a job when you found that one, So
- 56:01Speaker 1: just find another job, find something that suits you, that
- 56:05Speaker 1: that you can contribute to and feel like you're actually
- 56:09Speaker 1: accomplishing something for yourself and for your employer. And you know,
- 56:15Speaker 1: so there were a lot of times where I took
- 56:17Speaker 1: the risk of asking for a raise, where you know,
- 56:23Speaker 1: a lot of women would be afraid to lose their
- 56:25Speaker 1: job because they asked for a raise. And you know,
- 56:29Speaker 1: I took the risk of fighting back against policy that
- 56:32Speaker 1: I thought was ridiculous or that was bad for the
- 56:36Speaker 1: employee or bad for the company, or just a waste.
- 56:40Speaker 1: And I've done that at pretty much every job I've
- 56:44Speaker 1: been at. I've been the squeaky wheel, you know, where
- 56:48Speaker 1: if something dumb, things like I had a company that
- 56:53Speaker 1: had us fill out paperwork that measured a a an
- 56:59Speaker 1: aspect of saying right. You filled out the paperwork and
- 57:03Speaker 1: then you stuck it in a tote, in a folder
- 57:06Speaker 1: in a tote, and then a person from the company
- 57:09Speaker 1: would come in and make sure that there were so
- 57:12Speaker 1: many weeks worth of papers in that tote they didn't
- 57:15Speaker 1: read them, and then those papers got thrown away and
- 57:19Speaker 1: there was no evaluating patterns. There was no, here's what
- 57:23Speaker 1: you do if it gets the number is too big
- 57:25Speaker 1: or too small. There was there was nothing to do
- 57:28Speaker 1: with those numbers. They were just calculated and then thrown away,
- 57:32Speaker 1: And so I made it. I made an email to
- 57:36Speaker 1: the company about it, and my boss found out and
- 57:39Speaker 1: she was like, Oh, that's going to get you in trouble.
- 57:41Speaker 1: They're not going to like that. You complained about that,
- 57:43Speaker 1: but she didn't know what I wrote in the email.
- 57:46Speaker 1: I calculated the number of minutes a day and how
- 57:50Speaker 1: many minutes that added up to a week, and how
- 57:53Speaker 1: how many minutes a week that added up to for
- 57:58Speaker 1: the whole company, fifteen hundred stores, and said, you're paying
- 58:04Speaker 1: this much money if you just pay minimum wage to
- 58:08Speaker 1: every single employee that does this, which I know you don't,
- 58:11Speaker 1: you pay more for some. You're paying at least this
- 58:14Speaker 1: much every week for a task that accomplishes nothing for
- 58:18Speaker 1: the company, wastes time the employee could be using doing
- 58:23Speaker 1: tasks that do attack accomplish something for the company, and
- 58:27Speaker 1: is actually causing conflict between employees and their bosses because
- 58:33Speaker 1: of how the math is done, and that ended up
- 58:37Speaker 1: getting the policy revoked. They eliminated that paperwork because of
- 58:43Speaker 1: that because it was expensive when you add up fifteen
- 58:46Speaker 1: hundred stores, this many minutes a day, this many minutes
- 58:48Speaker 1: a week, and you're paying this much per hour. And
- 58:54Speaker 1: she was shocked. She was like, you didn't get in trouble.
- 58:56Speaker 1: They eliminated the policy, and I was like, yeah, because
- 58:58Speaker 1: I talked about what it cost them to maintain it
- 59:01Speaker 1: and the fact that there was no benefit from it.
- 59:03Speaker 1: I didn't complain about it because it wasn't fun because
- 59:07Speaker 1: for me it wasn't a problem. I like doing the math.
- 59:10Speaker 1: But yeah, you just have to be able to be
- 59:14Speaker 1: that person. But women are taught to keep their heads
- 59:17Speaker 1: down and not do that.
- 59:18Speaker 2: Incidentally, it's not just mothers who have this disparity in
- 59:22Speaker 2: the way they physically treat their children, or playing with
- 59:27Speaker 2: their children or allow the children to play. There's this
- 59:29Speaker 2: clip you may have seen on Twitter that's been posted
- 59:31Speaker 2: by many people of this father playing with his daughter
- 59:35Speaker 2: and his son. They both look five years old ish.
- 59:39Speaker 2: He's playing with them and the bean bag, throwing them
- 59:42Speaker 2: onto this bean bag, and when he picks up his daughter,
- 59:46Speaker 2: he carefully picks her up with both hands still back
- 59:50Speaker 2: down and gently places her on the bean bag, and
- 59:56Speaker 2: then he picks up his son, pulls him around his
- 59:58Speaker 2: head like a wwf. It slams him down on the
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: bean bag like like like one off to the other girls.
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: Bones are not that much thinner than boys.
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: But age, yeah, practice practically, just practically.
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: I was like ten or twelve years old before it
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: became painful to play football with the boys. You almost
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: you have to get close to puberty before it changes. Dads,
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: teach your daughters how to throw a ball. Teach them
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: how to hit a ball with a bat. Teach them
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: how to throw a punch. Teach them how to take
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: a push and a punch. You know, even if you're
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: not hitting them to do it, throwing them into a
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: bean bag is a good good way to do it.
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: Teach them how to take a little bit of physical shock,
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: because if you don't, they're going to grow up to
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: be whimps. Mm hmm. Just not acceptable, you know, it's
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: dangerous actually, Like if you're on the street in a
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: place where you shouldn't be, and you know, or somebody
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: who uh is intent on committing a crime is in
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: a place where they're more likely to get caught, and
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: you get mugged, you're better able to defend yourself. If
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: you learn that stuff when you're a kid, then than
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: if you're coddled all the time. You know, here, don't
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: don't be more reticent and gentle when your kid, when
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: your daughter wants to play airplane, than when your son
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: wants to play airplane. Right, make sure your kids learn
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: how to swim, even if they don't like it, you know.
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: Make sure they learn how to run, even if they
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: don't like it. Just like I say, make sure they
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: learn how to do their own law and cook their
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: own food and clean their own house even if they
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: don't like it, because they might grow up to live alone.
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: Don't wait until they're eighteen to kick him out of
- 1:02:13Speaker 2: the house played by the Raised by Wolves scenario. Kick
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: him out in the house every day until there eighteen.
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: If your kids don't know what color the sun is,
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: you're not a good parent. But that's that's terrible, because
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: there's debate over whether the sun is yellow or white.
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: It looks yellow because the sun is blue.
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: Yeah, in any case.
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: The sky is blue.
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, this sky is blue. Son's not blue yet?
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: Woman suffrags debate the image, says New New Carlisle, Chattanaqua, Thursday,
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: August twenty two, nineteen twelve. And this was Margaret Fully
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: and Minnie Bronson. An organized anti suffrage movement was primarily
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: a woman's movement, and Minny Bronson was a dedicated campaigner
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: for the National Association opposed to women's suffrage. She argued
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: that the vote would not raise women's wages as suffragists claimed,
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: and that laws favoring women were actually better in non
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: suffrage states than in states where women voted. Bronson and
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: other antis proposed that women should vote on whether they
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: wanted suffrage, just as paradoxically, suffragists and suffragettes repeatedly opposed
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: women voting on whether they wanted the vote. Fifteen of
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: fifteen college textbooks overlook the proposed referendums for women only
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: debate Handbill, Ohio, nineteen twelve. So this was from my state,
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: courtesy of authentichistory dot com. This is something that I'm
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: gonna wint out too, all right. The Equal Pay Act,
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: I believe, nineteen sixty three. Feminists like to take credit
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: for that, but feminism actually gets zero credit for that.
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: The Equal Pay Act was fought for by unions that
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: were trying to get equal pay for racial minorities. They
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: didn't want employers to be able to throw over white
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: workers for cheaper labor from minority workers, and so they
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: wanted this is basically collective bargaining. If there's going to
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: be a minimum wage, it has to be the same
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: minimum for all adult males, right, And the idea of
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: including women in that saying that the discrimination could not
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: take place on the basis of sex. That was thrown
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: in as an attempt to sabotage the bill and the
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: people that were voting for it, And it was a
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: popular bill. It was a popular issue, and it was
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: one in which people were fairly like. There was contention,
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: but people were unified enough that it was going to succeed.
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: And it wasn't that feminists persuaded Congress to give women
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: equal pay. It was that throwing equal pay for women
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: into that bill was not enough to convince enough people
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: to vote against it to keep it from succeeding. That's all.
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: So when feminists take credit for that, it's bullshit. They're lying,
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: they don't know what they're talking about, or they're upright lying.
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: They're just absolutely in your base, you know, saying something
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: that they know is bullshit. So, yeah, the vote didn't
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: raise women's wages as suffragettes claimed. And when voting rights
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: finally did get to the point where they had started
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: raising people's wages, do you know what the result was? Anybody? Inflation?
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: The result you're under arrest, yep.
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: The result was since businesses that sold products had to
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: pay people more to make those products, Since businesses that
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: that warehouse products had to pay people more to move
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: those products, businesses that uh sold them at the retail
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: end had to pay people more to work on the
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: sales floor. The products became more expensive like that. That's
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: how that works. And every single time, every single time
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: the minimum wage goes up, then so does the price
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: of every product. So does your rent, So does the
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: cost of services, especially services that include the use of
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: products like getting your car fixed, getting your plumbing fixed,
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: getting your house cleaned, you know, anything like that. So
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: everything becomes more expensive. Everybody raises their price. As soon
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: as the minimum wage goes up, buying power doesn't increase.
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: Sometimes it goes down. Not very beneficial. So getting the
- 1:07:59Speaker 1: vote did not benefit women economically. So, because this method
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: of influencing lawmakers is frequently overlook there's a misconception that
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: Antis wanted women to be powerless, it says James L. J.
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: Lawrence's Book of Readings devotes a chapter to the cult
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: of domesticity, saying that antis wanted women's influence limited to
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: their homes. You think about that, like all of the
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: information out there about Antie's talking about being able to
- 1:08:38Speaker 1: influence politicians on both sides of the political fence, because
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: they weren't allied to one side or the other, being
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: able to influence their communities, being able to influence not
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: just their families, but the families of other women, the
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: families around them, the women around them, the men around them.
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: Why on earth would anybody say that that women that
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: they wanted women's influence to be limited to their own homes.
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: Knowing this information, the only conclusions I have is that
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: either this writer that said that was stupid, a bad researcher,
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: or dishonest. Like there's no honest and intelligent way for
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: that to have happened. Although the Anties did emphasize the
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: importance of good mothering and raising the next generation to
- 1:09:37Speaker 1: be moral citizens, Anti leaders were strongly in favor of
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: women influencing both lawmakers and society. They were intent on
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: moving the Overton window. In other words, they simply preferred
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: using nonpartisan methods and were reluctant to give up a
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: known form of influence for an unknown one. As Ida
- 1:09:59Speaker 1: Tarbell saw the issue in nineteen ten, it wasn't some
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: quaint notion of separate spheres that kept so many women
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: away from the women's rights movement. It was the fear
- 1:10:10Speaker 1: of losing the valuable influence they already possessed. Interestingly, the
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: suffragists also understood the benefit of being non partisan, and
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: they often pointed out that their request for the vote
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: was a non partisan appeal to the lawmakers. When the
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: more power without the vote argument is overlooked, the anties
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: seem like ultra conservatives who acted irrationally against their own
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: best interests. This omission creates a false picture. But that's
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: what feminists say today all the time. Isn't it like
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: if you talk to women about women's suffrage, and for instance,
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: I had a conversation even men, by the way, have
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: this opinion, a conversation not too long ago go in
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: which it was brought up that we don't hate God.
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: I can't think of her name now, Pearl for saying
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: that women shouldn't vote, just just for saying that women
- 1:11:14Speaker 1: shouldn't vote, Like no question of you know, why does
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: she say that? Just oh we should hate her for that, and.
- 1:11:25Speaker 3: They hate her for everything she says. It doesn't matter
- 1:11:29Speaker 3: what she says.
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: They wouldn't even hear the idea that there are rational
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: arguments for for why women shouldn't vote.
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: It was the strangest thing that couple of weeks last
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: spring where when all the trade comes got a whole
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: arrangement center, people who are quite happy to talk to
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: destiny like this guy who just openly wants them dead.
- 1:11:57Speaker 2: This guy they have nothing in common with other than
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: this principle of don't be mean to women. You will
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: happily talk to him, they'll happily give him traffic. But Pearl,
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: they have everything in common with her, these trad cons
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: except this principle of don't be mean to women. It's
- 1:12:19Speaker 2: just goes to show you that this rice paper thin
- 1:12:25Speaker 2: divide between trad cons and feminists, that they'll happily forgive
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: you for anything, including wanting them dead, except this fucking sympathy.
- 1:12:40Speaker 2: So how much work there is to be done that
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: that all of this is going to keep happening because
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: because even mortal enemies will will will come together because
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: they're so terrified.
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: Of being too mean to women, like Dinos.
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: And I'm really trying not to fall out with all
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: of these people with whom I have so much in common,
- 1:13:09Speaker 2: but that they are the same. They're determined to fall
- 1:13:12Speaker 2: out with anyone who's being even slightly too mean to women.
- 1:13:17Speaker 2: And I'm like, guys, this immigration issue is nothing, this
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: race issue is nothing, This LGBTQ issue is nothing, because
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: evidently it means nothing to you because you can forgive
- 1:13:32Speaker 2: all of that as long as everyone's not being mean
- 1:13:37Speaker 2: to women like and this is people who've been talking
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: about this for ten years and and the rest they've
- 1:13:47Speaker 2: ever since the Game of Eight Days and before, they've
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: been saying, guys, maybe this issue of being too mean
- 1:13:53Speaker 2: to women isn't that much of an issue. Maybe maybe
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: it's fine until Pearl came along. And it's there this
- 1:14:00Speaker 2: thing when Pearl came along, all of a sudden, people
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: that all these trad cons started saying, you're just like
- 1:14:11Speaker 2: a feminist, You're the you're you're the mirror image of
- 1:14:16Speaker 2: a feminist. You're the exact opposite of a feminist. Therefore
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: you're a feminist, And I'm.
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: Like, what what feminists actually do?
- 1:14:26Speaker 2: This is what people were saying about you ten years ago,
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: that you're the opposite of a feminist because you occasionally
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: advocate for men's rights, even if it means occasionally being
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: means to women. And like I said, I only went
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: home for a couple of weeks and then and then
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: they all moved on to fucking immigration and race and
- 1:14:50Speaker 2: it's just it. Yeah, it's mind blowing that we that
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: we have so far to go and we're never going
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: to go there because we're still dealing with all of
- 1:14:59Speaker 2: these secondary and tertiary symptoms of of.
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: Yeah. Well that's the thing that gaines centrism is the key.
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: It is the common denominator between uh feminist feminist missonry
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: or miss andry and trad con missandry right trad con
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: reaction to anyone who suggests that, you know, there there
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: might be separate spears, you know, anyone who suggests that
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: there might be fear, the fears might be so separate,
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: that there might be rights men should have that women
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: should not. I know, feminists in particular are comfortable suggesting
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: that there should be rights women have that men should not.
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: You get trad con discussing rights they think women should
- 1:15:58Speaker 1: have that men should not. And when you start providing
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: evidence that it's detrimental to both men and women and
- 1:16:07Speaker 1: also in many cases detrimental to children for that condition
- 1:16:11Speaker 1: to exist, they start changing their minds. But feminists just
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: get mad and have temper tantrums and say nasty things
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: and block you so you can't respond. But and they
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: do have that starting point of this belief in rights
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: that women should have that men should not, and they
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: both have they share a common belief that even though
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: you might say women are strong and capable on their
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: own and they're not whimps and blah blah blah, men
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: should still take responsibility for aspects of women's safety, security,
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: and financial health. I guess you know. Both both sides
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: seem to have that that commonality of making men responsible
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: for women instead of women responsible for themselves.
- 1:17:11Speaker 2: Uh.
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: And they don't seem to understand the accountability gap when
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: you do show when you when you make the accountability
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: gap undeniable to feminists, like I said, they freak out,
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: They say nasty things to you in block so you
- 1:17:32Speaker 1: can't respond. When you do it with trad cons you
- 1:17:37Speaker 1: sometimes get that response from the women. The men have
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: a tendency, some of them to turn into red pillars.
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: Some of them are very threatened by it. They don't
- 1:17:50Speaker 1: understand that it's it's not emasculating to a man for
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: a woman to be responsible for herself. It's actually very
- 1:18:03Speaker 1: masculine for a man to judge women for character and
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: not associate himself and make himself vulnerable to a woman
- 1:18:14Speaker 1: who is of foolish character. But there are a lot
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: of men that have been raised with the misconception, probably
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: by guynocentric moms, that women can't be responsible for themselves
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: and it's just on men to pick up the slack,
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: so we were at Interestingly, the suffragettes also understood the
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: benefit of being nonpartisan, and often pointed out their request
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: for the vote was nonpartisan. We read that part reasonable
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: people could disagree over whether it was better to influence
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: society with the voter without it. Annie Wittenmeier, founding president
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: of the Women's Christian Temperance Union, famous for getting the
- 1:19:09Speaker 1: eighteenth Amendment. I think it was past that had to
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: be repealed using another amendment later on after it created
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: the mafia or at least the mafia as we know
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: it today, because I mean it existed prior to that,
- 1:19:27Speaker 1: but it wasn't like it is now. She preferred to
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: use moral persuasion by holding prayer meetings and saloons for example.
- 1:19:40Speaker 1: Her successor, Francis Willard, preferred using political power, and she
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: persuaded the WCTU to support suffrage in eighteen eighty one.
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: Wittenmeier was so strongly opposed to women's suffrage that she
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: actually quit the organization she had founded. Of course, no
- 1:19:59Speaker 1: mention here. I don't see Carrie Nation. Carrie Nation didn't
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: go into saloons and pray. She went in wielding an
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: axe and broke furniture and threatened people with bodily harm.
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: She wasn't like you know, this cute, little dimple cheeked,
- 1:20:22Speaker 1: chibby woman going in. I'm gonna kick there, but you
- 1:20:25Speaker 1: know no. She was six feet tall, broad shoulders, looked
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: like a rugby player, and went in there wielding a
- 1:20:34Speaker 1: great big axe, like great big hand acts and literally
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: rip the place up, just tore the place up. She
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: was a wrecking ball. She came in like a wrecking ball,
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: scared the shit out of people, and at least once
- 1:20:50Speaker 1: she did that to a sasparilla bar. There was no
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: alcohol in the root beer, but it said in the name.
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: So she went in wrecked place along with her friends.
- 1:21:08Speaker 1: Because you know, the women that decided that alcohol was
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: the source of all their marital woes were the smartest
- 1:21:17Speaker 1: of the bunch. The idea that civic minded women had
- 1:21:22Speaker 1: more political power without the vote was recently supported by
- 1:21:26Speaker 1: political scientist Kristin Goss, who showed that women's advocacy for
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: the public good peaked in the nineteen forties and fifties,
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: then declined as women became a special interest group lobbying
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: for their own interests. Similarly, in nineteen thirty three, Sofonisba
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: Breckinridge noted as.
- 1:21:48Speaker 2: Just not a real name. How the fuck is that
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: a real name? Nobody's called them?
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: Possibly from some other language besides English.
- 1:21:57Speaker 2: Sofan is well speak English, I mean that happen.
- 1:22:01Speaker 1: Obviously has an English last name, and noted a sharp
- 1:22:05Speaker 1: decline in women's influence over lawmakers beginning in nineteen twenty four.
- 1:22:09Speaker 1: So four years after women got the vote, when lawmakers
- 1:22:12Speaker 1: women realized women did not vote as a block. And
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: we'll probably I think we'll stop there, just because we
- 1:22:23Speaker 1: have a headline to go with for the next time,
- 1:22:26Speaker 1: and we'll talk about their public relations problems. And then
- 1:22:32Speaker 1: I'm gonna look ahead and see we might, like I said,
- 1:22:36Speaker 1: we might preempt next week's look into the suffragists and
- 1:22:41Speaker 1: the suffragettes and the anti suffragists for a different discussion
- 1:22:48Speaker 1: because it's relevant now. It's just I really do want
- 1:22:54Speaker 1: to wait a week for some more evidence to come out,
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: or for at least some of the evidence to be
- 1:22:59Speaker 1: more solidly confirmed to see, you know, because there's been
- 1:23:03Speaker 1: a thing lately where information comes out and then people
- 1:23:08Speaker 1: react to it, and it's the left wing media that's
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: that's reporting it. Not just the established media, establishment media,
- 1:23:18Speaker 1: but the left wing of the establishment media reports this stuff,
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: and then the right wing of the political discussion starts
- 1:23:28Speaker 1: reacting to it, and then all of a sudden it
- 1:23:31Speaker 1: gets debunked and it's not, well, we were wrong when
- 1:23:35Speaker 1: we told you this, so you can calm down now.
- 1:23:37Speaker 1: It's you guys are making this up, right, And then
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: some of it is true and some of it's not.
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: And there's been some weirdness like when Trump was shot
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: when they hit him in the ear, like the day
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: after word, there was something that came out about a
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: cryptocurrency company making a decision that seemed suspect, right, that
- 1:24:12Speaker 1: that part of the story was true. There could be
- 1:24:15Speaker 1: alternative explanations for it, but it doesn't eliminate the gosh,
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: this is awfully weird aspect of it. Right. But when
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: that came out, there were a bunch of posts on
- 1:24:26Speaker 1: social media that made a bunch of claims that were
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: just profoundly bullshit. One of them, one of them had
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: to do with a connection between the company owner and
- 1:24:44Speaker 1: having being married to Dick Cheney's lesbian daughter, which is
- 1:24:53Speaker 1: obviously ridiculous. And you know, so like there's a lot
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: of stuff like that that's oating around and I don't
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: want to just like jump into discussing the information about
- 1:25:06Speaker 1: like this, this this guy, I think we called him
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: by the wrong name. It's Ralse, not Ruth. But he
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: he was involved in a lot of suspicious recruiting activity
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: in Ukraine. And there's some information that has come out
- 1:25:25Speaker 1: of about.
- 1:25:26Speaker 2: That has been discussed on Tuesday, Yeah, on Tuesday. In
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: a country where where the men are drafted into these wars,
- 1:25:35Speaker 2: recruiting doesn't mean recruiting. It means rounding people up to
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: their death. It means traveling from home to home going
- 1:25:43Speaker 2: Oh you are you're hiding fighting age men below your
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: flob boards. Ye are.
- 1:25:48Speaker 1: Yeah, Well it was more than that, because he's recruiting
- 1:25:51Speaker 1: people who were foreign to Ukraine, and some of the
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: people that it looks like he was recruiting were from
- 1:26:01Speaker 1: countries that are enemies to the United States or that
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: we're enemies to the United States, and it just it's
- 1:26:07Speaker 1: it's really weird. So I kind of wanted to get
- 1:26:10Speaker 1: into that because of the aspect of, you know, he's
- 1:26:13Speaker 1: only going to be recruiting men for this, He's not
- 1:26:15Speaker 1: gonna be He wasn't recruiting women. He wasn't looking for
- 1:26:18Speaker 1: women to show up and hold guns and get shot
- 1:26:21Speaker 1: at and step on land mines and stuff. He was
- 1:26:24Speaker 1: he was looking for men. So and it does. It
- 1:26:30Speaker 1: does look like it attaches to the CIA, very much
- 1:26:34Speaker 1: like the thing that I read about the CIA on Tuesday.
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: Looks even more relevant now. But again it's too early
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: to any speculation on that. Right now, it may be
- 1:26:48Speaker 1: turned around on us, and I want more information before
- 1:26:50Speaker 1: I do a show about it. So so with that said,
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: I'm gonna look and see if we got any super Chows,
- 1:26:57Speaker 1: because I we don't have any super chot, but we
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: usually have at least one super Chow, and I have
- 1:27:05Speaker 1: not actually been looking because I had it on the
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: wrong channel. So our discord is huge. Yeah, huge, Okay,
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: so there's one that must be It might be from
- 1:27:26Speaker 1: an early earlier episode. Zapier sent us a link to
- 1:27:37Speaker 1: a YouTube video lock picking Lawyer getting in my ex
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: Girlfriend's back door April Fool's video, which I am not
- 1:27:46Speaker 1: going to play on air because that's somebody else's video.
- 1:27:52Speaker 1: But now you know what video to look for. It's
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: ten seventy one getting in my ex Girlfriend's back door
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: per entheses April Fools video. Lock Picking Lawyers on YouTube
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: looks interesting. I have actually watched an episode or two
- 1:28:10Speaker 1: of lock Picking Lawyer. The guy actually is an expert
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: lock pick. Kind of kind of makes you doubt the
- 1:28:19Speaker 1: validity of using locks for anything. But in any case,
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: then we have Meredith g gave us five dollars at
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: seven thirty eight when we were on the air and
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: said honeyback HBr Talk three twenty five honey for the Badgers,
- 1:28:41Speaker 1: and Coder Dodger gave US five dollars and said men
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: are coal miners, high mic, women are coal burners. Yeah,
- 1:28:50Speaker 1: that's true, especially now women now like don't don't think
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: about the effort and pain and suffering and risk that
- 1:29:04Speaker 1: goes into obtaining all of the the conveniences you know
- 1:29:09Speaker 1: that they have, like the cold that gets burnt to
- 1:29:11Speaker 1: make the electricity to run their electric cars that they're
- 1:29:15Speaker 1: running running around pretending to be environmental in environmentalists and look, Hannah,
- 1:29:23Speaker 1: a cold powered car.
- 1:29:25Speaker 3: That's that's not what cole Burner means.
- 1:29:29Speaker 1: I know, but women and women are Women are terrible
- 1:29:33Speaker 1: sometimes about stuff like that. And I had to bring
- 1:29:35Speaker 1: it up.
- 1:29:36Speaker 2: What is.
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: On YouTube?
- 1:29:43Speaker 2: I don't know if I can explain it on you dude,
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: well even more intrigued.
- 1:29:50Speaker 1: Uh.
- 1:29:53Speaker 3: Think about it's it's yeah, I don't know if we can.
- 1:30:00Speaker 2: Uh, it's not bad, is it? It's just it's YouTube.
- 1:30:04Speaker 3: You know, it's not that bad. It's just it's YouTube,
- 1:30:07Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
- 1:30:08Speaker 2: Mm HMMA, get an explanation for this as soon as
- 1:30:13Speaker 2: we're off air, because is it a racial thing? Is
- 1:30:19Speaker 2: that what we yes? Yakay, I'm slightly closer to understanding up.
- 1:30:24Speaker 1: It's it's kind of hard to YouTube. YouTube wouldn't crack
- 1:30:28Speaker 1: down on euphemisms for for just just sexual things, but
- 1:30:34Speaker 1: there are certain euphemisms that that it doesn't. There's no
- 1:30:38Speaker 1: disguising it. When YouTube will get YouTube gets really heated
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: about that.
- 1:30:44Speaker 3: Mm hm.
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: That said, that's all of our super chows. We have
- 1:30:55Speaker 1: no super chats, We have no rumble rants this time around.
- 1:30:58Speaker 1: So that is the end of the show. Thanks everybody
- 1:31:02Speaker 1: for listening, Thanks to my two co hosts for going
- 1:31:06Speaker 1: through the dry material with me and all the contributions,
- 1:31:10Speaker 1: and thanks to everybody who works in the background to
- 1:31:12Speaker 1: make HBr Talk happen. And good night all. They tried
- 1:31:16Speaker 1: to kill him, they did, and we will see you
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: next Thursday.
- 1:31:21Speaker 2: I never could get the hang of Thursdays.