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- 0:00The
- 0:00name
- 0:00of
- 0:00the
- 0:00game
- 0:00is
- 0:01the
- 0:01fire
- 0:02couldn't
- 0:02take.
- 0:02And
- 0:03then
- 0:03it's
- 0:03a
- 0:03fill
- 0:03in
- 0:04the
- 0:04blank
- 0:04because
- 0:04you
- 0:04are
- 0:05so
- 0:05inspiring.
- 0:05So
- 0:06I
- 0:06want
- 0:06to
- 0:06know
- 0:06all
- 0:06of
- 0:07these
- 0:07answers.
- 0:07The
- 0:08fire
- 0:08couldn't
- 0:08take
- 0:09my
- 0:09confidence
- 0:09because
- 0:10blank.
- 0:11Because
- 0:12it
- 0:12comes
- 0:13from
- 0:13growth
- 0:14and
- 0:14healing,
- 0:15because
- 0:15it's
- 0:15inside
- 0:16of
- 0:16me.
- 0:17You
- 0:17can't
- 0:17take
- 0:17it
- 0:17away.
- 0:18It
- 0:18is
- 0:18ingrained.
- 0:19It's
- 0:19not
- 0:19on
- 0:19my
- 0:19skin.
- 0:19The
- 0:20fire
- 0:20couldn't
- 0:20take
- 0:20my
- 0:21ability
- 0:21to.
- 0:22Blink,
- 0:22love,
- 0:23and
- 0:24just
- 0:24love
- 0:24people
- 0:25and
- 0:25want
- 0:25to
- 0:26help
- 0:26people
- 0:26that
- 0:26didn't
- 0:27get
- 0:27taken
- 0:27away.
- 0:28His
- 0:28darkness
- 0:29doesn't
- 0:29dim
- 0:29my
- 0:30light.
- 0:31The
- 0:31fire
- 0:31couldn't
- 0:31take
- 0:31my
- 0:32purpose
- 0:32because.
- 0:33Blank,
- 0:33the
- 0:34pain
- 0:34built
- 0:34the
- 0:34purpose.
- 0:35I
- 0:35always
- 0:36say
- 0:36you
- 0:36turn
- 0:36pain
- 0:37into
- 0:37purpose.
- 0:37So
- 0:37the
- 0:38fire
- 0:38couldn't
- 0:38take
- 0:39my
- 0:39purpose
- 0:39because
- 0:39it's
- 0:40part
- 0:40of
- 0:40it.
- 0:41Tanya,
- 0:41we
- 0:41always
- 0:42like
- 0:42to
- 0:42play
- 0:42a
- 0:42fun
- 0:43game
- 0:43with
- 0:43our
- 0:43guests
- 0:44if
- 0:44you.
- 0:44Are
- 0:44up
- 0:44for
- 0:45it.
- 0:45I
- 0:45love
- 0:45games.
- 0:47Let's
- 0:47do
- 0:47it.
- 0:49Amazing.
- 0:50Okay,
- 0:51so
- 0:52the
- 0:52name
- 0:52of
- 0:52the
- 0:52game
- 0:53is
- 0:53the
- 0:53fire
- 0:54couldn't
- 0:54take.
- 0:55And
- 0:55then
- 0:55it's
- 0:55a
- 0:55fill
- 0:56in
- 0:56the
- 0:56blank.
- 0:56Okay.
- 0:57Because
- 0:57you
- 0:57are
- 0:57so
- 0:57inspiring.
- 0:58So
- 0:58I
- 0:58wanna
- 0:59know
- 0:59all
- 0:59of
- 0:59these
- 0:59answers.
- 1:00Okay.
- 1:01So
- 1:01whatever
- 1:02comes
- 1:02to
- 1:02mind
- 1:02first.
- 1:03Okay.
- 1:03I'm
- 1:03gonna
- 1:03do
- 1:03the
- 1:04first
- 1:04thing.
- 1:04Yeah,
- 1:05totally.
- 1:06The
- 1:07fire
- 1:07couldn't
- 1:07take
- 1:08my
- 1:08confidence
- 1:08because
- 1:09blank.
- 1:11Because
- 1:11it
- 1:12comes
- 1:12from
- 1:13growth
- 1:13and
- 1:14healing,
- 1:14because
- 1:15it's
- 1:15inside
- 1:16of
- 1:16me.
- 1:17You
- 1:17can't
- 1:17take
- 1:18it
- 1:18away.
- 1:18Yeah,
- 1:19it
- 1:20is
- 1:20ingrained.
- 1:20It's
- 1:20not
- 1:21on
- 1:21my
- 1:21skin.
- 1:21Yes,
- 1:22yes,
- 1:22absolutely.
- 1:23The
- 1:24fire
- 1:24couldn't
- 1:24take
- 1:24my
- 1:25ability
- 1:25to.
- 1:26Blink,
- 1:27love,
- 1:28and
- 1:29just
- 1:29love
- 1:29people
- 1:30and
- 1:31want
- 1:31to
- 1:31help
- 1:31people
- 1:32that
- 1:32didn't
- 1:33get
- 1:33taken
- 1:33away.
- 1:34His
- 1:34darkness
- 1:35doesn't
- 1:36dim
- 1:36my
- 1:36light.
- 1:38That's
- 1:38huge.
- 1:39The
- 1:39fire
- 1:39couldn't
- 1:40take
- 1:40my
- 1:40love
- 1:40for.
- 1:42Oh,
- 1:43life.
- 1:44I
- 1:45would
- 1:45say
- 1:45my
- 1:45kids,
- 1:45but
- 1:46never
- 1:46that.
- 1:46But
- 1:47my
- 1:47love
- 1:47for
- 1:47life.
- 1:48My
- 1:48love
- 1:48for.
- 1:49Actually,
- 1:49my
- 1:50love
- 1:50for
- 1:50beauty
- 1:50also.
- 1:51That
- 1:51really
- 1:52amplified.
- 1:52I've
- 1:53always
- 1:53been
- 1:53that
- 1:53girl
- 1:53that
- 1:53wants
- 1:54to
- 1:54play
- 1:54with
- 1:54hair
- 1:54and
- 1:55makeup,
- 1:55but
- 1:56it.
- 1:56It
- 1:56couldn't.
- 1:57Couldn't
- 1:57take
- 1:58my
- 1:58love
- 1:58for.
- 1:59For
- 1:59any
- 2:00of
- 2:00the
- 2:00things
- 2:00that
- 2:01make
- 2:02me
- 2:02feel
- 2:02good
- 2:02about
- 2:02myself
- 2:03and
- 2:03that.
- 2:04Really
- 2:04are
- 2:05about
- 2:05who
- 2:05you
- 2:05are.
- 2:06You
- 2:06know,
- 2:06like
- 2:07that's
- 2:07something
- 2:07that
- 2:07he
- 2:08could
- 2:08never
- 2:08take.
- 2:08Oh,
- 2:08my
- 2:08God.
- 2:09That's
- 2:09who
- 2:09I
- 2:09am.
- 2:10That's
- 2:10who
- 2:10you
- 2:10are.
- 2:10He
- 2:10never
- 2:11wanted
- 2:11me
- 2:11to
- 2:11be
- 2:11that,
- 2:11though.
- 2:12Oh,
- 2:12he
- 2:12didn't?
- 2:13No,
- 2:13they
- 2:13never
- 2:13want
- 2:14you
- 2:14to
- 2:14be
- 2:14that.
- 2:14They
- 2:14always
- 2:15kind
- 2:15of
- 2:15insult
- 2:15you.
- 2:15You
- 2:16look
- 2:16cute
- 2:16and
- 2:16they
- 2:16kind
- 2:17of
- 2:17look
- 2:17at
- 2:17you
- 2:17like
- 2:17you're
- 2:18wearing
- 2:18that
- 2:18so
- 2:19they
- 2:19tip
- 2:19away
- 2:19at
- 2:19you.
- 2:20So
- 2:20he
- 2:20didn't
- 2:20want
- 2:20that.
- 2:21And
- 2:21that's
- 2:21really
- 2:21important.
- 2:22I'm
- 2:22glad
- 2:22you
- 2:22point
- 2:22that
- 2:22out.
- 2:23Yes.
- 2:23He
- 2:23couldn't
- 2:23take
- 2:24it.
- 2:24He
- 2:24couldn't
- 2:24take
- 2:24it.
- 2:25And
- 2:25the
- 2:25fire
- 2:25gave
- 2:26it
- 2:26back.
- 2:26Yes.
- 2:26Yes.
- 2:27That's.
- 2:27That's
- 2:28amazing.
- 2:28That's
- 2:28amazing.
- 2:29That's
- 2:30pretty
- 2:30amazing.
- 2:30I
- 2:30was
- 2:30like,
- 2:30yes.
- 2:33Of
- 2:33the
- 2:33fire.
- 2:33Couldn't
- 2:34take
- 2:34my
- 2:34dreams
- 2:35of
- 2:35blank
- 2:36coming
- 2:37to
- 2:37Hollywood.
- 2:38I
- 2:38always.
- 2:39I
- 2:39wanted
- 2:40to
- 2:40do
- 2:40this
- 2:40when
- 2:40I
- 2:40was
- 2:4118
- 2:41years
- 2:41old,
- 2:42but
- 2:42I
- 2:42didn't
- 2:43have
- 2:43any
- 2:43money,
- 2:43so
- 2:44I
- 2:44was
- 2:44in
- 2:44North
- 2:44Carolina.
- 2:46Not
- 2:47a
- 2:47good
- 2:47idea.
- 2:47So
- 2:48I
- 2:48had
- 2:48to
- 2:48go
- 2:48to
- 2:48school
- 2:48instead
- 2:49and
- 2:49have
- 2:49a
- 2:49career.
- 2:51But,
- 2:51you
- 2:51know,
- 2:52everything
- 2:52that
- 2:53I
- 2:53wanted
- 2:53to
- 2:53do
- 2:53when
- 2:54I
- 2:54was
- 2:5418.
- 2:55I
- 2:56got
- 2:56here
- 2:56when
- 2:56I
- 2:56was
- 2:5751
- 2:57and
- 2:57started
- 2:58doing
- 2:59perfect
- 2:59time,
- 2:59midlife.
- 3:00Perfect
- 3:01time,
- 3:01perfect.
- 3:01The
- 3:01kids
- 3:01are
- 3:02grown.
- 3:02Yes.
- 3:02And
- 3:02it's
- 3:03on
- 3:03God's
- 3:03time.
- 3:03That's
- 3:04what
- 3:04we
- 3:04have
- 3:04to
- 3:04remember.
- 3:05I
- 3:05wanted
- 3:06it
- 3:06at
- 3:0618.
- 3:07And
- 3:07God
- 3:07said,
- 3:07hold
- 3:07on,
- 3:08wait,
- 3:08wait,
- 3:08wait.
- 3:10Now?
- 3:10Yes.
- 3:11And
- 3:11now
- 3:11I
- 3:12actually
- 3:12have
- 3:12something
- 3:12to
- 3:13offer.
- 3:13Life
- 3:14experience.
- 3:14I
- 3:15mean,
- 3:15life
- 3:15experience.
- 3:16It's
- 3:16like
- 3:16the
- 3:17time.
- 3:17I
- 3:17think
- 3:17the.
- 3:18Just
- 3:18midlife
- 3:19in
- 3:19general
- 3:19is
- 3:20such
- 3:20an
- 3:21amazing
- 3:21time.
- 3:21It
- 3:22is
- 3:22to
- 3:22start
- 3:23something
- 3:23new.
- 3:24I
- 3:24think
- 3:24it
- 3:24is.
- 3:24I
- 3:25mean,
- 3:25look
- 3:25at
- 3:25how
- 3:25many
- 3:25of
- 3:26us
- 3:26are
- 3:26so
- 3:26successful.
- 3:26Martha
- 3:27Stewart.
- 3:27Yes.
- 3:28Started
- 3:28what,
- 3:29our
- 3:30business
- 3:30at
- 3:3050.
- 3:30Right.
- 3:31To
- 3:31become
- 3:31a
- 3:31billionaire.
- 3:32And.
- 3:32And
- 3:33I
- 3:33always
- 3:33remember
- 3:34that,
- 3:34you
- 3:34know,
- 3:34I'm
- 3:35like,
- 3:35she
- 3:35can
- 3:36do
- 3:36it.
- 3:36I
- 3:36can
- 3:36do
- 3:36it.
- 3:37Because
- 3:37I'm
- 3:37really,
- 3:38you
- 3:38know,
- 3:38at
- 3:3850
- 3:39is
- 3:39where
- 3:39it's
- 3:39like,
- 3:39okay,
- 3:40now
- 3:40I
- 3:40can
- 3:40figure
- 3:41out
- 3:41how
- 3:41to
- 3:41make
- 3:41money
- 3:41doing
- 3:42this
- 3:42because
- 3:42I.
- 3:42I
- 3:42started
- 3:43doing
- 3:43this
- 3:43out
- 3:43of
- 3:43love,
- 3:44didn't
- 3:44need
- 3:45the
- 3:45money,
- 3:45wasn't
- 3:45concerned
- 3:46about
- 3:46how
- 3:46to
- 3:46make
- 3:46it.
- 3:48And
- 3:48now
- 3:49I.
- 3:50Now
- 3:50I
- 3:50support
- 3:51myself
- 3:51with
- 3:52it.
- 3:52And,
- 3:53you
- 3:53know,
- 3:53I
- 3:53wanted
- 3:53to
- 3:53come
- 3:53to
- 3:54la,
- 3:54I
- 3:54wanted
- 3:54to
- 3:54come
- 3:54to
- 3:55Hollywood,
- 3:55but
- 3:55I
- 3:55can't
- 3:55sing
- 3:55and
- 3:56I
- 3:56can't
- 3:56dance,
- 3:56so
- 3:57what
- 3:57was
- 3:57I
- 3:57going
- 3:57to
- 3:57do
- 3:57any
- 3:58day?
- 3:59So
- 3:59now
- 3:59I
- 3:59actually
- 3:59have
- 4:00something
- 4:00I
- 4:00can
- 4:00do.
- 4:00Right?
- 4:01You
- 4:01do.
- 4:02Now
- 4:02I
- 4:02have
- 4:02success.
- 4:03So
- 4:03God
- 4:03said,
- 4:04hold
- 4:04on,
- 4:04Davy,
- 4:04you
- 4:05know,
- 4:06hold
- 4:07on
- 4:07a
- 4:07minute,
- 4:07baby.
- 4:08And
- 4:09screw
- 4:09the
- 4:09timelines,
- 4:10right?
- 4:11No
- 4:12timelines.
- 4:13You
- 4:13do
- 4:13what
- 4:13you
- 4:14want
- 4:14whenever
- 4:15it's
- 4:15not
- 4:15too
- 4:16late.
- 4:16Right.
- 4:16And
- 4:17I
- 4:17certainly
- 4:17don't
- 4:17feel,
- 4:18you
- 4:18know,
- 4:18people
- 4:18do
- 4:19you
- 4:19feel?
- 4:19No,
- 4:19it's
- 4:20not
- 4:20owned.
- 4:20I'm
- 4:2053.
- 4:21I
- 4:21feel.
- 4:22I
- 4:22have
- 4:22energy.
- 4:23I
- 4:23feel
- 4:24just
- 4:24as.
- 4:25I'm
- 4:25probably
- 4:25better
- 4:26than
- 4:26I
- 4:26have.
- 4:26Yes.
- 4:27You
- 4:27know
- 4:27what?
- 4:28Yes.
- 4:28We
- 4:28also
- 4:29don't
- 4:29give
- 4:29as
- 4:29many
- 4:30fucks.
- 4:30As
- 4:30we
- 4:30used
- 4:30to.
- 4:31You
- 4:31know,
- 4:31it's
- 4:31like.
- 4:32Yeah,
- 4:32it
- 4:33doesn't
- 4:33matter.
- 4:33Exactly.
- 4:34We
- 4:34don't
- 4:35care
- 4:35about
- 4:35what
- 4:35other
- 4:36people
- 4:36are
- 4:36saying
- 4:36and
- 4:37thinking
- 4:37and
- 4:37doing.
- 4:37You
- 4:38know,
- 4:38it's
- 4:38about
- 4:39our
- 4:39time
- 4:39right.
- 4:39Now
- 4:39and
- 4:40what
- 4:40we
- 4:40want
- 4:40to
- 4:40do
- 4:41and
- 4:41what
- 4:41we
- 4:41want
- 4:41to
- 4:41accomplish.
- 4:42Yes.
- 4:43And
- 4:43I
- 4:43want,
- 4:43too.
- 4:44I
- 4:44love
- 4:44makeup.
- 4:45I
- 4:45love
- 4:45beauty.
- 4:46I
- 4:46want
- 4:46to
- 4:46do
- 4:46some
- 4:46modeling,
- 4:47and
- 4:47I
- 4:47want
- 4:48to
- 4:48help
- 4:48women.
- 4:49I
- 4:49want
- 4:50to
- 4:50help
- 4:50people.
- 4:51Not
- 4:51just
- 4:52women,
- 4:52not
- 4:52just
- 4:52people
- 4:52in
- 4:53domestic
- 4:54violence
- 4:54situations,
- 4:55but
- 4:56like
- 4:56you
- 4:56said,
- 4:57people
- 4:57who
- 4:57can't
- 4:58quite
- 4:58find
- 4:58their
- 4:59happiness,
- 5:00their
- 5:01confidence.
- 5:02Because
- 5:02I
- 5:03do
- 5:03have
- 5:03a
- 5:03lot
- 5:03of
- 5:03followers
- 5:04that
- 5:04aren't
- 5:04at
- 5:05all
- 5:05related
- 5:05to
- 5:06burns
- 5:06or
- 5:08abuse.
- 5:10And
- 5:11it's
- 5:11good
- 5:11to
- 5:11be
- 5:11able
- 5:12to
- 5:13live
- 5:14a
- 5:14life
- 5:14where
- 5:14you
- 5:14can
- 5:15help
- 5:15people.
- 5:16Lead
- 5:16by
- 5:16example.
- 5:17Yes.
- 5:17100%.
- 5:18100%.
- 5:19Which
- 5:19is
- 5:20what
- 5:20you're.
- 5:23The
- 5:23fire
- 5:23couldn't
- 5:24take
- 5:24my
- 5:24purpose
- 5:24because.
- 5:25Blank,
- 5:26you
- 5:27can
- 5:27find
- 5:28the
- 5:28pain
- 5:29built
- 5:29the
- 5:29purpose.
- 5:30I
- 5:31always
- 5:31say
- 5:32you
- 5:32turn
- 5:32pain
- 5:33into
- 5:33purpose.
- 5:33So
- 5:33the
- 5:34fire
- 5:34couldn't
- 5:35taint
- 5:35my
- 5:35purpose
- 5:35because
- 5:36it's
- 5:36part
- 5:36of
- 5:36it.
- 5:37That's
- 5:38right.
- 5:38I
- 5:38love
- 5:38how
- 5:38you've
- 5:39made
- 5:39this
- 5:39all
- 5:39your
- 5:40story
- 5:40and
- 5:40your
- 5:40journey.
- 5:41You've
- 5:41taken
- 5:41ownership
- 5:42of
- 5:42all
- 5:42of
- 5:42it,
- 5:42and
- 5:42I
- 5:42love
- 5:43that.
- 5:43Own
- 5:43it.
- 5:43I
- 5:44love
- 5:44that.
- 5:44I
- 5:44love
- 5:44that.
- 5:45Okay,
- 5:45how
- 5:46are
- 5:46you
- 5:46living
- 5:46iconically
- 5:47now?
- 5:47Iconically.
- 5:50You
- 5:51are
- 5:51an
- 5:51icon.
- 5:52I
- 5:52feel
- 5:52like
- 5:52iconically.
- 5:53That's
- 5:54amazing.
- 5:55I'm
- 5:55living
- 5:55my
- 5:56best
- 5:56life.
- 5:57I'm
- 5:57happy.
- 5:57When
- 5:58I
- 5:58get
- 5:58up,
- 5:58I'm
- 5:59just
- 5:59doing
- 5:59things.
- 6:00I'm
- 6:00taking
- 6:00care
- 6:01of
- 6:01myself
- 6:02and
- 6:03doing
- 6:03things
- 6:04that
- 6:04I
- 6:04wasn't
- 6:04doing
- 6:05for
- 6:05a
- 6:05lot
- 6:05of
- 6:05years.
- 6:06And
- 6:06when
- 6:07we
- 6:07get
- 6:07to
- 6:07midlife,
- 6:07we
- 6:08might
- 6:08start
- 6:08to
- 6:08slow
- 6:09down
- 6:09some
- 6:09things
- 6:10or
- 6:10just
- 6:10feel
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