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6 SIGNS YOU'RE DISCONNECTED FROM YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY (AND DON'T KNOW IT) · Erotic Spirit Podcast

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  SPEAKER_01: You are the only person in the way of expressing your desire.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, of course, you have all the complexities of life and how things impact other people.
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  SPEAKER_01: Great.
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  SPEAKER_01: But if you desire to be out there speaking on stages, if you desire to write a book or you desire to open a business, you're the only person getting in the way of that.
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  SPEAKER_01: You may say, well, the opportunities and the money, and there's so much truth to all of that, but you create your opportunities.
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  SPEAKER_00: My guests and I are simply sharing from our own journeys and experiences.
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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Rotic Spirit Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: My name is Jenna Lee, and this is where sexuality, embodiment, and soul meet.
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  SPEAKER_01: What if you are having sex but you're still disconnected from your sexual energy?
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  SPEAKER_01: Is that even possible?
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm here to tell you yes, it is.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because your sexual energy is just not how horny you are.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's connected to creativity, to money, to receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what I'm going through in this episode will just kind of give you all the ways that you could be disconnected from your sexual energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: The first thing that comes in is creative energy, creation, sexual energy is deeply connected to creation and creative energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is all the same.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I ended up writing a book in three weeks, an over 300-page book in three weeks.
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  SPEAKER_01: It just poured out of me.
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  SPEAKER_01: All of this creation poured out.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I've found, with that said, that when we're disconnected from our sexual energy, that creation can be more challenging.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your projects feel maybe stalled because the steps that you're trying to build out from it, it's just not being inspired.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or you're looking for the next idea for your business.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're looking to expand your business, but you're not finding the juice.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is where I see that connection there.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've seen it time and time again again.
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  SPEAKER_01: Our sexual energy and channeling that into creating something actually helps us open up to solutions, to see things that were happening and now see it in a different perspective.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because what is creating?
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  SPEAKER_01: Creating is actually also creating solutions.
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  SPEAKER_01: I had a challenge with something in my business, and there was something connected into money, and how was I going to get this going here and that?
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  SPEAKER_01: And I remember connecting into my sexual energy, and it's just not about having sex.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's just not about masturbation.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is just really connecting into my energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: And yes, there is that sexual energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: There is that innate movement, that life force energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I remember I actually had the solution come through while I was in practice.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I want to say practice while I was in that space of connecting.
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  SPEAKER_01: And the solution came through.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I was not looking for the solution, and that's not why I did it, but it was so clear.
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  SPEAKER_01: I I got cracked open and everything moved through me.
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  SPEAKER_01: And all of a all of the challenges seemed to really go away.
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  SPEAKER_01: It just was like, oh, okay, this is exactly clear and how I'm going to move through it.
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  SPEAKER_01: So you may find that things are stalled.
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  SPEAKER_01: It may be stalled for you in your business.
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  SPEAKER_01: You may find that your the projects that you're wanting to move forward feel like they're stalled and stagnant.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that creation energy in connected into our sexual energy is so important.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that is a big indicator.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when you're disconnected, the other really big indicator that I've seen is really having to do with our money.
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  SPEAKER_01: Very simply, if you feel like you are really confined or you're having challenges with money and producing more money, this is it could be an indicator that you're disconnected from your sexual energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, it could be other things, but I've found when I tune in and tap into my sexual energy that all the faucets flow.
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  SPEAKER_01: Meaning, money is also about receiving our sexual energy, receiving there, there's pleasure, there's connection into safety as well.
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  SPEAKER_01: I see energy as an exchange of safety, and I feel that creative energy, that sexual energy really is connecting us into all parts of ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_01: And do I feel safe enough to drop into that space?
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  SPEAKER_01: And so there's a lot that's connected in here with money, but there's a really deeper aspect too I want to dive into receiving as well.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's such a huge connection into receiving there's sexual energy, receiving that, being with that, knowing it, accepting it, and receiving money.
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  SPEAKER_01: So if I'm having challenges receiving pleasure, I will probably be having challenges receiving things in other areas, receiving compliments, receiving uh help and support.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what does that also include?
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  SPEAKER_01: Money.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, if I am not willing to receive someone else's support that may come in by an idea.
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe they have an idea and I'm just like so shut off that I'm gonna do this on my own.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna figure it out on my own.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I shut that off.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or I uh opportunities come in and I'm just not in that space of receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's it's gotta be this way.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is the way that my business is gonna take off.
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  SPEAKER_01: And being open to that receiving of different ways of different things of doing things, these opportunities, and that sexual energy is so, so deeply connected.
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  SPEAKER_01: When I'm in a state of flow of receiving that energy, I see everything else open up, and that I'm more receptive to things around me, and it's so fun.
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  SPEAKER_01: Speaking of fun, I have found there could be a disconnect from sexual energy if we are just too fucking serious, if we're just too serious in life, plainly.
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  SPEAKER_01: I have found that sexual energy can be really juicy and pleasurable, but there's such a depth of range of sexual energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: People think of, oh, like I just I'm horny, and it's like there it is.
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  SPEAKER_01: If we can go back to like this area of creation and creation energy, we are creating and writing the script as we go, and we allow fun to come in, we allow some playfulness to come in and not take things so serious.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when we actually are, I have found wherein I allow playfulness and silliness into sex, into intimacy, into the bedroom, that that just effortlessly rolls over into all areas of my life.
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  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't need to be serious, and so it's it's very easy to be take everything to its hundredth degree, and this is how it's supposed to be, and I I need to take my job very seriously because if I do don't, it's not gonna get done.
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  SPEAKER_01: And a lot of times I have found from my personal experience that when I take the joy out of things, I don't I get closed off to other perspective that's actually going to make my job easier, whatever that is.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so this playful energy that just drops in, and it just why not?
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  SPEAKER_01: I just invite that curiosity.
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  SPEAKER_01: Why not?
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  SPEAKER_01: Why not allow that playfulness to come in and connect that when we're in that space in the bedroom and we're working with that sexual energy and let that merge into all areas of our life?
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  SPEAKER_01: I have also found that when I'm really connected into my sexual energy, that it appears that I'm magnetic.
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  SPEAKER_01: I wouldn't have characterized that myself until someone else pointed that out.
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  SPEAKER_01: Someone else would kind of like point out this way that I would carry myself.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's just this confidence, this way that I walk into a room and I don't need to ask for permission.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm just truly myself.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so when I'm connected to that with my sexual energy, I found that that just effortlessly flows out into all other areas.
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  SPEAKER_01: So this magnetism happens.
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  SPEAKER_01: This area where I get to really quite frankly, all it is is really just being me.
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  SPEAKER_01: But what happens when someone seems magnetic is there's this pull.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's this literally this pull to them.
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  SPEAKER_01: They have something about them that makes you want to know more.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I have found that it's this mirror, this mirror that that person is embodying them true self.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what what the other person is being attracted to is how do I be that?
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  SPEAKER_01: How do I really embody that too?
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm attracted to this energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I found when the uh being a part of disconnected from sexual energy, that can kind of that funnel can feel like it turns off.
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  SPEAKER_01: It just feels like someone turned back the dial and this expression just kind of seems, I don't want to say dull, but it just can feel really um like there's something more that is being hidden.
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  SPEAKER_01: And if something is being hidden, that could be felt.
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  SPEAKER_01: That does not feel magnetic.
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  SPEAKER_01: If anything, that might even feel repellent.
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  SPEAKER_01: So being disconnected can feel like you're not magnetic, but also it can feel repellent.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, and uh connection into that sexual energy can just aliven that.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've also felt, which is just really similar.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's it's a similar way of saying it, but this this aliveness.
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  SPEAKER_01: I I feel like this aliveness within me when I'm really connected into my energy transfers out.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this what feels like life feels boring if I'm not connected into my sexual energy, like it's um just uh not that it's like I have to be having sex.
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  SPEAKER_01: The sexual energy is not about having sex, it is connected to that life force energy within me, to that juiciness, the pleasure of life, which is bringing this aliveness.
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  SPEAKER_01: And and it's just the pleasures of life, the pleasures of sex, the pleasures of sexuality, of my sexual energy, but then also the pleasure of eating this amazing meal and feeling alive while doing it, just feeling alive and letting that be the forefront of how I move forward in life.
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  SPEAKER_01: So sometimes it could feel like life just feels root can feel really dull.
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  SPEAKER_01: So there's opportunity to explore pleasure and let that aliveness be remembered, really, because all we're doing is just remembering.
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  SPEAKER_01: Remembering we go through ebbs and flows of in life, and when energy feels stagnant, this is the time where how do we mix it up?
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  SPEAKER_01: How do I change up the energy of my life if the same thing is happening over and over again?
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  SPEAKER_01: Try something different, connect it in to my own pleasure, to my own bliss, and I don't need someone else for that.
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  SPEAKER_01: If anything, I really invite you to move into that understanding yourself first so that you know how that feels.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that is really empowering because you don't need someone to be in your pleasure, to be in your aliveness.
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  SPEAKER_01: The big thing that I've seen is also this like desire in life, this like low, this low desire.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, um, I just don't, I might feel like I just don't have desire to do something, or I don't have desire to be something.
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  SPEAKER_01: And maybe it looks like your projects aren't moving forward and you're okay with it, but like you're like, ah, am I?
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  SPEAKER_01: Um maybe you found that things that used to make you happy aren't making you happy anymore.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that could also mean that you're evolving, but it is just bringing in a curiosity, like, hey, even if what used to bring me happiness doesn't anymore, it's because I don't resonate, but I'm not actually doing anything about that.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like this this low desire for life.
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  SPEAKER_01: It when I feel disconnected from my sexual energy, it's like that feeling of that low desire within me, within that moment, like anything can be things can be happening connected to my sexual energy, and it just it's not fulfilling me.
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  SPEAKER_01: And being able to see that low desire and life is not a way that you have to live can really change your life.
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  SPEAKER_01: You can have a desire for everything in your life.
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  SPEAKER_01: Give yourself permission to fuck what everyone says.
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  SPEAKER_01: You can enjoy and have desire every ounce that drips out in life for you to explore.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes, desire.
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  SPEAKER_01: Desire is really what is it that I want, and now there's a step to it, though.
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  SPEAKER_01: How do I create a life that is aligned in that desire?
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's not just having the wishes out there, it's actually taking the steps, and we can connect back into that sexual energy again, that creation energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: What solutions am I creating to be in alignment?
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  SPEAKER_01: Where am I creating my life that aligns to that?
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  SPEAKER_01: And knowing that I am worthy of exactly the life that I envision.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's okay to want.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's okay, it's okay to want.
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  SPEAKER_01: If anything, we we deserve it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when our cup is filled up so high, and we pour into ourselves, that is where we're overflowing from.
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  SPEAKER_01: So picture your cup, picture your cup just overflowing up, up, up, and you get to give from there instead of the bottom of the cup.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that is what I have found that desire can really do.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like desire overflows.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I find that like giving ourselves permission to be in that space actually just really um mirrors that for people outside of us.
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  SPEAKER_01: So really letting yourself just shine, just shine, shine your desire, and really connecting into your sexual energy and having like that that practice and and what that means to you to move into desire.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, what is it that I desire with my sexual energy?
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  SPEAKER_01: What is it that makes me feel good and figuring that out?
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe you may not know what that means.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you know, you may even find um like I something's coming in where it's connected to someone asks you, oh, you know, um what do you want to do for dinner today?
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, this this way of looking at desire is what is it that fills you up in in all areas of your life?
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  SPEAKER_01: So if you find yourself asking those questions or really not having answers to questions, and you're just like, I'm just gonna always go with the flow, it's such an invitation and such a time for you to be in your power of desire and figuring out what that also means for you with your sexual energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, what is it that really enlivens you when you're in that space?
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  SPEAKER_01: What is that that really comes online or supports that facilitation of coming online to your sexual energy?
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  SPEAKER_01: And and it doesn't need to be with someone else.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'll say that a million times over.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, what is it right here, right now, that would just bring those juices of life and and help me connect into my sexual desire, letting that be a guiding light and being curious and knowing that you can change.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you do something that you don't like, you can change it.
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  SPEAKER_01: You can bend a different way, you can try something else, you don't have to go back and do anything again that you don't like, but you don't know until you try it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes you don't know what you like until you actually try it, and it's getting the courage to have a desire and express it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And if you're if you're solo, right, like having that desire and getting to express it, and you're the only Person that is in the way of that desire coming to fruition.
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  SPEAKER_01: So take that example and you take that outside of your sexual energy, that same framework.
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  SPEAKER_01: You are the only person in the way of expressing your desire.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_01: Now, of course, you have all the complexities of life and how things impact other people.
• 22:28
  SPEAKER_01: Great.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_01: But if you desire to be out there speaking on stages, if you desire to write a book or you desire to open a business, you're the only person getting in the way of that.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_01: And you may say, well, the opportunities and the money, and there's so much truth to all of that, but you create your opportunities.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you first start with your desires and what do you want?
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  SPEAKER_01: And it is totally okay for you to not know what you want.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's totally okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Giving yourself that compassion too as well works.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, and this is not a like um definitive way of saying that just because you feel like you're just always agreeable with someone, that something is wrong, it just really invites you into your power.
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  SPEAKER_01: It just brings curiosity into how is it that you want to show up?
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, or maybe you're just tired and you're like, I don't want to make a decision right now.
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  SPEAKER_01: You do it.
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  SPEAKER_01: So that's the a little tangent there, but it's it's totally okay to be in the spaces where you're feeling um that as well.
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  SPEAKER_01: So getting back into being disconnected from your sexual energy and how that really shows up in your life, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: We've all these things, money, receiving, creation, creative energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so now it's just really inviting you to tune in to your sexual energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe you thought your sexual energy and all the things that it impacts is just you and the bedroom and right there, or you and your solo, your solo space.
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  SPEAKER_01: I believe it goes much deeper.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that when when we tune in and accept these spaces of us and love all parts of ourselves through it, we open these doors outside in of the bedroom.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because really that's what it's all about is connection into all the things about us.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_01: Our sexual energy seems like it could be something that's very narrow and and it can feel very taboo to talk about sex.
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  SPEAKER_01: But if you are feeling stalled in areas in your life, some of the areas that I've mentioned, then there it's very possible that that disconnect to your sexual energy is what is blocking it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so this is now that opportunity to challenge yourself so that you can really open up doors and change your life in different ways.
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  SPEAKER_01: So tune in.
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  SPEAKER_01: Don't let your um, don't let anything that seems taboo and say, well, that that has nothing to do with me.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let these invitations allow you to really go deeper into yourself.
• 26:07
  SPEAKER_01: So hopefully that resonates with you.
• 26:10
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• 26:13
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• 26:18
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• 26:22
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• 26:25
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